I Watched It Happen to Her When I Should Have Helped
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- Опубликовано: 19 сен 2020
- I learned a hard lesson during the fifth grade that will stay with me forever . We were only 10 years old - you could say we were too young to know any better - but there's no excuse.., not for this.
The 5th grade was not a great year for me. I had no friends and remember feeling very much alone. My brother was in another class so I couldn't talk to him . I was always singled out of everything . I wasn't a shy person. Well, maybe a little. I guess I just liked to focus on my education and I preferred to work independently. This made it hard to make friends with my peers . What made it even harder was how toxic I felt many of them were .
Thankfully I enjoyed learning, and that's all that really mattered to me at the time . Every day I just kept my head down and got on with my work as normal, until one day, there was an interruption in the normal routine. An unfamiliar woman walked into our classroom with this kid trailing behind her head down. Our teacher smiled and called for our attention . "Class, we have a new student who will be joining you. Everyone, please meet your newest classmate, Brianna."
I don't know when or why exactly it happened, but my classmates got sick of her silence. They started messing with her . Soon the rumors began to spread. One thing to note about Brianna - she was a really pretty girl, but her clothes and shoes often had stains or holes in them . They started calling her poor and dirty. They said that she smelled and that she hadn't showered in a month . When they told her to her face she was an orphan and that no one loved her, she finally reacted, but with tears. This went on for about another month, until that day came that I will never forget.
It was the end of recess. The class was lined up on the basketball court waiting to go inside . I was waiting in the back of the line just behind Brianna. Though I never stuck up for her directly, I always made sure to give her a little smile . I sometimes said hi to her, and I could tell it made her day because she always said hi back and smiled . That day at recess, in the back of the line, I smiled and said hi. She grinned and it made me so happy . But the happiness on our faces disappeared when a group of boys, her main bullies, came over from the front of the line .
I turned to Brianna. Tears were falling from her eyes. I remember exactly what I said to her. "You don't stink." I said firmly. "You're good." I gave her an encouraging smile and she looked at me with gratitude, but also sadness. That look has stayed with me ever since . "Thanks" she murmured. The line started moving and the class walked back to our room . When I turned around, Brianna was nowhere to be seen. Where had she gone?
"It has come to my attention that your classmate Brianna has been badly bullied by THIS VERY CLASS . Brianna. A sweet girl who only just joined us, who did not have a bad word to say to anybody . Instead of lifting her up, you saw weakness and you tore her down, calling her names and even telling her the earth would be a better place without her." She paused and looked down at the floor. "As some of you may know, Brianna hasn't been in school for two weeks now . Her parents have just informed me that..." She paused again. "Brianna tried to take her own life."
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I'm glad he didn't get punished! He stood up for Brianna!
Same
For everyone who reads this, virtual hugs go to all, including Brianna 🤗
Bruh I have depression oh my thank u
🤗
U 2 dea.. stay safe...
Thank you, we needed it.
@@jupiterplayz8392 🤗
Thank God Brianna is OK.. A huge salute to the person who stood by her side.. 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
No one really did tbh, yes the guy stood up for her but literally every other day she was bullied no one really did anything. When she attempted and was lucky enough to survive then people stood by her, but that just shows what it took for her to finally get noticed.
Bruh these vids are faker than my marriage
@@energy5218 seemz lke u r going through a rough time.. Tke cre.. God Bless...
This is fake lol
@@stalinclips8456 Mmhmm.. but amazing story, isn't ???
This video is the complete opposite of the title, he was literally the only one who stood up to her, he's anything but a bystander. Also nice to see that a school actually do something against bullies.
Samuele Bincoletto yep
Samuele Bincoletto and do you think the title should say: “they bullied her to the point were I had enough”
@@sergeantwillyt8860 That would be a way better title.
Yes
at least the story is more believable (did I spell it wrong? let me know)
The punishment was not enough, she suffered so much because of the kids who think that making fun of someone is okay 😡
It is not enough! Bullies should get criminal charges
they should have been expelled, the ones that caused the most pain and the others severely punished taking away their phones is NOT enough
@@grobanite4ever85 It does in the state of Massachusetts and a few other states you should watch this documented film its very moving
the bully project
Well I can agree on that. But I think most of the kids were just by standers. And you can’t expel the hull class! Can you?
Not enough more homework that it
Kids can be cruel.
Trust me, I know from experience.
same :
Yeah •~•
Yea, I love how people bully others and the moment they die they start apologizing and saying nice things about them. I don't like that. You should be nice to people in the first place when they still alive.
me too kid. me too
@@sparklyloveyou20 exactly
What's the point of trying to make someone else's day worse?
I don't know why but some people are just that messed up
According to them. It's fun. Not like they have anything better to do..
it's just really toxic
Vasw Ts then they are dumbasses
@@sergeantwillyt8860 Yup.
i bully ppl cuz ppl was bulling me in the past 2nd i hate nerds
Sometimes I wonder what do kids really gain from bullying :(
Un. Fortunately Sometimes they do it for fun or maybe they are taking out their anger/sadness from home if something happened etc.
Un. Fortunately nothing
I don't know. Maybe it makes them feel good to belittle others. You know, instead of rising yourself, push others down, something like that.
@@suchisubhrabhattacharya4387 true or maybe to get attention from others Bc there not getting any attention at home
Idk maybe
I was bullied in school too. And I wondered why other students wouldn't help or defend me. Now I can see that maybe they didn't want to become targets. But there were always maybe a couple students who at least didn't pick on me. I wonder what was going through their minds. And I have aspergers. I had lots of fixations and such, and I guess I talked funny. It was pretty painful when I tried telling the teachers and they wouldn't believe me - the kids would lie. And if I tried insulting them back, they would tell on me and the teachers would believe them. It's just wrong. Teach children to be good to others instead of spotting weaknesses and tearing down other children for that.
The way and reason we got bullied is similar. If I told my teacher though she would say stuff like “I don’t care” or “let me teach” and even recommended that my parents put me in special-Ed school. And the main reason for me being bullied was that I was an over-sensitive kid with ADHD (I never outgrew my ADHD) This was in elementary school btw, so it was a while ago but I still remember it clearly
Well, sad but true, 94% of kids with ASD tend to be verbally bullied at school, 70% are also physically bullied. I have Asperger syndrome too, and I was bullied at elementary and in middle school, whenever I told the teachers about them, they would say "they do It go everyone", "don't listen to them". Really? How can I not listening to them when I go to their same school? Teachers must stop thinking bullying is normal in childhood and teen years, because....is...not! Most of bullying victim tend to suffer from anxiety, depression, self-harming tendencises and self-isolation. I, for example, prefer to spend most of my time watching TV or on my phone, because people in television are perfect. (Well, not always perfect, but they are not always double faced, and if they are, they then get punished)
thank u for speaking up youre brave
this is horrible. being bullied isnt cool or fun.
The thing is, most bullies cant help it. They bully because it makes them feel better, most likely because something has happened to them at home.
I don't Understand what will these bullies really get when they see sadness in others eyes.. moreover, Y can't the parents teach something good to them, to respect others ?? Seeing only weakness in others, is actually the one who is a coward...
If I were to bully and my parents would find out I would be in big trouble. Ny parents don’t tolerate bullying as much as me
@@awesomekingakathe66bro36 you have good & amazing parents...
Bullying is such a brutal reality
Awww this hit really hard because I’m a victim of terrible bullying too.
Edit: i cant respond to everyone, so I’m just gonna say it as an edit... but THANK YOU guys so much! ❤️ y’all are so sweet in the replies and thx so much for reassuring me, you guys really helped me and i appreciate you all! 🥲 ❤️
I'm sorry😞
Same mate
Just know they are wrong about you and you are worth so much! You will get through this!
I’m so sorry to anyone gets bullied. Bullies do it because they have issues and don’t know how to solve them. Don’t take it personally. And remember that it won’t be forever and when you’re successful, whatever that means for you, you can be different from them ❤️
That sucks :(
poor Brianna , the guy did right when he stood up for her
Original title: I watched it happen to her when I should of helped
They always change the title lol
@@aniyahdear7313?
@@rem.4561 what ?
@@aniyahdear7313 What do u mean "what's wrong with u?" Oh u recently just changed your comment didn't see that.
@@aniyahdear7313 No..
WHY IS THIS SO SIMILAR TO MY LIFE??
i was extremely badly bullied, the bullies said the same things to me, and i tried to take my own life. the only difference is nobody got punished and i stayed in the same class
And some people think this stories are fake......
Drifter, I'm so sorry. You NEVER deserved that. I wish you the BEST. I HOPE you see my comment
"Bullying has an impact on people's lives" this should be a message for all bullies out there.
Unfortunately this is the world we live in. People would rather tear each other down than lift each other up. Good on you man for standing up to them and good on the teacher for taking action to.
He actually did stand up for her
Sometimes it takes courage
but he did it.
He was never bullying her, he was 10. he should not be blamed for this. he actually stood up for her for once
plz dont judge him
Thank you
You made the right decision by standing up those bullies to protect that poor girl named Brianna now that's what I call Akhtar bravery they're just being just an innocent bystander being afraid that the boys might turn on your next but sometimes you just got to stand up and let them know no you guys maybe bullies but that doesn't mean that you own everything you're lucky that you became one of the lucky ones they're Brianna they allowed you to to get less homework and more reset timer and also access to your iPad that's a friendship is for I don't know one thing Rihanna will be very happy to see this video you put up for her👌🏽
Brianna a human being and no one deserves to be treated like that now she's made new friends and smiles more than she did before she even came to say high to you Skyler
I remember when I was in 5th grade there was this new girl that came to our school. The older girls immediately noticed her differences and bullied her the same way Briana was bullied in this story. Soon the whole class then the whole grade joined in and started bullying her. I was the only one who was nice to her. And then at the end of the year our teacher finally confronted our class and now that girl is doing better and we say hi to each other in the hall.
Wait- ..is this your story? 👀
@@ValentinaxEdits lol no I never submitted a story to minute videos. My story is just very similar to this one expect that in my story, the girl who was bullied never tried to end her life.
This video actually got a lump inside my throat and was about to cry. Minute videos is doing such a great work in bringing up experinces like this which teaches people lessons.
You're a great friend standing up to those bullies
typical of American schools. they waited for something to happen and do something abt it. lucky for her to be alive
This doesn't happen to just american schools kiddo.
I am Vlad WTF he just was informing him,that just makes you sound like an asshole,not a person who stands up for what’s right,not even close *kiddo*
@I am Vlad bro he didn’t even insult anybody, he literally just informed him that this does not happen only in American schools. What the hell is your problem?
@I am Vlad I think you miss read what they were saying, it was just to inform people that bullying isn't just an American issue but a world wide issue...reread the sentence again...next time..dont just to conclusions
@I am Vlad did he like delete a comment or something, because I don’t see anything mean that the kid wrote
Bullying isn't a joke
This might snatch someone's child, someone's sibling, someone's precious.
Why is life so cruel
i can understand why you would feel that way. u must be going through something hard. im sorry u feel that way but i promise it will get better
Be a buddy not a bully
That’s right
I'm 21 now but I remember in second grade there was this girl named Brianna as well. She was really heavyset and had to walk with braces. Since the very first day she came, 90% of our class bullied her. My best friend and i stood up for her every time. But that wasn't enough. I would see her crying in the bathroom or waiting outside for our parents after school. After about a week we never saw her again. My teacher said she was bullied so much her mother decided to homeschool her. I was sad. She has the kindest heart if you got to know her. The world is so mean and cruel. We need to learn to live each other. For who we are. Rich or poor. Disabled or healthy. Deaf or hearing. None of that should matter. Our heart should shine through
I PRAYED she wouldn't PASS
I'm SO GLAD
She is alive
THE RELIEF!!!!!
I've been in the same situation as Brianna I had my head lice during my middle school no one would sit next to me they treated me like a plague I had no friends and had to eat alone walk by classes alone the boys moved away everytime I walked by this continued till high school even after I got rid of it but I'm glad someone stood up for Brianna thinking about my school days leaves me in pain :(
I don't mean to be rude but why did you go to school with lice??
@@soleil8786 I got it from my cousin I tried so many ways but they kept coming off just before entering my high school I got rid of it finally everyone noticed it too but they still chose to be that way
@@soleil8786 when I went to college I've seen people having the same problem but they didn't get treated the way I was highschool can be a nightmare for some
@@sindhujalincykumar9351 ohh ok
@@soleil8786 😅
Those bullies are pure evil and that they deserve to be punished.
This channel is underrated for me. Their stories are so amazing... Not like Actually Happened, Teen Stories or other shits. Even if these stories are sometimes made up, you cannot ignore the fact, that thing like this happens in our world and people sometimes must go through the horror or at least witness it...
"actually happened" has been deleted anyway
I’m glad he stood up for her and yeah maybe he could’ve done more, but she knew he cared. Even if he stood up for her only once he made a difference and she understood this
I also went through a lot of bullying which made me depressed the same thing as Brianna. WE LOVE YOU BRIANNA!!!💗💖
I've always had an intense dislike for bullies. I mean I get that many bully due to their own personal circumstances and issues they have, and go for those that make them insecure an all, but seriously, it serves no purpose or gain to anyone in the end. Live and Let live.
Where the hell was the teacher?!
Bruh where were they
when one of my friend got bullied I stood up for her. But teacher didn't do anything. Teachers doesn't even care.
Exactly!!!!!!
5th grade overall was the year in school in America at least is when most people change as well as their perspective on life, so I believe it was this year that traumatized in many ways than one.
Wow such a beautiful story 😭
Thank you to this teacher and to the boy who stood up for Brianna. I know from experience how mean people can be so thank you
this video made me sob😫💔Brianna didn’t deserve that awe poor thing
Nobody is ugly we just live in a judgemental society
Thank you for those who stands up for people who are bullied by other peers
Love this teacher. She knows what she's doing.👍🏾
Brianna,If you're reading this:You are an amazing angel💖.
To me,the quieter people are the most special and unique ones,that's why my bffs aren't really extroverted.
To the people who bully not average people:the society's changing.Get used to the "not average people" because now the world is getting more diversed and each day more people are accepting their differences/uniquenesses.Bullying is never ok.Tearing someone down is never ok,because you never know what's going inside those ppl's minds.If you get to know those ppl,you r most likely going to make some great friends💖.
No one shouldn’t have to take their own life because of bullying 😔
When are you guys going to finish Tilly Lockey’s story
Yeah, I Wanna Know To!
@@saucybash4587 I think they finished 1 week ago
I cried so hard!, When I watched this because I went through the same thing 😭
Same. I was also sadly bullied during middle and high school, but I'm okay now.
I’m feeling the lost of my battle over bullying
Causing me depression anxiety and abuse
pls know your feelings are valid and its ok to feel defeated but i promise things get better from here pls tell me if there is anything i can do to help
I just wanna hug this girl so freaking bad!😫😫💔💔
Such a warming story.
at least skyler is a good guy with brianna while other can still feel the guilt
Briana, keep being you girl! To guy who stood up for her, you are a good person who made a small mistake. And to everyone who bullied Briana, I hope ya'll know now that bullying is never ok.
Thank you for standing up for her thats take a lot of courage poor Brianna so happy she’s doing well now. Also ur accent is everything 💕
This is so sad. I am currently crying
I hate billing so much I had to go through it so much in school but I'm glad that she's OK and she's doing better
When I see people get bullied I intervine to help them but they do t do the same for me 😔
im sorry they abandoned u like that u deserve more then that
To all those victims always remember that you're human beings too. Don't let others drag you down just because of some flaws.. We all deserve to be treated respectfully.
Spread the word of stop bullying like this video is presented. As someone who’s been bullied myself, I can tell you for certain that it’s not pretty. also we need more teachers like this in the story to stand up to bullying instead of always not doing anything. Continue to spread the message of anti-bullying
I think we can all agree that all of us have been victims of bullying. No matter how severe it was, it's still a reminder of how cruel this world can be to us.
I’m so sad watching this video. I was severely bullied when I was in public school in the inclusion program. No one stood up for me not even my teacher period this has made me a huge activist in the autism community to stand up against bullying.
I agree completely, but thankfully, some kids can be good and do the right thing as well... It's wrong to make fun of anyone who is different, what is supposedly a harmless joke to one person, can be extremely harmful to someone else... More people need to raise awareness against bullying in my opinion.
I'm going to cry 😭
if you know someone being bullied
STAND UP FOR THEM! every little bit matters :)
Poor girl she's so beautiful
"The earth would be better off without you..."
Bro, do you know the damage that does to a person? I've thought that about myself, but having it said to my face... I would be depressed forever.
I'm glad that Brianna is alright.
Even hearing it from the voice in your head can harm ya. Not as bad as this, but still.
@@DiamondAviator4 Yea for sure!
The sad world we live in ..... I pray for everyone
this generation of schooling breads bullying on a whole new level compared to past generations
There’s no point in ruining someone’s day
It won’t improve yourself
It won’t help you with your grades
It won’t help you with your emotions
A smile could save someone’s life
You are a kind man who went through a hard lesson
This actually made me cry and made me think of when I got bullied ... I feel bad for Brianna I hope she's doing good
u are so kind and thougtful im so sorry u experienced those things
Wow! If only everyone being bullied had someone like this to stand up for them
WAIT THIS HAPPENED IN ELEMENTARY SCHOOL?? sickening...
That might of been a “joke” but there’s a difference between harmful jokes and harmless jokes. You don’t have to like or be friends with someone. But you should still be respectful and leave them alone. Bullying is never the answer.
This story melts me, amazing message to be honest a lot of these stories I think would be great to show in school especially to younger groups (like junior high age) to catch attention. I would Of definitely took from a lot of these stories back then. Very educational and keeps your attention the whole time!
Whoever stood by Briannas side is a king
I am a very quite girl but when it comes to someone being bullied i will sure open my mouth and defend that person
We all deserve to be treated with love & respect ❤
Knowing the world Is like this is horrible I cried when I heard she tried to take her own life.I hope is better now my heart breaks when I hear stories like this I hope every one can here this story and be told about what bullying can do to people😔🥺
I've been bullied before, it's not fun. So please be kind to everyone because you never know thier circumstances.
the teacher didn't punish then enough like this girl almost died because of them, if I was her I would give them 10 pages of each subject of homework a day, no breaks in class, cut lunch to 15 minutes, and you aren't allowed to talk at all. This would be the minimum punishment
God bless that boy and Brianna
Some students groan: “Oh what?!” 😂😂😂
What do you mean “Oh what?!”? Stupid people will be stupid.
Remember:
Bullies are more insecure than who they bully. Don't let them get you down
Thank god she is okay ❤️ but this is a lesson to all people...💯
Good on ya' for standing up for her. Take my claps.
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
in the end he stood up for her , being bystander is worst thing of your life , i know everyone fear will get bullied some of them want to help the girl but they scare get pick , you can see main character very pissed have been hide the emtion and angry inside him and he protect her he just tired enough and worry for her .
we need more kids like him, normal kids that don't look/cause drama for no apparent reason, and the kids that actually have common sense
That’s Happened To Me Too I Was Bullied Too She Not Alone
I was bullied two. until I one day I fought back only like literally fought back, it may have been the wrong way to deal with it, but it worked.
@@bartman9400 that’s how I deal with it. Works every time.
are u ok ? that was awful and i hope u are alright im here for u if u need
Was Bullied My Life That’s Why Never Had True Friend
@@James90 im sorry that happened to u i hope it gets better
Brianna sounds like such a beautiful, intelligent, and kind student. Such a shame people look at others and think of what they don’t like about them vs what they do.
This made me cry so much, her story is so similar to mine
its ok to cry and i am so glad u have someone to relate to pls continue to be strong for yourself the world is a better place because u are here
@@milkbunny2487 these words are so kind, thank you very very much♡♡ I think the same about you, I wish there were more people like you
Im so sorry you had to hear that from your teacher Valentin!
I was bullied all through school and at home. I wished I had help. It really affected throughout my life.
i hope u can heal now take as long as u need to heal from the pain and bullying u experincied
To this day, I still can't figure out this conundrum; who has it worse than the one(s) who WATCHED it happen
I know how it's feels to get bullied
people are so messed up im so sorry u went through that awful experience i hope u can heal from it
This hit me very hard i was bullied for 8 years and have a trauma i tried taking my live but im better now im getting therapy but still have bad thoughts i used to cut but i bite and scratch my self when i have one of my attacks i hope no one will have to go thru bullying or anything bad i would love for this world to be a save and equal place for everyone i hope you stay save
@@aaaaaaahelpme thanks im trying to help people like me now on tictok and sharing my therapy experience so thay know its ok to get help from others
There should be some kind of punishment with negative points or something for every bully. And then when he/she tries to go to some other learning institution (like e.g. uni) those negative points should be taken into a consideration and affect their place on rang list or somethig (to influence their life later, they should really feel the conequences of doing bad things to someone)
Bad @$$ bullies are a reflection of their up bringing..some kids are even encouraged to be this way..bad and broken kids are the result of some adult..always..
I was bullied once by my best friends. It wasn't intense or anything, but it made me stop standing up for myself and even turn to someone who dosen't even have a personality. I don't exactly know how I came out and became the person I am, but i know that i did it alone. And that lifts me up knowing that even though no one actually got me out of that, I helped myself. Now, whenever I see someone alone in class, someone who is sitting by themselves, I always say hi, help them and smile- because sometimes one smile can change someone's day.
♡
God I see Brianna in me during my first day in my new school, though I'm not smart but I'm always the quiet one
and whenever I talk, it's always a whisper and a few people leaned into me to hear me better
and a group of boys teased me and bullied me bc I'm quiet and don't wear snazzy clothing
and plus I don't look "good" as the other girls at school
These boys basically didn't touch me and when they do they wipe them off of using their clothes and when it's my things or the things I touched they hold it as trash
Luckily these boys are expelled but these scars always haunt me after 5 years
that experience took a major toll on my mental health and my academic performance