Therapist Reacts to The Kill by 30 Seconds to Mars
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- Опубликовано: 3 окт 2024
- Therapist analyzes the lyrics and music video of The Kill by 30 Seconds To Mars to discuss the desire to "bury" or destroy the parts of ourselves that we don't like. Instead, we can use the lyrics as a call to "break down" those painful parts to try to understand them and then bury them in the dirt like we would a seed as a way to integrate and grow.
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I can't hear this song without running the Chad Smith's Drumeo video because it's SO amazing. Great reaction.
I loved Chads play through!
-The Video Editor
Will Ferrell killed that Drummer play through
Dang low self esteem side of me
Omg me too!
I can see him just knowing what to do.
@@KarbonSymlol I had always thought of that. Then, I knew I wasn't the only one
She became my therapist without me even asking for one.
This song is so good, say what you will about Jared's acting/movies... the amount of emotion he put into this song's lyrics and singing is beyond amazing.
Jared's a great actor. He just has suffered from poor writing. He would have been an excellent Joker with better writing.
@@jhamilton1007 completely agree!
@@jhamilton1007 Hell, he did a great acting job as Morbius. That movie just suffered from lazy writing and awful editing.
@@mylindathurston3410 I agree.
I think i'd say more about Jared's character than his acting. He's a fine, even good actor. Great vocalist too. But pretty much all I've heard of him from anyone who has met or worked with him, is that hes a pretentious creep
I think it's very clear at the end of the video that both personalities are still together meaning that you can't really get rid of your dark side but you can embrace it and use it to become someone better someone stronger
I love the old 30 seconds to Mars. Jared Leto is beautiful
Agree 💯 He is beautiful
Sooo much talent!
Video is a Shining movie homage...❤🇨🇦
Apparently she didn't see it clearly
I've been battling Parkinson's Disease since 1986, 38 years now. It tell my friends that this is my conversation with parkinsons every day
What have you done to keep it at bay? My mother was diagnosed with it about six months ago. She is 76. Any help would be appreciated.
I always thought this song was about getting your heart broken and trying to move on. You’ve opened my eyes
First time I saw this dude was in a 90's show called My So Called Life, little did we know, he would get this popular all these years later.
I still call him Jordan Catalano lmao
@@JoyfulCrow
I had to think about that for a moment, then the name rang a bell. What happened to the last thirty years... lol In all seriousness though, considering that show had an up and coming Claire Danes, I don't know if anyone saw the loner/rebel type in that show turning out the way he did. He was good on that show, I just didn't see it coming. lol
I gotta say even as a nu-metal obsessed fan; in the early 2000s, 30 Seconds to Mars was a welcomed and completely unexpected surprise. I friggin, love this band and in my case it especially helps that Jared Leto is the lead vocalist. I have been a huge fan of his since forever. Anyways, the video is based on the events of Stephen King's The Shining.
Their first album was so fucking good, no bad tracks at all
Leto is beyond underrated.
Not underrated, just thinks he's greater than he is. Their music took a turn when they released Kings and Queens and the 'This is War' album. Had they stayed true to this sound and Jared hadn't gone all "Hollywood" there would be no hate.
@@Chris-eo9lv TIW brought them the most recognition.
Which one? Jared or Shannon? I'm assuming you mean Jared, but his brother is the drummer as well.
Nothing can exist in light without darkness. They co-exist, at the end of the video it shows the harmony of the two.
Awesome analysis. Something I'd like to say for the viewers.
3:00-4:05 This is a call to those who struggle in this way. You have to fight. You have to be ready to fight. Don't let the point "where nothing seems to change" stop you. Many have tried and prevailed, because they never lost the fight.
From someone that has been there.
Although I collected over 2.500 loved tracks, top songs, by now, this one stands out and always gives me goose bumps, pure energy.
I love this song, I'm genX we were taught to bury it. Put trauma in a box, deal later. So I think they did a great job of expressing it does stay with you. The 3 days becoming a week. Every song they make really speaks to me
This song has been so underrated for years. I feel like people are finally starting to get it. I have so much inner turmoil from years of abuse (sexual, mental, physical) and my mother murdered when I was around 8yrs and the man I thought was my dad murdered yrs later. I dont always know who I am
I can relate.... trauma and moving on living with it. Yeah this young gal ..
In a few songs has done more for me than yrs of different therapists 😢
Thank you so much for this therapy. Normally what keeps us in an anxiety and depression state is negative thoughts. Identifying them and knowing the motive you can choose to trigger your mind to a more positive state. The world is overwhelmed with problems, we have to be strong within so we could live a life peacefully, happier, and loved life.🌏🌎🌍🙏❤️🕊️
I just got out of a really really toxic relationship where I used to be the side piece for about 5 years. Got manipulated thousand times. Now I feel that that part of me is dying, I don’t want to be low self esteemed anymore. Just found this and it’s great for this time. Greetings from
Venezuela!
Why is this song so relatable for me, i loved the song already but now even more!😫🥰
Your reactions and views hits the spot every single time. I really appreciate and enjoy your reactions.
Just now discovered your channel and I really appreciate it! I my self are struggling with depression and anxiety.. And music helps me a lot and hearing you talk about everything…. It feels good. It’s helping. Thank you for sharing your professional knowledge.
Greetings from Sweden 🇸🇪
omg I never saw the song this way!! Really shifted my perspective of what the song means. I thought it was about a relationship...
Even without makeup she is absolutely gorgeous
God blessed Jered in every way, great actor, great voice, and who hasn't wished to be that beautiful.
Its such a complex lyrics, Jared went all in for it like a pro! Sometimes our other selfs are trying to protect us from possible future traumas (anxiety) and it really can bend us to the idea that we don't want to suffer anymore with those warning thoughts, thus shoving your feelings deep down, trying to "kill it", when in reallity we should be understanding all parts of ourselves, the good and the bad ones, so we can grow lighter within dealing with situations that life presents to us 🥰 Great reaction and interpretation of it!
Your video found me for a reason. I’ve always loved this song but never really ‘heard’ it before.
Struggling with my mental health ATM but this explanation has ignited me to fight out of my darkness.
Thank you
Now I know why I relate to this song so much. 10 years clean and life is so much different than the person I was before.
I just fell in love with the therapist.. she is so cool.. I love when she rocks out to the music and everything she says.. ❤
Ok. I just want to sit and listen to music with her all day long.
Hearing you break this down was so therapeutic for me. I’ve been dealing with this my whole life fighting these two different me’s. Now that I know who I am I still struggle at times with this negative voice that still lingers. Thank you so much.
I love their song This is War.
This video was after Jared did the movie about John Lennon’s killer and gained a lot of weight. He gained so much weight he wound up with gout and other health issues.
Not quite. This song came out in 2005, released as a single Jan 2006. Chapter 27 was filmed later in 2006, released in 2007.
Awesome song and I LOVE the Shining film references
And the thing with this song is that u want to leave it on repeat ❤❤❤❤
100%
30 seconds to Mars was the first band I ever saw in concert, before they were big. They opened for The Used. I'll never forget it. ❤
The Shinning
*The Shining
*when you bang your lower leg on the coffee table
@@0sM1093And the amount of profanity that follows it 😂.
Shhh! DO YA WANT TA GET SUUUUED???
The Shinning is what it was called in a Simpsons episode.@@GeneralChaunce
Great reaction. As many times as I’ve heard this song I’ve never seen the video. Loved the mental health breakdown of it, not sure I’ll hear it the same way again, which is a good thing.
This is the first time ive listened to this song that critically and you explaining the fighting of your inner self and how we just wanna be 1 version of ourselves the version that believes in us. That really hit I almost started tearing up at work 😂
or it's just Jared Leto writing a song about finding his musical calling after being an actor since my so called life in the early 90's! he's F'n amazing & such a humble guy meeting him in person!❤
Yes that's good shadow work 👏🏼 love that!❤ thanks😘
Important work it is 🖤
I've always loved this song but I had never seen the video before. Amazing that they did this at the same hotel as The Shining and then went with that story for this. This is so good.
Actually it was filmed at The Carlu in Toronto, Canada. But definitely inspired by the Stanley Hotel in Colorado.The movie "The Shining",(Kubrick version), was filmed at Timberline Lodge In Mt. Hood, Oregon. just saying.
@@rockerwithawalker ah cool it looked so similar it got me. Thanks
I love this song because I relate to it so much. Its been an internal fight from the me before i survived domestic violence.
Your take on this song is so validating and so inspiring!!! Thank you for having THIS perspective and the voice to share it!!!
This song has been one of my absolute favorites for a long time. Thank you
Yes I got this as soon as I saw this video in the 2000s. Fighting against yourself and the doubts/fears/worries. To come to realise your true self. 30stm is my favourite band. Jared did this as a tribute to the movie The Shinning and the ballroom scenes are his other self stuck in the 50s.
I've been binging these for a couple of days. I've never had luck with therapy. I'm not good talking to people beyond surface conversation....I did try therapy 3 times, and got the distinct impression I was kind of a chore. Or maybe I'm a bore. Regardless, I just put it all back inside where it goes and moved along. However, I've enjoyed hearing Taylor's break down of the same music that soothes me into feeling a little less isolated. So thanks Taylor, I'm listening, and you're helping me...please keep doing these. If you get around to it, dig into Highly Suspect sometime. Johnny touches on some really powerful emotions, I suspect like me, he has bipolar disorder. So much of what he goes through and sings about has really helped me on those difficult days. -Jason
I want to thank you for this. I never realized he was fighting himself. I've always taken this as a breakup song. ❤
While I knew this was what the song was about inside, you hit it on another level and made me feel so intouch with this song more. I feel like I constantly am fighting with myself in so many ways.
I just saw them live at Lollapalooza, they were amazing!!
U always let me see videos or lyrics in another way. And u always have nice words to give hope ❤ thanks
I was in a verry dark place recentlee and the power of music is helping with my strugles of life
But life is still hard at the moment
GOD, always so good....the chills.
30stm helped me through a very hard time in life. This song made me release that I need to be myself and f other people. Accepting myself. Thats way i have their icon on my wrist to remind me i can move past. Jared, Tomo, and Shannon are amazing.
This is the BEST analysis of The Kill I've seen. It's gets to the heart of the song!
This song is about my personal fight with alcohol addiction. It's neverending.
@heartsupport I fully relate to this song, I saw them tonight and bawled my eyes out to this song
I love how they used The Shinning for their version of video I always thought that was cool it always been 1 of my favorite horror movies
It seems that this song reminds me of myself. I've been watching your reactions to various bands that I love and you have the best insight and breakdowns of what the songs are really about
Wen I listened to this song what I heard when he said bury he was saying in the grave! Love this as I can 100% relate.
I love your channel and the whole concept of it. Thanks for the work you're doing. I really think music can change lives, not only through listening but using it to channel your emotions/fears/feelings/pain and whatever else we carry.
Man I really love your breakdowns. I really wish I can have a session with you. Over the past two months my life has been turned upside down and I’ve been drowning in anxiety and depression. I’ve been waking up anxious every morning and it’s all I think about all day. It’s the worst feeling in the world. I watch your videos all day just listening to you because it’s like I’m having therapy with you without actually meeting you
Thank you HeartSupport
I have been under a rock because I just learned of 30 seconds to mars last year. Only because I watched an interview of him for the release of morbius. I knew Jared from the movies likevjoker but no idea had a band. And he can blow
I also think there is a self realization in this song that he truly will always be these two people. Hence both versions saying the same things to each other
beautifully analyzed - the plant metaphor is powerful.
Gotta bring this analysis to my therapy session tomorrow. ❤️
I am a recovering heroin addict I have always related so much to these lyrics. I'll have 2 years clean after 23 yrs active addiction, 7/7/24 God willing. ❤️🩹💪🏼 #heartsupport
Love this song🎵 ❤ & your reaction
I love this song and hearing you analyse it was amazing!! It makes alot more sense now!!
This is a Bad ass reaction video, you should do more with other songs! So cool!!!
they always play this song in the car when i rode with my mom she passed away in 2022 i hear this i think of her
This is a great song and also good job on the reaction.
Ive always loved this song and their music.
I’ve always taken the lyrics as a cry for help to someone you love who also loves you, but you hate yourself! You are desperately needing an unconditional love from someone to call you out on your own bullshit!
You have to recognize your darker self. Examine it, accept it is part of you, then YOU set your boundaries and choose your better self. You make the choices as a complete person. If you ignore that part of you, it will sneak up at times and damage you. When you know and accept all of you, you can make better choices that make for a better life. Not a rosy, nothing bad ever happens life. But, a life where you roll with it and rise back over the waves. A lot of people won't understand that or that about you. Not your problem. It's about you leaning you and using that to be a better, more authentic you. I turned 67 March 24th and these are lessons I have learned. Some the hard way. The messy, the depressed, the bleak, they don't own me anymore. I own me and I am responsible for me. Funny thing that. It makes me a lot more relatable and lovable by those few people who matter to me the most. Hey, it's free information. Do with it as you will. It even has a money-back guarantee. Oh yeah, have a sense of humor. It helps.
This was some great insight into this song. I love it even more now. Thank you!
This song just got so much better
Your a blessing and a lioness don't stop!!! ❤
Dude, you breaking down these song's is amazing. But you being beautiful makes it much better!
This is an incredible reaction ! Great stuff
ive related to this song pretty much since it was released and thats been a long time nah actually when this song came out was probably the the best years of my life i was a lot younger than to im 32 now
What an amazing homage to the film, The Shining. Well done, gents.
I’m bipolar and know exactly what that feeling is like. Manic days I’m full of confidence. Depressed days I hate myself.
It’s one of the best homages to The Shining!
My son is going through something like this right now. He wrote me a note saying in part “he has so much to say but I just can’t say it” and “ I’ve never accepted who I am”. He’s 20, autistic, and suffers from anxiety and depression. I’ve gotten him a therapist and he’s seeing her weekly, as well as additional support. It’s going to be a long journey to get to a good place I think. Depression is an awful disease. We haven’t had an episode in about 5 years. But I do take them seriously and will ask him if he’s thinking about hurting himself. I worry about him but I know he’s getting help. Hes so smart and kind and funny and I know he has so much potential. It’s hard watching him suffer.
Especially as an autistic person, this song has always resisted with me. Now that you kind of put this into perspective, it makes sense.
Most of my life, I masked my true self and just tried to be a normal person so hard and it killed me, but I also had no idea I was doing it as i didn't know I was autistic until I was 28 (34 now). Finally, years later, I've learned to let so much of my masking go and let myself OUT.
It just hits so deeply to me- to bury one part of yourself and boy do I understand that feeling well. Thankfully, i also know how to let them out.
Idk how I stumbled onto this channel. I think I’m in love!!!
Weird fact if you haven't noticed all the people in the ballroom are all identical twins.
I'd love to see your take on 30 seconds to mars "hurricane" video
Taylor, this is now just the 3rd reaction of yours ive watched.... I love your energy n passion! ❤ ...... Its contagious! You inspire me and im sure, so many others! As I commented in your other video a little while ago, you're no doubt one of the very best at what you do! Keep on! .......Its an amazing thing, Youre a stranger to me, but somehow you feel like a close friend... thank you! .....you are so well spoken, obviously you are professional! ...I only wish I could be so well spoken too, Im not, however I dont let it stop me from doing my best, and whats right, and saying what I need to, hopefully Im making a great difference.... I know you are! Your light is shining through the dark! I love seeing it!
have you never seen the shining? this whole clip is basically the shining
There is a video on Drumeo and Chad smith of Red Hot Chili Peppers plays this song without never hearing the song on the drums… 30 seconds in he lights ups his drums and I can’t listen to this sing now without hearing Chad Smith’s drums
I just watched the video where you react to In The End by Linkin Park and this video. I can only say thank you with all my heart, because in such a short time you have done so much for me! Every time I follow your video a part of me feels the need to cry but at the same time feels welcomed and comforted. Thank you!♥
I would be so happy if you could make a reaction to Twenty one pilots- carradio😍
You are indeed a person to follow. I like your content 👍. I recommend 30 Seconds to Mars -attack
I have DID/CPTSD and having DID is like not just having two versions of self. It's utterly being at war with yourself and your never going to win.
Would love to see Taylor do Hurricane by 30STM. That mid-career music by Jared and Shannon hits hard.
I totally feel like this sometimes. I have ADHD, and I've worked with my therapist and I've learned to accept me with my defects. But it never stops being hard. Sometimes, when I remember this is for life, I practically lose all hope of being capable to manage myself for a while 😔
This is a great song.
That is how we danced back in the 90’s