Therapist reacts to BLACK by Pearl Jam

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  • Опубликовано: 1 ноя 2024

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  • @jediscot
    @jediscot Месяц назад +1492

    Gen Xer here. We were largely raised to suck it up and deal with issues - not to share them. When the "grunge" movement hit, we were exposed to artists our age who were sharing their exploration of pain, anger, addiction, heartbreak, remorse, and helplessness. It was so incredibly powerful and cathartic. Unfortunately, so many of those voices are gone now.

    • @lightningmonky7674
      @lightningmonky7674 Месяц назад +14

      While I'm not a huge grunge fan (I do enjoy this song specifically) that must have been extremely refreshing to hear when growing up

    • @yoda6697
      @yoda6697 Месяц назад +29

      very very well said. could not agree more.

    • @coreyandthecrew952
      @coreyandthecrew952 Месяц назад +15

      It truly was an amazing time to grow up and have voices we could relate to. Tge power of this era is unbelievably raw at uts core. My best friend and I were explaining this to my 10 ye old tge other day and he was wonderfully engaged in the discussion. Power is felt across generations.

    • @julesdee89
      @julesdee89 Месяц назад +6

      amen friend :)

    • @eccehobo
      @eccehobo Месяц назад +4

      Fellow GEN-X here, but later on the spectrum. I loved this song and submitted it to a teacher as my choice for a 6th grade dance. It was rejected because it was about sex.

  • @hippieslacker6466
    @hippieslacker6466 Месяц назад +738

    This song hits hard. If you ever loved someone more than yourself, and they are no longer in your life, you understand.

    • @kimoronen1823
      @kimoronen1823 Месяц назад +3

      Nah, i love myself more then anyone

    • @dementedsoul4706
      @dementedsoul4706 Месяц назад +2

      @@kimoronen1823 haha

    • @andrelockridge9109
      @andrelockridge9109 Месяц назад +10

      A mother's love is unconditional. Romantic love is conditional,transactional & has a expiration date. We fool our selves,because we can't accept the ugly truth! So we betray our selves and believe in a beautiful lie!!

    • @TheMeanmarine13
      @TheMeanmarine13 Месяц назад +7

      ​@andrelockridge9109 same can said for some father's. I sacrificed everything to get my daughter's back when their mom wasn't willing to fight for them. I would take a bullet for my daughters in most definitely give in my life for them. Romantic relationships have crushed me in the past. This song really strikes a chord with me.

    • @andrelockridge9109
      @andrelockridge9109 Месяц назад +4

      A Man will sacrifice his happiness for his famiky! A woman will sacrifice her family for her happiness!! My beloved late mother gave me the best relationship advice when I was 18 or 19! Never trust women!! In many ways my late mother was a remarkable wome,she choice her son over the sisterhood! I will always be eternally great ful to her!!

  • @timbeatty8411
    @timbeatty8411 Месяц назад +1038

    I'm a 54 year old straight man and I still have a crush on Eddie LoL

    • @derrickzane5834
      @derrickzane5834 Месяц назад +32

      Yeah, that tracks. I'm with you.

    • @patjam2106
      @patjam2106 Месяц назад +13

      With you, though i am super young at age 50 ha!!!

    • @BobsYerUncle_GT
      @BobsYerUncle_GT Месяц назад +17

      He's part of the reason I haven't had a hair cut since 2011 😃

    • @shiffyrossell1228
      @shiffyrossell1228 Месяц назад +3

      For real dawg. 🤘🏻

    • @Taylorswiftfan13308
      @Taylorswiftfan13308 Месяц назад +11

      (Realizing as I finish rambling that my laziness has painted me into a corner yet again. Long story short, I am male. My daughter took my phone made an I.D. in such a way that it now acts as Primary on RUclips. Haven't set it straight yet)
      I'm in the same boat and can even take it a step further. Had a crush on a girl in school many years ago and could never place who she reminded me of.
      Several months after she had passed out of my personal sphere of interactions. I just casually crossed paths with the Pearl Jam video for the song "Alive", and realized out of the blue who Allison reminded of...
      "Oh hell, she looks like Eddie Vedder!"
      Had a little internal crisis moment in my resolutely heterosexual world, then shrugged and thought, "ok, he's a beautiful man" and moved on.

  • @willenholly
    @willenholly Месяц назад +209

    The pain doesn’t go away. You just make room for it.

  • @caries1983
    @caries1983 Месяц назад +61

    100% I'm now 58..and still cry hearing black unplugged 😢❤!!

  • @braca977
    @braca977 Месяц назад +1033

    My wife left me after 17 years of marriage. I have 3 kids and a broken heart. Thank you for those words of wisdom. It means a lot ❤

    • @Damien_D1977
      @Damien_D1977 Месяц назад +99

      A 23 year marriage gone because someone wakes up one day and decides to just leave. This song came out when I was a teenager and it just rips my heart out now more than it did back then.

    • @HeartSupport
      @HeartSupport  Месяц назад +80

      Sending you love. I can't imagine the pain and grief you are feeling in this moment. I'm grateful my words were able to provide a little bit of comfort. - T

    • @Damien_D1977
      @Damien_D1977 Месяц назад +33

      @@HeartSupport Thank You, between that and a abusive childhood it helps me seeing these videos and also inspired me to ask for help after 40 years. Thank you.

    • @andrelockridge9109
      @andrelockridge9109 Месяц назад

      Women marry a lifestyle as much as they marry the man! A woman's romantic love is based on what can PROVIDE for her! What you can DO for her! In the end we men are nothing more than a Walking ATM machine & walking Tool Belt!! No matter how much & how deep you love them. Women will always look to level up,hypergamy! Romantic love is a fraud,it's conditional & tranactional!! Better to accept the Ugly truth than to believe in a beautiful Lie!!

    • @Art-By-Aly
      @Art-By-Aly Месяц назад +4

      🫶🏻🙏🏻

  • @gishjalmr5628
    @gishjalmr5628 Месяц назад +412

    I'm thankful that Eddie is still with us. So many of his contemporaries are gone now.

    • @bhurzumii4315
      @bhurzumii4315 Месяц назад +4

      This! Christ almighty, this!

    • @lesfox2010
      @lesfox2010 Месяц назад +6

      Eddie must just about be the only grunge guy left now?

    • @albaPhenom
      @albaPhenom Месяц назад +1

      and there was certainly the expectation around the time of Kurts suicide that Eddie would go the same way

    • @snuffy357
      @snuffy357 Месяц назад +2

      @@albaPhenom what are the chances that 2 grunge singers would be murdered by Courtney Love?

    • @phkna
      @phkna Месяц назад +1

      @@snuffy357 😮😮😮😮 shhhh she might find you

  • @muchachonextdoor5608
    @muchachonextdoor5608 Месяц назад +222

    Eddie, Chris, Kurt, and Layne. The voices of a generation. So sad that only Eddie is still with us. Feel lucky to have known them all through their music

    • @t.johnson5066
      @t.johnson5066 Месяц назад +10

      Absolutely! ❤❤❤ Literally an entire generation! I too am lucky to have grown up with them all and still listen to them all today.

    • @franciet99
      @franciet99 Месяц назад +3

      💯

    • @David_Theisen
      @David_Theisen Месяц назад +25

      Scott too

    • @muchachonextdoor5608
      @muchachonextdoor5608 Месяц назад +10

      @@David_Theisen you're right, can't believe I forgot Weiland. We were so lucky to have such great voices and cursed to see them lost so early

    • @David_Theisen
      @David_Theisen Месяц назад +3

      @@muchachonextdoor5608 Another iconic voice just passed too! James Earl Jones!! The voice of Darth Vader and Mufasa

  • @timwiseman158
    @timwiseman158 Месяц назад +88

    I’m 54 and from a generation where you just dealt with it. No matter the hurt and pains in life, deal with it alone. This song was the 1st song that somehow made me break down and cry, get mad and clear my head. It still does make me tear up. Incredibly sad and beautiful song.

    • @Blondemann21
      @Blondemann21 Месяц назад +3

      You can only bottle it for so long

  • @Matjo7588dk
    @Matjo7588dk Месяц назад +406

    MTV unplugged is the one gift MTV left the world.
    They gave so many iconic bands at the time this outlet, and it let to some of the most iconic live concerts.
    Thinking of what MTV have become, with all the nonsense they do know. Its important to remember that once upon a time they where the only place that gave a platform for these bands to do this, and for the young listeners to interact with it in that way.
    And the MTV Unplugged shows are legendary now, all because of what MTV used to be.

    • @brittanysell9796
      @brittanysell9796 Месяц назад +5

      And the crown jewel is the nirvana set. I still listen to that set all the time. ❤

    • @dedfishermen985
      @dedfishermen985 Месяц назад

      @@brittanysell9796for you maybe, but I like the one I’m listening to, when I’m listening to it the best

    • @marcstov
      @marcstov Месяц назад

      So true...why are they not doing more of this?? Like...why?

    • @crowbear516
      @crowbear516 Месяц назад +3

      MTV burned everything for unplugged. It's the only thing I've carried since Beavis and butthead.

    • @jedhatcher252
      @jedhatcher252 Месяц назад

      Blame RUclips

  • @kurtwinchell
    @kurtwinchell Месяц назад +411

    The true power behind the alternative and grunge movement was the authentic and raw emotion in the voices of the singers.

    • @jasonbarry1382
      @jasonbarry1382 Месяц назад +7

      This. So much this. Incredibly grateful my teen years were spent in this movement - I say as I sit here wearing my Doc Martens 😂

    • @shanefaulkner4071
      @shanefaulkner4071 Месяц назад +7

      The voice is easy if you own the words. Lived that time and we all believed we could change the world through the lyrics. And the lyrics were Eddies, Stones etc story. Same as Chris, Layne, Kurt. Just happened everyone else connected with their stories. Great time to be alive and a music period that will never be repeated.

    • @sharoncarlisle9453
      @sharoncarlisle9453 Месяц назад

      100%

    • @reneelyons6836
      @reneelyons6836 Месяц назад

      Well said!!

    • @bullitthead7853
      @bullitthead7853 Месяц назад +2

      @@shanefaulkner4071 I remember driving in my first truck and hearing a new song on the radio (Soundgarden, I think, around 1994) and thinking how freaking fantastic EVERY new song that played on the radio was. They were all instantly great, it really was magic. Man, I miss that time in music.

  • @jasonremy1627
    @jasonremy1627 Месяц назад +311

    This specific performance is so soul crushing

    • @Emilie-one
      @Emilie-one Месяц назад +21

      Agree.. i’ve heard this performance probably 100 times and at the end I find myself choking back tears or just outright bawling. Profoundly sad.

    • @Mr.Ekshin
      @Mr.Ekshin Месяц назад +9

      This song is not nearly as soul crushing to Eddie... as it is to whatever girl dumped him as a young struggling musician... and then had to watch as he became rich and famous. And not just 15 minutes of fame, but the kind of musician that made it last a lifetime.

    • @jodywilliamson6232
      @jodywilliamson6232 Месяц назад +1

      MTV unplugged.

    • @bighouse1695
      @bighouse1695 Месяц назад +11

      This is probably the best live performance of any song by any band. Just my opinion but I’ve loved it since it came on the first time on MTV. All of the “grunge” band MTV Unplugged are legendary

    • @josephkitchen3059
      @josephkitchen3059 Месяц назад +5

      He song this after Chris Cornell die 😢.. so heartbreak to watch….

  • @LongplayCentral
    @LongplayCentral Месяц назад +86

    I lost my wife of 20 years last May from cancer. This song is where I am. I've heard it a million times, it's one of my favorites, I always really enjoyed it. Now it makes me cry.

    • @HeartSupport
      @HeartSupport  Месяц назад +2

      From runner12: @LongplayCentral Thank you so much for reaching out and sharing. I’m so glad you are here! I’m so sorry for your loss. Losing a loved one is devastating and the grief can be overwhelming. Music can really touch us especially when our feelings are so raw. It can help us feel like we aren’t alone and it can open the floodgates. Being able to feel those emotions and then process them can help us heal. I know this song makes you sad now. Music can trigger emotions differently depending on our circumstances. I pray that as time goes on you are able to heal and get back to a point where the song makes you smile. It takes time but there is no right timeline for processes grief. Allow yourself to feel whatever the song brings up and allow the healing to happen. It’s not easy but you are not alone! We are here for you and you are loved! Stay strong!

    • @HeartSupport
      @HeartSupport  Месяц назад

      From Konishi611: @LongplayCentral F Cancer.
      I'm sorry for your loss. I have seen several other people on here that have lost loved ones recently. Know that you are not alone - others are in the song with you. We are with you. Losing a partner is one of the most difficult things someone can experience. It is a very different genre, but Pain Remains 1, 2, and 3 by Lorna Shore are extremely emotional and powerful. It really gets into the grieving process and can be very intense. I've listened to all three songs dozens upon dozens of times and they make me cry, without fail, every single time. I still enjoy them. I hope Black continues to be one of your favorite songs and that you always enjoy it. Perhaps, in time, the song will become even more dear to you if it has not already.

    • @marcstov
      @marcstov Месяц назад

      I'm so sorry. I cannot imagine...what I can imagine is this song being my salvation.

    • @lyon7632
      @lyon7632 Месяц назад

      Sending love your way

    • @myfinalcut
      @myfinalcut 21 день назад

      🙏🏼

  • @prophecygg5826
    @prophecygg5826 Месяц назад +69

    Girl... We all had a crush on Eddie. Man sings from and to the soul. It's why we love him.

    • @adh1541
      @adh1541 Месяц назад +3

      I will love him til the day I die.

    • @cecelia1350
      @cecelia1350 Месяц назад +1

      I still have a crush on him. At 60 he still looks great.

    • @michellemeeks2733
      @michellemeeks2733 Месяц назад +1

      @@cecelia1350 Yep. I was 22-23 when I fell in love. His voice the WAY he sings. 54 now. Feel the same.

  • @Kaya97899
    @Kaya97899 Месяц назад +203

    I know someday you'll have a beautiful life
    I know you'll be a star in somebody else's sky
    But why, why, why can't it be
    Oh, can't it be mine?….
    This line heartbreak me everytime…..

    • @shep4life
      @shep4life Месяц назад +11

      One of my favorite lines ever

    • @coreyandthecrew952
      @coreyandthecrew952 Месяц назад +11

      It literally floors me every time35 years later after hearing it for the first time. Brutal

    • @chrisfurlough466
      @chrisfurlough466 Месяц назад +10

      If you've never felt the heartbreak he describes here. Consider yourself lucky.

    • @pabloberlus7218
      @pabloberlus7218 Месяц назад +6

      30 years on repeat and that line still breaks me every time.

    • @KAMUI138
      @KAMUI138 Месяц назад +3

      One of the hardest gut punch lyrics of all time.

  • @batigo211
    @batigo211 Месяц назад +166

    This song lasts 5 minutes but it hurts for a lifetime. It is incredible how much pain Eddie Vedder describes when he wrote this wonderful song full of a lot of melancholy and nostalgia, remembering those wonderful years of Grunge in the early 90s. And to think that Eddie is the last Grunge legionnaire still alive.

    • @EDC9267
      @EDC9267 Месяц назад

      well put

    • @arranree
      @arranree 21 день назад

      Eddie is the last? When did Billy Corgan die?

    • @Javdoc
      @Javdoc 11 дней назад +2

      Jerry Cantrell is still rocking - 'I Want Blood' is killer, check it out.....

  • @mariamaltesegould4990
    @mariamaltesegould4990 Месяц назад +72

    I’m 51 and so incredibly grateful to have lived this

    • @mdinkelberg
      @mdinkelberg Месяц назад +1

      This could’ve been my reaction. I’m 51 and I’m also grateful to have lived this. The first time I heard this I was 19. I now realize that this had a meaning for me that I didn’t realize at that time. This song has entered my soul at a young age .

    • @rumple7551
      @rumple7551 Месяц назад +1

      49 and remember my first listen to ten ever since their music has helped me many times

    • @Marktman2003
      @Marktman2003 Месяц назад

      I seen them in St Louis in 1998 he quit singing and the crowd not only took over they over powered the band! One of the most amazing things I have experienced! I'm grateful we were one for a moment in time!

    • @rumo2673
      @rumo2673 Месяц назад

      same

  • @BlairDeurucki
    @BlairDeurucki Месяц назад +10

    Gen X anthem right here!! Salute to anyone here who grew up in the 90's, and understood the power of this song!!

  • @shaun374
    @shaun374 Месяц назад +93

    I was a teenager when Pearl Jam was at their peak. If a girl knew who they were, there was approximately a 100% chance they had a crush on Eddie.

    • @marie-evemartel9219
      @marie-evemartel9219 Месяц назад

      Exactly!!! 🙋‍♀️😂🥰😍

    • @rachelpowell4614
      @rachelpowell4614 Месяц назад

      Can confirm. Was 12 when Ten came out and had a crush on Eddie. Was the first CD i bought with my own money.

    • @IHulk-ij8jq
      @IHulk-ij8jq Месяц назад

      I was 14 when Ten came out. I bought it because I liked them. Every album after that I bought because girls liked them. Except for Yeild. That was all me.

    • @chestylarue475
      @chestylarue475 Месяц назад

      I was the rare exception lol liked Pearl Jam, but found Eddie creepy lmao. His facial expressions weirded me out 😅😂.

    • @caz5001
      @caz5001 Месяц назад

      Sure did! As a teenager, I once had a dream that I was swimming in a lake with Eddie Vedder and 2 deer..... best dream that I will never forget.

  • @M.G.-ll8ve
    @M.G.-ll8ve Месяц назад +139

    30 years later, still think about her every day.

    • @arturmirreyes7254
      @arturmirreyes7254 Месяц назад +4

      Y yo,amigo,después de 15
      No quiero amar a nadie más

    • @Pluck1970
      @Pluck1970 Месяц назад +9

      30 years for me too. He’ll always be the one

    • @andrealapihuska6877
      @andrealapihuska6877 Месяц назад +6

      It really does tattoo your soul. I think about my lost soul mate more than once a day.

    • @scrap183
      @scrap183 Месяц назад +7

      Coming up on 10 years for me. And, I even called her my sun goddess, "Diosa Sol." She married last year and I really had to give up on her. I try to move on, but I still dream of her; it still haunts me. I know it's not her, but still... This video helped.

    • @RickGraziano
      @RickGraziano Месяц назад +6

      I'm at 22 years now. How much I thought we had finally found ourselves in an orbit that would last, and how incredible was the feeling of how well we fit together. The touchs we had were like being recharged...just incredible energy. After we ended, she still came over for years, and I hurt myself by providing the emotional support she needed. But for reasons having to do with family, we ended. I left the town, the state and moved hours away. I still saw her a couple of times, then the occasional message. I finally ended communicating with her 3 years ago, I told her that I couldn't be a friend, I couldn't talk to her, I couldn't be part of her life if she couldn't be the part of mine that I needed from her. I still mourn that love, and despite having relationships since, that feeling of her and I haunts me. I hope you all find peace in your life. I'm still searching for mine.

  • @sacir007
    @sacir007 Месяц назад +64

    This song is the most precise definition of black, both as a color and a synonym of emptiness sucking all the light out

  • @misterbones5981
    @misterbones5981 Месяц назад +271

    Oooh no girl you're gonna feel a special type of sad

    • @HeartSupport
      @HeartSupport  Месяц назад +40

      I really really did lol

    • @mikek9297
      @mikek9297 Месяц назад +26

      @@HeartSupport They have a bunch of great songs relating to mental health... "Jeremy", "Alive", "I am mine"...

    • @ericmoney4572
      @ericmoney4572 Месяц назад +16

      I saw the title in my notifications and was like "oh here comes the heartbreak."

    • @benkylo8015
      @benkylo8015 Месяц назад

      @@mikek9297 "Release" is the best!

    • @TheDieselDRNKR
      @TheDieselDRNKR Месяц назад +2

      @@mikek9297 Garden too

  • @JontyBlue67
    @JontyBlue67 Месяц назад +35

    I don't think anyone could perform this song this way unless they lived it. So raw, passionate and heartfelt.

  • @brent7900
    @brent7900 Месяц назад +61

    Nirvana, Pearl Jam, and stone temple pilots were able to touch your soul through their authentic passions and pain. True artists

    • @onepunchflan3071
      @onepunchflan3071 Месяц назад +22

      Alice in chains and soundgarden too

    • @RickGraziano
      @RickGraziano Месяц назад +4

      Chris Cornell, Scott Weiland, Kurt Cobain, Chester Bennington and Layne Stanley were the epitome of singers who could touch the deep emotions that many people had...I'm so glad we still have some of the singers like Eddie Veder and Dave Grohl who were able to navigate that scene and stay with us.

    • @havokan45
      @havokan45 Месяц назад +1

      Candlebox' s You and first album was great and Alice in Chains

    • @Highlinetowerman
      @Highlinetowerman Месяц назад +1

      Don't forget AIC.

    • @Highlinetowerman
      @Highlinetowerman Месяц назад

      ​@@RickGrazianothose bands will never be the same w/o their original frontmen, somehow AC/DC was spared from it, eventhough it happened to them, they made great music both with Bon Scott & Brian Johnson.

  • @g.e.5723
    @g.e.5723 Месяц назад +45

    "it's a song about letting go" is how I believe Eddy describes it.
    That poor beautiful boy.

  • @Kyle-ge1nq
    @Kyle-ge1nq Месяц назад +79

    This version of Black always, always, gives me goose-pimples, Eddie's voice and emotion is so so good.
    "We belong together." :(

    • @silvernode
      @silvernode Месяц назад +7

      I think this is the first time I have read the words "Goose Pimples".

  • @32a34a
    @32a34a Месяц назад +59

    Him going through something like this makes this performance even better. Nothing makes a song great like the artist
    putting his emotions on his sleeve.

  • @PowderedToastMan420
    @PowderedToastMan420 Месяц назад +94

    The last track, "RELEASE" off of their first album, TEN, will move you.

    • @petereyndhoven104
      @petereyndhoven104 Месяц назад +6

      Live in Holland version please.

    • @bezdekdelatte
      @bezdekdelatte Месяц назад +5

      @@petereyndhoven104yes this live version is the way.

    • @pjzelda75
      @pjzelda75 Месяц назад +1

      It's an amazing song no matter which version you listen to

    • @jediscot
      @jediscot Месяц назад +2

      Especially if it's a live version

    • @beza511
      @beza511 Месяц назад +3

      Amazing song. The live version in Chicago kills me.

  • @olafurjohannsson5165
    @olafurjohannsson5165 Месяц назад +28

    I know someday you'll have a beautiful life, I know you'll be a star
    In somebody else's sky, but why, why
    Why can't it be, oh, can't it be mine?
    Best lyrics in history

  • @kadathsmith
    @kadathsmith Месяц назад +19

    Has to be considered to be one of the greatest love songs ever written.

    • @HeronMarkHero
      @HeronMarkHero 20 дней назад +1

      not exactly what i would call a love song.

    • @kadathsmith
      @kadathsmith 20 дней назад +1

      @@HeronMarkHero Its about desperate love. He's lost the deepest love of his life. That's what I call love.

    • @capino28
      @capino28 18 дней назад

      Heartbreak song you mean haha. a lovesong could be lovesong by the cure.

  • @shirazzza
    @shirazzza Месяц назад +45

    This is so iconic at this point. I remember it being on tv & it just blew us all away

    • @robbob5302
      @robbob5302 Месяц назад +2

      Head and shoulders above the studio version, for sure.

    • @GS-vb3zn
      @GS-vb3zn Месяц назад +2

      word.

    • @coreyandthecrew952
      @coreyandthecrew952 Месяц назад +1

      With the ferocity of 1000 hurricanes.

  • @Rufus-uw3wb
    @Rufus-uw3wb Месяц назад +35

    Just finished my divorce out of a 20 year marriage, this song played almost daily for the 1st year and a half! Powerful performance, music these days no longer makes you feel this way!

  • @kamehousekz87
    @kamehousekz87 Месяц назад +22

    The number of times in my life that Eddie's lyrics and vocals have stood as a proxy for my own human experience are literally incalculable. The degree to which he opened up and shared his own pains and joys as art is unimaginable, but I am forever grateful.

  • @donniecreasey7722
    @donniecreasey7722 Месяц назад +18

    The early to late 90s were EVERYTHING 😢 the absolute best times of my life

  • @jasontemple1496
    @jasontemple1496 Месяц назад +15

    this performance with his improvised "we belong together" really punches me in the gut. every time I can imagine that pain, I've been there, I've felt that. Eddie was amazing for so many things but this is my all time favorite performance of his.

  • @toohighstrung
    @toohighstrung Месяц назад +26

    I can't hear this song and this version without breaking down... It makes me want to stay and go at the same time. Struggling to be here daily is hard but music like this is an outlet for hardheaded dudes like me to let it out

  • @jessicakoster2543
    @jessicakoster2543 Месяц назад +60

    Two thoughts I'm having right now.
    Out of all the major grunge singers, Eddie Vedder was not the one I thought would be the last man standing.
    He always seemed so frail, I was sure he wouldn't last.
    Second one, I owe Eddie everything.
    When I was 16 I went to see Pearl Jam on my own.
    When the audience moved forward,I got trampled.
    I was lying on the floor and people were standing on top of me.
    Eddie saw it and started telling people to get me up.
    They did and I was crowdsurfed to security.
    I just had a lot of scrapes and bruises.
    It could have been so much worse and I will be forever thankful to Eddie that it didn't.

    • @dramacidal6998
      @dramacidal6998 Месяц назад +3

      This song has saved me through dark times in my life especially losing the love of my life but He may have literally saved your life. That's an incredible story. Obviously I don't know him but I have never heard one bad word about Eddie Vedder. He seems like a rare celebrity that didn't allow fame and fortune to get to his head and he's always seemed genuine especially when performing.

    • @LD-tc4jp
      @LD-tc4jp 27 дней назад

      Rescued u from the black 🖤

  • @richpeltier9519
    @richpeltier9519 Месяц назад +38

    Alive, Black and Porch (all from this album) were the cornerstone of my guitar practice routine for many years. I could tell when I got to Black how "tapped in" I was, because when I was locked in, playing the solo would completely break me down to sobbing tears. Such an incredible melody and amazing lyrics. The way the piano and guitars work with his voice on the studio version is sublime. This live version has a beautiful energy all it's own.
    Powerful magic indeed.

    • @PowderedToastMan420
      @PowderedToastMan420 Месяц назад +6

      @@richpeltier9519 Mike McCready and Jeff Ament and Stone Gossard are guitar legends in my book. ✌️

  • @devonvance5194
    @devonvance5194 Месяц назад +15

    I always loved how tight the drums sound in this performance

    • @madisonmcgahan5280
      @madisonmcgahan5280 Месяц назад

      That’s because Dave Abbruzzese is one of the best drummers of all time!

  • @philkrugel1452
    @philkrugel1452 Месяц назад +13

    We all have a permanent crush on Eddie and this band!!! This might have been one of the best performances by anyone anywhere ever.

  • @alanpreston1822
    @alanpreston1822 Месяц назад +4

    The best manifestation of putting emotion on paper. These lyrics will stand the test of time.

  • @nielsenrobert
    @nielsenrobert Месяц назад +13

    He sang what we all have felt and we felt it again when he sang it. True talent

  • @mamatthews78
    @mamatthews78 Месяц назад +22

    This song, this album, Pearl Jam (among other bands) got me through the hyper-emotional pain of my teenage years. My dad once made me stop listening to this for a week or two because, "You need to listen to something that's less grey and painful for a while." But the grey and the pain in the music was what let me release the grey and the pain from my head.

    • @paulschirf9259
      @paulschirf9259 Месяц назад +5

      Two years before Pearl Jam, The Cure's Disintegration album did the same for me. And then hearing Black I was on the other side of it and felt it again in reflection.

  • @cropdustcaptain3059
    @cropdustcaptain3059 Месяц назад +8

    This my favourite band. In 2022 I was diagnosed with cancer as the love of my life was dumping me. Some months later I was talking about it with my therapist, and when I left her office I took a cab and this song came on the radio and affected me worse than it ever had in 30 years. I tried not to have a breakdown in public.
    I'm cancer free now, but still empty inside from that horrible year.
    Thanks for this video, you got youself a new subscriber.

    • @HeartSupport
      @HeartSupport  Месяц назад

      From runner12: @cropdustcaptain3059 Thank you for sharing your story! We are so grateful for you. I’m so sorry you had to deal with two heartbreaking situations at the same time. Getting a scary diagnosis is overwhelming and then losing someone we love can make our world feel like it’s spinning out of control. I’m so happy to hear that you are cancer free! You are obviously a fighter and so strong! Remind yourself of that when the pain of your breakup hits you. Having an emotional reaction to a song can be overwhelming. The music or lyrics hit us right where we’re most vulnerable and unleashes feelings that are extremely powerful. We need to feel those feelings in order to heal. It takes time for the emptiness to go away but there is always hope! You’ve been through so much so be kind to yourself and give yourself grace. You’ve been through a war, but you survived it and came out stronger. I’m praying for strength as you continue to heal. You are loved and we are here to support you!

  • @barbaramelian509
    @barbaramelian509 Месяц назад +25

    Not only has Pearl Jam always been the most socially involved and politically outspoken group from the big Seattle bands: they have always had a special kind of sensibility in their music, from day one. Their songs touch themes related to mental health, family issues and social awareness, and a lot of those songs have a woman as the main protagonist or depict the perspective of a woman (see "Daughter", "Why go", or the live versions of "Fatal").
    "Better man", "Inside job", "Comes then goes", "Light years", "Other side" , "I got shit", "Off he goes", "Save you", "I am mine", "Something special"... too many to name, their whole discography is amazing in this sense.
    To me they embody how healthy masculinity looks and sounds like. I absolutely love them.

  • @mariwiniarski1835
    @mariwiniarski1835 Месяц назад +6

    Im 66 & STILL crushing on Eddie. Hes beautiful ,& his voice is gold!!!!

  • @revelofficial8542
    @revelofficial8542 Месяц назад +11

    That pause you had at the end. yup. that's it right there. eddie vedder is one of the rawest songwriters and singers. he added "we belong together", which is not on the album/recorded version. it tears me to shreds. this song is the epitome of what it is to experience the throws of heartbreak. I used to listen to this song every time I experienced losing someone I love, which actually did include someone I had feelings for dying. In that instance, the song really took me to a place to fully grieve, acknowledge my feelings, and eventually I could try to move from the depths of that dark place.

  • @andrewjulian6707
    @andrewjulian6707 Месяц назад +3

    This damn video has made me immediately burst into over and over🤦🏼‍♂️. And yet, I keep coming back to it because so fucking real and exemplifies what it means to be human. ❤️

  • @brianfollendorf168
    @brianfollendorf168 25 дней назад +18

    I'm not posting this for help, I'm posting this as a warning NOT TO TURN INTO ME. I was 25, and I was insanely in love with my wife. We lived in Hawaii, made love frequently, never argued, and life was amazing. Then I went to Iraq for 15 months. In that time she cheated, broke my heart, gaslighted me into thinking I abandoned her, and ruined my military career due to the deep depression about losing my world that I fell into. For 15 months I went through hell. Saw friends and brothers die, was blown up several times by roadside bombs, and yet it didn't come close to the hell of her not being there when I returned home and everyone's loved ones rushed to their soldiers while I stood alone with no one there. She destroyed me in every way a man can be destroyed. She moved on, married, and had children. Meanwhile, other women have tried to love me but I can't find it in me to trust or be loved again because I was ruined. Every woman since has told me "they can only get to a certain point with me" and I don't let them get any closer. I'm now 43, and even 18 years later the pain remains. I tried counseling but nothing seems to help. My life is work, going to the gym, and coming home and hanging out with the pets. Unless you want a life where you just wait for death and for the pain to go away, DO NOT BECOME ME!

    • @kellybrinkerhoff5055
      @kellybrinkerhoff5055 22 дня назад +5

      Your comment hit me hard. I’m so sorry, you didn’t deserve this.
      Please take care of yourself.

    • @DillyBar_666
      @DillyBar_666 21 день назад +1

      I bet your pets are sweet though

    • @amyproud
      @amyproud 20 дней назад +2

      If this is real…trust yourself to be able to handle if heartbreak happens again because what if life is just a play and when we die we wake up. You only get to be you once even if your soul never dies and you get to do it again.

    • @JonKluska
      @JonKluska 11 дней назад +1

      It takes strength to expose your vulnerability. That strength will also see you through. Look inside, know that you will find your peace and you will find everything that you're looking for, in life and love. You're not a victim, it's just life. Sometimes it sucks pretty bad but not always. Take care of yourself and when all else fails, put on the Ten album

    • @andr6sal
      @andr6sal 5 дней назад

      Fucking hear you man

  • @jenniferrodriguez5337
    @jenniferrodriguez5337 Месяц назад +14

    I was a teenager when this came out, and yes...we all were crushing on Eddie Vedder.
    On a personal note about 10 years ago my eldest daughter ran away from home. And this song helped me express my heartbreak about it. The last verse just (as you said) was so relatable that it just pierced my soul.

  • @lindsayj56
    @lindsayj56 Месяц назад +4

    I love your reaction, I've watched so many of these and you really seemed to genuinely get it the most. Love it, thank you.

  • @danielsundin3669
    @danielsundin3669 Месяц назад +11

    I was 17 when Pearl Jam released Black. This song has followed me through so many heartbreakes. I've belted it heartbroken and drunk of my ass at karaoke way too many times.

  • @JamisonRabbitt
    @JamisonRabbitt Месяц назад +2

    Your response at the end of the video was so beautiful and well said. It spoke to my heart as much as this song does.

  • @raulp9171
    @raulp9171 Месяц назад +3

    WOW, such an honest review on this classic.. You are a star!!

  • @besideyouc.3279
    @besideyouc.3279 Месяц назад +4

    You and your insights are absolutely incredible and spot on. Thanks for reacting to this masterpiece 🧡

  • @josephbond8280
    @josephbond8280 Месяц назад +19

    Some of the heart of grunge music back in the day. One of my favorite era’s of music.

    • @andrelockridge9109
      @andrelockridge9109 Месяц назад

      1,000% agree! 60s,70s,80s,90s music just got better & better then all went to Sh%t!!

  • @yogafirefox
    @yogafirefox Месяц назад +3

    I’ve always loved this song! It has a different meaning now, in regards to children no longer in my life.

  • @evanfavocci2968
    @evanfavocci2968 Месяц назад +5

    I have heard this song no less than 1 million times in my life and no one has ever been able to explain and process it better than you. Thank you.

  • @joescott778
    @joescott778 Месяц назад +4

    I haven't Felt this song like that in thirty years, thank you. Watching you see it and get it put me through it all over again.

  • @sputnikalgrim
    @sputnikalgrim Месяц назад +20

    I was born in ‘76, grew up in an abusive household and don’t know what I’d do without this music, it impacts me to this day. My wife had my best friends kid, I attempted to take my own life but was found and so here I am trying to get beyond it. I’ve been diagnosed with Borderline Personality disorder, complex PTSD and major depression. I’m taking medication and see a therapist twice a week. I wish I had this help 20 years ago when I still could’ve salvaged my life, now I’m just an old man, old and alone…

    • @gavinwilson7051
      @gavinwilson7051 Месяц назад +2

      hey man just know that its ok. I am sorry to hear about everything you've gone and are going through but i can assure you that you are loved and just because you feel lonely doesnt mean your alone. Also 47 is very far from old brother! you have plenty of live to live so go live it without regrets and with love and you will get that happy life we all dream about you just got to keep moving forward. love you bro and God wouldnt allow these things to happen to you if he knew you werent strong enough to endure it. take care brother hope things turn around

    • @SHONEY21Z
      @SHONEY21Z Месяц назад

      You got a dealt a shitty hand. But it’s not your fault. And the good news is there an entire world out there to discover. It’s never too late. Find a new joy and run with it, travel, meet new people every week. Happiness comes from within, and helping others. Rest of your life starts today.

    • @DzandLe
      @DzandLe Месяц назад

      Keep pushing forward, god speed.

    • @HeartSupport
      @HeartSupport  Месяц назад

      From TenaciousGrace: @sputnikalgrim I am so sorry for all the pain and heartache you have been through in your life. That's so tough being the collateral damage of others' chaos. I am so so glad you are still with us today! I have been dealt some cruddy cards as well in life. One of my favorite phrases I saw online was "Broken crayons still color!" I remind myself of that a lot on the darker days. Every day is a new day to spread your colors for others that may be straggling as well. You seem like such a warm person and the world could use far more of that.

    • @jonjonol...g7583
      @jonjonol...g7583 Месяц назад

      ... I bet she thinks of you everyday and wonders wht it would have been wht it could have been w/regret and regret in my opinion is the most horrible feeling one can have i hate regret she hates it too i promise...

  • @klbbeeswillow
    @klbbeeswillow Месяц назад +8

    Still gives me goosebumps damn! 💕

  • @Hermila-v2p
    @Hermila-v2p Месяц назад +98

    aimentalhealthadvisor AI fixes this (AI Mental Health Advisor). Therapist analyzes BLACK's emotional impact.

  • @crazy4offroad
    @crazy4offroad Месяц назад +3

    The high you get from that crazy love feeling, whew, it can move mountains. Take that away when you're not ready, and it'll cast you down to the lowest low you've ever experienced. I'll never forget the high, just as I'll never, ever forget the low. I don't think my heart could ever endure that again.

  • @josephbond8280
    @josephbond8280 Месяц назад +17

    Grunge music and Korn were my go to. They have helped me through things in life.

    • @stephensutton2546
      @stephensutton2546 Месяц назад +2

      KoЯn has gotten me through so much in life. From abusive parents, to a fairly recent divorce.

  • @chriswoudstra765
    @chriswoudstra765 Месяц назад +16

    You are so sweet and thoughtful. I loved this video. I'm 47, been a Pearl Jam fan since 1991. I've had these reactions to their music since the beginning, it's lovely to see newer fans are too. All the love. Thank you.

  • @MyGannChannel
    @MyGannChannel Месяц назад +5

    I have watched 100s of reactions to this song, and this is probably the BEST! ❤
    Our emotions are devastating and necessary at the same time.

    • @HeartSupport
      @HeartSupport  Месяц назад

      awww thank yoU!! I'm honored! - T

  • @Stankyboiii
    @Stankyboiii 21 день назад +1

    I love watching your reactions. It makes me feel like I’ve never listened to these songs before. I cry all over again, with you. When you speak, you speak with eviction, passion and emotion. You truly make me feel like you’re actually my therapist. I’m sure I’m not alone in that feeling. Keep doing this. This is good for people. I hope doing this gives you as much as you’re giving us. Thank you.

  • @LeonardGuzman-z9v
    @LeonardGuzman-z9v Месяц назад +7

    He's so raw

  • @Hortonfantastic4
    @Hortonfantastic4 Месяц назад +8

    2:26 girl you have no idea. My 19 year old self had heard Pearl Jam on the radio. Loved the sound. But this performance right here. I watched it when it aired and it blew my mind. Eddie Vedder was beautiful and tortured and expressive and his voice. I was obsessed for years. Eventually he cut his hair to a bob length and it totally ruined his hotness but his voice is still good to this day.

  • @josephbond8280
    @josephbond8280 Месяц назад +24

    Eddie and Chris are magical together.

  • @DanielRodriguez-eh1qd
    @DanielRodriguez-eh1qd Месяц назад +16

    I agree completely, that lyrical section is one of the most gut punching parts in all of music for me. Even after being married having children and having a relatively wonderful life, that feeling has never gone away and I doubt it ever will. I wish no one would ever have to experience it.

  • @darrenwoolley8433
    @darrenwoolley8433 Месяц назад +2

    This song hits me so hard I haven't seen my daughter for years and I feel the pain every time I hear this song I wake up most days and want to die but something keeps me going thank you for talking about these things it does help.

  • @75downs
    @75downs Месяц назад +10

    My favorite song of all time.

  • @TheGalwayjoyce
    @TheGalwayjoyce Месяц назад +22

    The line where he says "...so why do I sear?", is a double entendre. "So why do I see her?". It makes more sense when you realize he's talking about being around children--which is a schematic double entendre. Not only does he resent their ignorant happiness (one he no longer has), but it's a reminder of the future--and family--that he'll never have with her.

    • @88kimberlykaye
      @88kimberlykaye Месяц назад +1

      I disagree with the See her part. I think he meant how it angers him, searing in pain about the possibility of the future of having a family with this certain person. She was the love of his life back then and killed him when she cheated on him and let him for another man. He went to a dark place, and I am so happy he found his real true love and their wonderful children he adores. Eddie is truly one of a kind person and singer

  • @Emilie-one
    @Emilie-one Месяц назад +6

    This is one of my favorite songs.. the emotion in this performance gets me every time❤😢❤

  • @melocoton7
    @melocoton7 Месяц назад +9

    Eddie is a living GenX legend ❤ Pearl Jam was my 90’s teenage soundtrack

  • @jskipper13
    @jskipper13 Месяц назад +3

    Brings tears to my eyes every time I hear this song. - to all those who have felt heartbreak.

    • @David_Theisen
      @David_Theisen Месяц назад

      Listen to POD’s Full Color!! Sonny wanting his mom back and questioning God! “How can I trust what I can’t touch and can’t see” it’s a powerful message!! Also AIC’s Rooster

  • @benradkaii9186
    @benradkaii9186 Месяц назад +2

    I absolutely love it when reactors like you get it!!

  • @laura-annknox709
    @laura-annknox709 Месяц назад +13

    When my little doggie died, I just laid in bed and listened to this on repeat. I still can't hear it without crying. He was the most perfect being in my life

    • @Laura-v9p7q
      @Laura-v9p7q Месяц назад +1

      I can relate to that. my dogs each have their own songs.

  • @dasninjastix
    @dasninjastix Месяц назад +12

    5:32 - I'm gonna keep pointing this out on all the reaction videos to this song, because the way Eddie sings "Cradle" is one of the best vocal tones in performance history.

  • @cliveklg7739
    @cliveklg7739 Месяц назад +10

    He sang this at show in tribute to Chris Cornell. End changed a bit that made it even more powerful, besides him breaking down crying. Can find it on youtube. After we blong together he adds the pleading in the additional lines with him singing "come back... come back" and the crowd then supporting him.

  • @ThomasMaurielloUX
    @ThomasMaurielloUX Месяц назад +1

    Really enjoyed this. Not sure why I always tear up listening to this song but the pain is very raw and in your face and I easy to identify with.

  • @dibsontacos
    @dibsontacos Месяц назад +4

    "I know you'll be a star in somebody else's sky" still makes me tear up and I've listened to this song thousands of times. One of the greatest songs ever written.

  • @Gary_M
    @Gary_M Месяц назад +8

    Another great heartbreak song by a grunge master is Nothing Compares 2U covered by Chris Cornell. Recorded at a radio station with just voice, guitars and cello, it's an amazing performance that would be a great compliment to this video. Thanks for what you do!

  • @petschmann
    @petschmann Месяц назад +6

    I grew up with this Music! It is still a privilege! Even my kids love this music!

  • @johngoad
    @johngoad Месяц назад +24

    His soundtrack album "Into the Wild" crushes me.

    • @beza511
      @beza511 Месяц назад +5

      There’s never been a soundtrack that matches a film so well. It’s amazing

    • @ndbaker74
      @ndbaker74 Месяц назад

      Right there with you, man.

    • @richardrobey9658
      @richardrobey9658 10 дней назад +1

      Same here , I think it’s called “Society”

  • @brodys12
    @brodys12 Месяц назад +1

    So sad and beautiful! Saw them last week at Fenway and I was crying inside when they played this.

  • @Kappowski
    @Kappowski Месяц назад +8

    STP "Still remains" and or AIC "Love Hate Love" have similar loss themes. AIC is so powerful and STP so poetic. Both worth a listen.

  • @shannontreiber1070
    @shannontreiber1070 Месяц назад +5

    Most emotive singer of my lifetime. Hands down.

  • @lukelarsson
    @lukelarsson Месяц назад +6

    I’m so thankful for having been able to grow up in the time of Pearl Jam. They were the first band I fell in love with at the age of 15 and they’re still my favorite band 31 years later. Eddie was a great influence on me and probably millions of other teenage boys like me. He made it normal to show emotion. Eddie was the first one in my life to talk about politics and women’s rights. What made it even cooler was the fact that PJ lived about 30 minutes down the road from me. It was such an exciting time.

  • @katgairland7424
    @katgairland7424 Месяц назад +2

    Idk if chris cornell is on your radar but absolutely listen omg and soundgarden

  • @randyhanner3188
    @randyhanner3188 Месяц назад +4

    Eddie's actually crying during this performance. By far one of the best live performances of all time

  • @feminist5641
    @feminist5641 Месяц назад +4

    Female Gen X here....I'm still in love with Eddie Vedder and PJ is still my absolute favorite band. 90s ruled

  • @xaviergutierrez4382
    @xaviergutierrez4382 Месяц назад +5

    That ending, "WE BELONG TOGETHER" is gut wrenching... My skin irritated by goosebumps and my eyes water every time...

  • @RolandDeschain1
    @RolandDeschain1 Месяц назад +4

    I was 15 when this record came out and it had an epochal effect on me and all my friends.
    It didn't just change my life, it DEFINED it. Especially this song.

  • @francasso1
    @francasso1 18 дней назад

    Wow, I have heard this sing since it came out. I have always loved it. Strangely hearing you share your understanding of the lyrics and the power of the song had me with a lump in my throat and tears in my eyes. Thank you for this experience ❤️

  • @jasonhartley
    @jasonhartley Месяц назад +1

    Best reaction to this beautiful song I have ever heard. Having to let everything go black before you can start to feel again is the most amazing and relevant thing I have ever heard. Thank you!

  • @hnchmen34
    @hnchmen34 Месяц назад +5

    Shout out Dave Abbruzzese on the drum kit...

  • @crob635
    @crob635 Месяц назад +5

    We're all still in love with Eddie Vedder.
    PJ- song Daughter, is also an amazing song.

    • @dominicsdailyvlogs178
      @dominicsdailyvlogs178 Месяц назад +1

      One of their best, I might get hate for this comment but I feel like Ten is their only good album with every song on it a masterpiece, it feels to me it’s their only album you can listen to every song through the end.

    • @padraigsisk4057
      @padraigsisk4057 17 дней назад

      @@dominicsdailyvlogs178Back spacer for me

  • @fanboy270
    @fanboy270 Месяц назад +6

    "I know someday you'll have a beautiful life,
    I know you'll be a star
    In somebody else's sky,
    but why, why, whyyyyyy
    Can't it be,
    can't it be mine"
    Great verse.
    This is why must love GOD (YAH) 1st & foremost. Then the betrayal & rejection from others (which is inevitable) doesn't devastate us so completely