My tormentor is headed to prison for trying to kill me and she blames me for her being in jail I have a broken skull and am deaf in my right ear now got hit in the back of the head at 6:30 in the morning. She is facing 20 years and we are finally free from the abuse.
Thank you! I met a covert naccisist on a christian dating site and dated for 11 mths almost reaching marriage. I thought I had struck gold meeting her. It blows my mind now reflecting on who that person actually is and the layers of manipulation they use. I am praying that the next man that is trapped sees behind the mask before getting trapped in marriage. That was nearly me. I truely loved the fake mask as most of us do. The devil dresses as an angel of light. We are FREE indeed! You shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free as the Lord says
My situation exactly...dated exactly a year and one day my stomach would turn in knots outright disrespect by a single mother committed towards me had come to the surface and I had to leave...merely disagreeing with them is all it takes. Freeeeee .....Knowing their shame is the only validation needed. Never engage...run far away. Empaths rule
They knew what they were doing. This is the part we have to come to terms with. High-level deception in a setting that you take for granted as 'safe'. But as long as God is on His throne as Father and King, they will be dealt with and they will never be established in the land. It is the heart that God sees and judges it's purity and motives. They don't genuinely repent and as for full recognition and sorrow for pain caused to another ? Never. Father said that His sheep know His voice. That says it all concerning their Salvation in the state they are in. All have sinned and fallen short of God's glory but some salvations are never worked out in this life. Many believe they are converted when there was never any real conversion in the first place. Satan appears as an angel of light and it is up to us now, with this hard hitting revelation, to wake up and know the battle we are in for our souls.
One day, they will reap what they've sewed. Even with someone else, they may have the image of finally being ok. But, behind closed doors, they convert back to the same toxic pattern. And ruin that relationship, too.
Your videos help me with my healing so much. Please never remove them. I watch them over and over, and I feel like they are like medicine to my soul. Thank you.
Thank you so much for this Lily. So many of us who have survived narcissistic abuse have wondered if they will ever be held accountable for what they've done. I rest knowing that there will come a day when my ex will be held accountable for all of the cruel destruction he has caused. I leave it in God's hands knowing that vengeance is His, not mine. Thank you for reminding us that as a believer it is OK to want justice. You're right....those of us who are no longer in that cruel, abusive relationship are the ones who are truly FREE!
Thank you for sharing your experience is helping me and others who have gone through this and are going through this God bless you for sharing your experience
Lily, thank you so much for your video. I think one of the things that I struggle with is, that even though some people find solace in knowing that they escaped the clutches of a narcissistic bear, caught in a bear trap and at the bottom of a pit, I still love the bear. It's a struggle to feel happy and contented that they cannot harm me further when my compassion for them is ignited and my heart aches, wishing I could help them. In other words, yes, the pain from their betrayal is brutal.... but so is the helplessness of not knowing what I can do to rescue them from themselves. I feel guilty like I'm leaving them to a horrible fate
Wonderful topic about justice! Genuinely born again Christian seek justice, the Lord hear the cries of children. Proverbs 26:23-28 stated, "Burning lips and a wicked 🖤 heart are like a potsherd covered with silver dross. 24. He that hates dissemble with his lips, and lay up deceit within him. 25. When he speak fair, believe him not, because there are seven abominations in his heart. 26. Whose hatred is covered by deceit, his wickedness shall exposed before the whole congregation. 27. Whoso dig a pit for someone else shall fall therein; and he that roll a stone for someone, it will return upon him. 28. A lying tongue hate those that are afflicted by it; and a flattering mouth work ruin." The name of King David son that rapped his sister Tamar is Ammon.
Lily, thank you for your posts. It is so hard to find Christian perspective regarding narcissist abuse. The pain is so incredible you consider getting help where you can. I look forward to more insight on this topic.
Thank you for addressing the issues with a focus on spiritual perspective that makes healing much easier. Its much easier to heal with a Bibilical explanation of what has happened.
You are soo right, !! He keeps asking me to go back , begging , i do it and there he goes again in a couple of months to behave bad and asking to leave. i have to start all over again, i am done tired of the circle.
This topic has been at the front of my thoughts for several weeks now and I would really like to say thank you for your helpful insight and reassurance in believing that their misdeeds are not going unnoticed and that in his time and not our time justice will be delivered. Thank you for your words🙏
Wow, thank you! Sending big hugs back your way! :) I pray you get to hear these same words spoken to you one day as God takes this awful season and uses it to push you towards what you were created for and made to do! Keep going and God bless!
Totally agree! You are saying it so well what I was thinking...my pastor said not to fight back (Exodus 14:14) but it is so hard to be a punching back for that narcissistic person.
thank you this did help me.... my narc has mental illness so i can't be angry at him because he is a victim of his illness--i do feel the sense of injustice but I am happy for my freedom
Narcissist will use shift blaming and guilt tripping and use those things to judge you so they can put you down. Reading these verses help me know that I don't have to lift a finger to get revenge. Therefore thou art inexcusable, O man, whosoever thou art that judgest: for wherein thou judgest another, thou condemnest thyself; for thou that judgest doest the same things. But we are sure that the judgment of God is according to truth against them which commit such things. And thinkest thou this, O man, that judgest them which do such things, and doest the same, that thou shalt escape the judgment of God? Romans 2:1-3 KJV
Genesis 3:15 - KJV. It seems narcissists are created this way. The limbic system (emotional center) in a narcissist's brain is abnormal. Hence the childish rages (narcissitic rage). Can a leopard change its spots? I think all narcissist should undergo self awareness counseling. The biblical aspects you discuss are excellent. Narcissits in the bible. Satan (Isaiah 14), Absalom (in my opinion) and others.
Does their future consequences return my years, my children's hearts, my children's childhood, my dead horse?Then it will never be enough. You sound way to compassionate for the evil ones....
It really annoys me that your videos don’t populate on my regular subscription feed because you are literally what I need to be listening to every day! Were you married to a narcissist? I was married to one for 18 years I am also a Christian. He has infiltrated the higher echelon‘s of members of staff at our church and of course spread the smear campaign on me.It’s such a famous church I won’t mention it here so it really breaks my heart that they are not seeing his narcissistic spirit from afar
Sadly, this is often the case. Google for DARVO, Drs. Ramani and Darren Magee have some good videos on this subject: - sounds like you've fallen victim to the clever narcissist's DARVO tactics. That and the predictable smear campaign. All narcs are dishonest, they'll LIE outta their teeth, then feel no remorse for it; - they have no conscience, consider yourself fortunate to have escaped the narc's clutches.
they are worried about their reputation far more than they ever worried about your wellbeing
It is better to live on the corner of your rooftop than in the house with an angry person.
Sounds like Proverbs 21:9
Having peace in my life is justice for me; I prayed for it and God delivered me from the narcissist.
My tormentor is headed to prison for trying to kill me and she blames me for her being in jail I have a broken skull and am deaf in my right ear now got hit in the back of the head at 6:30 in the morning. She is facing 20 years and we are finally free from the abuse.
WoW thank the Lord your alive and justice was served!
Thank you! I met a covert naccisist on a christian dating site and dated for 11 mths almost reaching marriage. I thought I had struck gold meeting her. It blows my mind now reflecting on who that person actually is and the layers of manipulation they use. I am praying that the next man that is trapped sees behind the mask before getting trapped in marriage. That was nearly me. I truely loved the fake mask as most of us do. The devil dresses as an angel of light.
We are FREE indeed! You shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free as the Lord says
I'm sorry my buy bff 😞 had a huge crush on was a christain who used me for money to get new supplies over and over again my fault but never again
My situation exactly...dated exactly a year and one day my stomach would turn in knots outright disrespect by a single mother committed towards me had come to the surface and I had to leave...merely disagreeing with them is all it takes. Freeeeee .....Knowing their shame is the only validation needed. Never engage...run far away. Empaths rule
They knew what they were doing. This is the part we have to come to terms with. High-level deception in a setting that you take for granted as 'safe'. But as long as God is on His throne as Father and King, they will be dealt with and they will never be established in the land. It is the heart that God sees and judges it's purity and motives. They don't genuinely repent and as for full recognition and sorrow for pain caused to another ? Never. Father said that His sheep know His voice. That says it all concerning their Salvation in the state they are in. All have sinned and fallen short of God's glory but some salvations are never worked out in this life. Many believe they are converted when there was never any real conversion in the first place. Satan appears as an angel of light and it is up to us now, with this hard hitting revelation, to wake up and know the battle we are in for our souls.
One day, they will reap what they've sewed. Even with someone else, they may have the image of finally being ok. But, behind closed doors, they convert back to the same toxic pattern. And ruin that relationship, too.
Their still biting 😂😂 still mad with RAGE
Your videos help me with my healing so much. Please never remove them. I watch them over and over, and I feel like they are like medicine to my soul. Thank you.
GREAT LECTURE !!!! THANKS 😊😊😊😊😊
Add the narcissist to a world wide prayer line 🎉
Thank you so much for this Lily. So many of us who have survived narcissistic abuse have wondered if they will ever be held accountable for what they've done. I rest knowing that there will come a day when my ex will be held accountable for all of the cruel destruction he has caused. I leave it in God's hands knowing that vengeance is His, not mine. Thank you for reminding us that as a believer it is OK to want justice. You're right....those of us who are no longer in that cruel, abusive relationship are the ones who are truly FREE!
Wow this is really really excellent. Thanks so much!!!!
💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖🙏🏻🙏🏻💖🙏🏻🙏🏻
This world is evil, this is the narc's playground. They win here, but not in the next world.
thank you for this validation. I know it'll eventually catch up to him and he's not hiding from God.
You are a beautiful sole
Thank you for doing the work of healing
Thank you. In a tough place, so this is reassuring.
Thanks Sister! May the Most High bless and continue to be your strength!
Thank you for sharing your experience is helping me and others who have gone through this and are going through this God bless you for sharing your experience
I love that you love GOD!
Its brutal.
Lily, thank you so much for your video. I think one of the things that I struggle with is, that even though some people find solace in knowing that they escaped the clutches of a narcissistic bear, caught in a bear trap and at the bottom of a pit, I still love the bear. It's a struggle to feel happy and contented that they cannot harm me further when my compassion for them is ignited and my heart aches, wishing I could help them. In other words, yes, the pain from their betrayal is brutal.... but so is the helplessness of not knowing what I can do to rescue them from themselves. I feel guilty like I'm leaving them to a horrible fate
Thank you
Wonderful topic about justice! Genuinely born again Christian seek justice, the Lord hear the cries of children. Proverbs 26:23-28 stated, "Burning lips and a wicked 🖤 heart are like a potsherd covered with silver dross. 24. He that hates dissemble with his lips, and lay up deceit within him. 25. When he speak fair, believe him not, because there are seven abominations in his heart. 26. Whose hatred is covered by deceit, his wickedness shall exposed before the whole congregation. 27. Whoso dig a pit for someone else shall fall therein; and he that roll a stone for someone, it will return upon him. 28. A lying tongue hate those that are afflicted by it; and a flattering mouth work ruin."
The name of King David son that rapped his sister Tamar is Ammon.
Thank you.
Lily, thank you for your posts. It is so hard to find Christian perspective regarding narcissist abuse. The pain is so incredible you consider getting help where you can. I look forward to more insight on this topic.
Hi Nicole! Thanks so much for your comment! I will try to put out more content soon. :)
Thank you again great information i want justice not revenge God bless
Thank you for your timely reminders, God is LOVE and he knows and understands what we need and want, so we leave it with him. much love lily xxxx
Thank you for addressing the issues with a focus on spiritual perspective that makes healing much easier. Its much easier to heal with a Bibilical explanation of what has happened.
thank you 🙏
You are soo right, !! He keeps asking me to go back , begging , i do it and there he goes again in a couple of months to behave bad and asking to leave. i have to start all over again, i am done tired of the circle.
Hand the narcissist over to the lord and leave it there 😘 💯
Wise advice, perhaps, but tough to do in real life.
I have struggled intensely with this today. I asked God why? Your perspective has helped me so much. Thank you.
So true! Thanks for this. God is sovereign. I think they need demonic deliverance also.
This topic has been at the front of my thoughts for several weeks now and I would really like to say thank you for your helpful insight and reassurance in believing that their misdeeds are not going unnoticed and that in his time and not our time justice will be delivered.
Thank you for your words🙏
This is so good better than church
Very wise
Great wisdom beautifully expressed. Thank you.
Love your posts. You are the ultimate blessing in this awful season of my life. Big hugs x.
Wow, thank you! Sending big hugs back your way! :) I pray you get to hear these same words spoken to you one day as God takes this awful season and uses it to push you towards what you were created for and made to do! Keep going and God bless!
Totally agree! You are saying it so well what I was thinking...my pastor said not to fight back (Exodus 14:14) but it is so hard to be a punching back for that narcissistic person.
They will answer in this life or the next.
My job is to forgive and release.
👍 ✔️ 👍
thank you this did help me.... my narc has mental illness so i can't be angry at him because he is a victim of his illness--i do feel the sense of injustice but I am happy for my freedom
REJOICE YOU HAVE BEEN SET FREE
Thank you Sister
It’s very sad whej you have narcissistic parents and then deal with a narcissistic partner
Love this video.
Narcissist will use shift blaming and guilt tripping and use those things to judge you so they can put you down. Reading these verses help me know that I don't have to lift a finger to get revenge.
Therefore thou art inexcusable, O man, whosoever thou art that judgest: for wherein thou judgest another, thou condemnest thyself; for thou that judgest doest the same things. But we are sure that the judgment of God is according to truth against them which commit such things. And thinkest thou this, O man, that judgest them which do such things, and doest the same, that thou shalt escape the judgment of God?
Romans 2:1-3 KJV
Yes they are still in thee PIT they dug for themselves 🤣 yikes 😳
You're a pretty girl inside and out.
Genesis 3:15 - KJV.
It seems narcissists are created this way. The limbic system (emotional center) in a narcissist's brain is abnormal. Hence the childish rages (narcissitic rage). Can a leopard change its spots?
I think all narcissist should undergo self awareness counseling.
The biblical aspects you discuss are excellent. Narcissits in the bible. Satan (Isaiah 14), Absalom (in my opinion) and others.
It's high time I can reclaim my birth right! Oh yeah. It's all mine and not theirs.
Oh she faced consequences! She lost me and pardon my brag but I am a catch. Since she only wants what she cannot have I am happy.
Lol trust me they don't get away with anything no one does
were can I find verse of the women going on the unjust judge in the Bible and all the v verse you mention plEASE>
Luke 18:1-8
@@FurnaceForged thanks do you any more verse of the narcissist in the Bible please .thanks
God hates the wicked ..... you don't have to feel guilty looking for justice
See ..... Ceasars Messiah
Better a dinner of herbs 🌿 where love is , then eating a stald ox where hatred is therein .
Does their future consequences return my years, my children's hearts, my children's childhood, my dead horse?Then it will never be enough. You sound way to compassionate for the evil ones....
God is ABLE to restore all you have lost if you believe in Him. Stay in Faith!
I saw three of them committing suicide.
It really annoys me that your videos don’t populate on my regular subscription feed because you are literally what I need to be listening to every day! Were you married to a narcissist? I was married to one for 18 years I am also a Christian. He has infiltrated the higher echelon‘s of members of staff at our church and of course spread the smear campaign on me.It’s such a famous church I won’t mention it here so it really breaks my heart that they are not seeing his narcissistic spirit from afar
Sadly, this is often the case. Google for DARVO, Drs. Ramani and Darren Magee have some good videos on this subject: - sounds like you've fallen victim to the clever narcissist's DARVO tactics. That and the predictable smear campaign. All narcs are dishonest, they'll LIE outta their teeth, then feel no remorse for it; - they have no conscience, consider yourself fortunate to have escaped the narc's clutches.
They are weak trust me
It is better to live on the corner of your rooftop than in the house with an angry person.