yes popularity is so important for some reason ? after upper school and into college (16-18yo) everyone is friends with who they want.. no tension at all
not even just to each other too, i have so many memories of kids just being complete brats to the teachers and now that i'm older i feel so bad for them 😭
In my experience with American schools, both as a student and as a parent, meals were not free unless you qualified as low-income. Nowadays, your parents pay money into your school lunch account, and then when you buy school meals it comes out of your account. During Covid the school districts got funds from the government and meals were free to all students in a lot of places.
Its similar in the UK, meals weren't expensive like they sound in Australia. But you'd have a dinner card in comprehensive which you or your parents would put money on and you'd use that. A meal in my school would be around £3 ish.
@@charlesplant9553 I think that's about what a meal costs in my area too. Our state/district did allocate funds to free meals for students again this year, which would be very nice if my son wasn't too "cool" for school lunch.
This rings true for me in the states. Elementary school I think parents paid for hot lunch tickets, so kids could either have whatever the school was serving that day, or bring their own. Middle and high school was al la carte, so you could pick what you wanted but pay for each item, or bring your own.
I would just follow the TWO other black girls around in the school (we weren't even really friends, I just felt safe around them) because people would casually pick on my African features. Apparently afros are really funny to white kids? Maybe because their only association with them was clowns and funny halloween costumes? I was super insecure about being a black girl in a really white city. High school wasn't the greatest... I definitely became the art girl so I could avoid talking to people and just have my head in my sketchbook but I'm kind of glad it went that way because now I have a successful career in animation and illustration :)
Same here, as a mixed person whose school was very "race segregated". Not legally thankfully but usually you hung out with people from your race and nobody outside of that. Never felt good for either groups so I drew a lot. I'm an illustration student at uni now so very cool. 💖
I'm sorry this was your experience, but so glad it turned out well for you! High School can be so formative in both the positive and the negative ways.
I've been playing as my self sim in high-school and slowly living thee way i wanted/hoped it would go and its healing me in so many ways i love it! got my tea ready lets gooo
For me personally High School was a really tough time. I remember always being bullied a lot in primary school and than after my dad passed away I changed schools and was able to escape that crowd, and start fresh. I remember all the students being extremely sweet and kind towards me. It was such a shock to my system. I even remember once I fell over and hurt myself on my hand during camp and one of the girls in my class who I didn't know very well came running over to see if I was okay. I remember she asked if it was okay if she held my hand and if I minded if she said a little prayer. I was VERY confused, it wasn't that big a deal and no one had ever asked something like that before, but I just said yes because to me it was the thought that counted behind the act, not the act itself. Even if I thought it was a bizarre thing to do I was touched and thanked her for her kindness. I hadn't experienced anything like it before. I was never really bullied in High School, so much as I was really affected with the passing of my father and the trauma from primary school that I became very reclusive and would hide a lot of the time. I remember the majority of High School I would just spend lunch time and morning recess in the toilets or the library escaping. My fellow classmates ended up talking to me at one point and asking if I was okay and that if I ever needed to talk they were there for me. It was such a different experience from my other school, but I struggled a lot. It wasn't until I finally started seeing the counselor there that I got the courage to ask a group of my fellow peers if I could join them at lunch playing cards. I found out one of the girls also went to the same ballroom dancing place I used to love going to before I left after shifting, so I decided to join back again and it helped with finding that spark of joy again. It was then I started to make some new friends and we would try to support one another the best we could. **TRIGGER WARNING - SUICIDE** Sadly I remember in grade 10, one of the people that would sometimes join us for cards at lunch ended up committing suicide over the mid year holiday and it was absolutely heartbreaking. He was always quiet like myself, but very sweet and would have the sweetest smile. I felt my heart break for his family and recall a huge service being held in the auditorium for him and a massive discussion was held surrounding mental health awareness and more counselors were brought in for anyone who felt they needed to talk. Then my best friend I had known since we lived across from each other when I was 10 sadly passed away when we were in grade 11. It was a horrible car accident, so sudden and unexpected, she was such a beautiful shining light. I recall her dreaming of becoming an actress for years and then one day she changed her mind and said all she wanted was to start a family and to live a happy and healthy life filled with love. She was such a deep soul with the most contagious laughter I've ever heard. I was blessed to know each and every one of them ❤ Needless to say, mentally I wasn't coping and so my psychiatrist was able to make it so I could finish grade 11 by just completing the assignments and not the exams and then for grade 12, rather than go back to school, I was able to complete it within the year at TAFE. I had to get some documents signed since I was technically underage at the time, but I got in and then one of my teachers there was so kind and understanding. The whole system was so much different to school that I even started to improve in my grades. From averaging a C at High School I was suddenly getting the equivalent of A+ all the time and all I needed was that little extra care, attention and time. I was able to get into University too and am now going for my honours. It was certainly a tough, sad road, but there are still many happy memories I can look back on and remember those I have loved and lost, so they still live on.
I sort of went through a similar experience. My dad passed away during my high school years and I was bullied by the teachers of all people. They disregarded my IEP (I’m disabled and at the time, I didn’t know it was illegal for them to disregard my IEP), yelled at me whenever I had a mental breakdown in class (they went so far as to tell me I wasn’t allowed to cry and grieve because I was ‘disrupting the class’ and whatnot), and dragged me down and convinced me I was no good and that I couldn’t do anything right. I became insecure, timid, and depressed and I attempted my life several times during those years. If it weren’t for my best friend Felix and my dad himself before he passed, I don’t know what I would have done, they bullied me before that as my dad was already dying and I would have panic attacks in class. Unfortunately, I’m still recovering from the trauma and I don’t think the damage can be fully undone. Their words may have broken me for good and damaged me beyond repair, but I’m not giving up and I will endure.
I was so disappointed about this too! As well as band practice bc I was a band kid 😂 It would be cool to have band camp/marching band practice in the separate field area
Yes. I was in choir, speech club (forensics) , either acted or ran sets for every play and musical, went to every home game for basketball and football because I had friends on the teams and in the band, was a TA, attended every dance we had after each home game, played piano, had a part-time job, and held down a 3.75GPA. Could've done better if I'd bothered to study or did all my homework. Sometimes I wonder how the heck I did it, but I was fueled by ramen, Diet Coke, and chocolate chip cookies.
Fun to get to know a bit more about your life experiences this way. In my high school I remember liking people and never being reciprocated, so I never had a boyfriend of flings at this time, just cared a lot about doing well in school. We didn't really have dances, (I live in Brazil) but we did have a lot of events and things that I liked participating in. Got to be a part of a "Hunted House" type of experience that me and my collegues created, did dance presentations, organized a "Just Dance" competition, sang at a choire...it was fun. Before writing this I forgot I had done all of this. I was really insecure, but I had great friends and that helped a lot.
I was always the awkward quiet girl at my school, and I was always gossiped about when I was dating someone, or teased sometimes when I talked because no one thought I could because I was so quiet 🤣. Fortunately, people seemed to like me for the most part but I definitely had my "Mean girls" moments where I wanted to fit in with the more popular crowd and I'd honestly change that if I could. That wasn't who I was and I hate that I got sucked into it.
This had me reminiscing about my own high school and middle school experiences, the good and the bad. It was very nice and pretty funny looking back at it all, thank you so much for another great video, Deli! 💗💌
In high school, i was picked on frequently by a girl i considered my “friend” she was a very toxic person; she manipulated and isolated me so I couldn’t make other friends very well. I hope to use this pack to create the high school experience i would always dream of.
This was so much fun! I loved hearing about your high school memories. It's so crazy to me to remember how much drama we used to have as teens as opposed to adults lmao
Thank you for sharing your experiences! They made me smile and cringe with you. High school is a wild time to look back on, isn't it? I was a big geek, even then, who loved drama club and dressed like Avril Lavigne but also like I was cosplaying an elf in Lord of the Rings 😅 I had a pretty up and down time. I had a glorious freshman year full of theater club, ditching with the Seniors, football games, and homecoming dances, first crushes, and all that. Then, I experienced a lot of bullying and anxiety in Sophomore year and fell in with a pretty bad dude who isolated me from the friends I had. But thankfully, I ditched him as summer rolled around and I spent a lot of time repairing relationships and rediscovering me. I joined the local church youth group and met great new friends and the boy who became my high school sweetheart. He took me to prom on a boat in our senior year and then I married him the following winter. 😊 I spent a lot of high school being wrapped up in my head about things that felt SO important back then. It's funny with some time the clarity it brought how trivial a lot of it was. I wish I could tell my younger self to enjoy the good times more and not so much the drama, but in the end, I guess that's just part of being a teen!
This was cute! In the US we did pay for school lunch in the cafeteria. I don’t think it was ever more than $5 (but I graduated in 1998 so who knows now!). They do in some schools offer a free breakfast for kids who might not be getting food at home and I think low income families may get some kind of break on school meals but I’m not sure. But they definitely weren’t free. I remember the best thing my school served were chocolate chip cookies and they were so gooey and warm like barely cooked. We also had vending machines so it was just junk food all over the place lol
Hearing Deli talk about all that high school stuff is so funny to me, like I’ve never even heard of parties at my school (they’re probably a thing we’re I live but I’m not really close to the others lol) and prom/after parties don’t exist at all except for when you graduate
High school was definitely a time -- so much drama mixed with a ton of formative experiences. The BEST thing about high school for me was meeting my high school sweetheart senior year, who is now my wife
I had a blast in high school... I would never go back (I like being an adult), but it was a ton of fun. Sad to read about everyone else's f**cked up high school experiences.
I worked through school, though considering it was a farm school so did pretty much everyone else, and also because of the farm school thing, girls talked about all kinds of stuff. Like legit we had heated discussions about the best leaf to use when going to the bathroom outside. If we had the kind of drama you had I had no idea about it lol. I was super unaware of everything around me. Legit in a school of 60 people I wouldn't find out two of them were dating until a month or so later.
Hearing stories about being bullied during High School make me feel sad for the victims. I was so fortunate that I never got to experience that. Despite being the quiet one I had a lot of friends. Bullies were nice to me for some reason but I wasn’t friends with them at all.
I wish I had experienced more during high school. I started dating a guy my mom introduced me to when I was 14. He was 3 years older than me and he was not interested in high school activities because he had already done them all. I feel like I missed out on so much because it was always a fight when I wanted to do things that he didn't. We married and had kids and were together for 15 years. We are still best friends but we have since remarried. I worked full time all through school so I missed out on so many activities. It wasn't terrible but I wish I would've made more time for myself.
I was also the new kid in school. My first day there, one of my classmates said I had to respect her because she was considered my senior there. My refusing to do so made me the target of so much pettiness over the years.
It's so interesting hearing about your experience in Australia and how that differed from mine in US public school! Lunch was definitely not free but you could bring your own if you wanted, which I did most of the time because our cafeteria food is famously awful. There was a set menu each day so not a buffet style. Lots of pb&j sandwiches with carrots or yogurt for me 😂
My high school years were sooo awkward! I actually really wanted to forget all of it, I was a new girl, and very very shy. My schoolmates always talked mean things behind my back,and I was really struggling to find my style,so my appearance was also a good reason to hurt me. Despite all these mean things I was a real dreamer, I fell in love with a handsome classmate and I told him I like him...like you did..and everybody knew that. omg it's so cringe even thinking about it:D I didn't pick the best people to have as my friends either. So I'm so happy I grew out all of these awkwardness :D Watching your video about your experiences was so interesting and some ways comforting:) Thank you Deli!
Aww, I loved this! In high school I had the biggest crush on my neighbor. He was also my older brother's best friend and severely off limits. I thought my rom-com-boy-next-door time would come when my brother went off to college but he started going out with another girl. My heart was broken! I was sure I'd never love again! So silly ☺
My high school years included free/reduced lunch/breakfast. Having a 35 minute bus ride, going to the gas station for a 1$ coffee. Doing chores around the house, daily. Getting A's and B's and hardly ever having homework 🙃 Was a very shy kid with a few friends, but mainly lived in my books
7:35 (US) At my High School we all had Lunch Accounts and I think it was like $3.00 to buy a meal for the day, but you can add money to your account anytime by a check in the main office or pay money when you're at the cashier's counter.
I’m watching this now, but the part where she’s like I’m lactose intolerant and I had to dig a hole because the door was lock..yeah..same Deli I have IBS so I get that. I had to ride the bus, 14 also. Door locked..couldn’t help it, forgot my key..and I’ve never told anybody. But it’s nice to know that I’m not the only one out there 😂
Everyone getting free lunches is fairly new. As a parent it’s a relief. I graduated in 95 and when I was in high school you had to pay for your lunch every day. It cost around $2.50. I had to pay for my oldest kids school lunches. But around 3 years ago they finally became free for everyone.
Deliiii, this is definitely one of my favorite videos of yours! It makes me feel like your bestie when I sit here and listen to you tell your HS stories
you were more social then me but you are right, looking back on highschool it really wasn't that bad, i think my anxiety made it worse. I think the best memories came from theater guild, i was in the tech crew and it was really fun, some snooty people, but also so really cool people.
When I was in school (US, 80s and 90s), the cafeteria definitely was NOT free/included. In elementary/middle school we had to buy lunch tickets and then we got one of two choices available that day. High school you paid with cash per item. Kids with needs might get lunch tickets given to them or breakfast provided (most people didn't eat breakfast at school). You had to qualify for that and there was a huge stigma, which certainly wasn't fair.
My school system provided free breakfast to everyone. Lunch was fairly cheap ($2) or if you were low income you'd qualify for free lunch. There were also vending machines and some other extras to spend more money on, but they definitely made it so that everyone could eat. I was long out of school when covid started but they delivered meals to anyone who signed up when the schools were closed.
I was pretty much a wallflower- focused on my studies, had a few crushes but never had the courage to tell them. However, I did invite one of my crushes to prom senior year, we went to the same church but different schools and he ended up finding himself a girlfriend and dancing with her most of the night. I still get sad thinking about it almost 10 years later, just because it ruined the last weeks of high school for me- wish I could give my younger self a hug and invited a friend instead.
We didn't have prom either, we did have a formal graduation at the end of high-school, where you know you get your diploma and everything, and then we went partying in some restaurant as a group of friends not like couples and stuff like that. I dont remember having couples in school, or maybe because these stuff were not allowed in school so people who had feelings for each other had to keep them for outside school.
Deli - To clarify something about cafeterias - at least in the US, you absolutely do have to pay for your lunch at the cafeteria. There ARE programs for free/reduced cost lunches for lower income students (so that might be where you're getting that?), but it's only for lower income kids - if your family makes anything resembling a living wage, you have to pay for lunch. When I was a kid (20 years ago lol) lunch at school was very affordable - like $2.50 I think? - but you did still have to pay and the food was usually terrible. Like I remember one of the most common meals being stale rolls, instant mashed potatoes, and frozen chicken nuggets - clearly they were also very healthy and balanced hahah. It's fascinating to learn that Australia doesn't have school cafeterias, but thought I would hopefully clear up how they work in the US (though, to be fair, I believe they do now try to serve healthier food - but I could be wrong?)!
I live in America and we still had to pay for lunches in school unless your family didn't make a certain amount of money, then you could qualify for free or REDUCED priced lunches. My son starts school this week and it's still the same.
About American school lunches: They’re only free if you’re from an underprivileged family. It always costs money, usually your parents would load money onto your account and to pay you would enter your student ID in the lunch line. They would also accept cash. I never regularly got lunch from school, it would waste a lot of time waiting in line. A majority of students still bring packed lunches from home
I remember going to prom by bike lmao and the whole night was so awkward (we were 14/15 years old and just kind of standing there and talking) so after a while I just decided to go home and cycled back with my (ugly) heels on and some metal music and having the time of my life
omg kiss chasey. fellow aussie here and you just opened up a memory box in my head. I think kiss chasey made me date alot of people in highschool and early adult hood because it didn't set boundaries for me. I wish we had lunches provided because being a wog at school my lunches weren't vegemite sandwiches lol.
I went to prom with 4 gfs and we pulled our money together for a limousine. We danced without our shoes at the prom hotel venue and I danced in a 60 + conga line with students and teachers. It was fun.
I actually met my boyfriend in highschool! It was Carnival and I had a crush on him for over a month back then. I couldn't talk to him or anything because he wasn't in my class and I was very shy for that, but that day, wearing a unicorn costume, I had the courage to talk to him and we are currently together for two and a half years!
My highschool had popular girls but none of them were mean to people outside of their little circle 🤣 they'd literally just bully or spread rumours about their own friends and everyone else just listens to the drama every day. I was a really studious girl but I also got warned a lot for eating in class with my friends (we sat at the back of the class). I remember when my whole class decided to ditch a big event and have a quick slumber party in the class (the class block was empty cause everyone were downstairs). We got caught pretty quickly then we just scattered all over the school, hiding in bathroom stalls and laboratories 💀
At my school we had free breakfast and lunch and they were really good and nutritious. I grew up in P.R. It really different experience the school from middle School and up are not lock so we can leave the school and get lunches outside if we wanted.
Still friends with one of my high school friends, but overall, high school was pretty negative for me. Undiagnosed developmental differences, and undiagnosed mental health issues didn't work well alongside the stresses of high school for me. I stood my ground against the bullies in the popular crowd on the first day and refused to engage in bullying against one of their targets to join their crowd, and from that moment on, became one of their primary targets. If someone gave me the opportunity to go back to that time, only knowing what I know now, I'd still refuse.
yeah I’m my high school the main cafeteria menu meals were covered for some kids if they qualified and then I think it was a fee at the beginning of the year if they came from a family that could afford it but I hardly remember tbh… anyway. They also had what was called an al a carte line for yummier foods but those you had to pay for with your own money.
most schools at least in my city you have to buy a meal plan or you have to purchase a hot lunch if you don’t pack. there were extra things you can buy like chips and icecream. but for me high school was weird, the first 2 years i was shy and had a lot of anxiety and didn’t really know anyone. then i joined cheer and eventually had a big group that would party a lot and i became cheer captain and vice president of my class but my friend group had lots of drama which wasn’t fun at all haha
my "grad/prom" was the same situation here in Canada.🇨🇦 only for celebratory reasons every few years of school. also no big prom-posal ideas..unless you were dating someone or went with a friend.
School lunches here in the US are different depending on where you go to school. At some schools you have to pay for your lunches, but can get what's called a reduced fee for lunches if your family qualifies for it. One school I went to because I was in foster care so I qualified for reduced fee lunch, I only had to pay a quarter, or $0.25. Other schools here in the US do have free breakfast and lunch for all students. I went to quite a few different schools so I got to experience all of the above. Absolutely love your videos, including your vlogs. You, James and Bowser are so so so cute!!!!
In high school, I had my face buried in a sketchbook. My best friend moved away at the beginning of high school so I kept to myself for the next 3+ years. Once I got home from school, it was Sims 2 and other video games, free to play MMOs with my friends who also couldn't afford the WOW sub lol
The teacher assigned to my class (she didn't have all different subjects but was like responsible for us) HATED me for some reason. I remember she told me, after an oral presentation, that even though I qualified for an A, she didn't think I ~deserved~ it, so she would give me a C. We were alone when she told me so I had no witness and I was so shocked that I just let it slide. She also said that she didn't think I have ADHD (after I've been diagnosed and told my teacher) and wouldn't make any accommodation for my disability.
Here in Florida, USA you have to pay for your school lunches unless you are low income and the parents apply online for free or reduced lunch. Though when I was in high school late 80’s - 91 I never ate bc my mom never gave me lunch money and didn’t have anything really to make for lunch to bring to school. We weren’t poor, just middle class I guess. She was a bit preoccupied with work and her bf. As a mom myself, my kids always had the opportunity to eat lunch at school as I learned from their gma’s mistakes. 😒
here in the US, we pay for our lunches (we didn't this school year because of the virus, but the 2022-2023 school year we are going back to paying :P) and if you don't have enough money you either don't get lunch or get a cheese sandwich LOL
In America, our school lunches aren’t free unfortunately. Your parents have to put money in your account and each meal costs about $5-6. If your parents don’t make enough, you can apply for free lunches, however; then all you get is a PB&J sandwich and some sort of fruit. All of the food is terrible, the movie characters are living a dream life that we all wish we could live in haha! Just a fun fact for you, loved the video!
That wasn't my experience with free/ reduced cost meals. I could get what everyone else was getting, I just couldn't get a la carte items. My school lunches were pretty decent in the district I mainly attended too especially since we had choices of what to eat
Only the poor kids get free lunches in the US. At least that's how it was when I was in school. One time kids were pelting me with quarters, nickels, dimes and pennies (Junior High School) while I was on the lunch line. They thought they were being mean, but I filled my pockets haha. Things could have changed though, since I am 40 now.
Primary and high school had similar friends that would not invite me to things and pretend. year 7 i had a horse accident and lost 4 top adult teeth so after my op and months healing i got teased through high school as i was the only one with a partial plate. the day i come back the mean girls made me smile as i didnt have a plate yet just stitches on my roof and gums and they laughed at me
Public school is free in th US from kindergarten through high school, so there aren't any fees. All you pay for really is buying your school supplies and uniform, if your school has one, and maybe fees for extracurriculars or some class trips. Everything else is funded through taxes and raising money through drives or selling things like chocolates or items off of a catalogue. School lunch fees vary from state to state, but in my state, depending on your family's income, you qualified for free, reduced, or full price for meals. I didn't go to a public high school, but in elementary/primary school, lunches wouldn't have been more than like $3 a day full price, and 50 cents for reduced lunch, and I believe that would include breakfast for free if the student chose to have it. Things may have changed since I was in school because I'm more than a decade out of middle school though.
My high school years: i was very lonely cause i didn't fit in.... I talked to everyone if someone hurt someone else i take place cause i dont like these types of behaviour.... I was more boy-girl i mean i was feeling better hanging out with boys.. i had a boyfriend then that eventually hurt me... We didn't have a prom... Only the greek version of Halloween party... We had mashine to buy food... I was lobe to be alone with my headphones or write my feelings or read... I had a best friend... That Hurt me too..
I was bullied mercilessly through elemental and middle school. In high school I went off the rails, having to take summer classes on 10th grade. By 12th grade my grades were up and I just stopped trying to make friends and let other people talk to me if they wanted. Prom night tho… one of my best nights
I would catch the bus to and from school too it wasn’t long lmao like 15 mins on the bus. Walking about 30/35 mins. My mum would give me £10 for the bus and that was it. Never had no spending money to go shops nothing so that’s why I would walk home so at least I could save that money to buy snacks like the other kids
We had a cafeteria that served breakfast, food during the morning break and lunch as well as a tuc shop and food places and shops around our school. You had to pay for the school Meals but we also had free education , and exemptions were made for disadvantaged students
In my school in the southeastern US, we had to buy the food in the cafeteria if we didn’t pack, but it wasn’t super expensive (less than $10). It was free for students who were underprivileged and were elegance for reduced fee/free lunch.
Can’t relate. Somebody got stabbed in my high school and there were multiple bomb threats one year 😬 we called our “tuck shops” canteens but I’ve heard them being called both in Melbourne. Year 10 was my only good year in high school and that’s only because I gained a tiny bit of confidence. Started dating somebody from high school but we started dating after I graduated. We’re still together 😊
I was the type who flew from group to group in HS. I'd hangout with my hispanic/mexican friends where we joked and picked on each other alot. Then, on the days I felt like I didn't want to be around loud or obnoxious ppl, I'd go and hang out with my book nerd friends 🤓 who were alot more calm, funny, and just chill. I got my heart broken freshman year so the next 3 years were hell for me. I'd see my hs crush kissing the girl he replaced me with in the hallways ALL the time. No matter which hallway/different route I took, I'd see them 🤣 His gf came up to me at a church event knowing that I still liked him, she told me to my face that they would have couch s*x and played other mind games with me. The whole boy obsession took a toll on my mental health and that's when my emo phase started. (I was also dealing with at-home problems) Needless to say, by senior year, I didn't care who liked me or who didn't. I wore baggy, comfy clothes like sweatpants and a hoodie on the daily. I spoke to whoever I wanted to, if I wanted to. I tended to lean on my book-nerd friends more since I felt more included. Most of my HS memories are sad and traumatic. I give it a 3/10 lmaoo
I remember in my freshman year, I was so nervous that my brain didn't function to look at my class schedule, and just decided to sit with our Adviser's first teaching subject. Which is not my right class and room, and for the whole day - I was marked absent on my real class, while I follow this class I started with 🤣 I met friends tho and bois 👀🧡 but on the second day, obviously, I didn't go with that class anymore. We saw each other from time to time as schoolmates until some of them became my bffs
Public schools in America have cafeterias but the food is not free at all schools. There are programs for lower income families to get free lunches though.
My High School Years were boring and sad. I didn't do anything, I've never had a boyfriend. And graduated with a GPA of a C+. I didn't even get prom it was canceled! Dumb pandemic.😢😣😒
My high school experience was awful! I went to an all girl catholic school the school really only cared about students that would make them have a good reputation and students like me who struggled with subjects they just didn't let us do our GCSE's they kicked me out and I enrolled in college which by god was awful but thats another story. I will say that the school helped me with one thing and one thing only, they made me want to do well and prove that I am not stupid and in a month's time I will be finishing my Masters 😊
In my school there was free lunch for all kids from elementary grades and other grades if the kids are from poorer families and families with many children (we have all grades in one school building). Others bought snacks from a separate cafeteria counter. I understand younger kids needing a full meal because they burn a lot of energy but older kids just had lunch after school at home. You don't really get that hungry during classes. Also where I live we usually have schools within walking or a very short bus ride distance from home and our afterschool activities were in separate buildings unrelated to the school so we had enough time to finish classes, go home, have lunch and relax and then go to do stuff like theater or music.
I don't know of any public schools in my state that give free lunches unless you were part of a program for low income families. I started working young too and all my friends were at work, not at school, so I was already ready to leave as soon as my last class was over. I graduated a semester early and didn't go to my prom becuase I didn't enjoy most people at school. Looking back, I wish I would've stayed that last semester just to take culinary classes instead of starting college early, but I still don't know if I would've gone to prom.
Im Sweden the food in school is paid trough taxes. In kindergarten and until you are around 10 (at least where i lived) you get breakfast and a snack aswell. Long live the welfare! :D
We paid for lunch when I was in school but it was really crappy quality. If you were low income you could apply for reduced or free lunch. Right now we have free lunch program that started after COVID.
OMG, the never being invited i can relate to. High School/Comprehensive in the UK is 5 years, and the first 4 i literally would never be invited to anything, then the final year which i just finished, everyone would go out drinking and they would invite me, i never went because i don't drink like its ILLEGAL but that never stopped them, but then in school they'd be like well why didn't you come and i'd say because my idea of dun isnt drinking etc, i want to go out to meals or shopping not drinking, and even then they'd all go out shopping or to meals and never invite me. I'd always hear about it and i'd tell my mam and she'd be like its okay. Basically always left out. And then it came to Prom literally everyone had a mode of transport, going in expensive cars or party buses and stuff, even my best friend didn't ask if i wanted to go with her and her boyfriend in there SUV, and that really did hurt my feelings like i would tell my mam and she'd comfort me but it's sole destroying when everyone else seems to have fun and your stuck watching. And then two days before one of my friends asked did i want to go on their bus and i said yes, we went to prom, the food was awful and then my crush who i had crushed on for like 3 years was wearing this AMAZING dress which matched my tie and i just melted inside because i'd asked her out and separately asked her to prom but i was never enough for her because she was mega sporty where i was not and i was always seen as the Gay friend (there's nothing wrong with that) but im not Gay and everyone assumed i was even my best friend, anyway so i was never going to be enough for her. I was always used for homework or to check answers with. And i sympathise with anyone whos had similar experiences and i wouldn't wish this on anyone. When i look back at the past 5 years, they are 5 years i wish to forget mostly. And the first kiss thing, still waiting Lol :)
This makes my high school experience sound so boring. My prom after party was just going to iHop with some friends and my bf but only because the friends were already going to go and they just invited me and my bf. It was fun but after prom and graduation that friendship became pretty strained.
I spent my high school years being ashamed of myself bc I'm bi, and my parents are baptists. So I hated that liked girls, and I had really bad depression and anxiety due to having toxic parents and other things. I spent high school having anorexia, hating myself and school and really struggling with relationships and having breakdowns all the time etc. So It definitely wasn't a good time in my life. Turns out I'm autistic and didn't know until now (I'm 22) and I'm kinda like discovering myself for the first time.
My highschool experience was awful. Firstly, I got diagnosed with a whole lot of mental health issues and was treated terribly by the school because they didn't want to give me the extra support that I qualified for. Secondly, I was bullied by both students AND teachers. My friends from middle school ditched me and the few people who still wanted to hang out with me were in the grade above me, so when they graduated I had no one. It was terrible.
Cute story Deli and lovely to share however in general my Australian experience was different, including the cafeteria/tuck shop situation. Also my experience of US schools was different, my daughter went to school in Tucson Arizona for about 3 yrs and she never got a free lunch!! Missed that trick !! Regardless of the country I think there is more variation from school to school or state to state than you might think. The one thing that seems universal is mean kids, that does not seem to change sadly.
Now I want to see a sims version of your love story with James
YESSSSS! Our favorite couple
I remember teenagers being a lot meaner than adults usually are. There was so much weird tension in high school tbh.
So true lol even middle school kids were way way meaner than adults but HS too
yes popularity is so important for some reason ? after upper school and into college (16-18yo) everyone is friends with who they want.. no tension at all
not even just to each other too, i have so many memories of kids just being complete brats to the teachers and now that i'm older i feel so bad for them 😭
In my experience with American schools, both as a student and as a parent, meals were not free unless you qualified as low-income. Nowadays, your parents pay money into your school lunch account, and then when you buy school meals it comes out of your account. During Covid the school districts got funds from the government and meals were free to all students in a lot of places.
Its similar in the UK, meals weren't expensive like they sound in Australia. But you'd have a dinner card in comprehensive which you or your parents would put money on and you'd use that. A meal in my school would be around £3 ish.
I had the same experience
@@charlesplant9553 I think that's about what a meal costs in my area too. Our state/district did allocate funds to free meals for students again this year, which would be very nice if my son wasn't too "cool" for school lunch.
This rings true for me in the states. Elementary school I think parents paid for hot lunch tickets, so kids could either have whatever the school was serving that day, or bring their own. Middle and high school was al la carte, so you could pick what you wanted but pay for each item, or bring your own.
I couldn’t even grab a spoon at my highschool without paying for hot lunch when I brought my own
I would just follow the TWO other black girls around in the school (we weren't even really friends, I just felt safe around them) because people would casually pick on my African features. Apparently afros are really funny to white kids? Maybe because their only association with them was clowns and funny halloween costumes? I was super insecure about being a black girl in a really white city. High school wasn't the greatest... I definitely became the art girl so I could avoid talking to people and just have my head in my sketchbook but I'm kind of glad it went that way because now I have a successful career in animation and illustration :)
this is the most relatable thing i’ve read so far
Same here, as a mixed person whose school was very "race segregated". Not legally thankfully but usually you hung out with people from your race and nobody outside of that. Never felt good for either groups so I drew a lot. I'm an illustration student at uni now so very cool. 💖
I'm sorry this was your experience, but so glad it turned out well for you! High School can be so formative in both the positive and the negative ways.
I feel so seen. This was my experience too. Thanks for the comment!
Aww hun it sucks you went through that. Hard experiences do sometimes lead to natural ambition at least
I've been playing as my self sim in high-school and slowly living thee way i wanted/hoped it would go and its healing me in so many ways i love it! got my tea ready lets gooo
For me personally High School was a really tough time. I remember always being bullied a lot in primary school and than after my dad passed away I changed schools and was able to escape that crowd, and start fresh. I remember all the students being extremely sweet and kind towards me. It was such a shock to my system. I even remember once I fell over and hurt myself on my hand during camp and one of the girls in my class who I didn't know very well came running over to see if I was okay. I remember she asked if it was okay if she held my hand and if I minded if she said a little prayer. I was VERY confused, it wasn't that big a deal and no one had ever asked something like that before, but I just said yes because to me it was the thought that counted behind the act, not the act itself. Even if I thought it was a bizarre thing to do I was touched and thanked her for her kindness. I hadn't experienced anything like it before.
I was never really bullied in High School, so much as I was really affected with the passing of my father and the trauma from primary school that I became very reclusive and would hide a lot of the time. I remember the majority of High School I would just spend lunch time and morning recess in the toilets or the library escaping. My fellow classmates ended up talking to me at one point and asking if I was okay and that if I ever needed to talk they were there for me. It was such a different experience from my other school, but I struggled a lot. It wasn't until I finally started seeing the counselor there that I got the courage to ask a group of my fellow peers if I could join them at lunch playing cards. I found out one of the girls also went to the same ballroom dancing place I used to love going to before I left after shifting, so I decided to join back again and it helped with finding that spark of joy again.
It was then I started to make some new friends and we would try to support one another the best we could.
**TRIGGER WARNING - SUICIDE**
Sadly I remember in grade 10, one of the people that would sometimes join us for cards at lunch ended up committing suicide over the mid year holiday and it was absolutely heartbreaking. He was always quiet like myself, but very sweet and would have the sweetest smile. I felt my heart break for his family and recall a huge service being held in the auditorium for him and a massive discussion was held surrounding mental health awareness and more counselors were brought in for anyone who felt they needed to talk. Then my best friend I had known since we lived across from each other when I was 10 sadly passed away when we were in grade 11. It was a horrible car accident, so sudden and unexpected, she was such a beautiful shining light. I recall her dreaming of becoming an actress for years and then one day she changed her mind and said all she wanted was to start a family and to live a happy and healthy life filled with love. She was such a deep soul with the most contagious laughter I've ever heard. I was blessed to know each and every one of them ❤
Needless to say, mentally I wasn't coping and so my psychiatrist was able to make it so I could finish grade 11 by just completing the assignments and not the exams and then for grade 12, rather than go back to school, I was able to complete it within the year at TAFE. I had to get some documents signed since I was technically underage at the time, but I got in and then one of my teachers there was so kind and understanding. The whole system was so much different to school that I even started to improve in my grades. From averaging a C at High School I was suddenly getting the equivalent of A+ all the time and all I needed was that little extra care, attention and time. I was able to get into University too and am now going for my honours.
It was certainly a tough, sad road, but there are still many happy memories I can look back on and remember those I have loved and lost, so they still live on.
I sort of went through a similar experience. My dad passed away during my high school years and I was bullied by the teachers of all people. They disregarded my IEP (I’m disabled and at the time, I didn’t know it was illegal for them to disregard my IEP), yelled at me whenever I had a mental breakdown in class (they went so far as to tell me I wasn’t allowed to cry and grieve because I was ‘disrupting the class’ and whatnot), and dragged me down and convinced me I was no good and that I couldn’t do anything right. I became insecure, timid, and depressed and I attempted my life several times during those years. If it weren’t for my best friend Felix and my dad himself before he passed, I don’t know what I would have done, they bullied me before that as my dad was already dying and I would have panic attacks in class. Unfortunately, I’m still recovering from the trauma and I don’t think the damage can be fully undone. Their words may have broken me for good and damaged me beyond repair, but I’m not giving up and I will endure.
I wish they had school plays!!!! That was 100% of my high school days lol
I was so disappointed about this too! As well as band practice bc I was a band kid 😂 It would be cool to have band camp/marching band practice in the separate field area
Same! I used to hang out with my theater teacher and was their TA my senior year 😂
Yeah! i swear they have a drama club in get famous
Yes. I was in choir, speech club (forensics) , either acted or ran sets for every play and musical, went to every home game for basketball and football because I had friends on the teams and in the band, was a TA, attended every dance we had after each home game, played piano, had a part-time job, and held down a 3.75GPA. Could've done better if I'd bothered to study or did all my homework. Sometimes I wonder how the heck I did it, but I was fueled by ramen, Diet Coke, and chocolate chip cookies.
Fun to get to know a bit more about your life experiences this way. In my high school I remember liking people and never being reciprocated, so I never had a boyfriend of flings at this time, just cared a lot about doing well in school. We didn't really have dances, (I live in Brazil) but we did have a lot of events and things that I liked participating in. Got to be a part of a "Hunted House" type of experience that me and my collegues created, did dance presentations, organized a "Just Dance" competition, sang at a choire...it was fun. Before writing this I forgot I had done all of this. I was really insecure, but I had great friends and that helped a lot.
I was always the awkward quiet girl at my school, and I was always gossiped about when I was dating someone, or teased sometimes when I talked because no one thought I could because I was so quiet 🤣. Fortunately, people seemed to like me for the most part but I definitely had my "Mean girls" moments where I wanted to fit in with the more popular crowd and I'd honestly change that if I could. That wasn't who I was and I hate that I got sucked into it.
It’s ok! We all grow up and change. What matters is what kind of person you are now :)
i'm living for this story time with deli 🧡
This had me reminiscing about my own high school and middle school experiences, the good and the bad. It was very nice and pretty funny looking back at it all, thank you so much for another great video, Deli! 💗💌
In high school, i was picked on frequently by a girl i considered my “friend” she was a very toxic person; she manipulated and isolated me so I couldn’t make other friends very well. I hope to use this pack to create the high school experience i would always dream of.
This was so much fun! I loved hearing about your high school memories. It's so crazy to me to remember how much drama we used to have as teens as opposed to adults lmao
Thank you for sharing your experiences! They made me smile and cringe with you. High school is a wild time to look back on, isn't it? I was a big geek, even then, who loved drama club and dressed like Avril Lavigne but also like I was cosplaying an elf in Lord of the Rings 😅 I had a pretty up and down time. I had a glorious freshman year full of theater club, ditching with the Seniors, football games, and homecoming dances, first crushes, and all that. Then, I experienced a lot of bullying and anxiety in Sophomore year and fell in with a pretty bad dude who isolated me from the friends I had. But thankfully, I ditched him as summer rolled around and I spent a lot of time repairing relationships and rediscovering me. I joined the local church youth group and met great new friends and the boy who became my high school sweetheart. He took me to prom on a boat in our senior year and then I married him the following winter. 😊 I spent a lot of high school being wrapped up in my head about things that felt SO important back then. It's funny with some time the clarity it brought how trivial a lot of it was. I wish I could tell my younger self to enjoy the good times more and not so much the drama, but in the end, I guess that's just part of being a teen!
Always nice to learn more about your life
This was cute!
In the US we did pay for school lunch in the cafeteria. I don’t think it was ever more than $5 (but I graduated in 1998 so who knows now!). They do in some schools offer a free breakfast for kids who might not be getting food at home and I think low income families may get some kind of break on school meals but I’m not sure. But they definitely weren’t free. I remember the best thing my school served were chocolate chip cookies and they were so gooey and warm like barely cooked. We also had vending machines so it was just junk food all over the place lol
Hearing Deli talk about all that high school stuff is so funny to me, like I’ve never even heard of parties at my school (they’re probably a thing we’re I live but I’m not really close to the others lol) and prom/after parties don’t exist at all except for when you graduate
High school was definitely a time -- so much drama mixed with a ton of formative experiences. The BEST thing about high school for me was meeting my high school sweetheart senior year, who is now my wife
I had a blast in high school... I would never go back (I like being an adult), but it was a ton of fun. Sad to read about everyone else's f**cked up high school experiences.
Same. Wished I would have appreciated that time in my life more, it was a great time.
I worked through school, though considering it was a farm school so did pretty much everyone else, and also because of the farm school thing, girls talked about all kinds of stuff. Like legit we had heated discussions about the best leaf to use when going to the bathroom outside. If we had the kind of drama you had I had no idea about it lol. I was super unaware of everything around me. Legit in a school of 60 people I wouldn't find out two of them were dating until a month or so later.
I’m currently in high school and I just moved to a new school so I’ve been really struggling but this video made me feel so much better
Hearing stories about being bullied during High School make me feel sad for the victims. I was so fortunate that I never got to experience that. Despite being the quiet one I had a lot of friends. Bullies were nice to me for some reason but I wasn’t friends with them at all.
I wish I had experienced more during high school. I started dating a guy my mom introduced me to when I was 14. He was 3 years older than me and he was not interested in high school activities because he had already done them all. I feel like I missed out on so much because it was always a fight when I wanted to do things that he didn't. We married and had kids and were together for 15 years. We are still best friends but we have since remarried. I worked full time all through school so I missed out on so many activities. It wasn't terrible but I wish I would've made more time for myself.
I was also the new kid in school. My first day there, one of my classmates said I had to respect her because she was considered my senior there. My refusing to do so made me the target of so much pettiness over the years.
It's so interesting hearing about your experience in Australia and how that differed from mine in US public school! Lunch was definitely not free but you could bring your own if you wanted, which I did most of the time because our cafeteria food is famously awful. There was a set menu each day so not a buffet style. Lots of pb&j sandwiches with carrots or yogurt for me 😂
My high school years were sooo awkward! I actually really wanted to forget all of it, I was a new girl, and very very shy. My schoolmates always talked mean things behind my back,and I was really struggling to find my style,so my appearance was also a good reason to hurt me. Despite all these mean things I was a real dreamer, I fell in love with a handsome classmate and I told him I like him...like you did..and everybody knew that. omg it's so cringe even thinking about it:D I didn't pick the best people to have as my friends either. So I'm so happy I grew out all of these awkwardness :D Watching your video about your experiences was so interesting and some ways comforting:) Thank you Deli!
Aww, I loved this! In high school I had the biggest crush on my neighbor. He was also my older brother's best friend and severely off limits. I thought my rom-com-boy-next-door time would come when my brother went off to college but he started going out with another girl. My heart was broken! I was sure I'd never love again! So silly ☺
My high school years included free/reduced lunch/breakfast. Having a 35 minute bus ride, going to the gas station for a 1$ coffee. Doing chores around the house, daily. Getting A's and B's and hardly ever having homework 🙃 Was a very shy kid with a few friends, but mainly lived in my books
7:35 (US) At my High School we all had Lunch Accounts and I think it was like $3.00 to buy a meal for the day, but you can add money to your account anytime by a check in the main office or pay money when you're at the cashier's counter.
I live in Sweden and the food is free up until "high school". For us it´s called Gymnasiet. But we pay more taxes so I guess that´s why haha
I’m watching this now, but the part where she’s like I’m lactose intolerant and I had to dig a hole because the door was lock..yeah..same Deli I have IBS so I get that. I had to ride the bus, 14 also. Door locked..couldn’t help it, forgot my key..and I’ve never told anybody. But it’s nice to know that I’m not the only one out there 😂
Everyone getting free lunches is fairly new. As a parent it’s a relief. I graduated in 95 and when I was in high school you had to pay for your lunch every day. It cost around $2.50. I had to pay for my oldest kids school lunches. But around 3 years ago they finally became free for everyone.
Deliiii, this is definitely one of my favorite videos of yours! It makes me feel like your bestie when I sit here and listen to you tell your HS stories
you were more social then me but you are right, looking back on highschool it really wasn't that bad, i think my anxiety made it worse. I think the best memories came from theater guild, i was in the tech crew and it was really fun, some snooty people, but also so really cool people.
When I was in school (US, 80s and 90s), the cafeteria definitely was NOT free/included. In elementary/middle school we had to buy lunch tickets and then we got one of two choices available that day. High school you paid with cash per item. Kids with needs might get lunch tickets given to them or breakfast provided (most people didn't eat breakfast at school). You had to qualify for that and there was a huge stigma, which certainly wasn't fair.
My school system provided free breakfast to everyone. Lunch was fairly cheap ($2) or if you were low income you'd qualify for free lunch. There were also vending machines and some other extras to spend more money on, but they definitely made it so that everyone could eat.
I was long out of school when covid started but they delivered meals to anyone who signed up when the schools were closed.
I was pretty much a wallflower- focused on my studies, had a few crushes but never had the courage to tell them. However, I did invite one of my crushes to prom senior year, we went to the same church but different schools and he ended up finding himself a girlfriend and dancing with her most of the night. I still get sad thinking about it almost 10 years later, just because it ruined the last weeks of high school for me- wish I could give my younger self a hug and invited a friend instead.
We didn't have prom either, we did have a formal graduation at the end of high-school, where you know you get your diploma and everything, and then we went partying in some restaurant as a group of friends not like couples and stuff like that. I dont remember having couples in school, or maybe because these stuff were not allowed in school so people who had feelings for each other had to keep them for outside school.
Deli - To clarify something about cafeterias - at least in the US, you absolutely do have to pay for your lunch at the cafeteria. There ARE programs for free/reduced cost lunches for lower income students (so that might be where you're getting that?), but it's only for lower income kids - if your family makes anything resembling a living wage, you have to pay for lunch. When I was a kid (20 years ago lol) lunch at school was very affordable - like $2.50 I think? - but you did still have to pay and the food was usually terrible. Like I remember one of the most common meals being stale rolls, instant mashed potatoes, and frozen chicken nuggets - clearly they were also very healthy and balanced hahah. It's fascinating to learn that Australia doesn't have school cafeterias, but thought I would hopefully clear up how they work in the US (though, to be fair, I believe they do now try to serve healthier food - but I could be wrong?)!
i just keep being like “same” cause we were so similar in high school I guess 😂 the reading aloud I loved too lmao
I live in America and we still had to pay for lunches in school unless your family didn't make a certain amount of money, then you could qualify for free or REDUCED priced lunches. My son starts school this week and it's still the same.
About American school lunches:
They’re only free if you’re from an underprivileged family. It always costs money, usually your parents would load money onto your account and to pay you would enter your student ID in the lunch line. They would also accept cash. I never regularly got lunch from school, it would waste a lot of time waiting in line. A majority of students still bring packed lunches from home
I remember going to prom by bike lmao and the whole night was so awkward (we were 14/15 years old and just kind of standing there and talking) so after a while I just decided to go home and cycled back with my (ugly) heels on and some metal music and having the time of my life
This is such a fun video idea!! I loved when Plumbella did it too. Thanks for sharing your stories, Deli :)
omg kiss chasey. fellow aussie here and you just opened up a memory box in my head. I think kiss chasey made me date alot of people in highschool and early adult hood because it didn't set boundaries for me. I wish we had lunches provided because being a wog at school my lunches weren't vegemite sandwiches lol.
I went to prom with 4 gfs and we pulled our money together for a limousine. We danced without our shoes at the prom hotel venue and I danced in a 60 + conga line with students and teachers. It was fun.
I actually met my boyfriend in highschool! It was Carnival and I had a crush on him for over a month back then. I couldn't talk to him or anything because he wasn't in my class and I was very shy for that, but that day, wearing a unicorn costume, I had the courage to talk to him and we are currently together for two and a half years!
In Sweden we get free lunch everyday and it’s always different kind of meals 😉
My highschool had popular girls but none of them were mean to people outside of their little circle 🤣 they'd literally just bully or spread rumours about their own friends and everyone else just listens to the drama every day.
I was a really studious girl but I also got warned a lot for eating in class with my friends (we sat at the back of the class). I remember when my whole class decided to ditch a big event and have a quick slumber party in the class (the class block was empty cause everyone were downstairs). We got caught pretty quickly then we just scattered all over the school, hiding in bathroom stalls and laboratories 💀
At my school we had free breakfast and lunch and they were really good and nutritious. I grew up in P.R. It really different experience the school from middle School and up are not lock so we can leave the school and get lunches outside if we wanted.
Still friends with one of my high school friends, but overall, high school was pretty negative for me. Undiagnosed developmental differences, and undiagnosed mental health issues didn't work well alongside the stresses of high school for me. I stood my ground against the bullies in the popular crowd on the first day and refused to engage in bullying against one of their targets to join their crowd, and from that moment on, became one of their primary targets. If someone gave me the opportunity to go back to that time, only knowing what I know now, I'd still refuse.
yeah I’m my high school the main cafeteria menu meals were covered for some kids if they qualified and then I think it was a fee at the beginning of the year if they came from a family that could afford it but I hardly remember tbh… anyway. They also had what was called an al a carte line for yummier foods but those you had to pay for with your own money.
most schools at least in my city you have to buy a meal plan or you have to purchase a hot lunch if you don’t pack. there were extra things you can buy like chips and icecream. but for me high school was weird, the first 2 years i was shy and had a lot of anxiety and didn’t really know anyone. then i joined cheer and eventually had a big group that would party a lot and i became cheer captain and vice president of my class but my friend group had lots of drama which wasn’t fun at all haha
Oh interesting
Can relate with your… former digestive issues. Fortunately it wasn’t when I was in high school, but later in life. Got things worked out better now!
I love your story telling Deli. Your own and your sims stories as well especially.
You have a great natural skill for it!
my "grad/prom" was the same situation here in Canada.🇨🇦 only for celebratory reasons every few years of school. also no big prom-posal ideas..unless you were dating someone or went with a friend.
School lunches here in the US are different depending on where you go to school. At some schools you have to pay for your lunches, but can get what's called a reduced fee for lunches if your family qualifies for it. One school I went to because I was in foster care so I qualified for reduced fee lunch, I only had to pay a quarter, or $0.25. Other schools here in the US do have free breakfast and lunch for all students. I went to quite a few different schools so I got to experience all of the above. Absolutely love your videos, including your vlogs. You, James and Bowser are so so so cute!!!!
The formals you described are exactly what our prom was like. Just a different name.
In high school, I had my face buried in a sketchbook. My best friend moved away at the beginning of high school so I kept to myself for the next 3+ years. Once I got home from school, it was Sims 2 and other video games, free to play MMOs with my friends who also couldn't afford the WOW sub lol
The teacher assigned to my class (she didn't have all different subjects but was like responsible for us) HATED me for some reason. I remember she told me, after an oral presentation, that even though I qualified for an A, she didn't think I ~deserved~ it, so she would give me a C. We were alone when she told me so I had no witness and I was so shocked that I just let it slide. She also said that she didn't think I have ADHD (after I've been diagnosed and told my teacher) and wouldn't make any accommodation for my disability.
Hey deli I love your videos! Also your setup looks amazing! I love your home decor style!
Here in Florida, USA you have to pay for your school lunches unless you are low income and the parents apply online for free or reduced lunch. Though when I was in high school late 80’s - 91 I never ate bc my mom never gave me lunch money and didn’t have anything really to make for lunch to bring to school. We weren’t poor, just middle class I guess. She was a bit preoccupied with work and her bf. As a mom myself, my kids always had the opportunity to eat lunch at school as I learned from their gma’s mistakes. 😒
I really wanted a drama club since I was in the drama club and I loved it. So kinda disappointed but great pack and great video
I also wanted drama club! One of the first things I added to my high school
here in the US, we pay for our lunches (we didn't this school year because of the virus, but the 2022-2023 school year we are going back to paying :P) and if you don't have enough money you either don't get lunch or get a cheese sandwich LOL
In America, our school lunches aren’t free unfortunately. Your parents have to put money in your account and each meal costs about $5-6. If your parents don’t make enough, you can apply for free lunches, however; then all you get is a PB&J sandwich and some sort of fruit. All of the food is terrible, the movie characters are living a dream life that we all wish we could live in haha! Just a fun fact for you, loved the video!
That wasn't my experience with free/ reduced cost meals. I could get what everyone else was getting, I just couldn't get a la carte items. My school lunches were pretty decent in the district I mainly attended too especially since we had choices of what to eat
Only the poor kids get free lunches in the US. At least that's how it was when I was in school. One time kids were pelting me with quarters, nickels, dimes and pennies (Junior High School) while I was on the lunch line. They thought they were being mean, but I filled my pockets haha.
Things could have changed though, since I am 40 now.
I am gonna need to see pictures of highschool Deli🫶🏻
Primary and high school had similar friends that would not invite me to things and pretend. year 7 i had a horse accident and lost 4 top adult teeth so after my op and months healing i got teased through high school as i was the only one with a partial plate. the day i come back the mean girls made me smile as i didnt have a plate yet just stitches on my roof and gums and they laughed at me
In my school, we had to buy all our food for lunch if you didnt pack a lunch. There was a free lunch program for low income household kids. (US)
Public school is free in th US from kindergarten through high school, so there aren't any fees. All you pay for really is buying your school supplies and uniform, if your school has one, and maybe fees for extracurriculars or some class trips. Everything else is funded through taxes and raising money through drives or selling things like chocolates or items off of a catalogue. School lunch fees vary from state to state, but in my state, depending on your family's income, you qualified for free, reduced, or full price for meals. I didn't go to a public high school, but in elementary/primary school, lunches wouldn't have been more than like $3 a day full price, and 50 cents for reduced lunch, and I believe that would include breakfast for free if the student chose to have it. Things may have changed since I was in school because I'm more than a decade out of middle school though.
My high school years: i was very lonely cause i didn't fit in.... I talked to everyone if someone hurt someone else i take place cause i dont like these types of behaviour.... I was more boy-girl i mean i was feeling better hanging out with boys.. i had a boyfriend then that eventually hurt me... We didn't have a prom... Only the greek version of Halloween party... We had mashine to buy food... I was lobe to be alone with my headphones or write my feelings or read... I had a best friend... That Hurt me too..
I was bullied mercilessly through elemental and middle school. In high school I went off the rails, having to take summer classes on 10th grade. By 12th grade my grades were up and I just stopped trying to make friends and let other people talk to me if they wanted.
Prom night tho… one of my best nights
I would catch the bus to and from school too it wasn’t long lmao like 15 mins on the bus. Walking about 30/35 mins. My mum would give me £10 for the bus and that was it. Never had no spending money to go shops nothing so that’s why I would walk home so at least I could save that money to buy snacks like the other kids
We had a cafeteria that served breakfast, food during the morning break and lunch as well as a tuc shop and food places and shops around our school. You had to pay for the school Meals but we also had free education , and exemptions were made for disadvantaged students
In America meals are not free unless you qualify for reduced or free lunch. And typically the lunches are not great.
I wish lunch was free in school when I was in high school. We had to pay and I had to beg my mom for lunch money every day before running to the bus.
I absolutely loved the story sharing of yours Deli. I def could watch more videos like this you recounting memories of yours. 🎉❤️
I very enjoyed this video deli♥️ so original too
In my school in the southeastern US, we had to buy the food in the cafeteria if we didn’t pack, but it wasn’t super expensive (less than $10). It was free for students who were underprivileged and were elegance for reduced fee/free lunch.
I wore pj's everyday to school.
I was home schooled in high school 😂
Can’t relate. Somebody got stabbed in my high school and there were multiple bomb threats one year 😬 we called our “tuck shops” canteens but I’ve heard them being called both in Melbourne. Year 10 was my only good year in high school and that’s only because I gained a tiny bit of confidence. Started dating somebody from high school but we started dating after I graduated. We’re still together 😊
I was the type who flew from group to group in HS. I'd hangout with my hispanic/mexican friends where we joked and picked on each other alot. Then, on the days I felt like I didn't want to be around loud or obnoxious ppl, I'd go and hang out with my book nerd friends 🤓 who were alot more calm, funny, and just chill.
I got my heart broken freshman year so the next 3 years were hell for me. I'd see my hs crush kissing the girl he replaced me with in the hallways ALL the time. No matter which hallway/different route I took, I'd see them 🤣 His gf came up to me at a church event knowing that I still liked him, she told me to my face that they would have couch s*x and played other mind games with me.
The whole boy obsession took a toll on my mental health and that's when my emo phase started. (I was also dealing with at-home problems)
Needless to say, by senior year, I didn't care who liked me or who didn't. I wore baggy, comfy clothes like sweatpants and a hoodie on the daily. I spoke to whoever I wanted to, if I wanted to. I tended to lean on my book-nerd friends more since I felt more included.
Most of my HS memories are sad and traumatic.
I give it a 3/10 lmaoo
I remember in my freshman year, I was so nervous that my brain didn't function to look at my class schedule, and just decided to sit with our Adviser's first teaching subject.
Which is not my right class and room, and for the whole day - I was marked absent on my real class, while I follow this class I started with 🤣
I met friends tho and bois 👀🧡 but on the second day, obviously, I didn't go with that class anymore. We saw each other from time to time as schoolmates until some of them became my bffs
Public schools in America have cafeterias but the food is not free at all schools. There are programs for lower income families to get free lunches though.
My High School Years were boring and sad. I didn't do anything, I've never had a boyfriend. And graduated with a GPA of a C+. I didn't even get prom it was canceled! Dumb pandemic.😢😣😒
My high school experience was awful! I went to an all girl catholic school the school really only cared about students that would make them have a good reputation and students like me who struggled with subjects they just didn't let us do our GCSE's they kicked me out and I enrolled in college which by god was awful but thats another story. I will say that the school helped me with one thing and one thing only, they made me want to do well and prove that I am not stupid and in a month's time I will be finishing my Masters 😊
We have to get James to do this too!!!
Everyone having highschool crushes
Me who had a celebrity crush 😅
In my school there was free lunch for all kids from elementary grades and other grades if the kids are from poorer families and families with many children (we have all grades in one school building). Others bought snacks from a separate cafeteria counter. I understand younger kids needing a full meal because they burn a lot of energy but older kids just had lunch after school at home. You don't really get that hungry during classes. Also where I live we usually have schools within walking or a very short bus ride distance from home and our afterschool activities were in separate buildings unrelated to the school so we had enough time to finish classes, go home, have lunch and relax and then go to do stuff like theater or music.
I don't know of any public schools in my state that give free lunches unless you were part of a program for low income families. I started working young too and all my friends were at work, not at school, so I was already ready to leave as soon as my last class was over. I graduated a semester early and didn't go to my prom becuase I didn't enjoy most people at school. Looking back, I wish I would've stayed that last semester just to take culinary classes instead of starting college early, but I still don't know if I would've gone to prom.
Im Sweden the food in school is paid trough taxes. In kindergarten and until you are around 10 (at least where i lived) you get breakfast and a snack aswell. Long live the welfare! :D
Oh wow! Sweden has it sorted!
We paid for lunch when I was in school but it was really crappy quality. If you were low income you could apply for reduced or free lunch. Right now we have free lunch program that started after COVID.
I loved to read out loud so much too!
OMG, the never being invited i can relate to. High School/Comprehensive in the UK is 5 years, and the first 4 i literally would never be invited to anything, then the final year which i just finished, everyone would go out drinking and they would invite me, i never went because i don't drink like its ILLEGAL but that never stopped them, but then in school they'd be like well why didn't you come and i'd say because my idea of dun isnt drinking etc, i want to go out to meals or shopping not drinking, and even then they'd all go out shopping or to meals and never invite me. I'd always hear about it and i'd tell my mam and she'd be like its okay. Basically always left out. And then it came to Prom literally everyone had a mode of transport, going in expensive cars or party buses and stuff, even my best friend didn't ask if i wanted to go with her and her boyfriend in there SUV, and that really did hurt my feelings like i would tell my mam and she'd comfort me but it's sole destroying when everyone else seems to have fun and your stuck watching. And then two days before one of my friends asked did i want to go on their bus and i said yes, we went to prom, the food was awful and then my crush who i had crushed on for like 3 years was wearing this AMAZING dress which matched my tie and i just melted inside because i'd asked her out and separately asked her to prom but i was never enough for her because she was mega sporty where i was not and i was always seen as the Gay friend (there's nothing wrong with that) but im not Gay and everyone assumed i was even my best friend, anyway so i was never going to be enough for her. I was always used for homework or to check answers with. And i sympathise with anyone whos had similar experiences and i wouldn't wish this on anyone. When i look back at the past 5 years, they are 5 years i wish to forget mostly. And the first kiss thing, still waiting Lol :)
Sos for the rant!!!
In all public schools in the USA, students have to pay for each meal. Maybe in private schools meals are free/included in tuition?
This makes my high school experience sound so boring. My prom after party was just going to iHop with some friends and my bf but only because the friends were already going to go and they just invited me and my bf. It was fun but after prom and graduation that friendship became pretty strained.
6:36 i feel you buth with glutenintolerant
I spent my high school years being ashamed of myself bc I'm bi, and my parents are baptists. So I hated that liked girls, and I had really bad depression and anxiety due to having toxic parents and other things. I spent high school having anorexia, hating myself and school and really struggling with relationships and having breakdowns all the time etc. So It definitely wasn't a good time in my life. Turns out I'm autistic and didn't know until now (I'm 22) and I'm kinda like discovering myself for the first time.
My highschool experience was awful. Firstly, I got diagnosed with a whole lot of mental health issues and was treated terribly by the school because they didn't want to give me the extra support that I qualified for. Secondly, I was bullied by both students AND teachers. My friends from middle school ditched me and the few people who still wanted to hang out with me were in the grade above me, so when they graduated I had no one. It was terrible.
Oh gosh! Sounds like a really rough time. I hope time out of school has been more supportive for you ❤️
@@deligracy Yeah I'm in university now so things are much better!
Cute story Deli and lovely to share however in general my Australian experience was different, including the cafeteria/tuck shop situation. Also my experience of US schools was different, my daughter went to school in Tucson Arizona for about 3 yrs and she never got a free lunch!! Missed that trick !! Regardless of the country I think there is more variation from school to school or state to state than you might think. The one thing that seems universal is mean kids, that does not seem to change sadly.