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Wrong Ring, Wrong Guy?
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- Опубликовано: 19 авг 2024
- Does the wrong ring mean the wrong guy? Should you tell him if you don’t like it? “The Real” ladies share their ring stories and give advice to ladies maneuvering through that awkward situation.
"If you ain't got nobody, say yes, and think about it later" OH my gosh, I freakin love you Tamar😂😂😂!!!
I'd agree with Jeannie and Tamera on this one. Just because they get you a ring you don't necessarily like, doesn't mean they're the wrong guy, that's shallow thinking. The energy between them seemed to be good this time too.
But both jeannie and tamera liked their rings so their arguments dont really apply. Their husbands knew them well enough that although it wasnt something they talked about their men still knew the way to go. Q
912nelle I know that. I'm talking about their responses to the title of this video.More like their answers to the question.
***** Exactly!!! I always agree with you. Perfectly stated
I agree, what if the guy just doesn't have a good taste or an eye for what she will love doesn't mean she should dump him. Shows what kind of man Tamar was seeking *tee hee hee*
I expected Tamar and her shallow materialistic ways to show as they always do.
Wrong ring wrong guy is the mindset of someone who is entirely too materialistic. Some guys are just clueless in those areas but that doesn't mean he isn't fit to be your partner smh. Anyway I thought Jeanne's story was cute and sentimental and good for her stopping Loni before she could start.
It's Tamar.....duh lmao
Anonymous No need to be rude at all. CKFIERCE1 And there's an ounce of me that still has some hope that she will change her money loving ways lol
Anonymous Yes rude but I did take your advice. She may say some nasty things about Tamar but a true King/Queen never stoops to the levels of a commoner. Even on the most basic of things.
I definitely understand your sentiment, but I also get where Tamar is coming from. I'm not even materialistic in the least bit. I'm not very big on gift exchanging, but it does hurt my feelings when/if my bf gives me a gift that showed that he wasn't really thinking about me and what I like and who I am.
Megan Tiffany Yeah true. It's different when they're absolutely knowledgeable about you inside out. But then again, some guys are like that and still have no idea lol Those type of guys tho usually as your friends for assistance tho
"Shut up Loni" Loving this feisty Jeannie! Please bring this side to Tamar also. Oooooooooop!
She kno who to try.. Yall betta stop tryna get Jeannie fired..lol
912nelle hahhahha I know right. we all know Vince produce this show
Lol her and Loni always had that type of relationship that they play. I do think Jeannie is slightly intimidated by Tamar. Nonetheless they're still friends.
Lol you do know vince is 1 of the exec producers? She wouldn't dare 😂😂
Lovely Candice Can all you people quit telling this lie? Vince does not executive produce this show, nor does he call the shots. SallyAnn Salsano created the show, is THE ONLY executive producer of the show and her production company 495 Productions co-owns this show along with Warner Bros/Telepictures. Vince can't fire anybody for talking back to Tamar.
"Shut up Loni" LOL go jeannie
Am I the only girl who truly does not value the ring? It bothers me how much society teaches women to value the ring so much, as if it defines the marriage. Personally, I don't care about the ring, I would rather focus my attention on having a loving relationship I can value. Society should instill that principle first.
Great Values. Society focuses on commercial materialism too much.
You and me both. Its the man who you value; the ring is just a symbol of a good man's love for you. No one should care how it looks/how many carats, or whatever. This is how women get caught up/in with a shady male who can provide $$ but not love, protection, support, safety, and comfort. I'd take a pop rocks ring from a good man any day, or the ugliest ass ring society has ever seen, over a glam expensive ring from a shady or unsafe male. Parents have to do better for their kids. Instilling the best values is what counts.
You're right. I was uncomfortable with the fact that Tamar was claiming that a guy that does not get a ring that you like isn't right for you. So, all your certainty about the man being the one and the wonderful qualities about him (loving, generous, kind, empathetic, compassionate, a potentially amazing father) are now irrelevant, because he bought a ring that you didn't like?
As you said, a loving, lasting marriage should be the focus
***** Amen! Amen! His character is the most important thing you can ever be looking out for.
***** Lol !!!
So untrue! Just because a guy doesnt understand jewellery and diamonds, doesnt have anything to do with being the right or wrong guy!!!!
YAS at Jeannie shutting Loni all the way DOWN before she even opened her mouth!! YES JEANNIE YAAAAASSSSSSSS!!!!
Why is Tamar up there looking like the elderly...?
Yeah, I thought so, too. Mostly it's the wig, but the wire-frame glasses don't help.
lmao looking like a church elder. haha!!
What's wrong with looking elderly? Some of you are so unintelligence, it's almost pitiful.
***** I apologised on their behalf, Miss Elderly.
***** I know right. She's been wearing some fierce eyeglasses #callme4eyes
I'm one of those women who's missing the "bride gene". I was never one of those girls who daydreamed about their wedding, the dress, the ring, the man. So the ring to me is irrelevant. I don't care if it was your aunties, your grandmas, your mamas, it's from Tffany's, Harry Winston or Jared's. You love me, and you wanna marry me, then let's go.
I remember looking at rings with my husband--boyfriend at the time--and showing him what I wanted. It was the complete opposite of what I ended up with. My husband picked out something so timeless, yet unique. He had better taste than me!
Most guys are clueless about ring styles. If you don't discuss what you like beforehand, you can't blame the poor guy for picking something you don't like. This is one of those times I completely disagree with Tamar.
I feel like Tamar was just joking
I love Tamera! Probably my favorite on the show. I agree with all the ladies on this one. With Tamar, I agree that I wouldn't want to go ring shopping or even know that my bf is going to propose. I want him to talk to my family first and for me to be surprised. I don't think that he's the wrong guy if he gets me a ring that I'm not fond of though BUT I do think it's very special when he adds little touches to it showing that he knows me and listens.
I'm sorry I'm not a one type of ring girl as long as he choose from his heart i could care less of the diamond size gold or silver as long as he took his time and he choose from the bottom of his heart i will take it with love.
Jessica Torres yess ma'am !!
very true! Rurrox Bibi
Rurrox Bibi exactly! thanks for the reminder. My next set might be silver. Our first set were $80 from the pawn shop. Pregnant w/ him out of work. But look at God! Twenty-three years later. . . .our rings don't fit but we're still married!!!!!!!
nice!!!! Raquel Rene' God bless you two!
Jessica Torres You're a real woman. Other women could learn a lot from you.
But Tamar has said in the past to accept any ring a man gives you and upgrade later.
True. I love Tay but you are right she did say that. I just can't remember if she was talking about engagement rings or just men giving rings as gifts in general.
iman campbell i think the conversation started with her saying wrong ring wrong man and then they asked wat if he couldnt afford it and she said accept anything and upgrade later...or something like that
J Brown ok makes sense I got it.
I've never heard of a chocolate diamond before. GUUURRRLL I WANT THAT!
I'd probably eat the chocolate ring.
LMFAOO Adrian wrong for squinting at Jeanie's ring tryna find the diamond
She was looking at the colors she was describing
Lmao Jeannie always giving them an opening for comments. Glad she didn't let them say anything.
Right all the time!
I can't go ring shopping with my man.. I like to be surprised just as Tamar said. I just don't agree with the statement "Wrong ring, wrong man." I honestly wouldn't care how it looks, I will be paying attention to the fact that I am going to marry this one man that I truly love.. Maybe it's just me lol I agree with Jeannie... If he adds a touch to the ring... That would melt my heart.
yea I would want my girl to be surprised when I came to getting her a ring, the statement "wrong ring, wrong guy" is not necessarily true
exactly, it would be such a beautiful sight to see. Even more if it were a surprise. And i do not care about the ring he chooses..just the fact he thought to make me his wife. hat is all that matters to me
Amarie Wright yep, it isn't the look of the ring or how big the diamond, its the matter of how much the man loves the woman that getting her the ring matters most.
Dustin Stanek I mean sure it is beautiful.. But that's not important. That's why I don't agree with that whole statement
Amarie Wright right
They all said something that makes sense. The fact that Jeannie knew what Loni was going to say before she even said it was super hilarious to me.
I love how they kept trying to disagree with Tamar but in the end she was right . Your man is suppose to know you and if he gets you a ring you don't like he isn't the one . My fiance got it right twice with both my promise and engagement ring without my input he's the one.
swear to got women are the dumbest, materialistic, double-standard loving gold diggers. if a ring is all that is important to you to decide if hes the one, then he should take that as a sign of the true nature of women and run
"If she got nobody say yes and think about it later." I'm dying Tamar can be funny as hell.
loni got checked in 0.5
I actually chose my own ring 🤷🏼♀️ I wear NO jewelry, had no “style” preference or anything. So I myself didn’t know what I’d like and he couldn’t guess better than me lol. He just told me if I’m wearing it everyday the rest of my life, he wants to be sure I actually love it, not just accept it from him because it’s from him.
Thats a keeper sis
"shut up Loni " 😂😂
Dark chocolate means a lot now
Yet she was so right about Jeannie ☕️ 🐸
Sometimes I don't know if Tamar is just trying to be funny or if she's really that superficial. It get's a bit worrying. Oh and how lovely, you can see how much Jeannie appreciates what Freddie did for her. Great segment!
I think even if Vince had proposed to Tamar with or without a ring she still would've said yes and definitely check him if it wasn't to her liking
Screw a ring!!!... Take me to a house that you already know i would love in a area that i mentioned before and pop the question... Will you marry me i bought u a house... Here are the keys....
University Of Houston16 you talking no ring no wedding with that wish
I agree with Jeannie and i am glad she got to voice herself without everyone else's input on it. I think they realized her man loves her for the excitable, vibrant, loud, and down to earth lady she is. I have always liked her but everytime i see her get more respect and i can relate to where shes comin from i jus wanna show her much luv. u my girl Jeannie! lol
"I want you to go axe my daddy"
Hey Tamar, what did he ever do to you? hahaha
+Kaynasou OMFG. I died. I read this before I heard it. I wasn't sure how it was going to transpire.
I'm rolling 😂😭😭😭😭
I literally just laughed out loud, I love this comment
Kaynasou im dying
im acc screaming lmfaooooo
This segment is pointless really. Your in love with the man, not the ring. You should even be happy the man chose you to be his wife, and brought a ring for you in the first place. I think every woman should be happy with the ring they get, whether they like it or not, its the thought that counts :) . Getting the wrong ring doesn't mean the man is wrong.
Amen
Exactly!!!
I agree with you! Though if I really hated the ring, we could upgrade it at a later time. People definitely upgrade rings!
mouna3242 Auragirl86 I completely agree.
Ehhh I feel like if you know me you'ĺl get thing something to show you know me. Like if my GF proposes she knows me uber well and even with the gifts we exchange now you can see how well we listen and remember what the other likes. So it does say something about someone who goes shopping for you and doesnt know what you like or even remember little things to pick something out similar to your style.
At the end, Tamar, Tamera and Jeannie agreed on the same thing. The guy who will propose knows what we want like if we don't care or care about the ring/diamond/size/color and what we like. It's not being materialistic. The ring, for me, is like a symbol of our love so it's a bit important to choose the right ring for the right person.
i think if the ring is okay then that doesnt mean the guy is wrong but if its a type of ring that you absolutly just "hate" like she said i kind of agree with her. when it comes to marriage superstitions and things like that play a big role. if it aent right then it isnt be true to yourself and pay attention to the way the person makes you feel and what you accomplish with that person together.
A ring does not determine a relationship with someone! A connection, a spiritual bond, true LOVE and affection between two people is what matters, not a piece of Jewellery!!
More and more Jeanie is becoming my favorite.
So just because he gets you the wrong ring it doesn't matter how great he's treated you as a woman? How much he's done for you, for you to be happy? Your just gonna throw that all out just because of the wrong rong he got you?! Im sorry but thats a very ungrateful and a materialistic person right there (Tamar) !
Nah. apart from treating me right and how I deserve to be treated, my man would have to know me. I'm not gonna marry someone who doesn't know me. It shows either you weren't paying attention or you don't care to know me.
Mysterious Mercy A ring doesn't equal how much you know a person. People place too much value in these small things. Do you know how much time and effort men put into picking rings? Maybe he got nervous and wanted to impress you so bad, he ended up doing the opposite, etc. Material interests change CONSTANTLY, so to say he doesn't know you because he chose the wrong piece of jewelry is beyond shallow.
@@mysteriousmercy3894 hope no man marries you.. if someone unlucky already has, then i pity their self respect
But what if at the time of the proposal, the guy can't financially give you the type of ring that you may want? You're going to say no and that's it? Just me, but if i loved him, i would be just too happy I'm spending my life with him and later in life,after we're married, he'll get me the ring he knows I deserve.
How right that ring was ain't gonna matter when you're no longer together.
Shallow thinking to put so much stature on a ring.
0:08 it aaaaaabsolutely means that 😂😂😂 oh Tamar lol
Tamar don't know what she's talking about. have several seats gurll. Just cuz a man bought you a ring you don't like don't mean he ain't the one. it's the thought that counts . and if he's going to be loyal to me?, loving, caring and a providing husband? .. then dand he could pop a $100 dollar ring on my finger and I could care less.
husband + wife = Love
ring = symbol ( of that love)
I agree with you 100% symbolism behind the ring that counts plus that would really hurt his feelings that you look down at the ring your future hubby gave you abd said oh babe it's beautiful and have that ugh it's ugly look on your face not only is that mean, it's saying to him that you didn't love him to begin with. No matter the style, look or cost that shouldn't matter
*****you wrong for that😂😂 I love you Tamar😍😂
***** Stfu captain save a bitch.
Idk how a wedding/engagement ring can be ugly. In my opinion they're beautiful, I mean a diamond ringg
As long its not gold and diamond. But yes diamond solitaire rings are beautiful
Tamar's voice @1:09, LOL.
I loved when Jeannie said " shut up Loni"😂😂😂😂
My husband picked out my ring and he knew me better than I knew me. It was different than what I liked and I love my ring!
I also thought it was odd that some women prefer to go ring shopping with their future fiancé. Just wondering: wouldn't it take away from the surprise element and kind of (sorry for the harshness) cheapen the special moment of when he actually proposes?
That's a serious genuine question so anyone feel free to answer LOL
I mostly agree with Tamar because if you've had those on versatile (which most couples do) then he should have a ballpark idea of what you like
It would take the element of surprise away. I'd rather trust him enough to make that decision by himself. The fact that he's want to take that step is awesome. Wouldn't bitch at him just because it's not exactly what I expected.
Agreed. Don't invite me to go ring shopping for the ring you're going to ask me to marry you with. For what?
Trust me. It DOES NOT take the element of surprise away, and I just go proposed to this past Sunday! ☺️❤️ We went ring shopping with my mother during MLK weekend because I needed to see what different style of rings looked like on my finger (and I was surprised more than anyone because rings that I thought would look good didn't). He took notes, found out my ring size, and was super hush hush about it. I caught him looking for rings after that only once, and it was early on. And honestly, I have NEVER been more surprised in my life than during his proposal. I was shaking the whole time like a chihuahua. So really, it just depends if your significant other is good at surprises or not. If they are good at it, then they'll surprise you no matter what. And don't pester your poor loved ones about details of the surprise either! Lol.
Congratulations Jackie
Yea he should definitely know by the time he's ready to make u his wife. ring shopping is cute but I dont think you should ring shop for your engagement. i think it should be a surprise and then after you marry or if you want to upgrade during your engagement, then you go ring shopping.
Adrienne"s expression at 0.07 just finished me!
0:07
"What if u don't got nobody" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😮 lol I can't I'm weakkkk bruh 😂😂😂 I'm deaaaaad💀
Pregnant Tamera is BAE.
Right (no homo)🤣
it's "ASK" not "AKS", ladies.
They know. Feel better about yourself?
I find that most Americans say Aks not ask. Maybe it's just me 😐
Zhane Doe u mad or nah?
marce maiwasham You are right. It is not all of us but I definitely have the habit of sayin' aks. It's more a cultural thing it depends on what part of the states you are from.
iman campbell ahh OK
My man was asking me about what rings I'd like. I said I like square cut, asscher style gems. He said NO! LOL . He really was against it. It was kind of surprising to me that he would have such a strong opinion about it. He said oval or round look best for this gem. He was wanting to give me a sapphire. So It kind of felt a bit like, he wanted to give what he wanted and I said , well this is something I have to wear everyday and look at all the time. If I'm going to be honest, if I don't like it I just won't wear it. I'd rather him just not waste the money on something I don't like. We eventually came to picking out one that we both really loved, but I still think, if you are someone like me with a DESIRE to have INPUT, - you need to be a part of the process.
Tamera looks BEAUTIFUL today , i mean everyday 😍🙌
UNKNOWN PERSON she look beautiful on this video. But most times those weaves are atrocious. They make her look like someone’s grandmother. But this one is beautiful
Yes wrong ring .... wrong man. Tamar spoke the truth.
I don't see the ring as a symbol of our love. That's big value on a piece of jewelry.
"My man bought me a ring that I didnt like, therefore, nothing else matters and he is not right for me and never will be" - Female logic.
Tamar keeps it real but dang she is unrealistic at times ... smh
It's true.... I dated a guy who I eventually became engaged to. He got a me a chocolate cake for my birthday. I HATE CHOCOLATE. I asked him when he ever saw me eat chocolate, he replied "I thought all women like chocolate". Needless to say, we never got married.. LMAO
E X F U C K I N G A C L Y
All Jeannie comments about chocolate hit different in 2019 😂 😂 😂 😂
Wrong ring absolutely positively no
It aaaabsolutely lmao at Tamar 😂
I don't care what kind of engagement or wedding ring I get as long as it's gold. Real gold.
Oh noooooooo please nooo lol
@@user-ih4fd9sf8x why?
The fact that Adam disregarded Tamera's taste and got what he liked for her says a lot.
Yep
That was true, guys but then I still believe that the value of the ring is not that important for me.
What matters is the love that you've shared together and appreciate everything that he can offer.
True but the ring he picks needs to reflect how well he knows you. My dad told me that the ring is NOT just about the money value but the sentimental value. The wrong ring would tell me that he wasn't listening. If he bought a ring that was better than what I thought I wanted, that's different.
This reminds me of an episode from 'Sex and The City'
I agree with Tamar on this one. If my man is thinking of proposing to me don’t ask me about a ring I don’t want to know I want to be completely surprised. I would hope he’d have enough sense to figure it out himself of what style ring i love or if not ask my best friend or someone else who really knows what I’d prefer
Honestly when I got engaged I got a beautiful ring that was real and I loved it. But it's not always about the ring, it's the meaning to it as well.
I don't wear jewelry so I really don't care for it, and I wouldn't really care about what kind of ring my boyfriend will get for me if he proposes to me and I think it will be pointless to go ring shopping with your man. It is pointless to go ring shopping with your man because you wouldn't really be surprised if he proposes to you and he got the ring you showed him. I will trust my boyfriend to get me a ring that I like and I will accept it no matter what, hell I'll even take a band if he proposes to me. Jewelry and materialistic items are not everything.
Lol it was true for me.. My ex gave me a silver engagement ring, seeing/knowing i only wear gold. Probably coz he likes silver more lol
Yea thats a huge no! I know im late with this but if a man gets what he likes over what you like you get the picture how the rest of the marriage is gonna be
I genuinely don't understand this. I never grew up picturing what a ring/jewelry from a man would look like, and I never thought about carats or gold or a price. When I realized I want a spouse I just thought about the qualities I need in him. That's all...Can't you just wear what beautiful gift of love or marriage or any kind of symbol of (you're the one for me) he gives you? Why are some women so caught up in how the jewelry looks; how many carats, gold, silver, or whatever? I don't care. I'm going to wear it because of who its from. I guess what I'm saying is, I know who I am in personality, but, in the case of jewelry I have no idea. He's gonna get whatever he would like to get me/can afford and with me in mind. That's the way.
Who’s watching this after Jeanie’s divorce & thinking “with time, opinions do change”
Yesssss girl
loving adriennes look today!
Tamar 😂😂😂
I think it just depends on your own preference. I am much more of a low key person I would prefer a private proposal and then be able to announce it on my own timing.
The ladies on the real be looking fly.
My sister switched her engagement ring... she said it was a “pop ring” and even her fiancé said no it wasn’t I thought you liked it. Broke his heart I felt so bad
Oh thats mean. I didnt like it mine and he said he will get me another 😁 but I was never really mean about it. Just understood at the time he said he didn’t have much money, so he saved a couple years to buy me a really nice one. Although I may agree with Tamar sometimes 🤭🤫
That's ridiculous 😒 wrong ring, wrong guy?!
Loni looks like Cleveland Brown from The Cleveland Show at 0:30 when she turns her head lol.
Tamar looks amazingggggg. Great color on her
I think you should go ring shopping when you feel it in the air that the time is coming up soon. Like when you're at the mall or something. He needs to start saving those coins and learn about settings, clarity, cut all that. Not to purchase it but to give him a good idea of what you like and what they run. Never send a poor man out there alone clueless because jewelry stores love that. If your ring maters to you definitely give him an idea of your taste or you will be disappointed. If you're very easy going and you don't even know what clarity or cut is then you will be happy with whatever he chooses.
When my brother in law proposed to my sister, he got her a beautiful ring. BUT he purchased the ring before he knew what style she liked. She wanted something completey different but she LOVES the ring she has
Women today want to get married but are not ready to do so. I'm a simple woman, I want a simple band with a simple center diamond. However if I were to get a more blinged out ring, although it's not my style I won't complain and I will genuinely love it. An enengagement ring/wedding ring is not something to flaunt around for kicks, it means something. I personally want my husband to pick out the ring but if he wanted me to choose I would. However these women need to grow up, if they don't like their ring, they have a problem with it. They don't like the price they have a problem with it. Just be happy And proud that you have a ring which symbolizes the next steps of your lives. Stop trying to out do everyone else. And no I don't think I'm better than anyone else because I want a more simple style ring, just throwing my two cents out there.
I kind of agree with Tamar. My ring doesn’t have to be big or fancy or expensive, but I want it to represent us. I don’t want the typical ring and if he doesn’t get that, I worry he doesn’t get me.
I've got a long way to go till marriage lol, but when the time comes I would have to say that the ring needs to be of my liking. Because that's like the symbol of the marriage and I plan on valuing it. So why value something you don't even like? Lol.
C'mon Tamera! who goes shopping for their engagement ring? Traditionally, the groom to be picks out ring & surprises the girl - with the parents' blessing of course.
Tamar keeps bullying Jeanie into submission.
at :30 Tamar just cut Jeanie off and dismissed her opinion as if she hasn't been married or proposed to!
Anonymous You care otherwise you wouldn't have commented bby doll
My transgendered sister, why are you up in arms over something you don't care about?
the title of this may seem a little harsh, but Tamar is right....The guy you are going to spend the rest of your life with has to know what ring to get you.......Jeannie and Tamera did not get the ring they liked or expected but they love their rings which means it's the right ring, thus the right guy.....that being said, it's quite possible for the wrong guy to get the right ring.
I think that any girl who thinks like this is the wrong GIRL, and he needs to go find the right WOMAN.
I love it when was just these five
a guy who gives you the diamond of your dreams can be your biggest nightmare don’t trip tay 🤷🏻♀️🤘🏻
Such a petty issue to disqualify a potential mate on. He might not be attuned to your taste or what appeals to you but if he's of good character and treats you right, the ring is just embellishment.
Jeanie''s thank you when they clapped was sweet
I did not go ring shopping. My now husband surprised me with my ring
Ring isnt your style?
BUT WE BROUGHT IT! Gimmie my goddamn ring back
why Loni looked annoyed @ Tamar at :33
Adrienne looks BEYOND amazing. Her makeup. The outfit. It says sexy lawyer and IM FEELIN IT!
It sounds a lot more superficial than it is , i think the point if wrong ring meaning wrong guy is exactly how tamar said if youve been dating he should know YOU and knowing what you do and dont like is a major part of knowing somebody. If you dont know what I do or dont like by the time you want to propose that means you havent been paying attention to me or we dont know each other well enough to be husband and wife because thats a basic thing and if we havent covered that how can we talk about having a life together , deciding how many kids we want if we want any or where you want to live , religious preferences or lack of? Not to say that you bewn wasting your time and this guy is not good for you he could still learn about you and try it again when hes certain he knows you. A spouse or significant other should know enough about you to make a decision on your behalf
I never want to wear a ring if it happens to me. I think it's too extravagant
U don't have to go ring shopping but if marriage is in the talks, there's nothing wrong with showing him what u like online. That's what I did and I got the ring that I liked. Remember ladies, u are the one that has to wear it for the rest of your life lol.
Wrong ring, wrong guy?? Wth???
As a man I don't really get that deeply invested in my girl's fashion choices.
I can't marry someone who doesn't seem to know me. I am going to be wearing that so make it something that's my taste because then I won't wear it. My mom, sister and my ladies would know ask them but you have to have your options to show them. Don't just invite them because you need someone who knows me. Pick a few out, ask my peeps for a little advice on the rings then pick one.
The ring first of all is materialistic, with no substance until you put value into it. Personally the ring doesn't matter to an extent. If that's all that matters people need to start questioning their relationship.