Affair-Proof Relationships?
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- Опубликовано: 30 май 2016
- Is there a way to affair-proof your relationship? “The Real” ladies chat about ways to minimize their risk of infidelity, in this Girl Chat. Check it out and share your comments below.
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The only thing that can keep a man is a man that wants to be kept.
Preachers like Pastor David Crank suggest sex everyday, especially in the morning.
It is always easier to destroy something than to build something up.
Jerre Jackson
:'(
psdeadat29 As long as you're trying to build and not destroy, you'll be alright.
Breeny Lee you better tell it girl
"that other girl is going to be nice to him" -A
"that other girl's a heffer!" -Tay
lmaoo
erica 😂😂😂😂😂
LMAO!
@@sossauc 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I adore Taytay
Facts. A man will do what he wants. Women Just need to respect themselves first and not settle.
"I can't do that , my wife respects me" 😂😂😂😂
only what real men would say
Still takes me out 😂😂😂
True Brother no such thing as good men
Lmao soooo true😹😹
😂😂😂😂
“It’s not my job to make you feel like a man, I can’t make you something you’re not”
Crazy rich Asians
THANK YOU TO CRAZY RICH ASIANS FOR THE BEST LINE EVER!
I got cheated on before and I actually asked him why he did it and he said "I didn't think you would find out."
I was told the same thing #fuckry
Did u stay? Did u try to work it out? Was it even a serious relationship?
Thats why most of them do it though. Cause they think they wouldn't get caught. & not all of them get caught so they tend to do it more cause they got away with it before. Which is fucked up :-/
Exactly!!!
damn harsh honesty
"If you don't do it, someone else will".... LET that Someone else do it then, not changing myself for someone who thinks I can be replaced 👋🏻
💕
thank you, at least i'm not the only one
lol u CAN and will be replaced.
Exactly
Lol smh
“Women want to be cherished and men want to be respected.”
There ain’t truer words👀
Women want to be respected too. Ch'a.
Real talk!!!!!!
But irrelevant, she's not sticking to the point. Because giving men respect does not prevent affairs which is the question. Giving your husband respect is necessary for a good marriage not to prevent affairs
@@Grace-mr8bc exactly, tamera wants to bring up women needing to be cherished whilst condoning men cheating. How sway? Why not hold the man accountable & tell him to cherish his woman before cheating instead of retaliating to what he THINKS is a lack of respect like that's going to help. He needs to grow up or leave. Not cheat
Gtfoh
I loveee watching these old clips with Tamar. #igetmylife😂
Me too, I woke up a wreck today but she just made me feel better
Me too girrll oh my gawsh 😅I love her
Me too. Her dramatic character is entertaining
Me too
That’s the only ones I watch.
I don't understand why people cheat! Just break up with the person first, no matter how hard it is
Cheating is part of AMERIKKKAN culture, Some of the FIRST white women to set foot on American soil were prostitutes from England and Australia.
LMAO cheating happens everywhere in the world Jerre..take your racist bullshit elsewhere! Blaming the white person for you getting cheated on...damn you guys crazy nowadays...
Fatima
Insecurity selfishness afraid immature that's why they cheat not ready to face the truth don't know how to speak the truth don't know how to live in the truth so it's easier to punk out and cheat then come back to say I'm sorry it was an accident
Exactly
Ikr
"girl please"
Tamar: "Thank you, thank you and thank you"
I died 😭😂😂😂😂
“Why did you cheat?” .... “coz I wanted to” 🤣🤣 I’m done.
Shawna M it’s a shame she is proud of it
Kirikou 94 how do u know she’s proud of it? Maybe she’s just honest since the show is called THE REAL!! God forbid a woman admits to something = being proud 🙄
@@axel1lover so you prefer her to lie about it?
Funny that Adrianne who asked why? Just stated some weeks ago that she has cheated in a relationship too.
“I CAN’T DO THAT, MY WIFE RESPECTS ME!!” HAHAHAHAH CHILEEEE
Tamar hit the nail on the head, you can do damn near everything for him & a man will STILL cheat if that's what he wants to do lol
@True Brother bitch what? Hell no, I don't obey anyone.
True Brother I swear I hate females like you just go away
She didn't hit nothing... Jeannie is the one that broke it down for them this time. Some men are just trash, no doubt ijs, but if a good man is taken for granted to long and she feeling herself so much to where the woman just dog the brother out cause she think he wont leave. It could definitely push him into the arms are someone "sweeter"
@True Brother America is one big melting pot of Adulturers and fornicators if you're really trying to go there but Jeannie made a valid point here. That's all I was speaking on. Who wants to live long-term with a mean-spirited, nagging, woman when you don't have to?
It doesn't matter what's happening in your marriage, if you cheat it is absolutely your fault. If you aren't getting what you need in a relationship you have to let the other person know.
What if you let the person know and nothing changes
@@thatruth8900 leave
So if ur getting abused and find happiness somewhere else, it’s wrong? Personally I don’t find it wrong. Sometimes people just can’t leave
@@gabriella469 If someone is abusing you, you should leave. Obviously there are some cases where you can't. There's always an exception to the rule. I will say though, if you're with someone that's not allowing you to leave, the chance of you finding opportunity to cheat is hella low if someone is controlling you to that degree.
@@gabriella469 Abuse cases are always a different story so the original comment doesn't really apply here.
I honestly miss Tamar because she was real (a little loud sometimes and a little extra but I'm a black South African 80% of my family and friends are like her) I've been cheated on and I have never heard a man say "You weren't respectful/nice enough" it's always "I didn't think you would find out" or "It just happened" it was never about me
Thank you!! Most often cheating is a symptom of a deeper psychological, emotional dysfunction. Cheating is often a pattern of behaviour for people REGARDLESS of their partners.
In the U.S. the culture is to blame the victim. The culture is to put the responsibility on the victim. Cheating, and how to stop it is the problem of the person who cheats. NOT the person who was cheated on.
Thank you. Tamar might've been loud but she's always been wise. I'm a quiet person myself but I don't like how people think being loud makes your horrible or stupid person.
Exactly, I'm over this 'rude' narrative because Loni is rude when she feels like and no one says anything. All of them can & have been shady about other celebrities but when they do it they're 'keeping it real' & being funny. When Tamar did it she was a 'bully'. 😒
@@missNCW righr
TALK ON IT
“that’s the attitude that gets you cheated on” damn adrienne
Right?!
xoBlair omg I was about to comment that exact quote and saw yours! Adrienne girl you been cheated on so please step off your high horse!
I honestly hate it when her pick me attitude shows. She's a cool girl in a lot of ways, but her attitude with men can honestly annoy me.
It’s facts. If you’re mean and have a nasty ass attitude no ones gonna want to be around you, especially your man. He’s gonna go find someone who treats him like a human being with feelings
I agree with adrienne though
There is NOTHING YOU can do to stop anyone from doing anything!
mariyaa111 true and sad
mariyaa111 communicating effectively and communicating often would definitely not hurt. You're right but there's definitely something YOU can do to help...
mariyaa111 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@@gu3sswh075 ....if they want to cheat, they’re going to cheat.
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Loni is slaying today 😍😍😍😍
right 😍😍😍
She looks RADIANT!
She surely is!
Yasss
Yes she is. Take notes.
Tamar : “The other girl is a heffa”🤣🤣🤣
Tamar was so funny...i miss her
Carla Maddison me toooo😭
I love how they gave Adrienne a reality check. They turn to her as though she is a relationship expert. At this time she was naive and inexperienced. Thank you.
She was agreeing with the girls though. She was just saying don’t be unnecessarily mean to him, constantly putting him down basically bullying your man.
Even sexy, good, self-respecting women get cheated on, happens to the best of us, it's solely based on the other person in the relationship. It's their prerogative to cheat.
Amy Simone Aries all of them except loni and tameraare having marital problems
Ya like Beyoncé got married with Jay Z
lovi vaughn lmao
Patrick Mwakitwange but the man is still the one cheating.... those other women aren’t in his relationship. It’s his responsibility to be faithful
Patrick Mwakitwange Many men cheat with other men especially black men. DOWNLOW is very common
I'm going to miss Tamar lol. She's so loud....but she is lowkey right. Loni and Jeannie made some good points.
Empressive *Highkey, She is ALWAYS right. And loud? Pleaaassee She is/was the life of the show. 😂
Empressive so did Adrianne
why did she leave?
Mariam morjan To this day we really don't know !We can just assume that she got fired maybe because she was rude sometimes and she was acting too much like a diva or that her husband didn't get a long with the production . Only God knows.....
Empressive TAMAR WAS THE LEMON IN THE ICE TEA ,YOU DON'T REALLY WANT TO EAT A LEMON ALONE ,BUT ADD IT AND THINGS ARE BETTER
How to affair proof a relationship: find u a man that won't have an affair just bcs things don't go how he want🙄
Adrienne sounds young and naive here.
But that’s what makes this show so good. There’s the naive woman, the experienced woman, the blunt woman, and other personalities on the show that makes it interesting.
@@leahvictoria7447 the naive women is annoying asf
She sounds like she's been influenced by a man ****coughs**** the one she's married to now.
She still holds the same beliefs
I can always count on Jeannie for some wisdom. & I always agree with her!
yessss
agree. btw i love your picture lol
yea, that was good and REAL
+Nancy Higareda Haha! Thanks. 😊
She really be throwing out some gems & I don't feel like she gets enough credit for it
In my opinion Jeannie gives the best marriage advice
Yes, I agree.
+Christina Thomas nope
yeah shes the realest. im not saying all the other girls are lying but jeannie is more open so to speak to like talking about the sad parts of her marriage
I agree
They way she consistently disrespects Freddy? She definitely wants a black rapper for a husband.
watching this is 2020 when both tamar and jeannie are divorced
@Surya but she alluded to him cheating
Which it looks like he did, if so it's not about her, it's about him and was his fault. I'm not gonna blame her even though she blamed herself in advance
A ho will be a ho
Exactly. I’m married but nvr have and won’t ever ask for or take someone else’s advice on marriage. Only I (and my spouse) know wats right and how we chose to navigate life together.
chantelle r yeah because he got a girl pregnant before they were divorced
The emphasis is always on the woman to keep things tight, fresh and new..Please..what about what he needs to do?
The older men get, the more “attractive” they become. Opposite for women. It’s nuts.
@@benjaminisler6731 errr nope
Carmi* Okoye per societal “standard” yeah.
Right.
This is the new generation of woman ladies and gentlemen. Want to be with a man but have an F*** him attitude. Makes no sense!
Jeannie's right tho. Women mostly cheat bc the other person is doing everything their spouse isn't doing. so what makes you think a man isn't gonna do the same? he gon' get with the person who makes him feel good about himself.
Yeah, I think men and women cheat because something is missing in their relationship. But with women it seems to be more about emotions, men it seems to be more about sex.
+chany85 some people cheat just because they get in a monogamous relationship when they're not ready. I think that monogamy is not natural, but it's a choice. so some people cheat because they just want more than one person, doesn't mean they're a bad person tho, just my opinion
+chany85 some people cheat just because they get in a monogamous relationship when they're not ready. I think that monogamy is not natural, but it's a choice. so some people cheat because they just want more than one person, doesn't mean they're a bad person tho, just my opinion
jeanie is the mvp
I'm sorry. You're wrong. For men, sex is how you show your emotions. If you reject a man in bed repeatedly, you might as well tell him you don't love him.
I'm gonna have to disagree with Adrienne about catering to your man when she said "if you don't do it, someone else will" (using it as incentive to stop your man from cheating) , I feel that if my man likes something that is out of my comfort zone to keep him interested, then I'm gonna have to say 'dueces' and keep it moving. I'm not about to forfeit my happiness to make others feel happy. Cause as Loni and Tamar said, if he's gonna cheat, he's gonna cheat😕
Also, I'd really like to know what Tamara meant by "giving your man respect" if anyone has answers❔
One last thing, I agree with Tamar, about the reason that men cheat. Personally, it is not my job to build up a man's ego/self esteem or make him feel like a "man". That is something he needs to workout on his own with a helpful person called a therapist. Because how is he going to successfully be in a relationship when he relies on others to build his self confidence in his 'manhood? Also this just sounds like victim blaming, instead of blaming the cheater your blaming the victim saying that it's their fault for not stroking their ego enough or that they could have done better to prevent it. Idk man maybe I'm just not seeing the other side, but then again, there is no excuse for cheating.
+Jay Kitad Simply put: Allow the natural role/position of a man to take place. Meaning allow him to lead, respect and value what he brings to the table.(provider,protection sound mind etc..) Treat him how you would want to be treated. Men place a enormous about of value on being respected not just in marriage but in life.
That's the way, indeed. All day, everyday!!
+Jay Kitad but the thing isn't that you're building him up because he can't do it himself it's more of a you love someone and you're putting your energy into loving and supporting that person with any and everything you can because when you give someone your heart you're vulnerable to that person. Your emotions are tied to that person and you want to feel safe and secure with them at all times , I wholeheartedly think couples should lift each other up to their highest potential and want the absolute best for them. If he has a dream support him don't tell him hey that's stupid and it'll never work and beat him down and emasculate him because he's not say making as much as your friends husband or he doesn't do things others or yourself thinks he should , nurture the things he does offer and that'll end up being better for the both of you he'll want to be better for the both of you because you see so much in him and he wants you to have the world.
I mean if you really havin to do all this to try to “prevent” him from cheating. He prolly ain’t the right man and you needa find someone better who loves you enough to not cheat💅🏽🤷🏽♀️👀
You could be the greatest woman to that man and he still gon do what he wanna do
Until this day, I don't understand the point of asking someone on the table a question, then start harping at them once they start to answer. lol. Like what was the point of asking Adrienne. Just ask yourself so you can hear yourself talk. How bout that?!
I agree. I think Tamar and Loni were being a little bias with their answers every time Adrienne spoke on it.
lol so many people like this. just talk to yourself hunny. you're right everyone is wrong
+Gladys Rose i think mainly because of the whole israel situation. like how can she talk about relationship goals when your whole tea got spilled out there saying she was his mistress etc
I think it's because they have a show and they need to have different perspectives on a question/topic.
Nicole Lopez lol i know i was being sarcastic. my point is when you ask for that different perspective. let the person express it, don't jump on them for having it. After all, you asked!
Jeannie is the MVP of this show. Don't debate me.
I 100% agree with you. She's the only one that can have a successful talk show out of all members of this panel. Tamera and Adrienne have their acting careers (TV and Film) but Jeannie is the only one that has had a variety show(How Do I Look on TSN) and still has a variety show(How Do I Look Asia) and has hosted, is still hosting shows on various entertainment channels. She's best cut out for this and she's the most experienced at it. Besides I feel she has the best attitude amongst all the ladies
she the REAL MVP
i agree...she is the break out star ⭐⭐⭐⭐
+Aanuoluwapo Ogunkoya I really thought it was going to be Tamera. I wanted it to be her, but she's still scared to state her opinion and although I relate to her values as a Christian, it's something about Jeannie that's more REAL or realistic...can't put my finger on it but I love me some Jeannie Mai.
trueeeeeee
I love Tamar with dark hair and black glasses. . . Sooooo cuteeeee
My mom always says, if they’re gonna leave you/cheat on you they’re gonna do it. Doesn’t matter what you do. It’s them it’s not you.
I get what Tamar was saying. We tend to blame the one cheated on instead of the cheater for causing the person to stray. Especially, if we are the ones cheated on, usually our first instinct is to think "What did I do wrong". But we shouldn't! If someone wants to cheat, they will. It has nothing to do with you and what you are doing or not doing, its on them. The problem is with the cheater, not with the person being cheated on. If you aren't happy in a relationship then bounce. why cheat.
EXACTLY!
This guy gets it! Lol it takes a lot of maturity to communicate in order to fix issues or decide to leave.
True Brother
Naaw man, most of the times bad guys PREY on good ,trusting, naive girls. Abusers in general, no matter if they are male or female, tend to look out for victims they can exploit,people with little to no boundaries who are willing to give a LOT
Jimylee Melo Medeiros Yes! Well said!
Preach
Jeannie's answer hit a surface.
we love Tamara but when she smiles her nose is in the middle of her mouth which indicates that she can smell her breath before anyone can smell it.
@@ruthierodgers177 lol
She did not realise it was happening to her?
Jeannie always gives intelligent answers
"The other girl is a Heifer, Okay!" Tamar come back 😂😂😂😂😂
Adrienne made it sound like if a man cheats it’s your fault lol don’t matter if someone’s nice to him if he wanna chest he’s gonna cheat whether you’re nice or not
and claiming that being 4 years younger than her made him cheat...i don't understand her argument. Why didn't he break up with her if he wasn't comfortable about her age and busy schedule? same with Tamera's ex. Tamera had already told him she wasn't gonna have pre-marital sex, he just have broken up with her
@@janejustin1788 I think she was trying to say he was still just trying to have his fun and was not settled yet (his young age).
Be well and be at peace.
Tamera and Jeannie always have the best advices...
FrenchyBelgian they’re the ones that have had therapy prior to this show
It’s actually ADVICE
Jeannie rarely gives good advice..
jeannie just wants an applause
jeannie insinuated that a woman needs to do some work to make sure her man dont cheat. HOW is that good advice
I like that biblical wisdom Jeanie said that at the end.
i hate that it was cut off. i like when she shares, her stories are so REAL.
Loves Music Yeah they are.
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Adrienne was talking about Rob kardashian lol they’re 4 years apart
Yeah he was like 20 when they dated
Jeanie hit the nail on the head with that loving yourself and loving your spouse as yourself
Jeannie is undeniably the realest on the show. She talks about her marriage so openly and shares intimate details that know other host would share. That must take a lot of courage
Jeannie has the best advice. The shade is real up in these streets. it Seems like everyone is turning against her. why they had to cut her out like that. i needed to hear the rest of her advice.
I think they cut her out because they sense the bullshit. I want to like Jeanie. However, that stem from me always rooting for the underdog. Jeanie definitely makes good points at times. But, she gives off a fake vibe that makes me unable to really connect with her persona. I feel like she's an actress.
In their most recent videos, Tamar and gamers are ALWAYS ganging up on Jeannie ... And they always say she doesn't understand because she doesn't have a baby. I used to like tamera and Tamar, but they are just mean now.
Meant to write tamera, not gamers (autocorrect)
+nanophomonique because at the end of the day even with marriage problems which you're going to have anyways if you can communicate properly with your spouse then you have the best marriage. Just because people seem to be without issues or they aren't as obvious doesn't mean they're nonexistent, I think Jeannie's biggest issue is the kids thing without that her and Freddy probably have the best marriage. They fully understand the needs and wants of their spouse and that's obvious they respect each other's opinion which from what I've saw of both of them generally is sound advice.
i know she brought it home with that last one
An affair-proof relationship is one where you have chosen a faithful partner who wants to be kept and be faithful to you.
I wish the ladies did a segment where they look back and discuss how they feel about the same topics and their opinions at the time. This exact episode would be gold because the ladies here we're probably having a bad morning🥴
I agree with Tamar & Lonie. A cheater is going to cheat! It doesn't matter how good you look, how many degrees you have, how much money you have. If a hater gone hate then cheater is going to cheat.
Jeani was correct about a man going to where he feels like a man
Hers did.
I guess my issue is when the man isn’t acting like the man, it seems unfair for the wife to have to treat him like he is.
That explains her marriage
@@janetmecham1059 That's called holding him accountable. You respect him by expecting him to live up to HIS standard. Treat a man like the man that he says he is. If he acts out of character, call him out. That's accountability.
No she was not right. A lot of women sacrifice and make men feel important even more than they kids and a man will still cheat. It’s never about the woman because if you live someone no matter what happens I’m that relationship, if you love the person you would rather walk away then to cheat so that’s a bs excuse. A man who ain’t happy and gonna waste time like women, they will just leave or stay because they ain’t got nowhere to go and the woman is supporting them but Tamar is right! A man gonna cheat with no reason at all if that’s what he wants to do
“Girl Please” 😂😂😂😂
If there’s gonna be an affair there’s gonna be an affair. You can be the best mate and still get cheated on.
Jeannie. The way you handle yourself woman. I love it.
I heard a story of a woman who learned in the worst way. She was marries for fifteen years, with children. She wasn't feeling well, went to the hospital and she had HIV. Her husband had it for five years and didn't tell her because he made the mistake of cheating. Cheating has consequences, and sadly, your only safe from it if both parties don't want to cheat.
Who cares that’s their marriage
Even if you're the most beautiful woman in the world, if your man doesn't know how to be contented, he will cheat on you because cheating is a choice and no one can prevent that from happening. Don't blame yourself because every woman deserves to love and be loved.
Listening to Jeannie then fast forward 2 years and her husband disrespected her by cheating with their friend AND conceived 2 babies after 10 years of marriage is just heartbreaking.
As Jeanie stated a man will go where he's appreciated.oop
So who's watching Braxton Family Values this Thursday?
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Most definitely‼️
Me with tea lol
Can't watch Tamar be so broken
lmfaooo!! Not with the infamous TAMAR "PICK ME" Symbol!!! YAAASSS
Yes jeannie yes, love you girl! Always respectful of what others says , you give them their time to talk, and you voice your opinion respectively.
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F ALL of this. I love you ladies but Mama Mai said it BEST.
MARRY SOMEONE WHO LOVES YOU MORE THAN YOU LOVE THEM.
But if that is applied both ways then neither will love to their fullest potential because of the wall they set for not loving too hard. That's not always good either
Thats right
@@Mshabbak God bless you💕
I 100% agree with Tamar no woman or man for that matter should be having to think about how to get their spouse to not cheat on them, that is not a normal thing, which is why you should know who you are marrying inside amd out cause that's not something you should have to worry about and if its gonna happen its gonna happen there's nothing you can do or should do about it.
i totally agree with Tamar a man will do what he wants ... doesn't matter if he's respected , honored or all the other bs
Low-key miss Tamar... Was never my favourite but she always kept it real !!!
Even when you’re not married, if they want to cheat on you, they’re going to cheat on you!!!!
Hallelujah we got 8 mins
I know right! Not one of those 1/2 minute clips PRAISE THE LORD!
yes! yes! yes! i love these longer videos
I will
Tamar was just not getting it! I agree with what Jeannie was saying. You have to respect your bf/husband. You can't be calling him names and cussing him out all the time. He going to eventually hate you and go cheat with the next woman that makes him feel good and like a man. Now I agree that if a man want's to cheat he going do it regardless of what you do to try to keep him. However, you not suppose to help him by making the decision to cheat by trying him like trash.
i'm sorry, but that sounds why too much like making excuses for a cheater. if you have a problem with the way someone is treating you in a relationship, you should either tell the person how you feel or just leave. There is NO excuse for cheating...EVER.
Also, it's all up to interpretation what constitutes "mean" behavior. The guy may think his significant other is being mean, but she might disagree. He might be leaving messes all over the house, not picking up after himself, not doing the fair share of housework. if she speaks up for herself by addressing it again and again, he might interpret that as nagging or her being "mean." What else is she supposed to do? Do you think he's justified in cheating on her in this situation because she's being "mean" to him?
People are way too comfortable blaming a woman for a man's actions.
I watched my mom be mean to my dad. I knew I never wanted that to become me. It's going past "babe can you put your shoes up" to "you can never put your fucking shoes up are you stupid or something". But nagging doesn't equal mean. It's when you don't even want to be around that person bc they're so negative
+peanutjelly thank you thank you thank you!
if he cheats he aint a man thats a boy. point blank
I agree. It's about ownership of oneself and communication. If there is a problem and it's bothering me I will have to address it and I will keep addressing it until you understand.
Tamar crack me completely up, "WHAT! WHAT! WHAT U SAY!" 😭😭🤣😩 she is a loud ghetto mess
Tamar & Loni reactions towards Adrienne speaking was me while watching 😂🤣
I don't know why ppl are criticizing Tamar when her opinion is absolutely rt. If a man wants to cheat he will cheat anyways. You are just becoming his maid by doing everything he wants just to "please" him. A relationship should be mutual by pleasing and respecting each other and not taking advantage of a person or kissing his ass just to keep him. Ppl should learn to love each other with loyalty and respect in order to have a successful relationship.
clarivellyss aguayo it’s prolly the way she express her opinions she cuts off the other women to be heard.
She is right but I also think there is a point to treating him right. I mean, of course you should be kind, loving, attentive, etc to him...he's your husband, not your enemy, right? And of course vice versa. But here's the thing, I don't think everyone is always with the right person. As an example, my uncle is a very good, hardworking family man. He's not very affectionate or talkative, but I think that's partly cultural. Anyway, his wife is a total nightmare. She doesn't respect my grandmother, she's loud and obnoxious and rude, etc, I can only imagine how she is at home with him...and she also abused me when I was a small child, so yeah I'm extremely biased against her, but someone like that I wouldn't be surprised or offended if my uncle has cheated on her. He's such a good guy though that I doubt he has. Obviously my example is extreme, but I think it can be relevant sometimes. If you have a good man, be sweet and attentive to him and love him and respect him. He should do the same. Yes, he could still cheat on you anyway, but at that point he has no real good "excuse". He's just an ass and you're better off without him.... which really, in my opinion, all cheaters are, but sometimes they fall into it when the marriage is strained for a long time instead of having the courage to address the issues and either try to work it out or leave. And I'm sorry my comment is so long, I think lately I've been using captive audiences as mini therapy sessions 😬
@Yoshiyahu Yisrael just break up, u cheat-ur disgusting.
8mins!!!!! they're really celebrating this Tamar departure
They trying to get back the viewers they lost.
They aren't losing viewers over Tamar.
+wwe creative how do you know? They haven't even aired after her departure. I for one only watch as long as Tamar is on the show, I mean if I SEE her on an episode, I will watch it. But once the new season starts WITHOUT Tamar, I'm out🖖🏽✌🏽The Real who? The real what? This show won't be the real if THE REAL Tamar isn't on the show, the only one who keeps it a Hunnid percent real
We have to also remember that a lot of people didn't watch the show because of Tamar, so they'll probably pick some more viewers up. Plus, people are in their feelings, but they'll be watching out of curiosity.
+Mary Taylor and when they see its boring they are going to die..out by 2017.the show will decline ...watch.
I MISS TAMAR SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO MUCH LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOO
Same
I’m watching all these old ones with Tamar over they were so gooood 😭
I’m sorry but Tamar made this show.
I don't understand why the others pin relationships topics on Adrienne when in my opinion, she's not the best person to be giving relationship advice
That why Jeanie came in and save the day with that bomb ass advice
lol they just wanna hear her talk so they can jump in on her. It's not fair. Don't ask her questions if you are gonna talk over her. I like Tamar and Tamera, but they are the married people who think they know everything. They act like if you're single, you know nothing and can make no sense. All because they are married. Like they forgot what it was like to not be married. I'm sure when they were just dating their husbands, they felt like their points of views were valid. I can't stand when people forgot where they used to be. like don't lose weight then condemn fat people, and don't get married and act like a single persons opinion is beneath yours. BYE TAMAR & TAMERA!
+Ama O nail on the head!!!!
True, I think they ask her because they like to get the "Single Woman's" prespective.
+iKETOURAGE you are very rational!
i will miss tamar but honestly, i won't miss how much she screams over her co-hosts. she really needed to tone it down
I miss her too however in this episode she was loud and obnoxious.
@@luzhernandez5321 yes and I also think it was around the time she found out she got fired. So she probably was even more tense....
They all do it tbh
Luz Hernandez when she’s louder that just means she really cares or passionate about the subject.. she’s not trying to be rude.
Jeannie is such a smart lady. Very wise and articulate while speaking.I love hearing her opinion in such matters.
Whew. The internalized misogyny was POURING out of Adrienne and Jeannie in this clip. Thank God for Tamar and Loni.
Clearly you don't know the ACTUAL definition of the word misogyny and this is coming from a woman
and thats the reason why Tamar got fired.. never respect others opinion! always gotta be the loudest ugh
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she's better than the show thats why she left ...she too good ...the show will be canceled I can't wait ...
+Fabulous Divo Her personality doesn't fit daytime tv, she do better in reality tv show and music!! the show will be just fine not the 1st time a show loses a co host.
Jackie Alzanam no bitch..lame ass irrelevant people will watch like u...so guess what it's a done deal peace !!!!
+Fabulous Divo and you just prove me right 😂😂 her low class and your low class dont deserve to be on daytime! dont worry you can still tuned to her reality show every week. guetto asses 😊😂
segments like this is gonna make me miss Tamar even more
right
Tamar was phenomenal on this show.
annie parker Come on Somebody
Seriously? :/ .....wasn't expecting that response......actually this made me look forward to next season without her so I can hear more of Jeannie......and this is coming from someone who enjoyed Tamar's sense of humor but I'm looking forward to seeing how much Jeannie opens up and drop these gems for us next season
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I love Loni advice 👏🏾 if you cheat I'm out. Period
I feel like what was left out of this conversation to really bring home Tamera and Jeannie's points that a man will go where he's respected and treated like a man is that an affair doesn't start with sex. There's stages before that. A man and a coworker don't just wind up in a hotel room together there's a period before that where the 2 realize they're getting to close and if the man is happy, respected, and feels like a man in his relationship he's more likely to shut it down then and not move forward and cross any more lines.
More likely. But there are NO guarantees. It's the culture in America to blame the victim. To put the RESPONSIBILITY on the victim.
She got raped.....what was she wearing? She got slapped....what did she say to provoke him?
Cheating is often a pattern of behavior. Cheating is often a symptom of a deeper, underlying issue. It is NEVER the other persons fault. Your actions are yours and yours alone.
@@malhunt7 I agree everyone is responsible for their actions and their actions alone not another person's however we kid ourselves to think that the way we act doesn't have an influence on those we are close to. Every moment you have with a loved one either brings you closer together or farther apart
@@smeak9246 We can agree to disagree. My final word is I hope ALL humans learn to take responsibility for themselves and their actions. Self control begins with the SELF.
"Life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it"
No one could ever turn me into a cheater. When you have integrity, when you know yourself and respect yourself, cheating just isn't an option. It has NoTHInG to do with anyone else's behavior, it is intrinsic.
I love it when the co-hosts praise and agree with Jeannie as much as I always do.
Okay I'm ready for Tamar to go. Yelling over Jeannie constantly is so rude. Shut up and let someone else have a turn.
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To be fair they all kinda talk over each other sometimes. But I agree with you. She's over the top
thank youuuu
yeah she does need to take it down a bit
Tamar is a naturally loud person. It does come off rude tho.
Adrienne's comments are so idiotic I cannot. When a person is cheated on, it is NEVER through the fault of their own. There is nothing wrong with the person who got cheated on. The cheater however, needs to re-evaluate their values, self esteem, and morals.
Well we are not surprised she married a divorcee
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Jeannie has grown a lot, Adrienne still has ditsy views like this.
Do men work hard to keep up their appearances, be nice etc? I doubt it.
But you want him to pay that bill, right?
@@anseldiaz1968Nah bitch. I want him to be a decent person with good hygiene. FFS.
Jeannie speaks some real stuff
Adrienne is the only one now that acknowledges and agrees with Jeannie and the sensible things she says. It's like Tamar and Tamera feel some type of way about how wise she is. They hardly ever agree w. her when it comes to the topic of marriage. I mean she's been married for 8 years, I would think she knows what she's talking about.
because they are entitled to their own opinions...this is the REAL!
Yeah Tamar and Tamara have a hard time hearing Jeannie speak the truth.
HEIRLESSful they def do. They never agree with her and she is speaking the TRUTH.
Now y'all know that Tamar and Tamera can't trust what anyone says if they don't have kids...lol
Tamera and Tamar are entitled to their own opinion. Personally, I feel that the agreement that Adrienne and Jeannie have is based upon a superficial friendship.
In this particular clip Jeanie is only agreeing with Adrienne because her husband is probably cheating on her. Honestly, Jeanie doesn't come across as a woman that has married the man that she's fallen in love with. That explains why she felt the need to mention the race of her husband every chance she got. She married for status. I'm sure he has someone on the side. Adrienne is a complete a kiss ass. I don't why she makes my skin crawl. I believe it's because she's sooooo fake on 'The Real'. It's annoying to watch her, Tamar and Jeanie.
Pisces, Cancer, Cancer, Capricorn, Scorpio. They have super good synergy.
Instead of asking what people could do to keep their spouse from having affairs, they should ask themselfs what they can do to keep themselfs from having affairs and communicate that with their spouse.
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Listen people you can respect a man, upkeep your appearance, give him sex every night and he'll still cheat. Like Loni and Tamar said "A Man Gonna DO What He Wants To Do." We've all know someone who's done all those things Adrienne and Jeannie said and still get cheated on because the man wanted to cheat. When it comes to cheating its not the victims fault but the suspect. Like they said in everything else never blame the victim. A cheaters gonna do what a cheater wanna do, just accept this and move on with your life. Please...
You're leaving out a whole group of folks. I agree that cheaters will cheat. But, every person that has cheated or been cheated on didn't necessarily start off with the intentions of cheating. What they're trying to explain is when people lose communication, attraction, trust whatever it may be...it gives the enemy within and the enemy without a chance to creep in. Everyone isn't a cheater but everybody has the potential to cheat.
And what do you do to avoid this from happening.
@@debrakimberly5279 False. Not everyone has the potential to cheat. You can't MAKE someone cheat. No one could ever MAKE me cheat. And I've been in relationships where that has been tested. Cheating is a choice. In all those situations you mentioned there were other choices people could have made besides cheating. Like leaving. Like talking. Like therapy. Cheating is just another choice and all it does is prove your character. People with integrity, self respect and dignity DO NOT cheat because they do not dishonour themselves. I never cheated because I didn't want to do that to someone who cared for me, but also because I would never do that to myself. You either have the capacity to cheat or you don't. Leaving a relationship that's not doing you right is always an option. Distancing yourself from your partner and explaining you're not satisified is always an option. If you really don't want to leave physically, then telling them you're over them and that you will now be pursuing other people is always an option (at least it's honest). You always have choices. Cheating is one of them and not everyone would make that choice, regardless of the circumstances. It never matters what the other person does or does not do for you - cheating is a choice that only you choose. You could have chosen otherwise. How dare you say everyone has the potential to cheat. Cheating shows your character and if you have integrity, you do not cheat. Point blank, period. May you meet better people with more honest character.
Jeannie is so wise, i love her!
I love her too
This was so good. Loni ..was shot on really. It's important to not let women think it's always their fault cuz the man cheated.
Tamar was great! They let her go because she was dialed up too high! 😂😭
I'm sick of them talking over each other but I really think Jeanie was right with what she said.
She was.
Jeanie to me gave the most ACCURATE advice! Men always go to the women that make them feel respected!
Even though I almost always agree with her and I think Jeannie was the best one in how she gave her opinion (waiting for her turn instead of yelling over everybody). But I'm more inclined to agree with Tamar (never thought I'd say that). I know for a fact that most cheaters are of a cheating type. The cheating Jeannie is describing where the cheater is purely reacting to abuse from the other partner is like less than 1%. Most cheaters would cheat as soon as an attractive situation presents itself, and then blame the partner.
Because the person Jeannie is describing, if they are indeed a regular good person, would just be more inclined to end the relationship than to cheat. They'd feel torn down by their partner and then they'd realise there are better options and date them. Breaking up with someone takes 5 seconds. Especially if they are making you feel bad all the time.
Most cheaters however, just couldn't be stopped. They'd get bored eventually. They'd get in some situation with someone flirting with them and that'd be enough to make it happen. All most cheaters need is an opportunity. The "reason" they can make up afterwards.
I don't agree with her... if you mistreat him and he's a good man. HE WILL LEAVE YOU AND not cheat on you!
@@4.titude4 sometimes. The men that I know that get mistreated stick right there stressing over their woman.
I'm so tired of everyone complaining about Tamar 🙄 when you sit around and have a deep conversation with your girls do y'all take turns to talk.......?
I'll wait .......
Yes, because some of us were actually taught how to hold a conversation.
right like everyone at the table has strong opinions on deep subjects. get over it they are grown women like shut up with all this complaining. 'Tamar's a bully!" shut upppp damn.
+Bebe Heart okay 😒 I'd like to see that. No one does that in a deep conversation. Not with your girls not at the family reunion not even in a class discussion (college). So Everybody is just sitting there nice and quite until Suzie has her turn.... I'm done lol
Stop the lies
+yo mama inc. and what's crazy is she's not the only one doing it. The other girls do the same thing. Tamar is just loud lol. It's how any group of women have a conversation. Rather people 👆🏾 want to admit it or not
Exactly‼️‼️‼️ that's not how it goes in real life. Jeannie have everybody fooled and delusional
Tamar said it best.🙇😎🙅
WOW. I'VE ALREADY SEEN THIS EPISODE. HOWEVER, WATCHING IT YEARS LATER...IT'S STILL A DEEP SUBJECT
Jeannie coming with that advice today ! yes girl ! I always make sure I go to my man about things I have a problem with and how I'm feeling.
"He gonna do whatever he wanna do." You better preach Loni!
Wow it’s amazing what Jeanie says her about loving yourself when your single that’s what she did and J came this real talk appreciate whole hosts
adrienne lives to please men so i see why she would be the only one at the table saying “be nicer...keep being his gf” like nobody applauded her. if a man wants to cheat on you there is no moves you can pull. HE WILL CHEAT
Adrienne needs to pick an opinion and stick to it lol! the minute they disagree with her she agrees with them looool.. but bless jeannie for being so REAL
It’s okay to have more than one opinion about a certain topic. It’s all about being able to understand other people’s perspective and thus that may add to if not change your opinion entirely. Her agreeing with another opinion doesn’t make her a people pleaser.
I think she sees their perspective an gets it. Thats all relax
Tye Howard-Wilson yes I agree. I think she just listens and agrees with their opinions