"REJECTION IS GOD'S PROTECTION"...YES, YES, YESSSS! Whether it is in the form of employment, relationships, and friendships...I have come to know that statement is a fact. #praisehim!
I was in a wedding where I knew it wouldn't last, but she was my friend and she needed all the support she could get. They had kids, so I understood why she was doing it. Her and I had an honest conversation, so she was clear on where I stood. I was the last bridesmaid before she walked down the aisle. I turned and asked her if she was sure, because it wasn't too late. Her dad looked at her and affirmed my statement. She said she wanted to do it, so I marched. You can't make grown folks do what you think is best for them. Sometimes they just have to find out on their own.
I loooooove her!! That gave me life right there lmao cuz she’s right, I want my damn money! I didn’t pay all this money for my suit and shoes for no damn party without the wedding! 🤬😂
would you ever attend a wedding you didn't approve of....have you seen the divorce rate? 😑 a lot of people should have said I don't at their OWN wedding.
YES! This is the issue I’ve been dealing with for months. My step-brother is set to get married in February and I’ve been pretty close with his fiancée. I was supposed to stand up in the wedding. We found out recently that my step-brother is a manipulative, abusive, toxic person and neither of them should be getting married and they definitely shouldn’t be bringing children into that unhealthy environment. He has pushed away all of his immediate family because we have all called both of them out on their lies and manipulation. I know my stepdad in particular has had a very hard time with it because it’s his son and he doesn’t want to believe that his son is this terrible person. Luckily, he’s able to see past it being his son and realize what is really happening and why their toxic relationship should not be supported. And Lord knows I told his fiancée these things. When she asked if I was still gonna be in the wedding, I told her no because her marriage is doomed to end in divorce but she doesn’t have the self respect to do what needs to be done. If you didn’t want the facts, you shouldn’t have asked. Not my fault you’re delusional and desperate🤷🏻♀️
Yeah I would have had this problem if my mom decided to get married where we lived. I genuinely wouldn’t have wanted to go, but the guy doesn’t know that that. Luckily they went and got married in another country.
Honey, never regret how you handled things when you were younger. That's how you learn, baby! You handled it the best you could at the time, and you still were respectful and kind. Don't forget the things you did right!
I significantly reduced the amount of time I click on The Real's videos because it's so time consuming to select what is dated as a new video but only to realize that I've looked at or skipped over it multiple times before due to it age.
So the tea is that my dad is now going to marry the GIRL he was with when he was with my mother..which my sisters and I never liked for obviously reasons! (also she over all not a good person drama went down between her and my sis) and NOW my sisters and I along with my dads siblings are NOT going to be attending my dads wedding 🤷🏻♀️
Its_ Celeste girl I feel you. My dad ended up marrying the girl he cheated on my mom with and left the family. She would send us pictures of the wedding and didn’t allow him to talk to us. 10 years later.. we’re helping him with his divorce!
I like what Adrianne and Jeannie said about the people at your wedding being people who are doing life with you. They are your community who you should be able to count on in good and tough times.
C Mac right. But that’s like what Adrianne said. There’s a difference in having an opinion about if someone is going to last forever or not. And not being able to attend the wedding because you’re against it. Now the reason you’re against it might be one of the things that you listed. But if not, I think that the comment you replied to is pretty accurate. Like Adrianne said, you can’t see the sparks they feel.
Ken Guillaume the problem is if your friend is PUSHING you to go even if you disagree. Because I agree if you aren’t down don’t go. But that situation is tough depending on your reason
At my parents wedding a drunk man walked in right when the pastor said “speak now or forever hold your peace” and screamed “I WANT TO MARRY HER” and then was escorted out
I was a Maid of Honor at a wedding I didn't approve of. But I talked to her about it, I told her why I didn't think it was a good idea but she still wanted me to be there.
Loni is always the realist in terms of being realistic/ grounded/ giving advice of The Real. Jeannie is real in terms of just spilling the tea with no filter. Tam and A def have some pink filters. They do have good points from time to time and they are kind/ good friends but for a panelist I like Loni and Jeannie best.
Loni said it! Call a marriage what you want but at the end of the day it is a legally binding contract. That is why I consistently tell people I will have a prenup if I ever get married.
I swear I feel like I am living Tamera’s younger life. I am 21 now and everything that Tamera went through in relationships, is the same thing I have or currently going through now. I can relate to her so much.
Well you're gorgeous and obviously a kind heart. Keep praying for that good man. Just, never lower your standards because of a few faulty guys. I know the search is painful, but patience brings you good things. 💛
I'm like Tamera whenever something goes wrong with a guy I always blame myslef for everything. Its not good of me to think this way because it makes me feel like there's something wrong with me
I may not support the wedding but I will always support my friend choices (unless it dangerous put her self in harm, etc). I agree with Tam on this one. You don’t know the future.
I attended a wedding that i didn't know the couple only 2 days before they married in Cancun. I ended up catching the bouquet. About the couple they're still holding strong 👍
My second eldest sister has been married 5 times. Every time she invites us to a wedding we just consider it a time to get off from work and eat free food and dance all night. We call her Liz Taylor. 🤣
A lot of people thought my marriage wouldn't last for no more than a year because we got married fast. We are 8 YEARS STRONG 💪💪💪💪💪💪💪💪!! So in their face!! Moral of the story, just because you don't "approve" of something doesn't mean you are right. I agree with Tamara on this one!
When I got stood up that one time when I was 16, I just went to cinema on my own and had a great time. It really was a gift, it helped me realise that YOU need to treat yourself as a Queen before anyone else does. You really do learn how fabulous being with yourself can be 😊
When my best friend got married I approved of the match but I didn’t/don’t like the guy. But he’s good for her and too her. I can be a woman and acknowledge that. And therefore I was at the wedding. People need to understand that approval doesn’t mean like. If they are good to the other and it’s a relationship that looks strong and has been tested my personal feeling should not matter.
I did that before and I literally couldn’t look the groom in the eye when they came around to give hugs, so this time around, I told my friend straight up Im not attending this toxic fest.
Last time I checked being stood up is one of the worst things ever... but you can turn the negative of that situation into a positive outcome... don't let that ruin your mood ! But why can't people just be honest upfront and say I don't want to date you... you're just wasting their time and giving the other party false hope
😜LOL😜WHY CAN'T PEOPLE GIVE THERE HONEST OPINION WITHOUT YOU THROWING A TANTRUM ALWAYS SAYING MINE YOUR OWN BUSINESS...WHEN ITS NOT TO YOUR LIKING?!?! 💃BYE🏃 VERY CHILDISH! !
Phillips Watson u and this tantrum word being thrower around is getting on my damn nerves... I am 18 not 3... I don’t know you so I suggest you leave me alone harassing me with this bullshit... your comment has literally nothing to do with the topic I’m referring to so please leave me alone ! Thank you and have a nice day !
I was a brides maid, she was my best friend I tried to advise but to no avail.. 4 years later with one child the guy has moved out at least 4 times, he's been arrested for physical assault and she's had a miscarriage due to physical assault. But short of kidnapping her there's nothing we can do apart from being there for her.
I've been in a wedding I didn't really think approve of and I know others felt the same way. No one said anything. Sometimes you gotta let people find out for themselves.
I have a long time friend that was going to get married, I knew it wasn’t going to work, I told her my concern about it, twice and asked her if she was sure, she said yes and I was still going to be her maid of honor. I would have never mentioned it again and from that point I just supported her. She decided a week before not to get married, I was shocked but glad she made a decision that was right for her
Im going to turn up with my peoples idc who getting married😂that aint my business cause all the women in my family could use a better man dont point fingers
I've attended plenty of weddings I didn't approve of, but you allow people to live their life and still support them. There is a difference between disapproving and actively working to separate them or interfere
There is a whole spectrum between absolutely loving the couple and absolutely detesting it. The closer you get to the latter, the lesser chance of you needing to go. You can be not the biggest fan and still attend if you have enough reasons to. As Adrienne said, it's just about being so opposed that you can't even hold your peace. A third category is indifference. If you are so far from caring about them that neither good nor bad emotions evoke within you, then there is no need to go. However, it gets tricky when you are talking about indifference to someone in the family- at which point family respect is more important than your indifference.
I was in a wedding where many of our friends felt the groom could do better. The best man didn't show in protest/disapproval and I went from being a bridesmaid to the best man minutes before the ceremony. I don't regret standing with my friend, they were getting married and deserved to have support. However their marriage did end when he came home from work early to find her in bed with another man so maybe when your friends question a relationship they might know what they are talking about.
O was the maid of honor of a wedding that I didn’t aprove of. I was there for my friend and I understand that is HER life and HER decision to make. I said what I needed before hand and she still decided to get married. He has a drug addiction issue and she will live a life of always being second. I happen to think she could’ve done better but it’s not right for me not to be there for her. My love for her is unconditional!
Tamera is sooooooo beautiful, this shade of blue is doing everything for her complexion
so pretty
🙌💙💙💙
Girl yass she is everything
@Kea Knight you think so, Loni got a white man herself, plus Tam is half white
oh she is gorgeous!
Tamera is just STRAIGHT GLOWING! Her skin, her smile, and her spirit is SHOWING!
Marshell Smith Anytime I see Tamera she is always glowing
@@baggergurl16 YES girl! lol The light if Christ shines through her!
that’s Jesus, only He can do that!🥰
ikr she looks so beautiful 💙👩🏽🦱🤍
@@daphnebailey6223 Yes! most definitely!
"REJECTION IS GOD'S PROTECTION"...YES, YES, YESSSS! Whether it is in the form of employment, relationships, and friendships...I have come to know that statement is a fact. #praisehim!
Queen say it again!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Amen in Jesus name!!!
AMEN!!! ✝️💖🙌🏼🙏🏼🕊
and there's the truth right there!!!
This is powerful. Can you open a counselling service?
“dont get married just to get married”
yesssssssss👏🏽
LuisLuxe love that!
Tamera: how did they handle you saying you weren’t gonna go?
Loni: they just had to handle it.
😂😂😂
Jordan Oliver 🤣
😩😩😂
i love loni 💙😂
@@daphnebailey6223 uterine
I was in a wedding where I knew it wouldn't last, but she was my friend and she needed all the support she could get. They had kids, so I understood why she was doing it. Her and I had an honest conversation, so she was clear on where I stood. I was the last bridesmaid before she walked down the aisle. I turned and asked her if she was sure, because it wasn't too late. Her dad looked at her and affirmed my statement. She said she wanted to do it, so I marched. You can't make grown folks do what you think is best for them. Sometimes they just have to find out on their own.
Nique Franklin are they still together?
That's great support from you 👍🏼
You just changed my opinion, thanks for the wise words 😊🌹
love this 💕 she has to learn on her own but love how u were there 4 her😊
Update!
Jeannie's "I want it back" was EVERYTHING
Jeannie be coming through with the Real good conversation.
Jeannie Mai was NOT here for it. She got mad. I'm with her though. I want my money back!
I agree with Jeannie. I came for an "I do". That's what I paid for!
I was living for it!!!
I loooooove her!! That gave me life right there lmao cuz she’s right, I want my damn money! I didn’t pay all this money for my suit and shoes for no damn party without the wedding! 🤬😂
Whenever Jeanie opens her mouth I’M SHOOK. She has so much insight and wisdom in her words💙
Tamera: "To make a long story short..."
Also Tamera: "Proceeds to give EVERY detail of the story." 😂😂😂😩
You know full well whenever a black woman says "long story short...", you still got five minutes left of that story 😂
@@lexi219 #Facts 😂😂😂
Lol... I thought it was jst me... I love me some Tam though... but I had to skip to find out what happened 😄😄😃
@@rauntieolofin1933 right lol
😂😂😂😂
I would attend any wedding as long as there's going to be good food.
SAMEEEEE
Here here. 🍾
And an open bar 🥃
SAMMMEE 😂😂😱
🤣🤣🤣
would you ever attend a wedding you didn't approve of....have you seen the divorce rate? 😑 a lot of people should have said I don't at their OWN wedding.
Jen J facts
😂
Good point
I agree with the divorce rates. If i may. Its due to our egos. Marriage and family forming is the most selfless thing you can fi if its done right.
Candi Cerna I also think it comes from pressure to get married from parents/older relatives when they’re nowhere near ready to get married.
This blue is perfectttt for Tameras skin tone
Its very easy to say "well just don't go" when its not your parent or sibling..
YES! This is the issue I’ve been dealing with for months. My step-brother is set to get married in February and I’ve been pretty close with his fiancée. I was supposed to stand up in the wedding. We found out recently that my step-brother is a manipulative, abusive, toxic person and neither of them should be getting married and they definitely shouldn’t be bringing children into that unhealthy environment. He has pushed away all of his immediate family because we have all called both of them out on their lies and manipulation. I know my stepdad in particular has had a very hard time with it because it’s his son and he doesn’t want to believe that his son is this terrible person. Luckily, he’s able to see past it being his son and realize what is really happening and why their toxic relationship should not be supported. And Lord knows I told his fiancée these things. When she asked if I was still gonna be in the wedding, I told her no because her marriage is doomed to end in divorce but she doesn’t have the self respect to do what needs to be done. If you didn’t want the facts, you shouldn’t have asked. Not my fault you’re delusional and desperate🤷🏻♀️
Or family in general...
Or best friend
Yeah I would have had this problem if my mom decided to get married where we lived. I genuinely wouldn’t have wanted to go, but the guy doesn’t know that that. Luckily they went and got married in another country.
Right, I was a bridesmaid at my bestfriends wedding and didn't approve of it.
"They just had to handle it"
Loni is savage! 😂😂😂
tamera's stylist knows color theory all too well bc sis is GLOWING!
Loni makeup 💄 and hair💇🏾♀️ is on point💯
It really is!!!!!
And the way her velvety lipstick compliments her top 😍👌 She's so pretty. 🙄
I was just bout to say this!! Lol
I scrolled through the comments looking for this specific comment! I 100% agree. Loni looks great here.
Yoooo Loni is young but that makeup makes her look EVEN younger 😍😍😍😍 I cant stop looking at her!
Tam Tam is SO BEAUTIFUL AND Vibrant in that dress YESS!! And Jeannies hair isssss poppinnnn
Going to the wedding wasn't the problem. Keeping your mouth shut after it fell apart trying not to say "I told ya so", is what's hard.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Jeannie's demand for a refund though...she was serious as a heart attack. She had me laughin so hard that i had to watch her reaction again!!
Honey, never regret how you handled things when you were younger. That's how you learn, baby! You handled it the best you could at the time, and you still were respectful and kind. Don't forget the things you did right!
Cosign Ms. Maggs...it was a learning experience 😊
PUT THE ORIGINAL AIR DATE IN THE CAPTION PLEASE. ❤️❤️❤️
Yup, this is an old video
I significantly reduced the amount of time I click on The Real's videos because it's so time consuming to select what is dated as a new video but only to realize that I've looked at or skipped over it multiple times before due to it age.
Thank You!
So the tea is that my dad is now going to marry the GIRL he was with when he was with my mother..which my sisters and I never liked for obviously reasons! (also she over all not a good person drama went down between her and my sis) and NOW my sisters and I along with my dads siblings are NOT going to be attending my dads wedding 🤷🏻♀️
Good for yall some people don't deserve your attendance
Its_ Celeste I would like more tea
It feels like the Girl is toxic and that it's not about not supporting your father, it's about making it clear she can't have your joy.
Twokids Mom exactly..
Its_ Celeste girl I feel you. My dad ended up marrying the girl he cheated on my mom with and left the family. She would send us pictures of the wedding and didn’t allow him to talk to us. 10 years later.. we’re helping him with his divorce!
Loni: "Every week you get married..." 😂😂😂
@Chosen Warrior Bruh lol
I like what Adrianne and Jeannie said about the people at your wedding being people who are doing life with you. They are your community who you should be able to count on in good and tough times.
Loni, once again slaying people’s life with the hair and perfect makeup 💄💕
Her lipstick👏🏾🙌🏾👄
Prettttyyyy
Thank u. i was debating going to a wedding i dont approve of. I just cant condone abusive relationships.
We can’t predict the future so let’s just enjoy the present and be thankful.
YES
i love this. i have trouble just saying in the present
I agree but ladies (and guys) don't ignore red flags and hope for the best
C Mac right. But that’s like what Adrianne said. There’s a difference in having an opinion about if someone is going to last forever or not. And not being able to attend the wedding because you’re against it. Now the reason you’re against it might be one of the things that you listed. But if not, I think that the comment you replied to is pretty accurate. Like Adrianne said, you can’t see the sparks they feel.
"I want it back!" I agree with Jeannie XD
Cory Latham lmaooo same! I totally felt her there 😤🤣
Loni and Tam are giving me life with these colors! Loni, that’s your color honey!!! And that blue is striking!
I’m with Jeanie. I bought a WEDDING gift and if there is no WEDDING , I want MY WEDDING gift back. Period pooh !
Adrian is a lot wiser than she gets credit for.
If you don’t approve don’t go. Your opinion doesn’t matter
Ken Guillaume the problem is if your friend is PUSHING you to go even if you disagree. Because I agree if you aren’t down don’t go. But that situation is tough depending on your reason
dinkyboss true I agree just like Adrienne said if at the moment the pastor says may you remain silent forever don’t be thereb
What if it's your closest sister wedding?
Jeanie's response (7:37-7:50) was the best 13 seconds of my life!!!💀💀💀
..and I absolutely agree with her🤣🤣
Lol she was so serious 🤣
At my parents wedding a drunk man walked in right when the pastor said “speak now or forever hold your peace” and screamed “I WANT TO MARRY HER” and then was escorted out
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😂🤣😭
Delia Palacios
💀👀😩🤣🤣🤣😂😂😅😅😅😅😅
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Delia Palacios 🤣🤣🤣😂😂
I was a Maid of Honor at a wedding I didn't approve of. But I talked to her about it, I told her why I didn't think it was a good idea but she still wanted me to be there.
"...Rejection is Gods' protection."
Amen!
It depends on the situation, but if you really don't approve of the wedding then don't go.
Loni is always the realist in terms of being realistic/ grounded/ giving advice of The Real. Jeannie is real in terms of just spilling the tea with no filter. Tam and A def have some pink filters. They do have good points from time to time and they are kind/ good friends but for a panelist I like Loni and Jeannie best.
I LOVEEEEE Adrienne’s energy. She’s so uplifting and such positive and funny vibes 👏🏿👏🏿
Loni said it! Call a marriage what you want but at the end of the day it is a legally binding contract. That is why I consistently tell people I will have a prenup if I ever get married.
“They just had to handle it” 😂🤣 I love Loni
i love loni and tamera's friendship.
Tamara: Five years later...
Jeanie: How long after...?
Tamara: It was five years.
I swear I feel like I am living Tamera’s younger life. I am 21 now and everything that Tamera went through in relationships, is the same thing I have or currently going through now. I can relate to her so much.
Well you're gorgeous and obviously a kind heart. Keep praying for that good man. Just, never lower your standards because of a few faulty guys. I know the search is painful, but patience brings you good things. 💛
Bri Love Thank you for your encouraging words. It really means a lot 💖. I pray that God continues to bless your kind heart. 🙏🏾
Loni is tooo funny..lol she said now you just pissed me off and i need his name 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I said it once already and ima say it again. The divorce industry is a billion dollar industry. Go figure. 😏
Ahaha
I feel like Loni is always just slightly off topic lol. She answers a different question than everyone else.
Well, i think she does yhar to be the "comic: of the group. She always comes with a punch line or joke. Like the Red head on the view, no shade
CEAIRA M GIVENS I love it though, keeps the conversation moving
I love her 🤣😂
Different perspectives
Always
I'm like Tamera whenever something goes wrong with a guy I always blame myslef for everything. Its not good of me to think this way because it makes me feel like there's something wrong with me
Tamera looks so beautiful with her natural hair and skin glowing !!😍😍💙
Jeannie!!! Lol "I want it back!" Me too girl, right there with you!
I may not support the wedding but I will always support my friend choices (unless it dangerous put her self in harm, etc). I agree with Tam on this one. You don’t know the future.
Lanis looks so beautiful and her makeup looks stunning 😍
Loni said they just gonna have to handle it 😂😂🤦🏾♀️
I attended a wedding that i didn't know the couple only 2 days before they married in Cancun. I ended up catching the bouquet.
About the couple they're still holding strong 👍
I’m confused...you didn’t know the couple but you went to their wedding?
@@amandatracey3287
My co-worker invited me, his brother also a co-worker is the brother-in-law to the bride.
Wedding guests are witnesses to a covenant being formed. Great thought.
My second eldest sister has been married 5 times. Every time she invites us to a wedding we just consider it a time to get off from work and eat free food and dance all night. We call her Liz Taylor. 🤣
Yasssss Adrienne!! A marriage is a covenant with God ❤ It's a beautiful promise!
I love Loni. Sometimes she says exactly what I say. "They just had to deal with it" 😂😭
Omg Tamara is goals!!! All the ladies are flawless but the way Tamara carries herself is like a goddess!! 😍
10:38 omg I love, it reminded me of sister sister when she said “yeah” I got stood up
A lot of people thought my marriage wouldn't last for no more than a year because we got married fast. We are 8 YEARS STRONG 💪💪💪💪💪💪💪💪!! So in their face!! Moral of the story, just because you don't "approve" of something doesn't mean you are right. I agree with Tamara on this one!
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When I got stood up that one time when I was 16, I just went to cinema on my own and had a great time. It really was a gift, it helped me realise that YOU need to treat yourself as a Queen before anyone else does. You really do learn how fabulous being with yourself can be 😊
When my best friend got married I approved of the match but I didn’t/don’t like the guy. But he’s good for her and too her. I can be a woman and acknowledge that. And therefore I was at the wedding.
People need to understand that approval doesn’t mean like. If they are good to the other and it’s a relationship that looks strong and has been tested my personal feeling should not matter.
I did that before and I literally couldn’t look the groom in the eye when they came around to give hugs, so this time around, I told my friend straight up Im not attending this toxic fest.
Loni... what happened!!!??? Hahahahaha
I told youuuu i told you LOL
I know some who marry just so they are not alone
I wish I had a "Loni" in my life 😂💗💗
Me too😂😂I love her honestly 🤞🏿♥️
Tam said long story short, then proceeded to tell a mini- series LoL
Lonnie, whatever happiness you have is showing through girl! You look gorgeous!
Im gonna miss these daily 14m videos when the new season starts 🥺😩
Tameri Harding I’m sure they’re still gonna post these throwbacks lol
they will be back in 2020🤣😭
Daniela G SERIOUSLY?☠️☠️
I'm in the uk so dont watch the actual show just these videos. What do you mean by your comment?
Last time I checked being stood up is one of the worst things ever... but you can turn the negative of that situation into a positive outcome... don't let that ruin your mood ! But why can't people just be honest upfront and say I don't want to date you... you're just wasting their time and giving the other party false hope
😜LOL😜WHY CAN'T PEOPLE GIVE THERE HONEST OPINION WITHOUT YOU THROWING A TANTRUM ALWAYS SAYING MINE YOUR OWN BUSINESS...WHEN ITS NOT TO YOUR LIKING?!?! 💃BYE🏃 VERY CHILDISH! !
Phillips Watson u and this tantrum word being thrower around is getting on my damn nerves... I am 18 not 3... I don’t know you so I suggest you leave me alone harassing me with this bullshit... your comment has literally nothing to do with the topic I’m referring to so please leave me alone ! Thank you and have a nice day !
I was a brides maid, she was my best friend I tried to advise but to no avail.. 4 years later with one child the guy has moved out at least 4 times, he's been arrested for physical assault and she's had a miscarriage due to physical assault. But short of kidnapping her there's nothing we can do apart from being there for her.
I've been in a wedding I didn't really think approve of and I know others felt the same way. No one said anything. Sometimes you gotta let people find out for themselves.
Someone should make a compilation of Jeannie saying "hit em with the shoulders" lol
We all need a friend like Loni 😂
I disagree with jeanie saying that she wants a refund from buying clothes and shoes but girl nobody asked you to buy new stuff for that event lol
I LOVE THE LOOKS IN THIS ONE!!!!
and Jeannie's reaction to Adriennes story was MEEEE LMFAOOOOOO
You can not approve of a wedding and still go to support them.
Good to know that even beautiful celebrities like Tamera can be ghosted...it's a human thing
“I ain’t ever seen nothing like that” -Loni
-Me “because it didn’t happen Ms Malt liquor 🥃 USA”
omgggg 💀💀
I’m screaming 😂😂
@Open Minded Shoot me the link or it didnt happen bro. She stay lying with her non-drinking ass. Ms I looked crazy taking a spicy shot USA
Wow Tam is looking so good! Edges wow. Jennie is so beautiful as well 😍
I have a long time friend that was going to get married, I knew it wasn’t going to work, I told her my concern about it, twice and asked her if she was sure, she said yes and I was still going to be her maid of honor. I would have never mentioned it again and from that point I just supported her. She decided a week before not to get married, I was shocked but glad she made a decision that was right for her
Im going to turn up with my peoples idc who getting married😂that aint my business cause all the women in my family could use a better man dont point fingers
I agree with Tam. I would try to support my friend.
I Love you guys!!! You ladies look Gorgeous!!!
Love all the way from Guyana!!
I've attended plenty of weddings I didn't approve of, but you allow people to live their life and still support them. There is a difference between disapproving and actively working to separate them or interfere
Adrian was a whole mood in this, everything she is saying is ON POINT. 👌
There is a whole spectrum between absolutely loving the couple and absolutely detesting it. The closer you get to the latter, the lesser chance of you needing to go. You can be not the biggest fan and still attend if you have enough reasons to. As Adrienne said, it's just about being so opposed that you can't even hold your peace.
A third category is indifference. If you are so far from caring about them that neither good nor bad emotions evoke within you, then there is no need to go. However, it gets tricky when you are talking about indifference to someone in the family- at which point family respect is more important than your indifference.
I was in a wedding where many of our friends felt the groom could do better. The best man didn't show in protest/disapproval and I went from being a bridesmaid to the best man minutes before the ceremony. I don't regret standing with my friend, they were getting married and deserved to have support. However their marriage did end when he came home from work early to find her in bed with another man so maybe when your friends question a relationship they might know what they are talking about.
Loni makeup is flawless- she looks amazing here
All the ladies look so beautiful and well styled. It all pairs well together.
If I put money in an envelope and the wedding dont happen, run me my money!!
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@Gabby, Agree! I think I would hold on to the gift, until the ceremony is completed. No wedding= no gift= refund!
I've been to a wedding that I didn't approve of. However, the friend I supported on her happy day appreciated my attendance and that's why I went.
Tamera!!! Is absolutely beautiful! Especially with her natural hair
Tamera's shimmy 😍😍😍
Loni looks great too. Her story about the side piece at the wedding is insane!
O was the maid of honor of a wedding that I didn’t aprove of. I was there for my friend and I understand that is HER life and HER decision to make. I said what I needed before hand and she still decided to get married. He has a drug addiction issue and she will live a life of always being second. I happen to think she could’ve done better but it’s not right for me not to be there for her. My love for her is unconditional!
Idk I think it’s sad that that happens. But it’s not my place to just.
loni's makeup looks amazing
Why would anyone put their seal of approval on something that they don’t agree with?
You can see the genuine love Loni has for Tamera.