Utterly ridiculous! She charged her mother - shamefully disgraceful! If you don't have money, pull back on wedding entertainment, go to the courthouse. The childishness of it all!! A temu fan... Get outta here! She asked 360 ppl and only 60 showed up - she lost on what could have been a beautifully shared experience! I'm certain she lost friends & respect also! What's more important - the wedding or marriage!?! They're really ignorant!
No one should have attended. That would have taught them a lesson. Please folks lets hold onto something. Etiquette should still be required at weddings!!!
Being a guest at a wedding should not be transactional! Should not be quid pro quo! It’s so stupid and arrogant! Plan a wedding within your budget keep your dollar store gifts. I will Never Pay to Attend Wedding! I hope this doesn’t become a trend!
NO! It's greedy and if you can't afford to do what you want to do for a wedding just do something else. However, charging your mother is not surprising nowadays but a new low.
The definition of tacky. If you can’t afford to have a wedding, save up for it or just get married at the justice of the peace. I’m sure there were a lot of people who did not attend.
That was a bunch of junk given in those gift bags for $333.00! If you can't afford a wedding, just don't do it. Justice of the peace will get the job done!
If you can’t afford a big wedding, then don’t have one. My husband and I went to the preacher and got married. Only the two of us. That was the best decision we made. That was 50 years ago. No need to make a mockery of it.
Ridiculous..people want a wedding they can't afford and have others pay for it. Shameful. How long with the marriage last..focus on that and a house for longevity. The need for viral moments are Ridiculous
Absolutely ridiculous and tacky!It was only close family that came apparently 60 people is very small and the friend still is against it they were forced to pay lol. Was it worth it for such a small and not special wedding? Nothing about it sounded lavish at all!!😂😂😂😂
No, no, no! Weddings (contrary to popular belief) are not concerts, plays, movies, sporting events or whatever else they think it is where you’d pay admission. Weddings should not be a paid event because indirectly, they already are by the time you travel and buy a gift. Charging an admission to a wedding is ridiculous.
It was a hard no for me but they managed to convince me. If I pay for other experiences then I'd be willing to pay for my friend to have their dream wedding and have a wonderful time with them.
I've had the opportunity to work with diverse ethnic groups and In the past have attended weddings of other cultures who requested a dollar amount around $250 money for the wedding. They did not want or expect any gifts or anything else to attend. They did not put a gun to people's head (especially a lone outsider like myself) but one would feel a bit uncomfortable not giving money when the family was collecting. They were both large beautiful weddings with nice music, live entertainment, food and gift bags. I just got the feeling that it was the way their families, community and culture did things. I was later informed that on the same day the family was paying entertainment, vendors etc. so the money would cover the entire wedding. And the couple got a nice send off. If I never had those experiences I might think of this story very differently.
Your reply is very thoughtful and generous. I’m 68 years old and I assure you this is not a tradition, this is not black culture. This is called Avarice!
This story and your comment prove that there is nothing new under the sun and many folks don't have exposure to innovative thinking and other cultures.
I’m glad that’s not the norm in our culture. As it’s been said, I’m not interested in paying for your wedding even as a contribution with others in lue of a gift.
I get it, weddings are expensive. Even a modest wedding can easily run $10,000 & everybody & their momma wanna come. Not to mention there are some who won’t even give a gift. So I get why she would want to do it like this. HOWEVER, it’s not something I would do. There are people who love you but honestly can’t afford a $300 ticket. Therefore my character wouldn’t allow to do something like this.
That would be a smart move!! We paid for our wedding in all cash with all of our own money though!! We wish 20K could’ve covered even a little bit!! Plus, we gave everyone their money back! ☺️☺️☺️ ~ Nova & Reemo 🤎
I feel like this summin you do it you’re gonna plan a girls trip or couples trip. As a community, the lack of financially literacy is tearing us down. It’s clear they didn’t have the funds, hence the reason for the tickets. However, personally I couldn’t find it in my heart to charge my close friends and family. $300 is a lot plus not to mention clothes, hair, nails, gift, etc! It’s a HARD NO for me!
I wd willing pay...afterall here in Africa we do hv wedding meetings where we contribute. I guess that fits so well in my country though packaged differently
I would not have to paid to attend. At first I thought the payment was to cover their meal & drinks. THAT I would do. But I’m not paying so that you can buy me gifts 😮. That makes no sense. They started out with 350 on the list of which only 60 committed. I feel like this was a tactic to ween out those they didn’t particularly want to invite anyhow. For events such as weddings, we tend to invite out of obligation. They eliminated that issue. Crest la vie!
We didn’t want anyone there who didn’t genuinely love and support us! It wasn’t about the money! Plus, everyone got their money back at the end of the wedding! 🙃🙃🙃 ~ Nova & Reemo 🤎
Get lost from here. How do you charge your mother, family and friends to come to your wedding? Go have your wedding at the courthouse if you cannot afford the festivities. Even more ridiculous are those who aided it.
Grifters much? This was not only tacky and ridiculous but downright disrespectful not only to your friends but most importantly to your mom! I don’t care how different you think you are , you are not that special. BTW where were the pictures of this so called EXPERIENCE that cost $333 per person? Looks like the friend still felt some way about it all. 😮😝☹️😩
It's one thing if the couple is 25 (young college graduates/1st marriage) years old, but this couple is too mature to ask guests to pay to attend their wedding. It's seeming a bit ghetto. I would be embarrassed to ask guests to pay.
I wish my child would charge me to attend their wedding, the petty in me is gonna run back everything i ever did for them from the moment of conception til the day b4 the wedding and we gonna play BIG bank take LIL bank cuz i guarantee my fee will b bigger than their petty 🍑 wedding fee to top it off I still wont b going its the audacity of it all. Its not a question of can afford it, its would i pay and no matter who tf it is I WONT PAY TO ATTEND A WEDDING period. Thats YOUR special day NOT MINE. Its not on my bucket list, things to do list or even a want list. So HELL NO not if i had all the money in the world.
Loud and wrong!!! On their page they said everyone got their money back at the end of the experience so clearly it wasn’t about the money. Y’all are miserable being this invested to comment negativity for what someone else wanted to do for their dream wedding. Most of y’all won’t even get the wedding experience. Most of y’all probably been on hold for years hoping for the day y’all fiancés meet you at the alter 😂😂😂😂
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Will never pay to attend a wedding 😮😮
Ever! It's ridiculous and cheapen.
Thank you sooo much!! Love is love! ~Nova & Reemo 🤎
@@consciousanfesiashapsnikof8688Thank youuuuu! ~ Nova & Reemo 🤎
It’s your day of celebration I’ll send you a card. Never paying to go to a wedding
Thank you sooo much!! Love is love! ~Nova & Reemo 🤎
All this tells me is that you can't live above your means so you expect other people to pay for your wedding like a hell no!
Thank you!! We actually paid for our wedding in all cash with our own money! ☺️☺️ ~ Nova & Reemo
Utterly ridiculous! She charged her mother - shamefully disgraceful! If you don't have money, pull back on wedding entertainment, go to the courthouse. The childishness of it all!! A temu fan... Get outta here! She asked 360 ppl and only 60 showed up - she lost on what could have been a beautifully shared experience! I'm certain she lost friends & respect also! What's more important - the wedding or marriage!?! They're really ignorant!
Agreed plus all the gifts and money they missed out on.
I wonder how much they're going to charge for the baby shower.
Why hv gifts that the couple wd not use!
Totally Agree
Y'all might hate it and type disparaging things but mamas fine with it at the end of the day
No one should have attended. That would have taught them a lesson. Please folks lets hold onto something. Etiquette should still be required at weddings!!!
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Being a guest at a wedding should not be transactional!
Should not be quid pro quo!
It’s so stupid and arrogant!
Plan a wedding within your budget keep your dollar store gifts.
I will Never Pay to Attend Wedding!
I hope this doesn’t become a trend!
That’s a big no for me
Ahhh man!! Whhyyyy??? We would’ve loved to have had you there! 🙃🙃 ~ Nova & Reemo 🤎
Gift bag? It's not a gift if you have to pay for it.
Thank you!!!
Temu specials in that Gift bag
@@kimberlymanning5149😂😂😂😂😂
That was the thing that made me go hum 🤔.
Indeed!! That’s why our guests didn’t have to pay for it! 🫶🏼🫶🏼 ~ Nova & Reemo 🤎
Wedding invoice is not an invoice. Your guests are not your customers..well said
Charging their guests $333 only to get a dollar tree doggy bag is crazy 🥴
Crazy
Ohhhh they sell uptowns at the dollar store now! We def should’ve gotten them from there than! 🤪🤪🤪 ~ Nova & Reemo 🤎
@@TapiTTwala🙃🙃🙃🤎
Tacky.
Definitely tacky
Tacky asf
Thank youuuuu so much!! ☺️☺️ - Nova & Reemo
@@scorpioredd3762 Thank you sooo much!! Love is love! ~Nova & Reemo 🤎
@@queenb4700 Thank you asf 🙃🙃🤎
They used their guests to pay for their wedding.
About right
Thank you’d We paid for our wedding in all cash all with our own money! ☺️☺️ ~ Nova & Reemo
@@rachelfinney1774👀👀👀🤎
Baby folks doing way too much for weddings now
Whew, they really are! And we LOVE it! 🥰🥰 ~ Nova & Reemo 🤎
NO! It's greedy and if you can't afford to do what you want to do for a wedding just do something else. However, charging your mother is not surprising nowadays but a new low.
Thank youuuuuu!! We paid for our wedding with all cash and with all of our own money!! ☺️☺️☺️ ~ Nova & Reemo 🤎
The definition of tacky. If you can’t afford to have a wedding, save up for it or just get married at the justice of the peace. I’m sure there were a lot of people who did not attend.
Thank youuuuuuu!! We paid for our wedding in all cash with all of our money! 🙃🙃🙃 ~Nova & Reemo
That was a bunch of junk given in those gift bags for $333.00! If you can't afford a wedding, just don't do it. Justice of the peace will get the job done!
Thank youuuu!! We paid for our wedding in all cash with all of our own money! ☺️☺️ ~ Nova & Reemo 🤎
That is a tacky wedding 🤭🤭🤭
Thank you sooo much!! Love is love! ~Nova & Reemo 🤎
Why is Tamron entertaining this foolishness. ☹️
Because she's a gatekeeper!!!
It won't help after this election. She picking up where Oprah left off!!!!
Right
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@@rachelfinney1774👀👀👀🤎
Hey gift bag was childish and she never explained the so called experience they had on the wedding day.
We said what the experience was though!! Let us know if you didn’t hear it! ☺️☺️🤎
So ghetto. Who needs a bag full of non-sense. Charity wedding.
@NatashaHogan... YES!!! And husband on TV wearing a short suite 😮
This is actually hilarious! 🤪🤪🤪🤎
@@janicelumpkin601What’s a shorts suite? 🤎
That's just ridiculous!🙄🙄🙄
Thank you sooo much!! Love is love! ~Nova & Reemo 🤎
Insane
Thank you sooo much!! Love is love! ~Nova & Reemo 🤎
And when you divorce will people get their money back?
Nonsense. Don't have a wedding that you can't afford
You’re absolutely right!! Good thing we could afford ours and paid for it all ourselves!! ☺️☺️ ~ Nova & Reemo 🤎
@thestylesfamilia yea just say you spent to much and needed the money back. What people will do to impress people.
i hope you made them buy their own flights and tickets to the Tamron show
Hilarious!! 🤪🤪🤪🤎
Baby, I would not be at your wedding. I don't need the gift. I do not mind staying home.
Ahhh noooo!!! We would’ve loved to have had you! 😢😢🤎
If you can’t afford a big wedding, then don’t have one. My husband and I went to the preacher and got married. Only the two of us. That was the best decision we made. That was 50 years ago. No need to make a mockery of it.
Right! Good thing we could afford ours and paid for it in all cash with all of our own money!! 🙃🙃 ~ Nova & Reemo 🤎
These days no one wants to even take a gift to a wedding, I’m happy for her very smart
Thank youuuuu!! ☺️☺️🤎
Ridiculous..people want a wedding they can't afford and have others pay for it. Shameful. How long with the marriage last..focus on that and a house for longevity. The need for viral moments are Ridiculous
Disgusting behavior 😒 that is beyound TACKY.
Thank you sooo much!! Love is love! ~Nova & Reemo 🤎
I'll pass, however, congratulations and y'all be happy!
Ahhhh we would’ve loved for you to be there! ~Nova & Reemo 🤎
Absolutely ridiculous and tacky!It was only close family that came apparently 60 people is very small and the friend still is against it they were forced to pay lol.
Was it worth it for such a small and not special wedding?
Nothing about it sounded lavish at all!!😂😂😂😂
It was special and lavish to us and our guests that we wanted there! And that’s all that matters! ☺️☺️☺️🤎
WTH... It's not there wedding... Hell don't no one has to attend this wedding pay to come to a wedding
Thank you sooo much!!! ~Nova & Reemo 🤎
Glad they could pull that off because no one I know would pay for that mess
Thank you sooo much!! Love is love! ~Nova & Reemo 🤎
No, no, no! Weddings (contrary to popular belief) are not concerts, plays, movies, sporting events or whatever else they think it is where you’d pay admission. Weddings should not be a paid event because indirectly, they already are by the time you travel and buy a gift. Charging an admission to a wedding is ridiculous.
Weddings are whatever you want your wedding to be! 🫶🏼🫶🏼🤎
Tacky and a worst of money .
💜💜❣❣Consider it a wedding gift & if you can't, keep it pushing no hard feelings
Like Jennifer Hudson said she wouldn’t do it 😂😂😂 on her episode
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If they couldn't afford a lavish wedding on their own then they didn't need it🤔Broke and trying to Ball SMH
Shameful! So the guests paid for the wedding. If you can't afford it, don't do it!
Thank you sooo much!! Love is love! ~Nova & Reemo 🤎
It was a hard no for me but they managed to convince me. If I pay for other experiences then I'd be willing to pay for my friend to have their dream wedding and have a wonderful time with them.
I've had the opportunity to work with diverse ethnic groups and In the past have attended weddings of other cultures who requested a dollar amount around $250 money for the wedding. They did not want or expect any gifts or anything else to attend. They did not put a gun to people's head (especially a lone outsider like myself) but one would feel a bit uncomfortable not giving money when the family was collecting. They were both large beautiful weddings with nice music, live entertainment, food and gift bags. I just got the feeling that it was the way their families, community and culture did things. I was later informed that on the same day the family was paying entertainment, vendors etc. so the money would cover the entire wedding. And the couple got a nice send off. If I never had those experiences I might think of this story very differently.
Your reply is very thoughtful and generous.
I’m 68 years old and I assure you this is not a tradition, this is not black culture.
This is called Avarice!
This story and your comment prove that there is nothing new under the sun and many folks don't have exposure to innovative thinking and other cultures.
I’m glad that’s not the norm in our culture. As it’s been said, I’m not interested in paying for your wedding even as a contribution with others in lue of a gift.
That is what we do in Uganda...lots of close extended family
@@martharinebiseko1457 people lack exposure to other cultures. this is a very practical way to kick off a marriage.
So wrong!
Thank you sooo much!! Love is love! ~Nova & Reemo 🤎
I get it, weddings are expensive. Even a modest wedding can easily run $10,000 & everybody & their momma wanna come. Not to mention there are some who won’t even give a gift. So I get why she would want to do it like this. HOWEVER, it’s not something I would do. There are people who love you but honestly can’t afford a $300 ticket. Therefore my character wouldn’t allow to do something like this.
No Way - I'll stay home if I'm expected to pay to attend anyones' Wedding!! All of those TEMU gifts don't even equal to $100!! No Way 💂♀💂♀
Wait, they sell uptowns on Temu? Ahhh man, we should’ve purchased everyone’s pair form there than 🤪🤪🤪🤎
The baby shower invite is going to cost way more. I hope this trend stops here because this is not the meaning of a wedding. #Tasteless
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I don’t agree especially for Mothers, Fathers, grandparents, definitely should not have to buy a ticket.
Thank you sooo much!! Love is love! ~Nova & Reemo 🤎
Now We Know They Just Used That Money To Pay Off A Lavish Wedding Which Is Why The Mom Agreed To Pay Too Which Is A Smart Move 😉
That would be a smart move!! We paid for our wedding in all cash with all of our own money though!! We wish 20K could’ve covered even a little bit!! Plus, we gave everyone their money back! ☺️☺️☺️ ~ Nova & Reemo 🤎
They got the nerve to stand on that nonsense too
I feel like this summin you do it you’re gonna plan a girls trip or couples trip.
As a community, the lack of financially literacy is tearing us down. It’s clear they didn’t have the funds, hence the reason for the tickets. However, personally I couldn’t find it in my heart to charge my close friends and family. $300 is a lot plus not to mention clothes, hair, nails, gift, etc!
It’s a HARD NO for me!
I will not pay to come to anyone's wedding, if you can't afford a wedding go to the court house
You’re right!! Good thing we could afford our wedding and paid for it in all cash with our own money! ☺️☺️ ~ Nova & Reemo 🤎
They can do what they want but folks were free not to attend. Let's not make more tacky behavior the norm. And why reward them with a tv appearance?
They paid all that money on the wedding and ended up broke so they needed some money back.
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Thats so Ugly. I hope no one came
60 folks came
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Thank you sooo much!! Love is love! ~Nova & Reemo 🤎
@@rondas7772Yup, 60 out of the 60 tickets that were available! ☺️☺️🤎
@@maame6224🤣🤣🤣🤎
It's a no for me, that's a tad bit too steep for my pocket
Did they expect a wedding gift too? 🎁 Anyway,...This was fun to watch
Nope, we didn’t expect wedding gifts whether we charged for tickets or not! ☺️☺️🤎
It will be a fee to see the grandchildren
I wd willing pay...afterall here in Africa we do hv wedding meetings where we contribute.
I guess that fits so well in my country though packaged differently
I would not have to paid to attend. At first I thought the payment was to cover their meal & drinks. THAT I would do. But I’m not paying so that you can buy me gifts 😮. That makes no sense. They started out with 350 on the list of which only 60 committed. I feel like this was a tactic to ween out those they didn’t particularly want to invite anyhow. For events such as weddings, we tend to invite out of obligation. They eliminated that issue. Crest la vie!
We didn’t want anyone there who didn’t genuinely love and support us! It wasn’t about the money! Plus, everyone got their money back at the end of the wedding! 🙃🙃🙃 ~ Nova & Reemo 🤎
This is sad and ridiculous.
It's been done in Canada folks
It’s basically done in so many ways: destination weeding, traveling for a wedding, when just attending a wedding, you have to spend money! ☺️☺️🤎
So mom and grandparents pay to go to the wedding
That's ridiculously stupid!!!!!
Thank you sooo much!! Love is love! ~Nova & Reemo 🤎
Get lost from here. How do you charge your mother, family and friends to come to your wedding? Go have your wedding at the courthouse if you cannot afford the festivities. Even more ridiculous are those who aided it.
No
I want to know if they also expected the guest to bring a gift..😅
Nope, we didn’t expect gifts whether we charged for tickets or not! ☺️☺️🤎
That’s BS and no way.
Beyond tacky for me too. 😂
Thank you sooo much!! Love is love! ~Nova & Reemo 🤎
From her wedding video it look like she had less then 60 people there . 😂😂😂 not worth 333.
Grifters much? This was not only tacky and ridiculous but downright disrespectful not only to your friends but most importantly to your mom! I don’t care how different you think you are , you are not that special. BTW where were the pictures of this so called EXPERIENCE that cost $333 per person? Looks like the friend still felt some way about it all. 😮😝☹️😩
Thank you sooo much!! Love is love! ~Nova & Reemo 🤎
I would have stayed home in my pajamas.
HELL NO!
Tacky
When they get a divorce do I get my money back?
All guests received their money back at the end of the wedding day! ☺️☺️ ~ Nova & Reemo 🤎
It means you don't have to purchase a gift, which averages $150 dollars and you would get a gift bag. So what's the problem?
Average $150!!?? Chile, no! I’ve purchased a many NICE wedding gifts in my day and spent no where near $150.
@@ladytinag4276 I said "average". It's ok to be below the typical cost average.
Am surprised by most comments...that isvwhat we literally do here jn Uganda.
It's one thing if the couple is 25 (young college graduates/1st marriage) years old, but this couple is too mature to ask guests to pay to attend their wedding. It's seeming a bit ghetto. I would be embarrassed to ask guests to pay.
This sound stupid , just wearing that dress on the show let’s me know you couldn’t afford a wedding , don’t get married being cheap !
I wish my child would charge me to attend their wedding, the petty in me is gonna run back everything i ever did for them from the moment of conception til the day b4 the wedding and we gonna play BIG bank take LIL bank cuz i guarantee my fee will b bigger than their petty 🍑 wedding fee to top it off I still wont b going its the audacity of it all.
Its not a question of can afford it, its would i pay and no matter who tf it is I WONT PAY TO ATTEND A WEDDING period. Thats YOUR special day NOT MINE. Its not on my bucket list, things to do list or even a want list. So HELL NO not if i had all the money in the world.
Thank you sooo much!! Love is love! ~Nova & Reemo 🤎
The bus? Yall heard that
They didn’t hear the entire experience that took place!! 😩😩😩 ~ Nova & Reemo 🤎
My granny said if nothing nice to say 🤐🙄🤫
Thank you sooo much!! Love is love! ~Nova & Reemo 🤎
But why???
Nova is giving Remy Ma
Why its your wedding i would never. The pictures will be on you Instagram 😅
Thank you sooo much!! Love is love! ~Nova & Reemo 🤎
I would send them $330 but would not attend the wedding. I often give to charities. But I wouldn't pay to attend a wedding.
Congratulations 🎊 👏 💐 🥳 🎊 on your wedding the goodies are neat
Thank you soooo very much!! 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🤎
A sin and a damn shame!!!!
Loud and wrong!!! On their page they said everyone got their money back at the end of the experience so clearly it wasn’t about the money. Y’all are miserable being this invested to comment negativity for what someone else wanted to do for their dream wedding. Most of y’all won’t even get the wedding experience. Most of y’all probably been on hold for years hoping for the day y’all fiancés meet you at the alter 😂😂😂😂
She reminds me of the pink sauce, lady. 🙄
Shame on you for having a show with this subject matter!!!
Your show is Mindless chatter!!!
Nope 👎🏾
Too new age
Shein gifts
Stupid as Hell😡😡
Thank you sooo much!! Love is love! ~Nova & Reemo 🤎
It depends who its for
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So now we are entertaining broke mentality. Bye Nova you got 2 min of fame. Husband said nothing the whole time. Hmmmmm
Thank you sooo much for this!! We love the thought and hate that went into it! ☺️☺️☺️ ~Nova & Reemo 🤎
I see nothing wrong with this!
Your mindset is why Trump won!!! Pathetic!!!
It’s us!!!!! Thank you for the opportunity!!! And, yup, we sold tickets to our wedding!! 🥰🥰🥰🤎