Some ways to say no “That’s not a priority for me right now” “That’s/ this isn’t for me” “I’ll leave that to you” “I am going to remove myself from this situation” Keep it going !
Spending time on myself and really reorganizing my day to prioritize the things that are important to me have been life changing. It’s like the world is shifting to the way that I’m carrying myself. Thank you Dylan for everything that you continue to teach us. ❤
You’re hands down THE BEST relationship coach ever. So many toxic gurus who have limiting beliefs and teach game playing. They are horrible to take advice from. I hope everyone finds you and their lives are changed for the best! ❤
This is literally just what I needed to hear. Thanks to your teachings I decided to say no to someone (an ex) who wasn’t showing up in a way I deserve.. and low and behold I haven’t heard off him since. At first it made me feel a bit shit but now realising it just makes space for someone to come in and treat me with the respect and love I deserve. I can’t thank you enough for the education and love you spread through your videos. I’m so glad I found you ❤
Love your videos! No idea why but telling myself ”I don’t chase I attract. There’s nothing to do.“ has been my game changer for quite some time now. Repetitive robotic affirming, forced visualising or other techniques never did anything for me sadly. It actually made me obsess, feel the lack even more and circumstances never really changed. Ever since focussing more on staying calm, resisting the urge to affirm constantly etc. which has always led me into a rabbit hole, I feel better. Consciously taking a step back and telling myself that I don’t chase but attract also has helped me feel more confident and powerful, without forcing anything. That’s when things got better for me 😊
Lol me this year getting myself into a situationship, losing myself and accepting less, knowing this was not what I wanted. But hey I’ve been heavily dating myself and being my own best partner ever since that situationship ended, I even built the courage up to shot my shot if I find a guy attractive bc I feel so confident with myself now (,:
Thanks daddy I had some things I didn’t realize I was still doing from a place that wasn’t sustainable. Now I see how I was expecting too much from ppl when they didn’t owe me anything . I feel better about letting go of that behavior now that I understand what I was actually feeling. I feel better about accepting what I’m worthy of and not needing to teach anyone how to treat me how I deserve. I can just not give my attention to that without feeling guilty anymore ❤❤ thanks for the encouragement and awareness
I actually have been fearlessly saying no energetically n not giving it power like nahhh I’m better than this and go do something that brings me joy. Shifting my focus back on what matters myself my happiness my priorities n feeling sexy n confident. You honestly stop giving a fuck cuz you realize how precious your time is that you want to spend it with people you feel good around. Self recognition is amazing. Everyday i wake up i am having new inspirations and new goals i want to accomplish for myself. I’m no longer living in fear or looking for approval from others im honoring what i deserve n im giving it to myself shamelessly. Ladies know you are the prize n watch them all start chasing you. Cause you deserve to be treated well loved honored respected and your worthy of someone changing there behavior to stay in your life. Let the clowns or as Dylan says cockroach do what the do n dgaf go spend your day enjoying yourself n be the change 🔥💃🏼🔥💃🏼🔥💃🏼🔥
What have noticed is that we do so many techniques correctly but we still perceive reality from the old frame and we are still in the old mud and not yet fully transformed to the new version of us in this now moment...old memories old emotional baggage must be released
This is exactly my situation. There’s a guy I absolutely adore but he’s not showing up properly yet. It will get there soon enough though. I have to stop being so negative.
Thank you so much for these insights Dylan! And the affirmation tracks about recovering from unhealthy attachment styles. I was considering your video where you discussed the social climate and not entertaining BS and it kind of helped snap me back into a good headspace because I was getting wrapped up in observing the way things are around me and it was causing me to feel like nothing could improve. Also from an former people pleaser knowing when to say no is the hardest and yet the most important thing we could ever learn, and I’m so glad to see you bringing it up on your channel ❤
I've just purchased your Mindset Mastery workshop! I'm so excited to get started 🥰 You're videos are incredible. My perception and mindset has changed a lot since watching your videos! 🙏🏻
This is maybe my third time watching this video because of the focus on the formative stages. Would be nice if we could get a video or even a short meditation video about focusing on trust during the formative stages because I know that is something I sometimes struggle with from time to time because of situations in the past and the urgency for commitment. Or if there’s a video you made already that would help that you could recommend, I’m open for that, too. So far the anxious attachment short meditation has been a godsend along with this video In helping me normalize my state of being on the tough days :) tysm Dylan!
This makes a lot of sense. I dated a guy with serious codependent issues and unhealthy behavior patterns with his family, which I discovered very early when we started dating. I wanted to leave him right way, however I listened to some manifestation coaches to not to react to the 3D and try to manifest him into a healthy version😅 It ended up leading me to waste 3 months to”make him right” with my mind and thoughts, and it just did’t work at all 😅 I should have left the moment I saw the problem, cause it’s too obvious. 😅
I’ll say no. Going forward. That’ll be something’s that is said firm and confident. With no reservation. We know what we deserve. We don’t get stepped on.
I used the word no today, shamelessly, thanks to you! I was wondering if you could make a meditation focused around speaking your authentic truth, communicating ideas with confidence, public speaking, etc. That would be incredibly helpful! Thanks so much for all the work you do and what you give to the community, bless you! ❤
This is the video I’ve been needing the most now. I came across a similar situation, and I always choose to say no in my mind and be as unconditional as possible to my SP. Otherwise I don’t know how to interact with him. I know his flaws, and I don’t think I’m putting him on a pedestal but it sure seems like it.
Right video at the right time, Dylan! : ) I have a situation with a friend at the moment, in which I ended up getting so angry I prioritized myself by speaking up and telling him clearly that I don't find some of his behaviour towards me ok, which I usually don't do, because I am too afraid I might loose this person or that they might ridicule me for being upset over such "little" things. But in this moment I was so angry I didn't care. The result so far is that they genuinely apologized and are trying to resolve the issue with me, which is great! However, I have the impression that they don't understand fully what their mistake was and therefore don't take full responsibility for it and I don't know how else to explain it to them in a way so they really get it. Anyone any ideas how to resolve this?
I have so much guilt surrounding saying no. I've been guilt tripped all my life by my parents when I said no. I noticed this pattern in 90% areas of my life. You won't believe but I have hysterically cried to people/men after saying no. Staying in depression for days after rejecting someone. I've figured I need to identify as someone who says no with no guilt But one thing I'm struggling with is "what if things don't work out when I say no"
I used to do it to manipulate... It's a whole different approach in self identity to say no from a point of self love ❤ Thanks for reminding us Dylan 🎉🎉🎉
Guys I'm suffering I need a solution manifestation is draining me it's like my mind is playing with ke my mind thinks it's fun to say negative thoughts I somehow can't control it I makes me beat myself Ik everything about loa but I just can't apply it idk y this is happening guys I need a solution no matter what I do I can't keep going if I say my affirmations my mind says no it's not TRUE u suffer let's create more prblms and keep solving them it's like mind is comfortable with that nd I feel like there is whole alot of work to change everything abt this sometimes I feel like killing myself cuz of manifestation guys help plz idk what to do in past I have been a perfect manifestor in the past year but idk what to do it's like my Mind wants to be in circle and uk what guys I constantly sleep throughout the day repeating affirmations in my head ND in the end of the day I'm back with my old mindset I do nothing throughout the day cuz my mind believes that I will fuck up if I do smnthg else rather than manifesting
I think you should take a brake from manifesting. Maybe for a couple weeks. And just focusing on giving you love and nurturing patience with yourself. Maybe you’re too hard on yourself and need to be kind to yourself. It seems to me that you’ve been through a lot of traumatic things so try to rest then also stick up to 1-2 coaches max otherwise it can be overwhelming
You don’t have to shame yourself for feeling bad. It’s okay. You’re gonna get through this circumstance. It’s not gonna be forever. I don’t know you but I love you, it’s really gonna be okay
Dylan how much more mindset work do I do?? The more I work on myself the more I don’t chase the more alone I am.. I say no to them all for what they do is undesirable how do I reverse the kind of men I get to get what I deserve help please
Some ways to say no
“That’s not a priority for me right now”
“That’s/ this isn’t for me”
“I’ll leave that to you”
“I am going to remove myself from this situation”
Keep it going !
" I can't "
"Hi everybody welcome to class..." ❤😂🥰
It’s giving cozy love romantic energy ❤🧸
Siiiir he sent me flowers from Denmark.
Spending time on myself and really reorganizing my day to prioritize the things that are important to me have been life changing. It’s like the world is shifting to the way that I’m carrying myself. Thank you Dylan for everything that you continue to teach us. ❤
The same for me, it really is amazing.💕
Heard the whole video from the other room! you killed it babe!
You’re hands down THE BEST relationship coach ever. So many toxic gurus who have limiting beliefs and teach game playing. They are horrible to take advice from. I hope everyone finds you and their lives are changed for the best! ❤
Daddy Dylan is SNATCHED
You know Daddy is getting serious when he brings out the fan! I'm soo happy that your back and constantly reminding us of our worth! 🙏🏻💕✨
Daddy is BACK!
🤣💯
I love the way he start smiling the moment we open the video. He knows…thanks daddy ❤
This is literally just what I needed to hear. Thanks to your teachings I decided to say no to someone (an ex) who wasn’t showing up in a way I deserve.. and low and behold I haven’t heard off him since. At first it made me feel a bit shit but now realising it just makes space for someone to come in and treat me with the respect and love I deserve. I can’t thank you enough for the education and love you spread through your videos. I’m so glad I found you ❤
Love your videos! No idea why but telling myself ”I don’t chase I attract. There’s nothing to do.“ has been my game changer for quite some time now. Repetitive robotic affirming, forced visualising or other techniques never did anything for me sadly. It actually made me obsess, feel the lack even more and circumstances never really changed. Ever since focussing more on staying calm, resisting the urge to affirm constantly etc. which has always led me into a rabbit hole, I feel better. Consciously taking a step back and telling myself that I don’t chase but attract also has helped me feel more confident and powerful, without forcing anything. That’s when things got better for me 😊
I feel like I was meant to see this. Tsym for this! ❤
@@LUNAOFLUMIERE You’re welcome 🌸🫶🏼
I’m laughing within the first 15 seconds 😂 “Hey everybody, welcome to class” ❤️😂 plus that fan I love’
The second I saw the title I knew exactly what the word was gonna be
Me too!!!
the most powerful word is No
Lol me this year getting myself into a situationship, losing myself and accepting less, knowing this was not what I wanted. But hey I’ve been heavily dating myself and being my own best partner ever since that situationship ended, I even built the courage up to shot my shot if I find a guy attractive bc I feel so confident with myself now (,:
Thanks daddy I had some things I didn’t realize I was still doing from a place that wasn’t sustainable. Now I see how I was expecting too much from ppl when they didn’t owe me anything . I feel better about letting go of that behavior now that I understand what I was actually feeling. I feel better about accepting what I’m worthy of and not needing to teach anyone how to treat me how I deserve. I can just not give my attention to that without feeling guilty anymore ❤❤ thanks for the encouragement and awareness
Not the glasses, fan, and daddy hat😂it’s serious today
I actually have been fearlessly saying no energetically n not giving it power like nahhh I’m better than this and go do something that brings me joy. Shifting my focus back on what matters myself my happiness my priorities n feeling sexy n confident. You honestly stop giving a fuck cuz you realize how precious your time is that you want to spend it with people you feel good around. Self recognition is amazing. Everyday i wake up i am having new inspirations and new goals i want to accomplish for myself. I’m no longer living in fear or looking for approval from others im honoring what i deserve n im giving it to myself shamelessly. Ladies know you are the prize n watch them all start chasing you. Cause you deserve to be treated well loved honored respected and your worthy of someone changing there behavior to stay in your life. Let the clowns or as Dylan says cockroach do what the do n dgaf go spend your day enjoying yourself n be the change 🔥💃🏼🔥💃🏼🔥💃🏼🔥
What have noticed is that we do so many techniques correctly but we still perceive reality from the old frame and we are still in the old mud and not yet fully transformed to the new version of us in this now moment...old memories old emotional baggage must be released
When this video came out, I was falling asleep with your voice in my ears. Can't wait to hear what you say here!
This is exactly my situation. There’s a guy I absolutely adore but he’s not showing up properly yet. It will get there soon enough though. I have to stop being so negative.
Thank you so much for these insights Dylan! And the affirmation tracks about recovering from unhealthy attachment styles. I was considering your video where you discussed the social climate and not entertaining BS and it kind of helped snap me back into a good headspace because I was getting wrapped up in observing the way things are around me and it was causing me to feel like nothing could improve. Also from an former people pleaser knowing when to say no is the hardest and yet the most important thing we could ever learn, and I’m so glad to see you bringing it up on your channel ❤
Yay, class is in session!
Dylan! 😁
Love the new setup
I manifested this video
I've just purchased your Mindset Mastery workshop! I'm so excited to get started 🥰 You're videos are incredible. My perception and mindset has changed a lot since watching your videos! 🙏🏻
No............
Dylan was not playing with this video. He basically yelled at me 🤣🤣🤣🤣 to get it together !!!
It’s the fan flip for me 😂❤
I'm so happy that your back at RUclips ❤
Ooooh $h*t, the fan and the glasses. #playtimeisover
This is maybe my third time watching this video because of the focus on the formative stages. Would be nice if we could get a video or even a short meditation video about focusing on trust during the formative stages because I know that is something I sometimes struggle with from time to time because of situations in the past and the urgency for commitment.
Or if there’s a video you made already that would help that you could recommend, I’m open for that, too. So far the anxious attachment short meditation has been a godsend along with this video In helping me normalize my state of being on the tough days :) tysm Dylan!
Loving the new background Dylan ❤
This makes a lot of sense. I dated a guy with serious codependent issues and unhealthy behavior patterns with his family, which I discovered very early when we started dating. I wanted to leave him right way, however I listened to some manifestation coaches to not to react to the 3D and try to manifest him into a healthy version😅 It ended up leading me to waste 3 months to”make him right” with my mind and thoughts, and it just did’t work at all 😅 I should have left the moment I saw the problem, cause it’s too obvious. 😅
Professor Zaddy is back !📕📚🎒✏️
My favorite class ❤ You're the absolute best Dylan ✨️ blessings to you and everyone else here ❤️ 💖 ♥️ 💖
Love yourself and be a challenge!♥️
Very refreshing 🌼 interior design and exterior design is exquisite ❤
I’ll say no. Going forward. That’ll be something’s that is said firm and confident. With no reservation. We know what we deserve. We don’t get stepped on.
Thank you, I really scare to No, now got energy to say No if I really need to 😊
I used the word no today, shamelessly, thanks to you!
I was wondering if you could make a meditation focused around speaking your authentic truth, communicating ideas with confidence, public speaking, etc. That would be incredibly helpful!
Thanks so much for all the work you do and what you give to the community, bless you! ❤
This podcast was definitely needed❤❤
NoVember is almost here
💀fr
Dylan, I absolutely love love and you always hitting the nail 💯
I love the drama of it all 😂 the fan is so cute boo
Hii Dylan
Please make affirmation tape for humour, charisma and magnetic personality
I love this new background ❤️
This is the video I’ve been needing the most now. I came across a similar situation, and I always choose to say no in my mind and be as unconditional as possible to my SP. Otherwise I don’t know how to interact with him. I know his flaws, and I don’t think I’m putting him on a pedestal but it sure seems like it.
goodmorning dylan❤
Dylan, your workbook is amazing looking! I just bought it and looking forward to jumping in! Def recommend.
So happy daddy posted 🥳😎❤
Great stuff! I agree!!
This is great context thank you❤❤❤
Face is looking real masculine yet boyish at the same time ❤
The daddy cap is back on! 🔥
I said no and that person made me feel guilty about it but now I know that I have to stick to my no
Excellent timing, going through a thing at work.
Right video at the right time, Dylan! : ) I have a situation with a friend at the moment, in which I ended up getting so angry I prioritized myself by speaking up and telling him clearly that I don't find some of his behaviour towards me ok, which I usually don't do, because I am too afraid I might loose this person or that they might ridicule me for being upset over such "little" things. But in this moment I was so angry I didn't care. The result so far is that they genuinely apologized and are trying to resolve the issue with me, which is great! However, I have the impression that they don't understand fully what their mistake was and therefore don't take full responsibility for it and I don't know how else to explain it to them in a way so they really get it. Anyone any ideas how to resolve this?
Can't wait to start on the workshop and master my life❤ thank you dylan!
The fan🔥🔥🔥
Heeey daddy Dylan ❤❤❤❤
my fave sassy prof!
Looks hot with those glassesssss!!!!!
Hi Dylan, thanks for all the free content. Are still you going to make a new self concept tape using a growth approach?
Dylan please please do a heartbreak sleep tape 😭🙏🏼
Theres many of them already. Im the best or savage one
Dylan!!!! This glow 🥰
Are you guys still in Bali? Also loving all the content you've been posting!!
Yes❤
King 👑 Dylan ❤ calling me out 😂
I purchased both courses 😊❤
This is good shit lol. Love you ❤
Daddyyyyyyy hat is on!
Hi Dylan!
Love the frames Dylan 😍💗
"Welcome to class"😭😭
I know shit’s about to get really when he puts his glasses on!
“Welcome to class” 😂😂
I have so much guilt surrounding saying no. I've been guilt tripped all my life by my parents when I said no. I noticed this pattern in 90% areas of my life. You won't believe but I have hysterically cried to people/men after saying no. Staying in depression for days after rejecting someone. I've figured I need to identify as someone who says no with no guilt
But one thing I'm struggling with is "what if things don't work out when I say no"
How have things been working out by always saying yes?
you changed my state from almost committing subside to a bit confident i wish to have a chance to speak with you when you open one one one sessions 😢
🌸💓✨ I've been here...find a reason even if for a greater cause than you
Soon as I saw it posted I said “I bet the word is no” lol
DYLAN IS FRICKIN HANDSOME 🎉 and is that a flower of life tattoo?? 🔥💋
Yayyy I manifested that you
THANK YOU 🧡✨🎃
omg.. i jz started using a hand-fan myself.. 😂😂
yupp , develop confidence
Lv u daddy❤
🐻yasss thank you
I love you Dylan :)
what should I do? My fiancé gets offended all the time and says nothing about anything.
I used to do it to manipulate... It's a whole different approach in self identity to say no from a point of self love ❤
Thanks for reminding us Dylan 🎉🎉🎉
Zadddyyyy❤
Professor Daddy 😂
Amazingly good points and helpful reminders. ❤
Guys I'm suffering I need a solution manifestation is draining me it's like my mind is playing with ke my mind thinks it's fun to say negative thoughts I somehow can't control it I makes me beat myself Ik everything about loa but I just can't apply it idk y this is happening guys I need a solution no matter what I do I can't keep going if I say my affirmations my mind says no it's not TRUE u suffer let's create more prblms and keep solving them it's like mind is comfortable with that nd I feel like there is whole alot of work to change everything abt this sometimes I feel like killing myself cuz of manifestation guys help plz idk what to do in past I have been a perfect manifestor in the past year but idk what to do it's like my Mind wants to be in circle and uk what guys I constantly sleep throughout the day repeating affirmations in my head ND in the end of the day I'm back with my old mindset I do nothing throughout the day cuz my mind believes that I will fuck up if I do smnthg else rather than manifesting
I think you should take a brake from manifesting. Maybe for a couple weeks. And just focusing on giving you love and nurturing patience with yourself. Maybe you’re too hard on yourself and need to be kind to yourself. It seems to me that you’ve been through a lot of traumatic things so try to rest then also stick up to 1-2 coaches max otherwise it can be overwhelming
You don’t have to shame yourself for feeling bad. It’s okay. You’re gonna get through this circumstance. It’s not gonna be forever. I don’t know you but I love you, it’s really gonna be okay
@Cherruylove856 thanks alootttt😭😭😭
@Cherrylove856 love u load😭😭😭
Dylan how much more mindset work do I do?? The more I work on myself the more I don’t chase the more alone I am.. I say no to them all for what they do is undesirable how do I reverse the kind of men I get to get what I deserve help please
Nooooooooo
Yes Daddy hahahha love it😊
You kinda remind me of Drake in this vid!!
Dylan you are so cute! Where's Apollo?