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  • Опубликовано: 19 окт 2024

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  • @CP-zq5gr
    @CP-zq5gr Год назад +90

    My fav Neville quote is posted on my desk “The best denial is total indifference. Things wither and die through indifference and are kept alive through attention”. Basically saying girl
    stop giving a fuck lol

  • @genevas
    @genevas Год назад +227

    Adam getting his spotlight for two seconds and he starts doxxing himself LMFAOOO 😭💗 I love his cameos he always comes off so sweet. Lots of love to you both!

  • @jillkx
    @jillkx Год назад +156

    Confidence is key. Let the emotions out but then don’t continue feeling like a victim but find back to your strength and confidence ❤

  • @dbsk06
    @dbsk06 Год назад +133

    6:53 real start
    13:03 your identity is separate from circumstances and the 3D. Stop giving a f / reading into narratives. 15:15 Decide and stop letting challenges intimidate you
    24:04 let it go and know it’ll come back. Don’t put your life through hell

  • @camileflosiaraujo
    @camileflosiaraujo Год назад +72

    Dylan!! Here’s a success story just from watching content your channel & using your overnight tapes. A few months ago when I started with Limitless, I noticed a huge resistance when I woke up. It really challenged the limiting beliefs I held back then. I didn’t persist because it also affected me physiologically (migraines, pains, etc. a lot of psychosomatic stuff) HOWEVER, I still followed your advice and was kind to myself and every time I meditated and did breath work I intended to “know what I didn’t want to know” and journaled afterwards. Slowly I began flipping the script of those limiting beliefs and emotions about myself.
    Proud to say I have been sleeping to Limitless for 21 days now & wake up feeling A-MAZE-ING. Even with a surgery coming up next Tuesday, I already embodied the perfect health version of myself on Day 2 of listening. Feel this abundant unconditional love towards myself, everything around me and found joy in the most mundane tasks again… this is after trying everything for an SP. Until I got burnt out and just stopped breaking character with my SELF CONCEPT. EVERYTHING ELSE has come effortlessly only by honoring my authenticity and KNOWING I AM NOT ONLY THE OPERANT POWER but also THE SOURCE OF UNCONDITIONAL LOVE I looked to others to give me.
    Thank you!! You rock. BTW, I have a spinal cord injury and just completed a marathon training (used to run prior to injury) I’ll be tagging you on IG when I cross that finish line in my hand cycle - because of all the love you emanate through the screen. Oh and the amount of other men I’ve manifested who are talking about future stuff (vacations and even marriage 😅) proves how persistence really hardens into fact. And like you say, I’m living it up not waiting for anyone with unwavering conviction SP has already come back reflecting to me the self love I feel towards myself.
    I AM THE GODDESS AND QUEEN AND AM ALWAYS TREATED AS SUCH! ❤
    To summarize: I shamelessly knew into being with crystal clarity everything I desired to be do have in all areas of my life. No matter the circumstances, opinions, anything else that seems opposing to what I KNOW to be true for me. So much gratitude for life and everything that’s led me to this new version.

    • @amaria4981
      @amaria4981 Год назад

      Just stopped breaking character with my self concept. Gold.

    • @industrialengineer60
      @industrialengineer60 5 месяцев назад

      Hello sweethart:) ı loved your history. How did you Sp go from you? Do you have anything to emphasize about this process😊you encougared me❤❤ love u

  • @hamanndanielle
    @hamanndanielle Год назад +27

    Had to get off RUclips and fall all the way back on social media. I'm not waiting for no one anymore at all. I deleted SP number and let him come to me. Even now after we talk for like a day I delete the whole chain. You want me? Come and get me.

    • @synastry813
      @synastry813 Год назад +3

      Wow fantastic approach deleting it daily like that

    • @dbsk06
      @dbsk06 5 месяцев назад +1

      Good on you 👍👍

  • @kujjitafari8509
    @kujjitafari8509 Год назад +50

    It's like he's saying that people use events in their life as an excuse to continue to feel bad about themselves. This is so true! And points to a childhood of getting dragged through the dirt , so I wonder at what point I will be able to do this.

  • @angelstarxo
    @angelstarxo Год назад +42

    Dylaaan!!! Been applying your teaching and my ex asked me to come back to him. I could have him right now but I chose not to because he isn't treating me the way I want yet 😌 if he want me back, he better step up

    • @STRSHT
      @STRSHT 8 месяцев назад +7

      Great choice not allowing him back and I know this is an old comment but ..to be fair your the only one controlling how he shows up so “he better step up” is actually something you have to do not him .

    • @erhtsee
      @erhtsee Месяц назад +4

      @@STRSHTagreed but also since this is a 1yr old comment now I'm curious to know if he did end up "stepping up" and showing up how she wanted or if she found someone else more of her desire.

  • @christieburrows7147
    @christieburrows7147 Год назад +121

    Stop waiting for someone to look at your story - CALLED OUT lol thanks Dylan!! This is the piece de le resistance of your content!! ❤

    • @fbvdf3061
      @fbvdf3061 Год назад

      Lol!! Guilty of that! Added sp on Snapchat to get him to see my story and hoping he would comment. Did that for almost a year. It became so focused on sp trying to reach me. I stopped using snap all together since it’s the only thing he uses.

  • @Ashley-rp4ui
    @Ashley-rp4ui Год назад +66

    You’re a great friend even if it’s through the screen 💜

  • @JoyCook
    @JoyCook Год назад +39

    You’re definitely saving a LOT of people from toxic behaviors ❤❤❤

  • @j.c1574
    @j.c1574 Год назад +8

    Yesss!!! “ How you show up has no effect on how i identify in this world!” YESS!! 💗💗💗💗

  • @Juujyfruits
    @Juujyfruits 10 месяцев назад +6

    Dylan, I manifested a specific job! Thank you, have been listening to you the last 2 weeks. I said it is done, and day dreamed about it in the feeling it has already happened

  • @griseldad3534
    @griseldad3534 Год назад +12

    Dylan is Just like the bigger brother I never had. 🥰

  • @LuanEevee
    @LuanEevee Год назад +8

    Dylan! Let's do another Challenge! Just like NoReaction-November and JustDecideDecember. Let's make: FearlessFebruary!

  • @inspiredaction162
    @inspiredaction162 Год назад +43

    As usual 🔥 I have been more careful about when I post on ig. If i feel like I’m doing it because I want him to see it then I don’t post. If i want to post just because I want to then I do. Your self-concept night track is helping me so much. I’m so much calmer. Sometimes, I find certain thoughts that try to creep in that are essentially leading me to mess with the 3d to get some type of a reaction so I don’t because I remind myself of my power and who I AM. I have more weeks to go with the night track and so I still have highs and lows but I feel the change in how I impulsively react and think.

  • @ItsYourConfidentGal
    @ItsYourConfidentGal Год назад +3

    The phone call moment is the best! Adam 😂😂😂

  • @soy_red
    @soy_red Год назад +8

    ✨YOU ARE MORE THAN WORTH IT! ✨

  • @harudal1226
    @harudal1226 Год назад +9

    I normally don't like when someone is calling me out but Dylan just does it differently! I feel empowered if anything!

  • @Jamie-zi2nf
    @Jamie-zi2nf Год назад +22

    Thanks for this video, Dylan! I decided to take a break from listening to manifestation stuff because it was too easy to fall into the "trying" state of manifestation lol, but I got out of the rabbit hole finally haha. Out here living my life again (instead of trying to consciously manifest so often), but I just wanted to say this was refreshing to hear. Glad you're doing well and thanks for all you do!

  • @phynekat
    @phynekat Год назад +28

    Dylan you are the embodiment of what you teach!! Truly you are an inspiration to us all!! I'll definitely will be in March's workshop 😊 ☺️

  • @RoseRose-to4vq
    @RoseRose-to4vq Год назад +5

    One affirmation that has helped me a lot when I would find myself resenting my sp for past mistakes and behaviour is « it is safe to forgive ». I beleive anger and resentment are meant to protect us, but it comes a time when in order to move on, it is better to let go of them.

  • @levenrambin4583
    @levenrambin4583 Год назад +14

    Dylan…I’m back because it’s all finally clicking! The mindset mastery course I finally got it.
    I was interpreting everything you have been saying incorrectly for a year or more. OH WELL I am compassionate to myself about that but my god…getting this info drilled into my soul and mind for 7 hours at the workshop did it for me.
    I am moving totally differently and feeling so safe while I do it.
    Automatic thoughts are “duh” “of course” “no” and “idgaf”…sincerely. Grateful for you and excited to watch my external reality shift

    • @amaria4981
      @amaria4981 Год назад

      When men give me the look I’m like: “I know baby”🤭😉😎😇

  • @OreoSkor
    @OreoSkor Год назад +14

    I swear a manifested this conversation. You addressed things that I’m needing clarity on in ways that completely called me out 😂 it really felt like you were personally addressing me and it did feel super personal but I needed to hear it!! Thank u Dylan I appreciate u so much 🤍🫶

  • @vhm2002
    @vhm2002 Год назад +3

    I've gone back and watched/listened to this video a few times because the message is so great and there are a lot of important points to take in. And every time Adam comes on the phone to say "hi" I just die laughing!!!

  • @jackiek4159
    @jackiek4159 Год назад +3

    This video came at the perfect time with the perfect message! I am in charge of my life and if nobody else is supporting me, i will support myself in creating the life of my dreams! Time to level up! 💞✨

  • @bbyangel333
    @bbyangel333 Год назад +10

    I discovered your videos a month or so ago and they’ve been so awesome ! I love your methods and really resonate with your teachings ! Even though I am still pushing out old stories , I am feeling okay , and honestly more secure in myself than I ever have been. You are helping so many people including me, so thank you! I know I will be coming back as a success story one day ♥️🙏
    PS this live is literally A BREATH OF FRESH AIR thank u needed to hear all of this

  • @soulfate2
    @soulfate2 Год назад +5

    so good.. hold yourself accountable .. wake up in the morning and take charge.. pour the energy and focus on yourself ...Enjoy your travels bro its awesome fun. Great website too!

  • @ncsorrels4263
    @ncsorrels4263 Год назад +13

    Thanks so much Dylan! I needed this talk at exactly this moment! Thanks for always kicking my ass w/ the truth exactly when I need it! ❤

  • @jpenastudio
    @jpenastudio Год назад +3

    A friend of mine introduced me to Adam’s videos today and thought that what he has to say, was very enlightening. I like to say that, though it took me a long time to get there, I’ve learned to say no, and preserve my energy and time as much as possible. From time to time I find myself being distracted by boy problems or other ridiculous things, and I think this particular video I was introduced to helped cement some of those ideas and learn new ones. Appreciate the content! (So cute too, partner’s lucky ❤)

  • @brianclair-nx6zq
    @brianclair-nx6zq Год назад +1

    I don't know when I'm going to get it, I'm watching this video probably for the 20th time. Much luv Dylan

  • @duchessdelarue5983
    @duchessdelarue5983 Год назад +4

    I needed to hear this today. I will listen to this again and again.

  • @starwombman
    @starwombman Год назад +2

    Holy freaking wow awesome! I just heard about you and this video is my introduction and all I can say is... WOW RIGHT ON! Telling it the way it is, my kinda guy! I am hooked and I can already tell I'm going to get amazing results by listening to you, thank you! Thank you for no holding back, upfront and honest! I love it!!! 😂❤

  • @fatimaamer3267
    @fatimaamer3267 Год назад +5

    Happy to see you today! Needed this but its still hard for me to shift im trying but i keep reaching him out and reacting

  • @veyramartinez9397
    @veyramartinez9397 Год назад +1

    You speak so clearly and cohesively. You speak so beautifully, thank you so much 🤍

  • @carolynherbert5353
    @carolynherbert5353 Год назад +3

    6:44 "DONT" omg😆😆😆😭

  • @levenrambin4583
    @levenrambin4583 Год назад +1

    Dylan u answering the full on phone call before you even get to the point of the video is sending me. k thanks love you

  • @bubbasparks5465
    @bubbasparks5465 Год назад +1

    Another comment to support our king because another thing you said just hit hit!!!❤️

  • @Anna-Leigh77
    @Anna-Leigh77 6 месяцев назад

    you are amazing Dylan, i love your vibe, i only found your channel recently... no fluff or BS

  • @lisamariew7359
    @lisamariew7359 Год назад +1

    I love you Dylan James,❤ I have felt uncertain of myself the past few days and you always make me feel empowered you are amazing ❤❤❤

  • @morganshepherd4757
    @morganshepherd4757 Год назад +4

    "Being triggered AF all the time really isn't enjoyable." 🤣🤣🤣
    Not Dylan calling me out again! 🤣

  • @ariah457
    @ariah457 Год назад +2

    Lmaooo Adams cameo was hilarious Greta video Dylan it’s something I needed to hear as I remind myself these things as of late

  • @TheMODEGeek
    @TheMODEGeek Год назад +3

    This came right on time!

  • @57justrelax
    @57justrelax Год назад

    I lost myself .. He hurt me, so much. But it's enough. I will heal ..

  • @Oracle.
    @Oracle. Год назад +1

    18:02 ::slow clap:: Yes, Dylan, Yes..... All my gratitude for the reminder I needed to realign and shift. All my love, and all the peace to you. 💖

  • @louisebarnett4310
    @louisebarnett4310 Год назад +3

    Such an amazing video. Love you so much Dylan!!! Thank you 😊

  • @allysonboyle6968
    @allysonboyle6968 Год назад +4

    Have this on repeat 24:7🎉❤💋

  • @FollowerofDuck
    @FollowerofDuck 3 месяца назад

    girl you just called me out in like 4 different languages

  • @davitagatewood3372
    @davitagatewood3372 Год назад +1

    This video is right on time! ❤❤❤

  • @angelar802
    @angelar802 Год назад +1

    Congratulations on making the decision to move 👏🏼

  • @ChandraSangat
    @ChandraSangat Год назад +2

    Daddy’s back!!!! ❤❤❤

  • @tequilakeyla9643
    @tequilakeyla9643 Год назад +1

    I love this whole video. 100% needed to heat this. Found your channel the other day and have been following ever since

  • @shayleemoore2984
    @shayleemoore2984 9 месяцев назад

    Absolutely love you advice & channel.

  • @Jazixoxo8800
    @Jazixoxo8800 Год назад

    This actually gonna make me cry thank u for this

  • @fdwill3345
    @fdwill3345 Год назад

    Congrats Dylan. That’s beautiful.

  • @NinaMadison888
    @NinaMadison888 Год назад

    The best right now ❤ thank you

  • @krystalpatterson2672
    @krystalpatterson2672 Год назад

    Yesss!!! I love this, so glad I found you, I’m going to be catching up on all your videos

  • @azucenabustos1078
    @azucenabustos1078 Год назад

    I missed your videos I always come back to them

  • @littlestagpens8050
    @littlestagpens8050 Год назад +1

    I love your frustration trying to get your point across to those who just want to stay stuck in the old version. It's good - no nonsense.

  • @plastikhippie
    @plastikhippie Год назад

    Honestly one of the best videos ive ever seen. So empowering thank you 😊 🙏 ☺️ 💓

  • @davitagatewood3372
    @davitagatewood3372 Год назад +1

    Adam is so amazing!! ❤❤❤

  • @bachatasoulnyc
    @bachatasoulnyc Год назад

    I appreciate your authenticity ❤

  • @dbsk06
    @dbsk06 5 месяцев назад +1

    21:20 stop obsessing over and waiting for things you’re not limited by anything

  • @s.s5933
    @s.s5933 Год назад +1

    I needed to hear this

  • @pratibhasah6698
    @pratibhasah6698 Год назад

    I listened to this video nd flet very good and soothing,I had a great sleep

  • @raki59167
    @raki59167 Год назад +1

    lmao. this title while i’ve been waiting for a new video to finally drop 😂

  • @BrightestLight5
    @BrightestLight5 Год назад

    Best wishes on your move. I adore your spirit. 💗🌸

  • @tashgoldbag
    @tashgoldbag Год назад

    Ahhh your a breath of fresh air thanx❤

  • @spiritofkaja1540
    @spiritofkaja1540 Год назад

    Love that Dylan!!!

  • @yashikamamtagoidani4606
    @yashikamamtagoidani4606 Год назад +1

    I am not able to see the workshop recording on your website. kindly Help

  • @bubbasparks5465
    @bubbasparks5465 Год назад +1

    YAY I missed you!!

  • @ms_islandgirlxo
    @ms_islandgirlxo Год назад

    My new bestie for life ❤ love you ❤

  • @mariaelenabartesaghi6322
    @mariaelenabartesaghi6322 Год назад

    Always great always on point

  • @guerreravelez2458
    @guerreravelez2458 Год назад +1

    Needed this ❤

  • @gloriam8493
    @gloriam8493 Год назад

    Nice to see you..
    My sassy honey bunny.. 🥰🥰🥰 omg, u r so sassy - Love it! Thank you for your support. God sent, sick of feeling like a black sheep coz ppl dont get me...
    Hope u ll upload that: You are version soon.. and I wont wait, hahah

  • @bootsycurie
    @bootsycurie 4 месяца назад

    LOVE YOU ❤

  • @jasminernae1811
    @jasminernae1811 Год назад

    Congratulations on your move 🎉 4:36

  • @Sarritabonitaa
    @Sarritabonitaa Год назад

    Hahahahahhaaa you’re so silly he said Hi my name is Adam 🤦‍♀️😂😂❤️

  • @6ris
    @6ris Год назад

    Thank you!!!

  • @roroachievedall8184
    @roroachievedall8184 Год назад +2

    I want pregnancy and marriage this year . How do I go about manifesting that ? I’m literally speaking to no guys so will be someone new

  • @sinafreeman1753
    @sinafreeman1753 Год назад

    I want to put that phone call in TikTok sooo bad!!!😂😂😂😂❤❤❤

  • @CG-wr4no
    @CG-wr4no Год назад +4

    Mm, so it's like releasing the version of you that had those past undescribable circumstances

    • @CG-wr4no
      @CG-wr4no Год назад +1

      Makes me wonder.. are we letting go of the circumstances or are we letting go of the version of ourselves that had them. Wow

    • @IAm_DylanJames
      @IAm_DylanJames  Год назад +14

      The identity. That’s why I have affirmations with I AM statements.. those are identification beliefs.

  • @TM-vj3fy
    @TM-vj3fy Год назад

    Hi Dylan. Thank you so much for your videos.
    I struggle the most with my home environment. My parents keep telling me that I can't have what I want and they are overall just a negative influence on my life. I live with them, so is there any way that I can stop myself from feeling triggered?

  • @Lia-hd7rh
    @Lia-hd7rh Год назад +2

    i would recommend and make free ads for all these yt gurus if i could manifest my work crush 😂✨

  • @lizkate4517
    @lizkate4517 Год назад

    Love your vibe! 🥰

  • @not_soprecious7937
    @not_soprecious7937 Год назад

    In regards to the earlier part of your vid.. letting people's opinions determine your decisions.. You're right! But so what do u do if you already made those life changing decisions based on that and now that you know better, you basically wanna redo/remanifest it again.. just affirm and persist? I can't find much on manifesting things back you mishandled initially besides sp things

  • @valeriaperez6962
    @valeriaperez6962 8 месяцев назад

    Dylan is need a pow wow on being ghosted I’m trying not to let it get to me

  • @amaria4981
    @amaria4981 Год назад +5

    Is it just me or does Dylan look a bit like a young Simon Cowell?🫢💛 love ya Dylan!

    • @silverplim
      @silverplim Год назад +1

      Omg this is an insult to Dylan, he’s way more attractive than Simon. Maybe because they both have downturned eyes?

    • @amaria4981
      @amaria4981 Год назад +1

      @@silverplim well yeah probably the eyes. Mind you, the YOUNG Simon Cowell was very handsome and we don’t need to tell Dylan he’s gorgeous, he already knows.

    • @amaria4981
      @amaria4981 Год назад

      And by that I mean it was by no means meant as an insult. Maybe it’s also him playing with the pen in this vid and his posture that made me think of Simon as a judge on AGT.

  • @wanderinggoddess647
    @wanderinggoddess647 Год назад +1

    thank you for this video! can someone please help real quickly, if someone is ignoring you and treating you like crumbs, would you think removing your display pic and status would help? just so i can work on my self concept, or would that come across as manipulation????? thanks in advance x i dont want to wait around

    • @wanderinggoddess647
      @wanderinggoddess647 Год назад +1

      @@kobra4422 i dont have social media, just whatsapp, but thanks for this much appreciated xx

    • @ariah457
      @ariah457 Год назад +4

      Don’t delete or change anything just simply leave him to get on with his silly behaviour you need to get on with your life. Yes at times it may be a bit hard but the more you focus on your self, self concept, goals and genuinely enjoy/get on with your life then it’ll become easier! Keep listening to the affirmations and Dylan’s videos!

    • @wanderinggoddess647
      @wanderinggoddess647 Год назад +1

      @@ariah457 thanks Ariah for your input x

    • @peachyqueen4963
      @peachyqueen4963 Год назад +5

      I wouldn’t remove your pic or status, because deep down you might be doing it to get a reaction out of him, I’ve been there but when I was truly honest with myself it was the biggest breakthrough, I’d try lots of tiny things to get his attention but I’d be lying to myself like it’s not for him.. like changing my WhatsApp pic and it worked a lot but actually i wasn’t embodying confidence with that behaviour. You aren’t someone that receives crumbs that old story gets dropped today. You get everything you want and you don’t even have to try, he can’t get enough of you and you don’t have or do a thing, just believe it 💗 also from my personal experience I am now in the most loving relationship with a guy who is obsessed with me, it’s a new SP to the one before but now I have a relationship I never thought could be possible! 😊 you got this! Sending you love 💕

    • @wanderinggoddess647
      @wanderinggoddess647 Год назад

      @@peachyqueen4963 right I understand I need to embody that confidence truly from within, wow im happy for you Queen thank you for your kind words xx

  • @orisource
    @orisource Год назад +1

    Yeah u back

  • @teabiscuits1611
    @teabiscuits1611 Год назад +3

    I can’t decide if I want him back or not. I don’t know how to decide. I know I manifested the relationship, despite the circumstances to begin with. When it went wrong he left and I manifested it back by not waiting and living my best life, of course he came back.
    My nervous system is shot to pieces when we are together, my own negative beliefs churning. Because he was not showing up how I wanted and I was not ok with it, so I manifested his leaving again. Because I was angry and disappointed and it seemed to be one thing after the next.
    I spent my birthday/ Christmas/ Boxing Day without him, he did not choose me and I wasn’t ok with that. But I was too attached to leave. So he did it.
    Now I’m getting on with my shit again, he’s texting me daily, asking how my day is, sharing things, asking if I want to talk, saying he’s here for me when I’m dealing with something stressful, asking to meet up half way at weekends (but again seems to be on his terms) etc etc.
    There seems to be some emotional manipulation as he said he was scared and didn’t feel safe to meet me. When I asked why he wanted to if he didn’t feel safe, he said out if compassion and kindness. Wtf is that?!
    His behaviour before was toxic and dramatic and I do feel scarred from that. I also developed toxic tendencies like I was mirroring him. I lost myself and my self esteem. This was a relationship that was predominately over the phone with usually 2 weekends a month together. And an argument and avoidance if I dare try to discuss our future.
    I’ve never felt so un-chosen. His romantic words don’t match actions.
    I don’t know if this is a soul mate or a trauma attachment.
    Or am I doing it wrong by even considering the circumstances?
    I feel lost as to whether or not to invest my time, energy and life in to him again.
    I am struggling to move on from the hurt and resentment and the way he thought was acceptable to treat me. He also said he can’t cope with my hormone disorder. It’s like if I’m low / upset he unconsciously one ups me and is worse.
    Am I creating all this? I am arent I?!

    • @truthseeker4084
      @truthseeker4084 Год назад +5

      You not wanting him back can manifest in him not showing up the way you want him to show up. So you actually manifested what you actually want. Be careful and really ask yourself what do you want....

  • @LouC2chi
    @LouC2chi Год назад +3

    You’re so cute Dylan. ♥️
    So adorbs!! 🤗

  • @user-cb1jb9pj2v
    @user-cb1jb9pj2v Год назад +4

    LMFAO adams iconic line

  • @glendalymalave7569
    @glendalymalave7569 Год назад

    Where can I find information about the workshops? I’m interested!

  • @killerqueen1974
    @killerqueen1974 Год назад

    awesome lecture :)

  • @aaliyahirdk
    @aaliyahirdk Год назад

    This saved me

  • @k-llove3336
    @k-llove3336 Год назад

    Love you thank you

  • @theFinnishDude86
    @theFinnishDude86 Год назад

    Welcome to Europe my boys! 😅❤️🔥

  • @EVNash
    @EVNash Год назад

    Is it more impactful to make a recording with your own voice?

  • @denisembaez
    @denisembaez Год назад

    i dont recieve your notifications :/ i usually miss your lives , so weird. happy friday