For anyone about to comment "so like, are you a boy or girl???" I've said MULTIPLE times i am **MALE** I'm not sure whats hard to understand. I am a transgender male. meaning I was not born male. I make that VERY clear in this video. Please stop asking. I've made it extremely clear. You can check ANY of my social medias and it says **MALE**
Hello, I've just discover your channel, anda I understand life can get real y weird and things can make you change. I dos nota suport LGBT but I wont tell you thats wrong is your life, I just want todo tell you that we care of you, all of us (people). Enjoy your life and bé happy
eel man Now listen here you little shit. Don’t go out and attack some random person for something that’s out of their control, fuck you. You are the disgusting one, and if you want to use religion as a weapon against other innocent people; In the Ten Commandments god said you shall not hate, I classify as a Christian but I myself am pansexual non-binary. I will now quote you; “I fucking hate you goddamn transsexuals” Not only did you say you *hate* , but you also used gods name in vain. And if you didn’t know and are a fake Christian (which you already are because of how vile you are acting, I myself am apart of that religion and fully accept LGTBQ+, and am apart of it aswell) You shall not use gods name in vain. You are ignorant and negligent, it’s 2019, not 1875. We don’t burn innocent people at the stake for having a right to exist or get married, and here’s a fun thing to know if you “want things to go back to the way they were. Gays should be shut up and are sinful bastards” You know who else were told that they are disgusting and worthless? African Americans and Women. You are proving the equal of racism and sexism you transphobic cunt. RadPax, I’m so sorry you have to deal with these people on your video. You don’t deserve this in the slightest, you’re an amazing person. I support you, my guy!
I have been in your shoes, I truely understand what you went through, especially with that guy, and his comments. I had an ex react the same, but demanded i stay female.
Pretty much me how I found out I was Bi: Puberty: “that man looks really cute.” Me: “sounds reasonable.” Puberty: “that girl to.” Me: “Impossible. Girls don’t like other girls.” Friend: “no it’s a thing.” Me: * surprised pikachu *
Me: Sees a cute guy Puberty: "Yo bro he looks yummy,," Me: "I'm not G-" Boy laughs and blushes Me: "Y'know, I'm sorry I doubted you. " Puberty: "I told you."
For me it was Friend: I like girls I think I’m lesbian Me: Oh I do too but I like guys too Friend: Oh you’re Bi Me: But I like girls more than guys Friend: So... You’re Bi but more gay Me (has excepted my fate): yEs
I’m not trans, but I am intersex-and it sucks. I identify as a male, I was assigned male at birth and was raised male. No one noticed anything wrong with me until I was about 5-6 when someway somehow my mom noticed something was a lil’ funky with me (having to do with the stuff you shouldn’t mention anything with a child). So apparently my mom went to the pediatrician panicked about what was wrong with her son. The pediatrician had an examination and found out that I had not only malformed female genitalia, but I had a fucked up uterus. Yay. So, I didn’t really care until I was 11, when I started complaining about when I would lay on my stomach to sleep (yes, I’m a stomach sleeper), my chest would hurt. I learned later that my mom freaked the fuck out, worrying that her son would be mistaken as a girl in the restroom or in public and shit would go down. And with my fucked genes, my chest surely grew. It was the awful experience. I had no idea what was going on-and I just wanted out. I stayed up with my mom and cried about how others would call me a girl and I didn’t like it. How kids in my class started acting weird around me and I didn’t understand. (Keep in mind, I’m autistic and social norms and stereotypes grazed past my mind as a kid). Without knowing what to do, my mom took ace bandages and binded me with those. For a year, I couldn’t breathe (also keep in mind that I’m asthmatic so that was really fun). Later we discovered that the constant pressure of the bandages began to squeeze my ribs so much that the right side of my rib started forming inward. Luckily, once my mom knew that we stopped doing that immediately. Our doctor got us hooked up with a therapist that helped with my emotions, while the doctor helped with my.. other stuff. I was able to get a binder (which didn’t really work but it compresses me enough so people wouldn’t look to my chest to see what gender I was). I’ve gone through very spaced out and lingering periods that are literally like someone twisting a knife inside of me (try having testosterone eating at your dying ovaries whilst a minuscule hole is covered mostly with skin is spewing out blood and see how you like it.) I hope one day I’ll be able to get top surgery and get my uterus removed. I don’t identify as trans, but I sure as hell feel like it from what I’ve been through. When you said “I’m proud of you for being alive”-that hit me like a truck. I sat there and felt my trachea run up my throat as the face burned with my capillaries raising to my skin around my eyes, cheeks, and nose. My eyes were hot and stinging with tears rolling down my face, and lungs quivering. Thank you, so much. I honestly can’t express the feeling of joy that gave me. I’ve struggled so much with depression and suicidal thoughts-an eating disorder from trying to stop my chest from growing-and a fuck ton of other shit. “I’m proud of you for being alive.” That’s a quote from God (whoever and wherever they are) edit: hi, i wrote that when i was 13 and i’m happy to tell the crazy amount of people who have replied to this that i got top surgery :] i also no longer bleed because i was on estrocide for about a year and it leveled out my hormones enough to prevent any bleeding 👍 it gets better guys
I really hope things can get better. :( I have endometriosis so though i cannot fully relate i know the pain of a uterus and it basically wanting to fight you internally. I'm hoping for top surgery and to somehow remove or nuke my uterus cause screw this thing >:I I really pray things can get better for you :(
Same?!?!?!! I was thinking so cute!!!!! Reminds me of my bro his voice is very small and gentle yet he is very big (muscle-wise) but yaaa same just dude with a cute voice
I think you are a wonderful example of what men should embrace. Men shouldn't be afraid to like pink, or be interested in "stereotypical feminine" things. Your gender(s) do not define your style, interests, or sexual orientation. Keep on keepin' on, my dude.
Thanks. I'm a guy (and yes, I'm gay) and I absolutely am not a "manly man". I obviously get bullied for it (due to me living in the rural midwest), but I push through it! Pink is my favorite color, my room is aqua and white, I play games for the cute style, and I am very open about who I am. You are the type of person we need in this world.
@@ynntari2775 yeah, honestly i like being ace but people thought I was weird because I don’t get like a girlfriend and get married and whatever and I thought something was wrong with me until I discovered that ace people exist and I was one of them. That Amy story:)
My wife is transgender and she’s gone through many of the same things you have. She’s even been disowned by her whole family. And I can’t imagine how strong she is. How strong you and everyone else who is transgender are. I know it may not mean much, but I support you and everyone else trans and pray that one day there will come a time when you and everyone are accepted for who they are. I just want to say never give up and never give in to those who judge you because you are so much more than the sum of your parts and even if it’s hard there are so many who love and respect you for who you are.
Well, I personally believe that love is what matters, as long as both parties are consenting adults. The body doesn’t matter, or how one looks. Most people wouldn’t say that someone with a physical, or mental disability don’t deserve to be loved. But gay and transgender people don’t deserve the same love and respect? It’s idiotic and people need to realize that. How you look what your body is doesn’t matter. Only the soul matters.
*My brain during puberty:* so you see that guy over there? He’s hot. *Me:* mhm *Brain:* **points at girl** and she’s beautiful, you have a crush on her. *Me:* wait wh- *Brain:* also you’re a guy.
LOL kinda same with my brain: but mine went like: Brain: hello you are now a male and are suffering from gender dysphoria and you also like all gender ur pan :D yay Me: mhmmm this sounds promising but what does gender dysphoria do? My Brain: horrible things my friend and you will wait and see :D Me: mhmmm ok ok and? Brain: that’s all and you are extremely paranoid for some reason and are prob now crazy for talking to yourself (preferably me)
PSA: TRANS GAY BOYS ARE NOT HETERO WOMEN!!! If you are gay and trans, that is just as valid as if you are any gender and any sexuality. Do not let someone make you think that you aren’t who you ARE.
So true!!! I'm bisexual and sometimes i act like a girl and two girl friends of mine said that i am not bisexual and that i am bisexual cause since 2019 i only talk about boys and that i know more things about make up than them. And another girl friend of mine said that i am what i want to be, and that if someone tells me that i am gay i should tell them thatvi am waht i want to be!
Cis girl: **has short hair** People: oke she is still a girl Trans male: **has long hair** People: *surprised pikachu face* iSn'T hE a bOy? Btw love your video❤
Well...one would think that a trans person would do anything for people to see them as the gender they feel comfortable with. A cis girl does not care. She has no dysphoria.
A trans person (specifically a trans male) can have long hair. However, they will do literally anything to get people to call them He/Him. So most of the time, they cut off their hair to get rid of some Dysphoria they have. Also, the girl doesn’t have Dysphoria, maybe the girl just wanted to cut off her hair because she thinks it looks cool or because she likes it like that. But if your a trans male who isn’t on T yet I personally wouldn’t recommend having long hair if you don’t want to get misgendered. However, do what makes you happy and I’ll support you!
I'm not apart of the LGBTQ+ community but I completely support anyone who is apart of it. One of my friends is trans and a lot of my other friends are lesbian, so I try to support them and the whole LGBTQ+ community as much as I can.
@@fionort Well an ally isn't lgbt, but we should still respect allies! Hell, we should respect everyone. Just don't have to if they don't give you basic respect.
*_Same except I grew up in a homophobic area so i was just like HELL NO I'M STRAIGHT-_* Now I'm coming out to random people on RUclips for being bi (like I just did-) because I mean why not no one cares so it won't bother anyone-
I'm a transwoman who's built like a football player, and the parallels in your story really tugs on my heart strings. I hope you find what you are looking for and know that you are who you say you are, and nobody can make you be someone your not.
Not trans but I am not straight, when I complained to my grandma about the menstrual cycle she said *and I quote* "You have the ability to give life, it's a gift from god." I have never been more furious at her in my life. My first thought was literally "I'm fucking gay, I don't NEED a period."
Alex Blake it’s not like you can change it lol you’re complaining that you’re having a period, and saying that you don’t need kids but many people do you rely on straight couples to have kids that fit your sexuality soo.
Cis male: *wears makeup* People: "yess, you're doing great I love it on you"👌 Trans male: *wears makeup* People: *"CIS-PICIOUS"* No, it shouldn't be that way. Trans guys are males, so there shouldn't be a difference :)
Bro I am a wrestler with a mullet and with a 17 inch punisher and have muscles like John Cena and I do not have any feminine factors but I call myself female so should I be allowed to fight women cause it's not more different than a hairy strong woman right?
@@mikeoxsmull3757 No, because you don't have a female brain, and brain scans would show your male shaped brain, with a lower density left frontal lobe, a larger hypothalamus, etc. Stop it with the bullshit. No one thinks you're funny mullet-man.
as another trans guy, i love this video so much the end of the video made me tear up, especially bc i have a really unaccepting dad thank you so much you are such an amazing person and i love you
I can say the same! But my parents are a lot more accepting, but I am scared of comming out as a Demigirl. My friendos know but this video is so relatable ;-;
"I basically wanted to look really unappetizing to everybody" oH wOW that broke my heart but thank you for saying that because I finally found a sentence that fully explains my middle+high school experience (I'm also trans)
@@RadPaxOfficial yup yup yup, when I was younger I didn't know a single thing about being trans but I knew I didn't like being feminine and always looked "ugly" by basically hiding my figure with pants+sweaters that were too big for me because I knew it I wouldn't draw to much attention in school (but that backfired since it caused a lot of arguments at home)... I'm 21 now and I still take a baggy sweater with me regardless of weather because I can't stand the thought of people having to look at my chest ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
I'm glad I found this channel, because this story is so relatable to me and I'm glad I'm not the only one who is a trans guy and likes cute stuff. I always felt paranoid about it, like how I feel like a guy but I still like cute stuff. But by meeting other people with the same interests doesn't make me feel weird about it anymore, since a lot of people feels the same way so it's totally okay. :)
I tried listening to this while I worked on some projects, and I bawled my eyes out when you said you were proud of everybody. I don't know why, it just hit me right in the feels. I needed to be told that today a lot more than I thought I did. Thank you.
My current Mate came out to me that they are trans. And My love for them didnt change. I love them for who they are not what they are. And I dont want to just push them away because of it, If that is who they believe they are who am I to judge? They are the exact same person I love. Hate solves nothing.
This is insane... I watched this December of last year, and at that time I thought I was a lesbian, and I was dating a wonderful girl and we loved each other. About 3 months ago I figured out I was a trans male. I told my at the time girlfriend and she started crying. Turns out HE is the same way. We've been dating almost a year. Thank you, when I figured stuff out I only figured it out completely because this video had given me a full understanding of what being a trans guy meant.
yes just because your transgender or gay or lesbien dosnt mean you have to suffer, im sooo proud that you didn't end it all, your also a strong person for going through all this, dealing with this your a hero. you deserve wayyyyy more followers.. for that, say helo to a new subscriber
I went through the lesbian phase before I realized I liked boys too. I'm trying to base my look off of what Jack Stauber sounds like. If that makes sense. I just think it's unique. And I too am smol.
yea, old comment ik. but still, yeah i can relate to this, i also thought i was a lesbian until like 4 months ago. now I've come to the realization that I'm a trans guy!
i feel you about the hair. Everyone constantly talks about how long and “pretty” it is and how “people would k*ll for your hair/body” and it makes you feel like it’s your only worth. I’m so proud of you for how far you’ve come man. 💛
Puberty hitting me in fifth grade: So that guy right theres really cute Me: Uh huh. Puberty: Nah JK I know you're staring at that girl Me, a female: *What?*
_Hi, pansexual goober here. I was listening to the video while drawing and I was just enjoying your story so much and happily listening and then... when you said how proud you are of everyone, I started crying?? I just felt this spike of warmth because I kind of realized that "Hey, I actually am doing a pretty good job of not jumping off the end or letting the things around me eat me whole." Like, my life isn't absolutely terrible, but there's always the things that happen the push a little too hard. Like when the people who promised me unconditional love when I was born slowly but surely get funny ways of showing it. It's been a while since someone's sounded so legitimately proud of me? Like I said, not absolutely terrible, but I more or less can't wait to get out of here._ _I just wanna say thanks, dude.
When someone calls me a boy I feel like I’ve been complemented or someone is like I got you bro it’s just really happy feeling and you don’t know why until you know why
5th grade me: I dont want to go through puberty. Puberty: Hi 5th grade Me: Fine, I guess I have to deal with y- Dysphoria: Hi 5th grade Me: Wait a minute, who are you-
I'm about to be honest here (like it or not, but think before hating or loving) I honestly immediatly thought she/he was a girl because of her voice ... It sounds more girly than boy...y Although your vid kinda helped me understand trans-people (but I can't really understand why you want to change your gender) Plus I don't really understand why some people (example, you said you thought you were lesbian ... but you see yourself as (are ?) a boy ... it confuses me)
Laurent Marchiani it seems like they use he/him. I’d recommend doing more research into this subject but I’ll give you some base level information: Trans people are born with gender dysphoria- something that makes them dysphoric about their body and/or social treatment (like pronouns) It’s not really a choice to transition since gender dysphoria is usually quite strong and can lead to depression ect which makes transitioning (the current treatment for gender dysphoria) a need. There’s research that shows this is due to a difference in brains but we cannot be sure yet. About his voice it’s due to not taking hormone treatment (in this case testosterone) due to health problems. For your last comment I’m assuming he’s still not sure of his sexuality or bisexual (attracted to both genders) and the term lesbian means women attracted to women which doesn’t seem like it describes him.
tbh i dont care about how your character is "pink" and "cutesy" because i have a female oc who looks masculine with very masculine features and likes. like... WHO TF CARES??
Same, none of that really matters, whats really important is that your just being yourself, you don't need to fall perfectly into one of the 2 slots. Personally I'm a trans girl (Only recently self accepting tho) and I'm not a huge fan of makeup, I'm a gaming nerd and as for style, I hope to develop a mixture of cute things but I'm still okay with just a normal old T shirt and pants, and honestly I'm pretty okay with my current voice, I used to think that if I'm going to be trans I NEED to make everything pink, and like only wear cute clothes and always wear makeup and I even thought I might need to give up my desired career of a youtube gamer, but I dont need to do that, I can just be me, and thats whats really important. (Sorry I kinda went on a bit of a rant there, sometimes a train of thought triggers and I just need to say it all) TLDR Just be yourself.
@@DrPsychotic hello fellow trans! and i agree with you. i still like wearing baggy clothes that are more the feminine style. as for my voice, it's the same thing. im pretty comfortable with my voice as far as how it sounds when i talk since its already pretty deep. you dont have to give up everything you love to be fixed into a gender role, cuz tbh its already pretty wrecked by now :/
I marched in the pride parade yesterday, and there were protesters. They disgusted me. Luckily there were only like eight out of the thousands of people that were there so...
Puberty: "ok so you're going to like this guy." Me: What can go wrong? Puberty: "but you're also going to like your best friend." Me: **chokes on sweet tea** but she's a girl! Puberty: "ahhh yes but she's bi."
I'm a transgender male as well, I never came out to any of my friends but my online ones... I have a fear of losing everyone I love. I feel so horrible knowing that it will probably never will tell anyone irl. But my online friends are so supportive. I'm greatful to have them. I hope you are doing well!
Me: *chilling in the hallway at school with one of my guy friends who I came out to already* Me thinking: *"Oh,that girl's kinda cute"* My friend:Hey,bro, that girl's kinda cute! Me: *spits out all my water*
One of my best friends is lesbian and more than half of my friends are gay or bisexual and they are the best people I know and they mean the world to me they help me with my mental health issues and I help them with depression LGBTQ people reading this you are loved by someone so don't feel lonely
Spoderman is back bitch I cryed reading that comment. I'm only 14 I'm Bi (possibly pan) I have Depression and Anxiety and have alot of LGBTQ+ friends and some non LGBTQ+ friends.
Me: what’s the deal with liking people like wot? Puberty: hi Me: hmmmmmmmm DaMn My best friend: i’m a lesbian puberty: AHHHHHHHHHHH Me: AHHHHHHHHHHHHHH the end i’m bi.
Me too, but I came out a few months ago. They were really accepting, but they still seem touchy and awkward about the subject. My mum took me to Glasgow Pride though!
Legit started crying near the end. This video is so fucking inspiring and I thank you for making it. As a fellow trans male, this video really spoke to me and it was so nice to hear the things that not even my best friends will say to me. "It is so worth it to keep going." Once again, thank you, from the bottom of my heart.
18:07 - 19:06 okay, just the way you said this... it's just so amazing, I super glad youtube recommended your video to me since...I came out to my dad yesterday after years of trauma when my mother told me that being lgbt is a sickness and so may gross things... My dad still cannot accept that I prefer girls, but I know he's doing his best and he loves me. Also, I'm so happy that there are people like you. I love you too, just for being yourself and your kind words that made my day ♥ and if anyone's reading it, stay strong! I am with you!
Makiuch I love your confidence and that you're super strong! My parents found out that I like girls and they went nuts. They were telling me "it's just a phase!" I ignored them… months later I came out to my siblings (which accept me). I told them I was stuck in the wrong body, and that I am a boy… They said that I'd grow out of this phase. And I feel alone. I really appreciate your braveness
@@Un_Mango_ aww.. i am with you... you may not know me, but i'm glad that you're still here. Things are hard sometimes, but i do believe that in the end, everything will be alright! Let's just, stick with people who accept us the way we are! I think you're amazing
Lolz I'm eleven, pansexual and trigender and my mom is "fine" with gay, lesbian ect. love because love is love but when I come out as trigender I'm going to get my @$$ disowned even though I think it's just a phase....yup life
Don’t be sorry for low self esteem. I have it too, from years and years of bullying. It’s not your fault, so it’s nothing to be sorry about! You’re amazing, you’re awesome, you’re valid
I am not Trans, but i have related problems. Earlier in the year, I cut my long hair to a "boyish" cut, which caused my peers to label me the trans or gay kid. That upset me because they should not determine that for me. I got tons of hate so I moved schools. I am doing much my better. It was amazing to hear your story Pax.
I have long hair, but at one point I cut it because I thought it looked cute! And it did with my baby face, but now I'm growing it out~! Might change my mind and cut it again, or to something more shorter. It's pretty long, and after a nights sleep, it's untameable....
When you said “I’m so glad that you’re alive”, I literally almost cried... T^T Edit: thnx so much for the like RadPax!!! ^ ^ Also thank you for this video, it really helped me a lot and made me feel so much better about myself
Thank you so much... I’ve been struggling with my sexuality for so long... and you just gave me all the confidence I need to finally say... I’m a gay trans boy and DAMN proud of it. Thank you so much I will always think of you whenever the worlds getting me down. Stay proud, be loud and never let anyone tell you how you’re“ supposed to be”.🏳️🌈
Something that bothers me is that the most stupid videos put together in 2 minutes used as click bait have more views than this well put together, inspiring video that probably took forever. You don't do click bait, and once I saw this video, I quickly subscribed.
I cant be a tired gay boy just a regular one because of all the caffeine i consume Seriously call an ambulance I have a problem But dont actually Mabye do it
as somebody just starting down this road (mtf), it's surreal having hings that i'm dealing with be put into words by somebody else. Genuinely: thank you, this helped. i hope you have a wonderful day/year/life, have some tea or something you wonderful person! you deserve it! :)
Me a non binary person* A random kid: YOu A BoY Or GiRl? Me: i- well im not either Random kid: yEaH You ArE! boy Or GiRl? Me: listen here ya lil s h i t im an alien form area 51, if you keep talking i will steal your k n e e c a p s ."
Hey, this- as someone from the south, who is also a trans boy, I very much understand the struggle and unfairness of being trans. I have a supportive family, and incredible friends, but the environment I'm being raised in is not even close to accepting, it's very difficult, but people like us, we are stronger than the naked eye can see. You're strong for getting through the turmoil, and of course, we will always have to deal with the burden of being trans, but it does get better. The way I see things is that, we can power through the hardship to live the life those who didnt make it, cant have. You're very strong and this video is so inspiring that you for making it for people like us to know we arent alone.
I am a Transgender Male. People often call me cute and just constantly telling me...female which made me uncomfortable and unwanted. So I was in the same spot, as you can see from my profile pic. I normally tell people I’m a He and they’re like “But you’re a girl!” I have to say I’m trans male over and over again which is tiring. Anyway yeah. Not alone ^^
this was absolutely inspiring to watch, you've been through so much, ups and downs, lefts and rights. and i truly believe you'll become the happiest dude on earth, i hope nothing but the best for you, keep fighting 💕 xoxo
I am not trans, but I have a bad case of BPD, and I relate to a lot of this. This made me cry, but thats a good thing, like in a good way. Maybe I can be loved one day too.
If this gives you any hope... I also have BPD, last year I was a terrible person, I was just so toxic and horrible and it was because of this mental illness. Then I met my current boyfriend, 3 months into our relationship he broke down crying because I was hurting him and that's when I decided I wanted to change. I've now been with him for 9 months and I am a much healthier and happier person. I feel so good about myself and it took a lot of work but it was so worth it. No matter what anyone tells you it can get better and even with BPD you can be loved and you can have healthy long lasting relationships/friendships. I promise you, it can get better
i have always felt uncomfortable with my body, no matter how many time i tell my mother she buys me a dress or gets me a nail appointment. i had never felt so sad with all my traumatic times, but one time when i went to tell my mother she had went through my phone and called me a lesbian. she said that since i was missing my trans sister so i was a lesbian. but even then she had said that it was all in my head and itll go away. As if it was a sickness...i have never talked about it since but your story is amazing and helps. i hope you and whoever is reading this is accepted and feels worthy of love, have a great 2024
I'm not trans but I feel like a guy isn't the best thing for me but neither is a girl so I'm going to be a non-bianary. Thank you, this was really uplifting
what makes me mad is when a person is born one gender but then they transfer, and people call them the gender they were born as even though they transfered, and are no longer that gender
Even though I’m not trans, this video had so many relatable moments and sentiments. I’m happy to hear you’re recovering and finding your own family and happiness!
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For anyone about to comment "so like, are you a boy or girl???"
I've said MULTIPLE times i am **MALE**
I'm not sure whats hard to understand. I am a transgender male. meaning I was not born male.
I make that VERY clear in this video. Please stop asking. I've made it extremely clear. You can check ANY of my social medias and it says **MALE**
RadPax We will always love and support you for you!
RadPax you will always be amazing. We will support you for ever.🌈
Hello, I've just discover your channel, anda I understand life can get real y weird and things can make you change. I dos nota suport LGBT but I wont tell you thats wrong is your life, I just want todo tell you that we care of you, all of us (people). Enjoy your life and bé happy
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Now listen here you little shit.
Don’t go out and attack some random person for something that’s out of their control, fuck you.
You are the disgusting one, and if you want to use religion as a weapon against other innocent people;
In the Ten Commandments god said you shall not hate, I classify as a Christian but I myself am pansexual non-binary.
I will now quote you;
“I fucking hate you goddamn transsexuals”
Not only did you say you *hate* , but you also used gods name in vain.
And if you didn’t know and are a fake Christian (which you already are because of how vile you are acting, I myself am apart of that religion and fully accept LGTBQ+, and am apart of it aswell)
You shall not use gods name in vain.
You are ignorant and negligent, it’s 2019, not 1875.
We don’t burn innocent people at the stake for having a right to exist or get married, and here’s a fun thing to know if you “want things to go back to the way they were. Gays should be shut up and are sinful bastards”
You know who else were told that they are disgusting and worthless?
African Americans and Women.
You are proving the equal of racism and sexism you transphobic cunt.
RadPax, I’m so sorry you have to deal with these people on your video.
You don’t deserve this in the slightest, you’re an amazing person.
I support you, my guy!
I have been in your shoes, I truely understand what you went through, especially with that guy, and his comments. I had an ex react the same, but demanded i stay female.
"but, that relationship ended up becoming very, _very_ toxic so.. *yeet* "
that is a proper response
In-FRICCIN -deed ( indeed )
Pretty much me how I found out I was Bi:
Puberty: “that man looks really cute.”
Me: “sounds reasonable.”
Puberty: “that girl to.”
Me: “Impossible. Girls don’t like other girls.”
Friend: “no it’s a thing.”
Me: * surprised pikachu *
Me: Sees a cute guy
Puberty: "Yo bro he looks yummy,,"
Me: "I'm not G-"
Boy laughs and blushes
Me: "Y'know, I'm sorry I doubted you. "
Puberty: "I told you."
Tru
For me it was
Friend: I like girls I think I’m lesbian
Me: Oh I do too but I like guys too
Friend: Oh you’re Bi
Me: But I like girls more than guys
Friend: So... You’re Bi but more gay
Me (has excepted my fate): yEs
@@gothic_dawg I am pan but at this point I might be gay. :/
I'm still struggling with puberty and trying to find my gender. And still trying to find support
**Casually disabled**
"You are worthy of love"
*Sheds a tear*
how are you casually disabled--
@@sage5530 Well you see it when you are disabled, and you're casual with it and or you're just casually disabled
Thats me.
@@hotwheelies1424 truuuuuuuueueueueuueueueueueueueuueeuuueueueuueeuueueueu
Oof Troop
I'm chronically (ch)ill
I’m not trans, but I am intersex-and it sucks. I identify as a male, I was assigned male at birth and was raised male. No one noticed anything wrong with me until I was about 5-6 when someway somehow my mom noticed something was a lil’ funky with me (having to do with the stuff you shouldn’t mention anything with a child). So apparently my mom went to the pediatrician panicked about what was wrong with her son. The pediatrician had an examination and found out that I had not only malformed female genitalia, but I had a fucked up uterus. Yay. So, I didn’t really care until I was 11, when I started complaining about when I would lay on my stomach to sleep (yes, I’m a stomach sleeper), my chest would hurt. I learned later that my mom freaked the fuck out, worrying that her son would be mistaken as a girl in the restroom or in public and shit would go down.
And with my fucked genes, my chest surely grew. It was the awful experience. I had no idea what was going on-and I just wanted out. I stayed up with my mom and cried about how others would call me a girl and I didn’t like it. How kids in my class started acting weird around me and I didn’t understand. (Keep in mind, I’m autistic and social norms and stereotypes grazed past my mind as a kid). Without knowing what to do, my mom took ace bandages and binded me with those. For a year, I couldn’t breathe (also keep in mind that I’m asthmatic so that was really fun). Later we discovered that the constant pressure of the bandages began to squeeze my ribs so much that the right side of my rib started forming inward. Luckily, once my mom knew that we stopped doing that immediately.
Our doctor got us hooked up with a therapist that helped with my emotions, while the doctor helped with my.. other stuff. I was able to get a binder (which didn’t really work but it compresses me enough so people wouldn’t look to my chest to see what gender I was).
I’ve gone through very spaced out and lingering periods that are literally like someone twisting a knife inside of me (try having testosterone eating at your dying ovaries whilst a minuscule hole is covered mostly with skin is spewing out blood and see how you like it.)
I hope one day I’ll be able to get top surgery and get my uterus removed. I don’t identify as trans, but I sure as hell feel like it from what I’ve been through.
When you said “I’m proud of you for being alive”-that hit me like a truck. I sat there and felt my trachea run up my throat as the face burned with my capillaries raising to my skin around my eyes, cheeks, and nose. My eyes were hot and stinging with tears rolling down my face, and lungs quivering. Thank you, so much. I honestly can’t express the feeling of joy that gave me. I’ve struggled so much with depression and suicidal thoughts-an eating disorder from trying to stop my chest from growing-and a fuck ton of other shit.
“I’m proud of you for being alive.” That’s a quote from God (whoever and wherever they are)
edit: hi, i wrote that when i was 13 and i’m happy to tell the crazy amount of people who have replied to this that i got top surgery :]
i also no longer bleed because i was on estrocide for about a year and it leveled out my hormones enough to prevent any bleeding 👍 it gets better guys
I really hope things can get better. :( I have endometriosis so though i cannot fully relate i know the pain of a uterus and it basically wanting to fight you internally. I'm hoping for top surgery and to somehow remove or nuke my uterus cause screw this thing >:I I really pray things can get better for you :(
RadPax thank you so much :) I feel a little better now
Wow. That was written beautifully
RadPax lol
I wish you the best ^^! 💫
if it helps you any. when you started talking i thought you were just a feminine guy. i legit thought "he sounds so adorable"
Same?!?!?!! I was thinking so cute!!!!! Reminds me of my bro his voice is very small and gentle yet he is very big (muscle-wise) but yaaa same just dude with a cute voice
I love the voice!
Same, I love his voice! It sounds adorable
like deku from bnha i’m sorry i’ll let myself out
@@eiroswrld9825 I love mha too! I also thought his voice was like midoriya's. So cute😶.
I think you are a wonderful example of what men should embrace. Men shouldn't be afraid to like pink, or be interested in "stereotypical feminine" things. Your gender(s) do not define your style, interests, or sexual orientation.
Keep on keepin' on, my dude.
Thanks. I'm a guy (and yes, I'm gay) and I absolutely am not a "manly man". I obviously get bullied for it (due to me living in the rural midwest), but I push through it! Pink is my favorite color, my room is aqua and white, I play games for the cute style, and I am very open about who I am. You are the type of person we need in this world.
That is very true!
@@calebbb_c you don't count then pink on guys is wired and weak n sense ur a guy ur obviously Gunna like fruity stuff
As a guy straight pink is for the weak that's why it's bad to wear it.. if you don't wanna be weak don't wear pink n just wear guy colors
I agree
I’m not gonna lie
For a solid minute I was staring at the bear on the side
...same......
Same
Lol same
Me to
Honestly we all were. X3
Teacher “Stop holding hands”
Pax: “Why”
Teacher “you flirting with da boy”
Pax: “im f*cking four”
one of my favourite quotes from this video:
"I'm a child, I don't know things!"
@@ynntari2775 yeah, honestly i like being ace but people thought I was weird because I don’t get like a girlfriend and get married and whatever and I thought something was wrong with me until I discovered that ace people exist and I was one of them. That Amy story:)
Also people thought I was weird that I didn’t love or had crushes in people and thought I was gay or something, which I am not.
Wanna hear a funny story?
I came out by texting my whole family the meme of the guy jumping off the counter and saying “ I’m gay! “
dude yes i stan
The best way to come out
that is v beautiful
Same😂
I stan
My wife is transgender and she’s gone through many of the same things you have. She’s even been disowned by her whole family. And I can’t imagine how strong she is. How strong you and everyone else who is transgender are. I know it may not mean much, but I support you and everyone else trans and pray that one day there will come a time when you and everyone are accepted for who they are. I just want to say never give up and never give in to those who judge you because you are so much more than the sum of your parts and even if it’s hard there are so many who love and respect you for who you are.
Thank you for loving your wife. I think the example you set helps people see trans people as people. Who likely just want to live peaceful lives. ❤️
Well, I personally believe that love is what matters, as long as both parties are consenting adults. The body doesn’t matter, or how one looks. Most people wouldn’t say that someone with a physical, or mental disability don’t deserve to be loved. But gay and transgender people don’t deserve the same love and respect? It’s idiotic and people need to realize that. How you look what your body is doesn’t matter. Only the soul matters.
Lmao
Your wife
U mean ur husband lol xd
Is no one going to comment on the artwork? Its fricken' awesome!
SO TRUE THE ARTWORK IS BEAUTIFUL
The dude behind this camera is awesome and yes the artwork is amazing too
Pshyah it is!
*My brain during puberty:* so you see that guy over there? He’s hot.
*Me:* mhm
*Brain:* **points at girl** and she’s beautiful, you have a crush on her.
*Me:* wait wh-
*Brain:* also you’re a guy.
March 22, 2013 me too but I am non binary
Story of my life
Same
Lol yeah I'm non-binary and female (yes, you can be both)
I'm also bisexual
and that was my brain XD
LOL kinda same with my brain: but mine went like: Brain: hello you are now a male and are suffering from gender dysphoria and you also like all gender ur pan :D yay Me: mhmmm this sounds promising but what does gender dysphoria do? My Brain: horrible things my friend and you will wait and see :D Me: mhmmm ok ok and? Brain: that’s all and you are extremely paranoid for some reason and are prob now crazy for talking to yourself (preferably me)
GUYS CAN BE CUTE AND PINK GALS CAN BE ROUGH AND TOUGH!!!
YAAAAAAAAAAASSSSSSS
@@pyndr0p_
YAAAAAAADSSSSS
YAASSSSSS
YAS QUEEEEN
*Me a trans boy who tries to be pink and cute*
PSA: TRANS GAY BOYS ARE NOT HETERO WOMEN!!! If you are gay and trans, that is just as valid as if you are any gender and any sexuality. Do not let someone make you think that you aren’t who you ARE.
yesssssssss~!!
YES
YESSSS
Mtf lesbians are not straight men
(trans pan girl here)
You can be trans and like feminine things, your gender doesn't mean you have to have to have a certain style. Be proud. :)
THANK YOOUUUUUUUUUU
I agree
So true!!! I'm bisexual and sometimes i act like a girl and two girl friends of mine said that i am not bisexual and that i am bisexual cause since 2019 i only talk about boys and that i know more things about make up than them. And another girl friend of mine said that i am what i want to be, and that if someone tells me that i am gay i should tell them thatvi am waht i want to be!
Thanks...:)
OMIGOD YESSS! everyones like, oh if ur trans FtM, you cant like pink. If ur trans MtF u cantlike sports and u HAVE to be femin.... Nuuuu
You: "Stay safe.. and drink some water."
Me: Okay.
*Gets up and gets myself some water*
*DrInKs ThE wAtEr*
Dem tap water
yaaasss
@@caffeinefallen i TrIpEd Up ThE sTaIrS tO gEt mY wAtEr
Me: HOW INSPIRING!!* also gets up and drinks some water*
*rolled on the other side of the bed to drink water*
Now I feel better
"You know, if that's your thing you can have a wife and 2.5 children"
H O L D U P
*W A I T*
2.5 children???????
@@kyraatkins1196 just cut the 3rd baby in half and feed the other half to a dog
Sour Frog ok 👌
*Wait Hold up*
Cis girl: **has short hair**
People: oke she is still a girl
Trans male: **has long hair**
People: *surprised pikachu face* iSn'T hE a bOy?
Btw love your video❤
Well...one would think that a trans person would do anything for people to see them as the gender they feel comfortable with. A cis girl does not care. She has no dysphoria.
@@LittleBarracuda I don't need to prove my gender to anyone. I am trans and I like my long hair X
YES I have dysphoria as if I had to say anything
A trans person (specifically a trans male) can have long hair. However, they will do literally anything to get people to call them He/Him. So most of the time, they cut off their hair to get rid of some Dysphoria they have. Also, the girl doesn’t have Dysphoria, maybe the girl just wanted to cut off her hair because she thinks it looks cool or because she likes it like that. But if your a trans male who isn’t on T yet I personally wouldn’t recommend having long hair if you don’t want to get misgendered. However, do what makes you happy and I’ll support you!
@@LittleBarracuda gender identity doesn't equal gender expression!
Puberty: Hey hey friend that girl is reallllllllyyy cute (Ima girl)
Me: *Chokes*
I’d be lying if I didn’t say same.
Ha same
Same lma9
Niomi myfriend *wth same-*
Yep
I'm not apart of the LGBTQ+ community but I completely support anyone who is apart of it. One of my friends is trans and a lot of my other friends are lesbian, so I try to support them and the whole LGBTQ+ community as much as I can.
Ahh people like you make me feel warm inside uwu
The same xD
im really dumb,,,, i thought you said "my other brothers are lesbians"
@@fionort Well an ally isn't lgbt, but we should still respect allies! Hell, we should respect everyone. Just don't have to if they don't give you basic respect.
@@dannyowo4676 lmao
My mom says I have butifull thick hair and I'm like
BEGON HAIR
ME TOO!
same! XD
LMAO SAMEEEE
Literally what happened with me😂😂
Same
Puberty- Hey you know, that guy’s cute.
Me- No he’s really not.
Puberty- What about that girl?
Me- HOLY FU-
Sameeeee 😂
Tired gay boi
I completely and utterly agree with that statement
Puberty: Hey there, that guy is hot.
Me: Mhm
Puberty: But that girl is also hot.
Me: *What?*
You're bi
tedungi beulping or pan
mE-
Screams cause I'm a pan
*_Same except I grew up in a homophobic area so i was just like HELL NO I'M STRAIGHT-_*
Now I'm coming out to random people on RUclips for being bi (like I just did-) because I mean why not no one cares so it won't bother anyone-
Liking feminine things doesnt invalidate gender identity at all, fem boys are the best honesty! Live happy 💕
💛💚💛💚💛💚💛💚💛💚💛💚💛
Yay!!! Uwu femboys are cute in my opinion I’m actually on uwu just recently did my nails
@@fornow753 go hate someone else let us be happy uwu
@@bubblesthekitty4423 shut up you white supremist go back to supporting the kkk your disgusting child
@@fornow753 you are being way to obvious with your trolling lolol
You sir are not filled with toxic masculinity, I respect you.
I personally think guys who are feminine are really cute--
Ikr
Sameeeeeee
Sameee
YES
Same
pax: "sasuke"
auto-captions: "sauce is gay"
Yes
Lmao
saucecup and boruto's dad
Yeah I'll have some gay on my chips.
"-or are just generally confused"
Or do you mean
*Gender-ly* confused
HECK
Just why.
I almost liked it, but it's at 420 likes and I can't bring myself to ruin it
@@trashnamedmax7118 we can make the comment 6.9k. *do it.*
video about being a trans guy in the teens area:
"I was like, essentially just tired gay boi"
*damn same*
As a mom of a child who is questioning their gender. I want to say thank you for sharing your story. An wish you many blessing and happiness.
How's your kid doing?
You are a great mother 💕
please always let your kid exprole themselves but make sure everything they do is safe and stuff like that
"Tired, feminine, gay, trans, boi, that used to hurt himself." that is mood. ✋😔👌
trueee!
Huge mood
Lonley Artist same but im a girl
Pretty much same but I have not transitioned
Same but i'm questioning
18:00 I legitimately started crying and hugging my laptop.
Okay yeah me too
Haven’t gotten there , *MENTALLY * *PREPARING *
I’m preparing for this I haven’t seen it yet
I’M NOT CRYING!YOU ARE!!!
*sobbing in transgender acceptance*
I'm a transwoman who's built like a football player, and the parallels in your story really tugs on my heart strings. I hope you find what you are looking for and know that you are who you say you are, and nobody can make you be someone your not.
I hated it when people said "yOuR a wOmaN nOw". It annoys me alot
Not trans but I am not straight, when I complained to my grandma about the menstrual cycle she said *and I quote* "You have the ability to give life, it's a gift from god." I have never been more furious at her in my life. My first thought was literally "I'm fucking gay, I don't NEED a period."
and the idea of having kids disgusts me anyways so thats another thing
@@alexblake2122 same with me, I dont like the idea of children either
Alex Blake it’s not like you can change it lol you’re complaining that you’re having a period, and saying that you don’t need kids but many people do you rely on straight couples to have kids that fit your sexuality soo.
It's scary that that reminds me of "yOuR a WiZaRd NoW"
Cis male: *wears makeup*
People: "yess, you're doing great I love it on you"👌
Trans male: *wears makeup*
People: *"CIS-PICIOUS"*
No, it shouldn't be that way. Trans guys are males, so there shouldn't be a difference :)
No they aren't
@@spaceygalaxy776 what do you mean
Bro I am a wrestler with a mullet and with a 17 inch punisher and have muscles like John Cena and I do not have any feminine factors but I call myself female so should I be allowed to fight women cause it's not more different than a hairy strong woman right?
I think guys with makeup are fabulous, trans guys are just regular guys, they can rock makeup as much as the next dude lol
@@mikeoxsmull3757 No, because you don't have a female brain, and brain scans would show your male shaped brain, with a lower density left frontal lobe, a larger hypothalamus, etc. Stop it with the bullshit. No one thinks you're funny mullet-man.
as another trans guy, i love this video so much
the end of the video made me tear up, especially bc i have a really unaccepting dad
thank you so much
you are such an amazing person and i love you
Sammy w ur profile pic looks like Jayfeather
I have one too. Agh im not alone for once #')
I can say the same! But my parents are a lot more accepting, but I am scared of comming out as a Demigirl. My friendos know but this video is so relatable ;-;
🌹Roses are red🌹
💙Pepsi cans are blue💙
🏳️🌈You are trans🏳️🌈
🤗And we support you!🤗
Aaaay! Respect! ✊
thank you for saying Pepsi cans instead of violets. flippin violets are violet
Thanks for respect :D
This made me cry
Can Pepsi actually be blue?!
"I basically wanted to look really unappetizing to everybody" oH wOW that broke my heart but thank you for saying that because I finally found a sentence that fully explains my middle+high school experience (I'm also trans)
sometimes just.. looking "ugly" makes you feel better????? idk why
@@RadPaxOfficial yup yup yup, when I was younger I didn't know a single thing about being trans but I knew I didn't like being feminine and always looked "ugly" by basically hiding my figure with pants+sweaters that were too big for me because I knew it I wouldn't draw to much attention in school (but that backfired since it caused a lot of arguments at home)... I'm 21 now and I still take a baggy sweater with me regardless of weather because I can't stand the thought of people having to look at my chest ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
ME EVERYDAY!Tho.
So am I
Me too
Pink and cute things are just that, cute, that doesnt mean feminine and trans guys and other non feminine peeps have ever right to like those things
I'm glad I found this channel, because this story is so relatable to me and I'm glad I'm not the only one who is a trans guy and likes cute stuff.
I always felt paranoid about it, like how I feel like a guy but I still like cute stuff. But by meeting other people with the same interests doesn't make me feel weird about it anymore, since a lot of people feels the same way so it's totally okay. :)
Just because you like cute stuff doesn't mean you and to be trans
Cute things are persived as feminine. That is how it is
That isn't true
I feel like his persona is a big heck you to gender roles
I tried listening to this while I worked on some projects, and I bawled my eyes out when you said you were proud of everybody. I don't know why, it just hit me right in the feels.
I needed to be told that today a lot more than I thought I did.
Thank you.
*stay safe and drink some water*
Can I drink bleach?
• ChurroKiid • only if you save some for me
No. No bleach for any of you.
Sit down and drink some puerile
Me: I wish I could have been born a boy like I legit hate my body
Friend: Transition is an option
Me: W A I T ʸᵒᵘ ᶜᵃⁿ ᵈᵒ ᵗʰᵃᵗˀ
Me too 😅
Literally me, like I just hated being a girl and hoped I could be a boy and when I heard it was possible I was like "wait it is?" And now I'm trans
“Tired gay boy”
*THIS IS LITERALLY ME I SWEAR*
yay, I got a like from the Holy King,...... or, Holy Queen? jk
I’m a tired TRANS gay boy...
@@animelover5099 ok but your username and the trans gay boy fit me perfectly.
Yessssssssssss
WhyAmIHere 6107 let’s not bring holy into this bruh
My current Mate came out to me that they are trans. And My love for them didnt change. I love them for who they are not what they are. And I dont want to just push them away because of it, If that is who they believe they are who am I to judge? They are the exact same person I love.
Hate solves nothing.
I wish i had a friend like you lol
You are an amazing person and I hope you get ALL the love in the worl because you are WORTHY
Out that on whisper not in the comment
❤💛💚💙💜
THANK YOU!
It's not "what we believe we are", it's "what we are". Period.
This is insane... I watched this December of last year, and at that time I thought I was a lesbian, and I was dating a wonderful girl and we loved each other. About 3 months ago I figured out I was a trans male. I told my at the time girlfriend and she started crying. Turns out HE is the same way. We've been dating almost a year. Thank you, when I figured stuff out I only figured it out completely because this video had given me a full understanding of what being a trans guy meant.
Oh wow that’s awesome
yes just because your transgender or gay or lesbien dosnt mean you have to suffer, im sooo proud that you didn't end it all, your also a strong person for going through all this, dealing with this your a hero. you deserve wayyyyy more followers.. for that, say helo to a new subscriber
Or bi
Titeka F Well, if you’re gonna say that, might as well include every other one.
@@g.briella :v
I went through the lesbian phase before I realized I liked boys too. I'm trying to base my look off of what Jack Stauber sounds like. If that makes sense. I just think it's unique.
And I too am smol.
Ah a Jack Stauber fan I see you’re a person of culture.
yea, old comment ik. but still, yeah i can relate to this, i also thought i was a lesbian until like 4 months ago. now I've come to the realization that I'm a trans guy!
i thought i was a few years ago and i realized very recently that i liked guys as well lmao
Awh, the drawing is so cute!
TheDragonRiolu ikr! His sona is adorable
i feel you about the hair. Everyone constantly talks about how long and “pretty” it is and how “people would k*ll for your hair/body” and it makes you feel like it’s your only worth. I’m so proud of you for how far you’ve come man. 💛
Puberty hitting me in fifth grade: So that guy right theres really cute
Me: Uh huh.
Puberty: Nah JK I know you're staring at that girl
Me, a female: *What?*
Lol same
Stolen.
@@vanessaparnell466 no its not. I literally came up with this. Believe what you want ma'am.
*same*
Yaaaas
_Hi, pansexual goober here. I was listening to the video while drawing and I was just enjoying your story so much and happily listening and then... when you said how proud you are of everyone, I started crying?? I just felt this spike of warmth because I kind of realized that "Hey, I actually am doing a pretty good job of not jumping off the end or letting the things around me eat me whole." Like, my life isn't absolutely terrible, but there's always the things that happen the push a little too hard. Like when the people who promised me unconditional love when I was born slowly but surely get funny ways of showing it. It's been a while since someone's sounded so legitimately proud of me? Like I said, not absolutely terrible, but I more or less can't wait to get out of here._
_I just wanna say thanks, dude.
amy small Thank you, for writing this comment, a thank you from a fellow Pansexual.
Same here, thanks for writing such a great and relatable comment! Also pansexual goober is me in a nutshell 💗💛💙
Thanks for this comment! -from another fellow pansexual 💖💙💛
hello fellow pans :3
So many pans welcome to the kitchen
im pan too 💖💛💙
When someone calls me a boy I feel like I’ve been complemented or someone is like I got you bro it’s just really happy feeling and you don’t know why until you know why
!!
I can feel this in my soul
Damien Signes EXACTLY
Don’t worry. I got chu :)
Your username is literally me. (I love David so much. Seriously. I. Love. Him.)
5th grade me: I dont want to go through puberty.
Puberty: Hi
5th grade Me: Fine, I guess I have to deal with y-
Dysphoria: Hi
5th grade Me: Wait a minute, who are you-
Lol
You kind of sound like a more masculine version of Pidge from Voltron!
YES OMG
that's what I was thinking!
Yoooo just noticed! Thanks
rainyboi YES!! *VIRTUAL-HIGH-FIVE* Fandom squad
Yessss
Honestly I think your voice is actually pretty gender neutral
I'm about to be honest here (like it or not, but think before hating or loving)
I honestly immediatly thought she/he was a girl because of her voice ... It sounds more girly than boy...y
Although your vid kinda helped me understand trans-people (but I can't really understand why you want to change your gender)
Plus I don't really understand why some people (example, you said you thought you were lesbian ... but you see yourself as (are ?) a boy ... it confuses me)
Laurent Marchiani it seems like they use he/him. I’d recommend doing more research into this subject but I’ll give you some base level information:
Trans people are born with gender dysphoria- something that makes them dysphoric about their body and/or social treatment (like pronouns) It’s not really a choice to transition since gender dysphoria is usually quite strong and can lead to depression ect which makes transitioning (the current treatment for gender dysphoria) a need. There’s research that shows this is due to a difference in brains but we cannot be sure yet. About his voice it’s due to not taking hormone treatment (in this case testosterone) due to health problems. For your last comment I’m assuming he’s still not sure of his sexuality or bisexual (attracted to both genders) and the term lesbian means women attracted to women which doesn’t seem like it describes him.
they sound like a girl
@@dannyslemonade976 thank you for this comment, will do some research in my free time !
Agreed
My brain: hey that girl is cute
Me: yeah I know
My brain: so is that guy
Me: ok yeah?
My brain: holy crap every one is cute
Me: oh shiz I’m Pansexual
tbh i dont care about how your character is "pink" and "cutesy" because i have a female oc who looks masculine with very masculine features and likes.
like...
WHO TF CARES??
Art _ mation ikr like fuhk gender roles
@@enviisyk yersh
Same, none of that really matters, whats really important is that your just being yourself, you don't need to fall perfectly into one of the 2 slots. Personally I'm a trans girl (Only recently self accepting tho) and I'm not a huge fan of makeup, I'm a gaming nerd and as for style, I hope to develop a mixture of cute things but I'm still okay with just a normal old T shirt and pants, and honestly I'm pretty okay with my current voice, I used to think that if I'm going to be trans I NEED to make everything pink, and like only wear cute clothes and always wear makeup and I even thought I might need to give up my desired career of a youtube gamer, but I dont need to do that, I can just be me, and thats whats really important.
(Sorry I kinda went on a bit of a rant there, sometimes a train of thought triggers and I just need to say it all)
TLDR Just be yourself.
Pink is actually a pretty masculine colour if you think about it.
@@DrPsychotic hello fellow trans! and i agree with you. i still like wearing baggy clothes that are more the feminine style. as for my voice, it's the same thing. im pretty comfortable with my voice as far as how it sounds when i talk since its already pretty deep. you dont have to give up everything you love to be fixed into a gender role, cuz tbh its already pretty wrecked by now :/
"If you dont like lgbt people...just...just go...this isnt for u,go get some water" lmao same
ARMY
Jungkook's girlfriend Army shut up
@@fuzzbone hey daniel, i saw you in a jojo video before
I marched in the pride parade yesterday, and there were protesters. They disgusted me. Luckily there were only like eight out of the thousands of people that were there so...
ArtisticGaming I was gonna say that!
Dude, I'm being very honest.
You have the PERFECT emo voice, hands down!
Keep being who you are, and if they judge, screw 'em.
Puberty: "ok so you're going to like this guy."
Me: What can go wrong?
Puberty: "but you're also going to like your best friend."
Me: **chokes on sweet tea** but she's a girl!
Puberty: "ahhh yes but she's bi."
I'm a transgender male as well,
I never came out to any of my friends but my online ones...
I have a fear of losing everyone I love. I feel so horrible knowing that it will probably never will tell anyone irl.
But my online friends are so supportive. I'm greatful to have them.
I hope you are doing well!
keep going man,keep going man.
Same..
But I’m a Bi Gorl uwu
Ive always been Bi since kindergarten-
owo ..
Hey, if you wanna come out to your irl friends then do so! The LGBTQIA+ community is right here supportin' ya!
i believe in u dude!! (nice profile pic btw :))
You should come out eventually but if you don’t want to yet then you don’t have to
Me: *chilling in the hallway at school with one of my guy friends who I came out to already*
Me thinking: *"Oh,that girl's kinda cute"*
My friend:Hey,bro, that girl's kinda cute!
Me: *spits out all my water*
Time to stab him 37 times in the chest and remind him you're legally a yandere. UwU
(Jk lol)
I dont get the joke(no hate)
But can someone explain it to me
One of my best friends is lesbian and more than half of my friends are gay or bisexual and they are the best people I know and they mean the world to me they help me with my mental health issues and I help them with depression LGBTQ people reading this you are loved by someone so don't feel lonely
Spoderman is back bitch I cryed reading that comment. I'm only 14 I'm Bi (possibly pan) I have Depression and Anxiety and have alot of LGBTQ+ friends and some non LGBTQ+ friends.
Im lesbian
Spoderman is back bitch same I love them ❤️
@@DarkWolf-qo7qo to be honest, i dont really understand what being pansexual means
I know like most of my friends are gay, lesbian, bie, and I'm trans and they are the most important people in my life
Me: what’s the deal with liking people like wot?
Puberty: hi
Me: hmmmmmmmm DaMn
My best friend: i’m a lesbian
puberty: AHHHHHHHHHHH
Me: AHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
the end i’m bi.
I am transgender mtf and I am glad you are alive to this day 😊 and this is my first time watching your videos have a good pride month 😊
I bet you’re beautiful! Remember to love yourself bb :3
This is a very comforting video. I admire you. I'm Bisexual and I haven't come out to my family it, but I'm hoping one day I can
Me too! ^^
I believe in you 🌺
Me too, but I came out a few months ago. They were really accepting, but they still seem touchy and awkward about the subject. My mum took me to Glasgow Pride though!
@@fuckwit107 Wooow you're so lucky! I'm proud of you for coming out
@@DreamyFlowerz thank you so much! I think my parents kinda suspected it before anyway, lol
RedPax: goes on rant of being worthy of love
Me, someone who needed that; *starts tearing up* PREACH!!
TOKOYAMI... ITS REALLY YOU
TG Gaming in the feathers!
SENPAI NOTICED ME!!
TG Gaming of course.
Jokes aside u r my favourite character in the anime and I'm watching memes about it as I type this... Revelry in the dark
Pink
Yellow
Blue
THATS ALL I DO
I am pan
That's the plan
❤️💛💙
Me to a T
Endigo_ Artz same 👌
You like frying pans?
Me too dude
💖💛💙 and I'm a trans boi :3
Legit started crying near the end. This video is so fucking inspiring and I thank you for making it. As a fellow trans male, this video really spoke to me and it was so nice to hear the things that not even my best friends will say to me. "It is so worth it to keep going." Once again, thank you, from the bottom of my heart.
@@RadPaxOfficial thank you, same to you xoxo
@@RadPaxOfficial hi
Thank you for telling us your gender, I was confused and didnt wanna get it wrong.
Yes! I was confused on what to call you and what your pronouns are, but i was too embarrased to ask!
Actually same, before this video I didn't know if artist is he or she cuz this voice can belong to both genders.
18:07 - 19:06 okay, just the way you said this... it's just so amazing, I super glad youtube recommended your video to me since...I came out to my dad yesterday after years of trauma when my mother told me that being lgbt is a sickness and so may gross things... My dad still cannot accept that I prefer girls, but I know he's doing his best and he loves me. Also, I'm so happy that there are people like you. I love you too, just for being yourself and your kind words that made my day ♥ and if anyone's reading it, stay strong! I am with you!
Makiuch I hope things get better ❤️
Makiuch
I love your confidence and that you're super strong! My parents found out that I like girls and they went nuts. They were telling me "it's just a phase!" I ignored them… months later I came out to my siblings (which accept me). I told them I was stuck in the wrong body, and that I am a boy… They said that I'd grow out of this phase. And I feel alone.
I really appreciate your braveness
@@Un_Mango_ aww.. i am with you... you may not know me, but i'm glad that you're still here. Things are hard sometimes, but i do believe that in the end, everything will be alright! Let's just, stick with people who accept us the way we are! I think you're amazing
Hope everything gets better!!💜💜 (I purple you!!)
Lolz I'm eleven, pansexual and trigender and my mom is "fine" with gay, lesbian ect. love because love is love but when I come out as trigender I'm going to get my @$$ disowned even though I think it's just a phase....yup life
**Me walks in hall of school**
**cute short girl walks MINDING her own business**
Me:aww she’s adorable!!^^*heart beats faster*
Me:.....
Me:wait I-
Me during my summer camp:
Me:*sees a super cute and funny girl, befriends her and starts crushing on her*
Also me: nO hOmO rIgHt?
Mines beating fast just thinking about it 😭
I'mma send this lovely video to my trans friend, and then spam him with love, because he's so amazing.
Damn I wish I had friends like this
@@chenleschildsupport4268 godammit same
honestly as a trans guy myself, i wish i could have a friend like you, he must be so lucky
Don’t be sorry for low self esteem. I have it too, from years and years of bullying. It’s not your fault, so it’s nothing to be sorry about! You’re amazing, you’re awesome, you’re valid
I am not Trans, but i have related problems. Earlier in the year, I cut my long hair to a "boyish" cut, which caused my peers to label me the trans or gay kid. That upset me because they should not determine that for me. I got tons of hate so I moved schools. I am doing much my better. It was amazing to hear your story Pax.
I used to have long hair too but I cut mine short like you
I have long hair, but at one point I cut it because I thought it looked cute! And it did with my baby face, but now I'm growing it out~! Might change my mind and cut it again, or to something more shorter. It's pretty long, and after a nights sleep, it's untameable....
Werido With A Fringe I love your profile picture sooo much uwu
@Felicity Honan I've been shaving the side of my head for almost 4 years and only heard compliments from other people
@@ayeronair :) thank you!
10:39
Me: *I SMELL A SUPERNATURAL REFERENCE THAT PROBABLY WASN’T INTENDED, but whatever.*
I don't get the reference, can you enlighten me? I absolutely love Supernatural lol
When you said “I’m so glad that you’re alive”, I literally almost cried... T^T
Edit: thnx so much for the like RadPax!!! ^ ^ Also thank you for this video, it really helped me a lot and made me feel so much better about myself
Thank you so much... I’ve been struggling with my sexuality for so long... and you just gave me all the confidence I need to finally say... I’m a gay trans boy and DAMN proud of it. Thank you so much I will always think of you whenever the worlds getting me down. Stay proud, be loud and never let anyone tell you how you’re“ supposed to be”.🏳️🌈
PS I couldn’t stop crying when he said “I’m proud of you”
Yay to u I’m proud
Disgust
Horrible
No one cares about you
Something that bothers me is that the most stupid videos put together in 2 minutes used as click bait have more views than this well put together, inspiring video that probably took forever. You don't do click bait, and once I saw this video, I quickly subscribed.
icefawn same
The good thing is that people have changed.
Legit I had a trans boy in my class and no one disliked him.
I cant be a tired gay boy just a regular one because of all the caffeine i consume
Seriously call an ambulance I have a problem
But dont actually
Mabye do it
Me right now
Eat chocolate covered coffee beans instead
@@thepostman7356 lol
420 what'cha smokin'?
Same tbh monster energy is my bloodstream
RadPax: "That relationship got very very toxic so.. YEET"
Literally ME.
Ellie Gacha 2 that describes why I broke up with my girlfriend sjskskks
That describes how i never had a relationship with anyone
as somebody just starting down this road (mtf), it's surreal having hings that i'm dealing with be put into words by somebody else.
Genuinely: thank you, this helped. i hope you have a wonderful day/year/life, have some tea or something you wonderful person! you deserve it! :)
Me a non binary person*
A random kid: YOu A BoY Or GiRl?
Me: i- well im not either
Random kid: yEaH You ArE! boy Or GiRl?
Me: listen here ya lil s h i t im an alien form area 51, if you keep talking i will steal your k n e e c a p s ."
add them to your collection
@@SirFigBar yes
I keep mine in my walls
*2.5 children*
HOW CAN YOU HAVE HALF A CHILD😂
I will not die until I have 2.5 children. I'll born three and... I dunno, cut one's legs off or something.
And when I die I'll go to Hell.
_WHERE IS TIMMY’S OTHER HALF?_
THIS COMMENT SCARES ME
"Where did Billy's other half go?" "Honey did you try to make Billy a half child, you know you can't do that!"
_up to that point I was just a slug_
*I can relate*
But I love this video and well done for doing this😃
I'm still a slug.
Hey, this- as someone from the south, who is also a trans boy, I very much understand the struggle and unfairness of being trans. I have a supportive family, and incredible friends, but the environment I'm being raised in is not even close to accepting, it's very difficult, but people like us, we are stronger than the naked eye can see. You're strong for getting through the turmoil, and of course, we will always have to deal with the burden of being trans, but it does get better. The way I see things is that, we can power through the hardship to live the life those who didnt make it, cant have. You're very strong and this video is so inspiring that you for making it for people like us to know we arent alone.
i live in this exact same environment except i know 0 people who are accepting of it.. ;w;””
@@birbtweettweet3762 rip I'm a trans girl and I am accepting of it and so is my family and friends
I am a Transgender Male. People often call me cute and just constantly telling me...female which made me uncomfortable and unwanted. So I was in the same spot, as you can see from my profile pic. I normally tell people I’m a He and they’re like “But you’re a girl!” I have to say I’m trans male over and over again which is tiring. Anyway yeah. Not alone ^^
You know you talking about this made me feel a bit better and I hope you know you are awesome
this was absolutely inspiring to watch, you've been through so much, ups and downs, lefts and rights. and i truly believe you'll become the happiest dude on earth, i hope nothing but the best for you, keep fighting 💕 xoxo
I am not trans, but I have a bad case of BPD, and I relate to a lot of this.
This made me cry, but thats a good thing, like in a good way.
Maybe I can be loved one day too.
The Zircus YOU WILL BE LOVED I PROMISE
The Zircus you will find someone. everyone deserves to be loved, no matter what, never doubt that you deserve love
If this gives you any hope... I also have BPD, last year I was a terrible person, I was just so toxic and horrible and it was because of this mental illness. Then I met my current boyfriend, 3 months into our relationship he broke down crying because I was hurting him and that's when I decided I wanted to change. I've now been with him for 9 months and I am a much healthier and happier person. I feel so good about myself and it took a lot of work but it was so worth it. No matter what anyone tells you it can get better and even with BPD you can be loved and you can have healthy long lasting relationships/friendships. I promise you, it can get better
i have always felt uncomfortable with my body, no matter how many time i tell my mother she buys me a dress or gets me a nail appointment. i had never felt so sad with all my traumatic times, but one time when i went to tell my mother she had went through my phone and called me a lesbian. she said that since i was missing my trans sister so i was a lesbian. but even then she had said that it was all in my head and itll go away. As if it was a sickness...i have never talked about it since but your story is amazing and helps. i hope you and whoever is reading this is accepted and feels worthy of love, have a great 2024
I'm not trans but I feel like a guy isn't the best thing for me but neither is a girl so I'm going to be a non-bianary. Thank you, this was really uplifting
you cant be a non binary. you are or you are not. so maybe you dont realised it now. i dont want to offend but you shouldnt say "im going to be"
Thats how i discovered i was NB too, i didnt feel very feminine nor masculine and when i discovered NB was allowed i felt so much more comfortable.
You cant be trans without gender dysphoria lmao
@@user-js7kb5fe7v non-binary is an exception even though it's under the trans umbrella
@@user-js7kb5fe7v exactly
Im screaming cause I though you were just a younge cis male What the heck
MY COMMENT GOT A LIKE FROM HIM YES
I THOUGHT THIS TOO
YEAH
what makes me mad is when a person is born one gender but then they transfer, and people call them the gender they were born as even though they transfered, and are no longer that gender
@@nathantopham2835 Well guess what, I have a trans girlfriend, and i'm a girl, so screw off
@@chenchi6131 Well that's gay
@@nathantopham2835 Horray, yes, would you like a prize? I'm actually not gay by the way, so I'll give you 1/2
@@chenchi6131 You have a trans girlfriend and you're a girl, yes?
@@nathantopham2835 I wish all people that have a same sex couple were just GAY, because, that's the only sexuality that exists
I like rewatching this video sometimes because your voice is just so calming to me
I just can't put my finger on it, but your voice is so reassuring.
I'm in a very dark place right now and trying to figure a bunch of stuff out and that helped lots. Thanks dude... That video is important
Even though I’m not trans, this video had so many relatable moments and sentiments. I’m happy to hear you’re recovering and finding your own family and happiness!