Growing Up Trans [Story Time]
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- Опубликовано: 19 ноя 2018
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For anyone about to comment "so like, are you a boy or girl???"
I've said MULTIPLE times i am **MALE**
I'm not sure whats hard to understand. I am a transgender male. meaning I was not born male.
I make that VERY clear in this video. Please stop asking. I've made it extremely clear. You can check ANY of my social medias and it says **MALE**
RadPax We will always love and support you for you!
RadPax you will always be amazing. We will support you for ever.🌈
Hello, I've just discover your channel, anda I understand life can get real y weird and things can make you change. I dos nota suport LGBT but I wont tell you thats wrong is your life, I just want todo tell you that we care of you, all of us (people). Enjoy your life and bé happy
eel man
Now listen here you little shit.
Don’t go out and attack some random person for something that’s out of their control, fuck you.
You are the disgusting one, and if you want to use religion as a weapon against other innocent people;
In the Ten Commandments god said you shall not hate, I classify as a Christian but I myself am pansexual non-binary.
I will now quote you;
“I fucking hate you goddamn transsexuals”
Not only did you say you *hate* , but you also used gods name in vain.
And if you didn’t know and are a fake Christian (which you already are because of how vile you are acting, I myself am apart of that religion and fully accept LGTBQ+, and am apart of it aswell)
You shall not use gods name in vain.
You are ignorant and negligent, it’s 2019, not 1875.
We don’t burn innocent people at the stake for having a right to exist or get married, and here’s a fun thing to know if you “want things to go back to the way they were. Gays should be shut up and are sinful bastards”
You know who else were told that they are disgusting and worthless?
African Americans and Women.
You are proving the equal of racism and sexism you transphobic cunt.
RadPax, I’m so sorry you have to deal with these people on your video.
You don’t deserve this in the slightest, you’re an amazing person.
I support you, my guy!
I have been in your shoes, I truely understand what you went through, especially with that guy, and his comments. I had an ex react the same, but demanded i stay female.
I personally think guys who are feminine are really cute--
Ikr
Sameeeeeee
Sameee
YES
Same
I’m not trans, but I am intersex-and it sucks. I identify as a male, I was assigned male at birth and was raised male. No one noticed anything wrong with me until I was about 5-6 when someway somehow my mom noticed something was a lil’ funky with me (having to do with the stuff you shouldn’t mention anything with a child). So apparently my mom went to the pediatrician panicked about what was wrong with her son. The pediatrician had an examination and found out that I had not only malformed female genitalia, but I had a fucked up uterus. Yay. So, I didn’t really care until I was 11, when I started complaining about when I would lay on my stomach to sleep (yes, I’m a stomach sleeper), my chest would hurt. I learned later that my mom freaked the fuck out, worrying that her son would be mistaken as a girl in the restroom or in public and shit would go down.
And with my fucked genes, my chest surely grew. It was the awful experience. I had no idea what was going on-and I just wanted out. I stayed up with my mom and cried about how others would call me a girl and I didn’t like it. How kids in my class started acting weird around me and I didn’t understand. (Keep in mind, I’m autistic and social norms and stereotypes grazed past my mind as a kid). Without knowing what to do, my mom took ace bandages and binded me with those. For a year, I couldn’t breathe (also keep in mind that I’m asthmatic so that was really fun). Later we discovered that the constant pressure of the bandages began to squeeze my ribs so much that the right side of my rib started forming inward. Luckily, once my mom knew that we stopped doing that immediately.
Our doctor got us hooked up with a therapist that helped with my emotions, while the doctor helped with my.. other stuff. I was able to get a binder (which didn’t really work but it compresses me enough so people wouldn’t look to my chest to see what gender I was).
I’ve gone through very spaced out and lingering periods that are literally like someone twisting a knife inside of me (try having testosterone eating at your dying ovaries whilst a minuscule hole is covered mostly with skin is spewing out blood and see how you like it.)
I hope one day I’ll be able to get top surgery and get my uterus removed. I don’t identify as trans, but I sure as hell feel like it from what I’ve been through.
When you said “I’m proud of you for being alive”-that hit me like a truck. I sat there and felt my trachea run up my throat as the face burned with my capillaries raising to my skin around my eyes, cheeks, and nose. My eyes were hot and stinging with tears rolling down my face, and lungs quivering. Thank you, so much. I honestly can’t express the feeling of joy that gave me. I’ve struggled so much with depression and suicidal thoughts-an eating disorder from trying to stop my chest from growing-and a fuck ton of other shit.
“I’m proud of you for being alive.” That’s a quote from God (whoever and wherever they are)
edit: hi, i wrote that when i was 13 and i’m happy to tell the crazy amount of people who have replied to this that i got top surgery :]
i also no longer bleed because i was on estrocide for about a year and it leveled out my hormones enough to prevent any bleeding 👍 it gets better guys
I really hope things can get better. :( I have endometriosis so though i cannot fully relate i know the pain of a uterus and it basically wanting to fight you internally. I'm hoping for top surgery and to somehow remove or nuke my uterus cause screw this thing >:I I really pray things can get better for you :(
RadPax thank you so much :) I feel a little better now
Wow. That was written beautifully
RadPax lol
I wish you the best ^^! 💫
PSA: TRANS GAY BOYS ARE NOT HETERO WOMEN!!! If you are gay and trans, that is just as valid as if you are any gender and any sexuality. Do not let someone make you think that you aren’t who you ARE.
yesssssssss~!!
YES
YESSSS
Mtf lesbians are not straight men
(trans pan girl here)
🌹Roses are red🌹
💙Pepsi cans are blue💙
🏳️🌈You are trans🏳️🌈
🤗And we support you!🤗
Aaaay! Respect! ✊
thank you for saying Pepsi cans instead of violets. flippin violets are violet
Thanks for respect :D
This made me cry
Can Pepsi actually be blue?!
Pretty much me how I found out I was Bi:
Puberty: “that man looks really cute.”
Me: “sounds reasonable.”
Puberty: “that girl to.”
Me: “Impossible. Girls don’t like other girls.”
Friend: “no it’s a thing.”
Me: * surprised pikachu *
Me: Sees a cute guy
Puberty: "Yo bro he looks yummy,,"
Me: "I'm not G-"
Boy laughs and blushes
Me: "Y'know, I'm sorry I doubted you. "
Puberty: "I told you."
Tru
For me it was
Friend: I like girls I think I’m lesbian
Me: Oh I do too but I like guys too
Friend: Oh you’re Bi
Me: But I like girls more than guys
Friend: So... You’re Bi but more gay
Me (has excepted my fate): yEs
@@gothic_ratboi I am pan but at this point I might be gay. :/
I'm still struggling with puberty and trying to find my gender. And still trying to find support
"but, that relationship ended up becoming very, _very_ toxic so.. *yeet* "
that is a proper response
In-FRICCIN -deed ( indeed )
Teacher “Stop holding hands”
Pax: “Why”
Teacher “you flirting with da boy”
Pax: “im f*cking four”
one of my favourite quotes from this video:
"I'm a child, I don't know things!"
@@ynntari2775 yeah, honestly i like being ace but people thought I was weird because I don’t get like a girlfriend and get married and whatever and I thought something was wrong with me until I discovered that ace people exist and I was one of them. That Amy story:)
Also people thought I was weird that I didn’t love or had crushes in people and thought I was gay or something, which I am not.
*My brain during puberty:* so you see that guy over there? He’s hot.
*Me:* mhm
*Brain:* **points at girl** and she’s beautiful, you have a crush on her.
*Me:* wait wh-
*Brain:* also you’re a guy.
March 22, 2013 me too but I am non binary
Story of my life
Same
Lol yeah I'm non-binary and female (yes, you can be both)
I'm also bisexual
and that was my brain XD
LOL kinda same with my brain: but mine went like: Brain: hello you are now a male and are suffering from gender dysphoria and you also like all gender ur pan :D yay Me: mhmmm this sounds promising but what does gender dysphoria do? My Brain: horrible things my friend and you will wait and see :D Me: mhmmm ok ok and? Brain: that’s all and you are extremely paranoid for some reason and are prob now crazy for talking to yourself (preferably me)
Wanna hear a funny story?
I came out by texting my whole family the meme of the guy jumping off the counter and saying “ I’m gay! “
dude yes i stan
The best way to come out
that is v beautiful
Same😂
I stan
if it helps you any. when you started talking i thought you were just a feminine guy. i legit thought "he sounds so adorable"
Same?!?!?!! I was thinking so cute!!!!! Reminds me of my bro his voice is very small and gentle yet he is very big (muscle-wise) but yaaa same just dude with a cute voice
I love the voice!
Same, I love his voice! It sounds adorable
like deku from bnha i’m sorry i’ll let myself out
@@eiroswrld9825 I love mha too! I also thought his voice was like midoriya's. So cute😶.
Cis girl: **has short hair**
People: oke she is still a girl
Trans male: **has long hair**
People: *surprised pikachu face* iSn'T hE a bOy?
Btw love your video❤
Well...one would think that a trans person would do anything for people to see them as the gender they feel comfortable with. A cis girl does not care. She has no dysphoria.
@@LittleBarracuda I don't need to prove my gender to anyone. I am trans and I like my long hair X
YES I have dysphoria as if I had to say anything
A trans person (specifically a trans male) can have long hair. However, they will do literally anything to get people to call them He/Him. So most of the time, they cut off their hair to get rid of some Dysphoria they have. Also, the girl doesn’t have Dysphoria, maybe the girl just wanted to cut off her hair because she thinks it looks cool or because she likes it like that. But if your a trans male who isn’t on T yet I personally wouldn’t recommend having long hair if you don’t want to get misgendered. However, do what makes you happy and I’ll support you!
@@LittleBarracuda gender identity doesn't equal gender expression!
Top Surgery
also known as
TEET YEET
Europe lmaoo
I’m dying
Haha. Europe says Trans Rights
Teetus deleetus
I wanna like but I don’t wanna ruin the balance of the likes on this comment
**Casually disabled**
"You are worthy of love"
*Sheds a tear*
how are you casually disabled--
@@sage5530 Well you see it when you are disabled, and you're casual with it and or you're just casually disabled
Thats me.
@@hotwheelies1424 truuuuuuuueueueueuueueueueueueueuueeuuueueueuueeuueueueu
Oof Troop
I'm chronically (ch)ill
GUYS CAN BE CUTE AND PINK GALS CAN BE ROUGH AND TOUGH!!!
YAAAAAAAAAAASSSSSSS
@@pyndr0p_
YAAAAAAADSSSSS
YAASSSSSS
YAS QUEEEEN
*Me a trans boy who tries to be pink and cute*
Puberty- Hey you know, that guy’s cute.
Me- No he’s really not.
Puberty- What about that girl?
Me- HOLY FU-
Sameeeee 😂
video about being a trans guy in the teens area:
"I was like, essentially just tired gay boi"
*damn same*
I think you are a wonderful example of what men should embrace. Men shouldn't be afraid to like pink, or be interested in "stereotypical feminine" things. Your gender(s) do not define your style, interests, or sexual orientation.
Keep on keepin' on, my dude.
Thanks. I'm a guy (and yes, I'm gay) and I absolutely am not a "manly man". I obviously get bullied for it (due to me living in the rural midwest), but I push through it! Pink is my favorite color, my room is aqua and white, I play games for the cute style, and I am very open about who I am. You are the type of person we need in this world.
That is very true!
@@calebbb_c you don't count then pink on guys is wired and weak n sense ur a guy ur obviously Gunna like fruity stuff
As a guy straight pink is for the weak that's why it's bad to wear it.. if you don't wanna be weak don't wear pink n just wear guy colors
I agree
I’m not gonna lie
For a solid minute I was staring at the bear on the side
...same......
Same
Lol same
Me to
Honestly we all were. X3
You sir are not filled with toxic masculinity, I respect you.
This is insane... I watched this December of last year, and at that time I thought I was a lesbian, and I was dating a wonderful girl and we loved each other. About 3 months ago I figured out I was a trans male. I told my at the time girlfriend and she started crying. Turns out HE is the same way. We've been dating almost a year. Thank you, when I figured stuff out I only figured it out completely because this video had given me a full understanding of what being a trans guy meant.
Oh wow that’s awesome
Puberty: Hey there, that guy is hot.
Me: Mhm
Puberty: But that girl is also hot.
Me: *What?*
You're bi
tedungi beulping or pan
mE-
Screams cause I'm a pan
*_Same except I grew up in a homophobic area so i was just like HELL NO I'M STRAIGHT-_*
Now I'm coming out to random people on RUclips for being bi (like I just did-) because I mean why not no one cares so it won't bother anyone-
You can be trans and like feminine things, your gender doesn't mean you have to have to have a certain style. Be proud. :)
THANK YOOUUUUUUUUUU
I agree
So true!!! I'm bisexual and sometimes i act like a girl and two girl friends of mine said that i am not bisexual and that i am bisexual cause since 2019 i only talk about boys and that i know more things about make up than them. And another girl friend of mine said that i am what i want to be, and that if someone tells me that i am gay i should tell them thatvi am waht i want to be!
Thanks...:)
OMIGOD YESSS! everyones like, oh if ur trans FtM, you cant like pink. If ur trans MtF u cantlike sports and u HAVE to be femin.... Nuuuu
Me: I wish I could have been born a boy like I legit hate my body
Friend: Transition is an option
Me: W A I T ʸᵒᵘ ᶜᵃⁿ ᵈᵒ ᵗʰᵃᵗˀ
Me too 😅
Literally me, like I just hated being a girl and hoped I could be a boy and when I heard it was possible I was like "wait it is?" And now I'm trans
I'm a transwoman who's built like a football player, and the parallels in your story really tugs on my heart strings. I hope you find what you are looking for and know that you are who you say you are, and nobody can make you be someone your not.
"You know, if that's your thing you can have a wife and 2.5 children"
H O L D U P
*W A I T*
2.5 children???????
@@kyraatkins1196 just cut the 3rd baby in half and feed the other half to a dog
Sour Frog ok 👌
*Wait Hold up*
My mom says I have butifull thick hair and I'm like
BEGON HAIR
ME TOO!
same! XD
LMAO SAMEEEE
Literally what happened with me😂😂
Same
5th grade me: I dont want to go through puberty.
Puberty: Hi
5th grade Me: Fine, I guess I have to deal with y-
Dysphoria: Hi
5th grade Me: Wait a minute, who are you-
Lol
Pink
Yellow
Blue
THATS ALL I DO
I am pan
That's the plan
❤️💛💙
Me to a T
Endigo_ Artz same 👌
You like frying pans?
Me too dude
💖💛💙 and I'm a trans boi :3
*stay safe and drink some water*
Can I drink bleach?
• ChurroKiid • only if you save some for me
No. No bleach for any of you.
Sit down and drink some puerile
My brain: hey that girl is cute
Me: yeah I know
My brain: so is that guy
Me: ok yeah?
My brain: holy crap every one is cute
Me: oh shiz I’m Pansexual
i feel you about the hair. Everyone constantly talks about how long and “pretty” it is and how “people would k*ll for your hair/body” and it makes you feel like it’s your only worth. I’m so proud of you for how far you’ve come man. 💛
Cis male: *wears makeup*
People: "yess, you're doing great I love it on you"👌
Trans male: *wears makeup*
People: *"CIS-PICIOUS"*
No, it shouldn't be that way. Trans guys are males, so there shouldn't be a difference :)
No they aren't
@@spaceygalaxy776 what do you mean
Bro I am a wrestler with a mullet and with a 17 inch punisher and have muscles like John Cena and I do not have any feminine factors but I call myself female so should I be allowed to fight women cause it's not more different than a hairy strong woman right?
I think guys with makeup are fabulous, trans guys are just regular guys, they can rock makeup as much as the next dude lol
@@mikeoxsmull3757 No, because you don't have a female brain, and brain scans would show your male shaped brain, with a lower density left frontal lobe, a larger hypothalamus, etc. Stop it with the bullshit. No one thinks you're funny mullet-man.
Is no one going to comment on the artwork? Its fricken' awesome!
SO TRUE THE ARTWORK IS BEAUTIFUL
The dude behind this camera is awesome and yes the artwork is amazing too
Pshyah it is!
Puberty: "ok so you're going to like this guy."
Me: What can go wrong?
Puberty: "but you're also going to like your best friend."
Me: **chokes on sweet tea** but she's a girl!
Puberty: "ahhh yes but she's bi."
Me: what’s the deal with liking people like wot?
Puberty: hi
Me: hmmmmmmmm DaMn
My best friend: i’m a lesbian
puberty: AHHHHHHHHHHH
Me: AHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
the end i’m bi.
My wife is transgender and she’s gone through many of the same things you have. She’s even been disowned by her whole family. And I can’t imagine how strong she is. How strong you and everyone else who is transgender are. I know it may not mean much, but I support you and everyone else trans and pray that one day there will come a time when you and everyone are accepted for who they are. I just want to say never give up and never give in to those who judge you because you are so much more than the sum of your parts and even if it’s hard there are so many who love and respect you for who you are.
Thank you for loving your wife. I think the example you set helps people see trans people as people. Who likely just want to live peaceful lives. ❤️
Well, I personally believe that love is what matters, as long as both parties are consenting adults. The body doesn’t matter, or how one looks. Most people wouldn’t say that someone with a physical, or mental disability don’t deserve to be loved. But gay and transgender people don’t deserve the same love and respect? It’s idiotic and people need to realize that. How you look what your body is doesn’t matter. Only the soul matters.
Lmao
Your wife
U mean ur husband lol xd
Puberty: Hey hey friend that girl is reallllllllyyy cute (Ima girl)
Me: *Chokes*
I’d be lying if I didn’t say same.
Ha same
Same lma9
Niomi myfriend *wth same-*
Yep
10:39
Me: *I SMELL A SUPERNATURAL REFERENCE THAT PROBABLY WASN’T INTENDED, but whatever.*
I don't get the reference, can you enlighten me? I absolutely love Supernatural lol
The good thing is that people have changed.
Legit I had a trans boy in my class and no one disliked him.
You: "Stay safe.. and drink some water."
Me: Okay.
*Gets up and gets myself some water*
*DrInKs ThE wAtEr*
Dem tap water
yaaasss
@@caffeinefallen i TrIpEd Up ThE sTaIrS tO gEt mY wAtEr
Me: HOW INSPIRING!!* also gets up and drinks some water*
*rolled on the other side of the bed to drink water*
Now I feel better
18:00 I legitimately started crying and hugging my laptop.
Okay yeah me too
Haven’t gotten there , *MENTALLY * *PREPARING *
I’m preparing for this I haven’t seen it yet
I’M NOT CRYING!YOU ARE!!!
*sobbing in transgender acceptance*
I am a Transgender Male. People often call me cute and just constantly telling me...female which made me uncomfortable and unwanted. So I was in the same spot, as you can see from my profile pic. I normally tell people I’m a He and they’re like “But you’re a girl!” I have to say I’m trans male over and over again which is tiring. Anyway yeah. Not alone ^^
Me a non binary person*
A random kid: YOu A BoY Or GiRl?
Me: i- well im not either
Random kid: yEaH You ArE! boy Or GiRl?
Me: listen here ya lil s h i t im an alien form area 51, if you keep talking i will steal your k n e e c a p s ."
add them to your collection
@@SirFigBar yes
I keep mine in my walls
pax: "sasuke"
auto-captions: "sauce is gay"
Yes
Lmao
saucecup and boruto's dad
Yeah I'll have some gay on my chips.
Liking feminine things doesnt invalidate gender identity at all, fem boys are the best honesty! Live happy 💕
💛💚💛💚💛💚💛💚💛💚💛💚💛
Yay!!! Uwu femboys are cute in my opinion I’m actually on uwu just recently did my nails
@@fornow753 go hate someone else let us be happy uwu
@@bubblesthekitty4423 shut up you white supremist go back to supporting the kkk your disgusting child
@@fornow753 you are being way to obvious with your trolling lolol
**Me walks in hall of school**
**cute short girl walks MINDING her own business**
Me:aww she’s adorable!!^^*heart beats faster*
Me:.....
Me:wait I-
Me during my summer camp:
Me:*sees a super cute and funny girl, befriends her and starts crushing on her*
Also me: nO hOmO rIgHt?
Mines beating fast just thinking about it 😭
Me: *feel like mans*
Me again: Ma, I figured it out, I cracked the case, I'm a mans
Ma: no >:((
"Tired, feminine, gay, trans, boi, that used to hurt himself." that is mood. ✋😔👌
trueee!
Huge mood
Lonley Artist same but im a girl
Pretty much same but I have not transitioned
Same but i'm questioning
Tired gay boi
I completely and utterly agree with that statement
I like rewatching this video sometimes because your voice is just so calming to me
I just can't put my finger on it, but your voice is so reassuring.
I just wanna say, i’m ftm and watching this made me feel better as a gnc trans guy because I wanna have long hair and stuff and a lot of people give me shit for that lol. Thanks.
"-or are just generally confused"
Or do you mean
*Gender-ly* confused
HECK
Just why.
I almost liked it, but it's at 420 likes and I can't bring myself to ruin it
@@trashnamedmax7118 we can make the comment 6.9k. *do it.*
I'm not apart of the LGBTQ+ community but I completely support anyone who is apart of it. One of my friends is trans and a lot of my other friends are lesbian, so I try to support them and the whole LGBTQ+ community as much as I can.
Ahh people like you make me feel warm inside uwu
The same xD
im really dumb,,,, i thought you said "my other brothers are lesbians"
@@fionort Well an ally isn't lgbt, but we should still respect allies! Hell, we should respect everyone. Just don't have to if they don't give you basic respect.
@@dannyowo4676 lmao
This video is the very first I saw from this person and I love it. The music, the speedpaint, and the story that was told. I can relate to some things but I can also see another side, since I'm not Trans. Good job to RadPax and I'm glad you overcame the obstacles thrown at you(plus you earned a new subscriber ^^).
Radpax I stumbled on your video and I am so glad I did, I also found it moving, this is amazing and I happy you found people to help you thought this time in your life, and you seem so great and I hope you get better and stay well.
I hated it when people said "yOuR a wOmaN nOw". It annoys me alot
Not trans but I am not straight, when I complained to my grandma about the menstrual cycle she said *and I quote* "You have the ability to give life, it's a gift from god." I have never been more furious at her in my life. My first thought was literally "I'm fucking gay, I don't NEED a period."
and the idea of having kids disgusts me anyways so thats another thing
@@alexblake2122 same with me, I dont like the idea of children either
Alex Blake it’s not like you can change it lol you’re complaining that you’re having a period, and saying that you don’t need kids but many people do you rely on straight couples to have kids that fit your sexuality soo.
It's scary that that reminds me of "yOuR a WiZaRd NoW"
Pink and cute things are just that, cute, that doesnt mean feminine and trans guys and other non feminine peeps have ever right to like those things
I'm glad I found this channel, because this story is so relatable to me and I'm glad I'm not the only one who is a trans guy and likes cute stuff.
I always felt paranoid about it, like how I feel like a guy but I still like cute stuff. But by meeting other people with the same interests doesn't make me feel weird about it anymore, since a lot of people feels the same way so it's totally okay. :)
Just because you like cute stuff doesn't mean you and to be trans
Cute things are persived as feminine. That is how it is
That isn't true
I feel like his persona is a big heck you to gender roles
You have been such an inspiration to me. I don't really have an accepting family so trying to come out as gender fluid and bi has been really hard for me. It's even been hard to accept myself because all my life I've been told that I am only a female and that I am straight and that anything else that I think is wrong and that if I am anything else no one will love me and I'll be more of an outcast than I already am for being in the marching band. Hearing you talk about your experiences and just knowing that there is someone who kind of understands and reading the comments and seeing how many other people also relate and just seeing that I'm really not alone in my situation helped a lot. This got kind of long but I just really wanted to say thank you. I love your art and you have been an inspiration that has helped me want to draw more and now make me want to not give up and to learn to accept myself. Thank you. Keep being the awesome guy you are.
Rude Dude: I really like you
Me sorry imma lesbian
Mean Girl:I’m only mean cuz I like you
Me: I’m straight
Nice cute girl: i like you
Me: I’ll give you an answer later
Nice cute boy: I like you
Me: hold that thought
And then I flew myself right into the sun
Honestly I think your voice is actually pretty gender neutral
I'm about to be honest here (like it or not, but think before hating or loving)
I honestly immediatly thought she/he was a girl because of her voice ... It sounds more girly than boy...y
Although your vid kinda helped me understand trans-people (but I can't really understand why you want to change your gender)
Plus I don't really understand why some people (example, you said you thought you were lesbian ... but you see yourself as (are ?) a boy ... it confuses me)
Laurent Marchiani it seems like they use he/him. I’d recommend doing more research into this subject but I’ll give you some base level information:
Trans people are born with gender dysphoria- something that makes them dysphoric about their body and/or social treatment (like pronouns) It’s not really a choice to transition since gender dysphoria is usually quite strong and can lead to depression ect which makes transitioning (the current treatment for gender dysphoria) a need. There’s research that shows this is due to a difference in brains but we cannot be sure yet. About his voice it’s due to not taking hormone treatment (in this case testosterone) due to health problems. For your last comment I’m assuming he’s still not sure of his sexuality or bisexual (attracted to both genders) and the term lesbian means women attracted to women which doesn’t seem like it describes him.
they sound like a girl
@@dannyslemonade976 thank you for this comment, will do some research in my free time !
Agreed
As a mom of a child who is questioning their gender. I want to say thank you for sharing your story. An wish you many blessing and happiness.
How's your kid doing?
You are a great mother 💕
please always let your kid exprole themselves but make sure everything they do is safe and stuff like that
Thank you for this. This made me feel so much better. I’m trans male, and I’ve recently hit puberty and have been dealing with serious gender dysphoria. I have the constantly hide binders from my family, and every time someone says. “Hey, your such a pretty
*girl!*” feels like a stab in the gut.
I relate to this story so much and I'm so sorry so many people treated you badly. This video is about a year old now so it's definitely old but I just now found it. It's so comforting hearing the stories of other transgender people because it reminds me that I can do this. Despite still being very closeted and terrified of coming out to anyone else as a male this video has really helped me out. Thank you for sharing your story! I've dealt with a horrible ex before too who didn't accept me coming out, friend who saw my identity as a joke and outed me to the woodwinds in my marching band without my permission-
A lot happened but I'm still here.
The message at the end of the video nearly made me cry because it was so sweet. I'm stuck with my family for quite a few more years but I hope anyone else dealing with hardships like these that it will get better and I'm know rooting for you.
"I basically wanted to look really unappetizing to everybody" oH wOW that broke my heart but thank you for saying that because I finally found a sentence that fully explains my middle+high school experience (I'm also trans)
sometimes just.. looking "ugly" makes you feel better????? idk why
@@RadPaxOfficial yup yup yup, when I was younger I didn't know a single thing about being trans but I knew I didn't like being feminine and always looked "ugly" by basically hiding my figure with pants+sweaters that were too big for me because I knew it I wouldn't draw to much attention in school (but that backfired since it caused a lot of arguments at home)... I'm 21 now and I still take a baggy sweater with me regardless of weather because I can't stand the thought of people having to look at my chest ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
ME EVERYDAY!Tho.
So am I
Me too
“Tired gay boy”
*THIS IS LITERALLY ME I SWEAR*
yay, I got a like from the Holy King,...... or, Holy Queen? jk
I’m a tired TRANS gay boy...
@@animelover5099 ok but your username and the trans gay boy fit me perfectly.
Yessssssssssss
WhyAmIHere 6107 let’s not bring holy into this bruh
I’m so, so proud of you for being who you are. I’m so sorry that you had to go through of all of that. If it makes you feel better, I actually couldn’t stop thinking how much of a precious male you are. You’re just so amazing, and I’m glad that you’re in a better place now. This video hit me hard, especially towards the end. That message brought me to tears, and it has helped me realized that I am worthy of love. Lately I’ve been so downcast due to various things. I don’t think that I’m trans, but at one point I was questioning for months and got quite depressed. Thank you for helping me. It means so much. I’m happy to say that I am a new subscriber as of a few seconds ago.
I think I have gender dysphoria, I don't know how to tell my mum...
This is what I’d do
If you ever get a moment to talk to her during a conversation, just give her a small hint about how you feel. For example, “I don’t think that certain styles of clothes should be labeled for certain genders only” or something like that. Those small hints might be able to let your mom know about how you feel. Good luck my friend!
as another trans guy, i love this video so much
the end of the video made me tear up, especially bc i have a really unaccepting dad
thank you so much
you are such an amazing person and i love you
Sammy w ur profile pic looks like Jayfeather
I have one too. Agh im not alone for once #')
I can say the same! But my parents are a lot more accepting, but I am scared of comming out as a Demigirl. My friendos know but this video is so relatable ;-;
y'all gay wtf
I went through the lesbian phase before I realized I liked boys too. I'm trying to base my look off of what Jack Stauber sounds like. If that makes sense. I just think it's unique.
And I too am smol.
Ah a Jack Stauber fan I see you’re a person of culture.
yea, old comment ik. but still, yeah i can relate to this, i also thought i was a lesbian until like 4 months ago. now I've come to the realization that I'm a trans guy!
i thought i was a few years ago and i realized very recently that i liked guys as well lmao
I swear the first time I saw this channel I was like
"This is a person!" Didn't thought of any gender at all until you said he so now I am like
"This us a guy no questions asked"
I legit can’t thank you enough for this video- I’m in the process of going through some similar things as you explained in the video, and it really helped to know that there are amazing people out there and that I’m not alone. aHh just, thank you.
My current Mate came out to me that they are trans. And My love for them didnt change. I love them for who they are not what they are. And I dont want to just push them away because of it, If that is who they believe they are who am I to judge? They are the exact same person I love.
Hate solves nothing.
I wish i had a friend like you lol
You are an amazing person and I hope you get ALL the love in the worl because you are WORTHY
Out that on whisper not in the comment
❤💛💚💙💜
THANK YOU!
It's not "what we believe we are", it's "what we are". Period.
You kind of sound like a more masculine version of Pidge from Voltron!
YES OMG
that's what I was thinking!
Yoooo just noticed! Thanks
rainyboi YES!! *VIRTUAL-HIGH-FIVE* Fandom squad
Yessss
I'm super late to this video but whatever.
The part where you said "I'm proud of you" I teared up. For whatever reason just hearing that someone cares just hit me like a bus. I think I just needed to hear that. Thank you.
I actually heavily relate to this story (I'm not trans, gender fluid) but yeah with the eating disorders and harming your self but I really needed that at the end when you said " I love you and I'm so proud of you for being alive" thank you 😭😭😂😂
tbh i dont care about how your character is "pink" and "cutesy" because i have a female oc who looks masculine with very masculine features and likes.
like...
WHO TF CARES??
Art _ mation ikr like fuhk gender roles
@@enviisyk yersh
Same, none of that really matters, whats really important is that your just being yourself, you don't need to fall perfectly into one of the 2 slots. Personally I'm a trans girl (Only recently self accepting tho) and I'm not a huge fan of makeup, I'm a gaming nerd and as for style, I hope to develop a mixture of cute things but I'm still okay with just a normal old T shirt and pants, and honestly I'm pretty okay with my current voice, I used to think that if I'm going to be trans I NEED to make everything pink, and like only wear cute clothes and always wear makeup and I even thought I might need to give up my desired career of a youtube gamer, but I dont need to do that, I can just be me, and thats whats really important.
(Sorry I kinda went on a bit of a rant there, sometimes a train of thought triggers and I just need to say it all)
TLDR Just be yourself.
Pink is actually a pretty masculine colour if you think about it.
@@DrPsychotic hello fellow trans! and i agree with you. i still like wearing baggy clothes that are more the feminine style. as for my voice, it's the same thing. im pretty comfortable with my voice as far as how it sounds when i talk since its already pretty deep. you dont have to give up everything you love to be fixed into a gender role, cuz tbh its already pretty wrecked by now :/
Awh, the drawing is so cute!
TheDragonRiolu ikr! His sona is adorable
I’m happy that you are doing better now~ also, thanks for the message at the end, I really needed that~
i have always felt uncomfortable with my body, no matter how many time i tell my mother she buys me a dress or gets me a nail appointment. i had never felt so sad with all my traumatic times, but one time when i went to tell my mother she had went through my phone and called me a lesbian. she said that since i was missing my trans sister so i was a lesbian. but even then she had said that it was all in my head and itll go away. As if it was a sickness...i have never talked about it since but your story is amazing and helps. i hope you and whoever is reading this is accepted and feels worthy of love, have a great 2024
"If you dont like lgbt people...just...just go...this isnt for u,go get some water" lmao same
ARMY
Jungkook's girlfriend Army shut up
@@fuzzbone hey daniel, i saw you in a jojo video before
I marched in the pride parade yesterday, and there were protesters. They disgusted me. Luckily there were only like eight out of the thousands of people that were there so...
ArtisticGaming I was gonna say that!
I tried listening to this while I worked on some projects, and I bawled my eyes out when you said you were proud of everybody. I don't know why, it just hit me right in the feels.
I needed to be told that today a lot more than I thought I did.
Thank you.
Me the second time I watched this video: *Insert This is Home by Cavetown*
If this offends anyone I'm sorry I just had to say it
P.S Also I'm trying to imagine you as someone I would be friends with, I imagine you as a very supportive friend and someone who would be very cute and very nice just so you know if I ever knew you in real life I would 100% be your friend but I probably would never talk to you before we're friends because I can't talk to anyone but I would definetly be your friend, also never give up and ignore whatever people say about you, you are being yourself and no one can stop that.
I'm not crying, you are :" D
I am happy to hear everything is getting better for you, hon.
I hope everything keeps going well for you in the future! ^^
Btw
It's super valid to like "girly" stuff
You have the right to like anything and whatever you want, even if it's pink stuff :3
Thanks for the beautiful message.
Me: *chilling in the hallway at school with one of my guy friends who I came out to already*
Me thinking: *"Oh,that girl's kinda cute"*
My friend:Hey,bro, that girl's kinda cute!
Me: *spits out all my water*
Time to stab him 37 times in the chest and remind him you're legally a yandere. UwU
(Jk lol)
I dont get the joke(no hate)
But can someone explain it to me
I'm trans ftm/ non binary and Im in a really bad place rn. I can really relate to this video, almost everything you said I can experience with. this helped me knowing there are others like me
Just be the gender you were born as and stop being confused and stop confusing other people
@@oscarfire3867 I guess I can't change peoples opinions. But this is just fact. Trans people have a different brain from what their sexe is. For example, for an FtM person, their brain functions as one as a male's but they are biologically female.
Their brain says that they're a guy but their body is female, and that's disphoria.
If you're not trans, and say your the opposite gender, it doesn't feel right doesn't it?
But for a trans person it feels right that they're a different gender because of disphoria.
I'm sorry if it's hard to understand, I'm not great at explaining.
@@Ciapulek0165 ok, but what confuses me is why, why do you want to be something your not
@@Ciapulek0165 oh is that how that works?
@@oscarfire3867 pretty much
Puberty: Hey...
Me: What?
Puberty: Gender Dysphoria
Me: AAA-
This is so comforting to watch. My story is somewhat similar and hearing that I'm not alone and my process of discovering myself is/was normal makes me so happy. Thank you for making this video. :)
_Hi, pansexual goober here. I was listening to the video while drawing and I was just enjoying your story so much and happily listening and then... when you said how proud you are of everyone, I started crying?? I just felt this spike of warmth because I kind of realized that "Hey, I actually am doing a pretty good job of not jumping off the end or letting the things around me eat me whole." Like, my life isn't absolutely terrible, but there's always the things that happen the push a little too hard. Like when the people who promised me unconditional love when I was born slowly but surely get funny ways of showing it. It's been a while since someone's sounded so legitimately proud of me? Like I said, not absolutely terrible, but I more or less can't wait to get out of here._
_I just wanna say thanks, dude.
amy small Thank you, for writing this comment, a thank you from a fellow Pansexual.
Same here, thanks for writing such a great and relatable comment! Also pansexual goober is me in a nutshell 💗💛💙
Thanks for this comment! -from another fellow pansexual 💖💙💛
hello fellow pans :3
So many pans welcome to the kitchen
im pan too 💖💛💙
When someone calls me a boy I feel like I’ve been complemented or someone is like I got you bro it’s just really happy feeling and you don’t know why until you know why
!!
I can feel this in my soul
Damien Signes EXACTLY
Don’t worry. I got chu :)
Your username is literally me. (I love David so much. Seriously. I. Love. Him.)
Honestly, I have been trying to subtly act more how I want to act instead of being like "I need to look perfect and act feminine and have feminine interests and flaunt my femininity to make my family look good" and it has made me feel so much better about myself. I just feel so much more comfortable wearing a binder that I made (I make clothes for fun) and wearing jeans and a sweater and acting more masculine- before I just kinda swept feeling uncomfortable about myself under the rug and I had so many doubts if I even wanted to be a man because 'who tf would date a trans gay guy' and 'I have no chance of happiness in the love specter because no guy would want to date me' and listening to this just gave me so much more hope for myself and I think even if no one accepts me I want to be myself for myself because I will find people that love me for me. Thanks for helping me realize this
Bro just said "screw this" and made his own binder
This is the video that made me come out to myself. I am beginning to transition into a feminine male, but my parents are transphobic. I have my sister at least and countless people on the internet support me, and that’s what keeps me moving.
This comment is literally the entire past year of my life wth
I cant be a tired gay boy just a regular one because of all the caffeine i consume
Seriously call an ambulance I have a problem
But dont actually
Mabye do it
Me right now
Eat chocolate covered coffee beans instead
@@thepostman7356 lol
420 what'cha smokin'?
Same tbh monster energy is my bloodstream
Puberty hitting me in fifth grade: So that guy right theres really cute
Me: Uh huh.
Puberty: Nah JK I know you're staring at that girl
Me, a female: *What?*
Lol same
Stolen.
@@vanessaparnell466 no its not. I literally came up with this. Believe what you want ma'am.
*same*
Yaaaas
i feel so bad for you.. you've been through so much! And i think my life sucks, and my life is sooooo bad and terrible, but when i watched this, i was so amazed at what can happen. This is great thanks for talking, you should have more subs and likes❤️❤️
UGH the hair thing is a huge source of my dysphoria. Once I got it straightened due to not having enough time for caring for my curls. It looked longer (down to my shoulders) and I just couldn't look at the mirror. I looked so _girly_ and everyone was complementing it which only made it worse.
The "looking ugly" thing as well, huge mood. I'm still somewhat in that mindset, in that any attention I get for looking womanly just irks me immensely.
Bro, I want to join in on spreading that hope that we'll be ok. Being ourselves is always hard, and all that traumatic stuff is really difficult to let go of (heck, I'm still trying!), but there's always hope, and there's always someone out there to love and support us. I saw this vid in my recommendations and just. All of it. Strongly agreed. Have a good day, dude.
One of my best friends is lesbian and more than half of my friends are gay or bisexual and they are the best people I know and they mean the world to me they help me with my mental health issues and I help them with depression LGBTQ people reading this you are loved by someone so don't feel lonely
Spoderman is back bitch I cryed reading that comment. I'm only 14 I'm Bi (possibly pan) I have Depression and Anxiety and have alot of LGBTQ+ friends and some non LGBTQ+ friends.
Im lesbian
Spoderman is back bitch same I love them ❤️
@@DarkWolf-qo7qo to be honest, i dont really understand what being pansexual means
I know like most of my friends are gay, lesbian, bie, and I'm trans and they are the most important people in my life
Thank you for telling us your gender, I was confused and didnt wanna get it wrong.
Yes! I was confused on what to call you and what your pronouns are, but i was too embarrased to ask!
Actually same, before this video I didn't know if artist is he or she cuz this voice can belong to both genders.
Thank you so much for sharing this, this actually helped me a lot, I know it must have been hard to make this but just thank you so so so much
I feel the exact same about lots of things you've said about hair, and clothes, and puberty and it all made me feel so great inside so, thank you for making this and existing.