How To Walk Away From Family, Without Feeling Bad
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You have nailed it Kevin! Walk away from your family not because they are toxic or non-toxic but because you want to answer the God’s calling and have a different life, a life that is yours! Thank you for this great message.
There can be forgiveness without reconciliation. Never feel guilty for that.
Hahaha well, either way it's reconciled. You don't have to be back on friendly terms to reconcile! The 3rd definition is:
make (one account) consistent with another, especially by allowing for transactions begun but not yet completed.
Every jackass you forgive and slam the door on HAS BEEN RRECONCILED!! Lolol 👍
Thank you
At all
I have ZERO problem putting a period there and moving on. Or as I like to say, Exiled for the good of the Realm. I have a limited time on this earth, and I refuse to let anyone steal happiness from it.
I call them "DNA relations" 'cos they ain't family. When I was young I felt a little guilt at first, but the older I get and more I learn about psychology, I realize walking away was truly the right thing to do. When looking at them objectively as "people I know" they appear as people I wouldn't even want as co-workers, neighbors, or friends. So why feel any guilt about going no contact?
Amen
WOW, thinking of my family in this way just brought me SO MUCH clarity!!! I really needed something to keep me from feeling so guilty for wanting to move away, this has helped more than you know! Thank you 🙏🏻, I’m so thankful for my RUclips community & these videos, it’s gotten me through so many days that I don’t know I could get through on my own ❤️
@@Heather_ONeal I am so glad this helped you, Heather. It is a bitter pill to swallow, it takes some time to get over those difficult feelings. But once that pill is down you will feel much freer and more independent. I still get to ruminating about them but it really helps to "step away" and look at them from a distance and imagine them as just people I know. If a stranger came up to you, pointed at one of your relations and asked, "what do you know about that person?" that seems to help to sort out your feelings and get that emotional distance you need.
That is a great term to use for people who abuse kinship. Family are those who recognise kinship.
I TOTALLY agree. I call them blood relatives, not family. I like they....DNA relations.
I'm turning 44 tomorrow and have finally made the decision to depart from my family. It's a tough decision, but I've never felt accepted or understood by them.
You are right it is called conditioning and manipulation. I used to be loyal to a fault until the Lord taught me healthy boundaries. I had to leave in order to be healthy and be all God created me to be.
I'm learning that at a later age, but at least I'm learning.
AMEN!
I walked away 7 yrs and then a death of one of them cause me to go back and was met with worse negatives than before so here I go again. At least the second time around is easier. I’m way more peaceful and the lord has helped me through it all. Thank you Jesus.
If you stay with your family, you won't get anymore out of your life. Than what they have. I don't want to live, limited. I want something different, out of life.
I’m not walking away bc they’re toxic and I hate them. I’m walking bc they’re toxic and I love them. I’ve been taking their abuse, bc I love them, and they know this. They never apologize, they only deny. In order for me to be with them, it’s an unspoken agreement that they continue to do it and I continue to take it.
Well said! And understood❤
This is so spot on.
I'm nt sure if you read comments but I want you to know this is what I badly needed to give me courage to finally walk away from my dysfunctional, toxic, manipulative, victim blaming, family.
I do read my comments and I am glad this video found you Elbereth
Do it..find your true self & love yourself...God will send you the right ones to hold you up & live your purpose. You deserve love & respect❤
Big bro my 31 and never left the house. My parents were toxic and it is so sick to know that they literally did everything in their power to make sure I dont make it in life. But God is Good! And I wont feel guilty because I need to become the best version of myself. I am excited to leave and start my new life. I dont want my children to go through what I been through.
Loving them has never turned them into decent human beings. Hating me has tried to destroy all that GOD has created me to be. I want all that CHRIST has promised.☺️
Matthew 10:37 He that loveth father or mother more than me (Jesus) is not worthy of me: and he that loveth son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me.
Same as what Abraham had to do. I have definitely felt this calling on my life.
I walked away to be obedient to the Holy Spirit. After 7 years as a born again Christian serving and getting to know God I was told by the Lord to leave the only life I had known. Just like Abraham I was told to go to a place that the Lord would show me. I did not comprehend leaving. I was witnessing and waiting for my family to come to faith. And questioning why my prayers weren't being answered and the doors weren't opening in my hometown. My family was still rejecting the gospel and me. My family was and still is extremely toxic. I knew that if I stayed that would be my life and I wasn't settling for less than God's plan for my life. So I took the leap of faith. It has been a long hard road, but I do not regret it. I do know God and His true nature than most because I have had to press in to know Him and trust Him every step of the way
Sound like me. I prayed alot about it and God confirmed I could go. I even remember hearing a word from God in the beginning of my journey, when I felt guilty and was tempted to go back, that I should remember why I left.
Amen 🙏
@@Godlywoman88
That's a great reminder from our loving heavenly Father! I am glad for your sake that you listened. God bless you my sister!
This message is so on time and on point! My toxic narcissistic aunt is constantly stirring up mess and she’s telling people I changed my name because I’m ashamed of who I am, I’m guilty for harboring hatred towards the family, and my mom has turned me against the family! I’ve also hated being around my toxic narcissistic aunt while growing up. Changed my name, changed my life, changed my mind set and relocated to a new city. New life in a new city new everything. No regrets!!!
Good for you and congrats for being so strong. I wish I was that strong when I was younger to do that.
I would love to relocate to another environment, but I can't afford to. It hurt emotionally to be in the environment where my feelings were destroyed. I'm 60 yrs young, and I've seen my oppressors get sick, die, and suffer. I don't like it but don't hate it either. I'm not giving up on relocating to a pleasant surrounding one day.
@@patriciaking7892 keep going! Dreams never expire
How do you go about changing your name especially when you are married and have a child? The child's birth certificate has the parents' name and she was born in my native country we have since left.
I had posted a couple of years ago how I had moved far away from my toxic family but my nephew took his own life in 2020 😔 so I moved back “thinking” his death would propel some type of reconciliation between us all. It all backfired. My sister, whom is the most toxic and violent person I’ve ever known, is even worse now. She uses her son’s death for sympathy and everyone walks on eggshells more than ever. My brother and his GF is about to have his first baby and I would love to be here to build a bond with my new niece since I haven’t been able to with my sisters children through the years because of her nonsense BUT I’m contemplating moving away again. I have gotten extremely sick with stress by moving back here and cannot live like this. I’ll be 50 next month and don’t want to spend the rest of my life where I am not appreciated nor wanted. This video confirmed to me once again why I need to stay away. Thank you.
Y'know... I got away too. And I have 2 nephews that I barely know at ALL from my narc brother. It isn't NEARLY as sad as someone might think.
My sister's kids... Also 3000 miles away - we marco polo all the time. They're little. I've physically met 2 of 3. But all 3 of em know me. Even Johnny who has never been hugged by me.
Sadly, I married an image of my brother and have to get away from the same spirit again. Lol
Go. It's quite fine. I'll be 50 in November. And while we yammer about how life is too short to be miserable, I disagree. We can handle LARGE amounts of bullshit for short amounts of time. And our life may be a vapor to God, but down here where time is slower, life is not that short. It's too long to be miserable. You have the return of Yeshua to focus on and look forward too. Navigating crazy is all about being nimble and able to become invisible to the crazies. Out of sight means no shots. You, the target, are not in line of sight to even shoot AT.
Go. If you need permission, I and the rest of us give it to you. 💙
Or you could stick around your family a bit like I did and then wait for your crazy family to call the cops on you when you try to visit your sick, dying mother one last time. If I don't get the message of what my family is after they all condone calling the cops on me for trying to visit, then I will never get the message and will always be kicked by my family. I plan to get the police report and keep it so if I ever get the feeling, well they aren't all bad. Maybe I should just let the anger go and try again with them, I can look at the police report and go oh yeah, they did that. They called the police on me.
@@dorothysnyder7014
I have a reminder of crazy too with my husband. Every time there's a trauma bond hit of hopium I have a note to self I look at. Just says "remember the forwarded package". Instant fish slap (and laughter because it was effing absurd and outright cartoonishly nuts). This IS who he IS. Lol
@@brooke5395 Thank you for sharing your story with us Sister 🙏🏽 I am so sorry that you’ve had to endure so much as well and yes I totally agree, life is way too long to live miserably. We should be LIVING life not just simply existing. That’s not life. I’m an Empath and feel everything. It’s heartbreaking to me that I’ve missed out on so much of my nieces and nephews lives and even with the one who passed away, the last time I saw him was when he was 12 at my grandmother’s funeral. To see him as a grown 17 year old in a casket was mind blowing. He was so beautiful and amazing and I wasn’t here to relish in his life and be a shining light in his darkness because of my sister 😣. He desperately wanted to escape his reality that he found a way to get high in the worst way. Asphyxiation. They found him hanging from his bunk bed. It’s been a nightmare. The stress got to the point where I ended up with GERD and couldn’t swallow for weeks. I had throat tightness constantly, like a basketball was stuck in my throat. Finally had to get on meds for anxiety, depression and GERD. Doing way better but am ready to move far away again. Thank you for your encouragement. I appreciate this community tremendously 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@Anna Thank you for your encouragement 🙏🏽💝
When you tell someone your problems or dreams, see how they react. Some people are not for you. I wasted so much time having to watch my back, in a toxic environment. Today I learned who took me off their newsfeed on Facebook. It says a lot about some of my Facebook buddies. I snoozed my friends for 30 days, instead of losing my composer. Time I get my life in order, not everyone's going to like me. Some people are jealous. Some people are stuck in my past. Some people just don't understand where I come from. Some people love to assassinate my character and look down at me. I am a survivor. Instead of feeling sorry for myself, time I walked away and better myself. You have to look out for number , no one else will. You have to stay strong. There are people that are happy to see you fail. Watch your back move on. Choose wisely how you fight your battles.
"Some people are stuck in my past..." I totally relate with that one!
It's not you. It's me. I'm not stepping back from you. I'm stepping into my purpose.
It got so incredibly wicked I had to go no contact
I might add as an unchurched youth raised in an abusive, sex, drugs and alcohol environment I hated the lifestyle and saw it as evil. I made a decision early on that I was going to be different. That I would not live like that. It did not seem to disturb my siblings as much as me. Others noticed I was different than my family and would ask me why? I didn't know it at the time. But looking back after my born again experience, I realized I was chosen by God at an early age. My siblings continue to follow in our parents footsteps. I was the only one to get out by the grace of God
Praise GOD, Nicole. Same here 🤗
We can and need to forgive them, but without true repentance there cannot be relationship. One person cannot make a relationship work. It requires full participation on both sides.
I was 23 when I walked away from my family. I moved to Texas from California and I wanted something different. It was amazing for 10 yrs I lived an amazing life. When I did go back home I was different I thought differently but I found that everyone I left was still the same, I was confused. Why would I be a changed person, I grew up I felt different about life, but no one in my family had changed or grew like I had. IDK 😐
It's interesting how when you leave your family and familiar places you change without fully realizing it. It isn't until you see them again you realize that you have changed, and they have not. Everything and everyone is stagnant. I have now ex-friends who had the outward appearance of independence (marriage, homes, careers, etc), yet they remained strangely bound to their families. They are now in their 60's, living in the same city they both grew up in, living in tinier and tinier apartments, and suffering from a variety of ailments that refuse to go away in spite of endless acupuncture treatments, medication, herbs, on and on.
It's their choice to change or not
I have had a very similar experience. This week after 18 years of turmoil I have decided it’s time for me to drop most of my DNA relations. These people are leveraging their status as family to force my mind to accept their way of thinking. Which is easy if I wanted too, I would just watch CNN then know everything they think today. That’s not a real relationship. I appreciate long thought, and pondering what is logical. They calculate morality as how much you possess
There is so much I can say and want to say. But it’s easier just to walk away. They will never accept me until I sound like them
I have successfully cut off all narcissistic family members... took me a while but l don't feel bad now at all. I only have me now to worry about...its freeing not lonely❤
Lech Lecha לָךְ-לְךָ 🙌🙏 "Go forth from your land, your birthplace, your father's house, to the land that I will show you."
Thank you, all I've ever wanted is a different life, a life free from constant hurting. I'm doing this for me.
My father drank and gambled, he left my brother and I with a psychopath.I didn't know what a narcissist was then. I knew my mother was evil. GOD has called me to a very hard and lonely life. I never fit in anywhere. JESUS saved me!!!! One day he will wipe away every tear from our eyes😔
Me too. I left my entire family and am now living a very, hard and lonely life. Im often misunderstood by most Christians who don't understand my plight.
I can definitely relate about the lonely life and never fitting in. I had to walk away from my toxic narcissistic family and some friends that were jealous and envious. I feel God is calling me to a bigger purpose and a better life. I was slowly starting to distance myself from them anyway so completely going no contact and blocking them was inevitable. I just couldn’t tolerate the fake and phony acting around me anymore. It’s no longer in line with who I am becoming. God awakened me to see my so called “family” and “friends” for who they are and not who I wanted them to be. I’ve had feelings of guilt because of years of manipulation and gaslighting but I’m learning that no it’s okay to choose myself, my happiness and listen to God’s instructions.
I feel like God put this calling on me too. I'm alone except for when I'm out or at work. I've been single for all my adulthood too. I've questioned God why am I here quite a few times. Seeing this post helps me feel comforted by the fact that others are experiencing this as well.
@@REXS10 Yes, the misunderstanding is hard b/c people guilt trip you for walking away.
@@REXS10don't try to be understood. You will be a charity case. Attracting positive narcissists who use you to flex on and look good.. Stay quiet and to yourself and stay busy.
The timing of this one could not have been more on-target! God's perfect timing! ❤🙏
Wish I would've have looked more into this a few years ago when I left b/c I felt so guilty. I felt guilty if I didn't answer my mom's incessant calls (some from different numbers) or my sister's messages. The guilt went away though.
Omg I NEEDED this today!!!! Thank you 🙏
It's weird because no one in my family ever calls me. My parents are cool but they won't listen to me. I always help my parents, with money, with time anything they ask. I literally asked for one favor, I had a very important online appointment with doctor I said hey can y'all please come so I can use your phone for back up? Get a call last night completely changing plans, missed appointment!
I'm like WOW bruh like y'all knew how important this was I expressed this last week. Not mad just frustrated. It's like I'm invisible to my family. I hate to be clingy so I'm just done with it all. Not growing here or thriving.
Thanks for directing my mental from the negatives of my family to the positives for myself. Thanks for sharing on RUclips. In order for me to make a difference, it must be with a positive attitude. I am 65 years, ten months and 19 days as of this comment.
Never too late to live an authentic true life filled with peace love & the right people!
This was the most powerful bit of revelation I've heard in awhile.. thank you!!! I'm free!!
Peace, Love and God Bless 🕊️💗
I’m struggling hardcore with letting go and walking away
Wow- we've been discussing Abram/Abraham in Sunday School this month!
If God removes them definitely trust God..every member of my family just about was removed..
Wow, beautiful message. I’m glad God called you and is using everything that tried to pull you down rather He is causing you to rise up. If we humble ourselves, learn the lessons which we do not want to repeat, we can lead others out of captivity as well.
Blessings!
Loved this! That is exactly what I needed to hear right now! 🙌🏼🙏🏼
Holy cow. Just now dealing with this. After confronting the person and the spouse I get attacked and accused of unadulterated hatred. Oh ok right. Just say no! Stop the bullying!
What you said towards the end about being on a long road of nothingness made me feel validated. I've been separated from my old life for a few years and while I accomplished a couple goals, it has been a long and hard journey of trying to survive, going from job to job, apartment to apartment, waiting on promises, etc. It's hard , especially when you feel you have not much of anyone you can trust to lean on and God doesn't seem to be reachable often too.
I’m here.
Can seem lonely awhile ..But..think of the peace..the peace that God gives & will give the more you walk in your faith & your true path..
@@flemutter7211 Thank you
This was most helpful. I've just stepped back from a toxic parent who consistently displaces me (despite my being the biological daughter) for a large group of people who are not biological relatives. I finally realized that this elder is just a "DNA relative," but NOT a person who wants, sees, or truly loves me as family. I've stepped way back for my body/mind/spirit health & I'm starting to feel much better. I also see that if this relative has been so heavily invested in not treating me like actual family, then this DNA relative will be far happier with her "crew" falling at her feet & me scarcely seen, if at all. So in truth, my srepping away is a win-win.
This is me right now walking away to have peace..I guess I have been making about but they need me around but this mind frame has only brought me stress sticking around for them while a better non toxic life with The Most High awaits me.thanks
Kevin!! Let there be light! Love the set change, even if it is temporary. 👏👏
This just happened to me my family turned against me they wouldn't help over the caregiver for my dying father I asked my brother and sister to help but instead all I got was anger and blame and narcissism the doctored up fake text messages got me kicked out of the house my stuff is still there and I can't go back and now I'm four states away in Tucson Arizona...
I'll probably never see my mom and dad again and I'm all right with it I know that my brother and sister are selfish narcissistic family and I'm trying to deal with being rejected and not loved and appreciated but I know I have a better future the farther I am away from them where they can engage me they can't hurt me and I deserve happiness
Stagnation in life affects health and immunity too. I have now ex-friends who had the outward appearance of independence (marriage, homes, careers, etc), yet they remained strangely bound to their families. They are now in their 60's, parents and a few siblings gone, and living in the same city they both grew up in, living in tinier and tinier apartments, and suffering from a variety of ailments that refuse to go away in spite of endless acupuncture treatments, medication, herbs, on and on. The husband has the "big" job, the wife does not, so he funds everything, including the big vacations to this place and that, yet they both have serious health problems. Weird accidents befall them too. The penalty is severe when you don't heed the word to move on.
I've had no problems since you did this, none whatsoever, if you can help me you can help anybody
Thanks Kevin🙏🏻🌺"By faith Abraham obeyed when he was called to go out to a place that he was to receive as an inheritance. And he went out, not knowing where he was going. Hebrews 11:8" / "Then Lut (Lot) believed him; and he (Ibrahim) (Abraham) said, "Surely I am migrating to my Lord; surely He, Ever He, is The Ever-Mighty, The Ever-Wise." Holy Quoran, Al'Ankabut-Verse 26"
Nailed it. I did this .
Never went back to none of my ex/exes/ex friends.
This was the only one I’ve seen in a positive view from moving when God is calling us to move it’s easy to look at the negative instead of saying God has better for you! I truly appreciate this because it’s ok to want different rather they are toxic or not you just want different! God bless you thankful Jesus led me to this video it truly blessed me that’s sir!
They are trying to make me homeless & giving me death threats. Do you think I should take the threats seriously or are they just paranoid that I want to harm them and so making them to try & protect themselves? They could just want me to live far from them like I used to. I feel like when I am around I am the star of the show and they can only bear that knowledge for so long without getting upset about it. So even though I am the star of the family and they know it, they would rather I shone my light somewhere else, somewhere I don't make them pale in comparison to me.
yea they also abused me when i was 4 or so and try to gaslight me about it.
Wrong! I walked away from a VERY toxic family over 10 years ago and NEVER felt an ounce of guilt, loss or anything for that matter. It was the most liberating and happiness granting thing I have ever done. Beautiful results.
So insightful Kevin! ,, thank you 👍👍👍
👍I ❤️ your delivery! I love the way you articulate this! Thank you!!☺️🎯💯👍✨
Another great video Kevin! Love it! Very timely for things I'm dealing with right now too. Wish I was in Missouri and could go to your event! Alabama has me tied down to a lot of responsibilities but it's a good situation so I'm "living the good life" where I am.
Word of advice for escapegoats. Do not seek charity or understanding in your new environment. You will attract narcissists who will use you as a charity case. When you relocate, show no wounds in your new setting. You will be manipulated by more creepy narcissists. Just say you moved for work and leave it at that.
Thank you so much. I needed to hear that biblically. God bless you. 🥰
Yes brethren I totally walked away from EVERYTHING familiar !!!!! You are confirming my last 2 years of my life.
Thank You Kevin 🕊️🌠
This is all I keep trying to say. I just want something different. Toxic not toxic none of that matters. What was done was done, it is what it is. Now I just wan to move forward. If you can't understand I want something different from you that is a personal problem!
I've felt guilty for most of my life and continue to do so, even when some family members are now deceased. It never goes away.
Understood
The pain or sadness may always be there..nut not raw..its like a scar..the guilt will go away the more u live a good life.
Iam going through a difficult time with my family. I need your prayers..
❤❤❤The blessing in the message at the right time. Thank you.
Funny I walked away and went no contact and the guilt is starting to give me the mentality of what if I try to maintain a "relationship with better boundaries" but I haven't been able to talk myself into talking to them and going back.....thank you!💜
Don't fall for the guilt, it's satan's condemnation
Perhaps not meant to go back..or at least not now..
Keep It Realimony Radio salutes you. Thanks for sharing facts & truth. I will play this audio on both AM & FM live broadcasts
I’ll tune in! Let me know the link!
I’ll have to take look at Elijah
@@TheRoyalWe Elijah will be the closest to feel how narc abuse victims feel brother after the encounter with jezebel.
This was very very apt ❤ thank u
😒👍 Ghost Them All
Thank you Kevin, from ireland....sending prayers and warm hugs ...
💯👑 Ireland 🇮🇪
This is very good and positive
So good 🙌🏾
I have a history of abuse
Im what i call forever broken
I have 4 children
1 of which are 1 year from leaving the house (they live with dad)
I wamt to leave this earth because of all the abuse I've suffered
Now when I try to be calm
Speak kind
Express myself
I am still not seen even by my children
Before I take myself out
I want to leave them behind and never resurface again
I'm done!!
Abraham changed his name to Abram. I can see that walking to a better place, shutting that door and opening another.
I've done it best thing I could have ever done
Right on time! 👍 I've been podering this question in my head... and here it is! Thank you Kevin! And by the way I had thoughts VERY similar to yours❗Confirmation?... 😳🤗
My journey has already been hell..don't think I can go through to much more..just want peace..they can have this 🌎
A very good analogy and confirmation. I was just thinking about the Biblical example and story of Abraham.
This is so true that's why I plan on staying in airbnb me and my daughter cuz right now I need peace ,and plus she's a narcissist.
I did all i could they just take and take and bail when im out.time to just tell them im broke the tell them i am going to be homeless.hope they just dissapear....
Much needed
Thank You.
Excellent!!! 👍💯😊
Good information
Ty Kev
Thanks for sharing 🙏❤
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When my Ex and mother of our child gives me shit I roll out I have my own house to go and not putting up with disrespect so go in and find another sucker to try n boss around...😊
I was just telling a associate of mine as well as my uncle I have to leave this situation. I moved from another state to help my mom ,but I have a brother who lives with my mom as well n we do not get along at all. It's a problem in this house everyday. I was thinking about moving . Because I can't deal with this behavior both from my mom nor my brother. I ask GOD to forgive me but I got to move away from them . I can be a better help from a distance. The both of them are driving me crazy I'm serious.
Yep. I'm right there with you. I couldn't handle my brother and my Mother. My oldest brother, who is 65 never moved out of my parents house. My Mom is very sick and is 89 years old. I couldn't be around them too long. My family actually starts to make me physically ill. Then I feel quilty because they did help me out over the years in my life when I needed them to. So I do want to help them back. But being around them for too long I just want to run out of the house screaming. So there is a constant push/pull feeling. Funny I told both my mother and sister that when I visit them both in their respective houses, I want to run out of their house screaming. I would think they would have replied. OMG! What happened? What made you feel that way? I'm so sorry. I don't want you o feel that way. Please tell me what happened so it won't happen again. That is what I would have said if they said that to me. Instead I got SILENCE back. They don't say nothing back as they simply don't care how toxic they are to me.
Your brother wants all the money and is going to blacklist you to steal it. Sorry but I feel it. Be prepared for his and her betrayal
Thank you Man of God’s!!’
I hope you come to the UK soon. Xxx
I’m struggling with leaving officially because of my brother, but he tells people he’s fine while telling me he wants to leave with me.
I’m realizing I can’t help him or my mom,
But it makes me feel bad. Like I didn’t do enough but I can’t tolerate this person they both have chosen.
Its not easy to move on and find your own path, and it can take years. Even though I still feel some guilt about it, I know I made the right decision. I don't think anyone in this situation can completely eliminate some guilty feelings, but those feelings can be kept in a positive context. I recommend watching the movie "Five Easy Pieces", I think it is Jack Nicholson's best movie and in it he is directly dealing with this whole issue....at times in not the best way but it is still worth watching.
Just make distance and make boundaries....
I've been struggling with this for a long time
yes i married the worlds biggest narcissist, violent and manipulative to the core, entitled and mean. i was forced out of the picture... now what have i got left? failing health, a failed marriage, and she essentially kidnapped my daughter... put the final nail in my coffin. is it the life i would choose ... no. dont know how to reconcile, dont know how to move on
IT NOT THAT ANYONE IS TOXIC ME OR THEM BUT ITS NEVER A LASTING GOOD, ITS ALWAYS SOMETHING WITH MY GROWN CHILDREN THAT AT 65 yrs old i'm tired as long as i do what they ask when they want i'm wonderful, but one NO I'm worse than the devil! i'm just tired of being on or off with them if I say yes or no when they ask for something!
13 siblings n I had to leave them for my emotional well being …
According to the Quranic narration the people of Ur worshipped idols! A people have to have something seriously wrong with them; if they are going to fall that low.
When you become God's child in Jesus your values and concepts change and people can be
resentful jealous of what comes first in your life, they have no power.
Just in the nick of time message.
Kevin, please write a book some day ... ?
Will do
If Abraham ( sayidduna Ibrahim alai Assalam) had not followed the plan of Allah Azzwajal; this noble prophet would not have been blessed with Isaac and Ishmael and Ahmed (sayidduna Ishaq alaiassallaam; sayidduna Ismael alai Assalam; and Sayidduna Muhammad Mustafa Sallalahu alaihi wassallam).