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  • Опубликовано: 14 июл 2024
  • Join Kingsley Okonkwo as he shares "7 Lessons To Learn From Bill Gates Divorce"
    0:00 Intro
    1:41 Marriage is hard for everyone
    3:32 Genius in one area doesn't automatically transfer to another
    6:44 Money doesn't necessarily make marriage work
    09:14 Money influences relationships
    12:23 It takes a lifetime to know a successful marriage
    16:42 Cracks and issues in marriages don't just go away
    19:07 Principles don't respect your status
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Комментарии • 204

  • @taiwoegbanubi
    @taiwoegbanubi 3 года назад +64

    Without flattery, Pst Kingsley has uncommon wisdom.

    • @GoingdeeperinGod
      @GoingdeeperinGod 3 года назад +1

      Very apt. Thanks a million my pastor (online)

    • @victorskydotdev
      @victorskydotdev 3 года назад

      He does actually...

    • @drncubegmailcom-lj3dc
      @drncubegmailcom-lj3dc 3 года назад

      Are you facing any marital issues? I know of a man who can solve your problems. DR NCUBE. Inbox for more info.

    • @ruthchiemela1936
      @ruthchiemela1936 3 года назад

      Very true

    • @AmaraOhaji
      @AmaraOhaji 3 года назад +2

      Hes the only pastor i listen to when it comes to relationships
      He speaks to my soulllL❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @PrevailingPrayers
    @PrevailingPrayers 3 года назад +16

    We outwork divorce! Giving silence treatment to silence an existing matter is part of the cracks in a marriage

  • @kayode-alliabiodun7119
    @kayode-alliabiodun7119 3 года назад +26

    Pst Kingsley, you really have a gift in this ministry. God bless you.

    • @drncubegmailcom-lj3dc
      @drncubegmailcom-lj3dc 3 года назад +1

      Are you facing any marital issues? I know of a man who can solve your problems. DR NCUBE. Inbox for more info.

  • @crissoa
    @crissoa 3 года назад +28

    I tend to believe that broken marriages run in a family. It’s a spirit. If you’re from such a family, it would be wise to start counseling early.

    • @adeolasaba2000
      @adeolasaba2000 3 года назад +6

      And prayers to avoid the familiar ancestoral pattern that want the force of broken marriages to continue down the line
      Matthew 12:,43-45 KJV
      [43] When the unclean spirit is gone out of a man, he walketh through dry places, seeking rest, and findeth none. [44] Then he saith, I will return into my house from whence I came out; and when he is come, he findeth it empty, swept, and garnished. [45] Then goeth he, and taketh with himself seven other spirits more wicked than himself, and they enter in and dwell there: and the last state of that man is worse than the first. Even so shall it be also unto this wicked generation.

  • @TOPSYCURVEY
    @TOPSYCURVEY 3 года назад +29

    Pastor,may God continue to empower you and strengthen you in this area of marriage. I have been married for 6 years plus now and I still listen to you and Pastor M like I’m a single lady.
    Why do I do this? It’s because I NEVER HAD GOOD EXAMPLES OF MARRIAGES “INCLUDING MY PARENTS” AROUND ME WHEN GROWING UP. I promised myself that I must marry RIGHT AND MY MARRIAGE WILL NOT FAIL.
    My Hubs and I are continually working on our marriage every day! Are we happy? Yes but we deal with issues while maturing every day

  • @Tomiwa101
    @Tomiwa101 3 года назад +58

    I hope the video reduces the pressure on Nigerian women to marry a rich man and also puts let's less pressure on Nigerian men to be rich just for the sake of marriage.

  • @MVPMoe4ever
    @MVPMoe4ever 3 года назад +58

    So true. Marriage is really hard especially when you both start to grow individually and at the same time. Different goals and expectations start to change and if it's no more aligned together, then there is breakdown in communication. Sad that man African men don't want to do counseling with their spouse.

    • @nadinelubs
      @nadinelubs 3 года назад +7

      You are so right… the journey gets harder the longer you’ve been with each other, trying to fulfil your own ambitions, no togetherness, lack of purpose on what joined you in the 1st place. Fr my experience, separation & reconciliation without dealing with the root cause will still land a divorce… i’m about to let go… but still learning fr all pastor is teaching. What’s the point of counselling when the other party refuse to do it? Anyway pastor K. Thank you sir… key points that reminds us that money is not everything👍

    • @MVPMoe4ever
      @MVPMoe4ever 3 года назад +3

      @@nadinelubs Yea both parties have to be willing to go to counseling but the problem is, one partner does not see a problem so marriage stand at a stalemate. Everyone just living until it crashes. Pastor K and Pastor Mildred perspective from the woman side has definitely helped me personally to work on myself and communication methods as well. I pray we all continue to learn and improve. Excellent teachers.

    • @chidimmaemuh4783
      @chidimmaemuh4783 3 года назад

      ooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

  • @lameckluwanda3506
    @lameckluwanda3506 3 года назад +16

    Hi there. You are doing very nice work indeed in teaching. Now, I just want to point out that the church is also playing part in the increase in the number of divorces in our society. The church is not about its leaders, I am talking about the entire church of Jesus Christ. Principles you teach must come and start from our households. They should be ingrained in our daily culture if we want to have happy marriages. I have observed people getting married for the wrong reasons such as age. Many women are pushing marriages to happen before they reach menopause. This is just one reason, there are many more. I think we should also start teaching parents how to guide their children before they make that fatal mistake. I am submitting the case and I will keep following this page for learning, I prefer to be a student for life. Cheers! Be blessed!

  • @alphonsinetshibola3494
    @alphonsinetshibola3494 3 года назад +21

    I'm finally enjoying my single years because of your teachings and guidance. May the almighty God give you double for your trouble. We honour you and Ps Mildred Kingsley Okonkwo!

  • @synthiaakinsola7708
    @synthiaakinsola7708 3 года назад +14

    This is quite different from all these bloggers spewing out nonsense just to be seen on internet. Very educative and insightful

  • @edwinemmanuel5347
    @edwinemmanuel5347 3 года назад +20

    Principles don't respect your mood or status... Powerful!

  • @themuyiwaolagunju
    @themuyiwaolagunju 3 года назад +27

    Thank you Pastor K for your consistent coaching. You remain a blessing to me

  • @keneilwemarwane
    @keneilwemarwane 3 года назад +12

    We need God

  • @joyfiyinfoluwa2686
    @joyfiyinfoluwa2686 3 года назад +4

    It is this point for me
    "Principles does not respect you"
    I love God ehn He made sure everything is equal for everyone...what you" put in "is what you "get out"

  • @hannahansah612
    @hannahansah612 3 года назад +15

    I can’t stop laughing🤣🤣🤣🤣…….. wisdom is speaking. Very educative and inspiring.🙏🥰💃😘

  • @motivateme2869
    @motivateme2869 2 года назад +2

    It depends on what part of the world you come from. In Africa and some part of Asia ,people marry for money but in the west, people marry for Love 💕

  • @bestofmylovewhoahwhoah3239
    @bestofmylovewhoahwhoah3239 3 года назад +9

    "Respect principals because principals won't respect you" lol...funny, but more importantly very true! Amen! I thank God he lead me to this ministry. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @eniolaolaitan4705
    @eniolaolaitan4705 3 года назад +4

    It takes a lifetime to know a successful wedding!

  • @hugs2mama425
    @hugs2mama425 3 года назад +3

    Point number 6 for me is so true. I believe it is so crucial. Unfortunately people overlook it thinking time will make it better. It really doesn’t and even when we change to accommodate our differences if it is only one person doing the compromise it eventually becomes burdensome.

  • @ezinneerhirhieneeukaogo1439
    @ezinneerhirhieneeukaogo1439 3 года назад +17

    My 1st pre marital counsellor said he had nothing to teach us since we were educated
    Ha!!!

  • @zakiyyanazifi3860
    @zakiyyanazifi3860 3 года назад +19

    Wow...wisdom...this is really helpful...Pk I have been listening and reading your materials of late...like today I spent over 2 hours watching your videos...gosh sir...u have been a blessing to me..😭😭😭😭

  • @user-hw3hh6qr9h
    @user-hw3hh6qr9h 3 года назад +13

    Many thanks Pastor K. Your wisdom is profound. Always a blessing. Yourself and Pastor Mildred are a blessing to the body of Christ.

  • @julesyarling1227
    @julesyarling1227 2 года назад

    Dear pastor Kingsley, after listening to ur conversation with toke makinwa on Toke moments, I'm officially a huge fan of u. More wisdom my pastor. I'm new here guys welcome me with some words of wisdom

  • @HappyHealedRelationships
    @HappyHealedRelationships 2 года назад +2

    I loved this video ❤️❤️❤️
    The last part: Respect principles because principles don’t respect you🙌🏼‼️

  • @kwamealbertMusic
    @kwamealbertMusic 2 года назад +1

    The supervision of return of the rings 💍🤣🤣🤣

  • @canadianlife5832
    @canadianlife5832 3 года назад +9

    Pastor pls do you have videos on reconciliation after broken homes

  • @hugs2mama425
    @hugs2mama425 3 года назад +8

    Thank you Pastor, for your wisdom. I am commenting before watching. That’s how much I trust you and your impact. Now let me learn.

  • @phunmyclothing
    @phunmyclothing Год назад

    All I ever know in my life is making money and giving it out but I don't know how to recognize a good man

  • @debbiehilles
    @debbiehilles 3 года назад +8

    Absolutely correct! Money doesn’t necessarily make a Marriage work!!!!!💯💯

  • @Felixehidiamhen
    @Felixehidiamhen 3 года назад +6

    No. 7 is very striking. Principles doesn't have respect for status. Success in any sphere of life is a product of adherence to Principles. Thank you sir

  • @danielattah1836
    @danielattah1836 3 года назад +3

    I'm 100% convinced that I'd have had a divorce if I never heard these things.

  • @obinnaezeobi
    @obinnaezeobi 3 года назад

    I think the West or most developed countries have the belief that marriage is a CONTRACT instead of a COVENANT. So, as long as couples Subconsciously still see Marriage as a CONTRACT, the possibility of DIVORCE is inevitable.
    Bill and Melinda Gates’ Marriage was built on a contract not a covenant. When I found out that Melinda Agreed that Bill Gates could spend some weeks on holiday with his Ex, every year, I knew that was one of the cracks from the unset of the marriage.
    Thanks Pastor K, always on point with your Teachings. Gracias Muchos.

  • @Ewoenam05
    @Ewoenam05 3 года назад +4

    It’s the brokenness that’s making my mother stay in marriage 😅😅 my father can travel but mummy cannot oo 😂

  • @ruthekrigwe515
    @ruthekrigwe515 3 года назад +2

    It is the supervision of the returning of the ring for me. Lol

  • @gospelvesseltv
    @gospelvesseltv 3 года назад +3

    Am preparing for my marriage , I need to get knowledge before. I enter and your books will be a great blessing for me .Following you this few days You really inspired me . Thank you and God bless once again

  • @queenalayaba
    @queenalayaba Год назад

    Pastor can you cover things on how to console your husband when he is facing hard times?

  • @dappa2012
    @dappa2012 3 года назад

    Brilliant PK!

  • @dozzyc8778
    @dozzyc8778 3 года назад

    God bless you sir

  • @moneypenny3050
    @moneypenny3050 Год назад

    Pastor Kingsley when you talked about being willing vs being ready for marriage and how you just ran into the bush and sat down ... you had me rolling with laughter - I shared the video with my friend. I also like when you said it's hard to fail without useless friends😊 You're the best

  • @Mekuzee_Khen
    @Mekuzee_Khen 3 года назад +1

    Pastor Kay!!! God bless you sir!

  • @favourakinwande9244
    @favourakinwande9244 3 года назад

    Wow......thank you so so much Pastor K......

  • @mfonisourua666
    @mfonisourua666 3 года назад

    Very Insightful.....

  • @Mywatercrystaltv
    @Mywatercrystaltv 3 года назад +26

    1. Celebs are human: be compassionate
    2. knowledge & genius in career or business does not translate to success in marriage.
    3. Money doesn't necessarily equate successful marriage
    4. Money influences relationships- sense of entitlement, less patient
    5. It takes a lifetime to know a successful marriage
    6. Cracks & Issues should be tackled heads on.
    7. Principles of marriage don't respect status or moods!

    • @isebi7592
      @isebi7592 3 года назад +2

      Thanks love 😍 you saved me time.

    • @Sheruffin04
      @Sheruffin04 2 года назад +1

      Thank you so much for the cliff notes. Can you do this for all videos? Lol

    • @victoriaayoola4755
      @victoriaayoola4755 13 дней назад

      Well done

  • @ekaetefujah
    @ekaetefujah 9 месяцев назад

    You can’t imagine how helpful…

  • @ndukongethelmujar1564
    @ndukongethelmujar1564 3 года назад

    So true sir thanks

  • @NYBwithC
    @NYBwithC 3 года назад

    Great points PK

  • @onomeochuba8148
    @onomeochuba8148 2 года назад +1

    Thank you Sir, i enjoyed this.

  • @allgoodthingsaremine7058
    @allgoodthingsaremine7058 3 года назад

    This was very helpful. God bless you, Pastor Kingsley!

  • @christinegordon-samuels1674
    @christinegordon-samuels1674 3 года назад

    This is a powerful teaching.. Bless you MOG..

  • @anuoluwapomaria8811
    @anuoluwapomaria8811 3 года назад

    This is really helpful. Thumbs up sir.

  • @inspirewithella
    @inspirewithella 3 года назад

    Well said sir, you are right.mmmh God help us

  • @insightwithgoodness
    @insightwithgoodness 3 года назад +9

    God bless you Pst Kingsley. Lots of profound wisdom here!

  • @ijeomacash211
    @ijeomacash211 3 года назад +3

    Straight talk. Remain blessed

  • @ayomidevictor2323
    @ayomidevictor2323 3 года назад

    This is an helpful information for the upcoming marriages

  • @samsonchinagorom3840
    @samsonchinagorom3840 3 года назад

    Thank you, Pastor

  • @Queenestherstrybe
    @Queenestherstrybe 3 года назад +3

    Thank you Pastor Kingsley

  • @Esther-vr8fc
    @Esther-vr8fc 3 года назад

    Very helpful. Thanks for putting this together 👍

  • @jessylove58
    @jessylove58 3 года назад

    Powerful message, started watching your programme on silverbird tv, happy to follow you on social media.

  • @Horluwagbemi
    @Horluwagbemi 3 года назад +1

    Thank You Sir

  • @marylyndaobioha
    @marylyndaobioha 3 года назад

    Yess Pastor....It was helpful!👏

  • @maurahans_
    @maurahans_ 3 года назад

    Amazing! So full of gems. Thank you, sir.

  • @mavisgyamfah5028
    @mavisgyamfah5028 3 года назад

    God bless you

  • @bkgee007
    @bkgee007 3 года назад

    Fantastic!!

  • @olivepaul488
    @olivepaul488 3 года назад +1

    Weldone Sir. More grace

  • @evelynchizoba9085
    @evelynchizoba9085 3 года назад +1

    Great! MOG you are so graced in this area. More grace sir.

  • @d.Israel
    @d.Israel 3 года назад

    Absolutely informative and educative...! God bless you sir.!

  • @freshangel1
    @freshangel1 3 года назад

    This was very helpful

  • @SimiAdelusi
    @SimiAdelusi 3 года назад

    PK with the wisdom…thank you so much for all this insight

  • @peggytony4425
    @peggytony4425 2 года назад

    I think there should be a reason section for people who give a thumbs down

  • @patkatiduh4768
    @patkatiduh4768 3 года назад

    Thank you.

  • @emmaJ1873
    @emmaJ1873 3 года назад +1

    Patience is the key thing. Like you said when a person is rich, he or she will not tolerate anything from the partner. Patience is the fruit of the Spirit, even a rich man doesn't have Patience to serve God. Tolerance and patience is what every man or woman needs inorder not to be a victim of divorce. Not everyone living together is happily married.

    • @nontoncube8450
      @nontoncube8450 2 года назад

      I don't think it's about the person being rich. It's solely about the person valuing money over the relationship. It's not like being rich is a curse.

  • @lewisowusuboadi5970
    @lewisowusuboadi5970 2 года назад

    Is a blessing watching this. Thank you.

  • @nneomakalu2008
    @nneomakalu2008 3 года назад +7

    This was funny and insightful as always. Thanks Pastor

  • @ernestmulenga3890
    @ernestmulenga3890 3 года назад +3

    Very powerful massage for us who are about to enter into the journey of marriage.

  • @nickeshanichols5538
    @nickeshanichols5538 3 года назад +3

    Out work divorce, the end determines the result. Cracks should be dealt with early

  • @rimamglobalministries1351
    @rimamglobalministries1351 3 года назад +1

    Thank you so much sir for sharing. Very rich as always. God bless and keep you through sir

  • @iggytv7849
    @iggytv7849 3 года назад +2

    Pastor K sha like 7 ehn! 🤣🤣😂😂
    Always insightful!
    Thanks sir!

  • @tafusmurielle298
    @tafusmurielle298 2 года назад

    Very helpful, thank you for sharing your insight.

  • @jerrseyy1088
    @jerrseyy1088 2 года назад

    Very interesting. Great points made! Thankyou

  • @Mowatojesu
    @Mowatojesu 2 года назад

    Always detailed

  • @modupeoladeinde8995
    @modupeoladeinde8995 3 года назад

    These 7 lessons mentioned here are very insightful Pastor Okonkwo, thank you!

  • @ivyrmadziwa943
    @ivyrmadziwa943 2 года назад

    So profound teachings

  • @bismarckbetty6799
    @bismarckbetty6799 3 года назад +2

    God thank you for the gift that you packaged in pastor K.

  • @benedictdeorti
    @benedictdeorti 3 года назад

    This is true sir.
    I attest to this sir. Thank you for this warning.

  • @royaldeehomestead1028
    @royaldeehomestead1028 3 года назад +1

    True words Pst K. Marriage issues never go away. And the many points are food for thought. Great Wisdom Sir

  • @ikegbunamwendy9227
    @ikegbunamwendy9227 10 месяцев назад

    Thank you so much sir for your knowledge 🙏 I’ve learned so much from you 🎉

  • @neneuko
    @neneuko 3 года назад +1

    Thank you sir..Marriage is alot of work and tests character and the ability to balance other aspects of life..We must be ready to become neophytes all over again to learn if we must grow in certain areas.

  • @ekaetefujah
    @ekaetefujah 9 месяцев назад

    Thank you 🙏🏾

  • @jasonaseye2809
    @jasonaseye2809 2 года назад

    Very helpful insight

  • @josephinemutiso8599
    @josephinemutiso8599 2 года назад

    thank you Pastor K

  • @limungaregina-jw8yz
    @limungaregina-jw8yz Год назад

    Wow that's awesome i have learnt alot

  • @nathanpsalmist2242
    @nathanpsalmist2242 3 года назад +1

    Wow it takes a life time to know a successful marriage....

  • @goldiaebere7773
    @goldiaebere7773 2 года назад

    This was So insightful. Thank you so much Sir

  • @apostlestantv5043
    @apostlestantv5043 3 года назад +2

    Thank you pastor Kingsley..
    Respect principles and learn to work hard.. marriage requires hard work and learning...

  • @divinerevealations
    @divinerevealations 2 года назад +1

    I am sharing this and applying to my life . Thank you pastor

  • @judithymwafisheni5911
    @judithymwafisheni5911 2 года назад

    Lots of love PK & PM

  • @jonathandepth9364
    @jonathandepth9364 3 года назад

    "Marriage is a GIVEN"!

  • @evangelistcabradoose
    @evangelistcabradoose 3 года назад

    Thanks for the nice intelligent piece. How does principles affect marriage when they are insulted?

  • @dorcaskulugh128
    @dorcaskulugh128 3 года назад

    Gold and diamond seller😂🤣🤣🤣🤣. Pastor K the gold consultant🤣🤣🤣🤣.
    These points are so real and helpful . Thank you sir.

  • @samuelakinbola8654
    @samuelakinbola8654 2 года назад

    Thank you sir for your consistent effort to liberate us from future errors that may likely occurring. In the multitude of counsel there's safety...