Guys I am so sorry the sponsored portion was so long! When I become obsessed with something I tend to ramble on bc I really like chatting about it. Rewatching it now I’m like, oh snap, I talked about this for a while... won’t happen again! I’ll keep it short and sweet from now on 😂😂😂
She stopped to talk to awkward 12 year old me and sign an autograph for me during a busy event and I’ll never forget how genuinely nice she was. Rest in Power Brittany
God, the mom’s crying on the 911 call breaks my heart. The juxtaposition between the cries and the calmness doesn’t strike me as weird. If it were my daughter (God forbid anything like that ever happen to her!), I suspect I would react similarly, trying to keep myself together in the hopes that she could possibly be saved, but the fear and grief seeping out in spurts.
Agreed. I handle severe stress by oscillating between hysterics and calmness, it’s not uncommon. People often have no clue how they’d react in those situations until they’re in them.
I agree. That's the thing I hate about 911 calls being released for the public to hear. No one knows how'd they react in a horrible situation like this, and everyone acts differently in crisis.
I thought that too. I don’t think you can judge someone about their behavior on a 911 call especially when their daughter is laying there lifeless. Nobody knows how they would react in that situation and I pray to God I never have to find out.
Absolutely agree. I have so much respect for her channel & others like it that you can clearly see how much work is done & also how much they care about what their doing.
Probably the Narsisitc Husband was sleeping with the Mother and when he find out that the mother got the mony, they get in an argument and she eliminate him to stay clean and cover up
I can’t express how important it is for people to learn how to do CPR. I’d really recommend taking a first aid course, you never know when you could save a life
I just want to add that if you do encounter someone having a seizure DO NOT place a spoon in their mouth. Do not try and hold them down or restrict their movement. You should remove any sharp or potentially harmful objects, cushion their heads, and loosen their shirt collar if it can be safely done. Time the seizure. Place them on their side during recovery.
Really? All my cousins and their girlfriends were lifeguards and had all the CPR, with the gear that helps with compressions, and they were saying there’s barely a chance of saving anyone. If you aren’t breaking ribs, you aren’t pumping hard enough. It’s extremely difficult to do proper CPR.
The way her Mom reacted is normal. She was in shock & panicking. She was calm in some moments bc she desperately trying to help save her daughter. My God, that is so sad...
I would have found that odd too if I hadn't done it myself. I got a call saying my cousin wouldn't wake up and by the time i got there the police were already there and when they opened the door i saw him laying face down dead. I became hysterical. When the police would talk to me I immediately stopped crying. It turned on and off. I was in shock and disbelief. I knew I had to tell the police everything I knew to help them figure out what happened. It was like God came into me and made me stop crying so I could talk to the police. I ended up telling them what he had shown me the day before and because of That info it made the police search the girls home he was in. I didn't know this at the time but it ended up being the girls drugs. So she went to jail. That happened to me when i was 22 years old. It traumatized me.
People are so critical. You hear a mom in distress and when she’s calm, she was trying to keep it together to talk with the 911 operator. There’s no protocol on how to act when you see your child on the floor not breathing. Smh.
I agree, what is someone who is panicking supposed to sound like when a 911 operator is barking at her to count and other nonsense? They are usually trying to get hysterical people to focus. So then they focus. Then people are like, you sound too calm. People just need to understand really basic psychology.
Heather Nicole Totally agree hun She’s Losing it BCOS HER DAUGHTER IS DYING IN FRONT OF HER her calmness is her pulling it together momentarily In hopes of (against her intuition) Brittany being ok; her being able to be saved Of course her behaviour is ‘irrational’ Her whole life, as in her heart, her child is slipping away before her She can’t concentrate as her distress/fear grabs hold Then she snaps back to into focus to try do anything that will help save her daughter Amen on ur comment, I have 2daughters and I don’t know that if I’m the same situation, I’d actually manage the composure she’s shown :WHEN THE OPERATOR COMMANDED her to concentrate.. key point here.. She hasn’t bounced from mood to mood, She’s distraught, momentarily gathers herself to assist in the possibility of her daughter surviving, & quickly returns to her present traumatised state. I also think THAT SIMON AND SHARON stayed in that house, CLINGING TO EACH OTHER SOMEWHAT, PROBABLY CAUGHT UP IN GRIEF ,& just going through the stages, holding on to each other as a memory of Brittany, each person helping to remind the other of Brittany.. So ,There’s nothing strange in that.. Frankly I think the speculation that their relationship is weird or sexual is actually down right disrespectful .. For someone who ‘thinks’ they encourage walking down conspiracy “”theories”” road , um yeh : there’s no point in dissecting how many angles you basically don’t come at or encompass Stephanie In this day n age I probably wouldn’t pass judgement That ANYTHING is absurd Maybe, rather than thinking the Snowden’s and other x C_A assets have the only conspiracy theories validated and targeted individuals r just looney toons, some WHOLEhearted research would quickly dissuade you from this approach J.S Example... The _onfessional_ , one four four .. Theres a HELL OF A LOT more going on layer by later, dimensionally , spiritually than we r actually capable of conceiving J.S Sorry Heather Thought ur courage , morals, r spot on here I ran away with the remaining rant Apologies Eve
Right!! How dare he tell her she doesn't have to yell!!!!! Wtf! I would not have been able to even talk to that dude...I give her credit...Omg that was hard to listen to.... It makes you want to make sure you know how to do CPR... Her poor mom!!!!!! My heart just broke all over again for her!!! I totally get the whole calm, then flipping out thing... Because reality goes in and out... so sad! Rip Brittany Murphy 💔
To me, the mother on the 911 call sounds like she's going in and out of shock. She's really upset and I don't doubt her sincerity one bit. I mean she's crying hysterically and the dispatcher keeps bringing her back and trying to snap her back to reality. Man, that call is soul crushing. Poor lady. Sorrow took her over for certain. 😢
When I heard Brittany sing the one line "rollin with the homies" in Clueless I knew she could sing. It was evident from that short little sample. I wish she had more opportunities to showcase her voice.
Hair dresser here....just thought I’d interject regarding the statement about heavy metals being in hair dye...heavy metals can be found in “store bought” hair color. That is the major difference between professional hair color and store bought. Considering Brittney was a celebrity, I can almost guarantee that she was not doing her hair at home with L’Oréal hair color or some other store bought brand. Just wanted to clear that up. ✌🏻❤️
When my mother was dying, each one of us in the family had moments of calm clarity and moments of utter distress. We cycled through them and thankfully when I was in gibbering meltdown, my father was calm and when he was melting down, I was calm. When both he and I were bad, my sister would be the one talking to the doctors. It's how it is.
Wow, this is so true but reversing mom for my dad. it's funny how similar humans are. Our family went through the exact same cycles of distress and clarity.
I was going to say the same... when my brother died, I went from hysterics to completely calm and numb - no tears - in the span of about 30 minutes. I then continued to be in calm mode from the evening the day I found out he died through his funeral. Yep, I didn’t even cry at his funeral. I can’t explain it. This was an unexpected, sudden death, a situation where you might imagine you would be inconsolable for a very long time... and we were close. I think my brain did this for the sake of my kids who were very distraught; I had to be strong. You just don’t know how you’ll react until you are in that situation. Her mother’s reaction seems very logical to me. She was scared to death, but also wanted to focus and save her daughters life. 🤷🏼♀️
Not with humans, as I've never been in an emergency situation where a loved one died suddenly, but when my boyfriend and I had to unexpectedly put our dog down, we went through the same thing. I would hold myself together long enough to try to make informed decisions whilst my boyfriend lost it, and when I began to lose it, he would gather himself and take over. Simon seemed to be out of it on meds, for whatever reason(s), and I think the poor mother realized she was kind of on her own in the room, there, trying to get Simon to save her daughter, juggle her own emotions, and communicate with and follow and relay the instructions of the 911 operator to Simon, who again seemed pretty disoriented. I'm sure she must have felt as if she was drowning. I can't even imagine.
Yes as my father was dying at Mass General his oximeter started plummeting I yelled help him!!! right in middle of hospital floor even though he was dying of brain tumors. Half hour later I went downstairs got snacks to share. That's how it goes. I was all over the place and so was the rest of my family
Yeah, it really got to me, too...Immediately after my mother died, I reacted in a similar way: I oscillated between calm focus, disbelief, and utter despair. The grief started once I realized that her death was real. So, to me, Britney’s mother’s reaction seemed “normal.” Heartbreaking is right...
This. I had to pause the video a number of times from hearing her mother cry - it reminded me so much of how I reacted to hearing that my grandmother and suddenly passed away. I relate so much to how her emotions were all over the place.
i couldn’t listen anymore; very very sad. i too found my child. my son, when he was 2. it is so so so so so surreal when it is you making the call…i fumbled my phone password, i forgot my own address, then i thought everything would be okay when i started compressions and his lungs squeaked…. these moments never leave you. heartbreaking. just heartbreaking.
r l You're obviously a mean-spirited piece of trash. Please don't disgrace Stephanie's amazing channel with your repulsive self. There's probably a septic tank or a porta potty near you. Go swimming. That's where
Sounds like the couple adopted a "Folie a deux " a shared psychosis or delusional disorder which is a psychiatrist syndrome with symptoms of a delusional belief as sometimes hallucinations that are transmitted from one individual to another. Also in the long list of toxicology I see that there was among many medications, morphine and the benzo family which is s very bad combination as lower resps and on top of the a pneumonia and low iron, plus her small size and heart defect from a teenager , diffinately the combination that killed her make so much sense. Husband appeared to give up on him self he also had a heart defect and if using the same medication as Britney, morphine benzos and may be alcohol he too was on a fine line to end his life. Certainly Simon didn't look like Britneys type more so her mother's, may they just got closer when brittney passed.
Totally agree with you, Eld x! Stephanie Harlowe, you are a great storyteller, and at least as addictive as any suspense novel. Could (and do) listen to you all day.
It's now coming out that Britney Spears previously lived in the house, and was also terrified of it - apparently she felt a malicious spiritual presence.
She moved out of the house without taking any of her furniture or belongings. She just left and then sold out. That's how freaked out she was by the house. It's just so creepy.
7:49 is when the promo ends and she begins discussing the case, this note is for myself if I come back to watch or if anyone else finds it helpful. Have a lovely day everyone.
Prana Parks I didn’t say she shouldn’t, most RUclipsrs do these promos now. As I said, I left this comment partly for myself because I will watch it again and it’s nice to know where to skip to. I don’t begrudge any creator doing the promotional ads to make their money, but I have a choice in how many times I personally watch the same person do the same ad (which are equivalent to at least one commercial break [meaning, multiple commercials in its length] on traditional television) that’s all. To clarify, she can make half the video an ad if she wants to and I genuinely don’t care but I will fast forward through it, and that’s my prerogative. Have a nice day!
@@imkindapissedaboutthis2314 absolutely! I'm glad she is making money doing this! I'm glad you posted it because, I also rewatch a lot of videos (more than once, sometimes). In my opinion, it was a super lengthy ad, but the content after was great! And that's all that matters, really! Hope everyone has a great day!!!
Yessss, Daisy! Oh man, that scene when they're all in the ice cream shop and Daisy gets super pissed at that one girl (Bonnie, I think) for holding her ice cream cone way too close to her face and yells: "Get that out of my face, asshole!" right before slapping it out of her hand onto the floor, hahaha. That's one of my favorite scenes from that movie. Now I really want to re-read the book and re-watch the movie.
The mom crying then being calm i understand! My nephew many years ago he was 9 months old and stopped breathing he was sleeping and luckily in my arms i hadn't put him in his bed yet . let me tell you i don't think i remember a damn thing the 911 guy said!! All i knew is when i called i just wanted them there that second! I screamed so much my next door neighbor came bursting through my door with a bat in her hand thinking some one was killing me, i hardly knew the woman other then saying , hello once in awhile, she turned out to be a nurse!!!! I still thank god for that woman till today she is the reason my nephew is alive today. But the 911 call? Yeah all i did was scream on that call........
People react in odd ways to a crisis and it really shouldn’t be picked apart so much. When I’ve been in bad situations I’ve been stone cold calm to hyperventilating and back again. Our minds are just strange things.
@@doubtful_seer I completely agree. I watch true crime stuff all the time and they are always pointing out things that seem suspicious and stuff people do that makes them look guilty and a sometimes I do those things. Just yesterday someone was saying “who walks their dogs at 3am?” 🙋🏼♀️ I’m not a murder, I’m just weird. And I’d really hate to have my life and strange behaviors picked apart.
Britney Spears moved out of that house because she didn’t like the vibes it gave her, she felt uneasy there and wanted to sell the house shortly after being in it. She wouldn’t even sleep there. Weird.
Raise your hand 🙋🏻♀️ if you are glad to see Stephanie getting sponsors and you also try to watch all the ads cause we wanna support this woman’s content& hustle. You are killing it girl 👏 Brittany Murphy really did seem like such a sweet & kind soul from my perception.
Fairy Circle To my understanding it increases the and revenue and it increases the content creators “marketability” If advertisers see that ads are viewed in full they will likely continue to consider that creator a viable source for advertisement. This is likely more crucial with creators (like true crime) that typically are considered less desirable to advertisers.
I dont think that 911 call is suspicious, when my daughter was having an allergic reaction i was panicked, short of breath, but i also had moments of calm because i knew i needed to be clear to the operator and i think it was adrenaline. So to me personally i dont find it weird that the mother was on a rollercoaster of going between calm and panicking when her daughter was dying. She was a good actress and beautiful woman, i dont usually remember people but she was memorable to me 🙏🏼💖☹
I agree. When y son was dying I fluctuated between totally calm and rational and a soggy, catatonic blob in the corner of the room unable to comprehend human speech.
When my dad shot himself, I went back and forth as well. The police told me on the scene that it was shock. I was worried they'd think I shot him since I wasn't a mess at all moments. People who think that call sounds suspicious or that her husband "didn't put much effort it," as someone in these comments actually said, needs to be excruciatingly thankful to have no idea what it's like. I'm actually pissed of right now at all the people passing judgement. I bet they think they'd act heroically. Truth is, even trained medical professionals panic when it's their loved one. My mom was a nurse. She definitely didn't stay calm at all times to play the hero, despite having dealt with similar situations a lot. All bets go out the window when someone you love is dying or dead.
@@KathySong1 saying "somebody" can help someone detach from a situation and handle things more rationally. If you say "my daughter" it's like the weight of the situation actually hits you. That's just what I think from my own experience, stepping back from a situation helps me stay as rational as possible
Not that my opinions matters LOL but -- I didn't hear anything wrong with her mom on the 911 call. Recently going through a trauma resulting in the death of my dad, I reacted similarly. Sobs when my heart really felt the severity of the situation and calm when I needed to make a decision.
I was about to say the same thing! My stepfather died in October of 2018 after a long horrific battle with cancer. We had three at-home emergencies during his last few weeks, and it was exactly like this. My mom and I would both swing from panicked to rational in a matter of seconds. Adrenaline can do crazy things.
It just sounded like she was in a dream. As if she could not believe she was experiencing that. I was that way when my son died. I would be calm to fix it and understand and start panicking. It’s the anxiety.
I feel a need to express the reasons YOU stand out from others who create similar content: 1. You are never disrespectful in any way to victims or their innocent family members. 2. You gather reliable and relevant information regarding all avenues of the case you are researching. 3. You consistently refrain from embellishing details and also respectfully omit disturbing information that would only provide “shock value” to an already tragic/painful event. 4. You explore each theory involving unsolved crimes based on available facts; you do not simply focus on your personal opinion and discount or leave out other scenarios even if you feel they are unlikely. 5. You are a truth seeker whose goal is justice by way of providing accurate and updated information from all possible sources. These are only the top 5 reasons I admire your tedious and seemingly tireless effort to bring dark and mysterious cases to your rapidly growing channel. Your work is much appreciated, and presented and a tasteful and earnest way. You are a classy bitch, Stephanie. Keep it up. Don’t come for me. ♥️
Elsa-Lee Treasure 😯😲WOW! Thank you for the kind words! ♥️ Stephanie’s work is top-notch, and your comment shows that her audience is truly a community of good-hearted people. 😊🤗 Also, I LOVE that you said, “I’m coming for you.”🤣🤣🤣 Thanks again for brightening my day.🥰
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@@lisalamb5448 your comment is proof that Stephanie's followers are the best ones out there. I love to see women uplifting one another. Much love your way 😘
Me too! What a joy she was and her outlook on life and overall attitude was beautiful and something we should all take note of and try to be like!! Such a role model for women and an aspiration to all!!!
The way the mom talked to the dispatch agent reminds me of exactly how I was when my friend drowned. Part of my brain was soooo distressed and worried, but part of me knew I had to communicate effectively and do everything I can. I even snapped at and cursed the dispatch agent. I feel so bad about it now, they deal with so much
Yeah and the fact that alot of people in the comments are saying it's weird that she was suddenly calm and suddenly freaking out and that it's suspish is baffling to me Like goo for them if they've never been in Such a serious situation but I've had to call the ambulance after a car accident in which my cousin brother was severely severely injured. I was injured too but I woke up after the initial shock and I tried waking him up and he wasn't waking up so i was so panicked while calling the ambulance and didn't even realise that I wa bleeding out profusely too because I was so focused on just getting some help and I was not crying or anything, I was pretty stoic but rushed because I knew it's useless to cry in that situation. But when I was on that highway, waiting for help, alone, injured and scared and I had to call family members to tell them what happened I started crying in the middle of explaining the situation to my mom. I didn't have the guts to call my aunt and uncle because I was so Scared that my cousin was gonna die And then when he went into a coma because of brain trauma I Felt so guilty that I didn't end up the same way and why he has to suffer so much when his life is so much more worthy than mine Because he's smarter, more compassionate and just a Better person than me To this day that scene of waking up in that trashed car and seeing blood all over and him being unresponsive haunts me, I Still have nightmares where he doesn't make it and the entire family hates me because I didn't die instead of him.
Exactly. do believe this is why if an emt worker goes to a scene and its a loved one they arent allowed to help bc of that emotional attachment 9/10 you wont be as much help at all and not able to control your emotions. ..what's so hard to understand about that?
@@katasue2633 you are correct, although my very first 'call' after I graduated school, my brother overdosed and I had to give him mouth to mouth for 13 minutes until EMS arrived... it was almost like instinct, I just did what I had to, broke down once for half a second during, but kept going... it was hours before the shock wore off then I completely lost it!
As a nurse who tried to resuscitate both my own brother and many years later my boyfriend (both passed at the scene), I can tell you that you go into a different mode. Some people get very calm and focused. Other people freak out completely. Maybe my training kicked in, but all I was focused on was trying to save them. There was no emotion except for urgency for someone to get to me because I knew I didn’t have the equipment to save their lives. After the paramedics arrived, both times I fell apart and down into a spiral of PTSD for months. I think sometimes your brain protects you in moments of trauma.
That phone call is actually haunting and I feel like I'm about to start crying. 911 calls are always horrible, but this one has me breaking to be honest...
Here's something that struck me as weird. Before Simon died and after Brittany'. when he was doing an interview with Sharon, he called her "baby." He called his mother in law baby. and as she was speaking to the 911 dispatchers she called him "honey." A reporter also said he'd told her that sometimes Sharon would crawl in his bed with him to cry. It feels weird to me.
I had to do CPR on my grandfather after he had a heart attack and it is physically exhausting. At the end it took every bit of my energy to continue but I knew I couldn't stop. My heart goes out to anyone that has to do CPR on a loved one.
They didn't do CPR. That's a lie for the sake of narrative. Brittany had been dead for 4+ hours before anyone found her. No one does CPR when the body is entering level 4 rigor mortis.
The mom going from frantic to calm in a matter of seconds is not strange at all. That’s exactly what my panic attacks look/sound like. It’s like the rational part of your brain is trying to gather itself but the terror/panic is too strong to suppress completely. Absolute hell. I don’t wish that feeling on anyone.
@@TrumanGN good for you. plenty of middle aged ladies wouldn't hold up that way, though, as you must know... dani's right, implying her mom murdered her is low.
@@TrumanGN save it for debate class. it was a comment on your morality, yes--obviously. you're stating an entirely baseless opinion that happens to be borderline evil in it's cruelty. your theory was that they were both poisoned over a long period of time, culminating in not hospital stays, not a lengthy, severe deterioration, but drop dead on the floor deaths? how far back do you propose her own mom started her poisoning campaign? as far as your question as to motive and who had what money, are you of the opinion there _was_ any money? it would seem getting kicked off of a b movie filmed in the middle of nowhere is the kind of thing that happens to broke actors, not wildly successful ones, even if she was recognizable. also, did you read the autopsy? I don't see any need to find a killer and even less need to pick the grieving mother.
Brittany died in December 2009. She showed all the same symptoms my son showed in December 2013. With the exception of diabetes. My son passed from H1N1. He became septic, which shut down his organs. He was gone in 4 hours. H1N1 Made two deadly rounds in the US, the first in 2009 the second in 2013. It took many young adults. The 20 to 40 year olds were hit extremely hard by this strand of flu. It's a very real possibility she passed from H1N1, before it was diagnosed in the United States.
It’s quite possible . I was a nurse practitioner in a walk in clinic when that pandemic hit . We had one day in June I think where 23 out of my 25 patients had tested positive for type A flu along with GI symptoms leading for high suspicion and diagnosis of H1N1. Brittney , though, had more severe respiratory symptoms which leads me to suspect she had a Type B flu . During 2009-2010- I probably had hundreds of H1N1 patients . Rarely, did they have severe respiratory illness or body aches . What I was seeing was GI upset , dehydration , exhaustion , fever, and malaise . Generally the fever was lower than Type B - unless the patient was immunocompromised . I’m very sorry to you for the loss of your son . Diabetes definitely complicates even a simple cold . Had his blood sugars been under poor control? I know type 1 DM is so hard to navigate and control . I’m so sorry for your loss . That pandemic just hit so hard so fast . It was actually already well documented in the US when she passed- as it started in March and by April 2009 was getting so bad . She could have had H1N1 vs the regular seasonal flu . I was at work when I found out she passed and had wondered that too
My cousin does it and shes a Rock star I don't know how she does it. But recently she had a hard life obstacle and I think 911 dispatch prepped her for life's struggles.
That's exactly what I said when she was reading off all these medicines was uhhhh well none of those are holistic matter fact several are controlled substances that need a Drs order to get.
Kihyun's vocals PERIODT! I fell in love with her channel about a year ago. She’s fantastic! She turned me on to Hamilton! I was a vocal performance major a million years ago...
'It's impossible to rule out murder': renowned pathologist Dr Cyril Wecht. He is calling for her case to be re opened because of the heavy metals. He stated rodenticides often have heavy metals. He questioned the initial autopsy asking why tissues weren't checked considering the heavy metals found. Hopefully it gets reopened
My uncle was murdered with rat poison but had drugs in his system so they just said it was a drug overdose ... but he was into shady stuff and word around the area was that they murdered him the guy was bragging
@@karlynnelangerak4549 Usually there would be waayyyy earlier signs and symptoms if that were the case. Typically throughout childhood. I won't go into detail but I experienced the abuse of someone with this when I was a kid and have looked into it a lot as an adult. It's typical for friends, teachers, other parents, medical professionals, child protective services, ect, to at least notice something.
@@weekendnomad5038 rat poison often ends up in overly cut heroine and cocaine - I’m sorry this happened to your family member but an easy way to kill an associate who would take drugs from you. When heroine or large amounts of cocaine are found, the powers that be stop caring unfortunately.
Yea I agree! Also I think the third party report it doesn't state that they "gave their opinion". They stated that with that amount of heavy metal in her system clearly it was put in by someone and to cause that person fatal harm. The report didn't mention the dad's conspiracy about the government being involved,just stating the obvious. And that it needs to be looked into and seen as a homicide! And idk if constantly dyeing your hair could lead you to have FATAL heavy levels of metal in your system. Plus the husband too? Idk very suspicious. Don't think the government did it but I do believe there was foul play!
I always thought it was weird af, when her mom sold personal letters of Brittany, a bra and bathing suits, jewelry with her initials and even her passport and cards on an auction site. These are personal things I would like to keep of my child, you know? Call me nostalgic
www.julienslive.com/view-auctions/individual-lots/?page=1&key=BRITTANY+MURPHY Here is the link to the whole auction. Lord of clothes she had worn in movies of for photoshoots, but also personal belongings
Everyone deals diffrently with the loss and if you don't have heart to keep it neither to throw it in trash, why not? I dont think that is something to judge. - Do dead need passport, clothes, jewelry? No. Just one example: Most of my friends keep ashes of their pets in the place of living. I dont understand that, I dont do that. I dont even take photos of my dog being put to sleep or dying. And many of my pet friends do that. Theese ppl didnt change jobs for their dogs, they rather let the dog hold pee and poo for endless hours (10+ hours). I changed job 3 times for my dog, so she can have proper walks every 3-5hours. You shall not judge that because someone deals with loss diffrently than you doesnt mean they do not love the lost loved one.
Right? Maybe its a rich people thing or upper class thing, where they have defibrillators? IDK. Unless you are a doctor, I could not really imagine a reason to have one in your home no matter if you are upper class or not.
You can get one for $60 online, they are a lot more common then they use to be but yea i don't know many that actually have one at home besides high schools and some stores etc
I agree but with Simon it isnt his physical appearance that turned me off. Its the heavy, clinging, depressing energy he brings. I would happily be with a man like Jack Black or Kevin James (neither are traditionally attractive but their energy is awesome.) This guy Simon just seemed like a drag. I never understood why she was with him.
@@Jacksonandjulian I know why you'll never understand. It's because American women are so entitled, so shallow, so mean spirited that they can't stand even the thought of a man they deem "unworthy" being happy with anyone. Does that clear things up for you?
Her role as Luanne in King of the Hill is honestly so wonderful too. I feel like the role encapsulates how you’ve described her career, impeccably timed comedy but also really passionate, emotional scenes especially in the episodes dealing with Buckley’s death. I’m really glad I’ve seen a lot of people talk about how wonderful she was in this role because, like you said, she was seriously underrated.
She reminds me a bit of Marilyn Monroe, her glow, her sense of humor, ability to just captivate on screen, her breathy voice and even her insecurities... and sadly dying under strange circumstances
It really doesn’t matter how many times I’ve heard a case from “top to bottom,” I will always watch again when it is told by you because I know there will always be so many little tidbits in your re-telling that make a case so much more fascinating!
For anyone who thinks Brittany’s mother is behaving at all abnormally on that phone call: I have been there. When someone you love stops breathing and responding and you can feel the life leaving them emotions and shock can make you go from one extreme to another in a split second. While the rational part of your mind is trying to cope and process and save, the sheer horror of the situation is unbearable. There is no “right” of “normal” reaction.
Very true! Buuutttt, why wasn't she ensuring the husband was giving cpr properly??? And the operator kept asking over and over again. This is unacceptable. I can understand being historical but follow directions to at least give your loved one a chance. I feel the mother and husband is responsible for her death
@@positiveelegance286 it is called shock. I am certain she questions and beats herself up every day. You don't know what you would do in that moment until it happens the EXACT SAME WAY. Even then, we ALL are different and react differently.
@@industrialover I have also been there, unfortunately. My partner was doing an amazing job performing infant CPR on our 3 month old daughter while I was hysterical on the phone with 911. Over 8 years later, I still thank God he was there to try to save her while I was in the same state as Brit’s Mom. Unfortunately, she passed from Asymptomatic Double Pneumonia. But he does struggle with guilt from time to time, and I reassure him he did everything he could. We were forced to change our ways when I got pregnant, I’m sure most people can understand what I’m implying but not outright saying. Even though the grief was and is sometimes still unimaginable, we’ve maintained the positive life changes. I know our child was a gift from God to make us appreciate our own lives. She literally saved our lives and not being able to do that for her is crushing. But her short sweet life was something I will always be grateful for 👼🏼🙏🏼❤️🩹 So, right, unless you have actually been in that situation, you have no idea how horrible and difficult it really is.
The fact that the 911 operator was instructing how to preform CPR over and over again with neither one of them paying attention is frustrating to me. This is your daughter/wife, focus. Her life was literally in their hands and they couldn’t even keep count. I understand it’s a terrible/horrifying situation but at the same time you have a job to do
Seriously. I personally have been in life-threatening situations. All I could think about was getting everyone to safety, surviving was the only thing on my mind. I stayed levelheaded through the whole thing because that’s what had to be done.
It's a different story when it's happening in front of you when I found my mother not breathing and no pulse my father and myself could barely dial 911 because we were in shock and our brains were not working we were also hysterical it's so very hard to go through this and it's just one of those things that you pray never happens to you because the whole experience itself it's extremely traumatizing especially if your doing mouth to mouth on the corpse of the person you love the most.
It comes down to fight or flight. I understand people react to serious situations like this differently. It doesn’t change my opinion on the 911 call. A good actress was lost and we’ll never know why. It’s awful. Losing any loved one hurts and it’s heartbreaking. I still get the feeling that Brittany Murphy didn’t have to die
Just want to say that 9-1-1 operator did a good job. Many times in these cases we hear some who seems to mess up, not care or even be rude. This guy gave her clear instructions on what to do and did what he could to get the information he needs. It has to be difficult in these situations sometimes - you're not supposed to take very long to check if someone is breathing, but someone untrained of course would be panicking and unsure of themselves. It's also very difficult to do chest compressions at the pace you need to. It'll wear you out fast, and most people get very worried about hurting their loved one because of how rough it is. I think he did a good job taking them through the steps of what to do and acting professional. He tried to keep them on task and doing what they needed to do to save her.
Exactly. They must remain emotionless. You don't call 911 for comfort, you call for HELP. there's so many kids who know nothing in this comments section, I'm totally triggered
It actually irked me that people were saying he needed to be fired. Listen to any 911 call. They aren't there to be your friend. If they sound cold, they're doing their job right. Their emotion feeds your fear/emotions. If they sound shook, so will you. "Ma'am, i need you to calm down" is a perfectly reasonable thing to say. It does not mean he is unfeeling towards her or her situation.
I haven't finished yet, just finished the call, but I cannot believe anyone is questioning that call. The only person who can question that is someone who is not a parent and has never feared for their child's life due to an injury. This is EXACTLY what it sounds like to try desperately to keep it together because you know you have to, even though every cell in your body is screaming. My heart breaks for her.
As the 911 Dispatch says" you don't have to yell" wow really!!! How would you react if your daughter wasn't breathing? Ok ill just be real calm like Pasty Ramsey smdh...he's really pushy
He handled it perfectly. Understandably, she was so frantic that she couldn't complete sentences. His calm and assertive demeanor was the only thing that kept her from being completely useless. I think her "moments of calm" exhibited on the call directly follow some of his more commanding statements. I don't think that's coincidence.
Soo I watch Kendall Rae and Bailey Sarian religously and I'm really confused how I haven't heard of you before. How have you not been recommended to me before today??! Idk but I'm so glad I found this channel now. Time to binge watch all your videos!!! 🤗
Honestly i didn’t know of this amazing lady until i saw Sarah Turney’s pic with her at crime con! I can’t stop watching! Stephanie’s research is insane!
That's how I came upon this channel too, pretty much the same way. She and Baily Sarian are my fave females, imo mrballen and thatchapter are the best male true crime story tellers I've found.
Am I the only one that thought Simon’s chest compressions were weird? Like he was purposely moving too slow? Or not lucid enough to do proper compressions...? Idk... that was the most disturbing part to me. Like “dude!? What are you doing!?”
To me it sounded like he'd already decided for himself that she was dead (whether that was actually correct or not), and was just going through the motions for her mother.
As an Emergency Room Nurse i always tend to really analyze all medical aspects of a case. This is what I see from the reports included in this video: Both Brittany and Simon were on a host of medical pharmaceuticals. To say either of them was holistic I think is a real stretch! Both had hydrocodone listed - which is a heavy duty narcotic that is highly addictive and a triplicate prescription (at least in Canada). It is used for severe pain and is not something to be used long term. I didn’t see any history of either one of them having any known pain conditions. This in itself can cause of host of complications in the broader context of physical and mental health. In addition, both were on a beta blocker which is a heart medication used to slow heart rate. Although not an uncommon drug I find it interesting that they were both on the exact same med. Unfortunately, sometimes this has the effect of slowing the heart when what your body needs is to be able to speed up to accommodate for illness, stress, shortness of breath etc... to increase oxygenation and can leave your body not able to compensate. In addition on Brittany’s toxicology report it showed Topomax - which is a drug used for seizures - which Simon had a history of, but Brittany did not. Why did she have this in her system?? They also listed Clarithromycin which is used for pneumonia - so it is clear to me that she actually HAD sought some sort of medical help with her symptoms prior to death. Unfortunately, this med is NOT effective against omoxacillin resistant staph aureus- which is what she had. It seems as though the doc that treated her probably x-ray’d her lungs due to shortness of breath or by physical exam diagnosed her with pneumonia and put her on clarithromycin - which would work for most pneumonia cases, but her’s was resistant to this antibiotic. This is sad and unfortunate, but does happen. That is why follow-up is so crucial if symptoms don’t improve, then further investigations can be done and a change in medication could be prescribed. She also had several other meds in her system which were less noteworthy, but were prescribed by a doctor - anti-anxiety meds and an anti-depressant. None of these were above therapeutic levels from what I could see. What I did not see was a screen for drugs of abuse such as cocaine, MDMA, marijuana etc... perhaps I missed a page?? This would have been interesting to see as well. In short, I don’t think her death is a much of a mystery as what it initially appears. Her anemia and use of corticosteroid inhalers would have put her further at risk and make her more immunocompromised. Brittany was very ill and for whatever reason did not feel able to get the help she required to turn things around in time. Sadly, pneumonia and anemia do not bode well for the sufferer in the absence of astute medical attention. Tragic for sure. Simon appears to have had many medical conditions not least of which was his seizure disorder and multi-pharmaceutical use. I think his death was just a matter of time and is only suspicious in light of her death coming first. @stephanieharlowe feel free to consult me for medical questions about any of the cases you’re covering!!💜🇨🇦
Topamax can also be used for migraines. My doctor wanted me to try it but it can be teratogenic and I didn't want to risk it in case I fell pregnant. Maybe she suffered from migraines? But it is odd that her husband was prescribed the same thing. I wonder who the doctors were that were prescribing these meds, if they had the same doctor.
Wow! Thank you for sharing this information, it is really great to hear from medical professional. May I ask, as I know some drugs can inhibit iron absorbtion - do you see any of these drugs listed in autopsy reports? It could explain why they both had anemia.
Pamela Bomersback Jesus, I’m on over 30 meds per day, several of them ones mentioned here. Your only a matter of time comment is making me low key freak out.
Topamax or topiramate is used off label for weight loss; I really think Simon must’ve been using it to treat his seizures and Britney must’ve borrowed some.
Traveling Lion no I did not see any drugs that cause chronic or microcytic anemia - it is a good question though. Also at the bottom of one report I believe that she also had severely low platelets, which is obviously not normal either. There was definitely something going on with Brittany’s blood - I dont have a theory as to what. Yes menorrhagia (heavy periods) can cause low hemoglobin, but should not affect your platelets. When your platelets are too low - your clotting properties do not work properly therefore when your blood should be clotting and it does not - maybe another reason she bled so heavily during periods. That is not usual to have low platelets - but can happen with some blood disorders as well as with a medical condition called HELLP associated with pregnancy.
Let's not forget Britney was the talented Gloria in Happy Feet and sang a lot in that movie. Fantastic voice and so very talented. She is missed for sure.
Very common in religious families, also common in narcissistic ones where the parents/spouse don't really give a shit, or were responsible for the person's death.
@@DaveyMulholland the refusal is what isn't strange. I don't think this is a comment on whether or not religious people are always rational and has nothing to do with whether or not choice exists in being religious. It's saying, there being no autopsy isn't necessarily a reason to draw suspicion.
Jewish people do not want the blood drained from the body and bury them within 24 hours. I want the same thing and I am not a Jewish. I know this cause I've been to Israel and learned it there.
You DO NOT ... REPEAT DO NOT hold down someone having a seizure and you never ever EVER put anything in their mouth, especially not a spoon!!!! That's the first thing they would tell you when you call 911 for a seizure.
I thought you move things around them.. and if its a tight space you don't hold them down but try to protect them from hitting their head... What I was originally taught in first aid many years ago is contradicted now... its tuff.
30 years ago the training for seizures was place something in their mouth and let the seizure go however today we teach clear the area around the person and watch them. Also time the seizure so when paramedics arrive you can share that info with them.
My older sister has epilepsy and Lord don't put anything in her mouth! You roll them on their side and wait for it to pass. It's the single most scary thing I have ever seen . And I will never till my dying day forget the sounds she makes when she has them .
Fun fact: When giving chest compressions do it to the tempo of "Stayin alive" to gauge your speed and timing. EDIT: Learned this during CPR training NOT The Office 😂 But I’m glad you learned it elsewhere!
I think that's a lie with this holistic treatment. People who treat themselves holistically do not use normal drugs, and they even abused them. In my opinion, the holistic treatment case was just a cover, explaining why they didn't take Brittany to the doctor. Both Brittany and Simon were using strong chemical drugs. Those who heal themselves naturally don't do that. But they treated themselves on their own and when Brittany was getting very bad, even then they were reluctant to call an ambulance. Maybe because they were afraid that people in the hospital would reveal how many drugs Brittany was taking, how many substances were in her body. Brittany took the potent drug Vicodin before her death, which is very dangerous, addictive and causes breathing problems. Question - was she addicted to it? Why was she taking it? I miss her very much. :(
@@fairestofthemall_official Yes, I am... I think Brittany was very addicted to strong medication and it was the main reason for her poor condition... They found a bottle of Hydrocodone/Vicodin, over 100 pills were missing... She received the prescription on that medication 11 days before her death... They found prescriptions for drugs under different names... Brittany, her husband and mother bought drugs from many different pharmacies so as not to arouse suspicion, Sharon obtained drugs for Brittany under the name of Lola .... The three of them had a huge problem with prescription drugs. :(
I appreciate the quotes you put around "natural." They're all chemicals, just like even our own bodies are made up of chemicals. And so-called natural treatments are a huge, profit-making industry with almost no regulation or scientific testing.
I've always found Brittany's death to be strange, that is until I read her autopsy report today- it was a real eye-opener! I had no idea she had so many medical issues. Her official cause of death was pneumonia. She had a history of severe anemia, Mitral Valve Prolapse, and Diabetes. Paramedics who arrived at the scene noted her blood sugar was only 49 which is too low and dangerous (hypoglycemia) that alone can send someone into a coma or make them pass out. Most importantly, after arriving at the hospital multiple EKG's showed changes consistent with having had a heart attack. After reading the entire report I have to conclude she wasn't murdered but died because she was in poor health. I found it interesting that the cultures they took of her heart tissue came back and showed rhodotorula mucilagnosa and candida parapsilosis which are fungal contaminants. She also was suffering from severe anemia which weakened her. Also, Staph bacteria was found in her lungs. It's too bad she didn't go to the hospital earlier, she had been suffering with stomach pain for 10 days before she died but everyone wrote it off as period cramps since she had her period and suffered with terrible cramping normally. I also found out that her mother and husband had been sick previous to her death but that she didn't get sick herself, maybe she did get sick and didn't realize she had it- it could've affected her lungs. In any case I'd encourage anyone interested to read her autopsy report for themselves. Here is a link to it: www.autopsyfiles.org/reports/Celebs/murphy,%20brittany_report.pdf
Yes I just read it and have a bachelors in nursing and public health. She had pneumonia and was chronically anemic. Bad combo...it’s what caused the pneumonia that could be interesting...some people have speculated the building was “sick”(?) but she was in bad health before that. WS she a vegetarian or vegan and NOT taking her vital B 12 supplements? Or was she just idiopathic anemic. Her low blood sugar is a little troubling but her urine was free of glucose and ketones so maybe she just hadn’t eaten much THAT DAY, took some OTC drugs and hydrocodone to alleviate her symptoms and with ALL THIS going on at once she didn’t breathe enough and..,left us. So sad. I don’t think it was foul play...
@@blacknight2149 between the mother being sick and eliminating both of them for money and the building being "sick", infested with some deadly mold, I'm going for the first option. Cause, if it had been the building the mother would have been sick, or dead before any of them did, especially for an older person and alleged cancer survivor (if I got that part right she has had ovarian cancer). Also her calling Simon baby and honey is weird, maybe she was inflatuated with him, eliminated her daughter (and given Brittany's multiple health issues it would not have been too difficult) and was hoping on happily living ever after with both her daughter's money and man, and once she realized he would not go for it, she killed him off too.
I find it odd no one talks about Brittany's diabetes more? They mentioned hypoglycaemia which is low blood sugars, which suggested to me type 1 diabetes like I have. This is an autoimmune disease and getting sick can be very dangerous for us, and we need to monitor our BGLs even more when unwell than usual. High blood sugars (especially when unwell) can cause DKA (Diabetic Ketoacidosis) which can turn deadly very quickly. BUT nothing mentioned by the doctors or hospital (or her mother on the 911 call??) talk about her diabetes. Telling doctors/nurses/paramedics i am type 1 diabetic is really vital to my survival. I think this would have been a major factor to how she handled whatever kind of illnesss may have caused her death. In my opinion. I know this is last year's Harloween but as a type 1 diabetic I really wanted to say _something_?
My little cousin is a type 1 too, and everything has an effect on his BGL's. Medications. Foods (obviously) seasonings even! His momma works her butt off trying to keep it in check, and he now has the monitor that's on his belly that sends notifications to his phone, her phone and the school nurse who has the app too. It can get very scary. A stomach virus can kill him. As for b.m - I believe the autopsy said her sugar was a 49 or close to it... maybe she hadnt eaten? There seems to be a page missing, but I never saw the contents of the stomach or maybe I missed it? If she didnt eat, because she was sick, and she was so sick that she was taking cold medicine and hydrocodone, it very well could have killed her if she was type 1. BUT wouldnt her bgl be off the charts? And!! How did they get an EKG if she was dead? Ugh
@@lynsirobertson3527 i had to do some conversion 49.0 mg/dL = 2.720 mmol/L (for reference under 4mmol/L counts as hypoglycemic) that's pretty dang low. When i am sick my levels can go low instead of high it can depend on a lot - the kind of illness and who it is so maybe a combination of sickness and forgetting/not eating (which i do oops). I can see her having a hypo that caused her to pass out and they didn't use a glucogon pen at all? that's like a go-to step one for type 1 diabetics who have lost consciousness. Not mentioned once?
Brittany Murphy was definitely underrated. Her heartbreaking performance in Girl Interrupted was so much better than anyone else in that movie. Thanks again for another great video!
Brittany Murphy was one of my favorite actresses! The Ramen Girl is such an underrated and iconic movie. I just wanna drink my pumpkin spice coffee and cry and watch her movies all day.
Ramen girl is one of my favorite movies of all time. Literally taught me that life doesn’t have to revolve around romance as a woman and to go after what I want to do in life. Inspired my love for Japan and Japanese culture as kid and I later grew up and lived there for 4 years and it’s the happiest time of my life so far. I thank her for that. The movie is so underrated and amazing.
Wow she was so so so good in Girl, Interrupted. Her part in that film was the most poignant character for me. She definitely was a huge talent. Bless her 💜
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The 911 call just angers me because 1.) The operator (though being calm, and thorough) was incredibly frustrating. He could've EASILY said, "Ma'am, put me on speaker phone and let me talk to who ever is doing the compressions myself." And 2.) Her mother being calm and then screaming and crying at different intervals isn't abnormal to me as a reaction to seeing a loved one die. I was the SAME way when my mother was dying. I'd be calm one second and the moment she'd start struggling to breathe or flinch, I'd start wailing. So I don't find her mothers reaction during the call strange, at all.
I kept thinking the same thing listening to this call, why would the operator not suggest that her mother give the phone to her husband? Or as you said suggest the speaker phone be used. Their efforts would have went a lot further if he was directly instructing the person doing the compressions, and I totally get that the operator needs to remain calm, but he seemed calm to the point of almost just not caring. like Yes, he told her how to do the procedure correctly and he did everything by the book, but why wouldn’t you take a moment to get this situation into a position where these weren’t just rote instructions, but making sure the person that’s supposed to be doing what your instructing can actually even understand how to do it right. (Otherwise what’s the point?) To me it feels like he just went by the book & didn’t actively care about the person on the other end. Like yes time would have been lost to get the husband on the phone, but all of the lifesaving efforts were lost anyway.
I read that Brittany was at Chris Cornell's wedding and tried to warn him about his wife. CC was working on a project with CB about child trafficking before his death. CB also passed away under odd circumstances. Rita Wilson, Tom Hanks wife, is CC's daughters godmother. Heidi Klume threw the Cornell's an anniversary party. Heidi Klume's now exboyfriend was CC's bodyguard and was the one who found his body.CC's wife stopped the project CC & CB were working on after his death. There's a lot of connections to people who die mysteriously around these people so being paranoid isn't so hard to believe.
Never put anything in their mouth in general, some times it can cause more harm then if they bit their tongue. Keep them laying on their side so any saliva or vomit can drain. My cousin has a seizure disorder and experiences grand mal seizures. My fiance also has a seizure disorder but he has absent seizures which sometimes is more scary for me because he wants to talk but cant and it's harder to help because it's not the same as a grand mal. All you can really do is stay by them and see if speaking helps bring them to reality.
I know! I was frowning so hard when she said that lol. However, I only know the correct response because I’m in nursing school. Prior to that, I would not have know how to help someone who is having a seizure.
I was getting ready for work at 19 years old when my father had a heart attack right before I was about to head out the door. It was the most horrifying thing that I've ever been through in my entire life. In fact I sat in the ambulance as they drove him to the hospital and I watched him turn blue on the way and they did NOTHING to help him. When they got to the hospital they did surgery. And I still to this day don't know why, because he was dying on the way and they didn't do s*** for him.
I've been watching you for quite a while now. However I swear with every video you make I just adore you more and more. You have been my favorite True Crime channels since shortly after I started watching. You do so much research and your videos are so well done. The death of Brittany Murphy hit me hard. She was absolutely one of my favorite actresses. Thank you for another amazing video!
I’m no doctor, but her symptoms did sound a bit like lead poisoning...the anemia, stomach pain, and vomiting especially. She could have had pneumonia too, but the gastrointestinal symptoms as well as the severe anemia just sound like metal poisoning.
Nikki R I think I saw or heard it mentioned that he was fired & saw the error in his ways. If I’m not mistaken, he now also gives a sort of sensitivity training to dispatchers based on what he learned from his own mistakes & further training.
The scene in little black book where she sings is my absolute favorite. I did the same thing and tried to find it anywhere but nothing. She was very underrated actress. She is truly missed by her fans. RIP lovely Angel
I came to the comments looking for this! Also, roll the person on their side but don’t pin them down. I promise our muscles will be sore enough all on our own. 😉
What about the whole "put a rag in their mouth so they dont bite thru their tongue" I've had seizures before and dang near chewed thru my tongue. On one occasion someone put their finger in my mouth because they thought I was choking on something while seizing.... (I'm genuinely asking I'm not trying to be a smart a**)
Yes!!! I don't have seizures but I have been a caregiver for many individuals that do and this advice is very outdated and tends to cause way more harm than good. Also DO NOT pin someone down while they are seizing (as it was described that Brittany did for her husband). The best thing you can do is make sure any objects that can obscruct their movements are out of the way, make sure their head is safe (if they are close to a wall it is OK to place a pillow or something soft lightly under or next to their head during the seizure to prevent an injury), and then you just wait it out (while of course monitoring them, timing the seizure, making sure they stay safe, etc). As scary as that sounds, if they are safe if is best to monitor closely and wait it out. It's often way way scarier for those observing the seizure than those experiencing the seizure. After it's done, you can place them in the recovery position and allow them to rest. If the person doesn't have a seizure condition or has never had one (of if you don't know them and no one who does know their condition is around), call 911 when the seizure begins. If the person does have a seizure disorder or is known to experience seizures, emergency services may not be needed unless the seizure lasts for more than a couple of minutes or in case of injury or repeated seizures that are out of the norm for that person. Sorry for the rambling, I have just heard so much bad advice on how to deal with a seizure. Most people never have and likely never will witness a Grande Mal seizure but it is so important to know what to do in the event that it happens!
Elin Hervall thanks for this! You’re right, it is a lot of information, but for those of us with generalized seizures, it’s so helpful. There’s no chance for a public lesson when you’re on the ground unconscious. I know our beloved Stephanie was just repeating what was in the reports, but I’m glad a few people respectfully jumped into the comments for the chance to educate. ♥️
@@oldtimeyasswhooper1014 Her husband had even more health issues though with seizures and heart issues. I think they were both just in poor health and maybe the mother didn't have any chronic issues.
“Mommy, I can’t catch my breathe. Help me.” That was heartbreaking. I’m sure they were in shock.. But they seemed to take a while to respond to questions and the cpr thing..I don’t know.. weird.
Common symptoms across several types of heavy metal poisoning include: diarrhea. nausea. abdominal pain. vomiting. shortness of breath. tingling in your hands and feet. chills. weakness
What do you suggest happened? They both seem like random deaths due to poor health to me, especially considering the autopsy reports, but this is the first I have heard of the case.
When the house was sold & later remodeled there WAS found to be mold in the walls I totally think that's what gave these young people such awful health & contributed greatly to their deaths
I just wanted to say I am so glad they used a clip from this video and from you, Stephanie, on the HBOMax series about her! It can be found at 42 minutes and 40 seconds in episode 1
Guys I am so sorry the sponsored portion was so long! When I become obsessed with something I tend to ramble on bc I really like chatting about it. Rewatching it now I’m like, oh snap, I talked about this for a while... won’t happen again! I’ll keep it short and sweet from now on 😂😂😂
Love listening to you❤
I could listen to you all day hello from the uk 🇬🇧🇬🇧
Stephanie Harlowe no need to apologize! so happy you’re getting sponsorships!
no worries😘❤️ people can still skip it anyway
Girl you need to make your money, dont apologize, we love you and appreciate you!
She stopped to talk to awkward 12 year old me and sign an autograph for me during a busy event and I’ll never forget how genuinely nice she was. Rest in Power Brittany
Power? Was that a typo? I've heard she was one of the nicest women in Hollywood so that's lovely hear
That's really cool
@@Al-kb2xl not a typo. It's a similar way to say rest in peace. Some people also say fly high after someone passes.
@@Al-kb2xl Antifa says that saying alot "rest in power"
@@matts5933 lots of people use it, it’s not a political term 😂
God, the mom’s crying on the 911 call breaks my heart. The juxtaposition between the cries and the calmness doesn’t strike me as weird. If it were my daughter (God forbid anything like that ever happen to her!), I suspect I would react similarly, trying to keep myself together in the hopes that she could possibly be saved, but the fear and grief seeping out in spurts.
Agreed. I handle severe stress by oscillating between hysterics and calmness, it’s not uncommon. People often have no clue how they’d react in those situations until they’re in them.
Jessica Mayberry I totally agree. 😔
I agree. That's the thing I hate about 911 calls being released for the public to hear. No one knows how'd they react in a horrible situation like this, and everyone acts differently in crisis.
Jessica Mayberry this may sound weird but I love your vocabulary! ❤️
I thought that too. I don’t think you can judge someone about their behavior on a 911 call especially when their daughter is laying there lifeless. Nobody knows how they would react in that situation and I pray to God I never have to find out.
Decided I'm commenting on every single post of Stephanie's for harloween she deserves the interaction for how much work shes put in
Sierra Armstrong her videos are the absolute best!! Georgia Marie is also pretty thorough with her content
Absolutely agree. I have so much respect for her channel & others like it that you can clearly see how much work is done & also how much they care about what their doing.
Shes amazing and deserves all of the attention, recognition and love!
You're right!! Her research is next level!!
Yes!!
"Mommy I can't catch my breath" just broke me. I can't imagine feeling so helpless when your loved one is having an emergency like that😢😢
That broke my heart, too.
Exactly was poisoning her, so she can get the Mony, she giver narcotics ... 😢
Probably the Narsisitc Husband was sleeping with the Mother and when he find out that the mother got the mony, they get in an argument and she eliminate him to stay clean and cover up
The Mother looks so Controling..of course was the mother it is the perfect Crime nobody will suspect that the evel mother Kill her.... 😢❤
I can’t express how important it is for people to learn how to do CPR. I’d really recommend taking a first aid course, you never know when you could save a life
In Texas, it's mandatory to be CPR certified to graduate high school.
Errin With 2 R’s first thing I notice in a public place- where them AED’s at?! 🤣❤️🙏✅
I just want to add that if you do encounter someone having a seizure DO NOT place a spoon in their mouth. Do not try and hold them down or restrict their movement. You should remove any sharp or potentially harmful objects, cushion their heads, and loosen their shirt collar if it can be safely done. Time the seizure. Place them on their side during recovery.
@@damaciogarza2998 is this recent..? Because it was not a thing in 2012
Really? All my cousins and their girlfriends were lifeguards and had all the CPR, with the gear that helps with compressions, and they were saying there’s barely a chance of saving anyone. If you aren’t breaking ribs, you aren’t pumping hard enough. It’s extremely difficult to do proper CPR.
The way her Mom reacted is normal. She was in shock & panicking. She was calm in some moments bc she desperately trying to help save her daughter. My God, that is so sad...
And called her daughter “someone” lol
@@kalieXandXkallysta y'know, shock is one helluva drug.
The phone call almost made me cry. Poor Sharon sounded scared to death!
@@kalieXandXkallysta Sometimes your brain distances you from traumatic situations like that.
I would have found that odd too if I hadn't done it myself. I got a call saying my cousin wouldn't wake up and by the time i got there the police were already there and when they opened the door i saw him laying face down dead. I became hysterical. When the police would talk to me I immediately stopped crying. It turned on and off. I was in shock and disbelief. I knew I had to tell the police everything I knew to help them figure out what happened. It was like God came into me and made me stop crying so I could talk to the police. I ended up telling them what he had shown me the day before and because of That info it made the police search the girls home he was in. I didn't know this at the time but it ended up being the girls drugs. So she went to jail. That happened to me when i was 22 years old. It traumatized me.
People are so critical. You hear a mom in distress and when she’s calm, she was trying to keep it together to talk with the 911 operator. There’s no protocol on how to act when you see your child on the floor not breathing. Smh.
I agree, what is someone who is panicking supposed to sound like when a 911 operator is barking at her to count and other nonsense? They are usually trying to get hysterical people to focus. So then they focus. Then people are like, you sound too calm. People just need to understand really basic psychology.
I agree. I would be losing my sh*t.
Heather Nicole
Totally agree hun
She’s Losing it
BCOS HER DAUGHTER IS DYING IN FRONT OF HER
her calmness is her pulling it together momentarily
In hopes of (against her intuition) Brittany being ok; her being able to be saved
Of course her behaviour is ‘irrational’
Her whole life, as in her heart, her child is slipping away before her
She can’t concentrate as her distress/fear grabs hold
Then she snaps back to into focus to try do anything that will help save her daughter
Amen on ur comment, I have 2daughters and I don’t know that if I’m the same situation, I’d actually manage the composure she’s shown :WHEN THE OPERATOR COMMANDED her to concentrate.. key point here.. She hasn’t bounced from mood to mood, She’s distraught, momentarily gathers herself to assist in the possibility of her daughter surviving, & quickly returns to her present traumatised state.
I also think THAT SIMON AND SHARON stayed in that house, CLINGING TO EACH OTHER SOMEWHAT, PROBABLY CAUGHT UP IN GRIEF ,& just going through the stages, holding on to each other as a memory of Brittany, each person helping to remind the other of Brittany.. So ,There’s nothing strange in that.. Frankly I think the speculation that their relationship is weird or sexual is actually down right disrespectful ..
For someone who ‘thinks’ they encourage walking down conspiracy “”theories”” road , um yeh : there’s no point in dissecting how many angles you basically don’t come at or encompass Stephanie
In this day n age
I probably wouldn’t pass judgement
That ANYTHING is absurd
Maybe, rather than thinking the Snowden’s and other x C_A assets have the only conspiracy theories validated and targeted individuals r just looney toons, some WHOLEhearted research would quickly dissuade you from this approach
J.S
Example... The _onfessional_ , one four four .. Theres a HELL OF A LOT more going on layer by later, dimensionally , spiritually than we r actually capable of conceiving
J.S
Sorry Heather
Thought ur courage , morals, r spot on here
I ran away with the remaining rant
Apologies
Eve
I agree...people who criticize the mom for the way she was acting during the 911 call have probably never been in that much panic...
Right!! How dare he tell her she doesn't have to yell!!!!! Wtf! I would not have been able to even talk to that dude...I give her credit...Omg that was hard to listen to.... It makes you want to make sure you know how to do CPR... Her poor mom!!!!!! My heart just broke all over again for her!!! I totally get the whole calm, then flipping out thing... Because reality goes in and out... so sad! Rip Brittany Murphy 💔
To me, the mother on the 911 call sounds like she's going in and out of shock. She's really upset and I don't doubt her sincerity one bit. I mean she's crying hysterically and the dispatcher keeps bringing her back and trying to snap her back to reality. Man, that call is soul crushing. Poor lady. Sorrow took her over for certain. 😢
She was acting, what about, that she made her write a letter to let her money for her ??? Probably the evil lady ask for😂 Mony 😢❤
Her and her husbands death has always bothered me. My gut tells me there is more to the story that we will never know about.
It was crazy when he passed away after her and made it seem just even more shady.
Or it could have just been a crazy coincidence, especially considering they both had pneumonia as well as anemia. Stranger things have happened.
@@VioletJoy yeah I agree. I just think they were abusing drugs
NeickhaSuPRA You’re spot on! They abused opiates and benzodiazepines in combination, that’s a recipe for death.. 😞
Thérèse Gander except the toxicology report showed what was in their system and the levels were not high enough to cause death
I'm kind of weirded out by the fact Brittany didn't like that house, and then both she and her husband died in it.
There was something in that house
Or someone!
Shortyy Shorty mold
@ mold may not necessarily be seen as mold but rather spots... they would have to either biopsy or test sputum to test mold
@@Sassy8utube Right,but it would be seen in some way on the lung surely that raised suspicion?
When I heard Brittany sing the one line "rollin with the homies" in Clueless I knew she could sing. It was evident from that short little sample. I wish she had more opportunities to showcase her voice.
It was Happy Feet that made me realize she could sing haha. I was a little too young for Clueless but have obviously seen it now yeah.
#CLASSIC👍👋👋👋☺
yes!!
She was Gloria in happy feet. That movie really showcased her voice. Such a great voice!
She also sang the menthos commercial in clueless, which is also a great showcase of her voice
Hair dresser here....just thought I’d interject regarding the statement about heavy metals being in hair dye...heavy metals can be found in “store bought” hair color. That is the major difference between professional hair color and store bought. Considering Brittney was a celebrity, I can almost guarantee that she was not doing her hair at home with L’Oréal hair color or some other store bought brand. Just wanted to clear that up. ✌🏻❤️
Heavy metals can be found in drugs.
I agree, her blonde hair looked like a work done by professional
She was brunette in her last days so I’m wondering if maybe she was. When my hair is dark I do it myself even tho I can afford a salon. Lol
Riding in Cars with Boys is one of my favorites, her drunk wedding speech is everything.
I lovvvvvveee that movie!
loveeebthat movie!!
Yessss!!! Faye was the funniest part of that movie! 💜
1000% 👏
YES! People tend to only think of drew barrymore in that movie but Brittany was hilarious
I can’t imagine being a 911 dispatcher! This call was very frustrating.....what a difficult job.
rand kubaysi The whole time I was like “PUT IT ON SPEAKER PHONE! THIS IS A BAD SITUATION FOR A MIDDLE MAN!”
Jessica Mayberry yes I felt his frustration 😩
Right!!! Have you never seen a movie with CPR at least. This was the most frustrating call... everyone is useless in this!!
I got bad vibes from her mom and husband during that call. I think she was fake crying.
Jessica Mayberry TOTALLY!! It just about drove me mad!! Why won’t he count out loud??!!?$&!!
When my mother was dying, each one of us in the family had moments of calm clarity and moments of utter distress. We cycled through them and thankfully when I was in gibbering meltdown, my father was calm and when he was melting down, I was calm. When both he and I were bad, my sister would be the one talking to the doctors. It's how it is.
Wow, this is so true but reversing mom for my dad. it's funny how similar humans are. Our family went through the exact same cycles of distress and clarity.
I was going to say the same... when my brother died, I went from hysterics to completely calm and numb - no tears - in the span of about 30 minutes. I then continued to be in calm mode from the evening the day I found out he died through his funeral. Yep, I didn’t even cry at his funeral. I can’t explain it. This was an unexpected, sudden death, a situation where you might imagine you would be inconsolable for a very long time... and we were close. I think my brain did this for the sake of my kids who were very distraught; I had to be strong. You just don’t know how you’ll react until you are in that situation.
Her mother’s reaction seems very logical to me. She was scared to death, but also wanted to focus and save her daughters life. 🤷🏼♀️
Not with humans, as I've never been in an emergency situation where a loved one died suddenly, but when my boyfriend and I had to unexpectedly put our dog down, we went through the same thing. I would hold myself together long enough to try to make informed decisions whilst my boyfriend lost it, and when I began to lose it, he would gather himself and take over. Simon seemed to be out of it on meds, for whatever reason(s), and I think the poor mother realized she was kind of on her own in the room, there, trying to get Simon to save her daughter, juggle her own emotions, and communicate with and follow and relay the instructions of the 911 operator to Simon, who again seemed pretty disoriented. I'm sure she must have felt as if she was drowning. I can't even imagine.
This is so true. I experienced the same. So sorry for your loss. Bless you! 👊👊💙
Yes as my father was dying at Mass General his oximeter started plummeting I yelled help him!!! right in middle of hospital floor even though he was dying of brain tumors. Half hour later I went downstairs got snacks to share. That's how it goes. I was all over the place and so was the rest of my family
Her mum's primal screaming and wailing during the 911 call as she tries to retain her composure is heartbreaking 😢
Yeah, it really got to me, too...Immediately after my mother died, I reacted in a similar way: I oscillated between calm focus, disbelief, and utter despair. The grief started once I realized that her death was real. So, to me, Britney’s mother’s reaction seemed “normal.” Heartbreaking is right...
It certainly is.
This. I had to pause the video a number of times from hearing her mother cry - it reminded me so much of how I reacted to hearing that my grandmother and suddenly passed away. I relate so much to how her emotions were all over the place.
i couldn’t listen anymore; very very sad. i too found my child. my son, when he was 2. it is so so so so so surreal when it is you making the call…i fumbled my phone password, i forgot my own address, then i thought everything would be okay when i started compressions and his lungs squeaked…. these moments never leave you. heartbreaking. just heartbreaking.
@@lh3041 How absolutely horrific for you. I am so sorry for your pain and hope you have managed to find some peace x
Brittany's death has never settled with me, something feels off.
@r l Congratulations to the most ignorant, self-righteous comment of the day!!!
r l You're obviously a mean-spirited piece of trash. Please don't disgrace Stephanie's amazing channel with your repulsive self.
There's probably a septic tank or a porta potty near you.
Go swimming.
That's where
@ aren t nurses supposed to know how to write?
Sounds like the couple adopted a "Folie a deux " a shared psychosis or delusional disorder which is a psychiatrist syndrome with symptoms of a delusional belief as sometimes hallucinations that are transmitted from one individual to another. Also in the long list of toxicology I see that there was among many medications, morphine and the benzo family which is s very bad combination as lower resps and on top of the a pneumonia and low iron, plus her small size and heart defect from a teenager , diffinately the combination that killed her make so much sense. Husband appeared to give up on him self he also had a heart defect and if using the same medication as Britney, morphine benzos and may be alcohol he too was on a fine line to end his life. Certainly Simon didn't look like Britneys type more so her mother's, may they just got closer when brittney passed.
Same.
I literally don’t know who I used to watch before I found you 😫 could listen to you all day
Eld x awww thank you so much!
Same
Same here!!
I do 😉
Totally agree with you, Eld x! Stephanie Harlowe, you are a great storyteller, and at least as addictive as any suspense novel. Could (and do) listen to you all day.
Uptown girls is by far one of the greatest movies ever
Danielle Nash loved it😩❤️
Free style is for hippies.
OMG YES YES YES YEEEEESSSSS
I seriously forgot about it / haven't thought about it in YEARSSSSS until I watched this
Danielle Nash it was so much fun and so sweet!
It's now coming out that Britney Spears previously lived in the house, and was also terrified of it - apparently she felt a malicious spiritual presence.
TOXIC MOLD
She was push down the stairs and immediately run out of the house and left everything there.
Demonic
She moved out of the house without taking any of her furniture or belongings. She just left and then sold out. That's how freaked out she was by the house. It's just so creepy.
Whaaaaaaaa!
7:49 is when the promo ends and she begins discussing the case, this note is for myself if I come back to watch or if anyone else finds it helpful. Have a lovely day everyone.
Sky Angel You’re welcome, enjoy your day!
Thanks. It was ridiculous.
I loved it. Let the woman make some money!
Prana Parks I didn’t say she shouldn’t, most RUclipsrs do these promos now. As I said, I left this comment partly for myself because I will watch it again and it’s nice to know where to skip to. I don’t begrudge any creator doing the promotional ads to make their money, but I have a choice in how many times I personally watch the same person do the same ad (which are equivalent to at least one commercial break [meaning, multiple commercials in its length] on traditional television) that’s all.
To clarify, she can make half the video an ad if she wants to and I genuinely don’t care but I will fast forward through it, and that’s my prerogative. Have a nice day!
@@imkindapissedaboutthis2314 absolutely! I'm glad she is making money doing this! I'm glad you posted it because, I also rewatch a lot of videos (more than once, sometimes). In my opinion, it was a super lengthy ad, but the content after was great! And that's all that matters, really!
Hope everyone has a great day!!!
She was incredible in "Girl, Interrupted".
Yessss, Daisy! Oh man, that scene when they're all in the ice cream shop and Daisy gets super pissed at that one girl (Bonnie, I think) for holding her ice cream cone way too close to her face and yells: "Get that out of my face, asshole!" right before slapping it out of her hand onto the floor, hahaha. That's one of my favorite scenes from that movie. Now I really want to re-read the book and re-watch the movie.
@@ichbinari 👌🏼
girl, interrupted is so good hwuajwjoanwnw
@WookDizz18 《CHICKEN under the bed!!!!!!!! 😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆》
@WookDizz18 You stole my comment...lol.
The mom crying then being calm i understand! My nephew many years ago he was 9 months old and stopped breathing he was sleeping and luckily in my arms i hadn't put him in his bed yet . let me tell you i don't think i remember a damn thing the 911 guy said!! All i knew is when i called i just wanted them there that second! I screamed so much my next door neighbor came bursting through my door with a bat in her hand thinking some one was killing me, i hardly knew the woman other then saying , hello once in awhile, she turned out to be a nurse!!!! I still thank god for that woman till today she is the reason my nephew is alive today. But the 911 call? Yeah all i did was scream on that call........
I am glad he is OK.
Wow what a great women she was ready to protect you 👏
People react in odd ways to a crisis and it really shouldn’t be picked apart so much. When I’ve been in bad situations I’ve been stone cold calm to hyperventilating and back again. Our minds are just strange things.
How scary for you. If you DIDN'T scream so, the nurse may not have come, so really, you saved the baby! Good job!
@@doubtful_seer I completely agree. I watch true crime stuff all the time and they are always pointing out things that seem suspicious and stuff people do that makes them look guilty and a sometimes I do those things. Just yesterday someone was saying “who walks their dogs at 3am?” 🙋🏼♀️ I’m not a murder, I’m just weird. And I’d really hate to have my life and strange behaviors picked apart.
Britney Spears moved out of that house because she didn’t like the vibes it gave her, she felt uneasy there and wanted to sell the house shortly after being in it. She wouldn’t even sleep there. Weird.
I wonder who lived in that house before. Very weird indeed.
Raise your hand 🙋🏻♀️ if you are glad to see Stephanie getting sponsors and you also try to watch all the ads cause we wanna support this woman’s content& hustle.
You are killing it girl 👏 Brittany Murphy really did seem like such a sweet & kind soul from my perception.
Thank you, love!
🖐️🙋♀️🙆♀️
I'm not going to watch over 7 minutes of an ad. That's basically an infomercial.
You and brittany Murphy have a similar aura about you. You're super cute and charming like her imo. Smiley face. Xo
Fairy Circle To my understanding it increases the and revenue and it increases the content creators “marketability” If advertisers see that ads are viewed in full they will likely continue to consider that creator a viable source for advertisement. This is likely more crucial with creators (like true crime) that typically are considered less desirable to advertisers.
I dont think that 911 call is suspicious, when my daughter was having an allergic reaction i was panicked, short of breath, but i also had moments of calm because i knew i needed to be clear to the operator and i think it was adrenaline. So to me personally i dont find it weird that the mother was on a rollercoaster of going between calm and panicking when her daughter was dying.
She was a good actress and beautiful woman, i dont usually remember people but she was memorable to me 🙏🏼💖☹
en cee ‘somebody has passed out’ that struck me as very odd....
I agree. When y son was dying I fluctuated between totally calm and rational and a soggy, catatonic blob in the corner of the room unable to comprehend human speech.
When my dad shot himself, I went back and forth as well. The police told me on the scene that it was shock. I was worried they'd think I shot him since I wasn't a mess at all moments. People who think that call sounds suspicious or that her husband "didn't put much effort it," as someone in these comments actually said, needs to be excruciatingly thankful to have no idea what it's like. I'm actually pissed of right now at all the people passing judgement. I bet they think they'd act heroically. Truth is, even trained medical professionals panic when it's their loved one. My mom was a nurse. She definitely didn't stay calm at all times to play the hero, despite having dealt with similar situations a lot. All bets go out the window when someone you love is dying or dead.
@@KathySong1 It sounds a little weird at first, but I think she was just trying to explain the situation.
@@KathySong1 saying "somebody" can help someone detach from a situation and handle things more rationally. If you say "my daughter" it's like the weight of the situation actually hits you. That's just what I think from my own experience, stepping back from a situation helps me stay as rational as possible
She woulda been a great Harley Quinn
I thought the same thing. She would have been so perfect for that part.
Omg, yes!!!!
No doubt. Probably could've carried a whole movie centered around the character
slartibartfast85 wow ok her glasses are not sjw but not her, the actor that died
slartibartfast85 so all glasses are?
Not that my opinions matters LOL but -- I didn't hear anything wrong with her mom on the 911 call. Recently going through a trauma resulting in the death of my dad, I reacted similarly. Sobs when my heart really felt the severity of the situation and calm when I needed to make a decision.
People are quick to judge but no one really knows how they would act during a traumatic situation
Michelle McDonnell I’m so sorry for you loss! Words can not explain the heartbreak of losing a loved one.
I’m sorry to hear about your father, my condolences.
You are correct though, the mother sounds completely normal for this situation.
I was about to say the same thing! My stepfather died in October of 2018 after a long horrific battle with cancer. We had three at-home emergencies during his last few weeks, and it was exactly like this. My mom and I would both swing from panicked to rational in a matter of seconds. Adrenaline can do crazy things.
It just sounded like she was in a dream. As if she could not believe she was experiencing that. I was that way when my son died. I would be calm to fix it and understand and start panicking. It’s the anxiety.
I feel a need to express the reasons YOU stand out from others who create similar content:
1. You are never disrespectful in any way to victims or their innocent family members.
2. You gather reliable and relevant information regarding all avenues of the case you are researching.
3. You consistently refrain from embellishing details and also respectfully omit disturbing information that would only provide “shock value” to an already tragic/painful event.
4. You explore each theory involving unsolved crimes based on available facts; you do not simply focus on your personal opinion and discount or leave out other scenarios even if you feel they are unlikely.
5. You are a truth seeker whose goal is justice by way of providing accurate and updated information from all possible sources.
These are only the top 5 reasons I admire your tedious and seemingly tireless effort to bring dark and mysterious cases to your rapidly growing channel. Your work is much appreciated, and presented and a tasteful and earnest way.
You are a classy bitch, Stephanie. Keep it up.
Don’t come for me. ♥️
I’m coming for you! 😉 BEST comment here! I hope she sees & pins it! Xo
Elsa-Lee Treasure 😯😲WOW! Thank you for the kind words! ♥️ Stephanie’s work is top-notch, and your comment shows that her audience is truly a community of good-hearted people. 😊🤗 Also, I LOVE that you said, “I’m coming for you.”🤣🤣🤣 Thanks again for brightening my day.🥰
this needs to be a top comment
resting sad face 😯♥️ Humbled by your kind words! We Stephanie Harlowe supporters definitely appreciate her integrity. She has a very welcoming and friendly community. Can we be considered a cult (allegedly)??!!!🤣🤣♥️🤗 🤪🎃
@@lisalamb5448 your comment is proof that Stephanie's followers are the best ones out there. I love to see women uplifting one another. Much love your way 😘
I miss Brittany so much, she was a wonderful actress...
Me too! What a joy she was and her outlook on life and overall attitude was beautiful and something we should all take note of and try to be like!! Such a role model for women and an aspiration to all!!!
Same here. I was following her career, id watch movies just based on her having a roll in it
I loved her. I loved ramen girl.
I loved her I’m Clueless. She was just so sweet. She also stared in a Nora Roberts inspired movie. Jason Lewis was in it too. I forgot the title.
Me too
The way the mom talked to the dispatch agent reminds me of exactly how I was when my friend drowned. Part of my brain was soooo distressed and worried, but part of me knew I had to communicate effectively and do everything I can. I even snapped at and cursed the dispatch agent. I feel so bad about it now, they deal with so much
I'm sure they understood that you were afraid.
Yeah and the fact that alot of people in the comments are saying it's weird that she was suddenly calm and suddenly freaking out and that it's suspish is baffling to me
Like goo for them if they've never been in Such a serious situation but I've had to call the ambulance after a car accident in which my cousin brother was severely severely injured. I was injured too but I woke up after the initial shock and I tried waking him up and he wasn't waking up so i was so panicked while calling the ambulance and didn't even realise that I wa bleeding out profusely too because I was so focused on just getting some help and I was not crying or anything, I was pretty stoic but rushed because I knew it's useless to cry in that situation.
But when I was on that highway, waiting for help, alone, injured and scared and I had to call family members to tell them what happened I started crying in the middle of explaining the situation to my mom.
I didn't have the guts to call my aunt and uncle because I was so Scared that my cousin was gonna die
And then when he went into a coma because of brain trauma I Felt so guilty that I didn't end up the same way and why he has to suffer so much when his life is so much more worthy than mine Because he's smarter, more compassionate and just a Better person than me
To this day that scene of waking up in that trashed car and seeing blood all over and him being unresponsive haunts me, I Still have nightmares where he doesn't make it and the entire family hates me because I didn't die instead of him.
@@ritikadatta6078 I assume by the last portion of your comment he did indeed survive? I hope you're all okay now.
Her Mom was in shock, as an EMT and someone who has given mouth to mouth to my brother, I can tell you this is a perfectly normal response
Exactly. do believe this is why if an emt worker goes to a scene and its a loved one they arent allowed to help bc of that emotional attachment 9/10 you wont be as much help at all and not able to control your emotions. ..what's so hard to understand about that?
@@katasue2633 you are correct, although my very first 'call' after I graduated school, my brother overdosed and I had to give him mouth to mouth for 13 minutes until EMS arrived... it was almost like instinct, I just did what I had to, broke down once for half a second during, but kept going... it was hours before the shock wore off then I completely lost it!
It felt very real to me
As a nurse who tried to resuscitate both my own brother and many years later my boyfriend (both passed at the scene), I can tell you that you go into a different mode. Some people get very calm and focused. Other people freak out completely. Maybe my training kicked in, but all I was focused on was trying to save them. There was no emotion except for urgency for someone to get to me because I knew I didn’t have the equipment to save their lives. After the paramedics arrived, both times I fell apart and down into a spiral of PTSD for months. I think sometimes your brain protects you in moments of trauma.
@@nursenitz I understand fully what you mean, and I'm so very sorry you experienced that
That phone call is actually haunting and I feel like I'm about to start crying. 911 calls are always horrible, but this one has me breaking to be honest...
You can just feel the agony that her mother is going through in that moment.
Pure agony
She was so brilliant in 'Girl, Interrupted'... And 'King of the Hill' is one of my favorite shows.
Luanne!! I forgot how good she was in that show.
I liked her in Girl interrupted. I loved her in, Riding in cars with boys! It is so good. It also stars Drew Barrymoore.
Abra AWE-bruh Singleton her eat-in chicken....kitchen , love it!
I loved her in Don't Say A Word.
Loved her in Uptown Girls and Ramen Girl
Here's something that struck me as weird. Before Simon died and after Brittany'. when he was doing an interview with Sharon, he called her "baby." He called his mother in law baby. and as she was speaking to the 911 dispatchers she called him "honey." A reporter also said he'd told her that sometimes Sharon would crawl in his bed with him to cry. It feels weird to me.
I thought that also who calls there mother in law baby ? No one i know anyway
They were having an affair. This story goes deep deep.
My brother always accidentally calls me baby
It crossed my mind too ! Came across as very bizarre
I had to do CPR on my grandfather after he had a heart attack and it is physically exhausting. At the end it took every bit of my energy to continue but I knew I couldn't stop. My heart goes out to anyone that has to do CPR on a loved one.
In the ER we switch every two minutes, it is very tiring
I did cpr on my dad when he passed away when I was 16 and I agree! The most physically and emotionally draining thing ever.
Was he able to be brought back around?
It's physically and mentally exhausting indeed.
They didn't do CPR. That's a lie for the sake of narrative.
Brittany had been dead for 4+ hours before anyone found her.
No one does CPR when the body is entering level 4 rigor mortis.
The mom going from frantic to calm in a matter of seconds is not strange at all. That’s exactly what my panic attacks look/sound like. It’s like the rational part of your brain is trying to gather itself but the terror/panic is too strong to suppress completely. Absolute hell. I don’t wish that feeling on anyone.
Am I the only one really creeped out by the fact that she never wanted to go home and sleep in the house? 😬😬😬
Yeah. That is so bizarre!
Yeah. Just you.
@@TrumanGN good for you. plenty of middle aged ladies wouldn't hold up that way, though, as you must know...
dani's right, implying her mom murdered her is low.
@@TrumanGN save it for debate class. it was a comment on your morality, yes--obviously. you're stating an entirely baseless opinion that happens to be borderline evil in it's cruelty.
your theory was that they were both poisoned over a long period of time, culminating in not hospital stays, not a lengthy, severe deterioration, but drop dead on the floor deaths? how far back do you propose her own mom started her poisoning campaign?
as far as your question as to motive and who had what money, are you of the opinion there _was_ any money? it would seem getting kicked off of a b movie filmed in the middle of nowhere is the kind of thing that happens to broke actors, not wildly successful ones, even if she was recognizable.
also, did you read the autopsy? I don't see any need to find a killer and even less need to pick the grieving mother.
did he delete all his comments?
Brittany died in December 2009. She showed all the same symptoms my son showed in December 2013. With the exception of diabetes. My son passed from H1N1. He became septic, which shut down his organs. He was gone in 4 hours. H1N1 Made two deadly rounds in the US, the first in 2009 the second in 2013. It took many young adults. The 20 to 40 year olds were hit extremely hard by this strand of flu. It's a very real possibility she passed from H1N1, before it was diagnosed in the United States.
It’s quite possible . I was a nurse practitioner in a walk in clinic when that pandemic hit . We had one day in June I think where 23 out of my 25 patients had tested positive for type A flu along with GI symptoms leading for high suspicion and diagnosis of H1N1. Brittney , though, had more severe respiratory symptoms which leads me to suspect she had a Type B flu . During 2009-2010- I probably had hundreds of H1N1 patients . Rarely, did they have severe respiratory illness or body aches . What I was seeing was GI upset , dehydration , exhaustion , fever, and malaise . Generally the fever was lower than Type B - unless the patient was immunocompromised . I’m very sorry to you for the loss of your son . Diabetes definitely complicates even a simple cold . Had his blood sugars been under poor control? I know type 1 DM is so hard to navigate and control . I’m so sorry for your loss . That pandemic just hit so hard so fast . It was actually already well documented in the US when she passed- as it started in March and by April 2009 was getting so bad . She could have had H1N1 vs the regular seasonal flu . I was at work when I found out she passed and had wondered that too
@@alisonlanius5725 Andrew, didn't have diabetes, but Brittany did. Andrew waited to long to get treatment.
Thank you. For years I wondered about mom, since Brittany's husband died not long after, but mom was fine. H1N1 makes sense.
911 calls give me so much anxiety. I commend anyone who does that job.
Amber Limbaugh Same, and wow you’re beautiful.
K Bux Thanks so much! You are as well! ☺️
@slartibartfast85 wtf?
@slartibartfast85 dude get help
My cousin does it and shes a Rock star I don't know how she does it. But recently she had a hard life obstacle and I think 911 dispatch prepped her for life's struggles.
If he was so into natural medicine to the point where he wouldn’t let his wife go to the doctor why was he on so many medications
That's exactly what I said when she was reading off all these medicines was uhhhh well none of those are holistic matter fact several are controlled substances that need a Drs order to get.
Yeah....except there's nothing "natural" about Klonopin and Valium
He just sounds like a textbook controlling abusive husband, to me.
@@Wildchile absolutely does. So sad too. She was so beautiful and fun.
@@kristasweetleaf5695 That's exactly her point...
Your voice and attitude are perfect for this "genre".
I think she should work for audible narrating books. I could listen all the time. very soothing
Thank you!!!
Kihyun's vocals PERIODT! I fell in love with her channel about a year ago. She’s fantastic! She turned me on to Hamilton! I was a vocal performance major a million years ago...
Your icon and screen name ♥️
Stephanie does a wonderful job painting the picture for us. Very engaging
@@DLWSHP1010 Yes, great idea! Count me in !!
'It's impossible to rule out murder': renowned pathologist Dr Cyril Wecht. He is calling for her case to be re opened because of the heavy metals. He stated rodenticides often have heavy metals. He questioned the initial autopsy asking why tissues weren't checked considering the heavy metals found. Hopefully it gets reopened
My uncle was murdered with rat poison but had drugs in his system so they just said it was a drug overdose ... but he was into shady stuff and word around the area was that they murdered him the guy was bragging
Munchouser by proxy. Mom did it
@@karlynnelangerak4549 Usually there would be waayyyy earlier signs and symptoms if that were the case. Typically throughout childhood. I won't go into detail but I experienced the abuse of someone with this when I was a kid and have looked into it a lot as an adult. It's typical for friends, teachers, other parents, medical professionals, child protective services, ect, to at least notice something.
@@weekendnomad5038 rat poison often ends up in overly cut heroine and cocaine - I’m sorry this happened to your family member but an easy way to kill an associate who would take drugs from you. When heroine or large amounts of cocaine are found, the powers that be stop caring unfortunately.
Yea I agree! Also I think the third party report it doesn't state that they "gave their opinion". They stated that with that amount of heavy metal in her system clearly it was put in by someone and to cause that person fatal harm. The report didn't mention the dad's conspiracy about the government being involved,just stating the obvious. And that it needs to be looked into and seen as a homicide! And idk if constantly dyeing your hair could lead you to have FATAL heavy levels of metal in your system. Plus the husband too? Idk very suspicious. Don't think the government did it but I do believe there was foul play!
I always thought it was weird af, when her mom sold personal letters of Brittany, a bra and bathing suits, jewelry with her initials and even her passport and cards on an auction site. These are personal things I would like to keep of my child, you know? Call me nostalgic
www.julienslive.com/view-auctions/individual-lots/?page=1&key=BRITTANY+MURPHY
Here is the link to the whole auction. Lord of clothes she had worn in movies of for photoshoots, but also personal belongings
@@annigr.7380 bizarre...
Everyone deals diffrently with the loss and if you don't have heart to keep it neither to throw it in trash, why not? I dont think that is something to judge. - Do dead need passport, clothes, jewelry? No.
Just one example: Most of my friends keep ashes of their pets in the place of living. I dont understand that, I dont do that. I dont even take photos of my dog being put to sleep or dying. And many of my pet friends do that. Theese ppl didnt change jobs for their dogs, they rather let the dog hold pee and poo for endless hours (10+ hours). I changed job 3 times for my dog, so she can have proper walks every 3-5hours. You shall not judge that because someone deals with loss diffrently than you doesnt mean they do not love the lost loved one.
She probably kept some of it. It's weird but if I was brittany I'd want my family to sell the stuff and make whatever money they could from it.
" do you have a defibrillator in the house? "
Seriously who has a defibrillator in their house? Is that a thing
Right? Maybe its a rich people thing or upper class thing, where they have defibrillators? IDK. Unless you are a doctor, I could not really imagine a reason to have one in your home no matter if you are upper class or not.
Allison Smith this comment is serious but so funny 😆
You can get one for $60 online, they are a lot more common then they use to be but yea i don't know many that actually have one at home besides high schools and some stores etc
@@WV_Mudpuppy really, what a modern age we are in. $60 wow
@@amberlinmchugh8115 considering the others are $1000 or more I'd say yea that's pretty reasonable
We love who we love. Physical appearance doesn’t matter.
It shouldn't matter, but so many people are terrified of others' opinions. Or just driven solely by society/media's notion of beauty.
Sure not to women. But it did for him. They matter to me too. I'm not fucking an ugly dude.
I agree but with Simon it isnt his physical appearance that turned me off. Its the heavy, clinging, depressing energy he brings. I would happily be with a man like Jack Black or Kevin James (neither are traditionally attractive but their energy is awesome.) This guy Simon just seemed like a drag. I never understood why she was with him.
Well physical attraction is generally a fundamental part of romantic love lol...
@@Jacksonandjulian I know why you'll never understand. It's because American women are so entitled, so shallow, so mean spirited that they can't stand even the thought of a man they deem "unworthy" being happy with anyone. Does that clear things up for you?
Her role as Luanne in King of the Hill is honestly so wonderful too. I feel like the role encapsulates how you’ve described her career, impeccably timed comedy but also really passionate, emotional scenes especially in the episodes dealing with Buckley’s death. I’m really glad I’ve seen a lot of people talk about how wonderful she was in this role because, like you said, she was seriously underrated.
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She reminds me a bit of Marilyn Monroe, her glow, her sense of humor, ability to just captivate on screen, her breathy voice and even her insecurities... and sadly dying under strange circumstances
You realize how chilling this comment is
Uptown Girls was one of my favourite movies ever. She was such a good actress
Mine too, I was going to say that one also
Mine too.
Mine too, such a precious person 💕
Same
Love love love it ❤️❤️
It really doesn’t matter how many times I’ve heard a case from “top to bottom,” I will always watch again when it is told by you because I know there will always be so many little tidbits in your re-telling that make a case so much more fascinating!
For anyone who thinks Brittany’s mother is behaving at all abnormally on that phone call: I have been there. When someone you love stops breathing and responding and you can feel the life leaving them emotions and shock can make you go from one extreme to another in a split second. While the rational part of your mind is trying to cope and process and save, the sheer horror of the situation is unbearable. There is no “right” of “normal” reaction.
Very true! Buuutttt, why wasn't she ensuring the husband was giving cpr properly??? And the operator kept asking over and over again. This is unacceptable. I can understand being historical but follow directions to at least give your loved one a chance. I feel the mother and husband is responsible for her death
@@positiveelegance286 did you read the same comment that I did?
My heart broke for her!!!!
@@positiveelegance286 it is called shock. I am certain she questions and beats herself up every day. You don't know what you would do in that moment until it happens the EXACT SAME WAY. Even then, we ALL are different and react differently.
@@industrialover I have also been there, unfortunately. My partner was doing an amazing job performing infant CPR on our 3 month old daughter while I was hysterical on the phone with 911. Over 8 years later, I still thank God he was there to try to save her while I was in the same state as Brit’s Mom. Unfortunately, she passed from Asymptomatic Double Pneumonia. But he does struggle with guilt from time to time, and I reassure him he did everything he could. We were forced to change our ways when I got pregnant, I’m sure most people can understand what I’m implying but not outright saying. Even though the grief was and is sometimes still unimaginable, we’ve maintained the positive life changes. I know our child was a gift from God to make us appreciate our own lives. She literally saved our lives and not being able to do that for her is crushing. But her short sweet life was something I will always be grateful for 👼🏼🙏🏼❤️🩹 So, right, unless you have actually been in that situation, you have no idea how horrible and difficult it really is.
The fact that the 911 operator was instructing how to preform CPR over and over again with neither one of them paying attention is frustrating to me. This is your daughter/wife, focus. Her life was literally in their hands and they couldn’t even keep count. I understand it’s a terrible/horrifying situation but at the same time you have a job to do
I kept thinking she must have speaker phone surely ??? put him on speaker
Yes I completely agree. But I’m sure they were doing cpr he just couldn’t count out loud because it was traumatic.
Seriously. I personally have been in life-threatening situations. All I could think about was getting everyone to safety, surviving was the only thing on my mind. I stayed levelheaded through the whole thing because that’s what had to be done.
It's a different story when it's happening in front of you when I found my mother not breathing and no pulse my father and myself could barely dial 911 because we were in shock and our brains were not working we were also hysterical it's so very hard to go through this and it's just one of those things that you pray never happens to you because the whole experience itself it's extremely traumatizing especially if your doing mouth to mouth on the corpse of the person you love the most.
It comes down to fight or flight. I understand people react to serious situations like this differently. It doesn’t change my opinion on the 911 call. A good actress was lost and we’ll never know why. It’s awful. Losing any loved one hurts and it’s heartbreaking. I still get the feeling that Brittany Murphy didn’t have to die
Just want to say that 9-1-1 operator did a good job. Many times in these cases we hear some who seems to mess up, not care or even be rude. This guy gave her clear instructions on what to do and did what he could to get the information he needs. It has to be difficult in these situations sometimes - you're not supposed to take very long to check if someone is breathing, but someone untrained of course would be panicking and unsure of themselves.
It's also very difficult to do chest compressions at the pace you need to. It'll wear you out fast, and most people get very worried about hurting their loved one because of how rough it is.
I think he did a good job taking them through the steps of what to do and acting professional. He tried to keep them on task and doing what they needed to do to save her.
Exactly. They must remain emotionless. You don't call 911 for comfort, you call for HELP. there's so many kids who know nothing in this comments section, I'm totally triggered
There's also the unfortunate reality that less than 10% of people are actually saved by CPR ....
It actually irked me that people were saying he needed to be fired. Listen to any 911 call. They aren't there to be your friend. If they sound cold, they're doing their job right. Their emotion feeds your fear/emotions. If they sound shook, so will you. "Ma'am, i need you to calm down" is a perfectly reasonable thing to say. It does not mean he is unfeeling towards her or her situation.
I haven't finished yet, just finished the call, but I cannot believe anyone is questioning that call. The only person who can question that is someone who is not a parent and has never feared for their child's life due to an injury. This is EXACTLY what it sounds like to try desperately to keep it together because you know you have to, even though every cell in your body is screaming. My heart breaks for her.
Girl interrupted is unmatched.
And I fell in love with Murphy in Uptown Girls.
My two favorite movies, hands down. Always have been, always will be!
Girl interrupted is just iconic and amazing
I fell in love with Murphy when she was the lead in a ramen movie
Same♡
Me too!
As the 911 Dispatch says" you don't have to yell" wow really!!! How would you react if your daughter wasn't breathing? Ok ill just be real calm like Pasty Ramsey smdh...he's really pushy
I did not like the 911 dispatcher !
He handled it perfectly. Understandably, she was so frantic that she couldn't complete sentences. His calm and assertive demeanor was the only thing that kept her from being completely useless. I think her "moments of calm" exhibited on the call directly follow some of his more commanding statements. I don't think that's coincidence.
That was horrible. He could have calmed her and told her to understand her better he needs for her to not scream. He was Sarcastic and rude
Trey Baybie nah
The words he was looking for were “please try to calm down so I can help you best.” He was rude AF.
The Harloween intro is truly amazing!!!
Survivalcrafttop yayyy! Thank you!
Soo I watch Kendall Rae and Bailey Sarian religously and I'm really confused how I haven't heard of you before. How have you not been recommended to me before today??! Idk but I'm so glad I found this channel now. Time to binge watch all your videos!!! 🤗
Honestly i didn’t know of this amazing lady until i saw Sarah Turney’s pic with her at crime con! I can’t stop watching! Stephanie’s research is insane!
That's how I came upon this channel too, pretty much the same way. She and Baily Sarian are my fave females, imo mrballen and thatchapter are the best male true crime story tellers I've found.
Yep I love this channel, she is so sensitive when talking about cases
Same! I watch Kendall Rae and Bella Fiori all the time….I’m just seeing this girl now like why the F you not on my recommended lol she’s really good!
@@yourinnerlawyer4035 yes! MrBallen is my ultimate favorite RUclipsr of all time. I'm obsessed lol
Am I the only one that thought Simon’s chest compressions were weird? Like he was purposely moving too slow? Or not lucid enough to do proper compressions...? Idk... that was the most disturbing part to me. Like “dude!? What are you doing!?”
To me it sounded like he'd already decided for himself that she was dead (whether that was actually correct or not), and was just going through the motions for her mother.
Same! That really bothered me. They literally gave instructions on how fast. Idk. I’m a Cardiac RN & I was cringing that entire time. 😔
I agree, it sounds like they already knew she was dead, or they just couldn't handle the stress. Such a weird case.
It’s hard to know, you can’t hear much. I’m sure they were doing everything they could.
the mom was on the phone, and trying to relay the orders. she is stressed, and he didn't know what to do. don't judge either for that.
oh my gosh i’m SO glad you’re covering this story!! i just know you’re going to do it complete justice. can’t wait to watch it xx
As an Emergency Room Nurse i always tend to really analyze all medical aspects of a case. This is what I see from the reports included in this video:
Both Brittany and Simon were on a host of medical pharmaceuticals. To say either of them was holistic I think is a real stretch! Both had hydrocodone listed - which is a heavy duty narcotic that is highly addictive and a triplicate prescription (at least in Canada). It is used for severe pain and is not something to be used long term. I didn’t see any history of either one of them having any known pain conditions. This in itself can cause of host of complications in the broader context of physical and mental health.
In addition, both were on a beta blocker which is a heart medication used to slow heart rate. Although not an uncommon drug I find it interesting that they were both on the exact same med. Unfortunately, sometimes this has the effect of slowing the heart when what your body needs is to be able to speed up to accommodate for illness, stress, shortness of breath etc... to increase oxygenation and can leave your body not able to compensate.
In addition on Brittany’s toxicology report it showed Topomax - which is a drug used for seizures - which Simon had a history of, but Brittany did not. Why did she have this in her system??
They also listed Clarithromycin which is used for pneumonia - so it is clear to me that she actually HAD sought some sort of medical help with her symptoms prior to death. Unfortunately, this med is NOT effective against omoxacillin resistant staph aureus- which is what she had. It seems as though the doc that treated her probably x-ray’d her lungs due to shortness of breath or by physical exam diagnosed her with pneumonia and put her on clarithromycin - which would work for most pneumonia cases, but her’s was resistant to this antibiotic. This is sad and unfortunate, but does happen. That is why follow-up is so crucial if symptoms don’t improve, then further investigations can be done and a change in medication could be prescribed.
She also had several other meds in her system which were less noteworthy, but were prescribed by a doctor - anti-anxiety meds and an anti-depressant. None of these were above therapeutic levels from what I could see. What I did not see was a screen for drugs of abuse such as cocaine, MDMA, marijuana etc... perhaps I missed a page?? This would have been interesting to see as well.
In short, I don’t think her death is a much of a mystery as what it initially appears. Her anemia and use of corticosteroid inhalers would have put her further at risk and make her more immunocompromised. Brittany was very ill and for whatever reason did not feel able to get the help she required to turn things around in time.
Sadly, pneumonia and anemia do not bode well for the sufferer in the absence of astute medical attention. Tragic for sure.
Simon appears to have had many medical conditions not least of which was his seizure disorder and multi-pharmaceutical use. I think his death was just a matter of time and is only suspicious in light of her death coming first.
@stephanieharlowe feel free to consult me for medical questions about any of the cases you’re covering!!💜🇨🇦
Topamax can also be used for migraines. My doctor wanted me to try it but it can be teratogenic and I didn't want to risk it in case I fell pregnant. Maybe she suffered from migraines? But it is odd that her husband was prescribed the same thing. I wonder who the doctors were that were prescribing these meds, if they had the same doctor.
Wow! Thank you for sharing this information, it is really great to hear from medical professional.
May I ask, as I know some drugs can inhibit iron absorbtion - do you see any of these drugs listed in autopsy reports? It could explain why they both had anemia.
Pamela Bomersback Jesus, I’m on over 30 meds per day, several of them ones mentioned here. Your only a matter of time comment is making me low key freak out.
Topamax or topiramate is used off label for weight loss; I really think Simon must’ve been using it to treat his seizures and Britney must’ve borrowed some.
Traveling Lion no I did not see any drugs that cause chronic or microcytic anemia - it is a good question though. Also at the bottom of one report I believe that she also had severely low platelets, which is obviously not normal either. There was definitely something going on with Brittany’s blood - I dont have a theory as to what. Yes menorrhagia (heavy periods) can cause low hemoglobin, but should not affect your platelets. When your platelets are too low - your clotting properties do not work properly therefore when your blood should be clotting and it does not - maybe another reason she bled so heavily during periods. That is not usual to have low platelets - but can happen with some blood disorders as well as with a medical condition called HELLP associated with pregnancy.
Let's not forget Britney was the talented Gloria in Happy Feet and sang a lot in that movie. Fantastic voice and so very talented. She is missed for sure.
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She said that
she said that
Jewish people typically don't want autopsies, for religious reasons. Her husband's refusal is not strange or unusual.
Very common in religious families, also common in narcissistic ones where the parents/spouse don't really give a shit, or were responsible for the person's death.
Choosing to be religious isn't strange or unusual? Really?
Choosing to be religious isn't strange or unusual? Really?
@@DaveyMulholland the refusal is what isn't strange. I don't think this is a comment on whether or not religious people are always rational and has nothing to do with whether or not choice exists in being religious. It's saying, there being no autopsy isn't necessarily a reason to draw suspicion.
Jewish people do not want the blood drained from the body and bury them within 24 hours. I want the same thing and I am not a Jewish. I know this cause I've been to Israel and learned it there.
That phone call is frustrating and heartbreaking.
This was awful! I had tears in my eyes. 😥
Going to be honest, cried a lot hearing her mom's hysteria...It's very hard to listen to and not cry with her..
Especially as we know how it ended. 😢
Me too
I had to walk away 😭
You DO NOT ... REPEAT DO NOT hold down someone having a seizure and you never ever EVER put anything in their mouth, especially not a spoon!!!! That's the first thing they would tell you when you call 911 for a seizure.
I thought you move things around them.. and if its a tight space you don't hold them down but try to protect them from hitting their head...
What I was originally taught in first aid many years ago is contradicted now... its tuff.
We were taught to put a wallet in their mouth
30 years ago the training for seizures was place something in their mouth and let the seizure go however today we teach clear the area around the person and watch them. Also time the seizure so when paramedics arrive you can share that info with them.
My older sister has epilepsy and Lord don't put anything in her mouth! You roll them on their side and wait for it to pass. It's the single most scary thing I have ever seen . And I will never till my dying day forget the sounds she makes when she has them .
Thhhiiiiis
I don’t think we know the whole story here....
Definitely not.
Sloan Bella has a video channeling Britney Murphy.
I agree. This is a bizarre case.
Fun fact: When giving chest compressions do it to the tempo of "Stayin alive" to gauge your speed and timing.
EDIT: Learned this during CPR training NOT The Office 😂 But I’m glad you learned it elsewhere!
Nunya Bidness glad I wasn’t the only one who was thinkin that
I know this after that the office episode 😂
Everyone knows
Credit to the office you know this
.... another one bites the dust fits too.... there may or may not be a Spotify playlist for CPR songs. Maybe.
This will be great, got my coffee blanket and kids are at grandmas. Mommy and true crime time. This is life. Thanks miss thang. Perfect timing.
Same here...coffee..blankie and some Steph...life is good!!
marlie-bob lol this entire comment is so relatable for us Moms 😆😆💖. Enjoy your Mommy time!
marlie-bob we love harloween!!!
marlie-bob sounds perfect!
I’m glad so many mommies feel me. Moms stand together lol. Stephanie s mom crew unite ✊🏼
Has nobody ever bothered to look into the “natural” medicines they took? Being it was only them two who took those types of natural supplements ??
I think that's a lie with this holistic treatment. People who treat themselves holistically do not use normal drugs, and they even abused them.
In my opinion, the holistic treatment case was just a cover, explaining why they didn't take Brittany to the doctor. Both Brittany and Simon were using strong chemical drugs. Those who heal themselves naturally don't do that.
But they treated themselves on their own and when Brittany was getting very bad, even then they were reluctant to call an ambulance. Maybe because they were afraid that people in the hospital would reveal how many drugs Brittany was taking, how many substances were in her body.
Brittany took the potent drug Vicodin before her death, which is very dangerous, addictive and causes breathing problems. Question - was she addicted to it? Why was she taking it?
I miss her very much. :(
@@asiakreatywna omg are you serious??! 😭
@@fairestofthemall_official Yes, I am... I think Brittany was very addicted to strong medication and it was the main reason for her poor condition... They found a bottle of Hydrocodone/Vicodin, over 100 pills were missing... She received the prescription on that medication 11 days before her death... They found prescriptions for drugs under different names... Brittany, her husband and mother bought drugs from many different pharmacies so as not to arouse suspicion, Sharon obtained drugs for Brittany under the name of Lola .... The three of them had a huge problem with prescription drugs. :(
@@asiakreatywna omg thanks for educating me on that most media didn’t cover those details
I appreciate the quotes you put around "natural." They're all chemicals, just like even our own bodies are made up of chemicals. And so-called natural treatments are a huge, profit-making industry with almost no regulation or scientific testing.
I've always found Brittany's death to be strange, that is until I read her autopsy report today- it was a real eye-opener! I had no idea she had so many medical issues. Her official cause of death was pneumonia. She had a history of severe anemia, Mitral Valve Prolapse, and Diabetes. Paramedics who arrived at the scene noted her blood sugar was only 49 which is too low and dangerous (hypoglycemia) that alone can send someone into a coma or make them pass out. Most importantly, after arriving at the hospital multiple EKG's showed changes consistent with having had a heart attack. After reading the entire report I have to conclude she wasn't murdered but died because she was in poor health. I found it interesting that the cultures they took of her heart tissue came back and showed rhodotorula mucilagnosa and candida parapsilosis which are fungal contaminants. She also was suffering from severe anemia which weakened her. Also, Staph bacteria was found in her lungs.
It's too bad she didn't go to the hospital earlier, she had been suffering with stomach pain for 10 days before she died but everyone wrote it off as period cramps since she had her period and suffered with terrible cramping normally. I also found out that her mother and husband had been sick previous to her death but that she didn't get sick herself, maybe she did get sick and didn't realize she had it- it could've affected her lungs. In any case I'd encourage anyone interested to read her autopsy report for themselves. Here is a link to it:
www.autopsyfiles.org/reports/Celebs/murphy,%20brittany_report.pdf
Yes I just read it and have a bachelors in nursing and public health. She had pneumonia and was chronically anemic. Bad combo...it’s what caused the pneumonia that could be interesting...some people have speculated the building was “sick”(?) but she was in bad health before that. WS she a vegetarian or vegan and NOT taking her vital B 12 supplements? Or was she just idiopathic anemic. Her low blood sugar is a little troubling but her urine was free of glucose and ketones so maybe she just hadn’t eaten much THAT DAY, took some OTC drugs and hydrocodone to alleviate her symptoms and with ALL THIS going on at once she didn’t breathe enough and..,left us. So sad. I don’t think it was foul play...
What about her husband dying?
Katia Skret I’m wondering if the building was sick? So so strange..
@@blacknight2149 between the mother being sick and eliminating both of them for money and the building being "sick", infested with some deadly mold, I'm going for the first option. Cause, if it had been the building the mother would have been sick, or dead before any of them did, especially for an older person and alleged cancer survivor (if I got that part right she has had ovarian cancer). Also her calling Simon baby and honey is weird, maybe she was inflatuated with him, eliminated her daughter (and given Brittany's multiple health issues it would not have been too difficult) and was hoping on happily living ever after with both her daughter's money and man, and once she realized he would not go for it, she killed him off too.
@@katiathompson5508 feel free to just throw out some baseless speculation that accuses a grieving mother of killing her own kids. it's cool
I found my mother dead and it is a very hard situation finding a loved one dead. If it was my daughter I would have completely lost it.
Oh wow thats horrible, sorry to hear that 😢
Hyjaxx 9 jeezus, I’m so sorry. 😔
My mum passed downstairs on the couch in December. I came in to check on her and found her not breathing
Yes that's very true. I was with my dad when he died and I got up and found my mom died . Even though she was on hospice I was still hysterical.
I’m so sorry for your lost💔 stay strong
I find it odd no one talks about Brittany's diabetes more? They mentioned hypoglycaemia which is low blood sugars, which suggested to me type 1 diabetes like I have. This is an autoimmune disease and getting sick can be very dangerous for us, and we need to monitor our BGLs even more when unwell than usual. High blood sugars (especially when unwell) can cause DKA (Diabetic Ketoacidosis) which can turn deadly very quickly. BUT nothing mentioned by the doctors or hospital (or her mother on the 911 call??) talk about her diabetes. Telling doctors/nurses/paramedics i am type 1 diabetic is really vital to my survival. I think this would have been a major factor to how she handled whatever kind of illnesss may have caused her death. In my opinion.
I know this is last year's Harloween but as a type 1 diabetic I really wanted to say _something_?
Hey, glad you mentioned this!
I think Brittany lost too much weight and it made her sickly. If one has Type 1 diabetes, they really shouldn't be dieting.
My little cousin is a type 1 too, and everything has an effect on his BGL's. Medications. Foods (obviously) seasonings even! His momma works her butt off trying to keep it in check, and he now has the monitor that's on his belly that sends notifications to his phone, her phone and the school nurse who has the app too. It can get very scary. A stomach virus can kill him.
As for b.m - I believe the autopsy said her sugar was a 49 or close to it... maybe she hadnt eaten? There seems to be a page missing, but I never saw the contents of the stomach or maybe I missed it? If she didnt eat, because she was sick, and she was so sick that she was taking cold medicine and hydrocodone, it very well could have killed her if she was type 1. BUT wouldnt her bgl be off the charts? And!! How did they get an EKG if she was dead? Ugh
@@MandyBuglet depends on the diet! I do low carb and it helps me a lot :)
@@lynsirobertson3527 i had to do some conversion 49.0 mg/dL = 2.720 mmol/L (for reference under 4mmol/L counts as hypoglycemic) that's pretty dang low. When i am sick my levels can go low instead of high it can depend on a lot - the kind of illness and who it is so maybe a combination of sickness and forgetting/not eating (which i do oops). I can see her having a hypo that caused her to pass out and they didn't use a glucogon pen at all? that's like a go-to step one for type 1 diabetics who have lost consciousness. Not mentioned once?
In the phone call to paramedics her mom keeps calling Brittany’s husband baby and hunny which I found really weird
Eh certain parts of the country that is very normal.
I see your point but some people have a habit of calling others this...I've had multiple strangers call me "hunny" or "sweetie" in an endearing way.
@@KrystalMimms not while your daughter is dying and I know what you’re referring to but that wasn’t the tone
@@jessicaschueman2641 🤷
It really sounded like it was her husband she was talking to. Awkward.
Brittany Murphy was definitely underrated. Her heartbreaking performance in Girl Interrupted was so much better than anyone else in that movie. Thanks again for another great video!
Tea Lord “eat in chicken”
Brittany Murphy was one of my favorite actresses! The Ramen Girl is such an underrated and iconic movie. I just wanna drink my pumpkin spice coffee and cry and watch her movies all day.
Love "the ramen girl"
Lulu's Life That sounds like a good day! Also I’ve never seen that movie!?
Lulu's Life that sounds like a great day!
@@denamullen340 its a great movie! I actually watched it compleetly without English subs and honestly i Think it just made it better.
Ramen girl is one of my favorite movies of all time. Literally taught me that life doesn’t have to revolve around romance as a woman and to go after what I want to do in life. Inspired my love for Japan and Japanese culture as kid and I later grew up and lived there for 4 years and it’s the happiest time of my life so far. I thank her for that. The movie is so underrated and amazing.
That emergency call is the saddest most heartbreaking thing I have ever heard.
Wow she was so so so good in Girl, Interrupted. Her part in that film was the most poignant character for me. She definitely was a huge talent. Bless her 💜
I thought so too!
Completely agree!!!
I loved her in that film 😔
I feel like her death vaguely haunts me. It always just shows up. More than likely because she was a star of my childhood but it still always appears.
“eat in chicken” I loved her❤️
7:26 is when the sponsorship part finished
its a nice little thing called fast forward if you don't want to watch it
@@cakes9277 that’s the point of the comment😂
@@alani6815 the same point u had when u decided to stop by and make a comment that wasnt directed to you. dont come for me i didnt send for you
@@alani6815 lmao aww is some bitch bothered enough to name call? U sound real trashy boo, u might wanna hide that cause baby its not cute 🙄😂 now u have a blessed day "dumb twat" 😂😂😂😂 keep using youtube to be a bitch it might get u somewhere one day! Until then fuck off somewhere else
Not all heroes wear capes! Thank you sir.
Honestly, her singing in Happy Feet was enough to make me fall in love with her voice. The range and power was great.
Me too! I loved boogie wonderland. RIP Brittany
The 911 call just angers me because 1.) The operator (though being calm, and thorough) was incredibly frustrating. He could've EASILY said, "Ma'am, put me on speaker phone and let me talk to who ever is doing the compressions myself." And 2.) Her mother being calm and then screaming and crying at different intervals isn't abnormal to me as a reaction to seeing a loved one die. I was the SAME way when my mother was dying. I'd be calm one second and the moment she'd start struggling to breathe or flinch, I'd start wailing. So I don't find her mothers reaction during the call strange, at all.
So sorry for your loss:(:(
I kept thinking the same thing listening to this call, why would the operator not suggest that her mother give the phone to her husband? Or as you said suggest the speaker phone be used. Their efforts would have went a lot further if he was directly instructing the person doing the compressions, and I totally get that the operator needs to remain calm, but he seemed calm to the point of almost just not caring. like Yes, he told her how to do the procedure correctly and he did everything by the book, but why wouldn’t you take a moment to get this situation into a position where these weren’t just rote instructions, but making sure the person that’s supposed to be doing what your instructing can actually even understand how to do it right. (Otherwise what’s the point?) To me it feels like he just went by the book & didn’t actively care about the person on the other end. Like yes time would have been lost to get the husband on the phone, but all of the lifesaving efforts were lost anyway.
I read that Brittany was at Chris Cornell's wedding and tried to warn him about his wife. CC was working on a project with CB about child trafficking before his death. CB also passed away under odd circumstances. Rita Wilson, Tom Hanks wife, is CC's daughters godmother. Heidi Klume threw the Cornell's an anniversary party. Heidi Klume's now exboyfriend was CC's bodyguard and was the one who found his body.CC's wife stopped the project CC & CB were working on after his death. There's a lot of connections to people who die mysteriously around these people so being paranoid isn't so hard to believe.
Interesting..do u have a source for the brittany warning Chris cornell? Or any of this..so we don't have to hunt?
Who does CB refer to?
@@KissyAdair Chester Bennington
@@michellelangdon5134 Oh yea, duh. I feel dumb now. Jesus!
@@KissyAdair Don't feel dumb. No worries.
Please don't EVER jump on top of someone to hold them down and put a spoon in their mouth if they're seizing. Unbelievable.
I seriously couldn’t focus on anything she said in the rest of the video. That’s the absolute worst seizure response I’ve EVER heard of.
Never put anything in their mouth in general, some times it can cause more harm then if they bit their tongue. Keep them laying on their side so any saliva or vomit can drain. My cousin has a seizure disorder and experiences grand mal seizures. My fiance also has a seizure disorder but he has absent seizures which sometimes is more scary for me because he wants to talk but cant and it's harder to help because it's not the same as a grand mal. All you can really do is stay by them and see if speaking helps bring them to reality.
What is the correct response? I could Google it but it's not very useful to say somethings bad without correcting it.
@@marcia3707 put them on their side, we give Ativan in the ER and place them on their side. However he was considerably larger than her.
I know! I was frowning so hard when she said that lol. However, I only know the correct response because I’m in nursing school. Prior to that, I would not have know how to help someone who is having a seizure.
The camera is like, "look at these skeletons! I SAID LOOK AT THEM!"😂
Sarah Carpenter OMG LOL
OK! OK! I'm LOOKING!
Her mother’s 911 call is absolutely heartbreaking. This is one of my worst fears that something like this will happen to a family member.
I was getting ready for work at 19 years old when my father had a heart attack right before I was about to head out the door. It was the most horrifying thing that I've ever been through in my entire life. In fact I sat in the ambulance as they drove him to the hospital and I watched him turn blue on the way and they did NOTHING to help him. When they got to the hospital they did surgery.
And I still to this day don't know why, because he was dying on the way and they didn't do s*** for him.
@@suzannenichols6900 so sorry for your loss❤️💕
I've been watching you for quite a while now. However I swear with every video you make I just adore you more and more. You have been my favorite True Crime channels since shortly after I started watching. You do so much research and your videos are so well done. The death of Brittany Murphy hit me hard. She was absolutely one of my favorite actresses. Thank you for another amazing video!
MissCherrie 78 thank you so much!!! ❤️❤️
WELL SAID👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
I’m no doctor, but her symptoms did sound a bit like lead poisoning...the anemia, stomach pain, and vomiting especially. She could have had pneumonia too, but the gastrointestinal symptoms as well as the severe anemia just sound like metal poisoning.
Maybe it was in the water?
Mold does this too. Mold amplifies heavy metals in your body. It brings up other toxicity issues. So sad
This is the first time a 911 operator was actually useful in a case you've shown
Let us never forget the Powell call
@@hyperandfixated I wonder what happened top that dispatcher? Does anyone know? Absolutely horrific.
Nikki R I think I saw or heard it mentioned that he was fired & saw the error in his ways. If I’m not mistaken, he now also gives a sort of sensitivity training to dispatchers based on what he learned from his own mistakes & further training.
@@madysennnn4455 If that is true, it would be the ideal outcome. Happy to hear that.
The scene in little black book where she sings is my absolute favorite. I did the same thing and tried to find it anywhere but nothing. She was very underrated actress. She is truly missed by her fans. RIP lovely Angel
PLZ don’t ever stick anything in someone’s mouth when having a seizure!!!! 🤦🏼♀️ old school recommendation that is no longer science based.
Thank you!! I was saying this too!! That went out in the ‘80’s. Likely to do more harm than good attempting this!
I came to the comments looking for this! Also, roll the person on their side but don’t pin them down. I promise our muscles will be sore enough all on our own. 😉
What about the whole "put a rag in their mouth so they dont bite thru their tongue" I've had seizures before and dang near chewed thru my tongue. On one occasion someone put their finger in my mouth because they thought I was choking on something while seizing....
(I'm genuinely asking I'm not trying to be a smart a**)
Yes!!! I don't have seizures but I have been a caregiver for many individuals that do and this advice is very outdated and tends to cause way more harm than good.
Also DO NOT pin someone down while they are seizing (as it was described that Brittany did for her husband). The best thing you can do is make sure any objects that can obscruct their movements are out of the way, make sure their head is safe (if they are close to a wall it is OK to place a pillow or something soft lightly under or next to their head during the seizure to prevent an injury), and then you just wait it out (while of course monitoring them, timing the seizure, making sure they stay safe, etc). As scary as that sounds, if they are safe if is best to monitor closely and wait it out. It's often way way scarier for those observing the seizure than those experiencing the seizure.
After it's done, you can place them in the recovery position and allow them to rest. If the person doesn't have a seizure condition or has never had one (of if you don't know them and no one who does know their condition is around), call 911 when the seizure begins. If the person does have a seizure disorder or is known to experience seizures, emergency services may not be needed unless the seizure lasts for more than a couple of minutes or in case of injury or repeated seizures that are out of the norm for that person.
Sorry for the rambling, I have just heard so much bad advice on how to deal with a seizure. Most people never have and likely never will witness a Grande Mal seizure but it is so important to know what to do in the event that it happens!
Elin Hervall thanks for this! You’re right, it is a lot of information, but for those of us with generalized seizures, it’s so helpful. There’s no chance for a public lesson when you’re on the ground unconscious.
I know our beloved Stephanie was just repeating what was in the reports, but I’m glad a few people respectfully jumped into the comments for the chance to educate. ♥️
Came for the mystery, left with a newfound fascination for shampoo and conditioner.
Got both plus the hair mask
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Haha lol same😂
My gosh Mike, you’re quite the wag aren’t you?
@@davidmuir7711 You know it! 😂
apparently her mom lived in that house as well, so why didn’t she get sick? especially since she was older (more susceptible)
Because Brittany was imuno compromised. History of diabetes, anemia, ect. Her mother may not have had the same issues with her immune system.
Oh knock it off already
@@kylarosee Still does not explain the husband.
@@oldtimeyasswhooper1014 that it doesn't!
@@oldtimeyasswhooper1014 Her husband had even more health issues though with seizures and heart issues. I think they were both just in poor health and maybe the mother didn't have any chronic issues.
“Mommy, I can’t catch my breathe. Help me.”
That was heartbreaking.
I’m sure they were in shock..
But they seemed to take a while to respond to questions and the cpr thing..I don’t know.. weird.
I loved her. My favorite movie was Riding In Cars With Boys.
Her and Drew are my favorite.
Same, great film but utterly heartbreaking
That was a good movie
i liked her voice over in King Of The Hill..she was so cute
That was a great movie...😪
Common symptoms across several types of heavy metal poisoning include:
diarrhea.
nausea.
abdominal pain.
vomiting.
shortness of breath.
tingling in your hands and feet.
chills.
weakness
Names Blu yeah hey should take it out of our foods and vaccines but they don’t aha
Also symptoms of dysautonomia which she had.
@@user-ro6sz8yv3x true
Arsenic
I will always think something was suspicious about their deaths I'll never be able to fully believe both were accidental
What do you suggest happened? They both seem like random deaths due to poor health to me, especially considering the autopsy reports, but this is the first I have heard of the case.
Violet Joy, perhaps mold in the home?
@@S2daUZ the house was tested for mold. There wasn't any.
I think it has something to do with the status of their house..fumes, mold... something. Sad, though.
When the house was sold & later remodeled there WAS found to be mold in the walls
I totally think that's what gave these young people such awful health & contributed greatly to their deaths
I just wanted to say I am so glad they used a clip from this video and from you, Stephanie, on the HBOMax series about her! It can be found at 42 minutes and 40 seconds in episode 1
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You're smart, like a real life Velma lol.
@KS-M i know right lol shes awesome
Give her the role already
Velma AF