Why men test you in relationships? Part 2
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- Опубликовано: 2 авг 2024
- Why men test women in relationships? The word “test” may not mean what you think it means, but even if it does, it is a part of life and it’s best to know how to handle it than to ignore it.
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Passing the test doesn't mean you necessarily end up with him. Not everything you lose is a loss ladies
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Amen !!!!
Facts
Correct! And the point is to find 1 person....everybody ain’t for everybody and that’s ok!
That’s goodT!
Tony look like he tired of us 😂😂😂😂😂😂 sorry Tony we are just women who are complicated
indiakay yes when he wiped his forehead I died 😂😂😂😂😂 but I’m glad he is helping because these videos help a lot
Sooo true, His look tho🤦🏻♀️😅
JoAnn Hughes 😂😂😂😂😂
Lol he is dagnamit
Lol!
"You're not mad about a test when you're ready!!!!" BOOM🔥
Be blessed. Tony I’ve been celibate for 4 years. And every time I meet someone and that conversation comes up, they look at me like I’m a dang fool, or I’m stuck on stupid and parked on dumb. Most guys comment; I’m not buying a car without test driving it. With that being said I just excuse myself because it’s no use going any further. We’re on two different levels. I play to win and for keeps. I’m ready for some kingdom living. So they can go ahead and snatch up that 20% that they want so very badly. To realize that they now have buyers remorse and they’re stuck with it. To blessed to be stressed!
The perfect filter! LOL
Amen!! Let them go find a pinto to test drive.
@Love 23Amazed sister I was just thinking that, you can't test drive a Bentley.
Love 23Amazed yes!!! You can’t test drive a Bentley because the manufacturer of that car understands that once you put miles on that car it is no longer valuable. They are skilled with showing you the benefits of that car without you NEEDING to test drive it. Because at the end of the day a car is a car they all serve the same purpose. Some may drive faster than others, some may hug corners better than others but at the end of the day they all have four wheels and a engine. The configurations may be different they may all be manufactured in different countries. But when you go to the dealership you will have a clear understanding of the WORTH of that car with out having to test drive it. And the only way you are going to drive it off the lot is if you PAY for it! And once you pay for it you will cherish it because you will see it as an investment that you worked hard to obtain! I learning that men view us women the same way.
watch his video on celibacy!!
The Lord even tells us to test the spirit to see if it's of God. Testing is not manipulation or abusive but to find out.
Amen sister
My thoughts exactly!!! Testing is a good thing. 💯 Tony is right...and shares good wisdom!!
Yes, I believe
Okay!!!...Amen...
@@e.j.o.4400 wisdom!!! Yes we test many things before we purchase or read the red line before signing a contract, so why we should not invest in our relationships wisely. Jesus also even said count the cost before carrying our cross. He does not even expect us to surrender to Him in ignorance
When Tony’s notification hits, I find a seat and listen.
Lol😅 M2💁🏻♀️
Me too🙋🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️. He's the big, little brother in my life I didn't have.
Same here 😅
Facts
Yessss‼️
So true. You will pass a test when you have morals, standards and you know who you are. Self value. We should test each other. It will prevent us from wasting each other's time. Thank you ❤
Exactly....💯💯✔ so guy want s@x right away tells me you will cheat why do guys want to sleep with a woman without knowing anything about her also shows no morals..so you not getting s@x at home sorry but you can find another woman who will do that....
@@Dtella55 yes indeed. Thats why I like listening to him because he makes think why a man thinks the way that he does.
Soooooo True 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
I totally agree
A good man has flaws too..
AMEN! HALLAJUAUH! SO RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT!
They don’t wanna hear the truth. I’m listening 👂
I wish I had you as a friend when I was 18. I'm 50 years old and I can tell anyone here Tony is being honest, his advice is solid! Value yourselves ❤
Yes he’s the best at saying it
If you stay ready, you ain’t gotta get ready! Preach Tony!
The sleep with you test is always first be ready to say NO THANK YOU😂👍 watch the switch up ...you will see if it was about you or just your body... 💥🛣️✔️ keep it moving don't be desperate get your brain Right ladies😎
“You have to be prepared for what your going to face in the world, instead of waiting on the WORLD to become PERFECT for you!” 💯🙏🏾💜 🌎
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As a woman, the best thing you can do is know & appreciate that men think differently from women. Pass those tests by beating him at his game.
Beat him by keeping the thighs together!!!
The bible states we should test the spirit. A man that's strong in the Lord will help the woman that interest him to be wife ready, too. We all fall short, therefore it's our job to be responsible for each other...
Amen, I just said the same.
Amen
I’m here as a sponge soaking up this knowledge. Be blessed everyone ❤️
I love the way you say "Listen to Me" I felt that
I am going to be Whole... Healthy... Happy... When my Husband comes into my Life... !!! Be Blessed y'all !!! 💚💜💙
Y’all quit testing Tony’s patience 🤦🏽♀️😆
Let this professional in his field do his job & take notes. That’s our problem right nah! 😭
Be blessed
So true they getting on his Nerves
The game is simple but some women refuse to listen. They add more rules to this thing. You play with more rules, then you are going to lose. It is like watching a horror movie where a people go into the woods late at night. You know what's going to happen. When people buy a car do you turn the engine on or do you just ask if the car works. This makes so much sense. Women ask men act. Men are going to sleep with you to see if you are fast. Women ask about sex.
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Come thru Mr. Gaskins. Don't get tired of teaching us sir😂😂😂
I agree. Some of us want to learn👍
Dang Tony, you look like we stressing you out! 😂 Be Blessed!❤
Krystle Laughter that’s what I said 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
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Lol
😂🤣 he tiieed
We listening T.G don't let them run up your Blood Pressure BE BLESSED
AMEN! SO RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT!
Humans Test Humans... Da Truth!! Guilty, I like a challenge sometimes. You really said something today that hit home. Be Blessed!
Men have different perceptions on what a wife is.
The most honest man
Thank you for making things clear to women
People are not ready for truth that's why they attack u sometimes
Am thankful for this channel
Be Blessed...I’m definitely healing one day at a time!!! So Greatly blessed to be free from a soul tie. I’ve been celibate for 6 months in which is not a long time. However, I’m working deeply within myself mind, body, and soul. NO MORE settling. When I look back over my life, I’m like “did I REALLY” date this man!? Did I really put up with that? I’m on my way to better. Bruised But Not Broken! Stay blessed and thank you for you honesty.
Tony, this was a great breakdown into why he test you. Some may have to watch this video more than once to get "understanding" behind it but to sum it up...if you are healed and whole you will naturally pass the test. You won't even see it coming but will naturally respond according to your standard.
Yessssss 👏🏾
Taquila Coleman AMEN 🙌🏽
The videos have been very therapeutic and healing. I feel like I can take a sigh of relief.
I too.. Watch his video as soon as I get notification..thank u Tony. God bless you for ur practical info...
Be blessed and thank you for your work Tony! Its truly appreciated ❤!
I've been catching up on all of your videos and my heart is full right now. Be Blessed!
Thanks so much for realizing and following your purpose. When I watch your videos, I feel so inspired and uplifted about life in general, not just when receiving your amazing relationship advice. You are the Big Brother, Uncle and Guy Best Friend that I always wished for.
Thank you, you have shed so much light and made me realise why my relationship did not last. Keep doing what you are doing.God bless you.
Blessed, thank you Tony🙌🏾 I appreciate all of your videos. Such reminders, keeps me focused on what's really important.
Thank you 🙂 I am learning so much from you!! I thank God for you!! Your messages not only tell me about men but a lot about myself. I’ve noticed that I need to change my way of thinking & my perception of things, you tell me things that my family has tried to teach me a long time ago and I was too stubborn to listen & sometimes it just takes hearing it from someone else.
Be Blessed! Thank you for this topic. I shared this to a friend, and I am praying your words of wisdom help her.
“Be blessed” thank you for this knowledge..makes a lot of sense!
I’m sooooo glad i came across this video! I definitely learned and understood the real meaning of testing! I was taking this the wrong way, but it makes perfect sense now. BE BLESSED!
I promise you Tony, I truly appreciate you and what you’re offering us. I listen to you without rejecting your words. I have four brothers and you’re clearly sharing a roadmap to making me understand I just don’t know everything and that I am a woman and I cannot speak for a man nor can I excuse his mishaps. I forgave my past a long time ago and I think of the things that cause me to smile or laugh. Thank you a million times over for caring enough and thanks to your wife and women like her. Our men are better people because we love ourselves enough and they’re influenced by greatness❤️
Be blessed. Your podcasts and videos have helped me so much this year. Thank you for all you do.
Thank you Tony, you're helping me. You never get too old to learn.
Be Blessed !🙏🏽You are helping me to be more wiser and educated about relationships. I truly appreciate you.
Preach Tony preach!!!!!!!!! Thank you so much for this informative video. At age 50 & a born again Christian, this has been so helpful for me. May God bless you.
Be blessed!
Im so grateful for this video even tho im crying like a baby watching. These revelations are everything
Thank you Tony
BE BLESSED Tony!!! Just know you have been a blessing to me!!!
This makes sooooo much sense! NOW I UNDERSTAND THE TESTS COMPLETELY! He has pretty much said everything Tony has said. The fear of trusting because of previous relationships. The fear of something being to good to be true. Understandable if you don’t know what a good thing looks like. The part about being the best man he can be. Never realized how complicated men can be. Always thought they came to the table already “assembled.” Didn’t realize they still need our help. Thank you Tony for the GREAT INSIGHT!
Be blessed! Thank you for all your wisdom and knowledge Tony. You do have some real women on here that is actually listening to you and we appreciate you. Please don't let the ones that's not listening stop you from doing your purpose. Stay BLESSED
Be blessed! That was amazing to listen to. Thank you for all you do.
Be blessed. Stop worrying about the ones that don’t wanna hear, you have helped a lot of ppl heal. Keep going for the ones who want to get better and hope later on someone else will give the same message to the ones with closed hearts and it will get through. 🤞🏽💎💓
He's dropping precious jewels💪🏾
Thank you thank you thank you. Be blessed. You are correct, I will focus on being ready. I appreciate your teaching so much. Keep it coming.
I understood everything. Yes, everything. Thank you so much. Appreciate you putting so much effort into being specific and detailed.
Thank you Tony! Be blessed 🙏
Be blessed! I appreciate your incite and articulation on relationships! Your videos really gets into the male perspective with great details and examples! 🙏🏾
Man Tony I’ve always said this to allll my guy friends who are happily married that men don’t choose a good woman, men luck up and end up with a good woman. Because most men (and women) have not the first clue on what to look for when choosing a wife. Some are wiser and smarter and they know but most have very shallow and or basic requirements. Some strike luck and some strike out.
Be blessed! Yes i understand that a test is needed. I know when I'm being tested... but I have no problem with that. I think we've all been hurt in some way by someone and I think It's a way of protecting our heart and descerning if we're making the right descision. At least in this way you limit the chance of a negative outcome. I know you're trying and I wish you could see my appreciation and I'm so grateful for the wisdom and understanding you bring to situations. May the most high bless you and your family Toni!
Be blessed!!! Thanks for this wisdom. It was definitely a perspective I needed to hear.
Even God says to TEST the spirit!
Amen!!!
Yes that's true now, but the ones testing you are not God and they're not nesesarily looking for the right answer nor the same answer.. I feel that an imperfect human testing another is just manipulating, disrespecting, and the reason for all the mind games out there. Too many games, there are no teachers out there.
Lol, yes. I've just posted that.
@@Brisy0000 and after discerning if the person is a manipulator you still have the power to choose. That's exactly why we test to see if the person is worth our time.
@@marshaholmes8412 so being naturally yourself without the testing and allowing the other person to put out what and who they are without the tests at play is not normal anymore then??? 😳 What happened to freedom?! 💦LOL 😂 of stupidity...We are further from God and perfection everyday that passes..Jehovah God mentioned that men is incapable of directing their own path. Testing someone under someones imperfect view is just a waste of time when everyone should be free of expression and just judge from what you see before you. That simple!
Your videos are always insightful and useful in many aspects of my life. I am blessed for finding your channel at just the right time. Thank you.
Giving it to us to REALL!!!! Thank you. Nothing but God put u in my feed. Be blessed
This was the meat right here Tony. Be blessed🙌🏾🙏🏾.
Be Blessed. Tony I appreciate you so much. Don't give up. Keep preaching. I am listening.
Be blessed! Thanks, once again, Tony. Really appreciate your wisdom and advice. It's great to hear this from a man.
Blessed god bless you tony you make so much sense I never thought about it that way
This right here has helped me with a decision I was about to make in my relationship. Thank you! This is confirmation.
Thanks Tony for breaking this down!! Be blessed!
Be blessed! Popped in my feed and was totally worth the watch👏🏾👏🏾
Be blessed you Tony Gaskins! Great job!
Mr. Gaskins, you are anointed with the knowledge of relationships. I thank you 😊.
Be Blessed!
Be blessed! This video makes MORE sense.....continue to BLESS US; God blesses you too! 💜
Be blessed...blessings to you, your wife and family. Completely comprehend the lesson. Thank you for sharing your knowledge.
Be blessed & Thank You!
Be blessed....be prepared ladles, for what we're going to face during the test. Thank you for this video!
Getting the knowledge! Whole, healthy and ready! YOU ARE HELPING SO MANY WOMEN, TONY! Thank you! Be blessed. ❤️😇
Im listening this makes a lot of sense. These videos are really helping me.I’m learning sooo much Be Blessed!!
Be Blessed. I agree with Testing, it's a way for Anything to show itself Worthy to be Approved of.🙌🙏💖
Another Awesome Breakdown! Keep dropping these Jewels of Wisdom! We really do get it, Tony! Women, we are a very smart creation!
Damn, Tony! You're soooo good at this. I hang on every word. You're the best of the best.
Be Blessed...Tony keep doing what you doing, you are truly blessing us...
Listening at these videos makes me glad I'm single.
Teach that wisdom brother. Really enjoyed the vid.
I love how you explain a man's thought process for us to understand men thank you Tony blessing to you and your family❤️
Be blessed 🙏🏾🙏🏾 This is very powerful. This explains a lot!!!!
Be blessed. 💕💕💕 You're the best sir! 😊
He's saying that men are so scared to choose the wrong woman as a wife but us woman are just as scared of staying with the wrong one.. so what now
Be blessed ❗️ Thank you for sharing this insightful content. I’m grateful for my journey because I have worked on healing and forgiveness and can relate to failing the “test” in the past because of where I was mentally. I’m so happy and grateful for where I am now. 🥳🤗🥰
Thank you for this Tony. I was actually seeing a great guy for a few months but cut him off because I felt too tested by him. I've been divorced just over a year now so I was afraid and wanted something 'relaxed'. He said everything you just said when I asked him why he was asking me so many questions. He told me I shouldn't feel pressured but he does it because he doesn't want to make a mistake in his love life by choosing the wrong wife. He is a faithful man of God and never initiated sex or anything along those lines and always asked great questions that a man seeking a wife should ask but I became too afraid and ghosted him.🤦🏾♀️ I've taken heed to where I went wrong. The test can also be beneficial to me too. Be blessed and thank you again.
A good man is still a human who also make mistakes/mess-up.
Be Blessed! Love this!
Be blessed, I absolutely love your videos I listen to them everyday now while I'm at work they are very informative
Be blessed
Tests shows him and her where they stand, their character, their level of faith and obedience in the Lord.
The good quality man I've been getting to know just started testing me!
So, today or Tuesday when I see him he'll learn the woman I am and the boundaries I'll state and what I won't accept in this journey with him.
I see this as a good thing. He's had bad failed relationships and unfortunately 2 wives. He's scared and guarded. To see the test just popped out of no where. Boom! Lol
Well, I appreciate your videos! Just found you yesterday.
And a godly man should also want purity within a biblical marriage as much as she does and you should be honoring and protecting ourselves and our partner! So, I am and will have a biblical marriage this time for the rest of my life.
Excellent message and it was articulated in the spirit of compassion and love for the Body of Christ. Your lessons have been so helpful in my walk. May blessings abound in your life and family.
A. Wilson thank you for the support!
A. Wilson thank you for the support!
Good job Tony! Be blessed!
I am much older than you but I wish I’d had a dad like you 😊
It would have made things so much easier. Know this, this information is tremendously helpful. For us, our daughters, our granddaughters!
Those who have an ear to hear do listen to what the Spirit is saying to the church. And those who don’t won’t.
Thank you 🙏🏾
I’m learning so much 😩 Thanks Tony! Be blessed❤️
You ABSOLUTELY right!!!.…..I alwayz pass the test...😃....God bless Antonio🙏
Be blessed❤️
Be blessed. Thank you..
Be blessed. I'm listening and applying the knowledge I'm getting.
Excellent! Preach it! We get tested by teachers, professors, pastors, our parents, God Himself, why not a man?! Perfect advice.
Be blessed!