Committing to a woman nowadays is a waste of time, energy and money , they can leave any time and the reason is they are not feeling it, they live off emotions and they don’t see what is good or bad for them.
yesterday i was talking with this girl and she was saying that her ex was so succesfull, all good.....and when i asked her why she is not with him she told me i stopped loving him. So can u imagine scenario where he is in marriage with a woman and they have 3 kids, and she decide to leave because she is not loving him anymore....just suddenly
Chris is not kidding when he said for us men, respect is more important than love. 2 weeks ago I called out a coworker for doing something which I thought was disrespectful. I also told her if she disrespects me one more time, do not bother talking to me again. She wrote me a paragraph where she apologized 3 times. She also said she actually thinks very highly of me and respects me a lot. When I saw her again 2 weeks later, she apologized again. Even though I've been single for a while, you have no idea how good this feels.
It is so funny, THAT description is ALREADY described in the Bible, Ephesians 5, 21-33: Respect for the man, but all love for the woman. That’s exactly how it works and both sides are happy.
This is one of your best videos. It really sums it up perfectly. The man's behavior will create the emotions in a woman. Asking her to change is asking her to lead. If the man changes or acts a certain way, she with her emotions will follow his lead.
"Asking her to change is asking her to lead." Good one. I think its also letting her know that there are certain behaviours that the guy will not tolerate, and would be willing to walking away if she displays such attitude. But such an understanding should be established at the very start. Hence, the guy has to maintain his "frame" from day one.
Dont you see what that means? It says: "I am not responsable for anything. Please dont take any of my tampos serious. Just lead me - or else..." It's a shit test.
You've helped me , at the most difficult time , I've been a lot more patient with my partner, not reacting as much to things I would have in the past , yes she's given me silent treatment for a full week a few times in the past and I've remained indifferent, being that way has definitely kept us together.
This is why simps keep women unaccountable... Until more men, are willing to do the work and lead, issues with the ladies will continually be an unassailable problem...
As a MAN you have the power to change, self-control or discipline to decide whatever you want to do, so stop living like a zombie, take control of yourself
Hey, if anyone could answer my question, i'd really appreciate🙏🏼 Whenever your partner does something that doesn't sit right with you, should you address it or just mirror their actions I'm in a dilemma because i don't want to come off as needy by addressing the situation and also by mirroring the behaviour they might fail to notice the reason for being upset
This isn't easy to answer without context. It depends on the seriousness of the action in question! If you're always bringing up small things in a nagging and insecure way, it will have adverse and potentially damaging effects. But if you're secure and generally let the little things slide and feel the need to address this, then yes, have a chat about it and find out why they are doing it.
@@marknightingale5674 i don't know if i'm being petty but this is what happened.....we went on a trip together had fun and took alot of photos. Later i shared some photos on my ig story and tagged him. He only reposted it on his close friends account yet he only follows 100 people and has over 1.2k followers. I felt as if he only added me alone on his close friends so that others cannot see us together. I can't find any other valid reason why he didn't repost the story for all his audience to see.
*Hey Chris I followed your adviced on how to create no contact on a woman and I mastered it and get benefited from it, but my girl turns out to be a narcissist and I don't know what to do, please make a video about this please. I appreciate it*
Going through your extraordinary book and then looking back and observing relationships.... Why is it that women step into relationship knowingly that potentially it may hurt them and it does to some extent... It seems like they want an emotional ride or pendulum spinning between smile and tears!
This reminds me.. i ever came across this chick on a dating site that listed a whole bunch of requirements on the type of guy she wanted to date. I just texted her and asked, for all these things you want in your man, what would YOU be providing in return. She replied "Intensity". 😂😂😂😂
Always show her you have the power to walk away, it's the only thing that Can change a woman behavior.
This is absolutely correct. 💯
Also having girls around you. Doesn’t matter platonic or romantic
However, Cluster B women will NEVER change their behavior!!
@@nicholashousmans97 just to have a woman like that wiht me she was bad but with other people she was nice etc why is that
Committing to a woman nowadays is a waste of time, energy and money , they can leave any time and the reason is they are not feeling it, they live off emotions and they don’t see what is good or bad for them.
I would suggest getting a Dog! They are loyal and will love you unconditional.
Exactly Correct, pump 'n' Dump😉
It's not really waste of time if you know how there mind works, hence choosing the right woman won't be difficult and worth it to commit.
yesterday i was talking with this girl and she was saying that her ex was so succesfull, all good.....and when i asked her why she is not with him she told me i stopped loving him. So can u imagine scenario where he is in marriage with a woman and they have 3 kids, and she decide to leave because she is not loving him anymore....just suddenly
Commit to yourself! To your mission.
You are the one!
Chris is not kidding when he said for us men, respect is more important than love.
2 weeks ago I called out a coworker for doing something which I thought was disrespectful. I also told her if she disrespects me one more time, do not bother talking to me again. She wrote me a paragraph where she apologized 3 times. She also said she actually thinks very highly of me and respects me a lot. When I saw her again 2 weeks later, she apologized again. Even though I've been single for a while, you have no idea how good this feels.
You wanna date her
@@dasfx2895 I would but she's taken. I believe in karma.
@@JohnSmith-rz6bh You're a wise man!
@@JohnSmith-rz6bhThese good women are often really taken and wise husbands exactly know about that emotional behavior
It is so funny, THAT description is ALREADY described in the Bible, Ephesians 5, 21-33: Respect for the man, but all love for the woman. That’s exactly how it works and both sides are happy.
This is one of your best videos. It really sums it up perfectly. The man's behavior will create the emotions in a woman. Asking her to change is asking her to lead. If the man changes or acts a certain way, she with her emotions will follow his lead.
Thank you
"Asking her to change is asking her to lead." Good one. I think its also letting her know that there are certain behaviours that the guy will not tolerate, and would be willing to walking away if she displays such attitude. But such an understanding should be established at the very start. Hence, the guy has to maintain his "frame" from day one.
Totally agree
Most women can't apologise even after you hold them accountable. It's at this point men that respect themselves lose interest and often walk away.
Dont you see what that means?
It says: "I am not responsable for anything. Please dont take any of my tampos serious. Just lead me - or else..."
It's a shit test.
She feeds off our energy. That’s why we’re the giver and she’s the receiver (if you know what I mean)
You've helped me , at the most difficult time , I've been a lot more patient with my partner, not reacting as much to things I would have in the past , yes she's given me silent treatment for a full week a few times in the past and I've remained indifferent, being that way has definitely kept us together.
Silent treatment isnt a good sign
@@fx4147 no it wasn't , well she was distant shall we say , all good thanks to chris
Dump her you can do better
Be indifference, your power as a man is the ability to walk away.
Always be the man who didn’t beg her to be together. You will carry the pride for the rest of your life
One truth, never try to tell her to change, just adust yourself to making necessary changes on your own.
Accountability - A womans kryptonite
They HATE being accountable for their actions
Always refreshing to visit this page
This is why simps keep women unaccountable... Until more men, are willing to do the work and lead, issues with the ladies will continually be an unassailable problem...
This is some of the best advice I have ever heard on how to deal with women
Thanks Bond
Happy wife miserable life
That's ...40 Real Life Case Studies ! (not 30!) Yes you get good bang for your bucks with Chris's awesome tome
As a MAN you have the power to change, self-control or discipline to decide whatever you want to do, so stop living like a zombie, take control of yourself
Good morning coach!
Top man Chris!
Thanks!
I sleep so much better when I see the women from my past that thought they were all that, tried to challenge Father Time - & Father Time won.
Well done.
Alright, great video,pull upp🔥🔥😃😃
Hey, if anyone could answer my question, i'd really appreciate🙏🏼
Whenever your partner does something that doesn't sit right with you, should you address it or just mirror their actions
I'm in a dilemma because i don't want to come off as needy by addressing the situation and also by mirroring the behaviour they might fail to notice the reason for being upset
This isn't easy to answer without context. It depends on the seriousness of the action in question! If you're always bringing up small things in a nagging and insecure way, it will have adverse and potentially damaging effects. But if you're secure and generally let the little things slide and feel the need to address this, then yes, have a chat about it and find out why they are doing it.
@@marknightingale5674 i don't know if i'm being petty but this is what happened.....we went on a trip together had fun and took alot of photos. Later i shared some photos on my ig story and tagged him. He only reposted it on his close friends account yet he only follows 100 people and has over 1.2k followers. I felt as if he only added me alone on his close friends so that others cannot see us together. I can't find any other valid reason why he didn't repost the story for all his audience to see.
*Hey Chris I followed your adviced on how to create no contact on a woman and I mastered it and get benefited from it, but my girl turns out to be a narcissist and I don't know what to do, please make a video about this please. I appreciate it*
Leave her get a new girl .She will loose her mind for the rest of her life .
If she wont change you change her for another one
You said Never chase like 2 videos ago...
So?
@@DevelopAttractionmy bad got confused
Be willing to break up.
Prayers need for women
Why would you want to?
Going through your extraordinary book and then looking back and observing relationships....
Why is it that women step into relationship knowingly that potentially it may hurt them and it does to some extent... It seems like they want an emotional ride or pendulum spinning between smile and tears!
What equivalent value is the women providing ?
Vaagiinaa
Companionship.
This reminds me.. i ever came across this chick on a dating site that listed a whole bunch of requirements on the type of guy she wanted to date. I just texted her and asked, for all these things you want in your man, what would YOU be providing in return. She replied "Intensity". 😂😂😂😂
@@a.k.8727 A picky woman decides to find the perfect man on a dating site. LOL.
Nah. Get in touch with your inner lesbian. Now that's a superpower.
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First one