Yeah man, I took a full-time position as a professor, and then recently bought a home, so bet the two of those things I had to push pause. However, one of my goals for 2020 is to get back to putting out brand new content, so just hang in there and look forward to that coming real soon!
"There's no such thing as bad attention for someone who gets no attention" - this is a pretty powerful realization, and one that makes a lot of sense for a lot of behavior I have witnessed and even committed myself as a kid. It's funny how spot on "Don't feed the trolls" was when it was first said so many years ago. I appreciate this video, well done.
I am a longtime expert troll, and I can say that this analysis is correct. Usually it’s for connection, sometimes it’s to hate. And if the audience is large, then there’s a higher likelihood that both can be accomplished.
I troll is a unhealthy person a busy body. Basically a internet stalker aka as a bully. To be honest it's not mature neither a healthy way of doing things. It okay to find someone on the internet that you admire or just put a comment on and go your own way. Yet to obess about the individual and become very toxic towards that person the behavior has really become unhealthy. To not be able to leave a person alone to the point you have developed an addiction about this person the habits you have picked up has caused a great deal of stress is is close to you if not already violating the law when it comes to harassment. Trolls can be people who break the law using the net.
Ryan this was very informative and very insightful. The way you articulated it was right on point. The next time I make a video about trolls or haters or anything of the sort I am definitely gonna copy and paste the link to this video in my description. Keep doing your thing my man!
While your analysis is correct for many trolls, it's not a blanket statement for all trolls. Some trolls aren't looking to make a connection with others or even to make friends or enemies. Instead what drives them is a desire for power, and they get a thrill out of provoking reactions in people. They want to either open new conversations or to steer existing conversations in a new direction. Once they get the snowball rolling, they can sit back and watch the avalanche fall.
Yeah I basically said all that lol. The desire for power is driven by the need to feel significant, and sometimes they are just trying to shake things up and start a conversation, which isn't always bad. Also, definitely not a blanket statement, but applies to the majority for the behavior.
The world is full of these types... At work. Checking in to a hotel. Buying an ice cream. Placing your blanket at the beach. Shopping for a sweater. I use these tips for all thise situations
Trying to get my council home gor her twin brother as her brother couldnt afford to buy his 2 bed flat in wandsworth as he is a prolific drinker his sister also on tranquilisers also as she lost her licence . Also did this behaviour in a previous timescale
I did not think about a pink elephant. It was a purple one because the color of your shirt is one of my favorite colors. Otherwise it would have worked. 😂👍
Ryan, it would have been useful to define what a "troll" was at the beginning. It's concerning that an adjunct professor of psychology would learn from Tony Robbins.
Well the video was an exploration of the definition of a troll. That's why it was a YT video and not a tweet. And I'm a full-time professor now, and not sure exactly why that's concerning? Anyone in any profession could learn a lot from Tony, he's worked with and trained Psychologists and psychiatrists throughout his career 🤔
@@TheRyanDavid "Well the video was an exploration of the definition of a troll." No it wasn't. "And I'm a full-time professor now" Well congratulations Prof...you had better update your bio in the description section then. "...he's worked with and trained Psychologists and psychiatrists throughout his career" Really? Thanks for the heads up. You have just convinced me never to seek help from these professions. I suggest you read this article and reconsider your allegiance to this narcissistic con artist: www.buzzfeednews.com/article/janebradley/tony-robbins-self-help-secrets
You really just sent me an old BUZZFEED article? Like seriously? Wow smh. I'm aware of the failed witch hunt that pseudo news outlet and author attempted. I find it ironic that you are asking for the definition of a troll, as you embody the behavior of one in my comments section. I hope you find the enlightenment that is clearly needed to learn more about Tony and the benefits of what he has to offer, as well as the benefits of talking to a qualified mental health professional such as a psychologist or psychiatrist, for your own good. And thank you for the reminder to update my bio. Take care.
Man ,I'm proud THAT I grew up in a erea where if people make fun of you or picked on you ,you were ENCOURAGED TO "FIRED BACK " AND IT MADE YOU STRONGER!!! NOT LIKE KIDS TODAY THAT DONT SAY ANYTHING AND NEED TO SEE A THERAPIST, OR THEY WILL KILL THE ENTIRE SCHOOL🤔🤔🤔🤔 WTF IS WRONG HERE????😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂💩💩💩💩💩💩💩💩💩 TROLLING IS IN THE "NEW WORD " FOR BULLYING
I agree that we all need to be able to be assertive and develop the ability to stand our ground. But for those who aren't yet able to do that like you and I, there's absolutely nothing wrong with seeing a counselor or therapist before "firing back", that's the mentality we have to evolve past.
Awesome video Ryan! Same as witht he hater video this gave some great perspective on how to deal with those situations when they arrise and how to view them👊🏽
i think a lot of trolls just want to make People think (in a way comedians sometimes do) - but somebidy that spends his whole life being ngetaive wtihout any joke behind it...is not a troll.. ist just a very lonely Person (i agree with you in this Kind of Attention Problem)
The majority of gay men are trolls 🤭🤷🏼♂️🤷🏼♂️ Thanks for this video I had to replay this’s the first time I watched your videos ☺️ Troll Free Zone 🙅🏼♂️😬😬😬
I would imagine that most trolls are actually hetero males Jose...I'm curious where you got your numebers? And you're welcome, thanks for sharing your thoughts.
Ryan David I’m Mexican and I live in Houston Texas and a lot of the guys I meet always remind me why I’m better of single 😂 I been single almost a decade. But yes gay men be trolls I rather not use the word DB 🙊🙈🙈
This was a very thought provoking session. Thanks for breaking it down.
My pleasure, thank you!
I noticed You didn't have any recent videos, sir. Are You taking a break to focus on other areas of business?
Yeah man, I took a full-time position as a professor, and then recently bought a home, so bet the two of those things I had to push pause. However, one of my goals for 2020 is to get back to putting out brand new content, so just hang in there and look forward to that coming real soon!
"There's no such thing as bad attention for someone who gets no attention" - this is a pretty powerful realization, and one that makes a lot of sense for a lot of behavior I have witnessed and even committed myself as a kid. It's funny how spot on "Don't feed the trolls" was when it was first said so many years ago. I appreciate this video, well done.
Thank you, and my pleasure! 🙏🏽
I am a longtime expert troll, and I can say that this analysis is correct. Usually it’s for connection, sometimes it’s to hate. And if the audience is large, then there’s a higher likelihood that both can be accomplished.
Great feedback, thank you for sharing 💯
Shut up idiot that's not what it is.
Oh, wow! Did not know this. So do not fear them rather feel empathy for them.
That would be highly beneficial for you over time, if you are able to do so. Absolutely! 💯😊👍🏽
I troll is a unhealthy person a busy body. Basically a internet stalker aka as a bully. To be honest it's not mature neither a healthy way of doing things. It okay to find someone on the internet that you admire or just put a comment on and go your own way. Yet to obess about the individual and become very toxic towards that person the behavior has really become unhealthy. To not be able to leave a person alone to the point you have developed an addiction about this person the habits you have picked up has caused a great deal of stress is is close to you if not already violating the law when it comes to harassment. Trolls can be people who break the law using the net.
You have put another tool in my toolbox. Thanks and keep up the good work.
Awesome, and thank you! 🙏
LIKED AND, SUBSCRIBED TO YOUR CHANNEL. THANK YOU FOR DISCUSSING AND EDUCATING ME FURTHER ABOUT THIS TOPIC. Lol
My pleasure! 🙏🏽
Ryan this was very informative and very insightful. The way you articulated it was right on point. The next time I make a video about trolls or haters or anything of the sort I am definitely gonna copy and paste the link to this video in my description. Keep doing your thing my man!
Thank you my brother glad you found it useful, and I appreciate the support 🙏🏽
Good luck with the channel, let me know if you have any questions.
Thank you for the video it's very educational and insightful
You're welcome! Thank you for the feedback! ❤
This was great! Thank you
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Thanks for this
Look forward to the sequel.
I'm working on it for you, Mary! 🙏🏽
While your analysis is correct for many trolls, it's not a blanket statement for all trolls. Some trolls aren't looking to make a connection with others or even to make friends or enemies. Instead what drives them is a desire for power, and they get a thrill out of provoking reactions in people. They want to either open new conversations or to steer existing conversations in a new direction. Once they get the snowball rolling, they can sit back and watch the avalanche fall.
Yeah I basically said all that lol. The desire for power is driven by the need to feel significant, and sometimes they are just trying to shake things up and start a conversation, which isn't always bad. Also, definitely not a blanket statement, but applies to the majority for the behavior.
4:40 = just what I needed to understand, thank you so much for explaining. All this time I thought something was wrong with me lol
The world is full of these types... At work. Checking in to a hotel. Buying an ice cream. Placing your blanket at the beach. Shopping for a sweater. I use these tips for all thise situations
Trying to get my council home gor her twin brother as her brother couldnt afford to buy his 2 bed flat in wandsworth as he is a prolific drinker his sister also on tranquilisers also as she lost her licence . Also did this behaviour in a previous timescale
I did not think about a pink elephant. It was a purple one because the color of your shirt is one of my favorite colors. Otherwise it would have worked. 😂👍
Thank you for describing the 6human needs and I look forward to the video on how to handle trolls. 🚫Feed Trolls🚫
You're welcome Tiff! #RealMVP 🙏🏽
if they want a connection then why troll? just makes people block you and not wanna be around you so the connection thing i dont get.
Ryan, it would have been useful to define what a "troll" was at the beginning.
It's concerning that an adjunct professor of psychology would learn from Tony Robbins.
Well the video was an exploration of the definition of a troll. That's why it was a YT video and not a tweet.
And I'm a full-time professor now, and not sure exactly why that's concerning? Anyone in any profession could learn a lot from Tony, he's worked with and trained Psychologists and psychiatrists throughout his career 🤔
@@TheRyanDavid
"Well the video was an exploration of the definition of a troll."
No it wasn't.
"And I'm a full-time professor now"
Well congratulations Prof...you had better update your bio in the description section then.
"...he's worked with and trained Psychologists and psychiatrists throughout his career"
Really? Thanks for the heads up. You have just convinced me never to seek help from these professions.
I suggest you read this article and reconsider your allegiance to this narcissistic con artist:
www.buzzfeednews.com/article/janebradley/tony-robbins-self-help-secrets
You really just sent me an old BUZZFEED article? Like seriously? Wow smh. I'm aware of the failed witch hunt that pseudo news outlet and author attempted. I find it ironic that you are asking for the definition of a troll, as you embody the behavior of one in my comments section. I hope you find the enlightenment that is clearly needed to learn more about Tony and the benefits of what he has to offer, as well as the benefits of talking to a qualified mental health professional such as a psychologist or psychiatrist, for your own good. And thank you for the reminder to update my bio. Take care.
Thanks for video bro makes a lot of spence it's Psych profiles that make up individuals it's about the Mindframe really 👌
You're welcome! ✊🏽
great advice... if you are in the Nashville, TN area for a speaking engagement. let me know. I am in. DJ Thomas
Thanks DJ, that means a lot, you got it. Connect with me here and on Instagram for more info about future events @theRyanDavid. 🙏🏽
will do
Great video
Thank you! 😊🙏🏽
Man ,I'm proud THAT I grew up in a erea where if people make fun of you or picked on you ,you were ENCOURAGED TO "FIRED BACK " AND IT MADE YOU STRONGER!!! NOT LIKE KIDS TODAY THAT DONT SAY ANYTHING AND NEED TO SEE A THERAPIST, OR THEY WILL KILL THE ENTIRE SCHOOL🤔🤔🤔🤔 WTF IS WRONG HERE????😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂💩💩💩💩💩💩💩💩💩 TROLLING IS IN THE "NEW WORD " FOR BULLYING
I agree that we all need to be able to be assertive and develop the ability to stand our ground. But for those who aren't yet able to do that like you and I, there's absolutely nothing wrong with seeing a counselor or therapist before "firing back", that's the mentality we have to evolve past.
Damn,Ryan David is good looking😍. And his 2 videos that I watched so far are not bad neither 👌.
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Awesome video Ryan! Same as witht he hater video this gave some great perspective on how to deal with those situations when they arrise and how to view them👊🏽
Awesome! Thank you🙏🏽
I do it for the 'LOLs' that's why
U lit bro
Yo Ab I remember you from Norma elementary
Who is this!? 😃
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Lmao great music
I suggest you check out Sadhguru videos on RUclips.He talked about Ego and many other topics
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Don't Think About This Comment, Do It Right Now, Don't Think About This Comment
Actually took me a minute, lmao well done Sir 😂
Ryan David Thanks Ryan, That Pink Elephant Comment Was Hilariously Irony Well Done To You As Well
Trolls don´t troll for Attention, trolls troll because trolling is a art.
Not all, but some do, as I mentioned...there is a certain art to trolling, but most are seeking a form of connection in some way.
i think a lot of trolls just want to make People think (in a way comedians sometimes do) - but somebidy that spends his whole life being ngetaive wtihout any joke behind it...is not a troll.. ist just a very lonely Person (i agree with you in this Kind of Attention Problem)
sry for the bad spelling, the Memo of pc is broken and the keys dont react fast enough lolol
Yeah for sure. They're both trolls, but they're trolling in different ways and for different reasons. I agree, like I said not all trolls are bad.
nice troll, lol
Anti social trolls
Thats my trolls for defruading me put of my home as to try and get
My home for her twin brother .
The majority of gay men are trolls 🤭🤷🏼♂️🤷🏼♂️
Thanks for this video I had to replay this’s the first time I watched your videos ☺️
Troll Free Zone 🙅🏼♂️😬😬😬
I would imagine that most trolls are actually hetero males Jose...I'm curious where you got your numebers? And you're welcome, thanks for sharing your thoughts.
Ryan David I’m Mexican and I live in Houston Texas and a lot of the guys I meet always remind me why I’m better of single 😂 I been single almost a decade. But yes gay men be trolls I rather not use the word DB 🙊🙈🙈
Ryan David I would like to know if is possible I can ask a few questions through email ?
Thanks 🙏🏼
Sure you can send it, not sure when I'll be able to respond, just a heads up!
All wrong buddy
Thanks for making my point for me buddy
@@TheRyanDavid your welcome buddy