Thank you so much for taking the time to watch this video. If you are currently grieving the loss of a parent I send you so much love in this moment. Peace & blessings to you all.
Thank You for the video. She’s currently in hospice and not doing so well. This video is helping me to become as prepared as possible. Sending you Prayers and Positive Energy as well Queen.
FeliciaNacole thank you so much for sharing your story. I lost my parents 6 weeks apart. My dad in October 2022 and mom in December 2022. It’s been very hard but God gives me strength to endure during this time
She departed the physical life on May 20th…I was lead T this video for a reason and it has aided tremendously in my grieving process. I was able to prepare myself as much as possible but your never really prepared. Again Thank You so much
I just lost my dad unexpectedly to a heart attack with no warning. Being the oldest, im lost for words. My dad was gone noticeably before being pronounced. You can never imagine that feeling of seeing the person who made you lifeless. Praying for all who are also/have experiencing this pain
I’m so sorry for your loss!! I wholeheartedly agree with you. There’s no way to describe the feeling. I’m sorry you had to experience it. I hope you are doing as okay as you can be. One day at a time. ❤️
Going through the same exact thing. My dad died of a sudden heart attack a month ago. Hardest thing I’ve ever gone through. I miss him every hour of the day.
My dad died due to complications. He was so optimistic about his surgery-where he assured us that he'll get better. But it turned out to be the opposite. I will never forget how useless I was, I couldn't do anything.
Same happened with me, 2.5 months ago, I lost my dad due to heart attack, he was healthy, active young man. He passed away unexpectedly. I was studying abroad and planing to go back home in 2024 to meet my family after 3 years but then on 22 January 2023 I got call that changed my whole life and then visited to my dad’s funeral. He left me without hug, without kiss, without goodbye. It’s so hard to move forward , only those can understand who lost their loved one. I hope we all find a peace and courage to find a meaning in our lives.
My dad passed same way in 2018. I had to identify his lifeless body as he passed in the house police had to put door in. I'm sooooo broken 💔. I feel your pain. Hugssss to you 😢❤
I lost my dad yesterday. It’s just settling in that I’ll never hear his voice or hug him again. I was a daddy’s girl. I’m hurt to my core rn. I miss my daddy
My condolences on the loss of your father! May his soul rest in eternal peace. I send you so much love on your grief journey. May he always remain close in your heart and send you reminders that he is with you in spirit. Take it one day at a time ❤️
I lost my mom two weeks ago February 2023. I’m still can wrap my head around her sudden lost. I feel like I’m in a dream/nightmare state. I will take some of your tips, hope it helps me. Thanks for sharing
I’m so sorry for the loss of your mom. I can relate to that feeling. Take it one day at a time. I hope something in the video helps you. And if it doesn’t know that is okay as well. I am sending you love and light on your journey. Be gentle with yourself. ❤️
Lost my Dear Mother on January 8th, 2024. Miss talking to her, but I still talk to her because I know she can hear me. I believe in God and heaven and have seen MANY signs from her, but still it is not the same. I pray for God to give me peace and to all of you dealing with this loss. I feel I will see her again in heaven, but for now I feel lost. I tried to work right away, but broke down at work from the stress. Right now I can't handle the same B.S. and stress from others like before. I will not tolerate what I did before. This is probably good and a sign of growth.
Hi, I'm really sorry for your loss 😢. I also lost my mom 8th March 2024. I know what u r talking about I can relate. I also feel the same. I also feel like I lost a part of me & the pain is too deep. I don't feel the same anymore something in me jst changed. I pray that we heal🙏🏽💞🌻💞
i just lost my dad this morning. he’d been hospitalized for a couple months, and i assumed this would happen but the reality of never seeing him or talking to him again is just setting in. thank you for sharing your experiences for all of us who have just lost a loved one and not knowing what to do.
I’m so sorry for the loss of your dad. I am sending love and my thoughts to you. Even if we are somewhat prepared for the transition it doesn’t make it hurt any less. I am so sorry. Death is so permanent and it sometimes seems unfair. Thank you for watching and I hope as time goes on the pain gets a little lighter for you. Sending so much love.
Lost my mom 3 months ago and my dad 2 days ago. In same year, in a span of 3 months i lost them both. I am in abroad and i feel so alone and sad. Kept waking up at night and thats why i am here.
Lost my mom lastnight and I’m just lost in life now. Im going to be strong for her but losing a mom hits different smh hopefully I can continue life the same way when she was here
I’m so very sorry for the loss of your mom. I’m sending you so much. Life may be different now that she is no longer on the physical side. But I hope you can find ways to make you feel close to her still. Take it one day at a time. ❤️
Hey man lost my mom december 2nd and it only gets harder but keep in mind that you are strong and that she wouldnt want to see you sad but strong and healthy keep your head up brother
Lost my mom July 2nd 😢 I was the only child to a single parent. No relationship with my father and I was a spoiled mama’s boy. It still doesn’t feel real even though I’ve cried my eyes out almost everyday since she passed.
I’m so sorry for the loss of your mom! Especially because of the amazing bond y’all had. I hope you are doing as okay as you can be. I’m so sorry again. ❤️
I lost my mom 2 weeks ago and after reading this , I am also an only child , had no relationship with my dad .My mom was my best friend, we did so much together, she died in my arms, she came home when the doctor said there was nothing that could be done,,It was her wish to be home and died 5 hours after getting her home. I was with her every minute I could. I have never experienced this feeling of grief before it is overwhelming. I pray I have the strength to go on.
Prayers for everyone. I lost my mom April 15th 2024. Sadly for me I didn’t realize until I went through this. You hear other stories and you try to feel for them. But until it’s you it’s hard to really understand. 🙏🏾💜
I lost both my parents at very young age, no pictures, no memories. If I am not at work I am in my bed grieving. Next month is my biggest step in my life because I will meet a psychologist for the first time 🎉🎉🎉
Thank you for sharing. I’m so sorry you lost your parents at a young age. I want to tell you that I’m proud of you for signing up for a session with a psychologist! I hope they are a good fit for you. And that they can assist you lighten the load on your grief journey! You conquered one of the most challenging steps with getting professional help. Shoutout to you!! 🥹🥳🎉
I lost my mum last year on Aug 2023. Since then the world so empty and no purpose of life. Im jobless, i wont meet anyone and my mental health getting worst day by day. 😭😭😭😭😭 I always pray and wish to be me as before 🙏.
I lost both my parents during the pandemic. It feels like I can’t relate to anyone these days. I realized that I didn’t have the relationships and support I needed. I’m trying to build new ones. Thanks for sharing 🙏🏽
I am so sorry for your loss. I am sending you so much love. I hope you are able to create a support system that makes you feel seen and understood. It can be difficult to open up to others especially after losing two of the closest people to us but the heavy load of grief feels a tad bit lighter with a support system. Thank you so much for watching and much love. ❤️
Weep for Me Once (A Parent’s Wish) Albert Moore Weep for me once with tears of sorrow Then turn your heart to a bright tomorrow. Know that my soul cannot truly rest Lest I know yours is richly blessed. Tis’ my greatest wish and heavenly prayer That the love you gave me, new hearts will share. Weep for me once and release your pain Then set me free as God’s peace you gain. My spirit be joyful if above I can know That your life is filled with happiness below. Although I am gone, I will always be near, And this final wish I want you to hear. Weep for me once with tears of sorrow but soon turn your heart toward that bright tomorrow!
I just lost my Mom, 4 days ago, and the pain is eviscerating. I’m in shock and can’t believe I’m never going to see her or hear her again. So unexpected and I’m completely gutted. Please pray for me and my Mom 🙏🏼✝️😭
@@NadiaYTPage I’m so sorry Nadia!!!🙏😭🌹❤️🙏 I will keep you and your Mom in my prayers. I understand, it’s still completely eviscerating pain. God bless you both ❤️🌹🙏
Im so sorry for everyone's loss and pain. I just lost my dad in February and my mom in 2014. I feel like an orphan. Like theres no one to be proud of me anymore. Sounds silly but thats how im feeling today. 😢
Hey. I know it's hard. But if no one told you recently, I am proud of you for everything you been through and how you've overcome them. You got this buddy.
I’m so sorry for the loss of your mom. I’m so glad you feel a little less alone even if for a little bit. I’m sending you love. I hope as the days and times goes on the grief feels less intense. You are in my thoughts. And thank you for sharing. Know your mom is proud of you. ❤
I lost my father back in 2019. My mother has been struggling with cancer for 3 years. She’s still hanging in there but now the doctor is presenting the possibility that nothing may not be possible. I’ve been feeling so sad today. I can’t imagine not having my mother anymore. I’m fortunate she’s still here
I really appreciate your help with this, lost my mom Feb 24, 2022 it’s been a long 7 months. I still cry myself to sleep most nights. Hard being without someone you have been with your whole life. My mom lost her mom very early and I don’t see how she handled being without her for 30 plus years. I pray and ask god to give me that same strength she had. Much love you and I’m sorry for your lost as well. Peace and blessings to you sister ❤
I’m so sorry for your loss. Cry as much as you need to. You are in my prayers for healing and peace in the time of darkness. Your mom is watching over you. I know it’s hard to not have her here physically. Keep taking it one day at a time. And know it’s okay to cry as much as you need. And I’m sorry your mom lost her mom so early as well. ❤️
I am so so sorry for the loss of your step father, fur baby, and your mom. Grief is already hard and having to grief multiple people we love seems so unfair. Be gentle with yourself. Take all the time you need. I am sending you love. 🔥
Omg!!!! I’m so so sorry! My heart and my deepest condolences goes out to you I’m so sorry. I lost my step papa two months ago…things will never be the same. 💔🙏🏾❤️🕊💐
I lost my mother a few months ago, after being her carer for 8 years. She had dementia & I lost her every single day. She was my Universe & we had so much fun together. I’m just don’t know how to get out of bed, engage with others & get on with life. I cry all the time & I talk to her every single day🙁❤️
We lost our mom unexpectedly just a few days ago, and it honestly still doesn’t feel real. I’m having a hard time letting myself to just feel, and your video has really helped me learn to let myself do so ❤️
I’m so sorry for the loss of your mom. I’m sending you love. I’m glad this video could help you. It’s so hard to sit in the feelings that grief come in. They can feel so overwhelming especially when we are just starting. How have you been over the months?
I lost my grandmother tonight. She helped raise me and I really miss her. I do wish I would’ve went to go see her at the hospital one last time to say I love her.
I’m so sorry for the loss of your grandmother! Our grandmothers really were backbones of the family. Don’t regret not going to see her. The way you speak of her I’m sure she knew how much you loved her! And maybe you needed to have the last memory you have of her in your mind as the last one before she passed. ❤️
Thank you so much for making this video. My father died in 2014 and my mother had a severe stroke that left her severely disabled and for the most part an invalid on October 16th of 2022. She is my very best friend. She is my absolute heart. And although she has not passed away, the stroke left her unable to speak unable to walk, unable to eat. I have been fighting to get her the care that she needs. While she is still here and I still absolutely adore her my mother as I knew her is gone. So I am grieving her while also still loving and attempting to protect and care for her in her current state until she makes her transition. Anyway I'm rambling. I really do appreciate you sharing your experiences. They were very helpful to me, and I definitely plan to take heed to your advice. I hope that you are continuing to progress well on your journey.
Thank you for sharing that with me. I’m so sorry to hear about your father passing. And my heart goes to you and your mother. Grieving a parent while they are still physically here but not what we once knew is so hard. And it’s heavy. How are you doing?
I am so glad that I found this video. My Mother passed away, June 6th 2024 in the home where we both live. She was 79 years old, I was her caregiver and worked from home, so we were always together. The day she passed was awful, she was fine in the morning, I checked up on her a throughout the day and later that afternoon I had to assist her into the washroom, I went to the linen closet to get a towel and facecloth to wipe her down and when I returned she was staring ahead, her eyes not blinking, could not feel her breathing or heart beat, I called 911, had to get her on the floor and start compressions. The paramedics showed up, took over and rushed her to the hospital. I gathered all my things and drove to the hospital, she was in critical care and never made it up to the ICU unit, they tried to revive her but her heart just was not strong enough and that's when my Mom passed. It's really hard to move forward, when she was all that I had and I cared for her everyday. I miss her so much and I'm trying to move through the process but it hurts so much and I feel so lonely. Listening to you, I feel that there is hope but right now I'm so lost and miss her terribly.
I know GOD will bring you through this I lost my mom June 22 at home and I had to preform CPR until the paramedics arrived and it’s a horrible experience but we will be okay ❤❤
I never thought it would be this hard. She went to Heaven on Easter Sunday 2023. The effects Covid did to her lungs were just horrible. I can’t seem to get the picture of that straight line on the machine when her heart stopped beating out of my head. I tell myself her next breath was with Jesus but I still hurt so bad inside. I cry everyday. She lived with us & I miss her every single minute of every day. I love you momma 😭
It’s been just over two weeks now since I lost my dad, he was on hospice for about 6 months so grief was a slow burn. Now that he has transitioned I think the length of the hospital helps but it’s still a journey. I don’t have the “Why” feeling I understand death is apart of the journey. But it’s like living in a new world. I’m allowing my emotions I’m not fighting them, a friend told me she wished she could remove the pain and I replied I don’t wish it away. This grief is a testament to the love shared and I honor this time.
Love and blessings to all. I lost my mom on May 30, 2023. The shock is still there. It feels like a bad dream. I miss my mom so much. We just celebrated my mom's 63rd birthday on April 2, 2023. Thanks so much for posting this great video.
I’m so sorry for the loss of your mom. I’m sending you so much love. May she rest in peace. And may you feel her love all around you. One day at a time❤️
I’m so sorry for the loss of your dad! I’m so glad it could bring you a little comfort during this time! Thank you so much for watching and for letting me know! Sending you love! ❤️
My mom passed away on April 20, 2024. She really deteriorated in the last week, becoming more incoherent, coughing up phlegm, and her mind was fading, with her trying to use the TV remote as a phone to text us. It was awful to see, and while I'm relieved she's free, it still hurts knowing she's gone. She deserved better. She was only 71, so she should have gotten another five years at least. She also passed only two weeks after me and my brother's cat did, and only four days after my birthday. Nothing can top this month in terms of absolute misery.
I lost my Dad on April 18 2024. The pain is like no other. Its challenging. But just know we got this. Our parents passing has gifted us with the full human experience of feeling grief. It’s so tough but they are around us always. I send you so much strength and peace ❤
I’m so sorry for your loss. And I am so sorry they miscalculated the time you all had left together. I hope as the time passes the grief becomes lighter. Take all the time you need. Feel all the feelings you need. Sending you love and light ❤️
I lost my mum few weeks ago. It's a lot to take and process. It hurts everyday and I'm scared if this is how it will be for the rest of my life. Thank you for this video.
I lost my mom on July 9, 2024. Planning her funeral, burial and eulogy was an extremely painful experience. I’m still in shock and I am lost without her. All I feel is heartache, confusion and sadness.
Also my mom was a nurse she worked in the NICU with premature babies and drug babies and she met a lot of new parents and made a lot of good friends when they found out she passed they were sad she was a buetiful person and a great mom she passed away in my arms at the apartment we were living in and it was 11:40 at night on the stairs of our apartment and three days after she passed her spirit orb came to the apartment on the balcony we were standing there having some beers and she visited us it was buetiful we always had a pact between us who ever passed away first we would come and visit the one who was still alive and she kept that promise and yes I have proof on video my phone I know there is a heaven and my I go there I will see my family again and when that day comes I will be the happiest, god bless everyone on here and stay positive you will see them again.
I lost my dad suddenly back in March. It's been an extremely difficult last two months. He was going to turn 60 this year and I feel so beyond broken. I don't know how I can live without him. My brother and I just don't know how to go on with life. It feels very empty and void. I feel an abyss of darkness within me and I'm fighting to avoid falling deeper into it. But the more time goes on, I feel like I'm falling in further. I just want my daddy back 😢
Hi Felicia, I lost my dad very unexpectedly 3 months ago and it has been the hardest thing I've ever gone through. I'm so sorry to hear about both of your mom and dad's losses. I found this video very comforting and was one of the first videos I've watched on grief. Thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts and memories with your mom and dad with the world.
Thank you so much for your video. I just lost my mom a few weeks ago. I am in such grief. My mom was a bright light and she was so warm. I love her so much. I talk out loud when I am alone with my thoughts. I cry hearing my dad voice. My dad is very much alive he just turned 70 years old this past May 2023. Thank you for this video because I needed to figure out how to deal with these emotions that I cannot control.
I’m so sorry for the loss of your mom. She sounds like a beautiful woman. And I hope you still feel her light around you. Feel all your emotions it’s okay. Take it one day at a time. I know it’s hard but I hope as time passes the weight feels a little lighter for you. Sending you so much love ❤️
Thank you. Your words were comforting and encouraging. I lost my mother a year ago this month after being her caregiver for several years. I lost my father in 2005. As an only child, it has been very hard to go on as usual. I am considering taking some time off now. Therapy is helping but processing it all has been so emotional I just need a break from everything.
I’m so sorry for the loss of your parents. May the rest in eternal peace. I can relate with you a lot. I took a year off after my mom passed because I was her caretaker. I just focused on processing the grief and not having expectations for myself. It seemed to help. When my dad passed years earlier I threw myself into work which came back to hit me like a ton of bricks not processing it. Do what is best for you and I send you so much love on your way. Processing can be draining but there is light on the other side. One day at a time. ❤️
Thank you for watching. I’m sorry about the loss of your mom. I’m sending you love. May she continue to rest in peace. I know that feeling of still missing them. It doesn’t go away but may the loads we carry of grief get lighter. ❤️
Thank you for this.. I’m currently losing my mother and it’s torture and so painful to think of a world without her in it. It’s so scary wondering how I will cope when she is no longer here. Sending you love and this has given me comfort that I will be ok ❤️
I’m so sorry. And thank you so much for sharing. The space of watching a parent transition over time is bittersweet. There’s nothing I can say that will ease the pain. But remember to breathe deep as often as you can. Hold on to the good memories in your mind. Any item you want to keep you keep it to help you grieve. Take your time with whatever makes you feel somewhat normal during this time and journey. Sending you so much love ❤️
Great video -- well done. I lost my dad back in 2013 and my mom more recently in 2022. However, they did lead full lives at 79 and 83, respectively. Grief is unavoidable for all of us, unfortunately. I offer my condolences to everyone who has lost their parent(s). Better days *will* be ahead.
How can I say thank you enough? I lost my mom and my husband 4 months apart and I still have not learned how to live without them because they were my world. I’m really struggling but I have been through a lot and will overcome it. Thank you again this helps me ❤
This is so needed. I'm dealing with the anticipatory grief of my father, who has dementia. He's been dealing with it since May 2022, and it is a pain that can't be explained. Been through this before with my grandmother, but it's different with a parent. Thank you for this video!
I lost my daddy July 1st and every day feels like a struggle , we talked and seen eachother almost everyday and it was so sudden and he’s gone , it’s like I can’t believe life is going on 😩. But thank you for this video it definitely helped.
I’m so sorry for the lost of your dad! I hope you are doing as okay as you can be while navigating him being gone. Hold on to the memories. Sending you so much love. ❤️
I'm blessed to still have both parents but seeing them get older on top with the inevitability of it gets to me as I grow older. I'm still not sure how I'll handle the time they pass when it comes, but I appreciate the advice and pray for everyone in the comments who are going through the grieving process.
I’m sorry for everyones loss ❤️ I just lost my dad today and before he passed away he said goodbye to which something he would never say if he would rest a bit a few min laters when i checked him he already passed away I can’t believe my love is forever gone
My stepfather passed on June 17, 2022. I hadn't seen him since 2017 due to my work schedule and not having the money to travel that far. And 2020 brought another problem. I had flown home the day he passed. That trip was scheduled a month in advance. Several times I woke up in my mother's house and was fine. And then I would remember that my stepfather was gone and I was no longer okay. It sucks that I will never have a conversation with that man again. He was married to my mom for 35 years. He's one of the greatest men I have had the privilege to know.
I’m so sorry for the loss of your stepfather. Thank you for sharing. He sounds like an amazing man. May his spirit live on with you. Sometimes I’ll sit outside and talk to my dad. I know he isn’t there physically but it still sometimes calms my spirit because we would sit outside and talk often. If you have any memories of moments like that maybe if you feel comfortable try going to a space and talking with him. Or writing a letter. Sending you lots of love on your journey.
I just lost my mother unexpectedly on thanksgiving 2022 (which happens to be her favorite holiday) thanks for the tips. This is so hard, my two sisters and I were very close to her. We’re just trying to stay strong for our Dad.❤
I’m so sorry for your loss. I hope you are doing as okay as you can be. I wish the same for your sisters. I’m sorry she transitioned so unexpected and on her favorite holiday. Im glad you liked the tips. And im sending you so much love. ❤️
Thanks for this video. I lost my dad almost 2 months ago (May 17). I'm having a really rough time. I know grieving takes time and losing a parent is something we all have to go through in our lives, but it's just so painful.
I’m so sorry for your loss of your dad! It definitely takes time. Sbd there’s no set time on it which makes it feel like forever. But you just take it one day at a time! Feel all the feelings. You may even get tired of crying bc you feel like there shouldn’t be any more tears. But one day it won’t hurt as much. One day a memory will come that will bring a smile with a tear instead of pain in our chest. I’m wishing this for you. ❤️
I recently loss my mom and this has been so hard I have been searching for things frankly anything that can relax my mind and make me able to just stop thinking about it. I have always struggled with mental illness, so I am afraid of a relapse.
I’m so sorry to hear about the passing of your mom. I can understand just wanting to be able to relax a little bit. I have a question for you that may be able to find something to help you towards trying to relax. What were five things you enjoyed doing when you were a kid? I’ll be here to hopefully see if we can find something for you to try. Sending you love. One step at a time. Deep breath. We are in this fight together. ❤️
I lost my mom 3 days ago. It’s my worst nightmare come true. Worse cuz I had no other family and friends and now I’m homeless because I lived with her. The last 3 years my whole life was taking care of my mom. I was there when she died. Now I feel empty. A huge hole in my life. I don’t know even how I am or what my life purpose is without my role of caretakers of my mom being gone. Oh gosh I miss her it doesn’t feel real still. I’m so lost and have no one to talk to but I try to counselor. I’m so sorry mom I love you I love you 😢
I’m so sorry for your loss of your mom. May she rest in peace. Reading your comment I can relate so much. Even though these words may not bring you any comfort I still want to share- it is okay to not know your purpose or what’s next. It’s okay if you can’t see past the pain of grief right now. Take it one day at a time. You cry as much as you need. Talk to your mom when you need(her spirit is still with you). And again just take things one day at a time. There’s a different pain when we lose the person we love the most. My biggest fear was losing my mom and very similar to the way you lost yours. I was devastated the first year. I let myself fall apart unapologetically bc nobody knows the pain unless they’ve experienced it. Don’t put a time limit on grief. And do whatever you need to still feel connected ( I wrote letters, listened to her favorite songs, ate her favorite foods, etc). I am sending you so much love. ❤️
I’m so sorry for the loss of both of your parents. And in such a short time frame. I pray that you are doing okay as you can be in this time. I hope your grief and healing journey brings you peace as the time passes. Know that it’s okay to not be okay. Sending you so much love. ❤
Thank you for sharing your experience and insight with us. I just lost my mom last week, and she held and continues to hold a profound place in my heart. With that, the loss feels exceptionally harder to process. I appreciate your authentic and heartfelt take on the subject as it helps people like myself feel like there are no boundaries around grieving, that it's okay to take the time we need to process our losses in a meaningful and constructive way. Wishing you all the best and thanks once again for being a guiding light for those going through such a hard time.
I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my mom 7 months ago and it's been hell. These are really good tips and I appreciate you being vulnerable and sharing your grief. It's not easy and should be more common. Much love
I’m so sorry for your loss! Thank you for watching and thank you for those kind words. It definitely isn’t easy but I just want to be able to help someone who may feel lost. I know I did when I lost my parents. So thank you for that reminder. Sending you so much love on your journey. ❤️
I just loss my Dad 2 weeks ago. It's been tough each day. I'm definitely taking it a day at a time. Thank you for this video it was very helpful for me. God Bless 🙏🏾
@FeliciaNacole I've been well. Thanks so much for asking. I'm still taking it a day at a time. I actually sat in my car today thinking about him. Had a good cry just reminiscing. Hope you are well also. Thanks again, and God bless! You are truly a blessing 🙏🏾
I’m so sorry for the loss of your father especially at an early age. You are right it is a process to move forward from. Just know you never have to get over it. Bc it’s a part of your life story. And if anyone tells you differently don’t pay them any mind. Do whatever you need to honor the memory of your father. And know that he is with you in spirit still. I’m sending you love
I lost my mom 8th March 2024. Things are not same anymore. She took a part of me with her & i dont feel the same. Sometimes it jst doesn't feel like dhes gone. I talk to her everyday anytime, i know shes here spiritually but i jst wish i can talk to her one last time😭😭😭😭
I can relate to your pain, lost mine on 6 March 2024, she was attacked by thugs and they killed her, burried her on 8 march 2024. Life is not easy. But trusting in God and praying always for healing. I feel weak most times
I have lost my mom in april 18th 2024. It was unexpected and unfortunate. She was only 52. It seems that it's a bad dream or a nightmare. It is hard for me to live without her. I still can't accept the fact that she is no more. Not a day passes by that I don't think about her. Everything feels so monotonous and pointless. Twice i tried committing suicide . I didn't expected this. She was supposed to be in my wedding and I don't have her now. It feels like someone just stabbed me .
I pick up my Mothers items tomorrow. Flight to LA later today. Our relationship was very complicated and I feel like had I made different choices she would have been alive. I thought that I was unrealistically calm and maybe that had been a gift by God. Went four days without crying. I’m trying not to time it but the clock restarts. Thinking about living the rest of my life like this feels heavy. And I feel so lonely. But thank you for this video, your voice is very calming.
Thank you so much for taking time to make this video. I recently unexpectedly lost my mother 8 months ago to cancer that we didn't know she had until about 1 month prior to her death... I have been struggling because I also was the only sibling to be there with her to watch her pass and hold her hand through it. I lost my dad in 2019. I appreciate your tips and i think in addition to my journaling I will also seek grief counseling.
I’m so sorry for the loss of your parents. And especially your mom recently. I hope as the days have gone it has been okay for you. How are you? Grief counseling can help so much. Grief brings such big emotions and small ones too that sometimes don’t even look like what we think grief would be. Sending you love ❤️
I feel that way with my dad. Whenever I struggled to fill out forms, he was my go-to. Now I don't know who else to turn to. I miss him so very much. I am sure you feel the same way about your mother. I am truly sorry for your loss
Sorry for your loss love. You’re strong for making this video. Thank you for taking the time to share your story for ppl going through similar losses. I hope all is well ❤.
I’m so sorry for the loss of your mom. May she rest in peace. That feeling of missing her so much may stay for a while and it’s okay. Take it one day at at time. Sending you love. ❤️
I lost my mum suddenly in 2014 and my dad just one week ago. I could be with him till the end of his desease, till the minute his heart stopped beating. I feel empty but i know i will have to go through this, in order to accept this big loss. Life is still beautiful, that is for sure😊
I’m so sorry for the loss of your parents. Reading your comment I love your beautiful perspective. I agree with everything you typed. I hope as you walk through this path that you begin to feel refilled along the way. I’m sending you love ❤️
Thank you so much for this I lost my dad this past November and this honestly is harder than I thought or expected this is really blessing to hear. I’m still working through it and honestly I feel lost.
I’m so sorry for your loss. There are no words that can take away the feelings that you feel but I want you to know you’re in my thoughts & prayers. I hope that something in the video may be helpful to you along your journey. Take it one day at a time. Cry when you need to. And know there is no time limit to grief. My thoughts & prayers are with you 💜
@@babyblack7740 sending love and prayers to you. I hope that as time goes on there is more peace than sadness. But know that there is no time limit to grieving. One step at a time. Sending you so much love 💕
I just lost my Dad August 8, 2024. I am NOT well. I am a huge DADDY'S girl. I was so strong gape my Mom and sister by handling everything. Once I got home I fell apart. Trying to smile for everyone and still run my business has been a struggle. Starting counseling soon. Thank you for sharing.
I lost my dad on August 25th and I still can't believe it, i'm also a huge daddy's girl. What is helping me is speaking to him everyday and sending him messages, our dad's are in another place right now, but I strongly believe they're still here with us somehow. I told my dad to come and visit me in the shape of a butterfly, and I can't stop seeing dragonflies around me. This is helping me cope with grief. I'm sending you a big hug Charline!
My,name is Nora and I know what some of you are going through I lost my son 2006 Mother Day and it is still hard because I think about him every day what I did help me e my grieving I bought me a journal and would write as all things I could remember since the he was born until this time and I still at times I am so grateful that God gave to me those yrs and me to him so for out me on remembering memories and the tears and laughing because God's glory will be your morning glory for all of you stay safe
Thank you for such a nice video for those who are grieving. Your voice is very gentle and comforting and helps when we who are all very sad need to hear friendly supportive advice. My mom passed away in 2021, and there's hardly a day that goes by that I haven't said to her... Mom, please come back! But I know she can't... I miss her so so much! I pray that one day, we will be reunited.
I want to first say I’m so sorry for the loss of your mom! May she rest in eternal peace. I know that feeling too well of saying please come back. I’m glad to know my video brought a little comfort. And yes I often think of how one day I’ll be reunited with those I love that have gone before and brings a little bit of peace. I’m sending you so much love.❤️
I was having a hard time today pertaining my mother , and I was speechless to play your video and you opening with “hey it’s Felicia “! My mothers name is Felicia Nicole Burnette ! and I see yours is spelled very similarly. I feel that is her trying to communicate with me on some level 🥺 what are the odds? Thank you for sharing
I thank you for sharing your experience. Both of my parents had Covid at the same time, my mom passed on January 2021 and my dad passed on April 2023. I'm really going through it and I'm seeing a therapist once a week and I'm on medication.
I lost my mom almost a year ago and has been a life changing experience we were extremely close and is very different without her however I have been utilize therapy through better help and also joined a grief share group! Definitely giving myself time to feel all the emotions and journaling is definitely something I have been doing and I have taken time off of work !
I’m so sorry for the loss of your mom may she rest in eternal peace. I can only imagine the pain because you two had a close positive relationship. Know that she is always with you. And I’m so glad to hear you ate prioritizing allowing yourself to navigate grief. And I’m thankful that you have the space and resources. One day at a time. One step at a time and I’m sending you extra love with Mothers Day on the horizon. ❤️
I’m so sorry for the loss of your dad recently. I’m glad my words could help you. Just take it one day at a time. I know that sounds so cliche just it’s real. Feel all the emotions, take care of yourself as best you can. Sending you love!
I lost my mom on July 10th to a brain aneurysm, unexpectedly and without warning, she never had any health issues or any symptoms. I just want one more hug.. I’m in my late 20’s this just hurts so much.😔😞
Thank you so much for taking the time to watch this video. If you are currently grieving the loss of a parent I send you so much love in this moment. Peace & blessings to you all.
Sending love from Cali 🧡 I needed to hear this today 🙏🏾
Thank You for the video. She’s currently in hospice and not doing so well. This video is helping me to become as prepared as possible. Sending you Prayers and Positive Energy as well Queen.
FeliciaNacole thank you so much for sharing your story. I lost my parents 6 weeks apart. My dad in October 2022 and mom in December 2022. It’s been very hard but God gives me strength to endure during this time
She departed the physical life on May 20th…I was lead T this video for a reason and it has aided tremendously in my grieving process. I was able to prepare myself as much as possible but your never really prepared. Again Thank You so much
Thank you ma'am 😢
I just lost my dad unexpectedly to a heart attack with no warning. Being the oldest, im lost for words. My dad was gone noticeably before being pronounced. You can never imagine that feeling of seeing the person who made you lifeless. Praying for all who are also/have experiencing this pain
I’m so sorry for your loss!! I wholeheartedly agree with you. There’s no way to describe the feeling. I’m sorry you had to experience it. I hope you are doing as okay as you can be. One day at a time. ❤️
Going through the same exact thing. My dad died of a sudden heart attack a month ago. Hardest thing I’ve ever gone through. I miss him every hour of the day.
My dad died due to complications. He was so optimistic about his surgery-where he assured us that he'll get better. But it turned out to be the opposite. I will never forget how useless I was, I couldn't do anything.
Same happened with me, 2.5 months ago, I lost my dad due to heart attack, he was healthy, active young man. He passed away unexpectedly. I was studying abroad and planing to go back home in 2024 to meet my family after 3 years but then on 22 January 2023 I got call that changed my whole life and then visited to my dad’s funeral. He left me without hug, without kiss, without goodbye.
It’s so hard to move forward , only those can understand who lost their loved one.
I hope we all find a peace and courage to find a meaning in our lives.
My dad passed same way in 2018. I had to identify his lifeless body as he passed in the house police had to put door in. I'm sooooo broken 💔. I feel your pain. Hugssss to you 😢❤
I lost my dad yesterday. It’s just settling in that I’ll never hear his voice or hug him again. I was a daddy’s girl. I’m hurt to my core rn. I miss my daddy
My condolences on the loss of your father! May his soul rest in eternal peace. I send you so much love on your grief journey. May he always remain close in your heart and send you reminders that he is with you in spirit. Take it one day at a time ❤️
It hurts so bad😭😭😭😭😭.
Still can't accept that my Father is dead😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
I lost my mom two weeks ago February 2023. I’m still can wrap my head around her sudden lost. I feel like I’m in a dream/nightmare state. I will take some of your tips, hope it helps me. Thanks for sharing
I’m so sorry for the loss of your mom. I can relate to that feeling. Take it one day at a time. I hope something in the video helps you. And if it doesn’t know that is okay as well. I am sending you love and light on your journey. Be gentle with yourself. ❤️
I hope U are doing well now
Lost my Dear Mother on January 8th, 2024. Miss talking to her, but I still talk to her because I know she can hear me. I believe in God and heaven and have seen MANY signs from her, but still it is not the same. I pray for God to give me peace and to all of you dealing with this loss. I feel I will see her again in heaven, but for now I feel lost. I tried to work right away, but broke down at work from the stress. Right now I can't handle the same B.S. and stress from others like before. I will not tolerate what I did before. This is probably good and a sign of growth.
Sorry for your loss❤
I also lost my dad on the 8th of january 2024.
Hi, I'm really sorry for your loss 😢. I also lost my mom 8th March 2024. I know what u r talking about I can relate. I also feel the same. I also feel like I lost a part of me & the pain is too deep. I don't feel the same anymore something in me jst changed. I pray that we heal🙏🏽💞🌻💞
Lost my mom May 1, 2024….nothing feels the same & this comment is goated.
i just lost my dad this morning. he’d been hospitalized for a couple months, and i assumed this would happen but the reality of never seeing him or talking to him again is just setting in. thank you for sharing your experiences for all of us who have just lost a loved one and not knowing what to do.
I’m so sorry for the loss of your dad. I am sending love and my thoughts to you. Even if we are somewhat prepared for the transition it doesn’t make it hurt any less. I am so sorry. Death is so permanent and it sometimes seems unfair. Thank you for watching and I hope as time goes on the pain gets a little lighter for you. Sending so much love.
I hope you are feeling better today
Lost my mom 3 months ago and my dad 2 days ago. In same year, in a span of 3 months i lost them both. I am in abroad and i feel so alone and sad. Kept waking up at night and thats why i am here.
Bless you 🕊️🕊️🕊️🫂
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I’m so sorry. I pray for you that you will stay strong through this
Lost my mom lastnight and I’m just lost in life now. Im going to be strong for her but losing a mom hits different smh hopefully I can continue life the same way when she was here
I’m so very sorry for the loss of your mom. I’m sending you so much. Life may be different now that she is no longer on the physical side. But I hope you can find ways to make you feel close to her still. Take it one day at a time. ❤️
Hey man lost my mom december 2nd and it only gets harder but keep in mind that you are strong and that she wouldnt want to see you sad but strong and healthy keep your head up brother
It's not easy. Allow yourself to heal in time. Praying for you 💪🏾
Lost my mom July 2nd 😢 I was the only child to a single parent. No relationship with my father and I was a spoiled mama’s boy. It still doesn’t feel real even though I’ve cried my eyes out almost everyday since she passed.
I’m so sorry for the loss of your mom! Especially because of the amazing bond y’all had. I hope you are doing as okay as you can be. I’m so sorry again. ❤️
I lost my mom 2 weeks ago and after reading this , I am also an only child , had no relationship with my dad .My mom was my best friend, we did so much together, she died in my arms,
she came home when the doctor said there was nothing that could be done,,It was her wish to be home and died 5 hours after getting her home. I was with her every minute I could. I have never experienced this feeling of grief before it is overwhelming. I pray I have the strength to go on.
@@LisaTasker-qd1pxI'm so sorry. I feel you. Godbless!
Prayers for everyone. I lost my mom April 15th 2024. Sadly for me I didn’t realize until I went through this. You hear other stories and you try to feel for them. But until it’s you it’s hard to really understand. 🙏🏾💜
I lost mine yesterday and I totally agree. You won’t understand till you go through it. And it hurts so bad 😭❤️
@@victoc85 im really sorry to hear that 🙏🏾😢💜 I don’t have the words but I just pray even now that God be with you and just meet your every need.
So true, I lost my Mom a month ago, and I now know that feeling, and don't wish it on anyone.
I lost both my parents at very young age, no pictures, no memories. If I am not at work I am in my bed grieving. Next month is my biggest step in my life because I will meet a psychologist for the first time 🎉🎉🎉
Thank you for sharing. I’m so sorry you lost your parents at a young age. I want to tell you that I’m proud of you for signing up for a session with a psychologist! I hope they are a good fit for you. And that they can assist you lighten the load on your grief journey! You conquered one of the most challenging steps with getting professional help. Shoutout to you!! 🥹🥳🎉
I lost my mum last year on Aug 2023. Since then the world so empty and no purpose of life. Im jobless, i wont meet anyone and my mental health getting worst day by day. 😭😭😭😭😭 I always pray and wish to be me as before 🙏.
U will be ok dear.start to sell something online thru you tube or Facebook.
Praying for you I lost my mom July 2023. My condolences
If ur interested in something u can sell online.keep urself engaged.tightly engaged
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Praying for you 🙏🏻
I lost both my parents during the pandemic. It feels like I can’t relate to anyone these days. I realized that I didn’t have the relationships and support I needed. I’m trying to build new ones. Thanks for sharing 🙏🏽
I am so sorry for your loss. I am sending you so much love. I hope you are able to create a support system that makes you feel seen and understood. It can be difficult to open up to others especially after losing two of the closest people to us but the heavy load of grief feels a tad bit lighter with a support system. Thank you so much for watching and much love. ❤️
Weep for Me Once (A Parent’s Wish) Albert Moore
Weep for me once with tears of sorrow
Then turn your heart to a bright tomorrow.
Know that my soul cannot truly rest
Lest I know yours is richly blessed.
Tis’ my greatest wish and heavenly prayer
That the love you gave me, new hearts will share.
Weep for me once and release your pain
Then set me free as God’s peace you gain.
My spirit be joyful if above I can know
That your life is filled with happiness below.
Although I am gone, I will always be near,
And this final wish I want you to hear.
Weep for me once with tears of sorrow
but soon turn your heart toward that bright tomorrow!
Absolutely love this. Thank you for much for sharing. It’s powerful and holds true.
@@FeliciaNacole Thank you, amateur poets need support. Your caring videos are a wonderful gift to those who are grieving and need support, also.
Ur poem is wonderful
@@thegardenguide2650 Thank you. I also set it to music.
@@albertmoore4445 do u have channel?
I just lost my Mom, 4 days ago, and the pain is eviscerating. I’m in shock and can’t believe I’m never going to see her or hear her again. So unexpected and I’m completely gutted. Please pray for me and my Mom 🙏🏼✝️😭
Praying for you both🙏🏻. She loves you so much❤️
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So sorry friend
Praying for you and your mom. Lost my mom yesterday. I’m gutted as well
@@NadiaYTPage I’m so sorry Nadia!!!🙏😭🌹❤️🙏 I will keep you and your Mom in my prayers. I understand, it’s still completely eviscerating pain. God bless you both ❤️🌹🙏
Im so sorry for everyone's loss and pain. I just lost my dad in February and my mom in 2014. I feel like an orphan. Like theres no one to be proud of me anymore. Sounds silly but thats how im feeling today. 😢
Hey. I know it's hard. But if no one told you recently, I am proud of you for everything you been through and how you've overcome them. You got this buddy.
@@manulaperera thank you! ❤️
I know exactly how you feel.
Thank you for sharing. I lost my mom a month ago and hearing other people’s stories helps me feel less alone
I’m so sorry for the loss of your mom. I’m so glad you feel a little less alone even if for a little bit. I’m sending you love. I hope as the days and times goes on the grief feels less intense. You are in my thoughts. And thank you for sharing. Know your mom is proud of you. ❤
I lost my father back in 2019. My mother has been struggling with cancer for 3 years. She’s still hanging in there but now the doctor is presenting the possibility that nothing may not be possible. I’ve been feeling so sad today. I can’t imagine not having my mother anymore. I’m fortunate she’s still here
I’m so sorry to hear about your father passing in 2019. And to hear about your moms struggle with cancer. I’m sending you love. How are you doing?
I really appreciate your help with this, lost my mom Feb 24, 2022 it’s been a long 7 months. I still cry myself to sleep most nights. Hard being without someone you have been with your whole life. My mom lost her mom very early and I don’t see how she handled being without her for 30 plus years. I pray and ask god to give me that same strength she had. Much love you and I’m sorry for your lost as well. Peace and blessings to you sister ❤
I’m so sorry for your loss. Cry as much as you need to. You are in my prayers for healing and peace in the time of darkness. Your mom is watching over you. I know it’s hard to not have her here physically. Keep taking it one day at a time. And know it’s okay to cry as much as you need. And I’m sorry your mom lost her mom so early as well. ❤️
Thank you. I lost my step father, dad, my dog, and now my mom last month all since 2020. I’m exhausted and a lot of losses close together.
I’m so sorry for your lost. I also lost my mom a month ago. I feel numb. I will keep you in my prayers. Stay strong
I am so so sorry for the loss of your step father, fur baby, and your mom. Grief is already hard and having to grief multiple people we love seems so unfair. Be gentle with yourself. Take all the time you need. I am sending you love. 🔥
Omg!!!! I’m so so sorry! My heart and my deepest condolences goes out to you I’m so sorry. I lost my step papa two months ago…things will never be the same. 💔🙏🏾❤️🕊💐
I lost my mother a few months ago, after being her carer for 8 years. She had dementia & I lost her every single day. She was my Universe & we had so much fun together. I’m just don’t know how to get out of bed, engage with others & get on with life. I cry all the time & I talk to her every single day🙁❤️
My heart goes out to you. ❤
We lost our mom unexpectedly just a few days ago, and it honestly still doesn’t feel real. I’m having a hard time letting myself to just feel, and your video has really helped me learn to let myself do so ❤️
I lost my mother few weeks ago take care brother our mom is near us ,protecting us ♥️
I’m so sorry for the loss of your mom. I’m sending you love. I’m glad this video could help you. It’s so hard to sit in the feelings that grief come in. They can feel so overwhelming especially when we are just starting. How have you been over the months?
My dad passed away 3.29.24 I was there in his final moments😢Thanks for this video.
I lost my grandmother tonight. She helped raise me and I really miss her. I do wish I would’ve went to go see her at the hospital one last time to say I love her.
I’m so sorry for the loss of your grandmother! Our grandmothers really were backbones of the family. Don’t regret not going to see her. The way you speak of her I’m sure she knew how much you loved her! And maybe you needed to have the last memory you have of her in your mind as the last one before she passed. ❤️
Thank you so much for making this video. My father died in 2014 and my mother had a severe stroke that left her severely disabled and for the most part an invalid on October 16th of 2022. She is my very best friend. She is my absolute heart. And although she has not passed away, the stroke left her unable to speak unable to walk, unable to eat. I have been fighting to get her the care that she needs. While she is still here and I still absolutely adore her my mother as I knew her is gone. So I am grieving her while also still loving and attempting to protect and care for her in her current state until she makes her transition. Anyway I'm rambling. I really do appreciate you sharing your experiences. They were very helpful to me, and I definitely plan to take heed to your advice. I hope that you are continuing to progress well on your journey.
Thank you for sharing that with me. I’m so sorry to hear about your father passing. And my heart goes to you and your mother. Grieving a parent while they are still physically here but not what we once knew is so hard. And it’s heavy. How are you doing?
I am so glad that I found this video. My Mother passed away, June 6th 2024 in the home where we both live. She was 79 years old, I was her caregiver and worked from home, so we were always together. The day she passed was awful, she was fine in the morning, I checked up on her a throughout the day and later that afternoon I had to assist her into the washroom, I went to the linen closet to get a towel and facecloth to wipe her down and when I returned she was staring ahead, her eyes not blinking, could not feel her breathing or heart beat, I called 911, had to get her on the floor and start compressions. The paramedics showed up, took over and rushed her to the hospital. I gathered all my things and drove to the hospital, she was in critical care and never made it up to the ICU unit, they tried to revive her but her heart just was not strong enough and that's when my Mom passed. It's really hard to move forward, when she was all that I had and I cared for her everyday. I miss her so much and I'm trying to move through the process but it hurts so much and I feel so lonely. Listening to you, I feel that there is hope but right now I'm so lost and miss her terribly.
I know GOD will bring you through this I lost my mom June 22 at home and I had to preform CPR until the paramedics arrived and it’s a horrible experience but we will be okay ❤❤
I never thought it would be this hard. She went to Heaven on Easter Sunday 2023. The effects Covid did to her lungs were just horrible. I can’t seem to get the picture of that straight line on the machine when her heart stopped beating out of my head. I tell myself her next breath was with Jesus but I still hurt so bad inside. I cry everyday. She lived with us & I miss her every single minute of every day. I love you momma 😭
It’s been just over two weeks now since I lost my dad, he was on hospice for about 6 months so grief was a slow burn. Now that he has transitioned I think the length of the hospital helps but it’s still a journey. I don’t have the “Why” feeling I understand death is apart of the journey. But it’s like living in a new world. I’m allowing my emotions I’m not fighting them, a friend told me she wished she could remove the pain and I replied I don’t wish it away. This grief is a testament to the love shared and I honor this time.
Love and blessings to all. I lost my mom on May 30, 2023. The shock is still there. It feels like a bad dream. I miss my mom so much. We just celebrated my mom's 63rd birthday on April 2, 2023. Thanks so much for posting this great video.
I’m so sorry for the loss of your mom. I’m sending you so much love. May she rest in peace. And may you feel her love all around you. One day at a time❤️
Lost my dad this week and this video is very comforting, thank you for sharing!
I’m so sorry for the loss of your dad! I’m so glad it could bring you a little comfort during this time! Thank you so much for watching and for letting me know! Sending you love! ❤️
Lost my mom Dec 2023. Never had a father figure. This pain is indescribable. I feel unlovable.
My mom passed away on April 20, 2024. She really deteriorated in the last week, becoming more incoherent, coughing up phlegm, and her mind was fading, with her trying to use the TV remote as a phone to text us. It was awful to see, and while I'm relieved she's free, it still hurts knowing she's gone. She deserved better. She was only 71, so she should have gotten another five years at least.
She also passed only two weeks after me and my brother's cat did, and only four days after my birthday. Nothing can top this month in terms of absolute misery.
I lost my mom too April 12th. Hang I there this doesn't feel real
I lost my Dad on April 18 2024. The pain is like no other. Its challenging. But just know we got this. Our parents passing has gifted us with the full human experience of feeling grief. It’s so tough but they are around us always. I send you so much strength and peace ❤
I lost my mom April 2nd my birthday was April 3rd…. That told us 6 months, she lasted 25 days…..I’m not doing to good . Thank you for the video
I’m so sorry for your loss. And I am so sorry they miscalculated the time you all had left together. I hope as the time passes the grief becomes lighter. Take all the time you need. Feel all the feelings you need. Sending you love and light ❤️
I lost my mom yesterday June 11 2024, they had told us she had 2 months... 💔
Lost my mom October 9th, 2023. I will never be the same again. It’s tough.
I lost my mum few weeks ago. It's a lot to take and process. It hurts everyday and I'm scared if this is how it will be for the rest of my life. Thank you for this video.
I came here today because my mom died yesterday after a heart attack. Thank you for this. I subscribed. God bless ❤
I miss my dad so much ever since he passed away
I’m so sorry for the loss of your dad. May he rest in peace. I hope that the load gets lighter for you over time. Sending you much love ❤️
I lost my mom on July 9, 2024. Planning her funeral, burial and eulogy was an extremely painful experience. I’m still in shock and I am lost without her. All I feel is heartache, confusion and sadness.
God loves you🙏🏻
Also my mom was a nurse she worked in the NICU with premature babies and drug babies and she met a lot of new parents and made a lot of good friends when they found out she passed they were sad she was a buetiful person and a great mom she passed away in my arms at the apartment we were living in and it was 11:40 at night on the stairs of our apartment and three days after she passed her spirit orb came to the apartment on the balcony we were standing there having some beers and she visited us it was buetiful we always had a pact between us who ever passed away first we would come and visit the one who was still alive and she kept that promise and yes I have proof on video my phone I know there is a heaven and my I go there I will see my family again and when that day comes I will be the happiest, god bless everyone on here and stay positive you will see them again.
Prayers to all who are here and their loved ones. Just lost my mom on 6/3/24. My dad on 1/21/16. Heartbroken. 💔
I lost my dad suddenly back in March. It's been an extremely difficult last two months. He was going to turn 60 this year and I feel so beyond broken. I don't know how I can live without him. My brother and I just don't know how to go on with life. It feels very empty and void. I feel an abyss of darkness within me and I'm fighting to avoid falling deeper into it. But the more time goes on, I feel like I'm falling in further. I just want my daddy back 😢
Hi Felicia, I lost my dad very unexpectedly 3 months ago and it has been the hardest thing I've ever gone through. I'm so sorry to hear about both of your mom and dad's losses. I found this video very comforting and was one of the first videos I've watched on grief. Thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts and memories with your mom and dad with the world.
Thank you so much for your video. I just lost my mom a few weeks ago. I am in such grief. My mom was a bright light and she was so warm. I love her so much. I talk out loud when I am alone with my thoughts. I cry hearing my dad voice. My dad is very much alive he just turned 70 years old this past May 2023. Thank you for this video because I needed to figure out how to deal with these emotions that I cannot control.
I’m so sorry for the loss of your mom. She sounds like a beautiful woman. And I hope you still feel her light around you. Feel all your emotions it’s okay. Take it one day at a time. I know it’s hard but I hope as time passes the weight feels a little lighter for you. Sending you so much love ❤️
Thank you. Your words were comforting and encouraging. I lost my mother a year ago this month after being her caregiver for several years. I lost my father in 2005. As an only child, it has been very hard to go on as usual. I am considering taking some time off now. Therapy is helping but processing it all has been so emotional I just need a break from everything.
I’m so sorry for the loss of your parents. May the rest in eternal peace. I can relate with you a lot. I took a year off after my mom passed because I was her caretaker. I just focused on processing the grief and not having expectations for myself. It seemed to help. When my dad passed years earlier I threw myself into work which came back to hit me like a ton of bricks not processing it. Do what is best for you and I send you so much love on your way. Processing can be draining but there is light on the other side. One day at a time. ❤️
Thank you for making this video I lost my mom 2013 it’s still hard I miss her everyday
Thank you for watching. I’m sorry about the loss of your mom. I’m sending you love. May she continue to rest in peace. I know that feeling of still missing them. It doesn’t go away but may the loads we carry of grief get lighter. ❤️
Thank you for this.. I’m currently losing my mother and it’s torture and so painful to think of a world without her in it. It’s so scary wondering how I will cope when she is no longer here. Sending you love and this has given me comfort that I will be ok ❤️
I’m so sorry. And thank you so much for sharing. The space of watching a parent transition over time is bittersweet. There’s nothing I can say that will ease the pain. But remember to breathe deep as often as you can. Hold on to the good memories in your mind. Any item you want to keep you keep it to help you grieve. Take your time with whatever makes you feel somewhat normal during this time and journey. Sending you so much love ❤️
Great video -- well done. I lost my dad back in 2013 and my mom more recently in 2022. However, they did lead full lives at 79 and 83, respectively. Grief is unavoidable for all of us, unfortunately.
I offer my condolences to everyone who has lost their parent(s). Better days *will* be ahead.
I lost my mom 18 days ago. It still feels like day one.
How can I say thank you enough? I lost my mom and my husband 4 months apart and I still have not learned how to live without them because they were my world. I’m really struggling but I have been through a lot and will overcome it. Thank you again this helps me ❤
This is so needed. I'm dealing with the anticipatory grief of my father, who has dementia. He's been dealing with it since May 2022, and it is a pain that can't be explained. Been through this before with my grandmother, but it's different with a parent. Thank you for this video!
I lost my daddy July 1st and every day feels like a struggle , we talked and seen eachother almost everyday and it was so sudden and he’s gone , it’s like I can’t believe life is going on 😩. But thank you for this video it definitely helped.
I’m so sorry for the lost of your dad! I hope you are doing as okay as you can be while navigating him being gone. Hold on to the memories. Sending you so much love. ❤️
I'm blessed to still have both parents but seeing them get older on top with the inevitability of it gets to me as I grow older. I'm still not sure how I'll handle the time they pass when it comes, but I appreciate the advice and pray for everyone in the comments who are going through the grieving process.
I’m sorry for everyones loss ❤️ I just lost my dad today and before he passed away he said goodbye to which something he would never say if he would rest a bit a few min laters when i checked him he already passed away I can’t believe my love is forever gone
My stepfather passed on June 17, 2022. I hadn't seen him since 2017 due to my work schedule and not having the money to travel that far. And 2020 brought another problem.
I had flown home the day he passed. That trip was scheduled a month in advance.
Several times I woke up in my mother's house and was fine. And then I would remember that my stepfather was gone and I was no longer okay.
It sucks that I will never have a conversation with that man again. He was married to my mom for 35 years. He's one of the greatest men I have had the privilege to know.
I’m so sorry for the loss of your stepfather. Thank you for sharing. He sounds like an amazing man. May his spirit live on with you. Sometimes I’ll sit outside and talk to my dad. I know he isn’t there physically but it still sometimes calms my spirit because we would sit outside and talk often. If you have any memories of moments like that maybe if you feel comfortable try going to a space and talking with him. Or writing a letter. Sending you lots of love on your journey.
Your aura is so calming I hope robe like you one day my mom died and I’m broken
Thank you so much for this video! I lost my Dad yesterday to a Heart Attack, and life feels unreal right now. ❤
I just lost my mother unexpectedly on thanksgiving 2022 (which happens to be her favorite holiday) thanks for the tips. This is so hard, my two sisters and I were very close to her. We’re just trying to stay strong for our Dad.❤
I’m so sorry for your loss. I hope you are doing as okay as you can be. I wish the same for your sisters. I’m sorry she transitioned so unexpected and on her favorite holiday. Im glad you liked the tips. And im sending you so much love. ❤️
Thanks for this video. I lost my dad almost 2 months ago (May 17). I'm having a really rough time. I know grieving takes time and losing a parent is something we all have to go through in our lives, but it's just so painful.
I’m so sorry for your loss of your dad! It definitely takes time. Sbd there’s no set time on it which makes it feel like forever. But you just take it one day at a time! Feel all the feelings. You may even get tired of crying bc you feel like there shouldn’t be any more tears. But one day it won’t hurt as much. One day a memory will come that will bring a smile with a tear instead of pain in our chest. I’m wishing this for you. ❤️
@@FeliciaNacole Thanks Felicia. It's certainly not easy, but I'm trying to remember the good memories I have of him. 🙂
I recently loss my mom and this has been so hard I have been searching for things frankly anything that can relax my mind and make me able to just stop thinking about it. I have always struggled with mental illness, so I am afraid of a relapse.
I’m so sorry to hear about the passing of your mom. I can understand just wanting to be able to relax a little bit. I have a question for you that may be able to find something to help you towards trying to relax. What were five things you enjoyed doing when you were a kid? I’ll be here to hopefully see if we can find something for you to try. Sending you love. One step at a time. Deep breath. We are in this fight together. ❤️
Thanks for this video. I also lost my mom in 2020. Your tips are very helpful. Im also sorry for your loss.
I lost my mom 3 days ago. It’s my worst nightmare come true. Worse cuz I had no other family and friends and now I’m homeless because I lived with her. The last 3 years my whole life was taking care of my mom. I was there when she died. Now I feel empty. A huge hole in my life. I don’t know even how I am or what my life purpose is without my role of caretakers of my mom being gone. Oh gosh I miss her it doesn’t feel real still. I’m so lost and have no one to talk to but I try to counselor. I’m so sorry mom I love you I love you 😢
I’m so sorry for your loss of your mom. May she rest in peace. Reading your comment I can relate so much. Even though these words may not bring you any comfort I still want to share- it is okay to not know your purpose or what’s next. It’s okay if you can’t see past the pain of grief right now. Take it one day at a time. You cry as much as you need. Talk to your mom when you need(her spirit is still with you). And again just take things one day at a time. There’s a different pain when we lose the person we love the most. My biggest fear was losing my mom and very similar to the way you lost yours. I was devastated the first year. I let myself fall apart unapologetically bc nobody knows the pain unless they’ve experienced it. Don’t put a time limit on grief. And do whatever you need to still feel connected ( I wrote letters, listened to her favorite songs, ate her favorite foods, etc). I am sending you so much love. ❤️
I just lost my mom on 9/26/22 this is so very hard! I lost my dad on 6/6/22 as well 😢
I’m sorry for u 😢
Oh dear 💐may God heal you 🙏🏾❤️
I’m so sorry for the loss of both of your parents. And in such a short time frame. I pray that you are doing okay as you can be in this time. I hope your grief and healing journey brings you peace as the time passes. Know that it’s okay to not be okay. Sending you so much love. ❤
I lost my mom 3m ago. I miss her everyday.
You all are so strong. Everything will be alright for each of you.
Thank you for sharing this with us.
Thank you for sharing your experience and insight with us. I just lost my mom last week, and she held and continues to hold a profound place in my heart. With that, the loss feels exceptionally harder to process. I appreciate your authentic and heartfelt take on the subject as it helps people like myself feel like there are no boundaries around grieving, that it's okay to take the time we need to process our losses in a meaningful and constructive way. Wishing you all the best and thanks once again for being a guiding light for those going through such a hard time.
My mother just passed away in June. My father passed away when I was two. Thank you for the video it was extremely helpful
I’m so sorry for the loss of your parents. I’m so glad the video helped you. I’m sending you love! ❤️
I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my mom 7 months ago and it's been hell. These are really good tips and I appreciate you being vulnerable and sharing your grief. It's not easy and should be more common. Much love
I’m so sorry for your loss! Thank you for watching and thank you for those kind words. It definitely isn’t easy but I just want to be able to help someone who may feel lost. I know I did when I lost my parents. So thank you for that reminder. Sending you so much love on your journey. ❤️
I just loss my Dad 2 weeks ago. It's been tough each day. I'm definitely taking it a day at a time. Thank you for this video it was very helpful for me. God Bless 🙏🏾
I’m so sorry for the loss of your dad. May he rest in peace. One day at a time yes. How are you doing? Blessings to you. ❤️
@FeliciaNacole I've been well. Thanks so much for asking. I'm still taking it a day at a time. I actually sat in my car today thinking about him. Had a good cry just reminiscing. Hope you are well also. Thanks again, and God bless! You are truly a blessing 🙏🏾
I just lost my dad yesterday and I’m lost this is my first. I really appreciate this video
I’m so sorry for the loss of your dad. I’m sending you love. Take it one day at a time. ❤️
Thank you 😢! I lost my dad at 13! That is something I don’t wish on nobody! Loosing a parent is a hard thing to get over! I miss my dad everyday! 😢
I’m so sorry for the loss of your father especially at an early age. You are right it is a process to move forward from. Just know you never have to get over it. Bc it’s a part of your life story. And if anyone tells you differently don’t pay them any mind. Do whatever you need to honor the memory of your father. And know that he is with you in spirit still. I’m sending you love
@@FeliciaNacole Thank you so much! 🥹❤️
I lost my mom 8th March 2024. Things are not same anymore. She took a part of me with her & i dont feel the same. Sometimes it jst doesn't feel like dhes gone. I talk to her everyday anytime, i know shes here spiritually but i jst wish i can talk to her one last time😭😭😭😭
I can relate to your pain, lost mine on 6 March 2024, she was attacked by thugs and they killed her, burried her on 8 march 2024.
Life is not easy.
But trusting in God and praying always for healing.
I feel weak most times
@@sylviakahunde1148 I'm so sorry🙏🏽😔, I also feel weak
🙏🙏🙏
Your a warrior
I'm 14 and lost my mum to cancer a week ago everything doesn't feel real and this was a good video to watch
I have lost my mom in april 18th 2024. It was unexpected and unfortunate. She was only 52. It seems that it's a bad dream or a nightmare. It is hard for me to live without her. I still can't accept the fact that she is no more. Not a day passes by that I don't think about her. Everything feels so monotonous and pointless. Twice i tried committing suicide . I didn't expected this. She was supposed to be in my wedding and I don't have her now. It feels like someone just stabbed me .
I feel the same 😢. Mum was my everything but don't kill yourself. Just pray every day and try to do something that she would have done❤
I pick up my Mothers items tomorrow. Flight to LA later today. Our relationship was very complicated and I feel like had I made different choices she would have been alive. I thought that I was unrealistically calm and maybe that had been a gift by God. Went four days without crying. I’m trying not to time it but the clock restarts. Thinking about living the rest of my life like this feels heavy. And I feel so lonely. But thank you for this video, your voice is very calming.
Everything will get better we cannot change reality look for a routine that will work for your healing
Thank you so much for taking time to make this video. I recently unexpectedly lost my mother 8 months ago to cancer that we didn't know she had until about 1 month prior to her death... I have been struggling because I also was the only sibling to be there with her to watch her pass and hold her hand through it. I lost my dad in 2019. I appreciate your tips and i think in addition to my journaling I will also seek grief counseling.
I’m so sorry for the loss of your parents. And especially your mom recently. I hope as the days have gone it has been okay for you. How are you? Grief counseling can help so much. Grief brings such big emotions and small ones too that sometimes don’t even look like what we think grief would be. Sending you love ❤️
I just lost my mom mid-April 2024, im married 3 children, I'm so lost and dont know what to do. She was the one to guide me on everything.
I pray you get better.
I feel that way with my dad. Whenever I struggled to fill out forms, he was my go-to. Now I don't know who else to turn to. I miss him so very much. I am sure you feel the same way about your mother. I am truly sorry for your loss
Felicia, you’re a beautiful soul. May you prosper!
Sorry for your loss love. You’re strong for making this video. Thank you for taking the time to share your story for ppl going through similar losses. I hope all is well ❤.
I lost my mom a couple of days ago on June 1. I still can't believe she's gone i miss her so much.
I’m so sorry for the loss of your mom. May she rest in peace. That feeling of missing her so much may stay for a while and it’s okay. Take it one day at at time. Sending you love. ❤️
@@FeliciaNacole thank you so much it means a lot.
I lost my mum suddenly in 2014 and my dad just one week ago. I could be with him till the end of his desease, till the minute his heart stopped beating. I feel empty but i know i will have to go through this, in order to accept this big loss. Life is still beautiful, that is for sure😊
I’m so sorry for the loss of your parents. Reading your comment I love your beautiful perspective. I agree with everything you typed. I hope as you walk through this path that you begin to feel refilled along the way. I’m sending you love ❤️
Thank you for this content. I just lost my mom last Monday the day after Mother’s Day unexpectedly 💜
Thank you so much for this. I lost my mom yesterday and I can’t stop crying. I feel I can’t function. I feel so lost
Thank you so much for this I lost my dad this past November and this honestly is harder than I thought or expected this is really blessing to hear. I’m still working through it and honestly I feel lost.
I am going through the same. Is really hard for me.
I’m so sorry for your loss. There are no words that can take away the feelings that you feel but I want you to know you’re in my thoughts & prayers. I hope that something in the video may be helpful to you along your journey. Take it one day at a time. Cry when you need to. And know there is no time limit to grief. My thoughts & prayers are with you 💜
@@babyblack7740 sending love and prayers to you. I hope that as time goes on there is more peace than sadness. But know that there is no time limit to grieving. One step at a time. Sending you so much love 💕
Toni Lloyd thank you for the word's of encouraged.
I just lost my Dad August 8, 2024. I am NOT well. I am a huge DADDY'S girl. I was so strong gape my Mom and sister by handling everything. Once I got home I fell apart. Trying to smile for everyone and still run my business has been a struggle. Starting counseling soon. Thank you for sharing.
I lost my dad on August 25th and I still can't believe it, i'm also a huge daddy's girl. What is helping me is speaking to him everyday and sending him messages, our dad's are in another place right now, but I strongly believe they're still here with us somehow. I told my dad to come and visit me in the shape of a butterfly, and I can't stop seeing dragonflies around me. This is helping me cope with grief. I'm sending you a big hug Charline!
My,name is Nora and I know what some of you are going through I lost my son 2006 Mother Day and it is still hard because I think about him every day what I did help me e my grieving I bought me a journal and would write as all things I could remember since the he was born until this time and I still at times I am so grateful that God gave to me those yrs and me to him so for out me on remembering memories and the tears and laughing because God's glory will be your morning glory for all of you stay safe
Thank you for such a nice video for those who are grieving. Your voice is very gentle and comforting and helps when we who are all very sad need to hear friendly supportive advice. My mom passed away in 2021, and there's hardly a day that goes by that I haven't said to her... Mom, please come back! But I know she can't... I miss her so so much! I pray that one day, we will be reunited.
I want to first say I’m so sorry for the loss of your mom! May she rest in eternal peace. I know that feeling too well of saying please come back. I’m glad to know my video brought a little comfort. And yes I often think of how one day I’ll be reunited with those I love that have gone before and brings a little bit of peace. I’m sending you so much love.❤️
@@FeliciaNacole thank you! Sending love and hugs back!
i lost my dad two days ago. thank you so much for posting this
I’m so sorry for your loss!! Sending you love. Thank you for taking the time to watch I hope something helped if even for a few moments. ❤
Thank you for helping us with grief ma’am your god sent
Thank you so much! We are all in this together. And thank you for watching!❤️
Thank you for telling me about the same feeling that I had when I had lost both of my parents. 😢
My mom died on July 4th.I will always remember for the rest of my life and that’s a good thing.
I was having a hard time today pertaining my mother , and I was speechless to play your video and you opening with “hey it’s Felicia “! My mothers name is Felicia Nicole Burnette ! and I see yours is spelled very similarly. I feel that is her trying to communicate with me on some level 🥺 what are the odds? Thank you for sharing
I thank you for sharing your experience. Both of my parents had Covid at the same time, my mom passed on January 2021 and my dad passed on April 2023. I'm really going through it and I'm seeing a therapist once a week and I'm on medication.
I lost my mom almost a year ago and has been a life changing experience we were extremely close and is very different without her however I have been utilize therapy through better help and also joined a grief share group! Definitely giving myself time to feel all the emotions and journaling is definitely something I have been doing and I have taken time off of work !
I’m so sorry for the loss of your mom may she rest in eternal peace. I can only imagine the pain because you two had a close positive relationship. Know that she is always with you. And I’m so glad to hear you ate prioritizing allowing yourself to navigate grief. And I’m thankful that you have the space and resources. One day at a time. One step at a time and I’m sending you extra love with Mothers Day on the horizon. ❤️
Just lost my dad on August 2nd. Thank you for your advice. I have been so lost.
I’m so sorry for the loss of your dad recently. I’m glad my words could help you. Just take it one day at a time. I know that sounds so cliche just it’s real. Feel all the emotions, take care of yourself as best you can. Sending you love!
Thank you for making this video. It’s so incredibly helpful ❤
Oh! My mom loved Frasier and I am doing the same. I'm watching Frasier again.
I’m on my 3rd rewatch of Frasier now. I hope it brings you some good feelings ❤️
that was wonderful.thank you.
I just Lost my Mother this past November ... I'm Going threw it and I'm Not Ok
I am so sorry for your loss. It is okay to not be okay. I hope as the days pass you are able to find a new normal. But feel all the feelings. ❤️
Just lost my mom today. Thank you for this. It helped.
I’m so sorry for your loss! May your mom rest in eternal peace. Thank you for watching and I’m glad I could offer a little support during this time.
I lost my mom on July 10th to a brain aneurysm, unexpectedly and without warning, she never had any health issues or any symptoms. I just want one more hug.. I’m in my late 20’s this just hurts so much.😔😞
Sendings hugs for you. Your mom loves you🩷
@@trumpgirl9291thank you 💕