The sister is crazy and overreacted by a long shot holy crap they explained it to her. Both of them did what it was going on. There was no need for any of that that woman fucked up and because of her overreaction, she lost everything as she deserves.
Maybe an unpopular opinion but I don't think the sister is wrong completely. I can understand why OP is hurt and they have a right to feel that way. I just believe that the sister had good intentions. Unfortunately if you've ever witnessed someone who truly was an abusive situation they would come up with almost any excuse as to why it wasn't happening. A lot of the time it's the people you think you know so well and you don't really know them. The sister only knows now that she went overboard. I guess being loud and wrong is better than being right and doing nothing to her. I just think the situation sucks.
No way, being loud and wrong is just as bad if not worse for the people involved than right and silent, because the damage is done for no reason and to some one innocently living their life as they see fit hurting no one. The type of damage some one loud and wrong can cause to the other person's reputation and family can't just be fixed and will often linger over them traumatizing them continuously for years or they will be forced to move away from their lives to escape it either way leaving long lasting effects on someone who did nothing wrong. The sister destroyed their trust in her and almost their family because she got a notion in her head and instead of doing anything to actually verify her suspicions despite being given a very real and plausible excuse as to why his wife had marks on her body, she ignored them, called the cops and then when she failed, she involved CPS with reports of abuse that almost had her brother and SIL's children taken away from them and could have resulted in jail time for her brother and destruction of their lives, all because she overacted, formed her own preconceptions of the situation and then refused to believe them until they were forced to expose their kinks to outsiders and then her. She not only proved she thinks her brother is a monster capable of abusing his spouse and acts without proof and inspite of plausible evidence to the contrary, she attempted to ruin her brother's life and his family, and to add insult and humiliation to the equation, forced her way into the most private of their intimate affairs all because of her own inability to see past her prejudices or to actually verify her conclusion before assuming the worst possible scenario of her family. No sorry or apology is going to fix that, make up for the humiliation, embarrassment, invasion of their lives and the fact he now knows his sister thinks he's capable of being a monster like that. Honestly, OP's family just got lucky that CPS stopped to actually listen BEFORE they took the children until the situation was sorted out like they do in many cases of potential domestic abuse. So no admitting you're wrong after the fact regardless of the "intentions" of why you acted that way, does not change the actions or the trauma and hurt that results from someone being loud and wrong and the consequences of that are just as dangerous as right and quiet because it has the potential to cause as much if not more damage to the victim in the end. The sister should have taken the time to confirm her suspicions before she involved the law and started an irreversible process to have her brother sent to jail and possibly have his children removed from him and his wife on nothing more than a single instance of a bruise and her own imagination and prejudice.
I would understand it if they didn’t show her the reason for the marks, but they showed her all the tools and toys that they have and what happened and she went overboard not only that she made up a lie and said that the kids were abused when she had no fucking Evans of thatand called CPS she could’ve ruined those kids lives by having them taken away for no reason
Hey please understand that me understanding her and me agreeing with her is two different things. I agree that she was wrong and the way that she handle it could have resulted in something way worst. I just don't believe that she had bad intentions or was being malicious by doing this. There are other ways she could have went about it. There are at least three different ways I can think of off the top of my head that I would have done without calling the cops if I didn't believe the initial explanation that I received. I just don't think she's a bad person. I think she made a wrong move that will ultimately affect her and her brother's relationship for the rest of their lives. I also still believe that OP has every right to feel the way that they feel and is justified by however they choose to move on with their life. I just don't think that makes his sister an evil or irrational. She just judged the situation very wrongly.
The sister did what she was suppose to do period. She protected her nieces and nephews and your wife you should be thankful you have someone that no matter who you are protects your children
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The sister is crazy and overreacted by a long shot holy crap they explained it to her. Both of them did what it was going on. There was no need for any of that that woman fucked up and because of her overreaction, she lost everything as she deserves.
Maybe an unpopular opinion but I don't think the sister is wrong completely. I can understand why OP is hurt and they have a right to feel that way. I just believe that the sister had good intentions. Unfortunately if you've ever witnessed someone who truly was an abusive situation they would come up with almost any excuse as to why it wasn't happening. A lot of the time it's the people you think you know so well and you don't really know them. The sister only knows now that she went overboard. I guess being loud and wrong is better than being right and doing nothing to her. I just think the situation sucks.
No way, being loud and wrong is just as bad if not worse for the people involved than right and silent, because the damage is done for no reason and to some one innocently living their life as they see fit hurting no one. The type of damage some one loud and wrong can cause to the other person's reputation and family can't just be fixed and will often linger over them traumatizing them continuously for years or they will be forced to move away from their lives to escape it either way leaving long lasting effects on someone who did nothing wrong. The sister destroyed their trust in her and almost their family because she got a notion in her head and instead of doing anything to actually verify her suspicions despite being given a very real and plausible excuse as to why his wife had marks on her body, she ignored them, called the cops and then when she failed, she involved CPS with reports of abuse that almost had her brother and SIL's children taken away from them and could have resulted in jail time for her brother and destruction of their lives, all because she overacted, formed her own preconceptions of the situation and then refused to believe them until they were forced to expose their kinks to outsiders and then her. She not only proved she thinks her brother is a monster capable of abusing his spouse and acts without proof and inspite of plausible evidence to the contrary, she attempted to ruin her brother's life and his family, and to add insult and humiliation to the equation, forced her way into the most private of their intimate affairs all because of her own inability to see past her prejudices or to actually verify her conclusion before assuming the worst possible scenario of her family. No sorry or apology is going to fix that, make up for the humiliation, embarrassment, invasion of their lives and the fact he now knows his sister thinks he's capable of being a monster like that. Honestly, OP's family just got lucky that CPS stopped to actually listen BEFORE they took the children until the situation was sorted out like they do in many cases of potential domestic abuse. So no admitting you're wrong after the fact regardless of the "intentions" of why you acted that way, does not change the actions or the trauma and hurt that results from someone being loud and wrong and the consequences of that are just as dangerous as right and quiet because it has the potential to cause as much if not more damage to the victim in the end. The sister should have taken the time to confirm her suspicions before she involved the law and started an irreversible process to have her brother sent to jail and possibly have his children removed from him and his wife on nothing more than a single instance of a bruise and her own imagination and prejudice.
I would understand it if they didn’t show her the reason for the marks, but they showed her all the tools and toys that they have and what happened and she went overboard not only that she made up a lie and said that the kids were abused when she had no fucking Evans of thatand called CPS she could’ve ruined those kids lives by having them taken away for no reason
Hey please understand that me understanding her and me agreeing with her is two different things. I agree that she was wrong and the way that she handle it could have resulted in something way worst. I just don't believe that she had bad intentions or was being malicious by doing this. There are other ways she could have went about it. There are at least three different ways I can think of off the top of my head that I would have done without calling the cops if I didn't believe the initial explanation that I received. I just don't think she's a bad person. I think she made a wrong move that will ultimately affect her and her brother's relationship for the rest of their lives. I also still believe that OP has every right to feel the way that they feel and is justified by however they choose to move on with their life. I just don't think that makes his sister an evil or irrational. She just judged the situation very wrongly.
She was told before that it was BDSM she is the ah. You are delusional if you think otherwise, you don’t attack a family for their preferences.
The sister did what she was suppose to do period. She protected her nieces and nephews and your wife you should be thankful you have someone that no matter who you are protects your children
aww hell naw your brain aint wired to anything
Girl shut up