How To Control Your Attention (And Stop Wasting Time)

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  • Опубликовано: 21 ноя 2024

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  • @aliabdaal
    @aliabdaal  27 дней назад +38

    I hope you enjoyed this one gang. And if you struggle to focus and want some help, check out my free 7 day focus crash course here: go.aliabdaal.com/indistractable/yt

    • @satriohd_69
      @satriohd_69 27 дней назад +2

      Saya menjadi lebih baik karena ter inspirasi oleh konten kontenmu big love form indonesia

    • @vladdani
      @vladdani 27 дней назад +1

      Hey Ali, great video. Can you please include in your next email sesh checking out my email related to YT Accelerator Account Manager role? 🙂 That would mean a world to me. Thanks!

    • @showkotaziz
      @showkotaziz 26 дней назад +1

      I am totally interested but as I am student a can't pay 😞

    • @dhruvv9696
      @dhruvv9696 26 дней назад

      ​@@showkotaziz it's free

    • @seniorito5309
      @seniorito5309 25 дней назад

      Ali!! my fav nerd dork. Nice vid!

  • @MrMcfire2
    @MrMcfire2 26 дней назад +98

    "an emotional state that you are trying to avoid" What an excellent point. Hope more people learn about this

    • @ShubhamKumar-re4zv
      @ShubhamKumar-re4zv 25 дней назад

      What do you mean by emotional state?

    • @Kylan1111
      @Kylan1111 25 дней назад

      Mindfulness is one the best ways to start learning. It helps to train your brain to create the habit. Tara Brachs RAIN technique is a wonderful way to begin to recognize and work with the underlying emotional patterns that take away from your goals and happiness 🙏🏼

  • @gabrielpapke
    @gabrielpapke 27 дней назад +475

    I’ve just distracted opening this video

  • @realonebusinessschool
    @realonebusinessschool 27 дней назад +64

    Distraction has killed more dreams than one could have thought. I'm glad I found this video, thanks Ali for sharing.

  • @tanmayshidhani875
    @tanmayshidhani875 17 дней назад +7

    Summary of the video
    1. The 10-Minute Rule
    When you feel the urge to give in to a distraction, try postponing it for 10 minutes. During this time, write down what’s distracting you and brainstorm ways to prevent it in the future.
    2. The Willpower Myth
    "Ego depletion," or the idea that willpower is a limited resource, often affects only those who believe in it. The key is to recognize that self-control isn’t necessarily limited-you can maintain it by shifting your mindset.
    3. Traction Through Timeboxing
    To stay focused, use timeboxing:
    Identify tasks
    Set specific goals
    Allocate time blocks to each task
    Work without interruptions
    Review and adjust your process, and take breaks as needed
    4. The Rule of Pacts
    Use pacts to strengthen commitment:
    Price Pact: Set a monetary penalty if you don’t meet your goal.
    Effort Pact: Link your distraction to a challenging task, making it harder to indulge.
    Identity Pact: Commit to a self-image that aligns with what you truly want to achieve.

  • @aaronglynnwalker
    @aaronglynnwalker 27 дней назад +27

    Judging my success of my work day by 'did I do - what I said I was going to do - for as long as I said I was going to do it - without being distracted' has CHANGED the way I feel at the end of the day. Thank you, thank you.

  • @faizanspace2826
    @faizanspace2826 24 дня назад +3

    Ali ur identity in my mind is that what ever you say is valuable, that's why i listen and follow ur advice and they ultimately benefit me.

  • @HaoToDraw69
    @HaoToDraw69 27 дней назад +64

    The small bloopers left in is great 😂

    • @King-Kyle
      @King-Kyle 27 дней назад +11

      yeah I died at the "little b*tch"

    • @uvsarah
      @uvsarah 26 дней назад

      Got distracted by the comments when the ‘little b*tch’ comment was made 😂

  • @ZAMAN-d6y
    @ZAMAN-d6y 27 дней назад +12

    Just when I needed this video! It's like it popped up at the perfect moment. Can't wait to put these Indistractable tips into action and finally stay focused on my goals. Who else is ready to say goodbye to distractions? 💯🔥

  • @mimisart
    @mimisart 24 дня назад +4

    This was very enlightening. Thanks for this video. As a single mom of 4 I struggle daily and even though I do work with time slots and lists of what I need to do by when etc...just adding kids to the mix makes it challenging. My fridge broke the other day and my brain just couldn't figure it out...what to do and how to save my food from spoiling. Grateful for friends around me to help, but man...whatever happened to the 20 year old version of myself that was quick to respond and pretty good at problem solving (I'm 42 now). Anyway...this video gave me stuff to ponder and implement. Thanks!

  • @sameer.creates
    @sameer.creates 24 дня назад +5

    Bro that soothing background music really helps a lot like I haven't felt this relaxed + focused at the same time before listening to someone so mindfully.. Thanks for this Premium quality content for free.

  • @benjibeaudoin8965
    @benjibeaudoin8965 27 дней назад +6

    After watching this video, I am glad to see that I am not the only one who wears a watch on each wrist!

  • @coneil72
    @coneil72 26 дней назад +7

    Usually, the things I'm avoiding thru social media/time-wasters are general life maintenance tasks: cleaning, cooking, showering, etc. I might be living on a higher level, with more energy, if I got those things done more consistently. But they're incredibly unmotivating.

  • @RedFenceAnime
    @RedFenceAnime 13 дней назад +1

    I was distracted so much trying to watch this video in particular that it took me 4 tries to get to the 3:50 minute mark where you said I'd probably click away.
    I've watch multiple 1h+ youtube videos over the course of a week trying to complete this video.

  • @Reenaspeaks28
    @Reenaspeaks28 27 дней назад +8

    This was one of the handiest videos you've made, Ali! Thank you, I already feel more power bubbling inside my body. Now gonna put this energy to work!💪😎

  • @BorderstoBridges
    @BorderstoBridges 16 дней назад

    The proactive approach to time management is gold. If we are not actively leading our life - which time IS the essence of - others are doing it for us. Ads and marketing agencies steal our attention away. There is no void, vacuum sucks something in. Either you choose it, or someone else will for you - often not with your best interest at heart.

  • @antoniorosado
    @antoniorosado 24 дня назад +3

    so, the main idea is:
    Distraction stems primarily from internal triggers, not external factors; managing emotions is key to staying focused.
    And a recommendation would be:
    Practice the 10-minute rule and time-boxing to control attention and align actions with goals.

  • @Aida_travelling
    @Aida_travelling 23 дня назад +1

    I am studying, but I suddenly feel the urge to watch something on RUclips. I chose this video as a positive distraction to help me overcome my tendency to seek distractions and avoid the real work that needs to be done.)))

  • @rafiqjarjous7542
    @rafiqjarjous7542 27 дней назад +3

    exactly what i needed , ty !
    i aspire to be like you , for real
    i am syrian and am trying real hard to provide anyway i can , you motivate me
    so thank you!

  • @amipunyayoutube
    @amipunyayoutube 26 дней назад +50

    4:12 Wasnt expecting to get called out like that🤣

  • @NicolasMoy
    @NicolasMoy 25 дней назад +3

    I'm happy to say that I managed to watch this entire video without getting distracted 😅

  • @PukhalaPuka
    @PukhalaPuka 27 дней назад +4

    This gives so much clarity to my procrastination problem. Thanks man.

  • @venkatsubramaniam1370
    @venkatsubramaniam1370 27 дней назад +2

    Just finished the deep dive yesterday. Man’s the master of keeping content alive.

  • @Randomini
    @Randomini 25 дней назад +5

    A problem I've seen in the literature about Ego Depletion - in particular on the "only people who believe in it experience ego depletion" claim, and that the belief can simply be switched to eliminate it - is that it seems equally likely that there's a subset who DO experience Ego Depletion in a genuine, underlying way, which obviously shapes their beliefs about it. So the study I want to see is one where people who claim Ego Depletion are trained or convinced out of it. Because that recommended action of "simply change your mindset" doesn't seem to follow from the original study, which was correlative rather than causative. Would be really glad if anyone knows of such a study!

  • @zakirahmedpf8494
    @zakirahmedpf8494 24 дня назад

    It feels like god has put this video in-front of you when sometimes RUclips recommends a video like this when you are feeling like shi*t about yourself due to distractions followed by guilt.. Thank you Ali for the video!❤

  • @moichol
    @moichol 25 дней назад +1

    You are such a wonderful human being Ali. I wish you happiness and fulfilment.

  • @nyttttttt
    @nyttttttt 26 дней назад +6

    wait, so what do you do with those internal triggers once you identified them and wrote them down? Would be great if you'd talk more about what kind of steps one can put in place to avoid those distractions in the future.

  • @shamsaalhadhrami6977
    @shamsaalhadhrami6977 10 дней назад

    Literally I watched the video in the right time❤ Thank u very much now I know how to move on in the right path

  • @Acemadeithappen
    @Acemadeithappen 26 дней назад +69

    there's a book called The secret money magnet formula by Ronan Virell, and it talks about how using some secret techniques you can attract almost everything in life it's not some bullshit law of attraction, it's the real deal

  • @Anvillian
    @Anvillian 9 дней назад

    Thanks Ali! Life Changing videos!
    You always produce valuable content without failure, somehow never running out of ideas.
    Thanks again.

  • @engineeringmadeasy
    @engineeringmadeasy 26 дней назад +2

    I just finished listening to your podcast about this topic. At the end I decided to buy his book. Thanks Bro 👊

  • @selfpublishingempire
    @selfpublishingempire 22 дня назад

    This video is fantastic. I've started accepting the triggers that distract me and occasionally feed them for a short amount of time as a reward for xxx minutes of work - almost like setting small goals for myself. It sounds like I've been doing the 10 minutes rule without knowing :)

  • @Loisek-v2y
    @Loisek-v2y 16 дней назад

    Love this guy..... funny, self effacing, unassuming, uber intelligent!👍🏽👌

  • @khaled_akil
    @khaled_akil 27 дней назад +1

    Literally, I opened this video being like the picture on the left!

  • @godswillak
    @godswillak 26 дней назад +1

    Heyy, Ali. I've been away from RUclips for a while on my own productivity venture.
    Watching this now, the first thing that crosses my mind is that oh yeah, it's been I listened to your 1.5x talking speed 😅🙌♥️

  • @mahammedwaseem5190
    @mahammedwaseem5190 27 дней назад +7

    Perfect timing perfect video

  • @michaelpupo2708
    @michaelpupo2708 18 дней назад

    Great video! I just created a distraction "notebook" on my Amplenote account. I'm also glad that I've been organizing my tasks by time blocking them using the Amplenote calendar mode, and the way I do it is pretty similar to the way you mentioned in the video. When you use the right tool, it's easier to do things right.

  • @adilmuhammed2003
    @adilmuhammed2003 27 дней назад +3

    very helpful video for me i looking for this kind of the video got great steps to get my attention back when i need most

  • @yuvrajvaghela871
    @yuvrajvaghela871 25 дней назад

    Thank you Ali for making this video! Watching you after a long time, still very refreshing & your enthusiasm is the same, lots of love to you, thank you so much !!

  • @MLSPeacy
    @MLSPeacy 22 дня назад

    The only video I needed to watch during my break😊. Worth it, love the definition of time 12:20

  • @1weiho
    @1weiho 26 дней назад +2

    I was distracted at 5:01 haha! Very inspiring and enjoyable video! Thanks Ali. 🍀

  • @alisonlovedaycareerstrateg6641
    @alisonlovedaycareerstrateg6641 23 дня назад

    I really liked this - and then realised I'm watching this instead of working!

  • @titanmanmotivation
    @titanmanmotivation 26 дней назад

    Attention is the new currency ❤

  • @simonvutov7575
    @simonvutov7575 27 дней назад +10

    0:14, not only 6, but 8.

  • @kliklaminaat
    @kliklaminaat 18 дней назад

    I really liked this video! Great editing and calm colour palette, love it.

  • @backtoashley
    @backtoashley 26 дней назад +2

    You're reading my mind. Lolol Thank you for this video.

  • @Jenny-ev9rk
    @Jenny-ev9rk 18 дней назад

    1. 10 minute rule: internal trigger of boredom, wait 10 minutes before giving into trigger
    2. Willpower: say you have enough willlpower to do this, that you can do it
    3. Time boxing: put alone time or date night in your calendar (how much time or effort it’ll take)
    4. Pact: price (burn calories vs burn $100), effort (turn off wifi at 10pm), identity (I’m a gamer)

  • @Kareem-M-Ali
    @Kareem-M-Ali 27 дней назад +3

    2:51 caught Ali telling us to procrastinate 😜

  • @rougeruby8625
    @rougeruby8625 27 дней назад

    This video comes when i really need It. Thank you Ali 🙏🏾🥰

  • @Samarth-k6g
    @Samarth-k6g 27 дней назад +1

    My attention span is so bad, I quit this video on the 47th sec but I came back and watched it. I still have the attention span of a goldfish because I quit halfway typing this comment too to watch some shorts recommended but Ali smashed it👊👊

    • @aekorfker
      @aekorfker 27 дней назад

      Shorts are the worst, it’s almost like a mild case of brain damage

    • @Samarth-k6g
      @Samarth-k6g 27 дней назад +1

      @@aekorfker I can agree

  • @LawyerLevin
    @LawyerLevin 23 дня назад

    Ali, can you make a video on handling doubt, feelings of inadequacy and academic related anxiety… while in university?

  • @Lazyedit_s
    @Lazyedit_s 25 дней назад

    Your views are decreasing but keep making videos everytime I'm stuck in life these videos help me out please keep making

  • @SelfDevelopmentcourse
    @SelfDevelopmentcourse 27 дней назад +1

    Editing and video quality is next level besides the content

  • @stephenlee6859
    @stephenlee6859 15 дней назад

    Beneficial content. Thank you so much.

  • @keithsummers_
    @keithsummers_ 27 дней назад +1

    I love Ali’s stuff, and general productivity stuff, but it makes me kind of depressed because I’ve got diagnosed ADHD and this stuff just makes me realize how differently my brain works.
    I’ve been developing my own aDhD productivity stuff that works for me.
    I understand so much more about myself working remotely. Maybe I should put it out in the world more to help those who also are afflicted with executive dysfunctions.

  • @anniebit
    @anniebit 17 дней назад

    Absolutely enjoyed the video!! I hope I can work on it!!

  • @DaveNawrocki
    @DaveNawrocki 25 дней назад

    💯 Love this video. NownI have a better understanding of how I can maintain focus! Thank you!

  • @alf-c9r
    @alf-c9r 26 дней назад

    Another great actionable video! Thank you Ali

  • @kaialabi7622
    @kaialabi7622 25 дней назад +1

    This was a great video. I actually learned a lot. I appreciate you doing this. However, I did believe will power was a depletable/limited resource. I'm over the battle of the scientific papers and experts coming out with one theory only for it to be debunked 2 days later. I am neuordivergent and my ADHD doctor and coach were advising me based on the depletable/limited willpower theory. Also, I that everyone is different some of these techniques may or may not work with my quirky brain. I definitely have executive function issues. Nonetheless, very helpful video and I will start implementing most of these strategies ASAP. I signed up for your Focus Crash Course too! Looking forward to it. Also, thanks for the updated research on willpower. 🙂

  • @Baileywabbit
    @Baileywabbit 27 дней назад

    Hi Ali. Thank you so much for all your useful tips and insights. I truly enjoy every video. Greetings from Florida.

  • @risewithaya7604
    @risewithaya7604 26 дней назад +1

    About willpower depletion: Why is there the idea of eating that frog first? Iso why do we need to do the heavier task first? Since we have unlimited willpower, why does the order matter?
    or is the order important for energy ?!
    Just wondering, v good video : )

  • @khadidja.polyglotte
    @khadidja.polyglotte 27 дней назад +1

    I got distracted a couple of weeks ago 🙃
    I hope this video can help ❤

  • @Swithn-s7o
    @Swithn-s7o 27 дней назад +1

    Great video Ali.....keep up the good work 👏

  • @mr.nobody2807
    @mr.nobody2807 26 дней назад +1

    It was a very valuable video sir thank you 🙂

  • @omarzaidoun_4424
    @omarzaidoun_4424 27 дней назад

    I'm addicted to Ali's channel

  • @SHYAMALIMandal-u4e
    @SHYAMALIMandal-u4e 27 дней назад

    Sir your videos is just like a valuable asset for me

  • @toodlesgalore5552
    @toodlesgalore5552 27 дней назад +1

    that’s weird cause everytime i got a problem, then you just came with a video to solved my problems🥹🫶🏻 thank you

  • @xAmasuuu
    @xAmasuuu 27 дней назад +33

    me: getting ready to close the video
    Ali: 'if you are the type of person to be distracted, youre probably not going to watch the rest of this video'
    me: *Blank face*

  • @PersonalDevelopmentJournal
    @PersonalDevelopmentJournal 24 дня назад

    Distraction Book is very interesting concept. Started doing that

  • @ur__fan001
    @ur__fan001 20 дней назад

    The value is always awesome. But so many ads aren't

  • @lisama2538
    @lisama2538 24 дня назад

    always something new for me❤ thanks !

  • @Picklejuice4
    @Picklejuice4 25 дней назад +1

    I need to learn time management for school, editing videos, and spending time outside,
    Any advice y’all?

  • @JoshPalmer21
    @JoshPalmer21 27 дней назад +1

    I really like Nir’s other book “Hooked”. Super resonate with grabbing your phone every time you’re mildly uncomfortable 😂

    • @hortharn
      @hortharn 27 дней назад +1

      I knew the name was familiar but couldn't recognize where or why.
      Yeah, is book is great.

  • @anacarolyne1345
    @anacarolyne1345 27 дней назад

    oh ali i really really like you and it breaks my heart i got distracted in the first 2min of the video but i really like you

  • @rayzoe
    @rayzoe 23 дня назад

    I really love the content you create and try to apply them to my daily life. But do you think you can include how we can cope with ADHD? I feel like a lot of us who are trying to become more productive, probably also have ADHD and some of the solutions or tactics you suggest might not be applicable to our lives.

  • @GwendraMorgan
    @GwendraMorgan 27 дней назад +1

    Great like always! 🙌🏻

  • @AhmedElAbbas
    @AhmedElAbbas 24 дня назад

    This is helpful, thank you.

  • @seetsamolapo5600
    @seetsamolapo5600 27 дней назад

    Ali Abdaal is a tank man

  • @iprshv
    @iprshv 8 дней назад

    Can you make a video on how to deal with internal triggers, pls 😊

  • @MyDailyDash
    @MyDailyDash 27 дней назад +4

    My attention span has increased once i quit social media

  • @fitnessgoal639
    @fitnessgoal639 26 дней назад

    Bro literally I found you in second 😂 I am coming from fiver waqar khan . Your work blow up my mind . So I want to search you on RUclips.

  • @annaroland5269
    @annaroland5269 27 дней назад

    Best timing thank you

  • @bumpupsapp
    @bumpupsapp 27 дней назад +7

    Hey Everyone 🤠
    Find the parts that interest you:
    0:06 - Distraction vs. Traction explained
    1:19 - The 10-minute rule for distractions
    2:22 - Understanding internal triggers
    4:01 - Recognizing emotional states causing distraction
    5:35 - Building critical thinking skills through problem solving
    8:42 - The concept of traction time boxing
    10:04 - Planning your time effectively with calendars
    11:12 - Using calendars for effective time management
    12:54 - The rule of price, effort, and identity
    16:32 - Identity-based behavior change for success
    Chat with videos via Bumpups 🌲

  • @zainah2377
    @zainah2377 25 дней назад

    Love your videos Ali! Keep going :) 😁

  • @successway6789
    @successway6789 26 дней назад

    The small bloopers left in is great

  • @roxanemae196
    @roxanemae196 23 дня назад

    Amazing video, thank you ☆

  • @zakariamaxamud
    @zakariamaxamud 18 дней назад

    thank you i understand some roles must have thank you again i will try to make decision ❤

  • @yogeshvarselvaraj5490
    @yogeshvarselvaraj5490 27 дней назад

    Exactly what I needed ❤

  • @HARSHIL90s
    @HARSHIL90s 24 дня назад

    Hi Ali, can you pleaae do a video specifically for doctors who are trying to transition out of the medical field ? If you were to do it without already being someone with an amazing alternate stream of income ? It’d really help. Thanks.

  • @ayushabhinav8116
    @ayushabhinav8116 27 дней назад +3

    OMG! Is that Ethan Chlebowski with you at 1:25?

  • @seniorito5309
    @seniorito5309 25 дней назад +1

    8:25 GOLD

  • @RobsNeighbor
    @RobsNeighbor 27 дней назад +1

    I love this! Thank you!

  • @rongitmukherjee
    @rongitmukherjee 27 дней назад

    So much boils down to james clear's atomic habits. God level book that is.

  • @maryamrahman8344
    @maryamrahman8344 26 дней назад +6

    10:05- Only Ali would write "do a productive poo" on his to-do list...🤣🤣

  • @baletsegatube
    @baletsegatube 27 дней назад +1

    አሊ ታንኪው betam tekami video new bole new ahun yalehut.አመሰግናለሁ።

  • @mostafasafari9679
    @mostafasafari9679 27 дней назад +1

    Very good video but can u plz just make a summery which cover the whole video and some actionable steps in the end of video, plz plz do it

  • @melissapetzer3560
    @melissapetzer3560 10 дней назад

    Hoping I can implement some of these strategies with ADHD. 🙃

  • @TetoKeletshabe
    @TetoKeletshabe 26 дней назад

    Thank you ali

  • @mananh2493
    @mananh2493 26 дней назад

    Great video. Helpful 👍👍

  • @LATIPKUMARSHARMA
    @LATIPKUMARSHARMA 19 дней назад

    I was distracted 5 times by my phone while watching this 16 min video