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  • Опубликовано: 21 ноя 2024
  • Matthew Perry talks candidly about his years of alcohol and drug abuse in an exclusive interview with Diane Sawyer.
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  • @TheMagicalDogex
    @TheMagicalDogex Год назад +2208

    This hits a lot harder now, rest in peace man, you brought joy to millions.

    • @jazzy4sure583
      @jazzy4sure583 Год назад +14

      🕊🕊🕊🕊

    • @lisalaane4172
      @lisalaane4172 Год назад +7

      Amen

    • @betheltereraishesavetu2288
      @betheltereraishesavetu2288 Год назад +4

      🕊️

    • @chriswilcox3383
      @chriswilcox3383 Год назад +7

      I don’t know what to say, I love mathew so much, he made me laugh, smile, and feel better whenever I was watching him in something

    • @marjoriesyoutube4530
      @marjoriesyoutube4530 Год назад +8

      This is hard to take in , I’m lost for words , thank you for the laughs , you will be missed
      🙏 😢

  • @Maaa989
    @Maaa989 Год назад +715

    Matthew you gave us so much joy and made us laugh , we have to thank you!!

  • @deremiahderrick6292
    @deremiahderrick6292 2 года назад +960

    When he said "your disease is waiting to get you alone, because alone you lose."....i felt that

    • @intentionallyinpired
      @intentionallyinpired 2 года назад +42

      That statement is more powerful and profound than anyone knows

    • @baroodkhan3131
      @baroodkhan3131 2 года назад +24

      my addiction was so bad i would delibrately isolate myself so i could tell myself im alone, nothings working out and boom relapse! it is sad how easy it is to start flirting with your worst enemy

    • @indigomoon777
      @indigomoon777 2 года назад +15

      @@baroodkhan3131 Addiction always lies to you!

    • @ruling528
      @ruling528 2 года назад

      He doesn't have a disease, he's just weak.

    • @francishughes2016
      @francishughes2016 2 года назад

      Jeez, Whe he said "you're disease" i thought what RUBBISH, its NOT a disease, its a choice, Cancer, Alzheimer,s & Parkinsons are diseases, drugs, & alchol are a choice, just the same as you can choose NOT to do them, or did someone have a gun to his head forcing him to drink & take drugs,? its self - inflicted, please just STOP saying that drugs & alcohol are a disease, they are NOT, they are a CHOICE.

  • @jbilotta
    @jbilotta 2 года назад +751

    I lost a friend who was a terrible alcoholic. He died trying to get sober. I was very angry at him thinking he chose to die. After listening to a few interviews with Matthew, I have newfound compassion.

    • @cosmicabyss7358
      @cosmicabyss7358 Год назад +55

      As someone that deals with addiction I find it impossible to understand how people don't understand how difficult addiction is.
      Just like people who don't suffer from addiction find it extremely hard to understand why some of us have such a hard time staying sober.

    • @stephanheppener4983
      @stephanheppener4983 Год назад +12

      Yeah got the same problem

    • @huskydadtokoda
      @huskydadtokoda Год назад +33

      No one chooses to be an addict. No one saw themselves there before they arrived - It's something that happens TO them. The important thing is to continue to be there for them and to try to have compassion and empathy

    • @nehsangbong7259
      @nehsangbong7259 Год назад +9

      RIP 🙏🏽 Matthew

    • @joked87isback
      @joked87isback Год назад +13

      Don't let the recent news ruin your progress. Your buddy and matt would want you to keep goin. I hope this doesn't make you lose hope

  • @juanmendoza7726
    @juanmendoza7726 Год назад +379

    Crazy how this video was posted exactly 1 years ago today a day after his death. Just knowing the struggles this man went through and overcame them. It’s just incredible to watch. Rest in peace Matthew, you’ll truly be missed legend ❤️

    • @modernblue24
      @modernblue24 Год назад +10

      He handled it the best way he knew how….no judgement.

    • @harshshinde176
      @harshshinde176 Год назад

      It must be recorded literally 1 year before he died

    • @camaleon18
      @camaleon18 Год назад +5

      Didn’t really ever overcome it though

    • @modernblue24
      @modernblue24 Год назад

      @@camaleon18 Nope, and the algorithm is reminding us of that.

    • @litcostello1223
      @litcostello1223 10 месяцев назад +2

      He didn't overcome it. He said himself he got to a stage where if he didn't have like 50pills a day his body would be shutting down. Unfortunately he crossed the line where full recovery is very unlikely

  • @MrJackTR
    @MrJackTR Год назад +467

    This interview and his book hauntingly informed us all of his battle with addiction and ultimately what lead to his untimely death. RIP Mathew Perry.

    • @theexpresidents
      @theexpresidents Год назад +17

      He drowned; he didnt OD on tranq.

    • @Max4Z
      @Max4Z Год назад +9

      do we know exactly how he died or what lead to that

    • @Leigh3420
      @Leigh3420 Год назад +26

      Whatever happened it doesn’t matter and truly it’s none of our business. Be thankful he made us all laugh for decades. RIP Matthew you will be so missed my millions!

    • @basketballcinemas
      @basketballcinemas Год назад +23

      @@theexpresidentshow do you think a 54 year old drowns??? Drugs dude be smart

    • @WaveRider1989
      @WaveRider1989 Год назад +3

      ​@@theexpresidentsdrowned in a bath tub

  • @Marilyn-np6ls
    @Marilyn-np6ls 2 года назад +677

    Addiction is HARD for us non-addicts to understand. His honesty is going to help a lot of people - and hopefully de-stigmitize it further. Thank you Matthew for sharing your story coz often, the truth is not pretty. That takes courage.

    • @alecbormia4523
      @alecbormia4523 2 года назад +16

      Honestly I know it’s just a dumb TV show about a humanized horse, but Bojack Horseman really helped me understand what it’s like. Or at the very least get closer to what it’s like.

    • @xxgreat4096
      @xxgreat4096 2 года назад

      🎃

    • @BenThomas13
      @BenThomas13 2 года назад

      No it’s actually really easy to understand. Take too much of something and your body will be some addicted.
      That’s literally it lol. He is all “boo hoo I feel bad because I do drugs but I want more drugs to not feel bad”
      How about you just don’t do drugs; eventally you will feel normal again.
      It ain’t rocket science, do not speak for me; you’re stupid.

    • @Marilyn-np6ls
      @Marilyn-np6ls 2 года назад +1

      @@BenThomas13 - thank you for that. Clearly, you are an expert at the nuances of drug addiction.

    • @nottelling4828
      @nottelling4828 2 года назад +2

      Addicted to what? Not all addictions are the same. I began watching this video, but the lack of detail has me more frustrated than interested. I'll go read about it, actually. Not sure how I wound up here in the first place?!

  • @HollyStAmour-hf6wg
    @HollyStAmour-hf6wg Год назад +66

    By being so candid and honest about his addictions it will definitely help others. And now he’s never going to have to go through rough times alone. Remember…Friends is not only a great show that everyone loves but now friends are the reason to stay sober.

  • @pchansan
    @pchansan Год назад +79

    No more suffering. Rest in peace Matthew 🕊️🙏

    • @RogerMellie-yk3gw
      @RogerMellie-yk3gw 2 месяца назад

      He wasn't just suffering. He was enjoying his life

  • @ingainge3146
    @ingainge3146 Год назад +34

    I left and addict husband due to his addiction, i was so angry to him destroying my life, my dream of family…i listened Matthew book 3 times and all i can feel now is sorry and compassion to my ex and happy i moved away….he was not ready…thanks Matthew, you gave me answers to so many queations about addictions

    • @behooman7749
      @behooman7749 28 дней назад +2

      Never blame yourself for thinking at your wellbeing first. That's what we should all be doing, actually.

    • @ingainge3146
      @ingainge3146 2 дня назад

      @ so true

  • @nadhasthirundhitan
    @nadhasthirundhitan 2 года назад +142

    It takes a lot of courage for a celebrity to speak about this in public…thanks for telling us your life story.

    • @mightytaiger3000
      @mightytaiger3000 2 года назад

      BAHAHAHAHA not. People love this “celebs! They’re as dysfunctional as us!” stuff.
      They eat it up because it makes them feel like they’re issues are also “cool” and it makes the celebrities money because of people’s morbidness.

  • @thebadseed90
    @thebadseed90 Год назад +250

    Rest easy Matthew Perry. Thank you for all the laughs you have given us.

    • @tiediegymnasts920
      @tiediegymnasts920 8 месяцев назад

      Him and Chris Farley in almost heroes is one of my faves

    • @RogerMellie-yk3gw
      @RogerMellie-yk3gw 2 месяца назад

      Yeah, Friends was funny at times

  • @annrodriguez2891
    @annrodriguez2891 Год назад +9

    Matthew Perry will be remembered for how he helped addicts by sharing his story...pain..shame..mental anguish....all of us addicts know too well...i bought his book last year ..like as soon as it came out and devoured it....Thank you Matthew...❤

  • @linmay8074
    @linmay8074 7 месяцев назад +15

    I lost my son to poor mental health and addiction. Thankyou for sharing your journey. We all need to be aware and support each other and never, ever judge.

    • @ktbgh4439
      @ktbgh4439 4 месяца назад

      Agree, we should't judge. Thank you for sharing your story. I'm so sorry you and your son went through this. As a fellow parent I understand some of the trauma you went through.

  • @amateurmeteorologistjoshbrown
    @amateurmeteorologistjoshbrown 2 года назад +62

    I am glad Matthew Perry wrote a book about his struggles with addiction and explaining to people on how they can help if they’ve been struggling, as well!

  • @mitchellrivera7873
    @mitchellrivera7873 Год назад +97

    RIP MATT.
    that “ I should be dead” line hit hard.

    • @Psyfi85
      @Psyfi85 3 месяца назад +2

      “Secrets kill people like me” too relatable 😞

    • @shannonsmith2642
      @shannonsmith2642 23 дня назад

      And he is, sad😢

  • @rikkiwilliams720
    @rikkiwilliams720 Год назад +79

    Rest in peace Matthew Perry. You gave us so much joy and meant a lot to us. We'll never forget you and we'll miss you

  • @alysha2mcp
    @alysha2mcp Год назад +54

    I remember when I first saw this interview...profound, yet so sad.
    After everything he overcame i'm heartbroken to hear he passed. He will be greatly remembered and greatly missed.

  • @carriedawnhoover2496
    @carriedawnhoover2496 2 года назад +224

    Thank you Matthew! There are so many of us who live in the dark, and alone, praying we can see the light just one more time. For you to open yourself up in such a vulnerable way, I promise you, will help so many people struggling to survive. Addiction is taboo to many, but maybe hearing this from you, will help people understand that it is everywhere, and effects everyone, but it is a disease, and it needs to be discussed, and people need help. I know how hard this had to be, and I can relate with you 💯, but I thank you for your courage! I do believe this is why you are still here. Your purpose was bigger, than I’m sure you ever imagined. Again, I thank you, and I pray you know you NEVER have to be alone again❤️

    • @Former_Pastor
      @Former_Pastor 2 года назад +2

      Being alone was his preference, his choice

    • @carriedawnhoover2496
      @carriedawnhoover2496 2 года назад

      @@Former_Pastor and…

    • @juliekim738
      @juliekim738 2 года назад +7

      @@Former_Pastor He stated that women have used him for his money. He wants someone self-supporting, (most importantly, monetarily) in all ways. Someone caring, a sense of humor, beautiful inside and out, someone who can go back and forth with him. He said he's not scared anymore of receiving love and will ask for more. He's said that he wants kids and a family. He doesn't want to be alone.

    • @MariaVOrtiz-ss6qp
      @MariaVOrtiz-ss6qp 2 года назад +5

      @@juliekim738 thank you..well said

    • @dianerosegrecoallen4935
      @dianerosegrecoallen4935 2 года назад +1

      He might have been diagnosed with diabetes before he started his alcohol adventure but Conventional medicine has no clue. Where does he fall in the family lineup and did his mom have any complications during pregnancy.

  • @mandy747c
    @mandy747c Год назад +11

    I admire him so much, despite sinking back into addiction again and again, he never gave up on himself and did whatever he could to recover and even help other people. It’s so much more heartbreaking that he’s taken away just when life is back on track for him and ready to enjoy the rest of his life. Gone way too early. Bless your soul Matt.❤

  • @TechthroughToni
    @TechthroughToni 2 года назад +25

    You gave us so much joy growing up Matthew , I'm glad you made it 🙌

  • @ultravioletpisces3666
    @ultravioletpisces3666 Год назад +16

    I just adore him. I think he still looks good. He looks like most non celebrity people in their 50s. I just want to hug him. And thank him for everything he’s given us.

  • @laraleascott667
    @laraleascott667 2 года назад +70

    Thank you for sharing your story, Mattie! As a social worker, I am so grateful to you for helping to end the stigma of addiction. Best wishes for long-lasting recovery.

    • @jinfin221
      @jinfin221 Год назад +2

      Didn't age well...

  • @jelly9147
    @jelly9147 Год назад +38

    This is honestly so soul-crushing for me to see and read because I have always found so much comfort in the show and especially in the way Matthew Perry played the role of Chandler ..I am so happy that Matthew got his strength back and decided to write this book. I have never felt more grateful for a book in my hands when I walked out of the book shop with this memoir in my hands. Thank you Matthew for sharing this vulnerable time with everyone and explaining your darkest moments which I know will help so many others who are suffering. ❤❤

  • @patricialutz3614
    @patricialutz3614 2 года назад +183

    I watched this interview and my heart broke. I look into his eyes and see such weariness. I pray that he is able to go on with the love and support of his friends and family💜

    • @miapalmeri8694
      @miapalmeri8694 2 года назад +7

      Me too! I’m in recovery and it’s no joke! I wish him ALL THE BEST! Let’s lift people up?

    • @horaciocapanelli-soto4710
      @horaciocapanelli-soto4710 2 года назад +3

      @Mia Palmeri
      I wish you too all the best. You’re part of the Universe and the strength within you will heal you.

    • @yankeegirl3380
      @yankeegirl3380 2 года назад +4

      Me too. My heart breaks for this wonderful man. He has made soooo many people laugh and feel happy. And now we know the torment he's experienced. And he didn't deserve it. He also doesn't deserve the nasty, mean-spirited comments that people are posting online about him. It's sad that when a person is so vulnerable and honest, people are eager to rip him/her down. And it's not right. I hope with all my heart that Matthew doesn't let this bother him. God bless.

    • @thomasjust2663
      @thomasjust2663 2 года назад +3

      He looks unwell, he slurs words

    • @Khrystal-wl6kz
      @Khrystal-wl6kz 2 года назад +3

      I'm in hell from 32 years on benzodiazepines. Addiction is no joke.

  • @mpho438
    @mpho438 Год назад +163

    Chandler was by far the funniest on the show. It is crazy that Matthew Perry pulled this off while struggling a drug and alcohol addiction. The ones that make us laugh, are usually the ones dying on the inside. I hope he is recovering, and wish him joy and happiness, Thank you for all the laughs Matthew.

    • @simon5931
      @simon5931 Год назад

      ​@@russelconor8704No Matt Leblanc as Joey was the funniest on the show.

    • @scottieturner.
      @scottieturner. Год назад +1

      @@simon5931lol rip

    • @WaveRider1989
      @WaveRider1989 Год назад

      ​@@russelconor8704it's money that will make childhood the best. Children needs love, care, effecting and good family. Mayne that's where some of these rich kids get into drugs.

    • @bms77
      @bms77 Год назад +1

      @@russelconor8704 Lol you think being rich is the end all be all to addiction? Only a simpleton would say or even think such a thing.. Getting “help” doesn’t always mean beating an addiction no matter how “good” the help is. Also different levels of addiction for everyone out there- too many factors to oversimply it like you just did but hey, ignorance is bliss…

    • @sheilabeila744
      @sheilabeila744 Год назад +1

      Guys who was the “funniest “ is an opinion there’s no right or wrong answer

  • @maxp4573
    @maxp4573 Год назад +15

    I was never a Friends Fan but I've seen quite a few Interviews and Podcasts with Matty and, a wonderful human and what he did for People like me or others in Situations they shouldn't and ultimately can't face themselfs is just beyond beautiful. It's sad he had to go but also, thank you for what you did and for what everything you did continues to do.

    • @lynnkesh254
      @lynnkesh254 Год назад +1

      Same here but his movies co starring bruce willis 'The whole nine yards' and 'the whole ten yards' are my favourite comics..

  • @chuckalongi5218
    @chuckalongi5218 Год назад +10

    R.I.P. Matthew. You gave the world so much joy. You made the world smile and will continue to do so forever.😢

  • @BlogManiac64
    @BlogManiac64 Год назад +21

    he seems like such a kind & gentle guy, my heart goes out to him - it's such an important message of hope he is sending, thank you matthew ;.)

  • @darrellgarrett72
    @darrellgarrett72 Год назад +2

    As an Addict, I struggled with sobriety for years and convinced myself that I could quit anytime! Lying to myself was easy and eventually lying to other people was even easier. There wasn’t one specific moment where I felt was the tipping point. There were thousands of moments and I would lie & steal to get that next fix. But, you’re chasing something that you will never get. That euphoria that you felt the 1st time. I destroyed so many relationships and hurt so many people. I did rehab, inpatient & outpatient and it never kept. I couldn’t stay sober. I finally hit rock bottom. Actually, it was below rock bottom. I realized, I couldn’t stay sober before because I was doing it for other people. I woke up after a 3 month binder and as I was looking in the mirror I didn’t recognize the person staring back at me. I had this unbelievable moment of clarity and I knew, finally I was ready. I was ready to stop living this way and I was so ashamed of who I had become. Shame is a powerful motivator and I knew if I kept living this way it was going to kill me. I’m a combat veteran who had survived Iraq. Survived getting shot and blown up twice. I knew it wasn’t going to be easy, but there was this force pushing me to live a life of sobriety. Addict is such an ugly label to live with. The road was long, painful, uncomfortable and exhausting. It was worth it. I’ve been sober for 10 years and I still live with it today. I still go to meetings and try to help as many people as I can along the way. Sobriety is not a solo process. I have had a lot of help from a lot of people. Addiction is terrible disease. It’s the first thought when you wake up and the last thought before bed. For anyone struggling know you are stronger than your addiction.

  • @Elisa3liza
    @Elisa3liza Год назад +7

    Your book changed my life. Just because addiction was your life doesn’t mean it will always be. He with all of us- helps me- be, and also it’s not my place to judge. May we all continue to hold each other up and care for each-other. I will always have scars no matter how long I live- I drink way too much- but your story gives me a little bit of hope for the future.

  • @natalied1844
    @natalied1844 Год назад +16

    Love celebrities speaking out about their struggles. I hope Matthew knows how many people he is helping, and I hope he feels as fulfilled as I do from hearing him speak out. Our mind and body is all we’ve got and we sure as hell don’t bring enough attention to it. Thank you to everyone who is able to speak about this, to one person or a million.

  • @MrAndrebatera
    @MrAndrebatera Год назад +6

    Rip my friend! You gave so much laughs and smiles. I will be forever thankful!!!

  • @jamiehowie100
    @jamiehowie100 2 месяца назад +1

    This man is an inspiration. He really tells it like it is, and doesn’t pull any punches. It’s a shame that, that man isn’t still alive today. I can speak on my behalf, and everyone here to say thank you for everything that you did ❤❤

  • @KateVol
    @KateVol 2 года назад +4

    Thank you for my youth!!! You have given us all so much joy, Matthew!!! I think you have no idea HOW many lifes you have touched! God bless you

  • @elliotlawrence3913
    @elliotlawrence3913 Год назад +16

    Utterly devastating. The man finally got sober and then dies. Thanks for everything matthew, you were a fantastic human ❤

  • @kristileko1610
    @kristileko1610 2 года назад +65

    Thank you, Matthew Perry for sharing your story. The misconception about an addict is that you chose to be an addict when you did not. My sibling suffered from alcohol and drug abuse and passed recently. The 70's-80's told you it was the addict's fault and that is not true, I was very pissed at him for many years. I tell my kids that some people have a "red light" or a "green light" you don't know what yours will be. For the families of addicts, just love and love more and then love and love more. We all need more of that.

    • @janellec3442
      @janellec3442 2 года назад +5

      Beautifully said and as a recovering alcoholic myself (3 years sober....but I still struggle) I really appreciate people like you with open minds & open hearts. I'd give ANYTHING to not be an addict. Seriously, ANYTHING to have that "start over" button and never have that first drink, that first pill, that first smoke...
      When Matthew Perry talks about how your disease (or demon, as I see it) waits to get you alone....oh my, that struck a nerve with me because he's 💯 spot on! I can't speak for anyone else, but I know that in my addiction, I was most dangerous, most drunk or high, most at the point of losing my life when I was alone in my bedroom, able to indulge in my addiction without anyone around me to judge me or stop me. I thought I was in control and that I could shut the world out and hide my addiction.... turns out everyone knew, I was only fooling myself and my loved ones were super scared for me. 💜 I can only imagine that other addicts have maybe experienced the same scenario, mindset, etc. while your brain and full self is actively engulfed in the disease.
      I'm extremely blessed to have a loving & supporting family and network, just as it sounds like you are to your loved one. 💜 I'm so very sorry for your loss! I pray for your loved one, for you, for others that suffer from this awful disease and for the families/friends who love the addict. We all need love, prayers, support, open minds and people we can open up to without judgment! 🙏🏻 ❤️💋💯🥰🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

    • @YagwitOG
      @YagwitOG 2 года назад +2

      I don't get it at all. 99% of my family are drug/alcohol addicts. The smell of alcohol makes me sick to my stomach. Drugs just get in the way of taking care of your kids. I only have one priority in life, to raise these lil people. I am devastated when I make a small mistake. How do you just leave them behind to serve your interests?
      I hope everyone heals, but I'm watching the video to gain insight.

    • @lyannawinter405
      @lyannawinter405 Год назад +1

      @@janellec3442 I'm with you and I love how strong you are speaking about your experiences so openly. I understand, though my topic different. Mad respect, dear sister, let's honour the life we have

    • @WaveRider1989
      @WaveRider1989 Год назад +1

      ​@@YagwitOGI guess it's about having a addictive personality. I have smoked cigarettes many in social circles during college to fit with the group but hated it. Luckily I never got addicted to it to start on my own. But for lot of people few drinks, smokes etc. Will have then craving for more

  • @Leigh3420
    @Leigh3420 Год назад +9

    RIP Matthew!!! Amazing career, funny, inspiring, genuine and so talented as one of the most iconic Friends in the world that brought families together every Thursday night for 10 years!

  • @MariaVOrtiz-ss6qp
    @MariaVOrtiz-ss6qp 2 года назад +24

    I just finished watching the full interview and it was extremely touching. If you haven't watched it please do so and have a few tissues by your side. We all watched him in movies and his famous show Friends but no one really knows what goes on behind closed doors. It was hard to hear his voice and speech change but it was wonderful to see Matthew Perry where he is at at this present moment in his life. God bless you and may the Lord continue to give you the strength you need to continue each day and all who are suffering from drug addiction alcohol addiction Etc.

  • @CharlesEdmonds-lz7sc
    @CharlesEdmonds-lz7sc Год назад +19

    I can't believe he's gone, such an inspiring human being, he will be missed, Rest in peace

  • @dewilew2137
    @dewilew2137 2 года назад +53

    Jesus, I thought I held the record for detox stays. Bless you, Mr. Perry. I’m so glad you’re still with us. 💗

    • @KierstinStoker22
      @KierstinStoker22 2 года назад +4

      What kind of comment is this? Trying to sell drugs to addicts? This is disgusting. The lowest of lows.

    • @B-Bibbles
      @B-Bibbles Год назад

      ​@mattew perry yeah, I don't think you're the real deal guy.

  • @Thepateisgreat
    @Thepateisgreat 4 месяца назад +10

    I’m surprised he NEVER turned to heroin, or fentanyl. He is so so so strong and lucky for that.
    Unless that was something he didn’t want to share.
    Thank you Matthew, so much for getting better, making addicts look better; and not to be so shamed, bullied, and looked at like terrible people who actively choose to do bad things. He could have gotten better, kept it private for his reputation, and never given back.
    Thank you Matthew and I hope you rest in peace. I will visit your grave as soon as I make time to get sober and make it LA… god bless you and I hope your soul is at peace and you are in a happier much better place.

    • @jarrettfullerton2580
      @jarrettfullerton2580 3 месяца назад +1

      He was on huge doses of opioids. Like gigantic... so he basically was. Vicodin if I recall?

    • @Tempo50
      @Tempo50 3 месяца назад +1

      Strong and lucky aren’t really words to describe MP. He’s dead after 15 rehab stints.

  • @christineelliott44
    @christineelliott44 2 года назад +31

    This poor struggling/lost soul! I hate to say this, but, he's still in a bad way. Not because of the way he looks, but, because he has no vitality or life in his voice. We must all gather together and (I pray) wish for his recovery from the inside - out. Love you Matthew. Please get better for yourself!!! We're all pulling for you!!!

    • @Xane_Dragon
      @Xane_Dragon 2 года назад +3

      Exactly...he needs to forget the idea of having kids

    • @bobos245
      @bobos245 2 года назад +1

      @@Xane_Dragon Maybe kids won't be so bad, because then maybe raising children would instill some pride in him, and help him to think less about himself.

    • @laurenkruegerfauxcuriousit8161
      @laurenkruegerfauxcuriousit8161 2 года назад +3

      Thank you! He sounds high.

    • @bobos245
      @bobos245 2 года назад +1

      @@laurenkruegerfauxcuriousit8161 The coma messed up his speech.

  • @mum5276
    @mum5276 10 месяцев назад +3

    I really loved Mathew Perry as an actor. I was so saddened when I learned about his passing. Rest in peace!

  • @raya77
    @raya77 2 года назад +8

    Big thanks to Mathew Perry for opening up and sharing with public !

  • @onceuponatimemydogslife2156
    @onceuponatimemydogslife2156 Год назад +2

    It takes humbleness and honesty, and a lot of integrity He was a fighter and now we love him even more. Rest in peace. We will meet somewhere upstairs one day.

  • @larrybaker9924
    @larrybaker9924 2 года назад +24

    God bless this very good man. I hope things turn out well for him and his family. He deserves some peace in his life.

  • @laurapalmer01
    @laurapalmer01 Год назад +23

    Addiction is so, so awful. I remember watching these interviews last year when his book came out. His addiction was a monster. He suffered so terrible. I wanted so badly to believe he could make it through, but I also was very scared that he wouldn’t. I’m so sad today. I don’t know why he died. His body may have given up. I think when his book came out, he really was in a strong place. He really wanted to give back. You can see and feel that in these interviews from last fall. RIP, Matthew.

  • @gregjansen8954
    @gregjansen8954 8 месяцев назад +9

    Substance abuse is a sad state of mind!!! I was an addict for 20 years,.then,when I changed my people,places,and things my world was forever changed!!! Sorry 2cu go matty...u are missed

  • @easyhow-toguy1493
    @easyhow-toguy1493 Год назад +8

    God Bless You Matty, you haved helped more people in more ways than one. More than you realize. Nothing but Love for You, from all of us here

  • @khalilrazak6486
    @khalilrazak6486 Год назад +6

    RIP Matthew you went through so much and thanks for trying to help other people who are suffering from this terrible disease which is addiction.

  • @jaymestrong6532
    @jaymestrong6532 3 месяца назад +7

    Addiction is hard to beat at times. RIP Matty ❤

  • @karinlarsen2608
    @karinlarsen2608 Год назад +34

    Thank you for sharing your story. I'm just listening to your book. Your life matters, I'm glad you saved it

  • @kirstenkemp5962
    @kirstenkemp5962 Год назад +44

    Matthew! You gave us all so much laughs and we thank you so much for that❤ rest in peace x

  • @alchris182
    @alchris182 Год назад +6

    I will miss you…. Thank you for all the joy you brought me

  • @shineajthegame
    @shineajthegame Год назад +6

    No way man. Was just watching this interview out of nowhere and just opened twitter. What a shocking news man. R.I.P

  • @JenWren4
    @JenWren4 Год назад +3

    I just can't wrap my head around this. Matt was my favorite and my snarky idol and bestie😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @sf3918
    @sf3918 10 месяцев назад +1

    You've been gone for over two months and I still don't want to understand it. You were the best and I think of you every day, Matty. RIP Love you. ❤

  • @ismas8803
    @ismas8803 5 месяцев назад +10

    Came to watch this interview on June 14th, 2024, and boy this is hard to watch knowing he is not longer with us, hope your doing well buddy, we love you thank you for everything. ❤️😭

  • @jamesalex5474
    @jamesalex5474 Год назад

    im from the uk, im 32, chandler bought my sister, mother who is dying of MS so many laughs, she is 63 and head stable, wheel chair bound. every time we binge watch friends we laugh every time. your a genius. you brought so much happiness to people. don't let it lay to waste to waste..... if your ever in the UK please let us meet you, your awesome! xxx

  • @Rani-mw5pf
    @Rani-mw5pf Год назад +3

    Watching friends will never feel the same again ..RIP Matthew Perry ...no one could have played yr loving character better than you ...rest easy ❤

  • @spotteddog1716
    @spotteddog1716 2 года назад +62

    I read the book. And as a retired paramedic, let me tell you, when he said he would stop doing drugs because he didn’t want to have a colostomy bag for the rest of his life. He’s absolutely right. You don’t want that. And everything that goes along with it. He really struggled, and I hope he can stay clean. We also need to remember that he is very famous he can afford the best treatment - not everybody is so lucky.

    • @tootsla1252
      @tootsla1252 Год назад

      I just finished his book. What a bunch of whining bullshit. My husband had the same operation due to diverticulitis, and a perforated colon - close to going into sepsis. 4” of his colon removed and a colostomy bag for 9 months. He recovered from the operation on nothing but Tylenol. His ostomy bag never “Exploded” because he took care of it properly. He was grateful to still be alive. Not once did he ever whine or “poor me.” He was a total champ. His reversal operation - same - Tylenol. Nothing more. Many people have to live with ostomy bags for life.

    • @whocares728
      @whocares728 Год назад +22

      ​@@tootsla1252sounds like you're doing the whining for him. This man went through a lot & deserves to be heard. Sorry you're not sympathetic to other people's struggles. Everyone struggles differently.

    • @Disneymumma
      @Disneymumma Год назад

      For some people it's better than the alternative

    • @RobertaBriffa
      @RobertaBriffa Год назад

      ​@@tootsla1252This is one of the most idiotic comments on here. What it shows is your lack of compassion and empathy for others. You wouldn't talk like this if you've ever experienced so much pain, inoperable or not, that your only option was to take meds which could be highly addictive, but had to take them anyway because nothing else would work. Anyone can say anything behind a keyboard. So judgemental.

    • @m.e.d.7997
      @m.e.d.7997 Год назад +3

      @@tootsla1252First of all his ostomy did not explode his colon did which is why he needed the Ostomy and he went septic. I am in the medical field and most if not all post op pts require way more than Tylenol. Thirdly your husband did not have a history of opioid addiction nor should his brain chemistry be compared to Matthew Perry’s. It is apples and oranges and you obviously do not have a clue. Any you are wasting your time trying to impress me that your husband is some kind of hero. I am not impressed.

  • @adityarajeshirke64
    @adityarajeshirke64 2 года назад +15

    He was an excellent actor.. we couldn't even notice his struggles except the changes in his body structures... Now he might be even enjoying his life by remaining single because the worst you face.. the more lively you become.

  • @jx9936
    @jx9936 Год назад +1

    RIP Matthew, Friends would never be the same without Chandler's wit and humor. Thanks for defining the timeless nostalgia of our lives Mr Perry, rest in peace and rest in power!

  • @SARGENTO007A
    @SARGENTO007A 2 года назад +23

    WOW! My heart shrinks hearing this. I grew up with his character and absolutely loved him. I had no idea. What hell he was in. Strenght for You and keep it up. Thanks for sharing.

  • @dagony7383
    @dagony7383 Год назад +4

    Sad hearing of his passing.he seems like such a tremendous guy even through all his demons. his last gift to the world was helping people which is so rare and so unselfish!! RIP-MATTHEW PERRY

  • @43STEELERS43
    @43STEELERS43 2 года назад +12

    You give a lot of people of hope Mathew! I give anyone credit for having the strength to admit they have a problem and get help

  • @bconfessor
    @bconfessor Год назад +2

    Found this video now, didn't know he made a memoir. Stopped after the "I should be dead", hits too hard now. RIP, my favorite Friends star 💔

  • @scarletsletter4466
    @scarletsletter4466 2 года назад +19

    For longterm users who become chronic addicts, medical maintenance is often the best option. I know Perry must have good physicians so it blows my mind that he'd be in rehab all these times. At the point we can medically detox you while unconscious under anesthesia, then we can give you medical maintenance to stop future cravings, & add a treatment that prevents you from being able to get high. You don't have to continue going through this cycle of pain.

  • @Sourpusscandy
    @Sourpusscandy Месяц назад +1

    I just finished listening to his audiobook, it was really good. See if your library has it. RIP Matty.

  • @GaemerJosh
    @GaemerJosh Год назад +3

    As an addict who is 7 years clean this hits hard. I grew up loving Chandler and hearing his story in which I very much relate to I grew to love him more. Gone far too soon, his life was just beginning. RIP Chandler 💔

    • @Sushrak
      @Sushrak Год назад +1

      Congratulations be proud of yourself 👏🏻

  • @maijunaaranoja2892
    @maijunaaranoja2892 2 месяца назад

    Thank you Matthew. As a recovering alcoholic, I`ve really found strength in your words and can relate to so much of what you`ve said. RIP and thank you for your courage!

  • @ShawnnaLee-pg9vy
    @ShawnnaLee-pg9vy Год назад +4

    Mr. Perry, I wish you all the luck in the world against your battle with narcs and alcohol! I had the same addiction to Lortab 10, about twice the strength of Vicodin, but am 52 now and have long since overcome it in my 30's.
    With Love, Shawnna Lee
    San Antonio Texas

  • @maxwhite8470
    @maxwhite8470 6 месяцев назад +10

    As an alcoholic. So many things ring true. I love him

    • @jwhitt1776
      @jwhitt1776 5 месяцев назад

      This is your wake up call

  • @404Rolo
    @404Rolo 2 года назад +8

    Another story about how the funniest, most adored and most willing to make everyone happy is also the one who struggles and suffers the most.

  • @fromtheaether5878
    @fromtheaether5878 Год назад +1

    You were my favorite - and have made my life so much brighter as a teenager. Thank you so much for all that you did!

  • @JamesDhakal
    @JamesDhakal Год назад +5

    A man that brought us so much joy and love

  • @kidchalleen4250
    @kidchalleen4250 Год назад +8

    I'm reading this book, it's amazing and brave. I'm not dealing with addiction myself but it's helping me understand those who do.

  • @Beedee46
    @Beedee46 Год назад

    That nervous energy that enabled Matthew to be so successful, was alas constantly taking it's toll.

  • @bennelson4469
    @bennelson4469 2 года назад +27

    I have struggled with addiction for a couple of years and this is very inspiring

    • @intentionallyinpired
      @intentionallyinpired 2 года назад +3

      Praying for you Ben.. praying you get free and find hope outside of addiction. Jesus loves you xoxoxo

    • @bennelson4469
      @bennelson4469 2 года назад +6

      @@intentionallyinpired thank you so much. It is hard because I feel like I have let God down a lot. But I am tryibg

    • @Summer-tk8yk
      @Summer-tk8yk 2 года назад +2

      There is so much hope. ❤

    • @craiganderson3919
      @craiganderson3919 2 года назад +1

      All it takes is will power! You are more powerful than you can image. You simply have to truly want it. I promise it's not complicated.

    • @positivepessimist6853
      @positivepessimist6853 2 года назад

      @@craiganderson3919 It's not that easy 🙄🙄🙄

  • @becnes111
    @becnes111 2 года назад +31

    Thank you Matthew. 10 months Alcohol Free thanks to 'This Naked Mind' The Path programme. My parents both died from Cirrhosis. It wasn't all for nothing

    • @redlady8296
      @redlady8296 2 года назад +1

      Congratulations 🎉 on 10 months. So proud of you.

    • @julieb7785
      @julieb7785 2 года назад +2

      Don't let the past remind you of what you are not now...a good line from CSNY.

  • @tararansom2750
    @tararansom2750 Год назад

    Matthew, I know you have finally found the peace you longed for. Rest in heaven, Matthew. Thank you for your body of work. You brought us joy. I am so sorry you couldn't find joy here. But you have found it now. I had to come back to this interview and comment.

  • @colleenmikula3222
    @colleenmikula3222 2 года назад +5

    Love love love Matthew Perry...bless his heart...I hope only the best fir the rest of his life..and thank you for giving us all your talent..

  • @dennisalexanderson6975
    @dennisalexanderson6975 6 месяцев назад +4

    Just read his book, I recommend all of you who hasnt read it yet to do it.
    Rest in peace

  • @ulyssesgrant4403
    @ulyssesgrant4403 Год назад +2

    Real sad to hear of his passing.
    Always seemed like a great guy and amazing actor.
    Rest in peace Matthew and you’ll be missed by millions

  • @bdk4523
    @bdk4523 2 года назад +10

    What an inspiration! I'm 20 months into the journey. 💪

  • @BlueJello420
    @BlueJello420 9 месяцев назад +2

    Rest in peace MATTHEW.... Can we BE more heartbroken? 😞😞😞😞😞 #FRIENDS #THEONEWHEREITCANTBEREAL

  • @ltheroadtripper7701
    @ltheroadtripper7701 Год назад +5

    Just heard the news about his passing. It feels like a friend has died. May you rest in peace Matthew.

  • @angelaandersons7918
    @angelaandersons7918 7 месяцев назад +1

    So miss him! Really silly but deffo cried over his passing, think its because just reminds me of my losses, my late mother snd late older sis, and in the 1990s to 2004 , forever, and Matthew Perry's voice, presence, his sarcastic synaptic quick wit ❤ just amazing adore Friends 😢 and will always continue to miss Matthew Perry! Rest in Peace 🙏🏼

  • @claireandersongrahamkeller2744
    @claireandersongrahamkeller2744 2 года назад +10

    Celebrating your being alive to tell the truth, Matthew! Onward.

  • @Katherine-ds2ft
    @Katherine-ds2ft Год назад +7

    What an absolutely insane story. I had no idea he went through so much. Shattered it ended this way for him ❤

  • @narellecox2028
    @narellecox2028 Год назад +3

    This is so sad, after fighting to get well and do what he could to become sober, for him to die this way and alone, is heartbreaking. God bless you sweetheart, you will be missed. RIP X Australia

  • @chingmok3322
    @chingmok3322 4 месяца назад +1

    Inspired, never forgotten my lifetime.. thank you Madman❤

  • @aldakonig612
    @aldakonig612 2 года назад +18

    Matt has not lost touch for being funny. I like him! And 24 years later, my kids watch friends! Over and over again. They love chanadler bong

  • @joaoportesantava1412
    @joaoportesantava1412 Год назад +1

    I’m Brazilian and I came to the US in 1987. In 2002 I was living in Florida and working and I had some pane and someone at work a older lady handed me a strong pain pill and that day at 19 years old everything changed. I’m 42 today and trying to get sober. I have too many stories that listening to this makes me cry

  • @oliveriosteinn
    @oliveriosteinn Год назад +7

    He had such a briiliant delivery and timing, just how he used his hands, body and facial expression. The best comedy actor of Friends imo. Addiction is such a bitch. I've battled addiction myself and it always saddens me to see peoole die because of it. R.I.P.

  • @jeanferguson9063
    @jeanferguson9063 Год назад +2

    I think this interview is going to age really well, rest in peace my friend and thank you for all the laughs... 👏👏👏

  • @ZemplinTemplar
    @ZemplinTemplar Год назад +5

    Rest in peace, Matthew. :-( Thank you for sharing hard personal truths with us and helping people who've also struggled with addiction. I hope you are in a better place and your soul can find peace.

  • @rahuldahoob
    @rahuldahoob Год назад +2

    I'm glad he got to write this book before passing!! rip

  • @travisclymer2517
    @travisclymer2517 4 месяца назад +5

    I read the book. He’s full of himself. We all struggle, RIP.