My relationship is a kind of long distance relationship , but it's not a smooth sailing. Once I got serious and in he has started ignoring , I much worried .What should I do to get out of this state of being ignored and taken for granted.
The answer is easy. Find a guy that’s in your town. Take a good long hard look as to why you’re not making yourself available to someone who can be physically close to you. Are you afraid of having a relationship possibly? Why pick a guy that’s so far away?Also focus on yourself not on the guy. It’s your life not his. Can’t love a guy until you love yourself first 💕
Any relationship takes two sides of effort I was in a long distance relationship and it's one of those things that you both have to be able to talk about if he is very vague and things and you have poor communication discuss that with you long distance itself is not that difficult it is a little more challenging though (not an expert this is just though experience)
@@sivakaminbk7134 that's where you try to set a day or a time where you both can talk if they are interested they will try to make at least a little bit of time even if it's 30 minutes in the day again NOT AN EXPERT this is just through my experience
@@sivakaminbk7134 So he made a pretty clear he’s too busy for you. MoveOn. Why do women wait around for men to make the move as to what will happen in the future? You make the choice for yourself woman. Don’t wait for him to make the choice for you. Find a man who is nearby and physically and emotionally available. If he’s too busy why the hell would you want him?
The worry that you feel is your gut your heart and your mind telling you to go. Listen to yourself. No one knows you better than yourself. If you have all these feelings inside that are negative in this way, why do you do this to yourself? With 7 billion people in the world I think there’s a man out there who’s ready for you. MoveOn. ❤️
The Phrase Categories: 1 character (I notice your good character/ trait or traits) 2 value (I like that we have similar values) 3 protector (I feel safe and comfortable with you) 4Sex (I like this or just positioning him where you like) 5 social phrase (I like one or more of your social group) . . . . . Basically!
regarding "The Protector Phrase" - another dating expert shared a similar point. 'I feel safe with you' or 'I feel safe around you' are phrases that appeal to the protector in a man.
Know yourself your unconditional nature, and you will know how to move consciously with someone moment to moment. Take out the guesswork while coming into conscious relationship with self. Self is the only relationship to cultivate. Everything else will flow from that.
*Open and honest conversations can help build a deeper emotional connection. Let's focus on genuine connection rather than trying to force or manipulate feelings.*
For me, the majority of these are good once I've given myself a little time to see if the man I'm interested in is an actual man that is a man worth my time.
These sound spot on for most men but not the 1 I'm with. He's total opposite. Accuses me, Doesn't apologize when he's wrong, doesn't talk in mild manner he's always talking loud yelling and screaming as if he wants an audience from our apartment neighbors, doesn't bring me flowers write little notes as he did 1st month of going out, doesn't have remorse empathy. If he makes me cry he just yells STOP CRYING and leaves. We even got engaged in 2019. He's ruining our relationship and me. I use to be Happy and smiling all the time, every day but not now with him. I even suggested us going to a counselor or Clergy and he said ok but we never go! WHAT SHOULD I DO?
These are good ideas. I usually am pretty bad about giving compliments to people... so these are good ideas on how to start saying things to men that will make them like me more
I was like that with my ex husband but that just increased his ego and he was just making me feel useless for him and for everything. That dont work for a narcissist active abuser 😔
Lovev's life true love Never die I know a great and powerful healer that can get back your ex or crua without delay Just forever within 48hours he helped me too immediately...
Good for you for getting the heck out of there! You deserve a medal. You're right, femininity and respect do NOT work for narcs, at all! They only see you as a prey.
Before I ever listened to you, I did everything you talked about in this video, and a couple of others you did, and I still got nowhere. I'm not saying that what you say doesn't work, but maybe there is no one for me. The men who are attracted to me, I am not attracted to. But the one's I really want seem to be out of reach.
I got my help from someone, he was the only one who was able to help me bring back my ex husband back to me and he save and solve my relationship problem ❤️❤️❤️
Lovev's life true love Never die I know a great and powerful healer that can get back your ex or crua without delay Just forever within 48hours he helped me too immediately..
I think I would rather get a dog 🐾🐾😜🙄🙄🙄 geez why am I doing ALL the work ?? Where’s the men that is in the Classic turner movies ?? 🎬 Woman need this too goes both ways !!!
I got my help from someone, he was the only one who was able to help me bring back my ex husband back to me and he save and solve my relationship problem ❤️❤️❤️
I have someone in my life however as much as we are alike enjoy each other company he is married they are always up and down with each other that they separated but they still together what should I do
Woman r usually not intimidated as they once we're. Unless you have a narcissist male and when you try to guide, ok your word, hand, and they resist and your line, what the heck. Then you find out later that, they want to do it themselves. Where do you go from there?
How about your guy doesn't want to let you know /meet his family and friends even after having long term relationship, he keeps giving reason and say you'll automatically know when married but at the same time he planing get married?
@@christinebeames2311 well we meet at overseas we both different countries meet at the other country where we work! We had long term relationship more than 5years and we had everything good as other relationship, he is so caring but so jealousy too, whenever I ask about his family I just couldn't get any of it he'll just their good and whatever good! 🤷 It's like so good so bad, now in confused!
Nah, don't ever do these tips, ladies. This will only make your man blows up their ego and would give them the confidence to attract other women and cheat. Been there done that many times and they become non-committed, they will just see you as an option. DON'T TREAT YOUR MAN AS A KING. BECAUSE THEY WILL TREAT YOU LIKE a second citizen. If a man is truly interested in you, they will just love you effortlessly.
Hey, great job this sounds like it’s all based on Celestine Dessike's Words of Desire. And yes, that’s the material you need to have him resonating with erotic electricity at your will. Sounds like too much IK, but just for the basics it's worth go'ogling her ;)
My relationship is a kind of long distance relationship , but it's not a smooth sailing. Once I got serious and in he has started ignoring , I much worried .What should I do to get out of this state of being ignored and taken for granted.
The answer is easy. Find a guy that’s in your town. Take a good long hard look as to why you’re not making yourself available to someone who can be physically close to you. Are you afraid of having a relationship possibly? Why pick a guy that’s so far away?Also focus on yourself not on the guy. It’s your life not his.
Can’t love a guy until you love yourself first 💕
Any relationship takes two sides of effort I was in a long distance relationship and it's one of those things that you both have to be able to talk about if he is very vague and things and you have poor communication discuss that with you long distance itself is not that difficult it is a little more challenging though (not an expert this is just though experience)
@@sivakaminbk7134 that's where you try to set a day or a time where you both can talk if they are interested they will try to make at least a little bit of time even if it's 30 minutes in the day again NOT AN EXPERT this is just through my experience
@@sivakaminbk7134 So he made a pretty clear he’s too busy for you. MoveOn. Why do women wait around for men to make the move as to what will happen in the future? You make the choice for yourself woman. Don’t wait for him to make the choice for you. Find a man who is nearby and physically and emotionally available. If he’s too busy why the hell would you want him?
The worry that you feel is your gut your heart and your mind telling you to go. Listen to yourself. No one knows you better than yourself. If you have all these feelings inside that are negative in this way, why do you do this to yourself? With 7 billion people in the world I think there’s a man out there who’s ready for you. MoveOn. ❤️
1) Character Trait
2) The values compliment phrase
3) The protector phrase
4) The sexual feedback phrase
5) The social compliment phrase
As a dog trainer I always told people to reward what you want to see more of. It’s pretty basic but we sometimes forget that works with people too.
Well said 😜
praise goes a long way on both ends 😜
The Phrase Categories:
1 character (I notice your good character/ trait or traits)
2 value (I like that we have similar values)
3 protector (I feel safe and comfortable with you)
4Sex (I like this or just positioning him where you like)
5 social phrase (I like one or more of your social group)
. . . . . Basically!
🙏 Thank you!
Thank You.
regarding "The Protector Phrase" - another dating expert shared a similar point. 'I feel safe with you' or 'I feel safe around you' are phrases that appeal to the protector in a man.
Know yourself your unconditional nature, and you will know how to move consciously with someone moment to moment. Take out the guesswork while coming into conscious relationship with self. Self is the only relationship to cultivate. Everything else will flow from that.
The reality is that if 2people are not emotionally and mentally on the same level, then you will not have a good relationship. THE END!
*Open and honest conversations can help build a deeper emotional connection. Let's focus on genuine connection rather than trying to force or manipulate feelings.*
So beautiful and true. Nice reminders.
Thank you from North Germany :-) ! Very emotional this time, and full of humour ;-)
For me, the majority of these are good once I've given myself a little time to see if the man I'm interested in is an actual man that is a man worth my time.
I cracked up at the dog comparison. 😜😂😂😂
Good guidance...these r small small things but vry important in relationships
These sound spot on for most men but not the 1 I'm with. He's total opposite. Accuses me, Doesn't apologize when he's wrong, doesn't talk in mild manner he's always talking loud yelling and screaming as if he wants an audience from our apartment neighbors, doesn't bring me flowers write little notes as he did 1st month of going out, doesn't have remorse empathy. If he makes me cry he just yells STOP CRYING and leaves. We even got engaged in 2019. He's ruining our relationship and me. I use to be Happy and smiling all the time, every day but not now with him. I even suggested us going to a counselor or Clergy and he said ok but we never go! WHAT SHOULD I DO?
These are good ideas. I usually am pretty bad about giving compliments to people... so these are good ideas on how to start saying things to men that will make them like me more
I was like that with my ex husband but that just increased his ego and he was just making me feel useless for him and for everything. That dont work for a narcissist active abuser 😔
Lovev's life true love Never die I know a great and powerful healer that can get back your ex or crua without delay Just forever within 48hours he helped me too immediately...
Text him on WhatsApp..
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@@sallyelizabeth5215 thanks i dont wanna go back with my ex
Good for you for getting the heck out of there! You deserve a medal. You're right, femininity and respect do NOT work for narcs, at all! They only see you as a prey.
The Examples when offered really were what made all the goodness solid!
Before I ever listened to you, I did everything you talked about in this video, and a couple of others you did, and I still got nowhere. I'm not saying that what you say doesn't work, but maybe there is no one for me. The men who are attracted to me, I am not attracted to. But the one's I really want seem to be out of reach.
I got my help from someone, he was the only one who was able to help me bring back my ex husband back to me and he save and solve my relationship problem ❤️❤️❤️
Text me via what’s app for recommendation ❤️❤️
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From Los Angeles ❤️❤️❤️
It works on the right person.
Only take those who are attracted to you will treat you better than those you are attracted to.
Thank you so much, you are teaching us how to better communicate Your giving us great wisdom Have a great day
Lovev's life true love Never die I know a great and powerful healer that can get back your ex or crua without delay Just forever within 48hours he helped me too immediately..
W.H. A.T.Z.A.P.P.l.m
+1=2=0=.4=8=0=.8=2=2=3=4.
Thanks again. Some realistic advice given.
Thank You Dear !!! 🙏🙏🙏♥️♥️♥️
Have you ever thought about coaching men and not women??
So nice
Just one word: good dog! :)
🤣
😁🐕
Ummm. That’s 2 words 😂
Instructions unclear. My man evaporated. 😐
Ur great thanx
wow..amazing tips thanks
I think I would rather get a dog 🐾🐾😜🙄🙄🙄
geez why am I doing ALL the work ?? Where’s the men that is in the Classic turner movies ?? 🎬 Woman need this too goes both ways !!!
I got my help from someone, he was the only one who was able to help me bring back my ex husband back to me and he save and solve my relationship problem ❤️❤️❤️
Text me via what’s app for recommendation ❤️❤️❤️
+ 1 6 7 8 4 2 6 5 0 9 5
From Los Angeles ❤️❤️❤️
I have someone in my life however as much as we are alike enjoy each other company he is married they are always up and down with each other that they separated but they still together what should I do
GTFO
Run away, he is married. He is not leaving his wife for you. unless you wanna be second thats ok.
Move on
Woman r usually not intimidated as they once we're. Unless you have a narcissist male and when you try to guide, ok your word, hand, and they resist and your line, what the heck. Then you find out later that, they want to do it themselves. Where do you go from there?
Unfortunately, I can't understand all you say! I speak English only elementary level!
Who can make the translation in Italian or Romanian language?
How about your guy doesn't want to let you know /meet his family and friends even after having long term relationship, he keeps giving reason and say you'll automatically know when married but at the same time he planing get married?
@@christinebeames2311 well we meet at overseas we both different countries meet at the other country where we work! We had long term relationship more than 5years and we had everything good as other relationship, he is so caring but so jealousy too, whenever I ask about his family I just couldn't get any of it he'll just their good and whatever good! 🤷 It's like so good so bad, now in confused!
Like it
Can you find me a man ?
So you’re saying men are digs, lol?
Nah, don't ever do these tips, ladies. This will only make your man blows up their ego and would give them the confidence to attract other women and cheat. Been there done that many times and they become non-committed, they will just see you as an option. DON'T TREAT YOUR MAN AS A KING. BECAUSE THEY WILL TREAT YOU LIKE a second citizen. If a man is truly interested in you, they will just love you effortlessly.
Hey, great job this sounds like it’s all based on Celestine Dessike's Words of Desire. And yes, that’s the material you need to have him resonating with erotic electricity at your will. Sounds like too much IK, but just for the basics it's worth go'ogling her ;)