Yep it helps to be a female introvert, logical, not neurotic, agreeable instead of disagreeable, conscientious as in your word is your bond and great follow through. Re raising your standards you better be real...not faking so work on yourself if you need work.
3 simple steps to begin building a deeper connection with a man: 1) "Make him feel like a Hero" - make him protect and provide for you, make him earn your love, make him be his best version for you, by setting standards! 2) "Don't fill in the gaps by talking"- let there be silence when you are nervous, true emotional connection, true sensual tension is build in silence. 3) "Care for him"- be curious about him, ask yourself what's best for him, if you are the right person for him.
Simple, great and actionable advice. #1 is a big problem in the AA community right now. BW collectively have overdone the unearned hero worship. I love #3 and thought I was the only one who thought having a friendship bond is important! #2 Very powerful, connective and non manipulative. An intimacy builder before even a stitch of clothing is removed. If ppl practiced this one, the chronically hooking up culture would be in trouble. Thanks so much for insightful content.
This Jason Silver truly has a heart of Gold 💛. So genuine and that energy of kindness, understanding, positive lights just shine through 🌟🌠. Like a true friend, a loving father, a beloved brother... . What beautiful energy. So much integrity.. 💚 So blessed to hear you out 🙏
Been on many many many coffee dates that now I usually know within minutes whether they're a good match, but I realize its also okay to try 2 dates so I wasn't always dismissing potentially good guys...Also yes, silence is amazing and needed..its actually creates closeness and sexual polarity/tension...but there are times where the MAN says nothing at all or has nothing to say or isn't mature enough to really add to a conversation or ask questions.... THAT GUY is NOT the right guy. Dont force it but usually if there is chemistry there will be moments where you have alot to share or he wants to know more. If the silence is awkward and bad, and very uncomfortable...please dont linger and end the date. Ive been on dates where some men were such POOR conversationalists (low self awareness, conscientious, low curiosity, poor social skills) and I felt so exhausted from carrying the conversations that I let the silence drag on and it didn't help at all that I had make excuses to leave. Also YOU CAN CARE and be curious, but if the man ghosts or stonewall or drops off....ladies he doesn't care, move on and stop beating yourself up. Its not your fault. Casual modern dating is learning to be good person but also never take anything too personally. And yes always ask yourself if youre also right for them....I ask myself that on most dates and find myself matching out of most men. It saves me and them time and a lot less confusion. Also, being single and free from all these dating etiquettes is so amazing and freeing and fun. It's exciting to know our future guy is out there waiting to find us but honestly being happy, living full life and being you is so rewarding already. Be your own hero, sit with your own silence and stare into your own eyes in mirror and say girl I love you, I got you, I'm here for you ❤💖💙♥💕
I have found that I don’t need to meet every guy for a coffee date even. I spend a few hours talking to them over the phone for a week or so and that gives me enough information to know if I want to meet him or not. You can tell a lot of compatibility simply by talking on the phone and listening to them. Sometimes, I only need to talk to them for 5 min only 😂 I get an entire impression of that person simply by his interaction with me and how he talks
@@Singinbluebird Lovev's life true love Never die I know a great and powerful healer that can get back your ex or crua without delay Just forever within 48hours he helped me too immediately
'I can recommend you to the powerful relationship restorer who helped me got my Partner back permanently with more love and commitment. He can help you and bless your relationship perfectly!!!
After having baby, and corona...despite living and working from home...there is no "US" time or "me" time. We are together all the time...it actually feels like home is some sort of repetitive job. How to influence husband for some attention n love for me.
Staying busy. Creating activities that involve both of you, asking him if he wants to get involved and completely giving him his personal space if he isn't into it. Basically just listen. :) Hope you guys have fun. 💙
This is quite insightful but I have to say that I don’t like it when a guy maintains eye contact without looking away from time to time, I find it creepy when a guy does that…I prefer that I like to be looking into his eyes and he looks into mine, but doesn’t stare into them without looking away here and there. I’ve only met two men who maintained eye contact with me the entire time whilst talking to me, and I just found them irritating and abrasive and something off about them… I also think having a strong bond together is important, but that bond takes time to build. If a guy is constantly addicted to sex and boomeranging between his ex and multiple FWB, then you just can’t build a bond with that person. That person would be happier being dependent on someone predictable rather than letting go of the toxic past, and you just simply can’t wait around for a person like that nor invest emotional energy into such a person. For me, if a guy shows me that he cares about our future together and takes actionable steps in doing so, then that is worth more to me than empty words of affection and love.
Dear Jason, please give marriage advice also. After having baby, sex intimacy feels lost. How to ignite passion n true love again in old relationships.
@@biancadelarosa7986 YEAH there us a sucker born every minute right? Hey send me your kney instead at least I am a real bonafide PhD psychologist....I can pretend to help with a voodoo doll that will only cost you the max allowable on your credit card. Why did I bother with 10.yrs of higher education and years of supervised clinical work...all I really needed to make a living was pretend to be someone helped by myself and ask you call so I can cast a spell....
wooow that was so amazing video of you sir.,i appreciate you so much posting videos that we can used or apply in our daily life.. that was so heartwarming,keep on posting Good thougths for us thankyou very,Have a Great day and Godbless you always
Problem is, women think they got a “good one” if the guy works for a google type company. Oh, he’s worthy of a great employer? He makes great money? I don’t need to do any sh- tests on you, because you qualified for that job?! No! Do the sh- tests on him! Just because the world thinks he’s hot stuff, doesn’t mean he’s not personality disordered! Watch out ladies!
talking about treasure and dragon slaying when showing Rein of Fire eh? you want to impress chick when you give her leek you need to sing Leven's Polka too i hardly see a guy i want to approach and talk to and look at. and doubt they will stop for me. I'm not much of a looker what if someone has some kind of autism and dosen't like the eye contact?
Let there be silence is gold
Yep it helps to be a female introvert, logical, not neurotic, agreeable instead of disagreeable, conscientious as in your word is your bond and great follow through. Re raising your standards you better be real...not faking so work on yourself if you need work.
3 simple steps to begin building a deeper connection with a man:
1) "Make him feel like a Hero" - make him protect and provide for you, make him earn your love, make him be his best version for you, by setting standards!
2) "Don't fill in the gaps by talking"- let there be silence when you are nervous, true emotional connection, true sensual tension is build in silence.
3) "Care for him"- be curious about him, ask yourself what's best for him, if you are the right person for him.
Simple, great and actionable advice. #1 is a big problem in the AA community right now. BW collectively have overdone the unearned hero worship. I love #3 and thought I was the only one who thought having a friendship bond is important! #2 Very powerful, connective and non manipulative. An intimacy builder before even a stitch of clothing is removed. If ppl practiced this one, the chronically hooking up culture would be in trouble. Thanks so much for insightful content.
I read AA as alcoholics anonymous 😂
This Jason Silver truly has a heart of Gold 💛. So genuine and that energy of kindness, understanding, positive lights just shine through 🌟🌠. Like a true friend, a loving father, a beloved brother... . What beautiful energy. So much integrity.. 💚 So blessed to hear you out 🙏
Been on many many many coffee dates that now I usually know within minutes whether they're a good match, but I realize its also okay to try 2 dates so I wasn't always dismissing potentially good guys...Also yes, silence is amazing and needed..its actually creates closeness and sexual polarity/tension...but there are times where the MAN says nothing at all or has nothing to say or isn't mature enough to really add to a conversation or ask questions.... THAT GUY is NOT the right guy. Dont force it but usually if there is chemistry there will be moments where you have alot to share or he wants to know more. If the silence is awkward and bad, and very uncomfortable...please dont linger and end the date. Ive been on dates where some men were such POOR conversationalists (low self awareness, conscientious, low curiosity, poor social skills) and I felt so exhausted from carrying the conversations that I let the silence drag on and it didn't help at all that I had make excuses to leave. Also YOU CAN CARE and be curious, but if the man ghosts or stonewall or drops off....ladies he doesn't care, move on and stop beating yourself up. Its not your fault. Casual modern dating is learning to be good person but also never take anything too personally. And yes always ask yourself if youre also right for them....I ask myself that on most dates and find myself matching out of most men. It saves me and them time and a lot less confusion. Also, being single and free from all these dating etiquettes is so amazing and freeing and fun. It's exciting to know our future guy is out there waiting to find us but honestly being happy, living full life and being you is so rewarding already. Be your own hero, sit with your own silence and stare into your own eyes in mirror and say girl I love you, I got you, I'm here for you ❤💖💙♥💕
I have found that I don’t need to meet every guy for a coffee date even. I spend a few hours talking to them over the phone for a week or so and that gives me enough information to know if I want to meet him or not. You can tell a lot of compatibility simply by talking on the phone and listening to them. Sometimes, I only need to talk to them for 5 min only 😂 I get an entire impression of that person simply by his interaction with me and how he talks
@@PtolemyXVII yes same !! These were men that passed phones calls and profile....and still on dates it's a pass ! 😅😊
@@Singinbluebird Lovev's life true love Never die I know a great and powerful healer that can get back your ex or crua without delay Just forever within 48hours he helped me too immediately
@@Singinbluebird Text him on WhatsApp
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This is powerful! The win win strategy in particular. Indeed we all want to feel cared for , well said 👍
Im so Happy that you are making videos regularly again . Mr. Jason why did you stop for a couple of months?
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'I can recommend you to the powerful relationship restorer who helped me got my Partner back permanently with more love and commitment. He can help you and bless your relationship perfectly!!!
Interestingly, I practice looking men in the eye but they tend to look away. What's up with that?
Whatapp him,,
Same here. 🤷🏽♀️
Me too
Brb gonna go win some staring contests in the frozen foods aisle 😂❤
Thanks 😊 this is an excellent video!
After having baby, and corona...despite living and working from home...there is no "US" time or "me" time. We are together all the time...it actually feels like home is some sort of repetitive job. How to influence husband for some attention n love for me.
Staying busy. Creating activities that involve both of you, asking him if he wants to get involved and completely giving him his personal space if he isn't into it. Basically just listen. :) Hope you guys have fun. 💙
The eye contact thing is even more difficult for us with autism. I'm going to practice though 🤞👍
I 😍 it!!!!! Good advice! Like a gentle tug of war....
This is quite insightful but I have to say that I don’t like it when a guy maintains eye contact without looking away from time to time, I find it creepy when a guy does that…I prefer that I like to be looking into his eyes and he looks into mine, but doesn’t stare into them without looking away here and there.
I’ve only met two men who maintained eye contact with me the entire time whilst talking to me, and I just found them irritating and abrasive and something off about them…
I also think having a strong bond together is important, but that bond takes time to build. If a guy is constantly addicted to sex and boomeranging between his ex and multiple FWB, then you just can’t build a bond with that person. That person would be happier being dependent on someone predictable rather than letting go of the toxic past, and you just simply can’t wait around for a person like that nor invest emotional energy into such a person.
For me, if a guy shows me that he cares about our future together and takes actionable steps in doing so, then that is worth more to me than empty words of affection and love.
@@biancadelarosa7986 Sorry but I have no interest in ever getting back with an ex!
@@PtolemyXVII 😂
Dear Jason, please give marriage advice also. After having baby, sex intimacy feels lost. How to ignite passion n true love again in old relationships.
@@biancadelarosa7986 Sounds like a scam
@@biancadelarosa7986 Scam I bet.
@@biancadelarosa7986 YEAH there us a sucker born every minute right? Hey send me your kney instead at least I am a real bonafide PhD psychologist....I can pretend to help with a voodoo doll that will only cost you the max allowable on your credit card. Why did I bother with 10.yrs of higher education and years of supervised clinical work...all I really needed to make a living was pretend to be someone helped by myself and ask you call so I can cast a spell....
Love your channel ❤️
WHAT A JOKE 🤣!! Every time I've ever set any kind of standards, guys bolt!!
Another awesome video 😎
Great. 😊
I gave him all of those things but he still pulled away
Perhaps you give to much
wooow that was so amazing video of you sir.,i appreciate you so much posting videos that we can used or apply in our daily life.. that was so heartwarming,keep on posting Good thougths for us thankyou very,Have a Great day and Godbless you always
You Are Amazing thank u
Whatapp him,,
Doesn't some if these techniques push men away?
Keep Silence..
Nerds and party animals can get along!
Problem is, women think they got a “good one” if the guy works for a google type company. Oh, he’s worthy of a great employer? He makes great money? I don’t need to do any sh- tests on you, because you qualified for that job?! No! Do the sh- tests on him! Just because the world thinks he’s hot stuff, doesn’t mean he’s not personality disordered! Watch out ladies!
You are absolutely correct. Wealth does not equal quality.❤️
My man & I make eye contact continually & especially during sex!
talking about treasure and dragon slaying when showing Rein of Fire eh?
you want to impress chick when you give her leek you need to sing Leven's Polka too
i hardly see a guy i want to approach and talk to and look at. and doubt they will stop for me. I'm not much of a looker what if someone has some kind of autism and dosen't like the eye contact?
Eye contact 🤣!! Men NEVER look at me when they talk!! I do all this shit, and they can't even remember to send me a simple text!!
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I make eye contact and they feel intimidated.🤷♀️
Exactly! This is bullshit😆!