The Art of Dating | Lesson 8 of Moms of Men | Lisa Bevere & Havilah Cunnington
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- Опубликовано: 13 июл 2024
- Havilah and I explain that dating is not a function of age, but maturity. We hope this lessons leaves you feeling empowered.
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Chapters:
0:00 - Lesson Teaser
0:21 - Setting Realistic Expectations
2:47 - The Truth of Dating Young
4:31 - The Cost-Benefit Analysis
6:27 - Bonding: Pre-Mature Chemical Releases
8:38 - Lisa’s Open House Policy
10:00 - Preparing Your Boys for Marriage
15:22 - Ask: “What Do You Mean by That?”
17:37 - You Can Make a Course Correction
18:06 - Your Action Steps
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Just randomly had this pop up on my feed. So I started watching the entirety of this and am currently watching this now. You know, I had never considered not letting my kids date. I have a 5 yo and a 2 yo. But to the point of dating creating drama, whooo that really made lots of my younger life make more sense. I am living proof of that. I struggled so much with over responsibility of people, wanting to be enticing, and it just continued as I grew up. I was a serial dater. Luckily God stepped in even as I was living like that, but as a kid I wonder if it would have been explained to me the value of waiting. The needed maturity, and the reason there is such a high value on marriage to God. I'm curious if my drama would have been cut in half.
Amen. Amen. Amen. We have decided that dating is unnecessary and we should wait to share ourselves intimately with someone, emotionally and mentally and spiritually. I need a church with like-minded parents like you both. 🙏
Absolutely!! That’s mama wisdom!!
I feel inspired to have come across this right now. Some people think we are too strict by not letting our children have a boy/girlfriend in high school. They can group date but not date one person exclusively. This gives me more points to have ongoing dialogs about this. I appreciate this validation that we are doing the right thing. Thank you!
I absolutely dislike when people don’t take action when little kids says they have a g/f or b/f. These are red lights. I have seen that these types of kids start dating really early and start having a disordered life and not even happy after their choice. I tell my girls since they were little “ no dating until you are grown up and understand life and are ready for marriage”
Amen to Course Correction!🙌
And to not dating as a social experiment, with no intention for marriage whatsoever.
Thank you for this conversation. It was very helpful.
Thank you ,Ladies!
Gooo mamas! Great advice!
Good stuff ❤❤
so good
Yes and amen!!
I married my 8th grade sweetheart...
Should I exclusively date a guy at 18? ... I've been friends with him the past 4 years, but he likes moving fast in relationships. I really appreciate your advice and insights, I wish I grew up with this type of parenting :)
Wont they hide things from when they know you're going thru their stuff? How do you navigate these
This is ok if they end up getting married young, like in their 20s. If they end up being single 30s onwards, they’d certainly question everything they’ve suppressed. I think teens naturally have a curiosity and it’s good to assert boundaries but no one size fits all when it comes to individuals & parenting.
🎶 "they have a demon". 🤐 🙃😆
This music is wild.
I totally disagree about the privacy point its not a generally a good idea to treat your children like criminals
I totally agree. I think they will lose trust when they know you’re going thru their stuff. Especially if they haven’t done anything. That is an issue.
So crazy how a 6 years old kid saying that they have a girlfriend or boyfriend.
Wolf and ship can be freind but what happen when wolf feel hungry😅 guys some stuff is different if we like or not
totally immersed? I dont understand
Boys really need men to guide them in this area of life. I can tell you women mean well but your approach and reasoning on why boys should be pure is coming from a feminine point of view. To truly motivate a boy to care about this stuff and take it seriously, he needs to be shown how living in a Christ like manner is beneficial to their life from a masculine point of view. Its not about not dating girls because he’s too much of a sissy to “lose their friendship”. Its because its going to distract them and holding them back from developing into a strong, powerful, capable man that can out-compete their fellow men who succumb to these inherent weaknesses.
Love this explanation ❤
I am sure her and her husband were on the same page and he was involved in navigating this as well.
Philippians 4:13 I can do all things through (Hallelujah) whatever situation she feeds me her word. ('I am instructed both to be full and to be hungry') carries the meaning of 'initiated into a secret'.
(Christ has given you a new name.
(Hallelujah) you will be ‘magnified’ in my body, whether by life or by death: whichever is necessary).
(Hallelujah) I pray not my will but your will be done.
Psalm 104:19 ESV
She made the moon to mark the seasons; the son knows its time for setting.
Havilah is 🚬 hot 🐴 🔥❤
This is good but it beats people up who are striving to make it . They present themselves so perfect that none of low class can reach there standard. Even going out in groups stuff happens too much to talk this pod cast beats the average normal parent trying with co dembation leaving the average christian with no hope the perfect beveres
I really encourage you to really listen to their hearts.. I know that just from listening to lots of their different podcasts they are humble people and sensitive to the Holy Spirit. If you are doing that I want to encourage you as well! And they would be the first ones to admit that they are not perfect. I hear you saying that you are striving, that is so good that you are not giving up. Praying that you continue to fight the good fight.
It can seem they’re perfect. For sure. I think it’s because they followed Godly principles early on. I didn’t do that with my kids. But what I can do is learn from this going forward and encourage others. But stress about my own failings? No way. God has my kids. All I need to do is look to Him. Pray for them and do my best according to His word. Don’t be afraid. Just do your best with what you have to work with right now and He will meet you (and your kids!) right where you all are. Blessings on you. Rest in Him.
Also it’s an instruction video. She is teaching young parents what to do. I think if we could talk to her one to one she would comfort and encourage you in Jesus not wag her finger at you! :)
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