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Her heart broke but even with the pieces, she forgave. That's so brave and wonderful of her. Please drive carefully to keep yourself and others safe. God bless.
@@meer1120 because everyone needs to have Faith. Is it better for the people who don't have any faith, any beliefs? If it totally helps for someone not have any religious beliefs, and their lives would be very happy, very positive with no negativity, sure! If it can HELP anyone get through this human trial easier, then so be it. To each their own.
I remember reading about the devastating accident and I remember her. All these years, I think about her from time to time, wondering if she is ok and wishing her well. I am glad to see her here and grateful to hear her laugh out loud. Thanks for producing this video. 🙏🏼
@@studytimelapseforyou - I didn’t witness it, but the accident was widely reported in the media and the pictures of the accident and her anguish stuck in my mind.
I lost my late brother a year after this incident. 6 years and the moment still feels so fresh. I still feel theres anger in my heart towards the driver that caused my brother’s life and watching this video, I held my heart and told myself to forgive him fully. Thank you for showing kindness and love. your late sons and my late brother would also want us to forgive , love and be kind endlessly.
sorry for your loss. Both you and Hui Ni have reminded me today that it's possible to forgive even the big things and im not alone in this situation. I told myself today that holding on to anger and sadness does nobody any good. Let it go and release the burden.
The spirit of God is within her to give her the immense strength and peace to forgive. A very strong lady and there is so much I can learn from her. Her love, authenticity and faith. May the Lord continue to comfort and protect her all the days of her life.
@@fromis.9 Many people have lost sight of the precious promises of God because of the tragedy and sorrow they see in the world all around them. They say, “If God is love, why does He permit such evil to plague His children?” In answer, we could draw one of three conclusions: either God doesn’t care; He doesn’t exist; or perhaps we have a misconception of His plans and purposes, and we have been attributing blame to the wrong source for all of the suffering. II Cor. 4:4 describes Satan as the “god of this world,” and it was his influence that contributed to man’s fall. By allowing the permission of evil, God is teaching mankind to hate the painful results of sin, and thus, to learn to love Him and His righteousness of their own free-will. God created man perfect and in essence gave him this choice: If you obey my righteous laws, you will live forever, but if you disobey, you will die. Adam failed this test of obedience, and since that time all of mankind has experienced the painful result- “The soul that sinneth, it shall die.” Notice, he did not say burn forever. (Ezek. 18:4) Because "God is love," He will not always permit Satan to reign with his evil ways. God’s plans include a merciful escape from suffering and death by providing a corresponding price for Adam’s sin, and, thus, for ALL of his descendents. “As in Adam ALL die, even so in Christ shall ALL be made alive.” (1Cor. 15:22) “For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Rom. 6:23)
@@meer1120 why not? To be honest I personally find Christianity to be logically sensible, how it can still align with science and the archaeology and history (as far as I know) supports Christian claims (such as the ones about Jesus, for example). So, why should I not be a Christian?
This made me cry. I remember this story. I was still living in Singapore when it happened. It was all over the news and so heartbreaking. This woman is so brave to be talking about what she/they went through. I can still see her pain, less intensely but still there. I was so moved when she started talking about forgiveness and her sons being in heaven. Her testimony is so powerful. God is your strength Auntie and He is watching over you. Sending much love and prayers from Norway.
Even as a stranger, i broke down a few times when the news were reported. I was angry with God...how can a good God allow this to happen. I vividly remember it was reported that Madam Hui Ni asked "you don't even leave 1 for me??" I still don't understand why...but seeing Mdm Hui Ni finding closure is a comfort to me
ca k don’t force your atheist views on others, they were respectful and didn’t stick their religion/faith in your face. Chill your ass and leave if you can’t even respect someone. Imagine if someone of faith told you to wake up from your atheist delusion it sucks doesn’t it. I hope you eat your words before saying or writing them down.
Everytime I think you guys can't do better with the Can ask meh series, you guys prove me wrong. Thank you for doing this OGS. Auntie Hui Ni is so incredibly strong. I am not a religious person, but I am very happy that her family found comfort in her religion. Smiling through tears as I watch this.
@@meer1120 why do u still believe in the big bang theory?( one of the most widely recognised scientific theories yet it remains a theory because of too many inconsistencies and lack of substantial evidence). Believing in a religion has various reasons and will vary depending on who u ask but the whole point of belief is the aspect of the unknown - this is why u believe instead of simply knowing.
Clearly the word "strong" is not suffice to describe her strength. This lady is unbreakable. She rised up to fight the demons. Look at her now. Her positive soul vibrates out loud! ❤️
I remember Donovan was one of my friends in primary school, we were in the same class. I can only remember vividly that we talked about something tgt and that when we(rest of us) heard the news frm our teacher, I cried. It's sad that I don't really have any clear memories of him anymore since it's been quite a long time and that I was only P2.
Grief never goes away, we just learn to live with the pain. As a person who has experienced deaths of loved ones, we never really get over it or forget, we just learn to live without them, but always remembering them in our hearts.
Oh my god. One child is already so painful. And she lost both in a go. Even though I don’t have children yet, death of a child is really my worst fear. 这位阿姨谢谢你无私的分享。这世界上也有很多人失去亲人，失去孩子。希望他们能看得到你说的话，得到释怀。
until now I still remember this story and I will still think about this story whenever I see a cement truck on the road. This woman and her family are really strong and I really thank her for taking the courage to talk about this
Firstly , what an incredible woman she is. She’s such an inspiration of strength , hope and most important , faith. She told the narrative bravely. Surely this will help others cope with their grief, and also open up their hearts to forgiveness. It’s a joy to hear her laugh. Much respect to her and her husband.
Matthew 18: 21-22: Then Peter came up and said to him, “Lord, how often will my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? As many as seven times?” Jesus said to him, “I do not say to you seven times, but seventy times seven." 💔🤍
She is such a strong woman :”) “a joyful heart is good medicine” i so agree! really looking forward to the meeting of the driver and the parents if the driver is open to it. I think it’ll really be such a good help to the driver as well ❤️
Such a heartbreaking story but such a strong mother. I can't believe the two boys were so young too, what a shame. They had their whole lives ahead of them.
Really hope Drivers, riders and cyclist, especially heavy vehicles out there, can learn something from this video, it’s not easy to come out to share her story of losing her two beloved children, if we continue to drive in a reckless behaviour, innocent lives will be lost due to your negligence, one or two seconds of checking blind spot everytime will not hurt you. I am a rider myself on the road, and no matter how clear the roads are, I never fail to check my blind spots. It’s time for a wake up call out there.
I didn't lose my only daughter to an accident, there was no medical intervention other from any doctors for over a year despite the fact she was going to both her GP & hosp for help. It wasn't until she paid for a specialist, an xray and the taxi because by then she couldn't drive her vehicle nor walk properly she was stage 4 cancer, we lived 7 hrs apart and my heart ached for her. And like Hui Ni [I love her name because my daughter's name is Hui-nga] I had to choose to forgive the doctors and GP, it was hard to forgive at first due to her being my only daughter and we were very close. But to lose two children, my head and heart can't comprehend that. You are amazing Hui Ni, God's blessings over you.❤️❤️❤️ From Aotearoa NZ
I have so much respect towards this woman, it must have been a difficult journey of recovery mentally and psychologically, but she's emerged stronger and I really admire her for that. Grief of losing a loved one really haunts people for the rest of their lives, but i'm so so comforted to see her being able to move on, and look at life with a positive light again. Her words are all so wise and i've really learnt a lot from this short video. Life is not always about bearing grudges and getting revenge, with a major part in recovery being forgiving and letting go, which this woman has done remarkable well. Once again, thank you for this meaningful video and the sharing! I will not forget this for a long time :)
My favorite part is her answer to "7:24 What have you gained from choosing forgiveness?". She totally livens up when she talks about how she embraces happiness and having an open heart. "A joyful heart is like good medicine!" ❤️
@Pretty Catmint seen US news where one young guy 20s murdered a WW2 veteran and get a death sentence, while a man murdered his whole family down to his youngest children and only got life sentence. I know law is the law, but the way how those people behind the court uphold the law really disgusts me sometimes.
Sorry for your loss.. But stayed strong.. God blessed you.. Everyone is facing losses of loves one everyday.. But we have to stayed strong and lives on the life fullest.
Wow, this woman is very very strong. And she has a heart of gold ❤️ I'm really amazed throughout the video while she was sharing, she didn't shed a tear. While I'm hear watching it crying so much. She is really amazing. I wish her all the best things in life and lots of love to her❤️❤️❤️
Ikr, can't believe that accident unfold in my eyes when I was only 9, honestly will forever be etched into my mind... ran home so fast... I still can't believe just the other day I saw a similar cement truck passing by the exact junction on my way home... If u are an adult pls help raise this matter too, I honestly thought that these roads no longer allowed for such vehicles to access...
I'm so sorry for your loss. It was very strong of you to forgive. I would have never been able to imagined what would my life be if i were you... i believe GOD has his own plans for you
Humans' empathy is an amazing quality. Seen in her ability to see things from the driver's perspective and out ability to imagine the pain of loss from such a tragedy. I will always be in awe by her strength and compassion and could only aspire to have these qualities at such amazing degrees too. One could wish that more of us today in modern society have an iota of such empathy.
This strength of hers.. its heartbreaking yet proud of her to not cry while interviewing. Not to say forgiving the driver for his mistake of killing her 2 sons. May you live your remaining life to the fullest, for your husband and the 2 angels up there too ❤
Nigel & Donovan is happy up there with God :) Auntie & Uncle Francis they will always be my bestfriend and will always be in my mind, glad to see you all doing fine now. Hope one day can catch up with you all☺️
Learnt an important lesson on forgiveness from this brave woman. The amount of pain this caused her is definitely unimaginable and kudos to her for being able to recount everything on camera. Amitabha, rip donavan and nigel
Wow thank you for sharing such a powerful testimony! Your decision to forgive is one which exemplifies what it meant to forgive as the Lord forgave you. It truly isnt easy to have came to this decision
So incredibly strong Aunty Hui Ni. Thank you for showing us your courage to choose forgiveness over resentment. May all blessings to you and your loved ones.
Every few weeks or months I'll rewatch this episode. Hui Ni's attitude, demeanour, and sharing of her faith and thought process is worth rewatching again and again... to remind myself how to face adversity, to forgive others, and to live for a higher purpose
My block is next to the road junction where this road accident happened. My mother saw the aftermath before the paramedics and ambulance came. The younger son is from my primary school. My deepest condolences to the family. Rest In Peace.
This hits me hard! I can honestly tell u how inspiring this woman truly is. She’s such a rare soul. I know God has taken away her sons,but she’s here to show millions of people what survivor is like. I want an ounce of her mind and I will not even ask for anything else. I hope she reads this; I may not know u, and I know parts of your story but u really have inspired me❤️
So much respect and admiration for this lady and her family. Thank you so much for sharing and God bless you. Thank you for teaching us such great values too.
I can't believe it's been 7 years 😱 I still remember the accident and the images of it spreading online ☹️ I can only imagine your loss Aunty, and your strength to forgive even on such a serious act is smth we should all learn from.
i learnt a lot from this aunty. i wonder if she read all comments because everyone also learn a lot from this aunty especially about forgiveness. aunty, i believe both of your sons went to better place and the most important thing is they must be proud to have such a humble and angelic mom like you. 💗 thank you for making this video! 💗
Her children are angel guardians of their mother and father. Great video. The gift of Life is so precious. We all do not know what will transpire with each day that we start, to have day end and be able to look forward to a tomorrow is like the 2nd chances that we get each opportunity to learn from today and make tomorrow better. Better for oneself, our loved ones, our neighbors and even foes.
HOLD UP the driver didn’t even apologise? Like aft all these years???? i mean it’s great she forgave him but shouldn’t he at least come visit the victim’s family and apologise for his negligence? wow
I feel like crying watching her explain but especially when she said she put children frames and got schizophrenic, she was able to forgive driver and she became free from Unforgiveness and better now she is joyful.I want to achieve forgivess with people around me coz d world and my parents can say i am a burden to them or bosses wud blame us for things not our fault and we feel miserable.I want to be quick to forgive like her and see The Importance of that.
Can never forget this accident, the photos of this strong mother kneeling down, crying her heart out in her red mcdonald top. This case is also a big wake up call to the government to look into the roads, sg has too many similar roads that can cause potential accidents...
I lived near where the incident happen and most of the time I had to cross the same road where it happened to get to the nearest MRT station, and every time I walked past there I always wonder how's the family doing right now..? Are they alright? Upon seeing this video today, I finally got my answer. May god bless their soul.
The accident happened in my neighbourhood, and I still think of the two boys whenever I pass by that road junction. My heart breaks for the parents and family who had to undergo this unimaginable grief. Thank you Hui Ni for sharing your story, my thoughts are with you.
I have listened to this a few times and it always makes me cry and feel empowered to forgive myself and people who hurt me. Thank you aunty. Your laughter is powerful
She's very brave and forgiving. I really don't know how describe her kindness. The world really need much more people like her, it would be wonderful. May God bless her.🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I attended the wake and i do think about them occassionally. My heart is still feeling for them. Yes, they will meet again in the name of Jesus Christ.
That is an amazing story. Forgiveness is never an easy thing. I think she had every right to be sad, angry, any have all the emotions she was going through. I can't imagine what it is like to lose children in such a tragic circumstance. Her pain i could feel. He search for answers is important to her. Her faith has really tested her. And there is nothing wrong if she can't forgive. There is nothing wrong having all this grief holding her down. But with the love of her family, her church, and other children gives her that little extra strength. She will be able to help others who are going through grief.
Seeing her reminds me of my father. He also forgive my brother's friend who killed my brother. He didn't even bring the case to the police. He said even though we imprisoned him, your brother will not back to life. That is the least thing we could do. He said if revenge is avenged with revenge, it will only stay in one circle, and there will be no end to that. If only i could as strong and bighearted as him.
im so glad that they know God. i feel that God is the biggest reason why they’re able to forgive this driver🙂 actions speaks louder than words and this family really portrays God’s character to the world thru their actions and hopefully others will be able to see God’s image as well!
@@fromis.9 i dont get why you’re spreading hates arnd people’s comments when they mention about God but ok you’re still loved by us :> whether u like it or not
@@warptrotter then i guess the people who blame people and forgot about God aint strong in their r/s with God. Not saying that i hv the strongest r/s w Him which is def not true, but i believe that this is the basis of being a christian when tough times come
Damn.. I was still super young when the accident happened but the moment the words cement truck appeared I could immediately recall the accident because of how horrifying it was and the later punishment on the driver which I felt was like a slap on the wrist. Thank you for sharing!
The investigation reveals that there are blind spots where the driver cannot see the two kids. The driver is not negligent and it is really an accident. People need to know about such heavy vehicles having blind spots and stay far away frkm it to keep safe.
i have 2 beloved cousins who drowned seconds before their mom (my aunt) and bystanders noticed and brought them to surface. it was a freak accident and im still in shock till today. My aunt is a very strong woman and was and still is, the pillar in her family. My uncle is going through severe depression but undergoing therapy. Their family (they have 3 other children) still mentions them as if they are still with us. I couldnt bring myself to step inside the church to see them then. Seeing this reminded me of them, and it really takes a lot away from a mother to go through with the death of her children. The sadness never goes away, but it just blends into life.
Really admire and I've learnt a lot from her, it's so heart warming to see that she is at peace with everything that she had to go through. Hope she will continue to live her life to the fullest!
I still remember this accident. They will always be in my thoughts and prayers. We cried, we do not know them yet the incident tug our hearts. We can't afford to imagine the pain the family going through ❤❤❤❤ Much love and thoughts from us whole family
I remember that news report of the accident. Was v tragic! this mother’s sharing moves me to tears so much. Thankful how she has overcome it and lived on to be a blessing. Tremendous encouragement to me!
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The strength this woman and her family has is incredible, her forgiveness takes so so so much strength. Thank you for sharing.
Yes, incredible. Amazing.
:)
Her heart broke but even with the pieces, she forgave. That's so brave and wonderful of her. Please drive carefully to keep yourself and others safe. God bless.
Why do you still believe in religion?
@@meer1120 because everyone needs to have Faith.
Is it better for the people who don't have any faith, any beliefs? If it totally helps for someone not have any religious beliefs, and their lives would be very happy, very positive with no negativity, sure!
If it can HELP anyone get through this human trial easier, then so be it.
To each their own.
What else can she do then?
I remember reading about the devastating accident and I remember her. All these years, I think about her from time to time, wondering if she is ok and wishing her well. I am glad to see her here and grateful to hear her laugh out loud. Thanks for producing this video. 🙏🏼
truck driver u?
You witnessed it?
Wait, he's the truck driver?
i remember this incident as well, time flies it's alrdy seven years...
@@studytimelapseforyou - I didn’t witness it, but the accident was widely reported in the media and the pictures of the accident and her anguish stuck in my mind.
Her loss was more than anyone could bear. I wish her and her family well and hope that she will continue to live life with strength and love.
I lost my late brother a year after this incident. 6 years and the moment still feels so fresh. I still feel theres anger in my heart towards the driver that caused my brother’s life and watching this video, I held my heart and told myself to forgive him fully. Thank you for showing kindness and love. your late sons and my late brother would also want us to forgive , love and be kind endlessly.
sorry for your loss. Both you and Hui Ni have reminded me today that it's possible to forgive even the big things and im not alone in this situation. I told myself today that holding on to anger and sadness does nobody any good. Let it go and release the burden.
This is amazing. Congrats to you, take care!
If one can avoid the pain of losing loved ones by not having any in the first place, then by all means it should be done.
Rest in peace Nigel and Donovan.
The spirit of God is within her to give her the immense strength and peace to forgive. A very strong lady and there is so much I can learn from her. Her love, authenticity and faith. May the Lord continue to comfort and protect her all the days of her life.
@@fromis.9 Many people have lost sight of the precious promises of God because of the tragedy and sorrow they see in the world all around them. They say, “If God is love, why does He permit such evil to plague His children?” In answer, we could draw one of three conclusions: either God doesn’t care; He doesn’t exist; or perhaps we have a misconception of His plans and purposes, and we have been attributing blame to the wrong source for all of the suffering. II Cor. 4:4 describes Satan as the “god of this world,” and it was his influence that contributed to man’s fall. By allowing the permission of evil, God is teaching mankind to hate the painful results of sin, and thus, to learn to love Him and His righteousness of their own free-will.
God created man perfect and in essence gave him this choice: If you obey my righteous laws, you will live forever, but if you disobey, you will die. Adam failed this test of obedience, and since that time all of mankind has experienced the painful result- “The soul that sinneth, it shall die.” Notice, he did not say burn forever. (Ezek. 18:4) Because "God is love," He will not always permit Satan to reign with his evil ways. God’s plans include a merciful escape from suffering and death by providing a corresponding price for Adam’s sin, and, thus, for ALL of his descendents. “As in Adam ALL die, even so in Christ shall ALL be made alive.” (1Cor. 15:22) “For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Rom. 6:23)
Why do you still believe in religion?
@@fromis.9
Why do you still believe in religion?
@@DanielSilva-bw9sk
Why do you still believe in religion?
@@meer1120 why not? To be honest I personally find Christianity to be logically sensible, how it can still align with science and the archaeology and history (as far as I know) supports Christian claims (such as the ones about Jesus, for example). So, why should I not be a Christian?
This accident happened down the road from my house and I saw the police cars and tents 💔
She’s really such a strong and brave woman ❤️
I live near Dunman sec also I went to give flowers at the incident place
That’s so nice of you! Sometimes when I pass by that area I get reminded of the incident again 😢
This made me cry. I remember this story. I was still living in Singapore when it happened. It was all over the news and so heartbreaking. This woman is so brave to be talking about what she/they went through. I can still see her pain, less intensely but still there. I was so moved when she started talking about forgiveness and her sons being in heaven. Her testimony is so powerful. God is your strength Auntie and He is watching over you. Sending much love and prayers from Norway.
Why do you still believe in religion?
Even as a stranger, i broke down a few times when the news were reported. I was angry with God...how can a good God allow this to happen. I vividly remember it was reported that Madam Hui Ni asked "you don't even leave 1 for me??" I still don't understand why...but seeing Mdm Hui Ni finding closure is a comfort to me
That's because God don't exist. And the earlier you realise this, the better off you'll be. Wake up from your delusion.
ca k don’t force your atheist views on others, they were respectful and didn’t stick their religion/faith in your face. Chill your ass and leave if you can’t even respect someone. Imagine if someone of faith told you to wake up from your atheist delusion it sucks doesn’t it. I hope you eat your words before saying or writing them down.
Everytime I think you guys can't do better with the Can ask meh series, you guys prove me wrong. Thank you for doing this OGS. Auntie Hui Ni is so incredibly strong. I am not a religious person, but I am very happy that her family found comfort in her religion. Smiling through tears as I watch this.
Thank you for your continued support! 💕
The friend who advised her is a REAL FRIEND. If that friend didn't intervent she would have lost this friend forever. God bless & peace to them
Why do you still believe in religion?
@@meer1120 why do u still believe in the big bang theory?( one of the most widely recognised scientific theories yet it remains a theory because of too many inconsistencies and lack of substantial evidence). Believing in a religion has various reasons and will vary depending on who u ask but the whole point of belief is the aspect of the unknown - this is why u believe instead of simply knowing.
Clearly the word "strong" is not suffice to describe her strength. This lady is unbreakable. She rised up to fight the demons. Look at her now. Her positive soul vibrates out loud! ❤️
Well said
I remember Donovan was one of my friends in primary school, we were in the same class. I can only remember vividly that we talked about something tgt and that when we(rest of us) heard the news frm our teacher, I cried. It's sad that I don't really have any clear memories of him anymore since it's been quite a long time and that I was only P2.
Grief never goes away, we just learn to live with the pain. As a person who has experienced deaths of loved ones, we never really get over it or forget, we just learn to live without them, but always remembering them in our hearts.
Oh my god. One child is already so painful. And she lost both in a go. Even though I don’t have children yet, death of a child is really my worst fear. 这位阿姨谢谢你无私的分享。这世界上也有很多人失去亲人，失去孩子。希望他们能看得到你说的话，得到释怀。
until now I still remember this story and I will still think about this story whenever I see a cement truck on the road. This woman and her family are really strong and I really thank her for taking the courage to talk about this
This brought me to tears. The extent of her forgiveness is unfathomable.
Such a merciful person.
Firstly , what an incredible woman she is. She’s such an inspiration of strength , hope and most important , faith.
She told the narrative bravely.
Surely this will help others cope with their grief, and also open up their hearts to forgiveness.
It’s a joy to hear her laugh.
Much respect to her and her husband.
Mr naim if you are watching this do apologise to the family personally
I think it will go a long way in giving them closure on this tragic incident
Matthew 18: 21-22: Then Peter came up and said to him, “Lord, how often will my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? As many as seven times?” Jesus said to him, “I do not say to you seven times, but seventy times seven." 💔🤍
The 70x7 expression is symbolic for infinity.
She is such a strong woman :”) “a joyful heart is good medicine” i so agree! really looking forward to the meeting of the driver and the parents if the driver is open to it. I think it’ll really be such a good help to the driver as well ❤️
This woman is so inspiring. I still remember i went to her sons' funeral n the pastor shared the testimony of her sons.
Such a heartbreaking story but such a strong mother. I can't believe the two boys were so young too, what a shame. They had their whole lives ahead of them.
if anyone watching this knows that driver, please show him this video. good for him to have closure too...
The driver is commenting the video
@@jofx4051 Are you the driver?
@@michelleng1650 No lol
truly a heart of gold, God bless her
Why do you still believe in religion?
Really hope Drivers, riders and cyclist, especially heavy vehicles out there, can learn something from this video, it’s not easy to come out to share her story of losing her two beloved children, if we continue to drive in a reckless behaviour, innocent lives will be lost due to your negligence, one or two seconds of checking blind spot everytime will not hurt you. I am a rider myself on the road, and no matter how clear the roads are, I never fail to check my blind spots. It’s time for a wake up call out there.
I didn't lose my only daughter to an accident, there was no medical intervention other from any doctors for over a year despite the fact she was going to both her GP & hosp for help. It wasn't until she paid for a specialist, an xray and the taxi because by then she couldn't drive her vehicle nor walk properly she was stage 4 cancer, we lived 7 hrs apart and my heart ached for her. And like Hui Ni [I love her name because my daughter's name is Hui-nga] I had to choose to forgive the doctors and GP, it was hard to forgive at first due to her being my only daughter and we were very close. But to lose two children, my head and heart can't comprehend that. You are amazing Hui Ni, God's blessings over you.❤️❤️❤️ From Aotearoa NZ
I have so much respect towards this woman, it must have been a difficult journey of recovery mentally and psychologically, but she's emerged stronger and I really admire her for that. Grief of losing a loved one really haunts people for the rest of their lives, but i'm so so comforted to see her being able to move on, and look at life with a positive light again. Her words are all so wise and i've really learnt a lot from this short video. Life is not always about bearing grudges and getting revenge, with a major part in recovery being forgiving and letting go, which this woman has done remarkable well. Once again, thank you for this meaningful video and the sharing! I will not forget this for a long time :)
My favorite part is her answer to "7:24 What have you gained from choosing forgiveness?". She totally livens up when she talks about how she embraces happiness and having an open heart. "A joyful heart is like good medicine!" ❤️
Just 2 weeks jail for the lives he took. The driver should at least apologise to the family. He is a father himself. I wouldn't be as magnanimous.
@Pretty Catmint seen US news where one young guy 20s murdered a WW2 veteran and get a death sentence, while a man murdered his whole family down to his youngest children and only got life sentence. I know law is the law, but the way how those people behind the court uphold the law really disgusts me sometimes.
What?! 2 weeks?? That is shocking!!!
@@aaronlimeuchin7352 Is the US guy who killed his whole family Chris Watt or what? That is pure evil.
Hui Ni, you are a living testament to God's grace and mercies. Thank you for your sharing. ❤️❤️
Why do you still believe in religion?
Sorry for your loss.. But stayed strong.. God blessed you.. Everyone is facing losses of loves one everyday.. But we have to stayed strong and lives on the life fullest.
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Wow, this woman is very very strong. And she has a heart of gold ❤️ I'm really amazed throughout the video while she was sharing, she didn't shed a tear. While I'm hear watching it crying so much. She is really amazing. I wish her all the best things in life and lots of love to her❤️❤️❤️
This accident happened at tampines nearby my house. It is v sad that learnt the loss of 2 young kids. May solidarity be with her.
Ikr, can't believe that accident unfold in my eyes when I was only 9, honestly will forever be etched into my mind... ran home so fast... I still can't believe just the other day I saw a similar cement truck passing by the exact junction on my way home... If u are an adult pls help raise this matter too, I honestly thought that these roads no longer allowed for such vehicles to access...
wow im really blessed by the words of this woman shes such a living testimony
I'm so sorry for your loss. It was very strong of you to forgive. I would have never been able to imagined what would my life be if i were you... i believe GOD has his own plans for you
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I cried, she is such a brave mother, thank you for sharing
Humans' empathy is an amazing quality. Seen in her ability to see things from the driver's perspective and out ability to imagine the pain of loss from such a tragedy. I will always be in awe by her strength and compassion and could only aspire to have these qualities at such amazing degrees too. One could wish that more of us today in modern society have an iota of such empathy.
I tear up when she talks about the forgiveness in the bible.
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This strength of hers.. its heartbreaking yet proud of her to not cry while interviewing. Not to say forgiving the driver for his mistake of killing her 2 sons. May you live your remaining life to the fullest, for your husband and the 2 angels up there too ❤
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I love her laughter, may she be filled with God’s grace everyday
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since I talked to her after the incident I really admire her and her strength.
Nigel & Donovan is happy up there with God :) Auntie & Uncle Francis they will always be my bestfriend and will always be in my mind, glad to see you all doing fine now. Hope one day can catch up with you all☺️
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Learnt an important lesson on forgiveness from this brave woman. The amount of pain this caused her is definitely unimaginable and kudos to her for being able to recount everything on camera. Amitabha, rip donavan and nigel
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@@meer1120 because it gave me answers
@@mav4958
What you got is not answers.
What you're getting is a fallacy.
@@meer1120 oh? is it a formal or informal fallacy?
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Both.
she's such a strong strength that could be able to leave her painfully sadness and still able forgiveness.
Good job to OGS who never fails to bring tears to my eyes! 😭 Keep up the good work ❤
She is amazing! So much strength in her! She is a living testimony of true forgiveness! Thank you for featuring her.
Wow thank you for sharing such a powerful testimony! Your decision to forgive is one which exemplifies what it meant to forgive as the Lord forgave you. It truly isnt easy to have came to this decision
She went through pain and is still able to forgive, she is very strong.
So incredibly strong Aunty Hui Ni. Thank you for showing us your courage to choose forgiveness over resentment. May all blessings to you and your loved ones.
She has spoken the geuine heart talk something i too am learning from her,though i know the grief last 4ever😪
Every few weeks or months I'll rewatch this episode. Hui Ni's attitude, demeanour, and sharing of her faith and thought process is worth rewatching again and again... to remind myself how to face adversity, to forgive others, and to live for a higher purpose
My block is next to the road junction where this road accident happened. My mother saw the aftermath before the paramedics and ambulance came. The younger son is from my primary school. My deepest condolences to the family. Rest In Peace.
This hits me hard! I can honestly tell u how inspiring this woman truly is. She’s such a rare soul. I know God has taken away her sons,but she’s here to show millions of people what survivor is like. I want an ounce of her mind and I will not even ask for anything else. I hope she reads this; I may not know u, and I know parts of your story but u really have inspired me❤️
Praisre the Lord!! I am take the lesson of forgiveness from this sister! Thank you for stepping forth to give this interview!!
Thank you for sharing Aunty Hui Ni's story, it really opened my eyes about "forgiveness"
Wowowowowow..! What a video..! As a mother, I can't help but to get all choked up and cry.. Such pain she and her family had to endure.
If one can avoid the pain of losing loved ones by not having any in the first place, then by all means it should be done.
So much respect and admiration for this lady and her family. Thank you so much for sharing and God bless you. Thank you for teaching us such great values too.
My tears won't stop and my throat closes up just listening to her story. I can't imagine her strength actually speaking about it.
She is so, so strong. I am so sorry for your loss.
I can't believe it's been 7 years 😱 I still remember the accident and the images of it spreading online ☹️ I can only imagine your loss Aunty, and your strength to forgive even on such a serious act is smth we should all learn from.
Wew can't imagine that
If one can avoid the pain of losing loved ones by not having any in the first place, then by all means it should be done.
Watching this really breaks me. Life is never fair. But we must make the best of it. This lady has amazing strength.
i learnt a lot from this aunty. i wonder if she read all comments because everyone also learn a lot from this aunty especially about forgiveness. aunty, i believe both of your sons went to better place and the most important thing is they must be proud to have such a humble and angelic mom like you. 💗 thank you for making this video! 💗
Her children are angel guardians of their mother and father.
Great video.
The gift of Life is so precious.
We all do not know what will transpire with each day that we start, to have day end and be able to look forward to a tomorrow is like the 2nd chances that we get each opportunity to learn from today and make tomorrow better.
Better for oneself, our loved ones, our neighbors and even foes.
HOLD UP the driver didn’t even apologise? Like aft all these years???? i mean it’s great she forgave him but shouldn’t he at least come visit the victim’s family and apologise for his negligence? wow
I feel like crying watching her explain but especially when she said she put children frames and got schizophrenic, she was able to forgive driver and she became free from Unforgiveness and better now she is joyful.I want to achieve forgivess with people around me coz d world and my parents can say i am a burden to them or bosses wud blame us for things not our fault and we feel miserable.I want to be quick to forgive like her and see The Importance of that.
Thank you for sharing the story. It's extremely painful to lost 2 love ones at once.. Glad you found peace and I don't think I will ever forget this.
The size of her heart shows when she still hopes that the driver is still able to live his life knowing that he is forgiven. Respect❤
Can never forget this accident, the photos of this strong mother kneeling down, crying her heart out in her red mcdonald top. This case is also a big wake up call to the government to look into the roads, sg has too many similar roads that can cause potential accidents...
If one can avoid the pain of losing loved ones by not having any in the first place, then by all means it should be done.
I lived near where the incident happen and most of the time I had to cross the same road where it happened to get to the nearest MRT station, and every time I walked past there I always wonder how's the family doing right now..? Are they alright? Upon seeing this video today, I finally got my answer. May god bless their soul.
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Such a good and beautiful reminder. Thank you. Your story would have taught and touched many others to live the same. Love your laughter
Why need her to repeat such dramatic event, hug ❤️ She is a brave mum
The accident happened in my neighbourhood, and I still think of the two boys whenever I pass by that road junction. My heart breaks for the parents and family who had to undergo this unimaginable grief. Thank you Hui Ni for sharing your story, my thoughts are with you.
If one can avoid the pain of losing loved ones by not having any in the first place, then by all means it should be done.
Immense respect for this mother...the strength she has...and her forgiveness...a big hug. Heartbreaking seeing those innocent faces in the end. :(
I just can’t stop crying. She is such a strong woman, mother and a wife. May God bless her and her family with love.
Thank you very much for sharing your heart touching story. I was really moved by your strength and Faith. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Her laughter is so infectious! 谢谢你那么勇敢的分享你的故事!
she's such a strong mother and i know she will be take good care of yourself and god will bless you ! stay safe and stay healthy you got this aunty :)
原谅别人不简单，但是您还往好的方向看着👍🏻
I have listened to this a few times and it always makes me cry and feel empowered to forgive myself and people who hurt me. Thank you aunty. Your laughter is powerful
She's very brave and forgiving. I really don't know how describe her kindness. The world really need much more people like her, it would be wonderful. May God bless her.🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I attended the wake and i do think about them occassionally. My heart is still feeling for them.
Yes, they will meet again in the name of Jesus Christ.
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Thank you for this video....very touching. God bless this lady and her family with His peace, love and joy❤🙏🙏🙏
I truly respect her. She has the strength of God and the heart of an angel.
That is an amazing story. Forgiveness is never an easy thing. I think she had every right to be sad, angry, any have all the emotions she was going through. I can't imagine what it is like to lose children in such a tragic circumstance. Her pain i could feel. He search for answers is important to her. Her faith has really tested her. And there is nothing wrong if she can't forgive. There is nothing wrong having all this grief holding her down. But with the love of her family, her church, and other children gives her that little extra strength. She will be able to help others who are going through grief.
Seeing her reminds me of my father. He also forgive my brother's friend who killed my brother. He didn't even bring the case to the police. He said even though we imprisoned him, your brother will not back to life. That is the least thing we could do. He said if revenge is avenged with revenge, it will only stay in one circle, and there will be no end to that.
If only i could as strong and bighearted as him.
im so glad that they know God. i feel that God is the biggest reason why they’re able to forgive this driver🙂 actions speaks louder than words and this family really portrays God’s character to the world thru their actions and hopefully others will be able to see God’s image as well!
@@fromis.9 uh huh then?
@@vonvoomz8163 imaginary friend that you only use for convenience, good things happen you thank god, shit happens you blame people and forgot your god
You could stop with the religion bullcrap, this woman lost both her sons and all your talking about is "god".
@@fromis.9 i dont get why you’re spreading hates arnd people’s comments when they mention about God but ok you’re still loved by us :> whether u like it or not
@@warptrotter then i guess the people who blame people and forgot about God aint strong in their r/s with God. Not saying that i hv the strongest r/s w Him which is def not true, but i believe that this is the basis of being a christian when tough times come
Damn.. I was still super young when the accident happened but the moment the words cement truck appeared I could immediately recall the accident because of how horrifying it was and the later punishment on the driver which I felt was like a slap on the wrist. Thank you for sharing!
The investigation reveals that there are blind spots where the driver cannot see the two kids. The driver is not negligent and it is really an accident. People need to know about such heavy vehicles having blind spots and stay far away frkm it to keep safe.
i have 2 beloved cousins who drowned seconds before their mom (my aunt) and bystanders noticed and brought them to surface. it was a freak accident and im still in shock till today. My aunt is a very strong woman and was and still is, the pillar in her family. My uncle is going through severe depression but undergoing therapy. Their family (they have 3 other children) still mentions them as if they are still with us. I couldnt bring myself to step inside the church to see them then. Seeing this reminded me of them, and it really takes a lot away from a mother to go through with the death of her children. The sadness never goes away, but it just blends into life.
If one can avoid the pain of losing loved ones by not having any in the first place, then by all means it should be done.
Really admire and I've learnt a lot from her, it's so heart warming to see that she is at peace with everything that she had to go through. Hope she will continue to live her life to the fullest!
I believe this is what strength, courage and wisdom looks and sounds like. Thanks a lot for sharing this.
I remember reading about this story 4 years ago and it really made me tear up…thank you for sharing your story god bless you and your family
I still remember this accident. They will always be in my thoughts and prayers. We cried, we do not know them yet the incident tug our hearts. We can't afford to imagine the pain the family going through
❤❤❤❤ Much love and thoughts from us whole family
Very painful to hear this,, such a wonderful heart she has , .She can laugh out loud in her pain!!Forgiveness for this heavy loss is not that easy.
I remember that news report of the accident. Was v tragic! this mother’s sharing moves me to tears so much. Thankful how she has overcome it and lived on to be a blessing. Tremendous encouragement to me!
If one can avoid the pain of losing loved ones by not having any in the first place, then by all means it should be done.
Beautiful and heartbreaking story. I pray that Jesus gives this woman the answer she’s looking for.
慧妮，谢谢你鼓起勇气分享这段经历。看到你逐渐放下过去，现已豁达乐观，真的令人感动万分。
She is a person with very high EMPATHY. She puts everyone above her. We hope the best for her.