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What if he was consistent for 2months And now he’s slowly pulling away… (i.e.- doesn’t check in everyday now but every other day, replies are more self centred and doesnt call at the time he specified he will) I clearly told him I need him to be consistent or atleast not say he will do things only to disappoint me by not following through. Despite peacefully mentioning it once. He was inconsistent yet again. Should I give him another chance? Where does one draw the line? How to cut him off?
Why give him any more chances? The outcome and behaviour will most likely be the same if he hasn't compromised. Someone that really cares for you will listen and compromise in a healthy way. How to cut him off? "I'm no longer available to continue to date you, goodbye."
@@LoveByDesignI'm in a similar situation, however it is so hard to cut him off when you have feelings for him. That is why it is an on/off with us for 2 months already. Why do I even have feelings for someone who is emotionally unavailable and can't love me in a way I need it?!
The points you mention in the beginning doesn't fit with me. I know how to say no, I know how to set boundaries, I know how to leave BUT I have problems to hold boundaries, give way too many chances when they promise to become better and spend weeks/months with a toxic partner that didn't change of course and I suffer before I finally can cut him off.
Keeping and reinforcing boundaries is still a boundary setting problem. You need to set an internal emotional boundary with yourself as to when enough is enough, and walk away.
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What if he was consistent for 2months
And now he’s slowly pulling away…
(i.e.- doesn’t check in everyday now but every other day, replies are more self centred and doesnt call at the time he specified he will)
I clearly told him I need him to be consistent or atleast not say he will do things only to disappoint me by not following through.
Despite peacefully mentioning it once. He was inconsistent yet again.
Should I give him another chance? Where does one draw the line?
How to cut him off?
Why give him any more chances? The outcome and behaviour will most likely be the same if he hasn't compromised. Someone that really cares for you will listen and compromise in a healthy way. How to cut him off? "I'm no longer available to continue to date you, goodbye."
@@LoveByDesignI'm in a similar situation, however it is so hard to cut him off when you have feelings for him. That is why it is an on/off with us for 2 months already. Why do I even have feelings for someone who is emotionally unavailable and can't love me in a way I need it?!
The points you mention in the beginning doesn't fit with me. I know how to say no, I know how to set boundaries, I know how to leave BUT I have problems to hold boundaries, give way too many chances when they promise to become better and spend weeks/months with a toxic partner that didn't change of course and I suffer before I finally can cut him off.
Keeping and reinforcing boundaries is still a boundary setting problem. You need to set an internal emotional boundary with yourself as to when enough is enough, and walk away.