Work on yourself. You'll become happier and eventually forget the ex and find someone better. As hard as it is, I've done it a few times now. It sucks but it is what it is. You will be okay and will one day look back and wonder what you even saw in that person. Trust the power of time
You said you forgot ex and found someone better and you done that couple times. Well the thing is did you really find someone better if you had to forget about the person that came after your ex???? If that person was better then why did things end with them??
@@xchino0427 lol fair enough, not everything works out, but I have found that from person to person I have had better experiences than the last, but still on the look out for the best one.
No contact works!!! And focusing on me worked and me being me works as well keep doing you kings and queens they come back and will your choice if you want them back
Don't waste your time focusing on your ex, don't get them to want you.. don't play games if I get my shit together maybe they will want me, do look after yourself, do grieve through the pain of it. time will heal as much as it will suck. that person is not meant to be in your life, the rejection was redirection. gain comfort in knowing that in time you will regonise that this was a blessing. you had lessons to learn, to know your worth, to feel good enough for yourself. take some time out, do date other people, you will be surprised that you will get that feeling again.
Thanks you for this clear thoughts! If you are in a situation like that or I am with a soul connection it is very painful to let that go . Pure love when we were together while nothing happens because I was not divorced yet and I am still living in a small room on the attic In the house of his friend. So that's why we hit the break all the time . We were so in love . Storend from the love hormones .. But daring other women because he is "single" and safer to have sex with. Then with me .I thought. I was terrified of losing him. And now he is telling that we didn't share the same things anymore. I am really greaving and feel fysical pain. I lost 6 kg in total . But stress or a low fibrational feeling doesn't help to get some weight . Thanks you for your message! We learn From eachother. Love Diana Holland
@@dianarossel7315 i just saw this diana, im sorry that your going through that, thank you do sharing . I know for myself being honest with myself is the hardest part , even no im dating someone , it may be long tearm or short , but for once i have my boundaries , im not afraid to walk away , and i realize my happiness will not come from the relationship , but the relationship i have with myself, which has not been so good in the past. Understanding my attachment style has been helpful, identify core beliefs , schemas. You will get through this difficult time , a friend once told me your putting all this love into this person when you really need to give it to yourself , a little girl that didn't feel like she was good enough, needs to be listened to and know that she's safe with you. Its her that's screaming out for you to listen to her. Trust yourself. I have no doubt your a beautiful women who may not know just how enough you really are , and some beautiful soul is seeking someone like you. The real you Xxx
Why re-attract an ex? They're an ex for a REASON. Please don't reach out to someone that discarded you so carelessly. It's not your fault that they're selfish & inconsiderate of you if you were their partner. I've found that I don't need that toxic piece of trash in my life again. That is what no contact is for. You reconsider whose more important. It's either them, or its you & always choose your SELF. Let them continue to blunder around in their own nonsense. Don't take them back, you're getting back the same piece of trash if you do.
I was the one that discarded, and I had a right to do so. It did not diminish my love for him until he ignored me for over six months after I pleaded for him to forgive me for hanging up on him. He was the one that caused me to walk away. It is not always the dumper's fault, and if you loved the person, you would not resort to calling them names. You have to look at yourself also.
@@tranquilitywithdd I don't know your situation. But to me, you're also taking it personally. This post isn't even about you. Feelings can change over time. As for me, being discarded for someone else & being completely LIED to about it, would make anyone resentful of that person. So no, I don't think I should have to look inward at all on that one.
@@rubio9478 Oh so now you're attacking me, and no I did not take it personally. I was trying to give you sage advice. I am starting to understand why she left you for someone else. I made a comment, and you decide to come for me. That is not what these vids are meant to do. Stay in your hurt, pain and resentment babes. I am good over here and was trying to help you. As much as I hated the person who I decided was not for me, I learned many lessons, and speaking poorly about an ex is one thing you should never do, because that was the person you chose to love. You are essentially talking bad about yourself. Blessings!
@@tranquilitywithdd "oh so now you're attacking me" no dumb, dumb. You obviously didn't read my previous post. And now, I can see that you're toxic too. Thanks for nothing.
Please Lord, don’t send any of those ungrateful, manipulative, headache causing narcissists back into my life. Let them find someone else to torment and make miserable, or remain alone until they get their acts together enough to be happy with someone else. Either way, please do not send them back to me. Thank you Lord. In Yeshua’s name. Amen 🙏🏾.
When you chase they will run and this means you don't value yourself know your worth & don't settle for someone who doesn't want to be with you. Move on there will be someone who loves you for you. Beautiful Love awaits you. Keep Pushing..
When I dumb and naive, I was very apologetic and expressing how I missed him. And he ignored me. The moment I stopped and was catching flights, here he comes. I don’t want it no more. I never did, I just didn’t like the feeling of being rejected
I am right there with you. I hate the feeling of being rejected too. I should have ended it long before he ever did. I then took a step further and sabotaged to the point where he completely blocked any form of contact with me. Hard truths that I had to learn.
I’m going through a similar situation. I was very apologetic and she recently blocked me. I don’t expect her to message me back ever again and if she asks if we can be friends again I’m going to say no.
It's common for relationships to encounter obstacles, but there is always a solution. My own marriage faced considerable issues, but with appropriate guidance, my husband and I worked through them and deepened our connection. Solutions are achievable if you're ready to work together. Stay hopeful-there's always a way forward.
I'm facing significant relationship problems and can't stand the idea of losing him. My love and longing for my partner are profound, and I'm ready to do anything to restore our connection. I would greatly appreciate any advice or help you could give.
Parting with someone you love is always a challenging process, but in my experience, I had the guidance of a spiritual guide who prevented my marriage from collapsing. His name is Father Akunna.
I just searched for Father Akunna online indeed he is a very generous man and the most powerful spell caster that I have ever seen he brought my husband back to me with so much love ❤
Facts !!! You have to move on by accepting that you weren't thriving enough in your own right as a man for her to lose attraction towards you (irrespective of her being in your life or not). Women are only a byproduct of us being the best versions of ourselves. As crazy as it might sound and it may be hard to hear but she more than likely did you a favor in leaving you so you can self improve "FOR YOURSELF". Women rarely want to leave a leader/winner in life. Once you move on and self improve to your highest sense of self, you should be mentally healthy and strong enough to be able to have a clear and concise conversation with her to forgive her for the heartbreak and thanking her for helping you grow and not accepting mediocrity. That mentality helped me till this very day to where I have no malice in my heart towards none of my exes and I appreciate them for the pain they've caused, for it was a necessary evil for my own growth and development. Remember that love isn't about "possession" but it's about "appreciation". #GrownMan #MatureTypeIsh
I completely agree with what you said. But I do want to ask this because you seem knowledgeable and I know I wouldn’t have grown as much as I have if we would’ve stayed together but now that I have grown, is it possible that we could really make it work? Let me explain My ex wife and mother of our two young children (ages 4 and 7) divorced me 2 1/2 years ago now. At the time she had been putting up with the alcohol problem I had for a few years. I was getting worse with my drinking and she kinda would drink with me. But over time she started to get pushed away because I wasn’t taking care of my responsibilities as a father and husband. Work,bills etc. we began arguing a lot the past 6 months to a year we were together. To the point of me telling her I didn’t care if we were even married anymore. So she began leaving to go stay with her mother (who was also “going through a divorce”) the first few weeks when she would leaving for a few nights a week. I didn’t care and would just drink it all away. Till one day I realized she had all her things finally moved to her mother house and she wasn’t coming to stay anymore. I finally decided to get help and checked myself into residential treatment to get rid of my drinking addiction. As I was away in rehab she got a bf and was with him for about 9 months. During this time I had been in treatment still then transferred to recovery housing and remained sober. Well one day she told me she broke up with the guy and I couldn’t help but think we could actually work out our relationship now that I’m sober and we had time apart. But two weeks after she broke up with the guy she was with a new man and within 4 months she was living with him and pregnant. She been with this guy for a year now. Living together and have a child. This guy is 10 years older than her and didn’t have children until he got with her. He had never really been in a serious relationship either until he got with her. My question is. With everything in me I feel she’s not happy with him and now she realizes I really am done with my drinking and being irresponsible and became the man that she always wanted me to be. We get along great and co parent very well but her new guy doesn’t like her talking to me. My kids tell me and I can tell he doesn’t want her alone with me at all whatsoever. To the point where when she’s with him she blocks my number then unblocks it when she has a random question to ask me. My question is what are the chances of them two not working out and us reconciling and giving it one more shot? I’ve been sober almost two years now and not a day goes by I don’t think about her and how I’m still so inlove with her. What are my chances? sorry it was so long of a read but I wanted to explain my story and why I still feel this way
@@devonbelill8075 My true and brutally honest advice is to let it/her go and pay your new self forward to another woman who can appreciate you as a sober man because your ex already seen weakness in you and that stain will always be in her brain of your former self. Once she's witnessed you in that weak form, it will be hard for her to unsee it. Thank her for inspiring you to get yourself together, but I wouldn't be concerned with ever going back cause I doubt if she'll ever fully respect you like you'll need her to. Respect is greater than love as it relates to women viewing her man and I'm afraid that she's too far gone, Sir (imho). Turn a new chapter newer, younger, better, more appreciative woman in your life. You deserve it and owe it to yourself, bro 🤜🏾🤛🏾.
Gone through a lot of shit, having my Ex stay with me for 2 years yes we fight sometimes and argue but the truth was I love her. she left me to visit her sister and a man showed up to married her, this man is her boss where she works and she gave the man a chance like within 3 days after she left to visit her sister, and start sleeping at the mans place. She told me it's over between us I did the begging like everyone knew I was going through a lot and some tried helping me out but she still denies me it's been a month 2 weeks I still hate the fact that I wake up the same room and she's not with me. so I wrote her yesterday telling her am truly sorry we ever came to this please I want her back but hell no she blocked me and I am just confuse my sister who use to be her best person called her she rejected the calls,, I go to school sometimes just looking at places I am fill with tears try dating another girls but I don't fine interest in them got lot of girls number in my phone but at the end of the day I don't text them or try something new with them ... what can I do to get my head above the waters
This is correct. Theres a lot of physcology behind this. After a while, we inevitably remember our ex’s and generally the good times are a bigger and better memory than the bad. By constantly contacting and being desperate what you essentially do is make the break up drama bad times bigger than they otherwise would be. Where as we mostly block that out and focus on the first dates and the sweet things you did instead we remember you harrassing us at our jobs or bothering our friends. So when we do think of you again it’s less likely we will want to come back. On the same token if we do start to think of you and take an interest or you happen to reach out a while later, we don’t want to see a weepy broken desperate person who wasted a year of his life, that’s not attractive. But if we find someone who is positive, who moved on, looked after themselves.. well then suddenly the FOMO kicks in and the roles are reversed, we are the intrigued ones, we are the ones who want to connect with you again. The best way to get back with your ex is to kill that relationship entirely, move on from it and build a new one. But the sad truth is once you’ve moved on from it, truly, and are in the place you need to be for it to work again, usually it won’t be what you want or need.
If someone sees you less than you see them , cut your your losses and reciprocate their thoughts and expressions. I think if your ex could not help themselves to invite someone else’s game in the spotlight & interacts sexual with them, then respect your own emotions & values to never go back!Love is a noun expressed through verbs!
Wow girl I can relate heart broken as well felt empty and depressed 5 months no contact and like u said I went back to college workout and getting cosmetic surgery in may I just focus on me and keep it on no contact if he ever text I’m not responding don’t want to repeat that pattern again on god all these beautiful men and women out here 👋 best of luck to u guys
This is why when my bf told me yesterday he's breaking up with me, I didn't feel a huge amount of sadness. I felt an overwhelming love, commitment, and I saw deep in his eyes the love was still there because he could never give a straight answer to my questions. Only thing I said is "improve yourself, and I'll be waiting when you do, come whatever may. One step at a time." He then said the hope i had in my eyes was hurting him, because he feels at the time he can't give that back. But from all we been though, I know one day we'll find each other again
Understand (like he mentioned) time to work on yourself = time. Time also = your ex messing with other people. This = you being the 2nd option if they ever were to come back. Something to ask yourself, did you give 100%? Did you never stop trying, even when you had them? Did you stop taking them out on dates? Relationships are not 50/50. Need to bring 100% everyday, and never get complacent. If they gave up on you if you did these things, why would you want them back? Big reason is because of the loss. Loss of something we're attached to, with the combination of sudden change in routine, is one of the hardest things us as people can go through. Things to think about
Same man. Went from “being the one” to having her sleep with another dude in 3 weeks. I fuckdd up bad. Didn’t treat her well. Was dealing with my own insecurities and used her as a backboard for my emotions. Never gave her the attention she deserved or the love she so truly craved. Told me in December she didn’t want to do this anymore and I didn’t fight. We texted eachother pretty consistently up until March. I told her I loved her and it seemed like we wanted different things. She said things to me that made me feel like I had a chance but just to find out she was sleeping and seeing a guy the whole time. Never thought she’d act like this and I’m hoping it’s a distraction. Hoping she’s just using him for the attention and support but I want to give it to her so bad. Called her apologized. Took accountability. She wasn’t receptive to it. Basically told me glad you learned this and can give it to the next girl. I’m devastated. I miss her and love her so much and I fear deep down she will not come back
I’ve gotten to the point where I don’t even want to date/ be in a relationship anymore. It’s time consuming and energy draining and people now change their mind from one hour to the next. It’s exhausting.
After a break up you shouldn’t even want your ex back ! Especially if they moved on to someone else ! It hurts I know but I promise you , you will be okay & there is someone better for you !!
The best medication for any guy was cheated on, dumped, left for some other guy, is to get in the gym and start bodybuilding. Eat a healthy balanced high protein diet, clank the weights, train hard, save money, stay well groomed, surround yourself with positive people in the gym, listen to motivational speakers, learn more about lifting routines, and powerful supplements etc. Get busy talking to other women you meet in public, get numbers, set dates, stay busy, let women chase you, and make your new life as positive as humanly possible. Don’t break the no contact rule at all, and stay off the radar from your ex. If you have to take a break from social media and get away from any reminders about her, make sure to do it. Avoid places she might be at, and avoid places you frequented together during the relationship. Stay on your grind, and keep moving on. If she contacts you months down the road, it’s up to you how you respond. I personally wouldn’t take her back after any kind of cheating situation or rebound. If it was just a case of you two taking time apart and that was all it was, then you could consider rekindling things. Other than that, I would just continue building a new life without that person in it. Cheaters should never be given a second chance because that’s the ultimate betrayal to any good guy out there.
If they don't wanna leave let them walk ! Your destiny wasn't connected to them ! It depends on your mindset how Strong it is too , and start the self improvement ( Gym , Finances , Etc etc )
I think my problem is the opposite, I'm deserving of better than her and yet I still hope and want and believe it can work for many reasons (we have kids together, we'd been together for 13 years, we still live together, etc.). I know I deserve better and I want and need to move on. The self work I've been doing is good for me and the changes I've made in myself are good for me and will be good for whomever. I've got to be about my changes and self work. Stop making anyone a priority that treats me like an option.
Have a serious talk with her before you make your move...If that don't work then move on. Then this will set the tone for her to miss what she had and appreciate it. U only miss something when you no longer have it within your grasp! 💯
@@mr.dreamzzz5242 I missed mentioning the part that she already said it was over between us a while ago and has been seeing someone else while we still live together. We've been in separate rooms for a while now. There's more to it than I feel like talking about and reliving over and over torturing myself which is why I need to really learn how to move on and let go. Just dealing with a lot of fear of what the future will be with custody/housing/finances/etc.
@@RobertRiggin Damn that's messed up bro! Disrespectful! I don't know ur whole situation but I'm getting the vibe ur the bread winner in the house hold. First thing I would do is start planning in your head how do u wanna move on then hire a LAWYER! We playing CHESS NOW BRO! ✊️ Are U ready?? Cause if you paying ALL or MOST of the bills I kinda know what's she's doing! If this is the case it might work in ur favor and she ended the relationship! Take notes 📋 of everything that goes on or happened, keep track of bills you pay expenses, get the kids on YOUR insurance from work, if you haven't do so! If u have family members that will help u with the kids GET IT IN WRITING (Like grandparents, aunt's, uncles, cousins..ect..) Ask your lawyer for things to do and not do! The Judge will go for BEST outcome for your kids. Those things I mentioned ABOVE will help you on that part! So much to talk about brother! It's a start! I'm with you bro! 💯 ✊️
True! I was good to him. But he wronged me & left me. And it's been 4.5 years since he left. 💔 He never came back. 🤷🏻♀️ And after these years, I checked what he is doing in his life now. I got to know that he got a new loyal & loving gf 👩🏻🦰, & he is living his life happily.
Thank u so much my king. My ex told me I will never see her or here from her again and I felt powerless. Ur video made me feel like I can except myself and look forward to her seeing me in a new light. Thank u so much.
The problem isn't if they'll come back. The problem is when. What's the point in returning ten years later, with two children and even more emotional baggage?
Thank you Coach black, it's been 3 months for me. I doubt I need my ex back. I deserve better-- no contact helped me a lot. I came to realize that I don't need someone else to be happy.
I'm going no contact with the narc forever. He isn't worth my time or energy. I'm too good for him. If he ever calls me again I will hang the phone up straight away. I'm on my path of healing and living my best life
This video and most/all your comments is therapy to read. I appreciate each and everyone of you expressing how you feel and giving past experience and advice. This is what the internet should be about- all United helping each other!
After a day or two just take ur time n send him a text wishing him/her well .Love shouldn’t be force .then cry ur eyes out ,lift urself up n find ur peace by moving on .
I know he’s coming back cuz they always do, plus on top of that is because we never cut any type of contact or ever been toxic ever. We’ve been healthy and only been healthy, we took this time to change and grow as people. Next time we see each other we’ll be completely improved versions of ourselves 🥰❤️ it’s hard asf going no contact and not feeling the safety and security this one person has always provided you, it’s just really painful.
Yeah, makes no sense. Everything’s perfectly fine but we’re going no contact? Not trying to sound insulting, but I think you’re in denial. It sounds like you created somewhat of a false version of this person you’re talking about in your head.
I went no contact and worked on myself. I am proud of my transformation. In fact, would I rather have the new me.....or my ex back? Man, its not even close. Powerful video Sir. Consider me a new subscriber. CP
nice advice, yea accepting it and improving takes time, but the biggest problem happens right now. How to deal with all the nervousness, stress, anxiety and stuff. When it happened to me, I couldnt eat, sleep, nothing. Now i can say im in shape again, with my stuff going on, improving myself etc, but the anxiety still haunts me. Hard to find a cure for that
Even though I do think about and miss my ex. I think it's better if they never came back. They'll just walk out on me again 🤷♂️, and I don't deserve that.
I ran away cause I was scared, had to do with my own trauma, and thinking I didn't deserve happiness, I miss him, wasn't his fault. Anyway, I deserve happiness, so do you.
Pain is a lesson. A very hard lesson. I found power in someone mistreating me, because I was allowed to decline the offer to change for them and society, or keep being me. I like me. I LOVE ME! It reinstalled my strength of actually being strong and not giving in to them. I was the victim tho, not the abuser. God help you if you are the victim going back for more abuse.
One thing I’ve learned about relationships is, there is no direct way as to how they will really end. What is yours will always come back if you’re willing to change for it. I’ve also learned that anger does not equate to a person not loving you. Them telling you they don’t want you anymore, it all depends on what the problem may have been. So if you were in the wrong, fight for your relationship and if they made up their mind already.. it’s okay to start your healing journey Love is not easy, love doesn’t have rules, love is not something we can assume on, love happens especially when two people are in love. It happens in whichever manner it has to. With that said, pray for your relationships, reconciliations, clarity, strength and mental health
You are so amazing 🤩, helping others cope with heartaches ❤. This is a serious topic as human beings we face. The tough truth is you first have to fall in love with yourself! I assure you they will comeback fast. When we improve our quality of love for ourselves, eventually we outgrow the ex. New improved beginnings (new love) show up❤❤❤ love yourself no matter what
The hardest thing to learn is that your ex will probably never come back, and you will not be fully recovered until you've accepted that. In fact, you should strive to get to the point where you no longer want them back. It's the only way. I'm going through the pain of a very recent breakup right now and, as hard as it is, I know I must let go and stop wanting my ex back. I sadly still want her back, but deep down I know she's gone forever and I will not be fully healed until I accept reality the way it is, not the way I wished it was.
I just got through it. I finally got to that point mentally that she isn’t coming back. The true test is coming this week. If no contact at all this week then I truly know it is a rap.
I think I'm the shit and keep it moving. No matter how hard and no matter how much it hurts. Moral of the story is to teach them a lesson when they do you dirty!
I so needed to watch this. I definitely sabotaged it. He said he wanted to remain friends and I pushed it too far and now he has blocked me. I am now examining where I was wrong and what I need to improve on. I also realize that he lied to me in many ways. So do I want a liar to come back into my life? No way!
They always come back 😂 😂😂😂 it’s like a bad joke people , don’t ever think they aren’t coming back cause they do every time !!! 😅 😂 move on and be glad someone left you and did you a favor to find someone else! Let their true colors show!
Truth is very healthy, thank you, I actually need to be healthy enough to not want that abuse back but to strive for healthy whatever that may mean… amen
True. My soul is crushed for over a year now, he blocked me on all platforms. We were childhood friends for 38 years and dated in 2021 for 8 months. He played me. Yet I still love him unconditionally.
Honey I can see where you're coming from with all of this is powerful to those still going through it! look for people like me you leaving is a testament to not have an opportunity to come back!! I be the one that got away the honor of that sentiment in Trophy in his heart❤❤ simply put when you love someone don't fuck them over!!!! in love what's with all the games anyway! To be or not to be that is my Shakespeare
New subscriber I like what you said about moving on. We as energy beings need to love ourselves first in order to lover others. I love my self enough to live a full abundant imaginative life that will harden into facts.
You’re so right because how can somebody like some thing that is the same old same old it’s like if you eat the same food every day you’re eventually gonna get sick of it you’re gonna want a new flavor
I deserved my ex. I had no idea he was going to ghost me. As a 35 yr old woman ive been divorced 12 yrs now. No successful relationships in my life. Im 5 years from 40. I want a partner. Its my time to settle with a man. He wanted me and i wanted him...then he ghosted me. Stood me up for 2 different occasions and one was my birthday. Im deserving of love. I believe i have tons of love and loyalty to offer but this cruel treatment is killing me. I just want him to come back and be with me. I accept him for him and want him. I dont need him for anything other than my emotional support amd partner. Im not asking for the impossible 😢
I Love 💕 this comment! Exactly he definitely didn’t care about my feelings. I would go out of my way to text just to get a half or no reply a week later, then I the run around on why he didn’t text just to find out he’s miraculously with another girl at work . And when I expressed myself to him on why I was stringed along that’s when he got nasty with me and called me crazy, then apologized. I ignored that text and haven’t heard or talked to him sense.
Hey man, I found you today and I love your channel. I love how you explain things in terms that make you feel strong, but also make you feel better at the same time. I'm 7 months into my break up, it's been hard. I've found very SPECIFIC coaches I listen to, and honestly rn if I opened my messaging app I got 3-4 girls in view. I'm not trying to have a big head, but it does feel good and I appreciate you spending your time helping other men.
Thank you thank you all those things you mentioned sadly i did all those thing calling,begging. Trying my hardest to show her i was worth it i have 2 kids with her i dint want my family to split up but no matter what i did no matter whatvi said it was always a problem a fight not enjoying the moment sadly its true you have to face the breal up thanks foe those healing words
I appreciate what your saying bro, a very fair point. But, she may very very likely still not want me/you back as a person at all. My ex told me I was the best boyfriend she ever had, she wanted to marry & have family with me. I added value to her life made her happy in every way possible. I did not cheat nor where there any girls involved. But I just know that she won't give a second chance to me or relationship. She goes left or right. Green or red light. No middle ground, she deeply broke my heart. Even though am getting on with my life now & showering that. Lol she hasn't been blocked & still watches social am convinced she ain't gonna return.
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This is stupid
How imma get her back and she’s in a whole new relationship
Never let someone tell you more than ONCE that they don't want you!!!!
Exactly but not profitable for dating coaches for people to give up on exes than they have nothing to sell
@gabrielforss7530 I hope no one is paying attention to this rubbish.
Yes...happened to me. 3 years now
Well said
Must admit I love this. I've spent many months hoping they would come back, but seriously? Why would I want someone who doesn't value me?
Work on yourself. You'll become happier and eventually forget the ex and find someone better. As hard as it is, I've done it a few times now. It sucks but it is what it is. You will be okay and will one day look back and wonder what you even saw in that person. Trust the power of time
You said you forgot ex and found someone better and you done that couple times. Well the thing is did you really find someone better if you had to forget about the person that came after your ex???? If that person was better then why did things end with them??
@@xchino0427 lol fair enough, not everything works out, but I have found that from person to person I have had better experiences than the last, but still on the look out for the best one.
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There are ways to get your ex back like using spell. I have used spell in the past and it worked. We are now married.
Once you accept the breakup you will never go back.
No contact works!!! And focusing on me worked and me being me works as well keep doing you kings and queens they come back and will your choice if you want them back
Blocked everywhere by ex :(
I think I should also start focusing on you to make myself move on. 🤖
Always?? If they already in relationship &happy?
Don’t want them back. I made that mistake and i regret it
@@Bagadbilla9995 😭😭😭😭😭😭
Don't waste your time focusing on your ex, don't get them to want you.. don't play games if I get my shit together maybe they will want me, do look after yourself, do grieve through the pain of it. time will heal as much as it will suck. that person is not meant to be in your life, the rejection was redirection. gain comfort in knowing that in time you will regonise that this was a blessing. you had lessons to learn, to know your worth, to feel good enough for yourself. take some time out, do date other people, you will be surprised that you will get that feeling again.
Stop with your spells bullshit that dark energy centered, you can't control another individuals will, that shit will bring you bad karma
Thanks you for this clear thoughts!
If you are in a situation like that or I am with a soul connection it is very painful to let that go .
Pure love when we were together while nothing happens because I was not divorced yet and I am still living in a small room on the attic
In the house of his friend.
So that's why we hit the break all the time .
We were so in love . Storend from the love hormones ..
But daring other women because he is "single" and safer to have sex with.
Then with me .I thought.
I was terrified of losing him.
And now he is telling that we didn't share the same things anymore.
I am really greaving and feel fysical pain.
I lost 6 kg in total .
But stress or a low fibrational feeling doesn't help to get some weight .
Thanks you for your message!
We learn From eachother.
Love Diana
Holland
@Diana Rossèl I pray God comforts you and in time your heart healed.
Thank you ❤
@@dianarossel7315 i just saw this diana, im sorry that your going through that, thank you do sharing .
I know for myself being honest with myself is the hardest part , even no im dating someone , it may be long tearm or short , but for once i have my boundaries , im not afraid to walk away , and i realize my happiness will not come from the relationship , but the relationship i have with myself, which has not been so good in the past. Understanding my attachment style has been helpful, identify core beliefs , schemas. You will get through this difficult time , a friend once told me your putting all this love into this person when you really need to give it to yourself , a little girl that didn't feel like she was good enough, needs to be listened to and know that she's safe with you. Its her that's screaming out for you to listen to her. Trust yourself. I have no doubt your a beautiful women who may not know just how enough you really are , and some beautiful soul is seeking someone like you. The real you Xxx
Rejection is a great redirection. I will remain with God and allow him to be the author of my love story🙌🏿🙏🏾
Amen! ❤
beautiful
❤
Thank you everyone
Why re-attract an ex? They're an ex for a REASON. Please don't reach out to someone that discarded you so carelessly. It's not your fault that they're selfish & inconsiderate of you if you were their partner. I've found that I don't need that toxic piece of trash in my life again. That is what no contact is for. You reconsider whose more important. It's either them, or its you & always choose your SELF. Let them continue to blunder around in their own nonsense. Don't take them back, you're getting back the same piece of trash if you do.
I was the one that discarded, and I had a right to do so. It did not diminish my love for him until he ignored me for over six months after I pleaded for him to forgive me for hanging up on him. He was the one that caused me to walk away. It is not always the dumper's fault, and if you loved the person, you would not resort to calling them names. You have to look at yourself also.
@@tranquilitywithdd I don't know your situation. But to me, you're also taking it personally. This post isn't even about you. Feelings can change over time. As for me, being discarded for someone else & being completely LIED to about it, would make anyone resentful of that person. So no, I don't think I should have to look inward at all on that one.
@@rubio9478 Oh so now you're attacking me, and no I did not take it personally. I was trying to give you sage advice. I am starting to understand why she left you for someone else. I made a comment, and you decide to come for me. That is not what these vids are meant to do. Stay in your hurt, pain and resentment babes. I am good over here and was trying to help you. As much as I hated the person who I decided was not for me, I learned many lessons, and speaking poorly about an ex is one thing you should never do, because that was the person you chose to love. You are essentially talking bad about yourself. Blessings!
@@tranquilitywithdd "oh so now you're attacking me" no dumb, dumb. You obviously didn't read my previous post. And now, I can see that you're toxic too. Thanks for nothing.
Say that again!
Please Lord, don’t send any of those ungrateful, manipulative, headache causing narcissists back into my life. Let them find someone else to torment and make miserable, or remain alone until they get their acts together enough to be happy with someone else. Either way, please do not send them back to me. Thank you Lord. In Yeshua’s name. Amen 🙏🏾.
Amen!!🙌🏿🙏🏾
Your strong enough, be strong enough to say NO MORE!! But yes amen dear lord, amen!
Amen
🙏🏽 praying for strength because that's the truth
I literally say this prayer every night I wake up to pray. May I never ever again be the victim any narcissist in Jesus name, Amen.
When you chase they will run and this means you don't value yourself know your worth & don't settle for someone who doesn't want to be with you. Move on there will be someone who loves you for you. Beautiful Love awaits you. Keep Pushing..
No I am single & bless no ex here he is in heaven
To be honest messaging DR OLOMOOBA was the best choice I have ever made…Thanks for bringing back my ex lover
When I dumb and naive, I was very apologetic and expressing how I missed him. And he ignored me. The moment I stopped and was catching flights, here he comes. I don’t want it no more. I never did, I just didn’t like the feeling of being rejected
I am right there with you. I hate the feeling of being rejected too. I should have ended it long before he ever did. I then took a step further and sabotaged to the point where he completely blocked any form of contact with me. Hard truths that I had to learn.
Facts.
Oooh deeep
I’m going through a similar situation. I was very apologetic and she recently blocked me. I don’t expect her to message me back ever again and if she asks if we can be friends again I’m going to say no.
@@electricfire621your lucky she even asked to be friends. I said no to being friends and I regret it but too late no contact is in full effect
It was over for me, but I am good with that now. Thank you for the sage advice. My heartbreak earned me a college degree.
Amen. 🙏
Oh well
Done you.
Bam! ❤
Well done champ!!!
It's common for relationships to encounter obstacles, but there is always a solution. My own marriage faced considerable issues, but with appropriate guidance, my husband and I worked through them and deepened our connection. Solutions are achievable if you're ready to work together. Stay hopeful-there's always a way forward.
I'm facing significant relationship problems and can't stand the idea of losing him. My love and longing for my partner are profound, and I'm ready to do anything to restore our connection. I would greatly appreciate any advice or help you could give.
Parting with someone you love is always a challenging process, but in my experience, I had the guidance of a spiritual guide who prevented my marriage from collapsing. His name is Father Akunna.
I'II quickly search for him online. Thank you.
I'm optimistic that taking this approach will yield results for me as well; his absence is keenly felt.
I promise you will not regret it.
I just searched for Father Akunna online indeed he is a very generous man and the most powerful spell caster that I have ever seen he brought my husband back to me with so much love ❤
Facts !!! You have to move on by accepting that you weren't thriving enough in your own right as a man for her to lose attraction towards you (irrespective of her being in your life or not). Women are only a byproduct of us being the best versions of ourselves. As crazy as it might sound and it may be hard to hear but she more than likely did you a favor in leaving you so you can self improve "FOR YOURSELF". Women rarely want to leave a leader/winner in life. Once you move on and self improve to your highest sense of self, you should be mentally healthy and strong enough to be able to have a clear and concise conversation with her to forgive her for the heartbreak and thanking her for helping you grow and not accepting mediocrity. That mentality helped me till this very day to where I have no malice in my heart towards none of my exes and I appreciate them for the pain they've caused, for it was a necessary evil for my own growth and development. Remember that love isn't about "possession" but it's about "appreciation". #GrownMan #MatureTypeIsh
I completely agree with what you said. But I do want to ask this because you seem knowledgeable and I know I wouldn’t have grown as much as I have if we would’ve stayed together but now that I have grown, is it possible that we could really make it work? Let me explain My ex wife and mother of our two young children (ages 4 and 7) divorced me 2 1/2 years ago now. At the time she had been putting up with the alcohol problem I had for a few years. I was getting worse with my drinking and she kinda would drink with me. But over time she started to get pushed away because I wasn’t taking care of my responsibilities as a father and husband. Work,bills etc. we began arguing a lot the past 6 months to a year we were together. To the point of me telling her I didn’t care if we were even married anymore. So she began leaving to go stay with her mother (who was also “going through a divorce”) the first few weeks when she would leaving for a few nights a week. I didn’t care and would just drink it all away. Till one day I realized she had all her things finally moved to her mother house and she wasn’t coming to stay anymore. I finally decided to get help and checked myself into residential treatment to get rid of my drinking addiction. As I was away in rehab she got a bf and was with him for about 9 months. During this time I had been in treatment still then transferred to recovery housing and remained sober. Well one day she told me she broke up with the guy and I couldn’t help but think we could actually work out our relationship now that I’m sober and we had time apart. But two weeks after she broke up with the guy she was with a new man and within 4 months she was living with him and pregnant. She been with this guy for a year now. Living together and have a child. This guy is 10 years older than her and didn’t have children until he got with her. He had never really been in a serious relationship either until he got with her. My question is. With everything in me I feel she’s not happy with him and now she realizes I really am done with my drinking and being irresponsible and became the man that she always wanted me to be. We get along great and co parent very well but her new guy doesn’t like her talking to me. My kids tell me and I can tell he doesn’t want her alone with me at all whatsoever. To the point where when she’s with him she blocks my number then unblocks it when she has a random question to ask me. My question is what are the chances of them two not working out and us reconciling and giving it one more shot? I’ve been sober almost two years now and not a day goes by I don’t think about her and how I’m still so inlove with her. What are my chances?
sorry it was so long of a read but I wanted to explain my story and why I still feel this way
@@devonbelill8075 My true and brutally honest advice is to let it/her go and pay your new self forward to another woman who can appreciate you as a sober man because your ex already seen weakness in you and that stain will always be in her brain of your former self. Once she's witnessed you in that weak form, it will be hard for her to unsee it. Thank her for inspiring you to get yourself together, but I wouldn't be concerned with ever going back cause I doubt if she'll ever fully respect you like you'll need her to. Respect is greater than love as it relates to women viewing her man and I'm afraid that she's too far gone, Sir (imho). Turn a new chapter newer, younger, better, more appreciative woman in your life. You deserve it and owe it to yourself, bro 🤜🏾🤛🏾.
@@VaughnMcGregor I appreciate your advice my brother thank you
@@devonbelill8075 No doubt bro 🤜🏾🤛🏾. Let me know if you need anymore advice.
Gone through a lot of shit, having my Ex stay with me for 2 years yes we fight sometimes and argue but the truth was I love her. she left me to visit her sister and a man showed up to married her, this man is her boss where she works and she gave the man a chance like within 3 days after she left to visit her sister, and start sleeping at the mans place. She told me it's over between us I did the begging like everyone knew I was going through a lot and some tried helping me out but she still denies me it's been a month 2 weeks I still hate the fact that I wake up the same room and she's not with me. so I wrote her yesterday telling her am truly sorry we ever came to this please I want her back but hell no she blocked me and I am just confuse my sister who use to be her best person called her she rejected the calls,, I go to school sometimes just looking at places I am fill with tears try dating another girls but I don't fine interest in them got lot of girls number in my phone but at the end of the day I don't text them or try something new with them ... what can I do to get my head above the waters
He showed me who he was & I don't wanna go backwards I deserve better
This is correct. Theres a lot of physcology behind this. After a while, we inevitably remember our ex’s and generally the good times are a bigger and better memory than the bad. By constantly contacting and being desperate what you essentially do is make the break up drama bad times bigger than they otherwise would be. Where as we mostly block that out and focus on the first dates and the sweet things you did instead we remember you harrassing us at our jobs or bothering our friends. So when we do think of you again it’s less likely we will want to come back. On the same token if we do start to think of you and take an interest or you happen to reach out a while later, we don’t want to see a weepy broken desperate person who wasted a year of his life, that’s not attractive. But if we find someone who is positive, who moved on, looked after themselves.. well then suddenly the FOMO kicks in and the roles are reversed, we are the intrigued ones, we are the ones who want to connect with you again. The best way to get back with your ex is to kill that relationship entirely, move on from it and build a new one. But the sad truth is once you’ve moved on from it, truly, and are in the place you need to be for it to work again, usually it won’t be what you want or need.
Brilliant 👏 ❤️
If someone sees you less than you see them , cut your your losses and reciprocate their thoughts and expressions. I think if your ex could not help themselves to invite someone else’s game in the spotlight & interacts sexual with them, then respect your own emotions & values to never go back!Love is a noun expressed through verbs!
Couldn't have said it better. 100% truth
Ex cheated on me, so obviously I don’t want them back, but working on myself, went back to college, hitting the gym, living a great life
PROUD OF YOU. Me too💜🤞🏼
If she cheats, she belongs to the streets.
Wow girl I can relate heart broken as well felt empty and depressed 5 months no contact and like u said I went back to college workout and getting cosmetic surgery in may I just focus on me and keep it on no contact if he ever text I’m not responding don’t want to repeat that pattern again on god all these beautiful men and women out here 👋 best of luck to u guys
I ain’t worried . His loss !!!! I love him but I’m letting him go
Thank you for the good advice I have been in Nc, focusing on me lost 30 pounds, looking beautiful, hanging out with friends, having fun being happy.
When they block you Never go after them focus on yourself correct your mistake move on to the next girl who is worth your time.
This is why when my bf told me yesterday he's breaking up with me, I didn't feel a huge amount of sadness. I felt an overwhelming love, commitment, and I saw deep in his eyes the love was still there because he could never give a straight answer to my questions.
Only thing I said is "improve yourself, and I'll be waiting when you do, come whatever may. One step at a time." He then said the hope i had in my eyes was hurting him, because he feels at the time he can't give that back. But from all we been though, I know one day we'll find each other again
Understand (like he mentioned) time to work on yourself = time. Time also = your ex messing with other people. This = you being the 2nd option if they ever were to come back. Something to ask yourself, did you give 100%? Did you never stop trying, even when you had them? Did you stop taking them out on dates? Relationships are not 50/50. Need to bring 100% everyday, and never get complacent. If they gave up on you if you did these things, why would you want them back? Big reason is because of the loss. Loss of something we're attached to, with the combination of sudden change in routine, is one of the hardest things us as people can go through. Things to think about
Same man. Went from “being the one” to having her sleep with another dude in 3 weeks. I fuckdd up bad. Didn’t treat her well. Was dealing with my own insecurities and used her as a backboard for my emotions. Never gave her the attention she deserved or the love she so truly craved. Told me in December she didn’t want to do this anymore and I didn’t fight. We texted eachother pretty consistently up until March. I told her I loved her and it seemed like we wanted different things. She said things to me that made me feel like I had a chance but just to find out she was sleeping and seeing a guy the whole time. Never thought she’d act like this and I’m hoping it’s a distraction. Hoping she’s just using him for the attention and support but I want to give it to her so bad. Called her apologized. Took accountability. She wasn’t receptive to it. Basically told me glad you learned this and can give it to the next girl. I’m devastated. I miss her and love her so much and I fear deep down she will not come back
@@TheRajinCajin98did she ever reached out to you at some point buddy?
Good advice but don’t better yourself to get your ex back💯.. work on yourself cuz you deserve better than that
I’ve gotten to the point where I don’t even want to date/ be in a relationship anymore. It’s time consuming and energy draining and people now change their mind from one hour to the next. It’s exhausting.
And every single relationship will be the same way .
Im there 2 im not trying to sound depressing but im done givin my all to ppl to much energy
After a break up you shouldn’t even want your ex back ! Especially if they moved on to someone else ! It hurts I know but I promise you , you will be okay & there is someone better for you !!
Don't try to attract anyone who dumped. Just move on and improve to get a happy life.
Nope.. don't worry about the ex, especially if you know that you deserve better. Move on and live a good life.
With a heart full of joy i thank you Dr oluwaseun for restoring my relationship again with the chants, you're the only sincere one l've ever seen
He’s on Facebook
Honey
Its a scam@@Amanda83497
I felt much better hearing this
The best medication for any guy was cheated on, dumped, left for some other guy, is to get in the gym and start bodybuilding. Eat a healthy balanced high protein diet, clank the weights, train hard, save money, stay well groomed, surround yourself with positive people in the gym, listen to motivational speakers, learn more about lifting routines, and powerful supplements etc. Get busy talking to other women you meet in public, get numbers, set dates, stay busy, let women chase you, and make your new life as positive as humanly possible. Don’t break the no contact rule at all, and stay off the radar from your ex. If you have to take a break from social media and get away from any reminders about her, make sure to do it. Avoid places she might be at, and avoid places you frequented together during the relationship. Stay on your grind, and keep moving on. If she contacts you months down the road, it’s up to you how you respond. I personally wouldn’t take her back after any kind of cheating situation or rebound. If it was just a case of you two taking time apart and that was all it was, then you could consider rekindling things. Other than that, I would just continue building a new life without that person in it. Cheaters should never be given a second chance because that’s the ultimate betrayal to any good guy out there.
Love is a choice just like everything we do in life. It's all temporary another good person is waiting on that bus stop
If someone leaves you find someone else better
If they don't wanna leave let them walk ! Your destiny wasn't connected to them ! It depends on your mindset how Strong it is too , and start the self improvement ( Gym , Finances , Etc etc )
I think my problem is the opposite, I'm deserving of better than her and yet I still hope and want and believe it can work for many reasons (we have kids together, we'd been together for 13 years, we still live together, etc.). I know I deserve better and I want and need to move on. The self work I've been doing is good for me and the changes I've made in myself are good for me and will be good for whomever. I've got to be about my changes and self work. Stop making anyone a priority that treats me like an option.
Have a serious talk with her before you make your move...If that don't work then move on. Then this will set the tone for her to miss what she had and appreciate it. U only miss something when you no longer have it within your grasp! 💯
@@mr.dreamzzz5242 I missed mentioning the part that she already said it was over between us a while ago and has been seeing someone else while we still live together. We've been in separate rooms for a while now. There's more to it than I feel like talking about and reliving over and over torturing myself which is why I need to really learn how to move on and let go. Just dealing with a lot of fear of what the future will be with custody/housing/finances/etc.
@@RobertRiggin Damn that's messed up bro! Disrespectful! I don't know ur whole situation but I'm getting the vibe ur the bread winner in the house hold. First thing I would do is start planning in your head how do u wanna move on then hire a LAWYER! We playing CHESS NOW BRO! ✊️ Are U ready?? Cause if you paying ALL or MOST of the bills I kinda know what's she's doing! If this is the case it might work in ur favor and she ended the relationship! Take notes 📋 of everything that goes on or happened, keep track of bills you pay expenses, get the kids on YOUR insurance from work, if you haven't do so! If u have family members that will help u with the kids GET IT IN WRITING (Like grandparents, aunt's, uncles, cousins..ect..) Ask your lawyer for things to do and not do! The Judge will go for BEST outcome for your kids. Those things I mentioned ABOVE will help you on that part! So much to talk about brother! It's a start! I'm with you bro! 💯 ✊️
You can fix your relationship all by yourself you know 😊
This!!!
I never begged or apologized and he still isn't back. They don't always come back let's be real.
Right, and that's absolutely okay too.
@Thandi Candy yes but it hurts. I just don't believe in giving anyone false hope.
wait for it
True!
I was good to him. But he wronged me & left me. And it's been 4.5 years since he left. 💔
He never came back. 🤷🏻♀️
And after these years, I checked what he is doing in his life now. I got to know that he got a new loyal & loving gf 👩🏻🦰, & he is living his life happily.
@@arisha9325don’t worry. I’m going through the same thing. Our turn hasn’t come up, yet..
Your summary is very good and accurate! If in time they want to comeback ...Yon now have control and power if you really want them.
Thank u so much my king. My ex told me I will never see her or here from her again and I felt powerless. Ur video made me feel like I can except myself and look forward to her seeing me in a new light. Thank u so much.
I used to want him to comeback. I’m so happy that it didn’t work out now. I feel so optimistic that I can find someone better!
Well said, and by the time i accept myself, I dont even want no one.
Awesome video, bro.
The problem isn't if they'll come back. The problem is when. What's the point in returning ten years later, with two children and even more emotional baggage?
Yep, I have definitely done all of these things, the texts, the spilling my heart out over an hour long phone call… everything.
Doh
Thank you Coach black, it's been 3 months for me. I doubt I need my ex back. I deserve better-- no contact helped me a lot. I came to realize that I don't need someone else to be happy.
Its like I was telling a friend going through this... this wont guarentee that they'll come back, but anything else will guarentee that they won't.
I'm going no contact with the narc forever. He isn't worth my time or energy. I'm too good for him. If he ever calls me again I will hang the phone up straight away. I'm on my path of healing and living my best life
This video and most/all your comments is therapy to read. I appreciate each and everyone of you expressing how you feel and giving past experience and advice. This is what the internet should be about- all United helping each other!
After a day or two just take ur time n send him a text wishing him/her well .Love shouldn’t be force .then cry ur eyes out ,lift urself up n find ur peace by moving on .
I know he’s coming back cuz they always do, plus on top of that is because we never cut any type of contact or ever been toxic ever. We’ve been healthy and only been healthy, we took this time to change and grow as people. Next time we see each other we’ll be completely improved versions of ourselves 🥰❤️ it’s hard asf going no contact and not feeling the safety and security this one person has always provided you, it’s just really painful.
did he come back?
And meanwhile he/she is dating and fucking other people, can’t stand that thought.
Yeah, makes no sense. Everything’s perfectly fine but we’re going no contact? Not trying to sound insulting, but I think you’re in denial. It sounds like you created somewhat of a false version of this person you’re talking about in your head.
Wishing everyone the very best as we continue to navigate through life as we experience pain inflicted by someone we love ❤️
😂😂this video literally explains my life in the last couple of days. My ex seeing I'm doing better and now she wanna be friendly with me
I don’t know why I’m here, I actually want to make sure my EX is NEVER coming back 😂
🤣🤣🤣
Alrighttt ‘Pringle 👄’s’ 😅
Same.
Lol omg
That's easy af, don't worry. You simply don't respond even if they do. Or, you simply reply to their ling texts with , "LOL".
Dont have false hope.. it hurts alot..
Cary but accept she is gone.. and its not only your fault but her too
I went no contact and worked on myself. I am proud of my transformation.
In fact, would I rather have the new me.....or my ex back?
Man, its not even close.
Powerful video Sir. Consider me a new subscriber.
CP
I took up a hobby ....💃
And living my life!
An ex is an ex for many reasons....
nice advice, yea accepting it and improving takes time, but the biggest problem happens right now. How to deal with all the nervousness, stress, anxiety and stuff. When it happened to me, I couldnt eat, sleep, nothing. Now i can say im in shape again, with my stuff going on, improving myself etc, but the anxiety still haunts me. Hard to find a cure for that
That shit over gang. Get you paper chase your goals and meet someone new.
Sir,
Your words,
Beautiful.
I needed that 🙏...
Even though I do think about and miss my ex. I think it's better if they never came back. They'll just walk out on me again 🤷♂️, and I don't deserve that.
That’s what I’m telling myself too
But I still can't let him leave
I ran away cause I was scared, had to do with my own trauma, and thinking I didn't deserve happiness, I miss him, wasn't his fault. Anyway, I deserve happiness, so do you.
@@BerryBlondaewithADHD work on yourself, he will come back if you focus on living your best life and being the best version of yourself
Pain is a lesson. A very hard lesson. I found power in someone mistreating me, because I was allowed to decline the offer to change for them and society, or keep being me. I like me. I LOVE ME! It reinstalled my strength of actually being strong and not giving in to them. I was the victim tho, not the abuser. God help you if you are the victim going back for more abuse.
Thank you 😢😢😢 the exact same thing just happened to me 💔 I feel
so betrayed.. I needed to see this. Thank you 🙏🏻
Dude be speaking facts over here
Facts bro💯 If i want her back i gotta shine, be happy again and as they say success is the best revenge big bro!!!
One thing I’ve learned about relationships is, there is no direct way as to how they will really end. What is yours will always come back if you’re willing to change for it.
I’ve also learned that anger does not equate to a person not loving you.
Them telling you they don’t want you anymore, it all depends on what the problem may have been. So if you were in the wrong, fight for your relationship and if they made up their mind already.. it’s okay to start your healing journey
Love is not easy, love doesn’t have rules, love is not something we can assume on, love happens especially when two people are in love. It happens in whichever manner it has to.
With that said, pray for your relationships, reconciliations, clarity, strength and mental health
You are so amazing 🤩, helping others cope with heartaches ❤. This is a serious topic as human beings we face. The tough truth is you first have to fall in love with yourself! I assure you they will comeback fast. When we improve our quality of love for ourselves, eventually we outgrow the ex. New improved beginnings (new love) show up❤❤❤ love yourself no matter what
YES! YES! YES! Most definitely- I had to follow. I appreciate the tone, confidence and knowledge. Thank you for this video.
The hardest thing to learn is that your ex will probably never come back, and you will not be fully recovered until you've accepted that. In fact, you should strive to get to the point where you no longer want them back. It's the only way.
I'm going through the pain of a very recent breakup right now and, as hard as it is, I know I must let go and stop wanting my ex back. I sadly still want her back, but deep down I know she's gone forever and I will not be fully healed until I accept reality the way it is, not the way I wished it was.
I just got through it. I finally got to that point mentally that she isn’t coming back. The true test is coming this week. If no contact at all this week then I truly know it is a rap.
@@projektxent How did it go?
If they can't see your worth, let them eat alone. Move on.
I needed to hear this…. Thank you!!!
Thanks
I think I'm the shit and keep it moving. No matter how hard and no matter how much it hurts. Moral of the story is to teach them a lesson when they do you dirty!
I so needed to watch this. I definitely sabotaged it. He said he wanted to remain friends and I pushed it too far and now he has blocked me. I am now examining where I was wrong and what I need to improve on. I also realize that he lied to me in many ways. So do I want a liar to come back into my life? No way!
The best revenge is doing wayyy better without them than you were with them 💯
Amen!! Glory to God!!!
What a beautiful message. Your a magnificent soul and magical man ✨💐🫶
They always come back 😂 😂😂😂 it’s like a bad joke people , don’t ever think they aren’t coming back cause they do every time !!! 😅 😂 move on and be glad someone left you and did you a favor to find someone else! Let their true colors show!
soo true, so important to cultivate all that good stuff within yourself to attract it to from outside yourself
Truth is very healthy, thank you, I actually need to be healthy enough to not want that abuse back but to strive for healthy whatever that may mean… amen
Wow!!! Perfect timing - Thank You 🙏
I’m currently going through this, more than 5 years down the drain. I’m just going to let it be and never look back.
I feel you this breakup thing is hard.. iswear😢
True. My soul is crushed for over a year now, he blocked me on all platforms. We were childhood friends for 38 years and dated in 2021 for 8 months. He played me. Yet I still love him unconditionally.
Look up attraction prayers , it’s the best tip online for getting back soulmates. Also I could give some to you If you want.
The only woman that can love a man unconditionally is his mother. You're an alpha widow. Good luck.
Honey I can see where you're coming from with all of this is powerful to those still going through it! look for people like me you leaving is a testament to not have an opportunity to come back!! I be the one that got away the honor of that sentiment in Trophy in his heart❤❤ simply put when you love someone don't fuck them over!!!! in love what's with all the games anyway! To be or not to be that is my Shakespeare
New subscriber I like what you said about moving on. We as energy beings need to love ourselves first in order to lover others. I love my self enough to live a full abundant imaginative life that will harden into facts.
You’re so right because how can somebody like some thing that is the same old same old it’s like if you eat the same food every day you’re eventually gonna get sick of it you’re gonna want a new flavor
I deserved my ex. I had no idea he was going to ghost me. As a 35 yr old woman ive been divorced 12 yrs now. No successful relationships in my life. Im 5 years from 40. I want a partner. Its my time to settle with a man. He wanted me and i wanted him...then he ghosted me. Stood me up for 2 different occasions and one was my birthday. Im deserving of love. I believe i have tons of love and loyalty to offer but this cruel treatment is killing me. I just want him to come back and be with me. I accept him for him and want him. I dont need him for anything other than my emotional support amd partner. Im not asking for the impossible 😢
WELL ARE YOU STILL SINGLE CAN I BE YOUR NEW BF?
Thanks man this is a massive help bless you.
I’m feel relieved he’s gone!!!
Thank you for this. It truly does help hearing it.
Thankyou for that... well needed 😌
I love the last line "if you stay no contact, they will re-discover their love and passion for you" but I'm scared Tbh 🤦
That ship has sailed to nopeville.✌🏾
I Love 💕 this comment! Exactly he definitely didn’t care about my feelings. I would go out of my way to text just to get a half or no reply a week later, then I the run around on why he didn’t text just to find out he’s miraculously with another girl at work . And when I expressed myself to him on why I was stringed along that’s when he got nasty with me and called me crazy, then apologized. I ignored that text and haven’t heard or talked to him sense.
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Only become more assertive only look forward
thank you so much man , i still love her
Just going through this right now, and I diminished my self respect for nothing
This was definitely helpful! 💯
Hey man, I found you today and I love your channel. I love how you explain things in terms that make you feel strong, but also make you feel better at the same time. I'm 7 months into my break up, it's been hard. I've found very SPECIFIC coaches I listen to, and honestly rn if I opened my messaging app I got 3-4 girls in view. I'm not trying to have a big head, but it does feel good and I appreciate you spending your time helping other men.
Men never leave. They always try to reach out. I wonder how many of your ex's do you "check on"? 🤔
This made me cry so hard, it's exactly what I been thinking & needed to hear. Thank you. ❤️🩹
Thank you thank you all those things you mentioned sadly i did all those thing calling,begging. Trying my hardest to show her i was worth it i have 2 kids with her i dint want my family to split up but no matter what i did no matter whatvi said it was always a problem a fight not enjoying the moment sadly its true you have to face the breal up thanks foe those healing words
You are so sweet. Thank you for your amazing energy
You know how it felt?. It was like sitting next to a magnificent magical fire but still feeling cold. Thanks Coach. Your a humble guy. I doth my cap.
I appreciate what your saying bro, a very fair point. But, she may very very likely still not want me/you back as a person at all. My ex told me I was the best boyfriend she ever had, she wanted to marry & have family with me. I added value to her life made her happy in every way possible. I did not cheat nor where there any girls involved. But I just know that she won't give a second chance to me or relationship. She goes left or right. Green or red light. No middle ground, she deeply broke my heart. Even though am getting on with my life now & showering that. Lol she hasn't been blocked & still watches social am convinced she ain't gonna return.
Great advice brother 👍