3 Reasons NO CONTACT Still Works EVEN if Your EX Moved on Quickly
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The fact that they did move on quickly gives you all the answers you need. They have deep seated issues which most likely manifested within the relationship and most certainly contributed to the break-up. Allow them to bask in victim hood with their new rebound. They not only took our hearts, they took their box of issues as well. Give it time, they'll be gifting those issues to the rebound at some point.
none ex partner move on overnight...they have been slowly deattaching you
@@sreach93 Yes.. Sounds about right.
My thoughts exactly!
@sreach93 Yes , he said he had never been married , about 15 years in the marriage , I found out I was his 4th wife
Lol, talk about covert.
Its been two months of no contact. I really miss him but my self respect will not allow me to reach out to him.
It was myself respect that sustained me..I learned from channels like this ti allow self respect to guide. You avoid humiliating and embarrassing yourself when you go no contact. You can't embarrass and devalue yourself by doing nothing 😊
Men come to you themselves. No problem.
Don’t do it… everyday your body wants to give in fight back.
in a no contact rule ...dont wait him/her because waiting for some cant make you self development ...remember
1 Year No Contact. Nothing. I wouldn’t say I’ve moved on, but I’ve learned and coped to live without her.
2 years for me. We have a child so we talk about her sometimes but thats it. I dont beg and be nice but he is not giving me hints and he is not beging me to come back....its painfull and i dont feel like i can move on with someone else cause my heart is with him
I have never seen any positive comments or possibilities that ex who moved on fast come back.🤦
Hey that’s good; I’m at 5 months of no contact and I can’t wait to get to the one year mark. That’s a huge accomplishment and you should be proud of yourself.
No contact doesn’t work if a person is no good for you
@@Ivy89261 gotta let it go 2 years time is still ticking
Demons don’t feel regret.
You ex isn’t that bad is she? Lol
Mine was the devil
@@blacademic sometimes break ups are hard for me 😢 4:05
@@blacademic YES SIR SHE WAS!
There’s not enough room here to tell the true, real story.
@@CoolBreeze1128 If they steal,
killed, and destroyed with out any regrets, and stated never to apologize for anything said, nor done. But I had to learn to forgive her with the help of the Lord.
I feel like the big cheat code for no contact is realizing that whether they come back or not, even if it takes years, eventually they will realize that you're gone and you're not coming back, and they WILL be surprised even if they never say anything. No one can take that away from you, as long as you remain in no contact. Look at it as a challenge until it isn't a challenge anymore.
@EdwardGodstime-r2l no
💯
That’s real bro.
Good analogy.
Sometimes its not that they think *you* are always going to be an option. They can be become convinced that someone as good as you is always going to be an option. And it can take years and years and years for them to try out that theory before they realize they were wrong.
He's 💯 percent right, I acted crazy and wanted him back. I stopped and started working and I started a house cleaning business. He started calling me and tells me that him and his new supply fight all the time. He comes over every to see our daughter. I can tell he wants to come home. It's been one a half years since we broke up. If I didn't acted crazy we probably would be back together. Ladies just give them space and let them wounder.
No contact for about 1-2 months after a 4 years relationship, and I feel much better
Started a new job I like (and still attending the university) and a diary in which I write down my emotions (not every day, but when i feel so)
Making online friends and discovering new hobbys or passions
"The best relationship you'll have, is the one with yourself only"
You are not here if you are OK:
@@marguskiis7711 Never said Im Ok
Feeling better is different from being completely ok
This is close to home
I wish I never even considered “NC” I feel it held me back in moving on and realizing my real self worth. As soon as I quit watching ex videos and started bringing back the things I loved about me and discovering who I am I stopped obsessing about what my husband was doing and who he was doing it with. Best advice is get out walking and recreating a new version of you where your “ex” doesn’t exist. You got this!
Thank u
I think this applies more to men than women, just my personal opinion, but if your ex gf dumped you and then sleeps with someone else or rebounds, then there is really no going back. Even if they come back and apologize it will never be the same.
Bro you are so on point, I'm having the same crisis as well. I don't think I can forgive her for allowing a man inside her so easily 2 weeks after our break up
@@KenuDRoger Please don’t go back because it will happen over and over again and again. Demons have no heart, but love to see you hurting.
She betrayed you. Repeat yourself: She. Betrayed. You. Thats a crime. She is evil. Treat her like an enemy.
You’ve help a lot through this break up I’m going through. Who knows if everything you’ve experienced in your career will apply to my situation, but I’m 1 month in no contact. She has blocked and unblocked me multiple times. I’ve come to the conclusion that she has just had a really difficult life of suppressed feelings that stemmed from parental rolls and exes who made them feel like being vulnerable was unexceptionable wrong in their eyes. I’ve grown to know that I personally hope she seeks the help she needs, and one day is able to find happiness. I have so much to offer, and I will have someone come in to my life that will prove that all the exs in my past were there to lead me to them. Hope all is well with everyone who’s dealing with heart break. Learn your flaws, adjust those flaws, and be the best partner you can be for the future.
My ex damn sure made the wrong decision. Then again, he did me a favor because i didn't realize until afterwards that he was a narcissist.
Same here and I’m glad that I don’t have to deal with him anymore after that awful discard
Don`t miss these human crap. And one day, when you yourself are happy with someone else, he will come back. Most of men do.
Wow, great video yesterday me and my Ex talk and I were able to let him know that we can be friends and literally have no harsh feelings. So he started telling me that the females out here are rude and always asking for money 😅. Then he decided to start talking about our relationship and a few issues that we had, and then he told me how he left a lot of other girls for me. Then he wanted to run a few things by me that he had done. I didn't answer. I told him to have a great day, and NOW I'm taking this NO CONTACT SERIOUSLY. Thank you for the advice ❤
If you want him back maybe you should think carefully about your moves.. If you are sure you don't want him back, go buy him a kite and ask him to go fly off the cliff with it.😂
@@movingsaudade6028 nice one 🤔😆
Thank you very much for the clarification. I don't think my ex will come back or with full heart and understanding. It's been 8 months now, yesterday was my birthday, and I haven't heard from her either. I'm working a lot on myself at the moment and I'm very happy that everything turned out this way. I think I'm on the safe path, I know it. I just wanted to thank you again. I think it's great that there are people like you who support others in working on themselves. Thanks. I wish you all a nice day.
All the restaurants, the time, trips, sex, gifts, private moments, family time and all of a sudden its OVER. 🤷🏾♂️
That’s why sex shouldn’t be introduced during dating.
I needed this video from you today. No contact is hard when you have a kid together.
I was with my wife for 20 years and she left me for a nother guy overnight.
I have been doing NC for for 9 months I do have to see her on Fridays because I have to pick my little ones up for the weekend.
I can feel that I have changed a lot I have been going to the gym.
I don’t even act the same way I used to.
I have grown .
And when I do have to talk to her I can see and hear that she hasn’t grown she still acts the same .
I used to do everything and told her that I
loved her at a daily basis I truly don’t know what I did or where I went wrong she was my high school sweetheart 😢.
I’ll keep working hard on myself specially my mental and make that money for my little ones future.
She`s gone. She betrayed you. Repeat yourself: She. Betrayed. You. Thats a crime. She is evil. Treat her like an enemy.
Do NOT forgive the betrayal. Never. What happened to Judas, remember?
11 yrs same story 🙏🏽
It’s been 2 years for me after being married for 20 years and I am broken but I am coping and making it through
Thank you. I really needed to hear this right now. My wife has made a deal with the devil in order to pursue a relationship outside of our marriage with a “shiny new toy”, and has been prioritizing this relationship over her young children.
I plan on booking a call with you in the very near future in order to discuss my unique situation and figure out the best way to handle it .
4 months since discard… and 3 of no Contact… he left after 7 years with no explanation… went back to his Ex….
I hope he is happy and never ever look back…..
It’s very hard for me to forget all the lies he was saying……
He will try to come back to you, I can bet.
@@marguskiis7711 I hope to heal by then and to give him a decent pull Back….
@blacademic2 Thanks for support
Been 6 months since my girl moved 1700 miles away over night while I was at work. I will say stuff has been very tough. I’m loosing hope in no contact that she’ll ever come back. It’s hard when you envisioned a whole life with someone to be blindsided by betrayal
That sounds painful 💔 sorry that happened
Same thing happened to me...I'm sorry you're going through this. No closure, no discussions, just poof! Just gone...I'm really hurting too. Taking one day at a time...
Bro I’m really sorry you are going through this, nothing worse than an unexpected betrayal. But 6 months and 1700 miles, is enough to walk away. You have to let her go and stop waiting. Especially if she left to be with someone else
@@blacademic I’m going to be booking with you in the next two weeks, really need to go through it all
@@Stirredupagain I planned my whole life with her. She was the one girl I really loved and my son loved her (he’s from a previous relationship) she was the first and only woman he has ever met and it ultimately broke his heart also because he continues to talk about her and ask when she’s coming home. I’m destroyed inside
Coach Blac! Please accept this small taken of my appreciation for you! 9 months ago my ex dumped me out of nowhere after years . I cried my eyes out trying to figure out what is wrong with me. I found your videos and no contact helped ME relearn how to Love myself and find the strength to keep moving forward. I do not ever want her back! She’s a bad person. You really saved my life! Cause it got really bad for me. At the end of the tunnel, I found the light of no contact helped me keep my Self Respect and Dignity, I stayed true to my myself and kept it solid 100%. Thank you for taking the time to help us. Bless you and your family.
I am going through this now. I started doubting myself and asking myself a million questions every single day. But, I decided enough is enough. I just stopped caring. The train keeps moving and life goes on. I'm at the point where I don't care even though it hurts me. The feeling of not caring allows me to accept it and keep pushing. Again, the train doesn't stop. Life doesn't stop. I don't want to continue a life with someone who doesn't want to be with me or fight for me.
My parents taught me to give my used toys to the less fortunate.
Two weeks ago we broke up, few days ago I tried to talk with her about making it work, next day I let her know how hurt I was and she asked me to stop, I replied with I will respect your wishes. I’m no contact and will let yall know what happens.
Love is an emotion. Emotions flow and change based on our thinking. It's not stable in the short term moment to moment. It's when their respect, appreciation and admiration are gone that women leave men.
When this man had nothing I was there pick this man off the ground but I'm trying to heal thanks for the video
It's been 10 months since the breakup and 8 months no contact. He started dating the new chick 6 weeks after we broke up. He never went to therapy or anything. The weird thing is he takes her to all of the places he took me like he's trying to relive the memories with her. Literally doing the exact same thing with her on the same days. I don't want him back. He doesn't even look attractive to me anymore.
Oh trust and believe he’s going to reach out. My ex fiance left in January because I wouldn’t continue to give him money. Anywho… he blocked me on everything. And said I will never say nothing else to you as long as I’m alive. I said oh okay. He went back to the dummy who probably was there the whole time. So, I was in church yesterday and I looked on my phone and it showed everyone who like and commented on my ig posts. Why, he liked all my posts and then commented on them. Boy I don’t want you. Gone on and stay with your lady. Can’t come back here ever.
Don`t miss these human crap. And one day, when you yourself are happy with someone else, he will come back. Most of men do.
@@marguskiis7711 Oh I know, all my Exs try to circle back because I'm a good person and they know that. and they realize they love me too late by that time I don't love them anymore.
What if you have a kid by that person how do you go about that??
Hey Big Guns! Gotta watch later…date night tonight around here. Have a great weekend. 💪☺️
Thank you for your content, it is helping me in the hardest time of my life!
Stay strong! Glad you find help and calm in the videos
Coach blac this is so hard, but im trying this NC but I don't know...
@blacademic He hasn't moved on to anyone that I know of, we just left our cruise last week and kinda had an argument, and he thinks he's always right, so he feels I disrespect him in front of some ppl we don't even know and probably will Never see them again, I did not at anyway disrespect him.
But after coming home he saids he we don't have anything in common.. whattttttt!
So im listening to your videos.
Thank you (the heart is so sad right now)
One year no contact. Thank you for your advice when we talked. Made it thru thanks to your help. Still miss him but I feel proud of myself for staying true to myself. I cannot believe I’ve made it this long.
Yes I agree just move on because if Thay cere about you Thay would make affort
Let the Blac Man Speak
You safe my life under God. God bless you 🙏
I know she's out there having fun, and it's ok. But it hurts to much knowing she' happy without me...
@@MrRomero161 I understand your feelings on that, but always remember, PAY DAY will make them all wish that they didn’t do what they did. “VENGEANCE IS MY SAYS THE LORD.” I know that sounds easy, but that’s what KARMA is all about. It gets easier, stay prayerful.
All the coaching videos are always about the ex. Can you tell us subtle ways to create more attraction when you're long time friends?
Sometimes break ups are hard. I know that feeling it’s hard for me because I want break up coach he always help me doing something good not doing bad but he helps me to calm me down and I want that happen. Break up is not for me Andrew that but sometimes it hard of me and him I wanna get him on the last chance one more chance with him all I know is hard and give him another chance chances are hard to do, but I know it’s hard. You can do this thing not doing a bad thing it’s OK breaking up is really hard. I know that feeling sad angry doing saying something wrong And it’s hard to do it just give it up coach black is right
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Thanks for the insight…2 weeks no contact since he left the relationship. It’s definitely different after our 8 yr relationship ended so suddenly for me to come home from work and he’s gone. He could have just communicated with me that he was ready to leave the relationship. Any other time we had issues we talked it out. I’m using this time to focus in on me again.
@DavidChoe-j8k no….I’m moving on
Coach I'm trusting you with my life.
Been in no contact since November after I got ghosted in October. He went on dating sites and within a couple months had gotten engaged. He will marry in a month. Unsettling to see someone you were in a relationship with for 7 years can monkey branch just because you had boundaries and values that you try establish. Oh well, bummed to say the least but also as much clarity as I’ve gotten for the wierd break up at hand
That makes me angry I’m sorry to hear this.
Great escape for you, sound like thats is Narc you were with..
His ego was more important than you. You dodged a bullet. I've been there.
Marry in a Month? Sounds like he moved fast. I wouldn't sweat it, If I were you. You deserve better. His Marriage probably won't get passed a Year.
He will come back when You are happy with someone else. I can bet!
Not everything that glitters is gold..
Too many negatives inside the relationship to even THINK about, to go back. Wouldn’t wanna go back never, ever go back. Been there done that, no no, no, hell no, NO MORE!
I’ve learned my lesson you CAN’T build yourself to be a BETTER YOU, with someone who is needy, insecure, unaccountable and childish when it comes to ALL attention on ME, to feel secure.
I DON’T NEED IT and I DEFINITELY DON’T want it!!!
Now don’t get me wrong I have issues too. One I need to be Financial Stability, respect and SELF LOVE, for myself, before I can Love ANYONE else again.
That’s why I’m taking a HARD 6 to 10 months, to GET MYSELF RIGHT!!!
No more, NO MORE, ex-Friends and SPECIALLY ex-girlfriends.
I’m OUT I gotta go, WRK-ON-MYSELF; bye…
I follow you mate, we will do it easily ❤
It’s been since January 16th 2024 for me. First few months was hard but then when she wanted to meet up at the end of March cause she needed to “talk.” So I did but even before meeting her I knew it would be bullshit. All she said was how everything was my fault for how it ended. She never holds accountability for anything. Nothing was ever her fault. But after that pointless meet up that was is it for me. Haven’t seen or talked to her since. Life goes on. 2 years together. Last November I was really thinking about asking her to marry me sometime in 2024. I loved her. I loved her more than anything. But after that meet up me and her had I knew me and her was over for good. I want nothing to do with her ever again.
That meet up wasn't for u .. it was for her. She wanted to relive the blame game and pointing fingers at you... I lived this its annoying and unhealthy for your mental state.
Reading the comments, the common theme is that women don't ever come back. It's always the men that comes crawling back. So yeah guys, your girl is gone. No contact doesn't work on women.
I was his situationship for months after his big breakup, when the breakup became official.. I longed for 8 months to be his girlfriend, and now he’s official with another girl (who was his rebound even before me, when the breakup was still on trial). I don’t know if he will ever come back.. I’m still hoping, and asking myself what she brings to the table that I didn’t bring.
He cheated on me abused me, used me. I am black and he is white. He came like an angel and I am sure he was writing a book about how to destroy a black woman. He reverse discarded me. I left the man I loved and I realised, that he never even liked as a living creature. I have stayed in no contact. It is hard because I love him so much. What helps survive is the reminder that he hatede me.
Don`t miss these human crap. And one day, when you yourself are happy with someone else, he will come back. Most of men do.
Stay strong. Sometimes it's better to be by yourself. First love yourself and things get better. When you love yourself, everyone starts loving you. Recently I learned my lesson. Now, I am in love with myself... Don't look back.
@@Gelila05 ❤️💜 🙏
@@Gelila05 I live alone, I love myself and nobody knows about me. No one cares. Btw, I am talking about my real life. How the "everyone" can start loving me? It is absurd.
@@marguskiis7711You are right. I am talking about life in general. It could be family members or coworkers. When you put yourself first, they start respect and love it. That is my point.
I appreciate your content..Thank you!
Can you make a video on getting over someone? I don't want my ex back. I just want to stop thinking about them. I'm currently seeing someone else, but I still miss her. Would really love to hear your advice, Coach.
I wouldn’t care if he did.
Thank you.
💯 facts!
That's encouraging,,,🎉is a good one to implement through such scenarios....
@EdwardGodstime-r2l great to hear 💯💯
Still no contact since July 13 2024.. it’s August 31, 2024.. it’s been really rough… I wonder what she’s thinking…?
Give it time. Avoidance need space and time to reconsider the relationship. Do not try to make contact, let your absence do the work. Just be patient for 3-4 months.
Bless you. It is so hard. But don’t put no contact above your own needs if it gets too painful.
Is this no contact actually a thing ?
@@mroakens It works well with men and if woman do not find another then with women too BUT then the man have to reach out himself first. If the woman is with another (even with worse man) then NC does not work at all.
I love the work that you do and your content BTW, I am a video editor reaching out do you need help in editing?
In this situation of 10 years with someone he met in a club and accidentally got pregnant and the baby died he came back home we were okay for a while but I'm still hurting times got hard and he went back to the hoe one day he was gone so now I'm in new contact he still stalks me but I still love him and want him back he been gone 2 months I had him 10 years I did everything for this man and 3 kids
Our relationship was of 3 years and his family refused me but immediately after 3 months of this refusal, he became ready to get engaged with someone else and will also get married.I followed no contact for 2 months and upgraded myself in this 2 months, after that he further says that we can remain friends.... please help me....i am from India.....i am still doing now contact 😢
I've been doing no contact for 2 months just to found out that after she left me for her ex bf and it didn't work, she found another guy instead reaching out to me and now she is very happy. I don't know what to do anymore. But one thing for sure i don't want to move on because I love her too much.
Find just other more attractive and work on yourself
Move on bro, go to therapist, work on yourself, dont be stucked coz you love someone who doenst love you back, they dont deserve the love you feel for them. You will feel better. Trust.
Good stuff
A month of no contact to move on not to get him back.
@LeiWu-mw8kg no
No
Oh my goodness! We talked about therapy. He asked to contact some, he would do the same. He finally told me that he had found two that we could go to try out. A day before the therapy, he asked me to meet, then he said we had better break up, that he is so busy and therapy is hard work and that the problem was me. The same night, he called me to tell me how much he loved me and the he had not meant that we break up, but call it a day for that day. And that he thought that we should not have a couples therapy but solo therapy, because he did not want to shame me infront of a therapist. .
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Trying to heal. He tortured me until I gave up. Now I know it is called a reverse discard. He wanted me to leave. I did peacefully..Now he is with the woman he was cheating with.
Hey coach Blac! Appreciate the content! My ex sent me and i replied, first message went great she replied immediately but i felt like my last messages I overdid by being to act too funny.. what is your advice?
My ex break up for me lastnigth for a new girl and block me. by the next day he was calling to ask me... if i want him to unblock me. I told him you blocked me for a reason and I shouldn't give you a reason to unblock me and I seeded to hang up the phone on him. Because he is worried about the friend group that we was in. My plan is to just avoid or contact necessary even down to the friend group.
Breakup and NC was on the 4th of July. Breadcrumbed me 3 weeks later with a text “Hey hope you’re doing ok.” I didn’t reply. Her bday was the 2nd week of August. I didn’t wish her a happy bday. She’s Clinically bipolar. 10 years. Any words of encouragement, advice, or support is appreciated. Thanks.
Similar situation here.
@@calishiiine0006 How are you doing?
@glight23 doing ok. She had an abortion and just been a mess but I have accepted and trying best to heal. Highly recommend watching "corey wayne 7 principles dealing with an ex" his channel is great. Though, our exes are bi polar, so not sure if these structures work with mentally unstable people. Just gotta keep pushing forward becoming your best version mentally, physically, spiritually. Everything else will fall into place.
Great video
He hurt me while choosing to date someone else despite his initial interest in me and promises. I called him out for his behavior. After 3 weeks, he even blocked me. I was not talking to him anyway. What was his idea of doing that?
How can I ever trust him again???
He will come back when you are happy with someone else. I can bet.
May love life us❤ love en hate😢
She reached me out after no contact, but she already in a relationship i think she wanna keep me as a backup plan
My question is to coach black .
My ex girlfriend was monckey branching me for over 6 months witch I had no idea, when I found out we broke up and 3 months later she got back saying was a mistake, bit she did it again few months later going with the same monckey branching , now I cut her out ,os she really mixed up or she is in love with the new shiny objects?
Our relationship was 8 years we were engaged already.
Thank you
By reading these comments seems like NC doesn’t work… I’m at a full month today.. haven’t gotten a peep yet!
If someone is in no contact rule and still his/hee ex runs in the mind and the person is thinking about intensely even manifesting his / her ex. Is that be called proper no contact ?
As we all are connected with each other and by missing someone deeply and thinking about them we send our energy to them so will it be called no contact yet?
Please solve this . I’m confused.
Great analogy!
Thanks for watching! I appreciate the feedback 🙏
Is it ok to show emotions when she reaches out? She is in a relationship and reaches out to me. I told her that the breakup hurted me and i am not feeling good when she texts me and she should stay away from me. I send her some pictures i drew for her when we were together writing i cannot see this anymore. Back in no contact again.
Just move the hell on everybody jesus christ its done its over heal yourself and get the hell over it make money become successful and worry about dam you.
What do you recommend for a relationship where you still live together with other roommates and see each other every day?
My ex came back after 4 months. She did try to move on, I suspected but I didn't know for sure until after she came back. I tried to to move on too so I can't be mad at her.
Why am i watching these videos now i messed up with my gf after she broke up with me a month ago we both were still in frequent contact but last night after 3 days of not talking to her i reached out and said i miss her and want her back and she said "she doesnt wanna talk with me sorry" and i messaged bombed her but yeah she looks like shes is over me she blocked me on Spotify 😂 funniest shit a week ago and told me i blocked you but last night i wished her good luck with her life and i love her and yeah im in process of moving on now 😅 messed this one up but life goes on boys!!
Oh man.. You really messed this up big time.. Shouldn't have texted her but no worries.. Now's the time for you to move on by improving your well-being. Find new hobbies.. Travel the world..
Then show her that you're a different beast and if she wants you back, by that time, you probably found someone better.. Trust the process..
@@Red_John. So no contact doesn't work the second time?
@@ryumura6615 No contact is the most powerful method to actually get your ex back. Every woman needs attention, that's their flaws and it's our advantage. She'll probably be happy with someone new and she knows you're missing her, that's our flaws.
So by not giving her what she wants is the only way to win her back again and do not react when she suddenly texts or calls you back. Just don't. Let her be.
She'll play with your heart, so you play with her mind..
How can I stop comparing myself to the potential that she’s hooking up with people already? 41 days post break up. She reached out to me on the 22nd for my birthday and like a dummy I responded the next day.
My girl went through my phone and caught me txting other females she told me that she wanted to be celibate for a while and I respected it but i had a weak moment and I was entertaining someone through out the relationship she said things to me that was real hurtful like I wasn’t a real man and I’m saying do I feel threatened by her kid father because every time she talks to him she gets mad and take it out on me and I felt it wasn’t right at all. But I do love her greatly and I wanna give our relationship another chance cuz I been with her 6 years… idk what to do should I move on or give it time?
I’m stuck any advice for me anyone?
Dear Coach Blac 🙏 Your video lessons really helped me to get over my ex and move along with my life. I don't even care if he will call me or not. I am busy with my own peace of mind and growing. Everything you say is absolutely true. Thank you so much 🙏❤😊 God bless you 🙏
Oh....and he has birthday today but I will treat him like a stranger, no contact, no call for his birthday....as you say 😊
You're describing someone who should be on their own. who wants this guy? Change the locks😅
What should i do if my gf just broke up with me but is still keeping our streak on snapchat
@LeiWu-mw8kg yea
4 months I think its official over she's got a boyfriend
Yeah, bc women have much more options to explore. Sorry.
5 months in after the monkeybranch. She took great pleasure in hurting my feelings with the new situation, acting all superior, taking this false sense of control. She gave me her back and shitty looks for months after (we work together). Like I was the dumper. I could never do that to someone I cared about, even if I wanted to ditch them, which I didn’t. Looked fkn miserable in her new situ, like a different person. I tried to reconnect after 3 months nc but she was still angry and said some unnecessarily mean things. The person I knew is dead and we go through the 5 stages of grief. I did contribute the breakup due to a major incompatibility but still, Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. She’s gone, brothers, mentally and emotionally. In the meantime I’ve come to wonder what I liked about her and why I ignored all those red flags. Have learned a lot about relship dynamics and how and why we are all damaged in some way. Looking forward to not missing her or wanting her back, it does take time. If you work together, good luck, you’re gonna need it. Stay professional, be good to your bosses because she will shit on you behind your back. Thanks coach, it’s too late for us 💪🏼
She betrayed you. Repeat yourself: She. Betrayed. You. Thats a crime. She is evil. Treat her like an enemy.
Your calendar is broken. I can’t book a session. Any other ways to book?
What if she lost feelings because of the distance? (We live apart 400km)… will she ever be back?
We were back and forth for almost 2 months. I tried taking a break but I couldn’t let go of her. She couldn’t let go of me. Her behavior made me think she was cheating, after the 5th time we got back together she said she needed me and was addicted to me and was telling me she was not messing this up. It was me. I said some fuck shit. Thought she was cheating on me and manipulating me. She exploded. Said she’s doesn’t know if it can ever be the same again. I tried apologizing. I owned what I said and what I said was unjustified. Apologizing a lot. She doesn’t want to talk to me anymore. Says she doesn’t know if she wants to try again. I still do I know I will. I’m working on myself and my communication. Yet I know no contact works. I haven’t texted her in a day as it’s only been a few days. What should I do, I won’t see her again until I get to where she is in 3 months because of work.
What if theres kids envolved.
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@blacademic6 ok. How do I contact you?
Yeah my story now is like that i am in no contact and now she was in relationship monkey branches right now rebound almost 1 year and 6 months
I have a genuine question.. how do you forgive your ex for connecting with another person “emotionally or physically” while you guys were in no contact? but both want to work it out now
I would like some advice please. I have been in NO CONTACT for 7 weeks and have been blocked. Yesterday I met my ex and he came to my mom and asked how I was doing. we naked a short chat was pleasant. I made a mistake asking why he still blocked me?? he said okay I'm going to unblock you soon but today is already the 2nd day and I still haven't heard from him. what should I serve?
@blacademic6 what
My Ex messaged me after 48 days of no contact to meet up. I met up with her and she didn’t say anything significant about getting back together just talked like how we normally use to. I know she is dating someone else but she didn’t mention anything. She has been texting and calling me for 3 days now. Should I go back to no contact? I previously told her not to message me if she is still dating someone but not sure if I should ask her if she still is
Coach blac, my ex ended things with me after 18 months despite being in love with me because I still refuse to commit to staying in her country forever (the UK). Is NC worth it for her “non-negotiable?”. Will she realise that I’m a catch and worth compromising her non negotiable for? I do love her a lot but that’s asking me for a lifetime commitment right off the bat when nobody knows what will happen in the future
We are both 34 no kids
I was 31 and left my country for hers. I jumped in 100%, full commitment and we got married. 23 yrs later and a dad, I have no regrets. I do miss my friends on another continent tho. If you don’t want to commit to her, she won’t commit to you either. You can always negotiate where you’re gonna live later down the line..
@@rovingenglishman which was your country? I’m from NZ but the UK is extremely hard for me, it’s always very cloudy and overcast, raining all the time even in summer. It’s very depressing for me but I love her so much. I just don’t know if I will be able to last
ok, I been doing no contact with an ex from 2011 that came back after 13 years but recently left again, its only been 12 days but she messaged me only to say that she "never loved me". Do I even reply to that?
Any suggestions for no contact if you still live with your ex ?
What about a monkey brancher????? PLEASE ANSWER
Can no contact still make her miss me if I kept in contact for 3 months after the breakup and made a few mistakes that made things worse during that time?
Help plz my guy left me and said someone called him and told him my bad stories. And he moved on when I ask about the story on the fon he said that he can't tell me on the fon we have to talk one on one I should go meet him so he can tell me.. Plz what should I do and he is dating another lady but I still love him.. Help plz
My ex left his wife of 15 years with 2 kids and now he left me with my first child. Wondering if he will try to spin the block 😂
He’s spinning the block with his wife and when that doesn’t work he spin back to you
@@rtj2397 I don’t think so I’ve smacked him a few times because he mentally abused me so I got really physical with his clown self.