1. Going to hostel (Overcoming insecurities) 2. Starting Sizer(freelance) 3. Going to the gym (Confidence building) 4. Getting married (Companionship) 5. Learning how to code.(learning a skill)
Listen up men, 1) Build a Routine 2) Pump Iron 3) Start a Side Hustle 4) Learn Investing 5) Improve your Communication 6) Read Do this for 6 months and you'll be unstoppable.
the way he started blushing with the "getting married" point.. i think its cute and its giving a valid justification why he put this point in 5 best things he did
bro really relate with you on the self confidence and body image issues thing, i too am very skinny and very underconfident sometimes, it really takes a toll on you sometimes
I like the way you added the disclaimer in the beginning. Everyone who has some accomplishment under their belt, speak like they know all the secrets to the universe !
Getting married is the bad decision. There is no guarantee that your spouse/partner will take care of you when you will fall sick in future, even they can ruin your happiness. So better stay single and enjoy your life in your own way.
Varun, I broke up with my Girlfriend and she was my only best friend in the world. I thought I'll Marry her but she had other plans. Now I have lost my girlfriend and my best friend both. This feeling is so hollow and makes me question whether I will ever be able to find someone as good as her. And this thought is killing my productivity. Makes me feel like a loss from which I will never Recover. I am 21 and I knew her since we were 17. I know this is the wrong place to ask all this but how should I recover from this. Thank You.
Hey bro, I understand what you're going through internally. Eventually you will get out of this state, sooner or later. I know right now it's harder for you to believe. Time heals everything. If she was really special then max it will take 1 year. After that you will not even think about her. I have experienced this personally. It's like a storm in ocean. when you break up, it's deadly out there to survive. Keeping patience within, slowly that storm settles down. Time comes when the ocean settles down and water becomes still. Then it's Bright sunny day. And we are peaceful again.
5:42 Not a good advice It will be good if you figure out who you are first then plan afterwards to be with another person if you do it early you are really going to pick up a unnecessary responsibility
while i don't agree with alpha sigma bs some comments are saying, i do agree with everything u said and i think the point about marrying ur best friend is one of the underrated relationship advice one will find online. everybody talks about provider home-maker dynamics.
Learning to code is now a basic thing which is like maths. Everyone must know some maths. Like maths, everyone must know some sort of coding. Don't make it a career. People fool you on this that Coding is career and you get into a fascinated world by seeing various people cracking competitions, interviews. Coding is a skill everyone must know, but your career and passion can be anything else.
Things to do in 20s ( According to my opinion ) : 1. Change the attitude and looks 2. Be Aggressive 3. Be Masculine Chad 4. Build a good crew of friends That's enough for my life ! ..
Every 16 IQ points a woman goes up from 100, she’s 40% less likely to get married. Every 16 IQ points a man goes up from 100, he’s 35% more likely to get married.
This advice is utterly bullcrap. Don't let Jordan/Mikhiala Peterson fool you into getting married early. Work on your skills and career/business. It's only after certain time period that you should eventually decide to get married.
Sir,could please elaborate about coding for beginners how they should start..like u told about the basics ..what are the basics of coding which can provide stronge base for coding career and which language should be learnt first? Hare Krishna 🙏
The way Varun talks about marriage is more about not dying alone rather than finding the right person to be with. Sorry bro, but you're not convincing in that part. I agree with everything else.
i have moved to P.G 2 months back . I get to know how to manage money , I am now used to get an fixed sum of money at my home i was having technically unlimited money but now i don't you have to spend it very wisely .🤣
I think it was just for reference. I learned something from this. Never use the clip of someone who is popular, it distracts audience. I was kinda distracted & confused as I saw coder coder.
I rather like to be dead than get married, it's the most hated thing for me in my life that i can never love. For me only friends that are precious companions who really understand you nothing else. I believe in love in emotions not romantic love. Love for family, parents and friends is true love, love for an unknown girl is just lust.
I used to think the same way. He just said font a female best friend. Not unknown girl. Take your time. Problem is in India people marry too fast and not to their best friend
@@shaxter i don't think i can make a friend out if a female, coz my habits are too introverted but at the same time emotionally unavailable most of the time.
1. Going to hostel (Overcoming insecurities)
2. Starting Sizer(freelance)
3. Going to the gym (Confidence building)
4. Getting married (Companionship)
5. Learning how to code.(learning a skill)
The 5th one is a skill.
@@rohit.reflectslol right
Good that you do these bro….i use to do this summaries alot, but now people won’t like to watch video
@@snehkhatri5089 maybe because, every other RUclipsr these days make such type of videos with similar content. Isn't it?
@@puneetmiddha2217 agree
Listen up men,
1) Build a Routine
2) Pump Iron
3) Start a Side Hustle
4) Learn Investing
5) Improve your Communication
6) Read
Do this for 6 months and you'll be unstoppable.
Me 19, me click instantly
Me also ✅
Us
Iam still 17😂😂
@@AK-zp9ug Haha Mee tooo 😂
us
the way he started blushing with the "getting married" point.. i think its cute and its giving a valid justification why he put this point in 5 best things he did
6:10 -Varun - your are missing out on so much, and its not what you are thinking your are missing out on 😂😂😂😂😂
When varun said " i forgave my parents", that's the moment i understood he is a sigma.
The amount of clarification you give after making every single point shows how much you were belted for your previous videos 🙂🙂
bro really relate with you on the self confidence and body image issues thing, i too am very skinny and very underconfident sometimes, it really takes a toll on you sometimes
I was just like you about 2 month's ago then I started exercising and it has been great for my self confidence. defenitely worth it.
Thank you, Varun for sharing learnings from your own life experiences.
Getting married is an unexpected point 😅
But, I do agree with you 🙌
I like the way you added the disclaimer in the beginning. Everyone who has some accomplishment under their belt, speak like they know all the secrets to the universe !
Getting married is the bad decision. There is no guarantee that your spouse/partner will take care of you when you will fall sick in future, even they can ruin your happiness. So better stay single and enjoy your life in your own way.
Your life your choice
Not fruitful in India.
Women can destroy ur life with one wrong case.
Seriously this video gives me a bro to bro kind of vibe.... loved it...
Varun, I broke up with my Girlfriend and she was my only best friend in the world. I thought I'll Marry her but she had other plans. Now I have lost my girlfriend and my best friend both. This feeling is so hollow and makes me question whether I will ever be able to find someone as good as her. And this thought is killing my productivity. Makes me feel like a loss from which I will never Recover. I am 21 and I knew her since we were 17. I know this is the wrong place to ask all this but how should I recover from this. Thank You.
Hey bro, I understand what you're going through internally. Eventually you will get out of this state, sooner or later. I know right now it's harder for you to believe. Time heals everything. If she was really special then max it will take 1 year. After that you will not even think about her. I have experienced this personally.
It's like a storm in ocean. when you break up, it's deadly out there to survive. Keeping patience within, slowly that storm settles down. Time comes when the ocean settles down and water becomes still. Then it's Bright sunny day. And we are peaceful again.
What were her Plans
@@rakshitbhatt2586 She started liking someone else.
@@YasheshTrivedi Thank you so much Brother.
Fikr mt kro bhai sb thik ho jayega
You are the most authentic content creator out there! Love ur content 🤞
Exactly. That's how social media should work
Just a second, you're not in your 20s? 👀
Yes, he's in 20s 😂
HE JUST TURNED 30, AT THE TIME OF THE RECORDING.
5:42
Not a good advice
It will be good if you figure out who you are first then plan afterwards to be with another person if you do it early you are really going to pick up a unnecessary responsibility
Coming back to Varun's old videos is an absolute bliss.
I would definitely be worthy someday to meet you.
:)
while i don't agree with alpha sigma bs some comments are saying, i do agree with everything u said and i think the point about marrying ur best friend is one of the underrated relationship advice one will find online. everybody talks about provider home-maker dynamics.
I am 18 now and thanks for this video😍
Learning to code is now a basic thing which is like maths.
Everyone must know some maths.
Like maths, everyone must know some sort of coding.
Don't make it a career. People fool you on this that Coding is career and you get into a fascinated world by seeing various people cracking competitions, interviews. Coding is a skill everyone must know, but your career and passion can be anything else.
@@shrishri8898 Go outside then.
@@shrishri8898
Great Man. I'm also planning to.
CS is branch of mathematics
Wow man! Thanks for sharing
Much appreciated video.
"i do the same things plus some more"
iron analogy was superb!
Love your work ♥️
Most authentic content creator ✨
I like the way you said Bye!!
I am totally agree 😊
You are a great speaker man! Just discovered your channel. Loving it!
thanks for the info
Lol..Never propose your best friend 😂 unless you're okay to lose that friend forever
Great work love your videos
Writing done right 🔥
It opened my eyes
Get married to your best friend. this is best line
Amazing content👍👍👍
Beautiful video 💯💯
5:43 most underrated thing
Worst
Such a great video
Being 21, Gottaa try out alll.
Thank you so much
I am 20, and am extremely anxious. Yes I am from india 3 .
But this video was helpful 👍
Varun bhaiya, could you please elaborate some more on what type of freelancing you do on your freelance career
Good one
Sooooooooooooooo...... relatable
Iam in 20 s... Like this.. Who in this age😍
Things to do in 20s ( According to my opinion ) :
1. Change the attitude and looks
2. Be Aggressive
3. Be Masculine Chad
4. Build a good crew of friends
That's enough for my life ! ..
That's my man.. Same thinking
By "be aggressive" do you mean "kick every kid in the ass?"
Every 16 IQ points a woman goes up from 100, she’s 40% less likely to get married.
Every 16 IQ points a man goes up from 100, he’s 35% more likely to get married.
This advice is utterly bullcrap. Don't let Jordan/Mikhiala Peterson fool you into getting married early.
Work on your skills and career/business. It's only after certain time period that you should eventually decide to get married.
I'll turn 20 in few months so I'm here lol😅😂😁
How is it going?
Me turning 20 tmrw clicking instantly
"marry your best friend"?? ayooo 😳😳
I like your ideas
Make a video on how you built self confidence
Boys hostel is a gem 🫠
In front of 1000 people ...he is in every school of district
I respect you opinion but getting married in 20's mostly a mistake. It should be in mid 30's.
Sir,could please elaborate about coding for beginners how they should start..like u told about the basics ..what are the basics of coding which can provide stronge base for coding career and which language should be learnt first?
Hare Krishna 🙏
Do you learn any coding
Just go to youtube and search Harvard cs50
The way Varun talks about marriage is more about not dying alone rather than finding the right person to be with. Sorry bro, but you're not convincing in that part. I agree with everything else.
I hate hostel because I went to hostel in my 13s😓😓
i have moved to P.G 2 months back . I get to know how to manage money , I am now used to get an fixed sum of money at my home i was having technically unlimited money but now i don't you have to spend it very wisely .🤣
7:18 plus some more 😂
Varun it's awesome video can you please guide me on freelancing please make a detail video on freelancing
He wrote an entire book on "How to freelance" named "Pyjama Profit"
Read his book "Pyjama Profit"
7:30 you're lucky to marry best friend
Achina would choose better stock videos
Obviously marriage is fucking very important for society to function in right order. But bro, crazy advice. 😂
I'm in hostel from class 6 🤪
I am 21 now and I am nothing
At what age you got married?
At about 26/27
Entering 18n in few months
Others have 100 pimples the other .... do not have face
Coder coder was your friend??
I have the same question 🤣
I think it was just for reference. I learned something from this. Never use the clip of someone who is popular, it distracts audience. I was kinda distracted & confused as I saw coder coder.
Hey, what are those ties doing there? Are they random or intentional?
Learning a language is hard can anyone suggest a simple coding language 👀
7:05 Only for professionals!!! Don't try this on your bsf lol 💀👍
I also read your book pyjama profit can you please make video on earning money related video for students
Not all hostel are same. Some creates good memories but with fucked up edu career.
Anyone who can spend time with me
Done
when you started freelancing what was your skill set?, even i want to start, but idk if my skills are good enough to start
1:50 coder coder cameo
your goku distracts me a lot
Which language should I learn
Guysss being married tip is not for you... Especially girls uk what I mean💁
Plus, some more.. 🤫
will learning to code help to get a good job even if I am not from a circuital/cs/it branch ?
Branch doesn't matter. If you are good at coding, people will hire you no matter what.
Which computer language we should learn?
M already 22
Pyjama profit marathi book kab ayega?????
Whats Coder Coder doing in your video🤣
Sir, What was your branch?
but how do i convince parents to go to hostel tho??
if u get 3 divoree, he will change.
I rather like to be dead than get married, it's the most hated thing for me in my life that i can never love.
For me only friends that are precious companions who really understand you nothing else.
I believe in love in emotions not romantic love. Love for family, parents and friends is true love, love for an unknown girl is just lust.
I used to think the same way. He just said font a female best friend. Not unknown girl. Take your time. Problem is in India people marry too fast and not to their best friend
@@shaxter i don't think i can make a friend out if a female, coz my habits are too introverted but at the same time emotionally unavailable most of the time.
Me click 19.9 click
Why can't you make money without coding? , there are other ways too
How much time would it take for a newbie to learn code by self learning
Which music is it at the end?
Ok
Getting married, fuck man. 😂