10 Life Lessons I Learned The HARD Way!

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  • Опубликовано: 19 июн 2024
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    Varun Mayya, a computer grad from Manipal Institute of Technology, was an early beginner in the startup ecosystem, having founded his first venture, Jobspire at the age of 19. The popular Indian recruitment platform which saw nearly 190,000 applicants sign up and over 1,500 companies. Jobspire not only became one of the youngest teams to raise VC money but also saw an exit for an undisclosed sum in early 2017. Later he began digital freelancing for clients in the United States.
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    Varun recently received Best Education Influencer Award by Entrepreneur India at the Influencer Summit & Awards 2021.
    Varun Mayya is the Founder CEO of buildonscenes.com. The company has recently developed an application called 'Scenes by Avalon', full community management suite for influencers and creators. It is a platform which allows forum, chat and live audio-based discussions with their audiences.

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  • @jitinsharma8902
    @jitinsharma8902 Год назад +291

    Point No7 👍 . Even Krishna in Bhagwat Geeta last chapter says to Arjuna that "Even though I have said whatever I wanted to say but it should be your decision to fight the war as the consequences are also yours" .

    • @reworkindia
      @reworkindia Год назад

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    • @userunavailable__
      @userunavailable__ Год назад +9

      Jai Sree Krishna 🚩☺️

    • @jitinsharma8902
      @jitinsharma8902 Год назад +10

      @@ajith.giove069 "everywhere" ? Lol. When did I post about Geeta anywhere ?
      If you are seeing Geeta everywhere then it's problem of your algorithm or may be you are spending too much time on RUclips. I never see Bhagwat Geeta anywhere...lol..
      .
      Also, stop giving unsolicited advices. It just shows lack of civility. (Did I just do it...ohh the irony....lol...but you need it) . Take care. Bye.

    • @jitinsharma8902
      @jitinsharma8902 Год назад +8

      @@ajith.giove069 lol. You should point out if I made any factual inaccuracies..
      I am not trying to connect anything.. It's there written what I have said..
      I hope you develop a bit of analysis and comprehension skills before arriving at a conclusion

    • @dilsesanatani4313
      @dilsesanatani4313 Год назад +4

      @@jitinsharma8902 well said! It is written and ur conclusion is right

  • @sahilyerawar7275
    @sahilyerawar7275 Год назад +376

    Lo behold!
    0:35 Brush your teeth 2x a day
    2:12 Don't hold on to your opinions too early
    3:19 Understand the underlying currents
    4:26 People are a product of circumstance
    5:32 Choose your life partner wisely
    6:11 Nobody's truly there for you
    6:45 If they don't bear the brunt of that advice, don't listen
    8:44 Make friends with yourself
    10:13 Learn to code
    12:18 Build a network and keep it warm

    • @arib_bruh
      @arib_bruh Год назад +1

      Thank you so much!

    • @chinmaybhabad
      @chinmaybhabad Год назад +4

      Thank you for summary to screenshot.

    • @reworkindia
      @reworkindia Год назад

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    • @falgunivyas5426
      @falgunivyas5426 Год назад +1

      Thank you ❤

    • @yxxshvs
      @yxxshvs Год назад

      thanks

  • @technoidic_ash
    @technoidic_ash Год назад +4

    Man...you're the wise elder brother that literally everyone needs.

  • @mugdhapaithankar2757
    @mugdhapaithankar2757 Год назад +8

    I’ve recently come across this channel and its the best thing happened to me ♥️♥️♥️ Thanku Varun ✨ you’re a saviour 🙌🏻

  • @priyanshumaurya4912
    @priyanshumaurya4912 Год назад +1

    3:18 pls make a dedicated video on particular topic, What was your experience? How Varun is so empathetic now vs then? Journey, Lessons

  • @harshjain5982
    @harshjain5982 Год назад +1

    Hey Varun! Your content is great and you're too. I've a request that please share your whole life journey in a short video, that from where you started, what all things you accomplished in that journey and your final result till now. ❤️

  • @sarohbhatt7464
    @sarohbhatt7464 Год назад +10

    Great Advice bro!!!
    These 3 , I relate to most...
    Pt 3(understanding the underlying meaning.
    Pt 8(Make a rapport with yourself)
    Pt 10( networking)

    • @reworkindia
      @reworkindia Год назад

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  • @krishanudeb3143
    @krishanudeb3143 Год назад +11

    Man you are so underrated. You share valuable details about stuffs Which you have done in real life and have experience of. And there are those who give out suggestions and never did that thing in there real life. Hats off to you.

  • @frostyj3931
    @frostyj3931 Год назад +4

    Really thanks for these kind of videos man.

    • @reworkindia
      @reworkindia Год назад

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  • @nishantsinha6053
    @nishantsinha6053 Год назад +1

    That was awesome..
    Varun Sir.
    Most of the things you told about, were probably matching with me also

  • @abhishekatnure3256
    @abhishekatnure3256 Год назад +11

    You are always awesome
    21 skills to learn 21days..man bcoz of that video i am making money otherwise i would have been a waste thing
    Thank you for everything

    • @reworkindia
      @reworkindia Год назад

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  • @worldtour7
    @worldtour7 Год назад +22

    You are, definitely, wise beyond your age! I will rate this as one of your best videos, and it do come across with certain humility. Keep it up and keep going. All the Best!

    • @reworkindia
      @reworkindia Год назад

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    • @radhikasahu7418
      @radhikasahu7418 Год назад

      How old are varun??

  • @insightsvid
    @insightsvid Год назад

    Really good!!! Thanks so much for sharing your insights 🙏

  • @TrickyLife945
    @TrickyLife945 Год назад +1

    I love how practical you are
    Just downloaded scenes Android app , loving the experience

  • @kryptu
    @kryptu Год назад

    Thank you for sharing , very useful !

  • @shubhamrahinj6864
    @shubhamrahinj6864 Год назад

    Every point mentioned here is worth applying man. Thank you

  • @iampratikvasu
    @iampratikvasu Год назад +1

    Thank you so much for such a nice video 🙂

  • @madhurkhanna94
    @madhurkhanna94 Год назад

    Dude !
    Best Motivational And Informative Video Ever! Thank you

  • @isnakhan7181
    @isnakhan7181 Год назад

    I am glad, I found you. YYou are a young guy with a lot of wisdom

  • @yxxshvs
    @yxxshvs Год назад

    thanks varun bhaiya for your amazing advices.

  • @mr.wholeworld2606
    @mr.wholeworld2606 Год назад

    You're awesome bro! Thank for these advices.

  • @nirajkadam6175
    @nirajkadam6175 Год назад +3

    On topic of brushing the teeth I can suggest one thing which is 'oil pulling'. Its a oral care method which one can add in daily routine. Please look it up there is a bunch of study have been done on this thing and personally I have recently started it feels good not a problem yet.

  • @gauravpanwar4981
    @gauravpanwar4981 Год назад

    Bahot kaam ki baaten, really very very helpful❤️
    Want to know more about talking to another self. Pls make a video if possible

  • @sonalikasingha7629
    @sonalikasingha7629 Год назад

    A very knowledgeable vedio, thanks a lot for sharing ❤

  • @its_SR07
    @its_SR07 Год назад +1

    wow, loving this channel.

  • @dr_ksparejiya
    @dr_ksparejiya Год назад +1

    On point man 🎉🎉🎉

  • @govardhand-lz7fk
    @govardhand-lz7fk Год назад

    Love you brother❤! I can feel better just listening to you!

  • @financialtips4524
    @financialtips4524 Год назад +2

    Be always unbiased about your and your family members health

  • @danishji2172
    @danishji2172 Год назад

    Varun is honestly a life saver. My man doesn't know how he's been a medium of real life change for me. Kudos to you brother!

  • @amanmanapure7753
    @amanmanapure7753 Год назад +3

    This man dropping gems in every video 🔥

  • @koushikamboru
    @koushikamboru Год назад

    Yes sir! I too have the same rapio with my inner self as you and I to talk myself as a crazy person among all, that feels sometimes wired for myself.

  • @akashtakawale9074
    @akashtakawale9074 Год назад

    Some of these tips are really valuable 👍

  • @zaidzamanhere
    @zaidzamanhere Год назад

    wow This was a amzaing video i realy liked all the thing you said since it is small things that we ignore but have great impact

  • @adityasinha6960
    @adityasinha6960 Год назад +1

    man please make a vid or any type of content related to how to gain leverage in AR/VR

  • @pkanaugia
    @pkanaugia Год назад

    I am glad that it was not a "Click-bait". top 5 point were totally align with my way of thinking.

  • @himanshusood91
    @himanshusood91 Год назад

    Ist time i subsribed a channel right away. Great job

  • @-U-Sreekar
    @-U-Sreekar Год назад

    That point talking with yourself. I do it all the time bro. Like even if it’s a small test I say myself you can do this buddy all izz well. It’s not a magic word but it’s like a self-pep-talk

  • @sahilingale3280
    @sahilingale3280 Год назад

    What you described is parts work , there can be as low as 2 and as many as hundreds of parts within us

  • @ankitSharma-uo6zf
    @ankitSharma-uo6zf Год назад

    bhaiya, video on what should we chase in life? what's our purpose? where we humans are going?

  • @kikimora573
    @kikimora573 Год назад +1

    Paused the video, went to brush, resumed. I’m gonna make this a habit. Cheers buddy, great points!!

  • @preetham3193
    @preetham3193 Год назад +1

    9:30
    Yeah I knew I had another person in me.
    He said so many times abt a decision I was not able tomake that decision it was way too hard.
    But once I listened to it ,
    Maan truly, atleast I safed me frm doin junk.

  • @pitchypunk
    @pitchypunk Год назад +10

    - brush your teeth twice a day and flossing is nice too. (me who now has a skincare routine too)
    - don't hold on to your opinions too dearly. sometimes our opinions end up being wrong. be easy going.
    - understand the currents of other people's emotion. what a person says and what they're really meaning can be different, even at work. the actual substance and the underlying emotional current.
    - people are a product of their circumstances. past behaviour is the best predictor of one's future times, unless they have crazy awareness. the way we behave, integrity, work ethic, or basically anything, the personality doesn't change much. the optimist is always gon be an optimist.
    - life gets easier with a great partner. it takes a lot of effort to surround yourself with good people. (me who doesn't really crave a single partner but a really strong knit community of friends)
    - gyan choxna ain't rly nice unless the one who's advising holds a responsibility too. theyr're not gonna bear responsibility for what happens. its ideal of somebody who can share the responsibility with you. "maybe use me as a factor in your decision but don't let me make the decisions for you at the end of the day".
    - make friends with yourself. f. lol. my self talk. i do it with myself i share a really wholesome with the me inside me and there's trust. just that it looks like naman, at least these days.
    - learn to code :') unless you're selling a house. and anyway pitchy loves communicating and it is nice to communicate with everyone and everything, which for some reason includes machines too :'
    - build a network and keep it warm. (what you know - young) vs (who you know - old) matters, people who you can call not everyone is gonna return your call or help you in a crisis, but maybe one of them will, it doesn't hurt to build a network. solo yolo will be caught like a sitting duck he said that i didn't really get but otay.
    so the ankita girl that i am, is a very people's person, i don't really have any significant skill but i do have many many many people that i could turn to, everytime i need something done. not just for myself, i connect many people, an hour ago knk called me and asked if i knew anyone who could help her brother solve their dbms k question paper. this is just one random academic thing that happened today. but ive had multiple such experiences. ehh anyway. how do i make this comment private now.

    • @reworkindia
      @reworkindia Год назад

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  • @boss50726
    @boss50726 Год назад

    Hey Varun, Pls make a video on how you take care of your health and supplements you take

  • @kshitijseth7119
    @kshitijseth7119 Год назад

    Hey Varun, just want to say thankyou for sharing your experiences :)

  • @nakuldevsah5655
    @nakuldevsah5655 Год назад

    Really helpful !!

  • @4dimusic
    @4dimusic Год назад

    @varun mayya please make video on how to form a habit

  • @pandey3277
    @pandey3277 Год назад

    Nice bro thanks ❤ love from my side

  • @thisworldismarket9868
    @thisworldismarket9868 Год назад +2

    I am 50 (well right now 2 pegs down). What i learned in my 50's you are Expressing all that in your 20's or 30's. I SUGGEST EVERYONE TO FOLLOW THE ADVICE , ELSE YOU END UP JUST PUTTING UP COMMENT AFTER 2 PEGS DOWN.
    but ... do share...how maturity comes, i still feel very immature .

  • @newsupdate6773
    @newsupdate6773 Год назад +1

    True about teeth brushing and flossing , saves teeth for decades! Things change over time so yes opinions would be outdated possibly.

  • @nsuhasachar3542
    @nsuhasachar3542 Год назад +2

    You said "i could speak kannada" thats amazing 😊

  • @singhnikhil
    @singhnikhil Год назад

    thank you varun

  • @anshkumawat1548
    @anshkumawat1548 Год назад

    I found Your content...is must watch for newcommers

  • @darshparsana
    @darshparsana Год назад

    This video help me a lot

  • @Nishant-uo7vx
    @Nishant-uo7vx Год назад +1

    Never expected varun mayya saying the first point as brush your teeth twice a day.

  • @satyamsati7136
    @satyamsati7136 Год назад

    Amazing Man!!

  • @rahulisgreat4911
    @rahulisgreat4911 9 месяцев назад

    Now this is GOLD

  • @splixmusic935
    @splixmusic935 Год назад

    interesting mindset !!

  • @sujaysolanki86
    @sujaysolanki86 Год назад

    Thank you

  • @MakeYouSuperhuman
    @MakeYouSuperhuman Год назад

    Man , This was Powerful.

  • @medhabhardwaj5897
    @medhabhardwaj5897 Год назад

    Last one 🙌🏻🙌🏻

  • @luqmanramzan3712
    @luqmanramzan3712 Год назад

    Wonderful ❤

  • @arjavjain25
    @arjavjain25 Год назад

    great stuff

  • @kaushikpatel6507
    @kaushikpatel6507 Год назад

    Very helpful lessons

  • @pratikdedhia
    @pratikdedhia Год назад +1

    12:24 ' when you are old is about who you know'. Shouldn't it be other way around? I know so many people, but they don't know me😥

  • @iamraj02
    @iamraj02 Год назад +3

    By the way, V, loved the video. Keep creating such genuine and authentic contents.

    • @reworkindia
      @reworkindia Год назад

      Varun Mayya 1 Minute Story : AVALON META
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  • @aishwaryabiju665
    @aishwaryabiju665 Год назад

    Varun sir could please make a video on ur experience of coding.. how you started.. what are the languages that a beginner should start with... And how many languages should be enough for one.. please could you make a video on this🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺

    • @VeereshPradeep
      @VeereshPradeep Год назад

      Feel free to check my videos incase you want to hear from a working professional

  • @shubhamsonal5871
    @shubhamsonal5871 Год назад +8

    i know the first lesson without watching , - 'learn to code'

    • @roshanbadaya2462
      @roshanbadaya2462 Год назад +2

      its f*cking hard , trying since 1 year . not able to do it

    • @shubhamsonal5871
      @shubhamsonal5871 Год назад +2

      @@roshanbadaya2462 it takes time buddy. I've been through it. An engineer myself . Started from a tier3 college, worked hard and working for the likes of microsoft and paypal, purely based on my skills

    • @aestheticaryan763
      @aestheticaryan763 Год назад

      Bhai coding me bilkul maza nhi aata.

    • @shubhamsonal5871
      @shubhamsonal5871 Год назад

      @@aestheticaryan763 usi baat ke th paise milte hau., sbko maza nai ata isiliye

    • @aestheticaryan763
      @aestheticaryan763 Год назад +1

      @@shubhamsonal5871 Aur yeh banda sabko coding seekhne ke liye bol rha hai. Bhai jab koi jiske liye bana hi nhi hai woh kaise thrive karega us cheez mai.

  • @xumandutt
    @xumandutt Год назад

    Varun=Big Brother💙

  • @cleyondsouza8216
    @cleyondsouza8216 Год назад

    dude, wish I could work with you to learn more.

  • @9823625313
    @9823625313 Год назад

    You are my Guru 🙏🏻

  • @vamsikolla
    @vamsikolla Год назад +1

    Hi broo
    I don't have any knowledge in coding but I am very much interested.I think you are the right person to guide me for my start. Can u plz help me How to & Where to start

  • @DJ-wf3ft
    @DJ-wf3ft Год назад

    Good content!

  • @avinashnair8433
    @avinashnair8433 Год назад +1

    For anyone who is completely new to coding, can you suggest some of the ways to start it off ?

    • @VeereshPradeep
      @VeereshPradeep Год назад

      I have a video on exactly that, feel free to check it out

  • @DeepakGupta-bb3wg
    @DeepakGupta-bb3wg Год назад

    Valued by seeing your videos.

  • @AndyDufresne11
    @AndyDufresne11 Год назад +2

    I was very good at coding and i almost knew everything back in 10th standard and 12 th standard.
    My school had a BLUE java curriculum and in the college i could nail C language easily with my base in blue J.
    I completed my engineering from mechanical branch because my parents forced me to do so! Can i still accomplish something in coding if i know the basics of C and blue J.
    please help me currently i am banker in a government bank but i don't like it at all!
    PLEASE HELP!

    • @pavanuppala6528
      @pavanuppala6528 Год назад

      Yes bro I can feel you... May be you can try coding to get remote works or freelancing may be it will take time but you can try for one year sincerely along with your job then decide whether it is making you happy and getting paid or it is not getting connect to you..
      So watch codedamn youtube channel he had website and course where you can learn and get remote work based on the assignments you do thier and also watch
      Kunal kushwaha youtube channel he also suggests everyone to try for remote jobs

  • @swapnilchand338
    @swapnilchand338 Год назад

    Get well soon 🙂

  • @arshadayyub6282
    @arshadayyub6282 Год назад +2

    It's way better to follow a creator followed by few lakhs than millions..

  • @js_editing_xxx535
    @js_editing_xxx535 Год назад

    Last advice need to learn everybody

  • @Dr.Kraig_Ren
    @Dr.Kraig_Ren Год назад

    There is a low but constant high frequency sound in the video. Around 16000Hz-17000Hz.
    You might have missed it because of the decreased hearing spectrum in adults.
    Remember it for future.
    Nice video nonetheless.

  • @abhiiiiram
    @abhiiiiram Год назад

    windows XP wallpaper in thumbnail deserves some attention

  • @alkgupta7015
    @alkgupta7015 Год назад +1

    I'm also a introvert but I can't maintain that relationships I want you to advice me

  • @technoboy9878
    @technoboy9878 Год назад

    If you could please make a roadmap I mean I am from commerce background I dont have any roadmap like what to do after one thing so a small advice kind of roadmap would be helpful

  • @chan90s
    @chan90s Год назад

    Adhbutavagide. Nimma salahegalanna khanditavagi use maadtini. Let me see the change

  • @sameerlule6798
    @sameerlule6798 Год назад +1

    My boy Goku Was rolling back and forth throughout the video. IDK what bothered him.

  • @reworkindia
    @reworkindia Год назад +3

    Hey...i am your big follower...and a video on you also...1 minute Story

    • @himanshupuri3074
      @himanshupuri3074 Год назад

      Can you send the clip?

    • @reworkindia
      @reworkindia Год назад

      @@himanshupuri3074 Varun Mayya 1 Minute Story : AVALON META
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    • @reworkindia
      @reworkindia Год назад

      Varun Mayya 1 Minute Story : AVALON META
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  • @pratikdedhia
    @pratikdedhia Год назад

    Such an awesome word 'Gyan' is getting ruined when people start using it sarcastically. Baaki life lessons mast hai.

  • @bleehblahblue
    @bleehblahblue Год назад

    Be a student of the world 💯

  • @UnlimitlesslyFunnyDude
    @UnlimitlesslyFunnyDude Год назад +1

    '' Don't be a solo person who don't built a network and who does not ask help ''

  • @itsnaughty653
    @itsnaughty653 Год назад

    i just wanna say this - Don't follow the lesson 9 blindly, it's like what he said in lesson 7 don't bear the brunt of the advice, V's right, but it's still ur future not his so take his advice but make ur own decision. its still about what u love to do not what makes u earn more buck, but if it that u love then sure take that advice. nd don't even take this just listen nd make ur own.

  • @rak24ron
    @rak24ron Год назад

    Varun put that toy on your left, in such a way that it is holding the mic stick. Just put behind the stick

  • @pratikpatil7133
    @pratikpatil7133 Год назад

    You have mentioned person doesn't change much. But if person is constantly doing some things to change. won't that change person. In attitude or in other ways?

  • @AkhileshKumar-ij9kw
    @AkhileshKumar-ij9kw Год назад

    Nice 😊

  • @Abhigyan_Bafna
    @Abhigyan_Bafna Год назад

    GOLD

  • @UnboxVlogs
    @UnboxVlogs Год назад

    Bruda love u

  • @higheryibes4430
    @higheryibes4430 Год назад

    Gold Value content.

  • @Omkar3324
    @Omkar3324 Год назад

    you r looking good man

  • @mohitisrani1
    @mohitisrani1 Год назад

    Hey Varun, you always used to be proud of fact that you never play ads on your videos. Looks like you are contradicting yourself, Btw great content.

  • @ishan1127
    @ishan1127 Год назад

    The relationship I have with my other self is toxic he is trying to bring me down always

  • @itriggerall6976
    @itriggerall6976 Год назад

    Super

  • @iamraj02
    @iamraj02 Год назад

    When are you doing colab with Warikoo?