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  • Опубликовано: 24 ноя 2024

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  • @jamesneal5690
    @jamesneal5690 Год назад +41

    • mentioning guy from work constantly
    • picking fights over nothing
    • being defensive/getting caught in lies
    • overly concerned with appearance: getting hair done, diet, working out
    • seemingly happier than usual despite the constant fighting
    • making no effort to spend time together
    • going out with “friends” more
    • always putting phone face down
    • less responsive to texts
    • gaslighting
    Didn’t end well

  • @DavidCunningham-dj5ck
    @DavidCunningham-dj5ck 2 года назад +83

    My recent ex-girlfriend wanted to 'save" another dude because he was going through a tough time as a result of his brother's suicide. Also, he was apparently transitioning into a new career and was finding that difficult. She admitted to speaking regularly on the phone to him and also took him out to dinner and paid for it! I found the receipt on the bedroom floor one morning. Her affection towards me dropped even though we were still physical. Suddenly she needed a 'break'. I'll give her the gift of missing me permanently.

    • @shamimtemour
      @shamimtemour Год назад +11

      My goodness, I’m sorry that this is your reality, unfortunately it’s also mine.
      My husband of 22 years wanted to help out his childhood sweetheart, because she had a difficult life, mainly because of all the men she’d gone through and children she’d had by them 😔.
      I told him that by ‘helping’ her out, he was actually putting me into emotional distress.
      An ultimatum caused him to walk away from me and our kids.
      I guess he wants to be her 5th husband.

    • @amack6908
      @amack6908 Год назад +4

      Exactly what happened to me

    • @DavidCunningham-dj5ck
      @DavidCunningham-dj5ck Год назад +5

      @@shamimtemour I’m sorry to hear your story. Stay strong my friend.

    • @DavidCunningham-dj5ck
      @DavidCunningham-dj5ck Год назад +5

      @@amack6908 sorry to hear this. It’s tough to be discarded. Stay strong my friend. You got this.

    • @amack6908
      @amack6908 Год назад +2

      They love to rescue dudes in fake issues. Women are pretty gullible.

  • @carolb3869
    @carolb3869 6 лет назад +78

    Their bad behaviour reflects them!
    Listen to your intuition for sure. 💙

    • @emokiriemiabednegoabed2844
      @emokiriemiabednegoabed2844 5 лет назад

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    • @HeimanuM
      @HeimanuM 4 года назад

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    • @miaaiden4043
      @miaaiden4043 3 года назад

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    • @emilymichael185
      @emilymichael185 3 года назад

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    • @antoinelyons5323
      @antoinelyons5323 3 года назад

      I agree

  • @nisa.9261
    @nisa.9261 Год назад +9

    As a Retired combat Marine I want to tell you that as what you are doing is just as important as any warrior on the battlefield. You are waging warfare against cheater on the digital battlefield. You are defending and protecting the most vulnerable of our society against these predators and cheaters. Keep up the good work *Johnsonspy* .

  • @daveh9803
    @daveh9803 4 года назад +49

    If they talk about someone else a lot, it’s because that person is on their mind a lot. Either there’s something going on, or it’s about to. Don’t allow the gaslighting and trust your intuition.

    • @miaaiden4043
      @miaaiden4043 3 года назад

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      @abigailethan472 3 года назад

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    • @emilymichael185
      @emilymichael185 3 года назад

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    • @Confessions089
      @Confessions089 Год назад +2

      Exactly and get rid of them quickly.

  • @jamesegan8184
    @jamesegan8184 6 лет назад +88

    "Your partner should never make you feel bad for what you're feeling." Stephanie Lyn speaks such words of wisdom, like follow your intuition, take the initiative, ask partner to meet you half way. There are SO MANY great SL videos!! Thank you for this one.

    • @emokiriemiabednegoabed2844
      @emokiriemiabednegoabed2844 5 лет назад +1

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      @abigailethan472 3 года назад

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    • @emilymichael185
      @emilymichael185 3 года назад

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    • @randallsonny1503
      @randallsonny1503 3 года назад

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      @JorgePerez-pn1zq 3 года назад

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  • @stevebrown7673
    @stevebrown7673 2 года назад +11

    So true Steph -- trust your intuition. Your gut 1st, your heart 2nd, your head last.

  • @She_Wonders
    @She_Wonders 5 лет назад +47

    I was the "other woman" in an emotional affair. I knew about her, but he talked about breaking up with her, about how unhappy she made him, detailed all their little fights, and showed me how she was always apologizing to him (text messages, etc). None of his social media indicates that he has a girlfriend. He made up so many excuses as to why I could never meet her. He flirted, played footsie, tickled me, let me wear his clothing, took me to dinner, held my hand... and he really made it seem like he was gonna leave her for me. Turns out he was talking to a bunch of other women, too; I was just his main target.
    When I confronted him, he gas lit me and said he always treated me like a friend. I blocked him on everything and am going no contact because I'm pretty sure he's a narcissist or at least has narcissistic tendencies. Even though I'm heartbroken over it, I know I'm better off without him in my life. Your videos are very helpful, thank you.

    • @miaaiden4043
      @miaaiden4043 3 года назад

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    • @abigailethan472
      @abigailethan472 3 года назад

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    • @floridashottest2538
      @floridashottest2538 2 года назад +14

      You devalued yourself by dating a man that had a girlfriend, regardless if he said he was "leaving her" lol. Your Karma.

    • @fortheladies771
      @fortheladies771 2 года назад +2

      I’ve been on both sides, so I understand you

  • @Simonejoy
    @Simonejoy 3 года назад +11

    I’m not sticking around my husband if he is emotionally cheating. I’m not laying in the same bed with you or living with you.

  • @SPerez-du9jm
    @SPerez-du9jm 5 лет назад +31

    An affair be emotional or physical once it surfaces the doubts will always appear at a drop of a pin and slowly eat at the relationship
    Will always end up bad in the long run

    • @miaaiden4043
      @miaaiden4043 3 года назад

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      @abigailethan472 3 года назад

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    • @emilymichael185
      @emilymichael185 3 года назад

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  • @waterbaby6786
    @waterbaby6786 4 года назад +17

    Lived this .. he was emotionally attached to someone else . Broke my heart

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      @chrisrock1021 4 года назад

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    • @emilymichael185
      @emilymichael185 3 года назад

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  • @mysteryguest1948
    @mysteryguest1948 6 лет назад +40

    My ex is a total narcissist and had an affair with someone at work. She didn't even know I existed. He had a different life at work - no one knew we were together at his job. He told everyone he was working while until he could access his "trust fund" and even convinced people he was suffering from cancer. It was awful and crazy. I wish I would have listened to my gut when it came to this girl. Something felt off, I asked him and he got very defensive and dismissive of my feelings. Thank you for all your videos. It really helped me see that I am not alone in my nightmare of an experience with my ex.

    • @StephanieLynCoaching
      @StephanieLynCoaching  6 лет назад +6

      mysteryguest1948 I am so sorry you have had to go through that!

    • @emanaturalsaus
      @emanaturalsaus 6 лет назад +3

      Mine the same. Used the term 'she's a work friend' to have his emotional affair with her. She was also in a relationship. Players.😟

    • @raylira310
      @raylira310 5 лет назад

      @@StephanieLynCoaching is narcissit the same in women and men?

    • @emokiriemiabednegoabed2844
      @emokiriemiabednegoabed2844 5 лет назад

      Smartness is important in a relationship and cyberhackinggenius helped cloned my husband’s phone and I got access to all his dealings both on phone and social media without touching his phone. All I did was share my husband’s phone number with cyberhackinggenius and I was able to read both his new and deleted messages from my phone without having to touch his phone. My husband was a cheating Narcissist and I’m glad to find out all his secrets and infidelity with the help of cyberhackinggenius. I’m here in UK and able to access my husband’s phone messages with a link on my phone even while he was away in Canada cheating on me. I got to discover that my husband who is legally married to me here in UK is also recently married to another woman in Canada and I’m finally going through a divorce with lots of evidence against him. I read all his Whatsapp, Facebook,Skype,Instagram and Snapchat messages Including the deleted text and recent messages. You can contact this great Hacker Gavin via Gmail (cyberhackinggenius) or text and speak to him directly on his phone and WhatsApp : +19256795146 and don’t forget to thank me later.

    • @abigailethan472
      @abigailethan472 3 года назад

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  • @beckypuckett9902
    @beckypuckett9902 6 месяцев назад +2

    I put my phone face down all the time. I’m not hiding anything, I just think that it is respectful while others are around or if we’re in a restaurant or anywhere out in public.

  • @stephanielamparter1676
    @stephanielamparter1676 2 года назад +23

    Currently going through the effects of this as my 6 year relationship recently ended. He started acting really distant and we kept arguing. He would stay out late every day and like avoid me which was really strange. Turns out he was talking to a coworker after I found a woman’s work top in our laundry. He confessed that they would sit in his car a couple times a week and talk for hours and he was becoming emotionally attached to her. Told me he cut off contact with her but I then later found out he was lying. Never confessed it was physical but I’m sure it was as well. He said he did it because he liked the attention and blamed me for not giving him enough love and attention...

    • @brightpage1020
      @brightpage1020 2 года назад +5

      Oh my gosh what a *bad word for awful human being - he was*. I’m so sorry you went through this and so grateful you shared because we might have the same man.
      I spoke to him about his coworker getting unusually close unusually fast … he said I was jealous / insecure, I backed off, then he took it from work relationship to online and text, to lunched outside of work and finally dates. At that point, I was livid and threatened to leave and divorce. He talked me down. A few months later I found a mystery bra in our laundry. Ew!

    • @nitiexpanse
      @nitiexpanse 2 года назад +4

      O My God! Stephanie why do I feel you wrote what I went through exactly. 12 years of marriage and situation ditto as yours. His emotional affair started at work place, he started acting different, change in habbits and behaviour. Gaslit me with sudden criticism, lied repeatedly times and saying he doesn't talk much to the person he was spending time with. I found later he would lie every time.

    • @Confessions089
      @Confessions089 Год назад +2

      That's a classic narcissist. Hope you heal and find someone who always treats you right.

  • @isobellamont2781
    @isobellamont2781 3 года назад +23

    If there's nothing going on, there should be no reason for them to immediately get defensive and start trying to find things they perceive wrong with your logic. They also shouldn't be afraid to introduce you because they're afraid of how the interaction might go. Umm, if you're worried about how I might see the two of you interacting, you're only raising the red flag count.

    • @miaaiden4043
      @miaaiden4043 3 года назад

      WATERLAND_HACKERS on IG is incredible because of the result of their services. I was able to get electronic evidence to win my divorce case

    • @abigailethan472
      @abigailethan472 3 года назад

      Words can't express what waterland_hackers on IG did for me
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  • @aaacars1297
    @aaacars1297 9 месяцев назад +1

    Stephanie is straight from the heart. You are amazing you’re so on point with everything you said love you for that.! ❤
    gaslighting meaning?

  • @emanaturalsaus
    @emanaturalsaus 6 лет назад +21

    People of the opposite sex should have healthy boundaries and not get too personal or too imvolved with another 'friend'. Respect their relationship and marriage and stop 'discussing or 'gossiping' behind the other person's back. Best 'friends' of the opposite sex. You should let the significant other be their 'significant other'. Stop being 'Best buddies or best mates' or 'best friends ' with another friend of the opposite sex to the point where it ends up hurting another person's partner and damaging their relationship or marriage. 😟

  • @Princess06j
    @Princess06j 5 лет назад +31

    I think that by the time you see the signs, it' s a bit too late. And above all if our partner is already involved emotionally, it is unlikely they will stop half way. I think by the it is time to leave.

    • @emokiriemiabednegoabed2844
      @emokiriemiabednegoabed2844 5 лет назад

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    • @abigailethan472
      @abigailethan472 3 года назад

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    • @mr.wright9867
      @mr.wright9867 2 года назад +1

      Yeah I was 9 years into my relationship/marriage when I found out my wife had an emotional affair when we dated. I haven't treated her the same since

  • @pamelasmith2625
    @pamelasmith2625 Год назад +16

    I had been married for over fifty years. My husband at 74 was still very handsome and in good physical shape. As far as I know he had never had an affair on me during our marriage. We sold our home and moved into a small apartment building. We just loved it and we’re enjoying having the money from our home to travel and have fun. Probably the best and happiest few years of our lives together as we had the time and the money to enjoy ourselves. A younger women (60 year old) moved in after we had been there for a few years. My husband and her both smoked (the only two people in the building who smoked). She started flirting with him outrageously right in front of me. She would always say to me, we are just having fun, he reminds me of my late husband. They started going out to the gazebo for a smoke 5 - 6 times a day, I used to get knots in my stomach and just knew something was going on, Even at night they would be out in the dark in the gazebo. He kept telling me that it was all in my head and that they were just friends. My husband became sick and was diagnosed with lung cancer and given 3 months to live. I spent every day running back and forth to doctors appointments, and the hospital.. every day she would come knocking on my door. I would tell her that he is resting and she would push past me and come into our apartment. One day she just kissed him full on the lips right in front of me. I couldn’t believe the way she was behaving. By this time my husband wasn’t smoking any more. I was a nervous wreck and the stress was killing me. I have fibromyalgia and I was in a constant flare up due to the extra stress on me. Before he was diagnosed with cancer, he told me she needed some help to fix her kitchen faucet. I went with him and when she opened the door she asked what I was doing there. She had a beer opened for him (even though he didn’t drink) and said she thought he would have stayed for a drink. She was always looking for ways to be alone with him. My husband told me one day that she had asked him to join her in her car at night when it was very cold out. He told her it wasn’t a good idea. I confronted her with it the next day and told her it was inappropriate to be asking a married man to get into her car. She just laughed at me. My husband passed away after his three month prognosis. She moved to the US (we live in Canada) a few months later. She would phone me on his birthday and on the anniversary of his death, calling me her friend. That is totally not normal. I finally wrote her a letter telling her not to contact me any more. I don’t consider her a friend. I am so devastated about the disrespect my husband gave me during the last few years of his life. I gave that man my whole life. I took care of him to the best of my ability right up to the end. The stress I went through was unbearable. It is 3 years not and I still can’t get over what happened. I just feel so betrayed. A part of me realized that most men who had a young woman constantly flirt with them would feel very flattered and enjoy the attention. I keep wondering if he hadn’t died, if they would have had a full affair and we would have separated. I feel like my 53 years with him was a waste. We did have a lot of good times, but he always was very difficult to live with as he was very controlling. I had a heart attack a year after he passed away from all the stress I went through. Sorry for such a long reply, I just needed to get this off my chest. It’s,not something I can talk to anyone about, not even my closest friends.
    You are doing people a great service with your videos. Thank you for giving me a platform.❤️🇨🇦

    • @q2kh885
      @q2kh885 5 месяцев назад +2

      Don't be sry. ❤

    • @BarronsBabe-oe3qp
      @BarronsBabe-oe3qp 3 месяца назад +2

      Wow ! I just read your story an my husband an I just moved into a new place an I just got a feeling that something similar is going to happen with us...😢

    • @pamelasmith2625
      @pamelasmith2625 3 месяца назад +3

      @@BarronsBabe-oe3qp oh, I hope not. It is now five years and I am still not over it. I hope things turn out better for you. If my husband had t become sick I probably would have left him even though it would have been very difficult financially. The stress was just killing me. Please stay in touch and take care. Pam

    • @iUnderstand
      @iUnderstand 3 месяца назад +3

      I'm glad you were at least able to find a place to get some of this off your chest. I wish you healing, strength, love, and relief. ❤

    • @lak1294
      @lak1294 2 месяца назад

      Unbelievable!! I'm so sorry.

  • @angelaknox
    @angelaknox 6 лет назад +90

    Just left him six days ago. He was having an online emotional/sexting relationship. He's cheated on me in every way. I'm done.

    • @emanaturalsaus
      @emanaturalsaus 6 лет назад +12

      Same. I blocked him. He always denied it. 🤔

    • @missgarciatube
      @missgarciatube 5 лет назад +6

      How are you doing... it isn’t easy what you did. Remember you are worthy

    • @askkathi
      @askkathi 5 лет назад +5

      Ditto

    • @emokiriemiabednegoabed2844
      @emokiriemiabednegoabed2844 5 лет назад +3

      Smartness is important in a relationship and cyberhackinggenius helped cloned my husband’s phone and I got access to all his dealings both on phone and social media without touching his phone. All I did was share my husband’s phone number with cyberhackinggenius and I was able to read both his new and deleted messages from my phone without having to touch his phone. My husband was a cheating Narcissist and I’m glad to find out all his secrets and infidelity with the help of cyberhackinggenius. I’m here in UK and able to access my husband’s phone messages with a link on my phone even while he was away in Canada cheating on me. I got to discover that my husband who is legally married to me here in UK is also recently married to another woman in Canada and I’m finally going through a divorce with lots of evidence against him. I read all his Whatsapp, Facebook,Skype,Instagram and Snapchat messages Including the deleted text and recent messages. You can contact this great Hacker Gavin via Gmail (cyberhackinggenius) or text and speak to him directly on his phone and WhatsApp : +19256795146 and don’t forget to thank me later.

    • @rebellucy5610
      @rebellucy5610 4 года назад +20

      Emotional affairs usually lead to sexual affairs. In a way they are worse. A one night stand is a one night stand. A Emotional affair can last years.

  • @harikamukemmelsevin8601
    @harikamukemmelsevin8601 Год назад +35

    Your out-of-the-box thinking and unique perspective turned an otherwise mediocre presentation into a fantastic one *johnsonspy* . You did a good job of catching the mistakes and keeping us from wasting time and by taking the wrong path. Your attention to detail really sets you apart from the crowd. Great work! Jack, Your great work has resulted in tangible, beneficial results to me. You’re a force to be reckoned

  • @kathasfaith7643
    @kathasfaith7643 5 лет назад +12

    So very validating for me!!! Thank you for that Stephanie! I am saving this for when I doubt myself again, as a reminder that I knew more than I gave myself credit for, because much of this is what I told the man I was in a relationship with. As you would expect it went right over his head.

  • @sheilascuncio3425
    @sheilascuncio3425 6 лет назад +12

    You are helping me so much, Stephanie, you are unbelievable at how much you understand what I am going through. Thank you for all your videos. It was a lifesaver that I found you on you tube, you are saving me. I am in a 21 year marriage and 28 yrs together with children and I am going through a divorce because I have to leave for my own self worth and my kids. Thank you

  • @gargikulkarni8764
    @gargikulkarni8764 2 года назад +3

    😄phone face down👍. A school going will point it. People don't need videos. It's very clear something is off when you stay together in one room. Lack of Physical intimacy is always cleary visible.

  • @cforest4281
    @cforest4281 6 лет назад +33

    They have a spare phone and accuse you of having an affair. Tie down all finances immediately.

    • @cjbrown8245
      @cjbrown8245 4 года назад

      Don’t forget joint bank accounts

    • @cforest4281
      @cforest4281 4 года назад +1

      @@cjbrown8245 Yep and be careful of the life insurance. They have their own secret bank accounts to syphon off money while making you live off a small budget. Then they make you take loans.

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      @miaaiden4043 3 года назад

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    • @emilymichael185
      @emilymichael185 3 года назад

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  • @SlashPanther
    @SlashPanther 3 года назад +4

    This video made me feel better about myself. She had three "friends" in specific. I noticed that one of them that she was texting she was having a text conversation with the night before. He was coming over to meet us so I checked her phone to see when he was coming to the door. Funnily enough, there were no prior conversations from the night before. She had deleted them. Then she told me that her phone automatically deletes conversations and I believed every word she was saying. She made me feel bad for asking why there was no conversations from the night before. And of course she reassured me that they were "just friends." I stopped seeing them get touchy feely after I told her it hurt me and then eventually she cut him off for an outside reason. The next friend would also constantly take her out to eat, ride with her to places in and out of work, (as they worked together) and I once called her and he was on the beach with her and a friend that she said she was with. Posted up in a chair sitting down. We had a rule that she would tell me if she was going out with him. She told me that he had literally just showed up and it was too quick for her to message me that he was there. But she never told me he was coming. Made me feel bad. I would hear them talk sexual jokes to each other and I asked her to stop because it hurt me. I remember being in a room with them weeks after this conversation and they making explicit jokes to each other. I didn't say anything because it was such an uncomfortable situation, and the amount that I was shamed I just never brought it up. Not to mention I was compared to him on multiple occasions. No sex or intimacy for over a month while I was spending the holiday with her and her family for the majority of that time but still no sex for a few weeks before that. She would leave for the day to go to the library and come back later at night because she had "things to work on." For her online sales company.Fast forward to being long distance in our relationship, I remember the last time we were together she called me to ask why I wasn't giving her enough attention. And that her friends boyfriend of two weeks gave her friend way more attention than I gave her. I remember dropping the phone and beating my pillow as hard as I could, yelling at the top of my lungs for a few minutes (I muted my phone but left it on the table next to me) and when I got back on the phone she just asked why I was gone. I told her what had happened. And she said "I just want a little more attention, there's nothing wrong with that." That was the end of it for me, I feel like I finally woke up after everything.

  • @creekfairy8605
    @creekfairy8605 5 лет назад +16

    Thank you, Stephanie, for reminding us all of what a healthy loving relationship actually is. Many of us already know how two loving people relate to each other but sometimes, life takes us down a path where we slowly but surely, start lowering our standards, letting self-doubt get the best of us! Then, it just becomes a habit to put up with what doesn't feel right... Loved this video. I think I might just subscribe to your channel. Thank you so much for all you do. :)

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    • @emilymichael185
      @emilymichael185 3 года назад

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  • @stephenbattle5015
    @stephenbattle5015 Год назад +2

    I have read, listened and watched videos about emotional affairs to try and understand all aspects of how and why they happen. I didn't know they existed or anything about them till I found I was experiencing one as regards my wife and a long term girlfriend she has. I watched your video and can relate to everything you said. You definitely know what you're talking about on this subject. Thanks for giving me a better perspective on my gut feeling about the why's and wherefores on it. I now know my gut feeling or intuition wasn't wrong. Thank you.

  • @grace4976
    @grace4976 3 года назад +6

    My husband was texting and the words were being repeated in his hearing aids. I heard every word.

  • @sehzadelee
    @sehzadelee 5 лет назад +9

    %100 correct points. Some people are really mentally sick and unappreciative.

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      @emokiriemiabednegoabed2844 5 лет назад

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  • @nickbeef4824
    @nickbeef4824 2 года назад +1

    Incredible content. Seriously.
    I am recovering and on the way out of an EA. She has moved to Tennessee. Thank you Jesus.

  • @carolvevle8190
    @carolvevle8190 6 лет назад +18

    All of the above. He not only emotionally cheated, but physically as well. He is now in a medical building, out of state. Nasty emails & finally, I got so sick of it, I asked him for a trial separation. His reaction was to go ghosting since the 26th of March. No, fixing. DONE!!!!

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  • @CrissyHinkle-sr9xv
    @CrissyHinkle-sr9xv 5 месяцев назад +1

    Yes !! This is so spot on what happened! 😔

  • @tourneytike13
    @tourneytike13 4 года назад +5

    Some people are just friends and don't engage in risky conversation, it depends on the bf/gf's interpretation. Even with accountable reflection sometimes there's nothing you can do to make one at ease at the idea of their partner having friendships.

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    • @Confessions089
      @Confessions089 Год назад +3

      Until you are the one on the other side of it. You will never understand and see why those types of relationships are pointless. 😂

    • @L.RaeHoldt
      @L.RaeHoldt 4 дня назад

      I interprret it as an affair.

  • @raymechiawest4492
    @raymechiawest4492 5 лет назад +13

    I believe that when someone accuses you of cheating, that it is a possibility they are.

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  • @bobwallace7487
    @bobwallace7487 13 дней назад

    its complicated. sometimes its just over. Over for one, or both. This level of understanding....self first, then other, is quite illuminating. Chicken or egg.
    I am not justifying my own poor behaviour. I see it now, so I hope to do better. Next time in my case.
    Thank you for shining some light!

  • @rams677
    @rams677 Год назад

    The efficiency of this *brian hacks online* is next level. To juggle walk throughs of various angles on the topic delivered to-camera, differnet content per topic from various folks underneath the umbrella of the track list of the larger big band concert itself is engaging and refined. To make a dense taccess like this so digestible is really something. Awesome work Mike !!!

  • @thomascoulston1431
    @thomascoulston1431 3 года назад +1

    Six months goes by fast. It all seems obvious now and frank, it’s not happy. Love is very blind but worth it. Thanks Stephanie

  • @rosebeard2866
    @rosebeard2866 4 года назад +6

    My narcisstic husband is always on his phone takes it in to the bathroom with him and even when we use to go out to eat he would be on his phone instead of being with me and of course i am paying for the meal i dont need to know because he always has an excuse but i am almost out of this marriage so he can find someone else to drain and emotionally abuse

  • @eileenmolina9152
    @eileenmolina9152 Год назад +1

    I can't trust no more.. He is protecting his mistress.. He stays home because he don't want me to do something about his mistress.. They continually cheating.. My husband never ask forgiveness because he said he didn't do anything wrong.. Cheating is not a mistake it's a blame to wife..

  • @treasureatuhaire
    @treasureatuhaire 3 года назад +2

    Everything you say here is true. Thank you for always speaking to me. I am grateful.

  • @ShelleyG1014
    @ShelleyG1014 6 лет назад +13

    Yes, girl this video and you were everything I needed today

    • @emokiriemiabednegoabed2844
      @emokiriemiabednegoabed2844 5 лет назад

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    • @emilymichael185
      @emilymichael185 3 года назад

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  • @m.fazlurrahman5854
    @m.fazlurrahman5854 Год назад

    Yes!! Pastor Teresa!!! Go ahead and find out an angle among the brothers!! Only sisterhood can truly identify and deceiving brother. ( partner )

  • @jazzminejackson9181
    @jazzminejackson9181 3 года назад +2

    He gave me the code to his phone to let me add my wifi to it. Then I saw the texts with the other person that was totally upsetting. I confronted him and he said it was just an emotional thing, but he was talking about moving with her to another state. He said he was trying to make her feel better, because she was sick and just got out of an abusive relationship. He says he was just telling her lies. Makes no sense.

    • @MyndsetMomentum
      @MyndsetMomentum 2 года назад

      I'm sorry this happened to you. If you are on the same wifi, how can you see the texts?

  • @tanyasalas2763
    @tanyasalas2763 2 года назад +2

    Yes. Unfortunately, I became a Professional Detective out of this.😁 I now can help people as well. With common sense, you will know something is Wrong and it's time to gather your evidence and then show your proof to them and see how they squirm out of it... They won't and will have to confess that you are Right....

  • @Xochil1986
    @Xochil1986 3 года назад +5

    Its worse when they are coworkers

  • @pennybethard507
    @pennybethard507 6 лет назад +10

    Thank you so much. I start to believe the manipulation.Thoughht I was going crazy. Thanks for facts. Keep up good work.🤔

    • @miaaiden4043
      @miaaiden4043 3 года назад

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    • @emilymichael185
      @emilymichael185 3 года назад

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  • @Gotoworkkk
    @Gotoworkkk 3 месяца назад

    Social media gives cheaters so much access to digging up old loves from the past! Especially men never forget their first love… even if married and happy they will reconnect with a past girlfriend because of the love they still feel for her.
    My husband at the time, reconnected with someone and hid from me for over two years. He was very emotional about it, which I’ve never really seen in him before. He told me he wasn’t going to see her anymore, but I found out he kept lying.
    Intimacy was lacking, and he didn’t really pay much attention to me anymore, which was a gradual thing.
    We’ve been divorced for five years now and he’s still together with her…
    Point of my story is ?
    Never trust your man if he connected with an old love…

  • @kennethlange6157
    @kennethlange6157 2 года назад +2

    After my & my partner drifted aparted 12 years,suddenly she woke up when i started making new female friends and alerted me to take care as it could lead into affairs of the heart.So i told her they are just friends and decided to introduce them to her.But then she analysed them and notice some are getting closer and warn me of the red flag.

  • @sarahmedina1584
    @sarahmedina1584 5 лет назад +6

    11:00 phone under the pillow...
    Phone face down.
    Bunch of tones going off.
    Omg

    • @emokiriemiabednegoabed2844
      @emokiriemiabednegoabed2844 5 лет назад

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  • @MsAmira1988
    @MsAmira1988 5 месяцев назад

    I wish I watched this video during my relationship. All the signs were there for an emotional/physical affair and my ex kept denying it, saying "she's just a coworker". Everything came to light after our breakup when he took her on a trip literally 2 months after we broke up (booking the trip just around the end of our relationship). I've definitely learnt from this experience and I will NEVER again downplay my gut feeling.

  • @debscornercanada
    @debscornercanada 3 года назад +3

    Or you get "my god! SHES married are you crazy!" -also a sign (usually a co worker ive found)

  • @emresoylu6064
    @emresoylu6064 Год назад +24

    Even for the recognition *johnsonspy* gets, his skills is so underrated at least by most tech fans in general. I mean I get that there is stamina and all that involved in things like he does but being able to stand so far away and have the ability get the information needed with high speed as expected to hit it perfectly with a paddle just over the net is extremely impressive.

  • @haticegul1934
    @haticegul1934 Год назад

    This man really hit the ground running and hasn't stopped yet. He gives us more understanding of him without interviews and negative antics he just shows us who he is through the Recovery. True living legend. We salute you. *Brian hacks Online* . The execution, creativity, and goodness that came from it were inspiring on a number of levels. Cheers Alex & looking forward to seeing what you do next!

  • @pranchhiber6908
    @pranchhiber6908 5 лет назад +4

    Wonderful video, Stephanie! Thanks.... My husband has been having a torrid emotional affair, he's betraying me by shifting all his love care and loyalties.... To his sister. No it's not incest but she's replaced me in his heart and mind. Happening since three years, and wreaking havoc with our marriage. There's no intimacy, he's always criticizing me, his phone locked and mostly kept upside down

    • @emokiriemiabednegoabed2844
      @emokiriemiabednegoabed2844 5 лет назад

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  • @carmelcapricorn39
    @carmelcapricorn39 Месяц назад

    He’s always texting and covering the phone, but wants to pick and choose what he wants me to look at on his phone, or will hurry to say oh this is my homeboy, but will not tell me about others that’s on his phone, he will close out of his messages really fast and swipe them off the screen quickly. If I ask a question he’s always on the defensive, he throws the statement out there alll the time saying why are you accusing me, and all I’m doing is asking a question

  • @lizadolittle6736
    @lizadolittle6736 5 лет назад +4

    Geez, sounds like the same broken record I've been listening to for the last twenty years. I feel so pathetic. I don't even try to "talk" anymore. Wasted so much time trying to be what he wanted, I never even realized that I will never be capable of being that. Not to mention that I've not gotten what I needed from my marriage. Forgive and forget is the motto of the narc! They aren't deep enough to work on anything and dig in to actually fix the problem. They made a mistake and you either forgive or its over (their terms).

  • @sandblackbondchickcruz462
    @sandblackbondchickcruz462 Год назад +1

    They say you know I would not cheat on you! That’s when you know they are cheating big time!!

  • @ayva1939
    @ayva1939 Год назад

    Thank you for your full focus on the job instead of focusing on proving yourself to others. You always tried harder to be better *johnson spy* and now your success speaks out louder. Thank you for a hard work. I’m sure it was worth it all. There is no doubt that you are the most deserving of all that should be given a shout out

  • @aaronkerr5313
    @aaronkerr5313 4 года назад +4

    My wife won't admit to the emotional affair, and even kept including him and his family in our family dynamic.

    • @nataliabenoit4653
      @nataliabenoit4653 4 года назад +3

      Thats so insensitive even if there isn't an emotional affair, the fact she won't respect how you view it and you asking to stop the friendship because its effecting your marriage is not okay. I pray you both can come back together

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    • @JerryMcquire007
      @JerryMcquire007 3 месяца назад

      I am going through a similar ordeal. Has even had our own kids try to cover for her when seeing him. Has his family on majority of our family trips even though I tell her I am not comfortable. And tends to put the friend’s interest over her own husband. I am heartbroken and dumbfounded and don’t know if I should stay or leave since we have young children and have been with each other for over 12 years!

  • @casperinsight3524
    @casperinsight3524 4 года назад +6

    Love is blind
    We overlook the signs
    Our blinders are on
    Our intimacy evaporated overnight
    Never to return
    Covert Cerebral pattern
    They are mentally connected
    Mentally stimulated
    They require little to no physical touch
    They have an arsenal of excuses
    They never felt right sexually or intimately
    They felt intimately " off "
    Trust your intuition
    If it feels OFF
    It is
    If his needs override your comfort
    If he disrespects you
    If he continues to flaunt his attraction/attraction to others
    If you feel ignored
    If you feel unloved
    If you feel disrespected
    If he doesn't change his behaviour
    He never will
    He will never change
    You put up with it
    Or
    You won't
    Cut your losses
    Pull the plug
    Your drowning in self doubt
    When inaction keeps you stuck
    Take a break
    Get clear
    Do what you know is right
    It is difficult
    It will hurt for a while
    But
    It will hurt 100 Times more if you put up with it
    Why prolong the pain
    Pull back
    Pull out

  • @HarryAcorns
    @HarryAcorns Год назад +1

    What if the cheating spouse brings the "happiness " of being with their AP back home and have you thinking theyre really happy with you?

  • @joe812119
    @joe812119 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for the advice I just wish I could talk with someone about this

  • @arasefe738
    @arasefe738 Год назад

    The work he does is so vital the world needs more people like you lust love the podcast so you put up I love hearing these cheaters squirm keep up the good work, it takes good hearted individuals the gutts to do this instead. There should be whole government department buildings filled with *Brian hacks online* on the internet doing stuff like this to protect and serve its own civilians from cheaters. That would be tax money well spent.

  • @MsRedsunrise
    @MsRedsunrise 6 лет назад +9

    My narcissistic husband has his phone on lock since day 1 we got married.

    • @alexandrasilvaful
      @alexandrasilvaful 6 лет назад +1

      kassie S. Same here!

    • @FunintheSun813
      @FunintheSun813 6 лет назад +1

      I know a,narc who is married and has a lock on his phone and said him and his wife are their own individuals so that's the purpose of the lock. Also they love to use whats app because they explained its encrypted. I never understood why a married man would do that? smh

    • @emokiriemiabednegoabed2844
      @emokiriemiabednegoabed2844 5 лет назад

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    • @rebellucy5610
      @rebellucy5610 4 года назад +2

      Get out now. It is locked for a reason and it is NOT for security.

  • @sreejasnair
    @sreejasnair 2 года назад

    Each and every word you say was part most of my married life and at the end it was complete ignorance and shamelessly talking on phone whole day and night even on weekends and that too with room closed or moving out of home for random walks. I finally moved out and it was just emotional abuse. No use of confronting , no answers. The phone part was just apt. He started keeping complicated passwords for last 5 years. I feel it was just not one affair , it was many of them atleast emotionally. Thankfully he agreed for mutual divorce now and we have filed , i just hope all of these strings end soon.

  • @ambersweet1654
    @ambersweet1654 4 года назад

    I was married for 20
    Years and we divorced almost 4 years ago. I have been dating someone that I met 6 months after my divorce and we been together since. BUT something makes me have my radar up. He was being shady. But he was always around so I thought I was crazy. Cause he would say so. I couldn’t shake it. I talked to someone a month before I met him and he knew. But he throughs in my face when I found out he was having 100’s of online affairs. Never was meeting these women. He would make up these huge lies. Now it’s my fault because he needed attention is why he did it. Oh and he refuses to let me on his phone. Even if I ask just to see the people that text or a certain text. Is there a word for someone who is addicted to online relationships. Can they change or don’t get always need that?

  • @diannavaughan4898
    @diannavaughan4898 5 лет назад +4

    Love your work! Subscribed from hello! Thank you for digging in and your clarity 💕

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  • @kimberlyholloway-caster4987
    @kimberlyholloway-caster4987 3 года назад

    I go through this . Thank you so much for this pod cast. I have no doubts now . I was just being niece as to what was going on

  • @SuperBrilliantbrunet
    @SuperBrilliantbrunet 2 года назад +2

    What if you are just too tired to continue to get them to be empathetic with your feelings?

  • @vansikavansika6317
    @vansikavansika6317 3 года назад

    Reallyyy was looking for guidance related to exactly what u said.... So so accurate... I'm stunned.

  • @brightpage1020
    @brightpage1020 3 года назад

    Thank you, Beautiful! Love the strength you share here.

  • @lindasurena
    @lindasurena 5 лет назад +1

    Thank you so much for videos your sharing, I’m learning and open eyes. God bless you!

  • @joannedobkin3363
    @joannedobkin3363 Год назад

    My husband is fantastic and all women love him as a friend. I saw on his phone a text from a female coworker asking for another/walk. He was going on alone just the two of them walks at lunch. This coworker I think has a broken marriage and she wants what I have. I have the best. I’m not letting her take him so text her pretending to be him saying “ my wife prefers we don’t go on walks” ladies and men it’s not appropriate to go on intimate walks even if you think your just friends it’s opening the door to more. Walk with your same sex coworkers or in groups. The spouses don’t like those one on one intimate walk talks. Walk with your own man.

    • @Gotoworkkk
      @Gotoworkkk 3 месяца назад

      Oh definitely! Those walks if they haven’t already, will turn into something much more intimate!

  • @mrb1usky764
    @mrb1usky764 2 года назад +1

    Yep that's my wife. She always threatens to kick me out when I ask about her phone. She has hidden her conversation with her guy friend for a year now

  • @carmelcapricorn39
    @carmelcapricorn39 Месяц назад

    He’s always obsessed with his phone and messages that he get , he don’t know boundaries he allows people to send him messages all times of the night and morning and will always say ohh I don’t know them people, their just sending shorts.

  • @shadowfox_117
    @shadowfox_117 4 года назад +1

    they only thing your doing us helping that person to be more careful in the sneaking they are doing, it's better to keep quite and patiently watch until you know for sure... an ex tried that with me she dint know I was watching her for over 6 months as she got comfortable in what she was doing, when i finally confronted her she lied with a straight face crying until i showed her evidence and when she realized she was burnt then she stop the water works and tried to blame me. needless to say I drop her. nothing more tastless than a woman with no integrity.

  • @andybeard3912
    @andybeard3912 Год назад +1

    9:3 and 11:00 strike a chord with me. However if I ever said any of this to my ex she would blow up in a second... she'd basically accuse me of being jealous and paranoid and then scream and shout at me.

  • @shannoncook9915
    @shannoncook9915 3 года назад +2

    I have found that whoever they are cheating with they seem to talk bad about or put them down alot but mention their name alot

  • @KeZune89
    @KeZune89 6 лет назад +4

    This happened to me.. :( He always took his phone to the bathroom and when he typed with her on the phone he used to hold it away from me so I couldn't see who he was talking to... When I told him that I noticed these things, he got so angry at me, he said that I'm crazy and there is nothing going on. He got so pissed that I didn't ask again.. But I knew it... And now he's with her and he quit talking to me. I never got a reply back... But well, you can't change it and have to deal with this situation..

  • @barbarathompson8559
    @barbarathompson8559 Год назад

    I tried talking to my partner about the other person and he went to her and told her right away and complained about me to her.

  • @triciasimon283
    @triciasimon283 4 года назад +2

    Is it possible for someone to have a one sided emotional affair???
    I feel he was at one time in the past infatuated with someone who only reciprocated flirtatiously for tips. Provocative jokes and images were exchanged via texts, along with profuse ( one sided) compliments, the likes of which I’ve never even received in 50 years of our relationship. She seldom reciprocated with much other than one word answers unless working as a bartender. She seems to be a fair weather friend to him. I think he was eventually hurt about that. This happened awhile ago but I’m still hurt and confused that he couldn’t see the wrong in what he was doing. I still feel it was more of an infatuation than an emotional affair but this still doesn’t make sense to me. Is there such a thing?

    • @jennygreenwood1756
      @jennygreenwood1756 3 года назад

      My ex did it to me, too. Got tired of tge lies and disrespect and left him. He tried to turn it around on me but I sure as heck wasn't the one hitting on a married person via text. Life is too short to spend with an emotionally immature selfish clown.

  • @robertleejameswelch8383
    @robertleejameswelch8383 6 лет назад +2

    I hope one day that you have live streams. This is great. I hope you can also do more business psychology and motivational videos.
    I believe In love, but I do believe in balance. My challenge in personal relationships is: trust. I am an entrepreneur and my mindset is more of a team mindset. I think of my partner as my life teammate.
    I work a lot and most women think that I can just stop what I am doing in my business.

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    @serhatektiren Год назад

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  • @toastedcoconut6095
    @toastedcoconut6095 6 лет назад +6

    7:17-7:55 I had to replay that part because it was that important of a message.

    • @StephanieLynCoaching
      @StephanieLynCoaching  6 лет назад +2

      Krista Sengelaub thank you so much! Keep listening to it over and over let it sink in. All the best to you!

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  • @iss3669
    @iss3669 6 лет назад +5

    I had an emotional affair but my husband was diagnosed with borderline personality disorder and was very abusive. An emotional affair was my escape, it saved me. Made me realise what I want in my life. Gave me the strength to get out of that situation.

  • @ytc_recep8086
    @ytc_recep8086 Год назад

    You consistently bring your all and I truly appreciate that *JohnsonSpy* . Thank you for making the corporate life so smooth. Proud to have you work for me. Great work as always.This is the beginning of many more good things to come. May you get everything, that you could demand. Best wishes in all you do and congrat to me as well, job well done!

  • @outroseok
    @outroseok 2 года назад

    my ex had an emotional affair with a girl he met on discord and when I found out he blocked her and cut things off and she mentioned to him how she was gonna come to where he lived to visit him, she was calling him baby and everything but he claimed he never called her that…

  • @m_jay5
    @m_jay5 Год назад

    If your man or woman confides in and has personal conversations with anyone of the opposite sex that isn't their boyfriend/girlfirend/husband/wife they have already emotionally cheated on them!

  • @Jennie-es7kr
    @Jennie-es7kr Год назад

    The quality of *Johnsonspy* job is so incredibly high. If you don't have a team behind you, then you are clearly a multi talented individual.. The way the access is structured are perfect, the visuals are stunning, the narration is engaging, and of course, the project is itself intriguing.. You are a professional Baron...

  • @jessicaanderson2147
    @jessicaanderson2147 4 года назад +1

    I'd like you to make a video about how to go about truly proving to your partner that you've learned from cheating after being completely honest and coming forth with it.
    I am also concerned about his wounds and after watching your videos I feel as though he's holding onto everything and has a lot of negative self-talk.
    (The cheating was not emotional)

    • @samantacool152
      @samantacool152 3 года назад +1

      He will never trust u again. He will think about the situation all the time" sorry!! but he's now seeing u in a different light.

  • @Iskandar613
    @Iskandar613 3 года назад +3

    In my experience, if a person is "well fed" he/she will not go somewhere else to look for "food", i.e. if a person gets whatever he/she needs in his/her marriage, they will not go look for it somewhere else..but if it's a sparkles, tasteless marriage, where one party doesn't want to do anything to keep the passion physical or emotional going, claiming that he/she is so overwhelmed with whatever they are and just to give partner guilt trip and hold him/her a hostage like "But you can't do it..speak to someone else, give complements or have emotional talks...because WE ARE MARRIED ", is not going to work well and such people will be looking for a substitute on a side..that's why they end up in those online affairs..I'd say, you feel like your marriage is feeding away..work on it...Good luck!

    • @hypergreedgaming9590
      @hypergreedgaming9590 3 года назад +1

      What if they're getting well fed but they're still raiding the fridge?

    • @Iskandar613
      @Iskandar613 3 года назад

      @@hypergreedgaming9590 That's called a sickness..it's already abnormal..happens pretty rare

  • @ashleyware82
    @ashleyware82 6 лет назад +4

    Can you do a video on the difference between the signs of an emotional affair and when I guy is going to break up with you.

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  • @lauragomez3695
    @lauragomez3695 2 года назад

    I have a question. I was having problems with my husband. He has jealousy issues bad and trust. So he and I have had a rough relationship because he’s jealousy was driving me crazy on top of other things. So I moved out. Got my own place. Pre pandemia. He came back looking for me and we continued seeing each other but only on the weekend I felt like I had been downgraded to the booty call. I kept asking him for us to move back in together but he started making excuses. I felt undervalued. And used. One day one of my clients text message me and flirted with me. So I flirted back but with no intention of following trough or even going out with him. It actually felt good but I knew it was going to end there. I love my husband. But that message boosted my self steem and that was the end never heard from the guy. And I didn’t perused it. I found it funny. But my husband found the conversation and now he is saying I cheated. And had a full blown affair with this guy. And I didn’t he is so angry we broke up he said he wants to be friends. So my question is what I did is it consider an affair ?

  • @ファミリーフォーラムジャパン

    Dr. Nancy Kalish’s fascinating research indicates that people who rediscover their old flames on social media, at a school reunion, etc. and actually meet up with that person, have a 62% chance of having an affair with that old flame. The percentages rise significantly when that old affair was their “first love“, and also rise if the prior relationship with that person included sexual involvement. “Sexual” meaning making out, deep kissing, and any kind of “petting”. So imagine 10 people who reconnect with an old flame and meet for coffee “to catch up on old times“. Six of the 10 will end up having an affair. If those old flames were all “first loves“, or the relationship was sexual, then seven of the 10 will have an affair. If the former relationship was a “first love“ and included sexual involvement, eight out of 10 will end up having an affair. Information from the medical Institute of sexual health, indicates that the emotional and sexual bonds of especially ones “first love“ are burned into the brain through a potent cocktail of dopamine, oxytocin, and adrenaline such that these bonds are unforgettable, and when that couple reunites such that sparks fly, they will inevitably pick up the relationship, both emotionally and sexually, where they left off 15, 20, 30 years ago.

    • @fo3828
      @fo3828 2 года назад

      Interesting, thank you so much.

  • @lindamateri9906
    @lindamateri9906 Год назад

    Yes men don’t talk to women online while ignoring me we spend next to no time together

  • @marybelleee
    @marybelleee 6 лет назад +1

    all above you sed are true, my husband become addicted to his phone he bring it anywhere to his sleep, bathroom, when watching tv he face down his phone, and theni found out he was cheating online when i went to apple store to fix the battery of my husband’s old phone, and i didn’t know that he is still login to his messenger in his old phone, suddenly a message popped out and i read all the cheatings he and that woman he met online. i read also in their chat that he is not attracted anymore with me, which is true coz we dont have any intimate moments anymore. even me i’m fallen out of him the way he treated me, the way he talked to me rudely, yell, even if i ask simple things like hows his day at work, he will just replied back saying how stupid i am to ask him that. really hurt me.

    • @StephanieLynCoaching
      @StephanieLynCoaching  6 лет назад +1

      Marybelle Cruz I am so sorry!! Regardless if you both are not attracted to each other or not it is hurtful and disrespectful for him to behave in that way.

    • @marybelleee
      @marybelleee 6 лет назад +1

      Stephanie Lyn Coaching yes it is, now i’m practicing what learned to your other video how to protect myself from him. I feel a little better practicing that method, i dont stress myself when he try me to push that button to trigger me to react to his attitude. thank u, glad i saw your videos.

    • @epicjourneysbritainireland9474
      @epicjourneysbritainireland9474 6 лет назад +1

      I pretty much had the same thing with my girlfriend..ive been with her for 15 years and 3 of those she cheated on me..i found videos of her fuck buddy wanking himself off saying her name..loads of pics of his penis and endless chats between them..she was cheating on me with him and coming home like everything was normal and gave no signs away....i found out mid june....

    • @Mrs.T305
      @Mrs.T305 6 лет назад

      Sorry to hear this. Why not divorce than to go through this pain?

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  • @rajkdabd
    @rajkdabd 2 года назад +3

    Where do you draw the line between online friendship and an emotional affair?

    • @Confessions089
      @Confessions089 Год назад +3

      The line begins when the first interaction begins. If you're in a relationship and your partner is talking to someone else then that constitutes cheating. It's no different than in person. Why do people insist that it's any different, when in reality it isn't.

    • @L.RaeHoldt
      @L.RaeHoldt 4 дня назад

      Did you tell her about it? Are you transparent? Do you tell the person when and where you talked to them? Do you let your partner listen in? Do you hide your communication? Ask yourself these questions...

  • @itsallaboutnothing2672
    @itsallaboutnothing2672 6 лет назад +1

    You are awesome So happy accidently found your videos

  • @rileycoyote211
    @rileycoyote211 3 года назад +3

    .... I just dont think I can do this anymore.

    • @jennygreenwood1756
      @jennygreenwood1756 3 года назад +2

      Don't! You deserve better. I left my alcoholic covert narc a year and a half ago. Life is too short to spend it with a liar and cheater.