No one tell her that although divorce rates were lower, women "accidentally murdering" their abusive husbands to protect themselves and their families were a lot higher.
I was just about to say to a commenter defending the tradwife thing that there were a ton of women who murdered their husbands and on the reverse, lots of husbands who murdered their wives. It’s almost like divorce keeps people safe and gives them an alternative to killing their spouse lol
I'm telling my three year old she has to become a brooding mare for a man she will likely only ever see as a grown ass man. By the way, LGBT people sexualise kids.
That's something that I always found funny about conservatives / hetero people. they ALWAYS claim that we LGBT people " force" our sexuality on kids... but they are the ones training their young female children to be slaves to their husbands. Yikes, 😅
I know, right? Yet somehow, letting kids know that some people fall in love with other people of the same gender, or letting them hear a story read by someone in a costume, is "sexualizing children."
being anti-sunscreen is a really bold stance when your community thinks a woman's entire value rests in her youth & beauty-especially when you're already melanin deficient.
Exactly! I saw a picture of a driver whose left side of the face was exposed to the sun for years (maybe even decades). The difference between the right and the left side of their face is crazy.
Exactly and it’s also just a safety precaution. Skin cancer kills at worst and is extremely uncomfortable to deal with at best. The only beauty rule everyone should follow is to apply sunscreen.
I remember my Dad used to tell my Mom that she had to vote the same way as him, "so their votes wouldn't cancel each other out." As an adult, I asked her if she ever really did that, and she just laughed.
That is so relatable. That's why I don't believe that "traditional" homemakers are the way religious scriptures of people like her project. Most of them don't give up their freedom of thought, expression to some extent. But their freedom to make life choices do get impacted. And when they feel there are injustices they too stand up to some extent. THEY DON'T SUBMIT TO THEIR HUSBANDS. But these content creators, I do feel they are filming lies.
Yep. It's so weird to me as a person who has been involved in kink circles for 21 years to see posts like "my husband tells me what to think" being made (supposedly) completely outside of any kinky context. Like, that's a line straight out of some kind of Deviantart bimbofication fanart, lol.
IKR? If all the things these chucklewits like to pretend are intrinsically and irrevocably tied to sex, gender, and orientation really were, there would be no need for them jumping down people's throats trying to force them into conformity.
That's what happens when you raise people with little to no sexual education or understanding. They will end up Wilding when they have a fetish and think it's some essence of their being when it's just horniness. We get it! You're a major sub-bottom! But that doesn't need to be a life style, nor do you need to go out of your way to try and convince other people because that will just repel people further. I swear, they also seem to put more effort into making people feel bad about not doing the same as them than they do to actually enjoy the lives that they love to parade around. If you really enjoy your life style that much why do you feel the need to try and make others follow suit unless you are insecure about it? If you are so secure with your lifestyle, you wouldn't care about what other people are doing, let alone try to shame them for doing otherwise
“I just let my husband think for me”. That is the fucking saddest thing I’ve ever heard. Imagine having so little agency in life to the point of not even being able to think for yourself.
@professorfoxtrot right because as if half the wars and conflicts in history isn't caused and propelled by men. Oh but wars are "romantic" and "manly." Who gives a shit about the hundreds of human lives lost (even innocent humans lives you think there's no civilian casualties in war?) am I right. But yay wars are "cool" and "edgy."
My younger sister is a tradwife. She does all the expected things like childcare, household chores, cooking, yard work, and she even "submits" to her husband. She does everything her husband says when he says it. She doesn't see her friends and she can't even talk on the phone when he is home. She does everything exactly how he wants and he resents her for it. A lot of these tradhusbands resent their wives. The main thing seems to be that they think their wives are lazy and are mooching off them because the wives don't have jobs that make money. They don't see them as a partner, they see them as an employee or an acquisition. If the wife gets a job that makes more money than him it hurts the husband's delicate male ego and he resents her more. If she gets a job that doesn't make as much as he thinks it should, she needs to quit because it's a waste of time. Can't get a job anyways because it would take away from the time she could be spending cleaning and preparing to serve him. But if she got a job she would be out there hooking up with other men. Can't have the possability of that. She must have an approved escourt with her when she leaves the home to stop her from running off to screw random men and spend all the husband's money. Oh but wait! If she has an approved female escourt (his female relatives) they could be talking about him behind his back, mocking him and conspiring against him. Can't have that either! Just gotta keep that lazy mooching hussy locked up in the home.
YES! This is another reason why I hate these tradwife creators because they make raising kids and maintaining a home seem so easy and relaxing! So of course the working partner is going to think they’re getting the short end of the stick of having to work while their partner does “nothing.” I feel like this rhetoric actually causes people to devalue SAHM even more because they’re “not working.” When in reality, it’s far from the truth, especially if you have young or multiple kids.
My parents went through a vicious cycle. He'd moan and complain about being the sole breadwinner, so Mom would take a job. Pretty soon, he'd be moaning and complaining about a hot four-course dinner not being on the table when he got home, his shirts not always being perfectly ironed and mended, eating storebought versions of what had previously been homemade, etc., so she would agree to quit her job. Nothing was ever good enough.
@@ttintagel exactly! It's never good enough! In my country (and I'm sure in lots of other countries), it's normal for women to have the same amounts of work hours as men, but unlike men, who are just expected to go to work, women are expected to do ALL of the home chores and raise their children along with full time job. While most husbands are sitting on the couch drinking beer and watching TV, and being praised if they "babysit" THEIR children once a month, or wash dishes once a week. That's the reason I don't want to get married. The possibility of my future husband becoming a lazy bastard is too high.
@overlordfemto7523 two sets of people can have it bad at the same time. it doesn’t get canceled out. have you ever heard of a relative privation fallacy?
"When people couldn't divorce, they divorced less, and that was better!" Are they really that naive, or do they just feel safe making that commentary in the 21st century, where divorce is still legal (for now)?
Also, the "back then, women were happy and didn't even think about divorce!" No. They were not happy. They wanted out. But society shunned them and made it impossible for a woman to be on her own.
As someone who has an unusual interest in toxicology, I find it very unsettling that there are men who want to go back to that, when Wikipedia exists 🧐
What's wild is that they fail to acknowledge that the rate of "mysterious deaths" of marriage aged men dropped SIGNIFICANTLY after divorce was made legal because wives who formerly would have been trapped in abusive marriages weren't poisoning their husbands anymore.
Back in the day, there was also a LOT more spousal murder, either of or by abused wives. So many people whose spouse "mysteriously disappeared" or "ran off with another man/woman". Guess what happens when you take away divorce? People die.
Also, a lot of people just walked away from their marriages. Some of them remarried and had a second set of children, even though those second marriages were technically invalid.
What I see a LOT of these moms failing to address is the fact that many parents would LOVE to be able to stay home with their kids and spend such developmentally important years with them. However, in the US parental leave sucks and many cannot afford to only have a one income household and there are no companies (that I know of) that make it accessible for a parent to pick up their careers where they left off after spending a few years raising their child. So many of these people have no idea how out of touch with reality they are.
FOR REAL! My brother and I spent a lot of childhood with our grandparents, because one parent worked full-time and the other had to work part-time. And it probably would have been both full-time if they had to pay for day-care instead of paying our grandparents a discounted rate.
THIS. Not everyone can. Not all mothers have the time, money, or a partner that helps out especially in this economy your partner has to be making a lot for you to stay home.
That's not even addressing the double edged sword that is child care vs working. I'm a SAHM because the money I would make would barely pay for child care. I stay home with the kids but it's only because the career I chose (teaching) doesn't pay enough to make it worth it, and while I'm happy to be home with them it's coming at a great financial hit to us. These people preaching all moms should stay home aren't just ignoring womens right to choose, they're also ignored the privilege they have to comfortably stay home.
@@whossoulawwww, my mom was a teacher & she worked full time when we were kids. But it was the 80’s & 90’s & we were latchkey kids. I guess stuff has just changed now. I know kids can’t even get off the bus now unless there is an adult waiting to fetch them. Just different times I reckon.
YESSSS!! I'm a mother of 4 and would love to have more time at home with them. But I'm not an idiot and I live in the U.S, there's absolutely no way I could support 4 kids that way. My husband makes good money, but we have to have a dual income in order to survive. It must be nice to sit on that pedestal and look down on working mothers. 🙄
2:32 that’s genuinely so fucked up, women couldn’t divorce because they were LITERALLY SLAVES. Bought and sold by men, legally owned. Imagine saying that about black slaves, “they didn’t run away because they respected their slave owners, not because it was illegal or anything” 🤮
I know you're joking at the last bit, but I've actually heard people argue that before with a straight face. The level of people just not understanding what a slave actually is, is actually absurd
This theory is absolutely insulting and demeaning to the women who came before us. They would not consider themselves helpless victims and were grateful that their men defended them in war.
@@professorfoxtrotIt's not a theory, it's historical fact supported by extensive evidence. Also, men didn't fight wars to defend women; they fought them to serve the interests of upper class men. And historically, most didn't have the choice not to fight, as they legally had to obey their lord, etc.
The thing is, trying to control whether or not you get pregnant by "tracking your cycles" is not compatible with "submitting to your husband." If he wants you to "submit" during the most fertile part of your cycle, and you're not allowed to say no, then what was the point of "tracking your cycle" in the first place?
Also, you know, you can get pregnant at any time. I mean there are times you have a high chance but it's not like having sex on your period means there's no way you'll become pregnant. It can still happen.
Yes! I can't do hormonal birth control and have managed to prevent pregnancy when I don't want it using cycle tracking but it only works because my partner listens to me and abstains or uses back up methods during fertile windows or when my cycle isn't regular. Unless your partner is the one tracking your cycle how else can cycle tracking work other than doing what the woman having the cycle says to do?
I sincerely hope her daughter is not queer while being raised to believe her life goal is to be a heterosexual cis woman who will find her greatest joy in serving a man and having children. It would be such a nightmare to unlearn that...
As a trans man who was raised that way, I couldn’t agree more. I still struggle with internalized homophobia to the point that I’m convinced no gay man would ever be attracted to me
even if she would grow up straight as a pole, it's still a piss take a woman i know was raised like that, and despite being straight, all she wanted was to be a STEM scientist she is a badass mathematician with a phd now but she's still having a very hard time unlearning all of her moms tradwife bullshit what's worse is, she got married young to appease her family and instilled beliefs, and the dude was a horrible person so she barely escaped
@@charminharlan9081 Damn, I feel you! I was raised by liberal parents who didn't really push any of that onto me but society's expectations alone were enough to make me struggle with this. Can't imagine how hard it must be when your parents hold the same expectations. Stay strong, we'll find the love and kindness we deserve one day.
It can be effective if you have a regular cycle and stick to it. The issue with it and any form of birth control is people not using it correctly. That's why all birth control has a hypothetical "perfect use" effective rate and an in practice effective rate. I may be biased in my support, but since becoming sexually active I've had 1 unplanned pregnancy in the 2 years of being on birth control, and zero unplanned pregncies in 13 years of cycle tracking.
And it's only useful if the husband listens to the wife and doesn't insist on her "submitting" on a fertile day. One of the main reasons the Pill was such a godsend to women was that it meant they could finally prevent pregnancy even if their partner didn't feel like cooperating.
@whosoul: There's stats from Catholics. Tracking is not that effective, better than non-technological "rhythm" but there's too many variables for basal temperature to be as indicative as people want it to be. So yes, it's helpful if you're trying to get pregnant but not helpful enough if you want to avoid getting pregnant. It could be useful to limit pregnancies for Catholics who can afford some kids but might not want a ton. Everyone else should use contraception.
There are apps you can pay for, and you have to take your temp to two decimal places at roughly the same time every morning right when you wake up, but if you use it right, it's as effective as any other form of birth control. The apps will even adjust to irregular cycles by just calculating more potentially fertile days. Now if you don't want to abstain on those days you have to use some other form of birth control, but it is actually extremely effective as long as you don't mind the rigid routine. Like it's labeled as birth control by the FDA
Amen, I’m not a veterinary microbiologist/virologist but my partner is and after hearing about her days at work the stuff the crunchy mums come out about raw milk etc with makes me want to puke.
Whewww. This is exactly my jam to speak on. I’m that leftist college educated woman who got married and became a SAHM and live on a farm, and guess what? Im still a leftist, I still need to take meds for my adhd and depression, I still expect help, respect, and emotional support from my husband, and I still get my fucking vaccines every year. I make bread and cheese when I want to because I enjoy it, but I don’t when I don’t feel like it. My kids go to public school because they like seeing their friends and teaching is hella hard and I want them to have the best education possible, and am completely honest with myself about the fact that that’s not my expertise; yet I still make sure to connect with what they’re learning and give them context on things that are glossed over in the curriculum like Columbus, MLKJ, and thanksgiving. I can promise you that women who make this their whole self only do so because they deeply feel the need to convince someone that they’re happy, and it’s not their audience. You can choose a “more traditional” lifestyle if that’s what you want to and are able to do, but you definitely do not have to go balls to the wall extremist with it like this. Like it’s totally fine to enjoy gardening and cooking and believe in science and medicine too 😅
Same here! I'm a SAHM and I homeschool my kids, but I have a degree in education and they go to public school 2 days a week. I'm also pro science, pro vaccines, super left leaning, raising 3 girls to be radical feminists who know the way things are is wrong and to fight against it. I teach them to question everything that feels wrong, even if it's something I tell them, and that they're always owed an explanation. I'd also never tell them this is the life they should choose for themselves, they should do whatever makes them happy cause unlike these women making these posts, I don't need to convince others to follow my path in order to validate my path. I know my path is valid, that's the difference between us and them!
@@WynnWynn-gl3fk luckily we live in a pretty rural area so it’s not very crowded, and all the teachers they’ve had so far are wonderful and so helpful, especially with my ND daughter!
@@headphonesaxolotlI think their point is more that the best education often is found in non-religious private schools. At least in the USA, public schools are funded by property taxes. So, while they're free of religion, unless you live in a wealthy area, your child is usually not getting the best education.
i‘m studying to be a neuroscientist and i LOVE it. it baffles me that some people will look at all my achievements and say „okay but have you considered you quit what makes you happy and start doing things you don‘t want? i‘m sure that will make you even happier! SURE there‘s downsides but they will be worth it! “ like no. i don‘t like children. i‘m asexual. i like my free time and my indepence. i won‘t abandon what i love just because you, a stranger, project your own misplaced sense of duty onto me just because i also happen to be female.
Oh I hear you! I am doing a PhD in environmental microbiology and working in research and I absolutely love it. My grandma has been extremely proud of me throughout the journey and always boasts about me to whoever she gets the chance. I've heard "yeah yeah that's great, but does she have a boyfriend? When is she going to get married?" way too many times. You could tell these people that you cured cancer and found the fountain of youth and they'd still be like "yeah yeah but MARRIAGE?? CHILDREN??" 🙄 Keep pursuing your dreams. Good luck with your career! May you be a wonderful, accomplished, happy neuroscientist my dear!
@@AnnAnarchy18 Thank you so much for the kind words! Your grandma seems really cool and supportive, that‘s adorable. It really isn‘t easy for women in science, in every possible aspect. I wish your the best with the PhD (and also a very happy and fulfilled life in general)!
The only thing I can agree with a TradWife on is that SOURDOUGH BREAD FUCKING SLAPS. That said, I don't have time to bake it myself because I work and study, so I just steal it from M&S.
I am a godless heathen leftist who has one of those 4-slice toasters with 2 extra long slots specifically for sourdough. 20/10 would toast again with butter and a little sprinkle of za'atar. 🤤
The raw milk thing never ceases to amaze me... as somebody who has milked cows, guess what they have all over their hooves & udders? SH*T!!! No matter how well you wash them off, there is still "something" left behind. Pasteurization is a good thing! When I was a baby my Dad still milked & we used it in our home. One of the cows developed Tubucularosis, but because Mom used a home pastuerizer I was protected from getting it!
My partner is an actual chad mum. Six foot one and two hundred pounds, she lifts and she doesn't like cooking but she buys me burritos once a week. I'm. Very happy kept man.
Nah, they don’t want her to wait 20 years to get married. They want you to get married and be a stay at home mom as soon as you can, because it is harder to leave a toxic church or marriage if you aren’t financially independent
i work in an an organics store and these kinds of people demonise food that has undergone a process. to them, the process of making oat milk is too processed. but this doesnt apply to things like. flour apparently. theyre weirdly selective with processes
I actually know the sourdough one. It's because since about the early 1700s people relied on sourdough. It's a neat dough that continually rises as long as you chuck some sort of flour in there. You can also throw in berries or nuts. Every day you can take half of it and make a loaf of bread as long as you give it some new sugar, flour, and a warm place. People kept it by their stoves or fireplaces, would break off a chunk of the dough, and have fresh bread for the day. So therefore to the Christians it's got traditional meaning about how God always provides etc etc.
I just know if that mum at 14:19 had a boy next she would become an unbearable boy mom and be extremely misogynistic towards her daughter also can somebody please tell me what's this obsession with raw milk from these people lately
I think it's because it's "all natural" and "not poisoned by the government" because there is bacteria and harmful minerals in raw milk but the chance of you getting sick from it is kinda low. i wouldn't it risk it though, it's considered one of the riskiest foods. It's kind of an almond mom thing yk
It has more nutrients and therefore is healthier when you ignore all the illnesses and other valid reason to stick to pasteurized milk you can get from drinking it.
I'm just pulling this out of my ass, but maybe they think all the germs will strengthen their immune systems (provided they don't shit themselves to death first)? The antivaxxers are all about that "natural immunity", aka catching all the deadly pathogens in order to [checks notes] protect themselves from catching all the deadly pathogens. 🥴
@@chilljelloton2089 I was raised on raw cow milk because my family lived on a dairy farm. As a result, I as a adult have severe lactose intolerance and other health issues because of it.
@overlordfemto7523I don't think you realize that many people are lactose intolerant. They physically cannot drink raw milk. Not to mention that humans cannot tolerate pretty much ANYTHING raw. "oH bUt oUR aNcEStOrs dID iT" no they didn't. They had fire. They cooked their meats over the fire. And before that humans thrived on fruits and veggies from the trees. Why do you think people don't drink pure alcohol? The pure alcohol, in its rawest form, IS toxic and poisonous to humans. The alcohol you drink is filtered and processed to be made more "fit" for drinking. Go on, drink some raw pure alcohol. See what happens.
Heres the thing. If you are so happy being a stay at home mom, you wouldn't care so much about what other people think about it. I'm a stay at home mom and when people are rude about it, which is rare, i just ignore it because it's what works for my family. Also, having lived in Australia with kids, put sunscreen on your kids. There are so many nice options, find one and use it.
Exactly, these tradwives aren't making these videos just to share their lives like normal vloggers, their entire thing is trying to promote the trad gender roles to young people. If they were actually passionate about homemaking and a stay-at-home lifestyle, they'd post more about the practical stuff that goes into that lifestyle instead of making 90% videos preaching how great it is to be in the home serving their husband and how feminism destroyed society or whatever. It's all about pushing conservative and religious ideology.
@overlordfemto7523 That's the statistics of overall spousal homicide. As in all and any murder of a spouse of any gender. That rate goes up as we increase our range of study and as gun violence goes up. I'm talking specifically about wives who murder their husbands to escape abusive marriages. Which has gone down because now wives have other ways to escape if need be. That's one of many reasons the divorce rate has gone up. Perhaps you can't read? Or maybe you just don't have reasoning skills to figure out the nuance to statics like that? There were nearly 4 decades of decline in rates of overall spousal homicide (which is majority men killing their wives) before it began to increase again in recent years.
Trad wives claiming you shouldnt work as a woman are completely out of touch with reality. There are single moms who have to work to put food on the table. Theres even traditional families where both partners need to work because theyre bareling making ends meet. Trad wives make it out like its easier but most women work in order to just make a living, even those who have a husband whos also working.
@professorfoxtrot Nah. There were always single mothers. Men leaving was a thing and still is. Also men dying or getting sick to the point they could not work was more common in the past. The major predictor is poverty. And yes that is more likely if there is only one adult to bring in the money. Has nothing to do with feminism.
"long lasting relationships aren't always successful ones" is the same reason I hate the "oh ur loyal? What's ur longest relationship then" like no those two things barely correlate, let alone be dependant on each other
"50% of marriages end in divorce" doesn't seem nearly as high when you remember that there's 2 ways a marriage ends: divorce or SOMEONE DIES. The outcome being one thing half of the time is only significant when THERES MORE THAN 2 CHOICES
that's so pathetic that a little girl is suffering because of her mother's psychosis. My niece is artistic and aspires to be a tattoo artist one day, I couldn't imagine my sister telling her 'no, you should be focused on having children and caring for everyone else but yourself'.
It’s so gross to prioritise traditional household roles. It’s especially harmful for children, since it’s attempting to brainwash them to live up to their parents expectations. Ew
I love that whenever people talk about the high divorce rate when people couldn’t divorce they NEVER bring up that the accidental/mysterious deaths of husbands went down as soon as divorce rates went up! Weird right?
"submitting > being controlling" And why the hell would I submit to someone trying to control me? I don't want my partner feeling like a dictator, I'm an anarchist for fuck's sake.
the oat mlik thing makes me laugh. I'm a man and I drink oat milk. Not because I'm vegan or anything, but because I'm lactose sensitive and having little to no dairy prevents me having to spend forever on the toilet. Also oat mlik just tastes better.
If staying home, raising children, and serving your spouse are the most fulfilling things you can do, women shouldn’t be keeping this wonderful experience to themselves. We are cheating men out of being deeply fulfilled.
The response to not wanting to serve a husband being “you serve your boss” is crazy. I serve my boss because I have to. I don’t have generational wealth or a crazy rich husband, I need to work, hence serving my boss. If I didn’t I would die. Do they understand that?
I only bake a few times a year, mostly just for holidays. I think the sourdough obsession is legit just because it's a lot easier to make than other types of bread. That's the only reason I can think of that all these tradwife people go on about it.
Not to defend the raw milk people, but to be fair even doctors can be unaware of how much of the population is lactose intolerant. I found out while breastfeeding my 1st kid who had a milk protein intolerance, and luckily had a lactation consultant who knew. I joined a breastfeeding support group and was shocked at how many moms kids had classic milk protein intolerance symptoms but were told by their pediatricians that it was "super rare" and wouldn't even recommend the mom trying a milk elimination diet to see if that was the problem cause in their minds it was too rare to even consider! My lactation consultant said she got tons of patients who's babies had been diagnosed with "colic" and told there was nothing they could do by their pediatricians but she would have them eliminate dairy and the baby would no longer have "colic."
@@whossoul Funny enough, the reason for this misconception might be because most of the US population is white, and lactose intolerance is more common among POC. If most of the doctors are white and most of their patients are white, there's a pretty good chance they weren't seeing lactose intolerance as often, which made them think it was rarer than it actually is!
i've been using one period app for over 3 years and it still isn't 100% with its estimations. im shocked to hear some women only track their cycles as "protection" !! id be pregnant in a second 😅
It's mostly for Catholics, since Catholics consider contraceptive sex a sin but recognize that people can't have a ton of kids. Most tradwives are Catholic.
I'm not a trad wife AT ALL. Many of the roles my husband and I take on traditionally belong to the other gender (I'm the breadwinner, he works part time and cares for our child during the day.) BUT I LOVE making sourdough bread. I do it every weekend. Fresh baked bread keeps me going through life. Without it, I'd be a sad lady.
There's two types of soughdought people and it is VERY CLEAR which kind a person is. There's: I make my own or buy from a friend because I don't believe anyone else should have their hands in my food. And then there's: I make my own cause it's fun and I may be a bit fruity. Alt: I started during the pandemic and kept up with it because I enjoy it
Another thing about not using sunscreen in the past: people wore long sleeves outside in the summer. Or just lived in places their skin was evolutionarily adapted to with the amount of melanin it produced.
OK I recently learned, Sourdough is a fermented dough, and apparently we should eat certain fermented foods to create a healthy gut. Thank you for listening to my TED talk😂. I don’t know what it is about sourdough toast that’s so delicious with butter on it
On the whole anti-sunscreen thing, that's just bat-sh* wild to me. I was outside in the sun for 3 hours once in a part of the us where you don't have to worry too much about the sun. I was wearing sunscreen and reapplying it every 30 minutes. I was still dealing with that sunburn 3 months later. What I'm hearing is that i should never go to Australia/ New Zealand.
You are awesome savannah most women do not want to stay in home for them it would be a literally hell women should do what makes you happy love you're open minded channel
I DO want to stay home and do by choice but even for me it's literal hell some days! Seriously the hardest job I've ever had, and I've worked retail and as a teacher, two pretty well known hard fields, both are cake walk compared to being a SAHM!
@@whossoul that is why most choosse to work working in the home is like being treated like a slave the job's never seem to end and it is the mist thankless job ever women want a workplace where they can interact with orhers that is why women choose a workplace
I wish that it was true they’re probably not drinking raw milk, but it’s actually pretty easy in the US to find a local farmer who will sell it to you (especially if you’re near Amish people) so lots of tradwives absolutely are feeding it to their families
Hey, Aussie here. Just wanted to point out that the hole in the ozone layer is through the use of chemicals, not farming practises. Per the NASA website: "Human activities effectively punched a hole in it, through the use of gases like chlorofluorocarbons (CFCs) in spray cans and refrigerants, which break down ozone molecules in the upper atmosphere." To be fair, modern industrial farming doesn't help the amount of methane in the atmosphere, but it didn't break the ozone layer.
Does it say it's exclusively from spray cans and refrigerants? There was a recent oxford study led by Peter Scarborough which shows the effects of animal agriculture on GHG, including CFCs. Animal ag is the leading cause of climate change, much more than our transportation systems
@emilyforte8428 While I don't doubt for a minute that's how it is today, there was a period of even more rapid deterioration of the ozone layer specifically, and it was during that time that the hole in the ozone layer around Australia and New Zealand became a critical global issue. At that point, it was mostly CFCs from the noted sources that were causing the problem (that's how I read "punched a hole in the ozone layer"), which lead to the Montreal Protocol in 1987, which was an act of global cooperation and policy, banning a lot of CFC usage (especially in spray cans and refrigeration) and reducing the output of those gases by over 99%, which slowed down the deterioration considerably, possibly even halted it (at least for a while). It's also a favorite "gotcha" by so-called "climate skeptics": "What happend to the hole in the ozone layer everyone warned about 40 years ago? That stopped at some point, very curious..." - yeah, it stopped - or was paused, at least - because policymakers listened to scientists and took decisive action. General recommendation (to anyone reading this): Montreal Protocol. If you're too young to remember it and/or never learned about it... it's worth looking it up. It's good stuff that probably doesn't get a lot of press because it's a "solved" issue. It isn't, really, but... you know.
And now we don't have the hole in the ozone because scientist told us this is what caused it and we stopped doing it... I wonder what else we could fix this way.
It's exclusively CFCs - they are so chemically inert that they make in to the upper atmosphere and there they break down to radicals and basically deplete the ozone by reacting with it. It takes few steps to quench the reaction
I’m an involuntary sahm. For reasons like my poor mental health, poor career opportunities, and expensive childcare and lots of little things along the way. I HAVE to be a sahm. And yes being stuck at home all day doing the same things over and over is exhausting.
Yes, any work becomes unbearable when you literally never get a break from it. Even with the worst paid employment, your workday eventually ends and you can leave until the next day. And you can keep on looking for a better job to change to.
I love sourdough and will never stop preferring it Although you pointing it out made me question it so I double checked and it is a bit more difficult to make but not by much. Autofill suggested "is it healthier" and it has studies proving it's more nutritious and better for your blood sugar. Which I find hilarious cause most studies agree that the nutrition difference in raw milk is not enough to justify the multiple health risks. A really funny pairing really lol
Housewife and mom, here, by choice...and sometimes it gets old doing a TON of work for zero pay. Like, I could go nanny or be a maid for fewer hours, more pay. But, I choose not to (because I'm privileged to do so). I also home school, which I know can be sketchy, but it feels like my only option in America right now. Anyways, you make some excellent points. Love your videosss! ❤
I also feel like it's one of the few good choices left! I went to college to become a teacher, got my degree in childhood education, and came to two really messed up realizations. 1: Everything we learn about how best to teach kids is thrown out the window by public schools. Instead everything is based on test scores, money, and keeping conservative parents happy. U.S. schools have some of the highest work loads and longest days and for what? The lowest educational outcomes of most "developed" nations. 2: What they would pay me to teach 15 kids is about what I would have to pay to have my 1 kid in child care....which essentially means the schools pocketing the cost of the other 14 kids education and definitely not putting that money back into the school. I'm lucky to live close enough to a unique hybrid school that allows me to homeschool 3 days a week while she goes to school 2 days and gets the socialization with kids and takes only classes in the arts and sciences that most schools have done away with. Most parents don't have a program like that available, or the money to make that work. Even for us making it work financially is only because my job as a teacher would be so underpaid we basically break even on work vs child care.
@@whossoul I feel you. I used to think it was a tragedy that my health kept me from finishing my teaching degree and getting my certification, but now I know that I wouldn't be able to handle the conditions teachers today have to work under. Most of my teacher friends have either left the profession, are trying to leave the profession, or are white-knuckling their way to the earliest possible retirement.
It'd be more expensive for me to work outside the house, so our setup looks somewhat traditional. But I'm a terrible housewife and a fairly good parent I think. He still helps around the house alot and just today it all got too much and he made sure I got a few hours to myself out of the house. Because we have to remind each other to look after ourselves as well as the girls.
@@WynnWynn-gl3fk between his varied shift pattern, youngest being under 1 and "school hours" employment not really being a thing that really is not possible. We are fortunate to have backup funds for both scenarios and a high enough wage to support everyone but I do in fact look into viable flexible WFH things, most of which are terrible pyramid schemes.
@@WynnWynn-gl3fkThe issue for a lot of women (including me) is free education doesn't start till your kids are 5 or 6. A lot of jobs, even ones above minimum wage, don't cover or only balance out the cost of child care. Then if you have another kid the 5-6 year window resets, and the cost to have them in child care doubles. That's why this issue runs so much deeper than just letting women choose to stay home vs work. For some it isn't financially feasible to work unless you're already in really well paying careers. Add breastfeeding into the mix which makes the mom staying home more practical (and cheaper cause formula is expensive) and you get a deep rooted societal issue that leaves a lot of women with a double edged sword.
My parents are conservatives (though they've mellowed out over the years) and while they're not perfect, I'm so thankful that *they* had me and not anyone else. My mom's a very accomplished, independent woman. She stayed home with me after I was born, but she got back working pretty quickly. She planned a lot of events when I was a kid, kinda like a PTA mom but with much less Karen characteristics. She makes more money than my dad and has been for a while, he doesn't mind at all. I was more of a tomboy as a kid, but I also had some pretty girly interests. Dad was never weird about that. He took me to the park, to birthday parties, and other events. He was also great about period stuff. He didn't treat it like it was gross, he understood that I was in a lot of pain, and he got me pads and chocolate with no complaints. I was scared to come out to them as trans, but they accepted me. They're not perfect allies, but they love me and they have my back. They were never weird about gender. Mom never made me wear makeup and she might've complained if I didn't wear a dress, but I was still allowed to wear more masculine clothes. They got me whatever toys I wanted, never instilled the "girls do this, boys do that". I have issues, but I don't have gender issues other than external factors out of my control (people being assholes). Thinking about it, it's very freeing. I wasn't taught that the only thing I'd amount to was being a mother. I could be my own person. I didn't have to do what everyone else was doing, I didn't have to do what people told me (much to their dismay lmao). If there's an injustice, you speak up about it; you stand up for people and show kindness, you have your people's backs. I just feel very sad for people like this. Not to say that being a stay at home mom is a bad thing because it's not, but the way in which they're living their lives is so restrictive. We shouldn't be forcing people into boxes. We shouldn't be aiming to repeat the past. We should be free.
On the topic of people not wearing sunscreen in the past and therefore we don't need it either, theres a reason people covered up their skin. And the primary reason definitely wasn't to reduce seggual attraction.
20:00 also fashion was more geared to protect against the sun for example the prevelance of hats or other headcoverings, gloves ect they wore those to not get burnt so unless you dress for the sun by covering every inch of exposed skin you can wear sunscreen
Just regarding the milk: People in parts of the world have adapted to drinking cows milk. And it’s so interesting to me! Like we’re not talking about millions of years here, either. It’s like 6000 years. But in parts of the world we’re people didn’t drink cows milk they didn’t adapt to doing it and therefor lack the enzyme (after they stop breastfeeding). And no, all people don’t become lactose intolerant when they stop drinking milk. Some do, but not all. I don’t, for example I mean oat milk is superior in coffee though. And it lasts longer, so it’s more economical if you just have a little bit in food now and then
I mean....humans are mammals. Mammals going for milk, ANY kind of milk, is pretty instinctive. I've seen animals attempting to nurse from other species. It's uhhh not necessarily a good thing, depending on who's sharing and who's sipping, but it does happen. But yeah I genuinely think it comes from a deep subconscious instinct to nurse from our mothers, bc that instinct is necessary for an infant to live. U see the same behavior in lil baby kittens and puppies, too. Sometimes when my cat is asleep, I see him mimic the,,,,nursing motions with his mouth?? Like sucking or whatever??? I think he might be dreaming of his mother, even though he's already 3 years old 😅 Obviously human beings are more than just our instincts! We have reason and logic and all that fun stuff, too. But I do think it's a little strange to assert that humans drinking milk of any kind is somehow.....unnatural?? when we, like any other mammal, depend on milk for our earliest survival. It doesn't seem weird to me that many ppl would be positively disposed toward milk from other mammals as well. It might be a cultural thing tho 😅 in which case, that explains the different views lol
1:42 she’s not wrong. If women weren’t given a voice or the rights to pursue a divorce like a traditional wife, divorce rates would plummet significantly.
They do love their "but you're subservient to your boss" line. That's why there are human resources departments and industrial tribunals and stuff. A lot of stuff to try to ensure that bosses don't abuse their power.
"if you have been watching my videos, but are not subscribed..." - I will take that personally! 😅😅😅 I could spend and hour telling how those"living of the grid" are always people with online presence and make daily videos or whatnot sharing their "little moments of a simpler life" with an internet connection probably better than mine, definitely a computer way better the one I have, video and mobile equipments I could start a educational channel with and are still getting a money influx from these "off the grid" activities. Cheers and keep the good work!
"But you're serving your boss at work," yeah, and you know what's cool about that? I clock out and -go home-. Do stay at home parents get to "clock out" at any point? How are the breadwinners of the relationships making sure their partners get adequate rest from their day to day workload? I'm sure it's possible, but I'm also sure that many of the breadwinners in these dynamics don't and will never understand the mental load that weighs on someone who is unable to ever leave their work.
yeah i live in qld and last week i went outside in a dress thinking we'll be in the shade most of the time and i'll be fine, i sat in the sun for like 20 minutes got sunburnt so bad on my shoulders it's peeling now 😭
You can get natural sunscreens if the chemicals bother you (and I mean, it IS worth considering). The ignorance on display in some of these is truly staggering.
Yea, but the thing is… Chemicals literally make up every single thing in this world. You cannot escape chemicals no matter how hard you try. Show those types of mfers what chemicals make up a simple apple and watch em go crazy.
@@gothcsm Well yeah, but given a choice between like 5 ingredients or a yard-long list of synthetic chemicals that may or may not have had any long-term testing on health effects (think Teflon production), I'd still prefer the so-called "cleaner" option most of the time (except I'm poor, so I generally have to stick to the more cost effective options anyways 😉).
The cycle tracking thing is so wild because in a lot of these circles you aren’t supposed to talk to your husband about your period, you aren’t supposed to deny your husband when he wants sex, and you’re responsible for making sure you don’t have a baby when he doesn’t want one. Just doesn’t add up
Ancient Egypt (like Carthage n junk) used sunscreen made from palms, fats, and milks. People generally don't have an understanding how old some ideas are.
No one tell her that although divorce rates were lower, women "accidentally murdering" their abusive husbands to protect themselves and their families were a lot higher.
ikr..
Yeah, there sure were a lot more ✨mysterious deaths✨ in men back then, huh?
Aqua tofanaaaaa~
I was just about to say to a commenter defending the tradwife thing that there were a ton of women who murdered their husbands and on the reverse, lots of husbands who murdered their wives. It’s almost like divorce keeps people safe and gives them an alternative to killing their spouse lol
And also divorce was kind of illegal in most places. And even if it wasn't, it would almost always leave her with absolutely nothing.
Her telling her 3 y/o that she needs to serve her husband by bearing as many children as he likes is so, just, vomit-inducing.
I'm telling my three year old she has to become a brooding mare for a man she will likely only ever see as a grown ass man. By the way, LGBT people sexualise kids.
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That's something that I always found funny about conservatives / hetero people. they ALWAYS claim that we LGBT people " force" our sexuality on kids...
but they are the ones training their young female children to be slaves to their husbands. Yikes, 😅
I know, right? Yet somehow, letting kids know that some people fall in love with other people of the same gender, or letting them hear a story read by someone in a costume, is "sexualizing children."
@@ttintagel THAT!! THAT FUCKING PART 💀
being anti-sunscreen is a really bold stance when your community thinks a woman's entire value rests in her youth & beauty-especially when you're already melanin deficient.
Exactly! I saw a picture of a driver whose left side of the face was exposed to the sun for years (maybe even decades). The difference between the right and the left side of their face is crazy.
Exactly and it’s also just a safety precaution. Skin cancer kills at worst and is extremely uncomfortable to deal with at best. The only beauty rule everyone should follow is to apply sunscreen.
IKR? Few things will age your appearance as quickly as sun damage.
But did you need to come for their throat like that goddamn
I am Australian, being anti-sunscreen is wild to me.
I remember my Dad used to tell my Mom that she had to vote the same way as him, "so their votes wouldn't cancel each other out." As an adult, I asked her if she ever really did that, and she just laughed.
Women shouldn't be allowed to vote. You get open borders, crime, and homelessness.
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That is so relatable. That's why I don't believe that "traditional" homemakers are the way religious scriptures of people like her project. Most of them don't give up their freedom of thought, expression to some extent. But their freedom to make life choices do get impacted. And when they feel there are injustices they too stand up to some extent. THEY DON'T SUBMIT TO THEIR HUSBANDS.
But these content creators, I do feel they are filming lies.
Horribly controlling, and I’m sorry I laughed. That logic 😂
I love that
Imagine the world if tradwives just admitted they have a fetish instead of thinking this is the universal Right Way To Live
Yep. It's so weird to me as a person who has been involved in kink circles for 21 years to see posts like "my husband tells me what to think" being made (supposedly) completely outside of any kinky context. Like, that's a line straight out of some kind of Deviantart bimbofication fanart, lol.
it is so obviously a kink at this point. Like just admit you have a sub/dom fantasy and leave everyone alone lol.
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IKR? If all the things these chucklewits like to pretend are intrinsically and irrevocably tied to sex, gender, and orientation really were, there would be no need for them jumping down people's throats trying to force them into conformity.
That's what happens when you raise people with little to no sexual education or understanding. They will end up Wilding when they have a fetish and think it's some essence of their being when it's just horniness.
We get it! You're a major sub-bottom! But that doesn't need to be a life style, nor do you need to go out of your way to try and convince other people because that will just repel people further.
I swear, they also seem to put more effort into making people feel bad about not doing the same as them than they do to actually enjoy the lives that they love to parade around. If you really enjoy your life style that much why do you feel the need to try and make others follow suit unless you are insecure about it?
If you are so secure with your lifestyle, you wouldn't care about what other people are doing, let alone try to shame them for doing otherwise
“I just let my husband think for me”. That is the fucking saddest thing I’ve ever heard.
Imagine having so little agency in life to the point of not even being able to think for yourself.
These women are dumb, so their husbands thinking for them is actually normal
Men are better at thinking and also don't rely on girl math for accurate calculations
@madamemelone4947 Ask Angela Merkel, she allowed the moors to conquer Germany and Italy.
ikr@madamemelone4947
@professorfoxtrot right because as if half the wars and conflicts in history isn't caused and propelled by men. Oh but wars are "romantic" and "manly." Who gives a shit about the hundreds of human lives lost (even innocent humans lives you think there's no civilian casualties in war?) am I right. But yay wars are "cool" and "edgy."
My younger sister is a tradwife. She does all the expected things like childcare, household chores, cooking, yard work, and she even "submits" to her husband. She does everything her husband says when he says it. She doesn't see her friends and she can't even talk on the phone when he is home. She does everything exactly how he wants and he resents her for it.
A lot of these tradhusbands resent their wives. The main thing seems to be that they think their wives are lazy and are mooching off them because the wives don't have jobs that make money. They don't see them as a partner, they see them as an employee or an acquisition. If the wife gets a job that makes more money than him it hurts the husband's delicate male ego and he resents her more. If she gets a job that doesn't make as much as he thinks it should, she needs to quit because it's a waste of time. Can't get a job anyways because it would take away from the time she could be spending cleaning and preparing to serve him. But if she got a job she would be out there hooking up with other men. Can't have the possability of that. She must have an approved escourt with her when she leaves the home to stop her from running off to screw random men and spend all the husband's money. Oh but wait! If she has an approved female escourt (his female relatives) they could be talking about him behind his back, mocking him and conspiring against him. Can't have that either! Just gotta keep that lazy mooching hussy locked up in the home.
YES! This is another reason why I hate these tradwife creators because they make raising kids and maintaining a home seem so easy and relaxing! So of course the working partner is going to think they’re getting the short end of the stick of having to work while their partner does “nothing.” I feel like this rhetoric actually causes people to devalue SAHM even more because they’re “not working.” When in reality, it’s far from the truth, especially if you have young or multiple kids.
My parents went through a vicious cycle. He'd moan and complain about being the sole breadwinner, so Mom would take a job. Pretty soon, he'd be moaning and complaining about a hot four-course dinner not being on the table when he got home, his shirts not always being perfectly ironed and mended, eating storebought versions of what had previously been homemade, etc., so she would agree to quit her job. Nothing was ever good enough.
@overlordfemto7523men have it sooo easy im so envious of your life
@@ttintagel exactly! It's never good enough! In my country (and I'm sure in lots of other countries), it's normal for women to have the same amounts of work hours as men, but unlike men, who are just expected to go to work, women are expected to do ALL of the home chores and raise their children along with full time job. While most husbands are sitting on the couch drinking beer and watching TV, and being praised if they "babysit" THEIR children once a month, or wash dishes once a week. That's the reason I don't want to get married. The possibility of my future husband becoming a lazy bastard is too high.
@overlordfemto7523 two sets of people can have it bad at the same time. it doesn’t get canceled out. have you ever heard of a relative privation fallacy?
"When people couldn't divorce, they divorced less, and that was better!"
Are they really that naive, or do they just feel safe making that commentary in the 21st century, where divorce is still legal (for now)?
Also, the "back then, women were happy and didn't even think about divorce!"
No. They were not happy. They wanted out. But society shunned them and made it impossible for a woman to be on her own.
When murder wasn't illegal,, less people got arrested for murder!
As someone who has an unusual interest in toxicology, I find it very unsettling that there are men who want to go back to that, when Wikipedia exists 🧐
When divorce was illegal, husbands often died by injesting poison.
When divorce was made legal, the poisonings ~mysteriously~ declined.
What's wild is that they fail to acknowledge that the rate of "mysterious deaths" of marriage aged men dropped SIGNIFICANTLY after divorce was made legal because wives who formerly would have been trapped in abusive marriages weren't poisoning their husbands anymore.
Back in the day, there was also a LOT more spousal murder, either of or by abused wives. So many people whose spouse "mysteriously disappeared" or "ran off with another man/woman". Guess what happens when you take away divorce? People die.
Also, a lot of people just walked away from their marriages. Some of them remarried and had a second set of children, even though those second marriages were technically invalid.
What I see a LOT of these moms failing to address is the fact that many parents would LOVE to be able to stay home with their kids and spend such developmentally important years with them. However, in the US parental leave sucks and many cannot afford to only have a one income household and there are no companies (that I know of) that make it accessible for a parent to pick up their careers where they left off after spending a few years raising their child. So many of these people have no idea how out of touch with reality they are.
FOR REAL!
My brother and I spent a lot of childhood with our grandparents, because one parent worked full-time and the other had to work part-time.
And it probably would have been both full-time if they had to pay for day-care instead of paying our grandparents a discounted rate.
THIS. Not everyone can. Not all mothers have the time, money, or a partner that helps out especially in this economy your partner has to be making a lot for you to stay home.
That's not even addressing the double edged sword that is child care vs working. I'm a SAHM because the money I would make would barely pay for child care. I stay home with the kids but it's only because the career I chose (teaching) doesn't pay enough to make it worth it, and while I'm happy to be home with them it's coming at a great financial hit to us. These people preaching all moms should stay home aren't just ignoring womens right to choose, they're also ignored the privilege they have to comfortably stay home.
@@whossoulawwww, my mom was a teacher & she worked full time when we were kids. But it was the 80’s & 90’s & we were latchkey kids. I guess stuff has just changed now. I know kids can’t even get off the bus now unless there is an adult waiting to fetch them. Just different times I reckon.
YESSSS!! I'm a mother of 4 and would love to have more time at home with them. But I'm not an idiot and I live in the U.S, there's absolutely no way I could support 4 kids that way. My husband makes good money, but we have to have a dual income in order to survive. It must be nice to sit on that pedestal and look down on working mothers. 🙄
2:32 that’s genuinely so fucked up, women couldn’t divorce because they were LITERALLY SLAVES. Bought and sold by men, legally owned. Imagine saying that about black slaves, “they didn’t run away because they respected their slave owners, not because it was illegal or anything” 🤮
I know you're joking at the last bit, but I've actually heard people argue that before with a straight face. The level of people just not understanding what a slave actually is, is actually absurd
@@powerpegasus3004i have too sadly, by no other then PragerU. 😔
@@LordOfElysium Ewwww..not PragerU..gross
This theory is absolutely insulting and demeaning to the women who came before us. They would not consider themselves helpless victims and were grateful that their men defended them in war.
@@professorfoxtrotIt's not a theory, it's historical fact supported by extensive evidence.
Also, men didn't fight wars to defend women; they fought them to serve the interests of upper class men. And historically, most didn't have the choice not to fight, as they legally had to obey their lord, etc.
The thing is, trying to control whether or not you get pregnant by "tracking your cycles" is not compatible with "submitting to your husband." If he wants you to "submit" during the most fertile part of your cycle, and you're not allowed to say no, then what was the point of "tracking your cycle" in the first place?
Also, you know, you can get pregnant at any time. I mean there are times you have a high chance but it's not like having sex on your period means there's no way you'll become pregnant. It can still happen.
Yes! I can't do hormonal birth control and have managed to prevent pregnancy when I don't want it using cycle tracking but it only works because my partner listens to me and abstains or uses back up methods during fertile windows or when my cycle isn't regular. Unless your partner is the one tracking your cycle how else can cycle tracking work other than doing what the woman having the cycle says to do?
I sincerely hope her daughter is not queer while being raised to believe her life goal is to be a heterosexual cis woman who will find her greatest joy in serving a man and having children. It would be such a nightmare to unlearn that...
As a queer person who was absolutely raised that way, I can't agree more. What a nightmare
It would be a bigger nightmare living it, even if bisexual, or even if straight!
As a trans man who was raised that way, I couldn’t agree more. I still struggle with internalized homophobia to the point that I’m convinced no gay man would ever be attracted to me
even if she would grow up straight as a pole, it's still a piss take
a woman i know was raised like that, and despite being straight, all she wanted was to be a STEM scientist
she is a badass mathematician with a phd now but she's still having a very hard time unlearning all of her moms tradwife bullshit
what's worse is, she got married young to appease her family and instilled beliefs, and the dude was a horrible person so she barely escaped
@@charminharlan9081 Damn, I feel you! I was raised by liberal parents who didn't really push any of that onto me but society's expectations alone were enough to make me struggle with this. Can't imagine how hard it must be when your parents hold the same expectations. Stay strong, we'll find the love and kindness we deserve one day.
Tracking your cycle is only useful when you ARE trying to get pregnant. Not when you're trying to prevent it.
It can be effective if you have a regular cycle and stick to it. The issue with it and any form of birth control is people not using it correctly. That's why all birth control has a hypothetical "perfect use" effective rate and an in practice effective rate. I may be biased in my support, but since becoming sexually active I've had 1 unplanned pregnancy in the 2 years of being on birth control, and zero unplanned pregncies in 13 years of cycle tracking.
It's also trickier because many women don't have regular periods, and life events can cause stress that can affect regularity, too
And it's only useful if the husband listens to the wife and doesn't insist on her "submitting" on a fertile day.
One of the main reasons the Pill was such a godsend to women was that it meant they could finally prevent pregnancy even if their partner didn't feel like cooperating.
@whosoul: There's stats from Catholics. Tracking is not that effective, better than non-technological "rhythm" but there's too many variables for basal temperature to be as indicative as people want it to be.
So yes, it's helpful if you're trying to get pregnant but not helpful enough if you want to avoid getting pregnant. It could be useful to limit pregnancies for Catholics who can afford some kids but might not want a ton. Everyone else should use contraception.
There are apps you can pay for, and you have to take your temp to two decimal places at roughly the same time every morning right when you wake up, but if you use it right, it's as effective as any other form of birth control. The apps will even adjust to irregular cycles by just calculating more potentially fertile days. Now if you don't want to abstain on those days you have to use some other form of birth control, but it is actually extremely effective as long as you don't mind the rigid routine. Like it's labeled as birth control by the FDA
Can I just say, as an epidemiologist, please don't drink raw milk.
An older relative told me, “people died from that when I was a kid.”
Amen, I’m not a veterinary microbiologist/virologist but my partner is and after hearing about her days at work the stuff the crunchy mums come out about raw milk etc with makes me want to puke.
It also tastes bad (I am not a good role model, do as I say not as I do)
tbh just don’t drink milk at all. milk is genuinely the worst drink of all time
@overlordfemto7523 that had nothing to do with what was just said. but hey, if you wanna drink raw milk, then by all means. natural selection, buddy.
Whewww. This is exactly my jam to speak on. I’m that leftist college educated woman who got married and became a SAHM and live on a farm, and guess what? Im still a leftist, I still need to take meds for my adhd and depression, I still expect help, respect, and emotional support from my husband, and I still get my fucking vaccines every year. I make bread and cheese when I want to because I enjoy it, but I don’t when I don’t feel like it. My kids go to public school because they like seeing their friends and teaching is hella hard and I want them to have the best education possible, and am completely honest with myself about the fact that that’s not my expertise; yet I still make sure to connect with what they’re learning and give them context on things that are glossed over in the curriculum like Columbus, MLKJ, and thanksgiving.
I can promise you that women who make this their whole self only do so because they deeply feel the need to convince someone that they’re happy, and it’s not their audience. You can choose a “more traditional” lifestyle if that’s what you want to and are able to do, but you definitely do not have to go balls to the wall extremist with it like this. Like it’s totally fine to enjoy gardening and cooking and believe in science and medicine too 😅
Too bad you can’t afford private school without religion as that is the best. You can try charter schools. I hope your district is ok.
Same here! I'm a SAHM and I homeschool my kids, but I have a degree in education and they go to public school 2 days a week. I'm also pro science, pro vaccines, super left leaning, raising 3 girls to be radical feminists who know the way things are is wrong and to fight against it. I teach them to question everything that feels wrong, even if it's something I tell them, and that they're always owed an explanation. I'd also never tell them this is the life they should choose for themselves, they should do whatever makes them happy cause unlike these women making these posts, I don't need to convince others to follow my path in order to validate my path. I know my path is valid, that's the difference between us and them!
@@WynnWynn-gl3fk Aren't public schools supposed to be free of it? Or is is another "religion bad we need a cultural revolution"
@@WynnWynn-gl3fk luckily we live in a pretty rural area so it’s not very crowded, and all the teachers they’ve had so far are wonderful and so helpful, especially with my ND daughter!
@@headphonesaxolotlI think their point is more that the best education often is found in non-religious private schools. At least in the USA, public schools are funded by property taxes. So, while they're free of religion, unless you live in a wealthy area, your child is usually not getting the best education.
i‘m studying to be a neuroscientist and i LOVE it. it baffles me that some people will look at all my achievements and say „okay but have you considered you quit what makes you happy and start doing things you don‘t want? i‘m sure that will make you even happier! SURE there‘s downsides but they will be worth it! “
like no. i don‘t like children. i‘m asexual. i like my free time and my indepence.
i won‘t abandon what i love just because you, a stranger, project your own misplaced sense of duty onto me just because i also happen to be female.
Oh I hear you! I am doing a PhD in environmental microbiology and working in research and I absolutely love it. My grandma has been extremely proud of me throughout the journey and always boasts about me to whoever she gets the chance.
I've heard "yeah yeah that's great, but does she have a boyfriend? When is she going to get married?" way too many times.
You could tell these people that you cured cancer and found the fountain of youth and they'd still be like "yeah yeah but MARRIAGE?? CHILDREN??" 🙄
Keep pursuing your dreams. Good luck with your career! May you be a wonderful, accomplished, happy neuroscientist my dear!
@@AnnAnarchy18 Thank you so much for the kind words! Your grandma seems really cool and supportive, that‘s adorable. It really isn‘t easy for women in science, in every possible aspect. I wish your the best with the PhD (and also a very happy and fulfilled life in general)!
@@atlas956 Thank you, really! I hope you get lots of support and love throughout your journey. Wish you the best too!
The only thing I can agree with a TradWife on is that SOURDOUGH BREAD FUCKING SLAPS. That said, I don't have time to bake it myself because I work and study, so I just steal it from M&S.
Yeah; I could eat a whole loaf of sourdough bread. Also sourdough bread grilled cheeses (or any sandwich)are heaven.
Sourdough does go hard. I’m a big bread fan, and sourdough is easily top 5 breads. The tradwives are wrong about a lot of things but not sourdough
I am a godless heathen leftist who has one of those 4-slice toasters with 2 extra long slots specifically for sourdough. 20/10 would toast again with butter and a little sprinkle of za'atar. 🤤
@@godofchaos9571GOD FUCKING BLESS. When I get a grilled cheese and a restaurant puts it on sourdough bread I KNOW that’s a good sandwich
@Sl33PY_o yes!! I want through a phase a couple of years ago that for, like, two or so weeks, all I ate for lunch was sourdough grilled cheese.
The raw milk thing never ceases to amaze me... as somebody who has milked cows, guess what they have all over their hooves & udders? SH*T!!! No matter how well you wash them off, there is still "something" left behind.
Pasteurization is a good thing! When I was a baby my Dad still milked & we used it in our home. One of the cows developed Tubucularosis, but because Mom used a home pastuerizer I was protected from getting it!
My partner is an actual chad mum. Six foot one and two hundred pounds, she lifts and she doesn't like cooking but she buys me burritos once a week. I'm. Very happy kept man.
Damn, your wife sounds cool asf!
bro won the wife lottery and thought we wouldn't notice. jk, lots of happiness to you both
@@yangene Right? I have a wonderful man but need to find me my own burrito-providing She-Hulk.
Nah, they don’t want her to wait 20 years to get married. They want you to get married and be a stay at home mom as soon as you can, because it is harder to leave a toxic church or marriage if you aren’t financially independent
Also, it'll be easier to groom them into accepting that role if it starts young.
When she’s 16 they’ll get her to court and then get them married the day after she turns 18
i work in an an organics store and these kinds of people demonise food that has undergone a process. to them, the process of making oat milk is too processed. but this doesnt apply to things like. flour apparently. theyre weirdly selective with processes
They need to know if that smoothie is organic before they head off to a Botox appointment.
I actually know the sourdough one. It's because since about the early 1700s people relied on sourdough. It's a neat dough that continually rises as long as you chuck some sort of flour in there. You can also throw in berries or nuts. Every day you can take half of it and make a loaf of bread as long as you give it some new sugar, flour, and a warm place. People kept it by their stoves or fireplaces, would break off a chunk of the dough, and have fresh bread for the day. So therefore to the Christians it's got traditional meaning about how God always provides etc etc.
Religion aside, that sounds really cool actually
It is supposed to be homemade sourdough. Buying it from a bakery isn't trad.
I just know if that mum at 14:19 had a boy next she would become an unbearable boy mom and be extremely misogynistic towards her daughter
also can somebody please tell me what's this obsession with raw milk from these people lately
I think it's because it's "all natural" and "not poisoned by the government" because there is bacteria and harmful minerals in raw milk but the chance of you getting sick from it is kinda low. i wouldn't it risk it though, it's considered one of the riskiest foods. It's kind of an almond mom thing yk
It has more nutrients and therefore is healthier when you ignore all the illnesses and other valid reason to stick to pasteurized milk you can get from drinking it.
I'm just pulling this out of my ass, but maybe they think all the germs will strengthen their immune systems (provided they don't shit themselves to death first)? The antivaxxers are all about that "natural immunity", aka catching all the deadly pathogens in order to [checks notes] protect themselves from catching all the deadly pathogens. 🥴
@@chilljelloton2089 I was raised on raw cow milk because my family lived on a dairy farm. As a result, I as a adult have severe lactose intolerance and other health issues because of it.
@overlordfemto7523I don't think you realize that many people are lactose intolerant. They physically cannot drink raw milk. Not to mention that humans cannot tolerate pretty much ANYTHING raw. "oH bUt oUR aNcEStOrs dID iT" no they didn't. They had fire. They cooked their meats over the fire. And before that humans thrived on fruits and veggies from the trees.
Why do you think people don't drink pure alcohol? The pure alcohol, in its rawest form, IS toxic and poisonous to humans. The alcohol you drink is filtered and processed to be made more "fit" for drinking. Go on, drink some raw pure alcohol. See what happens.
"We need to live off the grid free from the government and just live in little communities 🥺" So like, anarcho communism...?
Heres the thing. If you are so happy being a stay at home mom, you wouldn't care so much about what other people think about it. I'm a stay at home mom and when people are rude about it, which is rare, i just ignore it because it's what works for my family.
Also, having lived in Australia with kids, put sunscreen on your kids. There are so many nice options, find one and use it.
Exactly, these tradwives aren't making these videos just to share their lives like normal vloggers, their entire thing is trying to promote the trad gender roles to young people. If they were actually passionate about homemaking and a stay-at-home lifestyle, they'd post more about the practical stuff that goes into that lifestyle instead of making 90% videos preaching how great it is to be in the home serving their husband and how feminism destroyed society or whatever. It's all about pushing conservative and religious ideology.
I was fed raw cows milk as a baby, it gave me dietry problems for the rest of my life since I'm severely lactose intolerant because of it.
I am not at all surprised Savanna at least keeps up with ChadChad
Savanah needs to shave.... seriusly.. ugh...
i would DIE for a collab between them
Ooh is that her name? :o
Divorce rates being higher than they used to ISNT A BAD THING
Divorce rates used to be lower because WE LITERALLY WEREN'T ALLOWED TO LEAVE
And the number of people who murdered their spouses was much higher because they couldn’t leave 💀
@@artikulv731 Exactly. That is exactly where the "spouse poisons husband" stereotype comes from.
@overlordfemto7523 That's the statistics of overall spousal homicide. As in all and any murder of a spouse of any gender. That rate goes up as we increase our range of study and as gun violence goes up.
I'm talking specifically about wives who murder their husbands to escape abusive marriages. Which has gone down because now wives have other ways to escape if need be. That's one of many reasons the divorce rate has gone up.
Perhaps you can't read? Or maybe you just don't have reasoning skills to figure out the nuance to statics like that?
There were nearly 4 decades of decline in rates of overall spousal homicide (which is majority men killing their wives) before it began to increase again in recent years.
Trad wives claiming you shouldnt work as a woman are completely out of touch with reality. There are single moms who have to work to put food on the table. Theres even traditional families where both partners need to work because theyre bareling making ends meet. Trad wives make it out like its easier but most women work in order to just make a living, even those who have a husband whos also working.
they all are rich... they never had to worry about stuff like that
Feminism gave us the "single mom" which is a high predictor for crime.
@@professorfoxtrotWhy do you exist? You should just stop.
@professorfoxtrot Nah. There were always single mothers. Men leaving was a thing and still is. Also men dying or getting sick to the point they could not work was more common in the past.
The major predictor is poverty. And yes that is more likely if there is only one adult to bring in the money. Has nothing to do with feminism.
@@professorfoxtrot oh really? so delusional
"long lasting relationships aren't always successful ones" is the same reason I hate the "oh ur loyal? What's ur longest relationship then" like no those two things barely correlate, let alone be dependant on each other
"50% of marriages end in divorce" doesn't seem nearly as high when you remember that there's 2 ways a marriage ends: divorce or SOMEONE DIES. The outcome being one thing half of the time is only significant when THERES MORE THAN 2 CHOICES
Also, that's 50% of straight marriages. Only around 30% of gay marriages end the same way.
@@bloodgutsandangelcake6079omg we're literally better /hj
that's so pathetic that a little girl is suffering because of her mother's psychosis. My niece is artistic and aspires to be a tattoo artist one day, I couldn't imagine my sister telling her 'no, you should be focused on having children and caring for everyone else but yourself'.
It’s so gross to prioritise traditional household roles. It’s especially harmful for children, since it’s attempting to brainwash them to live up to their parents expectations. Ew
my mom tracked her cycles. thats how i got a second sister
I love that whenever people talk about the high divorce rate when people couldn’t divorce they NEVER bring up that the accidental/mysterious deaths of husbands went down as soon as divorce rates went up! Weird right?
"come on girl, use your head!" she can't until her husband tells her to do so
"submitting > being controlling" And why the hell would I submit to someone trying to control me? I don't want my partner feeling like a dictator, I'm an anarchist for fuck's sake.
the oat mlik thing makes me laugh. I'm a man and I drink oat milk. Not because I'm vegan or anything, but because I'm lactose sensitive and having little to no dairy prevents me having to spend forever on the toilet. Also oat mlik just tastes better.
I don't even have any dietary restrictions but almond milk has become my go to for most things it's just so good
If staying home, raising children, and serving your spouse are the most fulfilling things you can do, women shouldn’t be keeping this wonderful experience to themselves. We are cheating men out of being deeply fulfilled.
@overlordfemto7523 really? Idts
Real
@overlordfemto7523 stop trolling
omg this is a good one
@overlordfemto7523GET OUT OF HER COMMENT SECTIONS YOU FREAKY INCEL 😭
The response to not wanting to serve a husband being “you serve your boss” is crazy. I serve my boss because I have to. I don’t have generational wealth or a crazy rich husband, I need to work, hence serving my boss. If I didn’t I would die. Do they understand that?
I don't understand are you for or opposed to what is saying here?
I only bake a few times a year, mostly just for holidays. I think the sourdough obsession is legit just because it's a lot easier to make than other types of bread. That's the only reason I can think of that all these tradwife people go on about it.
do the raw milk girlies not realize that about 2/3 of the worlds population are lactose intolerant lol
Not to defend the raw milk people, but to be fair even doctors can be unaware of how much of the population is lactose intolerant. I found out while breastfeeding my 1st kid who had a milk protein intolerance, and luckily had a lactation consultant who knew. I joined a breastfeeding support group and was shocked at how many moms kids had classic milk protein intolerance symptoms but were told by their pediatricians that it was "super rare" and wouldn't even recommend the mom trying a milk elimination diet to see if that was the problem cause in their minds it was too rare to even consider! My lactation consultant said she got tons of patients who's babies had been diagnosed with "colic" and told there was nothing they could do by their pediatricians but she would have them eliminate dairy and the baby would no longer have "colic."
@@whossoul Funny enough, the reason for this misconception might be because most of the US population is white, and lactose intolerance is more common among POC. If most of the doctors are white and most of their patients are white, there's a pretty good chance they weren't seeing lactose intolerance as often, which made them think it was rarer than it actually is!
i've been using one period app for over 3 years and it still isn't 100% with its estimations. im shocked to hear some women only track their cycles as "protection" !! id be pregnant in a second 😅
How does that even work if you are expected to “submit” to his every whim every night?
@@margonautif theyd thunk they wouldnt have posted that
It's mostly for Catholics, since Catholics consider contraceptive sex a sin but recognize that people can't have a ton of kids. Most tradwives are Catholic.
I'm not a trad wife AT ALL. Many of the roles my husband and I take on traditionally belong to the other gender (I'm the breadwinner, he works part time and cares for our child during the day.)
BUT I LOVE making sourdough bread. I do it every weekend. Fresh baked bread keeps me going through life. Without it, I'd be a sad lady.
There's two types of soughdought people and it is VERY CLEAR which kind a person is. There's: I make my own or buy from a friend because I don't believe anyone else should have their hands in my food. And then there's: I make my own cause it's fun and I may be a bit fruity. Alt: I started during the pandemic and kept up with it because I enjoy it
Not like other Mums gives me 'Not like other girls' videos for some reason.
I just can't put my finger on it....
gee i wonder…
🤨someone call a detective right now.🧐
Huh, I wonder why that is? Gosh, I don’t know…hmmmm? 🧐
It is what happens when these women become moms/mums.
Another thing about not using sunscreen in the past: people wore long sleeves outside in the summer. Or just lived in places their skin was evolutionarily adapted to with the amount of melanin it produced.
:/ i expect this kind of stuff yet it never fails to make me sad.
OK I recently learned, Sourdough is a fermented dough, and apparently we should eat certain fermented foods to create a healthy gut. Thank you for listening to my TED talk😂. I don’t know what it is about sourdough toast that’s so delicious with butter on it
On the whole anti-sunscreen thing, that's just bat-sh* wild to me. I was outside in the sun for 3 hours once in a part of the us where you don't have to worry too much about the sun. I was wearing sunscreen and reapplying it every 30 minutes. I was still dealing with that sunburn 3 months later. What I'm hearing is that i should never go to Australia/ New Zealand.
You are awesome savannah most women do not want to stay in home for them it would be a literally hell women should do what makes you happy love you're open minded channel
I DO want to stay home and do by choice but even for me it's literal hell some days! Seriously the hardest job I've ever had, and I've worked retail and as a teacher, two pretty well known hard fields, both are cake walk compared to being a SAHM!
@@whossoul that is why most choosse to work working in the home is like being treated like a slave the job's never seem to end and it is the mist thankless job ever women want a workplace where they can interact with orhers that is why women choose a workplace
That one plushie in the background that keeps being sat up then falling over repeatedly is making me giggle a whole lot in this video heh
lmao same here I've been looking for this comment cause I can't unsee it now
20:31 you forgot about the hole in our ozone layer from all the hairspray and old refrigerators
Also, in regards to sunscreen, until 90 years ago, people went to great lengths to cover their entire bodies to protect themselves from the sun.
I wish that it was true they’re probably not drinking raw milk, but it’s actually pretty easy in the US to find a local farmer who will sell it to you (especially if you’re near Amish people) so lots of tradwives absolutely are feeding it to their families
Hey, Aussie here. Just wanted to point out that the hole in the ozone layer is through the use of chemicals, not farming practises. Per the NASA website: "Human activities effectively punched a hole in it, through the use of gases like chlorofluorocarbons (CFCs) in spray cans and refrigerants, which break down ozone molecules in the upper atmosphere."
To be fair, modern industrial farming doesn't help the amount of methane in the atmosphere, but it didn't break the ozone layer.
Does it say it's exclusively from spray cans and refrigerants?
There was a recent oxford study led by Peter Scarborough which shows the effects of animal agriculture on GHG, including CFCs. Animal ag is the leading cause of climate change, much more than our transportation systems
@emilyforte8428 While I don't doubt for a minute that's how it is today, there was a period of even more rapid deterioration of the ozone layer specifically, and it was during that time that the hole in the ozone layer around Australia and New Zealand became a critical global issue.
At that point, it was mostly CFCs from the noted sources that were causing the problem (that's how I read "punched a hole in the ozone layer"), which lead to the Montreal Protocol in 1987, which was an act of global cooperation and policy, banning a lot of CFC usage (especially in spray cans and refrigeration) and reducing the output of those gases by over 99%, which slowed down the deterioration considerably, possibly even halted it (at least for a while).
It's also a favorite "gotcha" by so-called "climate skeptics": "What happend to the hole in the ozone layer everyone warned about 40 years ago? That stopped at some point, very curious..." - yeah, it stopped - or was paused, at least - because policymakers listened to scientists and took decisive action.
General recommendation (to anyone reading this): Montreal Protocol. If you're too young to remember it and/or never learned about it... it's worth looking it up. It's good stuff that probably doesn't get a lot of press because it's a "solved" issue. It isn't, really, but... you know.
And now we don't have the hole in the ozone because scientist told us this is what caused it and we stopped doing it... I wonder what else we could fix this way.
It's exclusively CFCs - they are so chemically inert that they make in to the upper atmosphere and there they break down to radicals and basically deplete the ozone by reacting with it. It takes few steps to quench the reaction
The title reminds me of Regina George’s mom in ‘Mean Girls’: “I’m not like a regular mom, I’m a cool mom.”
I’m an involuntary sahm. For reasons like my poor mental health, poor career opportunities, and expensive childcare and lots of little things along the way. I HAVE to be a sahm. And yes being stuck at home all day doing the same things over and over is exhausting.
Yes, any work becomes unbearable when you literally never get a break from it. Even with the worst paid employment, your workday eventually ends and you can leave until the next day. And you can keep on looking for a better job to change to.
There would be a lot less divorce... but there would also be a lot of shitty husbands dying under mysterious circumstances.
It is 10:30am in Australia at the moment and the UV is already at 11. Have put my sunscreen on before going out.
Raw milk and sourdough are something that hints at homemade/country life.
You can like both of those things
I love sourdough and will never stop preferring it
Although you pointing it out made me question it so I double checked and it is a bit more difficult to make but not by much. Autofill suggested "is it healthier" and it has studies proving it's more nutritious and better for your blood sugar. Which I find hilarious cause most studies agree that the nutrition difference in raw milk is not enough to justify the multiple health risks.
A really funny pairing really lol
Oh shit, she actually had the "let's start a commune to defeat the Communists"?!
My mom is making sourdough while i'm watching this
Back in the day, before sunscreen, people wore long sleeves and hats or carried umbrellas when they were out in the sun.
When she was talking about sourdough I was literally looking at sourdough bread on my kitchen counter right in front of me
Housewife and mom, here, by choice...and sometimes it gets old doing a TON of work for zero pay. Like, I could go nanny or be a maid for fewer hours, more pay. But, I choose not to (because I'm privileged to do so). I also home school, which I know can be sketchy, but it feels like my only option in America right now.
Anyways, you make some excellent points. Love your videosss! ❤
This is the recipe for successful children. Promoting divorce, single motherhood and reliance on the state as Kiwi is a recipe for crime and poverty.
@@professorfoxtrotYou’re evil
I also feel like it's one of the few good choices left! I went to college to become a teacher, got my degree in childhood education, and came to two really messed up realizations. 1: Everything we learn about how best to teach kids is thrown out the window by public schools. Instead everything is based on test scores, money, and keeping conservative parents happy. U.S. schools have some of the highest work loads and longest days and for what? The lowest educational outcomes of most "developed" nations. 2: What they would pay me to teach 15 kids is about what I would have to pay to have my 1 kid in child care....which essentially means the schools pocketing the cost of the other 14 kids education and definitely not putting that money back into the school. I'm lucky to live close enough to a unique hybrid school that allows me to homeschool 3 days a week while she goes to school 2 days and gets the socialization with kids and takes only classes in the arts and sciences that most schools have done away with. Most parents don't have a program like that available, or the money to make that work. Even for us making it work financially is only because my job as a teacher would be so underpaid we basically break even on work vs child care.
@@alicebthegachaweirdo8378 you're a fool
@@whossoul I feel you. I used to think it was a tragedy that my health kept me from finishing my teaching degree and getting my certification, but now I know that I wouldn't be able to handle the conditions teachers today have to work under. Most of my teacher friends have either left the profession, are trying to leave the profession, or are white-knuckling their way to the earliest possible retirement.
It'd be more expensive for me to work outside the house, so our setup looks somewhat traditional. But I'm a terrible housewife and a fairly good parent I think. He still helps around the house alot and just today it all got too much and he made sure I got a few hours to myself out of the house. Because we have to remind each other to look after ourselves as well as the girls.
When the kids are at school you should look for some part time work as insurance if anything bad happens to your marriage and/or husband.
@@WynnWynn-gl3fk between his varied shift pattern, youngest being under 1 and "school hours" employment not really being a thing that really is not possible. We are fortunate to have backup funds for both scenarios and a high enough wage to support everyone but I do in fact look into viable flexible WFH things, most of which are terrible pyramid schemes.
@@WynnWynn-gl3fkThe issue for a lot of women (including me) is free education doesn't start till your kids are 5 or 6. A lot of jobs, even ones above minimum wage, don't cover or only balance out the cost of child care. Then if you have another kid the 5-6 year window resets, and the cost to have them in child care doubles. That's why this issue runs so much deeper than just letting women choose to stay home vs work. For some it isn't financially feasible to work unless you're already in really well paying careers. Add breastfeeding into the mix which makes the mom staying home more practical (and cheaper cause formula is expensive) and you get a deep rooted societal issue that leaves a lot of women with a double edged sword.
Trad wives are unhinged. Anyway, love your vids! ❤
the whole video I kept thinking you were saying Chad Wives not Trad Wives but it still worked
but yes your points were on Point
My parents are conservatives (though they've mellowed out over the years) and while they're not perfect, I'm so thankful that *they* had me and not anyone else. My mom's a very accomplished, independent woman. She stayed home with me after I was born, but she got back working pretty quickly. She planned a lot of events when I was a kid, kinda like a PTA mom but with much less Karen characteristics. She makes more money than my dad and has been for a while, he doesn't mind at all. I was more of a tomboy as a kid, but I also had some pretty girly interests. Dad was never weird about that. He took me to the park, to birthday parties, and other events. He was also great about period stuff. He didn't treat it like it was gross, he understood that I was in a lot of pain, and he got me pads and chocolate with no complaints.
I was scared to come out to them as trans, but they accepted me. They're not perfect allies, but they love me and they have my back. They were never weird about gender. Mom never made me wear makeup and she might've complained if I didn't wear a dress, but I was still allowed to wear more masculine clothes. They got me whatever toys I wanted, never instilled the "girls do this, boys do that". I have issues, but I don't have gender issues other than external factors out of my control (people being assholes).
Thinking about it, it's very freeing. I wasn't taught that the only thing I'd amount to was being a mother. I could be my own person. I didn't have to do what everyone else was doing, I didn't have to do what people told me (much to their dismay lmao). If there's an injustice, you speak up about it; you stand up for people and show kindness, you have your people's backs. I just feel very sad for people like this. Not to say that being a stay at home mom is a bad thing because it's not, but the way in which they're living their lives is so restrictive. We shouldn't be forcing people into boxes. We shouldn't be aiming to repeat the past. We should be free.
On the topic of people not wearing sunscreen in the past and therefore we don't need it either, theres a reason people covered up their skin. And the primary reason definitely wasn't to reduce seggual attraction.
I’ve always hated the taste of sourdough. Glad to know I was never cut out to be a trad wife 😂
20:00 also fashion was more geared to protect against the sun for example the prevelance of hats or other headcoverings, gloves ect they wore those to not get burnt so unless you dress for the sun by covering every inch of exposed skin you can wear sunscreen
Not wearing sunscreen as an Australian is pretty insane.
As someone in the US who's had to have some sketchy moles removed before 30, that's an insane statement to make anywhere by anyone!
Just regarding the milk:
People in parts of the world have adapted to drinking cows milk. And it’s so interesting to me! Like we’re not talking about millions of years here, either. It’s like 6000 years. But in parts of the world we’re people didn’t drink cows milk they didn’t adapt to doing it and therefor lack the enzyme (after they stop breastfeeding). And no, all people don’t become lactose intolerant when they stop drinking milk. Some do, but not all. I don’t, for example
I mean oat milk is superior in coffee though. And it lasts longer, so it’s more economical if you just have a little bit in food now and then
I mean....humans are mammals. Mammals going for milk, ANY kind of milk, is pretty instinctive. I've seen animals attempting to nurse from other species. It's uhhh not necessarily a good thing, depending on who's sharing and who's sipping, but it does happen.
But yeah I genuinely think it comes from a deep subconscious instinct to nurse from our mothers, bc that instinct is necessary for an infant to live. U see the same behavior in lil baby kittens and puppies, too. Sometimes when my cat is asleep, I see him mimic the,,,,nursing motions with his mouth?? Like sucking or whatever??? I think he might be dreaming of his mother, even though he's already 3 years old 😅
Obviously human beings are more than just our instincts! We have reason and logic and all that fun stuff, too. But I do think it's a little strange to assert that humans drinking milk of any kind is somehow.....unnatural?? when we, like any other mammal, depend on milk for our earliest survival. It doesn't seem weird to me that many ppl would be positively disposed toward milk from other mammals as well.
It might be a cultural thing tho 😅 in which case, that explains the different views lol
9:30 that’s probably why these people are so against the pill, because they want more pregnancies
I’m so glad I found you. Thank you for existing
1:42 she’s not wrong. If women weren’t given a voice or the rights to pursue a divorce like a traditional wife, divorce rates would plummet significantly.
when all my fav youtubers make a vid about toxic wifes/moms
the ad on this was for pregnancy support from life aid offering real alternatives. feels like religious bull crap too me.
They do love their "but you're subservient to your boss" line. That's why there are human resources departments and industrial tribunals and stuff. A lot of stuff to try to ensure that bosses don't abuse their power.
Bread belongs to all.
That includes sourdough.
I refuse to let them claim sourdough
you need shelf for those stuffies or somethin 😅😅😅 they keep falling
Where I live the UV index is 10 most of the time and it can get up to 13. It's hell.
your earrings get more and more oversized and absurd and i love it
One day she will have literal human sized hula hoops lol
"if you have been watching my videos, but are not subscribed..." - I will take that personally! 😅😅😅
I could spend and hour telling how those"living of the grid" are always people with online presence and make daily videos or whatnot sharing their "little moments of a simpler life" with an internet connection probably better than mine, definitely a computer way better the one I have, video and mobile equipments I could start a educational channel with and are still getting a money influx from these "off the grid" activities.
Cheers and keep the good work!
ah i was just watching ur older vids also CHAD CHAD MENTION!!
"Because we didn't have so many effing cows!" 😂
"But you're serving your boss at work," yeah, and you know what's cool about that? I clock out and -go home-. Do stay at home parents get to "clock out" at any point? How are the breadwinners of the relationships making sure their partners get adequate rest from their day to day workload? I'm sure it's possible, but I'm also sure that many of the breadwinners in these dynamics don't and will never understand the mental load that weighs on someone who is unable to ever leave their work.
Savannah being a Chadchad fan feels correct
yeah i live in qld and last week i went outside in a dress thinking we'll be in the shade most of the time and i'll be fine, i sat in the sun for like 20 minutes got sunburnt so bad on my shoulders it's peeling now 😭
Im never here this early! Hi! I love you and all your positive vibes! You make dark subjects funny and palletable
I read it as “Not Like the Other Nuns” and now I need that
Wasn't there a musical with that premise?
@@ilikecookies9796 Haven’t heard of it, but I need it in my life now
Those ''adjectives' in oat milk are calcium, vitamine D, and B12.
You can get natural sunscreens if the chemicals bother you (and I mean, it IS worth considering). The ignorance on display in some of these is truly staggering.
Yea, but the thing is… Chemicals literally make up every single thing in this world. You cannot escape chemicals no matter how hard you try. Show those types of mfers what chemicals make up a simple apple and watch em go crazy.
@@gothcsm Well yeah, but given a choice between like 5 ingredients or a yard-long list of synthetic chemicals that may or may not have had any long-term testing on health effects (think Teflon production), I'd still prefer the so-called "cleaner" option most of the time (except I'm poor, so I generally have to stick to the more cost effective options anyways 😉).
The cycle tracking thing is so wild because in a lot of these circles you aren’t supposed to talk to your husband about your period, you aren’t supposed to deny your husband when he wants sex, and you’re responsible for making sure you don’t have a baby when he doesn’t want one. Just doesn’t add up
Ancient Egypt (like Carthage n junk) used sunscreen made from palms, fats, and milks.
People generally don't have an understanding how old some ideas are.
Carthage isn’t in Egypt