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I had a not like other girls phase in middle school. In the end I realized there's nothing wrong with liking makeup and wanting to wear girly clothes from time to time :)
Yeah me too! I thought all girls had that phase, and eventually grew out of it. Sadly some got stuck in that phase lol
Same, I love girly stuff and perfumes.
I went through that when I was in late elementary school now I’m a nonbinary trans masc who likes to wear dresses
I did as well. Then I realized I wasn’t even a girl. Lol. But yeah, masculine women aren’t any better or worse than feminine women, and it was something I myself learned.
I went through that phase sort-of
Well, I wasn't wrong to be fair
*I was trans.* 🏳️⚧️
So that I suppose I was correct in a way ^^ (also I love feminine and masculine things now, I grew outta that not like others phase!! Im much more comfortable and happier now lmao🎉)
as a reader, I did always feel weird for not liking romance books but then I figured out as an adult that it wasn't because I wasn't like other girls, it was because I'm aromantic lol
the pick-me phase is rough but I'm proud of everyone who got through it
Heyyy, fellow romance-repulsed aromantic! I also prefer books/movies that aren't romance-centric :D
I'm not aromantic, I love being romantic towards my partners but unless important things happen in romantic/sexual bits in books I will skip through it and I refuse to write any romantic stuff if I'm writing something. Idk why-
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I'm also aro but I do like romantic stories.
I'm also a dude lol 😅
For me, it's something like compersion. I love seeing other people happy.
Sameeeee, they never connected with me and it finally clicked it's bc im aromantic. If romance is a B plot i can enjoy it, but unfortunately i don't relate enough for me to enjoy it as the main plot 😅
My “not like other girls” phase was in elementary school and all it really was wasn’t me hating other girls but was just me hating the idea of being a girl which made me “not like other girls”. And for the longest time i thought it was just me trying to be mean but no girl it was just gender dysphoria💀💀💀💀
lmao literally same XD
Same lol
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Bro same lol
I went through the NOT LIKE THE OTHER GIRLS phase. Turns out I'm just autistic lmao
same! and transmasc to top it off lmfao
She really wasn't like the other girls... she didn't understand the social cues (me too. Me too)
Considering white guys get diagnosed more than anyone, that tracks.
I had a similar experience, turns out I'm an autistic guy lol
Ur so me…
"I'm not like other moms, i'm verbally abusive" is quite the thing to say. yikes.
sounds like my mom 😂
@@imawakemymindisalive13same 💀
My mom after telling me the only reason she isn't killing me is because she would never go to jail over me:
my dad be like
i had a "im not like other girls phase". then i realized i wasnt a girl XD
seriously thiugh, its so saddening the way that society makes girls believe that they arent like women because they have thoughts and opinions
you are so much "not like other girls" that you pretend that you are a guy. That´s peak "not like other girls"
I used to be the "men are just less complicated to hang out with" kind of girl. I was insufferable and because I liked typically masculine things I thought there wasn't many girls like me and I wouldn't get along with others. Now, I'm a mechanic and the field I work is slowly becoming more diverse. I've come to realize there's a bunch of women JUST like me and I can get along with them perfectly fine. And honestly being able to talk about more personal things is so nice.
@overlordfemto7523you can just admit men are boring
@overlordfemto7523That's not even true though, men and women are the same amount of complicated to hang out with. Same with nonbinary people too.
@overlordfemto7523yea no😂 sadly you cmhave to winder if they just want to fuck you
@@randon19yearold the amount of NB validation I got from your reply almost brought me to tears. Thank you.
((Today was a heavy dysphoric day 😢))
@overlordfemto7523 Are these the same men that joke about having the same braincell but then insult women who dress or act similar? Seems like it. Men are complicated, they just never label it as such.
Growing up autistic I desperately wanted to be like the other girls in my age group who seemed so normal and happy, and I felt like I was being forced to be “not like the other girls” because I couldn’t make myself like the same shows, music, or interests that they did. I just had to get better friends who actually liked being around me to finally feel secure in my likes and dislikes rather than just agreeing with what everyone around me said.
@overlordfemto7523 It’s weird to want to have the same interests as friends so you can participate in their conversations? Is this comment satire or are you actually confused?
@overlordfemto7523 okay? Thanks for agreeing with me? Maybe I’m misreading your tone but you sound irrationally annoyed when we’re saying the same thing lol
Oh, don't mind that poor sod. They are just desperate to insult as many people as they can (just look at their replies to pretty much any other comment), but just a tad too obvious about it to have any credibility. I'd tend to think it's somewhat of an accident that they almost made sense replying to you. @@bombraccoon8899
Went through an "I'm not like other girls" phase. Turns out I'm not a girl 💪👁️👄👁️✌️
Sincerely, a trans man
i mean, you were right though. you weren’t like any of those girls. or any girls. 😂
@overlordfemto7523saying a random word doesn't give it meaning in any given situation yk
Bro hit that onetiktok guy emote
I’m loving all the trans people who learnt they were not like other girls in this comment section. So happy to hear that.
Newsflash, wannabe troll: trans people are real, no matter how much you close your eyes and scream your nonsense. @overlordfemto7523
I went through a massive "Not Like Other Girls" phase in high school. Always felt like I fit in more with men. Turns out this is because I am now no longer a girl and have been enjoying the last 6 years as a man lmao
I think that’s an entirely different situation than being a pick me
@@shannond1511 I feel a good subsection of pick me girls are actually some flavor of gnc/trans/generally queer. Feeling like you’re not like other girls and seeking the validation of men instead can, for some, be a symptom of feeling alienated from the “normal” (cishet) girls due to an undiscovered difference in gender identity, presentation, or sexuality. In my example, I was a part of the movement because I saw myself as simply a messed up kind of girl, and I hated other girls around me due to seeing in them all of my own failures to fit into the expected stereotype of womanhood. I had to seemingly work so hard to be “girly enough” when it came so naturally to them, and I felt judged for it. Simultaneously, I would become so euphoric when treated like “one of the guys” for reasons I didn’t understand at the time, but now understand as gender euphoria. I know many trans men like myself who used to identify as “not like other girls.”
i’m loving how this is literally half the comments 😂
I said I wasn't like other girls. I wasn't a girl period, and I'm goth so I wasn't like anyone in my school lol.
@overlordfemto7523
I'm not lol.
i'm not like other girls, i have... *snake arms.*
Ahhh I say that all the time to my husband. And then do the snake arms dance.
11:10 "we dont need education we can homeschool" pearl that's still education, which you clearly need
I feel like a lot of people who had a "not like other girls" phase felt left out by "other girls" and felt like they didn't fit in. I know when I had my "not like other girls" phase it was because I had very few friends and was bullied for my interests, so I tried to turn being different into something I could be proud of. I gobbled up "not like other girls" content in middle school because I genuinely felt like I could not relate to my peers. Of course, putting down other girls/women to build yourself up is petty and immature, but again I think it often comes from a place of feeling like you don't fit in. I just feel like in some cases these girls deserve empathy as they seem to be coming from a place of hurt. Is there a lot of internalized misogyny happening? Yes, absolutely. Is it a generally short-sighted and narrow view of what it means to be a girl? Also yes. But even in the comments, it's evident that a lot of people who had a "not like other girls" phase did so because they felt different and were trying to soften the blow of feeling like an outsider. Ultimately, I feel bad for girls who never left that phase behind because they are missing out and are going to have a lot of reflecting to do as life goes on.
(The trad wife stuff does make my skin crawl, though)
Same. I wanted so badly to relate to girls, but every time I tried I'd be shot down. I was a weird kid. But attempt after attempt wore me down into a bitter, jaded creature and I decided 'they can't reject me if I reject them first'. In my defense, I was like, 9 years old, autistic and trans. Plus my family was beginning to become unstable. I just really wanted a friend to relate to, but I just didn't get how to relate. Some of the girls were bullies who encouraged my dismissive attitude but it wasn't their fault either, my ideas were my own
I've never realised how deeply this affected me until I started this comment 💀
the bit about how healthcare and education are not necessary is so wild. i broke my foot and had to have surgery on it, otherwise it would have healed incorrectly and i would have developed arthritis in a few years. but please, pearl, tell me all about how you and your natural medicines can fix that!!
I had to have surgery on my back or I would've become paralyzed. I wonder what natural remedies pearl has for getting rid of tumors
I had a “I’m not vapid because I read books” phase. Well, now I enjoy sharing reading experiences with other women and I’m way more comfortable with my femininity 💁🏻♀️💗
I had a “not like other girls” phase in middle school and part of high school due to bullying and me wanting so hard to fit in. Then I realized that other people’s opinions are overrated. As long as you aren’t hurting anyone, do what you do and love what you love!
I'm sorry? Your partner would order a pint of blood, because they don't want to end up with vampire hunger and bite you in a bind rage? I call that dedication, that's a keeper.
@overlordfemto7523you can't take a joke and you liked your own comment. You can't be any more pathetic.
Beer isn't just the cheap crap your friends buy, Kiwi, there are really fruity, tasty beers as well. Craft beers are usually really aromatic and have a lot of flavour. For the most part you can't even taste the yeast. Especially in beers like Boozey Fruit which taste like a fruit sorbet.
I always get so mad when I see period shaming from other women. Doesn’t it suck enough that we have to get our period every freaking month?? Everyone can choose their own way of dealing with it and that is FINE. There is no better or worse way of bleeding out….
This is the third video of yours in a row I've watched where one of your stuffed animals has fallen over in the background and not to be dramatic, but it has me questioning my reality. Youre the best btw
I never had a "not like other girls" phase. The closest was when I couldn't decide if I was a tomboy or not as a child, because I liked some girly things and some masculine things. Gender always felt sort of irrelevant to me.
... So it turns out I'm agender. I'm still happy with living as a woman, because I'm used to it, but I don't think I have a natural attachment to gender like I've heard other people describe it.
Still getting myself out of my 'not like other girls' phase at 22. Recently embraced my love of pink and pretty dresses after shunning anything feminine for the last 10 years
as opposed to the “i’m not like other girls” trope, there’s the “you’re not like other girls/girls can’t like that” trope. i’m very much a girly girl, but i (like many others) like some traditionally masculine things.
for example: i once had a grown man ask me about anime (which i’ve been watching since childhood) and when i responded positively he assumed it was because i have older brothers… i have one (barely) older brother who i did watch anime with because my mom also liked it and we enjoyed them together. my mom looooooved DBZ (and others) so ofc i did too. it was so infuriating and made me feel like i couldn’t be an individual without having male influence to make up my personal interests. because there’s nooo way a woman could enjoy anime, some of the most popular media on the planet 🙄
anime has always been a source of bonding for my brother and i, but so was tv in general. just like i enjoyed watching Power Rangers with him, he would enjoy Powerpuff Girls with me
I had a "not like other girls" phase in middle school. Turns out, I'm not like other girls, because I'm not a girl and I'm trans lol
BWHAHAAH NOT NCT STICKER BWHAHA
I didn’t have a “not like other girls” phase, I had a “not like other humans” phase in like 4th-6th grade. I guess it was bc I didn’t really relate to most people in my school at the time. (I’ve realized I might be neurodivergent lol)
I thought i wasn't like other girls
Then i found out i wasn't even a girl, and that explained everything.
@overlordfemto7523 I've seen you everywhere bro, you are obsessed😭😭😭
i’m a hiker woman and purses on hikes are actually extremely useful. if you’re going on a short hike it allows you to have smaller important things within reach and if you’re on a longer hike with a backpack it allows you to have more important things in closer reach.
I had a huge "not like other girls" phase in Middle school. I was telling my friend one time "I don't feel like I'm like guys or girls. I don't feel like I belong with either of them" I thought I was quirky. I'm just nonbinary
the skzoos in the back make me smile everytime ngl
I love that horrors like Pearly make you laugh, rather than (just) getting angry. It's a great refreshing response.
"Hi Cat! [Hello!]" in the captions is a highlight of this vid omg
28:40 “I’m better than other girls, I don’t take care of myself” 💀💀💀 okay thanks for sharing ?
I’d like to think that I’m out of that phase, but i still catch myself gatekeeping once in a while
i also had a not like the other girls phase in middle school. turns out i’m gay & nonbinary & nobody else around me was. so i guess in a way i wasn’t like the other girls…? cuz i wasn’t a girl but also liked them lol
when I was in middle school, i went through a "i need to be like the other girls" phase and a "i'm not like other girls" at the same time because i was the only openly queer person in my grade and i wanted to fit it but i also didn't want to be like all the people who bullied me lmaoo
I love how a lot of your comments are really supportive!
I have a girl like this in my class 😢
She has an account like these 😭
My condolences😢
I so sorry for your loss
When it comes to my preference for beer over sweet cocktails is the same reason I drink Black Coffee, I like that there's a bitter taste, It makes me slow down where a fruity drink will get me drinking too much. And if i drink sweetened coffee it makes me go overboard.
my mom loves beer, all her partners (men) have loved beer, and never once has ANYONE given any reaction to her drink order. never. no one gives a fuck
please i literally started laughing when you said that the only time you are wrong is when you listen to sticker by nct !!!! But to be fare i still have nightmares about the first time i heard sticker!!
I went through this phase when i was in middle school. I used to be sporty and hated pink. I hated makeup. I used to play arm restling with boys ( i used to win most of the times) and thought im stronger and other girls are weaker.
Also i liked when boys told me i was not like other girls.
My aunt didnt allow anyone to talk to her until she had her morning coffee, and if u did, u were in a world of hurt lol
16:53 this was so amazing, princes bride for the win:)
Such frequent uploads recently :D
I also remember the phone + iPod combo my poor pockets always full 🤣
I like Savannah's content and appreciate her perspective on things. But coming after beer is a bridge too far, my bubbly yeast water is delicious 😤😤😤
But yeah, coffee is gross.
I had a tomboy, hating pink, only having boy friends and not like other girls' phase (Now I love pink, dresses and shit and also women)
Boundary: your body/space/personal internal needs
Preference: what others do
Sure there is some gray area overlap, but the two are misused a lot lately.
I had a no like other girls phase in highschool and by the end of it all I realized is I like women romantically and was behaving like a man just for their approval😭😭
also turns out I actually love makeup and dressing up for the sake of it. a girl's girl through and through now.
In defense of my phase, i was comparing myself to the behaviors of specific girls in my grade who were mean and snobby, my problem then was generalizing and extending that to all girls, which is just inaccurate
There are only two acceptable versions of “I’m not like other girls”. One is the Inigo Montoya one in this video. The second is “I’m not like other girls- I’m worse”
For a moment I thought that was binnie's dwaekki and I was gonna be hella jealous. But it's not. Phew 😤
I had a “I’m not like the other girls” phase , turns out I was trans LMAO
I love how she always says the same thing in the intro yet she always sounds like she's forgetting her lines lol
6:11 We are all individuals.... We are all different... I'm not😂!
i don’t condone bullying whatsoever but right now i’m a little glad i was bullied out of my not like other girls phase in elementary
Sad, you need psychiatric help to think that way.
The moms one around 3:40 is so stupid! I've never seen a single mom who hasn't told her kid the second one at some point in their lives.
I’m going back to a non-smart phone after this phone bricks, but not because it’s better or more convenient or because “I’m different”. It’s because I stay on my phone and I hate that about myself, and I feel nostalgia for my first phone which was a Razr flip phone. It won’t make me better than anyone, I just need to do that for myself.
I think part of the sad thing with the “not like other girls” is the fact that girls are told they should be special and that being like other girls is a bad thing. But isn’t it amazing that there is a group of people like you who are similar to you? I think it’s amazing to have things in common with other people. We should normalize it being a good thing to be like other girls
Me and my friends were always the kind of people to laugh at all the "not like other women" women 😂
I'm not like other girls... I'm not even a girl 😔
I’m currently going through a not like the other GUYS phase
i have bragging rights, i never went through this phase
I had a not like the other girls phase, ended up understanding there was nothing wrong with being like them, but jokes on me cause as it turns out I actually wasn't a girl lol
i had a not like other girls phase when i was like 12/13, it turns out i was just trans lmao
21:08 adele may be an award winning, mother but my mom is an award winning mother
i listen to everything from blues 50s music up to modern day rap, n sum pop, a lil bit of kpop, da only thing i dont listen 2 is countrty but even dat ders 1 or 2 songs i like
leebit staring me down in all these videos i get so distracted
Im not like other girls
Im literally a five headed dragon
lol I'm not like other dragons I'm balding
There were exactly 3 male students in my Masters. Out of 25 students. Get bent do most woman not want to do a masters 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
On the beer thing- I'm a woman who enjoys a beer from time to time. Sometimes I don't want fruity flavours and I'll sip on a beer. It's not the best taste in the world but it just fits the mood sometimes, and you feel like it on occasion even though you know it tastes a little festy. But doing what is essentially tolerating beer doesnt make me superior and special, it just makes me drunk.
I had a "I'm not like other girls!" Phase. Turns out I was right, I'm a boy
As a man, i totally agree with you Kiwi, beer is nasty. flavored drinks is where its at.
H Pearl Davis, entirely missing the point of Pink Floyd's "The Wall"
Something she and Doug Walker have in common.
I found your channel through isaac, wanted to check into it. I expected the standard "oh women are the victim and men are just trash" and while there definitely is some of that. I genuinely agree with this whole "I'm not like other girls" bs. And alot of other things you said. I genuinely think you should move away from the generalization of stuff. Saying "women hate women and men hate women" isnt a healthy mind set. Yes some men hate all women (for some reason) and some women hate all men (for some reason). But humans are very special, all of us are unique and have value. Be your self and never try too gloat about behavior. Just love life. Live it how you wish and always be there to protect others. Wish all of you the best even if our views are different. Hope everyday is filled with joy.
Not like other girls that only listens to 80s music when she finds out there was rap and k-pop in the 80: 🤯🤯🤯🤯
I went through a "why am I not like other girls?" phase before realizing I'm trans. And then also figuring out we're system and suddenly there are girls here, they're just not me.
@overlordfemto7523how's that copy and paste, chief?
I’m writing my partner a song bc I love him and they’re so amazing and I have been trying to write songs for awhile anyways, it’s probably not going to be good but I love them like a looot and want to marry him one day so I’m writing him songs and even if I never actually finish them or if I don’t finish most of them it’s fun and they’re really sweet and aaaaaaahaksksjsndkdsbdkdkskdnsjjdkdjsosjssk
I'm rooting for you 🫡
I'm not like other girls! I'm a single dry noodle.
“Retro is better.”
So do you go home and use your rotary phone to connect you to “central” and use a yellow pages? Do you use a turn crank gillapy that sputters when it’s on? Or better yet a horse and buggy? Like how far does this go? Honestly would be a good funny switch if we found out instead of not being like other girls she’s literally a time traveler.
I wanna do the trafwife kinda thing but no kids, have my own small business, more like the cottagecore ladies. My own animals, my own garden I mostly live off of, and I wanna share more positivity, make art, make people happy. And I’ve met many people like me online wanting to just sell their crafts. A lot of them do clay, jewelry, painting, other types of arts and crafts. You’re not special or different for wanting a more slow paced life Lmao.
i would rather raw dog shots of tequila or summ before i pick up a beer lmao
7:20 haunted plushie. 😮
I grew up with Walkmen and Discmen. I would never go back to that voluntarily. Being restricted to a handful of songs and constantly fearing the tape would unwind and break? No thanks. I guess it's a cute aesthetic but I've honestly never been willing to let looks get in the way of entertainment
not sure i had a full not like other girls phase but definitely felt different to my peers, turns out im autistic, aroace and nonbinary but now that i have a good friend group, sometimes i do want to be like the other girls when my dysphoria can take it because femininity isnt bad
Not the nct sticker slander 😤
Once you listen to sticker long enough it grows on you 😭
Did y’all see the stuffed animal at 7:24
If you're kayaking, you're not on the ocean. Kayaking is primarily done in fresh water so it's basically impossible to find places that haven't been discovered. Also there are designated camping locations for SAFETY. Both yours, others around you, and the wildlife and forest you're camping in. You can't go camping in a random spot, it's not safe.
I grew up in the 80's and 90's I had a Walkman and a Portable CD player, they were cool but not to the point I would go back to them, I still have cassette tapes and CD's in my house, I think I still have the portable hand held CD player somewhere. Records are different, I do still love their sound more, plus I'm interested in the Victorian Era and have an antique Victrola, I grew up with record players, they just have a different vibe that is still likeable, but it also doesn't make you unique for using a Walkman, it means you are trying to hard to have people think you are quirky. My opinion is there are people that are different out there, I being one of them, but the problem arose when people decided being different was cool and they realized they were not so they take a weird aspect, claim to like it so they seem different and try to point out they are different for attention, you either are quirky or you are not and the ones that are honestly different can spot ones faking for attention a mile away.
I went throught a "not like other girls" phase too.. Then i realized i was gender fluid and thought those other girls were hot😍🙏
(Gotta love women)
Okay that mom comment, that was my mom to a T. If you did something dumb she woulda been like lol I warned you. I sliced my head open after she told me to stop playing with a balloon, she had about that reaction tbh lol. RiP, I miss you.
Also the comment about not liking k-pop being unusual, wow, I got severely made fun of in middle and high school for liking anime and k-pop. 😂😂😂😂
1:43 OH MY GOD I AM IN THAT FACEBOOK GROUP
all the trans folks in the comments who realized they were not like the other girls by not being a girl are giving me life and i love you all
So, I hate most nonfiction books (personal preference) however, saying that makes me not like The other girls is weird as hell. Also, I love historical fiction (and I hyper focused on holocaust) and in my mix of fantasy, semi-horror (murder books) and a bunch of other genres. You will learn something if you read a lot, SEVERAL genres overlap in books…
i’m literally not like other girls
"no matter gay straight or bi lesbian transgender life..."
In my opinion theres probably atleast some pick me girls who aren't actually pick me girls
What i mean by that is they could genuinely have never met other girls who are interested in the same things as them because that can be hard to find depending on where you live and what people near tou are like
For example i loved anime ever since i was 10 and i didn't really meet anyone else who was as into anime as i am until i was around 14 when my new school had a anime club but ehen i joined it was literally all guys although not long after that i did make some online friends who were girls
Also some people may just feel like they dont belong around other people ya know i feel like whenever someone says they dont feel like they fit in with people and society everyone calls them a pick me but i disagree people can just feel like they dont belong and not be trying to get attention
i had a not like other girls phase. turns out im nonbinary so i guess i was technically right
I used to think im not like other girls ... which is half true(im demi-girl)...but i also found out i just envy men