Hannahoued 614 yeah, they know that. they just said that it didn’t mean mitchell necessarily was right because he actually wasn’t the one who raised lily in her baby years.
if the child starts crying, the parent should let them cry for roughly 10 min. if they are still crying, then go tend to them. many times the child is simply fussy
Sometimes the crying goes deeper than just being spoiled and just want their way . Sometimes they feel lonely or have anxiety and need reassurance and comfort.
I've heard to try it first with one minute, and then go back and comfort the baby without picking them up, and then leave again and do it again and again doubling the time each round until it's twenty minutes. If by then the baby is still crying, you pick them up and comfort them, and try again next day. Unnatural's vegan video on attachment parenting explains it better than me.
Sometimes they just wet their diaper which needs to be changed.. sometimes they are hungry.. sometimes it can be high fever or stomach ache as well.. a child can communicate only by crying
Looking at the this from a child development point of view, Cameron is right. Bowlby has shown that not having their needs attended to will cause a baby to develop an attachment disorder. This is particularly true for Lily who at first grew up in a orphanage and therefore lacked the special attention a care giver can provide. On the extreme side of it, looking at the ways orphans in a Romanian orphanage were impacted (by looking at brain scans we can see that the amygdala, which is responsible for that fight or flight response was over-reactive) by lack of physical affection and security. There are many arguments that pack up Cameron’s view. I could talk about some of them but this is just a television show and not not a paper for university.
.....these are all opinions, based on numbers that we must assume are accurate. Those under observation may have had other underlined issues, like bad parents period. We as professionals, know that RICH CHILDREN have all WANTS AND NEEDS met, but yet, murder their parents for money.... I so love the inexperienced, book babies 😂 trying to diagnose others, having yet to deal with their own childhood traumas.
The idea isnt to cold turkey your child, but to take it slow and make the child less reliant on you to put them to sleep. It works. This isn't the childs need's, when they cry because you arent there its not for food, fear, or protection, its to try and bring you back. In ancient times, children that cried like this DIED because they would attract predators, and its only because of modern era parenting that children have come to be attention needy like this. And going slow, and weening the child off of their desire to sleep with you is important for both parent and child. Sleeping WITH a small child is a cause of premature death, and getting a child to go to sleep without your assistance is not only a valuable skill, but is also better for the parents in the long run. This is very evident because baby mobiles quiet babies because they resemble large birds, and screaming children would have been easier to spot. So if they are quiet when in danger, have been fed, changed, and bathed recently, with no other health risks and a baby monitor to observe the child when your not in the room, what other need is there? So long as you spend the day with the child, and enrich its daily existence through play and learning, they wont develop an attachment disorder. And coddling a child like this will absolutely give them seperation anxiety late into their childhood, something that this ALREADY IS and you as a parent need to teach the child that just because you arent within sight, that doesnt mean you are gone forever.
Since Lily was in an orphanage for the first few months, I think Mitchell’s idea of using the ferber method is not a good idea... she’s already going through the trauma of being with two strangers in a strange country.
Any time my niece cried as a baby, her mother would coddle her and carry her and hug her . Now she is a toddler. She is very clingy. She throws fits when her mother simply uses the bathroom. If she exits the room for a second, she throws a fit and cries until she comes back. She had developed separation anxiety. So ... Do I believe Mitchell is right? Indeed I do
B on T but there can be a middle way, right? A more human approach, wait a little so the child gains independence and knows how to calm down alone but to let her cry like that? That leaves marks too!
Laura Thomas My two brothers and me were also coddled as babies, mostly by my mom (and my younger brother by me too). We grew up to be very good and calm kids (well honestly my older brother was a bit of an exception) and then very decent adults and we love our mom very much and are very close to her. We're not emotionally close to our dad though, even though we grew up with him too. And my younger brother and me are very close to each other, he's 10 years younger than me (he's 20) and I took care of him as a baby like a mother. So, thanks mom❤️.
Isnt that how all parents should act?? Good to see a parent doing their job. Some ppl just ignore their child’s emotional pain and wonder where they went wrong. You should always be there for ur child no matter their age.
I’m 30 and my mom flew from Pennsylvania to Florida the second day I went into a deep depression. I had no idea she was coming until she knocked on my front door
I am upset every time I watch this scene. I'm a nursery school teacher and we learned in college that in the first one year of the child you should comfort them every time they cry. (You don't have to pick them up, sometimes it's enough if they hear your calming voice).That's how they form a trusting bond with you. When they are below one year, they are not that clever yet to manipulate you, they just tell you they have a problem by crying. When you don't respond, they soon learn that they are alone, as you won't help. Just imagine a dark room, you are alone, maybe something hurts, and you just cry and cry, you cannot help yourself and nobody comes to you to help you. Did you know that babies that young cannot calm themselves? They just become too tired to cry and fall asleep.
"They just become too tired to cry and fall asleep" Yes. That's the point. You learn to tell the difference between your babies cries. Like if they're hurt, or a hungry or just being fussy. Speaking from experience, when my brother was a baby, he cried the instant my mother was out of sight and if she went to him all the time, nothing would have gotten done.
Just learned about Bowlby attachment theory (I'm a Psychology major) and this whole method thing got me really unsettled, this method seems like the best recipe to raise a insecure, anxious person, I mean cry yourself to sleep??? Allow a infant to cry so much that they get too tired to keep crying?? Thinking that the cry is the only way babies that young have to communicate this method is basically teaching the child to not communicate their feelings, no one is coming for you
a lot of people don’t seem to know that babies don’t form an attachment to their parents at first. after a while they begin to trust and love you but it requires you taking care of them
Same here this was unsetling. At nursing school the first thing we learned during maternal and child care hospital rotations is that when a baby cries, you should always tend to them immediately because that is their only way of communicating something at such a young age.
Recent studies have shown that ignoring a baby’s cries is NOT good for them. It increases anxiety and damages the parent/child bond. When they stop crying it’s not because they’ve calmed down, it’s because they’ve given up hope that their needs will be met.
0:25 there's nothing wrong with cam. 😭😭 I hate to see people cry too. But then I'm also like Claire who can't seem to express it the right way and end up smiling on somebody's sorrow (episode where Luke's old neighbour friend dies and he gets his TV) 🤭🤭
I never did this with my baby. I always picked her up. No harm done. She got a big girl bed and was easily able to adapt to sleeping on her on. Pick your kids up. No psychological harm caused
Let me save you time reading the comments 10% is about how funny Cam is 90% mommy bloggers yelling at and condemning each other for their point of view on parenting because after all theirs is the only right opinion 😒🤦🏼♀️
I understand both sides. In fact, I prefer using a method that's somewhere in the middle: When my baby start crying at night, what I'd like to do is set an egg timer for 10 minutes, and when the timer goes off, *then* I get up to take care of the baby. That way, I can prepare myself to get out of bed and I'm less tired in the morning. Full disclosure, I don't have kids yet. The method described above is only theoretical.
It's kinda funny cause it can go either way. As an aunt of 4 children who were never left to cry for more than a minute I can 100% say that it all depends on the kid cause 2 of them independent AF, one is in the middle and the other is like glue.
Honestly it depends on the parent and the child. My oldest child slept like a trooper from day one not a single issue. As long as she was bathed fed and had a clean diaper she was fine being laid down to fall asleep. My second child was fine with sleep too but we moved to Newfoundland when she was 11 months and for a few nights she was fussy really bad. After a couple nights her nana said I should let her cry it out for a bit because she is clean fed dry and not in any way in danger she's just fussy. At first she cried (does NOT always mean baby is hurt or sad for goodness sake) 24 minutes later she was asleep.. slept the night and woke up on her regular schedule time. She went right back to her sleep schedule the next night and after. I didn't neglect her she wasn't in need. Babies cry... toddlers fuss.. older kids get saucy. People read way to much into things in my opinion. I'm only sharing my story, but I do think some people simply over react.
Letting the baby cry itself to sleep will make the baby make more problems once they are teenagers. To teach it that it doesn't need to cry because it will get help when it needs because it is 100% sure that it is loved - who wouldn't want that for their baby?
I realize this will sound stupid but it kinda bothers me that their watching Scarface and you hear a chainsaw then Cam says the nightclub massacre scene is coming up not more than ten seconds later and those two scenes in that movie happen alot further apart.
I listen to horror stories like Creepypastas with my son, what you gonna call CPS get over your self it doesn't hurt them and it's really no different than watching horror movies or listening to scary stories with your 8yr old, THE CHILD ISN'T TRAUMATIZED BY IT AND IT DOESN'T BOTHER THEM IN THE SLIGHTEST.
@@eak4889 They're babies. This isn't letting them have their own way. It's fulfilling a basic human need. Human touch and affection in times of distress is important to a child's development. Of course you can't go to them every time but.
it’s also physically healthier that’s why they have volunteers go to hospitals and hold babies that were born with substance/alcohol dependencies cause the skin-to-skin contact is a form of treatment
I was a Cam when I had little ones. I slept off and on with both my kids until they were about two.😅 Now they are the two most independent people I know. They know if they need help I'm there, but most times they are off doing their own thing.
Some of these comments are straight-up ridiculous. If the baby cries for over 7 to 10 minutes then you check on it, even then so you should get to your kid right away. If it's a habit, then that's different. It isn't spoiling or being over-protective when your child needs attention at certain times. Tend to your child's needs if it needs a feeding, a diaper change, or might need a bit of comfort. Taking care of your kid properly and obsessively coddling are two different things.
Mitchel’s method is actually proven to not be good for baby’s. A baby needs love and warmth of their parents. A lot of serial killers were “cry” babies whose parents let them cry without tending to them. I really think its evil and heartless. Especially when they’re very young 🤷♀️
It's always a tricky thing, dealing with your baby. Knowing what each cry means and wanting to comfort the baby but also not become so overly attached that the baby can't sleep or soothe by itself. Especially when it gets older. And each baby will have its own individual needs. Some may respond better to self soothing than others. Some will need more attention and some may have underlying health issues that need constant attention.
When I was 4 I yelled out for my mom and she would respond every time by the end of the week I stopped. Now the reason why I did that was that I was adopted and newly adopted at that. I wasn't used to having a room of my own and I was scared of the lack of noise. It probably did help, in the long run, tho, I do have attachment issues but that's because of my years before being adopted not because of my mom attending to me when I called for her that week.
My sister does that too. Her son is 1 year old and she coddles him. Everytime she leaves the room he cries and she stays comforting him which I think is too much, she needs to establish independence in him. She si loving in my perspective but its too much if a mother comforts their babies everytime they stumbles on their walks which my sister does. Everytime my nephew stumbles when balancing his weight she goes running which justifies his crying cause he understands/confirms that as failure and its not helping his self esteem. Its better to turn your back as long as its not dangerous, give them room to explore and understand what they did wrong and solve it. I do not want to interfere cause she would think that we dont appreciate her mothering which we fo admire, being a mother isn't easy vut i think for first time mothers they should seek guidance from those who have the experience.
I mean science has shown that when you come when a baby cries it's good because it shows the baby you're there so the cry less. I mean it's a baby, you cant just let it cry.
Look… everyone parents differently. Some of us cannot just let our babies cry until they fall asleep. Some of us choose to ignore the babies 👶🏻 as if those babies are grown beings. But you do you boo 👻 All ima say is that I choose to be there for my babies 👶🏻 whilst you don’t.
I see both of their points and agree with both, crying babies are in distress but it might be worse to teach them that their will always be someone their when they cry, cause if there isn’t then that would be bad
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I love it when cam goes into Lilly’s room and Mitch is hiding 😂😂😂
"I thought you-"
"Those were pillows"
Or next to Lily’s crib
1:12 Holy that scares me 😬
and now she's fiercely independent 😂😂
@@APG19912009 Eh, no. Actually, Cam raised her. Mitch was out to work while Lily and Cam were inseparable during her first 3-5 years of life.
Renata Matuk SHES talking about in her teenage years
Hannahoued 614 yeah, they know that. they just said that it didn’t mean mitchell necessarily was right because he actually wasn’t the one who raised lily in her baby years.
LITERALLY LMFAO
Studies show that children who had a more physical touch with their parents in their toddler years have much less anxiety in their later years.
Lily loving scar face, makes so much sense, lol
what sense? i don't get it
kendall gomez because of the way that she is like now in the newer seasons
...it's the colors
Me and my dad with the Godfather (1, 2, and 3!)
Honin Akecheta 😂😂😂
“You didn’t need to come home during nap time”😂😂😂
"hmm I think you proved last night that I did"
“I told everyone I have an unreliable partner, and they understood”
"I will bring you down."
"You can't bring me down."
*"I'll sweep your legs."*
"Something wrong with you that the sound of our child in distress doesn't bother you anymore"
"She's not in distress, and this just proves you need this more than she does. I'm ferberizing two babies" 🙄
Baby Lily was so cute and always so calm.
Yup such a calm baby!❤️
That is a totally different Lily though
@@dinakisa1049 yup we know
200th like
The first lily was actually played by twins! But apparently they hated filming and they wanted a kid that could talk so they recasted her.
Eric’s acting is just amazing! Who would have thought he’s not really gay in real life
wait...he's not?!?
@@johannarowe8130
X2
@@johannarowe8130 no he's not .. he has a wife
Its almost like he is getting paid to act!!!
@@rflafosseyeah jesse calls him gay for pay
"Except you're not a bear."
* grabs chair like a circus tamer with a bear *
But he IS a bear.
I thought Cameron is a bear in the gay context. 🤷🏽♂️
if the child starts crying, the parent should let them cry for roughly 10 min. if they are still crying, then go tend to them. many times the child is simply fussy
ReviewCam but then children will learn that they can get their way with crying
Sometimes the crying goes deeper than just being spoiled and just want their way . Sometimes they feel lonely or have anxiety and need reassurance and comfort.
I've heard to try it first with one minute, and then go back and comfort the baby without picking them up, and then leave again and do it again and again doubling the time each round until it's twenty minutes. If by then the baby is still crying, you pick them up and comfort them, and try again next day. Unnatural's vegan video on attachment parenting explains it better than me.
Ricki R no, you aren't supposed to let a baby cry at all
Sometimes they just wet their diaper which needs to be changed.. sometimes they are hungry.. sometimes it can be high fever or stomach ache as well.. a child can communicate only by crying
I can’t help it. I’m like a mother bear.When I hear my cub crying, I have to run to her!
Except your not a bear
That would be me too😁
Me too! And he is now 6 and independent! No cry and coming to mummy.
Looking at the this from a child development point of view, Cameron is right. Bowlby has shown that not having their needs attended to will cause a baby to develop an attachment disorder. This is particularly true for Lily who at first grew up in a orphanage and therefore lacked the special attention a care giver can provide. On the extreme side of it, looking at the ways orphans in a Romanian orphanage were impacted (by looking at brain scans we can see that the amygdala, which is responsible for that fight or flight response was over-reactive) by lack of physical affection and security. There are many arguments that pack up Cameron’s view. I could talk about some of them but this is just a television show and not not a paper for university.
.....these are all opinions, based on numbers that we must assume are accurate. Those under observation may have had other underlined issues, like bad parents period. We as professionals, know that RICH CHILDREN have all WANTS AND NEEDS met, but yet, murder their parents for money.... I so love the inexperienced, book babies 😂 trying to diagnose others, having yet to deal with their own childhood traumas.
@@incontrol5848 not true. Rich children may have material wealth. Doesn’t mean they haven’t been emotionally abused or neglected.
Yes and you wrote a whole paper in comment section.
@@pratyakshashetty4782 You should see my university assignments.
The idea isnt to cold turkey your child, but to take it slow and make the child less reliant on you to put them to sleep. It works. This isn't the childs need's, when they cry because you arent there its not for food, fear, or protection, its to try and bring you back.
In ancient times, children that cried like this DIED because they would attract predators, and its only because of modern era parenting that children have come to be attention needy like this.
And going slow, and weening the child off of their desire to sleep with you is important for both parent and child. Sleeping WITH a small child is a cause of premature death, and getting a child to go to sleep without your assistance is not only a valuable skill, but is also better for the parents in the long run.
This is very evident because baby mobiles quiet babies because they resemble large birds, and screaming children would have been easier to spot. So if they are quiet when in danger, have been fed, changed, and bathed recently, with no other health risks and a baby monitor to observe the child when your not in the room, what other need is there? So long as you spend the day with the child, and enrich its daily existence through play and learning, they wont develop an attachment disorder.
And coddling a child like this will absolutely give them seperation anxiety late into their childhood, something that this ALREADY IS and you as a parent need to teach the child that just because you arent within sight, that doesnt mean you are gone forever.
0:40 Well that movie explains why Lily became what she became 🤣
Cause poor cute baby lily to have nightmares
What are we watching? 😊
Cam
CAMERON
OUT
I though you were!
Those were pillows
That end me 😂
Lol
"You can't bring me down."
"I will sweep your legs."😂
Since Lily was in an orphanage for the first few months, I think Mitchell’s idea of using the ferber method is not a good idea... she’s already going through the trauma of being with two strangers in a strange country.
Yeah it's really difficult for a baby lmao. Adjusting to different cultures right.
Would she even be cognizant of being in another country?
chill it's a show 🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭
@@sertorrhenclegane yes she would be cognizant of the change.
Ferber method is horrible actually, it surely affects the attachment styles.
I would say of all the moms in the show Cam is probably the best. He's definitely the most caring mom.
I’d say if all the brothers in the show Haley was the best, definitely the best brother
@@santiagobarratt-boyes5558 I say out of all daughters, Manny is the best daughter 😭
Any time my niece cried as a baby, her mother would coddle her and carry her and hug her . Now she is a toddler. She is very clingy. She throws fits when her mother simply uses the bathroom. If she exits the room for a second, she throws a fit and cries until she comes back. She had developed separation anxiety. So ... Do I believe Mitchell is right? Indeed I do
B on T but there can be a middle way, right? A more human approach, wait a little so the child gains independence and knows how to calm down alone but to let her cry like that? That leaves marks too!
Pretty much all kids do that. Hint: THEY'RE KIDS. Children are dependent on adults for safety and guidance. It's not clingy, it's how life works ffs.
I was coddled as a baby but I grew up very independent
Laura Thomas My two brothers and me were also coddled as babies, mostly by my mom (and my younger brother by me too). We grew up to be very good and calm kids (well honestly my older brother was a bit of an exception) and then very decent adults and we love our mom very much and are very close to her. We're not emotionally close to our dad though, even though we grew up with him too. And my younger brother and me are very close to each other, he's 10 years younger than me (he's 20) and I took care of him as a baby like a mother. So, thanks mom❤️.
@@APG19912009 , Plus two sets of DNA 😀/😠 ....🤔
I'm 18 and my mom still comes running when she hears me cry 😂😂
Aww how sweet
Sweet but dont cryyy
Isnt that how all parents should act?? Good to see a parent doing their job. Some ppl just ignore their child’s emotional pain and wonder where they went wrong. You should always be there for ur child no matter their age.
I’m 30 and my mom flew from Pennsylvania to Florida the second day I went into a deep depression. I had no idea she was coming until she knocked on my front door
So true even I can relate just I m 19 years old 😅😂😂😊
I thought the bat scene would come up.
Mitchell:theres a man in lily's room
Cam: *grabs bat*
Its go time
He can be so papa bear at times! 😂
"I will bring you down"
Im just gonna put this in my pocket, save it for a rainy day
What makes you so sure you’ll be the one who doesn’t coddle the child?
I am upset every time I watch this scene. I'm a nursery school teacher and we learned in college that in the first one year of the child you should comfort them every time they cry. (You don't have to pick them up, sometimes it's enough if they hear your calming voice).That's how they form a trusting bond with you. When they are below one year, they are not that clever yet to manipulate you, they just tell you they have a problem by crying. When you don't respond, they soon learn that they are alone, as you won't help. Just imagine a dark room, you are alone, maybe something hurts, and you just cry and cry, you cannot help yourself and nobody comes to you to help you. Did you know that babies that young cannot calm themselves? They just become too tired to cry and fall asleep.
"They just become too tired to cry and fall asleep"
Yes. That's the point. You learn to tell the difference between your babies cries. Like if they're hurt, or a hungry or just being fussy.
Speaking from experience, when my brother was a baby, he cried the instant my mother was out of sight and if she went to him all the time, nothing would have gotten done.
Just learned about Bowlby attachment theory (I'm a Psychology major) and this whole method thing got me really unsettled, this method seems like the best recipe to raise a insecure, anxious person, I mean cry yourself to sleep??? Allow a infant to cry so much that they get too tired to keep crying?? Thinking that the cry is the only way babies that young have to communicate this method is basically teaching the child to not communicate their feelings, no one is coming for you
LOL
a lot of people don’t seem to know that babies don’t form an attachment to their parents at first. after a while they begin to trust and love you but it requires you taking care of them
Same here this was unsetling. At nursing school the first thing we learned during maternal and child care hospital rotations is that when a baby cries, you should always tend to them immediately because that is their only way of communicating something at such a young age.
Recent studies have shown that ignoring a baby’s cries is NOT good for them. It increases anxiety and damages the parent/child bond. When they stop crying it’s not because they’ve calmed down, it’s because they’ve given up hope that their needs will be met.
0:25 there's nothing wrong with cam. 😭😭 I hate to see people cry too. But then I'm also like Claire who can't seem to express it the right way and end up smiling on somebody's sorrow (episode where Luke's old neighbour friend dies and he gets his TV) 🤭🤭
I honestly don't know if I would be ok to hear my baby crying like that and not do anything. I know how Cam feels😂😂😂
Cam is SO me if I was a parent 😂
And it is definitely better than to leave a baby alone to cry, at least in my opinion.
I laugh every time i see Cam sitting there crying next to the baby monitor
I never did this with my baby. I always picked her up. No harm done. She got a big girl bed and was easily able to adapt to sleeping on her on. Pick your kids up. No psychological harm caused
Let me save you time reading the comments
10% is about how funny Cam is
90% mommy bloggers yelling at and condemning each other for their point of view on parenting because after all theirs is the only right opinion 😒🤦🏼♀️
People today unfortunately seem to not be capable of disagreeing in a civilized manner. It's sad.
1:31 actually in the gay community he is technically a bear.
The more you know 🤷
I don't think so. I think bear infers hairy, and he's clean shaven.
Nope, not a bear. If anything hes a chub
Kerorofan well he does have some body hair, so he is technically a bear. im bi and i 💗 protective bears like him 🥺💞
Bear ? please explain ? I like this show but I'm not in the know about much in the LGB+ community
Oh my god, I am a mother bear 😱!!! I’ve never allowed any of my three kids cry; they are perfectly independent by the way
Mitchell: OUT!!!
Cam: I thought you were…
Mitchell: Those we’re pillows
I cant get over Mitch hiding 😂
Cameron just has SO MUCH LOVE TO GIVE!😫😫😫
0:34 This reminds me of when my dad and I would watch action and gangster films since I was a baby myself
PS Mitchell's reaction was pricelessly funny
Am I the only person that 100% sides with Mitchell?
Nope! Me!
I understand both sides. In fact, I prefer using a method that's somewhere in the middle: When my baby start crying at night, what I'd like to do is set an egg timer for 10 minutes, and when the timer goes off, *then* I get up to take care of the baby. That way, I can prepare myself to get out of bed and I'm less tired in the morning.
Full disclosure, I don't have kids yet. The method described above is only theoretical.
ZukoHalliwell that method makes a lot of sense 😄
Terresa Knowles Thank you, but I can't take credit for it. The method is from a newspaper comic strip, _For Better or For Worse_ by Lynn Johnston.
Claire ? Is that you?
who doesn't want a dad like cam...
It's kinda funny cause it can go either way. As an aunt of 4 children who were never left to cry for more than a minute I can 100% say that it all depends on the kid cause 2 of them independent AF, one is in the middle and the other is like glue.
I love cam. He is so funny 😂😂😂😂
Lily is and always was a savage lol
Oh my god!! I totally love this show...but i would never be able to leave an infant alone in a room with the door closed!!! Never ever..
exactly! i wouldn't sleep myself
Why?
Pisces because hearing your baby being upset makes the parent feel upset too.
Sanda Corive you would hear it whether the door is closed or not. Why does specifically leaving the door closed upsetting to the previous commentator?
Honestly it depends on the parent and the child. My oldest child slept like a trooper from day one not a single issue. As long as she was bathed fed and had a clean diaper she was fine being laid down to fall asleep. My second child was fine with sleep too but we moved to Newfoundland when she was 11 months and for a few nights she was fussy really bad. After a couple nights her nana said I should let her cry it out for a bit because she is clean fed dry and not in any way in danger she's just fussy. At first she cried (does NOT always mean baby is hurt or sad for goodness sake) 24 minutes later she was asleep.. slept the night and woke up on her regular schedule time. She went right back to her sleep schedule the next night and after. I didn't neglect her she wasn't in need. Babies cry... toddlers fuss.. older kids get saucy. People read way to much into things in my opinion. I'm only sharing my story, but I do think some people simply over react.
lily watching scarface as a baby really really explains how she is the way she is now.
Came for Sofia, stayed for Cam and Mitch.😁
Watching Scarface as a infant. That explains a few things about Lily.
1:11 I didn't expect it at all- I was laughing for one minute straight.
Awww I'd struggle leaving a baby crying too... ahhhh
When they were crying at the same time I lost it lol
Lily sniffling is the cutest :')
This just explains future Lily so well lol.
That baby is sooo cute! Wonder what she looks like now
I love Cam and Mitchell as parents..
Love reading a comment about raising children from people that don't have children. Also relax people
Lily watching this and growing up to love metal music is😂😂✌
Mitchell let her cry that long and now she makes them cry with her mean and sassy remarks
So baby lilly likes Scarface.... Makes sense
“I told everyone that I have an unreliable partner and… they understood”
😂😂😂
And years later Haley would follow in her Uncle Cams footsteps
My grandmother was the same way with her grandson chase. Walked in to see them watching scar face 😂
1:49 I love the way Mitchell says that lol
Letting the baby cry itself to sleep will make the baby make more problems once they are teenagers. To teach it that it doesn't need to cry because it will get help when it needs because it is 100% sure that it is loved - who wouldn't want that for their baby?
I realize this will sound stupid but it kinda bothers me that their watching Scarface and you hear a chainsaw then Cam says the nightclub massacre scene is coming up not more than ten seconds later and those two scenes in that movie happen alot further apart.
Lol only logical comment on this video 👌
You need to join the pppgalf group they have excellent group therapy.
*they are
Thank you..i like to convince myself they were watching clips on youtube or something...it kills me
I listen to horror stories like Creepypastas with my son, what you gonna call CPS get over your self it doesn't hurt them and it's really no different than watching horror movies or listening to scary stories with your 8yr old, THE CHILD ISN'T TRAUMATIZED BY IT AND IT DOESN'T BOTHER THEM IN THE SLIGHTEST.
At the end, she was crying to the camera lmao
Lily is low-key me as a baby watching Scarface
Babies need human touch. It makes them feel safe.
But they can’t learn that everytime they throw a fit and cry, they are going to get their way
@@eak4889 They're babies. This isn't letting them have their own way. It's fulfilling a basic human need. Human touch and affection in times of distress is important to a child's development. Of course you can't go to them every time but.
They also need to sleep. By themselves.
@@celia-ov6rm No....they kinda don't Toddlers do. Babies just need to sleep in general.
it’s also physically healthier that’s why they have volunteers go to hospitals and hold babies that were born with substance/alcohol dependencies cause the skin-to-skin contact is a form of treatment
One of my fav cam and Mitchell scenes
"Except you're not a bear"
Well ... Let's check that in the room
The face at 0:46 is just priceless😂😂😂
FOR THE BABY?!
“Torture.” Ahahaha
1:30 well mitch... he technically is
the cry at the end is too perfect
I was a Cam when I had little ones. I slept off and on with both my kids until they were about two.😅 Now they are the two most independent people I know. They know if they need help I'm there, but most times they are off doing their own thing.
I love Lily's scream at the very end!
Cam was just being a good dad. Mitchell was focused on himself.
yep!
Some of these comments are straight-up ridiculous. If the baby cries for over 7 to 10 minutes then you check on it, even then so you should get to your kid right away. If it's a habit, then that's different. It isn't spoiling or being over-protective when your child needs attention at certain times. Tend to your child's needs if it needs a feeding, a diaper change, or might need a bit of comfort. Taking care of your kid properly and obsessively coddling are two different things.
No wonder Lily she is just savage because she watched scareface as infant 👶🏽
Now we know why Lily liked scremo music her dad let her watch Scarface lol
"I will sweep your legs." 😂😂😂😂 I 'bout fucking peed myself when he said that.
" i thought we were out of those pillows" 😂
Look at how small she was 🥺🥺
Love this show!!
Imagine how many takes were necessary and how many times baby Lily was balling heart little heart out (not acting).
Mitchel’s method is actually proven to not be good for baby’s. A baby needs love and warmth of their parents. A lot of serial killers were “cry” babies whose parents let them cry without tending to them. I really think its evil and heartless. Especially when they’re very young 🤷♀️
How do you know that about serial killers? I'd like to read about it
It's torture. Parents who do so are too selfish to become parents.
Creo que Lily es el bebé más lindo que vi en la TV . Muy talentosa 😍
Lily being the way she is at the end of the series makes a LOT of sense after watching this clip again a decade later
This was my mother, she’d tell me stories how I’d be balling my eyes out as a baby & she’d cry as well bc she hated hearing me cry so much.
The king of queens - Doug is a husband bear.
It's always a tricky thing, dealing with your baby.
Knowing what each cry means and wanting to comfort the baby but also not become so overly attached that the baby can't sleep or soothe by itself. Especially when it gets older.
And each baby will have its own individual needs. Some may respond better to self soothing than others. Some will need more attention and some may have underlying health issues that need constant attention.
“Except you’re not a bear” 🤣🤣🤣
Me too I Love it when Mitchell My Ancle
When my sister was a little baby she once fell asleep to American Werwolf in London
When I was 4 I yelled out for my mom and she would respond every time by the end of the week I stopped. Now the reason why I did that was that I was adopted and newly adopted at that. I wasn't used to having a room of my own and I was scared of the lack of noise. It probably did help, in the long run, tho, I do have attachment issues but that's because of my years before being adopted not because of my mom attending to me when I called for her that week.
"Ill sweep your legs"is the best line of the whole season
My sister does that too. Her son is 1 year old and she coddles him. Everytime she leaves the room he cries and she stays comforting him which I think is too much, she needs to establish independence in him. She si loving in my perspective but its too much if a mother comforts their babies everytime they stumbles on their walks which my sister does. Everytime my nephew stumbles when balancing his weight she goes running which justifies his crying cause he understands/confirms that as failure and its not helping his self esteem. Its better to turn your back as long as its not dangerous, give them room to explore and understand what they did wrong and solve it.
I do not want to interfere cause she would think that we dont appreciate her mothering which we fo admire, being a mother isn't easy vut i think for first time mothers they should seek guidance from those who have the experience.
I mean science has shown that when you come when a baby cries it's good because it shows the baby you're there so the cry less. I mean it's a baby, you cant just let it cry.
I think it's a torture too. I feel you cam
that theory of let baby crying sucks 😢
Look… everyone parents differently. Some of us cannot just let our babies cry until they fall asleep. Some of us choose to ignore the babies 👶🏻 as if those babies are grown beings. But you do you boo 👻
All ima say is that I choose to be there for my babies 👶🏻 whilst you don’t.
Except you’re not a bear got my weak😂😂😂
get, get in there, get😂😂😂😂
I see both of their points and agree with both, crying babies are in distress but it might be worse to teach them that their will always be someone their when they cry, cause if there isn’t then that would be bad
I would probably be like Cam if I ever become a parent.