And most of the time we do not know anything about them. The people in their cars going to work, the people in the supermarket. They all have their ups and downs, their own story unrecognised by others
sonder n. the realization that each random passerby is living a life as vivid and complex as your own-populated with their own ambitions, friends, routines, worries and inherited craziness-an epic story that continues invisibly around you like an anthill sprawling deep underground, with elaborate passageways to thousands of other lives that you’ll never know existed, in which you might appear only once, as an extra sipping coffee in the background, as a blur of traffic passing on the highway, as a lighted window at dusk.
@@jonathanm9436 it is a word made up by John koenig, indeed the author of the dictionary. Since he gained popularity, I think it's used more and more, but before its never been an official word.
@@iwannadreamforever3823 Hey, thanks for the extra detail. Such an excellent word and meaning - I shall do my part to help it be absorbed into our language.
I love the guy with the ring. He’s so sincere. You can tell he has a good heart and grew as a person. Maybe that lesson was more valuable than the ring. I wonder how much good came out of that in the future because of that one experience.
he knows even though he didn't directly hurt that lady that he DID hurt her by keeping the ring and he should have helped, that's telling of his growth
Something similar happened to me when I found a golden ring and it belonged to someone who lost it in the lake and I gave it to them and they were so thankful
This ist to the guy with the ring-story: I wish you wouldn't regret this so much. Life consists of lessons and I am pretty sure that this experience made you grow and become a self-reflecting man. Be understanding with the 13 year old boy inside of you ❤️
"Isn't a person just a collection of their mistakes And also their, kind of... undoing of their mistakes? I mean, what else are you? You know, you're always... You're always just the reaction to the bad parts of yourself I think... And I think that's what is kind of like A driving motivation behind any human being that's... Who wants to continue to grow and live life 'Cause they're looking at their flaws and trying to, go beyond it" - Michael Eyedea Larsen
“Everybody just wants to be heard” I am aware of this. As someone who struggles with feeling worthless, knowing this makes things a bit worse, so I try to be as considerate as I possibly could and a better listener too.
Yea, I was talking to my sister's friend the other day and he's talking about his time being homeless as a teenager and I'm just like man, people go through so much. I guess that's why I try to be nice to everyone. I don't want to make their day worse than it might already be.
Hello Thoraya. Would you ever consider doing these videos in a different place? People who live in different areas tend to think differently and have different life experiences. Some suggestions near San Diego: The mexico/america border, Chula Vista, Encinitas, Long Beach, L.A., Tijuana, Ensenada, Mexicali, Yuma.(once travel restrictions lift). Plane and train tickets are cheaper than usual right now, so there's also Las Vegas and the Hoover Dam further out. Everyone upvote this so Thoraya sees, and add suggestions to other places she can go.
The thing about where she films is a huge tourist attraction. The odds of everyone being actually from San Diego is very slim. I think that’s really cool.
@@deathic I agree! I have family from Ashland and I had lived in California for so long when I met them. I was in a little bit of culture shock, but just a little, as I had gone to college in Lexington. But yes, definitely a different way of thinking there in eastern Kentucky than San Diego.
exactly this, i lived in phoenix a couple months ago and ran into a "crackhead" on my way home. stopped and had 5 hour conversation, told her every single detail of my life and she did the same but till this day even my closest friends know nothing about me
I love the guy who took us on his life journey of his grandpa passing, breaking up with his girlfriend, getting his masters, and losing basically half of his weight. Great advice: trust your parents, friends, and believe in yourself
One of the many reasons that most people shouldn't get married.. to any single person or group of people. I'm not against monogamy, but most people aren't ready for a serious monogamous relationship. On the flip side, I think polyamory is just as bad. (a lot of poly people I've met seem flighty, vapid, and selfish, and do it for the wrong reasons.) Not against polyamory either. I just think people should attempt to be the best, most genuine version of themselves.
@@FirstLast-nz9vo Monogamy is unrealistic... for some people. For others it's extremely natural and completely attainable. I think it's more that most people have no idea what they want in life and do what society says they should do(monogamy), and then there are others that have no idea what they want in life and do the complete opposite of what society says they should do(polyamory) and a lot of people in both parties end up unfulfilled because they aren't doing what THEY want to do, but they can't even get to that point because they don't know themselves enough to KNOW what they want to do. Don't try to push your views on others because I think that's part of the thing that keeps people from knowing themselves.
@@FirstLast-nz9vo oh my 🤦🏽♀️you did not just say that… just because you have difficulty committing your self to ONE person doesn’t mean the majority people are like that. Monogamy is not unrealistic. That’s just an excuse for people who do cheat. I hope your mind set isn’t “cheating is normal” because that is truly disgusting. If you do think that way , I hope you dont get yourself in a relationship or marriage. You truly don’t want anyone else when you find the one. Maybe people who can’t stick to one person has a trouble with love. I have no idea, but dont normalize cheating please. That does so much damage
To the guy with the ring, I hope you’re reading this: Very often I find myself thinking about bad things I did when I was young and immature. I then feel this guilt, regret and also big embarrassment for myself. But honestly I believe it’s a good thing that we self reflect, not only our recent actions but also things we did in the past. It helps us to learn from our mistakes, to avoid future mistakes and to grow into a mature person! Edit: It‘s important to self reflect but it’s just as important to forgive ourselves for the things we did in the past
I have two I am 12 and will be 13 in 2 weeks and I am a bit popular and I often am scared that my friends are slowly drifting apart because I am doing better in school than they are and one of them is very jealous recently and has started saying bad things about me to my other close friends and I keep my mouth shut even though I know so much about him that I could tell but I just take it and stay quiet and my second one is I fear not being proud of more than learning from failure I get so nervous trying to get hurt that I hurt my self doing it I just got my first girlfriend and I was so afraid to ask her even though everyone around me told both of us it is obvious we liked each other and when I try out for sports I do worse than I can even tho I know I have what it takes but I am still scared to shine because I am more afraid of falling but I am getting over it and gaining more confidence in myself by working out and talking to more people and taking chances
@@brockheidle3000 I think you are doing the right things, practice makes us better, keep trying and confidence is sure to follow. Everyone gets nervous, it only natural.
Would your younger self be proud of the decisions you have made? That's one thing I think about...and my answer is yes. It's hard to be kind to yourself. I am proud of you ❤
i thought the same way especially as like a pre teen, id get like 80s in school and my parents would tell their friends and theyd all congratulate me and say theyre so proud but i never believed them because i thought i could do better, still in school and i think less like that but i wont lie i still kinda do
To the gal who’s in love with her girlfriend. By pretending you love your boyfriend, you hurt him, your girlfriend and yourself. There is nothing wrong with loving your girlfriend. Your fear of parental or society’s rejection is keeping you from being your AUTHENTIC self. It is ok to be gay. Please do not pretend to be something else. Courage is doing something authentic even while you’re afraid. Be honest and transparent. It will stop a lot of future grief. You can do it! Be courageous.
People hate gays more than killers, she will feel excluded on many levels, btw Do not advise anyone without realizing the danger of this act even though I am bisexual as well 🏳️🌈.
@@تالين-ي8س I agree that only she can understand the true weight of the consequences of any decision to come out. But, i am sorry to hear that you think 'people hate gays more than killers'. I have never been anywhere where this is true, and I am sorry to hear that you are located where this is true. Stay well.
Her reasons for not coming out are more potent than her desire to do just that. Maybe she would lose her parents and community - I don't know, but it must be too big to face. At least now.
@RedSeaGull totally agree with you... she is holding him back from finding REAL love... just be single and "best friends" with your boo... you can decide to be "just roommates" together for the public and even have some cats while both being fake "single" and "bitching to your social circles" how difficult it is to find a good boyfriend lol
@@Purpliz its better than forcing yourself to be with someone you dont even want to be with. it will hurt more if you drag someone its better to do it right away, ive been through it and its horrible to keep going.
Yea, like battling the horrid reality of having to be responsible for yourself and try not to spend all your money in fast food and games and have zero for rainy days. Fighting to get up out of bed and throw some clothes in the washing machine etc. I know some dead beats that just fight decay and laziness. I have no respect for such people
nah thats their job that THEY chose out of their own free will, i paid for the services so i will look in their face and moan and groan till their ears fall off😌✨
I always have like, tried to not even tilt my head too much because it definitely feels strange for them haha. Though it's ok that it took you a while to notice this, we all like to talk .
The guy at 6:55 had a lot to say. His words touched me. Then, he turned around and showed a shining smile. He is so brave! I hope his life keeps getting better and better.
To the women that’s never been in love at age 30. First of all age is irrelevant, u are so gorgeous and amazing. Your eyes are beautiful and I can only bet u have an amazing personality. I go by true love is true love and regardless how long you have to wait for it, it’s worth it. GOOD LUCK! ♥️♥️
@@juliebrown4087 my advice for her? Well I don't know much about her, but first I would advice her to get therapy. Then I'd have her lose a bit of weight.
@@equusamans oh I'll just go and tell someone who has no friends, family, and gf that he's just missing the "concept of love" and those things have on value in themselves.
I lost my engagement ring and it sucked so much not gonna lie, but to the guy that pawned the ring, it served as a learning experience, and it sounds like you did learn and that's what matters.
It's interesting how people's big secrets could range from something a little insignificant (like the lady who sometimes refuses to wear a seatbelt) to full on identity theft.
I am a popular kid in school I am 13 mine is lacking of confidence and fear of being a disappointment this year gave me a weird message I did not make the basketball or baseball team during quarantine and it made me weird I felt down on myself lazy always tiered and I got my first ever c and d and b in schools first semester because of me being sad and lazy and not see anyone because it was online and I did not even try out for academic team this year even though I was sate champion for social studies last year and my team got first in state then we went back to school and I started acting how I wanted to act and be myself and I got straight A,s the rest of the year I started working out I got super popular in that time and got my first girl friend
It made me think what else can I do and I have been asked to play football for my middle school and I am going to try out for baseball basketball and academic team and have gained a lot more confidence
@@brockheidle3000 Yeah, when we are popular people expect a lot and we end up creating quite some weight for ourselves too... But you will do well. I know it's hard to deal with expectations sometimes but really do stuff for yourself, little by little. You can do it. :)
It’s good that the guy with the story about the ring thinks about it all the time. He is wrong that it didn’t really benefit him. It may or may not have been sentimental to the woman but the experience certainly became sentimental to him & changed him forever in what seems to be a more thoughtful person. His ongoing remorse reflects this.
To the girl who loves her best friend more than her boyfriend of a year: I know you’re under a lot of pressure, but please tell him. He deserves more than to be committed to a relationship over feelings that are not mutual. If he already knows and you’re just using him for cover then you can just ignore this :)
@@fxjrulpzxi i don’t consider it to be “awful”. they’re in a difficult position where they aren’t sure how to approach it because they don’t want to be seen as a horrible person or have that guilt trapped inside her for not being able to easily tell him that she is in love with her best friend. yes, she definitely should tell him, but listen to her. she said for the sake of herself and for society AND her parents, it’s hard to go a different way. she needs time and confidence to stand up and say how she truly feels, but for right now, it’s probably the hardest thing for her. i can’t imagine the amount of overthinking she’s done and the regret she might feel if she hurts him. :/
Hey Thoroya, I'm Richard from Ghana, West Africa. I love your channel. I run a non-profit in Ghana, and we also make videos with Africans that address unspoken issues in Africa like you do. In a nation where marginalised persons and issues are antagonised and ignored, it's truly inspiring to me and the VOIICE Community to do what you do. We look forward to incorporating what you do too. Thank you so much for being here.
I loved the jollof video. I was thinking along the same line you went as I watched. Wouldn't want to mention it to get others to go and see for themselves 😉
@Brett Mcintyre Your thoughtful comment is ruined by the juvenile "lol" at the end. Just letting you know. Maybe think about it and stop with this bad habit (which is everrrrrrrrrrrywhere all over the Internet).
@@lisahinton9682 you're right i guess it's more sad that she's playing the victim than funny... seemed funny in the moment in a ridiculous way though. I'll edit it just for you
That guy at the end is amazing & so inspiring. Everyone that can reveal a secret is amazing, but he hit different. Thanks so much for the videos and happy you're back 😊
The "unrequited love" girl !! She's friggen gorgeous ! It's not only shocking, but it breaks my heart to know that she's not ever been in a relationship. You need to put that shit out to the universe, girl ! You are too fabulous and have way too much to give to keep yourself to yourself ~ ❤
To the guy who found the ring- -that was a strong learning experience, and the fact that it still weighs on you today is a sign that you have grown because of it morally. Don't regret the things that shape us, just grow from them and live your life as a better person for it. 💜
The guy in 2:22 actually gave a really good suggestion to thoraya. Ask strangers if you could go back in time and change one thing , what would it be ?
To the man who withheld the ring: Everything is fine. You have developed wonderfully! Very few people who do something wrong can reflect on themselves like this! This insight makes you something special and this mistake has brought you a lot further spiritually. I bet you are a very helpful, open person! You understand others and you can forgive mistakes because you know that people can develop further. The woman will be fine. Maybe her husband bought her a new ring, maybe it was a sign for her that it wasn't the right man for her. You do not know. Please forgive the 13 year old boy that he was more fascinated by the shiny gold than by the second he made the decision for a strange woman. Believe me everything is fine! I forgive you.
These videos sometimes seem like a group therapy to me... no matter how much it sucks to see people going through shit, it's easier to deal with something when you realize you're not alone... ♡
The last one made me cry. He's awesome. Having gone through this with my own child I hear the hope for the future he found which is all a parent wants their child to have.
I feel awful for that 30-year-old woman who's never found love. I see many comments about it claiming that "she's clearly happy being by herself, she doesn't need anyone!" but just because she acts all confident in front of a camera doesn't mean she is. And even if I'm wrong, and she is perfectly okay with being alone, she would be happier with someone who loves her just as much as she loves herself.
Also if it didnt matter, according to all her fans, then why did she bring it up as one of her greatest regrets. Obviously it bothers her. Im single and 30 and it sucks
Yea i hate how people say you don’t need love to be happy but everyone is different me as a person i can’t stand living alone i already have no friends so at least i need relationship to feel good and talk to someone i trust
As someone who's aromantic i can understand her. I do not grieve never finding love, but i do feel like i'm out of place when everyone always says its something all humans have. Her secret isn't regret, its her sharing she isn't like others, that she feels weird and different. She regrets that she is different, not that she can't fall in love. I hope someone can tell her one day that the label she's searching for is Aromantic, she isn't alone.
People always pity people who don't feel the need to be in a romantic relationship, as if there is something missing in their life. Maybe in yours, but not in theirs- that smile proves it.
As someone who rarely gets their hair washed by a stylist (I usually just go in for a cut), eye contact makes me uncomfortable too. Glad to see I'm not considered a rude person if I just close my eyes and sit in complete silence (unless I'm asked a question).
This channel is just beautiful , sincere , open , heart and soul touching and full of acceptance . Thank you Thoraya for this wonderful Channel , just keep going. Big love 😘
The guy who said that after going through 4 traumatic events he just dealt with one thing at a time and he's now in a good place has made my day and given me hope. Thanks ❤️
I always like watching these videos. It really puts "sonder" into perspective - that every random passerby is living a life that is just as complex and vivid as our own.
The guy who stood out the most to me was the last one. His smile seemed so genuinely happy, and since I've been struggling myself with my weight and the stress of school, it's good to know that maybe someday I will get over it and be truly happy again.
i do that too, my friend. it's not that bad of a coping mechanism, all things considered. and it can be a good way of communicating with others who have similar issues since many people have this type of coping mechanism. so don't feel bad about it! :)
I want to thank you for the fact you show people that everyone in this human life has his own struggles and secrets. You make me - and alot of others - feel more human, despite of the mistakes I made myself in this life. Thank you.
Thanks so much for these videos Thoraya! I love the fact that it helps people feel like they aren't alone, but also the chance to get these things off their chest.
"I do not show up as my most authentic self, because I'm afraid of abandonment". I felt that ❤️💔 I hope one day you can show up as your most authentic self and be embraced ❤️ you're beautiful
@@cattledogandstaffy She could easily dump the guy and stay on the down-low. No need to string the guy along. I really have no idea why she feels pressured in this day?
@@cattledogandstaffy Im not saying she has to come out. Im saying she SHOULD dump her bf. There is No excuse to string him along. No family will disown u for dumping a bf?
The ring guy. You can tell he still hasn't forgiven himself. I already knew he wasn't gonna turn because he still feels guilty and blames himself for his last actions.
i truly hope the woman who said she was in love with her best friend got the courage to come out. it was so heart warming how she described how she feels about her girlfriend and i hope they’re really happy together :,)
I hope for the opposite. Nothing like being strung along in a relationship and starting to make plans only to find out not only she cheated but she was never was really into you putting a huge dent into your self confidence and opening up the possibility to be made fun of for having a girl leave you for another girl.
@@HawaiianForgeStudios that’s a really good point, but if she stayed with her boyfriend it would be at the expense of her happiness, and her and her boyfriend would be stuck in a lie. If the boyfriend is understanding, hopefully the girl can be with the one she loves and the boyfriend can find someone he loves, y’know? It might sting at first but the girl deserves to be happy too.
@@chickensaladwitmayo Depends on the person. Some people are very cold or vindictive about it, while others can part amicably, but human nature is human nature and im a pessimist so i vote for the worst case scenario.
I don’t know why, but the last guy’s story made me cry.. I think I resonate with him in a way and his words really touched my soul. I want to thank him for sharing his story and for being so honest! One thing that he said really stuck with me: “In the future after five years, will you really care about it?” This made me realize that every problem is temporary and even if it affects you, in the end, every struggle will turn into something good and you will be ok! This video was very beautiful! Congratulations!
How is no one talking about the guy who found $1,500 in ones in an elementary school bathroom? There must be soooo much more to that story and I hope that woman is alright.
I love the last guy. His secret is somewhat what I’m going through but I believe in myself too and I’m happy to know there’s someone else out that who is motivated and just got broken down by life. It does get better with the right people around and a positive mindset.
The first person who said I don’t show up as my authentic self cause I am afraid of abandonment I felt it as a person who lives a double life constantly
the story of the guy who never met his grand father brought tears to my eyes….you could tell his encouragement words were genuine even after all he been through and it’s so inspiring to me.
Gotta get over your fear of what others think about you girl. You can't drag your boyfriend around until you're ready to make a decision. End your relationship with him, the sooner he knows the easier it will be for both of you.
imagine seeing your most closest person ever on here and they share their secret and its heartbreaking to know they act different around you to make you happy…
my secret is that i feel hurt when people don’t trust me enough to tell me stuff like my best friend of 7 years told someone else that she was bi before me and i’ve never shown hate to these kinds of things but um i guess she just didn’t trust me lol
you can know someone for years but still not develop that kind of trust. I understand it hurts but atleast she told you eventually, yknow? coming out is hard as fuck even if you know they’ll accept you.
I had a best friend of 7 years and when I came out to her she outed me to 6 other people. Coming out is hard, please don't take it personally. Maybe that other person was also bi so she felt more comfortable telling them.
Maybe she just really wanted to get it off her chest, don't take it to personal please because she felt comfortable enough to confide in you anyways so why worry about when she did?
im so proud of that last person, they deserve all of the good things thats happened so far. brightest smile ive ever seen, makes me feel like things will be alright
And the worst part is they’re everywhere, many cases of women just like her who get pregnant and lie to the boyfriend/husband pretending that it’s their kid.
the girl who loves her best friend more than anybody else but is in a hetero relationship just for the sake of fitting into this heteronormative society just hit me real hard
I remember a teacher doing something like this and we were better people for it. We all put a secret and a fear in a bag anonymously and she read them out. We were all shocked that deep down we were very much alike.
I love the last guy's thought about "If it matters in 5 years or not" honestly puts alot of things in perspective! I am so happy he is doing better and succeeding
I have a lot of secrets but my one secret is that I am scared in situations where there is nothing to be scared of. So the root of my fear is that I have no courage, I am not confident in me and that I have a number of insecurities.
It’s pretty crazy to think about how literally every person on this planet has a story to tell even if they don’t know it
Billions.😳
fr, it’s insane to think about
Literally _literally_ *literally*
I think about it I am like Damnn humans are amazing we never give humans the credit we deserve we have come a long way
And most of the time we do not know anything about them.
The people in their cars going to work, the people in the supermarket. They all have their ups and downs, their own story unrecognised by others
it’s crazy how much a stranger can be holding inside and you would have no idea
Exactly what I thought
sonder
n. the realization that each random passerby is living a life as vivid and complex as your own-populated with their own ambitions, friends, routines, worries and inherited craziness-an epic story that continues invisibly around you like an anthill sprawling deep underground, with elaborate passageways to thousands of other lives that you’ll never know existed, in which you might appear only once, as an extra sipping coffee in the background, as a blur of traffic passing on the highway, as a lighted window at dusk.
@@iwannadreamforever3823 Came here to post that simple word.
@@jonathanm9436 it is a word made up by John koenig, indeed the author of the dictionary. Since he gained popularity, I think it's used more and more, but before its never been an official word.
@@iwannadreamforever3823 Hey, thanks for the extra detail. Such an excellent word and meaning - I shall do my part to help it be absorbed into our language.
I love the guy with the ring. He’s so sincere. You can tell he has a good heart and grew as a person. Maybe that lesson was more valuable than the ring. I wonder how much good came out of that in the future because of that one experience.
he knows even though he didn't directly hurt that lady that he DID hurt her by keeping the ring and he should have helped, that's telling of his growth
Isn't that common decency?
Something similar happened to me when I found a golden ring and it belonged to someone who lost it in the lake and I gave it to them and they were so thankful
@@yayag.8990 common decency and morals aren’t fully developed until you’re in your late teens to early 20s and even later for some people…….
@@Thalia_Rueli yea people have to grow first
I love the woman who said she never had a boyfriend, the way she turned and smiled lol 😁
Queen status👑
Dont need a partner to be happy
Wasn't she awesome? Not only does she deserve love, she deserves someone good.
Me too! She is so beautiful.
yep. another cat lady
these people always have such nice hairstyles. like i don't know if the back of my head is that nice to look at.
Mine definitely isn’t 😂🥲I don’t know how people keep their hair looking so nice
Ikr
*Cries in balding at 18 years of age*
Edit: bald to balding @Lisa
@@mastermaltese8731
Pardon? What did you say???
@@lisahinton9682 He said he is bald (Or he's getting bald at a very young age, as I am too... )
This ist to the guy with the ring-story: I wish you wouldn't regret this so much. Life consists of lessons and I am pretty sure that this experience made you grow and become a self-reflecting man. Be understanding with the 13 year old boy inside of you ❤️
🙏🏼 amen
Aww. Sweet answer.
He’s a pos, knows it and too embarrassed to reveal himself.
A POS is always a piece of S. I would never have considered doing something so horrible at any point in my life.
"Isn't a person just a collection of their mistakes
And also their, kind of... undoing of their mistakes?
I mean, what else are you? You know, you're always...
You're always just the reaction to the bad parts of yourself
I think... And I think that's what is kind of like
A driving motivation behind any human being that's...
Who wants to continue to grow and live life
'Cause they're looking at their flaws and trying to, go beyond it" - Michael Eyedea Larsen
It's crazy that we are so self-absorbed that we don't realize that other people go through tough shit as well.
“Everybody just wants to be heard”
I am aware of this. As someone who struggles with feeling worthless, knowing this makes things a bit worse, so I try to be as considerate as I possibly could and a better listener too.
Ikr
Yea, I was talking to my sister's friend the other day and he's talking about his time being homeless as a teenager and I'm just like man, people go through so much. I guess that's why I try to be nice to everyone. I don't want to make their day worse than it might already be.
Who's that self absorbed though to think that? Surely if you've lived enough years on the planet you know everybody's got a story
Lol what? Literally no one thinks that
I like how these strangers are brave enough to talk about their darkest times on the internet. Obsessed with your videos thoraya.
Ahh yes. Those dark times where you don't wear a seat belt because you want to live dangerously.
@@mdc123-v2v they should interview actual roadmen not softies like her LOL
Hello Thoraya. Would you ever consider doing these videos in a different place? People who live in different areas tend to think differently and have different life experiences. Some suggestions near San Diego: The mexico/america border, Chula Vista, Encinitas, Long Beach, L.A., Tijuana, Ensenada, Mexicali, Yuma.(once travel restrictions lift). Plane and train tickets are cheaper than usual right now, so there's also Las Vegas and the Hoover Dam further out. Everyone upvote this so Thoraya sees, and add suggestions to other places she can go.
I think this is an amazing idea and have commented this suggestion before.
The thing about where she films is a huge tourist attraction. The odds of everyone being actually from San Diego is very slim. I think that’s really cool.
You should come to Eastern Kentucky. You would be very interested in what the people here have to say!
@@deathic
I agree! I have family from Ashland and I had lived in California for so long when I met them. I was in a little bit of culture shock, but just a little, as I had gone to college in Lexington. But yes, definitely a different way of thinking there in eastern Kentucky than San Diego.
Y’all funding her?
It's always interesting how you can be honest with a stranger but can have difficulties sharing with the people closes to you.
exactly this, i lived in phoenix a couple months ago and ran into a "crackhead" on my way home. stopped and had 5 hour conversation, told her every single detail of my life and she did the same but till this day even my closest friends know nothing about me
Because you actually know the people close to you and often they judge
@@umcamry there's so much beauty in that
Because they will condemn you because they know you. They are prejudice and attack you
I think that's because sharing your deepest secretes with ppl closest to you is a perceived greater risk.
I love the guy who took us on his life journey of his grandpa passing, breaking up with his girlfriend, getting his masters, and losing basically half of his weight.
Great advice: trust your parents, friends, and believe in yourself
He has the brightest smile!
Sometimes parents can be your enemy. They can also tell u wrong and painful things. I hope no one have parents like that.
Yes, I really liked him!
after talking with a bunch of people myself i've realized being unfaithful is waaaayy more common than I expected
One of the many reasons that most people shouldn't get married.. to any single person or group of people. I'm not against monogamy, but most people aren't ready for a serious monogamous relationship. On the flip side, I think polyamory is just as bad. (a lot of poly people I've met seem flighty, vapid, and selfish, and do it for the wrong reasons.) Not against polyamory either. I just think people should attempt to be the best, most genuine version of themselves.
It’s sad because social media really tries to normalize cheating. It could really be a big influencer. People are just terrible
@@GatorTv but isn’t cheating normal? Pretty sure monogamy is unrealistic
@@FirstLast-nz9vo Monogamy is unrealistic... for some people. For others it's extremely natural and completely attainable. I think it's more that most people have no idea what they want in life and do what society says they should do(monogamy), and then there are others that have no idea what they want in life and do the complete opposite of what society says they should do(polyamory) and a lot of people in both parties end up unfulfilled because they aren't doing what THEY want to do, but they can't even get to that point because they don't know themselves enough to KNOW what they want to do. Don't try to push your views on others because I think that's part of the thing that keeps people from knowing themselves.
@@FirstLast-nz9vo oh my 🤦🏽♀️you did not just say that… just because you have difficulty committing your self to ONE person doesn’t mean the majority people are like that. Monogamy is not unrealistic. That’s just an excuse for people who do cheat. I hope your mind set isn’t “cheating is normal” because that is truly disgusting. If you do think that way , I hope you dont get yourself in a relationship or marriage. You truly don’t want anyone else when you find the one. Maybe people who can’t stick to one person has a trouble with love. I have no idea, but dont normalize cheating please. That does so much damage
To the guy with the ring, I hope you’re reading this:
Very often I find myself thinking about bad things I did when I was young and immature. I then feel this guilt, regret and also big embarrassment for myself. But honestly I believe it’s a good thing that we self reflect, not only our recent actions but also things we did in the past. It helps us to learn from our mistakes, to avoid future mistakes and to grow into a mature person!
Edit: It‘s important to self reflect but it’s just as important to forgive ourselves for the things we did in the past
I have two I am 12 and will be 13 in 2 weeks and I am a bit popular and I often am scared that my friends are slowly drifting apart because I am doing better in school than they are and one of them is very jealous recently and has started saying bad things about me to my other close friends and I keep my mouth shut even though I know so much about him that I could tell but I just take it and stay quiet and my second one is I fear not being proud of more than learning from failure I get so nervous trying to get hurt that I hurt my self doing it I just got my first girlfriend and I was so afraid to ask her even though everyone around me told both of us it is obvious we liked each other and when I try out for sports I do worse than I can even tho I know I have what it takes but I am still scared to shine because I am more afraid of falling but I am getting over it and gaining more confidence in myself by working out and talking to more people and taking chances
I did alot of bad things in the past. I was a tyrant..
@@brockheidle3000 I think you are doing the right things, practice makes us better, keep trying and confidence is sure to follow. Everyone gets nervous, it only natural.
I don’t believe people when they say they are proud of me because I am not proud of myself. Wow.😢
Would your younger self be proud of the decisions you have made? That's one thing I think about...and my answer is yes.
It's hard to be kind to yourself. I am proud of you ❤
@Martha Speaks That's good. Use it to motivate you.
@@mamapegg my younger self is dumb as fuck, i'm not that smart now either but i think there was a rising curve
i thought the same way especially as like a pre teen, id get like 80s in school and my parents would tell their friends and theyd all congratulate me and say theyre so proud but i never believed them because i thought i could do better, still in school and i think less like that but i wont lie i still kinda do
To the gal who’s in love with her girlfriend. By pretending you love your boyfriend, you hurt him, your girlfriend and yourself. There is nothing wrong with loving your girlfriend. Your fear of parental or society’s rejection is keeping you from being your AUTHENTIC self. It is ok to be gay. Please do not pretend to be something else. Courage is doing something authentic even while you’re afraid. Be honest and transparent. It will stop a lot of future grief. You can do it! Be courageous.
People hate gays more than killers, she will feel excluded on many levels, btw Do not advise anyone without realizing the danger of this act even though I am bisexual as well 🏳️🌈.
@@تالين-ي8س I agree that only she can understand the true weight of the consequences of any decision to come out. But, i am sorry to hear that you think 'people hate gays more than killers'. I have never been anywhere where this is true, and I am sorry to hear that you are located where this is true. Stay well.
Her reasons for not coming out are more potent than her desire to do just that. Maybe she would lose her parents and community - I don't know, but it must be too big to face. At least now.
@RedSeaGull totally agree with you... she is holding him back from finding REAL love... just be single and "best friends" with your boo... you can decide to be "just roommates" together for the public and even have some cats while both being fake "single" and "bitching to your social circles" how difficult it is to find a good boyfriend lol
@RedSeaGull agreed!! There's nothing wrong with being single.
that girl in love with her best friend should just dump the boyfriend
Cc
Cc
Yep broke that man heart and go directly with the best friend seems like simple
@@Purpliz its better than forcing yourself to be with someone you dont even want to be with. it will hurt more if you drag someone its better to do it right away, ive been through it and its horrible to keep going.
@@whatlol3003 but y don't break like that and just go free with your best friend if you are a little bit compassionate
"Everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about.
Be kind. Always."
- Robin Williams
Yea, like battling the horrid reality of having to be responsible for yourself and try not to spend all your money in fast food and games and have zero for rainy days. Fighting to get up out of bed and throw some clothes in the washing machine etc. I know some dead beats that just fight decay and laziness. I have no respect for such people
I'm so ashamed of talking to my hair stylist now while she's shampooing my head 😫
Right 😂😂😅
I will never say ahhhh or make purring noises again! 😳
😂😂😂
nah thats their job that THEY chose out of their own free will, i paid for the services so i will look in their face and moan and groan till their ears fall off😌✨
I always have like, tried to not even tilt my head too much because it definitely feels strange for them haha. Though it's ok that it took you a while to notice this, we all like to talk .
The guy at 6:55 had a lot to say. His words touched me. Then, he turned around and showed a shining smile. He is so brave! I hope his life keeps getting better and better.
Yeah, I really liked him too.
To the women that’s never been in love at age 30. First of all age is irrelevant, u are so gorgeous and amazing. Your eyes are beautiful and I can only bet u have an amazing personality. I go by true love is true love and regardless how long you have to wait for it, it’s worth it. GOOD LUCK! ♥️♥️
...that attitude will have her end up dying alone
@@thedoublehelix5661 So what's your advice?
@@juliebrown4087 my advice for her? Well I don't know much about her, but first I would advice her to get therapy. Then I'd have her lose a bit of weight.
@@equusamans Of course love, and sex has intrinsic value! They're human needs.
@@equusamans oh I'll just go and tell someone who has no friends, family, and gf that he's just missing the "concept of love" and those things have on value in themselves.
I lost my engagement ring and it sucked so much not gonna lie, but to the guy that pawned the ring, it served as a learning experience, and it sounds like you did learn and that's what matters.
Pawned*
@@myaccounttorun3485 I live in MN, I commonly use the word 'ponder lol, thanks for the correction.
It's interesting how people's big secrets could range from something a little insignificant (like the lady who sometimes refuses to wear a seatbelt) to full on identity theft.
I am a popular kid in school I am 13 mine is lacking of confidence and fear of being a disappointment this year gave me a weird message I did not make the basketball or baseball team during quarantine and it made me weird I felt down on myself lazy always tiered and I got my first ever c and d and b in schools first semester because of me being sad and lazy and not see anyone because it was online and I did not even try out for academic team this year even though I was sate champion for social studies last year and my team got first in state then we went back to school and I started acting how I wanted to act and be myself and I got straight A,s the rest of the year I started working out I got super popular in that time and got my first girl friend
It made me think what else can I do and I have been asked to play football for my middle school and I am going to try out for baseball basketball and academic team and have gained a lot more confidence
She could die though :o
@@brockheidle3000 Yeah, when we are popular people expect a lot and we end up creating quite some weight for ourselves too... But you will do well. I know it's hard to deal with expectations sometimes but really do stuff for yourself, little by little. You can do it. :)
It’s good that the guy with the story about the ring thinks about it all the time. He is wrong that it didn’t really benefit him. It may or may not have been sentimental to the woman but the experience certainly became sentimental to him & changed him forever in what seems to be a more thoughtful person. His ongoing remorse reflects this.
Shoutout to the kid going to Spain, safe travels buddy.
And tell your family where you're going.
@@sitcomchristian6886 That’s true… At least one person needs to know so nobody is truly in the dark 😭
@@sitcomchristian6886 Or don't because it's his choice
@@walkerstalker0453 tell at least one person tho seriously
Golden ring: laying on the seashore.
13 years old boy: it's free real estate.
In a coral reef
Bruh 💀
Much respect to the young man in the camo hat who lost his grandfather and lost a bunch of weight. I hope life treats you well
To the girl who loves her best friend more than her boyfriend of a year:
I know you’re under a lot of pressure, but please tell him. He deserves more than to be committed to a relationship over feelings that are not mutual.
If he already knows and you’re just using him for cover then you can just ignore this :)
YEAH!!!!!!
Agreed! I feel bad for her but I can easily imagine how heartbreaking it would be if I were in his position.
I AGREE!!!! She is literally using him, that’s awful
@@fxjrulpzxi i don’t consider it to be “awful”. they’re in a difficult position where they aren’t sure how to approach it because they don’t want to be seen as a horrible person or have that guilt trapped inside her for not being able to easily tell him that she is in love with her best friend. yes, she definitely should tell him, but listen to her. she said for the sake of herself and for society AND her parents, it’s hard to go a different way. she needs time and confidence to stand up and say how she truly feels, but for right now, it’s probably the hardest thing for her. i can’t imagine the amount of overthinking she’s done and the regret she might feel if she hurts him. :/
What are you guys talking about? I didn’t see that girl in this clip. Are you commenting in other video?
Hey Thoroya, I'm Richard from Ghana, West Africa. I love your channel. I run a non-profit in Ghana, and we also make videos with Africans that address unspoken issues in Africa like you do. In a nation where marginalised persons and issues are antagonised and ignored, it's truly inspiring to me and the VOIICE Community to do what you do. We look forward to incorporating what you do too. Thank you so much for being here.
Thank you 🤗❤️
You have my sub too even if the jollof rice war goes on 😉
@@JuliaPedro hahahaha. we have a video on that war too lol.
@@VOIICENetwork Way to go! Nigeria wins the war regardless. (Chuckling) Like I care about the war 😁
I loved the jollof video. I was thinking along the same line you went as I watched. Wouldn't want to mention it to get others to go and see for themselves 😉
“I don’t believe people when they say that they’re proud of me because I’m never proud of myself” felt that one so hard😭
“I can make it, just give me a little more time” I love how patient he is with himself
The first woman, just wow😍...her voice is lovely and she seems to be so sweet. And the last guys smile was too cute
not the girl saying "i never thought it would happen to me" as if she didn't CHOOSE to cheat
@Brett Mcintyre
Your thoughtful comment is ruined by the juvenile "lol" at the end. Just letting you know. Maybe think about it and stop with this bad habit (which is everrrrrrrrrrrywhere all over the Internet).
@@lisahinton9682 you're right i guess it's more sad that she's playing the victim than funny... seemed funny in the moment in a ridiculous way though. I'll edit it just for you
Probably expects people to feel sorry for her, I hope her fiancé finds out and leaves that disgusting degenerate. He deserves better
Lmaooo
Some things just happen. Maybe she was drunk and high and couldn’t control herself.
That guy at the end is amazing & so inspiring. Everyone that can reveal a secret is amazing, but he hit different. Thanks so much for the videos and happy you're back 😊
He has such a wonderful smile and looks so genuinely happy
The "unrequited love" girl !! She's friggen gorgeous ! It's not only shocking, but it breaks my heart to know that she's not ever been in a relationship. You need to put that shit out to the universe, girl ! You are too fabulous and have way too much to give to keep yourself to yourself ~ ❤
To the guy who found the ring- -that was a strong learning experience, and the fact that it still weighs on you today is a sign that you have grown because of it morally. Don't regret the things that shape us, just grow from them and live your life as a better person for it. 💜
"Don't regret the things that shape us, just grow from them and live your life as a better person for it."
Very. Well. Said. 🥲
This channel I found last year and it's made me feel so wholesome, like the universe is truthful. It's beautiful.
I feel less alone when I watch a thoraya video
@@leannek8726 I'm here to talk to anytime I feel pretty alone now it's late where I am to
To the girl that has never had a boyfriend, you’re a catch my love! You will find someone who is the right fit for you❤️
The guy in 2:22 actually gave a really good suggestion to thoraya. Ask strangers if you could go back in time and change one thing , what would it be ?
To the man who withheld the ring: Everything is fine. You have developed wonderfully! Very few people who do something wrong can reflect on themselves like this!
This insight makes you something special and this mistake has brought you a lot further spiritually. I bet you are a very helpful, open person! You understand others and you can forgive mistakes because you know that people can develop further.
The woman will be fine. Maybe her husband bought her a new ring, maybe it was a sign for her that it wasn't the right man for her. You do not know.
Please forgive the 13 year old boy that he was more fascinated by the shiny gold than by the second he made the decision for a strange woman. Believe me everything is fine! I forgive you.
the smile of the last guy is so cute, im glad he's better now :)
These videos sometimes seem like a group therapy to me... no matter how much it sucks to see people going through shit, it's easier to deal with something when you realize you're not alone... ♡
That's why I keep coming back to these. It makes so much sense. You don't feel alone
The last one made me cry. He's awesome. Having gone through this with my own child I hear the hope for the future he found which is all a parent wants their child to have.
I feel awful for that 30-year-old woman who's never found love. I see many comments about it claiming that "she's clearly happy being by herself, she doesn't need anyone!" but just because she acts all confident in front of a camera doesn't mean she is. And even if I'm wrong, and she is perfectly okay with being alone, she would be happier with someone who loves her just as much as she loves herself.
Also if it didnt matter, according to all her fans, then why did she bring it up as one of her greatest regrets. Obviously it bothers her. Im single and 30 and it sucks
Yea i hate how people say you don’t need love to be happy but everyone is different me as a person i can’t stand living alone i already have no friends so at least i need relationship to feel good and talk to someone i trust
As someone who's aromantic i can understand her. I do not grieve never finding love, but i do feel like i'm out of place when everyone always says its something all humans have.
Her secret isn't regret, its her sharing she isn't like others, that she feels weird and different. She regrets that she is different, not that she can't fall in love.
I hope someone can tell her one day that the label she's searching for is Aromantic, she isn't alone.
People always pity people who don't feel the need to be in a romantic relationship, as if there is something missing in their life. Maybe in yours, but not in theirs- that smile proves it.
If it takes another person to make you happy, that’s unfortunate. You can be a complete person with a full life without a partner.
As someone who rarely gets their hair washed by a stylist (I usually just go in for a cut), eye contact makes me uncomfortable too. Glad to see I'm not considered a rude person if I just close my eyes and sit in complete silence (unless I'm asked a question).
This channel is just beautiful , sincere , open , heart and soul touching and full of acceptance . Thank you Thoraya for this wonderful Channel , just keep going. Big love 😘
The guy who said that after going through 4 traumatic events he just dealt with one thing at a time and he's now in a good place has made my day and given me hope. Thanks ❤️
I always like watching these videos. It really puts "sonder" into perspective - that every random passerby is living a life that is just as complex and vivid as our own.
6:30 the pain she must feel because she may never be able to have what she truly wants
@@leannek8726 best friend though may not feel the same way as her...
The guy who stood out the most to me was the last one. His smile seemed so genuinely happy, and since I've been struggling myself with my weight and the stress of school, it's good to know that maybe someday I will get over it and be truly happy again.
it's weird bc this makes me like super aware that the strangers i walk past everyday have a whole story to tell. like it gives me literal chills.
These videos really just make me feel close to absolute strangers. It really shows us that people aren’t just people. We have so much more to us.
My secret is i hide my depression fear and anxiety by making jokes and dodging questions
i do that too, my friend. it's not that bad of a coping mechanism, all things considered. and it can be a good way of communicating with others who have similar issues since many people have this type of coping mechanism. so don't feel bad about it! :)
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só queria que as legendas estivessem ativadas
This honestly means alot for a 15 yo like me, Tysm 💙
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Hi Thoraya, are you still selling merch? Could not find a link in this video's description.
Why did you gave up on Strangers Call Their Crush? Those were so good. I missed 'em.
I want to thank you for the fact you show people that everyone in this human life has his own struggles and secrets. You make me - and alot of others - feel more human, despite of the mistakes I made myself in this life. Thank you.
Nothing but respect for those courageous enough to show their face after their confession, no matter how big or small.
That one girl was like: *”teehee sometimes I don’t wear a seat belt. So rebellious”*
Not me wearing no seatbelt yesterday when my dad was driving the car at 230km/h 😂😍
@@antonellawall6471 RIP
She must really lead a strict life. Yikes!
She was iconic
Every person is so complex a whole world 🌎
For the lady who is 30 and single, good for you. You don’t need anyone else to be enough 💕
Thanks so much for these videos Thoraya! I love the fact that it helps people feel like they aren't alone, but also the chance to get these things off their chest.
The one going to Spain instead of college is like my brother 🤣👌
For real??
@@zijing9548 haha it's no longer a secret only I know about it lol
@@annaheya2109 haha😂
I love how revealing this program is. Our secrets can sometimes make us do things and feels like you're about to explode
"I do not show up as my most authentic self, because I'm afraid of abandonment". I felt that ❤️💔 I hope one day you can show up as your most authentic self and be embraced ❤️ you're beautiful
I hope the girl in love with her best friend finds happiness. Her story broke my heart
@CaptainJacFrost
I hope your heart broke for the guy being hood-winked, and not for her greedy ass.
@@lisahinton9682 Yeah, there's absolutely no nuance to the situation at all 😒
@@cattledogandstaffy
She could easily dump the guy and stay on the down-low. No need to string the guy along. I really have no idea why she feels pressured in this day?
@@Shiro642 It's very likely she has family that may disown her or kick her out. We don't know the full situation =/
@@cattledogandstaffy
Im not saying she has to come out. Im saying she SHOULD dump her bf. There is No excuse to string him along. No family will disown u for dumping a bf?
The ring guy. You can tell he still hasn't forgiven himself. I already knew he wasn't gonna turn because he still feels guilty and blames himself for his last actions.
This saying changed my life
"Don't ever think your problem is the biggest problem it's just that you don't know what orthers are going through".
I would like to see the politicians tell their stories. Even if we didn’t know it was them. We all need to heal, even them. Speaking is the first step
Just looking at the girl/lady in purple when she turned around, it makes me feel like she is actually a lovely person.
i truly hope the woman who said she was in love with her best friend got the courage to come out. it was so heart warming how she described how she feels about her girlfriend and i hope they’re really happy together :,)
I hope for the opposite. Nothing like being strung along in a relationship and starting to make plans only to find out not only she cheated but she was never was really into you putting a huge dent into your self confidence and opening up the possibility to be made fun of for having a girl leave you for another girl.
@@HawaiianForgeStudios that’s a really good point, but if she stayed with her boyfriend it would be at the expense of her happiness, and her and her boyfriend would be stuck in a lie. If the boyfriend is understanding, hopefully the girl can be with the one she loves and the boyfriend can find someone he loves, y’know? It might sting at first but the girl deserves to be happy too.
@@chickensaladwitmayo Depends on the person. Some people are very cold or vindictive about it, while others can part amicably, but human nature is human nature and im a pessimist so i vote for the worst case scenario.
@@HawaiianForgeStudios lmao fair enough
I don’t know why, but the last guy’s story made me cry.. I think I resonate with him in a way and his words really touched my soul. I want to thank him for sharing his story and for being so honest! One thing that he said really stuck with me: “In the future after five years, will you really care about it?” This made me realize that every problem is temporary and even if it affects you, in the end, every struggle will turn into something good and you will be ok!
This video was very beautiful! Congratulations!
I think this is the most amount of secret sharers who haven't turned around.
Thanks to them all for sharing what they did 💕
How is no one talking about the guy who found $1,500 in ones in an elementary school bathroom? There must be soooo much more to that story and I hope that woman is alright.
Yeah. I would have given that to the police without a spare thought.
Yeah he definitely should not have kept that money
what…? are you referring to a different video?? that story isn’t a part of this video.
I love the last guy. His secret is somewhat what I’m going through but I believe in myself too and I’m happy to know there’s someone else out that who is motivated and just got broken down by life. It does get better with the right people around and a positive mindset.
7:56
“I can make it. Just give me some more time”
Such an awesome mindset. Love thinking about the perspective 5 years in the future
Hey thoraya!! Every time you post a new vid it makes my day! There is somthing so uplifting and warm about them. Keep up the good work👍👍
i love that man at the end !! he has the brightest smile and was just so positive :)))
" I deal with everything one by one" He really said a whole word
@elle does it.
What does that even mean? What's a "whole word"? And how does one say a whole word? Seriously, I have no idea what you mean.
??? What???
The first person who said I don’t show up as my authentic self cause I am afraid of abandonment I felt it as a person who lives a double life constantly
I'm so proud of the last guy, he made me feel more optimistic about myself
spain person: I fully support this, have fun!!
Loved that one
I honestly wouldn't mind standing in front of that mic and saying a bunch of secrets because no one will attack you if it's a secret and anonymous
I have been waiting for the new episode. Thank you for uploading. ❤️
the story of the guy who never met his grand father brought tears to my eyes….you could tell his encouragement words were genuine even after all he been through and it’s so inspiring to me.
You dont understand how happy I was when I saw this posted 😭😭
Girl that has never been in love.....YOU GOOD! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
That hairdresser one just made me self-conscious
The whole story of the guy who went down to 160lbs from 300lbs really gave me hope about my life and the things that are weighing me down. Thank you!
Gotta get over your fear of what others think about you girl.
You can't drag your boyfriend around until you're ready to make a decision.
End your relationship with him, the sooner he knows the easier it will be for both of you.
imagine seeing your most closest person ever on here and they share their secret and its heartbreaking to know they act different around you to make you happy…
my secret is that i feel hurt when people don’t trust me enough to tell me stuff like my best friend of 7 years told someone else that she was bi before me and i’ve never shown hate to these kinds of things but um i guess she just didn’t trust me lol
you can know someone for years but still not develop that kind of trust. I understand it hurts but atleast she told you eventually, yknow? coming out is hard as fuck even if you know they’ll accept you.
I had a best friend of 7 years and when I came out to her she outed me to 6 other people. Coming out is hard, please don't take it personally. Maybe that other person was also bi so she felt more comfortable telling them.
Maybe she just really wanted to get it off her chest, don't take it to personal please because she felt comfortable enough to confide in you anyways so why worry about when she did?
im so proud of that last person, they deserve all of the good things thats happened so far. brightest smile ive ever seen, makes me feel like things will be alright
cheating fiancé is cold to the core
And the worst part is they’re everywhere, many cases of women just like her who get pregnant and lie to the boyfriend/husband pretending that it’s their kid.
Thank you for all who shared especially the last guy who probably will end of helping MANY people. You made me feel better.
The guy who lost a lot of weight and got his masters degree gave the best advice I've ever heared, it's something I didn't know I needed to hear
The last one. What he said “ How you treat your life.” I’ll never forget these words.
the girl who loves her best friend more than anybody else but is in a hetero relationship just for the sake of fitting into this heteronormative society just hit me real hard
It’s very interesting how some of these things seem so small and not like a big deal, but to these ppl, they’re like the darkest secret.
I remember a teacher doing something like this and we were better people for it. We all put a secret and a fear in a bag anonymously and she read them out. We were all shocked that deep down we were very much alike.
I love the last guy's thought about "If it matters in 5 years or not" honestly puts alot of things in perspective! I am so happy he is doing better and succeeding
The ring guy .... What a lovely conscious
I have a lot of secrets but my one secret is that I am scared in situations where there is nothing to be scared of. So the root of my fear is that I have no courage, I am not confident in me and that I have a number of insecurities.