He is right to a point, I always gave the benefit of the doubt, it is how our family was raised. Over time what changed that was how badly I got destroyed by people taking advantage of it, after many years of that I learned to be less naive. Now days it comes down to starting with limited trust, and they can earn the rest. Something you can never train out of a human, is being human, great wishful thinking and theory on his part though.
"Part of the difficulty in developing trust is your attempt to do impossible things. Therefore, it is necessary for us to counsel you not to do impossible things. They require great energy, even though they seem to stimulate your sense of self-determination. The more difficult the adversity, the greater the prize and the greater the sense of personal reward you anticipate. But in the end, it all becomes impossible and you give up. Then you have the opportunity to know something. When something is true and you are working at it, even if there is adversity, it is a whole different experience. Everything makes you stronger not weaker. Here cooperation and adversity both activate Knowledge even more powerfully. Instead of becoming weaker, you become stronger. Instead of becoming more disassociated, you become more certain." A quote from a book titled Wisdom from the Greater Community, Volume I. To read the whole book for free among many others, visit *NewMessage org*
@@aylbdrmadison1051 I think he's not advocating lying as such , more likely something along the lines of "fake it 'til you make it" ,believing/acting as if you have self-confidence to get people to trust/work with you and together. Regardless ,what he says after the 10' mark is what I'm referring to.
The main thing in a relationship is all about trust...a true key to a lifetime holdness and togetherness with anyone."Be truthful at very aspect with ur love one" Be sure and be accurate .. Doing this will gave u something extraordinary💕
This video was uploaded just 1 minute ago & got 2 dislikes already. What kind of people dislikes educational videos on purpose without even watching it?
We grow in time to trust the future for our answers. However, it can be hard to trust when all we have from the past is evidence why we should not. Which is why we should not trust words; we should trust only actions 🖖
Thank you so much for this upload TED! I absolutely love your channel! You have inspired me to go all in on my RUclips channel and media business this year! Keep rocking the YT airwaves and blessings to you from this new RUclipsr!😊
1:12 He fully admits to *lying to gain trust,* then tries to convince us that *he knows* that to gain the trust of others, we must also lie. It does not work that way, trust is a 2-way street and he just proved beyond all reasonable doubt his word cannot be trusted. That's a damned shame too because the other things he says are healthy and true. But he has broken trust already and left the door wide open for others to mistrust the good things he does say.
What he describes is more the way our current system works. And by admitting that he has done the same he shows what is wrong in the system and that it isn't just something other people are doing. The problem is everywhere in marketing. Most of the time people don't trust you, so they rather tell you a lie than taking a risk in telling the truth. How often have you seen someone that says: My product is mediocre but at least it works.
I’d argue the definition of a lie, that it should include an intent to deceive rather than an intent to understand, which is an entrepreneurial venture and destined to failure (as is the fate of all theory).
what you should feel is anger then frustration which leads you to either do some thing about it in the moment or let it bake but respect should be regained at least for your self , you should learn to mange your emotional curves and in to what category they belong , saying ' depression '' will make youe depressed ,w e think the way we speak and we speak the way we think
that was God's way of protecting you til you could better understand it. alan watts. is a favorite of mine. find things you love that help to build your spirit.
when someone disrespects you , move away. people are like doors. when one closes, another opens. get away from the closed one; embrace the one who is open
If We Would Actually Teach Speak and Expect The Social Connective of Spirit To Spirit Nurture Of Love and Logic as First Value Equally Toward Each Other ' Then Trust Would Be a 'Bi- Product' of Actively Wanting The Best For Each Other as First Value' Because Nothing Else Would Actually Make Any Sense!?! - Then 'Not Trusting' Would Become So Dichotomizing' or 'Opposite' of Our Intentional Multi Spirit Progressive Nurture and Understanding!_ But That Is an 'Advanced Mentality' We Ignorantly and Arrogantly Dont Trust Yet 😶 So We Carrie On Worshipping The Problem! _ Be The Peace We Say We Seek!?!' On Purpose!🌎🌍🌏🌈
Rappa Kalja The gadfly would probably admonish you and tell you to seek virtue. I compare him to John the Baptist, who prepared the gentiles for Christ.
He is right to a point, I always gave the benefit of the doubt, it is how our family was raised. Over time what changed that was how badly I got destroyed by people taking advantage of it, after many years of that I learned to be less naive. Now days it comes down to starting with limited trust, and they can earn the rest. Something you can never train out of a human, is being human, great wishful thinking and theory on his part though.
"Part of the difficulty in developing trust is your attempt to do impossible things. Therefore, it is necessary for us to counsel you not to do impossible things. They require great energy, even though they seem to stimulate your sense of self-determination. The more difficult the adversity, the greater the prize and the greater the sense of personal reward you anticipate. But in the end, it all becomes impossible and you give up. Then you have the opportunity to know something.
When something is true and you are working at it, even if there is adversity, it is a whole different experience. Everything makes you stronger not weaker. Here cooperation and adversity both activate Knowledge even more powerfully. Instead of becoming weaker, you become stronger. Instead of becoming more disassociated, you become more certain."
A quote from a book titled Wisdom from the Greater Community, Volume I. To read the whole book for free among many others, visit *NewMessage org*
Inspiring talk. I sincerely believe we have much to learn from children. Indeed "being with them" is truly the critical part as Mr Erts says.
You are inspired by liars? 1:12
@@aylbdrmadison1051 I think he's not advocating lying as such , more likely something along the lines of "fake it 'til you make it" ,believing/acting as if you have self-confidence to get people to trust/work with you and together. Regardless ,what he says after the 10' mark is what I'm referring to.
🦋that’s why it’s so important to become childlike -as adults we become fearful
Lara Smith agreed
Detroit Stepper 🦋no wonder they say fear is a liar. That’s why I blame Satan
Lara Smith you are a 💯 percent correct fear and god can’t occupy the same space.
The main thing in a relationship is all about trust...a true key to a lifetime holdness and togetherness with anyone."Be truthful at very aspect with ur love one" Be sure and be accurate .. Doing this will gave u something extraordinary💕
Absolutely true. Without trust, you are impossible to get things done.
This video was uploaded just 1 minute ago & got 2 dislikes already.
What kind of people dislikes educational videos on purpose without even watching it?
Those who don't like school
Or perhaps they're just bats watching the video upside down.
There not as bad as those who take the time to fuckin tell us about it. Beyond extraneous and worthless
We grow in time to trust the future for our answers. However, it can be hard to trust when all we have from the past is evidence why we should not. Which is why we should not trust words; we should trust only actions 🖖
True, and this is why we don't trust liars. 1:12
I really love it .. his talk is actually so great and helpful although I felt that he was afraid .. i realized that from his quick breath
Finally, evidence of an honest man.
Don't confuse sincere with honest.
Well said .. Trust is the basics of every long lasting relationship
Mindful systematic selfless act! #10 minutes daily :) selflessly and soulfully! ✨
Trust, the key 🗝 to strong connection. Basis for a good team. 💪💯
Good communication and order of discussion, admissions and challenges. Thank you!
Best video
a speech promoting trust as important but underrated. i didnt listen but i have a feeling this will be good speech, that i will agree with it
Wow, this guy is such an amazing teacher .This video was really helpful ❤️
Thank you so much for this upload TED! I absolutely love your channel! You have inspired me to go all in on my RUclips channel and media business this year! Keep rocking the YT airwaves and blessings to you from this new RUclipsr!😊
I’ll give you an honest hearing, but no promises. Subbed
@@neilpatton7174 Thanks! 😊
You are thanking them for trying to tell you lying is how to build trust? 1:12
hello everyone it's time to have a coffee or tea and watch the video💃🏽
Cheers 😍
Hope this will help with my procrastinating habit.🙏
Well said
1:12 He fully admits to *lying to gain trust,* then tries to convince us that *he knows* that to gain the trust of others, we must also lie. It does not work that way, trust is a 2-way street and he just proved beyond all reasonable doubt his word cannot be trusted.
That's a damned shame too because the other things he says are healthy and true. But he has broken trust already and left the door wide open for others to mistrust the good things he does say.
What he describes is more the way our current system works.
And by admitting that he has done the same he shows what is wrong in the system and that it isn't just something other people are doing.
The problem is everywhere in marketing. Most of the time people don't trust you, so they rather tell you a lie than taking a risk in telling the truth.
How often have you seen someone that says: My product is mediocre but at least it works.
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call alakh pandey sir (Physics wallah youtube channel) providing education to all students free of cost.
I’d argue the definition of a lie, that it should include an intent to deceive rather than an intent to understand, which is an entrepreneurial venture and destined to failure (as is the fate of all theory).
My life was easier as a child. I didn't know when someone was disrespecting me🤣 now that I know, I fall into depression. Take me back🤣
what you should feel is anger then frustration which leads you to either do some thing about it in the moment or let it bake but respect should be regained at least for your self , you should learn to mange your emotional curves and in to what category they belong , saying ' depression '' will make youe depressed ,w e think the way we speak and we speak the way we think
that was God's way of protecting you til you could better understand it. alan watts. is a favorite of mine. find things you love that help to build your spirit.
when someone disrespects you , move away. people are like doors. when one closes, another opens. get away from the closed one; embrace the one who is open
@@stephanvillavicencio5679 gang stalking is targeting and that doesn't let up. narcissium is the root cause to so many problems
So good video 👌❤️
You think that lying is good? 1:12
This is perfect timing for me thank you 🙏
1:12
👏👏👏wow wow wow
Just wow
I like how he defined trust in the title
Mindfully selflessness 🙏
Wow intresting
all is a one and one is not a all.
Here early, don’t even know if it’s good yet, I just wanted to comment
It's not good, he fully admits to being a liar within the first minute of the talk.
Josh!
If We Would Actually Teach Speak and Expect The Social Connective of Spirit To Spirit Nurture Of Love and Logic as First Value Equally Toward Each Other ' Then Trust Would Be a 'Bi- Product' of Actively Wanting The Best For Each Other as First Value' Because Nothing Else Would Actually Make Any Sense!?! - Then 'Not Trusting' Would Become So Dichotomizing' or 'Opposite' of Our Intentional Multi Spirit Progressive Nurture and Understanding!_ But That Is an 'Advanced Mentality' We Ignorantly and Arrogantly Dont Trust Yet 😶 So We Carrie On Worshipping The Problem! _ Be The Peace We Say We Seek!?!' On Purpose!🌎🌍🌏🌈
So stressed...painful to watch. I guess this fact is of greatest importance in this case.
Sher
GJ
Please subtitles becous (language) hard for me
It is subtitled in English only you can use an application which can help to have the video in your language (or any language you understand)
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Trusting is risky
child policy
This is so true !!!
I'm definitely gonna add this on my channel ❤️💯🔥
You guys and even check it out
You think that lying is how to build trust? 1:12
Hello Mr. SMITH
Hi
face that paper tiger and intuition is a gift.
Trust in Christ.
Rappa Kalja The gadfly would probably admonish you and tell you to seek virtue. I compare him to John the Baptist, who prepared the gentiles for Christ.
Please, write turkish caption :)
THAT MARRIAGE ANALOGY SUCKS. If you compare success rate of a marriage with the success rate of a project
First
i thought he is pewdiepie wth
He met a woman in a bar and she moved in within the week?
Yea I'm early❤
Gonna go watch a tool bag review video now.
At least they might be honest and trustworthy. This guy just told us straight up that he is a liar. 1:12
3rd comment..hi guys...
I have just unsubscribed from Ted X for taking Brian's Rose talk down.your actions say all.
who?
Make the London real video public
He speaks like a horse thief.
is this socialism?
Second 😂
I don’t trust this mans barber
Poop