Do SWEDES Prefer Dating Foreigners?
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- Опубликовано: 5 окт 2024
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I asked Swedes on the streets of Stockholm and Gothenburg if they would rather date a Swede or a foreigner. Here is what they had to say.
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As a Dutchman I really felt the "absolutely NOT" 😂😂
what was that about???
@@diegosemerene 02:19
You must be really tall
Ya I heard the Dutch bit, I got some Dutch in my lineage.
Yeah that was quite harsh.
We asked 2 typical swedes about their ethnical dating preferences. Both Abdul and Dickembe said, they wouldn't date foreigners.
LMAOO
lmao
😂😂😂
"My mom didn't come all the way to this country for me not to date a hwhite waman"
@@TuAmigoElMorrocoy White waman bad yessir! Much angry! Can not take more waman! 🤣 Can not hunt lion! Polar bear not good. Much angry! Almost as angry as white waman! 🤣Snow no good! Much cold! Africa good! Much warm! Can hunt lion! Can take more waman!🤣
So , basically the guys from Sweden 🇸🇪 aren't outgoing until they get drunk and then finally they will approach and make a move 😂
well sweden has a winter that last for 5 months.. so no one is outside then. but in the 3 months of the summer time and warm weather everyone is out. i don't know why this stereotype of swedish people not being outgoing comes from. and drinking only happens really on the weekends when people go out to party, and of course when you drunk you will have more liquid courage, women also become more approachable when they are drunk. usually they have a RBF, wear giant headphones that mean leave me alone, stare at the phone, and are not very communicative or approachable in general when sober so can't blame men for everything.
So are the germans too:(
Yes they are. I try to hook up my swedish friend with girls but seem to reserve and always decline
I can confirm that it's true lol. This is why a lot of white swedish women prefer dating someone with a foreign background. A lot of swedish women actually go for first generation swedes.
Same here in Finland.😂 Hälsningar från Finland! Greetings from Finland! Terveisiä Suomesta!
Swedes who plan to live in Sweden often don’t want to bring someone who can’t speak Swedish to meet their friends and family. Since a lot of us don’t truly feel comfortable speaking only in English. Remember it’s not just for a week or a month but a whole life where your friends and family will feel like they have to accommodate for the English speaker. It’s not something many seem to consider.
Does that still matter if it's a casual fling or one night stand?
@@uvejspreza9879 You will probably not be invited to meet their friend and family then. They probably would only feel regret and embarrassement about that.
If only we though the same in other cultures 😂 #lazy
Goes both ways. Foreigners who move to Sweden for a relationship should make an attempt to learn Swedish, I think.
@@hakanstorsater5090They should also pay 0% tax until they learn said language 🙌
It wouldn’t be funny if Swedes actually were bad in English
If you live in Sweden you will clearly see there is a big preference for dating Swedish, not foreigners. People largely prefer boring than meeting anyone new and different.
Damn that’s kinda sad
Its like that in Minnesota where there's a lot of Scandinavian influences
Also notice the pattern that most men were open to dating outside than women here. Men are more open to seeking a different experience, while women want to play it safe.
You attract what you are with that mindset. Why would you date anyone boring at all? Dating is supposed to be fun! Have only gone out with fun women, Swedish or from other countries :)
Think so?...watch this it's in English..."Le SVEDESI sposerebbero un ITALIANO ?"
I kind of have the feeling that some only said that they would date a foreigner because there was a camera and they felt "morally" obliged. According to "Demografiska rapporter: Kärlek över gränserna" a report released by Statistics Sweden in 2015 - roughly one in four single persons are in a relationship within five years after immigration- p.82.
Yeah I’m kinda getting that too. I guess as would be the case for anybody, almost anywhere. Folks don’t want to come off or be perceived a certain way, especially in front of cameras.
@@CharmingMountain and much modesty, obviously..😁🤦
@@originalmix2546 fax hahah cringe asf
@@CharmingMountain Mediterranean men have a reputation of being extremely charming, full of themselves and being more interested in "sampling" the local menu rather than taking them seriously as dating prospects and your comment proves that this stereotype fits you to a T. Those Swedes could smell this from a mile away and this is why they avoided you.
@carolin9876 As a Greek woman what you said about Mediterranean men (and most men from more conservative cultures i believe) is very true.
They're cocky and they believe that in northern Europe they'll be considered exotic and therefore will be popular with the ladies plus they think that Northern European women are easy and will sleep with anyone simply because the culture is more sex positive in northern Europe.
Swedish people unlike the British don't date in the traditional sense. Instead, they prefer to engage in casual social interactions and group activities. This cultural difference can be attributed to the Swedish emphasis on equality and a more relaxed approach to relationships. Swedish people aren't as passionate and romantic as Italians and French because aren't taught to express their emotions or affection openly, since they are emotionally repressed they don't know how to make relationships meaningful and intimate. Swedish people aren't as practical as the Germans, who prioritize efficiency and practicality in their relationships. Instead, Swedish people value a sense of independence and personal space, allowing for a more laid-back and non-conventional approach to dating. This can be seen in their preference for egalitarian gender roles and the absence of strict dating rules or expectations. A more simple way to explain this is by comparing them to a turtle who carries its home on its back.
Insightful
There`s no dating culture in Sweden, swedes don`t take dating seriously because they are casual & don`t like acting up to others expectations.
ANY GIRL SINGLE MOM WHO MARRY ME AND TAKE ME IN UR COUNTRY
As a Swedish woman, I think that was all true. Maybe dating culture is nice or fun or more romantic, I have no clue. I don't know how it works. I'm married now but when I was younger and interested in someone, the most romantic thing I could think about was having fun at an amusement park or spending time in nature - if your special crush were around. And from there, getting to know each other. Taking a walk...having a fika...
I would have been very nervous if something else were required of me.
@@tillfalligt1148 "Ah, the classic Swedish approach-nature, fikas, and casually avoiding the terrifying depths of human connection! Sounds delightful, really. But here’s the thing: there’s something exhilarating about diving deep, don’t you think? I mean, I’ve faced death more times than I can count-turns out, it doesn’t really care for casual small talk or amusement park rides. Life’s too short to keep everything wrapped in cozy comfort. While I admire your affinity for nervous walks and coffee breaks, I’d argue that passion and getting to know someone on a deeper level can be just as thrilling, with fewer roller coasters involved (unless you’re into that). After all, we don’t want to be the heroes of 'Lame Date Adventures,' right? So why not throw caution to the wind and make every moment a grand expedition instead? Just a thought-but then again, maybe I just need a little excitement in my life! What do you think?” “Love and compassion are necessities, not luxuries. Without them, humanity cannot survive.”
"you meet the person not a nationality"
hmmm I think i know where he's getting at and I think I like it
I don't, i prefer woman to date people and not subhumans
Wow! Swedish people can really speak English. They have a clear accent.
Not sure on if that should be interpreted as "the accent is clear and easy to understand" or "they clearly have an accent". In fairness, I guess both could be correct...
They have to.......no one else in the world speaks Swedish.
@@toomuchinformationYour quite wrong. Some parts of Finland have Swedish speakers and other neighbouring countries, do your research next time. We learn English very early to be able to speak to foreigners and other stuff. But most of us prefer speaking our language Swedish. The reason some Swedes barely have an accent is bc they choose to speak English more. On the country side and smaller cities or town that is quite the opposite. Swede speaking here.
@@alesiakoshaleva5689 Ok, I remember Sidse Babett Knudsen of "Borgen" fame saying that speaking English was necessary if you wanted to travel outside Denmark/Scandinavia.
I did know about Swedish Finns and Swedish speaking Finns. My point (and Ms Knudsen's) still stands though, Swedish isn't widespread and travelling outside of Scandinavia means that you have to learn English. You see the same phenomenon with the Dutch, which is why they're rated the most fluent non native English speakers.
I was commenting with a broader perspective to the OP.
thank you for coming to Göteborg!!!!!! love all your videos. The video showed what we expected but at the same time we foreigners here in Sweden after we wake up from the shock of seeing the ultra beautiful swedes just realize that we are not that compatible with them for real long term relationship and the numbers show it. Im from Italy and we are famous for hitting everything with a pulse but we try to stay away from Scandinavians because of how cold they are and their family values are just different. once again they are great great people but compatibility is not there.
Cause Swedes hate drama and I'm sure Italians aren't drama free.
@@Joe-eg7mlSometimes what is called drama is being honest and brave with your emotions and thoughts. People who need to drink to get courage to approach - pretty weak and potentially dangerous.
@@Lafemmefutile you can be honest and brave with thoughts without the volume and hand gestures flying around. They are a monotone people and really don't do well with cultures full of emotion.
speak for yourself, don't generalize
Here in Denmark (but I guess in Sweden and Norway it's the same) Italians are not very successful with women. What strongly penalizes them is their short stature, their low income (compared to ours), facial features that remind us of poor countries and the fact that there is the idea that Italian males are very hierarchical with their women and want to command them.
Scandinavian like to date their people ! That’s what I realize !
Facts
@skuggbannad
I think you are safe, they don’t want to be with you anyway
No, maybe the men but for the women they are prefer arab or indian men
@@Baphomet-bk7cx they are not many foreign women in Sweden. The men often moved.
@@Baphomet-bk7cx sweden is flooded by arabic and african MEN. The few women from other countries are wifes to them so its kinda not balanced lol
I have been to Sweden 2 years ago and must say I have never seen such tall and extremely handsome men anywhere else in the world.
They are so feminine
Lots of women go to Sweden to date the men.
@@quartermaster1976 cause they are desperate,dating swedish men ,you might as well become lesbian
@@jt305 im arab bro and had several swedish gf my currnet gf is dannish
@@Random_emarati 1) i am not a man... 2) I don't care 3) I'm not into arab men 4) nice brag like a trophy you won a white woman 😆🤣
Fantastic video as always, always bringing a good topic😎👏🏻 greetings From Brasil😁🇧🇷
ANY GIRL SINGLE MOM WHO MARRY ME AND TAKE ME IN UR COUNTRY
Hey everyone! I have also filmed two big videos on Swedish culture: one on making friends and the other on dating so this one just scratches the surface as I go deep into their culture in the other ones. Stay tuned! 😊
Can't wait to see content about my country
The cultural differences are so funny! I like how many of the Swedish people said what matters is the values & quality of the person, not nationality or appearance so much
Most racist region in the world. 🤮
"Falling in love is much like stepping on a nail. It hurts, and you can’t stop talking about it for weeks."
I lived in Poland as a foreigner with language barrier for 5 years, all my dates were Polish girls. At start it was really hard for me to find someone but after I learnt the culture it became super easy. Many time the girl brought me a homemade cake on our first tinder date or other gifts of gesture.
Two years ago I got a job offer and moved to Sweden, I expected to have it even easier here because of no language barrier and more opened and less conservative culture but boy I was so wrong. I get approached by women in the clubs here a lot but as soon as I speak English they walk away. Same on tinder or dating apps they just never match a foreigner.
Without doubt Sweden is the most boring country I ever lived in and I am counting days to finish this project for work and just move out. People are boring country is so dull and boring. Weather sucks, food sucks. They are only fun of they are drunk that's it.
You are a jew
Yea I used to get nice sweet baked pastries in Czechia from an old couple who were my landlords, good folks.
I had a Swedish colleague ,she kind of kept to herself and stayed mainly with her two female roommates. Though there was a funny moment on a tram, the tram stopped abruptly and while I was holding one the poles my face went in front of hers she giggled back. She was Maria from Gothenburg. Did you learn some Swedish?
Where are u from?
I have been to Sweden and have traveled extensively in Scandinavia and I agree with you about Sweden. The people are kind and friendly but very very boring and the cooking is horrible. Funny, but the most beautiful woman I saw in Scandinavia was a tourist from Estonia.
When it comes to dating I think most people will date anyone who is attractive but when it comes to settling down and having a family most Europeans prefer to stick to other Europeans
I’ve been to Scandinavia a few times and when a guy is drunk he must be pretty rich 😂
Haha, those taxes...
I don't blame them, all the migrants that went there have killed any interest in foreign guys
I don't think so ,these women still vote for migrants.....and besides it's a habit of all women to talk trash on their local male counterparts........
Why? What migrants doing there?
@@Baphomet-bk7cxtaking money and property and selling drugs.
@@Baphomet-bk7cx do you live under a rock or only in youtube comments?
i like how the "reporter" always tries to bash interviewees for wanting to date their own people, but if they want to date another people its just "yeah good on you!" XD
Yea she is very disrespectful.
Ok so I'm married to a Swedish girl. And have swedish male friends. I'm American. I notice swedish girls are more outgoing and extortverted. The opposite of swedish men. You can only do things with ur swedish male friend that is a common intrest between the both of you. For example one swedish male friend and I are movie buffs and foodie so we watch movie together and eat at restaurants talking about the movie. Another likes cars and to drink so we do activities pertaining to that. IMO it is hard to find a Swedish male friend that's an all rounder and up for anything.
My Swedish wife is very outgoing and socialable. She's sweet also which can be a rarity....lol!
You are lucky that the Scandinavian culture is very similar to the American one, this is because the USA is the main culture that influences these areas
@@slavianalbanovich9025 most of the world is western influenced even in the ME even tho they don't want to admit it
@@Joe-eg7ml ME ?
@@slavianalbanovich9025 middle east
I thought your wife is Lebanese Armenian ????
Can you ask this question for all countries you visit?
I am :)
Swedes seem to prefer to date with their own kind more than Norwegians compared to last video. I find this kind of refreshing hearing this from a Nordic country, where everything is about political correctness and equality.
The girl that wants to date Swedish simply just because language barrier is soo funny 😂😂
(Eventhough I can understand because communication is very important in relationship)
I have to say, there is a huge difference in the kind of foreigner you are. Are you from North America or Europe? If it's Europe, which part? Northerners seem to have a better chance, while Asians, Middle Easterners, or Black individuals might have a slightly lower chance of getting a date. I can't label it as racism; it appears to be a personal preference.
well apparently a lot of people in Europe tend to prefer people from Latin America over Asian/black/middle easterns... 🤔
@@ichbinhier355 When you want to study a population, you should expand the sample size as much as possible. Conclusions cannot be drawn from limited observations, such as conversations with woke individuals on a RUclips channel. Additionally, there is a significant difference between the experiences of males and females. On average, European females tend to date white guys, while a white man tends to be satisfied with anyone he dates, as long as she is attractive enough.
I not only agree with you, but also remember that heterosexual guys have priviledges, so some (or many) of their experiences its about women objetification/inferiorization. Sad reality
@@Prof.S.Martass I appreciate your response; it was comprehensive, honest, and interesting.
Of course, language barriers and cultural factors have a significant role in this.
Even when finding friends of the same sex, the same situation exists. It takes too much effort for immigrants to find new friends in Europe.
It's very interesting. Where I live (a third-world country), a totally average white guy (rare to see here) , financially broken and not even attractive, can easily sleep with many hot girls that he desires.
It seems people here believe that sleeping with a white guy is an honor they wouldn't miss.
@RezaFard-ml4gn Because white population is about 1% of Earth's total population. I mean real white, not those who lighter then Blacks or Indians. And soon they vanish totally, they left only pics in the net. This is the reason why many people want a white, while they exist, so to speak, have time to try it out.
"Viking Line" on the end is a famous ferry line going between Finland and Sweden. Except for regular travelling, they're infamous for their nighttime party trips where there's a lot of tax-free alcohol involved, with all foreseeable consequences... (She pronounces Viking the Swedish way, although her accent sounds Eastern European otherwise, for some reason. I guess it should be pronounced more English, as the name is English, but oh well...)
Yeah those `booze ferries` are really infamous.
Women should be more proactive instead of complaining about guys not approaching
They only one ''Chad'' to approach, otherwise the man is a ''creep''.
As a Swedish woman: ONLY Swedish men for me! Those in Dalarna is the best or outside of Stockholm in general, where this is being filmed. The men in the bigger cities aren't that fun for the most part..
awww, first time to see a Nordic woman saying nice words to her fellow Nordic men........
Of maybe you're just virtue signalling, pretender to be short 🤔🤔🤔.........
@@MabusNero-bb3sv Or maybe you only watch pressured interviews that has leading questions like these. They just don't want to be seen as racist, myself I don't care
@@MabusNero-bb3sv A typical question: "Do you like black men?" and another classic one "Would you ever date a black man?". No woman would say no, because they know about the backlash.. if they don't say yes.
I want a family with a man that shares the same traditions and the way of living and kids that look like me..
@@TradLollo I don't think so...... I've seen many women who openly mock their own men........
@@MabusNero-bb3sv I have not and never seen anyone of my female friends do so either
1:58 The blond girl she is so funny the way she keep saying “nooo!” 😂😂
I have never been with a Swedish woman, I don't feel they are interested, like the 2 blond women that says Swedish men are boring, they are kind of proving why I as a Swedish man never had a relationship with a Swedish woman.
Drunk girls they drink too much.
so who does it for you then sir?
German in Sweden here. Feels like the women really like me here because they like the rough German edge
Germany is a rough place? 😄😆
What the guy said at 3:20 was petty much a mic drop and i stopped the video and didn't watch any further, sorry! 😸
Without swedish men getting with swedish women there wouldn't be anymore swedish people cherish the unique beauty and diversity of the world remember its not like going to the shop and buying a gucci handbag once its gone its gone forever ✝️❤
Sheesh they're all so beautiful!!
"As a swedish women our goal is to be independent we are always independent"
5mins later
" I like to date an american guy cuz they'll pay "
As an American man...all I can say is wow..really??
Swedish men end up paying for most if not all of it in the end anyway.
@@AceOfBased Really? but why do these people tell otherwise maybe they want to lead us into confusion
@@daltonhenry2365 If your in a serious relationship where you live together , the man pay for most of it, the car, the bills (sure she ships in too), when you go out and so on. No idea... some feminist stereotype. But then again I don't live in "fairy swamp" aka Stockholm as we call it where I live.
@@AceOfBasedwhere you from?.......
Me, a hispanic and native american guy, with a norwegian boyfriend who lives in Sweden 😅
Been very happy with my Swedish hubby and i'm Dutch.
nice virtue signalling......
The two girls in the beginning seem like really fun to hangout with 🤣🤣🤣. I laughed a little bit too hard.
Lol . . wtf . .they were boring needy type . . .
Hii
Noooo, it (middle-aged woman 'Sex in the City attitude') gets so old after a while. This attitude may fit you Russian gold-digger ladies quite nicely, though. The bad thing for you (and the two middle-aged Swedish women) is that no Swedish guy falls for that bullsh@t. The tipsy one to the right is a dumpster fire and incredibly worn down.
These ppl are way to respectful ❤
I was up north a week ago and did a round trip. I was in Copenhagen, Oslo, Trondheim, Umea and then in Stockholm. What I can say about all these Scandinavian girls: they are very reserved, come across as arrogant or sometimes shy and don't talk to strangers. I've also noticed several times when I look girls straight in the face that they look away, they're just looking at me when they think I'm not looking at them. Even when i start to speak english they run away which is very rude. By the way, I have a bit of a northern Italian look (dark hair, face) except that I'm 193 cm tall and have very blue eyes. I'm 100% Swiss, which means I have even more income than Norwegians (which seems important after reading the comments above from some Scandinavians here). The younger men in Denmark and Sweden in the clubs have complimented me a lot my appearance and my exterior done. So should I have good cards? So I would like to know what kind of image these women have of men? Maybe Brad Pitt, Hemsworth? It's just out of touch with reality. Or they just don't talk to foreigners? If I like a girl, I don't care if she's from the North Pole or the jungle. They think they're so hot (which they're far from being) with their fake Gucci bags and glasses and their shrunken faces. By the time they're 30, they're usually not in good shape anymore and they're aging very quickly. I've had women from the USA, the Netherlands, the Balkans (Bosnia, Croatia) and the Eastern Block (Russia, Ukraine and Poland) who were much hotter and less arrogant and above all more open than these northern girls. Incomprehensible. These are my experiences, which I made and everyone can make their own bimd. I have to honestly say that I was generally very disappointed with the people up there. it's already starting that no one keeps the door open for the other
sincerly a cheesy swiss
Maybe you look gay, since the young men of Scandinavia are flocking to you
lol you destroyed them , scandenavians are weird , they are only friendly when they are traveling outside their countries...
@@francescaaura5671 that's also true
Where are you from?? Some countries in Europe and obviously scandinavia, they aren't like UK, Oceanian or North American. They don't do small talks. If you say good morning to us we don't give a single damn. If you smile at us we think you're weird.
Also scandinavian men are more weirder to be honest. We are, some guys here are japanese weird level.
bruder du klingst einfach wie nen incel das ist das problem
Swedish women are just astonishing. Wish ever meet one. Cheers from Russia
Bruv, Girls in Russia are way superior than Swedish Woman lmao.
*racist
Lol, you have the perfect women who cooks and are feminine, and you want swedish ?
If you get to know at least 5 of them then you've met all of them. Apart from 10% of swedish girls, they're all the same
@@sinsinsinat5377 clean up the toilet behind you.
I traveled to Sweden last year and mostly had a great time. The men and elderly I met there were very kind and friendly, however a lot of the young women (not all) seemed very conceited. Such a big turn off.
OMG I know one of the girl’s in the video. The one where the caption said ‘she’s dating a Turkish guy’. Her name is Signe and she studied at the same university as me in England. I think he former bf was English. There’s no Swedish men in England sadly. ☹️
I know, as well as no Swedish men in Berlin, Oslo or Copenhagen...
Great ! Yes Swedish don't like to travel alot. As compare to British
@@zainulabdin1720 There's fewer of them, but most like to travel if they can afford it...
I’ve always wanted to visit Sweden but I’m not sure I’ll enjoy feeling like a midget at 5’10
Me at 5'5 I'll probably not enjoy feeling like a hafling.
@@darklanov they aren't all that tall and all have blonde hair.
welcome to my life here in Sweden. im 5´11 and teens tower over me.
Dude at 5'7 im probably going to feel like a dwarf in Sweden.
Swedes arent taller than Germans or Serbians. You can feel short in many European countries. :)
This video is so awesome and funny
Swedish women being open to date foreigners almost always mean other european or caucasian people and does not include the majority of foreigners that migrated to sweden.
True, does not matter how good looking guy is living in Denmark if he is a Somali its almost impossible for him to get a date
love from Argentina 🇦🇷💙
A relative of mine has only had foreigners as boyfriends and they where together for several years to. Mostly the other part where visiting Sweden on vacation when they meet, and the guys where also willing to stay and live here. (They did live some periods of times in his country too but mostly here). One of the guys (now ex-boyfriend but still friends), still lives here.
Personally, my biggest consern would be if a foreigner would want to stay and live here because I don't see myself living in a nother country. I also think the cultural differences, (and especially how the other react to equality in the relationship and maybe some values), might be tricky and give some trouble if the other part isn't willing to accept and compromise. Otherwise Im open to it. (Though I admit that I would prefer people from some cultures & countries more than others). I think love is love, and in the end it doesn't matter much if you go for a foreigner or not.
I was with a swede. They are honest and emotional about you if they like you. The biggest thing I see right now is financial things. It's harder life with high taxes in Sweden. It's poor country where ppl pay into a system. I like German men better. They approach you and they don't need to be drunk.
Sweden is a poor country really!! 🤣😂 which poor country you are from honey??🤣😂😂
Islamic yes poor no
@@L_from_USA_ muslim immigrants don't equal islamic, the country isn't islamic and is mostly secular/atheist
@@hannahpocock4152 I guess you don't have humor
In what universe is Sweden poor ? 😂
I say the opposite here, I'm married my Swede man❤ he's incredibly hot man and we have same interest too🎉
Im proud of my Swede man❤❤❤
If they ask this question in Algeria all the people will say Foreign women, the country does not matter, the important thing is that she is not Algerian
same for other arab and african countries
Same for Turkey. Tho these "foreign" women are mostly "white" women(especially slavic). Especially blonde women are seen as goddesses
I can see it........ although all women in the world are ugly......nothing matches the unattractiveness of middle eastern/north African women......
@@diofromyozgat no in Algeria we prefer romantic women like franch women or Italian
@@user-em6ff6lv5z really? I thought algerians didnt really like french so i'm kind of surprised. In Turkey it is all about Slavic women(mostly russian and ukranian), white skin, blonde, blue eyes...
Poor dude at the beginning 😂
traditional values have left the chat
What is bro yappin here
I am an Italian so +1 to the guy who likes Argentinian girls. However I think that Swedes are just diffident with foreigners because most of them come from impoverished countries and look for a better life in Sweden and Swedes usually earn a lot. But I have also discovered that they pay a lot of taxes.
Probably they feel also superior to other peoples, but this is not something specifically related to Swedes/northern Europeans. Most people are racist deep inside (my own is the best).
Premised all this, I still think that a feminine Latin woman + northern European man would make a great couple, but he must be strong and traditional breadwinner.
In the end, I prefer slavic men, still blond but more traditional.
A me non piace sembra Ken di Barbie e non è mascolino.E ha detto argentine non italiane che di solito non sono accessibili per tanti stranieri
Cmq un'italiana che preferisce gli slavi è più rara di un unicorno
@@alegeraci7643 le argentine sono mezze italiane. A me gli italiani proprio non attirano per niente. Gli svedesi boh, mi sembrano strani.
@@alegeraci7643 alle italiane non piacciono gli slavi perché hanno la testa fritta di propaganda filo-occidentale. Sono bellissimi e su comportano meglio degli italiani.
@@MichelaRossini le argentine sono mezze italiane e mezze spagnole +tedeschi,polacchi e altre popolazioni quindi non sono proprio italiane anche se simili.Loro stessi hanno sviluppato l'orgoglio argentino e parlano spagnolo anche perché conoscendo una signora italiana che era emigrata lì quando era ragazza mi aveva detto che chi andava lì non tornava più sia per la distanza che per il fatto che ci fosse una politica secondo cui chi faceva soldi lì non poteva portarli nel paese di origine e doveva spenderli in argentina e accumulare capitale lì
@@MichelaRossini Secondo me anche perché non c'è proprio feeling oltre al fatto che raramente si vede un maschio slavo in Italia al contrario delle femmine
The British , French , Spanish , Italian , Portuguese Women are the most open Women to foreigners ) and i can see the best in Europe to have a serious relation they are keepers and they give time to the relation which makes it healthier and can works out very good .
Have you seen the divorce rate in those countries? Or the fertility rayes? They are not keepers at all. You probably are not from one of those countries.
@@sdh6898 pretty sure all europe going down to be honest
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Next do Norway Please ❤️💙🤍
Already done
I think it depends who you meet its good to meet other who have the same interests that you have
This unrequested advice I give to heteros3xual latinas: do not date Swedish man, unless they actively pursue you. They prefer the natives, I have a little suspicion that they look at us as “less than”, just saying. Anyways, be careful, amigas. Don’t get attached and give all your love, like we use to do when we do our thing. Have fun and don’t get attached. Value yourself and always put yourself first.
Ahcheum, pourquoi t’incites les femmes dans la débauche
@@MecTristeEtZehef hi, it could be understood as that but actually it is quite the opposite. I would like us to give ourselves the value that we have. Having fun doesn’t necessarily means debauchery. It is fun to meet new people and learn about other cultures. Always with respect. But I would not recommend to even casually date a man that would never ever consider you good enough for marriage or long time relationships just because of you race or nationality. The reason of this is internalize superiority, they think they are better than you just because they are born in said country and have certain genetics. It is sad. I have live enough time in Scandinavia to know that theses people are heavily romanticized by other cultures, they have many good qualities but they are not perfect, specially their social skills are terrible. And by the way, they are not all tall, blonde and beautiful ( if that is the only phenotype you think is beautiful, sad) just, travel outside the big cities and you’ll find out who were trolls inspired by.
@@serenella2347Internalized superiority, very well said. I have to admit for a lot of europeans its generally true, even if they will not openly admit it. We are like this even towards each other in Europe. I dont know where it comes from, its not like they teach us at school to be like this.
@@Prof.S.Martass it simply means being proud of whom you are
@@serenella2347 " to even casually date" heres the thing its that simple you said it yourself
4:55 The mental contradictions that I see within some of these European countries is quite fascinating. They live in one of the most equal societies yet consider it a "risk" if a man isn't willing to revert to the specific traditional standards that benefit the women. Seriously, there are WAY worse risks that you can deal with than if the men are hardcore on keeping things equal. Emotional / physical abuse is one I can think of from the top of my head, and there is a plethora of other possible issues that anyone else can think of.
She dint clarified enough for u to assume it. They are well known for being so individualistic that oftain even married couple act like unmarried as they literally treat each other as not part of one family.
Most importantly, it's personal preference. I don't see any issue in this
And I don't see how does it benifits women? I come from an extremely conservative society and it does not at all benifits women. I am assuming that u are talking about bills. From what i have observed, Most women like it because they want to feel like their partner is completely into them and cares about them. This feeling could be expressed in many ways and paying is the easiest way to do it. Obviously most men wont risk their life for their partner and thats why women choose easier way to feel it. It's not like she won't spend money on him but here the point is about the feeling which they get.
I have seen women who earn and almost all of their money is spended on family which they don't mind at all but if they ever try to buy something for themselves then they still prefer to use their husband's money even if it's for smallest possible thing, even if he has used her money to buy much more things, even if he can afford it all but using their partner's money gives them feeling of being cared for.
"They live in one of the most equal societies yet consider it a "risk" if a man isn't willing to revert to the specific traditional standards that benefit the women."
Thank you. I've been telling this for ages. Women want full equality, but they want to keep their privileges. They expect the men to pay on a date, buy flowers, give jewelry, etc., but run away from a man who thinks that household chores are "women's job", though both standards are from the same era.
@@Limpi43 i feel extremely sorry for your waste of time and with deep regret i have to tell to about this new discovery which says that u wasted ages in seeing women as one homogeneous species who is incapable of thinking differently and act, think and see the world in exactly same ways with absolutely no difference in preference and taste. I wish someone would have stopped u when u started wasting time in understanding "women" instead of "woman"
seems like your mom dumped u in dustbin and u are trying to find reasons for her action in acts of "women" but unfortunately your mom wasn't "women" rather she was "a woman". I can sense it, u must be one of those guys crying "#notAllmen" bullshit, all over internet.
I am not even going to explain it. It's just so dumb that if u can't realize it yourself plus u decided to conveniently ignore previous comment and then act as if u saw nothing, then no one can make u realize it.
@@Limpi43 not to mention, women are already doing everything. Be it part of men's work or women's work. They are earning and doing all domestic labor plus child carrying as well. Till now men only "help" they never take responsibility because responsibility belongs to women and if men do it then it's a favor while when women do it then it's her responsibility. He always needs something in return. Like more power in society, slaves etc
Women don't say it but end up doing it all. That's why they run away from men who thinks that household work is women's duty because imagine this much work these women do when men don't think that it's women's work, what will happen when they will get an another excuse? No one wants to end up being a single parent despite of being married with alive husband just because she expected jeastures of love like flowers, or offering to pay. No one is that stupid until they are brainwashed to do so
Women expressing love, don't see it as a burden so they never think about weaponizing it like men do. "I Brought flowers now u give away voting rights and become financially dependent so that it becomes easier to exploit u". How convenient. I wish men would apply some logic or at least try to hear themselves before speaking out something
The Sweede guy saying he loves Argentinians actually look like an Argentinian! hehe (I'm from Southern Brazil nearby Argentina border). Also Southern Brazilian guys hardly approach women if they're not drunk (totally different from the Northern Brazilians).
Lies
Swedes prefer Italian...you can't handle the tooth.@@flowershower6857
@@hette457 Totally but there were already a lot of Germans before 20th century both in Argentina and Southern Brazil. Part of my family is Prussian and came to Brazil in 1827, more than 100 years before ww2. My husband’s family came in 1910 still before the ww2.
Southern Brazil near Argentina has lots of Italian and German migrants from W1 & WW2. They are actually European but with Brazilian values eg more warm than Europeans in Europe.
@@minima7947 way less warm than actual Italians, I guarantee you. If you say “Hello” to a Southern Brazilian you don’t know even if he is your neighbour he will look at you as if you were crazy. We have also lots of Polish and Ukrainian descendants specially in Paraná. Most of them came to Southern Brazil in 19th century, very few came to Southern Brazil after the 20th century, those who came in between world wars went to Southeastern Brazil (São Paulo and Rio de Janeiro).
Yeah, now imagine dating as a gay in Scandinavia ;) Not for ONS. In like a 1.5 year I met two guys from Brasil and one Serbian. It was easy to catch a contact and become a friends. But with Norwegians... Many matches, maybe one wrote first when he matched (I was shocked), the other guys were waiting. Maybe 3 or 4 responded to hi. Sometimes I wonder if they really want to meet someone there. And I'm in Trondheim. I don't want to know how it looks in smaller cities...
The other problem is scandinavian attitude towards alcohol. I don't want to have a boyfrient, who have to intoxicate himself to talk with me... I didn't know that it's such huge problem in Norway. It's even bigger than in Poland where I come from. At least in Poland it's called a problem, addiction or problematic drinking to overcome social anxieties. In Norway: it's just our destiny.
The guy at 1:19 is insanely beautiful. Like holy God how is it legal to look like that??
If you can’t approach someone without being drunk…Red flag. 🚩
Lol thats all nordic people
Totally agree! Plus drunk woman=massive Red flag. 🚩
1:23 my soulmate bro… “dates” is weird as hell…weird concept…I’m just enjoying time with the woman having a dinner etc. if it goes somewhere it’s fine…it can go anywhere …why put some restrictions on your interaction with the woman by putting it in a “date” category in advance.
"Why swedish?" Well, we live in Sweden
Ok so many are boring…got it 😂
Mine is swedish,and I'm srilankan,he's such a blessing to my life.
and you're a disappointment and failure to him..........
Damn I was assuming German people are dull and reserved but my fellow swedes you are now in pole position 😂
The blond girl at 2:00 is absolutely charming in every way.
Which one? They are all blond
I’m an Aussie, and I’d rather date a foreigner.
Im from Australia as well the women are probably easier to catch here than Sweden by the sounds of it. You have to be native Swedish to get a girl over there
@@icy5982 But does not apply to Sweidish guys - here the guys are 3x more likely to be in interracial relationships than girls
I want to date Swedes after watching this. Norwegians are "foreign" to them.
Thank you Marina. Swedes may want to date you too
Come in france and do the same the answers gonna be so funny ahahah
😂😂😂
French girls like black men (by the way in France it is possible to find black people who have been French for many generations as France has many overseas territories))
@@slavianalbanovich9025 thats not the point wtf you’re obsess with black man, you got something to confess ?
and what do we expect in France? Local women bashing local men?.........
@@MabusNero-bb3sv not sure about that … you sound so grumpy get a life
The drunks were pretty funny.
I wonder if the rest of the girls that want to date swedes but not foreigners, would still wanna date a guy from Denmark or Norwegian X-D
I’m pretty sure they would.
With foreigners they almost always mean muslims, arabs & black africans.
@@johnnycage8327thats mean swedish women only rejected muslim,arab, and dark african men ? How about handsome indian men?
@@Baphomet-bk7cx handsome indian men don't look typical indian and may be passed as arabs so they'll get rejected as well.
@@Baphomet-bk7cxyou sound like a beta simp.......
Drunk women complaining about drunk swedish guys approach😅
Wonder if they are ever gonna do a Scottish man or woman version of this? Just curious ? And for me it wouldn’t matter where he was from as long as he treated me as an equal and was same height as me.
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Big fan of your channel! Can we see 1 or 2 gay people in your vids sometimes? Would be cool to see their perspectives too! (maybe they want to date an Irishman like me! lol) Thanks :)
For sure 😊
who wants to Date a Viking?
Viking woman
NOPE, Italian@@flowershower6857
I fucking do
Bro you dont have summer in sweeden , must be so boring to live there
At 0:52 the two females mock the Swedish man saying he’s boring as he’s actively playing miniature golf, while the females are just sitting and drinking.
They are both drunk and one has to see the dentist.
I think the 2 nice ladies in the beginning were already a bit tipsy 😂
American men pay? That's news to me as an American.
Compared to Scandinavian men Americans are a blessing in that department trust me.
I'm American and I always pay. Been married to a swede for about 18yrs and I pay 99% of the time....lol
Hmm, me as a foreigner who spent around 6 months in the US, I'd say a lot of them do pay.
They wouldn't push if you insist to split the bill like Turks or Arabs would do, but they'd usually try to pay everything.
Anyway, in my experience Americans are the most balanced men between being fun, yet resposible.
The only problem is that *everyone* complains too much.
"America sucks because blabla", "American women suck because blabla".
Usually for me this was the most boring part of the conversation, because at this point I'm tired of trying to prove that it's actually a really fine country with it's pros and cons.
Especially, as a foreign female, I hated when they'd try to "compliment" me through a prism of disrespecting local American women.
I say one "smart" thing and they'd go "omg I love foreign women, cuz Americans are dumb".
Dude, your mother is american? Your friends are American? How can you say that?
I'm bringing this up, because it was an *extremely* common thing for me to hear.
@@ari_jean From my experience with foreign guys the date would end up turning into a rant on American politics. Which I remain neutral on because I abhor it. Made for awkward dates. Now I'm engaged to a fellow Texan. He's very traditional but agnostic, which I appreciate that. It just depends on the guy. There is this wave now of extremes either you have to be super conservative or liberal and no one is allowed to be in the middle.
@@greenytaddict Glad to hear that, congrats on your engagement 🙂❤️
bro i'm Brazilian and i tell you guys swedish girls are much more pretty than the Brazillian girls, but Brazilian girl will be much more comunicative and sexy a lot of times. girls here are more brown eyes and brown hair. so as a brazilian i think blonde girls prettyer. I can say that Brazilians in general are really comunicative so the girls here are used to have guys talking to her what makes it difficult to us. swedish girls are not very used to it so i think that them would date a brazillian in 90% of the times. and if you're swedish guy and comes to Brazil you just need to say that you swedish that probably girls will fall over you just because its not normal see Europe guys here. Europe girls fall for the comunicative and brave way of south americans and south america girls will fall for the exclusivity of Europe. If you think swedish girls are shy and want a hotter one that will know how to dance and tease you come to Brazil or Argentina, but don't think them will be polite as swedish girls as i sayd them are very used to having guys aproaching them so you're gonna be just another one.
wow the guy on the left at 1:17 helloooo
Im from CR🇨🇷, but i prefer foreigners i want someone different, more exotic, but it seems that the people around the world are more used to dating with locals 😅
That is a form of simping.......
Lmao! I love the poor self proclaimed non-English speaking Swedish girl @2:00 who reacts with bigger “No”s to prospect of dating each foreigner mentioned 😂
She seems to be understanding very well
She might have trouble using affectional language even in Swedish... 😄
As an Englishman, we all dream of having a Swedish girlfriend
Try asking someone who isn't drunk.
A man who can moose????
2:41 .. move it move it !!!
What I'm gathering from this video is Swedish men are quiet, introverted and boring like myself. The women are opposite of them. Only when the men are drunk there, they behave the opposite under the influence of alcohol 🍸
Don't be deceived by a 2 mins interview or a 1 week visit as a tourist, the women are the same as it's a cultural thing.
A decade in sweden as a foreigner and i can say they're generally introverts,shy to eye contact,reserved,practice small talks,prefer dating their country people when it comes down to settling.
Who raised those men? Introverted Swedish mothers. Don't be fooled by the young women trying to act cool for the camera, the reality is very different.
What about dating Caribbean Men especially Trinidad and Tobago
pretty sure that they have never heard of Brian Lara, Dwayne Bravo or Samuel Badree. And yes, I am a big fan of the West Indies cricket team.
Seriously it's not about nationality with any nation, it's about the individual
There is no point to any of these videos if you can't generalize.
Mic drop!
Not really, people are racist.
There are cultural differences though and mannerisms and shared things from ones own group.
I am really enjoying your content and podcast. I am planning a trip too Sweden Danmark Finnalnd Malta so your content for me was very helpful and interesting Thank you I am single 😊 so the information is especially helpful cheers . LAH FROM FLORIDA 😊 FLL
the supermodel guy who likes Argentinians though...
I appreciated that comment
Minutos?
15 seconds in and you are insulting a random swedish man. :(
It’s giving ✨xenophobia ✨
you meet the person, not nationality
one guy said
If I'm gonna date a foreigner it better be a fellow scandinavian.