My son is 18 months old who is not diagnosed yet, but is showing some signs of ASD. One of his issues is that he puts literally everything in his mouth. What will be a good reinforcement for his situation. Thank you so much for not only this video but any video you upload in your channel. They are very helpful!
google mary barbera chewing for a video on this specifically. We really want to prevent this behavior as it can be dangerous. Learn more about teaching him skills through my online course here www.marybarbera.com/workshops . The workshop is free.
Get him sensory appropriate items to chew. It is a sensory seeking behavior and he is looking for stimulation. This is a common thing with Autistic kids. You can also get him into an OT and find out if he has any issues.
Hi Mary, Thank you for your videos, which enable many families with autistic kids to support their loved ones. By implementing your tips, my son has progressed from non-verbal to making 4/5 sentences like: "I want apple and raspberry juice please"... Whlist holding my hands, he would say "let's go" I am now thinking of becoming an ABA therapist to be able to support him in other areas. What is the best and quickest way of doing this as I am currently home schooling him. Little background- I am based in London. My first degree is in politics and my 5 year old is yet to be diagnosed (has been on waiting list for years) I look to hearing from you. Thank you!
I love watching you.. You give me hope... I've been asking in my Autism support group about flapping and the sound my son makes I feel hopeless. ... People say let him stim He's clapping instead of flapping half the time now. But the noise. How will he be able to bed on a plane he's verbal high functioning.. But just feel so sad... We start ABA.Occ med.. And Speech soon.. Any tips or information I can purchase thank you Mary
That’s was great advice. Is giving stickers or rewards in a classroom for doing good work a good practice? My 6 year old daughter came to me twice this week sad for being the only one that didn’t get a sticker and small prize for not getting high points on an activity. How can that be motivating? she also has developmental challenges and has trouble focusing. Is this type of reward system common in schools?
My 11 year old has autism,idd,adhd, and just recently they diagnosed him with DMDD also . He first stared smacking himself on the head and shouting .thats lasted like a month or two,he stopped that .but now he’s being destructive he made Two huge holes on his wall ,yesterday he made one in the living room 😢 , he had a crisis at his doctors appointment he attacked me,hitt the windows was kicking the bed they sit on,and he peed on himself.its really hard now to get upset when he’s destroying his room down.:( I’m going crazy :( .
Dear Ma'am, My son is 4 he is on milder side of spectrum. I love all ur videos. Can GFCF diet really helps. Also he's non verbal,not potty trained , phobia with hairdresser n hospitals,anxiety about the new roads n path . How can I help him please help me
Hey there!!my son can mand for whatever he wants in 2 words.to expand his language,I want him to share enjoyment,achievement and interest.what can I do for it???pls help me
Yes of course. These are all common issues in intermediate learners. You can google mary barbera conversational for another video. Also come join me in my online courses. There is a free workshop here www.marybarbera.com/workshops
Hi,I’m Tharsha from Canada,one of my cousin’s son is not talking not even a single word,he is 3 years and 8months. What is the reason for that? Can I get any advice from you?
It can be due to multiple reasons. Usually the best step is to seek a full evaluation. I also have online courses . www.marybarbera.com/workshop will also get you started with a free workshop to learn about my online courses.
My son gets anxiety about having anxiety if that makes any sense, he starts to hyperventilate and screams to the top of his lungs for a good 10min it is so hard to calm him down when he gets like that takes alot out of me.
Hello Dr. Marry I am really concern about my son he is 18 months no babble or talking. He doesn’t follow to simple instructions He has good eye contact he loves play with other kids and when I call his name he respond. When I say come here he understand when I say no he understand. Is this is Autistic please let it me know?
Without knowing him, I cannot say but I do have techniques that can help whether it is autism or not. Check out a free workshop here www.marybarbera.com/workshops
My 17 month old does alot of walking on his sibling like he isn't there he doesn't even make eye contact with him and when his baby brother gets close and touches him he screams but he won't let his little brother play with his toys there is no sharing when it comes to him
my son hits when he doesn't get what he wants right away or the answer is no. He will hit whoever is closest. we have tried talking and telling him that hitting won't get him what he is asking for and he will sit and ask again then we will get him his request. But... how do we redirect when it's something he can't have?
Sometimes redirecting. Or saying "no tv but you can play with this(next preferred toys)" . Sometimes saying not now , let's play ball. Finding ways to prevent it as you build skills. Check out a free workshop to learn more here www.marybarbera.com/workshops
Hello! I can’t discourage my daughter’s behavior effectively. Her loud screaming, yelling and hitting makes ME go nuts. I have severe sensory problems ☹️ my children have ASD and I’m sure I AM too. (I’m 41 and not diagnosed). How can I help them? (I can’t help myself). Your information remind me of my psych developmental class. Thanks for the video!
I have the same exact problem with my 8 Year old once he starts screaming and hitting it's Very hard to calm him down takes me atl least 10min to do so
We always want to think about how we can prevent problem behavior. If I gave you a million dollars to make it so she didn't scream, what could you do. This is normally a good place to start.
My son is 18 months old who is not diagnosed yet, but is showing some signs of ASD. One of his issues is that he puts literally everything in his mouth. What will be a good reinforcement for his situation. Thank you so much for not only this video but any video you upload in your channel. They are very helpful!
google mary barbera chewing for a video on this specifically. We really want to prevent this behavior as it can be dangerous. Learn more about teaching him skills through my online course here www.marybarbera.com/workshops . The workshop is free.
Get him sensory appropriate items to chew. It is a sensory seeking behavior and he is looking for stimulation. This is a common thing with Autistic kids. You can also get him into an OT and find out if he has any issues.
This is right on time. I have used this method on my son concerning his school work . He is now during this first week doing incredibly great 👍
Wonderful!
Awesome video and you're channel is the best, makes me feel like I'm not the only one out there.
Wow, thanks
Hi Mary,
Thank you for your videos, which enable many families with autistic kids to support their loved ones.
By implementing your tips, my son has progressed from non-verbal to making 4/5 sentences like:
"I want apple and raspberry juice please"... Whlist holding my hands, he would say "let's go"
I am now thinking of becoming an ABA therapist to be able to support him in other areas. What is the best and quickest way of doing this as I am currently home schooling him.
Little background- I am based in London. My first degree is in politics and my 5 year old is yet to be diagnosed (has been on waiting list for years)
I look to hearing from you. Thank you!
Have you taken my online courses yet ?? If not, I'd start there. www.marybarbera.com/workshops
I love watching you.. You give me hope... I've been asking in my Autism support group about flapping and the sound my son makes I feel hopeless. ... People say let him stim
He's clapping instead of flapping half the time now. But the noise. How will he be able to bed on a plane he's verbal high functioning.. But just feel so sad... We start ABA.Occ med.. And Speech soon.. Any tips or information I can purchase thank you Mary
I have online courses and you can learn more at a free workshop www.marybarbera.com/workshops
That’s was great advice. Is giving stickers or rewards in a classroom for doing good work a good practice? My 6 year old daughter came to me twice this week sad for being the only one that didn’t get a sticker and small prize for not getting high points on an activity. How can that be motivating? she also has developmental challenges and has trouble focusing. Is this type of reward system common in schools?
We would want to have a more individualized system and one where she can be successful. Does she have support in the classroom?
My 11 year old has autism,idd,adhd, and just recently they diagnosed him with DMDD also . He first stared smacking himself on the head and shouting .thats lasted like a month or two,he stopped that .but now he’s being destructive he made Two huge holes on his wall ,yesterday he made one in the living room 😢 , he had a crisis at his doctors appointment he attacked me,hitt the windows was kicking the bed they sit on,and he peed on himself.its really hard now to get upset when he’s destroying his room down.:( I’m going crazy :( .
it sounds like getting a local to you BCBA on board would be helpful!
Great distinctions! Glad this video was recommended.
Glad it was helpful!
Dear Ma'am,
My son is 4 he is on milder side of spectrum.
I love all ur videos.
Can GFCF diet really helps.
Also he's non verbal,not potty trained , phobia with hairdresser n hospitals,anxiety about the new roads n path .
How can I help him please help me
Hey there!!my son can mand for whatever he wants in 2 words.to expand his language,I want him to share enjoyment,achievement and interest.what can I do for it???pls help me
Yes of course. These are all common issues in intermediate learners. You can google mary barbera conversational for another video. Also come join me in my online courses. There is a free workshop here www.marybarbera.com/workshops
Hi,I’m Tharsha from Canada,one of my cousin’s son is not talking not even a single word,he is 3 years and 8months. What is the reason for that? Can I get any advice from you?
It can be due to multiple reasons. Usually the best step is to seek a full evaluation. I also have online courses . www.marybarbera.com/workshop will also get you started with a free workshop to learn about my online courses.
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My son gets anxiety about having anxiety if that makes any sense, he starts to hyperventilate and screams to the top of his lungs for a good 10min it is so hard to calm him down when he gets like that takes alot out of me.
What's his age
that is really challenging. Finding strategies to prevent it may help. google mary barbera anxiety for a video on this.
Hello Dr. Marry I am really concern about my son he is 18 months no babble or talking. He doesn’t follow to simple instructions He has good eye contact he loves play with other kids and when I call his name he respond. When I say come here he understand when I say no he understand. Is this is Autistic please let it me know?
Without knowing him, I cannot say but I do have techniques that can help whether it is autism or not. Check out a free workshop here www.marybarbera.com/workshops
My 17 month old does alot of walking on his sibling like he isn't there he doesn't even make eye contact with him and when his baby brother gets close and touches him he screams but he won't let his little brother play with his toys there is no sharing when it comes to him
that can be challenging!
my son hits when he doesn't get what he wants right away or the answer is no. He will hit whoever is closest. we have tried talking and telling him that hitting won't get him what he is asking for and he will sit and ask again then we will get him his request. But... how do we redirect when it's something he can't have?
Sometimes redirecting. Or saying "no tv but you can play with this(next preferred toys)" . Sometimes saying not now , let's play ball. Finding ways to prevent it as you build skills. Check out a free workshop to learn more here www.marybarbera.com/workshops
Hello! I can’t discourage my daughter’s behavior effectively. Her loud screaming, yelling and hitting makes ME go nuts. I have severe sensory problems ☹️ my children have ASD and I’m sure I AM too. (I’m 41 and not diagnosed). How can I help them? (I can’t help myself). Your information remind me of my psych developmental class. Thanks for the video!
I have the same exact problem with my 8 Year old once he starts screaming and hitting it's Very hard to calm him down takes me atl least 10min to do so
M C My daughter can take up to 45 minutes most times. and it’s not a once a day episode.
We always want to think about how we can prevent problem behavior. If I gave you a million dollars to make it so she didn't scream, what could you do. This is normally a good place to start.
There is a Dr In Lincoln NE that does adult Dx's and she specializes in Women. Look Up Williamsburg Behavioral and they do Telehealth now.
TheBlueFairie thanks where is this NYC
How do I deal with the autism with four other siblings who feel she’s treated differently compared to them
equality does not equal equity. Perhaps education for the siblings as to why she may need extra support could help.
Awesome video...❣️
Glad you liked it
Brilliant, as always 🌻
Thank you! Cheers!
Mam is my five year child overcome from autism
you can teach skills to help ! check out a free workshop here www.marybarbera.com/workshops
I’m writing a paper😩😭
A paper on what?