I have and wear clothing I’ve had for 30 years because I’ve always tended to buy classic styles and good quality things. I don’t have a lot of clothes, just good ones.
You are not the only one. I have the same thing. I keep good clothing for 10 to 30 years. People say it looks like new to them and I just mixed and match to look a bit different and updated, also match with shoes or boots etc.
And caring for these high quality cloths also. I have jersey knits (t shirts) that I've had for years, they never see a dryer and are washed in cold water (dark wash detergent if they are dark) on "hand wash" cycle, and lay to dry. I never put anything in the dryer but sheets and towels. A good book on clothing care pays for itself. For example, how to know if you can hand wash, as dry cleaning wears out clothing. Although there are some things naturally that need to be dry cleaned.
@dizit. If you take care of the items you love and they last forever ❤️. I am not trying to save money, but this is the quality of clothings.. The style does not change too much for our age.
To me, IMO, an elegant women does not flaunt any tatoos. Hey, you do you and all, but some women are so tatted up, it's hard to know what to look at. Gaudy and cheap can be the result.
I won’t say what part of the U.S. we moved to two years ago. The eyelashes and nails are out of control here. I could hardly believe it at first! You have given good advice!!
This is one of the best videos I've seen in a long time! Young women need this knowledge. Knowing how to present oneself shows a well rounded individual. Maybe you've already made a video on "Dress for the Occasion", it would be another good video to make. There are too many people wearing the wrong clothes at the wrong place, I mean: party, barbecue, exercise and beach outfits aren't suitable for school, work nor church ( As for school, unless you're in the gym exercising). I must say, I love perfume and I appreciate a pleasant scent when someone walked passed me. I'm always careful not to wear too much of it though. I am not sure how much perfume is too much but I do my best not to disturb anyone. Perfume to me is the final touch of a well groomed individual.
I think older women need this knowledge also. However, I don't think it will go over well. I hear: "I want to be comfortable." as an excuse for wearing nonsense to every function.
IF anything is in excess, it is distracting, too baggy, too tight, too long, too... using the beautiful Princess of Wales is the perfect example of elegance, sophistication and poise.
Hair extensions, wigs, mini skirts cleavages, thigh high boots the list is endless. Too dark, black, 10:16 blonde red hair. Everything that's over powering your natural beauty.
Tight leggings and crop tops on obese people -even many older people (I am one) are ugly. It's not PC to mention it though. You can wear a long shirt or tunic or dress over them though.
The tears just look like they cheapen the jean. And it’s amazing how expensive shredded jeans will set you back $. What’s worse is seeing women wear torn jeans in high heels that bend at the ankle, obviously not easy to walk in.
Yes. I stopped wearing perfume decades ago; all of the scents are too strong. My last favorite was a light one by Coty: Muguet des Bois (lily of the valley in French). No longer made, alas. Perfume is such an expensive waste of money! Why not simply smell clean?
Kate Middleton has an unlimited budget. No budget. Yes, she is glamours. You are right: superior quality pieces can SOMETIMES be found at Marshalls and T. J. Maxx but not always. Kate has a dozen coats for every occasion. Same for designer dresses etc. Let's go back and talk about us peasants. I adopted this look over the years depending on my income during each time. Never was a follower of fads. Most are silly and invented by men who want women to always show more skin and reap in money no matter how silly or uncomfortable women are wearing their creations.
Catherine shops at high street stores in American terms she wears UK brands & that are affordable & her outfits are rewears . The Princess of Wales is one classy lady
No, have good taste, refine yourself and hold yourself up to show dignity and respect for yourself. Life will have more opportunities for you. We are humans not animals, we have brains to make wise choices. Respect the space of others. Perhaps because you’re almost at the end you feel this way. Yes, you should care about making others feel uncomfortable. It shows caring and not being egocentric.
sandyno~ I stopped watching about a third of the way through. I did not expect to see any comment like yours. Thank you for surprising me. I have my style: what I want when I want in my ever-ongoing search for comfort. No worries detractors: just like you… there are loads of people out there trashing you, your body, your clothes, your make-up.
These are all tips my mother taught me. I am not as classy as she was but I follow her rules for ladies. My biggest faux pas? Capris and clogs at home because I have neuropathy in my feet and they are comfortable. When I go out I change my pants and shoes. About perfume. My mom’s tip was that if you could smell it without bringing your wrist up to your nose you had too much on.
Jersey was the first choice of Coco Chanel when she started her business and her dresses were beautiful. An elegant woman could wear everything because authentic elegance is much more than clothing it's behaviour and natural style.
Dude, the princess is on the world stage dealing with cancer, and you have the gual to criticize her figure and disposition. Shame on you. She epitomizes grace under pressure. Wow. She is a role model to millions of women. Are you?
I heard this lady praising the Princess for not overdoing but being elegant in her choices and being elegant with herself and her styles. What did you hear?
Helen Mirren is an inspiration! I agree that elegance has no age or size. I'll strive to use a wider range of models in the future. Thanks for the observation!
😊I live on a dirt road on a lake in the woods. I feel so free! I wear my good jeans and a nice top when I go into town. I have an appropriate dark outfit for funerals. I don't havefake nails because my husband says he dosent want to go to bed with someone who wears weapons on the end of her fingers. It would be hard to maintain them when I plant vegetables. I feel bad for women who feel they have to wear fake eyelashs, high heels and coats of makeup. Focus on how you trat people and try to smile and be sincere.😊
I live in a heavily wooded small town near a resort lake. I learned quickly that "dressing up" meant wearing your new dark-wash jeans over black boots, a white silk blouse, and gold jewelry or a colorful silk scarf. All very natural & long-lasting.
Well, a classic pair of Rainbow flops are great in the summer for super casual, walking the dog in the rain etc; That is a high quality shoe, a classic flip flop and not the thin rubber throw away kind. Check it out...
Cotton's Linens silks wool, all of these are good fabrics and they're breathable. Roll a thumb cotton and linen for Summers wool and silks for Winters. Other Fabrics like polyester and they don't breathe they'll make you hotter than you should be
Great tips! I totally agree, natural fabrics like cotton, linen, wool, and silk are excellent choices for each season. Avoiding polyester is always a good idea.
You really should address people by correct title especially if doing a basic video on elegance. “ Kate the Duchess of Cambridge ??? She’s Catherine the Princess of Wales 🙄. I clicked on this thinking it would be enlightening. It’s totally simplistic view of what so many of us do already!
Thank you for your comment and I apologize for the mistake. I will pay more attention to details and titles in the future. Thanks for the constructive feedback!
@@LucrativeEleganceshe is the Princess of Wales. Catherine the Princess of Wales would be her designation if she were divorced. Were she widowed and Prince George married, she would be the Dowager Princess of Wales.
And while I understand it’s cooler, more comfortable, there are some elegant occasions we attend in a dress without stockings. I’m 65, so in my work years, school years, I wore nice hosiery. The bare leg look, at say a formal wedding, just doesn’t work well. Yes, we’re all free to choose our wardrobe. However, since you’re going to event anyway, dress comfortably stylish. Many brands of hosiery are more comfortable these days. And hosiery can be the finishing touch to a beautiful, polished formal attire
Yes! And if you are a savvy shopper, you can find them at thrift or resale shops. I have a favorite Ellen Tracey dress made out of Pima cotton. It has pockets. I absolutely love it, and wear it around the house. Paid $8. You just have the patience to do a lot of looking, and you can find treasures. I also found a beautiful wool shawl, made in South America, that retails for $165, for less than $10. But keep in mind: don't stuff your closet with too much!
I think, if a woman really elegant inside she knows intuitively what to wear and how to use all the stuff to make herself more attractive. It could not be learned, it’s like talent you are born with.
Ummm, people do learn. Often it is from a woman she admires, or what she sees and thinks about. Everyone can learn, many people want to learn, the willingness to change or improve is what one is born with.
@@julie8521Must agree. Helen Mirren stays true to herself but she has a flashy side. We need to allow for some personal creativity. The best fashion accessory will always include a personal touch. And kindness.
I was a teenager when I got my tattoos. They are now a part of me. But those eyelashes, nails, strong perfumes, and gas station clothes don’t have to be!
Helen dresses for her age & figure-obviously you are unaware of her younger year fashions! Still appropriate but hardly elegant, sophisticated. Diana Ross has always been ultra elegant and refined. She had the eyelashes/nails. I think cultural differences are being discounted.
I understand your point. Fashion is subjective and cultural. Helen Mirren and Diana Ross are elegance icons in different ways. Thank you for bringing these perspectives.
@@LucrativeElegance thanks for reading my post & leaving a reply. You are exactly right- we all have our images of what an elegant person looks like!❤️
Another note about nails: I was so happy to see that a recent attendee at the Met Gala wore her nails ‘Sugar Donut’ style which I have been doing for 20 years. Boring! you say? Check it out: 1 coat only of OPI Kyoto Pearl & top coat on almond shaped nails. Goes with absolutely everything. Inspired by Sue Yun Lee, one of the Landscape Architects who designed FDR Park in DC. Thank you, M’am! every day for the hundreds of compliments received over the years. Classic to the core.
@@m.theresa1385 Depends on how you use your hands, I guess. I garden without gloves and my nails still look good until the next time. My nails don’t run my life. I can’t pick up a dime with gel. It’s too thick and therefore a deal breaker.
Hii there.I love your channel ❤. I have one suggestion -Please add chapters in your videos. It will make video more appealing and will attract more audience.
No nail painting - can't stand it. But keep it clean and good cleaning and trimming, filing are necessary. Yellow nails is a no no. No tattoo Agree that perfume should be fresh and light I can't follow fad, but follow my body shade, skin tone and personality ...age appropriate too. Thanks for the advice
I'm glad you liked the advice! Keeping nails clean and well-groomed is essential. Following your skin tone, body, and personality is key to authentic elegance.
Regardless on what people will say about tattoos they look bad period. We might like them but it doesn’t mean is classy or elegant. Memories of love ones or things go on my cellphone pictures, my wall house and in our hearts 💕 just no people. YOU JUST DON'T PUT A STICKER ON A LAMBORGHINI, BENTLEY OR FERRARI just no nonooooooooooooo
sorry, but jersey is one of the favorite fabrics of Coco Chanel. She made an entire empire on jersey dress, shirt, skirt and so on in the early 1900. The fact that it's well tailored is very important.. Of course precious fabrics like silk, linen, cashmere, cotton are on another level, but with the good tailor even the less precious fabrics could became a must.
Could not agree more. I take my quality t-shirts (which is Jersey doncha know) to the seamstress to have them shortened. She is amazed at how good some of mine she has seen look-that's because I wash in cold, hand wash cycle, and lay flat to dry.
An elegant woman never wears jeans especially ripped jeans! An elegant woman never tucks half of her shirt in! An elegant woman never does things that draws attention to her! All she has to do is be!
This video gets my spidy senses going! Why put every woman in a box? Are we Stepford wives? Women should be free to express themselves in what they decide to wear.
It says IF you want to be elegant, not we insist that you be elegant. By all means, dress like a tasteless doxy, but do be aware that, like it or not, people will question your judgement and it might cost you opportunities.
@@deborahlester4018 who is talking about dressing like a tasteless doxy? I myself, am a very elegant woman who is known for dressing tastefully and elegantly but I’m not going to talk down to people who choose to dress differently… just the term “tasteless doxy” is hurtful and demeaning to others
I agree with your principals, but some of these things are just recent trends. Such as perfume. I haven't been in France for quite a while, but you could smell woman passing you down the block sometimes, (wonderful scents!) years ago and they were considered very elegant at the time. Also because I'm an artist, I need to speak up to colorful and artistic nails, which I wish I could grow! There is a balance between just being safe and/or artistic and elegant.
I enjoy your program very much; however, I think from now on I will skip reading all the rude and petty responses and comments below. I'll stick to what is actually informative and uplifting. thank you..
Though I agree with the list, what if some women don't want to look elegant all the time? Is the society telling us how to look now? Who are we to judge!
In my generation, I feel exasperated by so many women wearing long, gray hair. Ugh. It just looks so tiring, so aging. I loved wearing my hair long in youth. But in 60’s now, it would look awful. Yes, to each his or her own. I’m glad I have common sense to wear hair a sensible length now I’m a senior.
Ok i feel like im being watered down here i understand the message "not over doing " certain things BUT thats why giys chest on the classy elegant woman because tbey look cooky cut and the other female that brings something new to the look
Helen Mirren in that pink and mustard outfit shown is definitely not elegant. In the UK it would scream alarm bells of a bad dresser and in your face garish colour combination. Helen Mirren here is definitely someone not to take advice from.
I understand your opinion. Fashion is subjective and depends on cultural context. I will consider different styles and cultures to provide more comprehensive tips. Thanks for the feedback!
@@LucrativeElegance The "whist" is how they say "while" in Britain. So you do not need to be corrected, as you are writing for an international group, so "while" is A-OK !
REMEMBER “KATE MIDDLETON” HAS BEEN MARRIED FOR 13 YEARS. THEREFORE SHE SHOULD NOT BEEN CALLED KATE MIDDLETON ANY LONGER. AND KATE WAS HER NICKNAME. HER FULL NAME IS CATHERINE, NOT KATE. WHAT A LACK OF ELEGANCE IN YOUR PART!!! REALLY LOW CLASS TO CONTINUE CALLING HER KATE MIDDLETON!!! ADDITIONALLY, SHE HAS BEEN THE PRINCESS OF WALES SINCE SEPTEMBER 2022. YOU SHOULD SHOW RESPECT. THAT IS A SIGN OF ELEGANCE.
An elegant woman doesn’t scream. Screaming is a sign of a person out of control. An elegant woman always appears to be in control of herself. (Commenting in all caps is considered screaming)
@@m.theresa1385 Oh really!!! Perhaps if people would stop calling Catherine, Princess of Wales, Kate Middleton, I and others wouldn’t have to have to continually remind people of this. After all this time, it has gotten tiresome. And who are you to patronize me? I could reply to you that an elegant woman does not patronize as it is a very passive-aggressive way of expressing yourself.
Yeah, I wear only the smallest amount of eye makeup every couple of weeks, because I am allergic too. It's no fun to have a reaction around the eyes. Along those lines, go easy on new products around the eye too. Nothing too fancy, never needs to be expensive.
Not all women choose to be elegent...some prefer sexy, look at me load, impressive stylish etc. I must add that elegant clothes which, I myself love, can be quite expensive due to good quality materials and style and therefore making it difficult to afford for some.
Well, do the best you can and for sure take good care of the quality pieces you invest in. No dryers. Hand wash cycle cold water. Learn what you can hand wash instead of the dry cleaner (which can't be avoided sometimes, but not always)
It is beyond my understanding why women in, or near my age group now, wear long gray or white hair. It so ages a woman, and professionally I see them desperately trying to hold back the years with long hair that often-looks dreadful. G.E. M.Ed.
Some of these were fashionable back in the sixties when I was a young kid. I know because of my aunt. Years later I saw Adele- and I was appalled at her eyelashes and nails!!! So no no no!!!!
European women spend a lot IMO on each quality clothing piece. They have much less clothing than North American women, but clothing that wears well. 🇨🇦
EBook: "Be Elegant While Traveling: Global Etiquette for the Sophisticated Traveler" - lucrativeelegance.hotmart.host/ebook
Simply said: If the Kardashians do it, DON'T.
Right on! 👍👍👍👍👍👏
Oh God the Kardsdhisans are the opposite of elegant or classy ! Honestly bad comparison !
So true! 😂😂😂
Or Adele...
Best comment 😂
I have and wear clothing I’ve had for 30 years because I’ve always tended to buy classic styles and good quality things. I don’t have a lot of clothes, just good ones.
I really admire that! Classic and quality pieces are always a smart and timeless investment. Congratulations on your great taste!
The secret
You are not the only one. I have the same thing. I keep good clothing for 10 to 30 years. People say it looks like new to them and I just mixed and match to look a bit different and updated, also match with shoes or boots etc.
And caring for these high quality cloths also. I have jersey knits (t shirts) that I've had for years, they never see a dryer and are washed in cold water (dark wash detergent if they are dark) on "hand wash" cycle, and lay to dry. I never put anything in the dryer but sheets and towels. A good book on clothing care pays for itself. For example, how to know if you can hand wash, as dry cleaning wears out clothing. Although there are some things naturally that need to be dry cleaned.
@dizit. If you take care of the items you love and they last forever ❤️. I am not trying to save money, but this is the quality of clothings.. The style does not change too much for our age.
Tattoos look cheap always.
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I can assure you, they will also get worse with age.
Not if you don't know about them.
@@angelathomas4821we know about them. Always base and never elegant but they obviously don’t care
I don’t like tattoos on women that are highly visible. If you can wear a strapless dress and no one knows you have a tattoo, bueno, discreet, elegant.
Have class and dress and conduct yourself like a lady with dignity and self respect.
Perfect! Elegance is in our behavior and how we present ourselves to the world. Keep inspiring!
Ysy’
Yes!
A smile is the most important item you wear!!
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Yes.
Nothing beats the smile, always looks lovely,and costs nothing ❤
I agree with you! That's a greatest item an elegant woman have❤
To me, IMO, an elegant women does not flaunt any tatoos. Hey, you do you and all, but some women are so tatted up, it's hard to know what to look at. Gaudy and cheap can be the result.
Helen Mirren has a tat.
@@marydlutes1792 A tat - that doesn't take over what she is wearing.
I agree
Tattoos ruin wedding dresses
I won’t say what part of the U.S. we moved to two years ago. The eyelashes and nails are out of control here. I could hardly believe it at first! You have given good advice!!
Glad you liked the advice! Every place has its quirks, right? I hope you're adapting well and enjoying the best of it!
You must be in Texas😂
@@bezen9007 Yes, lol!!
That was my guess. lol
@@bezen9007 I was going to say Los Angeles
This is one of the best videos I've seen in a long time! Young women need this knowledge. Knowing how to present oneself shows a well rounded individual. Maybe you've already made a video on "Dress for the Occasion", it would be another good video to make. There are too many people wearing the wrong clothes at the wrong place, I mean: party, barbecue, exercise and beach outfits aren't suitable for school, work nor church ( As for school, unless you're in the gym exercising). I must say, I love perfume and I appreciate a pleasant scent when someone walked passed me. I'm always careful not to wear too much of it though. I am not sure how much perfume is too much but I do my best not to disturb anyone. Perfume to me is the final touch of a well groomed individual.
Thank you so much for the kind words! I'm glad you enjoyed the video! As for perfume, moderation is key! Kisses! :***
I think older women need this knowledge also. However, I don't think it will go over well. I hear: "I want to be comfortable." as an excuse for wearing nonsense to every function.
IF anything is in excess, it is distracting, too baggy, too tight, too long, too... using the beautiful Princess of Wales is the perfect example of elegance, sophistication and poise.
I'm 77 years old and have 'always adhered' to a modest, classic look❣️
That's wonderful! Modest and classic style never goes out of fashion. Keep shining! ❣️
Less is more when it comes to makeup and Jewelry and clothing
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Hair extensions, wigs, mini skirts cleavages, thigh high boots the list is endless. Too dark, black, 10:16 blonde red hair. Everything that's over powering your natural beauty.
Says who? Who decides what anyone else should wear? The cheek.
I must say, I agree with you completely. Finally, someone who is teaching refinement and discretion. 😊
OK except some ladies need wigs or hair pieces because of medical conditions
What's wrong with blonde red hair? I think you mean strawberry blonde. It looks great on some people.
Most of these enhancements can appear elegant and natural if applied that way. It's the "street style" extremes of these things that don't work.
Please add torn jeans! I can't believe that this fad has lasted this long.
Not to mention what one pays for fully torn slacks
Tight leggings and crop tops on obese people -even many older people (I am one) are ugly. It's not PC to mention it though. You can wear a long shirt or tunic or dress over them though.
The tears just look like they cheapen the jean. And it’s amazing how expensive shredded jeans will set you back $. What’s worse is seeing women wear torn jeans in high heels that bend at the ankle, obviously not easy to walk in.
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Me either! They really are awful!
As an asthmatic, I detest strong perfumes. It can trigger an allergic reaction.
Same for me. I LOATHE 'Angel' by Terry Mugler. When a woman has it on near me, I run!
Yes. I stopped wearing perfume decades ago; all of the scents are too strong. My last favorite was a light one by Coty: Muguet des Bois (lily of the valley in French). No longer made, alas. Perfume is such an expensive waste of money! Why not simply smell clean?
Kate Middleton has an unlimited budget. No budget. Yes, she is glamours. You are right: superior quality pieces can SOMETIMES be found at Marshalls and T. J. Maxx but not always. Kate has a dozen coats for every occasion. Same for designer dresses etc. Let's go back and talk about us peasants. I adopted this look over the years depending on my income during each time. Never was a follower of fads. Most are silly and invented by men who want women to always show more skin and reap in money no matter how silly or uncomfortable women are wearing their creations.
Very true
Catherine shops at high street stores in American terms she wears UK brands & that are affordable & her outfits are rewears . The Princess of Wales is one classy lady
Boycott Fashion designed by men ✅ Comfort and style is individual
Love these, and goes w/o saying that tats are a class killer!
Glad you liked it! As for tattoos, everyone has their own style. The important thing is to feel good about yourself. 😊
An elegant woman, dress with what suits her, what she can afford, has a classic and neat hairstyle and never drinks alcohol from the bottle. 😊
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I'm 78, just be yourself, wear what you want, be happy, who cares what others think. 🥰
How wonderful! True elegance lies in being happy and authentic. Loved your message!
No, have good taste, refine yourself and hold yourself up to show dignity and respect for yourself. Life will have more opportunities for you. We are humans not animals, we have brains to make wise choices. Respect the space of others. Perhaps because you’re almost at the end you feel this way. Yes, you should care about making others feel uncomfortable. It shows caring and not being egocentric.
Respect and cover your body.Whatever we do do it unto the Lord🎉
Sandy are you covered in tattoos?
sandyno~
I stopped watching about a third of the way through. I did not expect to see any comment like yours. Thank you for surprising me.
I have my style: what I want when I want in my ever-ongoing search for comfort.
No worries detractors: just like you… there are loads of people out there trashing you, your body, your clothes, your make-up.
These are all tips my mother taught me. I am not as classy as she was but I follow her rules for ladies. My biggest faux pas? Capris and clogs at home because I have neuropathy in my feet and they are comfortable. When I go out I change my pants and shoes. About perfume. My mom’s tip was that if you could smell it without bringing your wrist up to your nose you had too much on.
Jersey was the first choice of Coco Chanel when she started her business and her dresses were beautiful. An elegant woman could wear everything because authentic elegance is much more than clothing it's behaviour and natural style.
Dude, the princess is on the world stage dealing with cancer, and you have the gual to criticize her figure and disposition. Shame on you. She epitomizes grace under pressure. Wow. She is a role model to millions of women. Are you?
Sorry, this was meant as a reply to @leamaca
Speaking to @leamaca
I heard this lady praising the Princess for not overdoing but being elegant in her choices and being elegant with herself and her styles. What did you hear?
She didn’t speak unfavourably against Princess Kate, to the contrary she expressed her admiration for her poise and elegance. You are totally wrong.
Can't you hear properly, she actually praises her/ Kates wardrobe... read and digest before you comment, stupid person... listen again!!!!
I love the Helen Mirren look! But why have you used young size 4 models to present an elegant sophisticated - does not work!
Helen Mirren is an inspiration! I agree that elegance has no age or size. I'll strive to use a wider range of models in the future. Thanks for the observation!
From the comments, we definitely need an article on how elegant women behave.
That's Great! Thank you
for your sharing! ❤
😊I live on a dirt road on a lake in the woods. I feel so free! I wear my good jeans and a nice top when I go into town. I have an appropriate dark outfit for funerals. I don't havefake nails because my husband says he dosent want to go to bed with someone who wears weapons on the end of her fingers. It would be hard to maintain them when I plant vegetables. I feel bad for women who feel they have to wear fake eyelashs, high heels and coats of makeup. Focus on how you trat people and try to smile and be sincere.😊
I live in a heavily wooded small town near a resort lake. I learned quickly that "dressing up" meant wearing your new dark-wash jeans over black boots, a white silk blouse, and gold jewelry or a colorful silk scarf. All very natural & long-lasting.
Healthy living and kind thoughts make beauty. Those show on the outside.
I was taught simplicity is elegance and elegance is class.
Greetings dear ..... thanks for sharing.... very informative. God's continued blessings
Thank you for the kind words! I'm glad you enjoyed it. May God bless you as well!
Good advice. Not worrying about what you wear or the likes is no excuse for neglecting elegance... simple or formal.
Exactly! Elegance is about care and attention to detail, whether in simple or formal attire.
And the voice also makes a BIG difference!
Thank you for your elegant tips.
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FLIP FLOPS… NEVER!
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Well, a classic pair of Rainbow flops are great in the summer for super casual, walking the dog in the rain etc; That is a high quality shoe, a classic flip flop and not the thin rubber throw away kind. Check it out...
Obviously, you're not Hawaiian.
really outstanding content. =)
Thank you! 😘❤️
Excellent!
Thanks!❤
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I feel you! It's easy to get carried away. Just set a budget and stick to it, right
Lovely video...thank you❤
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Cotton's Linens silks wool, all of these are good fabrics and they're breathable. Roll a thumb cotton and linen for Summers wool and silks for Winters. Other Fabrics like polyester and they don't breathe they'll make you hotter than you should be
Great tips! I totally agree, natural fabrics like cotton, linen, wool, and silk are excellent choices for each season. Avoiding polyester is always a good idea.
You really should address people by correct title especially if doing a basic video on elegance. “ Kate the Duchess of Cambridge ??? She’s Catherine the Princess of Wales 🙄. I clicked on this thinking it would be enlightening. It’s totally simplistic view of what so many of us do already!
Thank you for your comment and I apologize for the mistake. I will pay more attention to details and titles in the future. Thanks for the constructive feedback!
@@LucrativeEleganceshe is the Princess of Wales. Catherine the Princess of Wales would be her designation if she were divorced. Were she widowed and Prince George married, she would be the Dowager Princess of Wales.
And while I understand it’s cooler, more comfortable, there are some elegant occasions we attend in a dress without stockings. I’m 65, so in my work years, school years, I wore nice hosiery. The bare leg look, at say a formal wedding, just doesn’t work well. Yes, we’re all free to choose our wardrobe. However, since you’re going to event anyway, dress comfortably stylish. Many brands of hosiery are more comfortable these days. And hosiery can be the finishing touch to a beautiful, polished formal attire
Kate is so beautiful ❤
high quality pieces
Yes! And if you are a savvy shopper, you can find them at thrift or resale shops. I have a favorite Ellen Tracey dress made out of Pima cotton. It has pockets. I absolutely love it, and wear it around the house. Paid $8. You just have the patience to do a lot of looking, and you can find treasures. I also found a beautiful wool shawl, made in South America, that retails for $165, for less than $10. But keep in mind: don't stuff your closet with too much!
Always adhered
I think, if a woman really elegant inside she knows intuitively what to wear and how to use all the stuff to make herself more attractive. It could not be learned, it’s like talent you are born with.
Inner elegance does reflect outwardly. Some have natural talent, but I believe it can also be learned with practice and self-awareness.
Ummm, people do learn. Often it is from a woman she admires, or what she sees and thinks about. Everyone can learn, many people want to learn, the willingness to change or improve is what one is born with.
Let’s understand that most of these women have personal stylists.
Absolutely, many celebrities have personal stylists to help with their choices. But I believe we can all learn to find our own elegant style.
You don't need a personal stylist to look presentable and tasteful, just common sense.
I am grateful when Helen Mirren wears any clothes...
Btw could she be any more airbrushed here?
Helen Mirren is an inspiration of elegance and style! I love how she chooses her outfits. 💖
The photo of her wearing that lime green and shocking pink mess of an outfit 😂😂😂
“She doesn’t do anything to draw attention to herself”
@@julie8521Must agree. Helen Mirren stays true to herself but she has a flashy side. We need to allow for some personal creativity. The best fashion accessory will always include a personal touch. And kindness.
@@julie8521 😂😂😂
Aaron Finch as the face of 4rabet just elevates everything his sports creds are just unmatched
I was a teenager when I got my tattoos. They are now a part of me. But those eyelashes, nails, strong perfumes, and gas station clothes don’t have to be!
Tattoos are a personal expression and part of your story. Choosing simplicity and elegance in other aspects can make all the difference!
Just won on 4RA today, bro. Feels great!
Aaron Finch at 4ra events adds a spark of reliability and quality, always a crowd-puller
And WHY on earth damage their NATURAL BEAUTY WITH TATTOOS ‼️ YUCK ‼️
I understand that tattoos aren't for everyone. Beauty lies in diversity and respecting individual choices.
@@LucrativeElegance Beauty does indeed lie in a respectful attitude and a grateful heart.
Helen dresses for her age & figure-obviously you are unaware of her younger year fashions!
Still appropriate but hardly elegant, sophisticated.
Diana Ross has always been ultra elegant and refined. She had the eyelashes/nails. I think cultural differences are being discounted.
I understand your point. Fashion is subjective and cultural. Helen Mirren and Diana Ross are elegance icons in different ways. Thank you for bringing these perspectives.
@@LucrativeElegance thanks for reading my post & leaving a reply.
You are exactly right- we all have our images of what an elegant person looks like!❤️
A note about nails: whether gel or conventional polish, nails grow. Gel doesn’t last longer.
Isn’t one more durable than the other?
Another note about nails: I was so happy to see that a recent attendee at the Met Gala wore her nails ‘Sugar Donut’ style which I have been doing for 20 years. Boring! you say? Check it out: 1 coat only of OPI Kyoto Pearl & top coat on almond shaped nails. Goes with absolutely everything. Inspired by Sue Yun Lee, one of the Landscape Architects who designed FDR Park in DC. Thank you, M’am! every day for the hundreds of compliments received over the years. Classic to the core.
@@m.theresa1385 Depends on how you use your hands, I guess. I garden without gloves and my nails still look good until the next time. My nails don’t run my life. I can’t pick up a dime with gel. It’s too thick and therefore a deal breaker.
Hii there.I love your channel ❤. I have one suggestion -Please add chapters in your videos. It will make video more appealing and will attract more audience.
Great suggestion! I'll start adding chapters to make navigation easier. Thank you so much for your support! 💖
No nail painting - can't stand it. But keep it clean and good cleaning and trimming, filing are necessary. Yellow nails is a no no.
No tattoo
Agree that perfume should be fresh and light
I can't follow fad, but follow my body shade, skin tone and personality ...age appropriate too.
Thanks for the advice
I'm glad you liked the advice! Keeping nails clean and well-groomed is essential. Following your skin tone, body, and personality is key to authentic elegance.
Regardless on what people will say about tattoos they look bad period. We might like them but it doesn’t mean is classy or elegant. Memories of love ones or things go on my cellphone pictures, my wall house and in our hearts 💕 just no people. YOU JUST DON'T PUT A STICKER ON A LAMBORGHINI, BENTLEY OR FERRARI just no nonooooooooooooo
sorry, but jersey is one of the favorite fabrics of Coco Chanel. She made an entire empire on jersey dress, shirt, skirt and so on in the early 1900. The fact that it's well tailored is very important.. Of course precious fabrics like silk, linen, cashmere, cotton are on another level, but with the good tailor even the less precious fabrics could became a must.
You're right! A good tailor can turn any fabric into an amazing piece. Thanks for the reminder! 😊
@@LucrativeElegance I'm happy you agree!! love your channel!💞
Could not agree more. I take my quality t-shirts (which is Jersey doncha know) to the seamstress to have them shortened. She is amazed at how good some of mine she has seen look-that's because I wash in cold, hand wash cycle, and lay flat to dry.
An elegant woman never wears jeans especially ripped jeans! An elegant woman never tucks half of her shirt in! An elegant woman never does things that draws attention to her! All she has to do is be!
There are dark washed jeans that are very nice with other clothes that are right with them
Elegant women don’t wag their fingers at people!
Aaron Finch with 4rabet makes every event feel more prestigious his track record speaks for itself
This video gets my spidy senses going! Why put every woman in a box? Are we Stepford wives? Women should be free to express themselves in what they decide to wear.
It says IF you want to be elegant, not we insist that you be elegant.
By all means, dress like a tasteless doxy, but do be aware that, like it or not, people will question your judgement and it might cost you opportunities.
@@deborahlester4018 who is talking about dressing like a tasteless doxy? I myself, am a very elegant woman who is known for dressing tastefully and elegantly but I’m not going to talk down to people who choose to dress differently… just the term “tasteless doxy” is hurtful and demeaning to others
Women ARE free to express themselves. You are also free to not watch the video.
I thought of Margot Honecker as a very elegant woman!
I agree with your principals, but some of these things are just recent trends. Such as perfume. I haven't been in France for quite a while, but you could smell woman passing you down the block sometimes, (wonderful scents!) years ago and they were considered very elegant at the time. Also because I'm an artist, I need to speak up to colorful and artistic nails, which I wish I could grow! There is a balance between just being safe and/or artistic and elegant.
My husband is allergic to perfume. He gets a really bad headache with strong perfunes are near.
I understand, try using lightly scented body lotions and soaps. They are less intense and can be a good alternative.
Parfume is killing me. Even the gentle ones in sopes. Discusting for me.
@@dealundquist4236 in the US is not too bad, but in Latin America, where my husband and I met, women use very strong perfume. It was terrible for him.
I enjoy your program very much; however, I think from now on I will skip reading all the rude and petty responses and comments below. I'll stick to what is actually informative and uplifting. thank you..
Though I agree with the list, what if some women don't want to look elegant all the time? Is the society telling us how to look now? Who are we to judge!
Every woman should dress how she feels best! Elegance is about authenticity, not imposition. ✨
Finch at 4rabet brings that extra flair his high achievements in sports are inspiring
In my generation, I feel exasperated by so many women wearing long, gray hair. Ugh. It just looks so tiring, so aging. I loved wearing my hair long in youth. But in 60’s now, it would look awful. Yes, to each his or her own. I’m
glad I have common sense to wear hair a sensible length now I’m a senior.
Agree!
Bro, 4RA is so cool! My brother told me about it.
How that we have come to a point that when artificial is better, is sad.. Everything in moderation.
Perfume - I used to spritz it once in the air and walk through it.
So great! I've done that for years! My mother showed me this. A spritz in the air, walk through it, and your room smells nice too.
My rule for elegance is use your indore voice, and that includes when you laugh. Yes, it is possible!!!!!
You never overexplain. You never ask viewers to "like and subscribe" before they have seen the video.
Good morning
I work at my local hospital
there are.patients who have issues.with breathing ( o2)
strong perfume is a no no!
Don’t wear “poverty pants”
Always choose clothes that convey elegance and confidence. Your clothing choice reflects who you are.
What are poverty pants?
@@jillshaw4392 I guess these are jeans with holes.
Events at 4rabet are always better when Finch is around he brings the crowd and the credibility
Ok i feel like im being watered down here i understand the message "not over doing " certain things BUT thats why giys chest on the classy elegant woman because tbey look cooky cut and the other female that brings something new to the look
I understand your point. Elegance can be expressed in many ways, and everyone brings their unique perspective. Thank you for the feedback!
Whaaaa? Reading, trying to understand this.
I wear what I feel "comfortable" ... I figure out that nobody put food on my table! I don't follow any fashion.
Hear, hear!
True elegance is not judgmental; it embraces the beauty in all people without imposing bias or restrictions…. Unlike this video.
I believe Jersey was the fabric that Coco Chanel used to begin her popularity in fashion !
Thank you but this video will fall on deaf ears especially in NYC
Thank you for the comment!
Helen Mirren in that pink and mustard outfit shown is definitely not elegant. In the UK it would scream alarm bells of a bad dresser and in your face garish colour combination. Helen Mirren here is definitely someone not to take advice from.
I understand your opinion. Fashion is subjective and depends on cultural context. I will consider different styles and cultures to provide more comprehensive tips. Thanks for the feedback!
The pressure on women as demonstrated by this nonsense is just awful.
I'm sorry you feel that way. My goal is to inspire and empower, never to pressure. Fashion should be a tool for expression, not oppression.
It's not nonsense for people to want to be at their best. It builds confidence, and who can't use a bit of that?
Shouldn't that read 'be elegant whilst travelling' the grammar needs to be correct!
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂get, a life,
Thank you for the observation! Thanks for letting me know!
"Whilst" is the word used in Britain. In America, it's "while" . "While I was visiting Britain, I learned that some folks say "whist."
@@LucrativeElegance The "whist" is how they say "while" in Britain. So you do not need to be corrected, as you are writing for an international group, so "while" is A-OK !
If you want to have dull life -follow these rules 😅 Be yourself and be happy 🙏
REMEMBER “KATE MIDDLETON” HAS BEEN MARRIED FOR 13 YEARS. THEREFORE SHE SHOULD NOT BEEN CALLED KATE MIDDLETON ANY LONGER. AND KATE WAS HER NICKNAME. HER FULL NAME IS CATHERINE, NOT KATE. WHAT A LACK OF ELEGANCE IN YOUR PART!!! REALLY LOW CLASS TO CONTINUE CALLING HER KATE MIDDLETON!!!
ADDITIONALLY, SHE HAS BEEN THE PRINCESS OF WALES SINCE SEPTEMBER 2022. YOU SHOULD SHOW RESPECT. THAT IS A SIGN OF ELEGANCE.
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An elegant woman doesn’t scream. Screaming is a sign of a person out of control. An elegant woman always appears to be in control of herself. (Commenting in all caps is considered screaming)
Stop screaming 😱 you!!!!!
@@m.theresa1385 Oh really!!!
Perhaps if people would stop calling Catherine, Princess of Wales, Kate Middleton, I and others wouldn’t have to have to continually remind people of this. After all this time, it has gotten tiresome.
And who are you to patronize me? I could reply to you that an elegant woman does not patronize as it is a very passive-aggressive way of expressing yourself.
@@leamaka2082 wow honey, how about some anger management? It is not your job to tell others how to be.
I'm allergic to mascara, even the anti allergy mascara makes my eyelids really itchy.
That's annoying! Have you tried water-based mascara or clear lash gel? It might help.
Yeah, I wear only the smallest amount of eye makeup every couple of weeks, because I am allergic too. It's no fun to have a reaction around the eyes. Along those lines, go easy on new products around the eye too. Nothing too fancy, never needs to be expensive.
Not all women choose to be elegent...some prefer sexy, look at me load, impressive stylish etc.
I must add that elegant clothes which, I myself love, can be quite expensive due to good quality materials and style and therefore making it difficult to afford for some.
You can dress elegantly at any price point
Well, do the best you can and for sure take good care of the quality pieces you invest in. No dryers. Hand wash cycle cold water. Learn what you can hand wash instead of the dry cleaner (which can't be avoided sometimes, but not always)
Please see my comment regarding this travesty of yours. When you become perfect, then feel free to criticise others.
Speaking to @leamaca
Well stated.
Well stated
It is beyond my understanding why women in, or near my age group now, wear long gray or white hair. It so ages a woman, and professionally I see them desperately trying to hold back the years with long hair that often-looks dreadful.
G.E. M.Ed.
long Nails can be looking good, it depend of the Type of a Lady, not in General they that look not good for a elegantly Lady.
I agree! The nail style should reflect each woman's personality and personal taste. Elegance is in confidence.
I'm tempted to give it a shot, but I don't want to get sucked into another betting site
An Elegant Woman First grooms her Hair.
Some of these were fashionable back in the sixties when I was a young kid. I know because of my aunt. Years later I saw Adele- and I was appalled at her eyelashes and nails!!! So no no no!!!!
Yay, I dont make any of the 4 mistakes!😅
Alright let's do it May the odds be ever in our favor
I'm more into the casino games they offer. The slots are pretty addictive
This is only am opinion
Elegant women don't tell other people what to do or what to wear.
European women spend a lot IMO on each quality clothing piece. They have much less clothing than North American women, but clothing that wears well. 🇨🇦
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