Fun topic. I couldn’t recommend it. Spouse used it against me tonight, and because of it, I’ve been celibate for 15 years. It was strictly sex. That was verbalized beforehand, and I really have no regrets, tbh. I fall in love easily. AuDHD was mostly to blame. I felt like a new person. It was liberating. I never used protection with my extramarital partners. I never stopped loving them.
Hmmm … I know at least two couple’s who are happy together … over 20 years for one and at least 5yrs for the other couple … I’m sure there are others who are witness to these dynamics as well
@@jodaisy113 This is a logical fallacy called proof by example. Where one example is supposed to prove your point. Doesn't work like that. I know a nice rich guy. Doesn't mean all rich guys are nice. Good luck
I know many relationships that started out as affairs and been together for 10 plus years but all of them cheat on each other they break up and start all over. Are they together yes are they happy I don't know but they cheat on each other all the time.
@@cheeks300zx how sad, though not every couple born from an affair continues to cheat … some who marry at the age of 20 are very different by the age of 40 … they grow up in marriage, changes take place … when couples fail to evolve together it can be detrimental … some just marry for all the wrong reasons to begin with due to family belief systems and ideologies they grew up with … the fact is people change
So good information. Thank you
Fun topic. I couldn’t recommend it. Spouse used it against me tonight, and because of it, I’ve been celibate for 15 years. It was strictly sex. That was verbalized beforehand, and I really have no regrets, tbh. I fall in love easily. AuDHD was mostly to blame. I felt like a new person. It was liberating. I never used protection with my extramarital partners. I never stopped loving them.
Why are you married?
Constant longing and constant craving is what drug addicts also feel.
Success rate of affairs turning in to long lasting marriage is less than ~2%. You'd have better odds playing blackjack.
Hmmm … I know at least two couple’s who are happy together … over 20 years for one and at least 5yrs for the other couple … I’m sure there are others who are witness to these dynamics as well
@@jodaisy113 This is a logical fallacy called proof by example. Where one example is supposed to prove your point. Doesn't work like that. I know a nice rich guy. Doesn't mean all rich guys are nice. Good luck
I know many relationships that started out as affairs and been together for 10 plus years but all of them cheat on each other they break up and start all over. Are they together yes are they happy I don't know but they cheat on each other all the time.
@@cheeks300zx Imagine what that looks like to kids.
@@cheeks300zx how sad, though not every couple born from an affair continues to cheat … some who marry at the age of 20 are very different by the age of 40 … they grow up in marriage, changes take place … when couples fail to evolve together it can be detrimental … some just marry for all the wrong reasons to begin with due to family belief systems and ideologies they grew up with … the fact is people change