Re: Marathon Mom - I didn't even notice the "ignoring the kids" part at first. When your commentary started, I had to go back and rewatch the video. And small kids will eventually have to learn their lesson about how you can't interrupt every situation or event.
That marathon mom video frustrated me sooooo much. even if they decided to meet somewhere near the finish line, freaking common sense will tell you to wait AFTER the finish line so that you dont distract the mom for the entirety of the race. And he saw that she was in first place, so i still dont understand why he still let the kids run to her. The kids also could have gotten in the way of other runners like what if they collided with the kids and that led to injuries/losing their position in the race??? Its either he's that freaking dumb and incosiderate, or he had more malicious intent to sabotage her chance of accomplishing something important without directly getting his hands dirty.
As someone who sometimes lack situation awareness and common sense, this all seems like it was a mistake really. This would just be even more stupid otherwise
Even if she agreed to it, that makes them both incredibly stupid. The very first rule of running is non runners STAY OFF THE TRACK. Those kids could literally have died and no I'm not over exaggerating or being dramatic. All it takes is a foot to the throat and they'd have been gone. The internet shaming these two is the best worst outcome that could have happened. Because worst case, their children could have died. I hope this brought up more conversations about safety and people took it to heart. Because how stupid of a way for your kid to die.
She probably didn’t. She’s just trying to save face and save their family reputation. She knows he did wrong. She did right in the moment that she didn’t hug the kids and instead prioritised her race. sounds a lot like now she has to stay with him for the kids because living costs are high every where. But he def sabotaged her. She knows him but can’t say it in public. Cos else then she will have to go through a divorce (costly)
I always do little "tests" when I meet a guy. I test to see if he has empathy if I'm in pain. if he's not homophobic or hates feminine things. I test if he has a positive reaction to my successes or if he feels the need to "lower" them somehow. I test If asked or when necessary does he do the dishes and whether or not weaponized incompetence happens and yet even with all these "tests" many men fake it until they make it to get you then stop doing the bare minimum. I choose the bear. He's not trying to fool me.
Yes. Some men inherently know when they have you hooked or vulnerable and will keep the mask on until that point. After that, their true self comes out. Sometimes it can be very hard to tell who is authentic and who is masking their true behavior.
I’m so happy that you had the same mentality as me when it came to the marathon mom situation. ITS A COMPETITION! She’s not a bad mom or a bad person for focusing on winning. She will see he children after the marathon and not to mention sees her children everyday!
You explained that Man vs Bear perfectly. It's not all men as I've said out here irl that you never know what kind of man you'll come across therefore bear would be the better option. My husband is an amazing man who would give his shirt off his back for anyone but he looks intimidating so there would be a natural hesitation from women because again you never know.
Exactly. And one thing I kept seeing was "you're assuming the worst case scenario with a man" well yeah and you've assumed the worst case scenario with a bear . 🤣 And as we established, bears are more predictable than men 🤷🏽♀️
A lot of men openly say they will not protect any woman other than their close family members or their future wife. When asked why, they say its dangerous to step in. They h8 to admit that many men are dangerous, but they end up admitting it involuntarily at some point.
I hate when the only counter argument is “not all”. How many is a too many? Do we really need to wait until it’s 95% of a population for an issue to be addressed?
the whole idea with choosing the bear is that bear behavior is predictable, consistent and act the same wherever they are whereas a man can range from anywhere from an innocent shy boy to a serial killer
So if these women know that the bear will always respond with violence, why choose the bear? Choosing the bear is equalvilent to choosing expiration. Women interact annually with thousands of random men without suffering from violence. It is completely irrational to choose a violent beast with no capacity for morality.
@bgos4727 there are men out there that are mentally unstable. You can wear the sluttiest, sexiest most whorish outfit and you will be fine for the most part until that one time a mentally unstable dude sees you. There are mentally unstable women as well out there. They assault dudes differently because of physical differences. Most men never come forward with their stories of being sexual assaulted because they are afraid of being laughed at and ridiculed. A few years ago, there was a story about a Russian fitness influencer who got pregnant and married her step son she had known since he was 7. Both sexes has mentally unstable people. If every man was replaced by a bear, there would be no women left in the world. Everyone would be dead.
It's not that her children were running for her for a hug. It's that her husband set them up and told them to interrupt her crowning moment using them as pawns to test her and control her. Saying you are a mom and my wife, you are a servant, you do not get to win and triumph in other aspects of your life and in your hobbies. You belong to me.
That is a very wierd way to view it, when you know nothing about the couple. Most people don't do mistakes out of malice, but because they are mistakes. The husband absolutely could have just seen his wife and gave the go to their kids, as they had planned to, not having time to notice the other runner that was right behind. This all seems like the internet made a huge deal out of a few seconds of a video again really
The problem is many women saw the outcome as @musettedybala9557 described it. Which means the clip showcased a larger issue among household dynamics, regardless of the original couples situation.
@@superior_cream_puff7798 that’s honestly a ridiculous excuse. It doesn’t matter if he saw someone else or not there’s no reason for the father and children to be on that side of the finish line and stop the wife from winning other than there being malicious intent. They could have been on the other side of the finish line and hugged her as soon as she won, if he cared about her victories or her personal accomplishments, that would have been the obvious answer.
Real quick, the Dad couldn’t see the person running right behind her?? 👀 I get that there was a plan, and that he and the girls might’ve been excited for it, but he’s the adult and should have been able to make the call that this was not the time.
Imagine a man, a father, running as the first towards the finish line in a competition and the mother puts his kids in front of him 20 meters in front of the finish line. I kinda doubt this ever happened. But of course, she's defending him. What else is she supposed to do...
Well, u can check it out later, a man who's a runner was also close to the finish line n his young daughter popped out of the crowd to go meet her dad,about 50m from the finished line, do u know what the Father did? As the girl run towards her father, He grabbed her little hand n they both run side by side towards the finished line. If I'm not wrong the father took first place..
Even if the question is changed to a bear in the woods chasing me or a man chasing me it’s still the bear. The worst the bear will do is kill me and still kill me more efficiently.
I appreciate the way you explained the man vs bear debate. It's about the risk and taking the chance to get hurt by a man and live for rest of your life with that trauma vs the predictable actions of a bear that has no real malice. I don't think it's the best comparison, but the point still stands
Well it was a silly idea on the parents behalf to have small children “finish the race with her”. I think it’s sad that this tiny moment was amplified and dissected. Or that either parent would need to be dragged over that. Sometimes expectations don’t meet reality when you’re a parent of small children. No biggie.
You know, I hadn't heard of the marathon mom and just googled it. It's strange to me that she had to take to social media and defend herself AND her husband. Where was he? I couldn't find anything from him and don't understand why wasn't he on social media owning his mistake and defending her. Why wasn't he out there saying 'yeah, I screwed up, made a poor decision, my bad, but leave my wife alone?' If he had stood up for her, I think a lot of people would have backed down...and isn't that what a good guy is supposed to do, stand up for his partner? To me, the fact that he left her out there, to deal with it all on her own, says more than anything...
I feel really bad for this woman because she's been caught in a viral storm. Her and her husband planned the finish line thing. He probaably should have taken the context clue that she was winning and opted out, but like, I dont think she's mad at him? This is a situation that's a lot more nuanced than people have assumed is my point, and centering someone who doesn't want to be there for a discussion missing a few pieces about her life rather than celebrating her 1:40:00 half marathon is a mistake imo
I thought that was something he made up after the backlash and she's willing to go with it because she wants to stop the flood of public opinions. The girls looked like they were going for hugs, not running beside her to the finish line- and why not chase after mom if the goal was to run with her
@@purdyculliz It's possible, but I'd trust what they're saying over a stranger's opinion tbh. I think it's important to be cognizant of how this discussion is affecting her. Especially because it's opened up every ahole on the internet to criticize her running ability on top of her marriage when she should be gloating.
Honestly yeah, I agree. This seems like this all blew waaaaaay out of proportion thanks to the internet. If they said they planned this, and it didn't exactly go to their plan, then people should just leave it at that. There isn't any reason, with the video that was shown, to suspect anything more about this couple we know nothing about
The comparisons made in this video is different from what the question asks… the man in the bear debate is a stranger.. whereas in SA it’s with men they do know and have a history.. all bears will kill you, run faster, climb trees, swim faster, smell u 100 times better from further..
Re: Marathon Mom - I didn't even notice the "ignoring the kids" part at first. When your commentary started, I had to go back and rewatch the video. And small kids will eventually have to learn their lesson about how you can't interrupt every situation or event.
Just wait till after the finish line…
That marathon mom video frustrated me sooooo much. even if they decided to meet somewhere near the finish line, freaking common sense will tell you to wait AFTER the finish line so that you dont distract the mom for the entirety of the race. And he saw that she was in first place, so i still dont understand why he still let the kids run to her. The kids also could have gotten in the way of other runners like what if they collided with the kids and that led to injuries/losing their position in the race??? Its either he's that freaking dumb and incosiderate, or he had more malicious intent to sabotage her chance of accomplishing something important without directly getting his hands dirty.
As someone who sometimes lack situation awareness and common sense, this all seems like it was a mistake really. This would just be even more stupid otherwise
I know right??? The dad's dumb.
YESSSS!!!!
@@superior_cream_puff7798 You are definitely a male or a male-centeted woman. Anything to make an excuse for indecency of males.
Even if she agreed to it, that makes them both incredibly stupid. The very first rule of running is non runners STAY OFF THE TRACK. Those kids could literally have died and no I'm not over exaggerating or being dramatic. All it takes is a foot to the throat and they'd have been gone. The internet shaming these two is the best worst outcome that could have happened. Because worst case, their children could have died. I hope this brought up more conversations about safety and people took it to heart. Because how stupid of a way for your kid to die.
She probably didn’t. She’s just trying to save face and save their family reputation. She knows he did wrong. She did right in the moment that she didn’t hug the kids and instead prioritised her race. sounds a lot like now she has to stay with him for the kids because living costs are high every where. But he def sabotaged her. She knows him but can’t say it in public. Cos else then she will have to go through a divorce (costly)
The interrogator : "Slapping Anna"
Him : "I would never do that in public. I mean, I mean I-I-I would never do that"
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The mask slipped
I always do little "tests" when I meet a guy. I test to see if he has empathy if I'm in pain. if he's not homophobic or hates feminine things. I test if he has a positive reaction to my successes or if he feels the need to "lower" them somehow. I test If asked or when necessary does he do the dishes and whether or not weaponized incompetence happens and yet even with all these "tests" many men fake it until they make it to get you then stop doing the bare minimum. I choose the bear. He's not trying to fool me.
Yes. Some men inherently know when they have you hooked or vulnerable and will keep the mask on until that point. After that, their true self comes out. Sometimes it can be very hard to tell who is authentic and who is masking their true behavior.
that is interesting. i simply trust, but verify, and treat people like human beings.
Just tell them you’re insecure
imagine taking someone's life just because she "didn't want to communicate"??????? is this man dumb???
Total psycho.
Not every man is like that to women, but somehow it's always a man
You also dont have to be an explicit malicious threat to be terrible company making everything worse.
I’m so happy that you had the same mentality as me when it came to the marathon mom situation. ITS A COMPETITION! She’s not a bad mom or a bad person for focusing on winning. She will see he children after the marathon and not to mention sees her children everyday!
You explained that Man vs Bear perfectly. It's not all men as I've said out here irl that you never know what kind of man you'll come across therefore bear would be the better option. My husband is an amazing man who would give his shirt off his back for anyone but he looks intimidating so there would be a natural hesitation from women because again you never know.
Exactly. And one thing I kept seeing was "you're assuming the worst case scenario with a man" well yeah and you've assumed the worst case scenario with a bear . 🤣 And as we established, bears are more predictable than men 🤷🏽♀️
A lot of men openly say they will not protect any woman other than their close family members or their future wife. When asked why, they say its dangerous to step in. They h8 to admit that many men are dangerous, but they end up admitting it involuntarily at some point.
Lmao right? As a man, you have to be careful because can kick your ass, or even worse. So what do you think that same man would do to a woman?
@@bluebutterfly5062 Exactly!
That husband was a visual example of "behind every unsuccessful women, there's a man behind it" 🤭💀
Trying to ruin it
I hate when the only counter argument is “not all”. How many is a too many? Do we really need to wait until it’s 95% of a population for an issue to be addressed?
Right?? "Not all" could mean there's one single man that is decent. Just one.
@@ElizabethGeiger-ye1sf just tell us you have unresolved issues.
@@PunkShockRockDon't project, love.
the whole idea with choosing the bear is that bear behavior is predictable, consistent and act the same wherever they are whereas a man can range from anywhere from an innocent shy boy to a serial killer
This! 💯% this! 🤓💕🐻
So if these women know that the bear will always respond with violence, why choose the bear? Choosing the bear is equalvilent to choosing expiration.
Women interact annually with thousands of random men without suffering from violence. It is completely irrational to choose a violent beast with no capacity for morality.
If a woman was attacked by a bear, no one would say she was asking for it.
Or maybe they would, especially if she was going near a Mama Bear and her cubs.
@@jakestakeonautism9005they wouldn't ask what she was wearing 🤦🏽♀️
@@bgos4727
What if she was wearing a honeysuit
As a man I don’t blame women for choosing the bear, I know how men think.
@bgos4727 there are men out there that are mentally unstable. You can wear the sluttiest, sexiest most whorish outfit and you will be fine for the most part until that one time a mentally unstable dude sees you.
There are mentally unstable women as well out there. They assault dudes differently because of physical differences. Most men never come forward with their stories of being sexual assaulted because they are afraid of being laughed at and ridiculed.
A few years ago, there was a story about a Russian fitness influencer who got pregnant and married her step son she had known since he was 7. Both sexes has mentally unstable people.
If every man was replaced by a bear, there would be no women left in the world. Everyone would be dead.
"People are more into breaking down the person in front of them instead of getting to know them" - DAMN GIRL! On the spot!
It's not that her children were running for her for a hug. It's that her husband set them up and told them to interrupt her crowning moment using them as pawns to test her and control her. Saying you are a mom and my wife, you are a servant, you do not get to win and triumph in other aspects of your life and in your hobbies. You belong to me.
That is a very wierd way to view it, when you know nothing about the couple. Most people don't do mistakes out of malice, but because they are mistakes. The husband absolutely could have just seen his wife and gave the go to their kids, as they had planned to, not having time to notice the other runner that was right behind.
This all seems like the internet made a huge deal out of a few seconds of a video again really
The problem is many women saw the outcome as @musettedybala9557 described it. Which means the clip showcased a larger issue among household dynamics, regardless of the original couples situation.
@@superior_cream_puff7798 that’s honestly a ridiculous excuse. It doesn’t matter if he saw someone else or not there’s no reason for the father and children to be on that side of the finish line and stop the wife from winning other than there being malicious intent. They could have been on the other side of the finish line and hugged her as soon as she won, if he cared about her victories or her personal accomplishments, that would have been the obvious answer.
@@musettedybala9557 you made up a whole story about what this meant. that was some conspiracy theory level storytelling, wowzers
forgot your tinfoil@@musettedybala9557
Real quick, the Dad couldn’t see the person running right behind her?? 👀 I get that there was a plan, and that he and the girls might’ve been excited for it, but he’s the adult and should have been able to make the call that this was not the time.
I'm a super involved and loving mum. I would have done the same! You run and win, *then* you hug your kids!!!
10:53 the mask came off a few times but this stunned me more than anything. Rest in peace ana 🙏🏽😔
Imagine a man, a father, running as the first towards the finish line in a competition and the mother puts his kids in front of him 20 meters in front of the finish line. I kinda doubt this ever happened. But of course, she's defending him. What else is she supposed to do...
Well, u can check it out later, a man who's a runner was also close to the finish line n his young daughter popped out of the crowd to go meet her dad,about 50m from the finished line, do u know what the Father did? As the girl run towards her father, He grabbed her little hand n they both run side by side towards the finished line. If I'm not wrong the father took first place..
@@armywithbanners2458 If he still made first, then he probably had a large enough distance to the competitors behind him... 🤷
The way media publish about murder of Anna was so condescending. Toxic people started glorifying by saying Anna deserved it.
If I was a women and I have to pick between men or bear I'm going with the bear
how about a bear vs a BLACK man?
Even if the question is changed to a bear in the woods chasing me or a man chasing me it’s still the bear. The worst the bear will do is kill me and still kill me more efficiently.
I appreciate the way you explained the man vs bear debate. It's about the risk and taking the chance to get hurt by a man and live for rest of your life with that trauma vs the predictable actions of a bear that has no real malice.
I don't think it's the best comparison, but the point still stands
Not all men? Yeah not all bears either
Saying not all men proves it is all men so it’s best not to say it! Otherwise, it is all men because it’s a self defense mechanism!
Exactly it was dangerous
And behind them, there was a bike too
What if the mother and both her children get injured
Father hates his kids and his wife
Bear>>>>
Well it was a silly idea on the parents behalf to have small children “finish the race with her”. I think it’s sad that this tiny moment was amplified and dissected. Or that either parent would need to be dragged over that. Sometimes expectations don’t meet reality when you’re a parent of small children. No biggie.
You know, I hadn't heard of the marathon mom and just googled it. It's strange to me that she had to take to social media and defend herself AND her husband. Where was he? I couldn't find anything from him and don't understand why wasn't he on social media owning his mistake and defending her. Why wasn't he out there saying 'yeah, I screwed up, made a poor decision, my bad, but leave my wife alone?' If he had stood up for her, I think a lot of people would have backed down...and isn't that what a good guy is supposed to do, stand up for his partner? To me, the fact that he left her out there, to deal with it all on her own, says more than anything...
Ooooh, good point!
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pls never stop these videos!! they are so entertaining 🎀🫶🩷
I feel really bad for this woman because she's been caught in a viral storm. Her and her husband planned the finish line thing. He probaably should have taken the context clue that she was winning and opted out, but like, I dont think she's mad at him? This is a situation that's a lot more nuanced than people have assumed is my point, and centering someone who doesn't want to be there for a discussion missing a few pieces about her life rather than celebrating her 1:40:00 half marathon is a mistake imo
I thought that was something he made up after the backlash and she's willing to go with it because she wants to stop the flood of public opinions. The girls looked like they were going for hugs, not running beside her to the finish line- and why not chase after mom if the goal was to run with her
@@purdyculliz It's possible, but I'd trust what they're saying over a stranger's opinion tbh. I think it's important to be cognizant of how this discussion is affecting her. Especially because it's opened up every ahole on the internet to criticize her running ability on top of her marriage when she should be gloating.
Honestly yeah, I agree. This seems like this all blew waaaaaay out of proportion thanks to the internet.
If they said they planned this, and it didn't exactly go to their plan, then people should just leave it at that.
There isn't any reason, with the video that was shown, to suspect anything more about this couple we know nothing about
I agree, but honestly, it was a dumb idea and i do believe the backlash is waranted to a certain extent
Love the videos
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The comparisons made in this video is different from what the question asks… the man in the bear debate is a stranger.. whereas in SA it’s with men they do know and have a history.. all bears will kill you, run faster, climb trees, swim faster, smell u 100 times better from further..
you're spot on people need to get out and touch some grass amazing video as usual 🩷
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