thats cause intps choice of words rarely relates to what theyre actually trying to convey LOL we are quite literal beings, if you tell me the sky is blue, im gonna hear the sky is blue, not whatever deeper meaning you expect me to conclude out of your own statement. Regardless, i love intps
@@halimaalidrissi568 unless the topic is abstract in nature, we usually do mean what we say. Remove all connotations and focus on literal definitions of words we use.
I love the labels on each of the types, showing how INFJs automatically assign deeper meanings to everyone. Also, that Doorslam was incredibly accurate! 😂
I hate the concept of the 'INFJ doorslam'. I'm not trying to claim it's inaccurate, but the more you portray it in a stereotype, the more each self-identifying INFJ will conform to it because people feel a need to live up to the identity that people give them. In other words, the more you portray a stereotype, the more encouraged people are to imitate it. And with the INFJ doorslam, this is an extremely dangerous thing to be encouraging. It puts strain on relationships, causes unfair cutting off of relationships, and leaves a lot of people feeling hurt, rejected and pushed away. Nobody should want to do that to a person, no matter how boring, annoying, obnoxious or offensive they are.
@@josiahtaylor7967 agree with you 💯 it's just that before I even knew about MBTI and that I am an INFJ, the doorslam is already existing in my life like I literally did that before with people but I'm trying to open up my mind and heart now to a lot more things, as long as it does not compromise my beliefs and principles 😃
@@josiahtaylor7967 i dont think that's how it works. people don't research 16 personalities to try to emulate them perfectly. they find mbti and then see which types they their behaviour and motivations in. that said, i think the doorslam in the INFJ sketch was a bit exaggerated though, it's possible we might avoid other INFJs. but we don't doorslam them. i like some other INFJs, i just can't connect with them as much as more extroverted or unrestricted types because we're both reserved.
@@jsnldn It's not how MBTI works in itself, and yes, you're right, people find the traits that match them, but it's a known psychological phenomenon that once someone is given an identity, they'll try to live up to it, whether that's consciously or not. So, if someone relates to the traits of an INFJ, and so then starts identifying as an INFJ, then later sees the stereotypes, they'll likely try to live up to the stereotypes. Because of this, it's not good to portray harmful stereotypes such as the INFJ doorslam, the ESTJ aggressiveness, the ENFJ manipulation, the ESTP irresponsibility, etc. People of those types know that's what's expected of them and so they do those things despite it being harmful to themselves and/or others. In cases where these negative traits were present before a person knew it was a stereotype, they should use the knowledge of it to work on these traits and reduce the harm they're causing, but sadly, with the way these stereotypes are used for entertainment purposes, they're instead encouraged to embrace them, which leaves quite a negative impact on them and the people around them.
@Josiah Taylor what? I loved finding it out and had already doorslammed the majority of my toxic family members, toxic coworkers and prior crappy jobs. I could point my critics to this as just something in my nature and not due to being impulsive. INFJS while being aware of mob mentality are also highly critical of it.
Do I think everyone has a deeper reason for their actions? Yes Do I jump to conclusions that are far from the truth, even though I’d never admit it? Yes Am I scared to talk about my feelings and would rather overanalyze everyone else’s problems? Yes So in short, good job. (INFJ here) PS. The door slam is so accurate. I tend to cut people off from my life but it's usually because I don't see them as often anymore and don't want to make the first move because I don't want to be a bother...
I like how the type’s images themselves are transparent but the rest isn’t. Like the backgrounds, numbers and papers are the meanings that the INFJ assigns to each person (INTP is bookshelves bc INFJ sees their conversations as interesting and full of knowledge, etc). Some that caught my eye: - ESTJ, ENTJ and ESTP (maybe also ENFP, couldn’t tell): they have very simple backgrounds, an all black/white screen (my theory is that white = “not worth the effort and discomfort” and black = “I can fix them”), with some image thrown in there, which shows that the INFJ can often boil people down to these simple things and judge too quickly. They also seem to not be transparent? It’s hard to tell bc the background is so simple, but that adds to the charm, because the INFJ watered them down so much that they can’t even see anymore that they’re not seeing through them - ISTJ: all that I said above applies to the first part, but then the INFJ comes up with an interpretation that sounds ridiculous and made up. It makes the ISTJ interesting to them (thus the complicated background), but isn’t true and ignores who the ISTJ really is (that’s why they’re not transparent) - ENFJ: the background is calm and pleasing. When the INFJ disagrees with them, first the number twitches, which shows the INFJ doubting their interpretation of them. Then the background starts to blur, showing that INFJ no longer knows who ENFJ is. Then it turns to grey = disappointment. But it’s all still blurry, because the INFJ didn’t “figure out” anything about ENFJ, they instead jumped right to disappointment as soon as ENFJ seemed to not be who they thought INFJ: the INFJ main character was so uncomfortable that they didn’t even start to try to figure the other INFJ out. That’s why the background is just the actual place they were in. There’s no meaning bc INFJ didn’t have time to assign one
0:15 This is so interesting. This INFJ likes to see chaos in someone's life as they interpret it as a symbol for courage. But they have inferior Se anyway and would prefer not to have any chaos in her surroundings. I often burst into laughter when I put together contradictions like this.
a dysfunctional INFJ may be attracted to a chaotic dysfunctional person because of the 'saviour' urge, but only a dysfunctional INFJ, and the same can be said for any dysfunctional type with a strong FE. A mature, "functional" INFJ will avoid chaos, "ain't no one got time [or extra energy] for that"
As an INTJ I can't help but think that at the same time the INFJ is reading this into the INTJ, the INTJ is just seeing the INFJ as portrayed in the "16 personalities through the eyes of the INTJ" video. Which was extremely accurate to me, of course.
Oh, I didn't consider that idea of an INTJ-INFJ relationship. I hope this is an individual situation and not a pattern. Cause then it is very sad if it is so. I don't know what other INFJs are thinking, but the way the communication with the INTJs in this video felt real to me. For INTJs I feel an extremely rare feeling of understanding and lack of boredom in communication, and even more rare feeling of "soul mate". I would like to believe that what you are talking about is not a pattern on a large scale. With INTJ, I have something that I will not find anywhere else, a unique communication “in my native language”.For me, INTJ is the only type of 16 personalities to whom I want to truly open up,(which is unprecedented) because there I have a feeling that INTJ really understand me quite well. 😌 But if it's a one-sided feeling of security and understanding...then it feels extremely sad for me.😿
@@UncooperativeCat Okay, I get it.😺Thank for sharing. It was interesting and valuable to know your point of view.☺ P.S. you have such a funny avatar, cool😄
Random doesn't necessarily mean irrelevant, though. As empathetic individual with a solid system of values and moral principles who lead with Ne, they're oftentimes interested in discussing humanitarian and philosophical matters. ENFPs are people champions for definition, they always strive to help their next, and their extroverted intuition makes them naturally predisposed to handle a debate, just like in the case of ENTPs. Ne is literally the opposite of tunnel vision, it offers more perspectives, takes in consideration several variables, explores possibilities and such. When associated with Fi, Ne focuses on depth, sense of justice and ethical matters, and it is more people oriented. xNFPs are idealists who value authenticity and encourage other people to be themselves and express themselves. They absolutely love and promote the importance of diversity and try to make everyone feel welcomed and appreciated for their uniqueness. And when Ne is associated with Te is bomb! Creativity + efficiency has so much potential in it. People tend to banally reduce this to creative writing and other artistic stuff, and well, it is rather true that on average INFPs and ENFPs are great authors, but their skills aren't limited to writing. Ne + Te makes them natural problem solvers, innovative thinkers who can find alternative solutions to problems, as Ne goes beyond the schemes, breaks them and offers perspective, while Te rationalizes and categorizes everything in an efficient way. Most ENFPs develop an interest in criminology and investigation more in general. What many people don't seem to understand (and no, I'm not specifically referring to you, my speech is generic 🤗), is that there is a huge difference between having the tendency to jokes most of the time, don't take life too seriously or *playing* dumb, and ACTUALLY *being* dumb. A very wise man once said that the advantage of being clever is that you can always play dumb when you want to, while the opposite (being actually dumb and playing smart) is literally impossible. Stereotypes can be really harmful sometimes...so many ENFPs got mistyped as ENTPs simply for being smart! As if thinkers were automatically smarter than feelers and feelers couldn't be just as intelligent - a conviction that paradoxically is very dumb per se. In addition valuing Ti more than Te doesn't automatically mean Ti users are more clever than Te users. A Ti user simply values more their own thoughts and personal logic than what is commonly considered logic by most, and they also tend to be more focused on theory than practical implementation. That being said, if a person's personal logic (Ti) makes no sense and what they are affirming is wrong, that person isn't smarter than another's person who values Te. Similarly, just because a person who values Fi more than Fe it doesn't mean that person principles and convictions are automatically morally and ethically right; it simply means that that person values their own moral code regardless of what is commonly considered right or wrong, but their own moral code doesn't have to be necessarily ethnically good. An Fi dom or aux can still be dishonest and mean, it is written nowhere that Fi individuals, being so principled, have to behave / are good people no matter what. Anyways, I went too off topic, I'm sorry! The point is that you can have deep and meaningful conversations with ENFPs too, and passing from topic to topic so quickly / randomly doesn't imply that said topics are superficial, irrelevant or meaningless.
Wow thanks for your answer, that being said I don't really think conversations with ENFPs are irrelevant (otherwise I wouldn't like to discuss with them), it was a joke and I was just repeating the same words Kristin uses in the video. I truly think that ENFPs are interesting people and I have a lot to learn from them!
@@andjelarakic1608 I’m the ENFP and I drive my INFJ friend crazy with my complex analyses and philosophical questioning. Hell, I’d drive anybody crazy!
INFJ here - while it's all funny and quite interesting, I do believe that these are how an immature INFJ views the different types. I don't like to claim maturity because I'm still learning, but I USED to see the types as these, and now I see them differently. So there's some sort of open-minded growth there. The only one that remains 100% accurate in my personal experience is INTJ XD They are so much fun to talk to, I must have around 10 INTJ friends that I consistently chat with.
I have to disagree to an extent. I am probably an immature INFJ, but half of these did not really reflect how I see the other types, although a few hit right on target, like ISFP and ENFP. I definitely do not perceive ISTJ as . . . whatever that was; nor the INTP. I'm highly more interested in iNtuitive doms and Ti doms than most others types. But the rest I do agree to . . . mostly. Have a good evening. Cheers, ~ Ana
@@michael_koski @Michael Koski Hmm, well with your perspective in mind, I think the concept of the video is probably geared more towards making jokes out of stereotypes, and less towards exact accuracy. It'd be interesting to see polls of how INFJs see the other types. In fact, it'd be fascinating to see polls for every type... But props to Kristin for the work and creativity she puts into these videos. They are amazingly entertaining.
Kristin makes it clear her videos aren't entirely accurate or relatable to everyone of a certain type and are meant for comedy purposes. Personally I definitely related to some of the ESTJ video, and to the overall idea of us being perfectionistic and a little insecure and comparing ourselves to others. However I don't believe you don't think ESTJs are obsessed with tasks that mean nothing, even I think that about myself sometimes lol.
Hey, Unfortunately the ESTJ personality type is one of the few that I've never met - or never identified when meeting, so I really can't say. Although I don't think I'd identify a whole group of people as merely obsessed with tasks that mean nothing. That's just silly. Not to mention you'd have to first identify what a task must have in order to 'not mean nothing', yk?
INTP: 34 (34-26=8, 8= H, 34th letter = (only 11 letters) 7th letter = A, 8th letter = Y ISFJ: 11= K, 11th letter = B (24 letters total) ISFP: 6= F 6th letter = E (18 letters total) ENTP: 1= A, 1st letter = I (20 total letters (27 additional =47) ISTJ: 14= N, 14th letter = (only 10 letters) ESFJ: 17= Q, 17th letter = 0 (21 total) ENTJ: 3= C, 3rd letter = E (27 total) ESTP: 8 or 9= H or I, 8th or 9th letter = L/ I (23 total) ESTJ: 2= B, 2nd letter = O, (28 total) ESFP: 1= A, 1st letter = A (23 total) ENFP: 26 = Z, 26th letter = D (28 total) INFJ: 3= C, 3rd letter = T (20 total) ISTP: 5= E, 5th letter = E (20 total) INFP: 4= D, 4th letter = P (29 total) ENFJ: 16= P, 16th letter = E (20 total) INTJ: 9= I, 9th letter = E (33 total) Legend: Type, # in message, Alphanumeric, #th letter appearing in message, total number of letters in message Hypothesis: numbers on wall correspond to order of appearance of letters on each message accompanying each type, adding to each other, ultimately resulting in a coherent message. Will pursue. Alternative hypothesis: there is no actual message, the numbers are just there to trick us into thinking there is a secret message
Including the ENTP’s extra cue cards and assuming there is no number for ESTJ (meaning repeat the letter): 34th: E 45th: A 51st: N 52nd: D 66th: E 83rd: M 86th: I 94th or 95th: N or T 96th or 97th: T or A 97th or 98th: A or C 123rd or 124th: D or O 126th or 127th: E or F 131st or 132nd: L or L 135th or 136th: E or R 151st or 152nd: O or R 160th or 161st: E or V Put in a way more easy to see: EANDEMINTADELEOE Or EANDEMITACOFLRRV If the extra letters from the ENTP’S cue cards aren’t to be included the message changes after EANDE.
INFJ married to INTJ....he had to rescue himself out of where I thought he was firmly friendzoned. Probably the only guy I didn't imagine myself married to....happily married almost 20 years and we constantly finish each other's sentences and have complete conversations in our heads....LOL
Ofc we remember the “I’m suppressing wounds” song from the other vid😂 it was sang by the ESTP in the ENFJ’s vision, wasn’t it? It’s amazing!!! I’ll sing it for the whole day. WE WANT IT ON SPOTIFY!!!🤣 Imagine writing songs specifically for any type…
1. The labels that we eventually summarize every type to. 2. The visuals of what we associate with them in the background. 3. The numbers that hold meaning to us and we assign to them are hidden in each background. 4. The accurate descriptions, this is absolutely brilliant. Love it.
Maybe they don't understand everyone perfectly, because there's a lot of hidden information below the surface that takes time to unpack and they're just drawing superficial conclusions that completely miss their mark. Maybe, who knows.
@@cluylala Similar. The few INFJs I've ever met or dealt with have tended to ask me socially acceptable question about my life, then been confused when I didn't respond with any of the "normal" answers. Q: "How are you doing this evening?" A: "Um... I'm standing upright, and I seem to have respiration. Lemme check for a pulse. Yup. That tracks. I am, in fact, alive. Thank you for asking. You?" 😐"Oh, you meant 'emotionally' or some such? That's more complicated and I don't wanna get into it..." Ends with me --> 😶and them -->😳 What part of me standing away from the crowd and keeping to myself makes people think I wanna open up to them socially/emotionally?
Lmao the INFJ roast is real. The amount of times they just assume what I'm feeling or thinking and assign me a label. Or when I explain my mind and they make something else up is so irritating. And actually they're a lot easier to understand than many want to admit. 😂😂
@@arcadianfox8127 Yeah, I don't think we understand people deeply immediately, but I think we're one of the types that Really *want* to understand people, because we want to understand where people fit into the (capital P) Pattern. I think - if we get to know someone over time - we can get really good at "summing people up". And the more you do something, the better at it you become. So after having met all kinds of people, listening to all kinds of stories, and being in all kinds of situations, I think INFJs have a pretty good database for what "archetypes" of people exist. So when we see a certain pattern repeated, we can jump to conclusions about that person. Obviously we're not gonna get it right 100% of the time, but like I said, we're Very _interested_ , and that makes us want to do it more. And again, the more you do something the better at it you become. INFJs need to be humble and admit, and rewind when we get something wrong, but I think an older INFJ who's met a lot of people can also be very good and accurate when understanding people.
I love the ISTJ thing, really spot-on in my opinion. ISTJs and INFJs admire and idolize each other, basically see the qualities they lack in the other, but don't actually understand each other either.
I’m so glad to see I’m not the only one! I EXTREMELY idolize ISTJs. The capacity for shit they get done is very attractive, and I often wish I was an ISTJ. However, my mother is an ISTJ and so I can see the negatives of being one/with one. I don’t want to have to constantly worry about what might go wrong (inferior Ne), and being somewhat oblivious to socially appropriate behavior (blind spot Fe).
danggg you're exposing us...actually when the ISTJ part first came up it caught me off guard, i thought it was ironic cause I, an INFJ currently like(?) an ISTJ in kind of a romantic way... the POV should've been the ISTJ's and I'm the one who is telling ISTJ's dialogue it is exactly what I would want that ISTJ person that I like to know LMFAOOOO
@@jemelyndesamparado1561 I AM the ISTJ in question and I think INFJs are one of the most awesome types out there, I admire how caring and insightful they are, but on the other hand I really feel like we're speaking almost different languages. It's not just personal relationships either. Pre brain-damage Jordan Peterson sang whole love songs to the ideal of the ISTJ. You INFJs are much rares than my basic ISTJ self though, so I rarely run into you guys IRL.
Irish Infp here. Can confirm the whole leprechaun thing. There is a fairy tree behind my house and I’ve definitely heard voices coming from the bushes once when no one was around
"I still speak in cryptic messages which is why you still like spending time with me." As an INFJ who has caught deep feelings for an ESTJ woman, this hits hard.
@@modove2842 Like many if not most INFJs, I have been typed in the past as an INFP, INFJ, and INTJ by various folks. University psychologist said INFJ/INTJ borderline (and I trust their appraisal more than some career center), and I'm sure I'm not an INFP because my Ni-Ti worrywart loops are too real and obvious, and I always need to check feelings against objective facts or I just can't rest easy. And I know she was DEFINITELY an ESTJ! It was mega obvious.
@@AF-tv6uf "I always need to check feelings against objective facts" tbh that sounds very Fi-dom, Te-seeking. That might be why you like ESTJs-if you're an INFP, your weaker-valued functions are Si and Te. An ESTJ provides those two functions as easily as breathing. What would you rather deal with - an ESTP being bossy by being imposing/pressuring people (Se), or an ESTJ being bossy by cross-referencing external facts (Te) with past experiences (Si)? According to the socionics theory of type relations, someone leading with Ni-Fe likes Se in other people but doesn't like Te (ESTJs don't really have time for my abstract theories about networks of people (so not even "more useful" Te concepts). But Fi-Ne likes Te to keep them on track/fact-check them, and they dislike Se bossing them around (while Ni likes Se because otherwise Ni just. Doesn't do things. A Te plan doesn't help Ni-Fe get things done but Se does)
@@Just-99me Some relationship MBTI folks call it an example of a 'bronze pairing.' This means that because none of our functions are held in common, there's an air of mystery and a complementarian thing involved that attracts. If the two people have values similar enough.
As someone with a mustache, I'd like to point out that you generally want to caress it from the center to the sides (along growth direction), not the other way around. The latter one feels weird, and also ruffles the hair, so you don't do it unless your skin is itching and you have not found a better remedy. I know this is entirely irrelevant to the topic of the video, but I thought I mention it, seeing Kristin playing around with facial hair. Btw, the applied "pinching" seen around 2:43 would be entirely correct on the chin with a beard (as that's the natural growth direction there). The video is great, otherwise! As an ISTP I'm not sure I get all the layers, but probably only the gist of it, and that's enough. :D
I've got this great idea: "A Day In The Life Of One Of The '16 Personalities Housemates' Characters." Each episode takes a day-long deep-dive into a member of the 16 Personalities housemates, like Ashley Abigail Ainsley the ENFP, or ISTJ Jill, Kayley the ENFJ, Johnny the INTP, Jane the INTJ, Barry the ISTP, Danielle/Dani the INFP, Becky the INFJ, Mandy the ISFJ, Sally the ISFP, Gemma the ENTJ, Annie the ESTP, Lauren the ESFP, Jenny the ESFJ, and Jessica the ENTP. It starts in the morning, and follows each housemate as they interact with the other housemates, what they do at work or study or whatever they do to afford their share of the rent (and don't forget to put in the types of their co-workers or studymates). Don't be afraid to throw a curve ball or two; wouldn't it be hilarious if Gemma or Jill or the ESTJ had to get an ad campaign going for their business, and found out that Ashley Abigail Ainsley is in charge of the creative department of the ad agency she's in, and delegates the details of each campaign to her assistants?
I LOVE THIS IDEA SO MUCH. It also helps that I (as an ENFP) think it would be HILARIOUS if one of the STJ types was trying to cooperate with me but we're just speaking COMPLETELY different languages, it would probably drive them up the wall
@@exnihilonihilfit6316 hey sometimes we just need a little confidence boost and the only ones around are ourselves So sue us for exhibiting CONFIDENCE once in a while
As an INFJ I was really excited for this video! The video style alone is already accurate. Now for my reactions INTP: So true! Sometimes when an INTP is talking to me I kind of just zone out in the middle and start thinking about other things, but for some reason I can still hear the conversation and remember everything. Later I just try to think about what he meant by his words, but I never actually talk to him about these thoughts ISFJ: I have an ISFJ best friend ever since I was small and I have to say, his life does seem really simple and I don’t think he worries about anything really. He’s kind to a certain degree, though I wouldn’t say that he’s a total people pleaser. I get annoyed with him occasionally though when he tries to push his opinion on me, but this almost never ends in a big fight ISFP: Ouch, this kinda hurt me a bit. These guys say some of the weirdest things ever and they’re either super funny or super cringe or a mix of both. They have a good sense of humor and know who they are as a person and do know what they want, so although this one hurts it’s painfully accurate. :(. They’re fun people to hang out with though ENTP: Ahhhh these guys annoy me so much but at the same time I love them. I swear sometimes they know exactly what I’m thinking and sometimes they don’t, but I suspect that they may just be acting dumb since I also really love acting dumb. They’re really smart people but they use their intelligence in a very funny way and I just really love them. ISTJ: These guys straight up just say what they mean and they seem a bit cold to me at certain times. They just kind of… do things, I don’t know what else to say lol. They just seem rather simple ESFJ: Haha this is accurate to a certain extent. I have an ESFJ sister and she loves making friends with everyone, but she always tells me that she doesn’t know what she wants to do in the future. She straight up just dies on the inside when I ask her questions such as “what do you think the meaning of life is?” ENTJ: I have an ENTJ friend at school and she seems really confident and works really hard and tends to know almost everything. She’s a huge snowflake though and seems to get triggered at almost anything which is why I sometimes do think that she’s afraid to let someone get close to her. She doesn’t really speak in codes though, she’s rather straightforward but at certain times I do feel like she is hiding something, maybe not an insecurity but she’s definitely hiding something ESTP: Haha yes ESTP’s are just too obvious with their words. I highly doubt that they’re someone who’d hide a part of themselves. Though unlike the ENTJ I really don’t think an ESTP is hiding anything. Don’t think that they’re suppressing wounds either ESTJ: YESSS omg I have a slight suspicion that my dad is an ESTJ and I constantly get annoyed by him by just how blunt and straightforward he is and how he always just wants to do something. Sometimes I wish he’d put more thought into his words before he say them. Though I don’t think he’s speaking in encrypted messages, he’s rather straightforward ESFP: These guys are just so chaotic and I wonder if they ever even think about what they say first before they actually do. Probably not though because of Se-Fi, lol. I also don’t think ESFP’s are speaking in encrypted messages ENFP: Hahahaha yes. I have an ENFP friend who can almost always come up with a topic to talk to me about, but then after I speak with her about the topic for about 60 seconds she immediately asks another question about something else and often times I have to go back to one of the topics she came up with and add more to it since I feel like there’s more to talk about it INFJ: Never met another INFJ in my life, though as an INFJ I don’t think I’d repeatedly ask “how are you?” since it may annoy them, and I wouldn’t really door slam someone who genuinely cares about me ISTP: I really would not go to my ISTP friends in order to get myself fixed. I think ISTPs are the last types that I would go to to get myself fixed. The tricking part is accurate though since they’re so easy to trick and they always fall for them. Asking them for help to fix something that isn’t my heart is also accurate INFP: We click so well it’s absolutely insane, though both of us are aware that each other is hiding something, so I’d say you hit the nail on the head for this one haha ENFJ: Super accurate! I’ve met three ENFJs in my life and holy crap they really care about people. Like REALLY care about people. They can almost always give good advice to other people, and the part about “you’re proud that you’re not as pushy as I am” is so true. When they draw the wrong conclusion about someone and give them wrong advice I really start to panic but sometimes I don’t really say anything cause I don’t want to hurt their feelings, and I just hate saying that someone is wrong. It’s definitely something that annoys me a lot INTJ: I love discussing philosophical topics with my INTJ friend because she always just seem to understand what I’m talking about. She’s a genuinely kind person. Though we don’t really talk a lot about anything “weird”, we always love trying to predict what the other person is going to say before they say it. She usually fails though because she thinks that I have multiple different personalities and is hard to predict Overall I’d say most of these were accurate, but I dislike the fact that people always think that we think that everything is an encrypted message. I think that some words are encrypted messages and I do tend to overthink when someone’s words are a bit too simple, but after some time I just tell myself that I’m overthinking it and that they are saying what they mean and move on. The dreamy vibe was just amazing, and I love how almost all the types are transparent and has a sign on them, great video Kristin! INFJ approved!
Yep. I agree with basically everything that you said. (Although, I still haven’t quite figured out the “trick” to tricking ISTPs to do things. Then again, I guess I never really found a reason to. Haha)
@@sunchips18 Tell them to do something, and give a reasonable reason, but make sure it has a bit of suspicion in it. And then when they ask “are you sure?” you can just tell them “I don’t know, maybe?” in almost a confident way, and they just get confused if you actually know or not. They usually end up doing it simply cause they’re confused and it’s kind of funny
HOLY COW I LAUGHED SO MUCH AT THE INFJ vs INFJ PART this is exactly what happened between me and my coworker!!!! we both noticed how similar we are to each other and our conversations were always kind of awkward bc we tried to please the other part and never got really deep with each other because it was was like a mirror talking to itself, we never acknowledged the most obvious things for example how similar we are to each other - and then we went through a phase of doorslamming each other. (now were all good again and actually get to know each other bit by bit but it took a longer while compared to other coworkers) BUT HOLY SHIT HOW ACCURATE AND FUNNY I
Sorry, no. It sounds like you are either not an INFJ at all, or you have completely totally misunderstood what doorslamming means. INFJ doorslamming is permanent. It's not a "phase." It's irreversible. When an INFJ slams the door on you, the INFJ never takes you back. Ever. The reason an INFJ doorslams is not because of some petty argument or quarrel or misunderstanding that can later be patched up. Rather, it's because the person in question has behaved appallingly towards the INFJ, time after time after time after time after time, and has shown that they will never change. They will just keep on mistreating the INFJ. The INFJ patiently puts up with this for a long time and keeps hoping the person will change and stop being hurtful / selfish / abusive, but eventually realises they will not change. At that point the INFJ slams the door and leaves. For ever.
Real, real nice! ENFPs, though, seem to me (as an INFJ, ofc) less like a random nuisance, more like dearest people in the world, with whom I can be myself and feel completely safe at the same time. Not to mention that this randomness of Ne is a gust of fresh air. I feel like Ni and Ne complement each other beautifully and make me never want to stop the conversation my friend ENFP and I are having :)
Your comment made me genuinely smile, so thank you 💖 I presumably am an ENFP (although a couple of friends of mine who are into cognitive functions think I value more Fe and Ti than Fi and Te, so who knows 😅) and my girlfriend is an INFJ like you. While we obviously have two different approaches to life, mostly because I'm a bubbly extrovert and she's more reserved, we do share the same values and beliefs. We're both intuitive types who tend to take their decisions based on feelings, and the fact that she's so goal oriented and I am so cheerful and creative are a wonderful combo! I offer her extra perspectives while she offers me purposes. We also both studied psychology and have a thing for humanitarian subjects, and this is a plus. You know, it often makes me sad this "dumb empty heads" stereotype about ENFP, because I don't feel represented by it at all. It is one thing joking around, being spontaneous and looking at the world with the imaginative and the wonder of a child, and it is another thing being brainless (a factor that isn't determined by one's MBTI type, by the way). And what you wrotr in your comment is exactly how my girlfriend uses to define me! It might seem shocking for someone, but she actually feels seen, heard and understood by me. We are each other's cheerleaders, and she even behaves like an extrovert with me! She isn't, but when she's with me she kinda free herself and becomes chatty, more spontaneous, and start venting with me, telling me about her day and her feelings...and I do the same with her. I always tell her that I'd like to be more patient and quiet like her, cause I can be a real hothead in front of injustices, and she paradoxically always tells me that she would like to stand up for herself and speak up more just like I use to do. We almost always think alive, the only difference is that I am loud when I disagree with something and actually start debating, while she usually takes a breath and keep her harsh opinions for herself, even when she would like to intervene and also say what I say in front of certain injustices and unfair situations. And the reason why most of you INFJs don't speak up, in my personal opinion, is that you want to avoid conflict for the fear of rejection. People usually have high expectations on you, taking for granted that you're gonna prioritize their needs over your own, which is unfair of them, but still you let them believe that because you want to preserve social harmony. But you know what? You have right to live your life peacefully without worrying about what other people might think of you. INFJs feelings matter just like anyone else's, and practicing self love isn't selfishness. Taking care of others is a noble thing to do, we all should do that regardless of our MBTI type, but it shouldn't be at the expenses of ourselves. An INFJ isn't less of a human! You do have emotions and feelings too, and if someone isn't willing to respect them the same way you respect theirs, maybe that person isn't worthy of being called "friend". If we are our authentic selves we're gonna attract the people who are meant to be in our life, and those who aren't will go eventually...and it's okay. It's okay not feeling okay sometimes, and it's okay crying. Even when you don't know why you want to cry, if you feel like doing it, just do it! You often carry other people's problems on your shoulders (I also do that), but you also deserve to be helped to carry yours, guys. There's no shame in doing that. You don't expect other people to be perfect, and we don't expect you to be. Everyone should be entitled to express themselves, so long as they are respectful of their next! Judging someone solely based on their MBTI type is rather stupid and superficial, and there's so much more beyond our favorite cognitive functions! (sorry for the excessively long message, though...I hope it can make you smile just like yours made me smile, but I get it if it's too boring to be read fully...I wouldn't read it myself ahah)
@@deliriumcupcake6412 Course I did read it. Thank you for the lovely and elaborate response! It is pretty accurate; I feel I should add something to my initial comment, though: it is not always the case that INFJs restrain themselves for the fear of rejection or ruining social harmony, expressing yourself just does not seem right or likely to be understood and appreciated under most circumstances. But some people give the right conditions. Also, I think we are probably just projecting precious people from our lives onto ENFPs and INFJs😜It gives you more people to love, but it surely would be wise to be aware it is a generalisation 😉
Right! Two of my besties are INFJs and we by far understand each better than other types. One of them thanks me almost everyday for being so understanding because she gets pushback from everyone else all of the time
@@deliriumcupcake6412i read ur whole message. it was truly beautiful. as an infj i appreciate ur existence & i’m happy for ur gf. the both of u are truly lucky :)
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Finally! Thank you, Kristin :) -Automatically sees through and labels everyone and tries to find deeper meanings. I love the layers, organized chaos, and dreamlike atmosphere.
I mean, Arguable we are, I'm a bit rusty on all things mbti so I can't give indepth deets(Plus sleep depravation) but the Ne Ti combo along with the rest of the stack makes room for insanity that we love for and from the world; The wold we live in is insane in it's own way. We are the Chaos in and of order, the change of what is and what is not and everything inbetween. I wonder how many pepole will gain insight and how many pepole will just be confused and think what I typed above is complete nonsesnse.
As the INFP saying goes: *Keep you cards close and your leprechaun closer*
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Each person has a message leaving clues to their "favorite" movie or film that sums them up the best: INTP: Edward Scissorhands ISFJ: The Tender Trap ISFP: Forrest Gump ENTP: King's Speech ISTJ: 4 Weddings & 1 Funeral ESFJ: Princess Diaries ENTJ: Psycho ESTP: Fight Club ESTJ: Blade Runner ESFP: Casino Royale ENFP: A Clockwork Orange INFJ: The Sixth Sense ISTP: Castaway INFP: Lord of the Rings ENFJ: IT INTJ: The Silence of the Lambs this list is marred by my lack of cinematic culture but i'll complete it as the answers come to me :) thanks for the fun, kristin!
INFJ here. Yep, very on point! And loved the tunnel effects at the end! It was like the inside of my mind! 😂 I'm sure anyone with dominant Ni can relate!
As an INTJ, the INFP’s perception was pretty accurate. I often engage in rather esoteric conversation with my INTJ friend, whether it be on niche areas of philosophy, or one of the dozens of fictional worlds/ writing projects we have catalogued that likely will never be completed. Depending on the conversation, we sometimes complete each others sentences, or sometimes we don’t even speak full sentences, since it’s clear the other can figure out what the rest of the sentence is. We also enjoy employing a greater than usual vernacular when speaking with each other.
So to find out how many layers are used in this video, you have to rewatch it over and over again. Just like INFJ does it with their head huh? That's interesting lol
Psiren "I Jumped into the ocean without my paddle, Searching for the 'just a dream of life'... And now I swim in the wreckage time's river, Where once in a little row boat I held your hand, Now I look for you beneath the waves, Drowning just to find you and pull you up, And out of the hole in the world... But I cannot reach you if you will not follow, There with the fishes forever blowing bubbles, I am not the Fisher king, but the mermaid, Unhooking you from Despair's predation, Fishermen who would yank you from on high, And land you stunned and broken for supper. But I am your heart, the Earth, the journey, Through life, not from life, toward the ever after, Not the dream you wake from, but to.. The paradise of knowing your own heart, The will unbroken by time and fate.... Not mine, but yours and ours together, Even alone, there is no I greater than we, So I must return to the wreckage of me... With the pieces of me you hold as your own And I go deeper in, deeper beneath the waves Where the voices in my head have voices, And they're all telling me to run.... But this mirror can stand where others flee, And can show you how there are parts of you, That will always be a part of me....
ISFJ - ??? (one of the symbols doesn't load properly, so idk, something about dancing) ESFJ - The Princess Diaries ESTJ - Blade Runner ESFP - Casino Royale ISTP - Castaway I think you got the rest.
You saved the "Kristin with a mustache" until the end, but it was there. Always a treat! 🥸 Gonna have "🎵I'm suppressing wounds🎶" playing in my head (along with the image of a dancing leprechaun) for the next couple hours... so thanks for that, too! 👍
Omg the ISFP was ruthless, hahaha. It's always super interesting seeing types beyond the stereotypes! EDIT: INFJs and (xNFJ projected?) ESTPs suppressing wounds make me ship them even harder 🤭
Fellow comment reader, heres a task: How many people can you find in this comment section proclaiming that this video is so accurate and that they are an infj. Lets start with 1: Infj here. PS: dont make a drinking game out of this pls
what the hell? :D In another video, I literally said that I find INFJs the only other type as interesting by default. And also described the mutual interactions as feeling sometimes like an elaborate dance combined with a chess match :D.
I am an INFJ. The stereotypes in this video are remarkably similar to the relationships I have with my family and friends. Especially the ENFJ (younger sister) and the INTJ (my dad). Thank you for showing me this!
The outro song is a bop. Got me embracing my inner ESFP. This is a long comment that I tried to be succinct with but given that I did not do great on such department, I provided titles as guide. Now fasten your seatbelts for an Ni-deep diving ride. ---INFJ Lens and its Layers References and compliments aside, the detail of having all the characters be a bit transparent is the layer of that juicy dear kristin nuance. Having them like that with a background and label on them really just shows how different Ni can be presented. Personally I would show Ni as an emanation. This is because Ni is always running in my brain as an Ni-dom that most times the ideas/words I speak doesn't really feel like it's from me. But it presents itself as something I came up with because... well, I Te-said it. ---Cognitive Functions and How they Present Also, I've been listening on the podcasts ever since it's on yt and I'm starting to be more... would it be right to call it Se-aware? Of how the functions can present themselves as. Which, I think gives that element of mystery and person-to-person distinction that is Fi-important to me. It really helps that each time the podcast has a guest, their type is either the highlight or just pointed out at first. It's that referrable Se data I appreciate to make my Ni ideas comprehensible. This series itself is a staple of what I'm trying to say but the podcasts made me realize that, weirdly enough. ---Relating Ni to a concept in Philosophy and Religion First, I informally cited where i got the idea from but since it was in a discussion of the reading, it's hard to pinpoint. Going back to how I would explain Ni as an Ni-dom I mentioned active intellect which is a coined term from the Ancient/Classical Islamic Philosophy if I remember correctly (refer to al Farabi at the bottom). My professor, given that the class I learned these from had Christians, Catholics, and other Abrahamic religions in class made the active intellect "referrable" by comparing it to Angel Gabriel Angel Gabriel as the messenger of God's plan to Mary. Because that's kind of how Ni acts in my head, very different to how it presents. Given I Te-utilize and organize most of what I say anyway, it makes me sound smarter than I feel I really am. It's because my Ni is just always unconsciously painting pictures, connecting things, making sense of so much in the abstract that when I say them, it doesn't feel like it came from me. Which, in an analogical sense, fits the concept of active intellect and Angel Gabriel wherein Ni-mediated ideas feel emanated or feel somewhat not from the Ni-user. The vibes of it's God-begotten not man made except it's all in my head and explaining it to any Sensor really does make me sound like I just escaped from the ward. ---Fi-nal Unpacking I think because of my religious beliefs, interest in Philosophy, and my Fi-need to understand people with a tool that I get (astrology makes little sense to me) treat those I care for better, every dear kristin video is just something I keep going back to knowing that the passion to continue learning and the reason to even start learning MBTI then making each video to share it to others in a light hearted ESFP way and not a Paper/Dissertation/Book INTJ way is from a similar reason is comforting to me. (this is what I, an INTJ, would have said in the kidnapping video but I was rudely cut off! Again!) (ps: the detail of INTJ talking fast and looking possibly the happiest I've ever seen is a very funny detail that is CLEARLY a projection of the INFJ. We are never happy, that's crazy! We *always* have an ominous list of how to punish everyone and very detailed plan for world domination. We are very serious about them despite still being in their preliminary stages.) al Farabi: The Political Writings vol 2 translation by Charles E Butterworth pp. 29-94)
Although I don't see world like that, and loads of these are "cryptic mesages", I have spent significant time in the comment section. Well done. I would have added it as a next layer.
INFP here. I'm glad my child sees me as sweet and kind and knows I cherish her. I also seem to be one of the rare persons that she doesn't expect to send cryptic messages. 😅
i have an infj friend who sees through everyone, but is always confused about herself. infjs are really precious. they would do anything to help people and sometimes it just makes me sad seeing how many lengths they would go to help someone :(
Loved this video for as INFJ. Though, not gonna lie, if there is someone that intrigues me, like say if it were the ESFJ, I would look to see how to match their needs. It’s difficult with the extroverts, but I’d imagine it is pretty easy to emulate an inviting mood for others while our anxiety is flying through the roof. I think my goal in life after realizing I was an INFJ is to be so invested that I spook people with how well I notice their quirks. A very fine line and it does not always work, but when it does, it is hilarious.
I found four layers. 1. The words 2. The symbolism behind the words 3. The locations (bonus=the ISTJ & ESTP not really having a background) 4. The quotes 5. The emoji… movies? 6. The lowered opacity of everyone signalling the INFJ thinks everyone's "just so transparent" (bonus= the ISTJ (& ESTP?) not being transparent) Another bonus = the 4 behind the INFP but I'm not sure if that's just a typo. So I wrote four at first and then I kept noticing more. My original four were 1, 3, 4, and 6. For anyone who even sees this comment and is curious.
The ISFJ bit was the most accurate 😂😂 I’ve struggled with people pleasing and I’m only ever attracted to people with deep repressed wounds and many layers due to a chaotic past, and I see their broken pieces as something I want to put back together like a jigsaw puzzle. It’s the best. - INFJ
I heard "I'm surpressing wounds" by ESTP and I thought "oh she missed the opportunity to bring back the song!". Then I stayed until the end and my life became better.
I’m an ISFJ who was recently dating an INFJ. We hit it off splendidly and were having a lovely time together, but she ultimately ended things saying she didn’t want to pursue it further and now I’m wondering if this is why 🥲
ISFJ here. I can relate to the ESFJ thinking "why am I using Fe for things that won't matter 10 years from now," because I'm currently in a situation with a friend where I've slipped into letting Fe take the lead, but fortunately, Si is starting to assert itself, so I'm hoping that in 10 years, I can look back and say "I did it my way."
LOOOOL I'm an INFP and it was an INFJ that discovered me on twitch and over 2/3 months helped me figure out what im doing with my life. >< it's just, the way you described INFP is ridiculously accurate to how this person and I were. She meant absolutely everything to me but I could find a way to sort of take a step to let her "close to my heart". It's very very accurate. even today, I don't want to let her too close despite this person being someone I love very very dearly. (we dont speak anymore, mind u) All my family thought I was online-dating this person but we were just friends! Just I loved her a lot cos I thought she was the best person I ever met (and still think it >< ) Kudos to you!
I personally overthought a lot about Kristin saying there is always a lot of INFJs who comment, they always mention they're INFJs and talk about personal stuff. I know it's used as a joke but I hope it's not actually annoying for her cause I can't help but feeling bad about it 😅. I wondered a lot why and I think I know why other INFJs do this. Cause they talk about themselves so rarely that MBTI is like a subject that allows them to talk more about themselves and understand themselves more. It's probably like a quick therapy session for INFJs for once instead of the other way around. Also it's no secret MBTI is a topic INFJs are very interested in. At first I hated that INFJs were used as a marketing argument for MBTI but now that I think more about it, I think it's kinda fitting that INFJ is a sort of "mascot" of the MBTI (even though I still have problems with it and I wish that weren't the case). All of this to say sorry for it Kristin, that just reveals how helpful, interesting and fun your videos are for INFJs that they hardly contain their enjoyment for talking about themselves for once. Great video once again. I loved how there is a philosophical lesson for each personality type that reveals how the INFJ already scanned their soul and understood the meaningful things about them. Loved the UK subtitles as well. I love noticing when Kristin uses her Ni.
This video is absurdly well made!! Good job Kristin 🙌 I think it deserves a rewatch now 😁 Also, the ISFP part was so scarily accurate as to how I see my partner (I’m an INFP though) I’m like how do you find life so easy?? He just sails through doing his own thing, whereas I’m over in a corner going “I don’t know who I am!!!” 😅
I agree with this. I find myself having a natural drawn attraction and yet resentful attitude towards individuals with dominant introverted judging functions (Fi & Ti, or ISFP INFP INTP and ISTP). This is because they simplify their life for the better and do not feel the need to conjure or fulfill a higher purpose. They know who they are, and are unapologetic about it. Realistically, they have the most effective approach to living a happy life in the modern era, as individualism is greatly valued (at least in the US), and Fi/Ti don’t require a greater purpose to climb to. I am both disgusted and jealous at the same time.
Me, an INTP: "Ah, my old nemesis the INFJ. You think you see through me and my carefully chosen words to the core of my being, but you fail to realize I've chosen my words specifically so you see through them only to depth of the layer I want to reveal. How far down is that layer? You'll never know for sure."
@@AngelaTheDoll444 playing devils advocate here, but infj’s do have the tendencies to only perceive information that confirms their preconceptions and ignore information that disproves it. That to say that the image they see on INTP’s may not reflect the actual reality of INTP. Hence the OP’s joke about the layers. Maybe you haven’t gone past the surface level of masks we wear.
Okay, so, what's up with the numbers? Some are barely visible (like 16 ENFJ or 5 ISTP) some are easy to see (like 34 INTP or 14 ISTJ). ENTJ and INFJ have the same number. Is it a ranking how much fun to unpack the types are? Number of people of the respective type the INFJ has tried to unpack? How deep the wounds are? How high a challenge to unpack? I have no idea, help me :D As we know Kristin, there has to be an explanation (possibly bizzare)
Thanks for putting them in order by number! IF this is helpful to anyone, here's that list again + The Message/Cue Card of each 1 - ESFP - ALL THAT GLITTERS / ISN'T GOLD 2 - ESTJ - GOOD THINGS / COME TO / THOSE WHO / WAIT 3 - INFJ - NOTHING / IS WHAT IT / SEEMS 3 - ENTJ - EVERYTHING / HAPPENS FOR/ A REASON 4 - INFP - KEEP YOUR / CARDS CLOSE / TO YOUR / CHEST 5 - ISTP - THERE IS / ALWAYS / SUBTEXT 6 - ISFP - TIME HEALS / ALL WOUNDS 7 - ENTP - IT'S JUST A / MATTER OF / TIME (EMOTIONAL / MANIPULATION) (TACTIC #1) 8 - ESTP - EVENTUALITY / IS / INEVITABLE 9 - INTJ - SAND LINGERS, / BUT THE SUN / WAITS FOR / NO ONE 11 - ISFJ - DON'T JUDGE / A BOOK BY / ITS COVER 14 - ISTJ - LOOK DEEPER 16 - ENFJ - THE WRITING'S / ON THE WALL 17 - ESFJ - ALL FOR ONE / AND / ONE FOR ALL 26 - ENFP - A BROKEN CLOCK / IS RIGHT TWICE / A DAY 34 - INTP - I HAVE / LAYERS
I believe it’s a “rarity” score. As if the INFJ is “counting” the number of similar people they have met in order to classify and analyze them. So for like my type, ENTJ, they meet an ENTJ and when trying to understand that person they compare them to the other 3 or so ENTJs they have come across.
Alright. I've discovered some things and thought I'd add my thoughts to the circle. IN the UK captions is, I believe, emojis symbolizing movies. Watch it again with UK captions if you wish and see if you can help me by adding to my findings... INFJ- (ear emoji, hand, tongue, nose, eyes, 6) Sixth Sense INTP- (boy, scissors, hands) ? ISFJ- (dancing bunny girls, two holding hands, mouse trap) ? ISFP- (camera, running man, pine tree, pine tree) ? ENTP- (crown, talking bubble) ? ISTJ- (ring, ring, ring, ring, coffin) The Ring? ESFJ- (queen, book) ? ENTJ- (showerhead, knife) Psycho ESTP- (boxing glove, clubs symbol) Fight Club ESTJ- (knife, running man) ? ENFP- (clock, orange) Paddington? (long shot) ISTP- (palm tree, volleyball) Castaway? INFP- (wizard, elf, ring, volcano) LotR ENFJ- (clown, hazard sign) ? hope this gives you a fun puzzle to solve
INTJ - 100% wearing a top hat. Also, that Leprechaun is now my sleep-paralysis demon. thanks :> Also, I noticed the transparency - nice touch. (Wife is an INFJ)
I do sometimes appreciate INFJ getting through my jumbled words and arrive at the meanings I’m trying to convey. My thoughts are sometimes too big for my words to express- INTP
Turn on UK Captions for an extra lil game!
They're back?? 😍
Awesome!!!! They're the best for this series!
they are always so delightful
Love the movie references! Got about half of them so far
Can’t figure out the ISFP ISTP or ESTJ 😭😭 fun game though!!
It seems the INTP knew the INFJ would come up with their own interpretations of what they're saying and just accepted it
That she did
As an intp...This is my biggest pet peeve
thats cause intps choice of words rarely relates to what theyre actually trying to convey LOL we are quite literal beings, if you tell me the sky is blue, im gonna hear the sky is blue, not whatever deeper meaning you expect me to conclude out of your own statement. Regardless, i love intps
@@halimaalidrissi568 unless the topic is abstract in nature, we usually do mean what we say. Remove all connotations and focus on literal definitions of words we use.
@@entropy8634 💯
I love the labels on each of the types, showing how INFJs automatically assign deeper meanings to everyone. Also, that Doorslam was incredibly accurate! 😂
I hate the concept of the 'INFJ doorslam'. I'm not trying to claim it's inaccurate, but the more you portray it in a stereotype, the more each self-identifying INFJ will conform to it because people feel a need to live up to the identity that people give them. In other words, the more you portray a stereotype, the more encouraged people are to imitate it. And with the INFJ doorslam, this is an extremely dangerous thing to be encouraging. It puts strain on relationships, causes unfair cutting off of relationships, and leaves a lot of people feeling hurt, rejected and pushed away. Nobody should want to do that to a person, no matter how boring, annoying, obnoxious or offensive they are.
@@josiahtaylor7967 agree with you 💯 it's just that before I even knew about MBTI and that I am an INFJ, the doorslam is already existing in my life like I literally did that before with people but I'm trying to open up my mind and heart now to a lot more things, as long as it does not compromise my beliefs and principles 😃
@@josiahtaylor7967 i dont think that's how it works. people don't research 16 personalities to try to emulate them perfectly. they find mbti and then see which types they their behaviour and motivations in.
that said, i think the doorslam in the INFJ sketch was a bit exaggerated though, it's possible we might avoid other INFJs. but we don't doorslam them. i like some other INFJs, i just can't connect with them as much as more extroverted or unrestricted types because we're both reserved.
@@jsnldn It's not how MBTI works in itself, and yes, you're right, people find the traits that match them, but it's a known psychological phenomenon that once someone is given an identity, they'll try to live up to it, whether that's consciously or not. So, if someone relates to the traits of an INFJ, and so then starts identifying as an INFJ, then later sees the stereotypes, they'll likely try to live up to the stereotypes. Because of this, it's not good to portray harmful stereotypes such as the INFJ doorslam, the ESTJ aggressiveness, the ENFJ manipulation, the ESTP irresponsibility, etc. People of those types know that's what's expected of them and so they do those things despite it being harmful to themselves and/or others. In cases where these negative traits were present before a person knew it was a stereotype, they should use the knowledge of it to work on these traits and reduce the harm they're causing, but sadly, with the way these stereotypes are used for entertainment purposes, they're instead encouraged to embrace them, which leaves quite a negative impact on them and the people around them.
@Josiah Taylor what? I loved finding it out and had already doorslammed the majority of my toxic family members, toxic coworkers and prior crappy jobs. I could point my critics to this as just something in my nature and not due to being impulsive. INFJS while being aware of mob mentality are also highly critical of it.
Do I think everyone has a deeper reason for their actions? Yes
Do I jump to conclusions that are far from the truth, even though I’d never admit it? Yes
Am I scared to talk about my feelings and would rather overanalyze everyone else’s problems? Yes
So in short, good job.
(INFJ here)
PS. The door slam is so accurate. I tend to cut people off from my life but it's usually because I don't see them as often anymore and don't want to make the first move because I don't want to be a bother...
Spot on
Yep, fellow INFJ here, and this representation was more accurate than I care to admit!
As an INFJ the last one I relate too. 😅
Except I stopped jumping to conclusions and now I end up not admitting it when I was indeed correct 😂. Always the problem with intuition, a gamble.
I like how the type’s images themselves are transparent but the rest isn’t. Like the backgrounds, numbers and papers are the meanings that the INFJ assigns to each person (INTP is bookshelves bc INFJ sees their conversations as interesting and full of knowledge, etc). Some that caught my eye:
- ESTJ, ENTJ and ESTP (maybe also ENFP, couldn’t tell): they have very simple backgrounds, an all black/white screen (my theory is that white = “not worth the effort and discomfort” and black = “I can fix them”), with some image thrown in there, which shows that the INFJ can often boil people down to these simple things and judge too quickly. They also seem to not be transparent? It’s hard to tell bc the background is so simple, but that adds to the charm, because the INFJ watered them down so much that they can’t even see anymore that they’re not seeing through them
- ISTJ: all that I said above applies to the first part, but then the INFJ comes up with an interpretation that sounds ridiculous and made up. It makes the ISTJ interesting to them (thus the complicated background), but isn’t true and ignores who the ISTJ really is (that’s why they’re not transparent)
- ENFJ: the background is calm and pleasing. When the INFJ disagrees with them, first the number twitches, which shows the INFJ doubting their interpretation of them. Then the background starts to blur, showing that INFJ no longer knows who ENFJ is. Then it turns to grey = disappointment. But it’s all still blurry, because the INFJ didn’t “figure out” anything about ENFJ, they instead jumped right to disappointment as soon as ENFJ seemed to not be who they thought
INFJ: the INFJ main character was so uncomfortable that they didn’t even start to try to figure the other INFJ out. That’s why the background is just the actual place they were in. There’s no meaning bc INFJ didn’t have time to assign one
I loved every single though you put in this
Where's the number in the ENFJ one?
love the dreamy feel to it, the transparency and the echo.
I'm glad you picked up on this layer!
How did the INFJ's figure out we INTP's were just onions masquerading as people? Who told them?
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@@dearkristin Maybe this is why whenever someone tries to peel back a layer, they end up in tears?
Shrek told them. "INTPs are like onions."
0:15 This is so interesting. This INFJ likes to see chaos in someone's life as they interpret it as a symbol for courage. But they have inferior Se anyway and would prefer not to have any chaos in her surroundings. I often burst into laughter when I put together contradictions like this.
walking contradictions us infj's lol
a dysfunctional INFJ may be attracted to a chaotic dysfunctional person because of the 'saviour' urge, but only a dysfunctional INFJ, and the same can be said for any dysfunctional type with a strong FE. A mature, "functional" INFJ will avoid chaos, "ain't no one got time [or extra energy] for that"
@@myaa1689that’s what y’all are always anxious and stressed
@@otopharaoh ig, some of us, yea lol
It's not really a contradiction. We just enjoy making novel patterns, doesn't mean we need to experience them ourselves.
As an INTJ I can't help but think that at the same time the INFJ is reading this into the INTJ, the INTJ is just seeing the INFJ as portrayed in the "16 personalities through the eyes of the INTJ" video. Which was extremely accurate to me, of course.
OH MY GOD I SHOULD REWATCH THEM ALL AND COMPARE THE PERCEPTIONS. YOU ARE A GENIUS.
Oh, I didn't consider that idea of an INTJ-INFJ relationship. I hope this is an individual situation and not a pattern.
Cause then it is very sad if it is so. I don't know what other INFJs are thinking, but the way the communication with the INTJs in this video felt real to me.
For INTJs I feel an extremely rare feeling of understanding and lack of boredom in communication, and even more rare feeling of "soul mate".
I would like to believe that what you are talking about is not a pattern on a large scale.
With INTJ, I have something that I will not find anywhere else, a unique communication “in my native language”.For me, INTJ is the only type of 16 personalities to whom I want to truly open up,(which is unprecedented) because there I have a feeling that INTJ really understand me quite well. 😌
But if it's a one-sided feeling of security and understanding...then it feels extremely sad for me.😿
@@kindauncool that’s INTJ for you, always connecting the dots 😏
@@netsardin4019 Yeah, not a pattern at all, just a funny exercise to do with these skits.
@@UncooperativeCat Okay, I get it.😺Thank for sharing. It was interesting and valuable to know your point of view.☺
P.S. you have such a funny avatar, cool😄
As an INFJ I never have a better conversation than with ENFPs. I love these people, and I love talking about something random and irrelevant with them
Random doesn't necessarily mean irrelevant, though. As empathetic individual with a solid system of values and moral principles who lead with Ne, they're oftentimes interested in discussing humanitarian and philosophical matters. ENFPs are people champions for definition, they always strive to help their next, and their extroverted intuition makes them naturally predisposed to handle a debate, just like in the case of ENTPs. Ne is literally the opposite of tunnel vision, it offers more perspectives, takes in consideration several variables, explores possibilities and such. When associated with Fi, Ne focuses on depth, sense of justice and ethical matters, and it is more people oriented. xNFPs are idealists who value authenticity and encourage other people to be themselves and express themselves. They absolutely love and promote the importance of diversity and try to make everyone feel welcomed and appreciated for their uniqueness. And when Ne is associated with Te is bomb! Creativity + efficiency has so much potential in it. People tend to banally reduce this to creative writing and other artistic stuff, and well, it is rather true that on average INFPs and ENFPs are great authors, but their skills aren't limited to writing. Ne + Te makes them natural problem solvers, innovative thinkers who can find alternative solutions to problems, as Ne goes beyond the schemes, breaks them and offers perspective, while Te rationalizes and categorizes everything in an efficient way. Most ENFPs develop an interest in criminology and investigation more in general. What many people don't seem to understand (and no, I'm not specifically referring to you, my speech is generic 🤗), is that there is a huge difference between having the tendency to jokes most of the time, don't take life too seriously or *playing* dumb, and ACTUALLY *being* dumb. A very wise man once said that the advantage of being clever is that you can always play dumb when you want to, while the opposite (being actually dumb and playing smart) is literally impossible. Stereotypes can be really harmful sometimes...so many ENFPs got mistyped as ENTPs simply for being smart! As if thinkers were automatically smarter than feelers and feelers couldn't be just as intelligent - a conviction that paradoxically is very dumb per se. In addition valuing Ti more than Te doesn't automatically mean Ti users are more clever than Te users. A Ti user simply values more their own thoughts and personal logic than what is commonly considered logic by most, and they also tend to be more focused on theory than practical implementation. That being said, if a person's personal logic (Ti) makes no sense and what they are affirming is wrong, that person isn't smarter than another's person who values Te. Similarly, just because a person who values Fi more than Fe it doesn't mean that person principles and convictions are automatically morally and ethically right; it simply means that that person values their own moral code regardless of what is commonly considered right or wrong, but their own moral code doesn't have to be necessarily ethnically good. An Fi dom or aux can still be dishonest and mean, it is written nowhere that Fi individuals, being so principled, have to behave / are good people no matter what. Anyways, I went too off topic, I'm sorry! The point is that you can have deep and meaningful conversations with ENFPs too, and passing from topic to topic so quickly / randomly doesn't imply that said topics are superficial, irrelevant or meaningless.
Wow thanks for your answer, that being said I don't really think conversations with ENFPs are irrelevant (otherwise I wouldn't like to discuss with them), it was a joke and I was just repeating the same words Kristin uses in the video. I truly think that ENFPs are interesting people and I have a lot to learn from them!
@@deliriumcupcake6412
Wow. You have a beautiful thought process. Thank you for sharing your truth. 😊
Me and my INFJ friend will randomly just say “anyway!” And think of a new thing to talk about. Incredibly juicy and incredibly random conversations.
@@andjelarakic1608 I’m the ENFP and I drive my INFJ friend crazy with my complex analyses and philosophical questioning. Hell, I’d drive anybody crazy!
INFJ here - while it's all funny and quite interesting, I do believe that these are how an immature INFJ views the different types. I don't like to claim maturity because I'm still learning, but I USED to see the types as these, and now I see them differently. So there's some sort of open-minded growth there.
The only one that remains 100% accurate in my personal experience is INTJ XD They are so much fun to talk to, I must have around 10 INTJ friends that I consistently chat with.
I have to disagree to an extent. I am probably an immature INFJ, but half of these did not really reflect how I see the other types, although a few hit right on target, like ISFP and ENFP. I definitely do not perceive ISTJ as . . . whatever that was; nor the INTP. I'm highly more interested in iNtuitive doms and Ti doms than most others types. But the rest I do agree to . . . mostly.
Have a good evening. Cheers,
~ Ana
@@michael_koski @Michael Koski Hmm, well with your perspective in mind, I think the concept of the video is probably geared more towards making jokes out of stereotypes, and less towards exact accuracy.
It'd be interesting to see polls of how INFJs see the other types. In fact, it'd be fascinating to see polls for every type...
But props to Kristin for the work and creativity she puts into these videos. They are amazingly entertaining.
@@alaethia_d Agreed! It would be very interesting indeed.
I applaud Kristin, she is quite entertaining.
Have a nice day,
Ana
Kristin makes it clear her videos aren't entirely accurate or relatable to everyone of a certain type and are meant for comedy purposes.
Personally I definitely related to some of the ESTJ video, and to the overall idea of us being perfectionistic and a little insecure and comparing ourselves to others.
However I don't believe you don't think ESTJs are obsessed with tasks that mean nothing, even I think that about myself sometimes lol.
Hey,
Unfortunately the ESTJ personality type is one of the few that I've never met - or never identified when meeting, so I really can't say. Although I don't think I'd identify a whole group of people as merely obsessed with tasks that mean nothing. That's just silly. Not to mention you'd have to first identify what a task must have in order to 'not mean nothing', yk?
"A broken clock is right twice a day"
Ouch my soul, I love it. Also outro song YAY :D
I know, that was harsh! There’s a lot of value in the random! -INFP
INTP: 34 (34-26=8, 8= H, 34th letter = (only 11 letters) 7th letter = A, 8th letter = Y
ISFJ: 11= K, 11th letter = B (24 letters total)
ISFP: 6= F 6th letter = E (18 letters total)
ENTP: 1= A, 1st letter = I (20 total letters (27 additional =47)
ISTJ: 14= N, 14th letter = (only 10 letters)
ESFJ: 17= Q, 17th letter = 0 (21 total)
ENTJ: 3= C, 3rd letter = E (27 total)
ESTP: 8 or 9= H or I, 8th or 9th letter = L/ I (23 total)
ESTJ: 2= B, 2nd letter = O, (28 total)
ESFP: 1= A, 1st letter = A (23 total)
ENFP: 26 = Z, 26th letter = D (28 total)
INFJ: 3= C, 3rd letter = T (20 total)
ISTP: 5= E, 5th letter = E (20 total)
INFP: 4= D, 4th letter = P (29 total)
ENFJ: 16= P, 16th letter = E (20 total)
INTJ: 9= I, 9th letter = E (33 total)
Legend:
Type, # in message, Alphanumeric, #th letter appearing in message, total number of letters in message
Hypothesis: numbers on wall correspond to order of appearance of letters on each message accompanying each type, adding to each other, ultimately resulting in a coherent message. Will pursue.
Alternative hypothesis: there is no actual message, the numbers are just there to trick us into thinking there is a secret message
Including the ENTP’s extra cue cards and assuming there is no number for ESTJ (meaning repeat the letter):
34th: E
45th: A
51st: N
52nd: D
66th: E
83rd: M
86th: I
94th or 95th: N or T
96th or 97th: T or A
97th or 98th: A or C
123rd or 124th: D or O
126th or 127th: E or F
131st or 132nd: L or L
135th or 136th: E or R
151st or 152nd: O or R
160th or 161st: E or V
Put in a way more easy to see:
EANDEMINTADELEOE
Or
EANDEMITACOFLRRV
If the extra letters from the ENTP’S cue cards aren’t to be included the message changes after EANDE.
Props for actually trying to decode that lol
Have both of you ever felt touch of a women who is not related to you by blood. Like ever
@@sophiagomez5619 Thanks!
@@iliketrees8625 I admittedly don’t make it a priority to be touched by women, or anyone for that matter. But it nonetheless does occur on occasion.
Predictions: she is going to imagine her way into a date with the INTJ.
INFJ married to INTJ....he had to rescue himself out of where I thought he was firmly friendzoned. Probably the only guy I didn't imagine myself married to....happily married almost 20 years and we constantly finish each other's sentences and have complete conversations in our heads....LOL
Ofc we remember the “I’m suppressing wounds” song from the other vid😂 it was sang by the ESTP in the ENFJ’s vision, wasn’t it? It’s amazing!!! I’ll sing it for the whole day. WE WANT IT ON SPOTIFY!!!🤣 Imagine writing songs specifically for any type…
Well this is the most positive expression of INTJ that Kristin has ever done.
in fairness, it would be the INFJ who sees INTJ as a not-so-strange, not-so-scary playmate.
It's an accurate guess...
@@suzihoudeit’s true! I tend to like INTJs quite a bit
I'm... gonna need someone to analyse the layers in this video.
also YAY an outro song!
1. The labels that we eventually summarize every type to.
2. The visuals of what we associate with them in the background.
3. The numbers that hold meaning to us and we assign to them are hidden in each background.
4. The accurate descriptions,
this is absolutely brilliant. Love it.
"I'm suppressing wounds!" Finally, it's us INFJs' time to shine. They understand everyone perfectly, but are forever misunderstood themselves.👽
Maybe they don't understand everyone perfectly, because there's a lot of hidden information below the surface that takes time to unpack and they're just drawing superficial conclusions that completely miss their mark.
Maybe, who knows.
I mean, I've been misread by INFJs before, but I guess I appreciate that they at least try. Heck, they really do try.
-INTP
@@cluylala Similar. The few INFJs I've ever met or dealt with have tended to ask me socially acceptable question about my life, then been confused when I didn't respond with any of the "normal" answers. Q: "How are you doing this evening?" A: "Um... I'm standing upright, and I seem to have respiration. Lemme check for a pulse. Yup. That tracks. I am, in fact, alive. Thank you for asking. You?" 😐"Oh, you meant 'emotionally' or some such? That's more complicated and I don't wanna get into it..." Ends with me --> 😶and them -->😳
What part of me standing away from the crowd and keeping to myself makes people think I wanna open up to them socially/emotionally?
Lmao the INFJ roast is real. The amount of times they just assume what I'm feeling or thinking and assign me a label. Or when I explain my mind and they make something else up is so irritating. And actually they're a lot easier to understand than many want to admit. 😂😂
@@arcadianfox8127
Yeah, I don't think we understand people deeply immediately, but I think we're one of the types that Really *want* to understand people, because we want to understand where people fit into the (capital P) Pattern.
I think - if we get to know someone over time - we can get really good at "summing people up".
And the more you do something, the better at it you become. So after having met all kinds of people, listening to all kinds of stories, and being in all kinds of situations, I think INFJs have a pretty good database for what "archetypes" of people exist. So when we see a certain pattern repeated, we can jump to conclusions about that person.
Obviously we're not gonna get it right 100% of the time, but like I said, we're Very _interested_ , and that makes us want to do it more. And again, the more you do something the better at it you become.
INFJs need to be humble and admit, and rewind when we get something wrong, but I think an older INFJ who's met a lot of people can also be very good and accurate when understanding people.
lol Haha nicely done Krisp. INFJ doorslamming themselves is so ironic.
I love the ISTJ thing, really spot-on in my opinion. ISTJs and INFJs admire and idolize each other, basically see the qualities they lack in the other, but don't actually understand each other either.
My mouth literally fell open, I felt so exposed lol
I’m so glad to see I’m not the only one! I EXTREMELY idolize ISTJs. The capacity for shit they get done is very attractive, and I often wish I was an ISTJ. However, my mother is an ISTJ and so I can see the negatives of being one/with one. I don’t want to have to constantly worry about what might go wrong (inferior Ne), and being somewhat oblivious to socially appropriate behavior (blind spot Fe).
danggg you're exposing us...actually when the ISTJ part first came up it caught me off guard, i thought it was ironic cause I, an INFJ currently like(?) an ISTJ in kind of a romantic way... the POV should've been the ISTJ's and I'm the one who is telling ISTJ's dialogue it is exactly what I would want that ISTJ person that I like to know LMFAOOOO
@@jemelyndesamparado1561 I AM the ISTJ in question and I think INFJs are one of the most awesome types out there, I admire how caring and insightful they are, but on the other hand I really feel like we're speaking almost different languages.
It's not just personal relationships either. Pre brain-damage Jordan Peterson sang whole love songs to the ideal of the ISTJ.
You INFJs are much rares than my basic ISTJ self though, so I rarely run into you guys IRL.
Same 😅
I love that it ends with the "I'm suppressing wounds" song, since it fits so well with us INFJs 😂
Irish Infp here. Can confirm the whole leprechaun thing. There is a fairy tree behind my house and I’ve definitely heard voices coming from the bushes once when no one was around
GIMME THE KEY (or else my inferior Se will catch you in the most awkward way possible! >:D)
"I still speak in cryptic messages which is why you still like spending time with me." As an INFJ who has caught deep feelings for an ESTJ woman, this hits hard.
You sure you aren't an INFP or they're an ESTP?
@@modove2842 Like many if not most INFJs, I have been typed in the past as an INFP, INFJ, and INTJ by various folks. University psychologist said INFJ/INTJ borderline (and I trust their appraisal more than some career center), and I'm sure I'm not an INFP because my Ni-Ti worrywart loops are too real and obvious, and I always need to check feelings against objective facts or I just can't rest easy. And I know she was DEFINITELY an ESTJ! It was mega obvious.
@@AF-tv6uf "I always need to check feelings against objective facts" tbh that sounds very Fi-dom, Te-seeking. That might be why you like ESTJs-if you're an INFP, your weaker-valued functions are Si and Te. An ESTJ provides those two functions as easily as breathing.
What would you rather deal with - an ESTP being bossy by being imposing/pressuring people (Se), or an ESTJ being bossy by cross-referencing external facts (Te) with past experiences (Si)?
According to the socionics theory of type relations, someone leading with Ni-Fe likes Se in other people but doesn't like Te (ESTJs don't really have time for my abstract theories about networks of people (so not even "more useful" Te concepts). But Fi-Ne likes Te to keep them on track/fact-check them, and they dislike Se bossing them around (while Ni likes Se because otherwise Ni just. Doesn't do things. A Te plan doesn't help Ni-Fe get things done but Se does)
An infj who loves estj, that’s new
@@Just-99me Some relationship MBTI folks call it an example of a 'bronze pairing.' This means that because none of our functions are held in common, there's an air of mystery and a complementarian thing involved that attracts. If the two people have values similar enough.
As someone with a mustache, I'd like to point out that you generally want to caress it from the center to the sides (along growth direction), not the other way around. The latter one feels weird, and also ruffles the hair, so you don't do it unless your skin is itching and you have not found a better remedy. I know this is entirely irrelevant to the topic of the video, but I thought I mention it, seeing Kristin playing around with facial hair. Btw, the applied "pinching" seen around 2:43 would be entirely correct on the chin with a beard (as that's the natural growth direction there).
The video is great, otherwise! As an ISTP I'm not sure I get all the layers, but probably only the gist of it, and that's enough. :D
the moustache character is INTJ so perhaps he is doing it the other way round due to his inferior Se LOL.
+@@lunahelena5329 what a great analysis, also funny.
Maybe there's a hidden meaning to the backward mustache stroke... 🙃😆
I noticed that too! I thought she was trying to secure it in place because it was loosening or something as she talked
@@fearlesssfcappuccino I would not know, I am an ISTP :D
I've got this great idea: "A Day In The Life Of One Of The '16 Personalities Housemates' Characters." Each episode takes a day-long deep-dive into a member of the 16 Personalities housemates, like Ashley Abigail Ainsley the ENFP, or ISTJ Jill, Kayley the ENFJ, Johnny the INTP, Jane the INTJ, Barry the ISTP, Danielle/Dani the INFP, Becky the INFJ, Mandy the ISFJ, Sally the ISFP, Gemma the ENTJ, Annie the ESTP, Lauren the ESFP, Jenny the ESFJ, and Jessica the ENTP. It starts in the morning, and follows each housemate as they interact with the other housemates, what they do at work or study or whatever they do to afford their share of the rent (and don't forget to put in the types of their co-workers or studymates). Don't be afraid to throw a curve ball or two; wouldn't it be hilarious if Gemma or Jill or the ESTJ had to get an ad campaign going for their business, and found out that Ashley Abigail Ainsley is in charge of the creative department of the ad agency she's in, and delegates the details of each campaign to her assistants?
I LOVE THIS IDEA SO MUCH. It also helps that I (as an ENFP) think it would be HILARIOUS if one of the STJ types was trying to cooperate with me but we're just speaking COMPLETELY different languages, it would probably drive them up the wall
I found it entertaining you evaluated your own idea as “great” and confidently shared the evaluation.
Thanks for the entertainment.
@@exnihilonihilfit6316 hey sometimes we just need a little confidence boost and the only ones around are ourselves
So sue us for exhibiting CONFIDENCE once in a while
Love this idea!!!
0:15
Objectively false! As an INFJ, I think ISFJs are adorable.
They are! =)
But do you find them attractive as a partner?
Exactly! I adore my mother, who happens to be an ISFJ 😊
It's just made my morning brighter 😊
Thank you Kristin for your hard work into making these videos accurate and funny! -INFJ
As an INFJ I was really excited for this video! The video style alone is already accurate. Now for my reactions
INTP: So true! Sometimes when an INTP is talking to me I kind of just zone out in the middle and start thinking about other things, but for some reason I can still hear the conversation and remember everything. Later I just try to think about what he meant by his words, but I never actually talk to him about these thoughts
ISFJ: I have an ISFJ best friend ever since I was small and I have to say, his life does seem really simple and I don’t think he worries about anything really. He’s kind to a certain degree, though I wouldn’t say that he’s a total people pleaser. I get annoyed with him occasionally though when he tries to push his opinion on me, but this almost never ends in a big fight
ISFP: Ouch, this kinda hurt me a bit. These guys say some of the weirdest things ever and they’re either super funny or super cringe or a mix of both. They have a good sense of humor and know who they are as a person and do know what they want, so although this one hurts it’s painfully accurate. :(. They’re fun people to hang out with though
ENTP: Ahhhh these guys annoy me so much but at the same time I love them. I swear sometimes they know exactly what I’m thinking and sometimes they don’t, but I suspect that they may just be acting dumb since I also really love acting dumb. They’re really smart people but they use their intelligence in a very funny way and I just really love them.
ISTJ: These guys straight up just say what they mean and they seem a bit cold to me at certain times. They just kind of… do things, I don’t know what else to say lol. They just seem rather simple
ESFJ: Haha this is accurate to a certain extent. I have an ESFJ sister and she loves making friends with everyone, but she always tells me that she doesn’t know what she wants to do in the future. She straight up just dies on the inside when I ask her questions such as “what do you think the meaning of life is?”
ENTJ: I have an ENTJ friend at school and she seems really confident and works really hard and tends to know almost everything. She’s a huge snowflake though and seems to get triggered at almost anything which is why I sometimes do think that she’s afraid to let someone get close to her. She doesn’t really speak in codes though, she’s rather straightforward but at certain times I do feel like she is hiding something, maybe not an insecurity but she’s definitely hiding something
ESTP: Haha yes ESTP’s are just too obvious with their words. I highly doubt that they’re someone who’d hide a part of themselves. Though unlike the ENTJ I really don’t think an ESTP is hiding anything. Don’t think that they’re suppressing wounds either
ESTJ: YESSS omg I have a slight suspicion that my dad is an ESTJ and I constantly get annoyed by him by just how blunt and straightforward he is and how he always just wants to do something. Sometimes I wish he’d put more thought into his words before he say them. Though I don’t think he’s speaking in encrypted messages, he’s rather straightforward
ESFP: These guys are just so chaotic and I wonder if they ever even think about what they say first before they actually do. Probably not though because of Se-Fi, lol. I also don’t think ESFP’s are speaking in encrypted messages
ENFP: Hahahaha yes. I have an ENFP friend who can almost always come up with a topic to talk to me about, but then after I speak with her about the topic for about 60 seconds she immediately asks another question about something else and often times I have to go back to one of the topics she came up with and add more to it since I feel like there’s more to talk about it
INFJ: Never met another INFJ in my life, though as an INFJ I don’t think I’d repeatedly ask “how are you?” since it may annoy them, and I wouldn’t really door slam someone who genuinely cares about me
ISTP: I really would not go to my ISTP friends in order to get myself fixed. I think ISTPs are the last types that I would go to to get myself fixed. The tricking part is accurate though since they’re so easy to trick and they always fall for them. Asking them for help to fix something that isn’t my heart is also accurate
INFP: We click so well it’s absolutely insane, though both of us are aware that each other is hiding something, so I’d say you hit the nail on the head for this one haha
ENFJ: Super accurate! I’ve met three ENFJs in my life and holy crap they really care about people. Like REALLY care about people. They can almost always give good advice to other people, and the part about “you’re proud that you’re not as pushy as I am” is so true. When they draw the wrong conclusion about someone and give them wrong advice I really start to panic but sometimes I don’t really say anything cause I don’t want to hurt their feelings, and I just hate saying that someone is wrong. It’s definitely something that annoys me a lot
INTJ: I love discussing philosophical topics with my INTJ friend because she always just seem to understand what I’m talking about. She’s a genuinely kind person. Though we don’t really talk a lot about anything “weird”, we always love trying to predict what the other person is going to say before they say it. She usually fails though because she thinks that I have multiple different personalities and is hard to predict
Overall I’d say most of these were accurate, but I dislike the fact that people always think that we think that everything is an encrypted message. I think that some words are encrypted messages and I do tend to overthink when someone’s words are a bit too simple, but after some time I just tell myself that I’m overthinking it and that they are saying what they mean and move on. The dreamy vibe was just amazing, and I love how almost all the types are transparent and has a sign on them, great video Kristin! INFJ approved!
Yep. I agree with basically everything that you said.
(Although, I still haven’t quite figured out the “trick” to tricking ISTPs to do things. Then again, I guess I never really found a reason to. Haha)
@@sunchips18 Tell them to do something, and give a reasonable reason, but make sure it has a bit of suspicion in it. And then when they ask “are you sure?” you can just tell them “I don’t know, maybe?” in almost a confident way, and they just get confused if you actually know or not. They usually end up doing it simply cause they’re confused and it’s kind of funny
@@harrywang2795 Still don’t have much reason to do this, but I have to admit this made me laugh so hard. It’s just so beautifully evil. 🥲
@@sunchips18 Glad that I made you laugh! Makes my Fe happy :)
I wouldn't say we're easy to trick (ISTP) - you're mistaking us not caring for falling for your trap.
Finding an INTJ is so satisfying. Ni conversations are the best and they know more than me about everything so I just listen to them like 🤯
HOLY COW I LAUGHED SO MUCH AT THE INFJ vs INFJ PART this is exactly what happened between me and my coworker!!!! we both noticed how similar we are to each other and our conversations were always kind of awkward bc we tried to please the other part and never got really deep with each other because it was was like a mirror talking to itself, we never acknowledged the most obvious things for example how similar we are to each other - and then we went through a phase of doorslamming each other. (now were all good again and actually get to know each other bit by bit but it took a longer while compared to other coworkers) BUT HOLY SHIT HOW ACCURATE AND FUNNY I
Sorry, no. It sounds like you are either not an INFJ at all, or you have completely totally misunderstood what doorslamming means. INFJ doorslamming is permanent. It's not a "phase." It's irreversible. When an INFJ slams the door on you, the INFJ never takes you back. Ever. The reason an INFJ doorslams is not because of some petty argument or quarrel or misunderstanding that can later be patched up. Rather, it's because the person in question has behaved appallingly towards the INFJ, time after time after time after time after time, and has shown that they will never change. They will just keep on mistreating the INFJ. The INFJ patiently puts up with this for a long time and keeps hoping the person will change and stop being hurtful / selfish / abusive, but eventually realises they will not change. At that point the INFJ slams the door and leaves. For ever.
Love the fact that everyone is slightly transparent, showing how the INFJ thinks they can see right through them.
We don't think so. We feel so. 😂 Our intuition encourages us to look beyond what we see. 🤣
That or the chronic dissociation causes us to live in a constant dream like state but who knows.
Real, real nice! ENFPs, though, seem to me (as an INFJ, ofc) less like a random nuisance, more like dearest people in the world, with whom I can be myself and feel completely safe at the same time. Not to mention that this randomness of Ne is a gust of fresh air. I feel like Ni and Ne complement each other beautifully and make me never want to stop the conversation my friend ENFP and I are having :)
Your comment made me genuinely smile, so thank you 💖 I presumably am an ENFP (although a couple of friends of mine who are into cognitive functions think I value more Fe and Ti than Fi and Te, so who knows 😅) and my girlfriend is an INFJ like you. While we obviously have two different approaches to life, mostly because I'm a bubbly extrovert and she's more reserved, we do share the same values and beliefs. We're both intuitive types who tend to take their decisions based on feelings, and the fact that she's so goal oriented and I am so cheerful and creative are a wonderful combo! I offer her extra perspectives while she offers me purposes. We also both studied psychology and have a thing for humanitarian subjects, and this is a plus. You know, it often makes me sad this "dumb empty heads" stereotype about ENFP, because I don't feel represented by it at all. It is one thing joking around, being spontaneous and looking at the world with the imaginative and the wonder of a child, and it is another thing being brainless (a factor that isn't determined by one's MBTI type, by the way). And what you wrotr in your comment is exactly how my girlfriend uses to define me! It might seem shocking for someone, but she actually feels seen, heard and understood by me. We are each other's cheerleaders, and she even behaves like an extrovert with me! She isn't, but when she's with me she kinda free herself and becomes chatty, more spontaneous, and start venting with me, telling me about her day and her feelings...and I do the same with her. I always tell her that I'd like to be more patient and quiet like her, cause I can be a real hothead in front of injustices, and she paradoxically always tells me that she would like to stand up for herself and speak up more just like I use to do. We almost always think alive, the only difference is that I am loud when I disagree with something and actually start debating, while she usually takes a breath and keep her harsh opinions for herself, even when she would like to intervene and also say what I say in front of certain injustices and unfair situations. And the reason why most of you INFJs don't speak up, in my personal opinion, is that you want to avoid conflict for the fear of rejection. People usually have high expectations on you, taking for granted that you're gonna prioritize their needs over your own, which is unfair of them, but still you let them believe that because you want to preserve social harmony. But you know what? You have right to live your life peacefully without worrying about what other people might think of you. INFJs feelings matter just like anyone else's, and practicing self love isn't selfishness. Taking care of others is a noble thing to do, we all should do that regardless of our MBTI type, but it shouldn't be at the expenses of ourselves. An INFJ isn't less of a human! You do have emotions and feelings too, and if someone isn't willing to respect them the same way you respect theirs, maybe that person isn't worthy of being called "friend". If we are our authentic selves we're gonna attract the people who are meant to be in our life, and those who aren't will go eventually...and it's okay. It's okay not feeling okay sometimes, and it's okay crying. Even when you don't know why you want to cry, if you feel like doing it, just do it! You often carry other people's problems on your shoulders (I also do that), but you also deserve to be helped to carry yours, guys. There's no shame in doing that. You don't expect other people to be perfect, and we don't expect you to be. Everyone should be entitled to express themselves, so long as they are respectful of their next! Judging someone solely based on their MBTI type is rather stupid and superficial, and there's so much more beyond our favorite cognitive functions! (sorry for the excessively long message, though...I hope it can make you smile just like yours made me smile, but I get it if it's too boring to be read fully...I wouldn't read it myself ahah)
@@deliriumcupcake6412 Course I did read it. Thank you for the lovely and elaborate response! It is pretty accurate; I feel I should add something to my initial comment, though: it is not always the case that INFJs restrain themselves for the fear of rejection or ruining social harmony, expressing yourself just does not seem right or likely to be understood and appreciated under most circumstances. But some people give the right conditions.
Also, I think we are probably just projecting precious people from our lives onto ENFPs and INFJs😜It gives you more people to love, but it surely would be wise to be aware it is a generalisation 😉
@@deliriumcupcake6412 thank you for truly seeing and understanding us INFJs 🥲
Right! Two of my besties are INFJs and we by far understand each better than other types. One of them thanks me almost everyday for being so understanding because she gets pushback from everyone else all of the time
@@deliriumcupcake6412i read ur whole message. it was truly beautiful. as an infj i appreciate ur existence & i’m happy for ur gf. the both of u are truly lucky :)
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no one cares
@@abcd14486 Clearly you care enough to leave a comment.😂
@@juliadavidking23 I'll pay you the courtesy of being blunt. Shut up.
@@juliadavidking23 i do care about the fact people do not, not about her shit patreon goal
+@@abcd14486 I do. Subbing to the Patreon this evening. This comment made me aware of it since I have an auto-promo skip.
Finally! Thank you, Kristin :)
-Automatically sees through and labels everyone and tries to find deeper meanings. I love the layers, organized chaos, and dreamlike atmosphere.
(ENTP) I notice that this one is the only one apart from our dear ESTPs who don't seem to be under the impression we are insane.
I mean, Arguable we are, I'm a bit rusty on all things mbti so I can't give indepth deets(Plus sleep depravation) but the Ne Ti combo along with the rest of the stack makes room for insanity that we love for and from the world; The wold we live in is insane in it's own way. We are the Chaos in and of order, the change of what is and what is not and everything inbetween.
I wonder how many pepole will gain insight and how many pepole will just be confused and think what I typed above is complete nonsesnse.
@@kylozen3938 "Sanity is overrated." It is not our fault they cannot follow a NE-fueled TI think-a-thon.
INTJ: INFJs are one of the few types I can talk for hours with and I've noticed how many INFJs I consistently talk to... O.o
As the INFP saying goes:
*Keep you cards close and your leprechaun closer*
Each person has a message leaving clues to their "favorite" movie or film that sums them up the best:
INTP: Edward Scissorhands
ISFJ: The Tender Trap
ISFP: Forrest Gump
ENTP: King's Speech
ISTJ: 4 Weddings & 1 Funeral
ESFJ: Princess Diaries
ENTJ: Psycho
ESTP: Fight Club
ESTJ: Blade Runner
ESFP: Casino Royale
ENFP: A Clockwork Orange
INFJ: The Sixth Sense
ISTP: Castaway
INFP: Lord of the Rings
ENFJ: IT
INTJ: The Silence of the Lambs
this list is marred by my lack of cinematic culture but i'll complete it as the answers come to me :)
thanks for the fun, kristin!
I was hoping someone else had read the UK captions! It was fun figuring those out :) The only thing I had different was ISFJ: The Parent Trap
Oh wait! I just realised ESTJ's is Blade Runner!
I love that everyone is slightly transparent, representing the INFJ not living the moment thing!
INFJ here. Yep, very on point!
And loved the tunnel effects at the end! It was like the inside of my mind! 😂 I'm sure anyone with dominant Ni can relate!
Ah yes, the future simple and the "I must" tunnel vision
@@oliverspiler9101 Exactly!
I have waited so long for this.❤ Thank you, Kristin!!
I"m only as good as the last heart I got on the last Dear Kristin video so I am very, severely hard on myself as a Dear Kristin fan.
As an INTJ, the INFP’s perception was pretty accurate.
I often engage in rather esoteric conversation with my INTJ friend, whether it be on niche areas of philosophy, or one of the dozens of fictional worlds/ writing projects we have catalogued that likely will never be completed. Depending on the conversation, we sometimes complete each others sentences, or sometimes we don’t even speak full sentences, since it’s clear the other can figure out what the rest of the sentence is. We also enjoy employing a greater than usual vernacular when speaking with each other.
So to find out how many layers are used in this video, you have to rewatch it over and over again. Just like INFJ does it with their head huh? That's interesting lol
woah
Good song at the end :D
MBTI aside, Kristin, I love your acting for the INTJ! Your actings are always fresh and varied and creative!
IT’S HERE
I been waiting on this one!!!
Yay! Thank you! That's what I've been waiting for. - written by INFJ fellow.
P. s. 2:47 I like how you sing it.
Been waiting for INFJ, at last here it is!! Thanks Kristin for this 💖
Psiren
"I Jumped into the ocean without my paddle,
Searching for the 'just a dream of life'...
And now I swim in the wreckage time's river,
Where once in a little row boat I held your hand,
Now I look for you beneath the waves,
Drowning just to find you and pull you up,
And out of the hole in the world...
But I cannot reach you if you will not follow,
There with the fishes forever blowing bubbles,
I am not the Fisher king, but the mermaid,
Unhooking you from Despair's predation,
Fishermen who would yank you from on high,
And land you stunned and broken for supper.
But I am your heart, the Earth, the journey,
Through life, not from life, toward the ever after,
Not the dream you wake from, but to..
The paradise of knowing your own heart,
The will unbroken by time and fate....
Not mine, but yours and ours together,
Even alone, there is no I greater than we,
So I must return to the wreckage of me...
With the pieces of me you hold as your own
And I go deeper in, deeper beneath the waves
Where the voices in my head have voices,
And they're all telling me to run....
But this mirror can stand where others flee,
And can show you how there are parts of you,
That will always be a part of me....
Here, watch the comment section fill up with mistypes .
2:00 as an infp the “friendly leprechaun” is my emotional support ENFP
i love that the infj doesn't seem to hate the intj
I tend to like INFJs too. They're one of the few who can gain my interest.
@@Azdaja13 they are on my list of "people most likely to betray me and my trust" unfortunately
HALP!
INTP - Edward Scissorhands
ISFJ - ?
ISFP - Blair Witch Project??
ENTP - The King's speech??
ISTJ - 4 Weddings and a funeral
ESFJ - Neverending story? Princes Bride?
ENTJ - Psycho
ESTP - Fight Club
ESTJ - ?
ESFP - ?
ENFP - Clockwork Orange
INFJ - The sixth sense
ISTP - ?
INFP -Lord of the rings
ENFJ - IT
INTJ - Silence of the lambs
ISFJ - ??? (one of the symbols doesn't load properly, so idk, something about dancing)
ESFJ - The Princess Diaries
ESTJ - Blade Runner
ESFP - Casino Royale
ISTP - Castaway
I think you got the rest.
ISFJ - The Parent Trap
You saved the "Kristin with a mustache" until the end, but it was there. Always a treat! 🥸
Gonna have "🎵I'm suppressing wounds🎶" playing in my head (along with the image of a dancing leprechaun) for the next couple hours... so thanks for that, too! 👍
The amount of emotional, mental and psychological lingo and atmosphere in this video just makes it accurate to the eyes of INFJ, well done kristin.
Omg the ISFP was ruthless, hahaha. It's always super interesting seeing types beyond the stereotypes!
EDIT: INFJs and (xNFJ projected?) ESTPs suppressing wounds make me ship them even harder 🤭
Fellow comment reader, heres a task: How many people can you find in this comment section proclaiming that this video is so accurate and that they are an infj.
Lets start with 1: Infj here.
PS: dont make a drinking game out of this pls
As an INTJ dating an INFJ, I like this, it is very refreshing to be understood.
what the hell? :D In another video, I literally said that I find INFJs the only other type as interesting by default. And also described the mutual interactions as feeling sometimes like an elaborate dance combined with a chess match :D.
I am an INFJ. The stereotypes in this video are remarkably similar to the relationships I have with my family and friends. Especially the ENFJ (younger sister) and the INTJ (my dad). Thank you for showing me this!
The outro song is a bop. Got me embracing my inner ESFP. This is a long comment that I tried to be succinct with but given that I did not do great on such department, I provided titles as guide. Now fasten your seatbelts for an Ni-deep diving ride.
---INFJ Lens and its Layers
References and compliments aside, the detail of having all the characters be a bit transparent is the layer of that juicy dear kristin nuance. Having them like that with a background and label on them really just shows how different Ni can be presented. Personally I would show Ni as an emanation. This is because Ni is always running in my brain as an Ni-dom that most times the ideas/words I speak doesn't really feel like it's from me. But it presents itself as something I came up with because... well, I Te-said it.
---Cognitive Functions and How they Present
Also, I've been listening on the podcasts ever since it's on yt and I'm starting to be more... would it be right to call it Se-aware? Of how the functions can present themselves as. Which, I think gives that element of mystery and person-to-person distinction that is Fi-important to me. It really helps that each time the podcast has a guest, their type is either the highlight or just pointed out at first. It's that referrable Se data I appreciate to make my Ni ideas comprehensible. This series itself is a staple of what I'm trying to say but the podcasts made me realize that, weirdly enough.
---Relating Ni to a concept in Philosophy and Religion
First, I informally cited where i got the idea from but since it was in a discussion of the reading, it's hard to pinpoint. Going back to how I would explain Ni as an Ni-dom I mentioned active intellect which is a coined term from the Ancient/Classical Islamic Philosophy if I remember correctly (refer to al Farabi at the bottom). My professor, given that the class I learned these from had Christians, Catholics, and other Abrahamic religions in class made the active intellect "referrable" by comparing it to Angel Gabriel Angel Gabriel as the messenger of God's plan to Mary. Because that's kind of how Ni acts in my head, very different to how it presents. Given I Te-utilize and organize most of what I say anyway, it makes me sound smarter than I feel I really am. It's because my Ni is just always unconsciously painting pictures, connecting things, making sense of so much in the abstract that when I say them, it doesn't feel like it came from me. Which, in an analogical sense, fits the concept of active intellect and Angel Gabriel wherein Ni-mediated ideas feel emanated or feel somewhat not from the Ni-user. The vibes of it's God-begotten not man made except it's all in my head and explaining it to any Sensor really does make me sound like I just escaped from the ward.
---Fi-nal Unpacking
I think because of my religious beliefs, interest in Philosophy, and my Fi-need to understand people with a tool that I get (astrology makes little sense to me) treat those I care for better, every dear kristin video is just something I keep going back to knowing that the passion to continue learning and the reason to even start learning MBTI then making each video to share it to others in a light hearted ESFP way and not a Paper/Dissertation/Book INTJ way is from a similar reason is comforting to me. (this is what I, an INTJ, would have said in the kidnapping video but I was rudely cut off! Again!)
(ps: the detail of INTJ talking fast and looking possibly the happiest I've ever seen is a very funny detail that is CLEARLY a projection of the INFJ. We are never happy, that's crazy! We *always* have an ominous list of how to punish everyone and very detailed plan for world domination. We are very serious about them despite still being in their preliminary stages.)
al Farabi: The Political Writings vol 2 translation by Charles E Butterworth pp. 29-94)
Although I don't see world like that, and loads of these are "cryptic mesages", I have spent significant time in the comment section. Well done. I would have added it as a next layer.
As an INFP with a INFJ mom, this is very accurate
Please, as another INFP with no INFJs in my life, what does it mean?
INFP here. I'm glad my child sees me as sweet and kind and knows I cherish her. I also seem to be one of the rare persons that she doesn't expect to send cryptic messages. 😅
The bomb behind the ESTP is so meaningful
i have an infj friend who sees through everyone, but is always confused about herself. infjs are really precious. they would do anything to help people and sometimes it just makes me sad seeing how many lengths they would go to help someone :(
The estp song from the eyes of enfj at the end
Loved this video for as INFJ. Though, not gonna lie, if there is someone that intrigues me, like say if it were the ESFJ, I would look to see how to match their needs. It’s difficult with the extroverts, but I’d imagine it is pretty easy to emulate an inviting mood for others while our anxiety is flying through the roof. I think my goal in life after realizing I was an INFJ is to be so invested that I spook people with how well I notice their quirks. A very fine line and it does not always work, but when it does, it is hilarious.
As always, Kristin slays this! I love how you find creative ways to show every type's unique perspective on life. You're amazing, keep going strong!
I love how this is one of the few times INTJ seems interested about talking LOL
I found four layers.
1. The words
2. The symbolism behind the words
3. The locations (bonus=the ISTJ & ESTP not really having a background)
4. The quotes
5. The emoji… movies?
6. The lowered opacity of everyone signalling the INFJ thinks everyone's "just so transparent" (bonus= the ISTJ (& ESTP?) not being transparent)
Another bonus = the 4 behind the INFP but I'm not sure if that's just a typo.
So I wrote four at first and then I kept noticing more. My original four were 1, 3, 4, and 6. For anyone who even sees this comment and is curious.
OH MY GOD THE NUMBERS WHAT
The ISFJ bit was the most accurate 😂😂 I’ve struggled with people pleasing and I’m only ever attracted to people with deep repressed wounds and many layers due to a chaotic past, and I see their broken pieces as something I want to put back together like a jigsaw puzzle. It’s the best. - INFJ
I heard "I'm surpressing wounds" by ESTP and I thought "oh she missed the opportunity to bring back the song!". Then I stayed until the end and my life became better.
I’m an ISFJ who was recently dating an INFJ. We hit it off splendidly and were having a lovely time together, but she ultimately ended things saying she didn’t want to pursue it further and now I’m wondering if this is why 🥲
ISFJ here. I can relate to the ESFJ thinking "why am I using Fe for things that won't matter 10 years from now," because I'm currently in a situation with a friend where I've slipped into letting Fe take the lead, but fortunately, Si is starting to assert itself, so I'm hoping that in 10 years, I can look back and say "I did it my way."
Amen to that!
-your fellow ISFJ
LOOOOL
I'm an INFP and it was an INFJ that discovered me on twitch and over 2/3 months helped me figure out what im doing with my life.
>< it's just, the way you described INFP is ridiculously accurate to how this person and I were.
She meant absolutely everything to me but I could find a way to sort of take a step to let her "close to my heart". It's very very accurate. even today, I don't want to let her too close despite this person being someone I love very very dearly. (we dont speak anymore, mind u)
All my family thought I was online-dating this person but we were just friends! Just I loved her a lot cos I thought she was the best person I ever met (and still think it >< )
Kudos to you!
Can we please make "Suppressing wounds" a full song? This beat is fire 🔥🔥🔥
I personally overthought a lot about Kristin saying there is always a lot of INFJs who comment, they always mention they're INFJs and talk about personal stuff. I know it's used as a joke but I hope it's not actually annoying for her cause I can't help but feeling bad about it 😅. I wondered a lot why and I think I know why other INFJs do this. Cause they talk about themselves so rarely that MBTI is like a subject that allows them to talk more about themselves and understand themselves more. It's probably like a quick therapy session for INFJs for once instead of the other way around. Also it's no secret MBTI is a topic INFJs are very interested in. At first I hated that INFJs were used as a marketing argument for MBTI but now that I think more about it, I think it's kinda fitting that INFJ is a sort of "mascot" of the MBTI (even though I still have problems with it and I wish that weren't the case). All of this to say sorry for it Kristin, that just reveals how helpful, interesting and fun your videos are for INFJs that they hardly contain their enjoyment for talking about themselves for once.
Great video once again. I loved how there is a philosophical lesson for each personality type that reveals how the INFJ already scanned their soul and understood the meaningful things about them. Loved the UK subtitles as well. I love noticing when Kristin uses her Ni.
This video is absurdly well made!! Good job Kristin 🙌 I think it deserves a rewatch now 😁
Also, the ISFP part was so scarily accurate as to how I see my partner (I’m an INFP though) I’m like how do you find life so easy?? He just sails through doing his own thing, whereas I’m over in a corner going “I don’t know who I am!!!” 😅
A coffee break with an INFJ will solve your problem ☺️
I agree with this. I find myself having a natural drawn attraction and yet resentful attitude towards individuals with dominant introverted judging functions (Fi & Ti, or ISFP INFP INTP and ISTP). This is because they simplify their life for the better and do not feel the need to conjure or fulfill a higher purpose. They know who they are, and are unapologetic about it. Realistically, they have the most effective approach to living a happy life in the modern era, as individualism is greatly valued (at least in the US), and Fi/Ti don’t require a greater purpose to climb to.
I am both disgusted and jealous at the same time.
Me, an INTP: "Ah, my old nemesis the INFJ. You think you see through me and my carefully chosen words to the core of my being, but you fail to realize I've chosen my words specifically so you see through them only to depth of the layer I want to reveal. How far down is that layer? You'll never know for sure."
It’s your core isn’t it? 😂
@@AngelaTheDoll444 playing devils advocate here, but infj’s do have the tendencies to only perceive information that confirms their preconceptions and ignore information that disproves it.
That to say that the image they see on INTP’s may not reflect the actual reality of INTP. Hence the OP’s joke about the layers. Maybe you haven’t gone past the surface level of masks we wear.
That leprechaun is going to haunt me. -estp
OMG! Awesome! Incredible! Fabulous!
Your so cool and clever!
: )
Thank you!!
The most chaotic thing I've seen in a long time, thank you Kristin
As an ISTJ-we are what we say we are. Yeah we might be reserved, but instead of jumping to conclusions, you can just ask.
entj here, trying to think of the best ways to speak in cryptic ways to INFJs in order to drive them insane
it takes a level of skill😌
Okay, so, what's up with the numbers? Some are barely visible (like 16 ENFJ or 5 ISTP) some are easy to see (like 34 INTP or 14 ISTJ). ENTJ and INFJ have the same number. Is it a ranking how much fun to unpack the types are? Number of people of the respective type the INFJ has tried to unpack? How deep the wounds are? How high a challenge to unpack? I have no idea, help me :D As we know Kristin, there has to be an explanation (possibly bizzare)
😏😏😏😏😏😏
Thanks for putting them in order by number!
IF this is helpful to anyone, here's that list again + The Message/Cue Card of each
1 - ESFP - ALL THAT GLITTERS / ISN'T GOLD
2 - ESTJ - GOOD THINGS / COME TO / THOSE WHO / WAIT
3 - INFJ - NOTHING / IS WHAT IT / SEEMS
3 - ENTJ - EVERYTHING / HAPPENS FOR/ A REASON
4 - INFP - KEEP YOUR / CARDS CLOSE / TO YOUR / CHEST
5 - ISTP - THERE IS / ALWAYS / SUBTEXT
6 - ISFP - TIME HEALS / ALL WOUNDS
7 - ENTP - IT'S JUST A / MATTER OF / TIME (EMOTIONAL / MANIPULATION) (TACTIC #1)
8 - ESTP - EVENTUALITY / IS / INEVITABLE
9 - INTJ - SAND LINGERS, / BUT THE SUN / WAITS FOR / NO ONE
11 - ISFJ - DON'T JUDGE / A BOOK BY / ITS COVER
14 - ISTJ - LOOK DEEPER
16 - ENFJ - THE WRITING'S / ON THE WALL
17 - ESFJ - ALL FOR ONE / AND / ONE FOR ALL
26 - ENFP - A BROKEN CLOCK / IS RIGHT TWICE / A DAY
34 - INTP - I HAVE / LAYERS
I believe it’s a “rarity” score. As if the INFJ is “counting” the number of similar people they have met in order to classify and analyze them. So for like my type, ENTJ, they meet an ENTJ and when trying to understand that person they compare them to the other 3 or so ENTJs they have come across.
It's high probability it doesn't mean a thing but is there to overthink for INFJs.
I tried letter of what they were saying ciphors and the amalgamation of the result but think I made some errors because it was gibberish.
Alright. I've discovered some things and thought I'd add my thoughts to the circle.
IN the UK captions is, I believe, emojis symbolizing movies.
Watch it again with UK captions if you wish and see if you can help me by adding to my findings...
INFJ- (ear emoji, hand, tongue, nose, eyes, 6) Sixth Sense
INTP- (boy, scissors, hands) ?
ISFJ- (dancing bunny girls, two holding hands, mouse trap) ?
ISFP- (camera, running man, pine tree, pine tree) ?
ENTP- (crown, talking bubble) ?
ISTJ- (ring, ring, ring, ring, coffin) The Ring?
ESFJ- (queen, book) ?
ENTJ- (showerhead, knife) Psycho
ESTP- (boxing glove, clubs symbol) Fight Club
ESTJ- (knife, running man) ?
ENFP- (clock, orange) Paddington? (long shot)
ISTP- (palm tree, volleyball) Castaway?
INFP- (wizard, elf, ring, volcano) LotR
ENFJ- (clown, hazard sign) ?
hope this gives you a fun puzzle to solve
a clockwork orange enfp, it enfj, the kings speech entp, edward scissor hands intp,
isfj, the parent trap, isfp forrest gump, istj four weddings and a funeral, estj blade runner,
INTJ - 100% wearing a top hat. Also, that Leprechaun is now my sleep-paralysis demon. thanks :>
Also, I noticed the transparency - nice touch. (Wife is an INFJ)
I'm an INTJ with an INFJ (function jumper) friend and I feel so called out. That is literally how all our conversations go.
I was waiting for this video :D
I like the way u make your videos always funny
Is this is like a jumbled message? I am dying to knnooooowwww…. Anyway, good job in portraying the 16 personalities in a nuanced fashion.
This is weird but, the eccentric INTJ is something...
Everyone speaks in cryptic messages. ... Or... Nevermind. Time to overthink. (INFJ)
I do sometimes appreciate INFJ getting through my jumbled words and arrive at the meanings I’m trying to convey. My thoughts are sometimes too big for my words to express- INTP
Oh, I feel ur last sentence with all my heart
I have a hunch that the ESFP one is going to be a musical
The INFJ/INFJ interaction is so accurate. 😂
You are modern Shakespeare.
Can’t stop this love.
Loved this one! INTJ was brilliant and accurate(At least when they're in their fun moods) XD