Who the (BLEEP) did I Marry | Exercise in MURDER | Crime Documentary | Reel Truth Crime
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- Опубликовано: 29 апр 2020
- Fitness buff Paul Riedel had always been able to scare off the toughest guy with a mere look. But after marrying Lee Ann Armanini in 1999 and having a son, Paul vowed to focus on being a husband and father and put the tough guy act behind him. Then one fateful night, Alex was gunned down in the gym parking lot, and Paul soon realized the bullets were actually meant for him.
A biography about real people who marry their "soulmates", until they learn that the person they thought they married, isn't who they say they are.
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Anyone else binge watching these with a heart full of gratitude for being SINGLE?
You Bet! Relationship? Relationshit!!
Er.....no
Tell me about it 😀
Not really.
@@argileaustralia3854 Clever & Correct🧐!
It is so sad when a person says "My mother didn't like me".
They blame the kid I mean
The lawyer's vibe to me is more of a salesman than an attorney 😁.
I thought the lawyer was a little type A.
Ha ha
😅😂🤣🤣🤣So funny!
The vibe is like a man whose wife cheated on him and took all his money and house after a bitter divorce lol
😁😁
So glad Paul found happiness - he seems like a really decent guy!
He deserves better
yeah
personality wise and physically he was way out of her league
Well let me tell you my ex husband was a drug user and party animal just like him, I got fed up too and l had no other choice to move on with my life and it took me 2000km to do so. I was lucky enough that my ex husband gave me the consent to take the kids..so no, I don’t agree , this dude was not a nice guy to put his party life before his family life and make his wife miserable. Just because he turned his life around doesn’t make him a nice guy now, he was the root of the problem. But ofcourse it didn’t make it ok for her to put a contract on him and an innocent man got killed because of it. .. The sad part is that she wanted her baby to herself and at the end she is the one that lost everything, her freedom, being apart from her kid!! Worst punishment ever!! This story is all about people taking the wrong decisions, starting with this „ nice man“ doing the interview..
This is one of the most unheard of and touching crime stories I ever come across. What a twist. The guys were truly best friends to the end.
I like this particular narrator. she always gives me the gossip girl / desperate housewives vibe 😁👍🏻
😂 yep that’s why the lawyer need to take over sometimes
she sure sounds like Mary Alice lol
Also the music lol
desperate housewivesssss yesss
Eve Heart the lawyer is so keen he must be so excited to be on the show
When they started to talk about his best friend, I was waiting for him to show up for the interview. Then, I remembered the title and i felt really bad. Poor guy.
I don't have sympathy for him, even though he appears to expect it. His persistent bad behaviour, carried out in front of his mentally unstable wife, caused his friend's death. He seems to be enjoying the fact that he got everything, including the kid and the business and the sympathy.
AESTHETIC SEOKJIN same
@@joceelee what bad behavior?
Why did Paul want the baby when he was always galavanting and partying? I’m so sad for the friend and the friend’s family. 💔
When the narrator said his first love was purely physical... I had a whole different idea 🤣🤣🤣
Me too!🤣🤣🤣🤣
Same!😂❤
😂😂😂😂😂😂 thought I was the only one.
😂😂😂😂
The more I watch these real crime shows, the more I am happy that I'm single!
Ok🙄🙄 so you planning to stay single all your life🥱🥱
@@liana-qu6mk Yes.
@@liana-qu6mk Would you say that if this man wanted to remain single for the rest of his life after his failed marriage? Or is that only reserved for people who choose not to marry & to remain single?
I found Paul's attorney a bit weird, because he was so much more animated/excited than the average lawyer. I'm used to the usual very calm, matter-of-fact composure.
Yes a bit off, a bit too slick a bit greasy.
I picked that as well
Too many lines.
ohh finally one where the crazy spouse is the woman, that's rare
Eva Demonique so rare
Watch the show Snapped. Almost every episode is about a crazy woman murderer
Oh and also Fatal Vows. About half the episodes are the wife killing the husband. The thing I love about this show is you spend most of the episode wondering which spouse is going to murdered and which is the murderer.
My thoughts exactly...
It's not actually. I've seen hundreds of cases like this, and there are many support groups on YT for men who are entrapped with or have escaped and are being stalked by female psychopaths and narcissists.
@@DarlingWheresthecoffee It's really not.
He took a bullet for his bestie, literally 😥
The lawyer was really into this case lol. Police got extremely lucky with this one because if they didn't question the criminal they caught, this case would probably remain unsolved and she will live happily with her killer partner.
Note to self: all my friends will not look like me.
🤦🏾♀️ Lawd and I have a twin sister lol
They should all be tall and skinny in my case then. .🤣🤣🤣
The narrator sound like Mary Alice from desperate housewives 😂
Iubi Lila so true.
Iubi Lila That's true
That's very true... I've always thought so.
Many times after watching an episode here, I watch desperate housewives to compare the voices of the narrator. In the many times I've done so... I strongly think she's the same narrator 😃😃😃😃😃
Its her
Exactly
😂 The lawyer should be the narrator. Point blank period.
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Point blank period! 😂
The lawyer thinks he is an actor!………😝
Sounds like Danny DeVito lol
I like the fact that this video had no scary music and effects added to it like the other crime videos I’ve watched.
When she went to Florida and was told to come back she put her plan in place to reconcile with Paul, get his trust and move back to Florida under the impression that Alex death was linked to Paul. She knew what she was doing all that time. She did her homework by getting his consent to move Florida but she did not do it do it right.
Been watching your videos and the more I watch, the more I dont like to get married. Guess Id stay single rather than marry and turn my life to be one of your episodes. Lol
Dont get married.its a trap
Yep, maybe run a background check on the candidates lol
hahaaa so true
Do whatever feels right.
Honestly, most of these cases show how marrying in haste, repenting at leisure, is a really bad way to live your life.
@@phoenixmaddox8003 Not for everyone, but plenty of young people assume marriage fixes all the issues their relationship has.
Terrible thing to go through for both men's families.
R.I.P Alex.
Im pretty sure Paul is not a perfect husband but his wife is just evil. Down right evil.
Tell me , where in human character does perfection exist ?
I totally agree.
No one is perfect. Not even you dear.
He was gorgeous when he was younger
And still is
Movie star sultry and then he aged badly.
I think he’s still gorgeous
@@andio3500 he got a bit chubby which kinda ruins his jawline… which is odd for someone so invested in fitness.
What do you mean? He's STILL gorgeous.
Doesn't stay home with his family, then gets scared when they leave.
Yeah I mean whats the point? Then stay single, do not start a family. Its a free wourld nobody forces the people to get married. I mean no wife and also no husbend wants somebody, who is going out all the time alone.....
You guys clearly didn't pay attention at all to the documentary.
I feel like they left out something like maybe she suspected him of cheating or doing drugs
@@daniellee1722 I wouldn’t be surprised if she suspected that.
@@daniellee1722 none of that justifies trying to get him killed.. how is that what you guys remembered from the whole episode
The husband's voice is like a cartoon character...
If you didn't look, you'd be sure he was Brad from Bon Appetit!
Steroid voice.
The dad from cloudy with a chance of meatballs 🤣
seth rogen's
Hulk Hogan...
Just from the pic I thought the man was the fraud but it’s the woman who’s crazy
The lawyer sounds like Saul Goodman lol
Yeah right.....😂🤣😂🤣😂👍🏻
Kevin Sharon l thought so too! He’s a Bit OTT! as well!😃
right on the money hahahaha
😂😂😂😂totally
I really hope this man is happy after what he’s been through!!!!
I was so overjoyed of him now being the father he never had, that was super touching for me!
Human beings are scary, I can't even wrap my head around it.
I realize the more I watch these shows how truly evil human beings are.....
I got teary eyed when I found out what Paul renamed his Gym.
the guy marries, has a child and keeps partying like a teenager. and talks about it with no remorse at all. the wife was worse, but it looks like he's very narcissistic as well.
I don't agree at all. He changed his ways to try and reconcile and save his marriage.people are allowed to make mistakes and learn from them.
blueladylikeable judgemental much?
Looks like he thought marriage was having a wife and then going on with your life as though you are single. Then only wanting to reconcile to be close to his son.
@@ghostchick5275 and also go out and hang with friends
Yes, he clearly had no more respect for her life than she had for his. It's a strange ending. He's walked away with everything, his business intact, his life because his friend was killed, his son and has started a new life, and it seems like he expects sympathy. I think you might be right about him being narcissistic.
I think this is the first video where the husband is the one who was deceived; the other videos always had the wife as the victim.
5 seconds ago
I've seen hundreds of cases like this, and there are many support groups on YT for men who are entrapped with or have escaped and are being stalked by female psychopaths and narcissists.
@@juanitarichards1074 Yeah, I know what you mean. I was just surprised that this series actually took a story from the husband's angle since most of their episodes are from the wife's side.
This story will shock and horrify you.
@@juanitarichards1074 It gave me the heebie jeebies.
True
So suddenly he wanted to be a father when she left with their son? He was going out partying with his friends and not acting like a father and suddenly he wanted to be a father when she wasn't there to babysit while he partied? I don't feel sorry for either of them. Alex didn't have a chance to be a parent or have a spouse and those two didn't deserve to be either.
I don't think that there was enough time in a twenty minutes video to paint an accurate picture of his qualities as a father to come to such or generally any conclusion
@@notinterested2060 He said it himself. He was going out and partying while she stayed at home with the baby. He suddenly cared about the baby when she got sick of him acting like a single guy.
@@Odette321 that doesnt give her the right to take the child away
@ Em Dee remember he just lost his best friend so he was just taking it hard
Uyanya wena msoon
That lawyer has the energy of an overly loud legal service infomercial that only air in the middle of the night
While understandable due to his childhood, and the fact that he really loved his family, Paul was a trite naïve when it came to his wife. There were too many red flags that he ignored until the whole ghastly truth came out.
Some men are like that. They can’t believe they are married to smoking hot women
Why do men get married if they want to keep acting as though they are single. He is really at the heart of his friend being killed.
Marilyn McDonald going out every night drinking with friends
They want their cake and eat it too.
No there is no excuse for her behaviour but when a man marries he has responsibilities. If he doesn't want the responsibility and doesn't think enough of the woman he married to give her the love and attention she deserves then he should stay single. Mess up his life but not a woman's life too. Truly, if a man puts in the effort, in most cases he will have something special. Of course it takes two to make it work.
Jacques Matteo de Lusignan No ones justifying evil. If a man is acting single when he’s married, he’s not being honest with his own family.
@Jacques Matteo de Lusignan Some, not all. I don't think there's any excuse to take a life, worst the life of the father of her son.
Paul looked handsome is the wedding photo.
I hate when women think it is only their child and take it away from the man as they please. This hurts the man but mostly the child itself. It is so selfish what some women do
This lawyer tho 😂😂😂.... It's like this guy was looking for his big break in Hollywood and once he got it,he gave it his all
Big Al's Family Fitness! Need we say more? I didn't think so. Total respect.
Wow imagine to loose your best friend like this? it's heartbreaking, horrible. RIP Alex
what a positive upbeat guy; awful to deal with all that stuff? but he’s managed to move forward:
A photo where she has a shotgun to his throat......sign of things to come........black widow......keep her in jail!!!
😂😂😂thought so too
poor guy paid his life because of resembling his best friend evil wife who has no mercy for anyone not even her own Childern future
This is a sanitised version of the truth. The marriage became troubled when Paul served six years in jail for drug offences.
Always out alone in bars and nightclubs. Looking for other girls with his male friends. No wonder his 1 wife snaped.....
I'm glad he's happy now and remarried with his daughter. I felt how he really loved to be a father to his son, I think he's a nice guy he doesn't deserve to be killed by his own wife.
This lawyer must be fun in court. I can almost visualise him
Why is the lawyer so animated?
Yeah i noticed 🤣🤣🤣
Lol....
Hahaha
He is giving a tv interview
I'd hire him if I was ever in a pickle 🤣
Should've interviewed bestfriend's family too. Im sure they had things to say.
Alone you can tell in Paul’s attorneys haircut that this video is at least 10-15 years old.
That lawyer is a little over the top.
Yeap...he is the kind of person that would fall trap to narcisist or psycopaths
I don't know what Rocco looked like but Paul, oh boy! He's very handsome 🙂
Paul wanted to behave like a single guy. Selfish....
No wonder his 1 wife snaped
YOU BOTH SOUND CRAZY...😂
Lol you guys are going crazy.. read you're comment again, or maybe rewatch it again please..
cant wait for the episode next year starring you - you nut job
@@Bonita.ch1 ikr xD
Ohh finally a man with a crazy wife.
Totally opposite She wasn't deserve to marry such nice guy.
Yeah nice guy out partying every night with his friends while she was being a parent to her child and him. What a great guy. He's self-centred too.
Lol why does this give me Michael and Dalia dippolito vibes 😂
The lawyer cracks me up.
Paul definitely knew. Not about his friend but about the affair at the very least. How convenient his friends would drive by his wife randomly on a pay phone? lol
♥️🙏🏾♥️Awww so sad for Alex, Paul and his family! ♥️✝️♥️. Wow Paul works so hard he didn’t even know what was going on around him!😱
The series missed an amusing chance here. They should have made the BRIDEGROOM gasp in the opening sequence!
I was waiting to see if it's the groom that will gasp
My same exact thought!
I would be fed up too when my husband would stay out and party without end. Plus makes very clear that he only wants the child.
In today's world, be on the guards especially to those sleeping behind/on your back. Paranoia or not, being alive's much better than being dead.
His best friend took a bullet for him, even though he was partially responsible for his marriage falling apart. Alex was just in the wrong place at the wrong time :(
Can you please elaborate how Alex is partially responsible his marriage falling apart. Keeping marriage is Paul's business as well while running the fitness business. Very basic.
@@upalinatureboy No I meant Paul was partially responsible, not Alex. Sorry my English isn't great
@@mht4908 your english/writing was absolutely fine. Made sense. I read many a comment online and it's an absolute horror show. So many people can't spell or write a coherent sentence to save their life.
I like how they do a flashback halfway through to illustrate the build up...crazy is never random and usually had warning signs
Wish Paul all the very best ❤thanks for the video ❤
Hes a very dedicated determined lawyer...we need more lawyers like this unlike the ones who just dress to the nines an take money..
"It was like being hit in the face with a hundred pound dumpling."
I will never forget this.
He said dumbbell*
What is worse to be hit in the face with a hundred-pound dumpling or a hundred-pound dumbbell? Like what is the heaviest a hundred pounds of feathers or a hundred pounds of metal? The first time he said it did sound like dumpling to me.
I knew his lawyer was also his loyal customer in gym 😂 and a partner in boys night out.
You deserve all the happiness in the world Paul.
29 still very young ? 🤦♀️😩🥴
Eve Heart yes it is... 😄🌸
It is
I want a relationship with my son....but im never home..make sance
Men
Oh wow this is new,usually what i watched here is the guy is the one that commited crime.This is interesting.
Wil continue watching......
I hate these shows that only tell you one side of the story. They always make out like one completely innocent and the other person completely evil. Life is never like that. I keep wondering what the other side to the story is
Did anyone else find it odd that a friend told the husband she was packing up the house, on the pay phone down the street and then that she was hanging out with Rocco?… hmm sounds like he kept a pretty close eye on her. Not excusing what she did, just thought it was interesting…
Who else started from watching female killers way back when?
@MorganaEly ...not the same... I used to binge watch mostly female killers... And serial killers... But this channel has been mostly about men.
Cheza Felix yeah same, I loved when candice Delong narrated the cases!
Snapped
@@Leecarterr Ikr... I used to watch them while eating all the time! I really liked her. Fun times... Lol
Me too, what happened to the channel?
Watching such kind of documentaries is refreshing. Not just women who always got scammed or duped by their husbands. Very stereotypical.
Thanks~
That Edward Scissorhand music background tho lol!
I thought I saw Judith from 2 and half men on the thumbnail, so I started watching
Paul Riedel must be one heck of a great dad because he's truly a fine guy!
Finally one where the "bad guy" is the woman
That makes you happy that a person was murdered by a woman?! How sad is that?
@@thandie67 i think they meant it in the way that they're finally shedding some light and showing killer wives, as it is usually the husband.
In 1 case from 1000 the bad guy is a women
Who else thought it would be the guy who was crazy?
Unbelievable. What people will do ..... It's disgusting 😫 and children always get caught up in the middle. No wonder there are so many messed up adults in the world
Why would Paul not even realise that the second baby wasn't his?
Well, at least it wasnt the husband as the perpetrator now.. Coz if u watch these documentaries, its almost always the guy who's the psychopath..😂😂
Wow covid brought me here
Me too! 😂
Who cares
Happy Birthday Lyann, hope you're having fun and exercising your rights in prison.
How can any mother cause all that pain and heartache to their own children? No matter how much YOU hate their father, unless he's hurting them or is a danger to them ; you should love THEM more to not want to put them through that much pain!? I just don't understand mothers that keep the fathers from the kids lives because of their own hatred or hurt or for just pure spite. How do they not see that they're hurting their own children a lot more than they're hurting their father?! Mothers are supposed to do everything they can to protect their children from getting hurt, NOT CAUSE IT! Women like that should never be mothers!
Ohhh this guy is so handsome 😍
Glad to hear ....all the best Paul ....ur best friend gave you Nicolas
FINALLY!!!
Well men are warned, once the split happens the guys are sorry, sorry and sorrier ! No sympathy, guys just don’t respect who they marry and the seriousness of the situation
Yeah a 1000% the mans fauld here
His advocate is outraged 🤣
Why do mugshots always make you look uglier 😅
Some have profile pictures for that
Because they are not allowed to posed in a "tweetums" manner.
They must use the same camera as the DMV for our licence pic (jk).
Because for that moment, the mask that they have presented to the world, slips
No filters
How often does the son (Nicholas) get to see his mom? No matter what she has done, the son has the right to see her if he wants to. That information would be much more interesting to know than his father decided to rename the gym...
I don’t know if it was released or not but sometimes these sort of info is kept private. Especially in high profile cases involving children
Who watches any of these and thinks 🤔 I'll just stay single thanks?
Me
He had friends watching her every move, she could not even go to the phone box without someone reporting back to him. She tried to get away but he would not let her. Shame the wrong guy got killed.
What the f*ck is wrong with you? If that was the case she should have gone to the authorities
Karma! Karma!, how wonderfully played out in this story. what a gorgeous big teddybear Paul is, i am so happy that he got the happy ending he so deserved. poor pathetic lee ann, no kids,no man,no life! may she never get out of prison,what a rotten apple, visually too i must add. RIP Alex, looking out for his bestie in after death too, that kind of friendship can not be killed!
Wow Paul! You look famous! 😍🤩😄