Honestly, SHE confronted HIM in an openly hostile manner. That easily meets the criteria for harassment. The difference being he's a grown adult who can move on without getting 300 unneeded bureaucrats involved.
Nobody male or female in their right mind should ever want someone like that as their significant other. You would have to be a complete idiot to want to be with someone like that. If they didn’t realize that they were like that when they started dating and found out later then they should get as far away from her as possible.
@@csaw4u Normal people are claiming to be autistic or "neurodivergent" now. It's the latest category of virtue signaling victim-hood and excuses bad behavior. A two-fer.
Because she has the POWER of the camera and "cancel culture" behind her. Like the old saying goes, "you feel stronger in a pack, and weak as a twig on your own."
My ex (who I'm still friends with) is autistic and I can tell you for the 10 years I've known her, she's NOT confrontational at all. Nor are all the other autistic people I personally know. So it's VERY hard for me to believe that she's autistic at all. Of course, there's always exceptions to the rule, but on this I don't believe so.
Exact thing I said immediately. My 23 yr old daughter is high functioning autistic and nope her going anywhere by herself she is not going to talk to anyone. I understand it's a wide spectrum but I do have a lot of experience with many autistic kids and adults and nope I call total BS ! Plus all the tattoos, no way ! That in itself is a big red flag that she is not.
Then again, she does seem to be struggling with social cues and non-verbals. 😞 EDIT: This was NOT a diagnosis, people. I was a job coach working with the disabled for 2 years. I know that social difficulty does not automatically equal autistic. Please stop informing me.
She seems to exhibit all of the traits of Histrionic Personality dis order: 1) Persistent attention seeking 2) Dramatic behavior 3) Rapidly shifting and shallow emotions 4) Sec shoe ally (sic) provocative behavior 5) Undetailed style of speech 6) A tendency to consider relationships more intimate than they actually are
or men. though women do it more, both because society is predisposed to view women as the victims in these situations, and because they are genuinely the ones harrassed more often, because a man hitting on a woman is more common to begin with than the other way around.
@@DiamondBlade11 my point is that men KNOW when they're the aggressor. They understand when they're escalating a situation. But these women do so, and STILL believe that they were the victim. Whether it's SA or false accusations or gym videos.
I told a man at Walmart today he was very handsome….he said thank you, you’re pretty! I said thank you and that was the end of it. 2 people walking away with a compliment. No yelling or freaking out involved nor needed!
A cashier at a gas station called me handsome once and I thanked her and complimented her back. It’s almost as if well adjusted people do stuff like that and make other people’s day.
"I rescind my apology, you're nuts." 😂 Perfect response. And how does one claim to feel unsafe while getting in the face of the person they don't feel safe around? She's putting Schrödinger's feminism into practice.
Rescind! so that's what he was saying. Thank you! I hate AI subtitles. Now I will help you in return. She said in the video that she come back with some other person. So that's why she was "brave" enought to confront him. Look I'm on the guys side too but your argument about feeling unsafe but confronting doesn't hold in this case.
So many things are wrong... 1- the abusive use of "autistic", these people don't know what it means. 2- someone flirting is sexy if they are good looking, creepy if they are not, obviously. 3- main character syndrom: you're not the center of the world, the gym isn't "your safe space", it's a public space for everyone. 4- of course she has ultra revealing clothes but gets mad for getting attention.
I was just about to write about if he was good looking she would have flirted with him, so true. When she’s old and no more compliments come she will wish for them.
Your reply is so dumb in so many ways 1. The autism scale is extremely wide and varied with many different disorders and symptoms known it. She may very well be autistic. You have no way to disprove it. 2. It’s always creepy to randomly tell someone that you may just be a creepy old man. Doesn’t matter if he is good looking or not. 3. She was minding her own business and only took action when she got an inappropriate comment. And did what she was supposed to do by alerting staff. 4.she never got mad for attention. She got mad at the weird creepy comment. Plenty of women wear sports bras to the gym. Doesn’t give anyone the right to say anything sexual to them
We are so privileged we can complain about "feeling unsafe" just because we heard something that was slightly weird, meanwhile there are people getting shot in warzones 💀
Aggression can indeed be a fear response. These people are very afraid all the time, now whether that is fear of being victimized or fear of not being the victim 24/7, that can be up for debate. Sometimes it's a little of both.
As a woman who's endured my share of creeps, I think it's a pretty big overstatement to even say this dude's comment was a sexual advance. It wasn't innately sexual, and an "advance" implies that he was trying to go somewhere with it. He clearly wasn't, since the interaction went no further until the lady went back to him. I read that as him self-deprecatingly and jokingly giving her a compliment while really communicating that she wasn't in the way and didn't need to keep putting herself out by moving. The yellow-eyed hobo reeking of booze stopping me to proposition very explicit sex acts as I was just trying to walk home... that guy was making sexual advances. This guy made an off-color comment.
I workout at a family friendly YMCA and YES! You do not need to dress like that to exercise. We have plenty of attractive women at my gym and none of them dress like that, let alone be allowed to.
How dare she claim to be autistic. It is a slap in the face to people with actual autism. Autism is not something to be used as a way to be a victim, and if she did have autism she would absolutely not have been so aggressive to him right to his face, she probably wouldn’t even be in the gym if she had troubles talking to people.
Like a lot of people know Autism diagnoses can fall over a wide spectrum. Over her life who knows if some Dr, social worker or BFF used the term Autism in a conversation that she latched onto in order to have a label that might generate sympathy. Hey her claim could be legit but her behavior does not lead one to believe she is facing a situation that is truly a life challenge. I think the real medical term to describe her would be that she is a "nut job". Look it up !
Here what I'm pretty sure happened. This woman has autism but can easily pass as not autistic, she subconsciously made the gym her safe space (because like most people she's there for the heavy duty gym equipment which is expensive and she enjoys working out) and so when this random guy compliments her she freaks out because she is NOT there for interactions with others. I went to the gym for a period of time and I did not want to interact with anyone. A guy complimenting me would've freaked me out so I get why she's upset. Luckily I went at 6 in the morning or evening so it wasn't that busy. I hope she can find ways to better manage her autism. This was a freak out, it happens to a lot of autistic people. It's really sad that so many ppl with autism or without it are assuming she's faking simply because they can't fathom wanting to go to a gym while having autism or because that one autistic person they know isn't exactly like her (it's called autism SPECTRUM DISORDER for a reason guys.)
You're describing Asperger's. Autism is a spectrum disorder and it manifests in VERY different ways. My brother is autistic. I would describe him as very confrontational (not in a nasty way, love him to death).
Unsafe is the man who waited in the men’s bathroom for me at 12am at night because I was usually alone when locking up at golds gym when I worked there. Thank god some of my boyfriend’s friends stayed behind to help me clean up that night and they found him. Unsafe is not getting a compliment from a man for the work you put into your body, the man going along with his day and leaving you alone, then apologizing when you come back to tell him you’re uncomfortable. These kinds of women are narcissistic.
Exactly! I'm so sorry that you experienced that. It makes me sick that people just casually throw around extreme language that doesn't remotely apply to the situation. It's so disrespectful to people who actually experience something awful like you did.
Well said! your experience was legit and should be taken seriously! These type of people are crying wolf and it concerns me when real threats to women come along may not taken seriously
She actually harassed him by following him around and cussing him out. The Cornell Law webpage you showed gave an example of criminal harassment as "following a person in or about a public place," which SHE did. What an embarrassing display of fake victimhood.
@@elisabethclayton6351 Nope she still would be guilty of harassment even if she confronted him right away. Harassment is refers to words or behaviors that threaten, intimidate or demeans a person. Her whole video was her harassing the guy
The whole point was to make an example out of him, use her cry bully status and gym staff to show all the men in the gym to not approach women, which is her goal. As if the ABC people don't pick up on each other.
Women like this should wear a warning sign that says "Don't talk to me. I cannot engage in social interaction." She'll get the distance she desires and there will be no misunderstandings.
The hypocrisy is if it was a hot young guy, she wouldn’t have reacted that way. I do think his comment was out of line but it wasn’t harassment. And quit wearing clothes in which you sexualize yourself then get mad when others sexualize you in turn.
I mean, gym clothes are by nature tight fitting and “sexual”, I would say. Doesn’t mean women want to necessarily be flirted at while concentrating on sweating their bums off, you know? But her reaction was soo out of bounds. 🙈🙈🙈 To me it sounded like an innocent flirtation. Had she shown no interest and he had pursued her further, I think that’s when the creepiness starts but his compliment sounded so benign to me. If men couldn’t compliment women anymore (and the other way around), how would we ever meet 😉😅 I almost think there were maybe incidents in her past that made her feel a threat where there was probably none. Extreme reaction to a lil banter 😅
I hate that they are always saying “I’m autistic” I work with REAL AUTISTIC people. It’s so annoying that they say that when they are obviously fully capable.
Right there with you! She was super composed . She could be high functioning but then it shouldn't even be an issue because she'd blend. How was he supposed to know?
Isnt autism a massive spectrum? Like some people are super obviously autistic while others are too but lower on the spectrum so its much harder to tell until they do an autistic thing and even then it can be unclear? There are functioning autistic people, and then you have people like Chris chan the internet lol cow who is uber autistic and its very evident they can barely care for themselves. Im no expert so im just going off observations.
@@littlehooch94 you can always be approached in public, yo uhave zero expectation of privacy as soon as you step outside anyone at any time can talk to you
I'm a single woman and I always wonder why men don't approach me in public .... and then I see women like this and understand why no man would want to risk it
@AA-ed6ek They been "empowered" by deceitful & hateful modern women advisors. Only hot men can compliment them everything is consider inappropriate and is harassment. What emotionally unstable women do not understand hot men don't compliment them.
@@AA-ed6ekthey're rewarded with validation(female heroine) when they can become a victim of anything specific to male interaction. It's glorified, monetized and incentivized for women. That's the problem. If we actually treated women like men when consequences were spoken and enforced, we would have the sociopathic women walking among us.
OMG I went to college with her, she's a typical Ottawa/Canada girl She also thinks she has autism because they've been over diagnosing autism here like CRAZY
Not surprising. I hate saying it but the typical big Western city (NY, LA, Miami, London, Ottawa, Sydney, etc) girl is usually an insufferable feminist who plays the victim always and usually claims a mental health issue as a token or as a form of virtue and 99% of the time is full of herself.
I know women can't help but feel a pang of annoyance or anger when being unwantedly hit on but to call such a mild incident harassment is ridiculous. You don't want men to be so afraid of upsetting women that they NEVER approach women
Not quite. It's only harassment if the person askes to be left alone first. In this case, he said what he said (we don't know for sure what he said) and she DID NOT ask to be left alone, she in fact affirmed his comment by laughing and saying it was okay. That left the door open for more compliments....which she didn't even get. The woman here was looking for confrontation.
agreed. at this point he was only just a creep. i feel bad she is being publicly shamed and gaslit into thinking it was just a "compliment". she shouldn't have made the video. she should have just walked away. She needs a friend to tell ehr to calm down..
@@Nobodysbby It was just a compliment though, just a badly worded one. He didn't pursue it. She most likely doesn't have friends because she's clearly crazy and hard to handle.
Did anyone fail to catch that she "checked his form twice", which is why the guy thought she was interested in him in the first place? Shouldn't checking out men also be form of harassment by her definition?
@@elisabethclayton6351he’s not shoving it infront of her, you absolute clown. He’s doing flys. Just like her. They are rotating the fly machine. He sits down…..and does flys. He has a mirror adjacent to him….and looks at himself doing flys….this women while waiting her turn, stands infront of him to check his form….. they are both looking at each other Only difference is the man gave her one simple compliment
She decided she was going to turn around and tell him off...but he was gone...so she had to go search for him to tell him to stop harassing her. She IS nuts!
1:40 STOP Right THERE!! If you found him attractive, this story would be all "Oh my Godsess you Guys! the cutest most attractivest mans just Hit on me at the Gym!!...but then he didn't even ask me for my number."
These type of girls ruined it for other girls now. I noticed guys are so scared to compliment a woman or ask for her # because they’re so scared to get backlash or get blasted online like this.
Yup, I now wait till they talk more then if they seem to have an attitude I don't try to get her number, I leave the situation. If she seems very friendly I fish for signs she's single or interested before making a move. It's made us guys very worried to take a leap anymore.
Exactly, it's very confusing for guys. According to the very definition of sexual harassment (it was stated on the video), it doesn't matter what the guy does (it can be verbal, physical contact, looks, gestures etc); it only matters how the woman perceives it, if she considered it unwanted and, felt aggravated, and considered it was sexual in nature; then it's sexual harassment. Men don't read minds in order to know if it's wanted, if she will consider it sexual in nature or if she is going to feel aggravated. It's best to stay safe and avoid it all together.
I get what you are saying but the "blasted online" part is not about type of girls, it's the culture (generation) in general. The current culture is to post everything online, and I think it messes up the way we interact with each other. It's like having a gun, and get hot headed cuz you think you're protected. Frankly, I get her. If he did say "dirty old man" verbatim then the comment is more likely to be perceived as sexual. Did it need to be blown like this? Probably not.
I was walking at the mall, and a lady who was older than me accidentally bumped into me. She apologized. I said to her, "I will welcome a beautiful lady bumping into me any day." She smiled and said Thank you. I made her day. There is such a difference in the attitudes of a Baby boomers, Gen X vs. Gen Z, etc.
Did you say, I may just be a dirty man, but I don’t mind a bunp from a beautiful lady. Because the dirty old man line is what really made it creepy. Your example is not remotely the same thing
Im 45 and got hit on at the car wash today. A rather large man asked me if I was married and after I said yes he told me he wanted me to know how good I looked. I said THANK YOU!
@@laurenbatson5918 and if he had said, “ I may just be a creepy old man, but I want you to know I’m enjoying looking at you” would you have been cool with that?
So? Does that mean that you can go up to woman and say things she doesn't want to hear. Posting a pic online doesn't invite you to be rude to me or to give compliments no one asked for.
@@QuanPookie seriously WHAT position? I’m of the thought that this woman was there to be noticed…hence when someone does she whacks out? No keep being a man cause there’s many of us that appreciate your NOTICING us! Sadly we have a society of drug addled people who WANT to be a victim…walk away is what he should’ve done
As someone who suffer from big boobs misfortune, I have to admit that she can’t even stretch or bend in her sports bra without serious risk of her boobs coming out of the bra 🤣🤣🤣
That's not what they are saying. They chase off unattractive men and don't understand why the attractive men stopped approaching them. It only applies to uglies and brokies, which is subjective
Exactly! Make it make sense!!! It's woman likes this that make sooooo hard for the rest of us sane and kind women to have a family of our own.....😢😢😢😢😢
What did she want? He used self-deprecating humor while attempting a bad pick-up line. It's not the end of the world. What's even crazier is that, after she over-thought the situation, he offered her an apology. *That's literally all he **_could_** do and she still goes on a tirade.* Maybe she shouldn't go out. Ever.
I've had guys hit on me before. If I'm interested I'll flirt back. If I'm not, I'll thank them for the compliment, say I'm not interested, and move on. Simple as that. If they take it further and get aggressive then they are a problem. But 99.9999999% of the time they'll just let you go and move on with their day
That's what socially well adjusted women do. Narc nutcases react like this woman. Yes, it can be annoying to be hit on but honestly, if it bothers you that much, take the steps to avoid it. And yes, you should not have to, but the world works how it does and men wanting to meet women is how we exist as a species.
Yup same. I worked at gym for 4 years from 18 to 22 and only one time I had to actually report a guy and warn him about not talking to me anymore or he couldn't come back.
That's the proper way to handle that; politely thank them, politely state that you're not interested. It's also worth noting that the guy who is giving the compliment may not be interested, either. He may have felt moved to issue a compliment, without any desire for things to go further than that.
There are no unattractive lines but unattractive men. The difference between harassment and casual flirting depends on how attractive or rich the guy is.
If men know how women are, why are so many men still chancing it? The gym isn’t a night club so it’s no need to talk to anyone other than asking if they’re using a machine.
I agree. She is disturbed. Plus, if she is autistic, he had no way of knowing in advance. And as for public spaces being individual safe spaces, uh NO!!! By definition, public spaces are for ALL who legitimately belong there. She must be cancelled. The gym should rescind her membership.
You are crazy. She did nothing out of line. She got staff when she got a creepy sexual comment. Be in the other hand will most likely lose his membership.
There is a wrestler named Shemus that has a youtube channel where he goes and works out with other wrestlers. Whenever the females are on they wear cut off sweat shirts or t-shirts, sweat pants, soccer shorts, or basketball shorts. On occasion you might see yoga pants. These are women that workout for a living. Somehow they do pretty well without the goods hanging out.
This guy doesn’t sound like a creep, he gave her a compliment and walked away. Not much of a threat. She can’t hang the goods out everywhere and then get her knickers in a twist when she gets noticed. If you want a “safe space” stay at home. And autistic my Aunt Fanny.
This needs to be said and heard 100% you go. You're exactly right, this wasn't him harassing her with just a single "fishing" line, she was now harassing him. He's right in resending the apology. Men will often throw out a compliment at times, letting a lady know he's interested and if he gets no response that's the end of the story. Another reason I'm going to just stay single and keep my compliments to myself🤣
Oversensitive kids would consider you sitting on the park bench, minding your own business a t3rr0Rist. And then they'd claim how you ruined their entire life just by existing.
Exactly. if you don’t want to rent your house, you don’t put a “for rent” sign on your front lawn. If you don’t want sexual attention, you don’t run around half naked.
As someone who has ACTUALLY been sexually harassed before, if you feel unsafe, you do NOT want to go anywhere near that person again and you get away from them as quickly as you can. You do NOT frickin pull out your phone and march up to the person and scream at them for two whole minutes in a public setting💀
@@michaeldc951 they didn’t say anything about the guy…they said someone who ACTUALLY experienced SH, you don’t go back and confront them and scream how unsafe you are. and i agree with them as someone who has ACTUALLY been SA’d
@@michaeldc951 the fact that you're so ready to defend someone just because they act crazy on the internet when they're clearly seeking victim attention points and making it harder for people to believe REAL victims is insane to me. I said the truth, nobody who's truly a victim will go back to the harasser while acting all smug and scream at them for several minutes just to make a video on the internet and get likes. If she truly had been harassed and felt extremely unsafe around that man, then when she went to inform the employee about the man, she would have just pointed him out from a distance and not gone up close and personal with him for two whole minutes. Notice how that person also tried to use the victim points of "being autistic". She was doing it to be a victim when she wasn't a victim, there's plenty of narcissists like that out in the world, and I DESPISE women like her because they make women who TRULY have been harassed/assaulted a lot harder to believe and then REAL victims get brushed aside and jumbled in with her crowd.
@@Mediocre_at__best_lil tons of people will confront someone once they have alerted others to a problem. Think about at a bar when a woman is groped. Your saying that they never go tell a bouncer or their friends or their man and go back and confront the person who did it. It happens all the time. You don’t know what you are talking about. Plenty of victims find the bravery to confront their abusers, maybe you are just weak?
@@michaeldc951 oh yes, lets call women weak because they've actually been real victims who say they're uncomfortable after being harassed and actually SHOW signs of not feeling safe around a person like they claim🤦♀ and all this crap coming from a MAN. Maybe you just don't know what you're talking about, Micheal, since you've CLEARLY never been in that situation. No REAL victim is going to laugh at what a person does to them and then a while later when they have their phone ready to record, they scream at the supposed "harasser" for several minutes while acting extremely smug and edit that and post it on the Internet to receive victim points. Because that's the only reason she then went back to harass that man, because she was actually recording. Again, since you've never been harassed (its very clear you haven't with how you're speaking about it) and you're a man, its clear to say you know nothing about what your saying and can't tell that this lady is simply an attention seeker and saw an opportunity to turn a simple line into an entire narcissistic ego boost. Now go find another way to entertain yourself because it's very clear that you use RUclips comment section and starting "arguments" as your entertainment.
She wanted to completely destroy this man so he'd be fearful of approaching women in the future. She doesn't want to be alone in her singlehood so she's laying the groundwork of future "girlfriends" for herself and her single friends 1 man at a time. It's so clear now and it's 100% working. Despite what we all think of her, her goal was achieved: this video was watched by 10s of thousands of men and its signaling that we can't be sure if we'll be the next video. It's not just gyms. These videos are made in all settings where a man might think it's OK to approach. They're spreading a virus of the mind.
I was at the gym yesterday and every time I looked up, this guy was looking at me. I was dressed appropriately, doing nothing to attract attention. You know what I did? NOTHING! I ignored him and continued my workout. She could have avoided this whole situation by doing the same!
He probably wasn't even looking directly at you? I'm nearsighted and take my glasses off while working out. So I can't see clearly across the gym. But it may look like I'm looking in a person direction but I can't really see them. Just blurry outlines of people.
People look at people, it's what everybody does. Some stare, fact, but many times it looks like someone is staring and they actually aren't. I can say sometimes I realize that I'm at the gym focused on my workout and on music or podcasts at the same time and my eyes are locked in something or someone but I am not actually looking while distracted with my own thoughts. One time I was distracted looking at another guy's shorts while listening to a podcast and happened that the guy was gay and thought I was interested in him... That was awkward as F for me 😅 my eyes were locked in the cool pattern of his shorts, but my mind was on the podcast I was listening to.
He most likely was not even looking at you. I sometimes stare and blank out when I work out. I think society has conditioned women to think that every form of interaction is a sign that the man is "interested" in the female.
You speak facts cuz he wasn’t aggressive…she was. Notice he apologized but that wasn’t good enough. This video is proof she was looking for drama…her top is 3 sizes too small with no support. Bouncing around in a tiny bra isn’t appropriate at the gym
@@brendaamador8582 he started it off saying I may just be a dirty old man then insinuated he liked looking at her ass. He is a creep and she had every right to be offended. WTF is wrong with you? I’d be all over someone if they talked to my wife or daughter like that
I hate people that use 'I'm autistic!' to get sympathy and their own way. My sister is Autistc. She's pretty 'High-functioning', (she has her own dog grooming business), but if she was in this postion (let's say, for argument 's sake, that she was being harassed) there no way she'd be even remotely comfortable looking in the guys direction, never mind confronting him!!! (She also wouldn't tell anyone she was autistic) I know it's a 'specturm ' and not every autistic person is the same, but I just don't believe her!
I hate how everyone claims to be autistic. Autism legit sucks. I have it, and it messes my life up. If she had it, she wouldn't be working out a public gym.
Thank, I'm autistic as well myself & for a long time I was alright, but in 2018 I was forced to try enter the work environment & since then my autism & everything that comes with it has just gotten worse... I barely level my bedroom these days no mind my house & ya years ago I used to go the gym where my brother I had a membership & use the pool & stuff, but you can bet there isn't a hope I could do it & you can bet as well, I mean you're right someone who is actually autistic wouldn't classify working out in a public gym as there safe space... I mean, I consider gaming a hobby I love so, but the more online it goes & the more forced socialising that comes into it the more I find it no longer a safe space for me...
@@skunkybudtoker9092 she probably has histrionic personality disorder: Persistent attention seeking, dramatic behavior, rapidly shifting and shallow emotions, sexually provocative behavior, undetailed style of speech, and a tendency to consider relationships more intimate than they actually are.
She seems to exhibit all of the traits of Histrionic Personality Disorder: 1) Persistent attention seeking 2) Dramatic behavior 3) Rapidly shifting and shallow emotions 4) Sec shoe ally (sic) provocative behavior 5) Undetailed style of speech 6) A tendency to consider relationships more intimate than they actually are
She is insane. So now ask yourself this. Imagine seeing somebody who is SO clearly insane, and thinking the appropriate thing is to make a sexual advance on them? The guy is clearly a piece of shit.
attention was all she wanted why else would she go out to a public place wearing such revealing clothes if not to get attention and to have sheep with less then 2 brain cells siding with her with only her side of the story about what happened
@hunterkarr5618 I never stated or made an intent to say she's trying to pull something off. I do agree she should've just took the compliment and left it as that.
Whenever a man gives me a compliment at the gym, I accept it gracefully and respectfully and say “Thank you”. From my own personal experience, I do not see anything wrong with men complimenting women and vice versa.
@@Nobodysbbyyes but that still didn't give her the right to overreact the way she did she could've just been like whatever and moved to other side of the gym or left the place instead she made herself look like the fool
@@Nobodysbby I wouldn't say that but she is clearly insane. Would she react the same if she walked next to come construction workers and got cat called? Nope.
Yeah, sorry but the minute she said safe space I would have rolled my eyes, I get it now and walked away. Healthy mature adults don't need safe spaces they can handle interactions with people.
Two days ago I was closing my gate, before getting back into my car, and some visitors to my neighbours house (2 mid 50s - mid 60s men) were leaving. The passenger who was actually massively creeping, pretty much in his mates lap, head out the drivers window to gawk at me. Words were said, I ignored whatever they were saying, said G’day.” as flatly as I can, showing I was not interested in their catcalls or lewd stares, and I got in my car and drove away. Was I grossed out, yes. Was I annoyed, yes. Was I gonna have a cry about it? No. That’s life, sometimes, as a woman, men around you say or do dicky things. Sometimes people you don’t want staring at you, or paying you attention, are gonna do just that. This lady needed to take a chill pill and go about her life.
I see your point. I think there's a better way for some men to approach women & find an opener that has nothing to do with her body/looks. Some women will say that anything a man says to get is harassment. I don't know how to help all of us find a good middle ground as a single woman who would love to meet a quality, amazing man.
@@amanda_of_house_dracarys It's a krap shoot for men. If the woman likes you its good, indifferent then the guy's call creepy. Think we all need to relax a little more and be more civil. Tough out there.
Not every woman want compliments from all men. They prefer compliments from CERTAIN men and probably not from short, ugly, balding, fat, inches-challenged (small dick) and ethnic looking people who are considered unattractive.
I'm sorry, I don't wanna be that guy but going to the gym in just a bra and then getting mad someone says you look good is just so crazy to me. YOU wanted people to notice you.
I stopped giving compliments a long time ago. I rarely even make eye contact with women anymore because you never know when you're going to get thrown under the bus for something that was totally unintentional. It's just not worth the trouble.
"I am autistic" So am I, what does that have to do with you, taking a compliment, as a threat? Honestly, this kind of mentality, where a compliment means the man is a threat to your safety, is the result of someone going full in on the whole "all men are potential rapists, all men are evil". The simple "human-to-human" interaction is just dead. Killed by demonization and worst assumption about others.
All men are potential rapists. Hear me out. I am super friendly and smile a lot so I’ve had a lot of dudes try to flirt over the years. I either drop a hint by mentioning my husband or I flat out have to say “thanks but I am married”. I don’t get all weird or whatever about men just putting out feelers. That being said, I’m very careful to have good boundaries and awareness. Most men are decent ppl-but some are not. They don’t usually wear signs to let us know that they’re not good ppl-so I keep boundaries and make choices about my personal space, etc, based on the assumption that every man could potentially be a threat. I don’t talk to random men in parking lots at night-nor male acquaintances or co-workers. I’m careful not to be alone with men that I’m not related to, etc. I don’t get drunk around men that aren’t my husband. It just helps women to make safe choices. I’m not advocating to be toxic about it
@@pp20173 I used to be a job coach for a lot of people who were autistic and over-sharing is sometimes a symptom. But yeah, if she actually is, she's weaponizing that fact in a really nasty way. I've had that conversation before too, telling somebody that he doesn't get to tell off his boss because his autism masks him dislike something.
@@RhiannonClarkMusicofficial I'm autistic, I tell people I'm comfortable with. I don't broadcast it to the entire world when someone says something that makes me uncomfortable. Having autism doesn't give people the right to treat others however they fit as some immunity badge for bad behavior.
Exactly I said the same thing the outfit is totally inappropriate at all I mean she's barely keeping her breasts in that support bra if that is where it is I guess you confusing the gym for the strip club
I feel embarrassed as a woman, what's going on? she blocks us women who are okay with a compliment, it makes men scared to flirt and compliment us. and then what happens with meeting love and creating a family ?
@@michaeldc951oh be quiet. Damn woman acted like a whole child and could’ve responded her feelings without screaming like a damn velociraptor. Behavior like that is what gonna make women afraid to actually report REAL sexual harassment.
@@bigmonmagoomba9634 here are the traits of Histrionic Personality Disorder. She seems to exhibit all of them: 1) Persistent attention seeking 2) Dramatic behavior 3) Rapidly shifting and shallow emotions 4) Sec shoe ally (sic) provocative behavior 5) Undetailed style of speech 6) A tendency to consider relationships more intimate than they actually are
Women: Why don't men approach us anymore? Also women: Eww get away from me pervert! Basically she didn't find him attractive so the attention was unwanted.
@@ABajanDream The problem is that the good and sane girls dress, talk, look exactly the same as the lunatics. So, most men don't bother taking a chance. Especially, if you already got burnt once.
she already got what she wanted: An apology and the guy understood immediately. Then she kept talking and he knew what we all know watching this: none of her outrage is real, she does this for the 5 minutes of fame it gets her.
She wanted him to grovel in front of her with shame and resentment. And then to post it on social media to praised as a strong independent female. Feminist
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You can’t claim a public space, like a gym, as ‘your’ safe space. It’s a public space
Exactly.
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"THE WORLD IS MY SAFE SPACE!" Muah ahahahahahaha
Amen! Exactly!
She has a neck tattoo
"I rescind my apology, you're nuts". That's exactly right
Thanks for getting it right, you know what I'm saying.
Honestly, SHE confronted HIM in an openly hostile manner. That easily meets the criteria for harassment.
The difference being he's a grown adult who can move on without getting 300 unneeded bureaucrats involved.
@@ChadeGB yes, thank you very much i was about to do the same thing before i saw this reply
Perfect answer
Nobody male or female in their right mind should ever want someone like that as their significant other. You would have to be a complete idiot to want to be with someone like that. If they didn’t realize that they were like that when they started dating and found out later then they should get as far away from her as possible.
I think people are mistaking autism.For narcissism.This woman isn't autistic, she's a narcissist
She stated autistic ... seems you're thr confused one
Nope. Nope. Nope.
ASD is NOT NPD.
im w NPD. NPDs seem to ride the ASD train if they can blunder people into believing it.
Elon Musk, anyone
@@csaw4u Normal people are claiming to be autistic or "neurodivergent" now. It's the latest category of virtue signaling victim-hood and excuses bad behavior. A two-fer.
@@csaw4u Autistic people are not confrontational, she is not Autistic.. she is crazy crazy!
Why do you assume she's not autistic? Do you know her?
Takes out phone, loads Tiktok, signs into account, gets screen ready to hit record......then confront the guy
If she feels so unsafe ,WHY IS SHE CONFRONTING HIM
Because she has a neck tattoo
If she feels so safe why is she practically naked??
So unsafe
I always wonder about that too. Bold enough to confront the guy in public, with her livestreaming smartphone as a witness, I guess. 🤷♂
Because she has the POWER of the camera and "cancel culture" behind her.
Like the old saying goes, "you feel stronger in a pack, and weak as a twig on your own."
I’m claiming total bs on her claim that she’s autistic.
My ex (who I'm still friends with) is autistic and I can tell you for the 10 years I've known her, she's NOT confrontational at all. Nor are all the other autistic people I personally know. So it's VERY hard for me to believe that she's autistic at all. Of course, there's always exceptions to the rule, but on this I don't believe so.
Exact thing I said immediately. My 23 yr old daughter is high functioning autistic and nope her going anywhere by herself she is not going to talk to anyone. I understand it's a wide spectrum but I do have a lot of experience with many autistic kids and adults and nope I call total BS ! Plus all the tattoos, no way ! That in itself is a big red flag that she is not.
Then again, she does seem to be struggling with social cues and non-verbals. 😞
EDIT: This was NOT a diagnosis, people. I was a job coach working with the disabled for 2 years. I know that social difficulty does not automatically equal autistic. Please stop informing me.
Every RUclipsr who's quirky is now "autistic." Gimme a break. It's ok to be different without having a label for it.
She seems to exhibit all of the traits of Histrionic Personality dis order:
1) Persistent attention seeking
2) Dramatic behavior
3) Rapidly shifting and shallow emotions
4) Sec shoe ally (sic) provocative behavior
5) Undetailed style of speech
6) A tendency to consider relationships more intimate than they actually are
I will never understand women who can play the victim while simultaneously being the aggressor.
you wont? its pretty damn obvious: society pampers to women. What do you think is the consequence of that?
or men. though women do it more, both because society is predisposed to view women as the victims in these situations, and because they are genuinely the ones harrassed more often, because a man hitting on a woman is more common to begin with than the other way around.
@@DiamondBlade11 my point is that men KNOW when they're the aggressor. They understand when they're escalating a situation. But these women do so, and STILL believe that they were the victim. Whether it's SA or false accusations or gym videos.
There’s no possible way to know how someone will react, so knowing what’s “unwanted” prior is impossible and so an irrational demand.
@@Jeremy-wp4yh It's human nature. Everyone sees himself/herself as the underdog and the exceptional individual.
I told a man at Walmart today he was very handsome….he said thank you, you’re pretty! I said thank you and that was the end of it. 2 people walking away with a compliment. No yelling or freaking out involved nor needed!
A cashier at a gas station called me handsome once and I thanked her and complimented her back. It’s almost as if well adjusted people do stuff like that and make other people’s day.
"I rescind my apology, you're nuts." 😂 Perfect response.
And how does one claim to feel unsafe while getting in the face of the person they don't feel safe around? She's putting Schrödinger's feminism into practice.
Rescind! so that's what he was saying. Thank you! I hate AI subtitles. Now I will help you in return. She said in the video that she come back with some other person. So that's why she was "brave" enought to confront him. Look I'm on the guys side too but your argument about feeling unsafe but confronting doesn't hold in this case.
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“Schrödinger’s feminism” 🤣🤣🤣 *chef’s kiss*
@slovnicurling9808 it easily holds in this case.
So, he took accountability for his actions and apologized... Then she went ballistic.
Nah, this lady was fishing for drama. It gives her the rush.
I agree.
Gyms, another space women ruined
I wouldn't call her a "lady".
Ladies are not tattooed up to the neck and ladies no not respond like a crazy person when getting a compliment.
It also gave her “content”.
@@nicomeier8098 oh yeah, all tattooed people are crazy.... big brain mentality.
So many things are wrong...
1- the abusive use of "autistic", these people don't know what it means.
2- someone flirting is sexy if they are good looking, creepy if they are not, obviously.
3- main character syndrom: you're not the center of the world, the gym isn't "your safe space", it's a public space for everyone.
4- of course she has ultra revealing clothes but gets mad for getting attention.
She claims that she feels unsafe, but she seems to be the one making it unsafe.
the words "safe space" is BS and should be a red flag to anyone that hears it.
Nailed it!!
I was just about to write about if he was good looking she would have flirted with him, so true. When she’s old and no more compliments come she will wish for them.
Your reply is so dumb in so many ways
1. The autism scale is extremely wide and varied with many different disorders and symptoms known it. She may very well be autistic. You have no way to disprove it.
2. It’s always creepy to randomly tell someone that you may just be a creepy old man. Doesn’t matter if he is good looking or not.
3. She was minding her own business and only took action when she got an inappropriate comment. And did what she was supposed to do by alerting staff.
4.she never got mad for attention. She got mad at the weird creepy comment. Plenty of women wear sports bras to the gym. Doesn’t give anyone the right to say anything sexual to them
I hope she was banned from that ‘safe space’. She’s a walking liability for *any* gym
I don't feel safe around that many tattoos with hep C going around and whatnot
Whenever someone uses "safe space", that's a red flag for tiktoker meltdowns
We are so privileged we can complain about "feeling unsafe" just because we heard something that was slightly weird, meanwhile there are people getting shot in warzones 💀
Tikt0k is a major red flag in itself. Then, all the tats scream cray cray.
Have you noticed how it's always the most aggressive people who complain about "feeling unsafe"?
Aggression can indeed be a fear response. These people are very afraid all the time, now whether that is fear of being victimized or fear of not being the victim 24/7, that can be up for debate. Sometimes it's a little of both.
@@So-fi29 Or the more likely version she feels super safe and believes no matter what she does there will be downside to her.
@@So-fi29cool story.......no, she NUTS.
Yes
@@Carlos27thFS Simply calling people "nuts" doesn't make them any less nuts or offer anyone any kind of solution in dealing with them.
Some people are just looking for an excuse to complain
Women. Not “some people.” Women.
Complaining about nothing.... crazy
Looking for an excuse??? Are you kidding me? She was minding her own business when some old man made a creepy comment to her
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@@michaeldc951 You're always looking for an excuse to defend these leftie loonytoons.
As a woman who's endured my share of creeps, I think it's a pretty big overstatement to even say this dude's comment was a sexual advance. It wasn't innately sexual, and an "advance" implies that he was trying to go somewhere with it. He clearly wasn't, since the interaction went no further until the lady went back to him. I read that as him self-deprecatingly and jokingly giving her a compliment while really communicating that she wasn't in the way and didn't need to keep putting herself out by moving.
The yellow-eyed hobo reeking of booze stopping me to proposition very explicit sex acts as I was just trying to walk home... that guy was making sexual advances. This guy made an off-color comment.
We're just going to need to hear the creeps side of the story.. I'm not buying it... Sick of these crybully women
What i hate about this is that it diminishes real harassment to the point that when it actually happens people wont take it seriously
Cry wolf is still relevant, even more these days!
@@BadDriversOzAh yes, the timeless fable, "Cry Wolf".
Because of women like this, they start complaining about “why men don’t approach women anymore”. They are all bat shit crazy.
@@michaelhaydenbell grinds my gears that people have the nerve to act surprised when the boy finally gets eaten.
Stop.
You have never been harassed at the gym.
Why the victim complex?
Let's address the elephant in the room.. What the hell is she wearing!? That is absolutely not gym attire.
That's rude. She's not an elephant yet, even if she's on her way.
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I workout at a family friendly YMCA and YES! You do not need to dress like that to exercise. We have plenty of attractive women at my gym and none of them dress like that, let alone be allowed to.
Stop insulting elephants !
Women should show if they are on their period or not.
"I rescind my apology. You're nuts." Well played, sir. Well played.
I felt so sorry for him. 🥺 He’ll probably think twice before approaching anyone again ☹️
Unironically, she harassing him, and making him feel uncomfortable lol
How dare she claim to be autistic. It is a slap in the face to people with actual autism. Autism is not something to be used as a way to be a victim, and if she did have autism she would absolutely not have been so aggressive to him right to his face, she probably wouldn’t even be in the gym if she had troubles talking to people.
It had to be said.
Like a lot of people know Autism diagnoses can fall over a wide spectrum. Over her life who knows if some Dr, social worker or BFF used the term Autism in a conversation that she latched onto in order to have a label that might generate sympathy. Hey her claim could be legit but her behavior does not lead one to believe she is facing a situation that is truly a life challenge. I think the real medical term to describe her would be that she is a "nut job". Look it up !
@@TheUnhousedWanderer. Yes it did!
Here what I'm pretty sure happened. This woman has autism but can easily pass as not autistic, she subconsciously made the gym her safe space (because like most people she's there for the heavy duty gym equipment which is expensive and she enjoys working out) and so when this random guy compliments her she freaks out because she is NOT there for interactions with others. I went to the gym for a period of time and I did not want to interact with anyone. A guy complimenting me would've freaked me out so I get why she's upset. Luckily I went at 6 in the morning or evening so it wasn't that busy. I hope she can find ways to better manage her autism. This was a freak out, it happens to a lot of autistic people. It's really sad that so many ppl with autism or without it are assuming she's faking simply because they can't fathom wanting to go to a gym while having autism or because that one autistic person they know isn't exactly like her (it's called autism SPECTRUM DISORDER for a reason guys.)
You're describing Asperger's. Autism is a spectrum disorder and it manifests in VERY different ways. My brother is autistic. I would describe him as very confrontational (not in a nasty way, love him to death).
Unsafe is the man who waited in the men’s bathroom for me at 12am at night because I was usually alone when locking up at golds gym when I worked there. Thank god some of my boyfriend’s friends stayed behind to help me clean up that night and they found him.
Unsafe is not getting a compliment from a man for the work you put into your body, the man going along with his day and leaving you alone, then apologizing when you come back to tell him you’re uncomfortable.
These kinds of women are narcissistic.
Sorry for your experience. Now you should have had this kind of attention.
We Men thank you for your support! 🙏 💯🤙
Exactly! I'm so sorry that you experienced that. It makes me sick that people just casually throw around extreme language that doesn't remotely apply to the situation. It's so disrespectful to people who actually experience something awful like you did.
Well said! your experience was legit and should be taken seriously! These type of people are crying wolf and it concerns me when real threats to women come along may not taken seriously
Thank you everyone for the kind words, I really appreciate it! 💗💗
She actually harassed him by following him around and cussing him out. The Cornell Law webpage you showed gave an example of criminal harassment as "following a person in or about a public place," which SHE did. What an embarrassing display of fake victimhood.
Yes. That is what I thought as well.
Yes she should of confronted him immediately.
Not wated.
@@elisabethclayton6351 Nope she still would be guilty of harassment even if she confronted him right away. Harassment is refers to words or behaviors that threaten, intimidate or demeans a person. Her whole video was her harassing the guy
The whole point was to make an example out of him, use her cry bully status and gym staff to show all the men in the gym to not approach women, which is her goal. As if the ABC people don't pick up on each other.
I really do admire you for how well you articulate your thoughts
Women like this should wear a warning sign that says "Don't talk to me. I cannot engage in social interaction." She'll get the distance she desires and there will be no misunderstandings.
She has a neck tattoo, that’s the sign you’re talking about
@@sixftdeeepBeing covered in awfully insignificant tattoos serves the same purpose.
yeah, the sign is written all over her skin...
The hypocrisy is if it was a hot young guy, she wouldn’t have reacted that way. I do think his comment was out of line but it wasn’t harassment. And quit wearing clothes in which you sexualize yourself then get mad when others sexualize you in turn.
I mean, gym clothes are by nature tight fitting and “sexual”, I would say. Doesn’t mean women want to necessarily be flirted at while concentrating on sweating their bums off, you know? But her reaction was soo out of bounds. 🙈🙈🙈 To me it sounded like an innocent flirtation. Had she shown no interest and he had pursued her further, I think that’s when the creepiness starts but his compliment sounded so benign to me. If men couldn’t compliment women anymore (and the other way around), how would we ever meet 😉😅 I almost think there were maybe incidents in her past that made her feel a threat where there was probably none. Extreme reaction to a lil banter 😅
I hate that they are always saying “I’m autistic” I work with REAL AUTISTIC people. It’s so annoying that they say that when they are obviously fully capable.
Right there with you! She was super composed . She could be high functioning but then it shouldn't even be an issue because she'd blend. How was he supposed to know?
Isnt autism a massive spectrum? Like some people are super obviously autistic while others are too but lower on the spectrum so its much harder to tell until they do an autistic thing and even then it can be unclear? There are functioning autistic people, and then you have people like Chris chan the internet lol cow who is uber autistic and its very evident they can barely care for themselves. Im no expert so im just going off observations.
I totally agree!
HIGHLY-DISFUNCTIONAL, but not autistic. Just your everyday A-hole!!!
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They blurred the lines by calling it a spectrum and inventing terms like High Functioning Autism. Can you blame people for misusing it?
If she doesn’t want to be noticed, why is she basically wearing a bikini top to the gym? 🤦♀️
She's a liar. She's fishing for attention from men.
Being noticed and wanting to be approached are two different things.
Being noticed and having someone say something creepy are two very different thjngs
@@littlehooch94what she's wearing is NOT appropriate for workout clothes.
@@littlehooch94 you can always be approached in public, yo uhave zero expectation of privacy as soon as you step outside anyone at any time can talk to you
I'm a single woman and I always wonder why men don't approach me in public .... and then I see women like this and understand why no man would want to risk it
She was the one harassing him. Confronting a man after she removed herself from the situation and then returning??? She's a Nut Cake.
And while filming it….
Just because you feel awkward and insecure, doesn't mean basic human interactions should be taken as "harassment"
Yes, exactly 💯
Thank you. I knew better as a child so what's wrong with adult Western women?
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@AA-ed6ek They been "empowered" by deceitful & hateful modern women advisors.
Only hot men can compliment them everything is consider inappropriate and is harassment.
What emotionally unstable women do not understand hot men don't compliment them.
@@AA-ed6ekthey're rewarded with validation(female heroine) when they can become a victim of anything specific to male interaction. It's glorified, monetized and incentivized for women. That's the problem. If we actually treated women like men when consequences were spoken and enforced, we would have the sociopathic women walking among us.
OMG I went to college with her, she's a typical Ottawa/Canada girl
She also thinks she has autism because they've been over diagnosing autism here like CRAZY
@user-wx7uk10c6c - I truly weep for Canada.
Not surprising. I hate saying it but the typical big Western city (NY, LA, Miami, London, Ottawa, Sydney, etc) girl is usually an insufferable feminist who plays the victim always and usually claims a mental health issue as a token or as a form of virtue and 99% of the time is full of herself.
Tell her STFU.
She seems really thirsty for an argument and she needs to get a life.
They do in the UK too. Almost all the kids want it, so they get special treatment too.
I know women can't help but feel a pang of annoyance or anger when being unwantedly hit on but to call such a mild incident harassment is ridiculous. You don't want men to be so afraid of upsetting women that they NEVER approach women
It's only harassment if they keep hitting on you
Exactly! In my 50s, I can confirm the “dirty old man” line has been around a long time but is antiquated and I never found it very appealing.
Not quite. It's only harassment if the person askes to be left alone first. In this case, he said what he said (we don't know for sure what he said) and she DID NOT ask to be left alone, she in fact affirmed his comment by laughing and saying it was okay. That left the door open for more compliments....which she didn't even get. The woman here was looking for confrontation.
agreed. at this point he was only just a creep. i feel bad she is being publicly shamed and gaslit into thinking it was just a "compliment". she shouldn't have made the video. she should have just walked away. She needs a friend to tell ehr to calm down..
@@Nobodysbby It was just a compliment though, just a badly worded one. He didn't pursue it. She most likely doesn't have friends because she's clearly crazy and hard to handle.
Agreed. The true meaning of the word has been corrupted.
Did anyone fail to catch that she "checked his form twice", which is why the guy thought she was interested in him in the first place? Shouldn't checking out men also be form of harassment by her definition?
Not when the man shove his form in front of you.
@@elisabethclayton6351he’s not shoving it infront of her, you absolute clown. He’s doing flys. Just like her. They are rotating the fly machine. He sits down…..and does flys. He has a mirror adjacent to him….and looks at himself doing flys….this women while waiting her turn, stands infront of him to check his form….. they are both looking at each other
Only difference is the man gave her one simple compliment
@@elisabethclayton6351But he didn't.
Yeah how dare she..
That's right 👍
hard to believe someone complimented her.
right too many tats. Repulsive for real.
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She decided she was going to turn around and tell him off...but he was gone...so she had to go search for him to tell him to stop harassing her. She IS nuts!
1:40 STOP Right THERE!! If you found him attractive, this story would be all "Oh my Godsess you Guys! the cutest most attractivest mans just Hit on me at the Gym!!...but then he didn't even ask me for my number."
Yep, its only harassment if you don't like it.
These type of girls ruined it for other girls now. I noticed guys are so scared to compliment a woman or ask for her # because they’re so scared to get backlash or get blasted online like this.
Yup, I now wait till they talk more then if they seem to have an attitude I don't try to get her number, I leave the situation. If she seems very friendly I fish for signs she's single or interested before making a move. It's made us guys very worried to take a leap anymore.
ofc yall the victim
Cold approaches are frowned upon these days as I suspect most women think the man is up to no good.
Exactly, it's very confusing for guys. According to the very definition of sexual harassment (it was stated on the video), it doesn't matter what the guy does (it can be verbal, physical contact, looks, gestures etc); it only matters how the woman perceives it, if she considered it unwanted and, felt aggravated, and considered it was sexual in nature; then it's sexual harassment.
Men don't read minds in order to know if it's wanted, if she will consider it sexual in nature or if she is going to feel aggravated. It's best to stay safe and avoid it all together.
I get what you are saying but the "blasted online" part is not about type of girls, it's the culture (generation) in general. The current culture is to post everything online, and I think it messes up the way we interact with each other. It's like having a gun, and get hot headed cuz you think you're protected.
Frankly, I get her. If he did say "dirty old man" verbatim then the comment is more likely to be perceived as sexual. Did it need to be blown like this? Probably not.
I was walking at the mall, and a lady who was older than me accidentally bumped into me.
She apologized.
I said to her, "I will welcome a beautiful lady bumping into me any day."
She smiled and said Thank you.
I made her day.
There is such a difference in the attitudes of a Baby boomers, Gen X vs. Gen Z, etc.
Did you say, I may just be a dirty man, but I don’t mind a bunp from a beautiful lady. Because the dirty old man line is what really made it creepy. Your example is not remotely the same thing
Im 45 and got hit on at the car wash today. A rather large man asked me if I was married and after I said yes he told me he wanted me to know how good I looked. I said THANK YOU!
@@laurenbatson5918 and if he had said, “ I may just be a creepy old man, but I want you to know I’m enjoying looking at you” would you have been cool with that?
What if it was not a beautiful woman?
@@Amtcboydoesn’t matter. Still be polite.
I’m so sick of people saying I’m autistic and still being physco
She has all kinds of provocative content and attention seeking photos online. What a hypocrite
So? Does that mean that you can go up to woman and say things she doesn't want to hear. Posting a pic online doesn't invite you to be rude to me or to give compliments no one asked for.
@@veritorossioh another crazy one here
@@veritorossi how the fuck would someone know what she does or doesn't want to hear??? He apologized and she started antagonizing him.
@@veritorossiplease don’t procreate
@@veritorossi honey you make no sense
Unbelievable and absolutely LOVED him taking back his apology!
But at the same time men need to stop putting themselves in that situation.
@@QuanPookie seriously WHAT position? I’m of the thought that this woman was there to be noticed…hence when someone does she whacks out? No keep being a man cause there’s many of us that appreciate your NOTICING us!
Sadly we have a society of drug addled people who WANT to be a victim…walk away is what he should’ve done
@@QuanPookieHow in the world could he have avoided that?
Why does she also feel the need to film herself “confronting” him?
because the confrontation was the point. She was looking for it.
@@Kalbuir66prbly some pent up energy/frustration and he was her 'reason' to explode
Had to raise some havoc for clout.
Bingo
Attention what else her kind are nuts just like the guy said.
I'm subbing...this woman is sharp, articulate, and grounded.
Nothing screams "I don't want to be seen" like tight scant clothing and multiple tattoos.
Remember it's (D)ifferent whenever they do it 😂
Only on her Instagram posts or tik tok videos then she wants all eyes on her
It's not okay to be gawked at and commented on by one man in person. It's completely okay to be gawked at and commented on by thousands of men online.
As someone who suffer from big boobs misfortune, I have to admit that she can’t even stretch or bend in her sports bra without serious risk of her boobs coming out of the bra 🤣🤣🤣
The purpose people (most) get tattoos is so people look at them. Unfortunately the gross ones do it too😖
She didnt want an apology, she wanted to win.
At the same time…”why don’t men approach women anymore”
😂😂😂😂
That's not what they are saying. They chase off unattractive men and don't understand why the attractive men stopped approaching them. It only applies to uglies and brokies, which is subjective
Exactly! Make it make sense!!! It's woman likes this that make sooooo hard for the rest of us sane and kind women to have a family of our own.....😢😢😢😢😢
@@eunicebediako6749 hope you find someone soon 🙏 ❤ everyone deserves to be happy
yep, they wonder why people don't interact anymore and claim loneliness and not being able to find a partner.
What did she want? He used self-deprecating humor while attempting a bad pick-up line. It's not the end of the world. What's even crazier is that, after she over-thought the situation, he offered her an apology. *That's literally all he **_could_** do and she still goes on a tirade.* Maybe she shouldn't go out. Ever.
This may sound a little extreme, but she shouldn't dress in her underwear in public and not expect men to look.
Especially when it looks like it’s barely staying on
@@mickeydougal EXACTLY!
Not to mention covered in hideous tattoos that are obviously being displayed out of vanity
That's not an extreme view point, at all.
especially when you look like a sumo wrestler
I've had guys hit on me before. If I'm interested I'll flirt back. If I'm not, I'll thank them for the compliment, say I'm not interested, and move on. Simple as that. If they take it further and get aggressive then they are a problem. But 99.9999999% of the time they'll just let you go and move on with their day
That's what socially well adjusted women do.
Narc nutcases react like this woman.
Yes, it can be annoying to be hit on but honestly, if it bothers you that much, take the steps to avoid it. And yes, you should not have to, but the world works how it does and men wanting to meet women is how we exist as a species.
She meant artistic, I think. Her whole persona is an act.
Agree
Yup same. I worked at gym for 4 years from 18 to 22 and only one time I had to actually report a guy and warn him about not talking to me anymore or he couldn't come back.
That's the proper way to handle that; politely thank them, politely state that you're not interested.
It's also worth noting that the guy who is giving the compliment may not be interested, either. He may have felt moved to issue a compliment, without any desire for things to go further than that.
“I resend my apology, you’re nuts” had me dying😂😂
*rescind
@@CrazyMazapan Maybe he sent it again because it didn't work the first time.
@@Lordoftheswollen😂
It's not harassment. People need to get over themselves.
There are no unattractive lines but unattractive men. The difference between harassment and casual flirting depends on how attractive or rich the guy is.
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Thank you this gets overlooked
If men know how women are, why are so many men still chancing it? The gym isn’t a night club so it’s no need to talk to anyone other than asking if they’re using a machine.
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Uhh yeah no. Definitely hotter men can get away with weirder stuff, but creepy behavior is still creepy.
I agree. She is disturbed. Plus, if she is autistic, he had no way of knowing in advance. And as for public spaces being individual safe spaces, uh NO!!! By definition, public spaces are for ALL who legitimately belong there. She must be cancelled. The gym should rescind her membership.
Autistic people don't go to GYMS looking like that I can assure you, they are way more shy and insecure then that
You are crazy. She did nothing out of line. She got staff when she got a creepy sexual comment. Be in the other hand will most likely lose his membership.
No way is she autistic, she's only using it as a check box for her victim hood.
I mean those tattoos and weight are kinda a dead giveaway that she is disturbed.
Is that what she wears at the gym? Gross. She shouldn't be surprised if she attracts creeps.
There is a wrestler named Shemus that has a youtube channel where he goes and works out with other wrestlers. Whenever the females are on they wear cut off sweat shirts or t-shirts, sweat pants, soccer shorts, or basketball shorts. On occasion you might see yoga pants. These are women that workout for a living. Somehow they do pretty well without the goods hanging out.
"... she shouldn't be surprised if she attracts the attention of heterosexual males".
@@OvalRockExactly. There used to be a time when all of Instagram would've had to have been put behind an age barrier
She is a creep. Not everyone wants to see that. Gross.
This guy doesn’t sound like a creep, he gave her a compliment and walked away. Not much of a threat. She can’t hang the goods out everywhere and then get her knickers in a twist when she gets noticed. If you want a “safe space” stay at home. And autistic my Aunt Fanny.
This needs to be said and heard 100% you go. You're exactly right, this wasn't him harassing her with just a single "fishing" line, she was now harassing him. He's right in resending the apology. Men will often throw out a compliment at times, letting a lady know he's interested and if he gets no response that's the end of the story. Another reason I'm going to just stay single and keep my compliments to myself🤣
They forgot the part where harassment needs to be consistent. That’s what makes it harassment saying something once is not harassment.
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Oversensitive kids would consider you sitting on the park bench, minding your own business a t3rr0Rist. And then they'd claim how you ruined their entire life just by existing.
Exactly ✌️
Exactly
For these snowflakes you can just sit on the park bench to make them feel unsafe.
If you don’t want to be sexually objectified don’t dress like a sexual object. Simple really.
Wearing a tight tank top doesn’t make someone a sex object. Get a grip. This lady is nuts but ur comment is vile.
Exactly. if you don’t want to rent your house, you don’t put a “for rent” sign on your front lawn. If you don’t want sexual attention, you don’t run around half naked.
Real talk!
She's a professional victim.
Yep, wear a t-shirt over your top.
As someone who has ACTUALLY been sexually harassed before, if you feel unsafe, you do NOT want to go anywhere near that person again and you get away from them as quickly as you can. You do NOT frickin pull out your phone and march up to the person and scream at them for two whole minutes in a public setting💀
The fact that you are defending a creepy old man is insane to me
@@michaeldc951 they didn’t say anything about the guy…they said someone who ACTUALLY experienced SH, you don’t go back and confront them and scream how unsafe you are. and i agree with them as someone who has ACTUALLY been SA’d
@@michaeldc951 the fact that you're so ready to defend someone just because they act crazy on the internet when they're clearly seeking victim attention points and making it harder for people to believe REAL victims is insane to me. I said the truth, nobody who's truly a victim will go back to the harasser while acting all smug and scream at them for several minutes just to make a video on the internet and get likes. If she truly had been harassed and felt extremely unsafe around that man, then when she went to inform the employee about the man, she would have just pointed him out from a distance and not gone up close and personal with him for two whole minutes. Notice how that person also tried to use the victim points of "being autistic". She was doing it to be a victim when she wasn't a victim, there's plenty of narcissists like that out in the world, and I DESPISE women like her because they make women who TRULY have been harassed/assaulted a lot harder to believe and then REAL victims get brushed aside and jumbled in with her crowd.
@@Mediocre_at__best_lil tons of people will confront someone once they have alerted others to a problem. Think about at a bar when a woman is groped. Your saying that they never go tell a bouncer or their friends or their man and go back and confront the person who did it. It happens all the time. You don’t know what you are talking about. Plenty of victims find the bravery to confront their abusers, maybe you are just weak?
@@michaeldc951 oh yes, lets call women weak because they've actually been real victims who say they're uncomfortable after being harassed and actually SHOW signs of not feeling safe around a person like they claim🤦♀ and all this crap coming from a MAN. Maybe you just don't know what you're talking about, Micheal, since you've CLEARLY never been in that situation. No REAL victim is going to laugh at what a person does to them and then a while later when they have their phone ready to record, they scream at the supposed "harasser" for several minutes while acting extremely smug and edit that and post it on the Internet to receive victim points. Because that's the only reason she then went back to harass that man, because she was actually recording. Again, since you've never been harassed (its very clear you haven't with how you're speaking about it) and you're a man, its clear to say you know nothing about what your saying and can't tell that this lady is simply an attention seeker and saw an opportunity to turn a simple line into an entire narcissistic ego boost. Now go find another way to entertain yourself because it's very clear that you use RUclips comment section and starting "arguments" as your entertainment.
I think we need to go back to male gyms and female gyms because most women go to gyms to play not to work out.
The only one being harassed is the guy who has already apologized.
She wanted to completely destroy this man so he'd be fearful of approaching women in the future. She doesn't want to be alone in her singlehood so she's laying the groundwork of future "girlfriends" for herself and her single friends 1 man at a time.
It's so clear now and it's 100% working. Despite what we all think of her, her goal was achieved: this video was watched by 10s of thousands of men and its signaling that we can't be sure if we'll be the next video. It's not just gyms. These videos are made in all settings where a man might think it's OK to approach. They're spreading a virus of the mind.
I was at the gym yesterday and every time I looked up, this guy was looking at me. I was dressed appropriately, doing nothing to attract attention. You know what I did? NOTHING! I ignored him and continued my workout. She could have avoided this whole situation by doing the same!
Too bad for you. You let creepy people do creepy stuff because you're told by society that men are just creeps and you have to accept it
He probably wasn't even looking directly at you? I'm nearsighted and take my glasses off while working out. So I can't see clearly across the gym. But it may look like I'm looking in a person direction but I can't really see them. Just blurry outlines of people.
Women constantly and blatantly stare at men at the gym. Every single one.
People look at people, it's what everybody does. Some stare, fact, but many times it looks like someone is staring and they actually aren't. I can say sometimes I realize that I'm at the gym focused on my workout and on music or podcasts at the same time and my eyes are locked in something or someone but I am not actually looking while distracted with my own thoughts.
One time I was distracted looking at another guy's shorts while listening to a podcast and happened that the guy was gay and thought I was interested in him... That was awkward as F for me 😅 my eyes were locked in the cool pattern of his shorts, but my mind was on the podcast I was listening to.
He most likely was not even looking at you. I sometimes stare and blank out when I work out. I think society has conditioned women to think that every form of interaction is a sign that the man is "interested" in the female.
Toxic femininity at it's finest! Give the guy some grace. He didn't continue his pursuit and his comment wasn't even offensive!
You speak facts cuz he wasn’t aggressive…she was. Notice he apologized but that wasn’t good enough. This video is proof she was looking for drama…her top is 3 sizes too small with no support. Bouncing around in a tiny bra isn’t appropriate at the gym
@@lamar310 Amala is part of the problem…she defends these horezz and other modern women
@@brendaamador8582 he started it off saying I may just be a dirty old man then insinuated he liked looking at her ass. He is a creep and she had every right to be offended. WTF is wrong with you? I’d be all over someone if they talked to my wife or daughter like that
I hate people that use 'I'm autistic!' to get sympathy and their own way. My sister is Autistc. She's pretty 'High-functioning', (she has her own dog grooming business), but if she was in this postion (let's say, for argument 's sake, that she was being harassed) there no way she'd be even remotely comfortable looking in the guys direction, never mind confronting him!!! (She also wouldn't tell anyone she was autistic)
I know it's a 'specturm ' and not every autistic person is the same, but I just don't believe her!
Another reason why men don't give compliments.
And they should not tbh. If you don’t know a person, don’t comment
@@nagini77 '... unless you're a billionaire or Brad Pitt-lookalike of course... (shhht, don't say that out loud...)
@@BIGBEN9999999 i mean, if you have some admirable quality that's knowable beforehand that naturally impacts things. why would it be different?
@@nagini77 Unless he drives a Lambo :)
@nagini77 if people only complimented other people they knew, we'd probably be extinct
I hate how everyone claims to be autistic. Autism legit sucks. I have it, and it messes my life up. If she had it, she wouldn't be working out a public gym.
Thank, I'm autistic as well myself & for a long time I was alright, but in 2018 I was forced to try enter the work environment & since then my autism & everything that comes with it has just gotten worse... I barely level my bedroom these days no mind my house & ya years ago I used to go the gym where my brother I had a membership & use the pool & stuff, but you can bet there isn't a hope I could do it & you can bet as well, I mean you're right someone who is actually autistic wouldn't classify working out in a public gym as there safe space... I mean, I consider gaming a hobby I love so, but the more online it goes & the more forced socialising that comes into it the more I find it no longer a safe space for me...
@@skunkybudtoker9092 she probably has histrionic personality disorder: Persistent attention seeking, dramatic behavior, rapidly shifting and shallow emotions, sexually provocative behavior, undetailed style of speech, and a tendency to consider relationships more intimate than they actually are.
That’s not true. Lots of diagnosed autistic people go to the gym, myself included.
To be fair, these days everybody *is* autistic. Especially under 30. Gen Z is an autistic generation.
She seems to exhibit all of the traits of Histrionic Personality Disorder:
1) Persistent attention seeking
2) Dramatic behavior
3) Rapidly shifting and shallow emotions
4) Sec shoe ally (sic) provocative behavior
5) Undetailed style of speech
6) A tendency to consider relationships more intimate than they actually are
Imagine putting your entire body on display for the entire world and then being bothered when the world notices?
Just imagine being that insane….
There was a girl at the gym I went to whom I referred to as Butthole Pants. You know exactly why.
This!!!
She is insane. So now ask yourself this. Imagine seeing somebody who is SO clearly insane, and thinking the appropriate thing is to make a sexual advance on them?
The guy is clearly a piece of shit.
She’s not attractive by most society standards so who cares
@@TheUnhousedWanderer 😳
Guys need to bring a lawyer to their gym.
That chick is NOT IN ANY WAY APPEALING!!
@@clairwaucaush7225 in her mind, she is a goddess 😂
Ditto 😝
@@PeriodicTablesarecool🤮
The man said he was sorry what more did she want other than to make a scene and tiktok for attention??
She definitely saw an opportunity for getting that snort of attention.
attention was all she wanted why else would she go out to a public place wearing such revealing clothes if not to get attention and to have sheep with less then 2 brain cells siding with her with only her side of the story about what happened
That girls “sports bra?” Is litterally holding on from strings 😭😭😭 lol I could never
Even when I was in the best shape of my life in my 20's and 30's I still only wore one piece body suits and leggings to the gym.
That looks more like a bikini top tbh
@@DragonKingLeo tbh she’s not even pulling it off and should have just taken the compliment and moved on with her life.
@hunterkarr5618 I never stated or made an intent to say she's trying to pull something off. I do agree she should've just took the compliment and left it as that.
Right? I'm just a B cup and I hate any form jiggling. High impact sports bra WITH a shirt over it.
That was such a benign comment, NOT even a “pick up” line and in NO WAY makes her feel unsafe.
Five out Zed in.
Whenever a man gives me a compliment at the gym, I accept it gracefully and respectfully and say “Thank you”. From my own personal experience, I do not see anything wrong with men complimenting women and vice versa.
When a man compliments you in the gym, he is literally murdering you. You need a safe space with puppies or something.
What's this 'vice versa' you're talking about? 🤔
@@Nobodysbbyyes but that still didn't give her the right to overreact the way she did she could've just been like whatever and moved to other side of the gym or left the place instead she made herself look like the fool
@@Nobodysbby You have a perfect avatar there... clown, yup 100%.
@@Nobodysbby I wouldn't say that but she is clearly insane. Would she react the same if she walked next to come construction workers and got cat called? Nope.
Yeah, sorry but the minute she said safe space I would have rolled my eyes, I get it now and walked away. Healthy mature adults don't need safe spaces they can handle interactions with people.
they have the mental emotional matureness of a child.
😂I kid you not, as soon as she said that I rolled my damn eyes😂😂😂. I soon as I saw this comment I laughed out loud….. in my safe space.
That’s probably why he rewound his apology.
The gym wasn’t a safe place for that guy. 😂
Two days ago I was closing my gate, before getting back into my car, and some visitors to my neighbours house (2 mid 50s - mid 60s men) were leaving. The passenger who was actually massively creeping, pretty much in his mates lap, head out the drivers window to gawk at me. Words were said, I ignored whatever they were saying, said G’day.” as flatly as I can, showing I was not interested in their catcalls or lewd stares, and I got in my car and drove away. Was I grossed out, yes. Was I annoyed, yes. Was I gonna have a cry about it? No. That’s life, sometimes, as a woman, men around you say or do dicky things. Sometimes people you don’t want staring at you, or paying you attention, are gonna do just that. This lady needed to take a chill pill and go about her life.
Yep she needs to grow a pair
If you don’t want attention, don’t dress like you’re going to a rave.
I think of Dave Chappelles hooker uniform joke
Looks more like a street walker to me, your being generous with your words.
And make a TikTok in a bra
@@brentwebster6341 I don’t see the difference lol
@mayah5396 🤣
Just ignore the women. No talk/look/complement women.
Women: Why don't men approach us anymore?
Exactly
Facts 💯
I see your point. I think there's a better way for some men to approach women & find an opener that has nothing to do with her body/looks. Some women will say that anything a man says to get is harassment. I don't know how to help all of us find a good middle ground as a single woman who would love to meet a quality, amazing man.
@@amanda_of_house_dracarys It's a krap shoot for men. If the woman likes you its good, indifferent then the guy's call creepy.
Think we all need to relax a little more and be more civil. Tough out there.
Not every woman want compliments from all men. They prefer compliments from CERTAIN men and probably not from short, ugly, balding, fat, inches-challenged (small dick) and ethnic looking people who are considered unattractive.
No way is that sexual harassment! People need to stop using terms they don't know the meaning of
She’s harassing him.
There is no such thing as a "safe space". Only awareness of your surrounding. This woman is crazy!!
I'm sorry, I don't wanna be that guy but going to the gym in just a bra and then getting mad someone says you look good is just so crazy to me. YOU wanted people to notice you.
4:11 if she feels so unsafe she confronts him. Riiiiight.
Came here to say just that.
I stopped giving compliments a long time ago. I rarely even make eye contact with women anymore because you never know when you're going to get thrown under the bus for something that was totally unintentional. It's just not worth the trouble.
the less we give these women attention the better for all of us.
focus, king.
"I am autistic"
So am I, what does that have to do with you, taking a compliment, as a threat?
Honestly, this kind of mentality, where a compliment means the man is a threat to your safety, is the result of someone going full in on the whole "all men are potential rapists, all men are evil".
The simple "human-to-human" interaction is just dead. Killed by demonization and worst assumption about others.
All men are potential rapists.
Hear me out. I am super friendly and smile a lot so I’ve had a lot of dudes try to flirt over the years. I either drop a hint by mentioning my husband or I flat out have to say “thanks but I am married”.
I don’t get all weird or whatever about men just putting out feelers.
That being said, I’m very careful to have good boundaries and awareness. Most men are decent ppl-but some are not. They don’t usually wear signs to let us know that they’re not good ppl-so I keep boundaries and make choices about my personal space, etc, based on the assumption that every man could potentially be a threat. I don’t talk to random men in parking lots at night-nor male acquaintances or co-workers. I’m careful not to be alone with men that I’m not related to, etc.
I don’t get drunk around men that aren’t my husband.
It just helps women to make safe choices. I’m not advocating to be toxic about it
She is just crazy and has no signs of autism at all.
Full on crazy! Attention, drama queen!
Well, her tattoos make me feel uncomfortable, which is what I would have told her.
And she went to a female staff. That doesn't look like seeking favoritism.
This is exactly why i dont go to the gym! Owners of gyms are you listening!!!!!!!
Ppl who are autistic don't advertise that they are autistic. 🤦🏽♀️
That is not true.. I am autistic and I say it all the time. The world needs more awareness in regards to autistic people in general.
@@RhiannonClarkMusicofficial yea but she's saying it in a way like ppl aren't supposed to do anything to upset her "just because" she's autistic.
@@pp20173 I used to be a job coach for a lot of people who were autistic and over-sharing is sometimes a symptom. But yeah, if she actually is, she's weaponizing that fact in a really nasty way. I've had that conversation before too, telling somebody that he doesn't get to tell off his boss because his autism masks him dislike something.
Generally they don't.
@@RhiannonClarkMusicofficial I'm autistic, I tell people I'm comfortable with. I don't broadcast it to the entire world when someone says something that makes me uncomfortable. Having autism doesn't give people the right to treat others however they fit as some immunity badge for bad behavior.
So, we're not going to talk about huge breasts in a very small, completely non-supportive "sports bra"? She knows EXACTLY what she's doing.
Friend, she is not the villain of a series, she may be clueless but that does not mean she wants people to bother her.
Exactly I said the same thing the outfit is totally inappropriate at all I mean she's barely keeping her breasts in that support bra if that is where it is I guess you confusing the gym for the strip club
lets not forget the giant tattoo that almost forces you to look in that area.
@@arleteapdasilva7148 She may not be a villain, but she IS an asshole.
@@arleteapdasilva7148 She is a creep is what she is.
I feel embarrassed as a woman, what's going on? she blocks us women who are okay with a compliment, it makes men scared to flirt and compliment us. and then what happens with meeting love and creating a family ?
You’re 100% correct
Totally agree -how would any man dare to flirt if he saw this and it is so sad..😔
Like the ones that yell at men for opening doors. I'm like please open them for me.
Don't reproduce. Period.
Wearing what shes wearing, shes clearly looking for attention. She just wasnt looking for his attention in particular.
Boom!
Lady, there are no "safe spaces" in life.
Exactly and not only are there no safe spaces, people like her vote for men in women’s bathrooms for even less safe spaces.
The people screaming about safe spaces are the ones making them unsafe.🤔
@@TheEclecticOrder pretty soon not in bathrooms either
You're not totally wrong
@@John-gt6xqAre you referring to "the reading room"?
What the hell is she wearing. Is that appropriate for the gym.
@@dh7192 yes. It’s a sports bra. Very common in gyms nowadays
@@michaeldc951 i would say its not appropriate especially if she didnt want the attention she knew it would cause
@@michaeldc951 You're everywhere. By any chance...are you with the river to the sea crowd?
@@michaeldc951oh be quiet. Damn woman acted like a whole child and could’ve responded her feelings without screaming like a damn velociraptor. Behavior like that is what gonna make women afraid to actually report REAL sexual harassment.
@@michaeldc951a sport bra worn for support. Whats her "lingerie" was supporting?
She got exactly what she came for when she went to the gym.
I dont believe she went to the gym to get hit on by old men
Especially letting her boobs hang out like that....
@@bigmonmagoomba9634 here are the traits of Histrionic Personality Disorder. She seems to exhibit all of them:
1) Persistent attention seeking
2) Dramatic behavior
3) Rapidly shifting and shallow emotions
4) Sec shoe ally (sic) provocative behavior
5) Undetailed style of speech
6) A tendency to consider relationships more intimate than they actually are
Women: Why don't men approach us anymore?
Also women: Eww get away from me pervert!
Basically she didn't find him attractive so the attention was unwanted.
@@kevin6293Boom 🎯
Call these idiots out on the internet. They need to be held accountable. They need to fire her from that gym for that kind of behavior
The tattoos should have been a huge red flag to not speak to her.
Why is that? I was more bothered with the bathing suit looking top she chose to wear to workout in.
aaaawww... i have tattoos and im approachable and polite lol
@@ABajanDreamlaw of probabilities. Most women with tattoos are a red flag.
@@abumansaray7 that's unfortunate
@@ABajanDream The problem is that the good and sane girls dress, talk, look exactly the same as the lunatics. So, most men don't bother taking a chance. Especially, if you already got burnt once.
she already got what she wanted: An apology and the guy understood immediately. Then she kept talking and he knew what we all know watching this: none of her outrage is real, she does this for the 5 minutes of fame it gets her.
She wanted him to grovel in front of her with shame and resentment.
And then to post it on social media to praised as a strong independent female.
Feminist
Thank you for being a female voice of reason and calling this bullshit out.