GODDAMMIT! It all makes sense now! I live a pretty boring life, I am procrastinating a lot and I don't have many friends or much fun to do, so I always figured that if I would have a girlfriend, my life will be so much better, but now I realise that she comes where is fun, and she does not want me to be her life. Thank you man. I will start my self improvement journey.
"You've reduced yourself to just a notification on her phone." This hits hard. This made me realize a lot of things and reflect in my life. Thank you Hamza.
And trust me ...if u hv or pretend like u hv other girls in your life..not just with words but with actions too...that will totally change how she sees u, in a good way...never over do it though...tried & succeeded!!
In my last year of school a few years ago, this one girl led me on and I realised I was just a notification to her. I was a really lonely guy back then (i barely had anyone to text) but I regret ever making a move long after knowing I wasn't her on her mind much.
Lol wtf Hamza, I'm 27 and I must say that's a damn well dialed in "formula". Especially the "be spontaneous" part, that really carries through even in texts. Cheers brother
Hamza is kind of like a zyzz for us, gives us confidence and makes us improve. This is actual body positivity! Man thank you because you may not have helped me much as of now because I just discovered you while already being in my fitness journey but i know that you affected other peoples lives! Keep it up man!
Yeahhhh is like the other half of zyzz, zyzz was our phisical trainer and help us, hamza is like psychological friend with zyzz in him and help us in the other way, damnnnn Im loving his videos lol
@@patriotanon3910yeah i used to be fat like 80 kg like a real meat ball xdd but then I discovered this amazing community and started working out, now I'm 78 kg but I'm skinny tho, never felt this good
@wdym? It can mean a lot if he was fat it can be a big difference, and he maybe grown up (or however to say it I am not the best at english) so yea, just hype him so he gets more motivation xD
U R a G. Met like 6 girls or so this weekend but my text game has always led to flakes. I watched this video and today I got replies from 4 within the hour. Cheers Hamza.. u been killing it this year appreciate the graft
Strangers to lovers Step 1: initial connection Step 2: hello + genuine compliment Step 3: don't let her lead the convo Step 4: lead the convo to meet her maximum within a few days Step 5: structure the date to your advantage Step 6: rearrange the date maximum 3 times If u can't book a date stop messaging her Step 7: send cute texts Step 8 : keep going - business formal way - emotional connection
Made me realize that I’m not ready for dating right now. If I have too much personal time to the point where I can reply at any time, I’m a loser. I need to keep on working on my self to get to the stage where I’m always busy. Thank you Hamza this video has made me realize this
Wrote to my crush straight away after this video. With no bs. Just needed to watch this video to get some general sort of direction to follow. Excellent job, Hamza. Thank you
"Say what your brain says", it works. I sorta accidentally learned it from dad when he told me "If you like a girl just tell her you like her". That was advice at like 11 years old when I was young and stupid but that shit worked so damn well. To this day I still do that and I have never known what it's like to like a girl and not have her. Ever. I can't relate to that shit and this is why. Speak your fucking mind, that's what being yourself means but some guys don't even know how to do that cause they bury all the anger and hate out of fear of being judged, fuck that man, eventually you'll improve but if you hide what you really feel and think you won't improve shit cuz you lying to yourself
@@Gaze73 To learn how the fbois get it done. I have a 0% rejection rate because I led with commitment and dated towards marriage, not just fun and sex. That's a whole other ballgame that yes, one year later, I have also learned :) What I say still stands, build a good image, tell her you like her, drop your number and leave. If she calls she calls, if doesn't, move onto the next. You need to have an abundance mindset if you're going to play that game where you spin plates and rotate girls
i messaged a girl just after watching this video and secured a date, i just really wanted to say thank you. im sure i wouldve let her lead the conversation instead, its crazy to think that one video could change this much. thank you so much man.
Love the straight forward no bullshit style. Feel like this is exactly the shit i need to hear. I have a similar mindset but i never acted on it. Since watching your videos i've been doing great in every aspect of life. Thanks mate keep it up.
It’s so relieving to hear stuff other than to make her think you’re having fun without her and make her jealous by talking to other girls and getting actual good advice. Thank you
This is a rather refreshing video, most guides are by PUA's and function well for one night stands but the inauthenticity means it can't work permanently. This video will help you find the one.
Dude, the advice to try new things is so goood. I'm not a fan of crowds and parties, I prefer to sit at home and listen to music. But this one time I get my ass up to walk around the city center (a rather small city) and I end up at some sort of fest, meet bunch of new people, get a girl and turn my life upside down for the last month. Get up and do something, it's so rewarding. Rather than just sitting at home waiting for something to happen on it's own - go and make something happen. Be an initiator brah
I've been watching your videos for what feels like years now and used to be a twig, at 66 kg and 6,2. From listening to your guides and help has changed me completely not just mentally but physically as well, Iv'e gained over 20 kg and am slowly becoming an absolute beast, thank you, Hamza, I will continue to watch your videos even If the help Isn't needed. You're the father I never had.
Je comprends pas parce qu'il dit "ouais invite la à quelque chose que tu comptais faire de toute façon" mais après si elle peut pas "rearrange the date a few times" sauf que comment jsuis censé réarranger vu que justement à la base je l'invite à l'événement ou je vais pas à un autre moment
@@marcschox4769 en gros tu vas faire une randonnée (exemple) et tu l’invites. Elle dit qu’elle peut pas car « excuse x ». Tu vas a la randonnée quand meme. Tu vas à un spectacle (tu la réinvite). Dans le sens que bah peut importe si elle vient ou non tu vas quand même là bas.
@@Taisonike Je vois donc je la réinvite quand je refais un évènement cool, je ne replanifie pas directement quand elle dit qu'elle peut pas venir. Merci man !
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation: 00:00 😊 Texting girls with authenticity and genuine compliments sets you apart. 01:25 📱 Don't let her lead the conversation; maintain control to keep her engaged. 03:34 🗓️ Aim to schedule a date within a few days for higher attraction and connection. 05:42 🎉 Lead with your own interesting activities for the date, rather than asking her. 09:28 📢 Express genuine thoughts and feelings through emotional connection texts. 11:48 🚫 Avoid overthinking response times; reply when you're in a personal life mode. 14:55 💡 Embrace an abundant mindset; remember it's a numbers game and prioritize your own fun. 17:06 🙅♂️ Avoid becoming a "texting buddy"; focus on building intrigue and attraction for in-person interactions. Made with HARPA AI
Your videos are not just for Jeffreys. Nothing wrong with going back to just basic interaction. Most guys just don't have the skill. Even professional athletes and musicians practice basic movements and scales. Your content is invaluable to all
lol, i've always laughed at all this "alpha" garbage. To be honest i've been doing this (for the most part) my whole adult life and it works. You're bang on bro, keep up the good work. You don't need to put women down to get them
he's the only "alpha" youtuber that actually says good advice, other alpha youtubers just tell you to act "cool" but this guy i straightforward and makes you feel related to
Fuck me, the thing about text gaming is so right. So many guys will settle for only texting women. You don't want to give her everything about you for free. Make yourself someone she wants to meet to get to know. Business formal texting WHILE sending cute texts and then getting to know her in person is 100%, without a doubt, the way to do it.
This channel has really helped me build my morals and compatibility. This channel has showed me what I needed and wanted and how to do things properly. The best part about it is that it just gets straight to the point.
*The idea of using humor or playful questions can really help break the ice and create a relaxed atmosphere. It’s interesting how the right opener can set the tone for the entire conversation.*
@@everychannel1025 true. Honestly after thinking about it a good bit of weirdness is great, it is what make us special. creepy weirdness is what im thinking of i suppose
broo i agree so hard, the girls I've had the deepest connection is when i acted like that. good video, people gotta understand that being real is the best
@@amarpalsohal9575 it's not like "her" like a god u know.. we are all humans and we all have problems. if you make your friends laugh, you can make she laugh.
what if being "real" meant me showering her with compliments? I dont like advice like "just be yourself" what if being myself is being a simp? should I continue being "myself"?????
thank you hamza! i'm so tired of following the red pill bs mindset on finding romance and connecting with women, and i agree with every point in this video, i just didn't know how to execute it. only improving that mindset everyday. this man is simply a step higher than red pill influencers.
Not really. Because first off, don't send the same generic opening that the other 100 dudes are doing. Texting should only be used to setup dates. You don't wanna chat with her through text because it ruins all the mystery of getting to know the other person.
This man is overconfident, but I'm not even mad, he's clearly earned it 👍 Edit: just to clear up, when I said overconfident, I meant it more as he is way more confident than the average person, not that hes too confident. Edit: wow I was kinda ignorant 6 months ago, my apologies
Problem is he talks like his got nearly everything figured out, clearly he has done a lot of self-improvement and has come out of it as a better person, but deep personal issues don't just go away forever they are a working progress that can take a lot of time to get better.
@@PabloD2cheeseball Yeah, he rose up a lot, but in his videos, you can still see some issues form the past and it's all normal... We all have those, but most of us are totally unaware of them so we can not overcome it.
Bruh the first message part! I said why not and texted an absolute stranger on Instagram: Hi! You look cute and I like how you dress She responded with: WTF WHO ARE YOU AND WHY ARE YOU TEXTING ME THINGS LIKE THIS YOU WEIRDO LEAVE ME ALONE! And she proceeded to block me. Maybe it was bad luck but you still earned a new subscriber!
I have received this response hundreds of times. You think she'd respond that way if Chris Hemsworth dm'd her? Hell no. It's absolute hell for the majority of guys who are regular dudes. It's a numbers game at the end of the day.
The most important lesson for any person, when it comes to relationships, is truly what he talks about here: AUTHENTICITY IS KEY! Everything else is literally just trying to be manipulative, if you think about it.
This dude is on point. I was a prime fuckboy last year and it was mainly due in part to the stuff this guy says. But I wasn't watching clips on how to do this. Instead of having girls be the first thing on my mind they were always a fourth or fifth thought and I would always have my priorities set on other shit. Because at the end of the day, you matter most. That girl you're texting so frequently isn't gonna get you the bag💲 or help you surpass that PR at the gym. It's YOU, king. Never lose yourself. Stay focused
This is actually exactly what i just did a few days ago out of intuiton after years and years of failure. Very good video hamza, this might change peoples lives
I'm 16 and I've been speaking like this for years, it's just been who I am I've been told I speak older than I am since entering highschool and I was always told this by women never men. I realized at the same time this authenticity is the reason I'm close with alot of the people I've made connections with. I didn't lose my fear of talking to people until 8th grade which people may say is late but it made me happier genuinely connecting with people while in middle school it felt like I was talking to 100% filtered people.
This is actually helpful even if you're not a dweeb. Stuff you can't just get from anyone but experience itself. He's able to put everything together. Good luck on everyone's journey!
Fekin excellent g. The stuff you were sayin about bein natural and find a compatible lover, "could end the video now" , brilliant, refreshin mate. Wan lv
Wow. I always text and act different around girls in a way that gets me attention from them. But whenever I do act like myself they seem disinterested or leave me on read, so instead of acting completely genuine, I only show that one side of me. But you made me realize that I should and that losing these peoples attention is actually a good thing. I want a lasting relationship not any of these flings. If i act like myself I'll filter out the people who are not compatible with me and find the one for me much faster.
watching as a girl. dedicated subscriber i watch so many of ur videos. 😩 to the guys watching: he cracked the code!! i never comment but i had to bc it needs to be said listen to him yall his word is gold.
This is good advice. Whenever I receive a text or a DM from someone, I don't respond to it instantly, even if it appears that I'm online and active. I'll also lead the conversation because most people don't know how to hold a conversation. That in itself is a skill because you don't want to give an answer that leads to dead ends and the other person feels less inclined to know more about you. If a girl is messaging you, it is exactly that: she is trying to know more about you. If you don't have anything interesting about yourself, then you have nothing worth talking about that will interest her. In other words, in your current state, would you date yourself? From a business perspective, are your plans on how you expect to scale your operations big enough to inspire others to join you? That being said, if you do have something going and you're on that hot pursuit, DO NOT say everything in a single conversation. Just give a little flex and show her through how you present yourself. You can develop a leadership mindset, but within the foundation of being a good leader, you adopt core values and be passionate about what you believe. Lol, this comment is getting a little too involved. One last bit of advice: be a good story teller. Look at the demographics of who reads the most books. Just saying... xD
Hamza, this is exactly the right type of advice to be giving to guys. And your videos are so brilliant and your present well. Fricking awesome job dude I would be your friend in real life.
Thank you Hamza, you are legit guiding my life towards success and every day I am making progress towards it. Be it in the gym or in social situations. Thank you!
Guys this is all good advice, I’ve been decent at getting with girls but never actually taking them out. I would meet them at school sport games and stuff like that but never do anything else. My friend recommended you and I watched you so thanks for helping others out.
Bro Hamza, you are a real one. Your advice is always on point, I managed to ask out the girl I really liked recently, and we went on an amazing date. Tbh I don't think I could've done it without your videos, thanks for helping us on the journey to become Adonis :)
actually I'm wondering how did I never saw Hamza's ytb channel before, he's fucking authentic not as some people saying shitty things while thinking they're god. Hamza you're not good, you great keep it up seriously, really like the way you're that honest face to cam don't change for anything bro
Hamza reminds me of my little brother (that I miss so much) proud what he preaches 🎯 important positive message for all the kings and soon to be high value men
I've been following your channel for a few days and your advice has been really helping me with confidence and getting things done you deserve way more subs
holy shit this is the best video lol, I tell these things all the time to guys who ask _what do I do_ and I just say "dude live your life, make friends and go out with them, focus on you and your work" and they frown because guys just want a secret magic formula to get girls. The formula is to just be yourself, and if "yourself" isn't interesting enough then WORK ON THAT SHIT. And I don't even get all the girls, it's 1% like you said, I just have a constant flow of someone new because I actually like novelty and meeting new people, regardless of the gender.
I would say take it easy when it comes to meeting a girl in person. Some girls don't like it If you ask them too soon to meet up in person. 3 days to a week is a good amount of time to wait. Other than that, this video is solid! Good advice.
Hamza you are such a inspiration and a incredibly underrated channel, your vids are worth their weight in gold and have really changed my perspective in life and made me so much happier, love you bro!
not to be a Karen or anything but at 0.35 you did the backlever in a way you could easily injure yourself. Try to hold a hollow position slightly extending your upper back so that your abs and your back will be linear and you will not injure yourself it is not only better looking but also more satisfying to do. By the way awesome video as always keep it up
i'm on the process with a girl, there been less than 1 week we're talking and i did what he said, I just said "hi", and complimented her and we started talking. Now i'm planning a date with her, wish me luck guys
Looks like it didn't go well for not responding i hope your healthy and haven't done anything stupid stay alive and find other chicks better than her mate we believe in you and to add some attractiveness go to the Jim the advanced gym !
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One thing men should know is that, you will not be liked by every girl. Some will think you're ugly, others are head over heels over you. Be confident
Definitely
Good advice you gave
Sheesh I needed this thanks homie
It's like when you think a girl is cute but your friends think she is downright ugly.
I've heard it said as "you might be the best strawberry ice cream, but someone will prefer chocolate" and yeah it just really is like that
the jeffery and adonis scenarios always cracks me up 💀💀
Rami 🌎⚡️
facts bro 🤣
Eyy rami
What does it mean?
maaaannn bitches aint shit 😭😭😭😭
I love how brutally honest you are, very relieving and I laughed multiple times. Authentic video my man.
Hamza is like the big brother we all needed
Facts
I want a big brother like him, he could make me super ripped
I need Hamza as a brother
@@ryanjagpal123 only a jeffery would rely on others to get ripped. Adonis does it himself
Facts
"She just reduced you to a notification on her phone" 😂🔥
"Most girls are pretty boring and they've got very basic social skills"... Facts, i've never met a girl that has actually make me laugh as the boys
so relatable
So true
IM WIT MA BOYS
If you do, they are automatic keepers. Funny girls rare af!!
"why dont i have a gf??!"
GODDAMMIT! It all makes sense now! I live a pretty boring life, I am procrastinating a lot and I don't have many friends or much fun to do, so I always figured that if I would have a girlfriend, my life will be so much better, but now I realise that she comes where is fun, and she does not want me to be her life. Thank you man. I will start my self improvement journey.
how's it goin over there?
Hopefully your name will change to Chad instead of NotChad
@@postmodernjoe It will... Give him some time like 6 months.
Having a gf doesn't magically fix your life
@@reformedartist8528 he literally said that
I'm glad you talk about your experiences and show the interactions you have. It shows what you're talking about actually works.
exactly
"You've reduced yourself to just a notification on her phone."
This hits hard. This made me realize a lot of things and reflect in my life. Thank you Hamza.
The thing that hit harder for me was him speaking facts about being only happy with getting her notification on your phone.
And trust me ...if u hv or pretend like u hv other girls in your life..not just with words but with actions too...that will totally change how she sees u, in a good way...never over do it though...tried & succeeded!!
@@itsU-240 now where do i find the manual of instructions on how to do that? On dust 2? The rift? Jeffrey is confused 😅
One girl once texted me when i was 19: "You're just a window in my pc".
In my last year of school a few years ago, this one girl led me on and I realised I was just a notification to her. I was a really lonely guy back then (i barely had anyone to text) but I regret ever making a move long after knowing I wasn't her on her mind much.
No. 1 be genuine and speak your mind
No. 2 meet her/him irl asap
No. 3 pick your fights
No. 4 be patient
Pick your fights??? Like you'll fight with her?? 😅 I'm confused af😂
@@Darkness-io4gn of course its a battle, strike first
@@whyme8762 let’s go then😂 it’s going to be like a Pokémon battle the strongest wins😂
@@Darkness-io4gn yeah gotta watch out for types advantages tho
@@whyme8762 yeah do you heard about the new dragon type? DragoKaren she’s insane 😂
This man is the only person who can flame me and i laugh it off cuz i know he is accurate😭
First comment
1.1k and one reply, fishy as fuckk ahah
I say out loud "facts" when he's accurate about some incel shit i do
Same here😂
W pfp
Oh he has sacrificed his video editor as Jeffery.
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@@bigdaddy3952 তই কেলা কোন?
Man I have never got so many likes it's a record baby❤️
@@bigdaddy3952 oi
Lol wtf Hamza, I'm 27 and I must say that's a damn well dialed in "formula".
Especially the "be spontaneous" part, that really carries through even in texts.
Cheers brother
Hamza is kind of like a zyzz for us, gives us confidence and makes us improve. This is actual body positivity! Man thank you because you may not have helped me much as of now because I just discovered you while already being in my fitness journey but i know that you affected other peoples lives! Keep it up man!
Yeahhhh is like the other half of zyzz, zyzz was our phisical trainer and help us, hamza is like psychological friend with zyzz in him and help us in the other way, damnnnn Im loving his videos lol
His legacy lives on, we can all still make it brah
@@patriotanon3910yeah i used to be fat like 80 kg like a real meat ball xdd but then I discovered this amazing community and started working out, now I'm 78 kg but I'm skinny tho, never felt this good
@@Darkness-io4gn great progress bro
@wdym? It can mean a lot if he was fat it can be a big difference, and he maybe grown up (or however to say it I am not the best at english) so yea, just hype him so he gets more motivation xD
I don't text girls. I talk directly to their parents for Khitba*. I am doing it the Halal way.
Respect +++
Wait what? texting girls is Haram?
@@mehdiboumezrag2124 🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂
@@mehdiboumezrag2124 halal mode
@@mehdiboumezrag2124 XD
U R a G. Met like 6 girls or so this weekend but my text game has always led to flakes.
I watched this video and today I got replies from 4 within the hour.
Cheers Hamza.. u been killing it this year appreciate the graft
6 girls in one week??
@jandy1128 and I'm struggling for 1 😂
Strangers to lovers
Step 1: initial connection
Step 2: hello + genuine compliment
Step 3: don't let her lead the convo
Step 4: lead the convo to meet her maximum within a few days
Step 5: structure the date to your advantage
Step 6: rearrange the date maximum 3 times
If u can't book a date stop messaging her
Step 7: send cute texts
Step 8 : keep going
- business formal way
- emotional connection
Great notes, straight to the point, all the main ides summarized!
Then strangers again
step 2 and 3 im lost
Yo ima use this and im a girl
The only way this stuff works is if you're already Adonis
Made me realize that I’m not ready for dating right now. If I have too much personal time to the point where I can reply at any time, I’m a loser. I need to keep on working on my self to get to the stage where I’m always busy. Thank you Hamza this video has made me realize this
Go to the gym, change your diet, get a job for a while and so on hope the best for you bro
@@weakboy6871 thank you wish the same for you too
we’re all gonna make it brahh !!!
How is it going brah?
Been there brother.
Wrote to my crush straight away after this video. With no bs. Just needed to watch this video to get some general sort of direction to follow. Excellent job, Hamza. Thank you
She rejected me and I made PRs in the gym that day
@@Toolie-u9w rip
@@thatnnoob6109 wdym rip? Instead of being sad about the rejection he went to the gym and hit PRs, thats a W
@@Toolie-u9w damn how's the gym going?
@@synfoxy It's going well, people started to notice changes in my physique
For anxious guys, already having a plan of doing something and just asking her to join you doing it really puts your mind at ease
That is literally what he said to do in the video lmao
@@punani_slayer4209 yeah he likes that advice
I like bowling with women.
You can knock down some pins and their emotional walls.
@@C0d0ps lol
"Say what your brain says", it works. I sorta accidentally learned it from dad when he told me "If you like a girl just tell her you like her". That was advice at like 11 years old when I was young and stupid but that shit worked so damn well. To this day I still do that and I have never known what it's like to like a girl and not have her. Ever. I can't relate to that shit and this is why. Speak your fucking mind, that's what being yourself means but some guys don't even know how to do that cause they bury all the anger and hate out of fear of being judged, fuck that man, eventually you'll improve but if you hide what you really feel and think you won't improve shit cuz you lying to yourself
“Daaaang”
That last sentence goes hard. You’ve opened my eyes a bit with that one.
If you have a 0% rejection rate, good for you. But if you're such a gigachad I wonder what you're doing on this video.
@@Gaze73 To learn how the fbois get it done. I have a 0% rejection rate because I led with commitment and dated towards marriage, not just fun and sex. That's a whole other ballgame that yes, one year later, I have also learned :) What I say still stands, build a good image, tell her you like her, drop your number and leave. If she calls she calls, if doesn't, move onto the next. You need to have an abundance mindset if you're going to play that game where you spin plates and rotate girls
hey man Ima confess and tell ya how it went. We've been pretty good friends for a while but your words moved me so ya
@@Rushil.Tallakokkula ayyy what did she say?
i messaged a girl just after watching this video and secured a date, i just really wanted to say thank you. im sure i wouldve let her lead the conversation instead, its crazy to think that one video could change this much. thank you so much man.
Congratulations, how did it go?
@@SnakierElm62looks like he is too busy with her now
@@Neronlive that's good
Love the straight forward no bullshit style.
Feel like this is exactly the shit i need to hear. I have a similar mindset but i never acted on it. Since watching your videos i've been doing great in every aspect of life.
Thanks mate keep it up.
@Soham VermaYea i get some smooth brain moments from time to time aswell.
@Soham Verma u was prob half a sleep
It’s so relieving to hear stuff other than to make her think you’re having fun without her and make her jealous by talking to other girls and getting actual good advice. Thank you
Watching "old videos" like this makes me realise how your Progress just fckn exponentially grows
Ngl you are the only self help youtuber I've ever seen that actually gives practical advice that isn't cringey and I can actually apply to my life.
hamza ur different bro 💯 you’re creating this whole new wave in self improvement and youtube and it’s super effective
This is a rather refreshing video, most guides are by PUA's and function well for one night stands but the inauthenticity means it can't work permanently. This video will help you find the one.
Dude, the advice to try new things is so goood. I'm not a fan of crowds and parties, I prefer to sit at home and listen to music. But this one time I get my ass up to walk around the city center (a rather small city) and I end up at some sort of fest, meet bunch of new people, get a girl and turn my life upside down for the last month. Get up and do something, it's so rewarding. Rather than just sitting at home waiting for something to happen on it's own - go and make something happen. Be an initiator brah
I hate clicking on these types of videos because it makes me think that Im overthinking but this video had some genuinely good advice. Thanks hammie
I've been watching your videos for what feels like years now and used to be a twig, at 66 kg and 6,2. From listening to your guides and help has changed me completely not just mentally but physically as well, Iv'e gained over 20 kg and am slowly becoming an absolute beast, thank you, Hamza, I will continue to watch your videos even If the help Isn't needed. You're the father I never had.
how to text women ❌
how to know if you're a loser ✅
Fuck, bro. Not now. 🤣😩
@@ViltrumiteIsRite99 bruh i know 💀
I feel bad for y'all.
Honestly bro I don't even have problems with girl but listening to someone with convictions is just really enjoyable. Keep it up ! Cheers from France
Courir vite
Je comprends pas parce qu'il dit "ouais invite la à quelque chose que tu comptais faire de toute façon" mais après si elle peut pas "rearrange the date a few times" sauf que comment jsuis censé réarranger vu que justement à la base je l'invite à l'événement ou je vais pas à un autre moment
@@marcschox4769 en gros tu vas faire une randonnée (exemple) et tu l’invites. Elle dit qu’elle peut pas car « excuse x ». Tu vas a la randonnée quand meme. Tu vas à un spectacle (tu la réinvite). Dans le sens que bah peut importe si elle vient ou non tu vas quand même là bas.
@@Taisonike Je vois donc je la réinvite quand je refais un évènement cool, je ne replanifie pas directement quand elle dit qu'elle peut pas venir. Merci man !
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation:
00:00 😊 Texting girls with authenticity and genuine compliments sets you apart.
01:25 📱 Don't let her lead the conversation; maintain control to keep her engaged.
03:34 🗓️ Aim to schedule a date within a few days for higher attraction and connection.
05:42 🎉 Lead with your own interesting activities for the date, rather than asking her.
09:28 📢 Express genuine thoughts and feelings through emotional connection texts.
11:48 🚫 Avoid overthinking response times; reply when you're in a personal life mode.
14:55 💡 Embrace an abundant mindset; remember it's a numbers game and prioritize your own fun.
17:06 🙅♂️ Avoid becoming a "texting buddy"; focus on building intrigue and attraction for in-person interactions.
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Your videos are not just for Jeffreys. Nothing wrong with going back to just basic interaction. Most guys just don't have the skill. Even professional athletes and musicians practice basic movements and scales. Your content is invaluable to all
Hater
@@editor7354 what? How. Im commending him on the video. His contents for everyone as everyone can get better myself included
He probably misunderstood the term invaluable? I get what u mean
@@ashleylee5166 priceless
As a musician, sometimes the you gotta revise the pentatonic
lol, i've always laughed at all this "alpha" garbage. To be honest i've been doing this (for the most part) my whole adult life and it works. You're bang on bro, keep up the good work. You don't need to put women down to get them
he's the only "alpha" youtuber that actually says good advice, other alpha youtubers just tell you to act "cool" but this guy i straightforward and makes you feel related to
This is more of that "alpha" garbage. Same thing, just repackaged a bit.
@@hytak18 no, it's really not.
@@octopus4925 Kinda is. Don't let her lead the convo because you're alpha. Arrange a date ASAP because alphas don't have time for chit chat. Etc.
@@Gaze73 but it’s correct thought, isn’t it? Facts over Feelings
There are few people I learn from and I can say Hamza is one of the few
this man gives me confidence while making fun of me, and i think that's a true social ability.
Fuck me, the thing about text gaming is so right. So many guys will settle for only texting women. You don't want to give her everything about you for free. Make yourself someone she wants to meet to get to know. Business formal texting WHILE sending cute texts and then getting to know her in person is 100%, without a doubt, the way to do it.
hundred percent
This channel has really helped me build my morals and compatibility.
This channel has showed me what I needed and wanted and how to do things properly.
The best part about it is that it just gets straight to the point.
*The idea of using humor or playful questions can really help break the ice and create a relaxed atmosphere. It’s interesting how the right opener can set the tone for the entire conversation.*
Be authentic and be yourself, not if ur weird tho lol
Too bad I'm weird lol
Everyone is weird at the core tho. Our weirdness is our realest self
@@everychannel1025 true. Honestly after thinking about it a good bit of weirdness is great, it is what make us special. creepy weirdness is what im thinking of i suppose
even if ur weird bro own it.
If you're a weirdo that's a plus man you have a gift, you don't fit in for a reason
We all gotta appreciate this super small
RUclips channel with the most quality content. This is definitely going big
I just send the first mesage to her and im really exited what happends, Thank u Hamza :)
broo i agree so hard, the girls I've had the deepest connection is when i acted like that. good video, people gotta understand that being real is the best
@@amarpalsohal9575 same
@@amarpalsohal9575 it's not like "her" like a god u know.. we are all humans and we all have problems. if you make your friends laugh, you can make she laugh.
what if being "real" meant me showering her with compliments? I dont like advice like "just be yourself" what if being myself is being a simp? should I continue being "myself"?????
@@mohamedadan6678 fuck no
@@mohamedadan6678 nah
Hamza you’re fr the older brother I never had I appreciate you so much, thank the algorithm for letting me find this channel
bro u re just the best dating advice giver i ve come across
Bro
We need people like you on the internet, Hamza! :)
just be confident is what i learnt throughout the years
thank you hamza! i'm so tired of following the red pill bs mindset on finding romance and connecting with women, and i agree with every point in this video, i just didn't know how to execute it. only improving that mindset everyday. this man is simply a step higher than red pill influencers.
This is gold, seriously its the best texting video that I've seen on RUclips
Not really. Because first off, don't send the same generic opening that the other 100 dudes are doing. Texting should only be used to setup dates. You don't wanna chat with her through text because it ruins all the mystery of getting to know the other person.
This man is overconfident, but I'm not even mad, he's clearly earned it 👍
Edit: just to clear up, when I said overconfident, I meant it more as he is way more confident than the average person, not that hes too confident.
Edit: wow I was kinda ignorant 6 months ago, my apologies
Nah, Ed. He's perfectly confident.
If he's earned it he's not overconfident
Someone is always overconfident when you’re not comfortable being confident i guess...
Problem is he talks like his got nearly everything figured out, clearly he has done a lot of self-improvement and has come out of it as a better person, but deep personal issues don't just go away forever they are a working progress that can take a lot of time to get better.
@@PabloD2cheeseball Yeah, he rose up a lot, but in his videos, you can still see some issues form the past and it's all normal... We all have those, but most of us are totally unaware of them so we can not overcome it.
Bruh the first message part! I said why not and texted an absolute stranger on Instagram: Hi! You look cute and I like how you dress She responded with: WTF WHO ARE YOU AND WHY ARE YOU TEXTING ME THINGS LIKE THIS YOU WEIRDO LEAVE ME ALONE! And she proceeded to block me. Maybe it was bad luck but you still earned a new subscriber!
I have received this response hundreds of times. You think she'd respond that way if Chris Hemsworth dm'd her? Hell no. It's absolute hell for the majority of guys who are regular dudes. It's a numbers game at the end of the day.
The most important lesson for any person, when it comes to relationships, is truly what he talks about here: AUTHENTICITY IS KEY! Everything else is literally just trying to be manipulative, if you think about it.
Everything we do in life is to manipulative other people and objects - these are good tips and make a better outcome for both the girl and the dude
Everything is fair in love and war. You got to impress her.
This dude is on point. I was a prime fuckboy last year and it was mainly due in part to the stuff this guy says. But I wasn't watching clips on how to do this. Instead of having girls be the first thing on my mind they were always a fourth or fifth thought and I would always have my priorities set on other shit. Because at the end of the day, you matter most. That girl you're texting so frequently isn't gonna get you the bag💲 or help you surpass that PR at the gym. It's YOU, king. Never lose yourself. Stay focused
This is actually exactly what i just did a few days ago out of intuiton after years and years of failure. Very good video hamza, this might change peoples lives
I'm 16 and I've been speaking like this for years, it's just been who I am I've been told I speak older than I am since entering highschool and I was always told this by women never men. I realized at the same time this authenticity is the reason I'm close with alot of the people I've made connections with. I didn't lose my fear of talking to people until 8th grade which people may say is late but it made me happier genuinely connecting with people while in middle school it felt like I was talking to 100% filtered people.
This is actually helpful even if you're not a dweeb. Stuff you can't just get from anyone but experience itself. He's able to put everything together. Good luck on everyone's journey!
Fekin excellent g. The stuff you were sayin about bein natural and find a compatible lover, "could end the video now" , brilliant, refreshin mate. Wan lv
Wow. I always text and act different around girls in a way that gets me attention from them. But whenever I do act like myself they seem disinterested or leave me on read, so instead of acting completely genuine, I only show that one side of me. But you made me realize that I should and that losing these peoples attention is actually a good thing. I want a lasting relationship not any of these flings. If i act like myself I'll filter out the people who are not compatible with me and find the one for me much faster.
Bingo
watching as a girl. dedicated subscriber i watch so many of ur videos. 😩 to the guys watching: he cracked the code!! i never comment but i had to bc it needs to be said listen to him yall his word is gold.
here before simps start complimenting ur looks
@@billy-ps7jz hey ur cute
@@billy-ps7jz hey cutie
YASS LET'S GO LESBIANS 😩💦✋
Congrats on the huge growth recently Hamza, keep grinding you'll be at 100k in no time
He is at 117k now
@@cuddlemuffin.9545 He is at 136k now
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What?
Even I Hamza Ahmad need a big brother like Hamza Ahmed
Ur Ahmad his Ahmed 😂
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That's amazing honestly
LMAOO
All Hamza’s lets unite 😂👊
tldr: always carry the convo & be yourself
Tldr?
@@ibrothesavage6952 "Too long didnt read". Well in this case watch. Its basically used to summarize long statements mainly on like reddit.
Watched it 4 months ago watching it again with my girl ❤️ I love you Hamza
This is good advice. Whenever I receive a text or a DM from someone, I don't respond to it instantly, even if it appears that I'm online and active. I'll also lead the conversation because most people don't know how to hold a conversation. That in itself is a skill because you don't want to give an answer that leads to dead ends and the other person feels less inclined to know more about you.
If a girl is messaging you, it is exactly that: she is trying to know more about you. If you don't have anything interesting about yourself, then you have nothing worth talking about that will interest her. In other words, in your current state, would you date yourself? From a business perspective, are your plans on how you expect to scale your operations big enough to inspire others to join you?
That being said, if you do have something going and you're on that hot pursuit, DO NOT say everything in a single conversation. Just give a little flex and show her through how you present yourself. You can develop a leadership mindset, but within the foundation of being a good leader, you adopt core values and be passionate about what you believe.
Lol, this comment is getting a little too involved. One last bit of advice: be a good story teller. Look at the demographics of who reads the most books. Just saying... xD
Actually a good video regarding women. Been using for a while most of the things you said and I got great results at texting. Thanks man.
recently started to do skin care in a month i can finaly start going to the gym because of age restrictions where i live thank you Hamza:)
Share your skincare routine fam
Real advice from a real dude. None of this clickbait bs. I always tell my youngers this💯
thank you man for being here, you are helping me improve mentally and physically
Hamza, this is exactly the right type of advice to be giving to guys. And your videos are so brilliant and your present well. Fricking awesome job dude I would be your friend in real life.
broo you are actually so funny. Keep up this energy.
Thank you Hamza, you are legit guiding my life towards success and every day I am making progress towards it.
Be it in the gym or in social situations.
Thank you!
Guys this is all good advice, I’ve been decent at getting with girls but never actually taking them out. I would meet them at school sport games and stuff like that but never do anything else. My friend recommended you and I watched you so thanks for helping others out.
very good advice, everything i have learned throughout my life perfectly matches this mans thoughts
Hamza thanks for inspiration brother, always coming in clutch with those perspectives
Bro Hamza, you are a real one. Your advice is always on point, I managed to ask out the girl I really liked recently, and we went on an amazing date. Tbh I don't think I could've done it without your videos, thanks for helping us on the journey to become Adonis :)
actually I'm wondering how did I never saw Hamza's ytb channel before, he's fucking authentic not as some people saying shitty things while thinking they're god.
Hamza you're not good, you great keep it up seriously, really like the way you're that honest face to cam don't change for anything bro
Hamza is so chill he literally makes videos in his dressing gown😂
But for real for me you are currently the best RUclips going rn👍👍👍
Hamza reminds me of my little brother (that I miss so much) proud what he preaches 🎯 important positive message for all the kings and soon to be high value men
I've been following your channel for a few days and your advice has been really helping me with confidence and getting things done you deserve way more subs
holy shit this is the best video lol, I tell these things all the time to guys who ask _what do I do_ and I just say "dude live your life, make friends and go out with them, focus on you and your work" and they frown because guys just want a secret magic formula to get girls. The formula is to just be yourself, and if "yourself" isn't interesting enough then WORK ON THAT SHIT.
And I don't even get all the girls, it's 1% like you said, I just have a constant flow of someone new because I actually like novelty and meeting new people, regardless of the gender.
Then what’s the point of being yourself
Brooo you’re a god no lie big brains you’ve got it figured out 👑
I would say take it easy when it comes to meeting a girl in person. Some girls don't like it If you ask them too soon to meet up in person. 3 days to a week is a good amount of time to wait. Other than that, this video is solid! Good advice.
Thank you Hamza For putting me in the right track.
Thank you for being straight up with us Hamza. You’re probably better than any other channels in the manosphere
Mad respect for Hamza's consistency🙏🏾
Hamza you are such a inspiration and a incredibly underrated channel, your vids are worth their weight in gold and have really changed my perspective in life and made me so much happier, love you bro!
Hands down best advice ive ever seen
not to be a Karen or anything but at 0.35 you did the backlever in a way you could easily injure yourself. Try to hold a hollow position slightly extending your upper back so that your abs and your back will be linear and you will not injure yourself
it is not only better looking but also more satisfying to do. By the way awesome video as always keep it up
Bro looking out is not being a Karen, ur a 🐐
@@Anyangayuen INSULT
@@Anyangayuen bogos binted 👽
the adonis and Jeffery scenes are deadass funny
i'm on the process with a girl, there been less than 1 week we're talking and i did what he said, I just said "hi", and complimented her and we started talking. Now i'm planning a date with her, wish me luck guys
How did that go?
Hell yea bro how’d it go
Looks like it didn't go well for not responding i hope your healthy and haven't done anything stupid stay alive and find other chicks better than her mate we believe in you and to add some attractiveness go to the Jim the advanced gym !
Hey?
@@dmitrygrv5661guessing the date didn’t go well 💀
i swear hamza has got me covered lool. This girl just asked me for my snapchat and we just started texting and then i see this vid come up.
Been away from the gym for a long time, your routines were the perfect way back in. Keep up the good work Hamza.
This video is what introduced me to Hamza
I hate texting, it’s so awkward to me, but when I’m talking to people irl It’s much more better
Boooaa same
As an introvert texting is better for me but talking is better
Bro arent you supposed to be in fallout NV?
both sucks
@@ittskabeer7285 Say that again this doesn’t make sense.
I was shaking for like 20 mins to think of a message to respond, watched this video and now it’s going super smooth
best advice iv'e ever heard on social media, this guy ain't playing games
The content we all need nowadays