Ha. My friends wouldnt take me seriously if I said I was suicidal. They'd just say, oh no ur not. Then they'd put their problems out there and say, oh my problems are worse.
It's too late. My online friend already did it. She didn't talk to us about it, she just said good bye forever. She kept it together so well until this morning 11:21 AM April 26th 2016 R.I.P Annette Holifield we miss you..
I know that this is 2 years late but I thought I should share this. I lost a few friends to suicide and almost lost some new ones too. I even almost lost my mom to suicide, but thanks to yall I was able to talk them out of it. Thank yall so much. Yall are making a bigger difference than yall can imagine. Thank you
Weird. My gf liked this video now about two months after getting me off most suicidal thoughts. She did it with very similar things that you advise. Chatting, understanding and pure love. I'm still having some thoughts though but I can suppress them. Since she gave me a reason to live I reduced my sleep times drastically. From a healthy amount to near to none. I drift away from my old family and plan the future with her. Even if I never met her we plan to meet up when she moves to me and have a good life together.
you cant give up depression is a hard thing to overcome. i have had depression for a long time i started with depression at the age of 13 im 25 now. you need to surround yourself with true friends and family someone who has the understanding of how to handle depression. I promise life gets better.
i could of done with a proper talk a whileback. at least i got through it. and anybody else reading this in that position. well i just have to say it gets better
+Ariel Bivens I doubt it.In a world like this people wouldn't even bother to care for others that's my experience i see people come and go and the worst part is i can't even do anything.You seem nice bu there's really nothing u can do even if u try.
I really love these videos, the subjects of discussion and the drawings on them. its just awesome how upbeting they can be. Thanks for your work watchwellcast
I remember when I was at a sleep over with my guy friend and I saw a butter knife. While we were about to go to bed he opened the light because he dropped his glasses on the carpet and he turned on the light to see me about to cut myself with the butter knife. He gave me a comfortable talk and helped me a lot. He could have saved me. And I thank him
I am going through the same thing mate. My best friend cuts herself because she hates her body. She was so close to killing herself but me and her boyfriend talked her out of it. I recently found out that she has been taking pills and it breaks my heart..💔 I hope all of us can get through it. P.s her boyfriend is also suicidal.
What do you do if you have asburges or how you spell it and you can't make friends very well and you feel alone and you are bullied and you have sudden social anxiety and you can't go to school... Because I felt like suicide a few months ago. And I had no one to talk to but I had help but now I'm at home and I am terrified of going into public. Since I have been of school I have been diagnosed with asburges. And I feel lonely a lot. If anyone could reply with help It would be much appreciated. Also well cast you could do a video on people with disorders like asburges if you haven't it could help thanks again and keep helping the world. :)
I understand, but just remember that you are not alone. In ANYTHING! There are people with the same issues that you can talk to. We should all be together in society.
Hey I’ve heard your going through some hard times 😕 and I wanna let you know don’t end it cuz there are people who love you even tho u might not see it ❤️ your worth it and ending your life hurting your self won’t make this better 😔 I know your hurt and keeping your pain inside of you 💔 but I wanna tell you you can tell me everything! 😉 I’ll be here for you and no matter how hard or hurtfull it is I’m here for you! 😜 plz stop hurting yourself inside and outside cuz you’re more worth it! Please if your hurting yourself thinking of suicide call 911 or someone you can trust cuz no matter how hard you’re suffering the pain will go away!!! 🙂 remember I love u and your worth every to a penny to the whole world 🌍 ❤️
i also remember that when i was depressed, my parents would always say that its just me and blame it on "stupid videogames" when videogames actually helped me out a bit. my friends caught up pretty fast and they did everything they could to help be out. i was so glad that i have a good group of true friends. theyre names were Amy, Chris, and Sahir
My ex-friend has started literally cutting herself and I kept telling her to stop it but she just said she does it to cope.. idk what to do I don’t want to tell a teacher because she has anger issues and may think I’m telling a teacher because we aren’t friends anymore😭😭🙏
Honestly when I lost my father I was destroyed I didn't eat or talk all I would do is cry. This is when I was in high school so the teacher would send me to the school nurse and I would never forget what she told me and I will share it with you all. Quote "Stop crying, do you honestly think people care about you. People just want to know not cause they care about you, but cause we as people like to gossip so what you need to do is bottle that shit up and move the fuck on". And from then I created my first persona in my head by the name of "RICKY" and if you want to talk to me on Kik it's jamaicanlover27
I have a friend that cuts and what’s to commit suiside but I’m scared to tell 911 cuz it might ruin our relationship and I’m scared cuz she’s my only true friend...
Two of classmates (that they are problem makers) asked me my very sharp scissors ✂️ and my friend started shouting at me not to give her That was so scary for me seeing TWO of classmates doing this to thereselves 😕😔
I'm so sorry if any of your family members or friends committed suicide and one time I tried to but I just remembered that you have so many things in life you have friends to back you up and you have family members to care for you but some don't and I'm truly sorry if they did.But there still caring for you we were all to late to help them and I'm really sorry if they just did something horrible to themselves but people have to remember that even everyone in the world cares for you and people who want to commit suicide please don't you have so many things in life and if you don't have any friends then I'll be just say something ok.😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
I have a friend who cuts. I told her "its just creating more pain so what's the point". She was just like " yeah I know I just use it to distract myself". this girl literally is not depressed at all and she's just like ya let's cut :DDD like NOSTOP
Hi! Hoping your doing well. I just want you to know that I may not understand how you feel, but I hope you realize that even through a screen, and the fact that I don’t know you, I’m cheering for you. I’ll pray for you, and I’m here if you ever need to talk. This goes out to everyone who needs it.
my very close friend tried to commit suicide. Before she tried to commit, she talked about how she thought she was ugly and fat and me and other friends always tried to help her. I tell her that my life wouldn't be the same without her. Im so thankful that she made it and is happy now.
Life is hard for so many people I've del't white Depression lot's of anxiety And even ST😒😢😩🙁i've been going to therapy a lot to help me my life isn't perfect it whith the help of my great Friends and Family I manage to get back up and have a smile on my face😀👍🏼👍🏼👏👏👏🤗 . Just remember anyone who want's to end their life DONT DO IT it's not worth it Think of how many people would suffer for you may all you happy and healthy for the rest of your life😀👍🏼👍🏼👏👏👏👏👏
last year when my parents split up i become a zone of dead energy...i didnt talk to anyone, barely particpated in anything. gave up my roll as house captain. but thanks to my friends i didnt and now i am a confident young man who is really close to getting a girlfriend... so i say this to you my friends. Thank you... without you i wouldnt be here today. Thanks.
HA I couldn’t imagine if my “friends” would even think twice if I mentioned killing myself. (And yes, I have attempted suicide multiple times and nobody cared at all) and I usually am depressed about my grades in school. Then they just say “ do your homework and be nice to your teachers.” My rebuttal to that is that now they’re just taking the teachers’ side. Again. They say it like I haven’t heard it at least 1,00000000 times. I don’t have clinical depression, but being an 8th grader with constantly changing hormones, I have extreme mood swings. Sometimes in conversation I just start crying. Not at school, I control it at school because I know what triggers me.
What if your friend doesn't want to seek help? I don't want to force him to see professionals, but I don't want to see him keep suffering. He is scared, and it didn't work for him when he was younger. No matter how much I try and tell him I'm there for him and will go with him and be supportive every step of the way, he straight up digs his heels in. I just want to help him, and I'm fearful that respect for his decision will end in further suffering for him. Some friendly advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks Wellcast.
Thank you so much, that's really kind of you and really helpful. I think if things get very bad I will have to make that difficult decision, and of course if his life is at stake then definitely. At the minute he is just in a pretty deep depression, and has self harmed in the past. He has considered help in the past too, and seemed as though he was really going to go through with it at one point, then he backed out last second. So I think he is just scared. I'll try some more coaxing and talk to him rationally and logically. And hopefully he will change his mind before things turn worse and I have to take action for his sake. Your advice was super helpful, thank you again so much.
It can sometimes seem like the person doesn't want any help, but I think thoughts/feelings like they don't deserve anyone to be on their side or to help them gets in the way. You can go to organisations/charities that might be national or local to help you with support and advice, and they can also get in contact with your friend to help them too if you think its best. If he is in a situation where he is genuinely endangering himself or someone else, you are allowed to call authorities e.g. police to take him to a place of safety. Talking to the people on the websites Wellcast mentioned is a good place to start. There are different kinds of help out there, different kinds of counsellors, therapists, medications, methods etc. Knowing there's not one specific route might make your friend feel less pressurized to go through with something they feel isn't working. He can try something different. It may take a few tries before your friend finds something that suits them, but keep encouraging and being non-judgmental.
i found one guy in roblo bloxburg and said he will do it in game i was like DON'T DO IT and try figure out what wrong and stuff well he was jsut mad cause he haveing bad day that he really want end it all but i got him not and i had soem 3 human puzzle :)
Bullying is really hurting me I don't want to go through this anymore if it continues summer is here so I'm very happy but I'm very worried about school starting up again I can't Handel bullying. 😭😭😭😭😭
it seems like everyone hass fake friends. and most families have parents that care only about getting money that they dont even see what is happening with their kids.
Someone's probably going to reply and say shut up and just call help but... the person I'm thinking about has told me they promise they won't kill themself because they'd never do that to me uh they're also, well, pretty fit and all and thin as can be yet genuinely wants to lose a bunch of weight and all. I keep telling them. they're beautiful, their body is beautiful, god damnit. they bite their nails and pick off skin from their fingers and also cut their thighs as a form of self harm.. I always try to be there for them. and i... I've been so close to calling someone, calling help, telling someone all this but i just cant. theyll be so upset and hate me and never speak to me again. (a few things to understand here if you have any ideas on what I can do) this person is agender, used to be a girl, we are low key dating (we keep it a secret), they are 13, and apperantly their seemingly awesome and sweet/loving mom is kinda an ass about the pronoun thing, she uses their deadname sometimes on purpose, and makes them feel like shit constantly and they HATE her. like fuck. what do I do? I know I should call but I can't bring myself to do it.
My sister couldnt. no time. just... May 24th 2019, My sister was talking to her friend, Even though her friend was suicidal she was doing good, 6:57 PM... my sister ran up to me crying, she said her friend did it. RIP Elani We tried to help you...
I know a girl who told me she was suicidal out of nowhere. It was between classes and her locker is next to mine and it was like she was just saying it to whoever was willing to listen (which happened to be me). Now my grade is messed up. Bullying is horrible in my grade (mainly verbal bullying) and every always tells everyone to kill themselves "as a joke". How messed up is that!? So I don't know if this girl meant it or not but now I'm partially worried for her. I don't know what to do. Were more acquaintances than friends so I don't think she would ever deeply talk to me about her feelings. I just don't know how to help her, but honestly I think I need to help myself before helping her :(
I'm not an expert but i'm willing to try and help. Try letting her know that you're there for her if you ever need somebody to talk to. Then try to talk a little bit more often to her, if you're shy or nervous go with a friend who you know will support your decision to talk to this girl. Once you talk to her, do really nice/ helpful things for her (like helping her with work or just a plain compliment like "i love your hair" could go a long way). She will probably trust you more/feel more confident talking to you. Once you get to a stage where you are good friends, try following this video. Maybe if you try to help her, your grades may lift as you are doing something good (which will in turn, motivate you). I hope I was able to help in at least one way. Good luck
I know what you mean:( Kids in my class always say things like "There's a window right there!" And in my head I'm thinking it's not something to joke about:(
I don't know why I'm putting this on the internet...but I have recently been upset and depressed...and started physically injuring myself...(wrist cutting) and I don't know how to tell...anyone...I'm scared and alone....I don't know what to do...
Darn. I know how you feel... I moved to a new school last year and I still don't have any friends... I'm hoping to turn it around next year though... I just hope that you fared better in the situation, we can talk about it if you want.
I know how you feel. When I was younger, I moved twice. And next year, I might move again. Oh god I need to stop thinking about this, I'm gonna cry just thinking about it
This reminds me of someone I know... me, and this didn't help me at all. And even thought I want help and trying to show my friends that I am really suicidal, they didn't seem to want to help at all. When I asked them how they would commit suicide, and explained that I'm suicidal, they just gave me ideas on how to commit suicide. It feels like they hate me and want me to commit suicide anyway. They are no help WHATSOEVER!! My friends don't act like friends at all. Even though they see me all alone at play time, they just leave me alone to wonder HOW they are supposed to be my FRIENDS.
I’m so close to this and I’m scared 😭 My list of miseries is HUGE and I have 0 friends to get help with. Seriously why should I bother getting therapy, or taking pills if it just treats it and doesn’t cure it. I am TIRED.
“Internal demons that require professional care” That’s called the mighty power of Jesus Christ. Remember demons tremble at the name of Jesus and He is not limited to your problems
This reminded me of how my brother almost killed himself because he was being physically bullied at school for being gay. I didn't find out he was 1. gay, or 2. attempted suicide until 3 years after. I was 11 at the time. I'm 14 now. I would've liked to know.
I need help people... A friend of mine recently stated they were suicidal and many times said they wanted to die. I tried to call help(school therapists) and This didn't go well We started talking a few months ago and they told me but they can't get in mind that they need help and always mention su1c1d3. I can't keep on with this as I have my problems but wanna help them.... Please answer...whoever you are..I need help.. Should I tell my parents?...
Honestly I hate myself. I'm a spoiled, overweight fuck who can't even get straight A's (only once, I mostly get A's, B's but school has been dropping weights on me and now I can't even pay attention to class.) I'm sitting here complaining about my life while I'm a well fed girl in a nice house with a family. Yet no matter how I see it I have the "bad life" and yes I've attempted once. But I couldn't get the rope tied on the fan properly. :|
I watched this video and I thought Hey I don't have anyone that's like this and I'm happy that I don't! Then, my friend sent me a text that she had with her boyfriend... It said "If only I could stop cutting myself I would be more happy around you!" And I broke into tears! I never thought they would never have been sad but they were! So I decided to talk to them about it and I helped them see a brighter side of life! Then he said "Thanks because of you I'm now not gonna cut myself anymore!" Then I slowly saw the cut marks (which he said was misquote bites that opened) go away! Now he is a happy person!
"You have to know the darkness before you can appreciate the light. You were given this life because you're strong enough to live it." This is the quote that an old friend sent me when I've had thoughts of my first suicidal attempt. This kept me going. ❤ Hope this helps. If you'd ask me what keeps me going these days? I have 2 things: - The 3 people (2 seniors and a minor), a dog and a cat that is depending on me. - The quote "there's always light at the end of the tunnel". It makes me curious. I want to know and experience the light after being in the dark for quite a long time. So be curious. ❤
Milan David,me too.I don't know why I just do,sometimes I feel like just killing myself in front of everyone,it's just my life is so hard,and sometimes I feel like just ending it all just to stop the pain,physically,and emotionally.
Im 9 years late but most of our chats is her saying she wants to die, we're not so close of friends so i appreciate that she trusts me. she takes anti depressants and invited me to her funeral. Again we're not that close so i have no idea how to approach it, ive also recently been to a funeral of a kid that killed himself bc of bullies at school. We never have 1 on 1 conversations, i dont know man God keep us all safe, please❤
i...... I cried....... my friend (fake) made me cry because she told me to die because i am Useless... (she asks me favors and i do that all the time). my other (really good) friend said your kind, and stuff so break up with the friend who made me cry... Her name is Ishani.(the mean one) Chloe is my true friend....
Everyone I think this is soo sad and it can understand that. I think youtubers the only thing that I love besides my parents. My friends call me noodle arms because they think I'm weak and I'm judged by my size. I don't know but I might be suicidal. I don't because of the stress?
When you commit suicide your being selfish because those who love and care about you will be sad and have to cope with your PERMANENT absence just remember your never alone. When I was 9 I just wanted to end it all I had fights with friends and my parents always believed my sister i thought no one cared or loved me but I was wrong. You who want to commit suicide or a friend or family member just tell them or remember there is someone out there!
I trying jumping from a bridge 3 weeks ago. I got stopped by police and a suicidal prevention unit. Got held in a hospital for a day and then sent home. Nothing changed. I regret not jumping when I had the chance.
My friends cut... you can see the slits all the way up their arms... we all joke about our depression for some reason, but... we all hate ourselves... we all want our hurt to stop but, we can’t handle being normal with each other, we have to be ok with everything because that is how we acted when we were young... I know my friends are depressed and hate theirselves but... I can’t do anything because my friends don’t listen to each other, we don’t care what people think, we bully each other into being as fragile as we are now... I want it to stop but... I can’t do anything... I just....can’t....
Please What can I do my sister want to suiccide but she have a very strong personality so even compassion or kindness is not enough I don’t know what to do ! 😭😭😭😭😭 Sorry for commenting here but it became even worse with the confinement situation
The only reason people do suicide is because they get bullied or getting in trouble, having fights with their BFFs or getting yelled at from their parents or don't have any friends or even because they think they deserve it! I think people who are suicidul should think about the good times, deep down in you are some really good moments and then say just because life is bad doesn't mean I should punish everyone! Trust me! Someone out their loves you and god gave you life for a reason! Hang out with the people that love you and don't say bony loves me my parents dead and my crush doesn't even like me and I don't have any friends! What about grandparents, aunts, uncles, guys, And friends that that to you at school!
If only this was around when I needed it 2 lives might still be here tho I know now what they went through not by reading a letter or any of that but personally I attempted I got help and will have been clean for over 2yrs on November 2nd when I say clean I don't mean drugs or alcohol I mean suicidal thoughts,actions and self-harm but it's been hard and even tho I've recovered from it myself I still regret not being able to help them but then to mental health and suicide Weren't big or believed in as much yet so even if I had known and gotten help would it have been enough or would they have gotten the proper help that's available nowadays or would they have just been tossed aside and told to "GET OVER IT" that their just doing it for attention or faking it idk and that hurts I've more or less moved on but sometimes I still wonder what would've happened if I'd done more and spoken up
HELP! My friend is home and im away and i can only chat with him! He is depressed because he is abused being abused for being transgender! I seek help plz!
I used to have suicidal thoughts but then I thought My Friend Wouldn't Want This.We both were bullied but I moved and she did too well schools and houses I moved houses and schools and she moved schools.We are out of that horrible place it was like the nether (I'm Good I don't say those words)
wish i could’ve done something for that kid. i didn’t know him well, but i knew he was struggling. i didn’t think it was serious. i thought the way he was acting was normal. do something before it’s too late everybody
I was suicidal last summer I find out some thing real bad about friends.i though no one card but I got help from my mom and friend now I’m alive watching RUclips
Please never call out anyone loser, ugly, fat, weird, dumb or whatever You wanna be mean, This can lead that one to the suicide , society so in tension and lonely now. I repeat it: don’t break any heart and soul. Just let it go.
My friends got the message that I was suicidal and not my usual weird, happy self, they watched this video and helped me through the rest of the rest of my primary school time, but now their gone and I have no one. I need help.
My best friend isn't suicidal (as far as I'm aware :/ ) but she did tell me she was depressed and she had gone to the dr to get pills (good pills tho) but this time last year she was the last person I would of thought to be this way and it hurts me that she is, a lot actually, and I'm not sure if I should just keep talking to her about it or just keep quiet (I'm the only person she has told none of her other friends of family know)
All that i want is physical contact. I never hug my mom or dad. whenever i do hug my mom is like once a year on her birthday, but when i do i find it so hard to do, and i don't do it with love. Like if i were hugging an unknown person.
Ha. My friends wouldnt take me seriously if I said I was suicidal. They'd just say, oh no ur not. Then they'd put their problems out there and say, oh my problems are worse.
Find real friends.
SalixStudios Geno same
my friend doesn't believe i slit my wrist she says NO ITS YOUR DOGS
Spicy Candle if me or my friends try to open up they just get bullied back shut
Then they're not your friends.
I helped a girl in my class who was suicidal a few years ago, now we're best friends :)
elliot good job :D
This makes me happy!
elliot I aspire to be like you ❤
I did the same with my gf she died 2 weeks ago.
You need a gold medal dude Idk u but I love you
It's too late. My online friend already did it. She didn't talk to us about it, she just said good bye forever. She kept it together so well until this morning 11:21 AM April 26th 2016 R.I.P Annette Holifield we miss you..
+MissLucayaPeybrinaRiarkle R.I.P. damn sorry m8
I'm so, so sorry. *Hugs you*
I'm so sorry.Really.I mean it with all my heart.
I feel sorry for you, but maby i will look her up 😞
I know this is 2 months late but I'm very sorry for your loss. :'( R.I.P. Annette Holifield
I know that this is 2 years late but I thought I should share this. I lost a few friends to suicide and almost lost some new ones too. I even almost lost my mom to suicide, but thanks to yall I was able to talk them out of it. Thank yall so much. Yall are making a bigger difference than yall can imagine. Thank you
You were able to save your mom from suicide??! Boy, you are the strongest person I know!!
Thanks, both of you.
+Kidd Death 210 course!
I have lost a few people too because of suicide😭 may the all rest in peace
Please tell me how you talked them out of it because I really need to know- sorry if that sounds selfish and I'm really sorry about your friends.
None of my friends would do this for me😕
+bush bear
been there, I am here if you want
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TBH in grade 1 I want to commit suicide...
Same :c
Same.But I talked to them,but not very open to how I feel
Weird. My gf liked this video now about two months after getting me off most suicidal thoughts. She did it with very similar things that you advise. Chatting, understanding and pure love. I'm still having some thoughts though but I can suppress them. Since she gave me a reason to live I reduced my sleep times drastically. From a healthy amount to near to none. I drift away from my old family and plan the future with her. Even if I never met her we plan to meet up when she moves to me and have a good life together.
Could you please give us the update?🥺
This made me cry ;-;
I did too TT^TT
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 I have severe depression and I'm 12
same here 😰
Me too
me to i hate my life
you cant give up depression is a hard thing to overcome. i have had depression for a long time i started with depression at the age of 13 im 25 now. you need to surround yourself with true friends and family someone who has the understanding of how to handle depression. I promise life gets better.
Larry Evans :( thanks
If people tell you no one is there for you. Someone is always there. And I am sure of it. Beacuse I am here for everyone
tenk u frend
wow such a nice comment section
thanks
thank you!
2:20 - 2:28 is pure perfection ♡
guys if you need someone to talk to I'm here to listen :) I care about you
i could of done with a proper talk a whileback. at least i got through it. and anybody else reading this in that position. well i just have to say it gets better
+Ariel Bivens I doubt it.In a world like this people wouldn't even bother to care for others that's my experience i see people come and go and the worst part is i can't even do anything.You seem nice bu there's really nothing u can do even if u try.
+Deign Lazaro pathetic is it not?Seeking help but they just laugh about it and ignore you
Deign Lazaro well your very optimistic aren't you
Ariel Bivens fucking liar
I really love these videos, the subjects of discussion and the drawings on them. its just awesome how upbeting they can be. Thanks for your work watchwellcast
I wish I had more friends :(
Same
sushimagushi2 I'll be your friend
Phanmemetrashnumber1 I'll also be your friend
sushimagushi2 I wish I had 1 friend.
I remember when I was at a sleep over with my guy friend and I saw a butter knife. While we were about to go to bed he opened the light because he dropped his glasses on the carpet and he turned on the light to see me about to cut myself with the butter knife. He gave me a comfortable talk and helped me a lot. He could have saved me. And I thank him
My best friend who is 13 tried to kill herself 3 times and cuts herself cuz she likes pain and i breaks my heart 😢😭😢😭😢😭😢😭😢😭
I am going through the same thing mate. My best friend cuts herself because she hates her body. She was so close to killing herself but me and her boyfriend talked her out of it. I recently found out that she has been taking pills and it breaks my heart..💔 I hope all of us can get through it.
P.s her boyfriend is also suicidal.
Lets try and figure something out together for both of our friends Katy Wainwright
What do you do if you have asburges or how you spell it and you can't make friends very well and you feel alone and you are bullied and you have sudden social anxiety and you can't go to school... Because I felt like suicide a few months ago. And I had no one to talk to but I had help but now I'm at home and I am terrified of going into public. Since I have been of school I have been diagnosed with asburges. And I feel lonely a lot. If anyone could reply with help It would be much appreciated. Also well cast you could do a video on people with disorders like asburges if you haven't it could help thanks again and keep helping the world. :)
leon bedwell Just man up.
I understand, but just remember that you are not alone. In ANYTHING! There are people with the same issues that you can talk to. We should all be together in society.
@@ajuicyorange5581 that advice is not helpful for this situation
I told my bestest friend I wanted to kill myself he just laughed wow universe is telling me something
I only have 3 friends and only 1 how cares If I die
Then you only have one friend, friends care for each other, not ignoring and not caring for each other
i guess ur right
If one person out those three care then they are the only true friend and the others are bad people
Hey I’ve heard your going through some hard times 😕 and I wanna let you know don’t end it cuz there are people who love you even tho u might not see it ❤️ your worth it and ending your life hurting your self won’t make this better 😔 I know your hurt and keeping your pain inside of you 💔 but I wanna tell you you can tell me everything! 😉 I’ll be here for you and no matter how hard or hurtfull it is I’m here for you! 😜 plz stop hurting yourself inside and outside cuz you’re more worth it! Please if your hurting yourself thinking of suicide call 911 or someone you can trust cuz no matter how hard you’re suffering the pain will go away!!! 🙂 remember I love u and your worth every to a penny to the whole world 🌍
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living with depression and schizophrenia is hard..... just why?!
i've lost 4 friens to suicide :( i'm serius
I'm so sorry for ur loss
Friends serious
That's really sad, I hope that doesn't happen to other people
i also remember that when i was depressed, my parents would always say that its just me and blame it on "stupid videogames" when videogames actually helped me out a bit. my friends caught up pretty fast and they did everything they could to help be out. i was so glad that i have a good group of true friends. theyre names were Amy, Chris, and Sahir
My ex-friend has started literally cutting herself and I kept telling her to stop it but she just said she does it to cope.. idk what to do I don’t want to tell a teacher because she has anger issues and may think I’m telling a teacher because we aren’t friends anymore😭😭🙏
I tell my freind how I feel and she just says “oh same” like i said it to be relatable 😭💀 I don’t know what to do
Honestly when I lost my father I was destroyed I didn't eat or talk all I would do is cry. This is when I was in high school so the teacher would send me to the school nurse and I would never forget what she told me and I will share it with you all. Quote "Stop crying, do you honestly think people care about you. People just want to know not cause they care about you, but cause we as people like to gossip so what you need to do is bottle that shit up and move the fuck on". And from then I created my first persona in my head by the name of "RICKY" and if you want to talk to me on Kik it's jamaicanlover27
I have a friend that cuts and what’s to commit suiside but I’m scared to tell 911 cuz it might ruin our relationship and I’m scared cuz she’s my only true friend...
Two of classmates (that they are problem makers) asked me my very sharp scissors ✂️ and my friend started shouting at me not to give her
That was so scary for me seeing TWO of classmates doing this to thereselves 😕😔
I'm so sorry if any of your family members or friends committed suicide and one time I tried to but I just remembered that you have so many things in life you have friends to back you up and you have family members to care for you but some don't and I'm truly sorry if they did.But there still caring for you we were all to late to help them and I'm really sorry if they just did something horrible to themselves but people have to remember that even everyone in the world cares for you and people who want to commit suicide please don't you have so many things in life and if you don't have any friends then I'll be just say something ok.😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
me: i have depression
literally everyone: *MAN UP*
me: im tired of this bullshit
edit: true story, happened to me like 2 years ago
I have a friend who cuts. I told her "its just creating more pain so what's the point". She was just like " yeah I know I just use it to distract myself". this girl literally is not depressed at all and she's just like ya let's cut :DDD like NOSTOP
She might be shy, I did that to my friends, slowly speaking my feelings.
Daniela Blazevski shes not shy at all
I told my friends, all they did was laugh...
Hey I hope you are doing well right now. You need to drop those friends, surround yourself with people who make you feel good
Hi! Hoping your doing well. I just want you to know that I may not understand how you feel, but I hope you realize that even through a screen, and the fact that I don’t know you, I’m cheering for you. I’ll pray for you, and I’m here if you ever need to talk. This goes out to everyone who needs it.
I failed....
Why haven't they posted in like a year
something stopped funding them
I've heard a lot everywhere that RUclips stopped funding them, so they dint make videos anymore.
that really sucks, I liked them a lot
Pro Gamer1298
I liked them a lot too, you're not lone
Funniest part is,I am suicidal and I tried everything but...
my very close friend tried to commit suicide. Before she tried to commit, she talked about how she thought she was ugly and fat and me and other friends always tried to help her. I tell her that my life wouldn't be the same without her. Im so thankful that she made it and is happy now.
I'm not here to help I just NEED help
clorox bleach You're here the help the suicidal people
Same
so hard to deal with it. so fuckin hard!
I almost suicide becuz I just don't get along well ....... I just scrape my knees my face my arms and my elbows ........
Are you serious if so please talk to loved ones PLEASE
Can you make one on self harm
I still want to die watching the two videos
Life is hard for so many people I've del't white Depression lot's of anxiety And even ST😒😢😩🙁i've been going to therapy a lot to help me my life isn't perfect it whith the help of my great Friends and Family I manage to get back up and have a smile on my face😀👍🏼👍🏼👏👏👏🤗 . Just remember anyone who want's to end their life DONT DO IT it's not worth it Think of how many people would suffer for you may all you happy and healthy for the rest of your life😀👍🏼👍🏼👏👏👏👏👏
last year when my parents split up i become a zone of dead energy...i didnt talk to anyone, barely particpated in anything. gave up my roll as house captain. but thanks to my friends i didnt and now i am a confident young man who is really close to getting a girlfriend... so i say this to you my friends. Thank you... without you i wouldnt be here today. Thanks.
Watchwellcast can u make a video "how deal with a loss in a selection or competition".......plzzzz plzzz plzzz
Thank you so much i really needed this, at the moment, my friend cut themself. They wouldnt stop. Once again thanks
This helped me and my friend so much! Thank you sooo much! :)
I met someone on discord who I've really gotten to know. They are actively suicidal and they have cut contact with me and others. Idk what to do.
When I tell my friend im depressed, they think its a big joke.
Suicidal thoughts were common for me as a child. Growing up in poverty and being bullied. Prayers for everyone.
Hey wellcast I love ur vids but if u keep reposting its gonna lpose u subs please stay asoume but do new stuff
HA I couldn’t imagine if my “friends” would even think twice if I mentioned killing myself. (And yes, I have attempted suicide multiple times and nobody cared at all) and I usually am depressed about my grades in school. Then they just say “ do your homework and be nice to your teachers.” My rebuttal to that is that now they’re just taking the teachers’ side. Again. They say it like I haven’t heard it at least 1,00000000 times. I don’t have clinical depression, but being an 8th grader with constantly changing hormones, I have extreme mood swings. Sometimes in conversation I just start crying. Not at school, I control it at school because I know what triggers me.
What if your friend doesn't want to seek help? I don't want to force him to see professionals, but I don't want to see him keep suffering. He is scared, and it didn't work for him when he was younger. No matter how much I try and tell him I'm there for him and will go with him and be supportive every step of the way, he straight up digs his heels in. I just want to help him, and I'm fearful that respect for his decision will end in further suffering for him. Some friendly advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks Wellcast.
Thank you so much, that's really kind of you and really helpful. I think if things get very bad I will have to make that difficult decision, and of course if his life is at stake then definitely. At the minute he is just in a pretty deep depression, and has self harmed in the past.
He has considered help in the past too, and seemed as though he was really going to go through with it at one point, then he backed out last second. So I think he is just scared. I'll try some more coaxing and talk to him rationally and logically. And hopefully he will change his mind before things turn worse and I have to take action for his sake.
Your advice was super helpful, thank you again so much.
It can sometimes seem like the person doesn't want any help, but I think thoughts/feelings like they don't deserve anyone to be on their side or to help them gets in the way. You can go to organisations/charities that might be national or local to help you with support and advice, and they can also get in contact with your friend to help them too if you think its best. If he is in a situation where he is genuinely endangering himself or someone else, you are allowed to call authorities e.g. police to take him to a place of safety. Talking to the people on the websites Wellcast mentioned is a good place to start. There are different kinds of help out there, different kinds of counsellors, therapists, medications, methods etc. Knowing there's not one specific route might make your friend feel less pressurized to go through with something they feel isn't working. He can try something different. It may take a few tries before your friend finds something that suits them, but keep encouraging and being non-judgmental.
i found one guy in roblo bloxburg and said he will do it in game i was like DON'T DO IT and try figure out what wrong and stuff well he was jsut mad cause he haveing bad day that he really want end it all but i got him not and i had soem 3 human puzzle :)
Bullying is really hurting me I don't want to go through this anymore if it continues summer is here so I'm very happy but I'm very worried about school starting up again I can't Handel bullying. 😭😭😭😭😭
I wish my family and friends do the same thing for me 😞
it seems like everyone hass fake friends. and most families have parents that care only about getting money that they dont even see what is happening with their kids.
Someone's probably going to reply and say shut up and just call help but...
the person I'm thinking about has told me they promise they won't kill themself because they'd never do that to me
uh
they're also, well, pretty fit and all and thin as can be yet genuinely wants to lose a bunch of weight and all. I keep telling them. they're beautiful, their body is beautiful, god damnit.
they bite their nails and pick off skin from their fingers and also cut their thighs as a form of self harm.. I always try to be there for them. and i...
I've been so close to calling someone, calling help, telling someone all this but i just cant. theyll be so upset and hate me and never speak to me again.
(a few things to understand here if you have any ideas on what I can do) this person is agender, used to be a girl, we are low key dating (we keep it a secret), they are 13, and apperantly their seemingly awesome and sweet/loving mom is kinda an ass about the pronoun thing, she uses their deadname sometimes on purpose, and makes them feel like shit constantly and they HATE her.
like fuck. what do I do? I know I should call but I can't bring myself to do it.
My sister couldnt. no time. just... May 24th 2019, My sister was talking to her friend, Even though her friend was suicidal she was doing good, 6:57 PM... my sister ran up to me crying, she said her friend did it. RIP Elani We tried to help you...
I know a girl who told me she was suicidal out of nowhere. It was between classes and her locker is next to mine and it was like she was just saying it to whoever was willing to listen (which happened to be me). Now my grade is messed up. Bullying is horrible in my grade (mainly verbal bullying) and every always tells everyone to kill themselves "as a joke". How messed up is that!? So I don't know if this girl meant it or not but now I'm partially worried for her. I don't know what to do. Were more acquaintances than friends so I don't think she would ever deeply talk to me about her feelings. I just don't know how to help her, but honestly I think I need to help myself before helping her :(
I'm not an expert but i'm willing to try and help.
Try letting her know that you're there for her if you ever need somebody to talk to. Then try to talk a little bit more often to her, if you're shy or nervous go with a friend who you know will support your decision to talk to this girl. Once you talk to her, do really nice/ helpful things for her (like helping her with work or just a plain compliment like "i love your hair" could go a long way). She will probably trust you more/feel more confident talking to you.
Once you get to a stage where you are good friends, try following this video. Maybe if you try to help her, your grades may lift as you are doing something good (which will in turn, motivate you).
I hope I was able to help in at least one way. Good luck
nikki walker Thanks
+NJCWolf No problem, hopefully everything will turn out good
I know what you mean:(
Kids in my class always say things like
"There's a window right there!"
And in my head I'm thinking it's not something to joke about:(
+vegetarian dinosaur I know I am a fourth grader and we are upstairs and the bullies always say that to me I am 10 and a girl
I don't know why I'm putting this on the internet...but I have recently been upset and depressed...and started physically injuring myself...(wrist cutting) and I don't know how to tell...anyone...I'm scared and alone....I don't know what to do...
my boyfriends friend keeps telling him she wants to kill herself....he keeps talking her down, but im worried.....
I have no more friends because my parents forced me to go to a different school. I can't take it. life is unfair
Darn. I know how you feel... I moved to a new school last year and I still don't have any friends... I'm hoping to turn it around next year though... I just hope that you fared better in the situation, we can talk about it if you want.
I know how you feel. When I was younger, I moved twice. And next year, I might move again. Oh god I need to stop thinking about this, I'm gonna cry just thinking about it
+Crystal Rain1220 so sad ;(
This reminds me of someone I know... me, and this didn't help me at all. And even thought I want help and trying to show my friends that I am really suicidal, they didn't seem to want to help at all. When I asked them how they would commit suicide, and explained that I'm suicidal, they just gave me ideas on how to commit suicide. It feels like they hate me and want me to commit suicide anyway. They are no help WHATSOEVER!! My friends don't act like friends at all. Even though they see me all alone at play time, they just leave me alone to wonder HOW they are supposed to be my FRIENDS.
I’m so close to this and I’m scared 😭 My list of miseries is HUGE and I have 0 friends to get help with. Seriously why should I bother getting therapy, or taking pills if it just treats it and doesn’t cure it. I am TIRED.
“Internal demons that require professional care” That’s called the mighty power of Jesus Christ. Remember demons tremble at the name of Jesus and He is not limited to your problems
This reminded me of how my brother almost killed himself because he was being physically bullied at school for being gay. I didn't find out he was 1. gay, or 2. attempted suicide until 3 years after. I was 11 at the time. I'm 14 now. I would've liked to know.
My friend had depression and she started hurting herself I helped her and now she's happy 😊
I need help people...
A friend of mine recently stated they were suicidal and many times said they wanted to die.
I tried to call help(school therapists) and This didn't go well
We started talking a few months ago and they told me but they can't get in mind that they need help and always mention su1c1d3.
I can't keep on with this as I have my problems but wanna help them....
Please answer...whoever you are..I need help..
Should I tell my parents?...
Honestly I hate myself. I'm a spoiled, overweight fuck who can't even get straight A's (only once, I mostly get A's, B's but school has been dropping weights on me and now I can't even pay attention to class.) I'm sitting here complaining about my life while I'm a well fed girl in a nice house with a family. Yet no matter how I see it I have the "bad life" and yes I've attempted once. But I couldn't get the rope tied on the fan properly. :|
I looked out a window and for some reason
I wanted to jump
Idk what was wrong with me
I'm not scuicidal Or anything
I watched this video and I thought Hey I don't have anyone that's like this and I'm happy that I don't! Then, my friend sent me a text that she had with her boyfriend... It said "If only I could stop cutting myself I would be more happy around you!" And I broke into tears! I never thought they would never have been sad but they were! So I decided to talk to them about it and I helped them see a brighter side of life! Then he said "Thanks because of you I'm now not gonna cut myself anymore!" Then I slowly saw the cut marks (which he said was misquote bites that opened) go away! Now he is a happy person!
"You have to know the darkness before you can appreciate the light. You were given this life because you're strong enough to live it."
This is the quote that an old friend sent me when I've had thoughts of my first suicidal attempt. This kept me going. ❤ Hope this helps.
If you'd ask me what keeps me going these days? I have 2 things:
- The 3 people (2 seniors and a minor), a dog and a cat that is depending on me.
- The quote "there's always light at the end of the tunnel". It makes me curious. I want to know and experience the light after being in the dark for quite a long time.
So be curious. ❤
i have suicide and its really hard😓😞😢
I love you :)
Milan David,me too.I don't know why I just do,sometimes I feel like just killing myself in front of everyone,it's just my life is so hard,and sometimes I feel like just ending it all just to stop the pain,physically,and emotionally.
No one is doing this for me...
Because I don't have friends LOL
Im 9 years late but most of our chats is her saying she wants to die, we're not so close of friends so i appreciate that she trusts me. she takes anti depressants and invited me to her funeral.
Again we're not that close so i have no idea how to approach it, ive also recently been to a funeral of a kid that killed himself bc of bullies at school.
We never have 1 on 1 conversations, i dont know man
God keep us all safe, please❤
i...... I cried....... my friend (fake) made me cry because she told me to die because i am Useless... (she asks me favors and i do that all the time). my other (really good) friend said your kind, and stuff so break up with the friend who made me cry... Her name is Ishani.(the mean one) Chloe is my true friend....
Everyone I think this is soo sad and it can understand that. I think youtubers the only thing that I love besides my parents. My friends call me noodle arms because they think I'm weak and I'm judged by my size. I don't know but I might be suicidal. I don't because of the stress?
When you commit suicide your being selfish because those who love and care about you will be sad and have to cope with your PERMANENT absence just remember your never alone. When I was 9 I just wanted to end it all I had fights with friends and my parents always believed my sister i thought no one cared or loved me but I was wrong. You who want to commit suicide or a friend or family member just tell them or remember there is someone out there!
Should I do this, my friends last words. We both were going to jump. I survived. WHYYY
I trying jumping from a bridge 3 weeks ago. I got stopped by police and a suicidal prevention unit. Got held in a hospital for a day and then sent home. Nothing changed. I regret not jumping when I had the chance.
My friends cut... you can see the slits all the way up their arms... we all joke about our depression for some reason, but... we all hate ourselves... we all want our hurt to stop but, we can’t handle being normal with each other, we have to be ok with everything because that is how we acted when we were young... I know my friends are depressed and hate theirselves but... I can’t do anything because my friends don’t listen to each other, we don’t care what people think, we bully each other into being as fragile as we are now... I want it to stop but... I can’t do anything... I just....can’t....
Please What can I do my sister want to suiccide but she have a very strong personality so even compassion or kindness is not enough I don’t know what to do ! 😭😭😭😭😭 Sorry for commenting here but it became even worse with the confinement situation
The only reason people do suicide is because they get bullied or getting in trouble, having fights with their BFFs or getting yelled at from their parents or don't have any friends or even because they think they deserve it! I think people who are suicidul should think about the good times, deep down in you are some really good moments and then say just because life is bad doesn't mean I should punish everyone! Trust me! Someone out their loves you and god gave you life for a reason! Hang out with the people that love you and don't say bony loves me my parents dead and my crush doesn't even like me and I don't have any friends! What about grandparents, aunts, uncles, guys, And friends that that to you at school!
If only this was around when I needed it 2 lives might still be here tho I know now what they went through not by reading a letter or any of that but personally I attempted I got help and will have been clean for over 2yrs on November 2nd when I say clean I don't mean drugs or alcohol I mean suicidal thoughts,actions and self-harm but it's been hard and even tho I've recovered from it myself I still regret not being able to help them but then to mental health and suicide Weren't big or believed in as much yet so even if I had known and gotten help would it have been enough or would they have gotten the proper help that's available nowadays or would they have just been tossed aside and told to "GET OVER IT" that their just doing it for attention or faking it idk and that hurts I've more or less moved on but sometimes I still wonder what would've happened if I'd done more and spoken up
HELP! My friend is home and im away and i can only chat with him! He is depressed because he is abused being abused for being transgender! I seek help plz!
The fact lowtiergod was below this video is vile☠️
Giving me mixed messages rn
my hand was shaking for some reason, while watching this video
I used to have suicidal thoughts but then I thought My Friend Wouldn't Want This.We both were bullied but I moved and she did too well schools and houses I moved houses and schools and she moved schools.We are out of that horrible place it was like the nether (I'm Good I don't say those words)
I am depressed an saw this why did this come up it makes my more depressed
They wouldn't believe me if I said I have suicidal thoughts because I'm not popular and they think I want attention
wish i could’ve done something for that kid. i didn’t know him well, but i knew he was struggling. i didn’t think it was serious. i thought the way he was acting was normal. do something before it’s too late everybody
I was suicidal last summer I find out some thing real bad about friends.i though no one card but I got help from my mom and friend now I’m alive watching RUclips
Please never call out anyone loser, ugly, fat, weird, dumb or whatever You wanna be mean, This can lead that one to the suicide , society so in tension and lonely now. I repeat it: don’t break any heart and soul. Just let it go.
i used to be like this.multiple times i could of died or been locked up.if not for my three best friends anthony,carlos,and sophia thanks guys :)
Wellcast, can you guys make a video on How To Know If A Boy Likes You, please?
My friends got the message that I was suicidal and not my usual weird, happy self, they watched this video and helped me through the rest of the rest of my primary school time, but now their gone and I have no one. I need help.
My best friend isn't suicidal (as far as I'm aware :/ ) but she did tell me she was depressed and she had gone to the dr to get pills (good pills tho) but this time last year she was the last person I would of thought to be this way and it hurts me that she is, a lot actually, and I'm not sure if I should just keep talking to her about it or just keep quiet (I'm the only person she has told none of her other friends of family know)
All that i want is physical contact. I never hug my mom or dad. whenever i do hug my mom is like once a year on her birthday, but when i do i find it so hard to do, and i don't do it with love. Like if i were hugging an unknown person.
I have the same topic but gave a different view please tell me what you think
THANK YOU SO MUCH I NEEDED THIS.
Today my friend told me she tried to kill herself and I just broke down crying, I love her so much.