Heeeee sisi this person has been texting me and has been on my case about imali that I have to send them for clearance for things I won I’m so glad that you sent this message out kunini endimele yhu 😭
Nothing upsets Shku he is so matured and respects his wives ideas even if he doesn’t agree with her reasoning. I love this couple they are greater together!
That leniency towards men is true. I know of a man- wife passed away. After burial, they had some family meeting. During that meeting, the man's sister told that family (in laws) that they need to give her brother another wife or else she would find one for him because he is lonely and misses his wife 🤯 The first thing that came to mind was- would they have done the same for the woman if the man passed on... smh
I have to agree with Skhu on this one, Nozi. I think these things can just be discussed in passing and thereafter documentation stating all these things can be kept close for future reference. For me, when I dwell too much on these conversations and thinking about the future too hard, it takes away from my enjoyment of the present moment and I tend to worry a lot. I choose to have faith that everything will work out well and nyani sizobona xa sifika apho. 😊 I love you guys.❤❤
For every young lady to listen to this and take a bit of wisdom from you Nozi, I love it when you say ANDIFUNI KUSOKOLA, if life cover and will azicaci into yazo mazicaciswe sizoba clear
I loved the laughter the most!!! (amidst the fear and feeling the urgency to prepare for the worst) May you continue to speak to each other with so much love and , where you can, do keep it light hearted. It is actually more effective than avoiding the difficult topics like preparing for the eventuality of death and possibilities of terminal illnesses. Thank you for sharing so honestly of yourselves. It is necessary- YOU and these conversations are necessary. Rea leboga❤ May God Bless your family
Prepare akhonto, the best thing you can do for the kids is prepare for them. Sisi Nozi is right. Best decision my mom could have done for us was prepare for us. Don't make just anyone a benefitiary either. I also wished she told us how much money to spend on her funeral. We knew nothing snd were surrounded by sdodos who wanted to show off more than anything. We were grieving being led astry by adults.
I’m so glad I’m not the only one. I think since becoming pregnant, I’m even more aware of my own mortality. I too having been having a lot of discussions around Wills and life insurance etc…
👏👏Well done Nozi and Skhu with this conversation coz wow, the things we witness when people die is heart breaking guys. More especially when the husband dies😔. I am always telling my husband that I want to be prepared for EVERYTHING when he passes away. Even be prepared for my in-laws coz yhoo, bayakujikela once your husband is gone. Seen it too many times. So yes, Skhu must leave instructions on the funeral. Women suffer a lot when their husbands die and i believe husbands can protect their wives with a simple WILL with clear instructions. Ngisho indzaba yekungenwa and kuzila (wear morning gowns) should be in the WILL. Singakhulumi lite sekangekho umnikati wendzaba.
You're so right. Had my mother died after my dad she was going to see those vultures called in laws blaming her and feeling entitled to get what they want
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂Nozi my love , this conversation is difficult even for me as a woman bandla!! Like I don’t know iyasabisaa like kuvele kube ngathi you are inviting into embi and than the next thing people will be like Ayi wayesho nje cos wayesazi kanti chooo yabo
Nozi ❤ Thank you so much for this Talk guys, lemme nudge my hubby so we can continue from where we left off in talking about this because I just cry when we talk about it, am really scared and it triggers the loss of my mom and granddad so I just cry out of being scared to lose a loved one😢.
Sorry sis❤. I'm not married but I'm feeling the same way now 😢😢. It reminds me of my aunt I lost last year. It feels like it's bringing back the same pain😢😢
I so like this conversation yazi,Nozi is me,i want to prepare everything surprise ayonto yam,but sometimes ibangathi i'm overthinking things at the same time limiting my happiness i don't know.
I am the one who do not want to talk about death. Hubby always says He is older than me so he might die first. As much as it good to plan for the unknown. Funerals are expensive one needs to save.
Planning does not stop us from enjoying the moment. Writing a will and setting up finances right for your loved once is key. Life is too short to put these plans on hold.
You guys are absolutely beautiful together ❤️❤️🥺 I just started watching the video lol will come back to comment about the video. I just wanted to say first how beautiful and inspiring you two are ❤️🥺
hahahaha Nozi is just like me i like to pre plan everything of my life... My hubby always gets irritated about it.. 😂 Comforting to know that i am not the only one. Planning is best Sku
Sis Nozi I am You sana, ndi Extra kwiPlanns for the future, am already discussing accommodation and transportation for my 7 months old twins xa sebengena Varsity 😂😂😂😂, also the death discussion iyabalekwa nguBhuti walapha endlini, uthi it's enough that we have a funeral cover, Details masingazincokoli it's as if "kuzofiwa ngoku"😭😭
Honestly since my I lost my partner I am ready for death. I am even thinking of making my own program I don't want my son to be stressed about planning my funeral. I can go now I am ready
Jonga anditshatanga but ndinabantwana, we often have such conversations with my colleagues and shame I must say this : as black people we are selfish, very selfish. Iqala kulento yokwenza fancy funerals ezi unnecessary , then ibe worse kule yongafuni ukushiyela bantwana ilifa le selfishness ndithetha ngayo. Most of my colleagues abayifuni tu life cover coz bathi abantwana bayayimosha la mali and my argument is always like "whatever my kids do with the money, is on them. Mna as their Mom I would have done my part, ndizamile ukubasusa kule poverty coz all my life I've been poor and I don't want my kids living the same life yamabona-ndenzile, no no no" . Most of us don't even have a Will , shame kunzima uba ngumnt omnyama iyasibulala le mentality ka "sobona ngeloxesha" also nalenkolelo yokuba once wathetha ngokufa uyakumema😂😂😂 shame
In the beginning they are talking about how when Skhu wants a hug or kiss or shows affection to Nozi., Nozi says the unborn child (GT) doesn't want to be hugged, kissed or shown affection at the moment .
There was another trending story of a sidechic, who is married, who went and claimed some money after dude passed away. She brought up some proof that dude was sending her money every month for a certain time frame. The dude's wife just couldn't believe it, imagine after burying her husband. I'm still shocked to date....
Mama... The change is medication has me my pregnancy symptoms heavy.... Like chomi my weight gain is crazy like cela ubuza is this normal 😮😮ngoba ndiyoyika
It's something to think and be prepared about but it’s hard and as humans we never want it to come to that part. The openness and willingness to talk about hard things in your marriage has been something to learn from. 💖💖🌼🌼💙💙
I agree amampondo akrwada and according to their understanding that's their way of speaking. My sister was married in Flagstaff/Lusikisiki they say it hard as it is and move on.
I can relate ku Uncle Skhu sizothandaza mntanam uThixo uzoliveza icebo ube uqonda sana nini njani. Love these conversations because our partners can be too relaxed sana.
Hi friends this was very educational and insightful thank you for using this platform to adress this sensitive issue we do talk about it with my husband and he doesn't like it at all as your husband says i think its a guy thing we only touched the part of were i would like to be buried ofcourse i chose emakhaya not here, where we are staying right know, cause i for one believe i need to be close to my family and its my hometown actually for both of us he sees my point so now we have to inform our parents about our resting place we choose.Its not easy to talk about it but i am grateful we started so once again keep on doing great job you are doing Modimo keo love guyz❤.
Hello friends ❤
Please note that there’s a fake account running some kind to competition on the comments section. Please ignore 🙏🏽
Heeeee sisi this person has been texting me and has been on my case about imali that I have to send them for clearance for things I won I’m so glad that you sent this message out kunini endimele yhu 😭
Nozi this person is also impersonating you on Telegram.
There is also a fake account on Tik Tok and it has about 200k followers
HAYBO THIS QUEEN PETER ALSO REPLY ON MY COMMENT MXM AKASADIKI
Nothing upsets Shku he is so matured and respects his wives ideas even if he doesn’t agree with her reasoning.
I love this couple they are greater together!
He appears to be the same even off camera. Which is great. And I hope that’s the case. 🙏🏾
Nozi please add subtitles for us your followers outside SA...lots of love from Zambia
Can you guys make more REAL HOUSEWIFES REVIEWS 😂😂😂
Jealous down Madoda, Mrs Mayaba is beautiful...the dress n colour are so appropriate
That leniency towards men is true. I know of a man- wife passed away. After burial, they had some family meeting. During that meeting, the man's sister told that family (in laws) that they need to give her brother another wife or else she would find one for him because he is lonely and misses his wife 🤯 The first thing that came to mind was- would they have done the same for the woman if the man passed on... smh
Just came on here and when Nozi started laughing I laughed too🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣, I love you guys 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I have to agree with Skhu on this one, Nozi. I think these things can just be discussed in passing and thereafter documentation stating all these things can be kept close for future reference. For me, when I dwell too much on these conversations and thinking about the future too hard, it takes away from my enjoyment of the present moment and I tend to worry a lot.
I choose to have faith that everything will work out well and nyani sizobona xa sifika apho. 😊 I love you guys.❤❤
You literally took words out of my mouth sisi dankie
Exactly the same with their education, as soon as the baby is born, a parent must start looking for a school.
For every young lady to listen to this and take a bit of wisdom from you Nozi, I love it when you say ANDIFUNI KUSOKOLA, if life cover and will azicaci into yazo mazicaciswe sizoba clear
I loved the laughter the most!!! (amidst the fear and feeling the urgency to prepare for the worst) May you continue to speak to each other with so much love and , where you can, do keep it light hearted. It is actually more effective than avoiding the difficult topics like preparing for the eventuality of death and possibilities of terminal illnesses. Thank you for sharing so honestly of yourselves. It is necessary- YOU and these conversations are necessary. Rea leboga❤ May God Bless your family
Prepare akhonto, the best thing you can do for the kids is prepare for them. Sisi Nozi is right. Best decision my mom could have done for us was prepare for us. Don't make just anyone a benefitiary either. I also wished she told us how much money to spend on her funeral. We knew nothing snd were surrounded by sdodos who wanted to show off more than anything. We were grieving being led astry by adults.
I’m so glad I’m not the only one. I think since becoming pregnant, I’m even more aware of my own mortality. I too having been having a lot of discussions around Wills and life insurance etc…
You guys are so funny, important as this conversation is. You make it seem really easy
“U GT akafuni kuncanyiswa “ asooze Nozi🤣🤣❤️
Sis,gezo ke noko eso GT sooze kaloku😂😂😂😂
I am exactly like Nozi I like being prepared sana my kids are small but I know all the schools they will go to😂😂😂
I remember my husband asked me why do you think I will be the one to die first 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
The silence after “ko xhomekeka”🙆♀️🙆♀️😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Yey! ugadle kakhulu umaSkhosi ay🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣wathula utat kaGT cwaka
Thank you for bringing light to speaking about the future especially when it involves children. I enjoyed the video, love you guys ❤️
12:07 that JOH ! From Nozi finished me 🤣😂🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
The silence after "Koxhomekeka" 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣
Nozi, im like you I always ready for the unknown. To an extent mna my kids and people around me know my plans. It is always correct to plan and talk
👏👏Well done Nozi and Skhu with this conversation coz wow, the things we witness when people die is heart breaking guys. More especially when the husband dies😔. I am always telling my husband that I want to be prepared for EVERYTHING when he passes away. Even be prepared for my in-laws coz yhoo, bayakujikela once your husband is gone. Seen it too many times. So yes, Skhu must leave instructions on the funeral. Women suffer a lot when their husbands die and i believe husbands can protect their wives with a simple WILL with clear instructions. Ngisho indzaba yekungenwa and kuzila (wear morning gowns) should be in the WILL. Singakhulumi lite sekangekho umnikati wendzaba.
You're so right. Had my mother died after my dad she was going to see those vultures called in laws blaming her and feeling entitled to get what they want
I don't understand a thing when they switch to their language but I stay laughing 🤭🥰😅😂
"We'll cross that bridge when we get there"...a risky saying.
Great topic and very necessary 👏
“iyhooo!” Ka Nozi😂😂❤️ guys I am not able to not laugh even if how serious they can be.
😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂Nozi my love , this conversation is difficult even for me as a woman bandla!! Like I don’t know iyasabisaa like kuvele kube ngathi you are inviting into embi and than the next thing people will be like Ayi wayesho nje cos wayesazi kanti chooo yabo
How I jump when I see your notifications😁👏
Realistic conversation needed by singles married all people
Life insurance is very important !!!
Thank you for this conversation my husband hates it when I talk ngokufa he’ll ask who said sizofa 🙄🙄 like can we be realistic
Very important conversation and not an easy one
The videos always start with an argument 🤣🤣♥️♥️♥️♥️
Nozi u were right vor raising the issues with your fears sl that both of u can have a safe platform to persue n discus
Nozi ❤ Thank you so much for this Talk guys, lemme nudge my hubby so we can continue from where we left off in talking about this because I just cry when we talk about it, am really scared and it triggers the loss of my mom and granddad so I just cry out of being scared to lose a loved one😢.
Sorry sis❤. I'm not married but I'm feeling the same way now 😢😢. It reminds me of my aunt I lost last year. It feels like it's bringing back the same pain😢😢
I so like this conversation yazi,Nozi is me,i want to prepare everything surprise ayonto yam,but sometimes ibangathi i'm overthinking things at the same time limiting my happiness i don't know.
Uncomfortable and important conversations to have 🙏❤️. Through past experiences I've realized how important it is to be prepared.
Liz is also my favourite. She’s so honest, zonke ezi ngcinga soyika uzithetha uyazikhupha yena.
Love, love uLiz.
But you forget us the one who don't understand your language. Luv u guys
I am the one who do not want to talk about death. Hubby always says He is older than me so he might die first. As much as it good to plan for the unknown. Funerals are expensive one needs to save.
Funeral policy darling...savings are for emergencies nd personal growth
Was so happy to see the gorgeous Nozi and her hubby namhlanje. Informative content as always guys.
Love you guys. I can watch your videos the whole day.❤
Bhut Skhu😂 😂😂😂 ndi worse kemna andaz necephe ne tea spoon 😂😂
Planning does not stop us from enjoying the moment. Writing a will and setting up finances right for your loved once is key. Life is too short to put these plans on hold.
You guys are absolutely beautiful together ❤️❤️🥺 I just started watching the video lol will come back to comment about the video. I just wanted to say first how beautiful and inspiring you two are ❤️🥺
hahahaha Nozi is just like me i like to pre plan everything of my life... My hubby always gets irritated about it.. 😂 Comforting to know that i am not the only one. Planning is best Sku
It's the yhoooooo from Nozi 😂😂😂😂😂😂 ..... I can't 😅
Sis Nozi I am You sana, ndi Extra kwiPlanns for the future, am already discussing accommodation and transportation for my 7 months old twins xa sebengena Varsity 😂😂😂😂, also the death discussion iyabalekwa nguBhuti walapha endlini, uthi it's enough that we have a funeral cover, Details masingazincokoli it's as if "kuzofiwa ngoku"😭😭
Eye opening conversation. We are building ❤
Honestly since my I lost my partner I am ready for death. I am even thinking of making my own program I don't want my son to be stressed about planning my funeral. I can go now I am ready
THANDI NO, NO, NO, DECLARE YOU ARE NOT GOING TO DIE ANYTIME SOON. YOU SCARING ME
❤❤❤
Jonga anditshatanga but ndinabantwana, we often have such conversations with my colleagues and shame I must say this : as black people we are selfish, very selfish. Iqala kulento yokwenza fancy funerals ezi unnecessary , then ibe worse kule yongafuni ukushiyela bantwana ilifa le selfishness ndithetha ngayo. Most of my colleagues abayifuni tu life cover coz bathi abantwana bayayimosha la mali and my argument is always like "whatever my kids do with the money, is on them. Mna as their Mom I would have done my part, ndizamile ukubasusa kule poverty coz all my life I've been poor and I don't want my kids living the same life yamabona-ndenzile, no no no" . Most of us don't even have a Will , shame kunzima uba ngumnt omnyama iyasibulala le mentality ka "sobona ngeloxesha" also nalenkolelo yokuba once wathetha ngokufa uyakumema😂😂😂 shame
I understand what Nozi is going through. Yila trauma yosokola sana. No mom ever wants to put their child(ren) through all of that.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 21 years ahead Yoh.
Fav couple 💕💕
Have you guys discuss what happens if an ex spouse passes on what happens to Skhu's child from previous relationship?
@Nozi you nolonger translate😟Zambian follower here🇿🇲
In the beginning they are talking about how when Skhu wants a hug or kiss or shows affection to Nozi., Nozi says the unborn child (GT) doesn't want to be hugged, kissed or shown affection at the moment .
Translation is good for the international viewers
I'm a South African and still struggling to follow cos I don't entirely understand Xhosa 😢
There was another trending story of a sidechic, who is married, who went and claimed some money after dude passed away. She brought up some proof that dude was sending her money every month for a certain time frame. The dude's wife just couldn't believe it, imagine after burying her husband. I'm still shocked to date....
Happy Sunday to you guyss❤❤
17:24 open a stop order for funeral cover/life cover with your bank. 😢😢
Mama... The change is medication has me my pregnancy symptoms heavy.... Like chomi my weight gain is crazy like cela ubuza is this normal 😮😮ngoba ndiyoyika
Yhooo sensitive topic, kaloku indaba yeWill inzima kakhulu. Thank you so much for this ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I am Nozi, I need to plan, then I stress about alk that could go wrong 😂
Faith without action is dead. We pray and hope that things will go well in the future, AND we take action..
Love you to bits but can we please have English subtitles 😢
First one to view and comment 💃💃💃💃
Yho guys indaba ye will, life cover and even funeral cover 😢!!! It took my husband a while as well... Thank you for bringing this 🙏
I love you two somuch ❤.
Unyanisile kodwa uSkhu, sikhuliswe nge faith and manifestation
Athi uNozi, "Umntana akafuni uphuzwa"😂😂❤
Uyadelela maan kodwa uGT 😂😂😂
Yooo what an educational topic hjznx darlings
Haibo khanihoye abafuna i subtitles guys kunini becela
Team Leader😂😂😭😭😭
It's something to think and be prepared about but it’s hard and as humans we never want it to come to that part. The openness and willingness to talk about hard things in your marriage has been something to learn from. 💖💖🌼🌼💙💙
I can’t sokol 🤣🤣🤣, am with you on this one Nozie
Hay nam Sisi😂 Nozie I’m planner 😂
Bhuti Skhu is me nditsho qho kwabam,andifuni coffin eduru ,kwaUmngcwabo obizayo please mali yabantwana bam klk leya,ndisanithanda mos🥰
Covers you really need to opened about...agree with you Nozi
I agree amampondo akrwada and according to their understanding that's their way of speaking. My sister was married in Flagstaff/Lusikisiki they say it hard as it is and move on.
Skhu and Nozi, thank you so much guys for this content, it is very informative🥰🥰😍😍🤩🙌🙌
Omg your husband is right - I’m from SA Lusikisiki , but I reside in the US and when I visit home omg I’m always shook ….😱😱😱
Okay Nozi please add on tv recap please ESPECIALLY the real housewives of SA🤣🤣 am liking y’all commentary mntase zam us please🤣🤣
Ushishi is thinking ahead sayna
Icebo lizosiveza mntanam you killed me with Yhoooo Nozi
I yhoooo this is too relevant...let me watch with my husband ❤
Skhu is such a character 😂😂
I love you'll ❤
Guys absolutely love the content ❤if you guys speak Xhosa can you pls write English subtitles because I don't understand 😢
Happy Sunday my people ❤❤❤
I can relate ku Uncle Skhu sizothandaza mntanam uThixo uzoliveza icebo ube uqonda sana nini njani. Love these conversations because our partners can be too relaxed sana.
May God give you all long life🙏🏾❤
Great topic, Thanks guys❤❤❤❤
Hi friends this was very educational and insightful thank you for using this platform to adress this sensitive issue we do talk about it with my husband and he doesn't like it at all as your husband says i think its a guy thing we only touched the part of were i would like to be buried ofcourse i chose emakhaya not here, where we are staying right know, cause i for one believe i need to be close to my family and its my hometown actually for both of us he sees my point so now we have to inform our parents about our resting place we choose.Its not easy to talk about it but i am grateful we started so once again keep on doing great job you are doing Modimo keo love guyz❤.
Critical conversation but half the time I didn't hear a thing because I don't understand Xhosa fully 😢
???
I’m crying for translation
Happy for Sunday uploads🎉❤😢😅😂
Very informative topic. Thank you guys❤❤❤
I love you guys n thank you for covering this topic
Love you guys
Yhooo ayindigezeli inetwork guys ningathi niyakhutywa ngoba nithetha ngeloxesha ngaske ndiyve kakhle lencoko but ke ndizthandela nina❤
Yessss ( ngala voice ka Nozi)we are in
She said "Yoh" 3 times 💀💀💀
My favorite couple