Our low cost wedding...including my dress from China Mall!

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  • Опубликовано: 22 июл 2024

Комментарии • 591

  • @NtsikiHarmse
    @NtsikiHarmse 4 года назад +131

    The way I’m such a cheapskate this is going to be me , I just know it and I feel like people always have something negative to point out so even if you spend millions someone will always say something 🙄 Your wedding looks so beautiful Nozi 🥰🥰🥰

    • @zanelengomane
      @zanelengomane 4 года назад +2

      Girl thats me too

    • @naledimakgala2027
      @naledimakgala2027 4 года назад +4

      Lebo Guguluza flew to Mauritious for her wedding and spent millions but people still said her cake was sponge and she was wearing old shoes. No matter how much you spend THEY WILL TALK. So rather we keep it low once girl.

    • @queenhlongwane4758
      @queenhlongwane4758 3 года назад

      Straight up😂😂😂

  • @omshantipeacehafeni
    @omshantipeacehafeni 4 года назад +70

    You pulled off an affordable and classy wedding 👌🏾

  • @prudencesebeco1246
    @prudencesebeco1246 2 года назад +19

    Lala!!! You're making my day!! I am busy planning my wedding and we both decided that R50k is enough haiibo guys! I want beautiful furniture and zero debts!!

  • @mosakhumalo9217
    @mosakhumalo9217 4 года назад +52

    Lady imagine owing all the major banks just to please randoms who are still going to complain about this and that at the end of the day you did what you wanted and it feels damn good to be debt free👊🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @phumzilengobese8228
      @phumzilengobese8228 4 года назад +3

      uyazi bafika bengaphethe ama gift and yet have the audacity to complain about decor ,brides dress this and that😡

    • @lucialulu4657
      @lucialulu4657 3 года назад +3

      My money will go on our honeymoon not feeding and satisfying people who will always judge no matter what

    • @timbawangu3038
      @timbawangu3038 3 года назад +3

      Lol @randoms😂😂😂

  • @boitumelotshwenyego6922
    @boitumelotshwenyego6922 4 года назад +47

    That was a smart approach to saving your hard earned money. The actual marriage is less than R100. I love the way you did it.

    • @beeyoutiful4086
      @beeyoutiful4086 4 года назад +3

      @@Booklet_yamkela 😂😂😂😂are u crc

  • @tshepoimani2831
    @tshepoimani2831 4 года назад +92

    🤣🤣🤣You are such a great storyteller

    • @elizabethletsoso2558
      @elizabethletsoso2558 4 года назад +1

      Yes 🤣🤣🤣

    • @zaza_m
      @zaza_m 4 года назад +2

      Truly! You can't stop watching once you start🤣

    • @preciousramose3332
      @preciousramose3332 2 года назад

      I just started today, about 2 hours ago.... I cant stop🤣🤣🤣 She is such an amazing storyteller and very raw with her contagious laughter.

  • @nitamagadaza6523
    @nitamagadaza6523 4 года назад +42

    After watching this video I feel a lot of stress lifted on my shoulders. I now know what to do on my day...

  • @luyandagwala2429
    @luyandagwala2429 4 года назад +168

    Girl you've just pre planned my wedding 🥰🤣 thank you for this😁😁

  • @BoitumeloMoikangwe
    @BoitumeloMoikangwe 4 года назад +102

    I love how honest and realistic this video is

    • @LadyT06
      @LadyT06 4 года назад +2

      Very realistic and she keeps it on a 💯!!

  • @maqelesinazo7793
    @maqelesinazo7793 4 года назад +141

    Single ladies we having notepads

  • @amandapanda7339
    @amandapanda7339 4 года назад +55

    I like the fact that you were considerate of your financial situation because nowadays brides demand finances from their bridesmaids and they end putting them in in uncomfortable situation they did not financially plan for. Big ups to you lady👌

    • @makwandeizipho950
      @makwandeizipho950 4 года назад

      Funny I find you here. Sometimes she reminds me of you 😆

    • @TTmawaza
      @TTmawaza Год назад

      This is very true

  • @lulugirlxox
    @lulugirlxox 4 года назад +56

    Weddings are actually just too expensive for a single day, so I commend you for managing to pull of such a beautiful wedding for a low cost 🙌🏾 we STAN a savvy queen 👑

  • @tshepisolesia6171
    @tshepisolesia6171 3 года назад +10

    I honestly love how realistic you were when planning your wedding, rather save for your future than spend all your money on a wedding day that people will forget 👌🏽♥️

  • @asemahleayandamboxela4597
    @asemahleayandamboxela4597 4 года назад +42

    When she says "hay angekhe"😂😂😂😂

  • @nomzamomsimanga287
    @nomzamomsimanga287 3 года назад

    I love it when you say “Lady!!!” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 love it!

  • @saulinebanda5752
    @saulinebanda5752 4 года назад +38

    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 am laughing because finally someone who did things different like I did.
    I spent just over plus R30k and still wore a dress for R15k, had a professional photographer and fresh flowers decorate the whole church still. Atleast you did a save the date🤣 me twas just a WhatsApp message. Also had no straws and no flower girl. Like was just me and hubby.
    People made it seem as if I dont want a nice big fat wedding but you know what as a young professional it is honestly not worth it. Maybe once we at the point where R200k is just our bonuses maybe then. But one just had to honest with themself and realise there is a life afterwards, like where we going to stay and and and.
    Our biggest challenge wasnt raising plus R200k but was there is so much you can do with the money. Like you buy a decent car cash, we can deposit a plus R1million home. And I believe the fact we had to save 10 or so months was a sign that we cant afford and run the risk of getting into unnecessary debt.

    • @saulinebanda5752
      @saulinebanda5752 4 года назад +1

      I also didn't expect gifts. But hey to my surprise the people that got us got us proper staff. We even got a whole week vacation gift as well. So I also support the expect nothing motion. Because then the people that are really happy for will do the most.

  • @noluthandosibanda3852
    @noluthandosibanda3852 4 года назад +2

    I love this wedding. I swear I’m like you!!!!! And everything looked gorgeous and classy

  • @chiporusere4647
    @chiporusere4647 4 года назад

    I could listen to you all day! LOL

  • @bonniemanana8858
    @bonniemanana8858 3 года назад

    Your Mom kills me 😂😂😂😂 A legend!

  • @frankieclo9841
    @frankieclo9841 4 года назад

    This video was so refreshing !!!! Love the honesty!!!!
    Thank you for sharing!!

  • @SdeezasWorld
    @SdeezasWorld 4 года назад

    I am such an addict to your videos simply because i know my day will be brightened up. Your personality and how you cover every story is to the top. I get to laugh there and there while learning a thing or two. You Rock Girl. MUCH LOVE

  • @Sereetag
    @Sereetag 3 года назад +1

    I appreciate how real and honest this video is!

  • @NaturalBeauty4Real
    @NaturalBeauty4Real 4 года назад +4

    You are a great story teller, (very animated and engaging) I love it!

  • @thulinhlapo7241
    @thulinhlapo7241 4 года назад +1

    😄🤣🤩...you are such an inspiration! Your passion for your personal stories is breathtaking. Keep owning who you are, & stair your ship with pride😙

  • @augustinamethuko8016
    @augustinamethuko8016 3 года назад

    Wow! I love this.... You are so clever! What a wonderful wedding you had.... Wow!

  • @samanthalimba9680
    @samanthalimba9680 4 года назад

    This was so helpful thank you os much Nozi.. I'm definitely taking notes!

  • @xobontlane5931
    @xobontlane5931 4 года назад

    I like you when you say " lady , can you just chill "😃🤣🤣

  • @jessicaterblanche7905
    @jessicaterblanche7905 2 года назад +9

    Oh my goodness I LOVED this video ❤️ I recently got engaged and I needed this 🙌 plus you are so much fun to watch!

  • @ritahkiziito6335
    @ritahkiziito6335 4 года назад

    Just came across your channel this week but watched all the videos and some I repeated them, much love from Uganda, hopeful you keep doing more and more videos, love listening to you and have got some lessons, advices from you being outspoken person

  • @SpiderbabyJB_OG
    @SpiderbabyJB_OG Месяц назад

    I'm loving this so much. thank you for sharing.

  • @yamkie_so
    @yamkie_so 4 года назад +4

    Listen, this is the first time I am visiting your channel and I absolutely love you!! You're a breath of fresh air and I love the fact that we speak the same language- never doing anything to please other people and cutting costs wherever possible.
    Love and respect
    From one cheapskate to another.

  • @ayandaranyao8436
    @ayandaranyao8436 4 года назад

    Amazing wedding you really planned it well and I love the dress from China mall it's beautiful , you really saved a lot.

  • @kwanelesphelele4962
    @kwanelesphelele4962 4 года назад

    Oh God,you are such a mood and the vid is so informative.I no longer feel heartless for wishing for such a wedding

  • @swazi4769
    @swazi4769 4 года назад +10

    Beautiful wedding lady. When two minds agree, everything works out.
    Value does not mean there is beauty. The quality of your marriage is way more important. You and husband are happy and that's all that matters.
    Our wedding was different, we had no pressure from anyone, but we had 2 very big weddings and we are happy with that.
    We did what made us happy.

  • @christinevanzyl3414
    @christinevanzyl3414 3 года назад +3

    Cash bars for the win! Loved the video because I'm also from South Africa and other wedding videos just aren't what I am looking for.

  • @nomangalisonomkhala2325
    @nomangalisonomkhala2325 4 года назад +23

    You're so authentic Nozi 👌. I see so much of myself in you ❤

  • @alexbobatea8210
    @alexbobatea8210 Год назад

    Waaaaaw you are a woman of a noble character Nozi. This is very powerful cc. 👏

  • @tshepiemolatlhegi
    @tshepiemolatlhegi 4 года назад +2

    I love that you wanted close friends and family at your wedding and also didn't spend heavy amounts of money just to impress people. You did it for you and your husband and I really admire that 💐💞

  • @lesedilucymotloung
    @lesedilucymotloung 4 года назад

    I have just downloaded this video and shared it with my friend. You are the future girl. Thanks for sharing

  • @maggiefofung5512
    @maggiefofung5512 4 года назад +2

    The more I listen to you describe your mom, I keep laughing because this is sooooo my mom too. African Mother's 😂😂. Thumbs up to them.👍 😂

  • @nandiphasomana8501
    @nandiphasomana8501 4 года назад +2

    I loved your story Nozi❤️, keeping it simple saves you money and.stress. We began our journey loan free and debt free. I literally fitted my dress in the Dragon city loby, while everyone was watching. I just knew it was my dress even though I couldn't see myself.

  • @dipolelomokgethwa348
    @dipolelomokgethwa348 4 года назад +1

    Girl I love you.. Thanks a lot for the video, now I know exactly what to do in preparing my wedding day, shuuu, thank you ❤️🌹

  • @KopanoMatli.
    @KopanoMatli. 4 года назад +1

    I like your down to earth attitude. Many ppl like to boast and brag about expensive stuff to others as if they think they will be highly regarded or respected. After all the wedding is about 2 ppl and as long as they're content everyone else doesn't matter

  • @relatable-withlucyk1085
    @relatable-withlucyk1085 4 года назад

    Nozi,.. You bring it out so well ' of your brother and dating in church' very hilarious!

  • @abatetsiangela4523
    @abatetsiangela4523 4 года назад

    Nozi, you are a genius! Very sharp upstairs. Me being a mom, I sometimes envy (holy envy) your mom. It's good to have a sharp daughter like you. Now, to crown it all, your husband is blessed to have a partner like you!!!!!!

  • @londekakhomo
    @londekakhomo 4 года назад +21

    Mrs Mayaba you are sooo unique 😍😍😘🙌🏿...loads of sense of humor!

  • @brendapaul5950
    @brendapaul5950 4 года назад +11

    Sister, You are a very smart young lady to keep the wedding expenses down. So many people get carried away. My personal feeling is that the money should be spent on a nice dwelling, traveling together or other things that serve in bonding with one's spouse. Blessings to you and your husband and may you have a long and fruitful marriage.

  • @chrishaldamokoele8524
    @chrishaldamokoele8524 4 года назад +6

    You are such a breath of fresh air, keep it up. I love how real you are, in the midst of so much fakeness on this platform. We are learning so much from you.😘♥️

  • @SummerSibz204
    @SummerSibz204 4 года назад +4

    Nozi I just love the genuine and practical advice you give in your videos. Thank you for such informative while entertaining content 👏 . You and Sku are awesome

  • @nomthandazomthimkhulu6550
    @nomthandazomthimkhulu6550 3 года назад +2

    I love your planning skills . I also want a affordable wedding . I would actually rather go to court but because I have parents intimate wedding is for me guys . Love love love this .

  • @nattyhill911
    @nattyhill911 4 года назад +1

    Ahhaha I’ve been cracking up this whole time , you really know how to tell the stories and you do it well👏🏽👏🏽💃🏽💃🏽

    • @ntokozomonoko
      @ntokozomonoko 4 года назад +1

      That's why I subscribed

    • @nattyhill911
      @nattyhill911 4 года назад

      Ntokozo Monoko wise choice sisss💪🏽👏🏽

  • @unathiandlusanda7059
    @unathiandlusanda7059 4 года назад +1

    Wow, so proud of you. May the good Lord continue blessing your marriage.

  • @simplynasi1009
    @simplynasi1009 4 года назад +10

    “No it’s fine... NEXT!!” 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @modjadjimasekela6763
    @modjadjimasekela6763 4 года назад +6

    Your wedding was beautiful sana!! I love this! Love PE, feel like the scenery already sets a lot for you

  • @phiwokaziqayi1397
    @phiwokaziqayi1397 3 года назад

    Wow i luv u Nozi for doing what makes u happy and not trying to please people

  • @moroesinkone4294
    @moroesinkone4294 4 года назад

    Wow! Beautiful wedding. 👏❤️👌

  • @glorysibahledaniels8344
    @glorysibahledaniels8344 4 года назад +1

    The way you always say Lady 😂😂😂😂❤

  • @angelsnailcare8093
    @angelsnailcare8093 3 года назад

    Yoooh Gul Thank You....Your a life saver Bona You are the best wedding planner Ever👌👌👌

  • @nuttymlilo3166
    @nuttymlilo3166 4 года назад +7

    This has to be the most beautiful wedding I’ve seen😍😍😍😍. It’s not about how much you spend but how you rock everything. Anibahle Nozi yooooh

  • @lilliantshabalala6550
    @lilliantshabalala6550 4 года назад +1

    Thank you for sharing, I share the same sentiments!

  • @magahalgorre-ndiaye3267
    @magahalgorre-ndiaye3267 4 года назад +1

    My type of wedding.......I love this woman...very smart, humble ..... an intimate wedding that’s the key!

  • @kuhlenzuzo8895
    @kuhlenzuzo8895 4 года назад +4

    This is me when I'm getting married 😂😂😂 "you say I'm cheap, it's fine, it works for me" 😂😂👊🏽

  • @buyihlubi3344
    @buyihlubi3344 2 года назад

    These are serious wedding goals!!!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @khomotsodiale6740
    @khomotsodiale6740 3 года назад +1

    Wow my sister I'm really inspired by your story because we get ourselves into debts because we want a big wedding as if the as award of best wedding.. I mean we have future after the wedding 🤞I'm true inspired My sister God bless you 🙏

  • @yolandahdandala2529
    @yolandahdandala2529 4 года назад

    Hahaha enjoyed this . 💯 agree no debt

  • @nolitha_JekeL
    @nolitha_JekeL 4 года назад +1

    I don't see any low cost here ausi Nozi, your wedding was very classic n beautiful I love everything that you have shown ❤️💯

  • @ntokozomonoko
    @ntokozomonoko 4 года назад

    I'll be watching this video in the future, I love your vibe YESSSSEES!!!!

  • @gugumatsebula6041
    @gugumatsebula6041 Год назад

    Wowwwww... Such great content Nozi

  • @sibo8290
    @sibo8290 Год назад

    You both looked gorgeous and very informative with tips.

  • @traceygarner7764
    @traceygarner7764 2 года назад

    I love when African people say, "Heyyyyy" & "what is this nonsense!" When my friends do this I laugh so loud. I love it & it has rubbed off on me. I love your channel. ❤

  • @zona_davani
    @zona_davani 2 года назад +5

    I had to come back to this video to say thank you 😍❤️ I’ve just had my own very on budget wedding. When I watched this ndakopa gqith

  • @lebohangkheswa7912
    @lebohangkheswa7912 4 года назад

    You are leadership🔥🔥 I'm so going to make my mom watch this. Finally someone who shares my sentiments 😂😂😂

  • @anitajack5646
    @anitajack5646 4 года назад

    A way to go! My ex refused white wedding citing expenses and I had your mind in it. You are so beautiful 🤗

  • @Afrosoil11
    @Afrosoil11 3 года назад

    😂😂😂😂 how did I miss this video. Nozi you the best!

  • @ThandazaMK
    @ThandazaMK 4 года назад +6

    Ai ses'Nozi...100/100. This is really good.

  • @clementmanenga1051
    @clementmanenga1051 10 месяцев назад

    You are a wise young lady. As a minister of the word, this is good counsel for my church young people intending to marry.

  • @MsYoli100
    @MsYoli100 4 года назад +1

    My wedding is also supposed to be in Port Elizabeth. Thank you for the pointers Nozi !

  • @lihlezondi98
    @lihlezondi98 4 года назад +2

    100% relate to Canva, used it for my 21st party invitations (and printed at a print shop) and it was perfect!

  • @boitumelontombibaholo234
    @boitumelontombibaholo234 3 года назад +6

    Girl you're my brand😂❤️❤️❤️ I love how you do you and stand up for it

  • @MrsMarolyn
    @MrsMarolyn 2 года назад

    I just looove your energy, i had to subscribe, my partner and I are still on the decision phase of what we want, the logistics are a big challenge cos hes from JHB and I'm from PLK, we just dont know cos family demands, God help us. Thank you for this though, very enlightening

  • @DelisileNgema
    @DelisileNgema 4 года назад +8

    informative video this thing of trying to impress family and friends yet drowning in debts ayisebenzi , you looked axtra beutiful nomshado so beutiful above all you did what your heart longeth for Inkosi inibusise

  • @lydiasimms5675
    @lydiasimms5675 4 года назад

    I want familiar with the term rand. Once I googled it I realized that YOU ARE Queen OF BUDGETS! My husband and I were young & went to the courts to marry. Almost 16 years and 3 kids later I still dream of the day. This has given me much to consider. Thank you.

  • @rumbijc5314
    @rumbijc5314 4 года назад +117

    My wedding is going to be at my fiance farm in the vaal
    20People
    My sister a chef is gifting the food
    My daughter the make up
    My friend the hair
    My other friend the champagne.
    Dress cost me R2000
    Second dressR1500
    Shoes already have (something old)
    Deco and chapel using the gazebo overlooking the lake.
    Digital invites
    Gifts list set up Un several stores.
    This is about me and not the speeches.
    Set up a video room for people to say their speeches.... I know it's nasty
    But l want to have fun
    Less than R30 000 for everything

    • @achatwithgoitse
      @achatwithgoitse 3 года назад +3

      U absolutely HATE wedding speeches so I dnt find that nasty at all. U saving ppl's ears 😂

    • @achatwithgoitse
      @achatwithgoitse 3 года назад +4

      Didn't know weddings could be this cheap, im happy

    • @juliledube8873
      @juliledube8873 3 года назад

      Woowwww great😍😍😍

  • @LadyT06
    @LadyT06 4 года назад

    This things of going OTT all in the name of wedding,won't make a cut when planning mine.Call us cheapos but that money would rather be invested in our property!You did well hun👌🏿👌🏿🤩🤩!!

  • @candidtalkswithlauvena1835
    @candidtalkswithlauvena1835 4 года назад +31

    I love your humility and genuine heart Sissy💕❤️, following from Namibia 🇳🇦

    • @SuzetteKhiba
      @SuzetteKhiba Год назад +1

      Namibia in the building 🇳🇦🇳🇦❤️❤️

  • @mathutondou6424
    @mathutondou6424 4 года назад +1

    “Yohh ha.a sana I can’t” 😂😂😂

  • @teetsambo7933
    @teetsambo7933 4 года назад

    Lol love u, so original, authentic. Iv taken notes.

  • @luciamokolo4742
    @luciamokolo4742 4 года назад

    Oh my word this is me! Wow you're wedding is what I want! This is the content I signed up for!

  • @Ndaps1
    @Ndaps1 4 года назад +64

    Finally someone who speaks the same language as me, am such a cheapskate. You looked amazing on your wedding day anyways. Love from Shanghai, China ❤️

  • @andiswadlokweni9643
    @andiswadlokweni9643 4 года назад +1

    Been waiting for this video as if im getting marriage soon... Thank you for sharing sis Nozi

  • @siwemz5102
    @siwemz5102 4 года назад +1

    You are me and I am you Nozi. Also they only girl at home and I always say I don't want a white wedding. My dad is such a family guy I probably won't be able to pull off 100 guest coz that is just family alone. But I don't want distant relatives at my wedding yhu but we shall see when the time comes. Thanks for sharing in so much detail. You looked beautiful and you wedding looked classy 👌🏽

  • @ginakuhlmann211
    @ginakuhlmann211 Год назад

    China mall and fordsburg mall have beautiful dresses if you have a good eye, i helped someone shop there and she looked stunning and now im going to shop there for myself, thx for this, so real and informative❤️

  • @Didiza
    @Didiza 4 года назад

    Am all the way in tEngland and getting married next year and i just want to thank you for this.Yooh call you cheap but girl you did well am super proud of ypu ve liked u from day now i know i love u big up

  • @lebogangsanyane2029
    @lebogangsanyane2029 4 года назад

    Girl, you are killing me slowly, I am so laughing... but you did you and at the end of it all you were Happy!!!

  • @bellnjumbe3273
    @bellnjumbe3273 4 года назад

    Gal! You did way better than me 🤣🤩 ! I went to the Courthouse honey 🍯! I was simply not prepared to please anyone. Greetings from Chicago!

  • @noxolomatshaka2257
    @noxolomatshaka2257 4 года назад +4

    This is the best video ever. I love how you plan things...Skhu is very blessed to have such a wise young beautiful wife. How I wish some other young ladies can learn from this. Wedding is just a celebration that after leaves people miserable because of debt. Then they are forgetting there is marriage after that celebration. Wasting money for a wedding of one day shows how immature people are because at the end high divorces are caused by those unnecessary weddings. I has a small low cost wedding and we enjoyed so much with my hubby and we r debt free...I love you Nozi...You are such an inspiration...God allows some situations for you to be a blessing today...Stay blessed Mayaba family

  • @theReadersNook
    @theReadersNook 4 года назад +4

    Lovely content Nozi, thank you so much for sharing. If you don’t mind me asking, can you please do a video on your approach to shopping for everyday clothing as well. Like you are very stylish. Do you also approach more reasonable outlets, e.g China Mall? Thank you 😊

  • @zanelengomane
    @zanelengomane 4 года назад +2

    I loved everything about this video. I also don't believe in debt and spending money unneccessarily. Your wedding looked elegant and things all things beautiful. Im saving this as i plan my own

    • @mfihlakalondlovu7876
      @mfihlakalondlovu7876 2 года назад

      Mommy!!!! This just gave me such a nice idea.

    • @zanelengomane
      @zanelengomane 2 года назад +2

      @@mfihlakalondlovu7876 This idea of intimate weddings is becoming a thing and i am here for it. Baphumula bantfu kudla emasi after their weddings ngoba seba badala ema debts ye baby😃

  • @hlumelajonas7787
    @hlumelajonas7787 4 года назад

    I never like nor comment on videos but you my dear, i love. You are you and authentic and real about who you are and comfortable. I love you and I will follow you. Keep it up my dear. Never feel obligated to please. ❤❤❤ I'm actually going through your video's. I like what I'm seeing.

  • @MrOrsen
    @MrOrsen 4 года назад +16

    Bathong NOZI IS DRAAAAAAAAAAAAAAMA, and I love it 😂😂