Ayanda Borotho ON: Young Motherhood, Marriage and Finding herself

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  • Опубликовано: 28 сен 2024

Комментарии • 266

  • @brendenpraise_
    @brendenpraise_ Год назад +148

    So much wisdom in this, enjoyed listening to it this morning.

  • @lelwaonlife9435
    @lelwaonlife9435 Год назад +26

    "I'm learning not to be fooled by personality and to invest more into people's characters"😤🔥📍

  • @LetiMatlelemu
    @LetiMatlelemu Год назад +58

    “Things won’t be the same by this time next year” 😭 it’s all I needed to hear🙏🏾 thanks Ayanda and Mpoomy♥️

  • @sinenhlanhladzanibe5591
    @sinenhlanhladzanibe5591 Год назад +88

    I love how she defined the difference between personality and character 👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽 so profound

  • @cynthiamabena1809
    @cynthiamabena1809 Год назад +28

    Purpose is truth. Mary came to give us Jesus. Nandi came to give us a king. No one is useless. I felt that ❤️

  • @NeoM-YouTube-
    @NeoM-YouTube- Год назад +58

    "When I'm showing up in strength, I cannot show up in power" ❤

  • @siphosethu222
    @siphosethu222 Год назад +16

    Gang gang 🔔 . I’m here for this era ka Ayanda and interviews , I could listen to her talk for days 😍❤️. She is just an amazing woman , I wish she was my family 😭😭😭😭❤️

  • @Modest_U
    @Modest_U Год назад +12

    Personality changes to adjust to the environment❤❤❤. Character is what sustains long term relationships.

  • @tshebeletsononyane6680
    @tshebeletsononyane6680 Год назад +17

    I was battling with a personal thing for over a month, yesterday my hormones pushed me to face it all and I meditated on it. When she said personality vs character ooohhh Modimo! She healed me! She helped me win that battle!

  • @Milli-mnganga
    @Milli-mnganga 5 месяцев назад +1

    One thing i love about Ayanda is, she speaks with authority ✊🏿

  • @xolisilemlambo4850
    @xolisilemlambo4850 Год назад +12

    Thank you so much for having Ayanda on here, I am a mother of a daughter and what she said about parenting is really powerful. We always get angry at our children for being children and forget that they need us in their chilhood.

  • @mamelanjingolo2600
    @mamelanjingolo2600 Год назад +2

    Yho guys, nam when I'm told I'm strong, I weep inside because I am far from it. As a 100% single parent to two sons, I am far from strong, far! It's hard! Very hard.

  • @DzunyB
    @DzunyB Год назад +3

    "A wise woman once said....F it"😂😂. I love her❤. She's such a deep well of wisdom . May God preserve her life

  • @nomfundosiyotula6424
    @nomfundosiyotula6424 Год назад +14

    Power is a posture of stillness ❤

  • @tsholofelomamakera4752
    @tsholofelomamakera4752 Год назад +6

    When she said Grace carried me 🙌🏾 thank you for having her 👏👏

  • @ayandathabisa7143
    @ayandathabisa7143 Год назад +35

    @mpoomy thank you so much for this conversation but I honestly feel like we need a part 2 where you and Ayanda delve into the concept of marriage in this generation especially because both of you are married and I believe you can open our eyes even more ❤

  • @lihlencongwane
    @lihlencongwane Год назад +1

    She is speaking to the current me, I'm currently showing up in strength and I feel deprived💔 unfortunately for me no one wants or even tries to understand even when I speak out. I am not like any 22 y/o I feel like I'm losing my life because I have so many responsibilities at such a tender age, and I'll never be this age ever again.

    • @veelonze9363
      @veelonze9363 10 месяцев назад +2

      I understand you..... I'm going through the same thing, at 21. And apparently a part of our brain doesn't fully develop until we are 25. No wander I feel like an overwhelmed child.

  • @I_am_c-sae
    @I_am_c-sae Год назад +9

    I love Ayanda. She's got this great transformative aura within her❤

  • @noluthandomakhoba9853
    @noluthandomakhoba9853 7 месяцев назад +1

    Ayanda Borotho is so wise. Thank you Mpoomy for this. Would love a second episode of you both.

  • @SiwaphiweTsengwaNqwayibana
    @SiwaphiweTsengwaNqwayibana Год назад +10

    My spirit connected differently to this wonderful woman 😪😪😪 My emotions are hardly triggered but with her wisdom I found myself moved so hard.
    Mpoomy thank you so much for allowing God to use you 🥰 your work is beyond 💞

  • @ntaolengmolise3317
    @ntaolengmolise3317 Год назад +1

    Learn not to be fooled by personality, but invest in character… powerful

  • @boniswatukwayo4500
    @boniswatukwayo4500 Год назад +6

    "People must earn who they're in your life" 😇

  • @dineosithole8208
    @dineosithole8208 3 месяца назад +1

    Blessed by this conversation.

  • @modesterpfaira8465
    @modesterpfaira8465 Год назад +1

    I love how calm the conversation is, it's speaking to me soo much

  • @andilentsonta4357
    @andilentsonta4357 Год назад +11

    So excited for this one because Ayanda is definitely one of my FAVES!!😭🥺❤❤❤❤

  • @Arebalengfoundation
    @Arebalengfoundation Год назад +7

    The conversation was so profound !!!! It is what I needed to hear ❤❤❤ I learned that I need to listen to God more and find my purpose in this journey called life and it is okay to always go to the drawing board and start again stronger than before ❤

  • @SamkeloJijana
    @SamkeloJijana Год назад +5

    "What you see as the personality is not necessarily the character"

  • @mbalienhlemthembu6373
    @mbalienhlemthembu6373 Год назад +1

    The episodes have me speechless lately, yoh | ❤

  • @nancychunga
    @nancychunga Год назад +2

    Of all the guests…i really love this womans wisdom…its on another level

  • @lebogangmogomela822
    @lebogangmogomela822 Год назад +2

    She’s such a wise woman! Loved listening to her 👏🏽

  • @leratomatlala9716
    @leratomatlala9716 Год назад +1

    I have watched a lot of interviews but this is by far one of the best, so much wisdom and truth.

  • @mbinaomukuambi2459
    @mbinaomukuambi2459 Год назад +2

    You are currently speaking for many as you speak for yourself. I can surely relate to this 💯… When Mpoomy said ‘are you me?!’ I was like girl, you stole the words right out of my mouth! Reminds me of Pastor Sarah Jakes Roberts story in the book Lost and Found…

  • @Othandwayinkosi
    @Othandwayinkosi Год назад +2

    I have goosebumps watching this

  • @sbongilejonas1572
    @sbongilejonas1572 Год назад +2

    I trying to find a way to like this video more than once ❣

  • @real_emeldah
    @real_emeldah Год назад +2

    I listened to the podcast but I have to watch it because I want to see you two's faces during this coz wow mine was 😢 the whole time.

  • @noxolondhlovu1115
    @noxolondhlovu1115 Год назад +4

    I think while purpose seems hyped up. What I’m observing is a generation seeking their truth for freedom. There is more self awareness in society but there are lost souls hence purpose is seeming like the higher requirement

  • @nolwazimkhizee
    @nolwazimkhizee Год назад +3

    What a beautiful conversation with so many nuggets 🥺

  • @sbonilemtshali8228
    @sbonilemtshali8228 Год назад +1

    Oh my word. Exactly what i needed as i seek my purpose. Oh my. I have been looking at it the wrong way. 😢 Oh my word.

  • @mamelanjingolo2600
    @mamelanjingolo2600 Год назад +1

    Purpose is indeed truth.!!

  • @bigananikagiso6413
    @bigananikagiso6413 Год назад +2

    I'm literally losing it❤❤❤❤❤I read that book in a day and the last time I read it was 3 years ago but I think about it all the time. Thank you so much for bringing her to the seat ❤❤❤

  • @lindokuhlesonteya6435
    @lindokuhlesonteya6435 Год назад +2

    One of my favorite actors🙏

  • @lebogangchaw
    @lebogangchaw Год назад +1

    Wow wow ❤❤Ayanda
    Purpose is truth
    Personality is different from character
    Show up in power, not strength ❤

  • @thabisilezungu2038
    @thabisilezungu2038 Год назад +4

    Come on Ayanda!!! definition of personality and character. 🙌🙌 I enjoyed this conversation. Thank you Mpoomy ❤

  • @mellisamadondo4942
    @mellisamadondo4942 Год назад +2

    This conversation is everything. Oh, my word. Loved, loved, loved it. Can't wait to read the book. Thank you Mpoomy.

  • @ntokozomagwanyana7915
    @ntokozomagwanyana7915 Год назад +3

    This women has so much wisdom, she opened my mind with the showing up in strength or power talk as well as purpose. Such a beautiful and powerful conversation ❤️🌸

  • @ZamavusoM
    @ZamavusoM Год назад +1

    This conversation has brought me so much tears I could relate so much

  • @Sanga_Singaphumelela
    @Sanga_Singaphumelela Год назад +1

    “How do i really test character” this was so insightful ❤ thank you.

  • @AvuzwaKeei
    @AvuzwaKeei 7 месяцев назад

    This is beautiful, healing and knowing your purpose is something so important. Thank you Mpumi and Ayanda for this interview♥️

  • @rendanithavhanyedza
    @rendanithavhanyedza Год назад +2

    Powerful! 🔥 So much wisdom!📖 Thank you Mpoomy for posting this and Thanks for introducing me to Ayanda. Sending love ♥️ to you both 💕

  • @amukelanimitchellmaluleke4997
    @amukelanimitchellmaluleke4997 Год назад +1

    So much substance ❤

  • @mamelanjingolo2600
    @mamelanjingolo2600 Год назад

    And yes, it gets better...with time, with God!

  • @dorahmohlago4638
    @dorahmohlago4638 Год назад +1

    Definitely listing to this again over the weekend ❤and how 30minutes was so short😢

  • @Yolz_Mazwi
    @Yolz_Mazwi Год назад +2

    Character vs Personality💡wow, so much wisdom in one session❣️thoroughly enjoyed listening to this👏🏽amazing stuff.

  • @busi53
    @busi53 Год назад +1

    Very true all the three generations needs to heal, how many woman view man it's so scary especially for a mother of 3 boys.

  • @mosimamaheya235
    @mosimamaheya235 Год назад +3

    I loved this…. So beautiful. Thank you 🙏🏻

  • @kesegofetsembazo3098
    @kesegofetsembazo3098 Год назад +1

    Purpose is living truthfully ❤
    I rilly rilly enjoyed this one 💯

  • @MrsMax2009
    @MrsMax2009 Год назад +1

    Ayanda spitting wisdom

  • @Nthabi_D_Mompreneur
    @Nthabi_D_Mompreneur Год назад +8

    You don't have to give up the dream after falling pregnant as a young child🙌🏽

  • @onankiesdiary1154
    @onankiesdiary1154 Год назад +34

    Running to buy her book after listening to how wise she is,in this conversation!🏃🏾‍♀️❤

    • @Nokwethemba_MJ
      @Nokwethemba_MJ Год назад

      Did you perhaps found it anywhere I can not find it.

    • @nondumisogasa7388
      @nondumisogasa7388 Год назад

      Same sis -it’s out of stock everywhere though

    • @onankiesdiary1154
      @onankiesdiary1154 Год назад

      @@Nokwethemba_MJ haven't been on the search yet😭

    • @nobathembumaneli1892
      @nobathembumaneli1892 11 месяцев назад

      Please let us know if you get a copy. I have been trying to buy the book but it’s always out of stock.

  • @khethiwengubo8035
    @khethiwengubo8035 Год назад +1

    I had no idea she had a book - def getting me a copy.... Also i so relate to her

  • @tshegofatsomolefe1187
    @tshegofatsomolefe1187 Год назад

    I love, love, love this woman!

  • @uhope_shabangu
    @uhope_shabangu Год назад +1

    She's incredible ❤❤❤

  • @pamkabini
    @pamkabini Год назад +1

    Love Ayanda Borotho❤❤❤

  • @mamelanjingolo2600
    @mamelanjingolo2600 Год назад +1

    Funny enough, I had been postponing watching this, but somehow, I am watching it after this week I looked face to face my shame I carried from as far as 1993. I didn't even realize I was carrying it until I unpacked it! Owned it, forgave the people and forgave myself. Oh what a feeling and all glory goes back to Jesus!

  • @phindekaphindi3865
    @phindekaphindi3865 Год назад +2

    I enjoyed this podcast and I've learned alot from the conversation ❤😊

  • @zinhlepearlmdluli3572
    @zinhlepearlmdluli3572 Год назад

    What an enlightening moment. This interview was too short.❤❤

  • @priscampelo
    @priscampelo Год назад

    Thank you for this

  • @kamogelokaymoomakgotho3219
    @kamogelokaymoomakgotho3219 Год назад +3

    “ This time next year”

  • @ayibongwemathe7035
    @ayibongwemathe7035 Год назад

    Beautiful outfit,Mpoomy💕

  • @faithmathema556
    @faithmathema556 Год назад

    Haybo🙌🏾
    Wisdom engaka yona
    🙏Asbonge

  • @thabisileyingwana3569
    @thabisileyingwana3569 10 месяцев назад

    ❤❤i love this, im also showing in strength😢

  • @sibongilechabalala9435
    @sibongilechabalala9435 Год назад

    If wisdom was personified❤💯

  • @SIBABALWEBAYISA-vy5wh
    @SIBABALWEBAYISA-vy5wh Год назад +1

    Love love her

  • @zinhlenhlanhla5374
    @zinhlenhlanhla5374 8 месяцев назад

    She does look like like a person that likes to be worshipped and mean but also has a heart of sharing.

  • @sunflowerpalee
    @sunflowerpalee Год назад +8

    Strength is not the same as Power❤

  • @tembela_mpata
    @tembela_mpata Год назад

    Thank you. Personality vs character 🙌🏾

  • @thobekanipali200
    @thobekanipali200 Год назад +3

    “This time next year will be different” 🥹♥️ this is exactly what I needed, thank you Mpoomy and Ayanda

  • @michellekagiso6268
    @michellekagiso6268 Год назад

    Enjoyed this

  • @nokwazikunene8392
    @nokwazikunene8392 Год назад +1

    Love love love!!❤

  • @mahlokilengsemenya4543
    @mahlokilengsemenya4543 Год назад +1

    Profound ❤

  • @nonkolo_faith
    @nonkolo_faith Год назад

    "uMariah weza wazozala uJesu... and that was it" NOTHING has ever hit me so hard in my life!!! ❤❤❤

  • @nkuleshezi6706
    @nkuleshezi6706 Год назад

    LOVED,LOVED this interview 🙌🏾 ❤

  • @xolisilezungu
    @xolisilezungu Год назад

    This was too short but I loved it ❤❤❤😢😢😢 ..

  • @RoseChabangu
    @RoseChabangu 11 месяцев назад

    💯 percent this is true

  • @nokuphilaphila8827
    @nokuphilaphila8827 Год назад

    Yho what a needed conversation ❤

  • @tueloxmokgothu122
    @tueloxmokgothu122 Год назад

    Inspirational 😅😅
    Please bring Bonang Matheba next. ❤

  • @IamThandolwethu
    @IamThandolwethu Год назад +1

    Personality is different to character. Understand that you see as the personality is not necessarily the character. We invest so much in people and their personalities, and not the character. 😮‍💨 oh boi!!!

  • @pearltshabalala5760
    @pearltshabalala5760 Год назад

    Things do get better!!

  • @asiphehintsho6141
    @asiphehintsho6141 Год назад

    Arg so relatable 💞. Thanks Mpoomy and cic Ayanda for this🙌🙏.

  • @lesegomaidi8432
    @lesegomaidi8432 Год назад

    This was beautiful, thank you Mpoomy

  • @sweetrose362
    @sweetrose362 Год назад

    Ayanda and wisdom 💯👌

  • @Totendamediatv
    @Totendamediatv Год назад

    Strength is a posture of war…🙌🏾

  • @Othandwayinkosi
    @Othandwayinkosi Год назад

    I finished the book in a week, I couldn't put it down

  • @asandarwexu195
    @asandarwexu195 Год назад

    How weird is it that this is my current read and I don't want it to end 😢

  • @reananetsepakkies1337
    @reananetsepakkies1337 Год назад

    Thank you for this ❤️❤️

  • @kodwat2134
    @kodwat2134 Год назад

    I enjoyed the podcast ❤️

  • @thandiswengwaqa6271
    @thandiswengwaqa6271 Год назад

    Can wait to indulge in this ....❤️

  • @analysialuke7096
    @analysialuke7096 Год назад

    Wow! Show up in power

  • @nompumelelonomvula8394
    @nompumelelonomvula8394 Год назад

    Ai ngane zakwethu uAyanda! 🥺🥺🥺

  • @priscampelo
    @priscampelo Год назад

    Thank you for this🎉 33:32